Speaker 1: You're on my location.
Speaker 2: I don't know you already have my calendar and it's annoying.
Speaker 2: You're like, have fun doing this today. I'm like, how
Speaker 2: do you know? I don't know how to get it
Speaker 2: off you.
Speaker 3: Where's Your Head At? Is a podcast that talks full
Speaker 3: things this hold on a sec. Let's give this a refresh. Hi.
Speaker 1: I'm Anna and I'm Matt, and we are now too
Speaker 1: newlywed not to each other. Just a female and male
Speaker 1: best friend here for the good, the bad, and the
Speaker 1: ugly times and.
Speaker 2: Exploring adulthood, family relationships, dilemmas.
Speaker 1: And whatever else we have the mental capacity to deal with.
Speaker 3: Come get the lowdown.
Speaker 1: This is your male and female perspective.
Speaker 3: So, Matt, where's your Head At? Shake it up?
Speaker 2: Hello, and welcome it to another episode from Where's your
Speaker 2: Head Out?
Speaker 1: I was just seeing leave that in the ed.
Speaker 3: I hope that doesn't get left in because not.
Speaker 1: Shake it off? Shake it maybe cut that one out,
Speaker 1: definitely don't.
Speaker 3: How are I am good?
Speaker 2: Last week was not a good week for me. I
Speaker 2: did my gestational diabetes test and it literally knocked me
Speaker 2: out for two days. I was not in a good way.
Speaker 2: Literally had to cancel this podcast. Meeting, other things I
Speaker 2: had on. It was just a bit of a disaster.
Speaker 2: But I feel really happy now because I'm like, well,
Speaker 2: so you basically have three blood tests and take this
Speaker 2: gluecoase drink and it just knocked me out. I was
Speaker 2: at our warehouse picking up samples Goldie Bee new product
Speaker 2: samples and yeah, exciting, and the lady who was giving
Speaker 2: me the sample was like, are you okay?
Speaker 3: And I was like, you know.
Speaker 2: What, not really, I don't feel good and my eyes
Speaker 2: were like heavy and closing over dizzy. I had a headache,
Speaker 2: I just felt lethargic. I just wanted to go sleep.
Speaker 2: I just didn't feel good. And yeah, she was like
Speaker 2: I was like, no, not really, I just did this
Speaker 2: glucose test and she's.
Speaker 3: Like, oh, I remember the glucose.
Speaker 2: Literally, everyone who I've told is like I remember when
Speaker 2: I did the gluck and I was like, never again.
Speaker 2: So I knew that there was apparently there's a blood
Speaker 2: test you can do, but no one tells you. So
Speaker 2: no one knows that you can ask for that.
Speaker 1: Okay, but then you get your blood tests, so you
Speaker 1: do three tests.
Speaker 2: You can do like a fasting. Yeah, you can do
Speaker 2: like a fasting. Blood test. I don't think it's as accurate.
Speaker 2: But yeah, no, I had to do blood test, take
Speaker 2: the glucose drink, wait an hour, do another blood test,
Speaker 2: and then wait an hour.
Speaker 3: To another blood test, and she's like, you can't walk
Speaker 3: around because it will disrupt the test.
Speaker 1: I had blood test as it is. Yeah, I can't
Speaker 1: do them.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I feel like after being in the hospital and having
Speaker 2: sepsis and just having my blood taken like every five minutes,
Speaker 2: I'm just kind of like, well whatever.
Speaker 1: Yeah, needles are one of my phobias. Yeah, I remember
Speaker 1: a lot better than when I was a kid. But
Speaker 1: like as a kid, I actually like getting pinned down. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my mum would pin me down to get it done,
Speaker 1: or like there's a video my sister hasn't me like crime.
Speaker 1: Before I got one of my immunizations in the aunio,
Speaker 1: I couldn't do them. Now I'm okay, Like I'm a
Speaker 1: grown adult, So like I sit down and don't look
Speaker 1: like I'm not overly excited about it. Yeah, I can
Speaker 1: get it done now.
Speaker 2: I think a phobia is one thing, but I think
Speaker 2: in some ways it is mind over matter.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I when people when.
Speaker 2: Like the nurses who was drawing my blood would say
Speaker 2: to me, are you afraid of needles? Do you need
Speaker 2: to lie down? I would always be like, yeah, I'm
Speaker 2: really afraid blah blah blah. But since I feel like
Speaker 2: the sepsis issue, I'm like, I'm completely fine.
