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Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables.

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Speaker 2: What do men mistake is effort, which is actually the

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Speaker 2: bare minimum making her finish?

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Speaker 1: Oh is that bare minimum?

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Speaker 2: I think it's a bare minimum.

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Speaker 1: I gotta say, like, I'm happy to admit that's bare minimum,

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Speaker 1: but I cannot deny about how proud I am when

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Speaker 1: I do it.

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Speaker 2: Relatable. The Relatables Podcast is hosted by myself Addie Clark

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Speaker 2: ak Mummy, and my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig

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Speaker 2: aka Daddy.

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Speaker 1: And ODDI is Mummy because he's the one you go

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Speaker 1: do when you're having some boy troubles, oh, some troubles.

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Speaker 3: And Jake is Daddy because when you want to go

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Speaker 3: to the movies, ask him for money and.

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Speaker 4: He gives it to you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And the Relatables podcast is about finding a sense

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Speaker 2: of belonging. Yes, welcome, Welcome all the baddies.

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Speaker 1: You guys are the baddies by the way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. To kick things off, Jake, we have been going

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Speaker 2: on a journey, haven't we We have? And this is

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Speaker 2: week four of the Boyfriend Olympics. Four weeks in that's

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Speaker 2: crazy and to start this unfortunately there's no more challenges,

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Speaker 2: but this week is exciting because we are announcing which

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Speaker 2: baddies and their boyfriends who have been competing unknowingly progress

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Speaker 2: to the gold medal matches. Yes, and for this, Jake,

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Speaker 2: I want you to put your headphones on please.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, damn.

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Speaker 2: So for anyone that's new around here, all the old baddies,

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Speaker 2: we're a two man team, Mummy and Daddy, Jake and Otti, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Some would say Batman myself, Jake, Robin, body some yourself.

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Speaker 2: But I wanted to outsaw someone to help us with

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Speaker 2: this Boyfriend Olympic.

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Speaker 4: Let's go so that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I've hired someone, Jake, to give a little

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Speaker 2: bit of a recap of the challenge so far. You'll see.

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Speaker 1: So I just wonder what you hired someone to recap,

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Speaker 1: as in they're telling it quickly. Yeah, I love that, okay.

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Speaker 1: And also I've inserted all the challenges.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So here is the recap of the Boyfriend Olympics so far.

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Speaker 5: And so the group stages of the Boyfriend Olympics draw

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Speaker 5: to a close. Three devoted baddies and three unsuspecting boyfriends,

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Speaker 5: each competing, though blissfully unaware, in a secret contest of loyalty.

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Speaker 5: Wit and charm. Soon only one will emerge triumphant crown

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Speaker 5: champion of this most peculiar of trials. Let us now

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Speaker 5: revisit the journey so far. In Week one, Baddi Tara

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Speaker 5: faced off against Baddy Bridget with the curious challenge would

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Speaker 5: you still love me if I were a worm? The

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Speaker 5: results were enlightening.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hello is that Tara?

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Speaker 5: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the Boyfriend olympad.

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Speaker 6: You took up the whole day of work for.

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Speaker 2: This, No way, let's go? Yeah of course.

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Speaker 5: So his name is Simon.

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Speaker 2: He's yeah, yeah, big guy.

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Speaker 1: Everywhere. Give him a god medal now.

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Speaker 2: And put in my favorite plan.

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Speaker 1: Put thank you you've been man? Is that what I haven't?

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Speaker 1: He was so good at the end.

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Speaker 6: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Hello is that Bridget?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 2: Yesterday, Welcome to the Boyfriend Olympics.

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Speaker 4: How are you going?

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Speaker 1: His name is Matt.

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Speaker 1: We met at school and we've been dating for three

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Speaker 2: Three years okay, so you've got a longer period of

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Speaker 2: time on the other competitor. They were one year and

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Speaker 2: eight months. Yeah, so you're winning?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay?

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Speaker 1: Would you love me if I was aware? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the most real?

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah? Would you love me if I was aware, but.

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Speaker 2: Let's replay that. Replay Yeah he was slow but the end.

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Speaker 5: The following week two, region competitors Casey and Emma entered

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Speaker 5: the free their task to dress badly on purpose and

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Speaker 2: Hello, Casey speaking, Hello Casey, it's taking on you for

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Speaker 2: the Reliatables podcast. How's it going.

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Speaker 5: Destroy Glue?

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Speaker 2: How are you great? Welcome to the Boyfriend OLYMPI.

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Speaker 6: I have my eyes set on that trophy. Boyfriend doesn't

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Speaker 6: Going to him. We've been together for like three months,

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Speaker 1: His name is Will. He is a super tall man

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Speaker 2: Great, six sixix four.

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Speaker 1: I know he's got me. Man replied and said, are

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Speaker 6: I was like, all right, I guess these ballet pads

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Speaker 5: Hello? Am I speaking?

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Speaker 2: Hello Emma. Welcome to the Boyfriend Olympics. How are you going? Hello?

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Speaker 5: I'm good, thank you?

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Speaker 6: His name is Brodie and we've been together just over

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Speaker 1: It was like I was going to say, he's going

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Speaker 5: And then came Week three, the final group stage, perhaps

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Speaker 5: the most difficult challenge of all. Abby went head to

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Speaker 5: head with Angie with a now infamous accusation, I had

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Speaker 5: a dream you cheated on me. The reactions nothing short

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Speaker 1: Hello Abby speaking Hello Abby.

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Speaker 2: It's Jake and Audie from the Relatables. How are you?

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Speaker 2: We are doing very very well.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Boyfriend Olympics.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so my lovely books.

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Speaker 1: His name is Will Will.

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Speaker 2: He is yeah, blessing names William.

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Speaker 6: He gets cool Willy all the time?

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Speaker 2: Will second Will that you will?

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Speaker 1: Really?

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Speaker 6: So yeah, I've got a lovely Will.

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Speaker 2: We've been together for five years now, for a long time.

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Speaker 1: I don't like you right now?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah? Can you remember true club.

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Speaker 5: Like superhero? Because you said to me you look at

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Speaker 2: Like him. Good morning, Angie, is that you?

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Speaker 4: About mustn't under where someone.

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Speaker 5: Else I'm started, Yes, sorry for pink s. Anthony McCann

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Speaker 5: was instantly ever seen him in your husband's like him

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Speaker 5: in trouble, in trouble. Thank god, you're not in trouble.

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Speaker 5: Still going to I'm sure we arrive. At the present moment,

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Speaker 5: the trials are complete, the votes have been cast well,

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Speaker 5: Jake and Otty's opinions carry no weight whatsoever. The baddies

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Speaker 5: themselves have spoken week after week to decide who will

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Speaker 5: progress to the medal rounds. And now it is time.

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Speaker 5: I shall pass you over to the ever handsome Ottie

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Speaker 5: and to Jake, who alas does not quite reach six

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Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you. Actually, for legal purposes, it's a

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Speaker 3: nature documenter. That that wasn't that was a nature documentar.

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Speaker 3: That is very fair, Nature documenter, Thank you, Nature documentary.

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Speaker 2: Cust the lot mate us, the lot that is hilarious.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, we got our recap. We've got our recap.

