WEBVTT - YIKES! I SENT HIM A DRUNK TEXT 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.680 I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming. 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:06.000 She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:07.360 my kissing style. 0:00:07.720 --> 0:00:10.879 With the boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's 0:00:10.920 --> 0:00:13.760 in a trash bin. He's non recyclable catching them mu. 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:17.239 I love being love. I love love. 0:00:17.760 --> 0:00:20.200 On today's episode of Where's Your Head Out, we are 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:24.080 drunk texting one another and looking at the psychology behind 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:27.160 why we feel the need to send risk a messages 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:29.160 when we are ten shots deep. 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:31.800 Look Anna, we've all been there, so we're going to 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:34.839 help you successfully write and respond to those what are 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:36.000 you doing text messages? 0:00:36.240 --> 0:00:39.040 Stay tuned to find out whether drunk texts are truly 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:46.879 sober thoughts. Where's Your Head Out is a podcast that 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:51.879 talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:52.960 everything in between. 0:00:53.240 --> 0:00:55.880 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:56.120 --> 0:01:04.479 intimate details, advice, and much more. Welcome back and another 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:06.160 day in the studio. How are you feeling? 0:01:06.360 --> 0:01:08.280 I'm okay. Can you see a bit of deep heat? 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:12.120 I've got to saw next. I feel like prey it 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:15.360 on my neck to try and like loosen it. You know, 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:18.679 when you just wake up Russ. Yeah, I've just been 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:19.960 waking up a bit rough lately. 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:21.640 I thought that smell was taking me back to the 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:25.279 footy change rooms, getting the rubbed down by the weird 0:01:25.280 --> 0:01:28.720 looking trainers telling me that they've never seen muscles as 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:29.440 big as mine. 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:32.760 Oh my god, I feel like sometimes you make up 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:33.440 these comments. 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:35.640 I swear I hear it, so I don't know if 0:01:35.640 --> 0:01:37.280 someone says it or I think it, it's still in 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:37.640 my mind. 0:01:37.760 --> 0:01:39.000 Oh God, how's your week been? 0:01:39.280 --> 0:01:43.560 Good? Good? We haven't touched on something though. Yeah, the 0:01:43.600 --> 0:01:45.679 fashion show from a couple of weeks ago we went to. 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:47.120 Do you remember that one? 0:01:47.600 --> 0:01:50.480 I do remember that one. Yeah. I actually can't believe 0:01:50.480 --> 0:01:52.720 you're bringing that back up, but yes, I do remember. 0:01:52.840 --> 0:01:55.000 Yes, we didn't touch on the fact that someone was 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:57.320 walking in there and we had to watch them front row. 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:01.960 I mean, you didn't want me to bring this up, teacher. 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:04.640 I didn't really expect Matt to bring this up, So 0:02:04.720 --> 0:02:07.160 I'm a little bit sure. But yes, Matt and I 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:10.160 did go to a fashion show a few weeks back. Now, 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:14.040 I thought I had like avoided that chat. But here 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:14.320 we are. 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:18.000 I'min busy. We've had guests in the meantime, ut. But 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:19.400 here it is. We need to bring it off. 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:22.679 Yeah, so do you want me to Well. 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:25.120 We were sitting front row, sitting there it was you 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:29.400 meeting Jen and Michael, sitting front row with our partners. Yes, 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:33.480 we're watching this beautiful fashion show, some beautiful clothes. It 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:36.399 was an all male runway, so they're coming out and 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:42.320 who none other that comes out than your ex Josh Packham. 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:44.040 I'll give you this. He actually did look good in 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:44.760 what he was wearing. 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:47.360 I did like it, But to be honest, I was 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:50.240 surprised you weren't asked because you were an actual model, 0:02:50.400 --> 0:02:51.919 Like you're a six foot five. 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:55.960 You've unfortunate. 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:58.639 I'm saying no more, but I was surprised to see 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:01.160 you weren't asked to do that runway show. 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:04.480 But then, to be honest, maybe got lost in my 0:03:04.560 --> 0:03:05.160 junk mail. 0:03:06.639 --> 0:03:08.400 Maybe it's too popular everything. 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:10.640 Maybe they knew they couldn't afford it. I don't know 0:03:10.680 --> 0:03:12.960 who knows, but yeah I was. I wasn't too surprised. 