Speaker 3: Are we fine?
Speaker 2: And even just saying that out loud, I think makes
Speaker 2: me feel more fine about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I'm not fine about rats. Scared of them? Yeah,
Speaker 1: fair enough, They're scary little things. They carry the plague.
Speaker 3: What does rats? Why are you talking about rats because I'm.
Speaker 1: Scared of them. They're my phobia. Rats and needles. You
Speaker 1: just pivoted, I said. I said that I mentally can't
Speaker 1: get over rats, the phobia of them. They're fucked.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate all creepy animals. I would never go
Speaker 2: on am a celebrity for that reason. Get me out
Speaker 2: of here?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Can we be that out in case I take
Speaker 1: their offer up next year? Blake, But I'm scared of
Speaker 1: if you want to do, I'm.
Speaker 3: A celebrity, get me out of here.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, sure, it's like your.
Speaker 3: Dream show, I mean, manifest if you want it.
Speaker 2: I would never No, I wouldn't do that, so you're
Speaker 2: in a bit of a would we say, like a
Speaker 2: grumpy mood today, just singing check it off to you.
Speaker 1: No, I'm just a bit, I don't know, flat tied.
Speaker 1: Just everything's getting to me.
Speaker 3: Okay, I have a question for you. Go on, are
Speaker 3: you going to the Formula One?
Speaker 1: No, I'm not as we stand right now, are you?
Speaker 3: I am?
Speaker 2: And I love the Formula One And actually normally my
Speaker 2: old apartment was on Queen's Road in Melbourne if you're
Speaker 2: familiar with Melbourne, and it literally looked over the whole
Speaker 2: Formula one and we always have Formula One parties. Now,
Speaker 2: obviously I don't live there, but I do love going
Speaker 2: and it's such a fun event.
Speaker 3: It's one of Melwuryn's best events.
Speaker 1: I came down to Melbourne last week and I saw
Speaker 1: they're actually I walked to Albert Park and I saw
Speaker 1: they set it up pretty quickly.
Speaker 3: They set up early.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and Rome was built in a day. It's nearly
Speaker 1: I drove past it before it's nearly done. I was like, gee,
Speaker 1: they work hard. I don't know, they work.
Speaker 3: Fast and hard for sure.
Speaker 2: Currently I am actually about to head off to my
Speaker 2: baby moon. And when this goes live, I will still
Speaker 2: be there. We're just about to leave.
Speaker 1: Where are you going?
Speaker 3: Excited about that? I'm going to Palm Cove.
Speaker 2: Where's that like North Queensland, close to Cans. But I've
Speaker 2: been kind of stressed because cyclone Alfred, I think it's called,
Speaker 2: is heading towards that area.
Speaker 3: I think it's just gone.
Speaker 1: Alfred is the most non scary name for a cyclone
Speaker 1: I've ever heard you reckon, Yeah, Alfred. It doesn't sound like, Yeah,
Speaker 1: Alfred's Batman's dude, He's an old guy. It doesn't sound scary.
Speaker 3: I feel like I just love all the old names.
Speaker 2: Like you know how people call their dogs, or people
Speaker 2: are calling restaurants old names like Alfred or Winston or
Speaker 2: Norman or all these old cafe.
Speaker 1: On the Gold Coast called Alfred's. It's pretty popular. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Alfred's Alfred, Alfred, I don't know, yeah, something like that.
Speaker 2: But do you think it's funny how people just like
Speaker 2: are getting around the old school names and they're calling
Speaker 2: their pets and restaurant.
Speaker 1: Yeah Winston, yeah, Winston. Yeah. I've got Actually, I'm in
Speaker 1: a griactual mood and I've got a grouch for you. Actually,
Speaker 1: if you're catching a plane.
Speaker 3: You just get right into that.
Speaker 1: I actually saw someone talk about this one a TikTok
Speaker 1: as well, it's twenty twenty five. You do not recline
Speaker 1: your chair on a domestic flight, Like, you just don't
Speaker 1: do that.
Speaker 3: Is that what you're feeling?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's common courtesy. You just don't do
Speaker 1: it anymore. I think that, like it's an tops two hours,
Speaker 1: you don't need to recline your chair. I'm six ft
Speaker 1: six nearly, and I don't require my check out of
Speaker 1: manners for the person behind me, you know what.
