WEBVTT - #209: Inside Modern Warfare...What’s Really Going On with Ex-SAS Soldier Harry Moffitt

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<v Speaker 1>Anthony Moffatt or Harry as you've been known as Welcer

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<v Speaker 1>to Straight Talk mate.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you Mark. Yeah, so pleasure to be here. So I.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I always want to know how someone's name goes

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<v Speaker 1>from Anthony to Harry and your name, of course it Moffatt,

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<v Speaker 1>But like, tell me how that occurred? How did you

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<v Speaker 1>get that nickname?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so Harry came from an old Rodney Rude character.

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<v Speaker 2>Harry Muff was his name, and a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>called me mof so it was Harry moff in the end,

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't think there was much of a likeness.

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<v Speaker 2>Wasn't that funny?

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<v Speaker 3>But who named you?

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<v Speaker 2>Bloke by the name of Ken Studeley on our essays

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<v Speaker 2>selection course he made up a poem and a rhyme

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<v Speaker 2>about everyone. He's one of the funniest guys who you'll meet.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, he was one that gave me the night

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<v Speaker 2>the name in the part and stuck. It stuck. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>Well you resist these names and they stick hard.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't they totally. So that would have been in

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<v Speaker 3>like the eighties, nineteen ninety ninety nine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, because I remember Rodney was he had a

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<v Speaker 1>Radis show on TV show. I also remember Kerry closing

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<v Speaker 1>his TV one of his programs now actually mid program

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<v Speaker 1>because carriage isn't like the way he went on. But

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<v Speaker 1>he was a funny barsad I remember him. And so

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<v Speaker 1>you're in the mid nineties. You were let's call it

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<v Speaker 1>trying out whatever the word is for essays.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, attempting essays selection, and it hasn't changed a great

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<v Speaker 2>deal as anywhere between five hundred and one thousand applicants,

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<v Speaker 2>they pick one hundred and fifty odd and you go

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<v Speaker 2>to Perth and out of that we generally get twenty.

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<v Speaker 2>I still return to the unit today to mentor the

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<v Speaker 2>new charges coming through, and the numbers haven't changed over time,

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<v Speaker 2>which is good.

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<v Speaker 3>So let's say that's in the nineties.

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<v Speaker 1>He obviously weren't born in nineteen eighty because you would

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<v Speaker 1>have been too young to be doing this. Were you

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<v Speaker 1>in the military. What's that process? Joining the military then

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<v Speaker 1>trying for essas? Were just decided one day at midday

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<v Speaker 1>I saw the SAS TV shows series on Channel seven

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<v Speaker 1>or Channel nine where it is, and I decided want

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<v Speaker 1>to become an essays soldier. I mean, how does that work?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you become how do you become? Well, how

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<v Speaker 1>do you get the instinct and the ambition to join

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<v Speaker 1>the ESAs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was a spark for me. I was going

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<v Speaker 2>to be running out of full Ford for Hawthorne football

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<v Speaker 2>team up until I was twelve years old. That was

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<v Speaker 2>my dream, or open the opening the batting for Australia.

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<v Speaker 2>But I saw the images you may remember Princess Gate,

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<v Speaker 2>the Iranian embassy siege in the UK and nineteen eighty

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<v Speaker 2>and that flickered across a grainy black and white television

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<v Speaker 2>set and it just captured my imagination. And I read

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<v Speaker 2>a bit in those days. I was reading from an

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<v Speaker 2>early age, and I started reading some books about counter

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<v Speaker 2>terrorism and anti terrorism. These are that was the golden

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<v Speaker 2>era in the eighties, you know, the aircraft hijackings and

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<v Speaker 2>et cetera. So it was in the geist, if you like.

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<v Speaker 2>It was in the background, and I just thought, whatever

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<v Speaker 2>they're doing looks awesome and sexy, and they're all dressed

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<v Speaker 2>in black. And the more I dug, the more I

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<v Speaker 2>was intrigued and the more I wanted to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I joined that the Army in nineteen eighty six

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<v Speaker 2>as a regular and when the SAS circus came to

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<v Speaker 2>town and beat the drums. I signed up and went

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<v Speaker 2>through started a selection process, pre selection into that one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred and fifty proper selection, and then you go into

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<v Speaker 2>a eighteen month odd reinforcement cycle, which is still part

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<v Speaker 2>of the selection. So it's probably all in a two

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<v Speaker 2>year process once you're in the system.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't mind just talking about it because I've always

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<v Speaker 1>been fascinated with the process of being selected. And I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you're also self selecting too, because correct you might

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<v Speaker 1>decide I'm going to drop that as well. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>just somebody saying you're the dude. You might say I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not the dude. I want to go back to that

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<v Speaker 1>in a second.

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<v Speaker 2>But self selection is a really important part to grew insight.

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<v Speaker 1>I can imagine because it happens in business too, and

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<v Speaker 1>people think they're going to be an entrepreneur, but ultimately

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<v Speaker 1>you self select yourself and or the market will tell

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<v Speaker 1>you whether you can do it or not. But some

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<v Speaker 1>people fail to self select out when they should, when

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<v Speaker 1>they should be getting out. And it's not there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with selecting to get out of these things. Self

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<v Speaker 1>selecting out, that's just what your instincts telling you. After

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<v Speaker 1>you've gone through the process. It's not instinct. With our process.

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<v Speaker 1>Process informs your instinct at the end of the day.

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<v Speaker 1>But we'll come back to that in a second. Because

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like you have a view on it, a

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<v Speaker 1>strong view on it. But you were a like use,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you said, regular soldier, Yeah, what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 2>So you just join the ADF you going to any

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<v Speaker 2>number of cores infantry. I went into signals core. You

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<v Speaker 2>can be in catering, transport, artillery. And so the regular

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<v Speaker 2>I suppose process is the military picks you and where

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<v Speaker 2>you go, whereas the self selection part of the SAS

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<v Speaker 2>is entirely voluntary and you hand yourself over to them completely.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't really have much in the way of hands

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<v Speaker 2>on your own destiny, whereas in the regular army you

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<v Speaker 2>pick a call, you get put in, and then you

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<v Speaker 2>start a career, regular career.

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<v Speaker 1>In that way, it's pretty full on. If you go

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<v Speaker 1>back forty years, which we are to be, for a

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<v Speaker 1>young man to be reading articles about or reading articles

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<v Speaker 1>about war and what's going on in the various territories

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<v Speaker 1>war territories, it's pretty out there, pretty unusual. I would

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<v Speaker 1>have thought back then, for because I don't know anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>I had one mate, Andy Nolan. He became an SS guy.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's the only person I know, And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know how he became one. But he's just weird

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<v Speaker 1>shit though. I can to you, Like when it used

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<v Speaker 1>to rain really heavy down in rose Bay, he used

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<v Speaker 1>to get into the after after having he's also an architect,

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<v Speaker 1>but after having left the sas, he used to get

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<v Speaker 1>in a like a one man canoe and get into

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<v Speaker 1>the canals when the heavy rain.

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<v Speaker 3>Was just to test himself, is that right?

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<v Speaker 1>And go through weird tunnels you think, And like he

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<v Speaker 1>was the most unassuming person in the world that you

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<v Speaker 1>would never think he was a morement architect, but he

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<v Speaker 1>went through the whole process. Yeah, a massive risk taker.

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<v Speaker 1>And just every now and then when it's a heavy rain.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I did see him this is this is

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<v Speaker 1>back in the eighties. He say, I've just been going

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<v Speaker 1>down the canals and lunatic.

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<v Speaker 3>What's wrong with you?

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<v Speaker 2>Like what.

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<v Speaker 1>Is wide sort of like effectively rapids because it's filling

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<v Speaker 1>it with water down rose By and end up out

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<v Speaker 1>in the harbor somehow. But it's I don't know anyone

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<v Speaker 1>who thinks this way. Other than him, and now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>meeting somebody else. What is it that makes you a

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<v Speaker 1>or having such an inquiring mind that you start rooting

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<v Speaker 1>me this sort of stuff and then makes you when

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<v Speaker 1>you mentioned the circus comes to down, you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>sas recruitment comes to town. What was it that made

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<v Speaker 1>you feel as though, yeah, this is for me, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to have a crack at this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've thought about this, and we've studied this in

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<v Speaker 2>fact in the unit. But I resolve my thinking to

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<v Speaker 2>it's an internal competitiveness, as an internal drive, which you

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<v Speaker 2>would be very familiar with. It happens in the business

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<v Speaker 2>what I see it in the business world in sports,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think when the essays in particular, it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>the opportunity to test yourself to see if you have

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<v Speaker 2>what it takes. And you're not impressing anyone at that

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<v Speaker 2>stage because no one really knows about it. It's very

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<v Speaker 2>done in house, very much. But it's that just that

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<v Speaker 2>drive to see you do I have what it takes?

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<v Speaker 2>You know? And the more you read you go you

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<v Speaker 2>think you question yourself, you know, is this would I

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<v Speaker 2>would this suit me? And that kind of in a

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<v Speaker 2>way attracts you even more some of the common characteristics

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<v Speaker 2>that I've observed over time, high tolerance to ambiguity, and

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<v Speaker 2>an appetite for risk taking. But it's generally quite measured.

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<v Speaker 2>They kept within the informed risk informed, and also a

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<v Speaker 2>competence level of risk within your own competence. You have

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<v Speaker 2>a good sound understanding of the scope and limit of

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<v Speaker 2>your scope and limitations.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's not much as so are you saying though

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<v Speaker 1>it's not reckless.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say that, although.

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<v Speaker 1>In other words, it's not like And that's actually quite

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<v Speaker 1>an interesting point because I noticed in the briefing that

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<v Speaker 1>I got that, you know, a lot of the stuff

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<v Speaker 1>you talk about your book is the Fourth Pillar, your

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<v Speaker 1>most recent book, the Fourth Pillar. But one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things I noticed in the description of the book is

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<v Speaker 1>modern Stoicism. So you know, what's interesting to me anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>is that you just mentioned the word reckless. And we'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back to that. And one of the headings of

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<v Speaker 1>your book is Stoicism. And the Stoicism, of course, is

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<v Speaker 1>a you know, thousands of year old virtue, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like going right back to the Stoics, and Aristotle talked

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<v Speaker 1>about stoicism, but you talked about recklessness and then there's

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<v Speaker 1>a an Aristotle himself talked about the difference between courage

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<v Speaker 1>and recklessness is somewhere in between the two, the gold,

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<v Speaker 1>the gold what he called gold mean, it's not in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle, it's somewhere else.

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<v Speaker 3>And for each individual it's different for everybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone might be closer to recklessness, and someone might be

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<v Speaker 1>closest closer to courage. But it's definitely not recklessness. In

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<v Speaker 1>other words, it's not and fearless is different to courage.

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<v Speaker 1>And do they in the when you're training for the sas,

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<v Speaker 1>do they go through this virtue type deal to start

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<v Speaker 1>talking to you about these old school things that our

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<v Speaker 1>old school I don't mean that in a disrespectful way,

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<v Speaker 1>but old school virtues. Do you talk about these things stoicism, recklessness, courage,

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 2>We do now and back then it really was a

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<v Speaker 2>matter of survival. And so if you were tough enough

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<v Speaker 2>to wait it out, to run it out, to just

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<v Speaker 2>persist and in a very pure stoic fashion, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>just to be able to persist and put up with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Stand your ground, stand your ground, don't complain. In fact,

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<v Speaker 2>no one's listening anyway. It's a nail feedback environment, which

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<v Speaker 2>is very, very harsh, and that's what makes something like

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<v Speaker 2>tolerance to ambiguity very such a valuable measuring or measure

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<v Speaker 2>of someone who's suitable.

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<v Speaker 3>For virtue words tolerance.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah and so, yeah, and you do you need to survive.

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<v Speaker 2>But these days I actually go back and teach applied

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<v Speaker 2>ethics to our junior operators, not only for the moral

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<v Speaker 2>challenges that they will face in their careers, you know, physical, mental,

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<v Speaker 2>and moral in service. But back in those days, it

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<v Speaker 2>was how how how hard you could go for how long,

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<v Speaker 2>and what you could tolerate and put up with. So

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<v Speaker 2>there's there's two kind of sides to that coin. My

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<v Speaker 2>generation is the pure stoic, just put up with it

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<v Speaker 2>and keep persisting. These days we have a more virtue

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<v Speaker 2>approach to it, because we realize now that servicing this

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<v Speaker 2>this kind of these kinds of units has a moral

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<v Speaker 2>toll as well, and that gets mixed up with the

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<v Speaker 2>mental health toll that it takes on people, or.

