WEBVTT - HOW MANY COUPLES ARE SHARING THEIR LOCATION?

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<v Speaker 1>You're on my location.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know you already have my calendar and it's annoying.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, have fun doing this today. I'm like, how

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<v Speaker 2>do you know? I don't know how to get it

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<v Speaker 2>off you.

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<v Speaker 3>Where's Your Head At? Is a podcast that talks full

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<v Speaker 3>things this hold on a sec. Let's give this a refresh. Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Anna and I'm Matt, and we are now too

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<v Speaker 1>newlywed not to each other. Just a female and male

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<v Speaker 1>best friend here for the good, the bad, and the

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<v Speaker 1>ugly times and.

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<v Speaker 2>Exploring adulthood, family relationships, dilemmas.

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<v Speaker 1>And whatever else we have the mental capacity to deal with.

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<v Speaker 3>Come get the lowdown.

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<v Speaker 1>This is your male and female perspective.

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<v Speaker 3>So, Matt, where's your Head At? Shake it up?

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, and welcome it to another episode from Where's your

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<v Speaker 2>Head Out?

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<v Speaker 1>I was just seeing leave that in the ed.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope that doesn't get left in because not.

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<v Speaker 1>Shake it off? Shake it maybe cut that one out,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely don't.

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<v Speaker 3>How are I am good?

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<v Speaker 2>Last week was not a good week for me. I

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<v Speaker 2>did my gestational diabetes test and it literally knocked me

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<v Speaker 2>out for two days. I was not in a good way.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally had to cancel this podcast. Meeting, other things I

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<v Speaker 2>had on. It was just a bit of a disaster.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel really happy now because I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>so you basically have three blood tests and take this

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<v Speaker 2>gluecoase drink and it just knocked me out. I was

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<v Speaker 2>at our warehouse picking up samples Goldie Bee new product

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<v Speaker 2>samples and yeah, exciting, and the lady who was giving

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<v Speaker 2>me the sample was like, are you okay?

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>What, not really, I don't feel good and my eyes

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<v Speaker 2>were like heavy and closing over dizzy. I had a headache,

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<v Speaker 2>I just felt lethargic. I just wanted to go sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>I just didn't feel good. And yeah, she was like

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, no, not really, I just did this

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<v Speaker 2>glucose test and she's.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, oh, I remember the glucose.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally, everyone who I've told is like I remember when

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<v Speaker 2>I did the gluck and I was like, never again.

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<v Speaker 2>So I knew that there was apparently there's a blood

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<v Speaker 2>test you can do, but no one tells you. So

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<v Speaker 2>no one knows that you can ask for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but then you get your blood tests, so you

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<v Speaker 1>do three tests.

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<v Speaker 2>You can do like a fasting. Yeah, you can do

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<v Speaker 2>like a fasting. Blood test. I don't think it's as accurate.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, no, I had to do blood test, take

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<v Speaker 2>the glucose drink, wait an hour, do another blood test,

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<v Speaker 2>and then wait an hour.

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<v Speaker 3>To another blood test, and she's like, you can't walk

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<v Speaker 3>around because it will disrupt the test.

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<v Speaker 1>I had blood test as it is. Yeah, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>do them.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like after being in the hospital and having

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<v Speaker 2>sepsis and just having my blood taken like every five minutes,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just kind of like, well whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, needles are one of my phobias. Yeah, I remember

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<v Speaker 1>a lot better than when I was a kid. But

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<v Speaker 1>like as a kid, I actually like getting pinned down. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my mum would pin me down to get it done,

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<v Speaker 1>or like there's a video my sister hasn't me like crime.

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<v Speaker 1>Before I got one of my immunizations in the aunio,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't do them. Now I'm okay, Like I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>grown adult, So like I sit down and don't look

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm not overly excited about it. Yeah, I can

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<v Speaker 1>get it done now.

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<v Speaker 2>I think a phobia is one thing, but I think

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<v Speaker 2>in some ways it is mind over matter.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because I when people when.

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<v Speaker 2>Like the nurses who was drawing my blood would say

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<v Speaker 2>to me, are you afraid of needles? Do you need

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<v Speaker 2>to lie down? I would always be like, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>really afraid blah blah blah. But since I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>the sepsis issue, I'm like, I'm completely fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Are we fine?