Speaker 2: Like, I think I'm gonna have to disagree with you
Speaker 2: on this one because I got so much online hate.
Speaker 3: Because and granted I was taking an.
Speaker 2: International flight, but I was complaining because literally got onto
Speaker 2: an international flight. I think I was flying to Europe
Speaker 2: put my chair back as soon as the aircraft had
Speaker 2: taken off in the seat belt side went off because
Speaker 2: I was heading straight to sleep, and the woman behind
Speaker 2: me corracked it, and I was like, no, the button
Speaker 2: is there.
Speaker 3: For a reason. You're paying for that seat. You deserve
Speaker 3: to recline your seat.
Speaker 2: And I actually think in a domestic flight you should
Speaker 2: also be able to do the same and also before
Speaker 2: you say.
Speaker 3: Anything, because I know you're about to jump. It's so tall.
Speaker 2: Michael's also tall, and I okay, champion, Okay.
Speaker 1: I agree with an international flight. Yes, I caught national one,
Speaker 1: but the people in front of us had the emergency
Speaker 1: exit so they could kick their legs out as well,
Speaker 1: And I was like, do you really need to recline
Speaker 1: at the same time, and that dude, I felt like
Speaker 1: that was ship house of them. I thought you could
Speaker 1: be a little bit more courteous. No, I reckon domestics,
Speaker 1: don't recline. There's no need to.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 2: I think in domestic you can recline. If you weren't
Speaker 2: allowed to recline, then don't put the button.
Speaker 1: No, I just don't think that. You like, you're allowed
Speaker 1: to obviously, but it's just like I think, just common
Speaker 1: courtesy these days, let's ask our audience, because I think, yeah.
Speaker 3: Let's let's ask our Facebook group.
Speaker 2: I'm sticking strong with. If the button's there, use it,
Speaker 2: You've paid for it, Use it.
Speaker 1: I don't know why you'd figure a fight with me today.
Speaker 3: I actually don't know why I fig a fight.
Speaker 1: Well day you're going to ship me like that? I
Speaker 1: reckon everyone listening at home as well. I reckon you
Speaker 1: don't recline.
Speaker 3: I reckon you do there?
Speaker 1: You people think I shall sorry for you. Actually, Anna,
Speaker 1: this might cheer me up.
Speaker 2: Funny, your own story will cheer you about that makes
Speaker 2: that's so mad.
Speaker 1: I so believe it or not. Everyone playing at home
Speaker 1: people are shocked. But I take off my wedding ring
Speaker 1: when I work out because it gets scratches on it.
Speaker 1: So I take it off. So Tammy does the same thing.
Speaker 1: Sometimes we forget to put it back on. You take
Speaker 1: one photo. Everyone loses their minds about it. It is
Speaker 1: what is you take it off when you work out,
Speaker 1: because anyone who's married would know the same thing. You
Speaker 1: do the same thing. You don't work out though.
Speaker 2: He's throwing so much shaped and this is just on
Speaker 2: my should have.
Speaker 3: Heard him off.
Speaker 1: So yeah, so you take it off. And I forgot
Speaker 1: to at the gym the other day, so I forgot
Speaker 1: to take it off. So I was working out. I
Speaker 1: was like, dam I can't lift weights with this, So
Speaker 1: I put it in my pocket, in my sorry, my sock,
Speaker 1: like tucked it into my sock.
Speaker 2: Well, your shoes are yeah, worked out for an hour,
Speaker 2: I forgot it was there.
Speaker 1: I want to go into the sauna. And I was
Speaker 1: taking off my clothes, took off my shoes, took off
Speaker 1: my sock and it swung out and it's gone ding
Speaker 1: dinging and rolled under the showers and the door was closed,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I was like, hey in there.
Speaker 1: I was like hey mate, No one was no one
Speaker 1: was saying anything. I could see it, literally see it there.
Speaker 1: I could see the guy's feet showering and I've literally
Speaker 1: reached under it, and I'm like, sorry, mate, and I've
Speaker 1: grabbed it and put it back on and run away.
Speaker 3: You've got to do it.
Speaker 1: You got to do it. There's no way. I was
Speaker 1: only my ring just sit there, pageous.
