1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:01,600 Speaker 1: Acting like my dating experts and. 2 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 2: We're not hing just things like hinge designed to be deleted. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, I still fucking hab it, so it's 4 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 2: not like very well. I'm just imagining warm walk and 5 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:27,479 Speaker 2: turn skin. I'm not being a cola. Oh my god, guys. 6 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: I just wanted to set the scene for you. 7 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 2: Guys. 8 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: You may be in Melbourne in the cold weather and 9 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 1: just like easy and I like lying by pool right now. 10 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 1: Sorry to rub it in your face. 11 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 2: We're really sorry to rub it in your face. 12 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: I'm not that sorry. 13 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 2: It'll be five books deep in the Throne of Glass series. 14 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: I'm not making this a book podcast, but. 15 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: To be by the pool and you guys are listening to. 16 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 2: Us, probably little bit hungover, which is why I'm. 17 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:50,200 Speaker 1: Baby yeah, but we're just like chilling there, vibing. We're 18 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: just grateful for you guys, just passing gratitude, like the 19 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: pool in the heat. Some of you guys are in 20 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: euro summer, so like I'm not like. 21 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 2: You're living you're living your too, And if you know, 22 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, we're really we're leaving for you. We're living 23 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 2: for you. Yeah, and we'll keep you updated. We're actually 24 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:08,960 Speaker 2: going to be recording over there, Yes, so you'll get 25 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 2: some live sort of updates on what our trip's been like. 26 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:14,839 Speaker 1: Yes, as you guys know, we announced a little event 27 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 1: that we're running on the thirtieth of July. You guys 28 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 1: heard it in the Girl's Guide, So make sure you 29 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 1: guys are entering that. 30 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 2: We're so excited and we once again kind of apologize 31 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 2: that we do apologize, not kind of yeah, that it 32 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 2: is going to be an over eighteen event. We're definitely 33 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 2: going to be working on something that can include you 34 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 2: under eighteen year old little younglings that we love and support. Yeah, 35 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 2: so we maybe give us some ideas and we can 36 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 2: do something with everyone. 37 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: All ideas are welcome always. But on this week's episode, 38 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: we are talking about Hinge dating app, dating apps, all 39 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: dating apps, yeah, all like our experiences on them. As 40 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: you guys know, I kind of joined Hinge a couple 41 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 1: of months ago, now, like once I came back from America, 42 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: and I've just wanted to share some of the rogue 43 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: as fucking responses I've had and is he's going to 44 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: judge my prompts as well. 45 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 2: Obviously if you have been a long time listener, you 46 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 2: will know that we have done this kind of with 47 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 2: me before, so we are going to make it a 48 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 2: little different. We are going to get into Sam, Yes, 49 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:17,959 Speaker 2: I can't wait. We're also going to talk about what 50 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 2: we enjoy about them, what we hate about them, how 51 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 2: to build the perfect profile, red flags, green flags, and 52 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 2: how to date in your twenties. 53 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're fucking experts. Not anyway, we'll get into 54 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: it actually like we're dating experts. 55 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 2: We're not at all. So any advice from you as. 56 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: We're still here. We haven't deleted the app just yet. 57 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 2: Hine just things like hinge designed to be deleted. I'm like, well, 58 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 2: I still fucking have it, so it's not like very well. 59 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: What is your recommendation of the week? 60 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 2: Is he My recommendation of the week is the Kylie 61 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 2: Jenner lipliners. 62 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're good, they last a long time. 63 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 2: I'm not huge like Kylie products. It's like Kylie skin. 64 00:02:58,360 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you want to fuck with that, 65 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 2: But I actually really really like their lipliners. They go 66 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 2: on really really easy, and they're a really nice color. 67 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 2: Like the color Lua. It's like this ready brownie color. 68 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 2: I love it and we've been using it since we 69 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 2: got it in America. It's really really good. Yeah, that's 70 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 2: my recommendation. What about you, baby. 71 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: Mine is a brand you guys have been asking me 72 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 1: so much about, like what I'm packing for Bali and 73 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: what I'm taking to Bali. It's a bay the brand. 74 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: It's Bidy. I think I'm pronouncing it wrong. B Y 75 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: d Ee. 76 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 2: I got you Bidie. 77 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I could be pronouncing it wrong. You know sometimes 78 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: they literally. 79 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 2: Yeah it's self. Sorry about well, I'm just making. 80 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: Sure has opened them, you know, you never know. They 81 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: have some really cute bathers at the moment, I've packed 82 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: quite a few. I'm sure you guys will be seeing them. 83 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: I've got some Instagram really cute that has some nice 84 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 1: resort wear as well, So if you're looking for bathers 85 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: for upcoming holiday, check them out. 86 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 2: And they've got the pair I have. It's this yellow 87 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 2: sort of point like fair with like a little lace 88 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 2: trim and Obama cheeky and that's what we laugh. 89 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, you never get the cheeks out of oday, guys. 90 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 2: I don't mom. 91 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: At the end of the what I'm saying, Yeah, that's 92 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: my recommendation of. 93 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 2: The lovely And we're going to get into co estions. 94 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: Question of the Week this week is is he if 95 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: one of your mutual friends had told you they saw 96 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: me out on Friday night acting crazy, what would you 97 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: immediately assume I was doing? Okay, I've kind of know. 98 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 2: When you get crazy a little bit drunk, it's like 99 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 2: you're this little pocket rocket zooming around underneath everyone's noses. 100 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 2: Like she zooms back and forth really quickly, and she 101 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 2: talks really fast, like it's like the energy has leveled up. Yeah, 102 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? 103 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: I get like this complex. I'm like, someone, will I 104 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 1: need this. I'm like, let me do it. I get 105 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: through fast. 106 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 2: Like she's running back and forth and back and forth. 107 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 2: It's like she's toting messages between people. 108 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like a little pixie like. 109 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's not one of those people that kind of 110 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:04,359 Speaker 2: like sit and relax. No, she's getting all that energy 111 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 2: out by running back and forth between people. You do 112 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 2: get louder, but not like me loud, and you get touchier, 113 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 2: which I like. I'm a very I like physical touch. 