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:14.720 I was an inn iveene. I haven't walked a catwalk 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:16.440 in what years? When was the last time you walked one? 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:18.840 A long time? I wouldn't do it again. 0:03:19.639 --> 0:03:22.040 Yeah, we did say afterwards, so that I'd find it 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:23.640 pretty weird to do. Now. I don't think i'd be 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:25.120 able to take it as seriously as I used to, 0:03:25.280 --> 0:03:27.000 you know what I mean, it'd be different. 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:29.880 Yeah, Like I used to take them very seriously, Like 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:33.480 I was like full Zoolander mode on I know. 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:36.080 You definitely I wanted to get that good photo, and 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:36.520 I mean. 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:38.760 The guys on the runway did an amazing job and 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:40.080 they were very Zoolander. 0:03:40.560 --> 0:03:43.760 So let's talk about it though. Josh Packham, your ex, 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:48.000 everyone knows that, come strutting out looking very Zoolander. You're 0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:51.360 sitting front row with your ring glistening in the light, 0:03:51.480 --> 0:03:54.360 with Michael sitting next to you. Join me talk you 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:56.480 through what emotions you're feeling when that happens. 0:03:57.000 --> 0:03:59.320 I didn't really feel any emotions. I was just kind 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:02.640 of like, I mean, pre show, you were like, hey, 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:06.720 just a little heads up, Josh, your ex and his 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:09.120 twin brother are walking in the show. So I was like, oh, okay, 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:13.000 like that's fine, Like it is what it is. You know, 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:15.960 Josh and I are on like fine terms. There's no 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:18.520 bad blood. So I was just like that's cool. When 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:21.760 I saw him, Like I didn't really feel any type 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:23.760 of way. I was just like, it is what it is. 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:26.279 I mean, you were like camera at the ready, like 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:29.560 zooming in on him. Like that's a bit much you 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:30.240 do you mad? 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:32.720 I wanted to get here and then your reaction, but 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:35.240 you told nothing. You didn't give anything away. It didn't 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:36.040 look like anything. 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:38.560 What was strange about that though, And I know that 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:42.839 you knew this was happening. Was directly across from me 0:04:42.960 --> 0:04:48.320 and you on this runway catwalk was the Daily Mail 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:50.880 and they had like a camera set up just pointing 0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:55.840 directly at me, Michael, you and Jen. And I was like, 0:04:56.360 --> 0:05:00.000 is this because they know that my ex boyfriend is 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:03.880 walking in the rum way and I'm sitting here with 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:06.599 my new fiance, Like, is that why they're pointing the 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:08.400 camera at us? Because I was a little bit shook 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:08.840 about that. 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:11.000 Yeah, that was a bit awkward. I reckon. I saw 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:13.520 that as well, and I was like, oh, not look 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:17.160 too to I don't know, look too angry at him 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:18.560 or too like you just have. 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:21.200 To be neutral, right, Like you can't be happy, you 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:23.880 can't laugh, you definitely can't look angry. 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:27.559 In wrestling, we call it no selling, just blank face. 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:29.520 Yeah, I think I did a good blank face. 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:31.640 You did well. Had you spoken to Josh since you 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:32.520 guys got engaged? 0:05:32.960 --> 0:05:33.239 No? 0:05:33.480 --> 0:05:37.280 Actually, so no congratulations message or anything from him? 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:38.719 No, I didn't. I don't think so. 0:05:39.960 --> 0:05:43.640 Maybe maybe you've had too many messages you've lost his No. 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:45.360 I'm pretty sure I didn't get a message from him. 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:45.960 But that's okay. 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:50.239 Well, speaking of messages, so Jen and I celebrated out 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:52.160 one year a couple of weeks ago. 0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:54.560 Rat it's a big milestone. 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:55.800 It's gone so quickly. 