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<v Speaker 1>With the final outcome, you know, like because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want people being all these things and then

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<v Speaker 1>walk out and their and their careers finished, and all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden there are a wreck.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but inside that's correct exactly. And I'm as a

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<v Speaker 2>psychologist now, I spend a fair bit of time in that.

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<v Speaker 2>But I guess at the start of an sas soldier's journey,

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<v Speaker 2>what we want is to give some guidance around what

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<v Speaker 2>is reckless and what is controlled and informed. And I

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<v Speaker 2>think we always want to select people who are probably

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<v Speaker 2>going to lean towards the reckless part because some of

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<v Speaker 2>the nature of the work is such that it's high risk,

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<v Speaker 2>high consequence, catastrophic consequences not only for ourselves but for

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<v Speaker 2>the people around us. So we need people to be

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<v Speaker 2>willing to step into that space without question, without being afraid,

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<v Speaker 2>a feared, or or without hesitation in most cases. So

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<v Speaker 2>we want people who are probably that side of it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think the golden mean of Aristotle, if you will,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a navigable space. What we also want is people

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<v Speaker 2>to come back to a normal setting, a civilian setting,

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<v Speaker 2>and readjust those parameters as well, And that takes a

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<v Speaker 2>certain kind of person. We don't always get right, but

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<v Speaker 2>I think we're pretty bloody good at it.

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<v Speaker 1>So recently Donald Trump announced and Peter X announced that

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<v Speaker 1>they're going to change their Department of defense to the

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<v Speaker 1>Department of War and got all sorts of reactions around

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<v Speaker 1>the world. And initially I thought to myself that might

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<v Speaker 1>be good for recruitment, because recruitment is a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>For we don't have national service, and so recruitment is

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<v Speaker 1>really a big deal important to have recruits. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>saying you the whole country to join the army or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is, whatever the military is, but you definitely

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<v Speaker 1>want you've got to recruit and or retain as well.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe that has a bit of marketing appeal to it.

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<v Speaker 1>But how does that fit into the narrative in a

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<v Speaker 1>modern day, modern day in terms of the types of

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<v Speaker 1>people might attract.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think, yeah, I think it's it can be

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<v Speaker 2>a concern, and particularly in a nation like America where

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<v Speaker 2>they're in a marshall footing your martial kind of culture.

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<v Speaker 2>Australia not so much. I'm not sure it would fly

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<v Speaker 2>well here. I get I get the idea we want

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<v Speaker 2>to be proactive, I guess, and maybe at war rather

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<v Speaker 2>than being defensive and on the back foot. And I

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<v Speaker 2>heard a bit more and I think I've punched out

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<v Speaker 2>a semi poem or something like that to Romance Donald

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't know that it would make a marked

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<v Speaker 2>difference on recruiting. That would be have to play out.

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<v Speaker 2>I think what's important to state is during times of peace,

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<v Speaker 2>recruiting naturally goes down. You know, the boys that turn

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<v Speaker 2>out to want to go on the adventures and go

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<v Speaker 2>to war seem to spike when that's imminent or in

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<v Speaker 2>the in the news. I've had a few people say

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<v Speaker 2>or ask me the question. You know it means Australian

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<v Speaker 2>Defense Force in trouble and recruitings down and all the

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<v Speaker 2>rest of But I'd say, look, you know, it's never

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<v Speaker 2>as bad as it seems, never as good as it seems,

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<v Speaker 2>and we probably need a more moderate conversation about it.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's a lot of money to sustain a standing

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<v Speaker 2>army that's not doing anything and not going anywhere. And

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<v Speaker 2>if the example I give is at the end of

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<v Speaker 2>World War One, a lot of the old guys were

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<v Speaker 2>saying because a lot of men we died in World

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<v Speaker 2>War One, and they were having a shot at the

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<v Speaker 2>next generation coming through, saying they're all soft and weak,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know they need to be trained up, and

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<v Speaker 2>things like scouts and outward bound and you know these

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<v Speaker 2>will will forced and all of these other things were

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<v Speaker 2>invented to make to toughen up the next generation. And

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<v Speaker 2>when the sixteen and eighteen year olds went off to

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<v Speaker 2>Kokoda Track, they did a pretty bloody good job. And

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<v Speaker 2>the young charges I see come into contact with regularly.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Australia's in good stead. I don't think we

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<v Speaker 2>should panic. If we do need to raise an army,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll do so. Capability is still strong. This is the

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<v Speaker 2>time to spend a bit of money on the on

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<v Speaker 2>the hardware. And I think hardware being tech, yeah, tech

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<v Speaker 2>and hardware and some decent chips and things like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>But I think Australia, I think we should just calm

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<v Speaker 2>the farm a little bit. On that. I think Australian

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<v Speaker 2>the essence of the Australian soldiers still here and will

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<v Speaker 2>serve our country well come the time.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you think that essence that you're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>cuts across Australian Australian values?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think? Because is that essence and Australian value.

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<v Speaker 1>And given our immigration and our change in the sort

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<v Speaker 1>of the makeup of our nation, and it's rapidly changing,

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<v Speaker 1>probably faster now than has ever done. As past in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of cultural changes, sense of nationalism, perhaps religious relationships,

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<v Speaker 1>like at one stage pretty much a Christian nation.

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<v Speaker 3>These days we're much more mixed.

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<v Speaker 1>Then there's conflict overseas relative to some of the some

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<v Speaker 1>of the religions relative to other religions, and that's pretty

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<v Speaker 1>obviously we'll be talking about who might be talking.

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<v Speaker 3>About we're thinking about at the moment. Do you think

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<v Speaker 3>these things will.

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<v Speaker 1>Ultimately create a bit of a chasm in our armed

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<v Speaker 1>forces military?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, potentially. I think there's parts of the military which

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<v Speaker 2>have been maybe distracted by what's going out on going

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<v Speaker 2>on out in society. So I give that. But to

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<v Speaker 2>feel and have a strong standing Australian Army, we need

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<v Speaker 2>about one hundred thousand people and I think there's well

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<v Speaker 2>inside that many to service our military. And we'll always

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<v Speaker 2>remember we're a small nation. Our GDP and defense is tiny.

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<v Speaker 2>It's probably the budget of the first Marine Division and

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<v Speaker 2>we're now one of Americas if not biggest aircraft carrier

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<v Speaker 2>and the Marines increasing in numbers. So I think again

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<v Speaker 2>there are challenges, there's no doubt mark from a broader

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<v Speaker 2>society perspective, but I think I would like to see

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<v Speaker 2>the kind of margins and the fringes. Discussions that I

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<v Speaker 2>see in the veteran community go on just kind of

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<v Speaker 2>keep our power to dry. I think we should take

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<v Speaker 2>comfort that we will still be able to raise a

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<v Speaker 2>strong army that's that will do its job.

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<v Speaker 3>So do we need I mean, there's probably more war

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<v Speaker 3>strategy question.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I don't know if I'm oversetting the

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<v Speaker 1>marqu here, but because you're you're on the ground guy.

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<v Speaker 3>You're the guy who.

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<v Speaker 1>Goes and does stuff like it's more tactical than you

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<v Speaker 1>undertake a strategy outcome, but you're going to have to

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<v Speaker 1>make changes.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a strategic tool, a strategy.

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<v Speaker 3>Go in there, but you've got to make changes.

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<v Speaker 1>This didn't more get the way we wanted to work,

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<v Speaker 1>and we've got to do this tactically and then make

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<v Speaker 1>some quick change, a quick thinking.

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<v Speaker 3>And as a group, do you think that we need

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<v Speaker 3>as many.

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<v Speaker 1>Regular soldiers, regular military people as we have done in

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<v Speaker 1>the past, Given I'm not too sa I'm not talking

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<v Speaker 1>about specialized people. I'm talking about regular guys and girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think we need as many these days? Given

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on, giving the giving, given what we see

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<v Speaker 1>in Ukraine, what we're seeing in various other places what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on in the world at the moment as we

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<v Speaker 1>have needed in the past, in other words, drones and

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<v Speaker 1>all those other things.

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<v Speaker 3>Is the World War potentially more technological?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, definitely got technological very quickly back in the US

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<v Speaker 2>Civil War, you know, So that doesn't change. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's expected strategically no matter what conflict we're going to.

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<v Speaker 2>There's probably a good point to make here around the

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<v Speaker 2>type of war that we might be engaged in. The

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<v Speaker 2>wars that we've had recently and arguably since the end

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<v Speaker 2>of World War Two have been wars of choice. Really,

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<v Speaker 2>they haven't been wars that we've been invaded or we've

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<v Speaker 2>chosen to a company America or a coalition or UK

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<v Speaker 2>and they've been choice. They've been largely wars of choice.

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<v Speaker 2>So they have a different a different context and a

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<v Speaker 2>different requirement, especially when we're being asked for certain capabilities

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<v Speaker 2>to travel overseas. And then there's wars like Ukraine, where

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<v Speaker 2>that's not a war of choice for Ukraine, that's a

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<v Speaker 2>war that arrives on one's doorstep and you need to

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<v Speaker 2>do whatever you've got to do. And I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>it's controversial to say that they find themselves in a

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<v Speaker 2>pretty conventional situation and they need warm bodies. It kind

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<v Speaker 2>of comes down to that, Yeah, the technology matters, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's been amazing to watch that, hasn't it That the

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<v Speaker 2>adaptation and the little drone shops underground and whatnot have

0:20:54.400 --> 0:20:58.040
<v Speaker 2>been fascinated by that. That's just human adaptability. But at

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<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, they need warm bodies defending

0:21:00.920 --> 0:21:07.000
<v Speaker 2>a line dug in and it takes you back to well,

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<v Speaker 2>the US Civil War, you know, where they started digging

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<v Speaker 2>in and and that's kind of that was the precursor.

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<v Speaker 1>So it takes me back to Breaking Rand. The first

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<v Speaker 1>thing I think of, remember the Australian movie Breaking Around,

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<v Speaker 1>I do, yeah, And I think that was like in

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<v Speaker 1>the Boer War or something it was, and which is

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<v Speaker 1>like eighteen ninety or somewhere in center anyway, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>very famous movie for those people who haven't watched a

0:21:29.160 --> 0:21:30.720
<v Speaker 1>great movie, one of the great films.

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<v Speaker 3>At Australia.

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<v Speaker 1>Government was actually able to well southtrat Gun was able

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<v Speaker 1>to help one, but they were they were sitting in

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<v Speaker 1>trenches and in those days communication was done by a runner.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right. Now communication might be slightly different, but well,

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<v Speaker 2>interestingly in the Ukraine k phones so it's landline.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, it's like a box with the that's what

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<v Speaker 3>I call it.

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<v Speaker 2>And they're targetable and they're being used because there's electronic

0:22:00.840 --> 0:22:03.000
<v Speaker 2>magnetic pulses and all this type of stuff being used

0:22:03.040 --> 0:22:07.920
<v Speaker 2>blanketing out communications conventional communicator. There's runners are being used still,

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<v Speaker 2>and notes and notes. So in the in the in

0:22:11.400 --> 0:22:15.080
<v Speaker 2>the short in the battle space, the forward edge of

0:22:15.119 --> 0:22:18.399
<v Speaker 2>the battle area, the fever as it was called, in

0:22:18.520 --> 0:22:23.280
<v Speaker 2>those trenches, there's notes and runners being used between pits

0:22:23.320 --> 0:22:27.360
<v Speaker 2>and those types of things. So comm's cord you might

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<v Speaker 2>never have heard of that, but three tugs means safe

0:22:30.280 --> 0:22:33.159
<v Speaker 2>to come and too. So all this these in a

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<v Speaker 2>conventional war that's not of our choosing, you don't get

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<v Speaker 2>to use the full remit of technology and capability because

0:22:42.760 --> 0:22:45.880
<v Speaker 2>there's an enemy that's just the equal of yours.

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<v Speaker 1>Certainly going to make that bing that yeah, you can't make,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't meet that, you can't make any other presumption

0:22:52.400 --> 0:22:54.360
<v Speaker 1>because more likely you could be wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>And the gravity of that is a big deal exactly.

0:22:57.400 --> 0:23:01.119
<v Speaker 2>And so those wars of choice that I've been involved in.

