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Speaker 1: Hello and welcome back. How many episodes have we done? Now?

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Speaker 2: This will be number eighteen eighteen.

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Speaker 1: I actually I was at the races and so many

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Speaker 1: of you came up to me and told me how

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Speaker 1: much you love hear me out and everything, and I

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Speaker 1: just wanted to say, it means the absolute world, especially

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Speaker 1: when you're kind of starting something out to have like

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Speaker 1: people say that, They're like, what we're doing is really nice.

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Speaker 1: So thank you all anyone that saying hello. But I've

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Speaker 1: just been the last thirty minutes pitching the blake out

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Speaker 1: warming problems. Men. I'll never get it. I don't get it.

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Speaker 1: If someone to me, it's very much a sense of

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Speaker 1: if they want to, they will, And like when people

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Speaker 1: don't act that way, I'm like, okay, so you don't

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Speaker 1: want to, and then they're like no I do. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: well why aren't you? Do? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: It just I'm sick of men. I'm over. I just

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Speaker 1: want to go to New York and find myself a

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Speaker 1: rich finance man. But the races was great. I had

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Speaker 1: Effie Cats make me a custom sort of blazers. I

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Speaker 1: shout out to e Fie or it would like suit

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Speaker 1: and tie I loved the outfit. I'm used to having

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Speaker 1: my boobs out, and I know that sounds silly, but

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Speaker 1: like you know, I think I went a really long

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Speaker 1: time in my life not having any boobs, therefore not

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Speaker 1: feeling incredibly feminine. That's just something that I felt like

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Speaker 1: I need, like wanted to feel more feminine. Other people

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Speaker 1: have small boobs look fucking incredible and very feminine. I

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Speaker 1: just I think I needed that, So having them very

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Speaker 1: much hidden, I didn't feel like myself in a sense,

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Speaker 1: and I think I was like, oh, should I have

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Speaker 1: worn this? But it was very cool. I think I

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Speaker 1: was either going like you go really hot, you look

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Speaker 1: really hard, or like you look cool, and like I

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Speaker 1: think I looked cool about it wasn't me, but I

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Speaker 1: did love it. So shout out to Effie though she's

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Speaker 1: fucking amazing. I think I'll be wearing her outfits again

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Speaker 1: to Jackie's wedding. She makes so much of my stuff

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Speaker 1: now and then Jasey Knights helped style me as well.

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Speaker 1: But I rock up and shout out if you're listening,

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Speaker 1: because apparently he does occasionally. Me and my first boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: who I apologies regularly talk about on here, were matching

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Speaker 1: wearing matching ties, and I was the funniest thing I've

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Speaker 1: ever fucking seen. Like I made my friend. I was like,

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Speaker 1: we have to fucking take a photo. And he hated

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Speaker 1: every fucking second of it, because I really think he

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Speaker 1: hates me. But I enjoyed it and I thought it

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Speaker 1: was hilarious, So shout out to you. But it was

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Speaker 1: a really fun day. It was my friend's birthday, her

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Speaker 1: twenty fifth birthday, and she is she's the sweetest girl,

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Speaker 1: but like not one of those people that's very showy.

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Speaker 1: So we're like, fuck it, we're renting our Pinkhamalimo to

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Speaker 1: rock up in and she was so surprised. It was

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Speaker 1: so much fun. It makes it so much better than

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Speaker 1: getting on a train and sitting with a bunch of

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Speaker 1: fucking randoms. Then you can actually drink. We all had

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Speaker 1: our prosecco in glasses and ice someone We've got a playlist.

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Speaker 1: It was so much fun. Went to our marquee. Randomly enough,

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Speaker 1: everyone I've ever met happened to be within a fucking

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Speaker 1: ten meter radius of our marquee, Like it was this

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Speaker 1: is a big space, by the way, Like there's hundreds

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Speaker 1: of marquees that you rent in case you're you don't

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Speaker 1: really get it. They're called like car parks, car spots,

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Speaker 1: they're all numbered. The area where I was just called

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Speaker 1: the nursery. So like the bird Cage, which is the

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Speaker 1: in there. Everyone goes very bougie there. And then there's

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Speaker 1: the nursery, which is a members area, so you need

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Speaker 1: general admission, and so there's so many different marquees of

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Speaker 1: Everything Everyone that I had like met in my life

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Speaker 1: which like never happens. Usually you're walking like ten K's

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Speaker 1: to go to your friend's marquee. But so Leg was there.

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Speaker 1: Leg was another one. It was fun, but yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: a big fucking day. We got there at twelve we

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Speaker 1: probably left it like five. I did not take my

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Speaker 1: I think that's an achievement and I will kneel. Never

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Speaker 1: see me walking around with my heels off. I know

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Speaker 1: some people need it, like my poor fucking friend borrowed

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Speaker 1: my heels, Greta, and then these like fuck off play

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Speaker 1: so sorry. I'm sorry. I said that they were comfortable.

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Speaker 1: They're not. It was a great day. I sadly am

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Speaker 1: not going to any other of the race days. I

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Speaker 1: really wish I was, But because Derby Day is the

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Speaker 1: black and all the day you dress in black and white,

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Speaker 1: all my friends go. It's easy because you go to

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Speaker 1: one of the other days, I'd say I'd be more

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Speaker 1: so and this year, you know, sadly just didn't fall

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Speaker 1: that way. But I was gonna go with my sister

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Speaker 1: to Sakes Day, but I didn't end up deciding to

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Speaker 1: But that will be fun. But yeah, that was my weekend.

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Speaker 1: Today is Monday. We have a public holiday. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to an event tonight.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, can I just say fy? We do not

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Speaker 2: have a public holiday today?

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Speaker 1: Not today? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? No cool?