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Speaker 1: We've got our recap. I hope everyone's caught up. If

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Speaker 1: So one thing I do quickly want to say before

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Speaker 1: I give the results is the second week? Oh no,

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Speaker 1: sorry week three? Week three, was you cheated in my dream?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Abby an Angie.

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Speaker 1: Abby's boyfriend at the end said something that we couldn't understand,

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Speaker 1: but we have a comment that has cleared it up.

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Speaker 1: He says dream Me is a bit vindictive, and that's

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Speaker 2: Oh, it makes a lot of sense.

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Speaker 1: We couldn't hear it for the lifeless. But what someone commented,

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Speaker 2: He was like backing himself, kind of like saying, that's

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Speaker 2: not that's not like dream Me is vindictive. Yeah, well

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Speaker 2: it sounds of Abby hated to fucking dream him. He goes,

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Speaker 2: I don't like him. Yeah, that's what put us off,

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Speaker 1: We are choosing that. Yeah, okay. Week one was Tara

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Speaker 1: seventy four point five percent of the votes. Quite a lot,

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Speaker 1: is Tara, Tara.

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Speaker 2: Tarah? Congratulations. Shall we give it a ring?

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Speaker 1: Let's do it?

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Speaker 6: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Hello? Is that Tara?

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Speaker 2: Calling to say congratulations. You are going through to the

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Speaker 1: Sooch congratulations Tara.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we will be contact over text with all the

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Speaker 2: details for the next matches, but overall for you and

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Speaker 2: your boyfriend competing unknowingly congratulations.

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Speaker 1: Hi, thank you so much, guys.

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Speaker 6: To be fair, I have been talking with comments for

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Speaker 2: Of you knew the answer. Still still still all right,

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Speaker 2: We'll be in contact.

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Speaker 6: Thanks to Thank you for life guys, and today.

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Speaker 2: Thank you bye.

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Speaker 1: All right. Week number two we had Casey and Emma

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Speaker 1: competing with Dressing bat on Purpose, coming in at ninety

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Speaker 1: point two percent, so ninety percent. It was Casey. I

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Speaker 1: like Casey. I liked Casey too. She was the one

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Speaker 1: that said I want that gold medal.

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Speaker 2: this might be a reoccurring team. We're like, oh no, yeah,

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Speaker 2: the person you're trying to reach is not available at

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Speaker 2: the time.

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Speaker 6: Please record your message. When you have finished recording, you

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Speaker 6: may hang up.

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Speaker 1: Casey so sorry that you couldn't edser the phone right now,

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Speaker 1: but it's jaking on it from the Relatables and we

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Speaker 1: just wanted to let you know that you have made

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Speaker 1: it through to the metal matches in the Boyfriend Olympics. Congratulations.

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Speaker 1: All right, week three we have Abby and Angie coming

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Speaker 1: in at fifty four zero point five percent of the votes.

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Speaker 1: I was tired, is.

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Speaker 2: Ooh okay, Abby, let's give her being.

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Speaker 2: and you were progressing through to the metal matches. Y, yes,

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, my best friend literally just listened.

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Speaker 5: She's like, oh my god, just listened to the That

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Speaker 1: It's amazing.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be you're back on now and even next week.

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Speaker 2: We're going to be in contact with you for the

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Speaker 2: details again, So make sure you're ready and don't tell

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Speaker 2: your boyfriend.

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Speaker 6: I promise, I'm so excited.

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Speaker 2: Did you know?

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Speaker 6: Bye bye?

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Speaker 1: She's somewhere quiet. She had to whisper she's definitely at

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Well, so now we know who's going through to the

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Speaker 1: to the gold medal match.

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Speaker 2: Finally we have some power. Okay, I would like to

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Speaker 2: put our baddy, Casey up, Casey, your case is your

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Speaker 1: Like, I want to win, and her boyfriend did say

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Speaker 2: Whereing that? Or to be fair, should we not go

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Speaker 1: Like, I'm so sorry, I love you, but it's for me.

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Speaker 1: It's between Tyre and Casey. Yes, Sam, So I'm going

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Speaker 1: Tara's man simone, big boy, big everywhere. He said, I

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Speaker 1: But I do quite like Casey's boyfriend Will six' four fresh,

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Speaker 2: Damn he wants.

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Speaker 2: Because we need to get we need to. Agree what

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Speaker 2: are and see who actually takes away the gold medal

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Speaker 2: with the Boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: Olympics, ODDIE i have to tell you, something, okay maybe

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Speaker 1: also maybe it's a. Confess they have to confess it to.

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Speaker 4: YOU i love.

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Speaker 2: Confessions, okay did you shoot?

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Speaker 4: Yourself?

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Speaker 1: NO i, DIDN'T i kind OF i WISH i.

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Speaker 2: Did they're my. Favorite it's a great story SIDEBY i.

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Speaker 2: SAW i think we should buy them just for. Ourselves

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Speaker 2: they make like a yourself survival, kit you know how

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Speaker 2: make one flag when you hit, yourself and it's got

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Speaker 1: Scah cap is of wound.

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Speaker 2: Healing oh, WELL i mean like when you cut. Yourself,

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Speaker 2: about the survival kit for WHEN i like the. Sound

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Speaker 2: it's got a pair of, undies toilet paper in, it

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Speaker 2: had some other. Stuff someone sent it to.

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Speaker 1: Us we should blie TO i like one of, them

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Speaker 1: AND i would like it to be in the. Car,

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Speaker 1: yeah SO i can pull, over have something to cover

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Speaker 2: Wherever but that's beside the. Point so it got. Distracted

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Speaker 1: Backstory, yeah as the, baddies and you, Know beth AND

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Speaker 2: Dead she was.

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Speaker 1: Adopted as sad as that is for, me it's happy for.

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Speaker 1: Her and THEN i SAW i saw her dog at the.

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Speaker 2: Fox, YEAH i see them at the beach all the,

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Speaker 2: video but THEN i was, like, oh that might.

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Speaker 1: Be a bit TOO i didn't even KNOW i loved

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Speaker 2: Them they might pull the heartstrings to the too close to.

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Speaker 1: Home she's the one that got. Away but we have

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Speaker 1: maggie's rescue and there is other puppies With maggie At Maggie's,

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Speaker 1: rescue and one Afternoon beth had organized with another foster

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Speaker 1: With laney because this other puppy didn't have another dog

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Speaker 1: SO i went down and said. Hi And henry is

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Speaker 1: the alpha of the. House whenever there's dogs, around he

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Speaker 1: Knows beth AND i are top.

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Speaker 4: Dogs just that.

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Speaker 1: Way but when there's other, dogs he will and he meets.

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Speaker 1: First thing he likes to do is a certain dominance

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Speaker 1: Humpy he was trying to. Intervene and one way dogs

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Speaker 1: need to let you know What i'm. Bossed and SO

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Speaker 1: YEAH i was, like all, Right, henry come back, Father

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Speaker 1: LIKE i, SAID i, said, mate come, on let them.

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Speaker 1: And i'm just kind of like talking him, like, man

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Speaker 1: Whatever beth can deal with. It and THEN i. Start

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Speaker 1: i'm in the office And i'm, like and Because laney

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Speaker 1: Here it's like it was on my, lip, RIGHT i

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Speaker 2: Not where you.

