1 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: Anthony Moffatt or Harry as you've been known as Welcer 2 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: to Straight Talk mate. 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 2: Thank you Mark. Yeah, so pleasure to be here. So I. 4 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: Like, I always want to know how someone's name goes 5 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: from Anthony to Harry and your name, of course it Moffatt, 6 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,319 Speaker 1: But like, tell me how that occurred? How did you 7 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 1: get that nickname? 8 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, so Harry came from an old Rodney Rude character. 9 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 2: Harry Muff was his name, and a lot of people 10 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:33,599 Speaker 2: called me mof so it was Harry moff in the end, 11 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 2: and I don't think there was much of a likeness. 12 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 2: Wasn't that funny? 13 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 1: But who named you? 14 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: Bloke by the name of Ken Studeley on our essays 15 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 2: selection course he made up a poem and a rhyme 16 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 2: about everyone. He's one of the funniest guys who you'll meet. 17 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 2: And yeah, he was one that gave me the night 18 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 2: the name in the part and stuck. It stuck. Yeah, 19 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 2: Well you resist these names and they stick hard. 20 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: I don't they totally. So that would have been in 21 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: like the eighties, nineteen ninety ninety nine. Yeah, yeah, because 22 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: I remember Rodney was he had a Radis show on 23 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 1: TV show. I also remember Kerry closing his TV one 24 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 1: of his programs now actually mid program because carriage isn't 25 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: like the way he went on. But he was a 26 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: funny barsad I remember him. And so you're in the 27 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: mid nineties. You were let's call it trying out whatever 28 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 1: the word is for essays. 29 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, attempting essays selection, and it hasn't changed a great 30 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 2: deal as anywhere between five hundred and one thousand applicants, 31 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 2: they pick one hundred and fifty odd and you go 32 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 2: to Perth and out of that we generally get twenty. 33 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 2: I still return to the unit today to mentor the 34 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:44,960 Speaker 2: new charges coming through, and the numbers haven't changed over time, 35 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 2: which is good. 36 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: So let's say that's in the nineties. He obviously weren't 37 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 1: born in nineteen eighty because you would have been too 38 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: young to be doing this. Were you in the military. 39 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: What's that process? Joining the military then trying for essas? 40 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 1: Were just decided one day at midday I saw the 41 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: SAS TV shows series on Channel seven or Channel nine 42 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 1: where it is, and I decided want to become an 43 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: essays soldier. I mean, how does that work? I mean 44 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: you become how do you become? Well, how do you 45 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 1: get the instinct and the ambition to join the ESAs. 46 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a spark for me. I was going 47 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 2: to be running out of full Ford for Hawthorne football 48 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 2: team up until I was twelve years old. That was 49 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 2: my dream, or open the opening the batting for Australia. 50 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 2: But I saw the images you may remember Princess Gate, 51 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 2: the Iranian embassy siege in the UK and nineteen eighty 52 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 2: and that flickered across a grainy black and white television 53 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: set and it just captured my imagination. And I read 54 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 2: a bit in those days. I was reading from an 55 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 2: early age, and I started reading some books about counter 56 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 2: terrorism and anti terrorism. These are that was the golden 57 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 2: era in the eighties, you know, the aircraft hijackings and 58 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 2: et cetera. So it was in the geist, if you like. 59 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: It was in the background, and I just thought, whatever 60 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 2: they're doing looks awesome and sexy, and they're all dressed 61 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 2: in black. And the more I dug, the more I 62 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 2: was intrigued and the more I wanted to do it. 63 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 2: So I joined that the Army in nineteen eighty six 64 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 2: as a regular and when the SAS circus came to 65 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 2: town and beat the drums. I signed up and went 66 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 2: through started a selection process, pre selection into that one 67 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 2: hundred and fifty proper selection, and then you go into 68 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 2: a eighteen month odd reinforcement cycle, which is still part 69 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 2: of the selection. So it's probably all in a two 70 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 2: year process once you're in the system. 71 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind just talking about it because I've always 72 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: been fascinated with the process of being selected. And I 73 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: guess you're also self selecting too, because correct you might 74 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: decide I'm going to drop that as well. It's not 75 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: just somebody saying you're the dude. You might say I'm 76 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 1: not the dude. I want to go back to that 77 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: in a second. 78 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 2: But self selection is a really important part to grew insight. 79 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: I can imagine because it happens in business too, and 80 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: people think they're going to be an entrepreneur, but ultimately 81 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: you self select yourself and or the market will tell 82 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: you whether you can do it or not. But some 83 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: people fail to self select out when they should, when 84 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 1: they should be getting out. And it's not there's nothing 85 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 1: wrong with selecting to get out of these things. Self 86 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: selecting out, that's just what your instincts telling you. After 87 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: you've gone through the process. It's not instinct. With our process. 88 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: Process informs your instinct at the end of the day. 89 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 1: But we'll come back to that in a second. Because 90 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 1: it seems like you have a view on it, a 91 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: strong view on it. But you were a like use, 92 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 1: I think you said, regular soldier, Yeah, what does that mean? 93 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: So you just join the ADF you going to any 94 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 2: number of cores infantry. I went into signals core. You 95 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 2: can be in catering, transport, artillery. And so the regular 96 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 2: I suppose process is the military picks you and where 97 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 2: you go, whereas the self selection part of the SAS 98 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 2: is entirely voluntary and you hand yourself over to them completely. 99 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,799 Speaker 2: You don't really have much in the way of hands 100 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 2: on your own destiny, whereas in the regular army you 101 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 2: pick a call, you get put in, and then you 102 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 2: start a career, regular career. 103 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: In that way, it's pretty full on. If you go 104 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:29,359 Speaker 1: back forty years, which we are to be, for a 105 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: young man to be reading articles about or reading articles 106 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 1: about war and what's going on in the various territories 107 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 1: war territories, it's pretty out there, pretty unusual. I would 108 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: have thought back then, for because I don't know anybody. 109 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:51,719 Speaker 1: I had one mate, Andy Nolan. He became an SS guy. 110 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: But that's the only person I know, And I don't 111 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: even know how he became one. But he's just weird 112 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 1: shit though. I can to you, Like when it used 113 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 1: to rain really heavy down in rose Bay, he used 114 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:07,040 Speaker 1: to get into the after after having he's also an architect, 115 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 1: but after having left the sas, he used to get 116 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:14,239 Speaker 1: in a like a one man canoe and get into 117 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 1: the canals when the heavy rain was just to test himself, 118 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: is that right? And go through weird tunnels you think, 119 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: And like he was the most unassuming person in the 120 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 1: world that you would never think he was a morement architect, 121 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: but he went through the whole process. Yeah, a massive 122 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: risk taker. And just every now and then when it's 123 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 1: a heavy rain. You know, I did see him this 124 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: is this is back in the eighties. He say, I've 125 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: just been going down the canals and lunatic. What's wrong 126 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: with you? 127 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 2: Like what. 128 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: Is wide sort of like effectively rapids because it's filling 129 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 1: it with water down rose By and end up out 130 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 1: in the harbor somehow. But it's I don't know anyone 131 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:53,840 Speaker 1: who thinks this way. Other than him, and now I'm 132 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 1: meeting somebody else. What is it that makes you a 133 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 1: or having such an inquiring mind that you start rooting 134 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 1: me this sort of stuff and then makes you when 135 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: you mentioned the circus comes to down, you know, the 136 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: sas recruitment comes to town. What was it that made 137 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 1: you feel as though, yeah, this is for me, I'm 138 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 1: going to have a crack at this. 139 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've thought about this, and we've studied this in 140 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 2: fact in the unit. But I resolve my thinking to 141 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 2: it's an internal competitiveness, as an internal drive, which you 142 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 2: would be very familiar with. It happens in the business 143 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 2: what I see it in the business world in sports, 144 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 2: and I think when the essays in particular, it's it's 145 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 2: the opportunity to test yourself to see if you have 146 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 2: what it takes. And you're not impressing anyone at that 147 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 2: stage because no one really knows about it. It's very 148 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 2: done in house, very much. But it's that just that 149 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 2: drive to see you do I have what it takes? 