Speaker 3: This is just marinating in this guy shower juice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I was, yeah, it's pretty gross. So whoever
Speaker 1: that guy was in the shower, sorry.
Speaker 3: Mate, what if he was?
Speaker 1: Week I made a public shower. Do you piss in them?
Speaker 1: I guess, well, it's yours.
Speaker 3: You're gonna do it anywhere?
Speaker 1: Do it there? Yeah? So yeah, I got my ring back.
Speaker 1: I just affected it. So it's all good.
Speaker 3: When he's kissing it now, how lovely? Okay, Matt.
Speaker 2: We came across a very interesting statistic this week. This
Speaker 2: statistic truly blew me away, and you agree with it.
Speaker 3: So again we're on disagreeing sides. But that's okay.
Speaker 1: You want to fight me today.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 2: But what we figured out is that ninety five percent
Speaker 2: of adult relationships utilize some form of location sharing technology.
Speaker 2: Does that surprise you, because that really surprises me.
Speaker 1: I did say that ninety five is pretty high. I
Speaker 1: think that was surprising. That's all. That's like pretty much
Speaker 1: every relationship. But I am not surprised that people do it.
Speaker 3: Do you and Tammy share your yes?
Speaker 1: Yes, I think it's just for safety, like you know,
Speaker 1: you don't know where each other are, Like it's good
Speaker 1: to know, Like it's not I barely use it. I
Speaker 1: say that, like I barely use it. But it does
Speaker 1: say under their name where they are, but it like
Speaker 1: you don't, like I can go out of my way
Speaker 1: to look at that. Yeah, you and Michael don't do it.
Speaker 3: No, we're in the five percent of people who don't
Speaker 3: do it.
Speaker 2: Michael and I have never even had the conversation of
Speaker 2: location sharing, and I think I know the reason why,
Speaker 2: and I think it's come from like past relationship trauma
Speaker 2: with me when I was in a very toxic relationship
Speaker 2: and I had location, I had Instagram passwords, I had
Speaker 2: like all of the passwords, and I think it drove
Speaker 2: me a little bit crazy.
Speaker 1: Would you say you would check the location and check
Speaker 1: the Instagram.
Speaker 2: I would check the Instagram, like check the messages, just
Speaker 2: like double check. I don't know, I just think it's
Speaker 2: like for me, I think I've seen that as coming
Speaker 2: from a toxic place, But obviously there's so many more
Speaker 2: reasons as to why people share locations, and even just
Speaker 2: talking about it now, I'm not opposed to it.
Speaker 3: In fact, maybe I should call Michael and say, hey,
Speaker 3: do you want to share locations?
Speaker 1: What he says, have you ever checked your partner's fine,
Speaker 1: like picked it up and looked not Michael's, not Michael's
Speaker 1: by ex's if.
Speaker 2: Yeah, when I feel a little bit insecure, I've definitely
Speaker 2: like looked through people's phones in the past. But I
Speaker 2: think with Michael, because it was a healthy relationship, I
Speaker 2: was like, I don't even want to like go there
Speaker 2: bye and vice versa. Like he uses my phone for
Speaker 2: like work things sometimes and I use his phone for
Speaker 2: work things.
Speaker 3: It's not like when we.
Speaker 2: Like Steer are clear of each other's phones because we're
Speaker 2: like afraid of what's going to be there.
Speaker 3: It's more just like we trust each other, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1: My phone's and our phones are open property, there's nothing.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I also think, and I've said this on the podcast before,
Speaker 2: I think when you're in that mind space where you're
Speaker 2: trying to find something and you're trying to always catch
Speaker 2: someone out or like I would sometimes wait until they
Speaker 2: would go to sleep and then look at their phone
Speaker 2: and be like and then my heart would be racing
Speaker 2: because I'd be.
Speaker 3: Like, oh my god, what am I gonna find?
Speaker 1: You know that?
Speaker 3: Really?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have done that. It sounds fucking sounds like
Speaker 1: why would you do that to you? It's hot, But
Speaker 1: I do believe what you're saying. If you for it,
Speaker 1: you will find it.
Speaker 3: Like well, I don't know if you will find someone.