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Speaker 1: Were BUT i was, LIKE i can't effing see.

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Speaker 2: It why you? SWEARING i don't.

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Speaker 2: IDEA i can't fucking see.

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Speaker 1: It And i'm, like, God i'm like this and Then

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Speaker 1: i'm like ALL i look down and there's shit all

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Speaker 1: Beth my first THING i think Is henry has stepped in.

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Speaker 1: Poo and when he jumped off, me his back legs

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Speaker 1: like kicked off my, chest so he's gotten it all over.

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Speaker 1: Me AND i was, like, bes Get henry, outside clean his.

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Speaker 1: okay AND i was, like.

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Speaker 1: KICKUP i wasn't wearing just any, shirt no one of our.

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Speaker 1: Ones and it wasn't just one of our.

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Speaker 2: Ones, oh the only. Sample we, have.

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Speaker 1: The only, sample and it's the only purple, one.

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Speaker 2: One of a. Kind it is one of. One AND

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Speaker 1: ADDIE i took it off AND i threw it on

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Speaker 2: Day why don't you wash? It it's got pooh on,

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Speaker 1: OUT i best tried to say the same, thing AND i,

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Speaker 1: Out i'm not putting dog poo in my washing. Machine,

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Speaker 1: well it's a washing.

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Speaker 2: Machine hose it off and then chuck in the washing.

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Speaker 1: MACHINE i can still have the shirt it's been rained.

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Speaker 2: On it could be washed. ALREADY i don't think that's

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Speaker 4: Up, now So i've chucked it's.

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Speaker 2: Off it might stay. Now it's been twenty four. Hours

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Speaker 2: MIGHT i mentioned that?

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Speaker 2: ALSO i have a samples like two hundred and fifty dollars.

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Speaker 1: News it's actually been about two.

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Speaker 4: Weeks what.

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Speaker 1: You're also my favorite fitting? One, yeah because it's more. Cropped,

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Speaker 2: While, yeah far you're in my bad. Books. Mate it

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Speaker 1: YEAH i was, upset BUT i also was, Like i'm

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Speaker 1: not putting poo in my washing. Machine can take you

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Speaker 1: to a dry. Cleaner, yeah you're not going to do anything.

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Speaker 2: There he's gonna throw it.

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Speaker 1: Out, Yeah so that is my. Confession, yeah that's QUITE

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Speaker 1: i personally didn't ruin, It, Henry, really do you want

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Speaker 4: Shit these fucking?

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Speaker 1: Dogs saturday just Gone beth's birthday lunch. Right we actually

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Speaker 1: Got lanie's new parents because she has been, adopted but

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Speaker 1: she's not going there Till, sunday they looked after her

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Speaker 1: for the day because she just got disseext and can't.

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Speaker 1: Play we would have just left her With, henry but

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Speaker 1: really just like putting a lot of effort into like my.

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00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 1: Socializing i'm losing my. Voice and THEN i get, HOME

448
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 1: i Pick henry, up and THEN i go With henry

449
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 1: to Pick laney, up And i'm feeling kind of like,

450
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:08,120
Speaker 1: shit AND i wanted to Take henry just to get

451
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 1: him out of the house for the day or for

452
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: the first time that. Day and then WHEN i pick her,

453
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 1: UP i bring her back and she's wicked. Excited so

454
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: we get home and she Is i've. Looked this is

455
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:23,400
Speaker 1: a new Saying i've learn from My irish, friend justin

456
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 1: that you think it's. Fake she was wrecking my fucking,

457
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 1: head all, right AND i like it wreckon my.

458
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 2: Head she was wrecked an imaginary. Friend, yeah some.

459
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 1: Might SAY i thought of, that but, no she was

460
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 1: wrecking my, head and SO i was just getting to

461
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:44,639
Speaker 1: the point WHERE i had to tie her up to

462
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:48,719
Speaker 1: just have her be in one. Spot and THEN i

463
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:53,919
Speaker 1: was ready for. Bed, Right beth's out, Partying henry's being an. Angel,

464
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 1: yeah lady's wrecking my. HEAD i get my pajamas on

465
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 1: and THEN i take them out for one more. Toilet

466
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 1: laney does a shit, right and while she's doing, it

467
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,440
Speaker 1: she's backing up and she nearly steps in, it BUT

468
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 1: i stop her right And i'm, like, OH i got.

469
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 1: It she's, done and then she runs into the. House

470
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: she runs upstairs before, me runs, up runs jumps on

471
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 1: my bed next To.

472
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:23,360
Speaker 4: HENRY i walk.

473
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 1: Upstairs shit all over my fucking, bed your. Bed she

474
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 1: stepped in the. SHIP i didn't catch. It there was

475
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 1: shit all over my bed for. You and it was

476
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 1: it was. LATE i was getting. Sick she was already

477
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 1: doing my head in and ALL i wanted to do

478
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 1: was JUST i would never do, it but just throw

479
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 1: her out the. WINDOW i would never ever do, it,

480
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 1: guys BUT i assume people have had this feeling. BEFORE

481
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 1: i was, like leave me. ALONE i HAD i sat

482
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: down and had to just like. DEFEATED i was, defeated

483
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 1: AND i didn't get MY i. DIDN'T i was, mad

484
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,119
Speaker 1: BUT i didn't like yell at her or. ANYTHING i

485
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: just took her, downstairs washed, her tied her, up changed

486
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,199
Speaker 1: my bed, sheets put them in the. Wash added an

487
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: extra thirty. Minutes wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait.

488
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:18,679
Speaker 2: Wait so you put them you put them in the,

489
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 2: wash but not our beautiful one of one.

490
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: Shirt oh my, god that's so, true you.

491
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 2: HYPOCRITE i am a fucking.

492
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: Hypocrite the bed sheets were worth more to me than the,

493
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: SHIRT i can't believe. It and they were, cheaper, ah

494
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 1: because you just had the sample was.

495
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:34,360
Speaker 2: Expensive.

496
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: Yeah?

497
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 2: Wow and that only came out from your tell the story.

498
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 1: WHERE i didn't think of, that AND i shouldn't have

499
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: told that story to.

500
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 2: Wash, yeah fuck, you fuck.

501
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:48,199
Speaker 4: You, Well i'm gonna wash it.

502
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 1: Tonight, Yeah i'm gonna wash the, shirts And i'm gonna

503
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: get off the. Bacon i'm gona. Wash i'll text best right,

504
00:26:51,600 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 1: now she's working from. Home i'll get her to, wash all.

505
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 2: Right Bad he's up next is Ig question of The,

506
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 2: week and a bit of a reoccurring theme on the

507
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 2: pod is men thinking they're putting in effort when they're really.

508
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 2: NOT i would say it's reoccurring on the, pod but

509
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:17,640
Speaker 2: also in real.

510
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:20,360
Speaker 1: Life OH i, mean, well the pod is a reflection

511
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 1: of real. Life oh, yeah they are usually realized.

512
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 2: Stories, true, true. True so this ig question is what

513
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 2: do men mistake as effort which is actually just the bare?

514
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 2: MINIMUM i got the first one, okay kick things Off

515
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 2: jake right, Now this is.

