1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: The public has had a long held fascination with detectives. 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 1: Detective see aside of life, the average person has never 3 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 1: exposed her I spent thirty four years as a cop. 4 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: For twenty five of those years I was catching killers. 5 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: That's what I did for a living. I was a 6 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: homicide detective. I'm no longer just interviewing bad guys. Instead, 7 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 1: I'm taking the public into the world in which I operated. 8 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: The guests I talk to each week have amazing stories 9 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: from all sides of the law. The interviews are raw 10 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: and honest, just like the people I talk to. Some 11 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: of the content and language might be confronting. That's because 12 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: no one who comes in the contact with crime is 13 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,840 Speaker 1: left unchanged. Join me now as I take you into 14 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 1: this world. In part one of my chat with Sally Laden, 15 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: we spoke about her mother, Marion Barthur's mysterious disappearance and 16 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: the problems with the police investigation. Now in part two, 17 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: Sally talked about the sensational evidence that came out in 18 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: the inquest regarding miss Blum, who has seen Marian around 19 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:05,119 Speaker 1: the time of her disappearance. Mister Blum is a person 20 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: who went through life with fourteen different aliases, I also 21 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 1: asked Sally a personal question about what she most wants 22 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: to happen regarding her mother's disappearance. Let's have a listen. Sally, 23 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 1: welcome back to part two off I Catch Killers. 24 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: Hello. 25 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: I said, I offered you condolences at the start of 26 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: part one on what you've been through with your mother 27 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: disappearing twenty seven years ago, and I've got to say 28 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 1: the frustrations that you must feel with the roadblocks you've 29 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: hit and your effort to just keep picking yourself up 30 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: and still trying to find the answers for your mum. 31 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: So again, full credit to you and condolences that you've 32 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:47,119 Speaker 1: had to go through that. 33 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 2: No worry, thank you. Well, look, I tell you like 34 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 2: the roadblocks keep coming too. Just because we get an 35 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 2: answer from the coroner as well, it doesn't mean that 36 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 2: I've actually like twenty twenty four is one of the 37 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 2: worst years I've actually had in life, actually just getting 38 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 2: to the end of being told that your mother is 39 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 2: deceased and then having to work out the next steps 40 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 2: in that as a missing person and someone whose case 41 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 2: is a little convoluted and a little confusing. There's two 42 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 2: names involved. You know, it has been an absolute diabolical 43 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 2: time for me. 44 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: There's bizarre twists and turns, and looking at it, I 45 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:29,679 Speaker 1: found it interesting from a form of homicide detective point 46 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: of view. And we left part two talking about Rick 47 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: Blom or whatever he's calling himself these days. Tell us 48 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: a little bit more what you found out. Then we'll 49 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: start talking about what came out during the inquest, but 50 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: just in the lead up to the inquest, because when 51 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 1: it was the inquest held, that was. 52 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 2: Twenty twenty two and it ended in February twenty twenty four. 53 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,079 Speaker 1: Okay, when the findings were handed down. Yeah, okay, So 54 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: in that period before that the matter has been referred 55 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: to the from miss persons to unsolve homicide. 56 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 2: I don't think it. I don't think it ever sat 57 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 2: with missing persons, to be honest. It sat with local 58 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 2: command Byron Bay and tweeedtheads. 59 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 1: Where it sat and when did it go to homicide? 60 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 2: Late twenty nineteen, twenty nineteen, Okay, I was allocated a 61 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 2: homicide detective at a new OICEE. 62 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: What information did you uncover before leading into the before 63 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 1: the inquest? 64 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 2: Well, we found the ad in the paper that was 65 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 2: in the May and that was such a big breakthrough 66 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 2: for us because we had found someone who had the 67 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 2: same name, who was around the same age. So if 68 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 2: you think about nineteen nineteen ninety four, the ad was 69 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 2: placed and he was saying he was forty seven and 70 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 2: in nineteen ninety seven, my mom's fifty one, So you 71 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 2: do the math, right, They're all around the same age 72 00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 2: and same location. Geographical and that's another thing that's blowing 73 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 2: my mind with this case, like everything is geographically in line, 74 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 2: in sync, all in the same backyard essentially. So anyway, 75 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 2: I went with the Channel seventeen. We flew over to Luxembourg. 76 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 2: And the reason Luxembourg is important, which something we haven't 77 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 2: touched on, is that on my mum's incoming passenger card, 78 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 2: oh sorry, her outgoing passenger card, she said that her 79 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 2: name was Florabella Ramchel. She was divorced. She ticked that 80 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 2: she's divorced, and she ticked that she's leaving permanently to 81 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 2: go and live in Luxembourg. Home duties was her occupation. 82 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 2: When she comes back in six weeks later a different 83 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 2: route on a different airline, so she's left on Korean 84 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 2: air she's come back in on Cathay, which we found 85 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 2: by the way. I like to add this because the 86 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: timeline is very tight. But we've actually spoken to captains 87 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 2: and people who worked for Cathay and they said that 88 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 2: was the quickest way to get from Europe to Australia 89 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 2: back in nineteen ninety seven. That he knew exactly the 90 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:07,919 Speaker 2: airline code and everything we were giving him and he 91 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 2: just rattled off straight away for us. So that's interesting 92 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 2: in itself. She's flown back in from Hong Kong and 93 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 2: she has ticked. Now she's still Florabella Aromackel, but she's 94 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 2: ticked that she's married, and the tick is very exaggerated, 95 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 2: so all the other ticks are quite small on that page, 96 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 2: but the tick for marriage is huge. And she says 97 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 2: she's coming for eight days to see family. That was 98 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 2: pretty much it, and that she ticked also that she 99 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: was not a resident of Australia, which we thought was interesting. 100 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 2: Found out last night actually, someone commented on my Facebook 101 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:46,919 Speaker 2: group that Luxembourg is spelt differently if you're a European. 102 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:48,600 Speaker 1: Oh, that's interesting. 103 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 2: I didn't know that. And the way it's written on 104 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 2: the incoming passenger card with outgoing passenger card, it's spelt 105 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 2: that way. It's spelt you like a European spelling. So 106 00:05:56,920 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 2: that just for knowledge. I thought that was interesting pie 107 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 2: tid bits of information. So yeah, so anyway we fly over. 108 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 2: We located the address of a gentleman whose name was 109 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 2: f Ramchel. Turns out it was Finande. The m in 110 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 2: the ad was actually monsieur. Okay, how they how they speak, 111 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 2: I guess, and how they write in the newspaper. So 112 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 2: m F was Monsieur Fernande Ramichel, looking for love. So 113 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 2: we find an f Ramckel who's the same age, who 114 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 2: lives in Luxembourg, and we got knock on his door. 115 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 2: He greeted me with a little hostility. I put my 116 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 2: hand out to shake his hand and he ignored my hand. 117 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 2: I had an interpreter with me. We were both nervous. 118 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:46,039 Speaker 2: You can hear us walking up to the to the 119 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 2: front door and crackling on the rocks because I was 120 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 2: with the with the Channel seventeen and obviously they wanted 121 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 2: to capture what he was going to say to me, 122 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 2: right and I know, and I said to him, I 123 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 2: was sorry, I didn't. Yeah, it was I said to 124 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 2: Brian actually Seymour, who was with me as part of 125 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 2: the podcast team, and I said, my husband's going to 126 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 2: kill me. If he knew what I was doing right now, 127 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 2: he would be not very happy with me. I'm a 128 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 2: mother of three children. I can't be doing this. But 129 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 2: it was just wild. It was a wild ride. We 130 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 2: got up to his door. He's really rude to me. 131 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 2: I had my mom's photo. I said, do you know 132 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 2: my mom? 133 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: Like? 134 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 2: Do you? And he was just I don't speak English, 135 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 2: like wh I don't speak English? And Sarah is saying to me. 136 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 2: He's telling us we should go, we need to go, 137 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 2: and then he closed the door in our face. So 138 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 2: we walked off and his wife was out the front 139 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 2: taking photos of the boys. I'd said to the boys, 140 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 2: sit in the car down on the road. I don't 141 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 2: want you to come up and put cameras in their faces. 