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<v Speaker 2>And even just saying that out loud, I think makes

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<v Speaker 2>me feel more fine about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. No, I'm not fine about rats. Scared of them? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>fair enough, They're scary little things. They carry the plague.

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<v Speaker 3>What does rats? Why are you talking about rats because I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Scared of them. They're my phobia. Rats and needles. You

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<v Speaker 1>just pivoted, I said. I said that I mentally can't

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<v Speaker 1>get over rats, the phobia of them. They're fucked.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I hate all creepy animals. I would never go

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<v Speaker 2>on am a celebrity for that reason. Get me out

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<v Speaker 2>of here?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Can we be that out in case I take

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<v Speaker 1>their offer up next year? Blake, But I'm scared of

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do, I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>A celebrity, get me out of here.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, sure, it's like your.

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<v Speaker 3>Dream show, I mean, manifest if you want it.

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<v Speaker 2>I would never No, I wouldn't do that, so you're

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<v Speaker 2>in a bit of a would we say, like a

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<v Speaker 2>grumpy mood today, just singing check it off to you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm just a bit, I don't know, flat tied.

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<v Speaker 1>Just everything's getting to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I have a question for you. Go on, are

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<v Speaker 3>you going to the Formula One?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not as we stand right now, are you?

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<v Speaker 3>I am?

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<v Speaker 2>And I love the Formula One And actually normally my

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<v Speaker 2>old apartment was on Queen's Road in Melbourne if you're

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<v Speaker 2>familiar with Melbourne, and it literally looked over the whole

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<v Speaker 2>Formula one and we always have Formula One parties. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>obviously I don't live there, but I do love going

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<v Speaker 2>and it's such a fun event.

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<v Speaker 3>It's one of Melwuryn's best events.

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<v Speaker 1>I came down to Melbourne last week and I saw

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<v Speaker 1>they're actually I walked to Albert Park and I saw

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<v Speaker 1>they set it up pretty quickly.

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<v Speaker 3>They set up early.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and Rome was built in a day. It's nearly

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<v Speaker 1>I drove past it before it's nearly done. I was like, gee,

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<v Speaker 1>they work hard. I don't know, they work.

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<v Speaker 3>Fast and hard for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Currently I am actually about to head off to my

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<v Speaker 2>baby moon. And when this goes live, I will still

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<v Speaker 2>be there. We're just about to leave.

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<v Speaker 1>Where are you going?

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<v Speaker 3>Excited about that? I'm going to Palm Cove.

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<v Speaker 2>Where's that like North Queensland, close to Cans. But I've

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<v Speaker 2>been kind of stressed because cyclone Alfred, I think it's called,

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<v Speaker 2>is heading towards that area.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's just gone.

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<v Speaker 1>Alfred is the most non scary name for a cyclone

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever heard you reckon, Yeah, Alfred. It doesn't sound like, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Alfred's Batman's dude, He's an old guy. It doesn't sound scary.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I just love all the old names.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you know how people call their dogs, or people

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<v Speaker 2>are calling restaurants old names like Alfred or Winston or

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<v Speaker 2>Norman or all these old cafe.

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<v Speaker 1>On the Gold Coast called Alfred's. It's pretty popular. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Alfred's Alfred, Alfred, I don't know, yeah, something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But do you think it's funny how people just like

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<v Speaker 2>are getting around the old school names and they're calling

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<v Speaker 2>their pets and restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah Winston, yeah, Winston. Yeah. I've got Actually, I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>a griactual mood and I've got a grouch for you. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're catching a plane.

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<v Speaker 3>You just get right into that.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually saw someone talk about this one a TikTok

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<v Speaker 1>as well, it's twenty twenty five. You do not recline

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<v Speaker 1>your chair on a domestic flight, Like, you just don't

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<v Speaker 1>do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what you're feeling?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think it's common courtesy. You just don't do

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<v Speaker 1>it anymore. I think that, like it's an tops two hours,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't need to recline your chair. I'm six ft

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<v Speaker 1>six nearly, and I don't require my check out of

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<v Speaker 1>manners for the person behind me, you know what.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I think I'm gonna have to disagree with you

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<v Speaker 2>on this one because I got so much online hate.