516
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 1: Actually one okay getting their girlfriend A patreon subscription for

517
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: The relatables.

518
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 2: Podcast, yeah they would think that is, effort but in,

519
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 2: life that is literally just a bare. Minimum it's only

520
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:50,120
Speaker 2: five dollars a. Month because it's so good over there the, community, man.

521
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 1: And we will use this as a way to Plug.

522
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 3: We will you get an extra episode every single week

523
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,400
Speaker 3: the Book Club, early we got the summer our, term

524
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 3: pretty season finale reaction type.

525
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 1: Videos we want you to watch us react to, that

526
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,359
Speaker 1: and we want you over. There we want you to

527
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,479
Speaker 1: be part of it because we know you're gonna love.

528
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 2: It and all the baddies that have been joining and

529
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:10,479
Speaker 2: are going, like, wow why did it takes me so

530
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 2: long to get over?

531
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:17,399
Speaker 1: Here? Exactly and one extra little thing is over On

532
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 1: patreon because we love you, guys you get a discount

533
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: on all the Merch, yes, yes, yes, yes discount code

534
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:26,639
Speaker 1: and who, KNOWS i could be feeling generous in the

535
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: next few days and add an even.

536
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,639
Speaker 2: You might need to use that discount code because you

537
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 2: need a new, shirt, MAADE i.

538
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 1: Might i'm gonna wash.

539
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 2: It, yeah let me go. Next, okay what do men

540
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 2: mistake as? Effort which is actually just a bare minimum not?

541
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 4: Cheating you?

542
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 2: THINK i initially had the same, reaction like that little shock,

543
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,479
Speaker 2: Factor but THEN i was thinking about, it and dudes

544
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 2: do think, like, oh, YEAH i don't, Cheat i'm the

545
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 2: best boyfriend.

546
00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 4: Ever.

547
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 1: Yeah they're, like But i'm. Loyal, yeah, yeah, yeah But i'm,

548
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: loyal AREN'T. I. Yeah it's kind of, like, okay the

549
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: easiest thing to.

550
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 2: Do, literally wait a, Minute, yeah it's.

551
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 4: Actually a good.

552
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 1: ONE i was BECAUSE i saw a LOT i actually

553
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 1: did see a lot of. Them what do men mistake as?

554
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: Effort but it's actually just the bare minimum actually making

555
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 1: plans for a?

556
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 4: Date.

557
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 2: Yeah for some, REASON i feel like even like the,

558
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 2: counterparts the girls or the other person who's in the,

559
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 2: date have been gas lit into thinking that boys who

560
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 2: do put in effort to playing the, date like they're so, good,

561
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 2: yeah when in reality it is the bare fucking.

562
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 1: Minimum their friend, says how was, it and she says

563
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: he planned the whole thing start to. Finish, yeah that

564
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: you're proud of.

565
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 2: That, yeah because when we started the POT i remember

566
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 2: we heard that all the. Time i'm, like that's not. Good,

567
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 2: yeah like that's just the bare. Minimum that definitely is.

568
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 2: BAD i don't get men, though, either, too because like

569
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 2: WHEN i was, SINGLE i thoroughly enjoyed planning a date

570
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 2: and seeing it like turn out and seeing her enjoy.

571
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 2: HERSELF i like planning, dates and a couple didn't work,

572
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 2: out AND i learned from him for the next, ones

573
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 2: the next.

574
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 4: ONES i, mean good.

575
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 1: POINT i, LIKE i have liked planning, dates AND i

576
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 1: do like planning dates, still, yeah, True, STILL i found

577
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 1: one thing was fostering actually is.

578
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 4: Better AND i haven't been on as many.

579
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 2: Dates it's like you've got a little.

580
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 1: Kid it is a bit. Hard, YEAH i won't do

581
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: a puppy. Again, yeah the puppy is a, lot can't my? Goodness,

582
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: okay what do.

583
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 2: Men mistake is, effort which is actually just a bare

584
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 2: minimum listening to their partner when they.

585
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 1: Talk, YEAH i, MEAN i think that has been mistaken as.

586
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 2: Effort But i'm a good. Listener your body doesn't add

587
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 2: are you? Listening, yeah actively? Listening are you?

588
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 1: LISTENING i doubt.

589
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 2: It they're in Like clash Of clan world or some.

590
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 2: Shit is that still that's still? Huge what's the other?

591
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 2: One we learned about it the other, day class a

592
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 2: clash Forw, yeah MAYBE i was thinking that still either.

593
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: One we spoke about class clans a couple weeks. Ago,

594
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 1: yeah it's been around for a long. Time, yeah. Okay

595
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 1: what do men mistake is? Effort but it's actually just

596
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 1: the bare minimum changing bed?

597
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 4: Sheets fuck? Fair?

598
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, yea, yeah, YEAH i always, WELL i don't live

599
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 2: with my. PARTNER i always change him before my partner

600
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 2: comes over for a. Sleepover.

601
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 4: Yep.

602
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 2: Yeah But i've never once Thought.

603
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 1: I'm the best boyfriend out like you've never once said

604
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: change my sheets for.

605
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 2: YOU i probably have said, that But i've never actively, thought,

606
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 2: Yeah i'm the best. BOYFRIEND i do think that this

607
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 2: is the bare. Minimum i've been sleeping in it for

608
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 2: like a, week fair. Fair what do men mistake is,

609
00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 2: effort which is actually the bare minimum being in interested

610
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 2: in things that your girlfriend's interested.

611
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 4: In oh.

612
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 1: To BE i MEAN i can also see, that like

613
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 1: it doesn't it is kind of just a bare, Minimum

614
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 1: like you're with this, person it doesn't take much to

615
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 1: just actually want to be part of their. Life so

616
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: interest in what they're interested? In yeah, YEAH i MEAN i,

617
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 1: like you don't have to thoroughly enjoy, it but like

618
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: just put that little bit of effort into. Trying. Yeah.

619
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 2: Yeah and it also it kind of like if you're

620
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 2: the reciprocent of, that it hypes you. Up like If

621
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 2: i'm talking about the gym and then my girls just

622
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 2: LIKE i don't, care like what really this is really

623
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 2: important to, ME i, Know but if they're there and they're, like, yeah,

624
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 2: yeah how was, it asking, questions actively, Listening i'll be, like, yeah,

625
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:46,120
Speaker 2: yeah this is my.

626
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 1: THING i feel like everyone's into something. Boring, Yeah And

627
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 1: i'm trying to, think Has beth got any red flags of?

628
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 1: It i'm trying to think If i've ever tried to explain

629
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: something to, her what do you? Mean like it's Like

630
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 1: i'm trying to explain Something i'm super.

631
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 2: Interesting oh Just na, Podcasting lego golf. GOLF i could

632
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 2: take the. BAIT i could take the.

633
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 1: BAIT i gotta be, honest, Though WHEN i talk about,

634
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 1: golf she actually pretends to.

635
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 4: Listen that's.

636
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: Good, well, NO i think she's, listening but she pretends to.

637
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 4: Care that's, good which is the bare.

638
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: Minimum, yeah what is she interested?

639
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 4: In i've watched her favorite. Movie that's.

640
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: GOOD i didn't really like, it BUT i watched.