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Speaker 1: I yeah, yeah, tomorrow's a public holiday. Today is not.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like it's fun having a little midwek

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Speaker 1: because then it's like by the time you're back at work,

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Speaker 1: it's way and then it's like it's basically the weekend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, holidays again, it's going to be so busy from

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, we are going to get into this

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Speaker 1: week's hear me Out and we're going to do some

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Speaker 1: listener ones because I think it's been a little while

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Speaker 1: since we've heard from you guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know if you have an answer to

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Speaker 2: this one, but it's a really interesting question. I feel

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Speaker 2: like influencers miss out on prime girlhood because when they

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Speaker 2: start to gain a following, no one can sift through

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Speaker 2: their Insta stories in such their favorite X. Do you

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Speaker 2: have a different way of doing this or even an

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Speaker 2: equivalent situation?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean sort through for your favorite X?

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Speaker 2: I guess maybe because like, if you're not an influence

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Speaker 2: in your early twenties, you were probably more prone to

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Speaker 1: Oh girlhood I will live for some reason. Listen to

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Speaker 1: that and thought female friendships? Right, No, you mean like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like if a boy will like my story, chances are

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Speaker 1: I'll never see it, you know what I mean. So

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Speaker 1: it's like I might post a story for someone, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they might have seen it. I can't tell. Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: I Instagram, hear me. O. Instagram needs to allow a

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Speaker 1: figure out if someone's seen your story. So true, because

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Speaker 1: you can search likes now, you know, really you've been

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Speaker 2: Have actually even story likes?

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Speaker 1: What I've actually noticed is that it's not even really accurate.

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Speaker 1: Like it comes to like I'll search I'll see like

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Speaker 2: Yeah or buffers for like twenty seconds.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do understand. Yeah, maybe things are a little

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Speaker 1: real problem for me. But I'd say there are people that, yeah,

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Speaker 1: You kind of can't just like sit and enjoy things

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Speaker 1: I think I'm I was grown when I started doing this,

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like I started influencing when I was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, obviously, like the example they use, like you can't

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Speaker 2: go through their Insta stories and seeing them with the

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Speaker 2: dates or as you were saying, like you can't see

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Speaker 2: likes as well as someone else would. But do you

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Speaker 2: think there actually is an equivalent that influencers do, Like

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Speaker 2: would you actually post a first chap on a story

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Speaker 2: which people might think is just a beautiful photo of you?

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Speaker 1: I regularly will post things with the hope of like

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Speaker 1: certain attention. Ye yeah, yeah love that's girls. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: even boys fucking do that shit. And if they're saying

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Speaker 1: they don't, they lie, Yeah, Like, okay, you post your

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Speaker 1: heart photo on your story because people can reply to it,

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Speaker 1: but you post the best photos on your grid, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. But it's like, if something's like hot,

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Speaker 1: you put on your story definitely, because yeah, you need

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Speaker 1: That's where you like get stories is where everything goes

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Speaker 1: down on Instagram. Like you're not posting on Instagram and

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Speaker 1: having a guy you like comment on it. No, they'll

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Speaker 2: It kind of reminds me remember when you could see

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Speaker 2: people's Instagram activity, so that was no. So I've got

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Speaker 2: this in front of me, Remember when Demi Levado followed

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Speaker 2: Henry Cavell, and it was like twenty four seconds ago.

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Speaker 2: Damie Levada started following Henry Cavill two seconds ago, Demi

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Speaker 2: Levada just liked to post. One second later, Demi Levada

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so humiliating. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I have gone through and liked like old photos of

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Speaker 1: the guys, do you know what I mean? Like do?

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Speaker 1: The thing is you don't go too far down. You're

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Speaker 1: not stalking the medium, but it needs to be not

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Speaker 1: the recent ones. But I've done that. I also will

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Speaker 1: maybe like a story. Yes, and I say story likes

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Speaker 1: a stupid because they kind of are because there is

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Speaker 1: a high chance they may not see it if they

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Speaker 1: do also have a following as well. But no, I

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Speaker 1: probably don't respond to guys' stories. I think that's you'll

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Speaker 1: like it. I hope they see it and then they

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a man's job unless it's a big in

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Speaker 2: otherwise it's really hard to find an inn.

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Speaker 1: Say this again and again and again. I do not

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Speaker 1: My house mate said, you don't need to know how

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Speaker 2: But because they're so excited, they want to explain it,

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Speaker 1: I I am not an adult yet. Now I will

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Speaker 1: I'm no. I definitely don't want to be like Peter

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Speaker 1: but I think I only rite it if it's like

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Speaker 1: I would go like I'm either I don't like dress

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Speaker 1: a theme. I will then like it'll be one hundred

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Speaker 2: Everyone has to be expected to put in the same

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, sorry, I thought the coda of Fending.

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Speaker 1: For a Snek. I hate to.

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Speaker 1: I think she's hilarious. I think she's like the ultimate

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Speaker 1: just very like nonchalant, funny, and I think she's great. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: Dakota Fanning. So I mean not Fanning, eh Johnson, not

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Speaker 1: Dakota Fanning. Dakota Johnson is the one in fifty Shades

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Speaker 1: just so funny. And at the very end of the

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00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:20,960
Speaker 1: video there's one person who's obviously someone's partner who's just

435
00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:23,600
Speaker 1: gone as Slim Shady. I'm like, you wouldn't have been

436
00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:25,760
Speaker 1: let in the door if that was my Halloween party.

437
00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:29,240
Speaker 1: Nowhere everyone is Dakota fan all these guys, everyone is

438
00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:30,960
Speaker 1: all wearing a fuck a wig with a friend, and

439
00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:33,320
Speaker 1: they're all a different version of her from a different

440
00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:36,440
Speaker 1: movie or a different interview, and you are Slim Shady. Yeah,

441
00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:38,879
Speaker 1: but it's all I'd be embarrassed if that was my partner,

442
00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:40,760
Speaker 1: I'd be like, come on, But it's.