114 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 2: That's how I show affection. And Sam finally hugs me. 115 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 2: I like just. 116 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 1: A lout to go. 117 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 2: I love it. 118 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, is he. 119 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 2: Go easy? This is a podcast. 120 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 1: There's many things that I could speak about, and I'm 121 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: going to speak about a few. So the first one 122 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 1: is she's definitely talked about her tits. 123 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 2: Oh you might have shown people. 124 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 1: She's definitely would have shown you her new boobs before 125 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:47,359 Speaker 1: she got her boob job. She would have told you 126 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: that she's getting your boob job, and she would have 127 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: shown you reference pictures of her inspiration. That's just something 128 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 1: for the last couple of months, maybe since March. That's 129 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 1: just something she's really hammed on when she's drunk. I'm 130 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: not going to. 131 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 2: Say to you unless you actually know me and I 132 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 2: like a direct friend of mine. I know, I haven't 133 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:05,919 Speaker 2: actually shown anyone my boobs, yeah, unless they're my friend, 134 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 2: like not around them. I'm not like whipping my teats 135 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 2: up a rundom. And I'm really happy that, yeah, because 136 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 2: I get really excited. 137 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 1: Yeeah. 138 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is the key word. 139 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: But yeah, So she's definitely told you about her boobs, 140 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 1: and she's just speaking on goodly that like you just 141 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: you just hear her, yeah, and you're just like you're 142 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 1: not saying rogue shit, but you're kind of just like 143 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: running your mouth a little bit. 144 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 2: But like what I have heard that I've doing you 145 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 2: might agree, I repeat myself, Oh my god, like like 146 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 2: a relevant thing. It's like, it's I just got a 147 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 2: uger rebel. I just got a rebel. 148 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. She doesn't drop a point. And then she was like, 149 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 1: why are you getting annoyed? I'm like, cause you've told 150 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: me you how to bock a rebel, told time to 151 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 1: go and get it. It's in your fucking hand. I 152 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: can see it, Like she doesn't. She reiterates herself again again. Yeah, 153 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: I got you're aware of that. 154 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 2: I've been told that so many times. 155 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't drop. 156 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 2: A pall like leg and I notice it sometimes and 157 00:06:57,839 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 2: I'm doing it, like finally the like sixth time, I'll 158 00:06:59,920 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 2: be like, wait, I already said this like so many times. Yeah, God, 159 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 2: I sound like a fucking hoot to be around. 160 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:09,359 Speaker 1: No, you're fun, but yeah, she talks about her boobs 161 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: and she repeats it. So if you hasn't told you 162 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 1: about her boobs, she'll tell you. 163 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 2: Any positive points you can give. 164 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: You're always fun. Time you don't say anything positive. Yeah, 165 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: but you said that the question was that you were 166 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 1: running a mark. 167 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 2: You're a menace, so yeahsty so yeah, yeah, anyway, if 168 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 2: you ever see us out doing those things. 169 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 1: I'm running around and easy is talking about the boobs. Oh, 170 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 1: we're a great time. 171 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're really fun guys. You shouldn't hang out with 172 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 2: us when we go out. 173 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 1: Let's jump straight into today's episode of dating apps. Dating apps? 174 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 1: Should we go straight into your judging my hinge? Yeah? 175 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 2: Okay, Sam's on this to me. We're just gonna I'm 176 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 2: gonna talk you through what they hand me the phone. 177 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 2: I'm going to talk you through what the photos are, 178 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 2: and I'm gonna read the prompts. 179 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: Yes, you know, okay, I'll I have screenshots and few 180 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 1: things the times of what guys have replied to my 181 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: re pumps and they these are cringe ones by the way, 182 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 1: like they're disgusting. Yeah, so so they're like, I'm like, 183 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: don't do this kind of in a way like they're 184 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 1: my red flags and you'll never get a match with 185 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: me if you respond to my clubs like this. 186 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 2: Can't wait here all right? Photo number one. Photo number 187 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 2: one is a very pretty photo of Sam standing in 188 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: Gold Coast with the blue with Harpolu dress on, smiling. Yes, 189 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 2: it's always good to have a nice natural smile photo 190 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 2: like genuine happiness. 191 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. And this was a big thing when I was 192 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: creating my profile, obviously, because I take a lot of 193 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: photos for work, but they're quite like serious, so trying 194 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 1: like a nonchalant, chill photo. It's kind of hard, but it's. 195 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 2: Good to have in there because I don't know, I 196 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 2: don't think I have one. 197 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: Of those, because I don't want to be like, oh my, 198 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:45,839 Speaker 1: look at me, like yeah, can I have an eggs 199 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 1: like you know what I mean? Yeah, Like I do 200 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:50,959 Speaker 1: want it to be like so like high profile. 201 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 2: Like yeah, not like yeah, and your hair is curly, 202 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 2: which if you have curly hair, boys love curly hair. 203 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 2: It's nice to have it in there. You look, you 204 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 2: look beautiful versus gorgeous. Happy days first prompt. Now this 205 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 2: is a good I really need to get. 206 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:08,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I really struggle with these week finding prompt. 207 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 2: But at least she knows my feelings because we'd write 208 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:12,079 Speaker 2: them about the same way I helped to write them. 209 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 2: Try to guess this about me? My death throw meal 210 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 2: always a good conversation. I'm great prompt because it allows 211 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 2: boys to respond. Something can start a conversation. 212 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I also found out that then that's how 213 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: they find out, maybe how what food you like to eat? 214 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 1: And then that's the restaurant that they take you to. 215 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: If you then progress. 216 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 2: Totally, like it's always good to have something about food, 217 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 2: and now I've got my thing that, like, what's my 218 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 2: favorite thing or something a good baller pasta. Boys will 219 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 2: always respond alcohol pasta, Yeah, let's go here at seven. 220 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:42,959 Speaker 2: Having something like that is great. 