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:57.320 What did you guys do for it? 0:05:57.480 --> 0:06:00.040 Well, we went to Crown, spent the night there. I 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:05.200 had a nice night, really played Holy moly, golf, had 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:07.760 a little bit of friendly competition. Let's just put it 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:11.719 this way. There was some sexual acts up for grabs 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:17.080 for whoever wins a lot at steak. Really, a couple 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:19.240 of hole in ones would lead to maybe a hole 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:24.080 in one, who knows. But yeah, so we're gone. We 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:26.560 were looking back at old messages and we're like, let's 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:30.240 reminisce on before we started dating. So she's sitting there 0:06:30.279 --> 0:06:32.719 in the bed and we're going through them, and she 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:34.599 took it right back. So she went back to the 0:06:34.600 --> 0:06:36.039 start of our Instagram conversation. 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:39.480 It's hard to get right back. It's a lot of scrolling. 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:41.520 It was a lot of scrolling, and she got there. 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:44.960 And let's just say a couple of those messages from me, 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:47.479 I think I've touched on them. They were thirsty, were 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:50.200 they like I was sending some serious. 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:51.560 Like you sending're my. 0:06:51.600 --> 0:06:53.960 Dream girl, You're eleven out of ten, I'm going to 0:06:54.040 --> 0:06:56.800 pick you up. I'll post these on the Facebook group 0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:59.120 if anyone wants to see them. There's some really She goes, 0:06:59.200 --> 0:07:02.520 I'm excited. I think one of them, she says, I go, 0:07:02.600 --> 0:07:05.440 I'm gonna pick you up for drinks on Monday. Let's 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:07.159 share a bottle of red. And she's like, I don't 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:09.600 drink red or something. I can't remember exactly word for word, 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:12.080 but it was really painful to look back on. But 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:14.720 we're looking at him, we're looking at the time that 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:17.000 they were sent in the date because you see it obviously. 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:19.280 And I was like, I was like, let's see what 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:21.720 I was doing, because that time's a very random time. 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:23.920 So I've gone into my camera roll. I paid for 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:26.320 the iCloud Supreme, so I've got it all. I can 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:28.840 look at photos from like four, five, six, years ago. 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:31.720 So I scroll out. I'm going through my photos. I look, 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:33.480 I try, I find the month, find the month, I 0:07:33.520 --> 0:07:36.200 find the time, and I figure out I was on 0:07:36.240 --> 0:07:39.160 the Gold Coast with my mates, having a fun trip 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:40.160 with the boys that weekend. 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:41.920 I see, having a boys trip when you sent these 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:42.560 messages to. 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:45.680 Jem So I'm looking through them. I'm looking through them, 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:48.760 and I said, what time was that sentence? She was like, oh, 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:51.160 it looks like eleven something or whatever time it was. 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:54.000 And I was like, oh my god, you're kidding. And 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:55.480 I don't remember the exact time, but it was like 0:07:55.520 --> 0:07:58.040 eleven twenty eight. I sent the messages and at eleven 0:07:58.280 --> 0:08:01.640 thirty there was a photo of me in a booth 0:08:01.760 --> 0:08:05.200 with my mates the huge fish bowl. Just absolutely pissed 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:07.840 out of my eyelids, just like this with a fishbowl. 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:10.960 So two minutes before I had taken that photo pissed, 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:12.880 I was sending Jen thirsty messages. 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:14.960 We love a drunk text, don't we. 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:17.200 But it was completely not gonna get me anywhere. She 0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:18.920 was in Melbourne. I was on the Gold Coast. 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:21.440 See that just shows the levels that you were willing 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:24.040 to go for for Jen, Like you were so obsessed 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:26.360 with her that even although you were in different states, 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:28.960 you were like, I don't care. You're getting a drunk 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:29.640 text night. 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:32.400 Yeah, you're looking fit in whatever story you're posted. You're 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:38.920 getting these messages. Someone please lock me up. Not doing well. 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:41.520 Look on that note, I think it's time to took 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:51.000 all things drunk texts. Okay, Matt, So you used to 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:54.800 drunk text. You're now girl friend Jen before you guys 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:57.680 had even met, and you used to send her heaps 0:08:57.679 --> 0:09:00.480 of drunk messages. But the question that I want to 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:03.280 ask is why did you drunk text? Like, why do 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:04.520 we drunk text? 