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<v Speaker 3>And so which was have you been where have you

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<v Speaker 3>gone to? So I served in the.

0:23:05.040 --> 0:23:11.080
<v Speaker 2>Big Three team or Afghanistan and Iraq over eleven over

0:23:11.119 --> 0:23:17.080
<v Speaker 2>a period about a dozen deployments and then other missions

0:23:17.240 --> 0:23:19.399
<v Speaker 2>and other activities around them.

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<v Speaker 3>And what was your role?

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<v Speaker 2>So I started off as a six ICEE and then

0:23:24.400 --> 0:23:26.560
<v Speaker 2>end up running what's that? A trooper? So I was

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<v Speaker 2>in a team and I was the shipkicker, the junior

0:23:29.960 --> 0:23:33.080
<v Speaker 2>guy in nineteen ninety one, and then I was in

0:23:33.160 --> 0:23:37.439
<v Speaker 2>the unit until pretty much until twenty seventeen. In twenty fifteen,

0:23:37.640 --> 0:23:40.480
<v Speaker 2>I finished up on the teams as a team commander

0:23:40.560 --> 0:23:43.080
<v Speaker 2>or our bravo, the senior sergeant role in the.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking says correct? So what would your maybe the

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<v Speaker 1>role is probably not the right word. What would your

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<v Speaker 1>function be of your unit? Would be to go and

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<v Speaker 1>do something, catch someone as surveillance what would have been?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all of those things and more so. We were

0:23:59.680 --> 0:24:05.639
<v Speaker 2>special missions unit, so we greet or we address missions

0:24:05.680 --> 0:24:12.080
<v Speaker 2>without precedent. So what's often means that problems and attacks

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<v Speaker 2>on or threats to the national capability and national interests

0:24:16.119 --> 0:24:20.560
<v Speaker 2>of Australia without precedents. You know, whether that's by terrorists,

0:24:20.720 --> 0:24:26.680
<v Speaker 2>whether it's technical humans, war fighting, all of those things.

0:24:26.760 --> 0:24:30.040
<v Speaker 2>So I've worked everything from one up by myself in

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<v Speaker 2>the streets of some shitty a city in the world,

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<v Speaker 2>to what would your mission be with the captive someone

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<v Speaker 2>or to watch them be surveillance or something along those lines,

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<v Speaker 2>to related to information and people, and then everything through

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<v Speaker 2>to working is a thirty man troupe on a more

0:24:53.960 --> 0:25:01.840
<v Speaker 2>conventional direct attack or direct a more direct active jumping

0:25:01.880 --> 0:25:05.240
<v Speaker 2>out of helicopters and blowing things in the essays gets

0:25:05.320 --> 0:25:08.000
<v Speaker 2>a bit confused at times by the imagery we see

0:25:08.320 --> 0:25:11.600
<v Speaker 2>movies and the movies, yeah, and it makes us look

0:25:11.840 --> 0:25:17.680
<v Speaker 2>very one dimensional, but we're not where, We're anywhere anything anytime,

0:25:18.080 --> 0:25:21.480
<v Speaker 2>force and everything that that encapsulates.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have to in the course to become apart

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<v Speaker 1>from be able to prove that you know you can

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<v Speaker 1>you know you're not going to panic when you get

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<v Speaker 1>go under water or whatever those things you see in

0:25:31.560 --> 0:25:35.960
<v Speaker 1>the TV shows, apart from those things. In the learning process,

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<v Speaker 1>do they what skills do they teach you apart from

0:25:38.320 --> 0:25:39.800
<v Speaker 1>how to shoot and all those sort of things, but

0:25:40.440 --> 0:25:45.080
<v Speaker 1>obviously combat whatever, But what other skills they teach, like

0:25:45.280 --> 0:25:48.320
<v Speaker 1>engineering skills or you do a little bit of everything.

0:25:48.200 --> 0:25:52.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a little bit of everything like computer skills, code writing,

0:25:52.760 --> 0:25:59.760
<v Speaker 2>language skills right up to paramedicine, surgery, all the weapons,

0:26:00.040 --> 0:26:02.760
<v Speaker 2>all the things that go bang. We do your high

0:26:02.760 --> 0:26:06.160
<v Speaker 2>altitude parachuting, which is everything. If you can imagine, as

0:26:06.600 --> 0:26:10.120
<v Speaker 2>at its extreme, jumping from an airplane at twenty five

0:26:10.160 --> 0:26:13.240
<v Speaker 2>thousand feet at night wearing five hundred kilos worth a

0:26:13.320 --> 0:26:16.320
<v Speaker 2>kit sounds like a lot. It's a lot, and you're

0:26:16.359 --> 0:26:20.840
<v Speaker 2>jumping on oxygen. So it's a highly technical, highly high

0:26:20.960 --> 0:26:28.879
<v Speaker 2>risk event. To rebreathing underwater, rebreathing diving underwater and submarine release.

0:26:29.560 --> 0:26:32.320
<v Speaker 2>And one thing Australia is really well renowned for is

0:26:32.359 --> 0:26:38.120
<v Speaker 2>our long range vehicle patrols and capability and those three

0:26:38.200 --> 0:26:41.119
<v Speaker 2>things amongst others. There really only means to get to

0:26:41.200 --> 0:26:44.880
<v Speaker 2>the job. The majority of the SAS work is done

0:26:45.119 --> 0:26:50.440
<v Speaker 2>in infill and extraction. The job itself is a whole

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:53.040
<v Speaker 2>other set of skills, and that's whether we take the

0:26:53.200 --> 0:26:58.119
<v Speaker 2>expert and get them there safely, or we bring the

0:26:58.200 --> 0:27:02.280
<v Speaker 2>skills and execute the mission on the ground as required.

0:27:02.400 --> 0:27:06.760
<v Speaker 1>Are you're talking about that that transport vehicle that we've

0:27:07.040 --> 0:27:08.800
<v Speaker 1>come from, the name of it. Now we've sent quite

0:27:08.800 --> 0:27:10.800
<v Speaker 1>a few of them to the Ukraine, I think, oh.

0:27:10.760 --> 0:27:15.159
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, the as labs I think itself either, but

0:27:15.480 --> 0:27:17.480
<v Speaker 2>so we but astraight as good at building those things.

0:27:17.600 --> 0:27:20.280
<v Speaker 3>Is it because of our train H yeah?

0:27:20.320 --> 0:27:22.879
<v Speaker 2>I think so. I think they we We were getting

0:27:23.320 --> 0:27:27.119
<v Speaker 2>I D strikes in Afghanistan regularly and surviving a lot

0:27:27.160 --> 0:27:28.800
<v Speaker 2>of them. So I think there was a I think

0:27:28.840 --> 0:27:31.840
<v Speaker 2>there was a technology that just evolved in a local

0:27:32.200 --> 0:27:35.480
<v Speaker 2>place and that's had a asymmetric kind of impact or

0:27:36.280 --> 0:27:38.920
<v Speaker 2>certainly interest from around the world, and that technology spread.

0:27:38.960 --> 0:27:43.040
<v Speaker 2>It's just v shaped holes, so I guess.

0:27:43.160 --> 0:27:46.520
<v Speaker 3>At the bottom of the Yeah, the transport machine.

0:27:46.200 --> 0:27:48.200
<v Speaker 2>It still goes bang inside. I don't know that. But

0:27:49.119 --> 0:27:51.440
<v Speaker 2>but the vehicles, it's it's survivable.

0:27:51.520 --> 0:27:56.840
<v Speaker 1>Morphs dispersus the vibration impact, the impact. So because you

0:27:57.000 --> 0:27:59.879
<v Speaker 1>experience it yourself, ID is that's right?

0:28:00.240 --> 0:28:04.679
<v Speaker 2>In two thousand I unfortunately it was in two thousand

0:28:04.680 --> 0:28:07.760
<v Speaker 2>and eight drove over an I D which turned out

0:28:08.000 --> 0:28:10.920
<v Speaker 2>what we think was an old Russian anti tank mine

0:28:10.960 --> 0:28:14.520
<v Speaker 2>that was remote detonated, and a colleague of mine was

0:28:14.600 --> 0:28:19.000
<v Speaker 2>killed beside me, and our interpreter lost effectively lost both

0:28:19.040 --> 0:28:22.080
<v Speaker 2>of his legs in the blast. I was very traumatic,

0:28:22.200 --> 0:28:26.000
<v Speaker 2>and you know, it's remarkable to think out of the

0:28:26.160 --> 0:28:29.560
<v Speaker 2>dozens of strikes that we had in Afghanistan on the

0:28:29.640 --> 0:28:34.639
<v Speaker 2>cars that we drove, very few deaths. I think we

0:28:34.960 --> 0:28:37.280
<v Speaker 2>really had. We had two or three, I think it

0:28:37.440 --> 0:28:40.880
<v Speaker 2>was over that time. A lot of injuries, et cetera,

0:28:41.000 --> 0:28:44.320
<v Speaker 2>but high survivability. They went to vehicles we had. We

0:28:44.440 --> 0:28:46.040
<v Speaker 2>had our own set of vehicles.

0:28:46.120 --> 0:28:47.720
<v Speaker 3>And what happened to you? Did any happen to you?

0:28:48.360 --> 0:28:50.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I had fragged through the back of both legs

0:28:50.920 --> 0:28:53.520
<v Speaker 2>and burnt. Actually the force blew a boot off of

0:28:53.600 --> 0:28:56.160
<v Speaker 2>an army bootoff, just to give give you an idea

0:28:56.240 --> 0:28:58.960
<v Speaker 2>of the force, which I don't need much idea, really,

0:28:59.000 --> 0:29:04.200
<v Speaker 2>I guess. And I was actually okay. I had a

0:29:04.240 --> 0:29:06.880
<v Speaker 2>bit of surgery and came back to the troop. But

0:29:08.200 --> 0:29:11.880
<v Speaker 2>I contracted an infection. Most of Afghanistans covered in human

0:29:12.000 --> 0:29:13.960
<v Speaker 2>feces and animal feces.

0:29:13.840 --> 0:29:19.720
<v Speaker 3>Really and yeah, well you know, leveraging systems.

0:29:20.000 --> 0:29:24.440
<v Speaker 2>They haven't had a huge sanitary advance there. But and

0:29:24.520 --> 0:29:26.600
<v Speaker 2>they use a fertilizer actually, be fair to them, they

0:29:26.680 --> 0:29:30.240
<v Speaker 2>use they reuse it for fertilizer. These are pretty humble existences.

0:29:31.840 --> 0:29:34.120
<v Speaker 2>And so I got a staff infection, a goal and

0:29:34.200 --> 0:29:37.320
<v Speaker 2>staff infection that kind of got up into my Yeah,

0:29:37.680 --> 0:29:40.160
<v Speaker 2>it started there and I had to be repatriating in

0:29:40.200 --> 0:29:42.880
<v Speaker 2>the end because it just that my testicles were swollen

0:29:42.960 --> 0:29:45.840
<v Speaker 2>up to the size of a soccer ball and that

0:29:45.960 --> 0:29:50.040
<v Speaker 2>started to get into my thoracic cavity and they were

0:29:50.160 --> 0:29:52.920
<v Speaker 2>they were going to remove my leg, but they got

0:29:52.960 --> 0:29:55.800
<v Speaker 2>into some heavy drugs back in in Perth. I was

0:29:55.840 --> 0:29:59.640
<v Speaker 2>back just in time, thankfully, and over weeks it calm down.

0:30:00.160 --> 0:30:03.600
<v Speaker 1>And would that have been a signal to you maybe

0:30:03.640 --> 0:30:06.120
<v Speaker 1>it's time and how to hanging the boots up a bit?

0:30:06.880 --> 0:30:10.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well I was. I was forty at that age.

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:14.200
<v Speaker 3>Is there a retirement age do they forty?

0:30:14.240 --> 0:30:17.000
<v Speaker 2>Is it? There's two retirement ages. One is around fifty

0:30:17.080 --> 0:30:19.200
<v Speaker 2>five or so, yeah, and the other ones, the more

0:30:19.280 --> 0:30:22.960
<v Speaker 2>realistic one is when the young fellas say, Harry Off,

0:30:24.720 --> 0:30:26.680
<v Speaker 2>you were a bit slow, and a few times towards

0:30:26.800 --> 0:30:28.720
<v Speaker 2>end and my time, the guys did turn around say mate,

0:30:28.720 --> 0:30:29.520
<v Speaker 2>you're looking a bit slow.