221 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 1: A common response for that is like they try to 222 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: be funny and they're like, well, why are you a 223 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: death row fucking light up? Like or they go like 224 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: you look like a WeetBix kid, Like. 225 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 2: What were you a weep big skin? 226 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:57,559 Speaker 1: My dad forced me to eat weep bore having other 227 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 1: cereal but like, come on. 228 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 2: You know what I actually the other day we were 229 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 2: talking about the other day I was in queenswn with 230 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 2: my family, bit of family time. It was actually really nice. 231 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:06,439 Speaker 2: We were talking about what my parents used to feed 232 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 2: me for breakfast. Wheatbiks or rice bubbles that was interchangeable. Yeah, 233 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 2: covered in heavy cream and granulated raw sugar. That's fucked 234 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 2: and milk, but I'm like wheat that was our favorite breakfast. 235 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 2: It was wheatbeaks of cream and sugar. That's what we said. 236 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:23,959 Speaker 2: That is the most. 237 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 1: If we had rice bubbles, we had to have banana 238 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: and we had to have at least half a week 239 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: bick in there, Like my dad wouldn't let us just 240 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 1: have rice bubbles, Like. 241 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, mine was just a bowl of rice bubbles with 242 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 2: cream and sugar on. Not just so fucked delicious. If 243 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 2: you have any of those ingredients at home, like make 244 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 2: yourself a little bowld give it a go. All right. 245 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 2: She has said she doesn't have children. Okay, no kids, 246 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 2: no kids. 247 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: I probably should change that because I don't have a child. 248 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 2: Well, most people just don't include that unless you're. 249 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 1: Maybe questions and I just yeah, yeah, no, I'm really 250 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 1: not give myself good. 251 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 2: No, no, no, it's fine. All right. Then The photo 252 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 2: number two is a photo of Sam, Lily and I. Yes, Ma, yes, Lily, 253 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 2: your housemate Tiaser Tizzar to your ni. Yeah. The good 254 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 2: thing is you do look the best out of the 255 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 2: three of us in the photo, which is a good 256 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 2: thing for profile. Don't put your hot friends next to 257 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 2: you in your hinge profile. 258 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 1: Okay, boys, especially you guys, fucking put a photo of 259 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: you and your mate and then you have to keep 260 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: scrolling to fight out which one's. 261 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 2: You, Yeah, and n time it's not. Yeah. Me and 262 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 2: my friends like a game where we look at what Yeah, 263 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 2: I just don't know why people do that. Yeah, we 264 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 2: would look at like was it me and you? We 265 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 2: would look at profiles that have more than one people person, 266 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 2: and we guess who you can belong to from the 267 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 2: first photo. It's never the hoot one. 268 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: So why would you do that? You're like doing yourself. 269 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 2: You're doing yourself with disservice because the person always will 270 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 2: link onto that photo and go, I want it to 271 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 2: be him. Oh it's not X. Yeah, so at least 272 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:58,719 Speaker 2: give yourself a fighting. 273 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: Chance and call us fucking So this level, but like hinge. 274 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 2: Hinge is a service level. 275 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is what dating is on a profile. 276 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 2: Like I find having in that initial attraction to someone 277 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 2: allows you to learn more about them personally, like if 278 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 2: you're not meeting them in person. So it's like you 279 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 2: need a present, you'll put your best foot forward. Yes, 280 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 2: that's what hinge is. Yes, Photo three tits. 281 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: Wait what one is it? Oh? 282 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 2: But that's it's her and Jazz lying on the beach. 283 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 2: She's like taking a photo from a bar like zero 284 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 2: point five. Yeah, just I'm like squinting, I'm smiling like 285 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 2: I'm not look look at natural, no makeup on, pretty 286 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:35,320 Speaker 2: look and toned. 287 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: Thanks, yeah, I was really tony to someone. 288 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, gorgeous. Away from number two, unusual skills, she says, 289 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 2: I literally have no skills whatsoever. 290 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'll show you the fucking responses because that 291 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: I've had from that profect in a bit. 292 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 2: Boys like to say, a girl that can't do anything 293 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 2: reading for you, chill easy, rumps the fucking ship. Yeah, 294 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 2: this is perfect, all right. Photo number four is a 295 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:07,079 Speaker 2: beautiful mirror selfie. Hairs looking blow dry, nice white corset, 296 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:09,959 Speaker 2: tanned as always, jewelry on point. 297 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: And there's a Prime bottle in the back of that, 298 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 1: and everyone goes, not the Prime, not the Prime. I'm like, 299 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 1: and what that's. 300 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 2: Something I noticed people like to pick apart, not pick apart, 301 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 2: but like scour your photos for any little kind of 302 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 2: point that they can comment on. 303 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 1: And it's like, what are you going to do prior 304 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 1: to that with? 305 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 2: But that's something interesting to say, I'd say, they probably 306 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 2: don't realize that that's quite a common thing that boys. 307 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 1: You. Yeah, that's probably one of my most liked photos though, 308 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: that's why you look. 309 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:41,680 Speaker 2: That's your glamorous. That one that's probably the first one. Yeah, 310 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:43,439 Speaker 2: where you're looking like real glamorous. 311 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right. 312 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 2: Prop Number three is you should not go out with 313 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 2: me if you don't want to share your food. 314 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 1: Yes. 315 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 2: Also, I think a good prompt for people to like, yeah. 316 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:55,199 Speaker 1: Kind of come in and it's something you definitely should 317 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: know about me, is I don't order my own food. 318 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:58,320 Speaker 1: I just like to try other people. 319 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 2: You guys saw that and wear a little bit funny 320 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 2: on that. In America, I like to share my food. 321 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 2: I like to buy a lot of food. One of 322 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 2: those people that if I see two different things in 323 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 2: the menu I want, I'll get both of them because 324 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,319 Speaker 2: I know that I have a vacuum cleaner as a friend, 325 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 2: and I'll eat it or not whatever I don't eat. 326 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 2: And then I get the luxury of trying both the pastas, Yes, 327 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 2: it's usually pasta. It's not an issue, relaxed, so get 328 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 2: used to it, dately sharing my food, all right. And 329 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 2: then the booty. The next photo is me and Sam 330 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 2: with our booties out in Bairo. 331 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: That sounds so funny. 