142 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 2: These people could be very innocent and they could potentially 143 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 2: not know anything. And you know, I'm not about walking 144 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 2: in and dropping a bomb on someone's lap and then 145 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 2: walking away and going, oh, sorry about that. Now you're 146 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 2: going to ask your husband what's the go with the 147 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 2: woman from Australia Like I was very conscious of that. Anyway, 148 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 2: he called the police. They came. We'd already seen them 149 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 2: that morning, which sort of helped our favor because they 150 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 2: knew why we were there and no harm. We were 151 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 2: just trying to ask some questions and see what he knew. 152 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 2: And he also happened to be a soccer player who 153 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 2: played professional for Luxembourg, so all these little links. It 154 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 2: was just wildly crazy in our brains. Anyway, we were 155 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 2: all spinning out by it. And anyway, during that time 156 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 2: when we're over there, we also found the phone number 157 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 2: four Finnan Ramichel's ex wife, Monique Cornelius, and so we 158 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 2: rang and spoke to her, and this is before we 159 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 2: went out to Finnanes because he wasn't home. We'd been 160 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 2: going out there every day for three days and he 161 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 2: wasn't there, and there was an election happening that weekend, 162 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 2: and we just took a punt that maybe they'll come 163 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 2: back for the election, because they're very liberal on voting 164 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 2: over there and it's a big thing. So we rang 165 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 2: and Manique cancered the phone and she spoke to us 166 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 2: for a little bit and it was a bit confusing 167 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 2: because Finan's sister in law is sister is Marion as well, 168 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 2: so she thought we were talking about his sister in law. 169 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 2: It was a little confusion. Obviously there's a language barrier 170 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 2: there too, but she did speak English and she did 171 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 2: speak to us. Fast forward, mister Rick Blum had a relationship, 172 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 2: which he denies, but Monique has shown She produced a 173 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 2: love letter that he'd written to her at the inquest, 174 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 2: which was very unusual. But they had they had a relationship. Okay, 175 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 2: So when we went to Luxembourg, we knocked on Finnan 176 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 2: Ramichel's door, and that was the real Finnan Ramchel. He 177 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 2: had had his identification stolen and Rick Blum was using 178 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 2: his identification back here in Australia. 179 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 1: And another little twist to it was that Rick Blum 180 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: had had a relationship with. 181 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, with his ex wife, Monique Cornelius. 182 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 1: Okay, small, well, so. 183 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 2: I should probably I should probably qualify that as how 184 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 2: that came about. So Manique was obviously married to Fan Ramichel, 185 00:09:56,760 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 2: and in his statement he Rick Blum agreed that he 186 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 2: had stolen Fanan Ramckel's identification. So the same guy we're 187 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 2: knocking on his door, this guy's taken his identification. He 188 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 2: got an international driver's license in his name with his 189 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 2: date of birth and then he came to Australia and 190 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 2: he got a Queensland driver's license in that same name. 191 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 2: He kept the driver's license so much so that he 192 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 2: renewed it in nineteen eighty eight. He said it was 193 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 2: in his wallet on the timeline of my mum when 194 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 2: he was with my mum. He agrees that he had 195 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 2: an affair with my mum. He said they only met 196 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 2: three times and around. He said that he was there 197 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 2: when the for sale sign was out in the front 198 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 2: of my mum's house. To give you some idea, so 199 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 2: we know he was in that mix of when she's 200 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 2: getting ready to leave. He actually accused my mum on 201 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 2: the stand of stealing the driver's license out of his wallet, 202 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 2: because he then said, I've lost it. I don't have it, 203 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 2: and I think Marion stole it because she wanted to 204 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 2: change her name to that. And the crazy thing about 205 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 2: it is, if you look at Fernande, Fernand's middle name 206 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:11,559 Speaker 2: is Nicholas, Nicholas Fernande. Rick Blum wrote Knucklus, he has 207 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 2: a habit of changing vowels on names. We've picked up 208 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 2: on this, and mum changed her name to Flora Bella 209 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 2: Natalia throw the marian In but Ramichael, so they're the 210 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:25,079 Speaker 2: same initials as well, which we thought was quite interesting. 211 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: I've seen that not alluding to the fact that this 212 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:31,439 Speaker 1: is why he did it, but it's a good fraud's 213 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 1: his strick. 214 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 2: Well, he's he has been charged. He has a long 215 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 2: history of fraud offenses. He's been in prison for fraud. 216 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: I think that came out in the inquest. 217 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so yes, it got wildly crazy at that 218 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 2: point and everyone was losing their marbles. 219 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 1: Well, there's a lot of Normally we'd put a whiteboard 220 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: up at this point in time, and there was information 221 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: about your mum's travels and the correlation between your mother's 222 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: travels in the time that she went to Europe in 223 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 1: ninety seventh and that of Rick Blombs. 224 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 2: Yep. So he flew out on the Wednesday, which I 225 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 2: think is the eighteenth of June. And I just want 226 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 2: to add this because I think it's important. So mum 227 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 2: had resigned from her job yep, and the Friday was 228 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 2: end of term. So she's waited until the friday, end 229 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 2: of term. She's come for dinner at our house on 230 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,200 Speaker 2: the Saturday, and she's left on the Sunday. So she 231 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 2: flew out on the twenty second. He flew out on 232 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 2: JL Japanese Airline to Japan. My mom flew out on 233 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 2: Korean air Plane Fly Airline and she landed in South Korea. 234 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 2: And just for those that don't know, when you leave Australia, 235 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 2: Interpol actually only make a reference of where you land 236 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 2: on your first point of call. So if you're going 237 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 2: to Singapore, but you're going to London by Singapore, Singapore 238 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 2: will be noted as your destination on Interpol and saying 239 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 2: when you're coming back in. So we know mum was 240 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 2: in Hong Kong because that's what it says on her 241 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 2: incoming passenger car. But that's obviously like a stopover from 242 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 2: coming from Europe or from the UK, so that's where 243 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 2: you lose all you go to the abyss pretty much, 244 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 2: and that was really frustrating because we didn't know where 245 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 2: she went. She did write to me, as I said 246 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 2: earlier in the last episode, that she'd written to me 247 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 2: on notepaper, and that notepaper actually came from a hotel 248 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 2: in Japan, Hotel Nico in Narrita. Now, when Rick Blum 249 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 2: was interviewed by police, they asked him where did you 250 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 2: stay when you went on that trip on the in 251 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 2: the June of nineteen ninety seven in Japan, and he 252 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 2: just very quickly remembered and said, I stayed at Hotel 253 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 2: Niko and Nerita, and I nearly fell off my chair. 254 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 2: I was like, what he said, at the same hotel 255 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 2: as mum was written to me on the notepaper. 256 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 1: So yes, it was and so crazy And this was 257 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: a stationary from that hotel, correct the leather that your 258 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 1: mum's written the stationary there. Yes, And there's a lot 259 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 1: of other coincidents, and we could go into the mall, 260 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 1: but I think we'll draw on some of the some 261 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: of the opinions of the coroner, what the coroner found, 262 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 1: because the inquest that went I think it sat for 263 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 1: twenty five days, ran for over twenty five days, so I. 264 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 2: Said, it was an unprecedented amount of time. And it 265 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 2: was costing over a million dollars is what they told me. Yeah, 266 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 2: and I went, well, that's okay, because my mum's actually 267 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 2: worth it, so let's keep going if we need to 268 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 2: keep going. So but it was hard, it was not pleasant. 269 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: Well, it was before the magistrate, the state coroner, Magistrate 270 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 1: Theresa O'Sullivan and she handed the handed down the findings 271 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: on the twenty ninth of February last year. But the 272 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: inquest commenced on the twenty first of June twenty twenty 273 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 1: one and concluded on the second of June twenty twenty three, 274 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: ran for over twenty five days. So yeah, that's that's 275 00:14:55,880 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: a long long inquest. I'm thinking been the other that's 276 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: run longer other than the whim to all matter, and 277 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: that's ongoing way way longer. So to explain what the 278 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 1: role of the coroner is, so the coroner first, then 279 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 1: I put it here because if listeners don't understand, the 280 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: corannial court is not a criminal court, so that's important. 