150 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 2: You know? And the more you read you go you 151 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 2: think you question yourself, you know, is this would I 152 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 2: would this suit me? And that kind of in a 153 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 2: way attracts you even more some of the common characteristics 154 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 2: that I've observed over time, high tolerance to ambiguity, and 155 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 2: an appetite for risk taking. But it's generally quite measured. 156 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 2: They kept within the informed risk informed, and also a 157 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 2: competence level of risk within your own competence. You have 158 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 2: a good sound understanding of the scope and limit of 159 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 2: your scope and limitations. 160 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: So it's not much as so are you saying though 161 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: it's not reckless. 162 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 2: I would say that, although. 163 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 1: In other words, it's not like And that's actually quite 164 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 1: an interesting point because I noticed in the briefing that 165 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:39,959 Speaker 1: I got that, you know, a lot of the stuff 166 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: you talk about your book is the Fourth Pillar, your 167 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: most recent book, the Fourth Pillar. But one of the 168 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: things I noticed in the description of the book is 169 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:51,679 Speaker 1: modern Stoicism. So you know, what's interesting to me anyway, 170 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: is that you just mentioned the word reckless. And we'll 171 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:57,319 Speaker 1: come back to that. And one of the headings of 172 00:08:57,360 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 1: your book is Stoicism. And the Stoicism, of course, is 173 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 1: a you know, thousands of year old virtue, you know, 174 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: like going right back to the Stoics, and Aristotle talked 175 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 1: about stoicism, but you talked about recklessness and then there's 176 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 1: a an Aristotle himself talked about the difference between courage 177 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: and recklessness is somewhere in between the two, the gold, 178 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: the gold what he called gold mean, it's not in 179 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 1: the middle, it's somewhere else. And for each individual it's 180 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 1: different for everybody else. Someone might be closer to recklessness, 181 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 1: and someone might be closest closer to courage. But it's 182 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 1: definitely not recklessness. In other words, it's not and fearless 183 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: is different to courage. And do they in the when 184 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 1: you're training for the sas, do they go through this 185 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: virtue type deal to start talking to you about these 186 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: old school things that our old school I don't mean 187 00:09:56,520 --> 00:10:00,719 Speaker 1: that in a disrespectful way, but old school virtues. Do 188 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: you talk about these things stoicism, recklessness, courage, blah blah blah. 189 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 2: We do now and back then it really was a 190 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 2: matter of survival. And so if you were tough enough 191 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 2: to wait it out, to run it out, to just 192 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 2: persist and in a very pure stoic fashion, you know, 193 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 2: just to be able to persist and put up with it. 194 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 2: Stand your ground, stand your ground, don't complain. In fact, 195 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 2: no one's listening anyway. It's a nail feedback environment, which 196 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 2: is very, very harsh, and that's what makes something like 197 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 2: tolerance to ambiguity very such a valuable measuring or measure 198 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:43,719 Speaker 2: of someone who's suitable. 199 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 1: For virtue words tolerance. 200 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 2: Yeah and so, yeah, and you do you need to survive. 201 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 2: But these days I actually go back and teach applied 202 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 2: ethics to our junior operators, not only for the moral 203 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 2: challenges that they will face in their careers, you know, physical, mental, 204 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 2: and moral in service. But back in those days, it 205 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 2: was how how how hard you could go for how long, 206 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 2: and what you could tolerate and put up with. So 207 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 2: there's there's two kind of sides to that coin. My 208 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 2: generation is the pure stoic, just put up with it 209 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 2: and keep persisting. These days we have a more virtue 210 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 2: approach to it, because we realize now that servicing this 211 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 2: this kind of these kinds of units has a moral 212 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 2: toll as well, and that gets mixed up with the 213 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 2: mental health toll that it takes on people, or. 214 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 1: With the final outcome, you know, like because you know, 215 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: you don't want people being all these things and then 216 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: walk out and their and their careers finished, and all 217 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: of a sudden there are a wreck. 218 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, but inside that's correct exactly. And I'm as a 219 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 2: psychologist now, I spend a fair bit of time in that. 220 00:11:57,160 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 2: But I guess at the start of an sas soldier's journey, 221 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 2: what we want is to give some guidance around what 222 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 2: is reckless and what is controlled and informed. And I 223 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 2: think we always want to select people who are probably 224 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 2: going to lean towards the reckless part because some of 225 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 2: the nature of the work is such that it's high risk, 226 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 2: high consequence, catastrophic consequences not only for ourselves but for 227 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 2: the people around us. So we need people to be 228 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 2: willing to step into that space without question, without being afraid, 229 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 2: a feared, or or without hesitation in most cases. So 230 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 2: we want people who are probably that side of it. 231 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 2: But I think the golden mean of Aristotle, if you will, 232 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 2: it's a navigable space. What we also want is people 233 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,839 Speaker 2: to come back to a normal setting, a civilian setting, 234 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 2: and readjust those parameters as well, And that takes a 235 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 2: certain kind of person. We don't always get right, but 236 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 2: I think we're pretty bloody good at it. 237 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 1: So recently Donald Trump announced and Peter X announced that 238 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,439 Speaker 1: they're going to change their Department of defense to the 239 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 1: Department of War and got all sorts of reactions around 240 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 1: the world. And initially I thought to myself that might 241 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: be good for recruitment, because recruitment is a big deal. 242 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,959 Speaker 1: For we don't have national service, and so recruitment is 243 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 1: really a big deal important to have recruits. It's not 244 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: saying you the whole country to join the army or 245 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:38,320 Speaker 1: whatever it is, whatever the military is, but you definitely 246 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 1: want you've got to recruit and or retain as well. 247 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 1: And maybe that has a bit of marketing appeal to it. 248 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:49,719 Speaker 1: But how does that fit into the narrative in a 249 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: modern day, modern day in terms of the types of 250 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: people might attract. 251 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 2: Do you think, yeah, I think it's it can be 252 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,079 Speaker 2: a concern, and particularly in a nation like America where 253 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 2: they're in a marshall footing your martial kind of culture. 254 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 2: Australia not so much. I'm not sure it would fly 255 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:13,319 Speaker 2: well here. I get I get the idea we want 256 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 2: to be proactive, I guess, and maybe at war rather 257 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 2: than being defensive and on the back foot. And I 258 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 2: heard a bit more and I think I've punched out 259 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 2: a semi poem or something like that to Romance Donald 260 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 2: but I don't know that it would make a marked 261 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 2: difference on recruiting. That would be have to play out. 262 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 2: I think what's important to state is during times of peace, 263 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 2: recruiting naturally goes down. You know, the boys that turn 264 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 2: out to want to go on the adventures and go 265 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 2: to war seem to spike when that's imminent or in 266 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 2: the in the news. I've had a few people say 267 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 2: or ask me the question. You know it means Australian 268 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 2: Defense Force in trouble and recruitings down and all the 269 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 2: rest of But I'd say, look, you know, it's never 270 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 2: as bad as it seems, never as good as it seems, 271 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 2: and we probably need a more moderate conversation about it. 272 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 2: But it's a lot of money to sustain a standing 273 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 2: army that's not doing anything and not going anywhere. And 274 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 2: if the example I give is at the end of 275 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 2: World War One, a lot of the old guys were 276 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 2: saying because a lot of men we died in World 277 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 2: War One, and they were having a shot at the 278 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 2: next generation coming through, saying they're all soft and weak, 279 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 2: and you know they need to be trained up, and 280 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 2: things like scouts and outward bound and you know these 281 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 2: will will forced and all of these other things were 282 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 2: invented to make to toughen up the next generation. And 283 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 2: when the sixteen and eighteen year olds went off to 284 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 2: Kokoda Track, they did a pretty bloody good job. And 285 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 2: the young charges I see come into contact with regularly. 