641
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 4: IT i, watched And i'll watch.

642
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: MOVIES i am.

643
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 4: The best boyfriend.

644
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 1: Ever, Okay, ooh texting while on a night?

645
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 2: Out, yeah what's? Weird?

646
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 4: Dudes do?

647
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 2: Think like IF i text him, Like i'm the best person,

648
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 2: Ever like even if it's every once in a. While,

649
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 2: yeah but like that is the bare. Minimum but a

650
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 2: lot of men don't do it. Either, No, YEAH i.

651
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: Don't go on my phone When i'm.

652
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 4: OUT i want to be.

653
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 1: Free what about when you're texting your fucking drug, dealer your, friend,

654
00:33:58,160 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: then aren't?

655
00:33:58,480 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 2: You, yeah transferring money to play the? Poke?

656
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,560
Speaker 1: Exactly about when you go in your front to pay

657
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,239
Speaker 1: for the? Drink no one carries a wall of these.

658
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: DAYS i wouldn't take a.

659
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 2: Wallet on a night out. NEITHER i would lose that.

660
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 2: Shit that's a great, Rebuttal, actually if you.

661
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: Click on your phone to pay for your.

662
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 2: Drink, yeah you're not buying. ANYTHING i know you're paying

663
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:14,359
Speaker 2: for a million, beers bitch.

664
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: Exactly and, ALSO i know for a fact you're a

665
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 1: little anxious.

666
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 2: Socialite that's a. Socialite you're a.

667
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: Little anxious social. Person, YEAH i. Know you just go

668
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 1: on that calculator whenever someone comes to trying.

669
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 2: To, yeah, yeah, yeah just text, me text, me text

670
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:29,959
Speaker 2: me where you're. AT i care fox.

671
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 1: Sake.

672
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 2: OKAY i feel like this one answers the question the. Best,

673
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,720
Speaker 2: so what do men mistake is? Effort which is actually

674
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 2: the bare minimum making her? Finish?

675
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 1: Ah is that bare? MINIMUM i think it's a bare.

676
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:48,439
Speaker 1: MINIMUM i gotta, say, Like i'm happy to admit that's bare,

677
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:51,919
Speaker 1: minimum BUT i cannot deny about how PROUD i am

678
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: WHEN i do. It let me.

679
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 4: Go here we.

680
00:34:56,280 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 1: Go this, ONE i think answers the question. Brilliantly what

681
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: do men's mistake is? Effort it's actually just the bare

682
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: minimum just because? Flowers oh, yeah just getting flowers to get.

683
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 2: Flowers yeah, literally not because you did something, wrong and

684
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 2: it's not a special occasion you're in.

685
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: Trouble, yeah it's just because you love. Her yeah all, Right,

686
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 1: hey other, way banana bread.

687
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 2: Freshcar, yeah, okay, sure what do men's mistake is effort

688
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 2: which is actually just the bare minimum doing chores as.

689
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 1: EQUALS i saw a lot.

690
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 2: Of like cleaning the, house taking the rubbish, out cleaning the.

691
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 2: Bathroom BUT i like this one because it's, there still

692
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 2: is in the twenty first sextra. CENTURY i don't know

693
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 2: how that Like hierarqi in houses with who does the?

694
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 1: Chores so that is a really good. One, yeah doing

695
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 1: chores as equals as If like When i'm doing my,

696
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 1: Chores i'm not thinking to myself like this is me

697
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:11,400
Speaker 1: putting a lot of effort. In, Yeah i'm thinking so,

698
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:15,399
Speaker 1: yeah it's wait wait wait wait, No so what she's

699
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 1: saying is the way she's answering the question is a

700
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:20,799
Speaker 1: lot of men think that it's putting effort in to

701
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: actually think of the chores as an equal thing when

702
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,760
Speaker 1: it is bare, minimum that it's an equal, thing, Correct,

703
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 1: yeah that's what it.

704
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 2: Means, Yeah like when they do do, something they think

705
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 2: they're doing it for their partner because that's their. Job,

706
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 2: yeah when in reality it's the bare minimum and it's

707
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 2: no one's.

708
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 1: Job yeah, yeah, yeah that was like, confusing BUT i get.

709
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 2: It, yeah, yeah all, right.

710
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: This one what the men mistake as, effort but it's

711
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 1: actually just the bare minimum in all caps come new

712
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 1: near k.

713
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 2: Shun why do men suck at?

714
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,399
Speaker 1: IT i don't.

715
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 4: KNOW i don't know.

716
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: EITHER i have no.

717
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,839
Speaker 2: Idea my last one romantic.

718
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:15,840
Speaker 1: Gestures, yeah that is definitely mistaken his.

719
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 2: Effort men think they're the best because they just do

720
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 2: one romantic thing every six.

721
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 1: Months that is one hundred percent mistaken his.

722
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 4: Effort and what about?

723
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: That what about the thigu, dude those FLOWERS i got? You? Yeah,

724
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 1: fuck there was no. Reason YEAH i got on for no.

725
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,359
Speaker 1: Reason what about those? Flowers that's so toxic, too if

726
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: you go back to those.

727
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 2: Things, yeah, OKAY i.

728
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,359
Speaker 1: Got three.

729
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 4: This.

730
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 1: One, okay knowing if your girlfriend is a gold or

731
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 1: a silver.

732
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 2: Girly, OH i know my girlfriend's, Gold so that was.

733
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,319
Speaker 1: MINE i was gonna ask if you, Knew, YEAH i

734
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 1: know that girlfriend's. Complexion go ask your, boyfriends AM i

735
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 1: gold or am my? Silver see if they get, It

736
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: see if they even understand the. Question, yeah we got

737
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 1: to straight.

738
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 4: Away.

739
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:06,439
Speaker 1: Yeah well, yeah that's the bare.

740
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:07,879
Speaker 4: Minimum, okay it's a bare.

741
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 1: Minimum, yeah that's all we do around. Here nothing but, yeah, yeah,

742
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 1: yeah knowing when my period, IS i would say, yeah yeah,

743
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,919
Speaker 1: thereabouts oh yeah, yeah within the within a few, days,

744
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,240
Speaker 1: yeah knowing the twenty eight. Days so, YEAH i. Agree

745
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 1: and this, ONE i do not know how men could

746
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 1: ever mistake this as effort grabbing the cantael to wipe you.

747
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 2: Down, surely surely no man is thinking Like i'm the

748
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 2: best doing yeah yeah to, NO i reckon they would.

749
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 2: Be there would Be can there be people who have

750
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 2: sex and, like are you like let me get?

751
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: It?

752
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 2: No, yeah no.

753
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 1: Opposite some wouldn't even do, anything oh, True, yeah some

754
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: would just be, LIKE i guess lay the bathrooms over.

755
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 2: There that's a good. Point, yeah my biggest like that.

756
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 2: JOB i feel.

757
00:38:55,560 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 1: Special so you think it's, EFFORT.

758
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 2: I think it's a bare, minimum BUT i like. IT

759
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 2: i just had, sex she's laying. THERE i got a

760
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 2: buck from got a. Thing But i've never once the

761
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 2: question thought.

762
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 1: Like this is getting the.

763
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 2: Wrong do you ever wipe it for? Her every?