281 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 1: The crannial court is an inquest and the role of 282 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 1: the coroner is to find out if someone's deceased, which 283 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 1: in the case of your mother, it wasn't determined, so 284 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 1: the coroner's that's been referred to the coroner to make 285 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 1: a determination if your mother's deceased, and then when your 286 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 1: mother died and how she died and where, time and date. 287 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 1: They're the type of things that the coroner's looking for. 288 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 1: Was that explained to you before the inquest? 289 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 2: Well, I was lucky enough to befriend Mark and Fay 290 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 2: Levison and they had actually know you worked on their 291 00:15:55,760 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 2: case with Matt and they were really, you know, very 292 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 2: important people for me at that point, because I was 293 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 2: learning what I had to do, whether I needed counsel assisting, 294 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 2: whether I needed legal teams, how it all worked, and 295 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 2: what I was in for. Joanie also has a background 296 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 2: in social work, so she's actually been involved in in 297 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 2: quest before, and you know, she was telling me it's 298 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 2: a fact finding mission, is how she sort of worded 299 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 2: it to me, and it made sense to me that 300 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 2: this isn't a criminal procedure. I also kept getting told 301 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 2: by legal teams that, you know, the inquest is about 302 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 2: two things, Sally. One is your mum alive or is 303 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 2: she deceased? And two did the police do their job properly? 304 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 2: So as far as the coroner is concerned, they're the 305 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 2: two main factors that she had to consider. Then, of 306 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 2: course we've brought in this person who she referred to 307 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 2: as a significant person of interest, and we heard all 308 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 2: his evidence and in we pause the inquest. They vacated. Sadly, 309 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 2: they didn't tell me they vacated, and I flew my 310 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 2: whole family down and we got a car and hotels 311 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 2: and everything cost us about six thousand dollars. Three weeks 312 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:06,879 Speaker 2: before Christmas and we arrived in Sydney and then my 313 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 2: lawyer rang me and said, hey, I just wanted to 314 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 2: let you know they vacated. I said, what does that 315 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:13,679 Speaker 2: even mean? And he said, they've postponed it and I mean, 316 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 2: oh my god, well we're here. He goes, what why 317 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 2: are you here? I said, because we came down to 318 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 2: day early to see my dad, you know, and brought 319 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 2: the whole family, brought the kids. Prepared myself mentally that 320 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:25,360 Speaker 2: I was going to be told for the first time 321 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 2: that my mum's deceased, and it paused, and look the 322 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 2: end of the day, it was a good thing because 323 00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 2: they did go and interview more people and bring with 324 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 2: us to the table at. 325 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:37,919 Speaker 1: That time, and the police that took the matter to 326 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 1: the inquest was the Homicide or Unsolved homosild led by 327 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 1: Nigel Warren and to other offices working on it, so 328 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 1: you felt that inquiries were being made that should be made, 329 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 1: Like I've had a lot of detectives on here, and 330 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:56,920 Speaker 1: you're stacking up with some very good detectives maybe you 331 00:17:56,920 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 1: should have got in the Queensland place, but you were 332 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 1: satisfied that genuine inquiries were being made, the type of 333 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 1: inquiries that should have been made in the first place, 334 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 1: and maybe we wouldn't be sitting here. 335 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, And look, and this is where it gets down 336 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:12,199 Speaker 2: to the nitty gritty, as you said, like, you know, 337 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,640 Speaker 2: there's an unprecedented amount of days that they've already given 338 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 2: to my mum's inquest, and how much it's costing. There 339 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 2: was a lot that Joanie and I were sitting behind 340 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:23,200 Speaker 2: my legal team and we were literally feeding all this information, 341 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,120 Speaker 2: going oh, what about this person, and what about this person? 342 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 2: We should talk to this person, And it just got 343 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 2: to the point where it was irrelevant to ask those 344 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 2: questions based on what the purpose of the inquest was about. 345 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 2: And I did understand that, as hard as it. 346 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: Was, there was a lot of evidence and mister bloom 347 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 1: of Blum, how long was he in the witness box. 348 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 2: Fall My memory is it was thirteen days. 349 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 1: Okay, so fairly extensive. Cross the wife. 350 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:52,159 Speaker 2: His wife was there too, she I think she was 351 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 2: on for two days. 352 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:58,479 Speaker 1: So there's in the coroner's findings. There's a couple of 353 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 1: means that I've pulled out from the coroner, just to 354 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 1: put it in perspective, because we're getting your version and 355 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,720 Speaker 1: I'm hearing all the details. But this is a coroner 356 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 1: that they oversaw that extensive inquest, and these are some 357 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:15,200 Speaker 1: of the findings that she came to, and I'm making 358 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:16,919 Speaker 1: sure that we read it out properly so we're not 359 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 1: misrepresenting it. So I find that mister Blum, whilst in 360 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 1: an intimate relationship with Marian, persuaded or otherwise encouraged her 361 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:28,880 Speaker 1: to sell her house in nineteen ninety seven. The evidence 362 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:32,479 Speaker 1: is not too sufficient to prove that mister Blum played 363 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 1: any causy role in Marion's decision to resign from her employment. 364 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 1: So breaking that down, it's she found that mister Blum 365 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 1: in a relationship with Marion, So this is something that's 366 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:52,640 Speaker 1: been established, persuaded or otherwise encouraged her to sell her 367 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,439 Speaker 1: house in nineteen ninety seven. So we're saying that this 368 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 1: relationship was that intense or whatever was going on there, 369 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:03,080 Speaker 1: he's the reason why your mother sold the house. 370 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:05,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, well think about it too. She changed her name. 371 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: To his Yeah, some other comments, and just breaking it 372 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:11,439 Speaker 1: down because it's such a complex thing, as we're seeing 373 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 1: that will rely upon what the coroner is saying about 374 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: her fine needs. Now, there was that eighty thousand dollars 375 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 1: worth of eighty thousand dollars which was withdrawn from your 376 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 1: mother's account. 377 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 2: So on the fifteenth of October. So if I wind 378 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:29,200 Speaker 2: back early when she just like after, she has come 379 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 2: back in five thousand dollars every day was being withdrawn. 380 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:35,399 Speaker 2: We found a letter that my grandfather had kept that 381 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:38,440 Speaker 2: my cousin gave to me, which says there's increments of 382 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 2: five hundred dollars in there as well. So there was 383 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 2: a bit of controversy as to whether it was five 384 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 2: thousand or five hundred. I stand firm that the lady 385 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 2: said to me five thousand. My husband was sitting at 386 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,120 Speaker 2: the dinner table and Renee was too, and it's been 387 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:53,200 Speaker 2: said forever that was five thousand. So she did bank 388 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,160 Speaker 2: with the Commonwealth Bank, and she also banked with Colonial 389 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:59,439 Speaker 2: State Bank. So and at the very outset in the 390 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 2: InterQuest were trying to tell me that my memory was 391 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 2: wrong and that my mum didn't bank with the Commonwealth Bank. 392 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:07,119 Speaker 2: But then I was very pleased to see when the 393 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,439 Speaker 2: Commonwealth Bank came in and throughout a whole statement of 394 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:11,199 Speaker 2: all of the bank accounts that she'd held with them, 395 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:14,399 Speaker 2: and I see, I'm not delusional. She did bank with 396 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,960 Speaker 2: the Commonwealth Bank, and so there was a bit of 397 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:20,159 Speaker 2: that going back and forth. But then there was a 398 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 2: pause through like the end of September early October. But 399 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 2: on the fifteenth of October, eighty thousand dollars was electronically 400 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 2: transferred out of my mum's bank account. What really upsets 401 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 2: me if I go back to the very beginning of 402 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 2: nineteen ninety seven, the police officer actually writes this on 403 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:41,159 Speaker 2: the police report, that eighty thousand dollars was electronically transferred. 404 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 2: He says in it, it's assumed to buy a house overseas. 405 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 2: And I'm like, where did you get that from? And 406 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 2: so what I'm upset about in that instance is if 407 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:57,200 Speaker 2: he knew that eighty thousand had been transferred, why didn't 408 00:21:57,200 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 2: he get the bank statement to see where that thousand went, 409 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,199 Speaker 2: because that would actually tell us where we are. I 410 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 2: would not be doing this half my life if that 411 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,120 Speaker 2: simple thing had been done. And the reality of it 412 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:15,879 Speaker 2: is that the eighty thousand dollars Rick Blum handed in 413 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 2: a document and I don't know if he did this 414 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 2: on purpose or not, but anyway, he gave a document 415 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 2: to the coroner that was a statement from Commonwealth Bank 416 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,800 Speaker 2: in Ballina showing his address. So that was the purpose 417 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 2: of that document. And when I looked at it, I 418 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 2: looked at the date and I went, oh, my god, 419 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 2: that's the fourteenth of October. And he opened a bank 420 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:43,199 Speaker 2: security en below that day, so hiring Nigel Warren and 421 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 2: I'm like, Nigel, have you noticed that? And he case, no, 422 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 2: I haven't yet. And it was just mind blowing for 423 00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 2: me because I went, I just put two and two together. 