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Speaker 1: This podcast calls for the word dumped to be whited

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Speaker 1: from our language. Referring to a breakup. When one party

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Speaker 1: decides to part with the other, the term dumped is

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Speaker 1: often used. It is I mean they talk about how

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Speaker 1: this lady here mishandle she says. Every time I hear it,

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Speaker 1: I WinCE. I hate the phrase. Suddenly what might have

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Speaker 1: been a painful but human ending becomes loaded with humiliation

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Speaker 1: at the moment when someone is already vulnerable. The language

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Speaker 1: itself becomes another injury.

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Speaker 2: You can't handle the truth.

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Speaker 1: That's pretty good. No one's ever said that to her.

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Speaker 1: People in pain deserve language and support.

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Speaker 3: Her name handle listening to what you were saying, I

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Speaker 3: was just.

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Speaker 1: You and I having a good day. Do you want

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Speaker 1: me to sew my mouth up?

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Speaker 2: Like you said? Dad? Kate, Kate dumped your conversation started.

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Speaker 3: This story when I saw it today, So I'm completely

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Speaker 3: I'm going to hear I'm backing you, now, are you?

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Speaker 3: Because I agree that when you people like to say

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Speaker 3: even be able to say I dumped them because in

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Speaker 3: some ways it's I am superior to that person. I

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Speaker 3: am better than that person. They should feel like a

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Speaker 3: piece of like they're just not worth anything, rather than

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Speaker 3: saying are we you know we called it quits. Yes,

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Speaker 3: it was my decision, but I think it'll be best

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Speaker 3: for both of us. No one says that stuff they don't.

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Speaker 1: People in pain deserve language. It supports dignity and compassion

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Speaker 1: and healing, not language that makes them feel like they're

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Speaker 1: not worthy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I get itan.

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Speaker 1: God, we've all been dumped. Technically, have you never been dumbed?

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Speaker 1: Of course I've been dumped. Everyone's been dumped. Yeah, you'd

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Speaker 1: be very lucky to go through life without being Maybe.

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Speaker 3: You're the dump. Maybe you all the serial dumper? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I mean, which is different to that person that was

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Speaker 3: running around.

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Speaker 1: Paper I don't mean like that one through Sydney as well?

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Speaker 2: What about the one that used to leave on out

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Speaker 2: in the front of Rocky said.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she's not the same one traveling from Brisbane

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Speaker 1: to Sydney on a tour of dumping. So have you

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Speaker 1: never been dumped? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I would have been.

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Speaker 2: You would now trying to think who was it? Give

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Speaker 2: us a name, first name.

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Speaker 3: I don't have my recollection of breakup.

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Speaker 1: I'd have to look through.

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Speaker 3: Easy. They never like, Yeah, did you.

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Speaker 2: Dump a majority of your ex relationships.

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Speaker 3: Is that what you're That's not what I'm saying, And

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Speaker 3: don't you I'm not even going to be made out

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Speaker 3: to see you the dumb that I'm saying that, because

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Speaker 3: then it'll be made into a promo and then I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: she films. She thinks she's boring because I had.

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Speaker 1: Been check it out. It's I mean, you flew all

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Speaker 1: the way to the US if you remember, only to

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Speaker 1: find that.

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Speaker 2: The scribed two and a half thousand dollars to go

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Speaker 2: and see, you know, a girl that I was in

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Speaker 2: love with, Kyler, And I got all the way there

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Speaker 2: and she said, I'm so glad you're here because I

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Speaker 2: needed to tell your face to face. I can't do

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Speaker 2: this anymore.

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Speaker 1: Dumped what you didn't get.

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Speaker 2: Back a week here? I don't believe in revenge.

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Speaker 1: You didn't make any international phone calls.

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Speaker 3: Oh this is interesting, Fitz.

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Speaker 2: What did you do? We're staying at our aunt and

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Speaker 2: uncle's house and I may have racked up about eight

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Speaker 2: thousand dollars worth of international course.

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