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<v Speaker 3>Because and granted I was taking an.

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<v Speaker 2>International flight, but I was complaining because literally got onto

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<v Speaker 2>an international flight. I think I was flying to Europe

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<v Speaker 2>put my chair back as soon as the aircraft had

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<v Speaker 2>taken off in the seat belt side went off because

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<v Speaker 2>I was heading straight to sleep, and the woman behind

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<v Speaker 2>me corracked it, and I was like, no, the button

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<v Speaker 2>is there.

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<v Speaker 3>For a reason. You're paying for that seat. You deserve

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<v Speaker 3>to recline your seat.

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<v Speaker 2>And I actually think in a domestic flight you should

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<v Speaker 2>also be able to do the same and also before

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<v Speaker 2>you say.

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<v Speaker 3>Anything, because I know you're about to jump. It's so tall.

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<v Speaker 2>Michael's also tall, and I okay, champion, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with an international flight. Yes, I caught national one,

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<v Speaker 1>but the people in front of us had the emergency

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<v Speaker 1>exit so they could kick their legs out as well,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, do you really need to recline

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time, and that dude, I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>that was ship house of them. I thought you could

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<v Speaker 1>be a little bit more courteous. No, I reckon domestics,

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<v Speaker 1>don't recline. There's no need to.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I think in domestic you can recline. If you weren't

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<v Speaker 2>allowed to recline, then don't put the button.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I just don't think that. You like, you're allowed

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<v Speaker 1>to obviously, but it's just like I think, just common

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<v Speaker 1>courtesy these days, let's ask our audience, because I think, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's let's ask our Facebook group.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sticking strong with. If the button's there, use it,

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<v Speaker 2>You've paid for it, Use it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why you'd figure a fight with me today.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually don't know why I fig a fight.

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<v Speaker 1>Well day you're going to ship me like that? I

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<v Speaker 1>reckon everyone listening at home as well. I reckon you

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<v Speaker 1>don't recline.

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<v Speaker 3>I reckon you do there?

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<v Speaker 1>You people think I shall sorry for you. Actually, Anna,

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<v Speaker 1>this might cheer me up.

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<v Speaker 2>Funny, your own story will cheer you about that makes

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<v Speaker 2>that's so mad.

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<v Speaker 1>I so believe it or not. Everyone playing at home

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<v Speaker 1>people are shocked. But I take off my wedding ring

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<v Speaker 1>when I work out because it gets scratches on it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I take it off. So Tammy does the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes we forget to put it back on. You take

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<v Speaker 1>one photo. Everyone loses their minds about it. It is

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<v Speaker 1>what is you take it off when you work out,

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<v Speaker 1>because anyone who's married would know the same thing. You

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<v Speaker 1>do the same thing. You don't work out though.

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<v Speaker 2>He's throwing so much shaped and this is just on

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<v Speaker 2>my should have.

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<v Speaker 3>Heard him off.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, so you take it off. And I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>to at the gym the other day, so I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>to take it off. So I was working out. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, dam I can't lift weights with this, So

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<v Speaker 1>I put it in my pocket, in my sorry, my sock,

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<v Speaker 1>like tucked it into my sock.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, your shoes are yeah, worked out for an hour,

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<v Speaker 2>I forgot it was there.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go into the sauna. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>taking off my clothes, took off my shoes, took off

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<v Speaker 1>my sock and it swung out and it's gone ding

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<v Speaker 1>dinging and rolled under the showers and the door was closed,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I was like, hey in there.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like hey mate, No one was no one

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<v Speaker 1>was saying anything. I could see it, literally see it there.

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<v Speaker 1>I could see the guy's feet showering and I've literally

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<v Speaker 1>reached under it, and I'm like, sorry, mate, and I've

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<v Speaker 1>grabbed it and put it back on and run away.

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<v Speaker 3>You've got to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to do it. There's no way. I was

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<v Speaker 1>only my ring just sit there, pageous.

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<v Speaker 3>This is just marinating in this guy shower juice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I was, yeah, it's pretty gross. So whoever

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<v Speaker 1>that guy was in the shower, sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Mate, what if he was?

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<v Speaker 1>Week I made a public shower. Do you piss in them?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, well, it's yours.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna do it anywhere?