332 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 2: We're in a bikini photo and we're like facing the 333 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 2: other way and like you would have seen this photo. 334 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 2: We've got our hands over our eyes and we're like 335 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 2: looking back at the camera. It's cute. 336 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: It's just good. 337 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 2: You know. You like to get down in the beach. 338 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: I get my hair where like sand castles. 339 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 2: And then this last one is actually one of my 340 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 2: favorite photos of you. It's her pro public sure on Instagram. 341 00:14:57,280 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 2: Yes for Mimco. Doesn't that work? Wearing like a kind 342 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 2: of low CARDI sort of vesty shirt top with like 343 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 2: a big flower necklace, and you're smiling and your hair 344 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 2: looks gorgeous. I like this photo a lot. 345 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 1: Thanks. Yeah, that's probably my most like photo. Yeah, but 346 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: at the end, because I feel like it's a bit 347 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 1: too woo look me like you really have to scold 348 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 1: to see that one. Yeah, I think it's a bit 349 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: too in your face. 350 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 2: No, I don't think so. Okay, but I think you 351 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 2: could put that first easily. I'd say the only one 352 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 2: if I were to take one hour, it would be 353 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 2: the second one, the one of me Lily and you. Well, 354 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 2: I don't think I think you look pretty, but I don't. 355 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 1: Think it's yeah, true, true. 356 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you've got a better photo of you 357 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 2: and two friends. 358 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 1: Okay, maybe we'll get one in BALI, maybe we'll go 359 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: But you're all in my other fucking photos. 360 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 2: So yeah, but you still obviously have to look the 361 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 2: hottest in the photo, so take that into consideration. Beyond that, 362 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 2: my favorite prompt is the death throwe meal one because 363 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 2: it invites so much conversation. Yeah, and it's an easy 364 00:15:57,280 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 2: way to have a conversation with someone at the start 365 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 2: because you're talking about you. They'll then ask you what 366 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 2: yours is like, It'll get you a few messages in 367 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 2: before you're like, all right, now what do I ask you? 368 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? 369 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? 370 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 2: I have nothing, nothing to add thanks. Maybe the one 371 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 2: problem that we would think about changing, which we knew 372 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 2: that when we were making this profile, is that I 373 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 2: have no skills whatsoever. But we couldn't come up with 374 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 2: anything else. 375 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 376 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 2: So other than that, it's chilling. Nice mix of chill photos, 377 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 2: smiling photos, serious photos. I don't have that good mix, Yeah, 378 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 2: I have. 379 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: Look yeah, as you should though, man, Yeah, this is 380 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: your hinge profile, so people will need to look happy days. 381 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: So now we're going to go into what people have replied, 382 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: and I'm really outing you guys here and guys and 383 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 1: girls that are listening. So I went through all my 384 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 1: matches last night and screenshotted a few, but I've also 385 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 1: got some that I've screenshotted over time, and these are 386 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: just like, do not fucking say this, Like, I think 387 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 1: there is a hinge profile that's mocking me out there 388 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 1: that I've caught on to, like pretending to be me, 389 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: oh out there. So I verified my account, but a 390 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:05,679 Speaker 1: lot of people were saying, like, why am I matching 391 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 1: with the same girl over and over again? 392 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:08,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's obviously fake for average. 393 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:12,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. So one of the boys replied to my hinge 394 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 1: and said, hey, Sam, I hope you're doing well. I'd 395 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 1: be more than happy to share my food with you, 396 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 1: and I love the profile just nice. Then he ended 397 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: with it, I'm also a huge fan of your Instagram, 398 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:25,720 Speaker 1: all right, like, oh, you're doing. 399 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 2: So well, you were doing so well. I think it. 400 00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 1: I'm not going to match with someone who says he's 401 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: a fan. 402 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 2: It's very sweet, don't get me wrong, but it does 403 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 2: kind of feel like, oh, you know, you don't want 404 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 2: them to be like, so I saw you went Bali 405 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 2: in twenty seventeen, Like, yeah, I was it. 406 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:46,159 Speaker 1: I like kind of like and I'm not assuming that 407 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:48,720 Speaker 1: everyone knows who I am, but like there is a 408 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:51,440 Speaker 1: higher chance that people may know my face and your face. 409 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:54,399 Speaker 1: So just I'm like, just pretend that you don't know me. Yeah, 410 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 1: and if you were starting to talk on Hinge unfollow me, 411 00:17:57,600 --> 00:17:59,440 Speaker 1: so then it looks like you don't follow me already. 412 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't have a huge issue with the seeing 413 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 2: the follow back. 414 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:06,360 Speaker 1: Oh I do, Yeah, I do, but. 415 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 2: Yeah it's maybe, yeah, maybe I'm fellow if you are chatting, 416 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,400 Speaker 2: but then it's like in person that probably is. It's 417 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:15,200 Speaker 2: a nice thing to mention that, like you did know, 418 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:17,400 Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? Like, I don't want 419 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 2: you to lie forever that you'd never seen me, like 420 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 2: on a date, then be like, oh, I've actually come 421 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 2: across your When I went. 422 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 1: On that dated with the Hinge guy. When I went 423 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 1: on that date that I spoke to you guys about beforehand, 424 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:32,480 Speaker 1: he was like, oh, have you ever found my Instagram? 425 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:33,919 Speaker 1: And I was like no, and he was like, go 426 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:36,240 Speaker 1: into your like, search up my name and go into 427 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 1: the request and he had DMed me a few months back. 428 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: And then we found it funny because I was like 429 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:41,880 Speaker 1: already out with him, but I think if I saw 430 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,239 Speaker 1: that beforehand, I would have been like, oh. 431 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know something that I get. Okay, I've only 432 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 2: had it three or four, two or three times, but 433 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 2: it annoys me to no end and has to do 434 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 2: with you people that go get your friend Sam to 435 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 2: go on a date with me. This is my hGe profile. Yeah, 436 00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 2: I'm I'm a leo, So get the fuck out of 437 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 2: my face. If you're not talking about me, do you 438 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 2: know what I mean? 439 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, I'm not setting my friend up with you. 440 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 2: No, don't match me. Fuck off. Message Sam yourself. 