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:08.520 Well, I think that one was I was quite drunk. 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:13.480 I'm not going to lie. I'm probably pretty horny throwing 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:15.640 some feelers out. The hail mary is I like to 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:19.480 call them. So in American football, hail mary is when 0:09:19.559 --> 0:09:23.160 the quarterback will throw it and just hope it lands. 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:25.520 So you're sending out a few hail marys. 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:28.480 Mary's when I used to get drunk and I was single, 0:09:28.960 --> 0:09:31.040 being one of them will land. You know, I'm not 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:33.560 picking up right now, but she was in a different state. 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:34.880 I was hoping it landed. 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:37.959 It landed for the following weekend. 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:41.320 It eventually landed and that's the point of hail Mary. 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:44.840 It eventually so, but why would you send a drunk text? 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:47.920 Well, look, I think we all send drunk texts because 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:50.280 we have a bit of Dutch courage. We're feeling a 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:53.920 little bit more confident. We probably think less about the 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:56.760 ramifications of that text the next day when you're sober, 0:09:56.880 --> 0:10:00.679 So I guess we're maybe less accountable for our act. 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:03.800 How about the next day when you wake up and 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:07.800 you see some of the messages you've sent demons? Demons 0:10:07.880 --> 0:10:09.240 just straight swipe to leave. 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:11.960 I don't even look stop it, so you won't even 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:13.199 go in to see the chat. 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:14.760 I never would. 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:17.560 I'd just feel like that's it doesn't like they're not knowing, 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:22.400 stress you out even more ignorance. That's not the mindset 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:22.959 that I have. 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:25.120 Like I just don't want to know what I've said, 0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:27.199 because I've known I've been in some states and I 0:10:27.320 --> 0:10:30.439 would have sent some real fucked up stuff and just 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:34.720 delete it. I've got one for you. Yeah, do you 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:37.720 know when a guy is sending you a hail Mary text? 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:39.920 What do you mean? Like you're just throwing it out 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:42.800 there drunk texts as in, like he's trying to get late. 0:10:43.360 --> 0:10:44.720 Do you know when they come through? 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:49.679 Yeah? Absolutely surely. How do you like a wyd? Are? 0:10:49.760 --> 0:10:53.280 What you're doing is like if someone's throwing out a wyd, 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:57.040 you know that it's a booty call, right, Like it's 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:58.600 not even a hey, how you going? 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:00.560 What guys are sent? Actually sending that. 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:04.000 Someone sent me a wyd And I was like, I 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:06.640 literally I remember he sent it to me the week 0:11:06.720 --> 0:11:08.560 prior and then the next week I was out at 0:11:08.600 --> 0:11:11.160 the club and I was like the audacity of you 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:13.280 to send me a wyd, Like. 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:15.680 How did you know him? How well did you know? 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:18.040 He was? Just like he's just like the town player 0:11:18.080 --> 0:11:20.880 and fuck boy, so like it wasn't a surprise to 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:23.560 get to what you're doing from him. But like I 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:26.360 was just thinking, like I wonder how many wyds he 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:29.120 sent out that night, like at least ten, at least 0:11:29.200 --> 0:11:32.720 at a minimum, at a minimum ten. But yeah, I 0:11:32.760 --> 0:11:38.240 think to answer your question personally, for me, I think 0:11:38.280 --> 0:11:41.679 the difference between a nine to fifty nine message and 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:44.679 a ten o'clock message is massive because I think when 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:47.880 it ticks over to ten o'clock, it's a booty call. 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:50.640 Right, you said this before, and I was saying that. 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:55.640 I think that's still a bit early, kicking around twelve one. 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:59.880 I think like in general, if someone's messaging you are 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:03.960 to seven pm on a Friday or a Saturday night, 0:12:04.920 --> 0:12:08.160 you can guarantee they're out drinking with their friends. They're 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:10.680 not messaging you because they're trying to tea up a day. 0:12:10.800 --> 0:12:13.480 They're messaging you because they're like, I'm out, I want 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:16.280 to see if you're out, and like let's link up later. 