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<v Speaker 1>Do it there? Yeah? So yeah, I got my ring back.

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<v Speaker 1>I just affected it. So it's all good.

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<v Speaker 3>When he's kissing it now, how lovely? Okay, Matt.

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<v Speaker 2>We came across a very interesting statistic this week. This

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<v Speaker 2>statistic truly blew me away, and you agree with it.

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<v Speaker 3>So again we're on disagreeing sides. But that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to fight me today.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>But what we figured out is that ninety five percent

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<v Speaker 2>of adult relationships utilize some form of location sharing technology.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that surprise you, because that really surprises me.

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<v Speaker 1>I did say that ninety five is pretty high. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that was surprising. That's all. That's like pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>every relationship. But I am not surprised that people do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you and Tammy share your yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I think it's just for safety, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know where each other are, Like it's good

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<v Speaker 1>to know, Like it's not I barely use it. I

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<v Speaker 1>say that, like I barely use it. But it does

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<v Speaker 1>say under their name where they are, but it like

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<v Speaker 1>you don't, like I can go out of my way

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<v Speaker 1>to look at that. Yeah, you and Michael don't do it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, we're in the five percent of people who don't

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<v Speaker 3>do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Michael and I have never even had the conversation of

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<v Speaker 2>location sharing, and I think I know the reason why,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think it's come from like past relationship trauma

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<v Speaker 2>with me when I was in a very toxic relationship

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<v Speaker 2>and I had location, I had Instagram passwords, I had

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<v Speaker 2>like all of the passwords, and I think it drove

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<v Speaker 2>me a little bit crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you say you would check the location and check

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<v Speaker 1>the Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>I would check the Instagram, like check the messages, just

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<v Speaker 2>like double check. I don't know, I just think it's

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<v Speaker 2>like for me, I think I've seen that as coming

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<v Speaker 2>from a toxic place, But obviously there's so many more

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<v Speaker 2>reasons as to why people share locations, and even just

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<v Speaker 2>talking about it now, I'm not opposed to it.

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<v Speaker 3>In fact, maybe I should call Michael and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>do you want to share locations?

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<v Speaker 1>What he says, have you ever checked your partner's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>like picked it up and looked not Michael's, not Michael's

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<v Speaker 1>by ex's if.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, when I feel a little bit insecure, I've definitely

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<v Speaker 2>like looked through people's phones in the past. But I

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<v Speaker 2>think with Michael, because it was a healthy relationship, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I don't even want to like go there

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<v Speaker 2>bye and vice versa. Like he uses my phone for

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<v Speaker 2>like work things sometimes and I use his phone for

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<v Speaker 2>work things.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not like when we.

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<v Speaker 2>Like Steer are clear of each other's phones because we're

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<v Speaker 2>like afraid of what's going to be there.

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<v Speaker 3>It's more just like we trust each other, right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>My phone's and our phones are open property, there's nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I also think, and I've said this on the podcast before,

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<v Speaker 2>I think when you're in that mind space where you're

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<v Speaker 2>trying to find something and you're trying to always catch

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<v Speaker 2>someone out or like I would sometimes wait until they

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<v Speaker 2>would go to sleep and then look at their phone

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<v Speaker 2>and be like and then my heart would be racing

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<v Speaker 2>because I'd be.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, oh my god, what am I gonna find?

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<v Speaker 1>You know that?

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<v Speaker 3>Really?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I have done that. It sounds fucking sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>why would you do that to you? It's hot, But

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<v Speaker 1>I do believe what you're saying. If you for it,

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<v Speaker 1>you will find it.

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<v Speaker 3>Like well, I don't know if you will find someone.

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<v Speaker 1>That pisces you off, like there's going to be something

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<v Speaker 1>that they've done before you or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, or like maybe like in the talking phase, who

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<v Speaker 2>is talking to or something along those lines. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>but I just think hitting my thirties, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm living in anxiety free life. If someone wants to

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<v Speaker 2>cheat on me, they're going to cheat on me, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going to stop them. Before I was like determined

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<v Speaker 2>to stop it. I was like, I will stop you

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<v Speaker 2>in your tracks.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've got a recommendation for the podcast. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>listening to Mel Robbins.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, who's that she does?