441 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:13,680 Speaker 1: Message her on if you want me to put in 442 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 1: a good word, message me on Instagram. 443 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 2: Don't match me on hinge. Purely with the thing of 444 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 2: asking about my friend, like, it is ikey to no 445 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:23,360 Speaker 2: end and I will not tell her, so fuck off. 446 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:27,160 Speaker 1: That's the Another one that I get quite a lot 447 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 1: is oh if this is the actual TikTok queen, I'll cry, girl, Like, 448 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:35,879 Speaker 1: what is I. 449 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 2: Going to be like? 450 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 1: Yes, queen, hey, who are you? 451 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 2: It's not going to be like, oh, yeah, let's go 452 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 2: on a date. 453 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:43,399 Speaker 1: Yeah. 454 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 2: It's like if a girl like or a boy says 455 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 2: that on Instagram or stuff, that's fine, But this is 456 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 2: a dating profile. I'm not trying to have people pawn 457 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 2: over me, do you know what I mean? 458 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 1: And he like, if you're actually wanting to start a 459 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 1: conversation with me, I'm not going to reply being like 460 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 1: hah yeah it. 461 00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 2: Is yeah, and then you just be like, Okay, let's 462 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:04,200 Speaker 2: go on to day. No, no, I know what you mean. 463 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 2: Mentioning that sort of stuff does kind of take the 464 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 2: wind out of the sales, like straight away. 465 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:10,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, A lot of the time when I have that 466 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:14,639 Speaker 1: prompt of I literally have no skills whatsoever. Fucking that 467 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 1: many guys fucking go your podcasts for a living, then 468 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 1: you should come on my podcast, like this guy goes, 469 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: then you should come on my podcast, like being like, oh, 470 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:29,360 Speaker 1: you have no skills. I'm like, you mustn't. But he's 471 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:32,120 Speaker 1: like mocking is like saying it like, oh. 472 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,920 Speaker 2: Oh, mocking also gets you nowhere. 473 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, shove it up. I puts a fucking cowboy hat 474 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 1: and like him blowing your tissue after it, like what 475 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: they are? Rocus emojis ever. 476 00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:49,199 Speaker 2: One that I get occasionally that annoys me is I 477 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 2: don't have screenshots for these, but I have One of 478 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 2: my things is what would I win an award? For 479 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:57,400 Speaker 2: and it's talking the loudest and some guys go, well, 480 00:20:57,440 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 2: this is fucking annoying. 481 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,720 Speaker 1: Okay, joke too far. 482 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 2: It's like, okay, sorry, X, like you've just insulted me. 483 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:16,920 Speaker 1: Yeah no. And then this guy replies to the one 484 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 1: of me on the Gold Coast and goes, if things 485 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 1: go to plan for us, I want this frameed on 486 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:22,479 Speaker 1: my bedside table. 487 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 2: I think that's funny. 488 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 1: I don't. I feel like that's really creepy. 489 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:32,159 Speaker 2: It's funny. I actually think that's funny. No, some actually 490 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 2: scen shot one yesterday. So a guy liked one of 491 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 2: my photos and says, go, you look so fine. I'd 492 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 2: even marry your brother just to get closer to you. 493 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:46,320 Speaker 2: Oh then the little dish, the dish emoji just doesn't 494 00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:48,440 Speaker 2: do it for me. You know another emoji. I must 495 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:50,439 Speaker 2: have spoken about this surely on the very beginning of 496 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:52,919 Speaker 2: the podcast. If any of your long term listeners, the 497 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 2: crying laughing emoji will make me block here, that's it. 498 00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 2: That's all I had to say about that. I hate it. 499 00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 2: I hate it with a burning passion. Oh. I have 500 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 2: a prompt that I loved and it made me laugh. 501 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:12,119 Speaker 2: It was so as some of you know, I've been 502 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 2: reading this book. I was reading this book, A Card 503 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,440 Speaker 2: of Thorns and Roses, and it's like my favorite book ever. 504 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 2: This guy goes, are you from spring Court? Because you've 505 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:25,880 Speaker 2: definitely brought light into my eternal winter and it's obviously 506 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 2: it's about the book, and I just thought that was 507 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:32,640 Speaker 2: so funny. Did you match with him? No, you still 508 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 2: have to be my type, you know, Yeah, but I 509 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 2: thought that was so like I really really thought that 510 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,520 Speaker 2: was great. Yeah, someone to talk about our books with. 511 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 1: Yes, was another thing that like again is kind of 512 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: along the lines and easy would get it too. He 513 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 1: goes can't get away from You in my hinge standout 514 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:51,919 Speaker 1: and on my TikTok saying you don't wash your socks 515 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 1: just for girls video, and that was like, yeah, like 516 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:57,359 Speaker 1: I wear my sucks inside out, like I have to 517 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 1: wear them more than once some traveling. Yeah, I'm like, awesome, 518 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: is your match to no no another? I've never been 519 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:06,360 Speaker 1: so attracted to a woman in my life. Your energetic 520 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 1: personality you show on social is the legitimate best thing 521 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:09,879 Speaker 1: I've ever seen. See. 522 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 2: That's so sweet, but it's almost too much. You need 523 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:17,679 Speaker 2: to start with a kind of a funny little it 524 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 2: can be a compliment, like a funny little thing that 525 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,760 Speaker 2: just like kind of invites the person to respond. Direct 526 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:27,199 Speaker 2: compliments alone are really hard I find to continue a 527 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,640 Speaker 2: conversation because it'll be like you're gorgeous, and then you'll 528 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,399 Speaker 2: be like thank you. Yeah, then it's like now what 529 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 2: So if I can say anything, girls and boys are 530 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 2: like try and start a conversation, find something, and that 531 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:43,760 Speaker 2: some question prompt. If I'm responding to the prompts is 532 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 2: like ten thousand times easier to start a conversation. They're 533 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:49,120 Speaker 2: there for a reason. 534 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: You know, like another funny one that I didn't match 535 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 1: with this guy who goes you just have to be 536 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 1: somewhere on a sunny holiday enjoying life with a cocktail 537 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 1: in your head. 538 00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 2: Hand tanning thank you, I will be tomorrow. Yeah, thank you. 539 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:05,159 Speaker 2: I think I very much think so lowly of like 540 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 2: my ability to have a conversation with people, do you 541 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 2: know what I mean? I always think what am I 542 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 2: going to talk about? I don't know how to like 543 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 2: have an amusing conversation. But so that's why when someone 544 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 2: has a prompt like that, because I know I'm great 545 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 2: in person, Like I know I don't project myself my 546 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 2: best self overtext, So sometimes like someone might match me, 547 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 2: but if they haven't said anything, I sometimes might leave 548 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 2: it because I'm like, I don't know how to start 549 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 2: this conversation unless they've got a prompt that can kind 550 00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 2: of kick start it already. So honestly, I know it's hard, 551 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,640 Speaker 2: but if you are really interested in someone writes something, yeah, 552 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 2: don't just like a photo. 