0:30:30.120 --> 0:30:30.480
<v Speaker 3>Oh really?

0:30:30.560 --> 0:30:32.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, that's and you do straight up and your

0:30:32.920 --> 0:30:35.560
<v Speaker 2>ego wants not to hear that. But slow in terms

0:30:35.560 --> 0:30:37.480
<v Speaker 2>of keeping up, you mean, yeah, definitely keeping up. You

0:30:37.840 --> 0:30:41.200
<v Speaker 2>remember the backpack on absolutely, yeah, when you're getting gunshots,

0:30:41.240 --> 0:30:44.320
<v Speaker 2>fighter you need everybody up in the line. And I

0:30:44.480 --> 0:30:46.440
<v Speaker 2>never fell off or let anyone down, but there was

0:30:46.600 --> 0:30:48.560
<v Speaker 2>a sense that it was harder than it should have been.

0:30:48.640 --> 0:30:50.440
<v Speaker 3>And is that their job to tell you that.

0:30:50.960 --> 0:30:52.600
<v Speaker 2>I think it's all about jobs to tell each other

0:30:52.680 --> 0:30:55.960
<v Speaker 2>that it's you know the essays. Regiment's a prison yard

0:30:56.040 --> 0:30:59.080
<v Speaker 2>you get to go home from. It's it's brutal, but

0:30:59.240 --> 0:31:01.920
<v Speaker 2>there's a as am in respect. You don't have to

0:31:01.960 --> 0:31:05.040
<v Speaker 2>be everyone's best friend, but you need to respect the

0:31:05.160 --> 0:31:06.920
<v Speaker 2>fact that the bloke next to you has got what

0:31:07.040 --> 0:31:08.800
<v Speaker 2>it takes to look after you and you'll have your

0:31:08.840 --> 0:31:09.560
<v Speaker 2>back when it matters.

0:31:09.640 --> 0:31:10.800
<v Speaker 3>Sounds like a footy team.

0:31:10.880 --> 0:31:13.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a lot like a footy team. I work

0:31:13.040 --> 0:31:18.560
<v Speaker 2>in AFL and NRL teams and it is a familiar environment.

0:31:18.160 --> 0:31:19.640
<v Speaker 1>And you want confidence that the guy next to you

0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:20.920
<v Speaker 1>is not going to leave a gap, or if there

0:31:21.000 --> 0:31:22.160
<v Speaker 1>is a gap, that he's going to close the gap.

0:31:24.040 --> 0:31:25.360
<v Speaker 1>And then he's going to run up the line all

0:31:25.400 --> 0:31:27.760
<v Speaker 1>the time with you, and every time you're up, he's

0:31:27.760 --> 0:31:28.320
<v Speaker 1>going to run up.

0:31:28.480 --> 0:31:31.400
<v Speaker 2>And we want to know too that if you're bleeding

0:31:31.440 --> 0:31:33.160
<v Speaker 2>out in the AO that they're going to do their

0:31:33.240 --> 0:31:35.239
<v Speaker 2>best to get your home as well. You know, that's

0:31:35.280 --> 0:31:36.880
<v Speaker 2>a kind of a commitment that we make to all

0:31:36.920 --> 0:31:39.040
<v Speaker 2>the families when we deploy as well.

0:31:39.320 --> 0:31:43.360
<v Speaker 1>And when you did make this decision to leave, you

0:31:43.480 --> 0:31:48.240
<v Speaker 1>mentioned a couple of times you have psychology qualifications. Did

0:31:48.280 --> 0:31:50.840
<v Speaker 1>you do that during your army period or did you

0:31:51.040 --> 0:31:52.680
<v Speaker 1>decided to go in to psychology after that.

0:31:53.440 --> 0:31:58.680
<v Speaker 2>No. I took some advice of a man I call

0:31:58.760 --> 0:32:02.080
<v Speaker 2>my kind of second far the Gary Kingston. I've mentioned

0:32:02.160 --> 0:32:05.680
<v Speaker 2>him a lot, and in the book he once said

0:32:06.240 --> 0:32:09.680
<v Speaker 2>words the effect of, don't let this place be everything

0:32:09.800 --> 0:32:11.160
<v Speaker 2>you are. You know, it's not all you are.

0:32:11.440 --> 0:32:11.840
<v Speaker 1>You're more.

0:32:12.160 --> 0:32:16.920
<v Speaker 2>And he was a great proponent of educating yourself, whether

0:32:16.960 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 2>that was tertiary or build a carpentry or whatever it was.

0:32:20.200 --> 0:32:22.960
<v Speaker 2>Do something else, be something else. And I took that

0:32:23.080 --> 0:32:26.120
<v Speaker 2>to heart, so I started studying seriously in the last

0:32:26.160 --> 0:32:28.640
<v Speaker 2>ten years I was in the regiment. So often I

0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:33.840
<v Speaker 2>would joke that I'd have a book from a university

0:32:33.920 --> 0:32:36.840
<v Speaker 2>book out on patrol with us and be reading that

0:32:38.000 --> 0:32:39.800
<v Speaker 2>digging a trench while I was having a break. I'd

0:32:39.840 --> 0:32:42.480
<v Speaker 2>be finishing a Uni degree. And it didn't add any

0:32:42.520 --> 0:32:47.000
<v Speaker 2>way to any any effort overseas. It actually gave me

0:32:47.120 --> 0:32:51.160
<v Speaker 2>a distract, helpful, healthy distraction away from planning all the time.

0:32:51.880 --> 0:32:53.920
<v Speaker 2>And it just so happened in twenty nineteen when I

0:32:54.000 --> 0:32:57.840
<v Speaker 2>left the Defense Force full time the weekend or the

0:32:57.880 --> 0:33:00.760
<v Speaker 2>week after I started, I was qualified and registered as

0:33:00.760 --> 0:33:01.760
<v Speaker 2>a psych and I've been.

0:33:02.040 --> 0:33:02.440
<v Speaker 3>So you did that.

0:33:03.120 --> 0:33:05.040
<v Speaker 1>You do that that whilst you were in the military,

0:33:05.160 --> 0:33:09.000
<v Speaker 1>That's right. Last two is online type call I tended.

0:33:09.320 --> 0:33:11.600
<v Speaker 2>Psychology is a seven year degree, the last three of

0:33:11.640 --> 0:33:15.200
<v Speaker 2>which you need to do face to face supervisions and

0:33:15.240 --> 0:33:17.239
<v Speaker 2>all this type of stuff, so like as in an

0:33:17.320 --> 0:33:21.800
<v Speaker 2>intern type thing exactly. Yeah, And so the military gave

0:33:21.880 --> 0:33:24.360
<v Speaker 2>me a part time gig and helped me do that.

0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:26.800
<v Speaker 2>And the military is pretty forgiving like that.

0:33:26.960 --> 0:33:30.040
<v Speaker 3>But the military is great. I mean, the defense forces

0:33:30.120 --> 0:33:30.720
<v Speaker 3>generally are great.

0:33:30.720 --> 0:33:33.560
<v Speaker 2>That way it is now, Yeah, it is support people. Yeah,

0:33:33.560 --> 0:33:34.760
<v Speaker 2>it's much better these days.

0:33:34.760 --> 0:33:35.720
<v Speaker 3>Is my psychology?

0:33:36.680 --> 0:33:38.280
<v Speaker 2>Well it seemed to make a lot of sense to me.

0:33:38.280 --> 0:33:40.920
<v Speaker 2>It was something else I was interested in. I kind

0:33:40.960 --> 0:33:43.280
<v Speaker 2>of dropped out of UNI after year twelve. I didn't

0:33:43.840 --> 0:33:47.040
<v Speaker 2>I was going to UNI, and then I thought, I'll

0:33:47.400 --> 0:33:49.800
<v Speaker 2>join the army now, or do UNI and then join

0:33:49.840 --> 0:33:51.360
<v Speaker 2>the army. That was the kind of conundrum, and I

0:33:51.480 --> 0:33:56.320
<v Speaker 2>ended up doing the latter, doing the former. But yeah,

0:33:56.320 --> 0:33:59.120
<v Speaker 2>it was a little bit underfinished business. I read a

0:33:59.160 --> 0:34:02.520
<v Speaker 2>lot about psycholog Jean philosophy. They were kind of my staples.

0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:05.800
<v Speaker 2>I found them fascinating, love the stories that went behind them.

0:34:06.880 --> 0:34:09.800
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, it was kind of It's just natural for me.

0:34:09.920 --> 0:34:12.239
<v Speaker 2>It wasn't I felt like and it makes very good

0:34:12.400 --> 0:34:16.200
<v Speaker 2>use of my lived experience. Now when I work with

0:34:16.560 --> 0:34:19.759
<v Speaker 2>mission critical teams or sports teams or hedge funds. I

0:34:20.160 --> 0:34:22.040
<v Speaker 2>love working with hedge funds. I think they have a

0:34:22.400 --> 0:34:26.480
<v Speaker 2>semi very similar vibe to them when they're up and

0:34:26.800 --> 0:34:30.239
<v Speaker 2>running a private capital team or a deal team. You know,

0:34:30.280 --> 0:34:32.279
<v Speaker 2>you've got a dozen young men and women who just

0:34:32.320 --> 0:34:34.960
<v Speaker 2>want to shoot the lights out. It's the few that

0:34:35.040 --> 0:34:37.960
<v Speaker 2>I work with. Sometimes they feel like a footy team.

0:34:37.960 --> 0:34:41.680
<v Speaker 2>There's that kind of camaraderie in the trenches fighting. So

0:34:41.800 --> 0:34:45.399
<v Speaker 2>I think that my background psychology pulls it together, gives

0:34:45.440 --> 0:34:48.520
<v Speaker 2>it an evidence base, and allows me to tell stories

0:34:48.600 --> 0:34:54.000
<v Speaker 2>and share hopefully my small w wisdom with those people.

0:34:54.239 --> 0:34:56.840
<v Speaker 1>So when did you write Because your first book, I

0:34:56.880 --> 0:34:59.720
<v Speaker 1>think this is your first book, eleven bats.

0:35:00.320 --> 0:35:02.840
<v Speaker 2>My mates, Tommy, I should have called a bat's eleven

0:35:02.840 --> 0:35:03.920
<v Speaker 2>because I'm a ship bats.

0:35:04.480 --> 0:35:05.959
<v Speaker 3>But what is that about eleven bats?

0:35:05.960 --> 0:35:11.919
<v Speaker 2>What's it's just an autobiography mark of my journey from Williamstown,

0:35:12.200 --> 0:35:16.360
<v Speaker 2>Victoria to back to Victoria really where I ended up

0:35:16.440 --> 0:35:17.680
<v Speaker 2>end up at the end of that book at the

0:35:17.800 --> 0:35:23.080
<v Speaker 2>mcg doing an Anzac Days speech and the eleven bats.

0:35:23.360 --> 0:35:25.359
<v Speaker 2>It was my habit to take a cricket bat every

0:35:26.160 --> 0:35:27.960
<v Speaker 2>operation that we went on, every tour we went on,

0:35:28.280 --> 0:35:29.920
<v Speaker 2>and a ball, I presume, and a ball, yeah, a

0:35:29.920 --> 0:35:32.400
<v Speaker 2>few balls because they get a bit lost Sean balls.

0:35:33.600 --> 0:35:38.680
<v Speaker 2>And we'd play cricket, you know, and we recreate or

0:35:38.719 --> 0:35:41.640
<v Speaker 2>we'd even gather information. We use them to gather intelligence

0:35:41.760 --> 0:35:45.400
<v Speaker 2>and bricket Yeah, yeah, absolutely. So you build rapport with

0:35:45.480 --> 0:35:47.920
<v Speaker 2>the localists playing game of cricket and they become you

0:35:48.280 --> 0:35:51.000
<v Speaker 2>a layer of an extra layer of defense. Or you

0:35:51.080 --> 0:35:53.040
<v Speaker 2>go up to the street urchins who you know, you've

0:35:53.120 --> 0:35:56.120
<v Speaker 2>thrown them a ball or whatever, let them get you out,

0:35:56.960 --> 0:35:59.480
<v Speaker 2>and you might just say who's who's old mate over there?