443
00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:42,639
Speaker 2: Like you don't want to stand out that much to

444
00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:45,200
Speaker 2: the point where you're the only one not Pertison.

445
00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:47,120
Speaker 1: Of the whole party that is just in a different costume.

446
00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,560
Speaker 1: It's like you look worse that way, and now I'm annoyed.

447
00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:52,720
Speaker 1: Like I bet whoever their partner was was like, no, yeah.

448
00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:54,080
Speaker 2: Everyone would have laughed if you just put on this

449
00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:55,159
Speaker 2: simple brown weir.

450
00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:58,080
Speaker 1: Brown Wigan just said, I'm just normal Dakota Fanning. Like

451
00:18:58,119 --> 00:18:59,840
Speaker 1: there was someone who dressed up as Dakota Fanning. I

452
00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:02,080
Speaker 1: limes is what they called it, because like there's an

453
00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:03,800
Speaker 1: interview with her with like Vogue or something, and she's

454
00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:05,639
Speaker 1: got like a huge well of limes in her house

455
00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:07,720
Speaker 1: and she just said she loves limes. So they just

456
00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:09,760
Speaker 1: dressed up as her with a fucking tray of limes.

457
00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:14,399
Speaker 1: Like hilarious. And you're slim shady with this name tag

458
00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:15,679
Speaker 1: that says I'm slim shady.

459
00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:16,280
Speaker 2: Oh wow.

460
00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:20,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, lack of effort is also unattractive. But what I

461
00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,199
Speaker 1: realized what I saw this guy post a video being like,

462
00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,680
Speaker 1: I don't get when boys get annoyed for girls dressing

463
00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:28,800
Speaker 1: sluttly on Halloween, Like Halloween is for girls to look hot. Yes,

464
00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:30,679
Speaker 1: in some senses, I also do love people that go

465
00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,159
Speaker 1: the funnier out, but like the eye probably wouldn't, Like

466
00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:35,560
Speaker 1: I want to look hot, they said. A couple of

467
00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:38,720
Speaker 1: costumes is the girl will pick something like Barbie, and

468
00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:40,320
Speaker 1: then the boy just has to go as like bibble,

469
00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:42,680
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like the girl dresses

470
00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:44,679
Speaker 1: is a hot fucking bunny. The boy just has to

471
00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:46,560
Speaker 1: paint his face orange and say he's a carrot, do

472
00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:48,280
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like you are there as

473
00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:51,040
Speaker 1: an accessory for your girlfriend's are outfit, and if you

474
00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:54,920
Speaker 1: can't get on board with that, then get a new boyfriend,

475
00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:56,320
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

476
00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:58,359
Speaker 2: And just have some fun with Yeah, take it all

477
00:19:58,400 --> 00:19:58,879
Speaker 2: in check.

478
00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:00,960
Speaker 1: Like you don't you. I want your girlfriend to feel

479
00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:02,240
Speaker 1: good and look good and be like, yeah, that's my

480
00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:03,920
Speaker 1: girlfriend and she's hot.

481
00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,639
Speaker 2: And like if you want to meet her at a

482
00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:06,640
Speaker 2: level and go.

483
00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,159
Speaker 1: All out, yeah we ken if she wants to be

484
00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:12,040
Speaker 1: Barbie for all I fucking care. But like I do

485
00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,159
Speaker 1: rate those ones where the boy is just purely the

486
00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:16,480
Speaker 1: accessory to whatever the girl's costume is. I think they're

487
00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:20,239
Speaker 1: fucking hilarious and I rate the dedication. I feel like

488
00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:24,520
Speaker 1: Halloween shows good couples like you guys actually like each other.

489
00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,040
Speaker 2: It says, what's going.

490
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:31,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right, So this week it's actually probably

491
00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:35,359
Speaker 1: one of my favorite submissions we do or did on

492
00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:38,480
Speaker 1: Just for Girls, And we haven't done this theme on

493
00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:41,160
Speaker 1: Hear Me Out yet, and it is roommate and housemate

494
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:43,000
Speaker 1: horror stories. And I think I fell in love with

495
00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:46,119
Speaker 1: this because I remember Lucy and Nikki used to do

496
00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:49,399
Speaker 1: it ages ago, and they're just they're fucking They're very

497
00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:51,439
Speaker 1: unhinged a lot of the time, and I feel like

498
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:55,639
Speaker 1: it's so interesting. Roommate housemate dynamics are very interesting to me.

499
00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 2: I think what makes them so good is when we

500
00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,359
Speaker 2: do relationship ones, it's like, Okay, you can die and

501
00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:02,199
Speaker 2: piss him off and never talk to him again, whereas

502
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:06,000
Speaker 2: like housemate, you can sometimes live with the most untapped person.

503
00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,199
Speaker 1: You can live with someone you actually fucking hate and

504
00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 1: barely know and that's just.

505
00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:13,159
Speaker 2: Normal, and you have to live through the whole storyline

506
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,200
Speaker 2: of them being nice, and then they can turn into

507
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:16,360
Speaker 2: an absolute.

508
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,399
Speaker 1: Game and like people rip them to shreds because they

509
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:20,159
Speaker 1: don't need to be nice to this person because they

510
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:21,879
Speaker 1: probably just don't live with them, do you know what

511
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 1: I mean? So Hi you're killing it, absolutely loving this

512
00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 1: new party. You're glowing. Thank you, princess. Anyway, stirrup in

513
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:33,800
Speaker 1: this one gets wild. I'm strapped, all right. So I

514
00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:37,679
Speaker 1: met this girl through a friend. Seems nice enough. Pause.