424 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 2: And there's been no official anything for mister Blum. I 425 00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 2: just want to say that there's nothing to say that 426 00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:02,359 Speaker 2: he he was involved or not. The Coroner's made her 427 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 2: comments about it, but it just seems a little coincidental 428 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 2: to me that on the fourteenth of October he opened 429 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 2: a bank security envelope. He was the only person, his 430 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 2: wife was not noted on it or anything. And then 431 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:19,399 Speaker 2: the next day eighty thousand dollars comes out of my 432 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,679 Speaker 2: mum's bank account. He closes that bank security envelope thirteen 433 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:23,120 Speaker 2: days later. 434 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 1: Okay, we can't make assertions. They're just the facts. 435 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:27,639 Speaker 2: So the facts. 436 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,680 Speaker 1: We're presenting the facts. But the coroner can offen their 437 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 1: opinion in regards to these matters, especially after an extensive inquest. 438 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 1: And this is what the coroner said in regards to 439 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: the withdrawal of a large amount of cash by your mother. 440 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,639 Speaker 1: I repeat the finding I have made that three hundred 441 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 1: and four that there is sufficient factual basis to make 442 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,239 Speaker 1: a finding that Marion withdrew the sums of money in 443 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:58,199 Speaker 1: August nineteen ninety seven and transferred eighty thousand dollars to 444 00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,879 Speaker 1: an unknown account in October nineteen ninety seven on the 445 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:06,160 Speaker 1: encouragement of mister Blum and in circumstances where Marion believed 446 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,640 Speaker 1: that she was in a relationship with him. However, as 447 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 1: counsel assistants submitted, there is not enough evidence for a 448 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,880 Speaker 1: finding to the requisite standard as to whether and when 449 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 1: mister Blum actually received some or all of Marion's money. Okay, 450 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,960 Speaker 1: so she's saying there. My interpretation of it is that 451 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 1: he was involved in the withdrawal of the money, that 452 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:30,080 Speaker 1: they can't say whether he received all of it or 453 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:30,719 Speaker 1: some of it. 454 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it. And if I can make a point 455 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:36,719 Speaker 2: here too, Gary, that something that's sort of only just 456 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 2: come to me in probably the last twelve months is 457 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:44,160 Speaker 2: that Joanie and I quite often chat about, you know, 458 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:47,160 Speaker 2: when when did my mum pass away? Like, at what 459 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:51,600 Speaker 2: point can we firmly say she's not here anymore? And 460 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 2: we were sort of talking about the fact that she'd 461 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 2: sent postcards to everyone and led us to everybody, and 462 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 2: she was keeping everybody. They were like little droppings of 463 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 2: you know, here I am, this is where I've been. Oh, 464 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 2: I've visited here, I'm going here. I'm going to Amsterdam 465 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 2: to see the sunflowers. She was doing that, and so 466 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,879 Speaker 2: we sort of had a hunch of where she was 467 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 2: going and what she was doing, and the fact that 468 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 2: Christmas was upon us. She could have actually just kept 469 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:20,399 Speaker 2: in touch with Owen for his birthday. So Owen's birthday 470 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 2: is the eighteenth of October, so think about this Monday, 471 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 2: the eighty thousand dollars comes out on the fifteenth of October, 472 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,679 Speaker 2: three days later his birthday. She doesn't ring him on 473 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 2: his birthday. If she was intentionally trying to disappear herself, 474 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,439 Speaker 2: didn't want me going to the police saying, hey, something's wrong. 475 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 2: She just would have sent a card or done something 476 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 2: at that point is our belief, just to buy her 477 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:43,439 Speaker 2: a bit more time. 478 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 1: I understand what you've had. 479 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 2: I mean, then she's got till Christmas until the next 480 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 2: point of call. So Joanie and I've been toying with 481 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 2: this for a while. And what makes my heart break 482 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 2: even harder is that if you think about I ring Owen, 483 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 2: he tells me that hasn't spoken to her, then I 484 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 2: s bring him the next day. So that's the nineteenth. 485 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 2: Then on the twentieth, Chris and I believe that when 486 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 2: we went down, But regardless, the twenty second is when 487 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:11,200 Speaker 2: the police have written we've been to Ironbay Police. That's 488 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 2: only seven days from when that eighty thousand came out. 489 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,640 Speaker 2: Why was that information was fresh at hand? It could 490 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 2: have been absolutely solved in that. 491 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 1: Whole talking hypothetically here, But if you came in and 492 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,159 Speaker 1: reported that to a police station, the information that you 493 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:30,680 Speaker 1: had available at the time, to follow up those bank records, 494 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,159 Speaker 1: check on the names, all the inquiries that could have 495 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 1: been made at the time, it would have been a 496 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:39,159 Speaker 1: very simple, simple exercise. Where that would have taken us 497 00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,120 Speaker 1: taken place, I don't know, but it would have been 498 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:42,880 Speaker 1: a simple way. 499 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 2: And to be fair, I didn't know about the eighty 500 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 2: thousand at that point, but they did because he wrote 501 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 2: it on the file and I didn't learn about that 502 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 2: until I got the Freedom of Information file in twenty eighteen. 503 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 1: Well, they're the type of inquiries you make, like if 504 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,680 Speaker 1: someone's missing, if they're an our adult and they've got 505 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:01,159 Speaker 1: bank accounts, are they accessing their bank accounts, are they 506 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 1: receiving a pension? All sorts of things that you would do. 507 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,919 Speaker 1: The Corona also stated in the findings regarding mister Blum 508 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,919 Speaker 1: being in contact with your mother following her return to 509 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:15,439 Speaker 1: Australia in August nineteen eighty seven, which I think is 510 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,679 Speaker 1: a significant, significant thing. And this is the comments of 511 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 1: the coroner after hearing all the evidence. There is a 512 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,400 Speaker 1: sufficient basis for me to make a finding that mister 513 00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: Blum was in communication with Marian and played some role 514 00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:32,360 Speaker 1: in her life following her return to Australia in August 515 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety seven. So gone overseas, come back, money withdrawn, 516 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: he's around there at the time. This is the coroner's finding. 517 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 1: It's not not our speculation or assumptions. 518 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:53,880 Speaker 2: Well yeah, okay, let me explain the Joanie and I 519 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 2: have done a massive dive on mum's timeline because that 520 00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:01,440 Speaker 2: was something that wasn't really the focus. We felt even 521 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,719 Speaker 2: during the inquest, like there wasn't really a lot of 522 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,879 Speaker 2: that about her coming back in at that time and 523 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:09,360 Speaker 2: what happened. So we know that her passport lands back 524 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,159 Speaker 2: in Brisbane on the second of August. She's written on 525 00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 2: her in coming passenger card that she's staying for eight 526 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,720 Speaker 2: days and staying at the Novtell Hotel in Brisbane, so 527 00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,880 Speaker 2: that takes us up to the tenth. On the eleventh, 528 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:25,400 Speaker 2: Rick Blum purchases a car for four thousand dollars. It's 529 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 2: a Russ bucket from a local car dealer that we 530 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:33,600 Speaker 2: have spoken to who remembers the transaction quite well. He 531 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 2: said that there was a woman with dark hair sitting 532 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:37,640 Speaker 2: in the car across the road waiting for him while 533 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 2: he was purchasing that car. This is in Woombar on 534 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 2: Northern New South Wales. Two days later, my mum's Medicare 535 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 2: card is used at Grafton. Three days later money starts 536 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 2: coming out of her bank account and Barren Bay some 537 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 2: days in Burley, which is back up in Queensland. So 538 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 2: back in those days it probably was about a two 539 00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 2: and a half hour drive. Right now, people who have 540 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,120 Speaker 2: followed me from the beginning will know that mum left 541 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 2: her car with me, so she had no car, no house. 542 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 2: Where was she what was she doing during that period 543 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 2: of time? And all her pings are happening in northern 544 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 2: New South Wales and then she disappears at the eighty 545 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,000 Speaker 2: thousand dollar mark for the fifteenth of October. 