0:35:59.520 --> 0:36:01.800
<v Speaker 2>Who's he you know? And they'll look after you. They'll

0:36:01.840 --> 0:36:03.640
<v Speaker 2>come to knocking and doing and saying this such and

0:36:03.760 --> 0:36:05.920
<v Speaker 2>such as bad man, he's back in town and that

0:36:06.080 --> 0:36:09.880
<v Speaker 2>type of stuff. When I was looking after Alfredo Ronaldo

0:36:10.040 --> 0:36:13.520
<v Speaker 2>up in the hills of Malbusi in Team or Less

0:36:13.600 --> 0:36:18.600
<v Speaker 2>Day he was the protagonist and the antagonist he had

0:36:18.760 --> 0:36:22.040
<v Speaker 2>the militia up there. He was the most interviewed person

0:36:22.120 --> 0:36:26.320
<v Speaker 2>on the planet at one stage, CNN, ABC, Fox, everybody

0:36:26.440 --> 0:36:28.719
<v Speaker 2>was coming to interview him, and there was a conga line.

0:36:29.560 --> 0:36:31.440
<v Speaker 2>So we set up this game of cricket and we

0:36:31.560 --> 0:36:34.279
<v Speaker 2>needed to note everybody who came into seem because there

0:36:34.280 --> 0:36:37.239
<v Speaker 2>were spies running everywhere from all corners, from Portugal to

0:36:37.480 --> 0:36:41.680
<v Speaker 2>the US, et cetera, Indonesia and Indonesia, lots of them,

0:36:41.880 --> 0:36:45.279
<v Speaker 2>and so we'd play a game of cricket and everyone

0:36:45.440 --> 0:36:48.799
<v Speaker 2>was forced to stop. We got photos, got a bit

0:36:48.840 --> 0:36:54.200
<v Speaker 2>of narrative from them, fingerprints where we thought there was

0:36:54.200 --> 0:36:56.080
<v Speaker 2>a high threat, would just throw throw them a ball

0:36:56.160 --> 0:36:58.080
<v Speaker 2>or give him a glass or something, just all in

0:36:58.160 --> 0:37:01.160
<v Speaker 2>this of the ball it was, yeah, there was, there

0:37:01.239 --> 0:37:02.239
<v Speaker 2>was all that kind of carry on.

0:37:02.320 --> 0:37:05.520
<v Speaker 1>So that was your sort of is your go to

0:37:05.960 --> 0:37:08.400
<v Speaker 1>eleven bats being a cricket side, that's right, eleven men

0:37:09.200 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 1>eleven bats. But you've played around with that because is

0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:16.680
<v Speaker 1>that something that was that you can that was your

0:37:16.719 --> 0:37:20.440
<v Speaker 1>common denominator. I guess from most of your deployments.

0:37:21.239 --> 0:37:23.479
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I came home to cricket, to the apple Cross

0:37:23.520 --> 0:37:25.720
<v Speaker 2>Cricket Club. Who I'm still available for selection?

0:37:25.840 --> 0:37:27.640
<v Speaker 3>There he's calling out.

0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:32.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was a place to come home and be

0:37:33.400 --> 0:37:37.120
<v Speaker 2>moth not Harry, if that makes sense. And my cricket

0:37:37.200 --> 0:37:40.000
<v Speaker 2>mates grew to unders really deeply understand that, and they

0:37:40.040 --> 0:37:42.360
<v Speaker 2>didn't bug me about my military service. I could just

0:37:42.440 --> 0:37:44.520
<v Speaker 2>come home, be one of the blokes, a handy up

0:37:44.600 --> 0:37:48.160
<v Speaker 2>here into the breeze bowler, a normal human being. And

0:37:48.800 --> 0:37:53.320
<v Speaker 2>I speak emotively about it because it played such a

0:37:53.400 --> 0:37:56.440
<v Speaker 2>massive role in normalizing life for me.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, how does that work?

0:37:58.440 --> 0:38:01.279
<v Speaker 1>One minute, you're in Afghanistan and you're trying to work

0:38:01.320 --> 0:38:03.160
<v Speaker 1>out if someone's going to blow you up or do

0:38:03.280 --> 0:38:07.160
<v Speaker 1>something terrible, and you're seeing all sorts of crazy stuff

0:38:08.040 --> 0:38:10.959
<v Speaker 1>and living with individuals who are.

0:38:11.280 --> 0:38:12.479
<v Speaker 3>Same the same milk.

0:38:14.640 --> 0:38:18.640
<v Speaker 1>Then you come back to Victoria and where everybody is

0:38:18.800 --> 0:38:21.919
<v Speaker 1>just like running the local coffee shop and making baking

0:38:21.960 --> 0:38:24.919
<v Speaker 1>and eggs and digging ditches for as a plumb or whatever,

0:38:25.200 --> 0:38:27.879
<v Speaker 1>and your mates from school, I presume, and you create club.

0:38:29.040 --> 0:38:30.839
<v Speaker 3>How does that transition work?

0:38:32.000 --> 0:38:36.360
<v Speaker 2>It's bizarre, it really is. We talk about being away.

0:38:36.680 --> 0:38:39.520
<v Speaker 2>I ended up referring to being away like being at home,

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:42.280
<v Speaker 2>and being at home like being away. That was really

0:38:42.360 --> 0:38:46.480
<v Speaker 2>how it felt. That makes so much sense to me. Yeah,

0:38:46.800 --> 0:38:50.280
<v Speaker 2>we go away to the unordered, extraordinary world where things

0:38:50.320 --> 0:38:52.879
<v Speaker 2>that happened shouldn't happen we wish or wish they didn't.

0:38:52.880 --> 0:38:54.680
<v Speaker 2>Then we come back to this ordinary world. You talk

0:38:54.719 --> 0:38:56.960
<v Speaker 2>about post office, milk bars, and.

0:38:57.040 --> 0:39:00.720
<v Speaker 3>It's all structured the morning, get a coffee.

0:39:00.960 --> 0:39:05.799
<v Speaker 2>Control, Yeah, less unless you feel under control. But yeah,

0:39:05.880 --> 0:39:11.160
<v Speaker 2>so I remember being walking the streets of Afar off country,

0:39:11.840 --> 0:39:14.960
<v Speaker 2>being one of the most dangerous jobs I'd been in

0:39:16.840 --> 0:39:21.880
<v Speaker 2>decades or in years, on a Friday night, and I

0:39:21.960 --> 0:39:24.319
<v Speaker 2>knew I was leaving in the morning. We'd finished up,

0:39:24.360 --> 0:39:27.000
<v Speaker 2>I did the handover, got on the plane and got home.

0:39:27.080 --> 0:39:30.520
<v Speaker 2>And on the Sunday, I was sitting at home the

0:39:30.600 --> 0:39:33.960
<v Speaker 2>family dinner in Australia with the kids and Daniel and

0:39:34.000 --> 0:39:36.600
<v Speaker 2>my wife, and we were having broccoli mash s buds

0:39:36.640 --> 0:39:39.280
<v Speaker 2>and lamb chops. That was my welcome home dinner, always

0:39:39.360 --> 0:39:43.480
<v Speaker 2>my favorite dinner. And the kids are arguing and I

0:39:43.640 --> 0:39:46.719
<v Speaker 2>just caught myself thinking, what the fuck, what's just going on?

0:39:47.280 --> 0:39:49.440
<v Speaker 2>My head's still there because I'm going I wonder if

0:39:49.480 --> 0:39:52.000
<v Speaker 2>John I got to mate in time, and I wonder

0:39:52.040 --> 0:39:54.200
<v Speaker 2>if anyone got hurt on the particular part of the

0:39:54.239 --> 0:39:56.839
<v Speaker 2>mission I knew. And it takes a week or two

0:39:57.040 --> 0:39:59.800
<v Speaker 2>just to stop wanting to is everything okay? Do you

0:39:59.840 --> 0:40:04.440
<v Speaker 2>need hand and dure walking the streets or jumping in out?

0:40:04.480 --> 0:40:08.160
<v Speaker 2>So it's a very very hard transition. But my wife

0:40:08.239 --> 0:40:11.600
<v Speaker 2>worked out very early on that I needed to get

0:40:11.680 --> 0:40:15.200
<v Speaker 2>down to the club pretty quick too. That was it

0:40:15.360 --> 0:40:19.600
<v Speaker 2>was a source of tension earlier now in that period,

0:40:19.719 --> 0:40:25.120
<v Speaker 2>but in my career, our marriage. But it's remarkable how

0:40:26.440 --> 0:40:29.239
<v Speaker 2>well that social setting would buffer those It would bring

0:40:29.320 --> 0:40:33.399
<v Speaker 2>me back to Earth's decompression. Absolutely, it's a perfect word

0:40:33.520 --> 0:40:36.520
<v Speaker 2>for it. Yeah, decompressing. So when I go back and

0:40:36.600 --> 0:40:39.080
<v Speaker 2>mentor young men, now, I talk about your third thing,

0:40:39.280 --> 0:40:42.080
<v Speaker 2>your first things, your family, your second things, your vocation,

0:40:42.239 --> 0:40:46.680
<v Speaker 2>and really they get just wound up together inextricably. But

0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:49.000
<v Speaker 2>you need a third, third thing and that is you.

0:40:49.000 --> 0:40:52.480
<v Speaker 2>You know, buger the family, bugger the vocation. Where can

0:40:52.560 --> 0:40:56.040
<v Speaker 2>I go just to be the real identity inside of me?

0:40:56.120 --> 0:40:58.600
<v Speaker 2>Because in a lot of ways, the sas facade, if

0:40:58.600 --> 0:41:00.600
<v Speaker 2>you're not careful, takes over.

0:41:00.840 --> 0:41:02.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you become that you become.

0:41:02.440 --> 0:41:07.919
<v Speaker 2>That and that's let me sound strange, let me say

0:41:08.160 --> 0:41:10.600
<v Speaker 2>that that's not an identity you want to carry around

0:41:10.640 --> 0:41:12.520
<v Speaker 2>with you forever. That's something you want to be able

0:41:12.520 --> 0:41:14.719
<v Speaker 2>to slip in and out of. And that's an agility

0:41:14.800 --> 0:41:16.840
<v Speaker 2>that we talk about now, which is a discussion that

0:41:16.920 --> 0:41:19.360
<v Speaker 2>we never had, and I think it's a really important discussion.

0:41:19.960 --> 0:41:25.120
<v Speaker 1>That's an interesting point in terms of particularly business people

0:41:25.440 --> 0:41:30.080
<v Speaker 1>or people just people generally when it comes to remaining

0:41:30.160 --> 0:41:34.640
<v Speaker 1>relevant to society. If you see that as an important thing,

0:41:35.640 --> 0:41:38.080
<v Speaker 1>that to some extent means that you can then follow

0:41:38.160 --> 0:41:41.000
<v Speaker 1>how society is changing as opposed to just sticking in

0:41:41.200 --> 0:41:43.960
<v Speaker 1>one spot and just being that person you think you are. Like,

0:41:44.080 --> 0:41:46.320
<v Speaker 1>our brain is interesting, and you're, being a psychologist know

0:41:46.360 --> 0:41:48.200
<v Speaker 1>more about this than me. But our brains a very

0:41:48.239 --> 0:41:51.560
<v Speaker 1>interesting in terms of how we build a story about

0:41:51.560 --> 0:41:54.200
<v Speaker 1>ourselves and everything we do and then ends up becoming

0:41:54.239 --> 0:41:56.520
<v Speaker 1>affirmation of the story you built about ourselves.

0:41:56.960 --> 0:41:57.480
<v Speaker 3>And then.

0:41:59.440 --> 0:42:03.040
<v Speaker 1>And then sometimes we end up just living that life

0:42:03.120 --> 0:42:07.400
<v Speaker 1>and get stuck as opposed to making use the plasticity

0:42:07.440 --> 0:42:09.480
<v Speaker 1>of our brain to think of our life.

0:42:09.520 --> 0:42:12.160
<v Speaker 2>I love the words stuck, by the way, it's the

0:42:12.239 --> 0:42:16.680
<v Speaker 2>perfect word stuck in time, stuck in characters, stuck in family,

0:42:16.800 --> 0:42:20.400
<v Speaker 2>stuck in event, or trauma, whatever, whatever.

0:42:20.200 --> 0:42:23.360
<v Speaker 3>It is, including trauma. It's perfect, including trauma, and a

0:42:23.400 --> 0:42:24.440
<v Speaker 3>lot of people suffer from this.