286 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 2: I think Australia's in good stead. I don't think we 287 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 2: should panic. If we do need to raise an army, 288 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 2: we'll do so. Capability is still strong. This is the 289 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 2: time to spend a bit of money on the on 290 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 2: the hardware. And I think hardware being tech, yeah, tech 291 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 2: and hardware and some decent chips and things like that. Yeah, 292 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 2: But I think Australia, I think we should just calm 293 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 2: the farm a little bit. On that. I think Australian 294 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 2: the essence of the Australian soldiers still here and will 295 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 2: serve our country well come the time. 296 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 1: So do you think that essence that you're talking about 297 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 1: cuts across Australian Australian values? Do you think? Because is 298 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: that essence and Australian value. And given our immigration and 299 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 1: our change in the sort of the makeup of our nation, 300 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: and it's rapidly changing, probably faster now than has ever done. 301 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: As past in terms of cultural changes, sense of nationalism, 302 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: perhaps religious relationships, like at one stage pretty much a 303 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 1: Christian nation. These days we're much more mixed. Then there's 304 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 1: conflict overseas relative to some of the some of the 305 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 1: religions relative to other religions, and that's pretty obviously we'll 306 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 1: be talking about who might be talking about we're thinking 307 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:11,360 Speaker 1: about at the moment. Do you think these things will 308 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 1: ultimately create a bit of a chasm in our armed 309 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:18,880 Speaker 1: forces military? 310 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, potentially. I think there's parts of the military which 311 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:28,120 Speaker 2: have been maybe distracted by what's going out on going 312 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 2: on out in society. So I give that. But to 313 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 2: feel and have a strong standing Australian Army, we need 314 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 2: about one hundred thousand people and I think there's well 315 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 2: inside that many to service our military. And we'll always 316 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:50,359 Speaker 2: remember we're a small nation. Our GDP and defense is tiny. 317 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 2: It's probably the budget of the first Marine Division and 318 00:17:55,600 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 2: we're now one of Americas if not biggest aircraft carrier 319 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 2: and the Marines increasing in numbers. So I think again 320 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 2: there are challenges, there's no doubt mark from a broader 321 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:12,239 Speaker 2: society perspective, but I think I would like to see 322 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 2: the kind of margins and the fringes. Discussions that I 323 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:17,359 Speaker 2: see in the veteran community go on just kind of 324 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 2: keep our power to dry. I think we should take 325 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 2: comfort that we will still be able to raise a 326 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 2: strong army that's that will do its job. 327 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 1: So do we need I mean, there's probably more war 328 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 1: strategy question. And you know, I don't know if I'm 329 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: oversetting the marqu here, but because you're you're on the 330 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,639 Speaker 1: ground guy. You're the guy who goes and does stuff 331 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 1: like it's more tactical than you undertake a strategy outcome, 332 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 1: but you're going to have to make changes. 333 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 2: This is a strategic tool, a strategy. 334 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 1: Go in there, but you've got to make changes. This 335 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:54,680 Speaker 1: didn't more get the way we wanted to work, and 336 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 1: we've got to do this tactically and then make some 337 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:59,680 Speaker 1: quick change, a quick thinking. And as a group, do 338 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: you think that we need as many regular soldiers, regular 339 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: military people as we have done in the past, Given 340 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 1: I'm not too sa I'm not talking about specialized people. 341 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 1: I'm talking about regular guys and girls. Do you think 342 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 1: we need as many these days? Given what's going on, 343 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 1: giving the giving, given what we see in Ukraine, what 344 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 1: we're seeing in various other places what's going on in 345 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:30,119 Speaker 1: the world at the moment as we have needed in 346 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: the past, in other words, drones and all those other things. 347 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 1: Is the World War potentially more technological? 348 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 2: Well, definitely got technological very quickly back in the US 349 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:46,400 Speaker 2: Civil War, you know, So that doesn't change. I think 350 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 2: that's expected strategically no matter what conflict we're going to. 351 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 2: There's probably a good point to make here around the 352 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 2: type of war that we might be engaged in. The 353 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 2: wars that we've had recently and arguably since the end 354 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:04,120 Speaker 2: of World War Two have been wars of choice. Really, 355 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:07,360 Speaker 2: they haven't been wars that we've been invaded or we've 356 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 2: chosen to a company America or a coalition or UK 357 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 2: and they've been choice. They've been largely wars of choice. 358 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:19,159 Speaker 2: So they have a different a different context and a 359 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:23,320 Speaker 2: different requirement, especially when we're being asked for certain capabilities 360 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:27,640 Speaker 2: to travel overseas. And then there's wars like Ukraine, where 361 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 2: that's not a war of choice for Ukraine, that's a 362 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:33,040 Speaker 2: war that arrives on one's doorstep and you need to 363 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 2: do whatever you've got to do. And I don't think 364 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:39,359 Speaker 2: it's controversial to say that they find themselves in a 365 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:43,640 Speaker 2: pretty conventional situation and they need warm bodies. It kind 366 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 2: of comes down to that, Yeah, the technology matters, and 367 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 2: it's been amazing to watch that, hasn't it That the 368 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 2: adaptation and the little drone shops underground and whatnot have 369 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 2: been fascinated by that. That's just human adaptability. But at 370 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 2: the end of the day, they need warm bodies defending 371 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 2: a line dug in and it takes you back to well, 372 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,119 Speaker 2: the US Civil War, you know, where they started digging 373 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 2: in and and that's kind of that was the precursor. 374 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:15,640 Speaker 1: So it takes me back to Breaking Rand. The first 375 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:17,680 Speaker 1: thing I think of, remember the Australian movie Breaking Around, 376 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 1: I do, yeah, And I think that was like in 377 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,920 Speaker 1: the Boer War or something it was, and which is 378 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:27,359 Speaker 1: like eighteen ninety or somewhere in center anyway, and we're 379 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:29,119 Speaker 1: very famous movie for those people who haven't watched a 380 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 1: great movie, one of the great films. At Australia. Government 381 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:34,680 Speaker 1: was actually able to well southtrat Gun was able to 382 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 1: help one, but they were they were sitting in trenches 383 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: and in those days communication was done by a runner. 384 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 2: That's right. Now communication might be slightly different, but well, 385 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 2: interestingly in the Ukraine k phones so it's landline. 386 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's like a box with the that's what 387 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 1: I call it. 388 00:21:55,680 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 2: And they're targetable and they're being used because there's electronic 389 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 2: magnetic pulses and all this type of stuff being used 390 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:07,920 Speaker 2: blanketing out communications conventional communicator. There's runners are being used still, 391 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 2: and notes and notes. So in the in the in 392 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 2: the short in the battle space, the forward edge of 393 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,399 Speaker 2: the battle area, the fever as it was called, in 394 00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 2: those trenches, there's notes and runners being used between pits 395 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:27,360 Speaker 2: and those types of things. So comm's cord you might 396 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:30,240 Speaker 2: never have heard of that, but three tugs means safe 397 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,159 Speaker 2: to come and too. So all this these in a 398 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:38,600 Speaker 2: conventional war that's not of our choosing, you don't get 399 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 2: to use the full remit of technology and capability because 400 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,880 Speaker 2: there's an enemy that's just the equal of yours. 401 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 1: Certainly going to make that bing that yeah, you can't make, 402 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 1: you can't meet that, you can't make any other presumption 403 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,360 Speaker 1: because more likely you could be wrong. 404 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 2: And the gravity of that is a big deal exactly. 405 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:01,119 Speaker 2: And so those wars of choice that I've been involved in. 406 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,480 Speaker 1: And so which was have you been where have you 407 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: gone to? So I served in the. 408 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 2: Big Three team or Afghanistan and Iraq over eleven over 409 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 2: a period about a dozen deployments and then other missions 410 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,399 Speaker 2: and other activities around them. 411 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 1: And what was your role? 412 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 2: So I started off as a six ICEE and then 413 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,560 Speaker 2: end up running what's that? A trooper? So I was 414 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,919 Speaker 2: in a team and I was the shipkicker, the junior 415 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 2: guy in nineteen ninety one, and then I was in 416 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 2: the unit until pretty much until twenty seventeen. In twenty fifteen, 417 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 2: I finished up on the teams as a team commander 418 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 2: or our bravo, the senior sergeant role in the. 419 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:48,440 Speaker 1: We're talking says correct? So what would your maybe the 420 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 1: role is probably not the right word. What would your 421 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 1: function be of your unit? Would be to go and 422 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:56,439 Speaker 1: do something, catch someone as surveillance what would have been? 423 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, all of those things and more so. We were 424 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:05,639 Speaker 2: special missions unit, so we greet or we address missions 425 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 2: without precedent. So what's often means that problems and attacks 426 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 2: on or threats to the national capability and national interests 427 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 2: of Australia without precedents. You know, whether that's by terrorists, 428 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:26,680 Speaker 2: whether it's technical humans, war fighting, all of those things. 