Speaker 1: That pisces you off, like there's going to be something
Speaker 1: that they've done before you or something like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, or like maybe like in the talking phase, who
Speaker 2: is talking to or something along those lines. I don't know,
Speaker 2: but I just think hitting my thirties, I was like,
Speaker 2: I'm living in anxiety free life. If someone wants to
Speaker 2: cheat on me, they're going to cheat on me, I'm
Speaker 2: not going to stop them. Before I was like determined
Speaker 2: to stop it. I was like, I will stop you
Speaker 2: in your tracks.
Speaker 1: So I've got a recommendation for the podcast. I've been
Speaker 1: listening to Mel Robbins.
Speaker 3: Okay, who's that she does?
Speaker 1: The let them theory?
Speaker 3: Okay, Oh you've been telling me about this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love to let them theory. I believe in it.
Speaker 1: I'm fifty percent through the audiobook. Yeah, I really think
Speaker 1: it's a good thing to let them. So if they're
Speaker 1: going to do it, just let them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let them, Like they'll get caught out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think everyone who's a cheater or does wrong
Speaker 2: thing or tries to be sneaky gets caught out.
Speaker 1: But I mean it doesn't. It doesn't let it hurt
Speaker 1: any less, though, But I guess at least you can
Speaker 1: sleep easy as you.
Speaker 2: Can sleep easy for sure, Like, like, there's no point
Speaker 2: in being in ten out of ten stress for three
Speaker 2: years of your relationship waiting for someone to cheat.
Speaker 3: On you, and then three years in they cheat on
Speaker 3: you and you're like, god, damn.
Speaker 1: At the pain or the opposite, they don't and then
Speaker 1: for three years you've been stressing for no reason.
Speaker 3: True, look at you turning positive. It's love to see it.
Speaker 2: Let's talk about some of the reasons as to why
Speaker 2: couples do want to share location. Ninety five percent of
Speaker 2: people in relationships are sharing locations, so there's obviously a
Speaker 2: reason other than just wanting to check if your partner's
Speaker 2: cheating on you, or if they're at the club or
Speaker 2: at a girl's house or I don't know what.
Speaker 1: Well. Safety is one of them for showing where your
Speaker 1: partner is to provide a peace of mind, especially in
Speaker 1: situations where they might be traveling alone, yeah or coming
Speaker 1: home late. I couldn't make it to an event last weekend.
Speaker 1: I had family issues. One of my family members got
Speaker 1: rushed in for heart surgery, so I couldn't make an
Speaker 1: event and Tammy had to go somewhere without me, in
Speaker 1: like rural Western Australia. So she it was good to
Speaker 1: know where she was. She was in an uber and
Speaker 1: she was saying she felt uncomfortable. I could see where
Speaker 1: she was in case, you know, anything happened. I think
Speaker 1: safety is a big part of it as well.
Speaker 3: Absolutely, And I think hearing you say that, I'm you know,
Speaker 3: I'm a big advocate for safety. I hate traveling myself.
Speaker 3: Maybe it would be good if I did have my
Speaker 3: location on.
Speaker 1: Also, I don't think this is on the list, but
Speaker 1: correct me if I'm wrong. But like, is it like
Speaker 1: find my iPhone? The location thing? Is it the same
Speaker 1: sort of thing? Yeah? I wish that my ex partner
Speaker 1: had it or someone I knew had it when I
Speaker 1: after your thirtieth when.
Speaker 3: You were sleeping on a bench.
Speaker 1: Passed out on a bench and somebody stole my phone
Speaker 1: from me and I could know where it is.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually because I'm on parent Talk now because
Speaker 2: obviously the baby is coming very soon and scarily soon.
Speaker 2: Just I it's March right now, and the baby's coming
Speaker 2: in May.
Speaker 3: It's real soon.
Speaker 1: Two months. The Martian that, yeah.
Speaker 3: I think it's three months.
Speaker 2: I said two months, and Michael said no, because he's like,
Speaker 2: it's all of March, all of April and then the
Speaker 2: end of May. It's technically three. But I would have
Speaker 2: said too as.
Speaker 1: Well, So I'm with you, Yeah it's three.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So anyway, because I'm on parent Talk at the moment,
Speaker 2: I've actually seen parents put air tags into their kids
Speaker 2: shoes or backpacks, like sewing them in so if or
Speaker 2: their clothes or jackets or whatever it is or hats.
Speaker 3: So it's like if they were to be kidnapped, the.
Speaker 2: Kids air tagged and I was like, good, idea air.
Speaker 3: Tag my kid.