764
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:11,359
Speaker 4: Time?

765
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 2: Nice, YEAH i say SOMETIMES i split it up depending

766
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 2: WHAT i.

767
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 1: GRAB i go for BECAUSE i have on. Suite, YEAH

768
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:21,359
Speaker 1: i just go for toilet paper every.

769
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,280
Speaker 2: Time, YEAH i sometimes go a little towel or toilet,

770
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 2: paper depending What i'm feeling, like but quite.

771
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 1: Often, Okay so here's my biggest gripe with movies.

772
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 2: Is, Yeah i've said this, Recently, cassie they have.

773
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:40,839
Speaker 1: Sex right lay there and then they're done and they

774
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: just lay There And i'm, Sorry but first of, all

775
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 1: if you've pulled out and done it on her, tummy

776
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: you're not just laying, there no. Way second of, all

777
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 1: if you've done it consensually inside of, her you're still

778
00:39:58,080 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 1: not just laying there because it actually drips out of

779
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 1: her and she wants to go clean that. UP.

780
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 2: Yea, thirdly if you wore.

781
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 1: A condom and it's in the, Condom i'm not laying in.

782
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 1: There i'm Not i'm not having my dick stew in this. Condom.

783
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 1: Yeah so, like for some reason in, MOVIES i need

784
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 1: a movie to depict it very.

785
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 2: Accurately we're right after.

786
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 1: You give a little like like right after you come you,

787
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: KNOW i don't, know you like maybe kiss her on the.

788
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: FOREHEAD i love. You but then you both just get

789
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 1: up and have a. Shower best THAT i haven't even

790
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 1: been doing a rag thing. Lately both of us straight

791
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 1: to the.

792
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 2: Shower, Yeah i've also sorry to, like let you guys on.

793
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 2: It i've also, said how do people cuddle after Because i'm?

794
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:37,280
Speaker 2: SWEATING i don't want to sweat in my. Bed, yeah

795
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 2: and then cud off the sweat every. Time, Yeah i'm

796
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 2: a sweaty. Guy, shit how hard do you? Guys i'm

797
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 2: just a sweaty.

798
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 1: Guy, Fair, FAIR i FIND i only sweat in the.

799
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 2: SUMMER i sweat you around THAT i won't like lay

800
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 2: on the. Bed i'll like sit on the edge of

801
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 2: the bed and then we talk and like, breathe like, no,

802
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 2: no BECAUSE i don't want to lay down and like

803
00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 2: put sweat on my. Sheets, FAIR i.

804
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: Suppose, yeah but, yeah that's my biggest cribe in.

805
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 2: Movies, yeah. Unrealistic it's so.

806
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 1: Stupid battie's time for. Dilemmas, obviously if you've been here

807
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: for a while you. Know but this is a segment

808
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 1: where you guys submit your dilemmas via The. Lincoln the

809
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 1: description all. Anonymous mommy and daddy over. Here we like

810
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 1: to help you.

811
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 2: Out, yeah we.

812
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 4: Do quick.

813
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 1: QUESTION i want to, say if you're enjoying, these we

814
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 1: would love it if you could give it a quick five.

815
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 2: Stock, yes we would love.

816
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 1: That that'd be very, lovely but you, know we'll leave

817
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 1: that up to. You my. ONE i got a title

818
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:43,840
Speaker 1: for this. One boyfriend ghosted me after a year and a. Half.

819
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 4: Ghosted, yeah that's.

820
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 1: Crazy, hey guys love the. Pod SO i have recently

821
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: broken up with my boyfriend of a year and a

822
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: half AND i want to know IF i am in

823
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: the Right, Okay SO i have never been into drugs or. Alcohol,

824
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 1: however after going to a festival with my, FRIENDS i

825
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 1: was offered a brownie for a festival okay by my,

826
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 1: friend AND i was interested and trusted the friend and

827
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 1: only ate. Half it didn't really have an effect AND

828
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: i just kept dancing and had a great.

829
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 2: Night that's.

830
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 1: Good the next TIME i saw my, BOYFRIEND i told

831
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,839
Speaker 1: him THAT i had taken the brownie and he went

832
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 1: quiet and told me he was disappointed and always loved

833
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 1: the fact THAT i don't take. Drugs he said he

834
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,800
Speaker 1: needed time and then proceeded to ghost me for two.

835
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 2: Weeks where does he do?

836
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 1: DRUGS i don't, know and ONCE i asked to, talk

837
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 1: he just said he needed much more time to. Think

838
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 1: AFTER i waited for a month of him barely speaking to,

839
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,359
Speaker 1: ME i broke up with. HIM i need to know

840
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 1: IF i am in the, right you were one hundred

841
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 1: percent in the, right one hundred and ten percent in the.

842
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 2: Right, yeah fair. Enough this, guy if he's like a

843
00:42:56,960 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 2: straighty one eighty and doesn't take, anything need some time

844
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 2: to dwell on his emotions and then talk to. You

845
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 2: BUT i would give it twenty four hours. Max not

846
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 2: even twenty four, hours twelve. Hours, also it's just. Childish,

847
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 2: Yeah and you're completely in your right to do whatever you,

848
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 2: want like with your.

849
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: Actions you told him straight away the next, day you

850
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 1: are allowed to do whatever you. WANT i, mean.

851
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 2: He's allowed to feel however he wants. Too but this

852
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:25,800
Speaker 2: is just he is crazy.

853
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 1: Unless he has, sorry unless you guys have had a

854
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 1: conversation in the past where he's, Like i'm not cool with,

855
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 1: drugs LIKE i don't want to be with someone that does,

856
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 1: drugs and you're, like oh, no, yeah, yeah, yeah LIKE

857
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:41,720
Speaker 1: i don't do. That she would have mentioned, that but

858
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 1: BUT i think she would have mentioned. That, Yeah so

859
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 1: in this, case obviously they've just you, know gone through their.

860
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: Relationship he's just liked the fact she doesn't do, Drugs

861
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 1: so you can do whatever the fuck you.

862
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 2: Want, yeah you did the right. Thing and also this

863
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 2: is why People this is why people lie in, relationships

864
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 2: because a lot of people wouldn't have the guts to break,

865
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 2: up and then they just start lying when they do

866
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,319
Speaker 2: their said. Thing because of the reaction of this guy

867
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 2: who's just a month fucking up a, BROWNIE i get.

868
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 2: Cheated that's how he's. ACTING i, MEAN i just.

869
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 1: Also, think what's the point of not? Talking what do

870
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: you need time? For, Right so she's done something you don't,

871
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 1: like you're allowed to voice. That and then if she, says, oh,

872
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 1: YEAH i didn't really like. It ACTUALLY i won't do it.

873
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: Again if it's something you don't really, Like i'm more

874
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 1: than happy to make it a thing that we don't. Do.

875
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 1: Right but, again even if he did just voice it

876
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 1: and he's, like, oh that's not SOMETHING i, like and

877
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 1: then she, goes, WELL i like doing. IT i had

878
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 1: a good, time AND i do want to do. It

879
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 1: so we didn't meet in the middle here or some,

880
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 1: shit and then they need to decide whether or not

881
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: this relationship can. Keep what's with the, Time why do

882
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 1: you need so much?