429 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 2: So I've worked everything from one up by myself in 430 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 2: the streets of some shitty a city in the world, 431 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 2: to what would your mission be with the captive someone 432 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 2: or to watch them be surveillance or something along those lines, 433 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 2: to related to information and people, and then everything through 434 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 2: to working is a thirty man troupe on a more 435 00:24:53,960 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 2: conventional direct attack or direct a more direct active jumping 436 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:05,240 Speaker 2: out of helicopters and blowing things in the essays gets 437 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 2: a bit confused at times by the imagery we see 438 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 2: movies and the movies, yeah, and it makes us look 439 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 2: very one dimensional, but we're not where, We're anywhere anything anytime, 440 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,480 Speaker 2: force and everything that that encapsulates. 441 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,840 Speaker 1: Do you have to in the course to become apart 442 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:27,159 Speaker 1: from be able to prove that you know you can 443 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 1: you know you're not going to panic when you get 444 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 1: go under water or whatever those things you see in 445 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 1: the TV shows, apart from those things. In the learning process, 446 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 1: do they what skills do they teach you apart from 447 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 1: how to shoot and all those sort of things, but 448 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:45,080 Speaker 1: obviously combat whatever, But what other skills they teach, like 449 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 1: engineering skills or you do a little bit of everything. 450 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, a little bit of everything like computer skills, code writing, 451 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 2: language skills right up to paramedicine, surgery, all the weapons, 452 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 2: all the things that go bang. We do your high 453 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:06,160 Speaker 2: altitude parachuting, which is everything. If you can imagine, as 454 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:10,120 Speaker 2: at its extreme, jumping from an airplane at twenty five 455 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 2: thousand feet at night wearing five hundred kilos worth a 456 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,320 Speaker 2: kit sounds like a lot. It's a lot, and you're 457 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 2: jumping on oxygen. So it's a highly technical, highly high 458 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:28,879 Speaker 2: risk event. To rebreathing underwater, rebreathing diving underwater and submarine release. 459 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 2: And one thing Australia is really well renowned for is 460 00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:38,120 Speaker 2: our long range vehicle patrols and capability and those three 461 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 2: things amongst others. There really only means to get to 462 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:44,880 Speaker 2: the job. The majority of the SAS work is done 463 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 2: in infill and extraction. The job itself is a whole 464 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 2: other set of skills, and that's whether we take the 465 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 2: expert and get them there safely, or we bring the 466 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 2: skills and execute the mission on the ground as required. 467 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 1: Are you're talking about that that transport vehicle that we've 468 00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 1: come from, the name of it. Now we've sent quite 469 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 1: a few of them to the Ukraine, I think, oh, yeah, yeah, 470 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 1: the as labs I think itself either, but so we 471 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 1: but astraight as good at building those things. Is it 472 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: because of our train H yeah? 473 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,879 Speaker 2: I think so. I think they we We were getting 474 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:27,119 Speaker 2: I D strikes in Afghanistan regularly and surviving a lot 475 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 2: of them. So I think there was a I think 476 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 2: there was a technology that just evolved in a local 477 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 2: place and that's had a asymmetric kind of impact or 478 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,920 Speaker 2: certainly interest from around the world, and that technology spread. 479 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 2: It's just v shaped holes, so I guess. 480 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:46,520 Speaker 1: At the bottom of the Yeah, the transport machine. 481 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 2: It still goes bang inside. I don't know that. But 482 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,440 Speaker 2: but the vehicles, it's it's survivable. 483 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:56,840 Speaker 1: Morphs dispersus the vibration impact, the impact. So because you 484 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 1: experience it yourself, ID is that's right? 485 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:04,679 Speaker 2: In two thousand I unfortunately it was in two thousand 486 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 2: and eight drove over an I D which turned out 487 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,920 Speaker 2: what we think was an old Russian anti tank mine 488 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 2: that was remote detonated, and a colleague of mine was 489 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 2: killed beside me, and our interpreter lost effectively lost both 490 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 2: of his legs in the blast. I was very traumatic, 491 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 2: and you know, it's remarkable to think out of the 492 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 2: dozens of strikes that we had in Afghanistan on the 493 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:34,639 Speaker 2: cars that we drove, very few deaths. I think we 494 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 2: really had. We had two or three, I think it 495 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 2: was over that time. A lot of injuries, et cetera, 496 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 2: but high survivability. They went to vehicles we had. We 497 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 2: had our own set of vehicles. 498 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:47,720 Speaker 1: And what happened to you? Did any happen to you? 499 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? I had fragged through the back of both legs 500 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,520 Speaker 2: and burnt. Actually the force blew a boot off of 501 00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 2: an army bootoff, just to give give you an idea 502 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 2: of the force, which I don't need much idea, really, 503 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 2: I guess. And I was actually okay. I had a 504 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 2: bit of surgery and came back to the troop. But 505 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 2: I contracted an infection. Most of Afghanistans covered in human 506 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 2: feces and animal feces. 507 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 1: Really and yeah, well you know, leveraging systems. 508 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:24,440 Speaker 2: They haven't had a huge sanitary advance there. But and 509 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 2: they use a fertilizer actually, be fair to them, they 510 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 2: use they reuse it for fertilizer. These are pretty humble existences. 511 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,120 Speaker 2: And so I got a staff infection, a goal and 512 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 2: staff infection that kind of got up into my Yeah, 513 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,160 Speaker 2: it started there and I had to be repatriating in 514 00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 2: the end because it just that my testicles were swollen 515 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 2: up to the size of a soccer ball and that 516 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 2: started to get into my thoracic cavity and they were 517 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 2: they were going to remove my leg, but they got 518 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 2: into some heavy drugs back in in Perth. I was 519 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,640 Speaker 2: back just in time, thankfully, and over weeks it calm down. 520 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,600 Speaker 1: And would that have been a signal to you maybe 521 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: it's time and how to hanging the boots up a bit? 522 00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, well I was. I was forty at that age. 523 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 1: Is there a retirement age do they forty? 524 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:17,000 Speaker 2: Is it? There's two retirement ages. One is around fifty 525 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 2: five or so, yeah, and the other ones, the more 526 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 2: realistic one is when the young fellas say, Harry Off, 527 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 2: you were a bit slow, and a few times towards 528 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:28,720 Speaker 2: end and my time, the guys did turn around say mate, 529 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 2: you're looking a bit slow. 530 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:30,480 Speaker 1: Oh really? 531 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's and you do straight up and your 532 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 2: ego wants not to hear that. But slow in terms 533 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 2: of keeping up, you mean, yeah, definitely keeping up. You 534 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 2: remember the backpack on absolutely, yeah, when you're getting gunshots, 535 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 2: fighter you need everybody up in the line. And I 536 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 2: never fell off or let anyone down, but there was 537 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,560 Speaker 2: a sense that it was harder than it should have been. 538 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 1: And is that their job to tell you that. 539 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 2: I think it's all about jobs to tell each other 540 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:55,960 Speaker 2: that it's you know the essays. Regiment's a prison yard 541 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 2: you get to go home from. It's it's brutal, but 542 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 2: there's a as am in respect. You don't have to 543 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:05,040 Speaker 2: be everyone's best friend, but you need to respect the 544 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 2: fact that the bloke next to you has got what 545 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 2: it takes to look after you and you'll have your 546 00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 2: back when it matters. 547 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 1: Sounds like a footy team. 548 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot like a footy team. I work 549 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:18,560 Speaker 2: in AFL and NRL teams and it is a familiar environment. 550 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,640 Speaker 1: And you want confidence that the guy next to you 551 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:20,920 Speaker 1: is not going to leave a gap, or if there 552 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 1: is a gap, that he's going to close the gap. 553 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 1: And then he's going to run up the line all 554 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,760 Speaker 1: the time with you, and every time you're up, he's 555 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 1: going to run up. 556 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 2: And we want to know too that if you're bleeding 557 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 2: out in the AO that they're going to do their 558 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,239 Speaker 2: best to get your home as well. You know, that's 559 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:36,880 Speaker 2: a kind of a commitment that we make to all 560 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 2: the families when we deploy as well. 561 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:43,360 Speaker 1: And when you did make this decision to leave, you 562 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 1: mentioned a couple of times you have psychology qualifications. Did 563 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,840 Speaker 1: you do that during your army period or did you 564 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 1: decided to go in to psychology after that. 565 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:58,680 Speaker 2: No. I took some advice of a man I call 566 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 2: my kind of second far the Gary Kingston. I've mentioned 567 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 2: him a lot, and in the book he once said 568 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 2: words the effect of, don't let this place be everything 569 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 2: you are. You know, it's not all you are. 570 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 1: You're more. 571 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 2: And he was a great proponent of educating yourself, whether 572 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 2: that was tertiary or build a carpentry or whatever it was. 573 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 2: Do something else, be something else. And I took that 574 00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:26,120 Speaker 2: to heart, so I started studying seriously in the last 575 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 2: ten years I was in the regiment. So often I 576 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 2: would joke that I'd have a book from a university 577 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 2: book out on patrol with us and be reading that 578 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 2: digging a trench while I was having a break. I'd 579 00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,480 Speaker 2: be finishing a Uni degree. And it didn't add any 580 00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 2: way to any any effort overseas. It actually gave me 581 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:51,160 Speaker 2: a distract, helpful, healthy distraction away from planning all the time. 582 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:53,920 Speaker 2: And it just so happened in twenty nineteen when I 583 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:57,840 Speaker 2: left the Defense Force full time the weekend or the 584 00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 2: week after I started, I was qualified and registered as 585 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 2: a psych and I've been. 586 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,360 Speaker 1: So you did that. You do that that whilst you 587 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 1: were in the military, That's right. Last two is online 588 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 1: type call I tended. 