Speaker 1: Stitch it into his bottom of his legs, going into
Speaker 1: a skin.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: The next reason why couples feel the need so strongly
Speaker 2: to have each other's location on is just convenience. Really
Speaker 2: so easily coordinating plans. So if you're meeting up for
Speaker 2: dinner after work, knowing where your partner is.
Speaker 3: Knowing if they're close.
Speaker 2: You know that old little story you get when someone goes,
Speaker 2: I'm on my.
Speaker 3: Way and they're not on their way. They weren't on
Speaker 3: their way for twenty minutes, and then they.
Speaker 1: Come see where they are.
Speaker 3: I guess that would be good for that.
Speaker 1: So the next one is trusts and intimacy. For some couple,
Speaker 1: sharing the location can be a sign of openness and
Speaker 1: commitment within the relationship.
Speaker 3: Yeah do you feel that way?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean I've got nothing to hide, like where
Speaker 1: I am. Like you know, like I said, my mum, my, sisters,
Speaker 1: everyone has my location.
Speaker 3: Yeah, fair enough.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty transparent about where I am.
Speaker 3: Everyone knows I don't know.
Speaker 1: Do you want my location?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: You already have my calendar and it's annoying. You're like,
Speaker 2: have fun doing this today. I'm like, how do you know?
Speaker 2: I don't know how to get it off here.
Speaker 1: I have to leave my own terms. But I'm still
Speaker 1: in there.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: A final one is practical concerns. So let's just say
Speaker 2: one partner's running errands and the other can easily check
Speaker 2: their location.
Speaker 3: To see if they need to pick something up.
Speaker 1: On the way that comes in handy.
Speaker 2: A friend of ours was also saying, like, because they
Speaker 2: have their friends' locations and they live in different areas,
Speaker 2: they can see on the weekend if their friends are
Speaker 2: close by, and they'll be like, oh, hey, John to
Speaker 2: have a coffee. That's quite interesting because makes sense and
Speaker 2: sometimes you are closer people and you just wouldn't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, my sister the other day saw up
Speaker 1: somewhere and she's like, what are you doing there? Can
Speaker 1: you can you grab me from this bakery? And I
Speaker 1: was like, no, I'm already left, and she's like, I
Speaker 1: can see you. I was like, I'm leaving.
Speaker 3: He's dug he absolutely don't. You're really throwing yourself on today.
Speaker 2: Mate.
Speaker 1: Everyone, no one's safe. I'm not even safe myself.
Speaker 3: You're not yourself, I guess. Like security concerns are a
Speaker 3: huge one.
Speaker 2: We have a camera at our front door, and I
Speaker 2: think it does definitely make me feel more secure at home.
Speaker 2: What do you think about like at home security cameras.
Speaker 1: We've got them all around the house. Yeah, and like so.
Speaker 3: I'm pretty do you check in on them a bit?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I do. It lurts you, it lets you oh okay,
Speaker 1: and then you watch it. But one of the front
Speaker 1: gate ones goes off all the time, like the cars
Speaker 1: driving past in that and like the posting and that.
Speaker 1: So if that one goes off, I won't. And sometimes look.
Speaker 3: At our apartment, well, it's not an apartment, it's a unit.
Speaker 3: So we live in units, and so our.
Speaker 2: Block, like our house has two houses in it, basically
Speaker 2: in the one.
Speaker 3: House basically friendly with your neighbors. Yeah, they're so nice.
Speaker 2: I've actually never met them, but they we text each
Speaker 2: other and they've centers letters.
Speaker 1: We've never met them. And you live in like we
Speaker 1: live above them. You live so close to them.
Speaker 3: Michael sees them all the time.
Speaker 2: I've never met them. It's very bizarre, like I've wanted
Speaker 2: to meet them. It's and they do go away.
Speaker 3: For six months of the year too.
Speaker 1: Why the cake?
Speaker 3: How have I've baked them cakes? I've done it all.
Speaker 2: Really, I just don't see them, like because they're only
Speaker 2: they only come to Australia for Australian summer, so I've
Speaker 2: had essentially two summers to see them.
Speaker 3: And they're always like.
Speaker 2: Out riding bikes and they're quite active. So yeah, I
Speaker 2: haven't seen them, but I do. I really want to
Speaker 2: see them. But Michael, yeah, he's you know some quite
Speaker 2: well what bacon. I've made them like little cupcakes with
Speaker 2: pink frosting.