546 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 1: Money's gone out. 547 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 2: So that's her timeline. That's all we know, but it 548 00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 2: is quite interesting when you look at it. 549 00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 1: The coroner also made the following comments. Mister Blum's evidence 550 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,239 Speaker 1: in the final days of the inquest, when asked by 551 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,640 Speaker 1: counsel assisting, would you like to say anything further in 552 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 1: relation to the disappearance of Marion Barter was extraordinary. This evidence, 553 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:54,320 Speaker 1: along with his lies and deception throughout the inquest, has 554 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 1: convinced me that he does indeed no more than he 555 00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 1: is saying. I make the following further findings regarding mister Blum. 556 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 1: One that he has further knowledge about the circumstances of 557 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 1: Marian's travel overseas. Two, that he has further knowledge of 558 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 1: his relationship with her, in the months prior to her disappearance. 559 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 1: Three that he has further knowledge of her circumstances following 560 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 1: her return from overseas. Four that he has further knowledge 561 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 1: of the withdrawals and transfer of the money. And five 562 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 1: that there is sufficient basis for a finding that he 563 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 1: was and is deliberately unwilling to divulge this further knowledge 564 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 1: to the court. 565 00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 2: Again, pretty damning, but I was just left at that point. 566 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to talk about that when the actual 567 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 1: findings come down. Let me just read this on and 568 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: I put it there. I'll put it in so what 569 00:30:56,720 --> 00:31:00,000 Speaker 1: we're talking about that, hopefully we can get it out there. 570 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 1: I should put on record that the Coroner's court is 571 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,120 Speaker 1: not a criminal court. No person is on trial when 572 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 1: they appear at inquest. We cannot say mister Blum was 573 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:13,680 Speaker 1: involved in your mother's disappearance. We're just relaying the findings 574 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 1: of the coroner. If there was sufficient evidence against the 575 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,040 Speaker 1: known person, the coroner has the option of suspending the 576 00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,200 Speaker 1: inquest and referring the matter to the Office of Director 577 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,320 Speaker 1: of Public Prosecutions. And this was not the case in 578 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:29,520 Speaker 1: your mother's inquest. So I'm putting that disclaimer out on 579 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,200 Speaker 1: what we're talking about. So we're making it very clear 580 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 1: that yeah, these are the findings of the coroner, but 581 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:42,040 Speaker 1: the matter wasn't referred to the DPP. But hearing those 582 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 1: type of comments and I pick up on your body 583 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 1: language now and just it's almost like it's an anti 584 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:50,959 Speaker 1: climax for you, isn't it. 585 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 2: It's really frustrating, very frustrating to get to all that, 586 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 2: like it's taken. It took me twenty six years to 587 00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 2: get to that point. And you know, if you think 588 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 2: about all the twists and turns and the upheaval that 589 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 2: I've had to go through with even just having her 590 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 2: listed as missing then they say she's located, then they 591 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,239 Speaker 2: say she's not located. Now she's a missing person on 592 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,600 Speaker 2: the national Register. Go and be the face of missing persons. Actually, no, 593 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 2: you can't be the face of missing persons. Like it's 594 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 2: just been a massive ride for me, and I do 595 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,640 Speaker 2: this now still because I don't want anyone else to 596 00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:29,959 Speaker 2: have to do what I've had to go through. And 597 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 2: it needs to change on multiple levels. It needs to 598 00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:35,120 Speaker 2: like the police need to understand their language and how 599 00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 2: they talk to people who are living in this world. 600 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 2: There needs to be government bodies who need to look 601 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:43,760 Speaker 2: at some of these policies and procedures about things like absentia. 602 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 2: You know, in other countries, if someone goes missing after 603 00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:50,800 Speaker 2: seven years, the next of kin can actually access their 604 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,680 Speaker 2: private information. If I'd been able to access her private 605 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 2: information seven years after she went missing, I would have 606 00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 2: probably got things like the Medicare card with a potential 607 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 2: address on it and a phone number for me to 608 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 2: be able to work out where she is, or look 609 00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 2: at her bank statements while those things were still available 610 00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,800 Speaker 2: before they're destroyed. And this is where it gets hard 611 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,960 Speaker 2: because some people go, why Sally only looking now, I've 612 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 2: been looking forever. But you know, it's the restraints on 613 00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 2: you as someone living with a missing person, even as 614 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 2: the next of kin, you are absolutely powerless until such 615 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 2: time as you get a death certificate. And you know, 616 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 2: I go back to the scenario where I'm reading through 617 00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:32,160 Speaker 2: the file and I've got the coroner's court actually requesting 618 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:36,120 Speaker 2: a P seventy nine B form multiple times over that duration, 619 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 2: and there was no one handling the case. So therefore 620 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 2: no one had done a PECE seventy nine B form, 621 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,040 Speaker 2: which is a form that you fill in and send 622 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 2: into the care the police fill in and send into 623 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 2: a coroner if a person has not been seen or 624 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:51,280 Speaker 2: sighted and deemed potentially deceased within a year of that 625 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,720 Speaker 2: person going missing. And that didn't happen for my month. 626 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:59,320 Speaker 1: So all these little failings the coroner didn't miss the 627 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 1: police in regards to it. The coroner also made some 628 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 1: comments in regards to the adequacy of the police investigation, 629 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:10,799 Speaker 1: because this inquest was interesting. It was about whether your 630 00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 1: mother's still alive and the adequacy of the police investigation. 631 00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,440 Speaker 1: So that was the terms of reference that the coroner 632 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 1: was finding and this is a finding that she handed 633 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 1: down regarding the police investigation that coroner stated. I would 634 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 1: also add the detective Chief Inspector Brown gave very clear 635 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:31,400 Speaker 1: and useful evidence to the court about what he expected 636 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:35,000 Speaker 1: should have happened in nineteen ninety seven. The resistance in 637 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:37,680 Speaker 1: this inquest by New South Wales Police to accept the 638 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:41,760 Speaker 1: inadequacies of the initial police investigation in nineteen ninety seven 639 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:45,800 Speaker 1: is difficult to understand in circumstances where a senior police 640 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:49,520 Speaker 1: officer has given what is essentially expert evidence and what 641 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 1: should have happened. So it looks my take on that 642 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: they were still digging down that I know. We did 643 00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 1: everything that we could do. 644 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 2: It was hard. My husband and I both were challenged 645 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:07,960 Speaker 2: by New South Fois police barrister. It was pretty pretty rough, 646 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 2: if you know. And it was captured and put on 647 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 2: the Lady Vanishes. We actually did all of the episodes 648 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:17,040 Speaker 2: about the inquest and people were watching live. There were 649 00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 2: thousands of people following along on YouTube. And yeah, it 650 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 2: was not pleasant for me. And that whole theory about 651 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 2: you know, an inquest is about looking after the family 652 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,319 Speaker 2: and making sure the family are okay. That was not 653 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,759 Speaker 2: the case at all. Like that's when I went on 654 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 2: heart medication because I was getting put through the ring. 655 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,640 Speaker 2: We were getting quizzed, like Chris and I both getting 656 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,360 Speaker 2: quizzed about when we booked our holiday to go skiing. 657 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,040 Speaker 2: And you know, why didn't I write down notes when 658 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 2: mum rang me on that phone, that last phone call, 659 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 2: and I was trying to explain to she wasn't missing, 660 00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:52,440 Speaker 2: she was not missing when we booked our holiday or 661 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,279 Speaker 2: when she rang me on the phone. Do you write 662 00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 2: down every time your mum talks to you on the phone. 663 00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:58,839 Speaker 2: Do you make a little note in the diary, Hey, mum, 664 00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:00,480 Speaker 2: said this, and it was this time, in this date, 665 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:04,719 Speaker 2: it doesn't happen. That's not logical to do that, and 666 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 2: I was getting quizzed and criticized for not doing that 667 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 2: as a twenty three year old at the time, and 668 00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:14,640 Speaker 2: also the criticism of me I didn't walk into the 669 00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:18,080 Speaker 2: police station and use the word missing. So I think 670 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,279 Speaker 2: that's mainly what the coroner is referring to there, and 671 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,280 Speaker 2: that was hard to hear for a lot of people. 672 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,799 Speaker 1: I think I said to you at the start when 673 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,439 Speaker 1: you said that, don't put any blame on yourself. You've 674 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:31,399 Speaker 1: done more than what most people would do. I think 675 00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:34,400 Speaker 1: the point here I'd like to make because the people 676 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,600 Speaker 1: assume the way I finished my career this is a 677 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 1: chance to beat up on the New South Wels Police. 