515
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 1: I've always, I guess maybe said I would never even

516
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 1: share a house with a friend. And I guess that's

517
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Speaker 1: why I live with my sister. Now I've grown up

518
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 1: with her. I know how to deal with her, you

519
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,359
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I've always said myself, my family

520
00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:53,200
Speaker 1: or my partner is probably who I would live with.

521
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 1: So people that do housemates I to me, it's like

522
00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:59,199
Speaker 1: a foreign concept and it's so interesting to me, and

523
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 1: a lot it's very necessary, you know, like I'm lucky

524
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 1: that my sister could live with me, Like I do

525
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:05,520
Speaker 1: need a roommate. But I'm like, I'm lucky it could

526
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,120
Speaker 1: be rightly. But some of my friends are like, oh, yeah,

527
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 1: I've got this work. But I'm just gonna live with her.

528
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, do we know enough about her? Do you

529
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 1: know what I mean to live with her?

530
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,399
Speaker 2: There's so many like even my friends will do this,

531
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 2: and I've only share house. I think, yeah, let me

532
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,880
Speaker 2: think about that. But so many people I know ah,

533
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: this girl's just started working with me. I'm like, just wait,

534
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 2: wait a bit.

535
00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:27,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, like all my like, I've got like five of

536
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 1: my boy friends that all have lived together for years now,

537
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:32,439
Speaker 1: and it like works really well. And like to me,

538
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 1: it's just like a foreign concept. And I'm like, I

539
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 1: wish I was more chilly because I think it would

540
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:42,240
Speaker 1: be such a fun experience for so many people. But AnyWho, Okay,

541
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,760
Speaker 1: met this girl through a friend. She seemed nice enough. Well,

542
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 1: I drink herbal tea and talk to Crystal's kind of

543
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,560
Speaker 1: energy it's giving my mum. Three months later, we both

544
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:53,879
Speaker 1: need housemates and I'm like, wow, the universe is literally

545
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 1: serving me a roommate. Yeah, turns out the universe was

546
00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 1: actually serving me a warning. At first, everything's fine, it's fun,

547
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 1: we get along, maybe we'll start a girl Boss empire together.

548
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: Then slowly but surely, she starts to really her final form.

549
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 1: I love that term. Like everyone, when someone meets someone,

550
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, they're nice, but that's not who they

551
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 1: are yet, do you know what I mean? You've got

552
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 1: to just give it a bit and their final form

553
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 1: will start to show. Thank you for giving me that term. Now,

554
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:26,720
Speaker 1: first sign she doesn't clean like ever, plates multiplying like gremlins,

555
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 1: toilet unflushed constantly. Maybe that's not authentic living. That's a

556
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 1: crime scene. I love the way this girl writes. Then

557
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 1: it escalates. She just straight up refuses to wear clothes

558
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,400
Speaker 1: around the house. Full Nudity twenty four seven. I don't

559
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 1: want to eat my dinner with your tits A like

560
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm now that you know all for be

561
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:48,879
Speaker 1: naked when you need to be, but like we're not

562
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: best friends and I'm eating What are.

563
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: Your standings there with girlfriends?

564
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,240
Speaker 1: Well, I maybe probably honestly wasn't much of anudist until

565
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 1: I got my boobs done, And now I'm like, I

566
00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 1: will like walk around nood all the time. Like I know,

567
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 1: when Hannah came to surprise me and Bali, I was

568
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,159
Speaker 1: just in my room like topless, trying to try clothes on,

569
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 1: and they had to be like, can you please put

570
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,719
Speaker 1: some fucking clothes on because Hannah's about to walk in,

571
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 1: And they couldn't tell me put some clothes on because

572
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,919
Speaker 1: I'd be like, why but Hannah's about to film her

573
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: entrance surprising me flying to Bali, and I have my

574
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,959
Speaker 1: boobs out, so I think it's whatever you're comfortable with.

575
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,199
Speaker 1: But like when I went to Bali with ten of

576
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 1: my girlfriends prior to even getting my boobs done, every

577
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 1: single one of them is lying their topless tanning. I

578
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,640
Speaker 1: wasn't because I just wasn't comfortable, and like, no one

579
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 1: judged me for that, And I don't give a fuck

580
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 1: if they've got their boobs out. But I think you also,

581
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 1: if you meet someone newly, you kind of need to

582
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 1: figure out whether that's something they're comfortable with, because there

583
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 1: are people that don't want you walking around topless, even

584
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 1: you know. But then I also think full nudity, like

585
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 1: bottom belly, buttoned down nudity is also different yeah, yeah

586
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 1: than a girl having her boobs out, oh for sure.

587
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 1: So I'm like, that's a line I personally don't like.

588
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: I don't walk around like that, but like I have

589
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:53,880
Speaker 1: friends that do and I don't care.

590
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I grew up with like obviously I'm gay,

591
00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:58,919
Speaker 2: so like it does nothing for me.

592
00:24:59,080 --> 00:24:59,920
Speaker 1: Obviously I'm gay.

593
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,880
Speaker 2: I'm just very like I grew up with my two

594
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 2: moms and my sister. So like, for example, if I

595
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 2: would accidentally walk into the bathroom as a little boy,

596
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 2: just like, oh, oh my god. I wasn't meant to

597
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 2: say that, you know, but like when I first came

598
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 2: out as gay, all my girlfriends just started undressing and.

599
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 1: How do you feel about that?

600
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, because I have that as a kid of

601
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 2: being so oh my god, I'm not meant to be

602
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 2: like saying this. I like always got a really uncomfortable feeling.

603
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,640
Speaker 2: Even like one of my girlfriend's got a boob job

604
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 2: and she's like, look at them and just like you're like,

605
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 2: I was like, oh wow, nipples just like fail them.

606
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, no, no, I don't want to literally

607
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 2: grab my arms and you're like, oh my god, so

608
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 2: obviously I have no problem. I just find that really interesting.