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00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 2: Time and also if that didn't, HAPPEN i also don't

884
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 2: like that if she says LIKE i don't want to

885
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:57,439
Speaker 2: do it for. You i'd be, like, well fuck off

886
00:44:57,800 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 2: And i'm.

887
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 1: Disappointed didn't?

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00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:01,280
Speaker 2: You?

889
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 6: You?

890
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: Fuck are? You who are?

891
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:04,440
Speaker 4: You get off your?

892
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,759
Speaker 2: Pedestal bro get off that high? Horse what you?

893
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: Do the right?

894
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 2: Thing how proud of you if you came to. Me

895
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 2: IF i was actually your mum and you came to,

896
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 2: Me i'll be, like good. Job beat More. Brownie, yeah,

897
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 2: okay funnily, Enough both The lemmas are highlighting terrible, men

898
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:24,720
Speaker 2: but this one hasn't made the decision.

899
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 1: To mean funnily. Enough they're all about that.

900
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 2: Most sometimes their friendship was so title he ditched me

901
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 2: to go to the clubs while my grandma.

902
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: Died DON'T i don't need to hear?

903
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:41,400
Speaker 2: Anymore, Hi jake And oddie love the. POD i listened

904
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 2: every single day at. Work i've been with my boyfriend

905
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 2: for about a year and a half, now and we

906
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:49,359
Speaker 2: were friends at school for years. BEFOREHAND i generally see

907
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 2: myself marrying this. Boy we practically live together at this,

908
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,319
Speaker 2: point since he spends seven nights a week at my.

909
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,400
Speaker 2: House we have regular tips and, arguments as every couple,

910
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:02,840
Speaker 2: does especially since we spend every single day. Together my

911
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 2: dilemma is. This when we were about six months in

912
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 2: my grandma fell really ill and became terminal so. QUICKLY

913
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 2: i was one of the closest in my large family to.

914
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 2: HER i used to have tea with her after school

915
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:18,320
Speaker 2: three times a. Week she was basically my best. Friend

916
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,280
Speaker 2: my boyfriend had even started coming along to our weekly

917
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 2: teas and he got close with her two he knew

918
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 2: how much she meant to. Me On, SATURDAY i got

919
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 2: the news that she wasn't going to make it past the.

920
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,799
Speaker 2: Weekend it was such a sudden. SHOCK i was so

921
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 2: upset and distraught and needed my, boyfriend but he had

922
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 2: plans to go clubbing for close friend's. BIRTHDAY i called

923
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 2: him crying and begged him to stay home with me

924
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 2: BECAUSE i was inconsolable and just needed. Support In, brackets

925
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 2: he was literally only he was literally only one klomoral,

926
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 2: way but he wouldn't come home and instead went out

927
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 2: till four. AM i asked him all day and night

928
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 2: not to go, out telling HIM i needed. HIM i

929
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,919
Speaker 2: ended up staying awake all night crying to the point

930
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:06,759
Speaker 2: WHERE i actually was. VOMITING i even wrote out a

931
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,320
Speaker 2: breakup message for the next TIME i saw, him because

932
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 2: in that, moment it felt generally. UNFORGIVABLE i was and

933
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 2: still am in love with, him and we've had the

934
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 2: best year, since but every time we, ARGUE i can't

935
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 2: help but feel so much resentment over that. NIGHT i

936
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 2: don't Think i've ever really been able to forgive, him and,

937
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 2: HONESTLY i don't THINK i ever. Will it hasn't affected

938
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 2: us on the day to, day but in every ARGUMENT

939
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,879
Speaker 2: i always circle back to that moment a year ago

940
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 2: and the fact THAT i never forgave. Him SHOULD i

941
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 2: have forgiven him by? Now or is this a valid

942
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 2: thing to never be able to? Forgive and will it

943
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 2: be the downfall of my?

944
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:51,400
Speaker 1: RELATIONSHIP i think that it's one hundred percent, valid BUT

945
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 1: i think that it did weigh too much harm to the,

946
00:47:56,160 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 1: relationship and choosing to stay was the easy option because

947
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 1: you didn't want to go through obviously two heartbreaks at,

948
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:08,200
Speaker 1: once because your grandma died and then he was also

949
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 1: leaving him would be.

950
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 4: Heartbreak but he showed his true colors in that.

951
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: Moment he did, too which is the harsh reality of.

952
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 1: It where's he gonna be when you givehim?

953
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:20,879
Speaker 4: Birth? Yeah?

954
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 2: Question, like SO i don't want to just say break

955
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 2: up with him Because, NO i one hundred percent think

956
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 2: this guy is a terrible person for doing. That, YES

957
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:35,840
Speaker 2: i don't think he deserves a second. Chance, yes but

958
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 2: it's been a year and she loves this. Man what's

959
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:42,319
Speaker 2: years as it. Happened, yeah and they're still, Together So

960
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 2: i'm thinking you have to deal with it. Still it's

961
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 2: it's just not something you can always resent him for

962
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 2: when you're. Arguing so if you want to make the

963
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 2: conscious decision to stay with this, boy you need to

964
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 2: deal with it head first and tell him, everything and

965
00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 2: hopefully he's. GROWN i don't think he deserves a second

966
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 2: chef for what he. Did but it's been a, year

967
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 2: SO i don't think you should just keep like thinking about.

968
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 2: It you need to say to him like that was

969
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 2: not ON i thought about breaking up with. You i'm

970
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 2: still thinking about breaking up with. You what do you

971
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 2: have to say for? Yourself, yeah what's the point of.

972
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:15,879
Speaker 2: That you need to get it otherwise if you never say,

973
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 2: ANYTHING i think you should break.

974
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 1: Up but she says every fight they have that she

975
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 1: brings it. Up, no she thinks about. It she doesn't

976
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:22,320
Speaker 1: bring it, up or she doesn't actually bring it.

977
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 2: Up she thinks about.

978
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: It thinks about, it.

979
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:27,359
Speaker 2: She thinks how MUCH i resent him for. It she isn't,

980
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:28,479
Speaker 2: Healthy SO.

981
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: I would agree with, you IF i actually just don't

982
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: THINK i agree with. YOU i THINK i just genuinely

983
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:43,359
Speaker 1: think they need to break up because she's not over.

984
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 1: It and regardless of having the conversation now or in

985
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:50,600
Speaker 1: a year or even at the TIME i.

986
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 2: Did, IT i would IF i had, options option one

987
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 2: would be. Breakup BUT i don't think she will want

988
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 2: to break up because it's been a. Year SO i

989
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 2: think you have to deal with the situation for what it.

990
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 2: Is that's her choice to make.

991
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,240
Speaker 1: That, yeah. Exactly my advice is break. Up your advice

992
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 1: is if you don't want to break, up deal with.

993
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 2: It, yeah and you do have to deal with. It,

994
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:07,760
Speaker 2: Yeah i'm saying.

995
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 4: Breakup.

996
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:10,319
Speaker 1: YEAH i think it's LIKE i, think at them at

997
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: the time it, happened when you broke the breakup, message.

998
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,959
Speaker 2: You should have said that. Shit, yeah, yeah one hundred.