678 00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,760 Speaker 1: Not at all. I'd like to think if we make mistakes, 679 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,719 Speaker 1: we make sure these mistakes do happen again. And I'm 680 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:48,280 Speaker 1: heartened by the fact that it looks like Inspector Brown 681 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:52,040 Speaker 1: call them out on the failings. It's sad that the 682 00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 1: coroner is saying that the police were still resistant to 683 00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:57,840 Speaker 1: acknowledging it, because I think the best thing if a 684 00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 1: mistake has been made, acknowledge them stake and move on. 685 00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 1: I know, not just from your matter. I know practices 686 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 1: in missing persons have been improved in recent times, and 687 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 1: I hope this is a lesson. And it might be 688 00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:15,120 Speaker 1: in part because of the noise that you've made to 689 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:19,360 Speaker 1: make sure practices have been improved, but I hope people 690 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 1: listening understand the impact of if things aren't done properly 691 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:26,319 Speaker 1: from the start. This is now twenty seven years down 692 00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:29,879 Speaker 1: the track or more, carry that. 693 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:33,000 Speaker 2: Burden, and I twenty eight years in June. 694 00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,440 Speaker 1: I hadn't actually thought of it until I sat down 695 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 1: opposite you here today. It's not just the fact that 696 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 1: the frustration of not finding out what happened to your 697 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 1: mother and problems or mistakes that were made in the 698 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,600 Speaker 1: initial investigation, but the fact that you had to for 699 00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,440 Speaker 1: the carry with you based on information that the police 700 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,759 Speaker 1: have provided to you that your mother just doesn't want 701 00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:58,040 Speaker 1: to talk to you. So that's another burden that you've 702 00:37:58,040 --> 00:37:58,880 Speaker 1: had to carry. 703 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,880 Speaker 2: I just ignored that. I just keep it. I'm like, oh, no, 704 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:06,680 Speaker 2: my mum loved me, you know, so you know it's 705 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 2: it's yeah, yeah, I don't need them to tell me otherwise. 706 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:15,440 Speaker 2: But I knew something was wrong and I knew there 707 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,640 Speaker 2: there was a man in the car, and I just 708 00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:20,960 Speaker 2: got my brain was just going a million miles an hour, 709 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:21,960 Speaker 2: going something's not right. 710 00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:26,839 Speaker 1: Well, the coroner, and this is what the coroner is 711 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,800 Speaker 1: required under section eighty one one. There's a couple of 712 00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,440 Speaker 1: key things that the corona has to come to a 713 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,799 Speaker 1: conclusion that the inquest and I'll just read those out 714 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:41,080 Speaker 1: and then we can talk about that too. In REGARDSS 715 00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,440 Speaker 1: to the identity of the deceased, the person who died 716 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:49,720 Speaker 1: was Flora Bella Natalia Marion Remarkable formally known as Marion 717 00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:54,680 Speaker 1: bart Date of death. Unable to determine the exact date 718 00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:59,000 Speaker 1: of death. I find that Flora Bella Natila Marion Ramachel, 719 00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,440 Speaker 1: formally know and as Marion Barta, is likely to have 720 00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 1: died on a date after the fifteenth of October nineteen 721 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:09,600 Speaker 1: ninety seven. Place of death. I'm unable to determine the 722 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:14,880 Speaker 1: place of Florabella Natalia Marion Ramachel formerly Marion Barthur's death. 723 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,960 Speaker 1: Cause of death. I'm unable to determine the cause of 724 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 1: death of Florabella Natalia Marion remark El formerly known Marion 725 00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:29,640 Speaker 1: Bartha's death. So doesn't he the cause? Place? Day to death, 726 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:34,480 Speaker 1: suggesting after the fifteenth of October, in regards to the 727 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:39,880 Speaker 1: manner of death, I'm unable to determine the manner. So 728 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:46,000 Speaker 1: for all your battles, all your endeavors to find out 729 00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 1: what's happened to your mum, all these years later, the inquest, 730 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:54,120 Speaker 1: the build up, seeing all these things that have played out, 731 00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 1: and getting what you've seen, which the coroners obviously commented 732 00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:02,319 Speaker 1: on about the Rick Blum and the issues issues. There 733 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:08,000 Speaker 1: is unreliability and you're left with a basically acknowledgment that 734 00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:10,560 Speaker 1: your mother's died, but we're not sure how. We're all why. 735 00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:14,440 Speaker 2: It's a chronic week. My father in law died on 736 00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:19,919 Speaker 2: the Sunday, so Chris was busily packing up his accommodation 737 00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,480 Speaker 2: where he was in care on the Tuesday, and we 738 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,400 Speaker 2: flew down on the Wednesday. Caught up with one of 739 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,439 Speaker 2: my best friends that I was working at Pizza Hut 740 00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:30,919 Speaker 2: with when I was eighteen. We've been friends our whole 741 00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:34,799 Speaker 2: lives pretty much from there. He came and met us 742 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 2: in the city just to come and say hi. There's 743 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 2: a couple of us just gathering having a drink before 744 00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:43,480 Speaker 2: the coroner's findings. The next day go to the coroner's 745 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:46,320 Speaker 2: findings by hear for the first time my mom's deceased. 746 00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:51,320 Speaker 2: He then died the following Wednesday. He had a problem 747 00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 2: with his heart and he died. And so within a 748 00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:56,319 Speaker 2: week I lost one of my best friends, I lost 749 00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,640 Speaker 2: my father in law, and I got told my mum's deceased. 750 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:03,160 Speaker 2: That point, for me with Mum, I felt like everyone 751 00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,600 Speaker 2: just wished me well and went about their business. So 752 00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,680 Speaker 2: the legal teams, the lawyers, crownslistors. 753 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:11,920 Speaker 1: But you've had a victory. 754 00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,440 Speaker 2: No, we're just like they all just left. Like I 755 00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,319 Speaker 2: literally just was there by myself. I had so many 756 00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,480 Speaker 2: people come, like it was amazing. I had people come, 757 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 2: they all wore green, had made massive support for mum, 758 00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,319 Speaker 2: and that just made me feel so much better being 759 00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:29,719 Speaker 2: in that situation. But from a legal standpoint and from 760 00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,920 Speaker 2: the police, I've just been told that they've got eight 761 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:35,160 Speaker 2: hundred cases and they've got to prioritize that my mum's 762 00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:39,800 Speaker 2: case is open but inactive and good luck. Because Joanie 763 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,080 Speaker 2: and I had decided we were going to go on 764 00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:43,399 Speaker 2: a trip overseas to do more research about the things 765 00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 2: that we knew we needed to do, and we did that. 766 00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:51,520 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's been wild It's been a wild ride, 767 00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,320 Speaker 2: and it doesn't stop just because the coroner has said 768 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,839 Speaker 2: what I felt for a long time. I was very 769 00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:03,279 Speaker 2: grateful for the coroner. She had really good I just 770 00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:06,399 Speaker 2: had a nice way about her. She greeted me, well, 771 00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:10,799 Speaker 2: she recognized me. She did a good job I think 772 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,919 Speaker 2: of managing an inquest that was very hard to sit through, 773 00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:17,160 Speaker 2: very very hard to sit through. So I'm very grateful 774 00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:19,800 Speaker 2: to her and everybody who worked on it, the crownslstitors 775 00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 2: and the current you know, homicide team. But it just 776 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:28,200 Speaker 2: makes it hard when her findings stopped short of pushing 777 00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:29,640 Speaker 2: it forward for further investigation. 778 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:35,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, well one of the recommendations New South Wales Commissioner 779 00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:40,359 Speaker 1: of Police cause the investigation into the death of the 780 00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:44,439 Speaker 1: missing person to be referred to or remain with State 781 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:48,880 Speaker 1: Crime Command Unsolved Homicide Team fromgoing investigations, review and monitoring. 782 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:53,319 Speaker 1: So yeah, there's a yeah, as you'll flag, there's a 783 00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:57,400 Speaker 1: lot of cases there, hoping that gets the attention. But 784 00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,680 Speaker 1: I understand what you're saying, like the build up, you've 785 00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:03,919 Speaker 1: got all this information, You're thinking, Okay, are we going 786 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:06,759 Speaker 1: to get some form of justice or at least find 787 00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:11,360 Speaker 1: out what's happened to her mother, and then that's been Yeah, 788 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:16,319 Speaker 1: yes she's deceased. But you're left with where do you 789 00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:16,919 Speaker 1: go from here? 790 00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:21,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, and look in there's I've come across quite a 791 00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:25,160 Speaker 2: few missing person's cases where a person might be missing, 792 00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:28,120 Speaker 2: but the police don't deem that person to be missing. 793 00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,560 Speaker 2: And you know, that was me for a long time. 794 00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,160 Speaker 2: And therefore, I mean I was in a different circumstance 795 00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 2: where my mum had sold her house, so she didn't 796 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,560 Speaker 2: have a house to you know, deal with or contend 797 00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:39,800 Speaker 2: with and things like that, but she did have a 798 00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,000 Speaker 2: bank accounts, and I think I mentioned that, you know, 799 00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:46,680 Speaker 2: they kept taking the monthly fees from my missing person's 800 00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,600 Speaker 2: mum's banks account, and they were very kind and they 801 00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:53,839 Speaker 2: just like credited them back to the account. And it 802 00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,160 Speaker 2: wasn't a huge amount of money. But you know, I 803 00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:58,600 Speaker 2: think of all those things, and I've spoken to some 804 00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,560 Speaker 2: people who were married to somebody who's gone missing, but 805 00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:05,200 Speaker 2: they don't deem that person missing in a legal sense 806 00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,440 Speaker 2: of the word. They don't get a death certificate, and 807 00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:10,520 Speaker 2: therefore they can't sell the house, they can't move forward. 