609
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 2: I was talking to someone about it on the weekend

610
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 2: because like now everyone does it to me. I'm like,

611
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:44,679
Speaker 2: you can.

612
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 1: It's definitely I think a girl thing. But then I'm like,

613
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:49,920
Speaker 1: do boys walk around with their dicks out?

614
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 2: No? We'll like no, yeah, no.

615
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 1: Because I swear I heard they like like they could.

616
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 1: I had someone be like, yeah, I know what all

617
00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 1: my friends dicks look like, and I'm like, do you

618
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,040
Speaker 1: walk around like that? Or you just show it to

619
00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 1: each other like once? And then you're like, that's enough, Like,

620
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,120
Speaker 1: how do you know what your friend's penis looks like?

621
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:08,719
Speaker 1: Like they all do, but I don't know how if

622
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,479
Speaker 1: they're not walking around, maybe change rooms and stuff might

623
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 1: be different. But yeah, it's girls having their boobs out

624
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: is very normalized. But walking around full nud I think,

625
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: is kind of as weird as like a boy walking

626
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,639
Speaker 1: around with his dick out, Like it's a bit you

627
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 1: need to know if the person's comfortable with that, if

628
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 1: you're going to be doing that full nudity twenty four seven, Like,

629
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: I'm living with a naked protester. I have a boyfriend.

630
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 1: Right off he comes over, she's butt naked in the

631
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 1: kitchen making oats, like at some sort of nudist commune.

632
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 1: That is a problem. It's disrespectful to be naked around

633
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: someone else's partner. It's like my friend got changed in

634
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 1: front of a boyfriend I had at the time. I'd

635
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: be like, what the fuck you do? Yeah, you know

636
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: what I mean, move into a separate room.

637
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 2: That's just so insane, it's rude.

638
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. Then I asked her super polightly, hey can you

639
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: please wear something with my boyfriend's here? And she goes,

640
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have to cover up because men sexualize me. Girl,

641
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 1: nobody says actualizing you. We're trying to survive breakfast without

642
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 1: emotional lamage. This is fucked. Then a plot twist, she

643
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,479
Speaker 1: gets mad at my boyfriend because you won't look at

644
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: her like he's actively staring at the ceiling fan trying

645
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: to Maine maintain eye contact with Jesus himself. And she's offended.

646
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: He's not engaging in conversation. She's kissing me off. So

647
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: things are tense, right. I try to address the cleaning again,

648
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 1: super nice, super mature, and she hits me with your

649
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: being microaggressive. I don't see mess. Okay, well you're blind.

650
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 1: This girl goes, okay, well I see a bowl growing

651
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 1: new life on the counter, So someone's lying. This girl's funny.

652
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 1: Whoever wrote this, you're funny. Now. In her defense, my

653
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,439
Speaker 1: cat did pee on her bed once and chewed her

654
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: bra but let's be clear, this cat is thoroughly litter trained.

655
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,680
Speaker 1: Never done that before, never done it again. The cat

656
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 1: absolutely scents the chaos. He said, not in my house

657
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 1: and just served divine justness. Cat. No, my cat easily

658
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 1: to trained. And when I open a suitcase to go

659
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: pack stuff to leave. She shits in it every time.

660
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:02,360
Speaker 1: Shit's or peas in my suitcase.

661
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 2: We had a visitor we didn't like once and he

662
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 2: left his suitcase unopened in the spare room. He's just

663
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 2: got back one day and our cat has explosively.

664
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 1: Shat all in this because they like that is because

665
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,400
Speaker 1: they hate them. My cat's like, you're not leaving, I'm

666
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,400
Speaker 1: shitting in your suitcase. Great anyway, she tells me she's

667
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: moving out. Hell a fucking Loujah girl. She says, she'll

668
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 1: give me a week's notice and find a replacement. See

669
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 1: find a replacement. I don't want you to find me

670
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 1: a replacement, but yes, you kind of have to because

671
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 1: you're leaving. And it's like I have to find someone

672
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 1: to pay the rent. But it's like, I don't know

673
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:33,679
Speaker 1: who you're going to be picking.

674
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, every experience I've known, like it's the people that

675
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 2: stay in that house get to choose who the next

676
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 2: one is. But I definitely know in.

677
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 1: Some times a week's notice also isn't enough time. I

678
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: think that's where the problem all comes in. Yeah, two

679
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: days later, I don't know where She's like, I'm leaving tomorrow,

680
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: no warning, no replacement, no sanity. Then she doesn't even leave.

681
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: She hangs around for another week like naked go saunding

682
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: the hallway. Finally she leaves, steals half my stuff, damages

683
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 1: the house, and her bond back threatens me with a lawyer,

684
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: refuses to clean, babe, you can't take my airfry out,

685
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 1: my cutlery, my dignity, and then hit me with legal action.

686
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, she didn't get her bond back. I got

687
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: my cat's respect forever. And as far as I know,

688
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 1: she's moved up north and we never spoke again. Do

689
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: you mean north like north Side, because like she is

690
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 1: giving like north Side.

691
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 2: Or like North North away from.

692
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 1: Giving like free spirit can't be hows?

693
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm getting like northern Queensland vibe.

694
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: Oh you mean like north of Melbourne? I mean yeah,

695
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 1: north of Australia. I'm I was thinking like north of

696
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: Victoria maybe, but oh my god, you guys will all

697
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 1: love this. So I was at the races and you

698
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: know how we had a girl that was talking about

699
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago, how she liked a guy

700
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: at footy, she did like training stuff at footy. She

701
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 1: sent us an update, yes, and that was our first

702
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: update we've gotten. I saw her at the race sids.

703
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

704
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: She was like, I'm that girl that like sent those

705
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: two things in and I was like, thank.

706
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 2: You, updates so we can actually share.