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<v Speaker 1>The let them theory?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Oh you've been telling me about this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love to let them theory. I believe in it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fifty percent through the audiobook. Yeah, I really think

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good thing to let them. So if they're

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<v Speaker 1>going to do it, just let them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let them, Like they'll get caught out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think everyone who's a cheater or does wrong

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<v Speaker 2>thing or tries to be sneaky gets caught out.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean it doesn't. It doesn't let it hurt

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<v Speaker 1>any less, though, But I guess at least you can

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<v Speaker 1>sleep easy as you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can sleep easy for sure, Like, like, there's no point

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<v Speaker 2>in being in ten out of ten stress for three

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<v Speaker 2>years of your relationship waiting for someone to cheat.

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<v Speaker 3>On you, and then three years in they cheat on

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<v Speaker 3>you and you're like, god, damn.

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<v Speaker 1>At the pain or the opposite, they don't and then

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<v Speaker 1>for three years you've been stressing for no reason.

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<v Speaker 3>True, look at you turning positive. It's love to see it.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk about some of the reasons as to why

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<v Speaker 2>couples do want to share location. Ninety five percent of

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<v Speaker 2>people in relationships are sharing locations, so there's obviously a

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<v Speaker 2>reason other than just wanting to check if your partner's

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<v Speaker 2>cheating on you, or if they're at the club or

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<v Speaker 2>at a girl's house or I don't know what.

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<v Speaker 1>Well. Safety is one of them for showing where your

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<v Speaker 1>partner is to provide a peace of mind, especially in

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<v Speaker 1>situations where they might be traveling alone, yeah or coming

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<v Speaker 1>home late. I couldn't make it to an event last weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I had family issues. One of my family members got

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<v Speaker 1>rushed in for heart surgery, so I couldn't make an

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<v Speaker 1>event and Tammy had to go somewhere without me, in

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<v Speaker 1>like rural Western Australia. So she it was good to

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<v Speaker 1>know where she was. She was in an uber and

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<v Speaker 1>she was saying she felt uncomfortable. I could see where

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<v Speaker 1>she was in case, you know, anything happened. I think

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<v Speaker 1>safety is a big part of it as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, And I think hearing you say that, I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a big advocate for safety. I hate traveling myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe it would be good if I did have my

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<v Speaker 3>location on.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, I don't think this is on the list, but

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<v Speaker 1>correct me if I'm wrong. But like, is it like

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<v Speaker 1>find my iPhone? The location thing? Is it the same

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<v Speaker 1>sort of thing? Yeah? I wish that my ex partner

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<v Speaker 1>had it or someone I knew had it when I

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<v Speaker 1>after your thirtieth when.

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<v Speaker 3>You were sleeping on a bench.

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<v Speaker 1>Passed out on a bench and somebody stole my phone

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<v Speaker 1>from me and I could know where it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I actually because I'm on parent Talk now because

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<v Speaker 2>obviously the baby is coming very soon and scarily soon.

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<v Speaker 2>Just I it's March right now, and the baby's coming

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<v Speaker 2>in May.

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<v Speaker 3>It's real soon.

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<v Speaker 1>Two months. The Martian that, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's three months.

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<v Speaker 2>I said two months, and Michael said no, because he's like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's all of March, all of April and then the

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<v Speaker 2>end of May. It's technically three. But I would have

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<v Speaker 2>said too as.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, So I'm with you, Yeah it's three.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So anyway, because I'm on parent Talk at the moment,

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<v Speaker 2>I've actually seen parents put air tags into their kids

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<v Speaker 2>shoes or backpacks, like sewing them in so if or

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<v Speaker 2>their clothes or jackets or whatever it is or hats.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's like if they were to be kidnapped, the.

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<v Speaker 2>Kids air tagged and I was like, good, idea air.

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<v Speaker 3>Tag my kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Stitch it into his bottom of his legs, going into

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<v Speaker 1>a skin.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>The next reason why couples feel the need so strongly

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<v Speaker 2>to have each other's location on is just convenience. Really

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<v Speaker 2>so easily coordinating plans. So if you're meeting up for

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<v Speaker 2>dinner after work, knowing where your partner is.

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<v Speaker 3>Knowing if they're close.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that old little story you get when someone goes,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm on my.