589 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 2: Psychology is a seven year degree, the last three of 590 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:15,200 Speaker 2: which you need to do face to face supervisions and 591 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,239 Speaker 2: all this type of stuff, so like as in an 592 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:21,800 Speaker 2: intern type thing exactly. Yeah, And so the military gave 593 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 2: me a part time gig and helped me do that. 594 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 2: And the military is pretty forgiving like that. 595 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 1: But the military is great. I mean, the defense forces 596 00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 1: generally are great. 597 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 2: That way it is now, Yeah, it is support people. Yeah, 598 00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:34,760 Speaker 2: it's much better these days. 599 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 1: Is my psychology? 600 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 2: Well it seemed to make a lot of sense to me. 601 00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 2: It was something else I was interested in. I kind 602 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,280 Speaker 2: of dropped out of UNI after year twelve. I didn't 603 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 2: I was going to UNI, and then I thought, I'll 604 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 2: join the army now, or do UNI and then join 605 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:51,360 Speaker 2: the army. That was the kind of conundrum, and I 606 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 2: ended up doing the latter, doing the former. But yeah, 607 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 2: it was a little bit underfinished business. I read a 608 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 2: lot about psycholog Jean philosophy. They were kind of my staples. 609 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,800 Speaker 2: I found them fascinating, love the stories that went behind them. 610 00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,800 Speaker 2: So yeah, it was kind of It's just natural for me. 611 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 2: It wasn't I felt like and it makes very good 612 00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 2: use of my lived experience. Now when I work with 613 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 2: mission critical teams or sports teams or hedge funds. I 614 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,040 Speaker 2: love working with hedge funds. I think they have a 615 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 2: semi very similar vibe to them when they're up and 616 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:30,239 Speaker 2: running a private capital team or a deal team. You know, 617 00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,279 Speaker 2: you've got a dozen young men and women who just 618 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 2: want to shoot the lights out. It's the few that 619 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 2: I work with. Sometimes they feel like a footy team. 620 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:41,680 Speaker 2: There's that kind of camaraderie in the trenches fighting. So 621 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:45,399 Speaker 2: I think that my background psychology pulls it together, gives 622 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 2: it an evidence base, and allows me to tell stories 623 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:54,000 Speaker 2: and share hopefully my small w wisdom with those people. 624 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,840 Speaker 1: So when did you write Because your first book, I 625 00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,720 Speaker 1: think this is your first book, eleven bats. 626 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 2: My mates, Tommy, I should have called a bat's eleven 627 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:03,920 Speaker 2: because I'm a ship bats. 628 00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:05,959 Speaker 1: But what is that about eleven bats? 629 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:11,919 Speaker 2: What's it's just an autobiography mark of my journey from Williamstown, 630 00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:16,360 Speaker 2: Victoria to back to Victoria really where I ended up 631 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:17,680 Speaker 2: end up at the end of that book at the 632 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 2: mcg doing an Anzac Days speech and the eleven bats. 633 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,359 Speaker 2: It was my habit to take a cricket bat every 634 00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:27,960 Speaker 2: operation that we went on, every tour we went on, 635 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:29,920 Speaker 2: and a ball, I presume, and a ball, yeah, a 636 00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:32,400 Speaker 2: few balls because they get a bit lost Sean balls. 637 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 2: And we'd play cricket, you know, and we recreate or 638 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,640 Speaker 2: we'd even gather information. We use them to gather intelligence 639 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:45,400 Speaker 2: and bricket Yeah, yeah, absolutely. So you build rapport with 640 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,920 Speaker 2: the localists playing game of cricket and they become you 641 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,000 Speaker 2: a layer of an extra layer of defense. Or you 642 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,040 Speaker 2: go up to the street urchins who you know, you've 643 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 2: thrown them a ball or whatever, let them get you out, 644 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,480 Speaker 2: and you might just say who's who's old mate over there? 645 00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:01,800 Speaker 2: Who's he you know? And they'll look after you. They'll 646 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 2: come to knocking and doing and saying this such and 647 00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 2: such as bad man, he's back in town and that 648 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,880 Speaker 2: type of stuff. When I was looking after Alfredo Ronaldo 649 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,520 Speaker 2: up in the hills of Malbusi in Team or Less 650 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:18,600 Speaker 2: Day he was the protagonist and the antagonist he had 651 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 2: the militia up there. He was the most interviewed person 652 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:26,320 Speaker 2: on the planet at one stage, CNN, ABC, Fox, everybody 653 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,719 Speaker 2: was coming to interview him, and there was a conga line. 654 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 2: So we set up this game of cricket and we 655 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,279 Speaker 2: needed to note everybody who came into seem because there 656 00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:37,239 Speaker 2: were spies running everywhere from all corners, from Portugal to 657 00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 2: the US, et cetera, Indonesia and Indonesia, lots of them, 658 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:45,279 Speaker 2: and so we'd play a game of cricket and everyone 659 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,799 Speaker 2: was forced to stop. We got photos, got a bit 660 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:54,200 Speaker 2: of narrative from them, fingerprints where we thought there was 661 00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:56,080 Speaker 2: a high threat, would just throw throw them a ball 662 00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,080 Speaker 2: or give him a glass or something, just all in 663 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 2: this of the ball it was, yeah, there was, there 664 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:02,239 Speaker 2: was all that kind of carry on. 665 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 1: So that was your sort of is your go to 666 00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:08,400 Speaker 1: eleven bats being a cricket side, that's right, eleven men 667 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 1: eleven bats. But you've played around with that because is 668 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,680 Speaker 1: that something that was that you can that was your 669 00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,440 Speaker 1: common denominator. I guess from most of your deployments. 670 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, I came home to cricket, to the apple Cross 671 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:25,720 Speaker 2: Cricket Club. Who I'm still available for selection? 672 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:27,640 Speaker 1: There he's calling out. 673 00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:32,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a place to come home and be 674 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:37,120 Speaker 2: moth not Harry, if that makes sense. And my cricket 675 00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 2: mates grew to unders really deeply understand that, and they 676 00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,360 Speaker 2: didn't bug me about my military service. I could just 677 00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,520 Speaker 2: come home, be one of the blokes, a handy up 678 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:48,160 Speaker 2: here into the breeze bowler, a normal human being. And 679 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:53,320 Speaker 2: I speak emotively about it because it played such a 680 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:56,440 Speaker 2: massive role in normalizing life for me. 681 00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,040 Speaker 1: You know, how does that work? One minute, you're in 682 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,080 Speaker 1: Afghanistan and you're trying to work out if someone's going 683 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 1: to blow you up or do something terrible, and you're 684 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 1: seeing all sorts of crazy stuff and living with individuals 685 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:15,319 Speaker 1: who are same the same milk. Then you come back 686 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 1: to Victoria and where everybody is just like running the 687 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:23,440 Speaker 1: local coffee shop and making baking and eggs and digging 688 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,840 Speaker 1: ditches for as a plumb or whatever, and your mates 689 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:29,279 Speaker 1: from school, I presume, and you create club. How does 690 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:30,839 Speaker 1: that transition work? 691 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:36,360 Speaker 2: It's bizarre, it really is. We talk about being away. 692 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 2: I ended up referring to being away like being at home, 693 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,280 Speaker 2: and being at home like being away. That was really 694 00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:46,480 Speaker 2: how it felt. That makes so much sense to me. Yeah, 695 00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:50,280 Speaker 2: we go away to the unordered, extraordinary world where things 696 00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,879 Speaker 2: that happened shouldn't happen we wish or wish they didn't. 697 00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:54,680 Speaker 2: Then we come back to this ordinary world. You talk 698 00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:56,960 Speaker 2: about post office, milk bars, and. 699 00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:00,720 Speaker 1: It's all structured the morning, get a coffee. 