707
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: I did ask because I think of it as of

708
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,479
Speaker 1: her last thing. It was kind of dead, so I

709
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: think it's just still like that, Oh my god. But

710
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 1: I just think, what are the chances I never you know,

711
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: you never get to put a face to any of

712
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: these stories. So it was just so interesting. Like a

713
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: fan of her, Yeah, I'm like, I love you, thank you.

714
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 1: Next or this is a longie and I love it.

715
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 2: So I'm going to preface this is the biggest submission

716
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 2: we've ever got.

717
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

718
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 2: I wasn't able to read it in full, but I

719
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 2: was only like a quarter the way down crying. Yeah,

720
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 2: so I think this could be out bad.

721
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 1: I think this is going to be really good. Strap in.

722
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 1: I personally love a long submission. I like a story.

723
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 1: I like to hear. I like them to set the scene,

724
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: you know, So let's get into it. If there was

725
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: ever a question designed for me, this is it. I

726
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 1: have literally made a PowerPoint presentation titled my crazy fucking Housemates.

727
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: So I will try and keep it short, but there's

728
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 1: a lot to cover.

729
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 2: Girl. Please send the presentation.

730
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 1: I need the presentation. My first housemaid experience set the tone.

731
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 1: My cousin and I wanted to move out, but we

732
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:07,959
Speaker 1: needed a third person, so she invited a girl from

733
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 1: high school she knew, let's call her Cami. Cammie was

734
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 1: super dark, she hated lie and from day one she

735
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: told us she doesn't like people. Off to a great start,

736
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 1: I know, once she moved in. She told me this

737
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: charming story very casually, while smoking twelve cigarettes in a row.

738
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: Sounds like me when I was twenty about how she

739
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: wants dragged a girl by her hair into a kitchen

740
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: and smashed her head into the cupboards multiple times at

741
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: a house party. Brouh. I laughed at first, thinking she

742
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: was joking. She was absolutely not joking. I don't think

743
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: I could live with someone that's like, physically assaulted someone

744
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 1: like that.

745
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 2: But then you're finding out as it's happening.

746
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, I'm living with you, what do I have?

747
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 2: Like?

748
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 1: What do I accidentally like not clean up my marke

749
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 1: and you do that to me? Fuck? She was meant

750
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 1: to save her three months, but only lasted a couple

751
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: of weeks. Why because her boyfriend tried to kill his

752
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 1: parents and got arrested. I liked, I'm glad, I said,

753
00:31:56,040 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 1: tried too, meaning hopefully it wasn't successful. She left to

754
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: bail him out there move straight back in with him

755
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: because he threatened to kill himself if she didn't. Trauma.

756
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: After that, housemaid too arrived, another friend of my cousin's girl.

757
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: At this point, I wouldn't be trusting your cousin. I'm like,

758
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 1: does your cousin even really need to be living there?

759
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: By this point, I was questioning the type of people

760
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 1: my cousin keeps in her life. What I wasn't aware

761
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 1: until after he moved in is that he was a

762
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: heroin addict. I could not like. That is not something

763
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,800
Speaker 1: that you want to be around accidentally, you know what

764
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: I mean? Unwillingly yeah, and finding out Oh fuck me. Yeah,

765
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: But I don't want to live with someone that's got

766
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 1: an addiction like that. You know, Oh my god, that's fucked.

767
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 1: Can you can imagine how well that went and got

768
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: so bad we had to stage in intervention and convince

769
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 1: him to go to rehab. At this point, I put

770
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 1: a firm ban on any more of my cousin's friends

771
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: moving in fair Shout Girl. House Maid three was a

772
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: woman that we found on fairy Floss. Fairyfloss is like

773
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: a housemay up. Isn't that to live with? Yeah? Yeah,

774
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 1: let's call her Cassie. Cassie was a free spirit. See,

775
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be trusting any more free spirits after Camish.

776
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: It was a free spirit vegan hula who being crystal

777
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: charging at Sunshine worshiping Hipbie. But Cassie. Cassie also believed

778
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: that she was the house guardian of purity. She would

779
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: throw any food out that wasn't vegan, including mine, and

780
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 1: even threw out my dog's toys because they weren't ethically aligned.

781
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: Throw out my food and you'll be buying me more

782
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 1: or give me the money that that food cost. I

783
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 1: don't care for. I don't know, I don't not care for.

784
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 1: I do not care if anyone is vegan, vegetarian, whatever

785
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: the fuck you want to be, do not push your

786
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 1: beliefs onto me. I do not want to be vegan.

787
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: You can be do whatever you want. But if I'm

788
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: going on a date, like I was on a date

789
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 1: with a guy once that was a vegan and it

790
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 1: kind of like threw me. And I'm being completely honest.

791
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to date a vegan.

792
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 2: Wuld you eat?

793
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 1: We didn't eat, We want a drink, a steak. But

794
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 1: I no judgment to any of the listeners that are vegan.

795
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 1: That is a lifestyle choicing. That is all your choice.

796
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,120
Speaker 1: But I am such a foodie that I couldn't date

797
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: a vegan because food is such a big part of

798
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 1: something I love, and like I want to be able

799
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 1: to share that with a partner, do you know what

800
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: I mean? Definitely, And he was vegan and I was like, immediately,

801
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: you know it can't happen. But basically I'm thinking it's like,

802
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: imagine like if a vegan took me to a vegan restaurant,

803
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 1: I'd be like, can you not, because like you can

804
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: eat a vegan option on a normal menu. I don't

805
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 1: want to eat vegan.

806
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,280
Speaker 2: Yeah I'm hot out here trying to get full cream milk.

807
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a full cream milk girl. I could drink

808
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: straight from a cow's udder. I don't want to be

809
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:22,280
Speaker 1: eating vegan. Don't rate it not veganism, this chick. Veganism's fine.

810
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: Her hobbies included hula who being naked in the backyard,

811
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:28,880
Speaker 1: of course, doing interpretive dance under the moon naked. Of course.