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<v Speaker 3>Way and they're not on their way. They weren't on

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<v Speaker 3>their way for twenty minutes, and then they.

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<v Speaker 1>Come see where they are.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess that would be good for that.

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<v Speaker 1>So the next one is trusts and intimacy. For some couple,

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<v Speaker 1>sharing the location can be a sign of openness and

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<v Speaker 1>commitment within the relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah do you feel that way?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I mean I've got nothing to hide, like where

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<v Speaker 1>I am. Like you know, like I said, my mum, my, sisters,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone has my location.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, fair enough.

0:18:49.200 --> 0:18:50.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty transparent about where I am.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone knows I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want my location?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You already have my calendar and it's annoying. You're like,

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<v Speaker 2>have fun doing this today. I'm like, how do you know?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how to get it off here.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to leave my own terms. But I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>in there.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>A final one is practical concerns. So let's just say

0:19:12.160 --> 0:19:14.960
<v Speaker 2>one partner's running errands and the other can easily check

0:19:15.000 --> 0:19:16.040
<v Speaker 2>their location.

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<v Speaker 3>To see if they need to pick something up.

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<v Speaker 1>On the way that comes in handy.

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<v Speaker 2>A friend of ours was also saying, like, because they

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<v Speaker 2>have their friends' locations and they live in different areas,

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<v Speaker 2>they can see on the weekend if their friends are

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<v Speaker 2>close by, and they'll be like, oh, hey, John to

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<v Speaker 2>have a coffee. That's quite interesting because makes sense and

0:19:35.480 --> 0:19:37.679
<v Speaker 2>sometimes you are closer people and you just wouldn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I mean, my sister the other day saw up

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere and she's like, what are you doing there? Can

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<v Speaker 1>you can you grab me from this bakery? And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, I'm already left, and she's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>can see you. I was like, I'm leaving.

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<v Speaker 3>He's dug he absolutely don't. You're really throwing yourself on today.

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<v Speaker 2>Mate.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone, no one's safe. I'm not even safe myself.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not yourself, I guess. Like security concerns are a

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<v Speaker 3>huge one.

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<v Speaker 2>We have a camera at our front door, and I

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<v Speaker 2>think it does definitely make me feel more secure at home.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think about like at home security cameras.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got them all around the house. Yeah, and like so.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm pretty do you check in on them a bit?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I do. It lurts you, it lets you oh okay,

0:20:24.440 --> 0:20:27.080
<v Speaker 1>and then you watch it. But one of the front

0:20:27.119 --> 0:20:29.720
<v Speaker 1>gate ones goes off all the time, like the cars

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<v Speaker 1>driving past in that and like the posting and that.

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<v Speaker 1>So if that one goes off, I won't. And sometimes look.

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<v Speaker 3>At our apartment, well, it's not an apartment, it's a unit.

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<v Speaker 3>So we live in units, and so our.

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<v Speaker 2>Block, like our house has two houses in it, basically

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<v Speaker 2>in the one.

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<v Speaker 3>House basically friendly with your neighbors. Yeah, they're so nice.

0:20:49.680 --> 0:20:51.840
<v Speaker 2>I've actually never met them, but they we text each

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<v Speaker 2>other and they've centers letters.

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<v Speaker 1>We've never met them. And you live in like we

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<v Speaker 1>live above them. You live so close to them.

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<v Speaker 3>Michael sees them all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never met them. It's very bizarre, like I've wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to meet them. It's and they do go away.

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<v Speaker 3>For six months of the year too.

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<v Speaker 1>Why the cake?

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<v Speaker 3>How have I've baked them cakes? I've done it all.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, I just don't see them, like because they're only

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<v Speaker 2>they only come to Australia for Australian summer, so I've

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<v Speaker 2>had essentially two summers to see them.

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<v Speaker 3>And they're always like.

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<v Speaker 2>Out riding bikes and they're quite active. So yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>haven't seen them, but I do. I really want to

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<v Speaker 2>see them. But Michael, yeah, he's you know some quite

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<v Speaker 2>well what bacon. I've made them like little cupcakes with

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<v Speaker 2>pink frosting.

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<v Speaker 3>They're really good. That was before my oven broke.