700 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:05,799 Speaker 2: Control, Yeah, less unless you feel under control. But yeah, 701 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:11,160 Speaker 2: so I remember being walking the streets of Afar off country, 702 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,960 Speaker 2: being one of the most dangerous jobs I'd been in 703 00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:21,880 Speaker 2: decades or in years, on a Friday night, and I 704 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,319 Speaker 2: knew I was leaving in the morning. We'd finished up, 705 00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,000 Speaker 2: I did the handover, got on the plane and got home. 706 00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,520 Speaker 2: And on the Sunday, I was sitting at home the 707 00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:33,960 Speaker 2: family dinner in Australia with the kids and Daniel and 708 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 2: my wife, and we were having broccoli mash s buds 709 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,280 Speaker 2: and lamb chops. That was my welcome home dinner, always 710 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:43,480 Speaker 2: my favorite dinner. And the kids are arguing and I 711 00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,719 Speaker 2: just caught myself thinking, what the fuck, what's just going on? 712 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 2: My head's still there because I'm going I wonder if 713 00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:52,000 Speaker 2: John I got to mate in time, and I wonder 714 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,200 Speaker 2: if anyone got hurt on the particular part of the 715 00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,839 Speaker 2: mission I knew. And it takes a week or two 716 00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:59,800 Speaker 2: just to stop wanting to is everything okay? Do you 717 00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:04,440 Speaker 2: need hand and dure walking the streets or jumping in out? 718 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:08,160 Speaker 2: So it's a very very hard transition. But my wife 719 00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 2: worked out very early on that I needed to get 720 00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:15,200 Speaker 2: down to the club pretty quick too. That was it 721 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:19,600 Speaker 2: was a source of tension earlier now in that period, 722 00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:25,120 Speaker 2: but in my career, our marriage. But it's remarkable how 723 00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:29,239 Speaker 2: well that social setting would buffer those It would bring 724 00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:33,399 Speaker 2: me back to Earth's decompression. Absolutely, it's a perfect word 725 00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 2: for it. Yeah, decompressing. So when I go back and 726 00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 2: mentor young men, now, I talk about your third thing, 727 00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:42,080 Speaker 2: your first things, your family, your second things, your vocation, 728 00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:46,680 Speaker 2: and really they get just wound up together inextricably. But 729 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 2: you need a third, third thing and that is you. 730 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 2: You know, buger the family, bugger the vocation. Where can 731 00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:56,040 Speaker 2: I go just to be the real identity inside of me? 732 00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:58,600 Speaker 2: Because in a lot of ways, the sas facade, if 733 00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:00,600 Speaker 2: you're not careful, takes over. 734 00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:02,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you become that you become. 735 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:07,919 Speaker 2: That and that's let me sound strange, let me say 736 00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:10,600 Speaker 2: that that's not an identity you want to carry around 737 00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:12,520 Speaker 2: with you forever. That's something you want to be able 738 00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,719 Speaker 2: to slip in and out of. And that's an agility 739 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:16,840 Speaker 2: that we talk about now, which is a discussion that 740 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:19,360 Speaker 2: we never had, and I think it's a really important discussion. 741 00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 1: That's an interesting point in terms of particularly business people 742 00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 1: or people just people generally when it comes to remaining 743 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:34,640 Speaker 1: relevant to society. If you see that as an important thing, 744 00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:38,080 Speaker 1: that to some extent means that you can then follow 745 00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:41,000 Speaker 1: how society is changing as opposed to just sticking in 746 00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:43,960 Speaker 1: one spot and just being that person you think you are. Like, 747 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:46,320 Speaker 1: our brain is interesting, and you're, being a psychologist know 748 00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:48,200 Speaker 1: more about this than me. But our brains a very 749 00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,560 Speaker 1: interesting in terms of how we build a story about 750 00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 1: ourselves and everything we do and then ends up becoming 751 00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:57,319 Speaker 1: affirmation of the story you built about ourselves. And then 752 00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:03,040 Speaker 1: and then sometimes we end up just living that life 753 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:07,400 Speaker 1: and get stuck as opposed to making use the plasticity 754 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:09,480 Speaker 1: of our brain to think of our life. 755 00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:12,160 Speaker 2: I love the words stuck, by the way, it's the 756 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:16,680 Speaker 2: perfect word stuck in time, stuck in characters, stuck in family, 757 00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:21,359 Speaker 2: stuck in event, or trauma, whatever, whatever it is, including trauma. 758 00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,160 Speaker 1: It's perfect, including trauma, and a lot of people suffer 759 00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:27,640 Speaker 1: from this. But you know, our brain does have plasticity, 760 00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:30,959 Speaker 1: and which basically means I can change things and change 761 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 1: the story about myself and start affirming the news story 762 00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,920 Speaker 1: about myself. And people often say to me, ask me 763 00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,600 Speaker 1: about it. How do you stay relevant given changes? Like 764 00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:40,839 Speaker 1: you know, one stage, I worked at a law firm 765 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:45,000 Speaker 1: and I mortgage business and then I'm broadcasting this type 766 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:51,080 Speaker 1: of stuff. And how important is the willingness for an 767 00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:55,520 Speaker 1: individual to be able to You've done it to be 768 00:42:55,600 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 1: able to. I might use it technical term, use our 769 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:05,080 Speaker 1: brain to actually stay relevant. Not me being relevant to 770 00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:07,640 Speaker 1: an audio, it's just me being relevant to society. What 771 00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:11,280 Speaker 1: can I contribute to my society? Not everybody, but my society. 772 00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:13,600 Speaker 1: How important is that as a technique? 773 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,040 Speaker 2: I think it's very important. And you've a couple of 774 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:22,040 Speaker 2: things there. You know, the plasticity of the brain is 775 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:26,040 Speaker 2: a thing these days. It's labile is another term that's 776 00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:31,120 Speaker 2: used that applies to all aspects of us as humans. 777 00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:38,560 Speaker 2: We're never ever static. We're allostatic. We're navigating the world changing. 778 00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:41,120 Speaker 2: You know, we're not a beat of strings or a 779 00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:44,400 Speaker 2: straight linear line. We're kind of Depending on which philosophy 780 00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:47,239 Speaker 2: you want to talk to process theory with Whitehead would 781 00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,680 Speaker 2: talk about we're spiraling through space, changing every second, and 782 00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:53,520 Speaker 2: that's true. You know, we're evolving or adapting as we go, 783 00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:57,360 Speaker 2: which is the other point you raise. You are an adaptable, 784 00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:01,960 Speaker 2: highly adaptable person. Not everybody is. There's a biology behind 785 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:07,520 Speaker 2: our personality and our psychology, and some people are more 786 00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:11,640 Speaker 2: tolerant to ambiguity. You would be someone like that. Founders. 787 00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:14,880 Speaker 2: I find work a lot with founders and also with 788 00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:18,799 Speaker 2: individuals who started their own family offly high net wealth, 789 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,560 Speaker 2: so who might be a bit stuck in their family 790 00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 2: in the wealth and the intergenerational transfer, etc. But founders 791 00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:30,320 Speaker 2: have a high tolerance to ambiguity and they're under the 792 00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:34,400 Speaker 2: same I think, the same risk profile that they can 793 00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:38,280 Speaker 2: get stuck in this persona that they've created for themselves. 794 00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:40,120 Speaker 2: You know, the King of Collins Street or the King 795 00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 2: of Macquarie and the suit and tie and I say, well, 796 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:45,880 Speaker 2: when was the last time you went and had a 797 00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,200 Speaker 2: Friday night at the footy with your mates? Your schoolmates, 798 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:52,960 Speaker 2: because most of our schoolmates are still good, close community, 799 00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:56,920 Speaker 2: and it's not surprising to hear them say, oh, months ago, 800 00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:58,920 Speaker 2: or I don't really catch up, or I'm too busy, 801 00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,640 Speaker 2: or and Mark, i've sat new again. This is your 802 00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,480 Speaker 2: area of expertise. But I've been surprised at how many 803 00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'll make a generalization at sixty sixty 804 00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,480 Speaker 2: five year old men who've sold their business for a 805 00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:15,080 Speaker 2: life changing amount of money. To some it's twenty million, 806 00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:18,640 Speaker 2: to some it's two hundred million, and their life around 807 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:22,880 Speaker 2: them behind the facade is atrophied, their relationships of atrophied, 808 00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:27,080 Speaker 2: their health is atrophied, their social connectivity and all that. 809 00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:30,680 Speaker 2: I can go on. And it's and they feel it. 810 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:34,760 Speaker 2: They feel there like a sense of loss almost or regrets, 811 00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:38,400 Speaker 2: or they it's not as a happy time as they 812 00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:41,160 Speaker 2: had been imagining. I shouldn't laugh, but it's so I 813 00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:43,560 Speaker 2: don't think it's just as real. It's very real, and 814 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:45,880 Speaker 2: so I don't think it's necessarily just the remit of 815 00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:49,440 Speaker 2: veterans or sports athletes have the same thing. 816 00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:50,120 Speaker 1: Time. 817 00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:53,239 Speaker 2: For every one hundred athletes, one of them will make 818 00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:54,440 Speaker 2: life changing. 819 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:57,120 Speaker 1: Money and means or become a TV presenter or a. 820 00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,600 Speaker 2: TV presenter exactly. But the other ninety nine who have 821 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:03,719 Speaker 2: sacrife everything to on the on the journey won't have that. 822 00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,359 Speaker 2: So this is what do you say to them? Well, 823 00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,960 Speaker 2: you've got the very first thing any human needs to 824 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:11,440 Speaker 2: do if they want to change is do and they 825 00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:14,560 Speaker 2: have check where you at right now? And let's be realistic, 826 00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:15,000 Speaker 2: But at. 827 00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,160 Speaker 1: What point before they get to the retirement point? 