812
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 1: It's like they think clothes like cage them or something.

813
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 1: At that point, things had moved from quirky to I'm

814
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 1: living in a commune. I never signed up for. I

815
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 1: reckon her and the first cal would have gone, it's

816
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:41,799
Speaker 1: real good each other?

817
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 2: Is this?

818
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 1: Yeah? You up north? So I packed up and left

819
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:50,479
Speaker 1: with my remaining sane housemate and never looked back. Fresh start,

820
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 1: new house, new rules. We found a friend of a

821
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: friend to move in for a year. It was bulliss,

822
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 1: the most normal household I'd had until his girlfriend moved

823
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: in her Emily, within a week. Emily and my housemate.

824
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 1: So she's not with her cousin anymore, or she never was.

825
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 2: No, so she's with her cousin. But they've now replaced

826
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 2: the whole.

827
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 1: Oh, they've replaced it with a friend of a friend

828
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 1: called Declan. Oh yeah, and then he's got a girlfriend

829
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: called Emily. Okay, that's also moved in. Declan and Emily

830
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 1: went on a break. They sat me down on the

831
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: couch like they were my parents, telling me that they

832
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 1: were divorcing and I'd be living with mum on weekends.

833
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 1: Emily made the executive decision that she was going to

834
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 1: stay in the house and made decline and moved back

835
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 1: in with his parents until they figured things out. It's

836
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 1: kind of like, shouldn't Declin stay there because he was

837
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 1: there first, do you know what I mean? A couple

838
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,919
Speaker 1: weeks later, it officially blew up. Emily went full villain.

839
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 1: She wandered around the house saying it was her house now,

840
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: and then she hoped Declan would die alone, and soon

841
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: it got dark. She had a cat. Then surprise, we

842
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: had two, no warning. I don't even like cats, and

843
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: I actually have trauma from my grandma's chots trying to

844
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 1: kill my grandma's cat's trying to kill me when I

845
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 1: was a child. Yeah, I feel like that people that

846
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 1: don't like cats are only because they have had a

847
00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 1: traumatic issue with a gay around. Do you know what

848
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 1: I mean? I love cats. I have three, three black cats.

849
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:05,879
Speaker 1: Some would say that's unlucky, but you know, black cats

850
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 1: are always the last cats to get adopted from shelters

851
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: because people think they're bad luck. So I picked my Gorolla.

852
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 1: Her name was initially Victoria. Because the Beckham documentary are

853
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: just coming out come out when she was born. That's

854
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 1: something funny anyway, her name's Bobby. Now. Firstly, the cat

855
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 1: would vomit all the time. You know what's so funny

856
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 1: is my sister's cats vomit daily since for years, multiple

857
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 1: times everywhere. There's nothing you can actually do to fix it.

858
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: But I do find I would find that very fucking annoying.

859
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 1: I do find it very fucking annoying, and I refuse

860
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 1: to clean it. I go, your cat's your job. I

861
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 1: was constantly finding vomited around the house or stepping in it. Secondly,

862
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 1: she never changed the litter, so the house constantly smelt

863
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 1: like absolute death. Cat's litter fucking reeks. If I tried

864
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 1: to raise it, she'd scream at me or cry about

865
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:54,800
Speaker 1: being abandoned with the children. The cats were indoor only,

866
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: so I couldn't open my windows or doors for fresh air.

867
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 1: But I tried opening my window in my room. My

868
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 1: door shut, but the cat would somehow hide in my

869
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: room and escape. When they did, Emily would scream at

870
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 1: me like I'd thrown them into traffic. It's kind of

871
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: like you can't really be like you can't open a

872
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 1: windowe you know what I mean? Especially when it reeks. Also,

873
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: it's actually really really bad. Cats really hate dirty litter,

874
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 1: So if you care about a cat at all, you

875
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:20,280
Speaker 1: should be changing it regularly. Look at me, fucking cat

876
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:24,760
Speaker 1: advocate over here. Despite calling herself an environmental gremlin, Emily

877
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: would run the dryer in the peak of summer on

878
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 1: thirty to thirty five degree days to dry two socks.

879
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 1: I suggested hanging them outside, and she told me that

880
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: because she's vegan vegetarian and only op shops, it makes

881
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,359
Speaker 1: up for using the dryer. Not how that works. Huh.

882
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 1: When I gently pointed out that it wasn't how the

883
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 1: environment or electricity works, she chased me around the house

884
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 1: screaming about how meat is destroying the planet, and I

885
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 1: hid in my bedroom while she yelled through the door.

886
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 1: Go I'd just go get I'd called deck Clane and

887
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: be like, you brought her into my life, you need

888
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 1: to get rid of her to make that as worse.

889
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 1: When Emily moved in, she completely rearranged the house without asking,

890
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: moving in her furniture and removing mine. I came home

891
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 1: from work to find all my things replaced. She had

892
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: also a deeply unsettling obsession with dead dried insects displayed

893
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 1: in glass frames, beetles, moths, butterflied, even a curled up

894
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 1: giant spider that is not fucking happening, which she proudly

895
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 1: placed around the house like family portraits. At one point,

896
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:20,399
Speaker 1: there was a dead spider on the dining table as

897
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:24,479
Speaker 1: a centerpiece. No, I don't care if the spider is dead.

898
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 1: I don't want to fucking look at it like that. No.

899
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: It took over seven months to get her to move out,

900
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 1: but eventually she left and declan finally came home. I

901
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: have one. I have a couple more crazy housemates, but

902
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 1: I'll just finish with this one. Girl. I think you

903
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: need to find a one bedroom.

904
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, I don't think housemates have.

905
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:44,800
Speaker 1: Housemets are for you. Housemade number five, let's call her dress.