999
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 2: Percent and it's JUST i also want to, say, like

1000
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:19,799
Speaker 2: it is hard, too because you've given an extra year

1001
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 2: of your life to this man who treated you or

1002
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,440
Speaker 2: didn't do anything when you needed his support the. Most,

1003
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 2: yeah which is really really. Sad but you have to

1004
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:31,800
Speaker 2: deal with it head. First otherwise it's always going to

1005
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:33,799
Speaker 2: eat away and that will be the downfall if you

1006
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 2: don't deal with. It if you want to stay with, this,

1007
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 2: man go with your. Gut, yeah trust your. Gut if

1008
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 2: you're honestly only you. Know if your gut SAYS i

1009
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 2: can't get over, this then, yes you'd have to break

1010
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 2: up of.

1011
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 1: It fuck, yeah, YEAH i couldn't say better.

1012
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 2: Myself it is time for, comments bad. Is if you

1013
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 2: want to get your comment, read just comment on the

1014
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 2: episode below and we might get to it the next.

1015
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 2: Week i'm going to kick things off with rad he

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00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:05,319
Speaker 2: read he maybe first day of my big girl. Job

1017
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 2: listening to you guys on the commute makes it so much.

1018
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 2: Better let's. GO i hope it went, well all, RIGHT

1019
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 2: i got, YouTube i.

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00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:18,440
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1021
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 1: that poor family alone should literally be the description of the.

1022
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 4: Show.

1023
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 2: Literally, Okay i've Got Alexandra. Perone as someone with ADY

1024
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Speaker 2: hd two and, READING i go through. Cycles but an

1025
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 2: INCENTIVE i have is The Kindle Unlimited Reading. Insight because

1026
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 2: there is a streak for days and weeks in a,

1027
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 2: row and my, dope dope meine seeking self and competitive

1028
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:47,239
Speaker 2: side wants to break that streak, Previously SO.

1029
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:47,719
Speaker 1: I need to get a.

1030
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:50,719
Speaker 2: Kindle, YEAH i read more to break my break my.

1031
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:52,839
Speaker 1: Streak i've been wanting to get, one BUT i want

1032
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 1: to get the. One there's cheaper, ones AND i want

1033
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:55,919
Speaker 1: to get.

1034
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 4: The one that's more.

1035
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 2: Expensive how much just does the kindle set you?

1036
00:51:57,800 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 4: Back?

1037
00:51:58,640 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 2: Bit, okay a.

1038
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 1: Couple one hundred? Buck BUT i think the ONE i

1039
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:04,319
Speaker 1: wants like nearly five hundred and it's kind of the most.

1040
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 1: Storage but it's the one that it looks exactly like

1041
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,799
Speaker 1: paper and your eyes also like.

1042
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:12,879
Speaker 2: Registered BUT i think my mum had that. One, yeah

1043
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 2: it's cool.

1044
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:14,879
Speaker 1: BECAUSE i don't want to be looking at a. Screen

1045
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:15,319
Speaker 1: it's good for.

1046
00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 2: Holiday we're about to go and not bring the whole

1047
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 2: book by one. Man we've got a?

1048
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 4: Week why?

1049
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 1: Not all? RIGHT i got It's Chelsea. Marie i'm saving

1050
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 1: this episode for my LAPOROUS scopi On. Wednesday wish me.

1051
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 1: LUCK i looked that.

1052
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 2: Up, okay, GOOD i was gonna say.

1053
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:35,800
Speaker 1: It it's it's a surgery to do. With she's also.

1054
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:38,600
Speaker 1: DONE i think she said something in The facebook group as.

1055
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 1: Well she's had like pain with her periods for. Years

1056
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 1: finally doctors have her done this for, her so she's

1057
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 1: gonna like hopefully figure out what causes her so much.

1058
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,319
Speaker 1: Pain it's like a surgery where they figure something out down.

1059
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:51,319
Speaker 2: There, well hopefully it all works.

1060
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:52,440
Speaker 4: OUT i just want to say good.

1061
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 2: Luck, Yeah Chelsea, MARIE i have heard that name, before seen.

1062
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 2: It she's done a couple in my SUBJECT a. Couple, yeah, yeah, okay.

1063
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 2: Bad it is time for one of you to sign

1064
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 2: off the. Episode if you want to get called by,

1065
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 2: us there will be a linking description that, says sign

1066
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 2: off the. Episode. Today we are Calling.

1067
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:11,400
Speaker 6: Ruby your call has been forward into. Voicemail the person

1068
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 6: you're trying to Reach hello is Speaking.

1069
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 1: Ruby it's, jaking not from the. Relatables how are?

1070
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 6: You oh my, Gosh i'm so.

1071
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 1: Good good. Thing we called you?

1072
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:33,520
Speaker 2: Twice, YESMAIL.

1073
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 6: I can't believe.

1074
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 4: It are you at?

1075
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 2: Work oh, No.

1076
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 6: I'm wal was watching a lecture on my on my.

1077
00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:50,320
Speaker 1: Laptop, well we would love it if you could sign

1078
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:52,800
Speaker 1: off this week's episode for.

1079
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 6: Us some big. Pressure NEVER i didn't even think about this.

1080
00:53:57,360 --> 00:53:59,800
Speaker 2: Happen you gotta be, Prefair ruby.

1081
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 1: Advice, yeah you can say whatever you want, okay advice,

1082
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 1: Quote maybe you could talk about your lecture that you're

1083
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 1: listening to right.

1084
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 4: Now whatever feel about?

1085
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 6: Euroscience it's not that.

1086
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 1: Fun what's a neuroscience? Factor? There you?

1087
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 2: Go anything to do with the?

1088
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 4: Brain, OH.

1089
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 6: I kind of fallen. Asleep let me let me have

1090
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:25,919
Speaker 6: a quote on my laptop one, second let me open.

1091
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 1: It it could be good written. Down is a good?

1092
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 6: Quote, Yeah i've written it. Down oh, Okay i'm not

1093
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:38,720
Speaker 6: taking myself off the top shelf just because you can't

1094
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:44,439
Speaker 6: reach it or referring to. Men Yeah i'm.

1095
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 2: Not, yeah, yeah that was.

1096
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 1: GREAT i like.

1097
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 2: All the baddies listening right now are on the top.

1098
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 6: Shelf yeah, exactly everyone is on the top, shelf and

1099
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 6: you need the best of the, Best so don't lower your.

1100
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: Standards, yeah but no, one that's even a good quote

1101
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 1: to just don't lower your. Standards, yeah, yeah, exactly.

1102
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:10,440
Speaker 6: Exactly oh, god ACTUALLY i can't believe. IT i watched

1103
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 6: every TIME i dive down To. BRIZZY i live In Harvey.

1104
00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:15,839
Speaker 6: Bay i'm, Like i'm always popping you guys, On.

1105
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 2: Like now you get to listen to.

1106
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 1: You thank you so, much oh so.

1107
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:21,879
Speaker 6: Bad but thank you so.

1108
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 2: Much bye.

1109
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:27,320
Speaker 1: Bye that was. Amazing that was. Great thank You, Ruby

1110
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:28,760
Speaker 1: everyone stay.

1111
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:29,319
Speaker 2: Bad we love.

1112
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 4: You