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Speaker 1: Well it's Thursday and we get to bless your ears

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Speaker 1: yet again.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for joining just for your girls.

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Speaker 1: Girls go on today's episode, we are doing moving out.

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Speaker 2: Moving out. Yeah, big girl stuff, big girl stuff.

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Speaker 1: I'm a big girl. I did not think I'd be

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Speaker 1: like this at twenty two.

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Speaker 2: No, I didn't think I'm twenty four. But I still

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Speaker 2: I hadn't not desired. I didn't. I was very lucky.

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Speaker 2: I could have stayed at home. The reason I did

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Speaker 2: move out is because I've mentioned this before. My parents

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Speaker 2: I divorced and I lived between their houses every week.

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Speaker 2: So I only moved out because I was like, I

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Speaker 2: live out of my suitcase and I've been doing that

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Speaker 2: since they divorced when I was in y eight, and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I can't be carrying a suitcase every week.

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Speaker 2: So I moved out. I live by my loansome. So

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Speaker 2: we both got two very different I feel like I.

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Speaker 1: Moved out at twenty because my parents were downgrading. I

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Speaker 1: could have lived with them, but at the time I

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Speaker 1: was in like a long term relationship and we were

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Speaker 1: like ready to take the next step. That didn't age well.

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Speaker 1: And if I could offer you one pair of advice,

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Speaker 1: really drag out moving in with partner.

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Speaker 2: I do agree with that. I to the partner no shit,

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Speaker 2: because they both suck. But I just.

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Speaker 1: Think I will now not live with someone unless I

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Speaker 1: know that I'm about to get engaged.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you've got so much ahead of you,

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Speaker 2: and it's like, why rush those little things because you'll

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Speaker 2: be living together for the rest of your life.

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Speaker 1: Yes, And it sounds like I'm all cute and fun,

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Speaker 1: but like I just think, really, now that I've lived,

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Speaker 1: I now live with two girls, and it is the best.

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Speaker 2: I have lived.

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Speaker 1: I've lived, but now I live with two girls and

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Speaker 1: it's honestly the best thing ever. And I'm so glad

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Speaker 1: now that I that part of my life ended so

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Speaker 1: I have had the opportunity to live with girls because

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Speaker 1: it is so fun. Like we all have our cute

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Speaker 1: like we will just sit around the tables, like last night,

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Speaker 1: like Lily and I sat down for like fifty minutes

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Speaker 1: just unboxing parcels and we went it for Nellie to

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Speaker 1: come home. It was our first Dave work. We all

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Speaker 1: had to hang out all weekend.

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Speaker 2: Like, yah, Sam's got a new roommate from Jeremany.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're all jeweling, go learning German to like really

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Speaker 1: just touching with the culture. Yeah, but she's amazing, and

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Speaker 1: it's just like so nice to have girls around. And

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Speaker 1: Lily has a boyfriends or her boyfriend comes around sometimes,

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Speaker 1: but like there's always someone in the house and yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's really nice. And we have Vinnie, Like it's just

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Speaker 1: such a cute little girl home. So if I can

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Speaker 1: recommend one thing, and one thing that I have learned

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Speaker 1: since moving out is really don't rush the process of

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Speaker 1: living with a partner. You can have them over every

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Speaker 1: couple of nights, you can go over to their house. Like, yes,

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Speaker 1: financially it might make sense, you guys living together, But

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Speaker 1: if you do have the opportunity to live with friends,

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Speaker 1: I definitely recommend, because you might not.

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Speaker 2: You can't. You probably won't be living with your girlfriends

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Speaker 2: when you're thirty and married. You know, you'll be living

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Speaker 2: I however, do not.

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Speaker 1: Like you're not a type of person that can people like.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I'm a very social person, but my downtime comes

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Speaker 2: the moment I open my front door, I'm like, I

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Speaker 2: don't want to talk to anyone. I like being alone,

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Speaker 2: Like I like being outwardly social, but I think my

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Speaker 2: recovery comes and I'm like home, Yeah, but you're.

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Speaker 1: Still those times like last night, I was like done

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, completely, I've done with you. I think I've

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Speaker 1: I moved from a house which I did actually feel

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can imagine, like I just feel like if

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Speaker 1: Your house is very secure, which is.

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Speaker 2: Really nice, So that would kind of be my one

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Speaker 1: Don't feel safe. I didn't consider that because I lived

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Speaker 1: really scary and really daunting. So really take your time.

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Speaker 1: If you have the luxury to really pick where you

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Speaker 1: And another thing is when if I can recommend anything,

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Speaker 1: do not live with her? No? You really like? I

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Speaker 1: don't like. I always say easy, and I have said

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Speaker 1: But I can never live with you, Oh, absolutely like.

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Speaker 1: It just wouldn't work. The dynamic of us wouldn't work.

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Speaker 1: We are very well aware of our environments and everything.

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Speaker 1: They mean two different things to us, And because we

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Speaker 1: with both my friends have full time jobs, they're out

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Speaker 2: I think living with people is a pressure cooker, and

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Speaker 2: funsily with my best friend, you really need to consider

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Speaker 2: how the dynamic is actually gonna work. Because a bunch

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Speaker 2: But they just had the best fucking time. They loved it, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I think that's what you need. Yeah, And I

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Speaker 1: So then make sure that you're always doing things with

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a question for you because I feel

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Speaker 2: how you would feel about boyfriends staying and eating and

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Speaker 1: So full transparency. Actually, I was going to move out

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Speaker 1: with Lily my housemate now before when Caleb and I

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Speaker 1: And then when I moved in with Lily, Lily was single.

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Speaker 1: Two weeks later she got into a relationship. Understood what

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Speaker 2: If you're not another boy there who's eating all the food,

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Speaker 1: Of our Baby's really good. He doesn't eat there like

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Speaker 1: he or if he does, he brings his own food,

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Speaker 1: so like if someone eats a packet of rice, like,

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Speaker 1: super lucky that Bailey is really respectful about environments. He

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Speaker 1: sometimes apologizes because he feels like he would you, well,

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Speaker 1: I would say if that yeah, because it's kind of

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Speaker 1: to walk around in my undies around my friends, and

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be like always have to be

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Speaker 1: worried that you're my boyfriend, Like your boyfriend's going to

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Speaker 2: We're using Lilian Bailey as examples. This situations don't relate

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Speaker 2: gone to work, and then Bailey's just like putting around

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Speaker 2: the kitchen like making eggs and bacon. It's like, well,

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Speaker 2: this isn't your fucking house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah go home? Yeah Yeah, I think I would if

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Speaker 1: if something did happen like that, I would kind of

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Speaker 2: I think with housemad's the best thing to do. I'm

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Speaker 2: not saying this experience obviously, but I would assume bring

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