828 00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:21,120 Speaker 2: Or well, I can only go off when they first 829 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:25,520 Speaker 2: come to me if I'm working to them, and I 830 00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:27,600 Speaker 2: do a bit more of that than I would have 831 00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 2: expected these days. But yes, a reality check, a fish slabe, 832 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:38,480 Speaker 2: wake up, you know, let's let's let's where are we at? 833 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,239 Speaker 2: You know? And there's any any number of means. And 834 00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 2: I'm from the Maslow kind of school of psychology where 835 00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:49,960 Speaker 2: I'm not there to provide solutions, and no psychologists should be. 836 00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:53,240 Speaker 2: We're here to get it out of you. As Plato says, 837 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,880 Speaker 2: all information exists within us. It's just us up to 838 00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,880 Speaker 2: us to find it. And so I become the mid 839 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:04,000 Speaker 2: wife to your birthing, your your understanding of yourself. And 840 00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:07,640 Speaker 2: I think with that facade to sometimes and as our 841 00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:12,040 Speaker 2: lives atrophying, behind it the distance with there's a distance 842 00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 2: with ourselves that we create. And you alluded to that 843 00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:17,400 Speaker 2: earlier about how we look for reassurance that we're on 844 00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,680 Speaker 2: the right path. And I think when we the soldiers 845 00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:25,520 Speaker 2: that I see, particularly special forces soldiers, if this is 846 00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:28,919 Speaker 2: all they are, this, this, this character, if they don't 847 00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:32,080 Speaker 2: have this kind of deeper sense of connection to community 848 00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:36,960 Speaker 2: or to to citizenry, as the ancient Greeks might put it, 849 00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:41,919 Speaker 2: then it's it's very hard work to kind of pull 850 00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:42,319 Speaker 2: them back. 851 00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:47,000 Speaker 1: Is it a trade off though, between and I have 852 00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,040 Speaker 1: no idea, but is it I'm just wondering. Is it 853 00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:52,279 Speaker 1: a trade of between the effectiveness of a particularly a 854 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:59,560 Speaker 1: specialized soldier like an s a says person and there 855 00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:04,560 Speaker 1: identification of themselves as being this person. Is there a 856 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:08,839 Speaker 1: trade off between that being really effective at their job 857 00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,719 Speaker 1: but therefore as a result of being less effective in 858 00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 1: terms of looking at the bigger picture for when the 859 00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:19,560 Speaker 1: day they retire, And is there a sort of a 860 00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:23,320 Speaker 1: process where it's when they're first starting, they're really effective 861 00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,440 Speaker 1: when they're twenty eight, twenty on, whatever the age is 862 00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,600 Speaker 1: when they first kick it off, and as they start 863 00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,880 Speaker 1: to reach forty, does the army or does the defense 864 00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:33,400 Speaker 1: forces try and do this for them so that they 865 00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:36,040 Speaker 1: just become more effective as a citizen. 866 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:41,319 Speaker 2: The way I love it mostly, and we haven't done 867 00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:44,560 Speaker 2: a great job of that with my generation, so I 868 00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:48,920 Speaker 2: probably see more people stuck there. In fact, what you're 869 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 2: talking about is exactly what the book is about. Oh cool, 870 00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:56,040 Speaker 2: it's about the fourth pillar is the philosophical pillar. The 871 00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:59,239 Speaker 2: other three pillars in any high performance program on the 872 00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:04,840 Speaker 2: planet largely around the three pillars physical, psychological, and social pillars. 873 00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:08,200 Speaker 2: And that's whether they mean to or not. That's and 874 00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,320 Speaker 2: so the fourth pillar, I argue in the book is 875 00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:16,640 Speaker 2: a philosophical pillar. To your question, we can do both 876 00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:19,640 Speaker 2: at the same time, and we can learn from the Greeks. 877 00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:23,400 Speaker 2: Here the agogies of the ancient Greeks, whether they be 878 00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:29,200 Speaker 2: the Spartans or going back further pre Socratic Heraclitus times, 879 00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:35,520 Speaker 2: when they grew warriors or soldiers, they went off to 880 00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:38,520 Speaker 2: these agogies and they were schoolhouses to train not only 881 00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:45,759 Speaker 2: military martial skills, but they learned erudition, history, geography, They 882 00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:50,320 Speaker 2: learnt storytelling, dance, poetry and the reasons for dance and poetry, 883 00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:55,960 Speaker 2: and they learned about a respect for life, and how 884 00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:59,480 Speaker 2: to take a life, and the respect for that life, 885 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:03,480 Speaker 2: and how they're not in competition, they're actually mutually inclusive, 886 00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:08,880 Speaker 2: and they learn about how to be a good citizen 887 00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,920 Speaker 2: and what that means. The advantage that they had is 888 00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:15,160 Speaker 2: that the warrior cultures were embedded in the society, because 889 00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:19,399 Speaker 2: these are societies on more footings permanently, aren't they if 890 00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:22,600 Speaker 2: you can imagine the Greek societies, and in some ways 891 00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:26,040 Speaker 2: we still are today. But I think that we can 892 00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:28,759 Speaker 2: learn some lessons, and I try to tease that out 893 00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:30,520 Speaker 2: in the book. What are the lessons that we can learn? 894 00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:34,520 Speaker 2: And as I said earlier, when I sit with young 895 00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,600 Speaker 2: soldiers now, I try my hardest to make that point 896 00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:39,800 Speaker 2: to them. You know, one of the first conversations I 897 00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:43,480 Speaker 2: have with a young sas soldier is what your plan be? 898 00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,000 Speaker 2: You've got about a fifty percent chance of being here 899 00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:50,480 Speaker 2: after ten years, so what your plan be? The reality 900 00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,000 Speaker 2: is that in this room of twenty five of you 901 00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:56,120 Speaker 2: won't be here in three years time due to matters 902 00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:59,840 Speaker 2: outside of your control. Because that the job's tough like, 903 00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:02,479 Speaker 2: and so it's a bit of an again, a fish slab. 904 00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,000 Speaker 2: This is where you're at, you know, you're back to 905 00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:06,640 Speaker 2: the bottom again. You're coming in and we expect you 906 00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:11,560 Speaker 2: to be elite with guns, languages, and technology. We also 907 00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:16,120 Speaker 2: expect you to be elite at personal administration, personal life. 908 00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:20,040 Speaker 2: Being connected to the community doesn't mean you have to 909 00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:22,120 Speaker 2: go and serve on boards or anything like that, but 910 00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:23,520 Speaker 2: it just means you have to have a good sense 911 00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:26,440 Speaker 2: to be a member of cricket. So I think it's 912 00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:31,239 Speaker 2: sound as flippant as it sounds crochet cricket or canastera club. 913 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:34,560 Speaker 2: As I say through get out and get let civilians 914 00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:37,960 Speaker 2: reflect back to you that this is what you're coming you. 915 00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:40,080 Speaker 2: Eventually we have to return to it. 916 00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:43,000 Speaker 1: And I guess what you've got to teach them as 917 00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,680 Speaker 1: an openness to be that person. Yeah, because a lot 918 00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:48,440 Speaker 1: of them probably think, no, I can't be that because 919 00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:51,480 Speaker 1: that might create weakness in me. In my current job, 920 00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:54,920 Speaker 1: my current role is I cannot have any weakness in 921 00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:58,799 Speaker 1: me whatsoever because I'm going there against whoever. 922 00:51:58,560 --> 00:51:59,920 Speaker 2: It need be to the end. 923 00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:02,880 Speaker 1: But at the same time, I think you can be 924 00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:04,920 Speaker 1: I'd be interested here what you've got to say. I 925 00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:07,800 Speaker 1: think you can be open but not be weak. I 926 00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:11,239 Speaker 1: think actually openness to me is a strength. It makes 927 00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:14,080 Speaker 1: you strongsolutely, Yeah, makes you're more of a whole person, 928 00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:15,480 Speaker 1: which means you're probably. 929 00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,759 Speaker 2: Stronger absolutely, And you want to combine the king and 930 00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:22,480 Speaker 2: the philosopher. You know that the wisdom is embodied in 931 00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:25,720 Speaker 2: the courage, in the ability to be able to switch 932 00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:33,360 Speaker 2: from compassionate father and lover at home to a warrior 933 00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:36,960 Speaker 2: who can be brutal and deliver violence when required. I 934 00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:42,000 Speaker 2: hope I'm a kind of living proof of that, and 935 00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:44,440 Speaker 2: the majority of sas soldiers that I've served with, I 936 00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:50,279 Speaker 2: would say embody that they're compassionate, good men who are 937 00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:54,920 Speaker 2: also able to do things that they're asked to do 938 00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:59,240 Speaker 2: in the interests of the national national security. 939 00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:04,440 Speaker 1: And today the sorts of things you do, I presume 940 00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,120 Speaker 1: hopefully this is the case you are doing. You go 941 00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,279 Speaker 1: into talks and this sort of stuff. People can book 942 00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:11,200 Speaker 1: you to do a lot of speech, but like a 943 00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:12,200 Speaker 1: talk to a group. 944 00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:18,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, do lecturing. I don't do a heap of 945 00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,200 Speaker 2: keynote speaking, but I do a bit here and there. 946 00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:23,440 Speaker 2: For corporates are pretty happy to hear or keen to 947 00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:26,160 Speaker 2: hear the stories. But I do spend a lot of 948 00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:28,800 Speaker 2: time with young soldiers. One thing I'd like to do 949 00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:34,080 Speaker 2: is set up a program in an institute where soldiers 950 00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:38,880 Speaker 2: from all across the journey from civilian to elder, without 951 00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:42,680 Speaker 2: going into it too deeply, can come and discuss and 952 00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:46,600 Speaker 2: share stories. And I think that's something that's missing. There's 953 00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:48,440 Speaker 2: an old there's an old kind of proverb. I'll be 954 00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:55,520 Speaker 2: very quick with the soldiers. Once would go away to war, 955 00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:57,960 Speaker 2: they'd be away for a long time. It's along the 956 00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:03,320 Speaker 2: lines of Homer's Returned to Ethics Distances the Odyssey. But 957 00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:09,680 Speaker 2: the warriors would at sixteen, they'd be trained up, they 958 00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:11,440 Speaker 2: go off to war, and then I come home. And 959 00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:14,040 Speaker 2: the young warriors wouldn't come straight home. They'd be left 960 00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:16,440 Speaker 2: on the edge of the village and they would be 961 00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:21,239 Speaker 2: left there to process the events, to celebrate the successes 962 00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:25,640 Speaker 2: and commemorate the losses, to share stories about what they'd 963 00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:28,080 Speaker 2: been through, and the village would come out to them, 964 00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:31,640 Speaker 2: share food and say when you're ready, we're here for you. 965 00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:34,440 Speaker 2: And the elders and the spiritual leaders would come out 966 00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:38,120 Speaker 2: and help them process and sit and listen to them, 967 00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:40,600 Speaker 2: and then when they are ready, they would come home. 968 00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:43,359 Speaker 2: And it's this kind of decompression, this sense of decompressing 969 00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,760 Speaker 2: and processing the experiences and I think in the modern 970 00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:49,440 Speaker 2: world when such a bloody rush and this is not 971 00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:53,560 Speaker 2: only for veterans, this is for our police, our emergency services. 