0:42:25.800 --> 0:42:28.279
<v Speaker 1>But you know, our brain does have plasticity, and which

0:42:28.400 --> 0:42:31.279
<v Speaker 1>basically means I can change things and change the story

0:42:31.320 --> 0:42:33.680
<v Speaker 1>about myself and start affirming the news story about myself.

0:42:34.120 --> 0:42:36.239
<v Speaker 1>And people often say to me, ask me about it.

0:42:36.320 --> 0:42:38.840
<v Speaker 1>How do you stay relevant given changes? Like you know,

0:42:38.960 --> 0:42:41.120
<v Speaker 1>one stage, I worked at a law firm and I

0:42:41.880 --> 0:42:45.319
<v Speaker 1>mortgage business and then I'm broadcasting this type of stuff.

0:42:45.920 --> 0:42:53.200
<v Speaker 1>And how important is the willingness for an individual to

0:42:53.440 --> 0:42:55.920
<v Speaker 1>be able to You've done it to be able to.

0:42:58.600 --> 0:43:01.960
<v Speaker 1>I might use it technical term, use our brain to

0:43:02.200 --> 0:43:05.439
<v Speaker 1>actually stay relevant. Not me being relevant to an audio,

0:43:05.440 --> 0:43:08.040
<v Speaker 1>it's just me being relevant to society. What can I

0:43:08.200 --> 0:43:12.120
<v Speaker 1>contribute to my society? Not everybody, but my society. How

0:43:12.160 --> 0:43:13.600
<v Speaker 1>important is that as a technique?

0:43:15.440 --> 0:43:18.040
<v Speaker 2>I think it's very important. And you've a couple of

0:43:18.120 --> 0:43:22.040
<v Speaker 2>things there. You know, the plasticity of the brain is

0:43:22.480 --> 0:43:26.040
<v Speaker 2>a thing these days. It's labile is another term that's

0:43:26.160 --> 0:43:31.120
<v Speaker 2>used that applies to all aspects of us as humans.

0:43:31.480 --> 0:43:38.560
<v Speaker 2>We're never ever static. We're allostatic. We're navigating the world changing.

0:43:39.040 --> 0:43:41.120
<v Speaker 2>You know, we're not a beat of strings or a

0:43:41.200 --> 0:43:44.400
<v Speaker 2>straight linear line. We're kind of Depending on which philosophy

0:43:44.440 --> 0:43:47.239
<v Speaker 2>you want to talk to process theory with Whitehead would

0:43:47.239 --> 0:43:50.680
<v Speaker 2>talk about we're spiraling through space, changing every second, and

0:43:50.800 --> 0:43:53.520
<v Speaker 2>that's true. You know, we're evolving or adapting as we go,

0:43:54.040 --> 0:43:57.360
<v Speaker 2>which is the other point you raise. You are an adaptable,

0:43:57.480 --> 0:44:01.960
<v Speaker 2>highly adaptable person. Not everybody is. There's a biology behind

0:44:02.000 --> 0:44:07.520
<v Speaker 2>our personality and our psychology, and some people are more

0:44:08.080 --> 0:44:11.640
<v Speaker 2>tolerant to ambiguity. You would be someone like that. Founders.

0:44:11.680 --> 0:44:14.880
<v Speaker 2>I find work a lot with founders and also with

0:44:15.760 --> 0:44:18.799
<v Speaker 2>individuals who started their own family offly high net wealth,

0:44:18.840 --> 0:44:21.560
<v Speaker 2>so who might be a bit stuck in their family

0:44:21.920 --> 0:44:27.080
<v Speaker 2>in the wealth and the intergenerational transfer, etc. But founders

0:44:27.200 --> 0:44:30.320
<v Speaker 2>have a high tolerance to ambiguity and they're under the

0:44:30.400 --> 0:44:34.400
<v Speaker 2>same I think, the same risk profile that they can

0:44:34.440 --> 0:44:38.280
<v Speaker 2>get stuck in this persona that they've created for themselves.

0:44:38.360 --> 0:44:40.120
<v Speaker 2>You know, the King of Collins Street or the King

0:44:40.160 --> 0:44:44.000
<v Speaker 2>of Macquarie and the suit and tie and I say, well,

0:44:44.200 --> 0:44:45.880
<v Speaker 2>when was the last time you went and had a

0:44:45.920 --> 0:44:48.200
<v Speaker 2>Friday night at the footy with your mates? Your schoolmates,

0:44:48.440 --> 0:44:52.960
<v Speaker 2>because most of our schoolmates are still good, close community,

0:44:53.719 --> 0:44:56.920
<v Speaker 2>and it's not surprising to hear them say, oh, months ago,

0:44:57.040 --> 0:44:58.920
<v Speaker 2>or I don't really catch up, or I'm too busy,

0:44:59.120 --> 0:45:02.640
<v Speaker 2>or and Mark, i've sat new again. This is your

0:45:02.920 --> 0:45:05.480
<v Speaker 2>area of expertise. But I've been surprised at how many

0:45:06.480 --> 0:45:09.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I'll make a generalization at sixty sixty

0:45:09.719 --> 0:45:12.480
<v Speaker 2>five year old men who've sold their business for a

0:45:12.560 --> 0:45:15.080
<v Speaker 2>life changing amount of money. To some it's twenty million,

0:45:15.120 --> 0:45:18.640
<v Speaker 2>to some it's two hundred million, and their life around

0:45:18.719 --> 0:45:22.880
<v Speaker 2>them behind the facade is atrophied, their relationships of atrophied,

0:45:23.320 --> 0:45:27.080
<v Speaker 2>their health is atrophied, their social connectivity and all that.

0:45:27.280 --> 0:45:30.680
<v Speaker 2>I can go on. And it's and they feel it.

0:45:31.000 --> 0:45:34.760
<v Speaker 2>They feel there like a sense of loss almost or regrets,

0:45:34.920 --> 0:45:38.400
<v Speaker 2>or they it's not as a happy time as they

0:45:38.800 --> 0:45:41.160
<v Speaker 2>had been imagining. I shouldn't laugh, but it's so I

0:45:41.200 --> 0:45:43.560
<v Speaker 2>don't think it's just as real. It's very real, and

0:45:43.960 --> 0:45:45.880
<v Speaker 2>so I don't think it's necessarily just the remit of

0:45:47.280 --> 0:45:49.440
<v Speaker 2>veterans or sports athletes have the same thing.

0:45:49.920 --> 0:45:50.120
<v Speaker 3>Time.

0:45:50.400 --> 0:45:53.239
<v Speaker 2>For every one hundred athletes, one of them will make

0:45:53.480 --> 0:45:54.440
<v Speaker 2>life changing.

0:45:54.200 --> 0:45:57.120
<v Speaker 3>Money and means or become a TV presenter or a.

0:45:57.160 --> 0:45:59.600
<v Speaker 2>TV presenter exactly. But the other ninety nine who have

0:45:59.640 --> 0:46:03.719
<v Speaker 2>sacrife everything to on the on the journey won't have that.

0:46:03.960 --> 0:46:07.359
<v Speaker 2>So this is what do you say to them? Well,

0:46:07.440 --> 0:46:09.960
<v Speaker 2>you've got the very first thing any human needs to

0:46:10.000 --> 0:46:11.440
<v Speaker 2>do if they want to change is do and they

0:46:11.440 --> 0:46:14.560
<v Speaker 2>have check where you at right now? And let's be realistic,

0:46:14.640 --> 0:46:15.000
<v Speaker 2>But at.

0:46:14.880 --> 0:46:17.160
<v Speaker 3>What point before they get to the retirement point?

0:46:17.400 --> 0:46:21.120
<v Speaker 2>Or well, I can only go off when they first

0:46:21.200 --> 0:46:25.520
<v Speaker 2>come to me if I'm working to them, and I

0:46:25.719 --> 0:46:27.600
<v Speaker 2>do a bit more of that than I would have

0:46:27.640 --> 0:46:34.640
<v Speaker 2>expected these days. But yes, a reality check, a fish slabe,

0:46:34.680 --> 0:46:38.480
<v Speaker 2>wake up, you know, let's let's let's where are we at?

0:46:38.640 --> 0:46:41.239
<v Speaker 2>You know? And there's any any number of means. And

0:46:41.960 --> 0:46:45.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm from the Maslow kind of school of psychology where

0:46:46.040 --> 0:46:49.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm not there to provide solutions, and no psychologists should be.

0:46:50.560 --> 0:46:53.240
<v Speaker 2>We're here to get it out of you. As Plato says,

0:46:53.480 --> 0:46:56.880
<v Speaker 2>all information exists within us. It's just us up to

0:46:57.040 --> 0:46:59.880
<v Speaker 2>us to find it. And so I become the mid

0:47:00.080 --> 0:47:04.000
<v Speaker 2>wife to your birthing, your your understanding of yourself. And

0:47:04.880 --> 0:47:07.640
<v Speaker 2>I think with that facade to sometimes and as our

0:47:07.680 --> 0:47:12.040
<v Speaker 2>lives atrophying, behind it the distance with there's a distance

0:47:12.120 --> 0:47:14.200
<v Speaker 2>with ourselves that we create. And you alluded to that

0:47:14.320 --> 0:47:17.400
<v Speaker 2>earlier about how we look for reassurance that we're on

0:47:17.480 --> 0:47:20.680
<v Speaker 2>the right path. And I think when we the soldiers

0:47:20.719 --> 0:47:25.520
<v Speaker 2>that I see, particularly special forces soldiers, if this is

0:47:25.560 --> 0:47:28.919
<v Speaker 2>all they are, this, this, this character, if they don't

0:47:29.000 --> 0:47:32.080
<v Speaker 2>have this kind of deeper sense of connection to community

0:47:32.280 --> 0:47:36.960
<v Speaker 2>or to to citizenry, as the ancient Greeks might put it,

0:47:38.040 --> 0:47:41.919
<v Speaker 2>then it's it's very hard work to kind of pull

0:47:41.960 --> 0:47:42.319
<v Speaker 2>them back.

0:47:42.560 --> 0:47:47.000
<v Speaker 3>Is it a trade off though, between and I have

0:47:47.120 --> 0:47:48.840
<v Speaker 3>no idea, but is it I'm just wondering.

0:47:48.920 --> 0:47:51.040
<v Speaker 1>Is it a trade of between the effectiveness of a

0:47:51.719 --> 0:47:55.600
<v Speaker 1>particularly a specialized soldier like an s a says person

0:47:58.160 --> 0:48:04.400
<v Speaker 1>and there identification of themselves as being this person. Is

0:48:04.400 --> 0:48:08.440
<v Speaker 1>there a trade off between that being really effective at

0:48:08.480 --> 0:48:11.759
<v Speaker 1>their job but therefore as a result of being less

0:48:11.800 --> 0:48:15.200
<v Speaker 1>effective in terms of looking at the bigger picture for

0:48:15.280 --> 0:48:18.640
<v Speaker 1>when the day they retire, And is there a sort

0:48:18.680 --> 0:48:22.680
<v Speaker 1>of a process where it's when they're first starting, they're

0:48:22.719 --> 0:48:25.080
<v Speaker 1>really effective when they're twenty eight, twenty on, whatever the

0:48:25.120 --> 0:48:27.200
<v Speaker 1>age is when they first kick it off, and as

0:48:27.239 --> 0:48:30.440
<v Speaker 1>they start to reach forty, does the army or does

0:48:30.480 --> 0:48:33.080
<v Speaker 1>the defense forces try and do this for them so

0:48:33.200 --> 0:48:36.040
<v Speaker 1>that they just become more effective as a citizen.

0:48:36.760 --> 0:48:41.319
<v Speaker 2>The way I love it mostly, and we haven't done

0:48:41.360 --> 0:48:44.560
<v Speaker 2>a great job of that with my generation, so I

0:48:44.680 --> 0:48:48.920
<v Speaker 2>probably see more people stuck there. In fact, what you're

0:48:48.920 --> 0:48:51.560
<v Speaker 2>talking about is exactly what the book is about. Oh cool,

0:48:51.640 --> 0:48:56.040
<v Speaker 2>it's about the fourth pillar is the philosophical pillar. The

0:48:56.840 --> 0:48:59.239
<v Speaker 2>other three pillars in any high performance program on the

0:48:59.280 --> 0:49:04.840
<v Speaker 2>planet largely around the three pillars physical, psychological, and social pillars.