906
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: She moved from Sydney to Melbourne, l So she does

907
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 1: live in Melbourne, meaning moving up north could have been

908
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 1: north Side.

909
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 2: So true.

910
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 1: Moved from Sydney to Melbourne and the day she moved in,

911
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: her boyfriend dumped her. So she sobbed into my shoulder,

912
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: full body weight collapse. I didn't know her, so I

913
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,240
Speaker 1: tried to give her space and escape to the garage.

914
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 1: I sought my box and breathe. When I came back inside,

915
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 1: she told me that the last time they broke up,

916
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,320
Speaker 1: she checked herself into a psychiatric hospital, self aware a queen,

917
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: and to top it off, she just called Saint Vincent's

918
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:12,800
Speaker 1: Psychiatric hospital to see if they had a spot available,

919
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 1: and I thought, oh no, who are I let in

920
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 1: the house? She eventually settled in and after six months,

921
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: announced she was going to buy a house, wanting Declan

922
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: and me to move in with her. She said this

923
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 1: right after quitting her job, and I wasn't going to

924
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:26,879
Speaker 1: be the one to explain that banks generally don't give

925
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: mortgages to the unemployed. Then she showed us brochures of

926
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 1: inspection houses she'd seen houses in the millions. I asked

927
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 1: casually how she could afford this. She replied, I have

928
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: a trust fund. I asked how much, and her answer,

929
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty million. Girl, Go get your own house,

930
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: buy Saint Vincent's fucking psychiatric.

931
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 2: Hospital, buy us a house. Eat yeah, come on.

932
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 1: I laughed so loud, thinking she was joking, and asked

933
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 1: why she was living in a share house if she

934
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 1: had one hundred and fifty million dollars. She explained that

935
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:58,320
Speaker 1: she doesn't receive the trust fund until she's twenty five,

936
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 1: but her dabbles sign off early if she wants to

937
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:04,720
Speaker 1: buy a house. Fucking lucky bitch. Over the following six months, Declan,

938
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,280
Speaker 1: Jess and I spent time inspecting ten to fifteen million

939
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: dollar houses. Dude, I would put up with anything she

940
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 1: had to throw at me. If it meant I could

941
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 1: move out of a little sharehouse into a one hundred

942
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,800
Speaker 1: into a ten million dollar mansion, I won't even see Jess.

943
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 1: She'll be so far on the other side the house

944
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 1: it won't even matter, do you know what I mean?

945
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 1: I would put up with anything. Jess was very particular.

946
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 1: She even engaged a structural engineer, paid for building and

947
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:33,240
Speaker 1: pest reports, and made offers. But slowly the cracks appeared

948
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: and the lies piled up. She told me she earned

949
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:39,800
Speaker 1: sixty K year as part of the Australian national taekwondo team.

950
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: So random, but she wasn't training. So I googled it. Surprise,

951
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: she wasn't on it. She said she had a driver's license,

952
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 1: she didn't. She said she had ten siblings, she couldn't

953
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: even name any. She said her dad owned a winery

954
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: in Italy, but she couldn't tell me the name of it.

955
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,360
Speaker 1: She said she lived in Switzerland for two years, but

956
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:57,359
Speaker 1: then got excited to see snow for the first time

957
00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: at Mount Butler. Right next month, Declan and I staged

958
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 1: a mini intervention. She shut it down, and now she

959
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 1: was moving out with her new boyfriend, and we asked

960
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: her to leave at the same time. To this day,

961
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 1: we have zero closure and no idea what was real.

962
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 1: We're certain she does not have one hundred and fifty

963
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 1: million dollars as she now lives in the North in

964
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: a sharehouse. Final kickout. She got a new boyfriend while

965
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: living with us, and within three months convinced him to

966
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: open a joint bank account, put only his money into it,

967
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 1: sell his car, move out of his apartment, move into

968
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: our house without Declan or my consent, and get a

969
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 1: shared Carlan for sixty thousand dollars while she kept all

970
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 1: our money separate. Honestly, it was the depiction of inventing Anna,

971
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 1: which is about Anna Delvey, the lady who just kind

972
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:45,839
Speaker 1: of pretended she was some wealthy heiress and like got

973
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:49,360
Speaker 1: away with fucking living this wealthy, fucking rich life shows

974
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 1: a deal on Wall Street. Yeah, I'm happy to report

975
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,439
Speaker 1: I now live with two amazing housemates. Took me five years,

976
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: but I finally broke their housewaate curse. Well, I'm I'm

977
00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: glad to hear, because I was about say, you need

978
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 1: live on your own. Wow, I reckon the heart and

979
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 1: the worst will actually probably Emily would be the worst.

980
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,879
Speaker 1: But like living with a heroin addic.

981
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 2: I know that seemed like, God, that would be the worst.

982
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 1: Because then there's like the possibility they kind of turned

983
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 1: your house into like a little bit of the trap house.

984
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 2: It's super sad that in the context of all of this,

985
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 2: this somewhat falls in the middle and I've kind of

986
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:20,720
Speaker 2: forgotten about the heroin at Air.

987
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, which is really sad. In five years they are

988
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: no longer a hera. Yeah.

989
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:26,880
Speaker 2: And I thought on the way, I thought you maybe

990
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,719
Speaker 2: would have asked if I had a like housemaid horror story,

991
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:31,280
Speaker 2: and I was really trying to think and I didn't.

992
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 2: So I feel like this this is like five examples in.

993
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 1: That is like five house You've done them for me, though, girlies,

994
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,280
Speaker 1: we are out of time, but we have so many

995
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 1: other amazing ones, so we're definitely going to be doing

996
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:43,919
Speaker 1: a part two on that one. I know I only

997
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: read two, but the second one, yeah, that was like

998
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: seven in one. And I will get back to you

999
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: guys and we will do a part two. Well, I

1000
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 1: love you guys, and I will speak to you next Thursday.