553 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 1: Yeah there's like this guy that I'm really outing him now, 554 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,879 Speaker 1: but he you'll probably remember about it because I was 555 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: then speaking to you about it at the beach a 556 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 1: couple months ago, and I spoke about it on Just 557 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,359 Speaker 1: for Girls when I was like he replied to my 558 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,399 Speaker 1: Instagram story and he's very good at like he's quite witty, 559 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 1: and he said like, oh, tell the girl in the 560 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 1: white T shirt that she's like really good looking or something. 561 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,119 Speaker 1: And I was there and the girl in the photos 562 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 1: white T shirt and he like, I accepted it and 563 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 1: liked the comment, and then he messaged me a couple 564 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,199 Speaker 1: months later being like, oh, I'm gonna mention them Just 565 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,879 Speaker 1: for Girls or whatever whatever. Yeah, and he now like 566 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,680 Speaker 1: replies to my story like every couple once in a while, 567 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 1: like making jokes about like how we're getting married and 568 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,600 Speaker 1: stuff like that. Like he's very witty and he has great. 569 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 2: Conversation skills, can get your show far. Yeah, I need 570 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 2: to take a course. 571 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you do. 572 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 2: I need to take a texting course. I honestly think 573 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 2: in person, I'm not concerned about my conversation skills, but 574 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 2: testing text, I'm just a bit of a dry textest. 575 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:40,880 Speaker 1: So I'm quite dry. 576 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,400 Speaker 2: I don't have that comedy in person. I can never 577 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 2: convey it, like it's saying that. I just can't convey 578 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 2: it the text. 579 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:50,399 Speaker 1: You really can't put it in words like you're bad. 580 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 2: I'm really So if you do happen to ever be 581 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 2: speaking to me, you need to meet me first. Yeah, 582 00:25:56,560 --> 00:26:00,640 Speaker 2: like a because I come across horrible and blunt. 583 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, just dry. 584 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 2: I don't really I'm not a big textter. I'm a caller. 585 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,720 Speaker 2: I always have been, Like I'll call Sam like five 586 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,400 Speaker 2: times a day ensure. Yeah, because I just I can't 587 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:13,239 Speaker 2: get my feelings across on text ever. Yeah, and if 588 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 2: I do, I sound like a bitch, Like I'm very dry. Anyway, 589 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 2: conversation skills will get you really far. So start a conversation. 590 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. So this guy that we've been like talking like 591 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 1: we have. We don't really talk, but like you were 592 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 1: replied of my story every time, and he just has 593 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,680 Speaker 1: like such fucking witty answers that it makes me laugh. 594 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,400 Speaker 1: Like every time it was Mother's Day and he replied 595 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 1: to my story of my cat, goes happy Mother's Day. 596 00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 1: You'll be a great mother to our kids one day, 597 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 1: and then he goes and I go, I thank you 598 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 1: so much, appreciate you. Always couldn't be here today without 599 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 1: your support by my side. He goes through thick and thin, 600 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,399 Speaker 1: always you're this family's rock. Yeah, it's been the hardest 601 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 1: two months of my life when you've been away. Separation 602 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,360 Speaker 1: anxiety when you're on the other side of the world 603 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,199 Speaker 1: is so hard. And like he's just like he's so 604 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:58,199 Speaker 1: fucking witty. 605 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 2: He just he really dives into yeah. 606 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 1: Like he goes full ham. And then he matches me 607 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 1: on Hinge like like a month after that and goes 608 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:09,640 Speaker 1: to get off this app and I didn't reply. I didn't. 609 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,520 Speaker 1: Don't you think you realize how happy it is when 610 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 1: you think you have something special with someone and then 611 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,919 Speaker 1: you see them on a dating app that I go, haha, 612 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: bit hypocritical. There babe, what the fuck are you doing 613 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 1: on here? He goes just playing a hold or not 614 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,200 Speaker 1: on here, to be honest, So your beautiful face, and 615 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:27,760 Speaker 1: I thought i'd check in and make sure it's still 616 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 1: in good health. And well, yeah he's funny. 617 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 2: Yeah I didn't reply, but yeah, he's a funny guy. 618 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:38,199 Speaker 2: He's very funny and videos who he is good on 619 00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,959 Speaker 2: you make me laugh. Yeah, he's revived to my stories 620 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,200 Speaker 2: a couple of times from the. 621 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: Day that was so reason why because you also message 622 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 1: my best friend. 623 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 2: This is ages ago. 624 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 1: A bit of a hot tip. Guys, if either one 625 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 1: of you would trying to get in with either one 626 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 1: of us, don't go for both. 627 00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:00,720 Speaker 2: You have to decide yes, because to be that we're 628 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,760 Speaker 2: chatting and you've sent my friend a message back in 629 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:08,439 Speaker 2: the day, I'm going to go no, Yeah I don't. Yeah, no, 630 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 2: So just choose, guys, take your pick. 631 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 1: Really hot one the other. All right, So obviously we 632 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,159 Speaker 1: use hinge Tinder. Do you use it? 633 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 2: I don't. I haven't used Tinder since like way back 634 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:24,919 Speaker 2: when I used it for a little bit seriously, and 635 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:26,520 Speaker 2: then I just did that thing where you say yes 636 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,399 Speaker 2: to everyone to see how many people say yes to 637 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 2: you and use yes, yes, yes, yes, and it's like 638 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:36,480 Speaker 2: match match match, It's really good for the validation. But 639 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 2: I haven't used since then. 640 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like Tinder has like a bit of 641 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 1: a connotation that like people are only on there to fuck. 642 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, But I was actually talking to someone, a girl 643 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 2: who my pet and she's going on a date someone 644 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,600 Speaker 2: too much on Tinder, and I was like, you use 645 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 2: Tinder like I didn't you kind of forget almost that's 646 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 2: still a valid option because it's like I want to 647 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 2: know if there are what's the difference. It's a better 648 00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 2: sort of round to go, because then, yeah, Tinder's more 649 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 2: like DTF and Hinge's like relationship. But then is it? Yeah, 650 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 2: apparently bumbles like relationship, yeah, and Hinge is like DTF. 651 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 2: But I'm like, bumble the girl has the message first, 652 00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 2: and that's not my style. 