808 00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:13,240 Speaker 2: They're locked in this world because of the privacy issue 809 00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 2: because that person they believe could have chosen to go missing. 810 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,919 Speaker 2: And I kept getting told all the time through my journey, oh, well, 811 00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,759 Speaker 2: it's not a crime to go missing, Sally, and I said, well, 812 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:24,319 Speaker 2: maybe it should be because the amount of money and 813 00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:28,960 Speaker 2: time and effort and we spend and government money and 814 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,880 Speaker 2: tax payer money to go and find missing persons. And 815 00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:34,160 Speaker 2: when you're talking forty thousand people a year agoing missing 816 00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:35,360 Speaker 2: and there's no fund in. 817 00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:37,920 Speaker 1: Australia offense in New South Wales, I'm not sure if 818 00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:41,320 Speaker 1: it's applicable to it. But public mischief where your actions 819 00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:45,560 Speaker 1: cause the police to investigate, to investigate the crime. Maybe 820 00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:49,040 Speaker 1: maybe I don't know. I said that the start. I 821 00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:53,480 Speaker 1: want to ask you a question, what's the best outcome 822 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:58,759 Speaker 1: you could get with your mother's disappearance? Now? Best if 823 00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,120 Speaker 1: someone said, are you really hoping for? 824 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,839 Speaker 2: I would really like justice to be served. My mum 825 00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:09,240 Speaker 2: was a person. My mum matters. Hence why I've started 826 00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:13,040 Speaker 2: my new podcast called The Missing Matter, because the missing 827 00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:17,000 Speaker 2: do matter, and you know, justice needs to be served 828 00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:22,560 Speaker 2: and it shouldn't be judged upon whether one case should 829 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,920 Speaker 2: be go forward or not. It should just be a 830 00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,320 Speaker 2: case of if the evidence is there and there's something 831 00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 2: to move forward on, they should. 832 00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:36,040 Speaker 1: So with the new podcast, what are you hoping to achieve? 833 00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:42,400 Speaker 2: Well, the podcast The Lady Vanishes ended when the inquest ended, 834 00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 2: and you know, to be fair to Channel seven, I 835 00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:50,080 Speaker 2: guess I was with them for six years. It was 836 00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:54,239 Speaker 2: a very long journey with them. When they first met me, 837 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,160 Speaker 2: they were like, oh, yep, we'll whip together seven or 838 00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:00,160 Speaker 2: eight episodes, it'll be done. We'll get the story out 839 00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:02,240 Speaker 2: there and hopefully we might find something. But it became 840 00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:06,000 Speaker 2: this ongoing live investigation that we were telling the story 841 00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:09,640 Speaker 2: in real time, so it became bigger than ben Her 842 00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:13,319 Speaker 2: for us. And you know, my goal was to get 843 00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,560 Speaker 2: to an inquest. I said that from the very outset. 844 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:17,880 Speaker 2: I said, I I just want a proper investigation. I 845 00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:20,320 Speaker 2: haven't felt like I haven't had that, and I feel 846 00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:22,680 Speaker 2: like going to inquest would be a really great opportunity 847 00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 2: for us to do a proper investigation into what's happened 848 00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:29,640 Speaker 2: to my mum, and I'll be satisfied with that. That 849 00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,840 Speaker 2: then changed a little bit in my head because I 850 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,959 Speaker 2: then got the death certificate. Sorry, well, I was told 851 00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,279 Speaker 2: that she had passed, which allowed me to get the 852 00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:42,840 Speaker 2: desk ticket. That's a whole nother story in itself, and 853 00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:47,759 Speaker 2: I just I don't know. I last year, I was 854 00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:51,440 Speaker 2: just sort of recording myself because I'd become this person 855 00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:55,279 Speaker 2: who records everything now because of probably the trauma of 856 00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:58,080 Speaker 2: not recording and being in a position of not having 857 00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:01,520 Speaker 2: that as evidence or information. And so that's who I've 858 00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,799 Speaker 2: become as a person. That drives my family bananas. I 859 00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,120 Speaker 2: tell my kids to record everything, and just when I 860 00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,600 Speaker 2: say record, if I get off the phone to somebody, 861 00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:12,279 Speaker 2: I would just do a voice memo to myself to 862 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:14,560 Speaker 2: remind me of what happened in that phone call, because 863 00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:16,520 Speaker 2: I know too often I've done that, or I'm in 864 00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:18,400 Speaker 2: the car and then you forget and then you go, oh, 865 00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,960 Speaker 2: what did they say again? So it became very important 866 00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,240 Speaker 2: for me because I wasn't getting a lot in emails 867 00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:25,960 Speaker 2: or in writing. It was all verbal. So I would 868 00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,120 Speaker 2: get off the phone and I'd jump on my voicemails 869 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 2: on my phone and i'd actually voice memo myself. And 870 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:33,520 Speaker 2: that became a thing last year too, when I was 871 00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,160 Speaker 2: trying to go through all the hoops that you go 872 00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:39,720 Speaker 2: through when a person is actually declared deceased. Who's missing. 873 00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:43,719 Speaker 2: That's a whole nother ballgame. I mentioned that my father 874 00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:45,360 Speaker 2: in law and one of my best friends died the 875 00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:48,600 Speaker 2: same week as my mum. Their affairs were tied up 876 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 2: very quickly, you know. I came down to the funeral 877 00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,720 Speaker 2: for my friend within ten days and he's having a burial, 878 00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:57,879 Speaker 2: and you know, we're going through those motions, and I'm 879 00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:00,799 Speaker 2: sure there's paperwork and things after that. It took me 880 00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:04,200 Speaker 2: up to December, from the same time, from February to 881 00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:10,239 Speaker 2: December before I actually had any formal closure of mum's life. 882 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,120 Speaker 2: And for me, it was just this part of the 883 00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 2: journey where I had to process and go through everything. 884 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:19,440 Speaker 2: So I was documenting that journey for me myself. And 885 00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:22,120 Speaker 2: then Joanie and I of course had decided we were 886 00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:24,759 Speaker 2: going to go overseas and we were going to do 887 00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:27,719 Speaker 2: our own investigation on the things that weren't addressed at 888 00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:31,440 Speaker 2: the inquest. I asked her to come with me. She 889 00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:33,799 Speaker 2: said yes, and so that became a thing, and we 890 00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,560 Speaker 2: went away in October for three weeks and we found 891 00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:39,760 Speaker 2: some things, and so it became a thing where people 892 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,800 Speaker 2: were asking us, you know, when are you going to 893 00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:44,040 Speaker 2: tell us When are you going to tell us what 894 00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:46,040 Speaker 2: you found? Because by this point I've got twenty seven 895 00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:49,240 Speaker 2: thousand people following on Facebook now from my mere thousand 896 00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,480 Speaker 2: back in you know, twenty thirteen. So I'd built up 897 00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:58,240 Speaker 2: this amazing community of people who care, which is what's 898 00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,720 Speaker 2: really given me the strength to keep going, I feel 899 00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,880 Speaker 2: over time, and they all kept saying like, when are 900 00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:05,719 Speaker 2: you gonna tellus? When you gonna tell I'm like, well, 901 00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:07,160 Speaker 2: I don't even know if I want to tell anybody, 902 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:08,640 Speaker 2: Like maybe I just want to do it for myself, 903 00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:10,600 Speaker 2: and maybe I just want to, you know, find out. 904 00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:12,680 Speaker 2: But I felt that they'd all been so dedicated to 905 00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,240 Speaker 2: the purpose of helping me and coming up with these ideas, 906 00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:18,759 Speaker 2: even the little comment about the Luxembourg as recently as 907 00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:23,040 Speaker 2: last night, Like these people are so invested. I felt like, okay, 908 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:24,839 Speaker 2: maybe we could tell them. And then I was trying 909 00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:26,960 Speaker 2: to work out how we would do that, and it 910 00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,600 Speaker 2: just so happened that the idea of doing our own 911 00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:33,000 Speaker 2: podcast with Joanie and I came to play. So Johnnie 912 00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:35,840 Speaker 2: was really nervous. She's like, I've listened to podcasts for 913 00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:38,920 Speaker 2: twenty years. I've never been on one word, certainly not 914 00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:42,720 Speaker 2: our own. So it kind of just came out of nowhere. 915 00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:45,560 Speaker 2: I've been talking and you know, using hashtag the Missing 916 00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:48,800 Speaker 2: Matter for so long and Marian matters, and then I 917 00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:51,760 Speaker 2: started thinking about it. I'm like, you know what, everyone matters. 918 00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:57,480 Speaker 2: Matthew matters, Janine Vaughan manters, James matters. You know, they 919 00:49:57,480 --> 00:50:00,600 Speaker 2: all matter. It doesn't matter where they've gone missing or 920 00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:03,959 Speaker 2: how they've gone missing, if they're still not found, they matter, 921 00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:06,640 Speaker 2: and we need to we need to look after those people. 922 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,680 Speaker 2: So it kind of became a bit of a journey 923 00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:11,680 Speaker 2: for me as to what I've had to deal with 924 00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:15,080 Speaker 2: in the Missing Matter podcasts, but in the hope that 925 00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:17,480 Speaker 2: we can actually help other people in that same space. 