Speaker 3: They're really good. That was before my oven broke.
Speaker 1: That'd be nice to eat in one of them. I love.
Speaker 2: But anyway, we have this guy and because obviously we
Speaker 2: live on our block, there's like ten units, there's a
Speaker 2: guy like a body Corp has basically hired this guy
Speaker 2: and he like vacuums their communal area whatever.
Speaker 3: And it's so funny.
Speaker 2: He's a bit of an older guy and he like
Speaker 2: kind of greezes off our camera because when he's vacuuming,
Speaker 2: he's like gives it like the.
Speaker 1: Stan Kai can you talk through yours?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. The kids when.
Speaker 1: They're getting in the thing, I'll start talking to him.
Speaker 2: Like say, like you can actually speak and actually, okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: where's that coming from? Yeah? And with mine you can
Speaker 2: also do like the there's words that are pre written
Speaker 2: and the robot says it, so they'll be like, excuse me,
Speaker 2: leave that at the door.
Speaker 1: So you don't even know if you have that I
Speaker 1: can speak to.
Speaker 3: But like the robot speaks for you.
Speaker 1: It's pretty cool. I might see if we have that feature.
Speaker 2: I think if you're going to be sharing location, you
Speaker 2: need to be getting permission, Like there needs to be
Speaker 2: consent in this sharing of location, because it isn't a
Speaker 2: huge invasion of privacy really, you know, if you're wanting
Speaker 2: to just do your own thing or whatever it might be,
Speaker 2: you can.
Speaker 1: Come from a milicius place like tracking your partner a
Speaker 1: bit controlling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think interestingly enough, we do have a
Speaker 2: study here that tells us that only sixteen percent of
Speaker 2: couple sharing their location viewed it as controlling their partner.
Speaker 2: So the majority of people actually used it for security,
Speaker 2: So that's forty eight percent. Forty eight percent of doing
Speaker 2: it because they think it's a safe, correct thing to do.
Speaker 2: And I think if I was ever going to do it,
Speaker 2: that's where I would fall into. And then twenty four
Speaker 2: percent just said it was really for convenience, just knowing
Speaker 2: and you know, not having to even text them. They
Speaker 2: can just quickly look at their location and maybe see
Speaker 2: how far away they are. Maybe if they're cooking dinner
Speaker 2: for them, they can see they're on the way home,
Speaker 2: get dinner on the table.
Speaker 3: How nice would that be.
Speaker 1: I actually lived with a mate and I remember was
Speaker 1: sitting there at the table and his girlfriend came out
Speaker 1: and she like, she'd already eaten dinner. I'd notice that
Speaker 1: and I was like, Oh, are you coming back to
Speaker 1: sit with us? And she said, no, I'm just heating
Speaker 1: up my mates. She said his name's Dinner, and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh. I was like, do you know how
Speaker 1: far off he is? Like when he's getting home? She seick, yeah,
Speaker 1: he's pulling into Warrigal Road now. And I was just like,
Speaker 1: that was the first time I'd actually seeing someone actually
Speaker 1: like track their partner in that way.
Speaker 3: The one thing I will say is that just because.
Speaker 2: We have revealed that ninety five percent of couples do
Speaker 2: share their location, doesn't mean that you have to, And
Speaker 2: I think there should be no pressure to It's your
Speaker 2: prerogative and if.
Speaker 1: It's a boundary that you have some privacy, then your
Speaker 1: partner should respect that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think in relationships, autonomy is so important
Speaker 2: and feeling like you are still your own person and
Speaker 2: you're not completely submerged in with someone else.
Speaker 3: Is really key. So yeah, don't feel pressured. We know
Speaker 3: that it's a very high statistic.
Speaker 2: I'm shocked, but yeah, like Matt said, we will do
Speaker 2: a little poll on our Facebook group and find out
Speaker 2: what our where's your head at listeners think of this
Speaker 2: statistic because it is high.
Speaker 1: It is high, it is very high. It is surprisingly high.
Speaker 3: Okay, Matt, until next time.
Speaker 1: Bye bye, guys. Just go to get a coffee or
Speaker 1: a drink or something.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 1: I'm fine, I'm actually fine.
Speaker 3: Let's get you a smile.