0:12:17.120 --> 0:12:20.960 Yeah, I've definitely Yeah, everyone's definitely sent them. I just 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:23.360 want to know if girls actually know that they're coming 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:26.760 in hot as a wid text an actual like you 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:27.280 know what I mean? 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:27.880 What do you mean? 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:30.000 No, So, like a guy sends you on, have you 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:31.680 ever woken up to guys sending him to? 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:33.640 Absolutely? Yeah, what do you do? 0:12:33.679 --> 0:12:34.120 Just laugh? 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:37.240 I just don't reply and like that's embarrassing and like 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:41.160 you're probably gonna look at that in the morning and go, yeah, 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:44.679 but if you like them then but if you like them, 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:48.079 then maybe you would reply be like haha, someone had 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:51.120 a big night last night, you know, like a bit 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:54.760 of cheekiness. Yeah. I remember, Actually I was seeing this 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:59.120 guy probably like two years before I met Michael and 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:02.839 it's actually one that Michael has met a couple of times. 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:05.120 So Michael is aware of this person who I used 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:06.079 to date. 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:09.160 Obviously who you and the guy still civil? 0:13:09.280 --> 0:13:11.720 No, No, we don't talk and we hadn't talked for 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:17.200 a while. Yeah, but I remember when that guy who 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:19.920 I used to see found out that I was seeing Michael, 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:25.400 he then sent me like a twelve o'clock message being like, 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:29.480 what are you up to? Are you out? And then 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:32.600 Michael saw them. Yeah, me and Michael were in bed 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:36.080 and Michael saw the message, and he's like, he knows 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:39.439 that we're seeing each other, and he hasn't messaged you 0:13:39.520 --> 0:13:41.960 in about six months, and the fact that this is 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:44.720 a message at midnight that he's sending you when he 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:48.559 knows that we're seeing each other, it's just playing rude, right, Yeah, So. 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:50.520 What do you think the meaning behind that would be? Then? 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:53.679 Well, I don't really know specifically, but I have a 0:13:53.760 --> 0:13:58.520 few theories. The first one would be like, obviously, this 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:01.160 other guy is kind of like, well, I was seeing 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:05.280 Anna before Michael, so he's kind of like seeing if 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:09.320 I'm still open to the idea of him, which I wasn't, 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:11.920 and I didn't reply, So maybe he was just like 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:14.640 testing the waters to see like where my head was at, 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:17.360 and my head was with Michael, and he never got 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:19.240 a reply again and he got a ghosting. 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:23.960 Poor guy throw throwing out those text messages. Well, there's 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:24.680 a lot of reasons. 0:14:24.680 --> 0:14:26.680 I don't know would you do that. Like if you 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:30.160 were seeing someone like six months ago and then let's 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:32.840 just say you're single for the argument's sake, So you're 0:14:32.880 --> 0:14:35.800 seeing someone six months ago, and then someone who you've 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:38.280 met a few times, like a guy, start seeing that. 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:42.000 Person, wouldn't give a fuck, to be honest, Okay. 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:43.640 So what would make you send a message like that? 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:47.240 I don't know, why would you send a message unless 0:14:47.240 --> 0:14:48.840 you were trying to like cook back up with them. 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:50.920 I don't think i'd give a shit if they were 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:51.760 seeing someone else. 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:54.280 Yeah, so maybe he's trying to see Maybe you're. 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:55.800 Trying to see how serious you are with the other person. 0:14:55.920 --> 0:14:57.600 So yeah, can you have another crack at him? 0:14:57.720 --> 0:15:01.120 Yeah? And I think that's why, Yeah, that happened. 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:04.080 Okay. So there's a lot of meanings behind sending a 0:15:04.120 --> 0:15:06.480 drunk text. I feel a lot of them would be 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:09.600 that if you've received a drunk text from someone, they're 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:10.200 thinking of you. 