0:49:04.920 --> 0:49:08.200
<v Speaker 2>And that's whether they mean to or not. That's and

0:49:08.360 --> 0:49:10.320
<v Speaker 2>so the fourth pillar, I argue in the book is

0:49:10.600 --> 0:49:16.640
<v Speaker 2>a philosophical pillar. To your question, we can do both

0:49:16.880 --> 0:49:19.640
<v Speaker 2>at the same time, and we can learn from the Greeks.

0:49:19.680 --> 0:49:23.400
<v Speaker 2>Here the agogies of the ancient Greeks, whether they be

0:49:23.560 --> 0:49:29.200
<v Speaker 2>the Spartans or going back further pre Socratic Heraclitus times,

0:49:30.360 --> 0:49:35.520
<v Speaker 2>when they grew warriors or soldiers, they went off to

0:49:35.600 --> 0:49:38.520
<v Speaker 2>these agogies and they were schoolhouses to train not only

0:49:38.640 --> 0:49:45.759
<v Speaker 2>military martial skills, but they learned erudition, history, geography, They

0:49:45.880 --> 0:49:50.320
<v Speaker 2>learnt storytelling, dance, poetry and the reasons for dance and poetry,

0:49:50.440 --> 0:49:55.960
<v Speaker 2>and they learned about a respect for life, and how

0:49:56.040 --> 0:49:59.480
<v Speaker 2>to take a life, and the respect for that life,

0:49:59.520 --> 0:50:03.480
<v Speaker 2>and how they're not in competition, they're actually mutually inclusive,

0:50:04.680 --> 0:50:08.880
<v Speaker 2>and they learn about how to be a good citizen

0:50:08.960 --> 0:50:11.920
<v Speaker 2>and what that means. The advantage that they had is

0:50:12.040 --> 0:50:15.160
<v Speaker 2>that the warrior cultures were embedded in the society, because

0:50:15.160 --> 0:50:19.399
<v Speaker 2>these are societies on more footings permanently, aren't they if

0:50:19.440 --> 0:50:22.600
<v Speaker 2>you can imagine the Greek societies, and in some ways

0:50:22.640 --> 0:50:26.040
<v Speaker 2>we still are today. But I think that we can

0:50:26.160 --> 0:50:28.759
<v Speaker 2>learn some lessons, and I try to tease that out

0:50:28.800 --> 0:50:30.520
<v Speaker 2>in the book. What are the lessons that we can learn?

0:50:31.280 --> 0:50:34.520
<v Speaker 2>And as I said earlier, when I sit with young

0:50:34.640 --> 0:50:37.600
<v Speaker 2>soldiers now, I try my hardest to make that point

0:50:37.680 --> 0:50:39.800
<v Speaker 2>to them. You know, one of the first conversations I

0:50:39.880 --> 0:50:43.279
<v Speaker 2>have with a young sas soldier is what your plan

0:50:43.480 --> 0:50:47.680
<v Speaker 2>be That there's a twenty five percent chance you'll be

0:50:47.760 --> 0:50:51.239
<v Speaker 2>dead inside ten years. It's not that dramatic, but there's

0:50:51.239 --> 0:50:55.360
<v Speaker 2>a chance, a really high chance you'll be injured with

0:50:55.480 --> 0:50:58.359
<v Speaker 2>a career ending broken back, leg or whatever the case

0:50:58.440 --> 0:51:02.279
<v Speaker 2>may be, or lose a foot or and I and

0:51:02.520 --> 0:51:04.759
<v Speaker 2>so you've got about a fifty percent chance of being

0:51:04.800 --> 0:51:08.719
<v Speaker 2>here after ten years. So you know, what your plan be.

0:51:08.920 --> 0:51:11.759
<v Speaker 2>The reality is that in this room of twenty five

0:51:11.840 --> 0:51:14.480
<v Speaker 2>of you won't be here in three years time due

0:51:14.520 --> 0:51:18.440
<v Speaker 2>to matters outside of your control, because that the job's

0:51:18.520 --> 0:51:20.840
<v Speaker 2>tough like that, and so it's a bit of again

0:51:20.840 --> 0:51:22.839
<v Speaker 2>a fish slab. This is where you're at. You're back

0:51:22.880 --> 0:51:25.480
<v Speaker 2>to the bottom again. You're coming in and we expect

0:51:25.560 --> 0:51:30.120
<v Speaker 2>you to be elite with guns, languages, and technology. We

0:51:30.239 --> 0:51:35.040
<v Speaker 2>also expect you to be elite at personal administration personal life.

0:51:36.200 --> 0:51:38.960
<v Speaker 2>Being connected to the community doesn't mean you have to

0:51:39.040 --> 0:51:41.040
<v Speaker 2>go and serve on boards or anything like that, but

0:51:41.160 --> 0:51:41.759
<v Speaker 2>it just means you have.

0:51:41.800 --> 0:51:43.360
<v Speaker 3>To have a good sense to a member a cricket.

0:51:44.920 --> 0:51:49.160
<v Speaker 2>I think it's as flippant as it sounds crochet cricket

0:51:49.239 --> 0:51:52.120
<v Speaker 2>or Canasta club. As I say, three, get out and

0:51:52.280 --> 0:51:56.200
<v Speaker 2>get let civilians reflect back to you that this is

0:51:56.239 --> 0:51:59.000
<v Speaker 2>what you're coming you. Eventually we have to return to it.

0:52:00.280 --> 0:52:01.960
<v Speaker 1>And I guess what you've got to teach them as

0:52:01.960 --> 0:52:05.640
<v Speaker 1>an openness to be that person. Yeah, because a lot

0:52:05.640 --> 0:52:07.120
<v Speaker 1>of them probably think, no, I can't be that because

0:52:07.120 --> 0:52:10.399
<v Speaker 1>because that might create weakness in me. In my current job,

0:52:10.880 --> 0:52:13.840
<v Speaker 1>my current role is I cannot have any weakness in

0:52:13.920 --> 0:52:17.799
<v Speaker 1>me whatsoever, because I'm going out there against whoever.

0:52:17.520 --> 0:52:18.239
<v Speaker 3>It needed, the enemy.

0:52:19.880 --> 0:52:21.840
<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, I think you can be

0:52:22.560 --> 0:52:23.840
<v Speaker 1>I'd be interested here what you got to say. I

0:52:23.880 --> 0:52:26.719
<v Speaker 1>think you can be open but not be weak. I

0:52:26.840 --> 0:52:30.200
<v Speaker 1>think actually openness to me is a strength. It makes

0:52:30.200 --> 0:52:32.880
<v Speaker 1>you strongsolutely. Yeah, it makes you more of a whole.

0:52:32.760 --> 0:52:34.560
<v Speaker 3>Person, which means you're probably stronger.

0:52:34.680 --> 0:52:37.440
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, And you want to combine the king and the philosopher.

0:52:37.920 --> 0:52:42.120
<v Speaker 2>You know that the wisdom is embodied in the courage,

0:52:42.280 --> 0:52:48.040
<v Speaker 2>in the ability to be able to switch from compassionate

0:52:48.360 --> 0:52:52.799
<v Speaker 2>father and lover at home to a warrior who can

0:52:52.840 --> 0:52:58.120
<v Speaker 2>be brutal and deliver violence when required. I hope I'm

0:52:59.040 --> 0:53:01.640
<v Speaker 2>a kind of living of that. And the majority of

0:53:01.800 --> 0:53:04.480
<v Speaker 2>sas soldiers that I've served with, I would say embody

0:53:04.960 --> 0:53:10.759
<v Speaker 2>that they're compassionate, good men who are also able to

0:53:11.120 --> 0:53:15.880
<v Speaker 2>do things that they're asked to do in the interests

0:53:15.920 --> 0:53:17.680
<v Speaker 2>of the national national security.

0:53:17.760 --> 0:53:21.520
<v Speaker 3>And so today the sorts of things you do, I

0:53:23.000 --> 0:53:25.920
<v Speaker 3>presume hopefully this is the case you are doing. You

0:53:26.000 --> 0:53:27.839
<v Speaker 3>go and do talks and this sort of stuff. People

0:53:27.880 --> 0:53:29.840
<v Speaker 3>can book you to do a lot of speech, but

0:53:29.960 --> 0:53:30.160
<v Speaker 3>like a.

0:53:30.200 --> 0:53:35.920
<v Speaker 2>Talk to a group, yeah, yeah, do yeah, lecturing. I

0:53:36.000 --> 0:53:38.239
<v Speaker 2>don't do a heap of keynote speaking, but I do

0:53:38.360 --> 0:53:41.520
<v Speaker 2>a bit here and there. For corporates are pretty happy

0:53:41.560 --> 0:53:44.320
<v Speaker 2>to hear or keen to hear the stories. But I

0:53:44.400 --> 0:53:46.960
<v Speaker 2>do spend a lot of time with young soldiers. One

0:53:47.000 --> 0:53:49.720
<v Speaker 2>thing I'd like to do is set up a program

0:53:49.840 --> 0:53:54.520
<v Speaker 2>and an institute where soldiers from all across the journey

0:53:54.600 --> 0:53:58.960
<v Speaker 2>from civilian to elder, without going into it too deeply,

0:54:00.080 --> 0:54:03.759
<v Speaker 2>can come and discuss and share stories. And I think

0:54:03.800 --> 0:54:06.480
<v Speaker 2>that's something that's missing. There's an old there's an old

0:54:06.560 --> 0:54:12.000
<v Speaker 2>kind of proverb. I'll be very quick with the soldiers.

0:54:12.120 --> 0:54:15.360
<v Speaker 2>Once would go away to war, they'd be away for

0:54:15.400 --> 0:54:18.120
<v Speaker 2>a long time. It's along the lines of Homers return

0:54:18.239 --> 0:54:21.240
<v Speaker 2>to Ithacus, you know, distances the Odyssey.

0:54:22.200 --> 0:54:23.000
<v Speaker 3>But the.

0:54:24.600 --> 0:54:28.160
<v Speaker 2>Warriors would you know, at sixteen, they'd be trained up,

0:54:28.480 --> 0:54:30.279
<v Speaker 2>they'd go off to war, and then I come home

0:54:30.320 --> 0:54:32.680
<v Speaker 2>and the young warriors wouldn't come straight home. They'd be

0:54:32.760 --> 0:54:35.160
<v Speaker 2>left on the edge of the village and they would

0:54:35.320 --> 0:54:39.520
<v Speaker 2>be left there to process the events, to celebrate the

0:54:39.600 --> 0:54:44.239
<v Speaker 2>successes and commemorate the losses, to share stories about what

0:54:44.360 --> 0:54:47.000
<v Speaker 2>they'd been through, and the village would come out to them,

0:54:47.680 --> 0:54:50.600
<v Speaker 2>share food, and say when you're ready, we're here for you,

0:54:51.120 --> 0:54:53.359
<v Speaker 2>and the elders and the spiritual leaders would come out

0:54:53.880 --> 0:54:57.080
<v Speaker 2>and help them process and sit and listen to them,

0:54:57.160 --> 0:54:59.520
<v Speaker 2>and then when they are ready they would come home

0:54:59.560 --> 0:55:03.080
<v Speaker 2>and kind of decompression. This sense of decompressing and processing

0:55:03.160 --> 0:55:06.080
<v Speaker 2>the experiences and I think in the modern world when

0:55:06.080 --> 0:55:08.680
<v Speaker 2>it's such a bloody rush and this is not only

0:55:08.760 --> 0:55:12.480
<v Speaker 2>for veterans, this is for our police, our emergency services.

0:55:13.920 --> 0:55:16.080
<v Speaker 2>They live in the extraordinary world and it's something that

0:55:16.160 --> 0:55:18.880
<v Speaker 2>we don't do well to bring transition them back to

0:55:19.400 --> 0:55:23.360
<v Speaker 2>the ordinary world, which for anyone listening in the in

0:55:23.400 --> 0:55:26.360
<v Speaker 2>the mission critical teams, it's a wonderful world. Back in

0:55:26.440 --> 0:55:29.400
<v Speaker 2>civilian world, there's a great place to be and I

0:55:29.440 --> 0:55:31.640
<v Speaker 2>think I'd like that's something I'll be looking at in

0:55:31.680 --> 0:55:33.319
<v Speaker 2>the future. Well, we're not in the future. We're doing

0:55:33.440 --> 0:55:38.000
<v Speaker 2>now to help to share those stories and I'm not

0:55:38.040 --> 0:55:40.400
<v Speaker 2>sure what it looks like yet, but at the moment,

0:55:40.440 --> 0:55:43.520
<v Speaker 2>it's a fireside chats and those discussions that you alluded to.