653 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 1: So yeah, I was about to say, what are the 654 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:19,480 Speaker 1: pros and cons of Hinge? Do you reckon? 655 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 2: I almost reckon that isn't really much of a con 656 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 2: like what's not? I know a lot of people like 657 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 2: fuck dating apps. I hate dating apps. It took me 658 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 2: a really long time to get onto Hinge as well. 659 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 2: I was like, what, like I want to meet someone organically, 660 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 2: I can still Yeah, why not just have it there 661 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 2: in the background. 662 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 1: So I kind of just see it, like I kind 663 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,719 Speaker 1: of just like see who's out there, Like I I 664 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 1: don't think my match is on Hinge, but I just 665 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,200 Speaker 1: kind of like like to double if I like, to 666 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,200 Speaker 1: be completely honest, I probably go on it once a 667 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 1: week and it's when I'm board at eleven o'clock at night, 668 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:52,480 Speaker 1: and I'm just like, oh. 669 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:55,240 Speaker 2: It's interesting to have and yeah, I with my low 670 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 2: texting conversational skills, Yeah, I don't see myself maybe meeting 671 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,320 Speaker 2: someone on there, but I'm like, why not just have it? Like, yeah, 672 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:05,200 Speaker 2: you absolutely never know if you are single and you 673 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 2: are dating and you do want to like I would say, 674 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 2: there's absolutely no harmy. 675 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. 676 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:13,479 Speaker 2: So if we're talking about a boy's dating profile, are 677 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 2: there things that you see h that are like. 678 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:21,320 Speaker 1: Big one and this is the biggest PSA And I 679 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 1: don't know if it's just me, but I'm seeing I 680 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:27,840 Speaker 1: would say maybe eighty five percent. The first fucking photo 681 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 1: of eighty five percent of men's Hinge profile is that 682 00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 1: you we at a festival, fucking take it off. Why 683 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:38,880 Speaker 1: is the only photos of people shirtless at a festival 684 00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 1: with a fucking scarf around their head with their body buddies, Like, no, 685 00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:46,960 Speaker 1: take your fucking festival photos. Maybe you have it down, 686 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 1: but I don't want your first one being a festival photo. 687 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 1: It literally just implies that you're a sessh gremlin. You 688 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 1: fucking love to get on it. 689 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 2: And like I'm utterly want anymore. I've kind of I've 690 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,080 Speaker 2: enjoyed them in my time, Like I'm not really looking 691 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 2: for that anymore. So it's like show that you can 692 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 2: have fun and that you've been to a festival. Fine, sure, 693 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 2: but like. 694 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 1: The first photo and then the first photo of you 695 00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,080 Speaker 1: should be like at a restaurant, at a bar, like 696 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: maybe around your friends, that's fine, but like in the 697 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 1: daylight first of all, like doing something chill. Not a 698 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 1: fucking mirror selfie. 699 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 2: Oh shirt, not a gero selfies. It doesn't matter where 700 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 2: they are in your profile. I hate them, I really 701 00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 2: really don't like them. 702 00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:27,920 Speaker 1: That's for girls only. 703 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,840 Speaker 2: Like it's like I'm not gonna have my first photo 704 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 2: be a bikini photo of me my first photo, so 705 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,000 Speaker 2: I don't need your first photo to be you shirtless either. Yeah, 706 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,080 Speaker 2: it's all about your body then, which I know some 707 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 2: people are looking for just sex on those apps too. 708 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 1: So like it that's what it implies. 709 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it totally depends what you're looking for. But I 710 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:49,640 Speaker 2: just think of like your self clothed is a good 711 00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 2: first photo. 712 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like if you out with your mates on like 713 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 1: a Saturday at a public that is like the best photo. Yeah, 714 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:58,520 Speaker 1: not a fucking festival photo, Like I know what I'm seeing. 715 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 2: And then if there's like three or four fst worts 716 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,160 Speaker 2: photos in there, I'd say one is fine, Like one 717 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:03,400 Speaker 2: is completely fine. 718 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I don't mind going to those things, but like. 719 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 2: That you might look up you know, yeah yeah, but yeah, 720 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,480 Speaker 2: your body in your first photos very much kind of 721 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,400 Speaker 2: showed what you're looking for, which if you are looking 722 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 2: for that, good on you. 723 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:19,000 Speaker 1: But if you're not, but you're wondering why you're only 724 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,120 Speaker 1: getting that the why? 725 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 2: All right? To finish off, we're gonna do a little 726 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 2: quick fire about a bit of dating app etiquette, just 727 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 2: our opinions. 728 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,000 Speaker 1: How long when you're on a date with a guy 729 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 1: and you're like seeing him, how long or how do 730 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 1: you bring up do you do social media? As I 731 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:38,200 Speaker 1: only bring it up if they ask, Yeah, and how 732 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:38,800 Speaker 1: do you bring it up? 733 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 2: What do you do for a job? I say, I 734 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 2: work in social media. 735 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:41,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. 736 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 2: I'll never say the word influencing yep, or and I'll 737 00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 2: be like, oh, like what do you mean, and I'll 738 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:48,560 Speaker 2: be like, oh, like I have a podcast, I do 739 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,479 Speaker 2: like content creating, like that's kind of what I'll say, yeah, 740 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 2: but I won't bring it up unless I ask yeah, 741 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:57,480 Speaker 2: and so usually well not usually very not usually at all, 742 00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:00,480 Speaker 2: but like occasionally they will maybe know yeah, and maybe 743 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,160 Speaker 2: that's why they're not bringing up. But it's not something 744 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 2: I enjoy bringing up, which is yeah, well, because it's 745 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 2: not like I'm not proud of my job. I love 746 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 2: what I do. But it definitely does have a lot 747 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 2: of stigma around it. It's like I'm not going to 748 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 2: be like, so I influencedluent saying yeah, there is. 749 00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,040 Speaker 1: A lot of stigma around it, especially with guys, Like 750 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:19,680 Speaker 1: it's kind of just a bit like if you're a 751 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 1: bit awkward talking about it. But I like it when 752 00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:26,240 Speaker 1: you then say what you do and they express curiosity 753 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 1: in it, like oh. 754 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 2: Really, so like you just post pictures and get money. 755 00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 2: It's like, oh wow, that's so cool, Like yeah, you know, 756 00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 2: just yeah, don't mock people. It's all saying it's going 757 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:38,640 Speaker 2: to get you absolutely nowhere. 