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:16.240 Yeah, absolutely, And like, also, I feel like sometimes I 0:15:16.320 --> 0:15:20.160 reckon that I've sent drunk texts because I maybe feel 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:23.520 a certain way about someone, but I really have no 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:27.240 idea if those feelings are reciprocated, and so then I'm 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:31.400 kind of like, well, I'm not going to say anything. 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:33.560 But then when I get a little bit tipsy, I'm like, 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:35.760 fuck it, I'm just gonna like tell them how I 0:15:35.800 --> 0:15:39.120 feel and test the waters and confess all of my 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:40.720 feelings towards them kind of thing. 0:15:40.880 --> 0:15:42.200 You know, I've read it the next day and you 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:46.200 got that hangover anxiety hangover from hell. Yeah. This so 0:15:46.320 --> 0:15:50.120 another reason be something reminded you of them. So I 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:53.000 was I remember New Year's Eve, Jen, someone she used 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:56.360 to see, texted her, Yeah, actually was something that reminded 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:58.960 them of her. She didn't reply over sleep because me 0:15:58.960 --> 0:16:02.200 and her were having cute romantic thing. But like, that's 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:05.360 an ambitious way to slide into someone's like DMS or 0:16:05.400 --> 0:16:07.080 rekindle something I've had. 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:09.960 That though, have you. Yeah, Like someone will be like, oh, 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:12.600 I'm at this restaurant that we once went to, and 0:16:12.640 --> 0:16:14.960 then they'll be like this reminded me of you, or 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:17.640 like something like that and it is. It's definitely a 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:20.880 slide in like and especially if someone's in a relationship, 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:24.160 it's very like you know what I mean, Like it's 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:27.600 definitely on that boundary of crossing a line, but it 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:30.960 also could be super harmless with no malice. 0:16:31.120 --> 0:16:32.160 I don't think it was. 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:33.120 It wasn't him. 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:38.680 It was very share of details. They could feel intimidated 0:16:38.680 --> 0:16:40.760 by you and they just can't talk to you sober. 0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:43.560 So I think a lot of girls have felt this. 0:16:43.600 --> 0:16:49.200 Suff messaged me. Have you been intimidated by someone who 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:51.320 message him while you were drunk and you can talk 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:54.360 to him while you're sober? Michael, do that to you? 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:57.160 I mean me and Michael definitely had like a lot 0:16:57.200 --> 0:17:01.400 of drunk messages like back and fall before we actually 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:05.320 had a first day, Like we would kind of chat 0:17:05.520 --> 0:17:07.239 when he was out and I was out, and then 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:08.919 we'd like try and kind of meet up, but then 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:11.920 it wouldn't work out. But I have a question for you. 0:17:11.960 --> 0:17:14.679 Do you think that you can send a drunk text 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:16.879 and it's just like a genuine mistake, Like it just 0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:18.640 has no meaning behind. 0:17:18.359 --> 0:17:20.840 It, like the wrong person or you used to know, 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:21.440 like you. 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:25.160 Send the message maybe because you're bored or like you're 0:17:25.440 --> 0:17:27.960 maybe reaching out to like everyone in your phone book 0:17:27.960 --> 0:17:31.119 who comes up, and like there's literally no meaning behind it. 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:33.119 So you could send someone a message and I don't know, 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:35.800 like flame react to something of someone, and then you 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:37.640 wake up in the morning and you're like, oh, why 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:39.560 did I do that? Like that's not how I feel 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:39.880 at all. 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:43.880 That used to be my Saturday flames. 0:17:43.480 --> 0:17:46.679 To everyone, and that's like giving out flames to the 0:17:46.680 --> 0:17:47.680 holand Melo. 0:17:48.080 --> 0:17:50.879 In Vegas time when I was like ham it. My 0:17:51.560 --> 0:17:56.280 dams were just not well. I have you ever drunk 0:17:56.320 --> 0:17:56.840 texted me? 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:00.119 Have I drunk texted you in that way? 0:18:00.119 --> 0:18:02.639 But ever drunk texted anything? I think I drunk texted 0:18:02.680 --> 0:18:06.240 you the other day at the racist, didn't I It's 0:18:06.480 --> 0:18:08.720 something I can't remember. We were chatting and it was 0:18:08.760 --> 0:18:11.080 a fucking no. 0:18:11.240 --> 0:18:13.840 I got a message. So Matt was at the races 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:18.520 the other day and I got this message from these 0:18:18.560 --> 0:18:23.359 two girls and they sent me a message. Let me 0:18:23.400 --> 0:18:26.679 see if I can find my screenshot you screenshot. I 0:18:26.720 --> 0:18:29.200 screenshot at it because it was so good. So it's 0:18:29.200 --> 0:18:33.480 these like two beautiful blonde girls with Matt and then 0:18:34.240 --> 0:18:40.880 it says where are you from? That So I got 0:18:40.880 --> 0:18:46.119 a drunk text recently from that through other people, and 0:18:46.160 --> 0:18:49.080 I was like, that is so hilarious, Like I don't know, 0:18:49.200 --> 0:18:53.720