0:55:43.880 --> 0:55:49.080
<v Speaker 1>And your two show says Stone, just explain what that is.

0:55:49.160 --> 0:55:50.840
<v Speaker 1>That's obviously your business name, but what is it.

0:55:51.000 --> 0:55:53.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Percy Sritie, who's one of the themes or one

0:55:53.400 --> 0:55:57.040
<v Speaker 2>of the characters in the book. The Greatest, I think

0:55:57.080 --> 0:56:02.600
<v Speaker 2>the greatest coach of all time owned a dozen world

0:56:02.719 --> 0:56:05.920
<v Speaker 2>champions and gold medals and world championships out of a

0:56:06.000 --> 0:56:09.640
<v Speaker 2>tin shack in Portsy. He was a prolific writer and reader.

0:56:10.640 --> 0:56:14.399
<v Speaker 2>And he had a philosophy called the Stoton philosophy, which

0:56:14.520 --> 0:56:18.040
<v Speaker 2>is a portmanteau or a blended word from Stoic, sto

0:56:18.600 --> 0:56:21.560
<v Speaker 2>and Spartan, and that's the st that the ta n

0:56:22.239 --> 0:56:24.320
<v Speaker 2>and he put those words together. He believed the Stoic

0:56:24.880 --> 0:56:29.000
<v Speaker 2>philosophy was good, but it was found wanton in terms

0:56:29.080 --> 0:56:34.120
<v Speaker 2>of an embodied philosophy. So the physical training aspects, he

0:56:35.120 --> 0:56:39.520
<v Speaker 2>thought Spartan, the Spartan a go Gey approaches was the

0:56:39.640 --> 0:56:42.680
<v Speaker 2>missing piece to Stoicism to make it complete for an athlete,

0:56:43.640 --> 0:56:47.160
<v Speaker 2>which he believed was the purest and the highest order

0:56:47.239 --> 0:56:50.400
<v Speaker 2>of humanity. And that's what I borrow that from my

0:56:50.480 --> 0:56:51.160
<v Speaker 2>business name.

0:56:51.800 --> 0:56:53.080
<v Speaker 3>And that's something obviously believe.

0:56:53.080 --> 0:56:56.520
<v Speaker 1>It's funny you're just talking about a month ago about

0:56:57.280 --> 0:57:00.920
<v Speaker 1>like a decompression process of putting pa outside the village

0:57:01.360 --> 0:57:04.080
<v Speaker 1>and the village coming to them and letting people just

0:57:04.120 --> 0:57:06.479
<v Speaker 1>sort of stay outside the village before until they're ready

0:57:06.480 --> 0:57:11.000
<v Speaker 1>to come in. And you mentioned Odysseus or the Odyssey, Well,

0:57:11.080 --> 0:57:14.080
<v Speaker 1>Homer's story allegedly it was Homer, who we don't know

0:57:14.120 --> 0:57:16.160
<v Speaker 1>actually who wrote it. Let's say it was Homer. And

0:57:17.280 --> 0:57:22.800
<v Speaker 1>it seems like that whole Odyssey was for Odysseus was

0:57:22.880 --> 0:57:25.840
<v Speaker 1>a decompression process for him to get back into society

0:57:26.200 --> 0:57:30.440
<v Speaker 1>back in Ithaca, because he just finished the Trojan more,

0:57:30.520 --> 0:57:33.680
<v Speaker 1>he just came out of the Trojan War and and

0:57:34.760 --> 0:57:39.560
<v Speaker 1>and between wherever Troy was and getting back to Ithaca,

0:57:39.640 --> 0:57:42.440
<v Speaker 1>which is on the other side of Grease on the

0:57:43.040 --> 0:57:43.560
<v Speaker 1>western side.

0:57:43.560 --> 0:57:46.560
<v Speaker 3>Agrees, he had to go through a whole lot of adventures.

0:57:46.880 --> 0:57:47.320
<v Speaker 2>That's right.

0:57:47.520 --> 0:57:50.439
<v Speaker 3>And maybe do you do you have you ever thought

0:57:50.480 --> 0:57:50.840
<v Speaker 3>about this?

0:57:51.040 --> 0:57:53.880
<v Speaker 1>Maybe Homer was writing a story about decompression and getting

0:57:53.920 --> 0:57:54.720
<v Speaker 1>back into society.

0:57:55.000 --> 0:57:59.080
<v Speaker 2>I hope so, because that's that's the model. Yeah, well

0:58:00.040 --> 0:58:03.840
<v Speaker 2>lutely do. And and you know the monsters, the cyclops

0:58:03.960 --> 0:58:09.080
<v Speaker 2>and the sirens and all the temptations. The temptations are

0:58:09.160 --> 0:58:13.080
<v Speaker 2>all the monsters of from within, you know, yeah, very

0:58:13.160 --> 0:58:16.920
<v Speaker 2>Freudian kind of of So these are the monsters and

0:58:17.000 --> 0:58:19.040
<v Speaker 2>the demons that he wrestles with to get home to

0:58:19.160 --> 0:58:23.880
<v Speaker 2>his beloveds and back to being back to citizenry. And yes,

0:58:23.960 --> 0:58:27.680
<v Speaker 2>I do, and I think that it's funny that it's

0:58:27.760 --> 0:58:32.120
<v Speaker 2>not funny, it's it's it's curious that in other indigenous

0:58:32.200 --> 0:58:35.360
<v Speaker 2>cultures they have similar stories about the warriors coming home

0:58:35.440 --> 0:58:38.600
<v Speaker 2>and how they will depro There's a theory about World

0:58:38.600 --> 0:58:43.920
<v Speaker 2>War One, which I think is very rubbery, that the

0:58:44.120 --> 0:58:46.720
<v Speaker 2>ship trips home, that the trips home in the ships

0:58:47.760 --> 0:58:52.120
<v Speaker 2>helped some veterans or some of the soldiers to prolong

0:58:52.560 --> 0:58:56.320
<v Speaker 2>the long, long trips. I don't think the research backs

0:58:56.360 --> 0:58:58.240
<v Speaker 2>that up, but it's again, I think it would have

0:58:58.280 --> 0:59:01.320
<v Speaker 2>been helpful for some. And I'm not even sure that

0:59:02.800 --> 0:59:07.680
<v Speaker 2>making room to process can can completely address anything. There's

0:59:08.680 --> 0:59:12.640
<v Speaker 2>the bruised apples theory that you know, we you roll

0:59:12.720 --> 0:59:15.480
<v Speaker 2>them down the stairs enough stairs and the bruises don't

0:59:15.520 --> 0:59:21.560
<v Speaker 2>kind of heal. But I know another model I use

0:59:21.680 --> 0:59:24.320
<v Speaker 2>is the oak table. You know, a veteran is like

0:59:24.560 --> 0:59:27.440
<v Speaker 2>a beautiful, old, hundreds of years old oak table. You're

0:59:27.440 --> 0:59:29.280
<v Speaker 2>going to take that over the ike every day of

0:59:29.320 --> 0:59:32.120
<v Speaker 2>the week. It's battered and bruised and being burned on

0:59:32.200 --> 0:59:34.920
<v Speaker 2>the corners and chipped. And Grandpa act I saw a

0:59:35.000 --> 0:59:36.680
<v Speaker 2>bit off and add a new Bit's got lots of

0:59:36.720 --> 0:59:40.240
<v Speaker 2>stories and lots of stories in Providence exactly exactly, and

0:59:40.360 --> 0:59:43.360
<v Speaker 2>it's that patina that we all carry that we should

0:59:43.360 --> 0:59:49.080
<v Speaker 2>be we should be really be embracing and the metaphor

0:59:49.360 --> 0:59:52.480
<v Speaker 2>of the village or the metaphor of Homer for veterans,

0:59:52.560 --> 0:59:54.920
<v Speaker 2>that that's kind of the staple to my stories. And

0:59:55.400 --> 0:59:59.400
<v Speaker 2>as I said, it's not only I've realized now that

0:59:59.520 --> 1:00:02.120
<v Speaker 2>it's not not only the mission critical teams, police, emergency

1:00:02.200 --> 1:00:06.120
<v Speaker 2>services and first responders, but it's also athletes. I think

1:00:06.160 --> 1:00:09.800
<v Speaker 2>it's a useful conversation and also think it's a useful

1:00:09.840 --> 1:00:14.400
<v Speaker 2>conversation for burnt out private credit team. I got a

1:00:14.600 --> 1:00:16.200
<v Speaker 2>number of forty year olds I'm working with at the

1:00:16.240 --> 1:00:18.000
<v Speaker 2>moment that I'm saying, are you sure this is the

1:00:18.080 --> 1:00:20.160
<v Speaker 2>right job for you? You know, you've you've shot the

1:00:20.280 --> 1:00:23.720
<v Speaker 2>lights out, but it's taken a toll, you know, and

1:00:23.800 --> 1:00:26.360
<v Speaker 2>you've got to stop and assess that at some stone.

1:00:26.400 --> 1:00:28.040
<v Speaker 1>I know one forty plus year rold that you do

1:00:28.160 --> 1:00:32.680
<v Speaker 1>look after and he's a mate. You need it say

1:00:32.760 --> 1:00:33.880
<v Speaker 1>his name, but he has that name.

1:00:34.000 --> 1:00:34.160
<v Speaker 3>Chair.

1:00:34.880 --> 1:00:38.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you need more of Harry. And by the way,

1:00:38.640 --> 1:00:40.440
<v Speaker 1>you're lucky you've got Harry. Harry, thanks very much. I

1:00:40.520 --> 1:00:41.160
<v Speaker 1>really appreciate it.

1:00:41.160 --> 1:00:43.840
<v Speaker 3>And this is the fourth pillar. This sort of reading

1:00:44.640 --> 1:00:46.080
<v Speaker 3>is not what generally.

1:00:45.800 --> 1:00:50.560
<v Speaker 1>I would expect to get from a veteran an XSAS person,

1:00:51.560 --> 1:00:55.000
<v Speaker 1>but the wisdom and from what we're just discussing because

1:00:55.000 --> 1:00:56.680
<v Speaker 1>I haven't read the book yet, but the wisdom and

1:00:57.160 --> 1:01:01.480
<v Speaker 1>the whole discussion around how we look at our lives,

1:01:02.080 --> 1:01:05.000
<v Speaker 1>not as a veteran but as anyone who's retiring from anything.

1:01:06.120 --> 1:01:08.520
<v Speaker 1>That's really important because I've been through that process myself,

1:01:09.720 --> 1:01:13.960
<v Speaker 1>wondering we'll hang on a minute. I used to identify

1:01:14.000 --> 1:01:16.040
<v Speaker 1>myself with a certain as a certain type of person,

1:01:16.680 --> 1:01:18.840
<v Speaker 1>and I actually got quite ill for about three months,

1:01:19.360 --> 1:01:23.080
<v Speaker 1>very sick and because because it was a full stop

1:01:23.160 --> 1:01:28.920
<v Speaker 1>put in my career voluntarily, but I didn't realize how

1:01:29.040 --> 1:01:32.360
<v Speaker 1>much I was thought I was that person, and it

1:01:32.440 --> 1:01:36.000
<v Speaker 1>took me years to work it out. I'm lucky I'm

1:01:36.040 --> 1:01:37.920
<v Speaker 1>much older now, but it took me a long time

1:01:37.920 --> 1:01:40.280
<v Speaker 1>to work that stuff out. And I was one of

1:01:40.280 --> 1:01:42.040
<v Speaker 1>the lucky ones because I had good support around me,

1:01:42.080 --> 1:01:45.640
<v Speaker 1>et cetera. But I recommend someone read these things, and

1:01:45.760 --> 1:01:48.600
<v Speaker 1>if you're a partner of somebody who's in the same category.

1:01:49.280 --> 1:01:50.840
<v Speaker 3>This is a great type of insight. This type of

1:01:50.880 --> 1:01:52.720
<v Speaker 3>insight is what we need to read. So thanks very much.

1:01:53.000 --> 1:01:54.520
<v Speaker 2>Appreciate you, Mark, I appreciate it. Thank you.

1:01:54.600 --> 1:01:55.040
<v Speaker 3>You're welcome.