926 00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:22,360 Speaker 1: Well, I honestly think you're inspiring the people who have 927 00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:24,520 Speaker 1: been in the same situation, and let's hope there's not 928 00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:29,480 Speaker 1: many people in but yeah, I said the same thing 929 00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:32,920 Speaker 1: to Mark and Vay Levison. Yeah, they have inspired people 930 00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:35,360 Speaker 1: and helped people. I think you're in that position because 931 00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:38,560 Speaker 1: you understand. Unless you mean in that position, you don't 932 00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:41,880 Speaker 1: really get it. And the other flip side of it, 933 00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:47,120 Speaker 1: too is making people accountable with responsible for investigating people's disappearances. 934 00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:50,759 Speaker 1: There needs to be that accountability. I think you've done 935 00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:53,560 Speaker 1: a great job. I'm disappointed you didn't get in the 936 00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:56,120 Speaker 1: Queensland Police and then swapped over the New South Wales. 937 00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:59,840 Speaker 1: I could have used you on some investigations. You're very thorough. 938 00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,680 Speaker 2: Well I've had to be, I guess, but that's just 939 00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:04,839 Speaker 2: who I am as a person, I think, and I 940 00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:08,520 Speaker 2: really I was so passionate about it too, and I 941 00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:11,920 Speaker 2: just look, the circumstances of me getting in were just 942 00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:15,719 Speaker 2: a little bit there. With my husband, he was like, 943 00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:17,080 Speaker 2: I don't know if I want you to be a 944 00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:19,480 Speaker 2: police officer and you know, out on the beat at 945 00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:23,120 Speaker 2: nighttime and us having babies, like it was more about that, 946 00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:26,719 Speaker 2: and I chose to be a mom. Yeah, And you know, 947 00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:29,480 Speaker 2: I'm so glad I did because I've got three great 948 00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:34,640 Speaker 2: cook great children and that's that and being a wife 949 00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:37,520 Speaker 2: to Chris, who's just been my rock. He's we've been 950 00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,279 Speaker 2: together for thirty years now and he has been through 951 00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:41,160 Speaker 2: all of this with me. 952 00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:44,239 Speaker 1: What's your happiest memory of your mom? 953 00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:50,759 Speaker 2: Oh, she was a very good cook, and I'm I 954 00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:55,080 Speaker 2: am really happy that I have actually got her cookbook 955 00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:57,680 Speaker 2: that she had and she's had that from when she 956 00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:00,200 Speaker 2: was young, so you can see. And I love this 957 00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:05,400 Speaker 2: because her writing was absolutely meticulous and beautiful and like 958 00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:08,279 Speaker 2: very school teacher esque. And then it gets to the 959 00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:12,600 Speaker 2: end and it's just scroll. And I remember Gary Adam 960 00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:14,480 Speaker 2: Castleton during the inquase, he was trying to read one 961 00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:16,840 Speaker 2: of her postcards and he mentioned that he goes, I 962 00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:20,759 Speaker 2: can hardly read her writing, and in it the back 963 00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:23,919 Speaker 2: of the book she actually, this is how my mum 964 00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:27,040 Speaker 2: became who she was later in life. So she'd be 965 00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:28,880 Speaker 2: on the phone and her girlfriend's telling her about her 966 00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:31,840 Speaker 2: carrot cake recipe, and she'd be writing it down on 967 00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,279 Speaker 2: the back of a Christmas card or a back of 968 00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:37,239 Speaker 2: you remember those little flip diaries that used to have 969 00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:38,960 Speaker 2: with the pieces of paper and you'd frip them off. 970 00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,799 Speaker 2: So she'd write little scribbles of what recipe it was, 971 00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:43,400 Speaker 2: and she'd just chuck it in the back of the book. 972 00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,840 Speaker 2: So I've kept it exactly as it is, her Pavlova 973 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:50,640 Speaker 2: recipes in there. Any of my girlfriends will, I'm sure 974 00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:54,200 Speaker 2: agree that the Pavlova recipe is pretty amazing, so I'm 975 00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:56,400 Speaker 2: pretty renowned for that. I've tweaked it a few times 976 00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,360 Speaker 2: with a few different topics, but it always reminds me 977 00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:03,040 Speaker 2: of my mum, and cooking for me is my happy place, 978 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,760 Speaker 2: and memories for her out of her cookbook, which. 979 00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:11,400 Speaker 1: Is lovely, fantastic, fantastic. We've dug very deep into comments 980 00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:15,040 Speaker 1: from the coroner, and I just want to it's probably 981 00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,120 Speaker 1: a good way to finish that. This is what the 982 00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:20,440 Speaker 1: coroner said about you and your efforts to get justice 983 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:24,239 Speaker 1: for your mother. Okay, So I'd like to acknowledge and 984 00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:28,120 Speaker 1: commend Sally on her unwavering commitment and participation in the 985 00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:31,200 Speaker 1: coronial investigation and in quest to find out what happened 986 00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:35,040 Speaker 1: to her mother. She's shown for the tude, dignity, resilience, 987 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:39,040 Speaker 1: and grace throughout these proceedings. That's pretty nice. 988 00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:42,359 Speaker 2: It was nice to hear that because I had been 989 00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:44,640 Speaker 2: through the ringer, so I was very happy to see 990 00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:47,520 Speaker 2: her and go, I'm really happy that you've said that, Coroner, 991 00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:50,839 Speaker 2: because I did try very hard to stay composed, and 992 00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,080 Speaker 2: there was times where I wanted to scream. I did 993 00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:58,319 Speaker 2: have There was a moment where I actually asked Rick 994 00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:02,080 Speaker 2: Blum if he murdered my mother on the stand, and 995 00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:06,799 Speaker 2: he said no, and then he got up and he 996 00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:09,120 Speaker 2: left and they helped him off the stand into his 997 00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,839 Speaker 2: wheely walker, and he walked out of the courtroom and 998 00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:15,320 Speaker 2: most of the people had left, and I remember leaning 999 00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:21,560 Speaker 2: forward to the police commissioner's help. Her counsel sorry, yes, 1000 00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:23,919 Speaker 2: and she had a box of tissues, and I said, 1001 00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,239 Speaker 2: would I please be able to have a tissue? And 1002 00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:29,200 Speaker 2: she handed me the tissue and my whole body just 1003 00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:36,040 Speaker 2: went into an absolute freak of stress. I was shaking, 1004 00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:38,399 Speaker 2: i was crying. I had my head down in my lap. 1005 00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,600 Speaker 2: My whole body was convulsing. I've got the homicide team 1006 00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:44,959 Speaker 2: behind me, and my husband's yelling at them, going do more, 1007 00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:47,719 Speaker 2: like this is crazy, Like you know, she's look at her, 1008 00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:51,000 Speaker 2: she's looking how she's coping. So I don't break down. 1009 00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:54,840 Speaker 2: I'm pretty tough. I'm a pretty tough cookie. But that 1010 00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:58,080 Speaker 2: was a bad moment for me because I just felt like, 1011 00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:00,440 Speaker 2: you get to that point and they say no, no, 1012 00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:04,160 Speaker 2: and he walked away, and I just went I just 1013 00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,720 Speaker 2: felt like my heart just fell on the floor. 1014 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:09,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I can understand that was. 1015 00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:12,960 Speaker 2: Bad, but anyway, you pick yourself up and you keep going, right, 1016 00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,320 Speaker 2: there's no point in well. 1017 00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:18,200 Speaker 1: I think the greatest compliment you can have as a 1018 00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:21,560 Speaker 1: detective saying that I wouldn't want that person after me 1019 00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:27,600 Speaker 1: and the person that might have knowledge or involvement in 1020 00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,319 Speaker 1: the disappearance of your mother, I wouldn't like to be 1021 00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,320 Speaker 1: that person with you on the tail. 1022 00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:37,040 Speaker 2: So well, sadly didn't get to me. Joanie, she's a cracker, 1023 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,480 Speaker 2: she's all over it, and we've been working together for 1024 00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:41,920 Speaker 2: six years and she keeps saying to me, I'm going 1025 00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:43,560 Speaker 2: to keep going as long as you want me to. 1026 00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:44,400 Speaker 2: I'll keep going. 1027 00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,080 Speaker 1: I love the passion and dedication and that's what it 1028 00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:50,279 Speaker 1: takes and never never give up on it. And it 1029 00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:53,480 Speaker 1: will also shout out to anyone that's got any information 1030 00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:55,640 Speaker 1: about that, bring it forward to the police. It's still 1031 00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:59,680 Speaker 1: been handled and is a detective Chief Inspector Nigel Warren, 1032 00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:04,120 Speaker 1: the officer in charge. I've at work with Nigel. I 1033 00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,839 Speaker 1: know he's work and he's a good operator to pass 1034 00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:07,440 Speaker 1: the information. 1035 00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:10,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a good guy. And we've also got a 1036 00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:13,680 Speaker 2: website too called the Missing Matter, and we've got an 1037 00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,719 Speaker 2: anonymous tip line on there too. So sometimes people have 1038 00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:19,360 Speaker 2: said to me, I didn't feel comfortable going to the police, 1039 00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,000 Speaker 2: so I didn't feel comfortable going to the media. And 1040 00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:24,759 Speaker 2: they've wanted to contact me, and I keep everything as 1041 00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:27,920 Speaker 2: tight lipter as you can get, and I pass on 1042 00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:31,720 Speaker 2: everything to the police via that means if they choose 1043 00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:33,799 Speaker 2: to allow that to happen. It's been very difficult to 1044 00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:38,120 Speaker 2: manage that, but I think it's important to have it 1045 00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:40,680 Speaker 2: there just in case, just for people to feel comfortable 1046 00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:42,080 Speaker 2: if they do know something. 1047 00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:45,800 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thanks Sally, thanks for coming on the podcast, 1048 00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:48,880 Speaker 1: and I hope you get the answers that you're seeking. 1049 00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:49,719 Speaker 1: You deserve it. 1050 00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:51,919 Speaker 2: Thank you very much. Thanks for everything you do too. 1051 00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:54,279 Speaker 2: I think I think you've done amazing things in life, 1052 00:56:54,320 --> 00:57:07,719 Speaker 2: so thank you. Bat never need to na