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<v Speaker 1>That'd be nice to eat in one of them. I love.

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<v Speaker 2>But anyway, we have this guy and because obviously we

0:21:44.720 --> 0:21:49.199
<v Speaker 2>live on our block, there's like ten units, there's a

0:21:49.240 --> 0:21:53.080
<v Speaker 2>guy like a body Corp has basically hired this guy

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<v Speaker 2>and he like vacuums their communal area whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a bit of an older guy and he like

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<v Speaker 2>kind of greezes off our camera because when he's vacuuming,

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<v Speaker 2>he's like gives it like the.

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<v Speaker 1>Stan Kai can you talk through yours?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't. The kids when.

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<v Speaker 1>They're getting in the thing, I'll start talking to him.

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<v Speaker 2>Like say, like you can actually speak and actually, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>where's that coming from? Yeah? And with mine you can

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<v Speaker 2>also do like the there's words that are pre written

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<v Speaker 2>and the robot says it, so they'll be like, excuse me,

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<v Speaker 2>leave that at the door.

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<v Speaker 1>So you don't even know if you have that I

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<v Speaker 1>can speak to.

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<v Speaker 3>But like the robot speaks for you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty cool. I might see if we have that feature.

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<v Speaker 2>I think if you're going to be sharing location, you

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<v Speaker 2>need to be getting permission, Like there needs to be

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<v Speaker 2>consent in this sharing of location, because it isn't a

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<v Speaker 2>huge invasion of privacy really, you know, if you're wanting

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<v Speaker 2>to just do your own thing or whatever it might be,

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<v Speaker 2>you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Come from a milicius place like tracking your partner a

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<v Speaker 1>bit controlling.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I think interestingly enough, we do have a

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<v Speaker 2>study here that tells us that only sixteen percent of

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<v Speaker 2>couple sharing their location viewed it as controlling their partner.

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<v Speaker 2>So the majority of people actually used it for security,

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<v Speaker 2>So that's forty eight percent. Forty eight percent of doing

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<v Speaker 2>it because they think it's a safe, correct thing to do.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think if I was ever going to do it,

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<v Speaker 2>that's where I would fall into. And then twenty four

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<v Speaker 2>percent just said it was really for convenience, just knowing

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, not having to even text them. They

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<v Speaker 2>can just quickly look at their location and maybe see

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<v Speaker 2>how far away they are. Maybe if they're cooking dinner

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<v Speaker 2>for them, they can see they're on the way home,

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<v Speaker 2>get dinner on the table.

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<v Speaker 3>How nice would that be.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually lived with a mate and I remember was

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there at the table and his girlfriend came out

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<v Speaker 1>and she like, she'd already eaten dinner. I'd notice that

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, Oh, are you coming back to

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<v Speaker 1>sit with us? And she said, no, I'm just heating

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<v Speaker 1>up my mates. She said his name's Dinner, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh. I was like, do you know how

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<v Speaker 1>far off he is? Like when he's getting home? She seick, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's pulling into Warrigal Road now. And I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>that was the first time I'd actually seeing someone actually

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<v Speaker 1>like track their partner in that way.

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<v Speaker 3>The one thing I will say is that just because.

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<v Speaker 2>We have revealed that ninety five percent of couples do

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<v Speaker 2>share their location, doesn't mean that you have to, And

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<v Speaker 2>I think there should be no pressure to It's your

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<v Speaker 2>prerogative and if.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a boundary that you have some privacy, then your

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<v Speaker 1>partner should respect that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I think in relationships, autonomy is so important

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<v Speaker 2>and feeling like you are still your own person and

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<v Speaker 2>you're not completely submerged in with someone else.

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<v Speaker 3>Is really key. So yeah, don't feel pressured. We know

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<v Speaker 3>that it's a very high statistic.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm shocked, but yeah, like Matt said, we will do

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<v Speaker 2>a little poll on our Facebook group and find out

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<v Speaker 2>what our where's your head at listeners think of this

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<v Speaker 2>statistic because it is high.

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<v Speaker 1>It is high, it is very high. It is surprisingly high.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Matt, until next time.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye bye, guys. Just go to get a coffee or

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<v Speaker 1>a drink or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fine, I'm actually fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's get you a smile.