972 00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:57,120 Speaker 2: They live in the extraordinary world and it's something that 973 00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:59,840 Speaker 2: we don't do well to bring transition them back to 974 00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:04,880 Speaker 2: the ordinary world, which for anyone listening in the mission 975 00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:08,239 Speaker 2: critical teams, it's a wonderful world. Back in civilian world, 976 00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:11,200 Speaker 2: there's a great place to be and I think I'd 977 00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,400 Speaker 2: like that's something I'll be looking at in the future. Well, 978 00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:16,719 Speaker 2: we're not in the future. We're doing now to help 979 00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:19,440 Speaker 2: to share those stories and I'm not sure what it 980 00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:22,400 Speaker 2: looks like yet, but at the moment, it's a fireside 981 00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:24,600 Speaker 2: chats and those discussions that you alluded to. 982 00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:29,840 Speaker 1: And your two shows as Stoton. Yeah, just explain what 983 00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:31,880 Speaker 1: that is. That's obviously your business name, but what is it. 984 00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, Percy Seriitie, who's one of the themes or one 985 00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:38,080 Speaker 2: of the characters in the book. The greatest I think, 986 00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:43,280 Speaker 2: the greatest coach of all time. He owned a dozen 987 00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:46,400 Speaker 2: world champions and gold medals and world championships out of 988 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:50,000 Speaker 2: a tin shack in Portsy. He was a prolific writer 989 00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:54,719 Speaker 2: and reader, and he had a philosophy called the Stoton philosophy, 990 00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:58,400 Speaker 2: which is a portmanteau or a blended word from Stoic 991 00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:02,399 Speaker 2: sto and Spartan, and that's the st that the ta 992 00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:05,000 Speaker 2: n and he put those words together. He believed the 993 00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:09,600 Speaker 2: Stoic philosophy was good, but it was found wanton in 994 00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:14,640 Speaker 2: terms of an embodied philosophy. So the physical training aspect, 995 00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:19,360 Speaker 2: so he thought Spartan, the Spartan a go Gey approaches 996 00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:23,080 Speaker 2: was the missing piece to Stoicism to make it complete 997 00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:27,279 Speaker 2: for an athlete, which he believed was the purest and 998 00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:31,080 Speaker 2: the highest order of humanity. And that's what I borrow 999 00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:32,200 Speaker 2: that from my business name. 1000 00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,399 Speaker 1: And that's something obviously believe. It's funny. You're just talking 1001 00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:40,320 Speaker 1: about a moment ago about like a decompression process of 1002 00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:43,320 Speaker 1: putting people outside the village and the village coming to 1003 00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:46,040 Speaker 1: them and letting people just sort of stay outside the 1004 00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:48,920 Speaker 1: village before until they're ready to come in. And you 1005 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:54,080 Speaker 1: mentioned Odysseus or the Odyssey. Well, Homer's story allegedly it 1006 00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:56,160 Speaker 1: was Homer, who we don't know actually wrote a let's 1007 00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:59,640 Speaker 1: say it was Homer, and it seems like that whole 1008 00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:05,440 Speaker 1: lot he was for Odysseus was a decompression process for 1009 00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:09,160 Speaker 1: him to get back into society back in Ithaca, because 1010 00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:12,160 Speaker 1: he just finished the Trojan War. He just came out 1011 00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:18,720 Speaker 1: of the Trojan War, and and and between wherever Troy 1012 00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:21,320 Speaker 1: was and getting back to Ithaca, which is on the 1013 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:25,760 Speaker 1: other side of grees on the western side. Agrees, he 1014 00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:27,600 Speaker 1: had to go through a whole lot of adventures. 1015 00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:28,360 Speaker 2: That's right. 1016 00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:31,520 Speaker 1: And maybe do you do you have you ever thought 1017 00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:34,520 Speaker 1: about this? Maybe Homer was writing a story about decompression 1018 00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:35,800 Speaker 1: and getting back into society. 1019 00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:39,640 Speaker 2: I hope so, because that's that's the model it. Yeah, 1020 00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:44,000 Speaker 2: well I absolutely do. And and you know the monsters, 1021 00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:48,360 Speaker 2: the cyclops and the sirens and all the temptations to 1022 00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:53,880 Speaker 2: temptations are all the monsters of from within, you know effects. Yeah, 1023 00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:57,920 Speaker 2: very Freudian kind of of So these are the monsters 1024 00:57:57,960 --> 00:57:59,920 Speaker 2: and the demons that he wrestles with to get home 1025 00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:03,920 Speaker 2: to his beloveds and back to being back to citizenry. 1026 00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:07,760 Speaker 2: And yes, I do. And I think that it's funny 1027 00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:13,200 Speaker 2: that it's not funny. It's curious that in other indigenous 1028 00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:16,400 Speaker 2: cultures they have similar stories about the warriors coming home 1029 00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:19,640 Speaker 2: and how they will depro there's a theory about World 1030 00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:24,960 Speaker 2: War One, which I think is very rubbery, that the 1031 00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,800 Speaker 2: ship trips home, that the trips home in the ships 1032 00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:33,200 Speaker 2: helped some veterans or some of the soldiers to prolong 1033 00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:37,360 Speaker 2: the long, long trips. I don't think the research backs 1034 00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:39,320 Speaker 2: that up, but it's again, I think it would have 1035 00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:42,360 Speaker 2: been helpful for some. And I'm not even sure that 1036 00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:49,760 Speaker 2: making room to process can completely address anything. There's the 1037 00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:54,080 Speaker 2: bruised Apple's theory that you know, you roll them down 1038 00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:57,080 Speaker 2: the stairs enough stairs and the bruises don't kind of heal. 1039 00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:58,760 Speaker 1: But I. 1040 00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:04,280 Speaker 2: Another model I use is the oak table. You know, 1041 00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:07,360 Speaker 2: a veteran is like a beautiful, old, hundreds of years 1042 00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:09,320 Speaker 2: old oak table. You're going to take that over the 1043 00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:12,360 Speaker 2: ike every day of the week. It's battered and bruised 1044 00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:15,280 Speaker 2: and being burned on the corners and chipped and Grandpa 1045 00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:17,160 Speaker 2: ractor saw a bit off and add a new bier. 1046 00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,440 Speaker 1: I've got lots of stories and lots of stories in 1047 00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:23,400 Speaker 1: Providence exactly exactly, and it's that patina that we all 1048 00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:26,040 Speaker 1: carry that we should be we should be really be 1049 00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:26,840 Speaker 1: embracing and. 1050 00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:32,320 Speaker 2: The metaphor of the village, or the metaphor of Homer 1051 00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:35,920 Speaker 2: for veterans that that's kind of the staple to my stories. 1052 00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:38,440 Speaker 2: And as I said, it's not only I've realized now 1053 00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:43,200 Speaker 2: that it's not only the mission critical teams, police, emergency 1054 00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:47,200 Speaker 2: services and first responders, but it's also athletes. I think 1055 00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:50,840 Speaker 2: it's a useful conversation and also think it's a useful 1056 00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:55,480 Speaker 2: conversation for burnt out private credit team. I got a 1057 00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:57,280 Speaker 2: number of forty year olds I'm working with at the 1058 00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,280 Speaker 2: moment that I'm saying, you sure this is the right 1059 00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:01,920 Speaker 2: job for you. You've you've shot the lights out, but 1060 01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:05,200 Speaker 2: it's it's taken a toll, you know, and you've got 1061 01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:07,439 Speaker 2: to stop and assess that at some stone. 1062 01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:09,120 Speaker 1: I know one forty plus year rold that you do 1063 01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:12,520 Speaker 1: look after and and he's a mate. You need it 1064 01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:14,960 Speaker 1: say his name, but he has that name. 1065 01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:15,240 Speaker 2: Chair. 1066 01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:19,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you need more of Harry. And by the way, 1067 01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:21,520 Speaker 1: you're luck you've got Harry. Harry, thanks very much. I 1068 01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:24,480 Speaker 1: really appreciate him. This is the fourth pillar. This sort 1069 01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:27,560 Speaker 1: of reading is not what generally I would expect to 1070 01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:33,720 Speaker 1: get from a veteran an XSAS person, but the wisdom 1071 01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:36,440 Speaker 1: and from what we're just discussing, because I haven't read 1072 01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:39,720 Speaker 1: the book yet, but the wisdom and the whole discussion 1073 01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:43,840 Speaker 1: around how we look at our lives, not as a veteran, 1074 01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:47,920 Speaker 1: but as anyone who's retiring from anything. That's really important 1075 01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:51,640 Speaker 1: because I've been through that process myself, wondering, we'll hang 1076 01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:55,520 Speaker 1: on a minute. I used to identify myself with a 1077 01:00:55,560 --> 01:00:58,240 Speaker 1: certain as a certain type of person, and I actually 1078 01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:01,760 Speaker 1: got quite ill for about three months, very sick and 1079 01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:04,600 Speaker 1: because because it was a full stop put in my 1080 01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:10,880 Speaker 1: career voluntarily, but I didn't realize how much I was 1081 01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:15,320 Speaker 1: thought I was that person, and it took me years 1082 01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:17,680 Speaker 1: to work it out. I'm lucky, I'm much older now, 1083 01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:19,280 Speaker 1: but it took me a long time to work that 1084 01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:21,840 Speaker 1: stuff out. And I was one of the lucky ones 1085 01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:23,640 Speaker 1: because I had good support around me, et cetera. But 1086 01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:27,240 Speaker 1: I recommend someone read these things, and if you're a 1087 01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:30,520 Speaker 1: partner of somebody who's in the same category, this is 1088 01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:32,280 Speaker 1: a great type of insight. This type of insight is 1089 01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:33,760 Speaker 1: what we need to read. So thanks very much. 1090 01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:35,600 Speaker 2: Appreciate you, Mark, appreciate it. Thank you. 1091 01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:36,120 Speaker 1: You're welcome.