758 00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,200 Speaker 1: And if you, guys, if you do have curiosity about it, 759 00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 1: like feel free to ask. Don't generalize though, Like a 760 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 1: lot of guys that I've hung out with recently, like 761 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 1: they say like some things about it that kind of 762 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 1: like I don't know, like makes me feel a bit 763 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 1: like embarrassed that I have it, or like I'm like, yeah, 764 00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 1: I know I don't work a normal job. But then 765 00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:57,560 Speaker 1: I was hanging out with this guy who's like, no, 766 00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 1: it's really cool, like you're doing something different, Like that's 767 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 1: don't really matter, but I feel like it plays on 768 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 1: a guy's head. 769 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 2: Like whatever, boy, guys are I'm a plumber and I go, 770 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:10,480 Speaker 2: you're a plumber, you fixed you know what? Out of 771 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,359 Speaker 2: people's job. All I'm saying it doesn't matter if it's 772 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 2: an amazing job that earns a lot of money or 773 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 2: a minimum wage job like taking them visit out of 774 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:18,160 Speaker 2: people's jobs, it's just. 775 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,640 Speaker 1: Not going to get anyway. And don't fucking ask how 776 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:22,799 Speaker 1: much money we fucking earn off an Instagram press. I'm 777 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,600 Speaker 1: not going to fucking tell you. You look like, yeah, 778 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,839 Speaker 1: I don't ask you what your annual salary is. 779 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:29,400 Speaker 2: Like, I'm not going to be like I'll tell you 780 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 2: how much I own. 781 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to know. I don't want to know. 782 00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:34,719 Speaker 2: I don't want to know. All right, do you like 783 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 2: to make the first move or do you prefer a 784 00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:37,839 Speaker 2: guy to I don't make the first move. 785 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,279 Speaker 1: I saw this thing Katie from jazz and she works 786 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,120 Speaker 1: a jazz handmade and she was like talking about it, 787 00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 1: you know, get ready with me, I am naturally a 788 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,399 Speaker 1: person that is quite a planner and that like does 789 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,239 Speaker 1: like take the initiative and plan things and organize things 790 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 1: and everything. And it's now something that I'm looking for 791 00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:55,799 Speaker 1: in a partner that can do that and take that 792 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 1: weight off me and like have that skill, Like I 793 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:00,839 Speaker 1: know I can do that, So I kind of want 794 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 1: to see if they can do it first, just so 795 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,719 Speaker 1: it's like if we were to develop in a. 796 00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 2: Relationship, that's an attractive skill to you. 797 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:11,600 Speaker 1: Yes, completely, So I tend to let them take the reins. 798 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 1: And I also like when they order me the dinner, 799 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 1: Like if we're ordering food and we're like sharing, I 800 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:19,920 Speaker 1: don't fucking want to pick as long as it's not 801 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,319 Speaker 1: tuna or oysters. Can you just pick for me? Yeah? 802 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,560 Speaker 2: See I'm not I don't like boys. Yeah, Like I 803 00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 2: wouldn't mind, But if they didn't, if they assumed that 804 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,439 Speaker 2: they could order for me, I'd be like, that's because 805 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 2: I'm a big foodie and I feel like if you 806 00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 2: know me at all, you will have seen that I'm 807 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:36,839 Speaker 2: a big foodie. And I don't think I've never had 808 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,000 Speaker 2: a boy like assume to order for me. And if 809 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,799 Speaker 2: I want you to, I'll say, oh, you just pick? 810 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,759 Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? Yeah, So I'd say 811 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,360 Speaker 2: it's probably not a good thing to assume though, yeah, 812 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,239 Speaker 2: because you could easily be like, you just pick, I 813 00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,680 Speaker 2: don't want to. Yeah, I wouldn't just order for a 814 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 2: girl without asking. 815 00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, have you had any negative experiences when you've told 816 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:55,520 Speaker 1: a guy about your job? 817 00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,960 Speaker 2: Besides like people maybe occasionally taking their piss, but take 818 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,720 Speaker 2: the piece to your face, like maybe out on nights 819 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,560 Speaker 2: out and stuff. But no one I've been on a 820 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,920 Speaker 2: date with yea has ever taken the piece out of 821 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,240 Speaker 2: my job. Yeah, But like, I feel like the most 822 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:12,160 Speaker 2: important thing you can do in a day is show 823 00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 2: interested in another person. I ask them questions, you know, 824 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:17,440 Speaker 2: and the conversation will always keep following. People love to 825 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,000 Speaker 2: talk about themselves, So if you're scared to go on 826 00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:24,200 Speaker 2: a date, literally just ask the person questions. Yeah, they'll 827 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 2: do the same to you. Showing interest in other people 828 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:29,279 Speaker 2: makes the person feel good, Like it's so easy to 829 00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,520 Speaker 2: have a conversation. No one's ever taken the piece out 830 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:33,839 Speaker 2: of not on a date. 831 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, something interesting that I found out found when I 832 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 1: was hanging out with someone. He was like, Oh, like 833 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,440 Speaker 1: I don't feel the need to like compliment you or 834 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,719 Speaker 1: tell you that you looked really good because you like 835 00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:45,920 Speaker 1: you get that on your Instagram. That's not And I 836 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 1: was like, I'm on a date with you. I would 837 00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:50,160 Speaker 1: love the validation from you, do you know what I mean? 838 00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:52,440 Speaker 1: Like I don't care, but like fuck yes. 839 00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:54,880 Speaker 2: It's lovely and thank you people that comment, but like 840 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:56,759 Speaker 2: I want it from the guy. Yeah I've chosen. 841 00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 1: I felt like, you don't really need that because like 842 00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,400 Speaker 1: you get it everywhere where else. Yeah, he was like, 843 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,600 Speaker 1: I just feel like you're like you do Instagram, like 844 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:04,400 Speaker 1: you don't really. 845 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 2: Need so what that whole You're just never going to 846 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 2: compliment me because I happen to get messages online from 847 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,000 Speaker 2: girls and stuff being nice saying I look good. Yeah, ill, 848 00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 2: all right, guys, we love you. That was a little touch. 849 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 1: On dating, as we do. We're really good at this episode. 850 00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:25,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, as you know. Well, we're obviously not that good 851 00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:26,960 Speaker 2: at dating if we're single. But these are just a 852 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:29,000 Speaker 2: couple of things that make it a little bit easier 853 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:32,239 Speaker 2: for us to navigate the dating world. So if we 854 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,600 Speaker 2: see you on those up stay strong out there, kids, 855 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:39,120 Speaker 2: We'll find someone. We love you. 856 00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:40,400 Speaker 1: I will see you next week. 857 00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:48,920 Speaker 2: Bye.