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Speaker 1: The City and with Kate Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Tommy, you were waving your hand in the air panicking

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Speaker 2: because he received an email.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this time yesterday we were talking about far two

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Speaker 3: personal trainers in Robards was in here without his top on.

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Speaker 4: That he forgot to get dressed.

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Speaker 3: He was reading a passage from your the erotic novel

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Speaker 3: you've written, whib.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad to start too Far Too Personal Trainer. There

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Speaker 2: was some feedback online, some thinking it was called the

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Speaker 2: fart to Personal Trainer.

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Speaker 4: That was that was me and my diction.

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Speaker 1: Nothing to do with flatulence. The Far Too Personal Training.

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Speaker 2: Is an erotic novel about it?

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Speaker 5: You read a.

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Speaker 2: Personal trainer that has romantic moments with lots of lads.

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Speaker 4: I'm yet to hear anything erotic just quietly.

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Speaker 6: I mean, maybe it's maybe I'm too old for weak eroticism.

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Speaker 1: Don't let me the challenge.

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Speaker 7: It's the name of my band in high school.

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Speaker 1: That's just pretty high.

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Speaker 3: But we have and yesterday we had the great news guys,

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Speaker 3: because due to call a demand, we are going to

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Speaker 3: publish this wow pit print time hitting print on five

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Speaker 3: hundred copies for listeners.

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Speaker 5: Who's the publish incoming Penguin or published the publishing of

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Speaker 5: Sure Publication.

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Speaker 3: So stand by for more details on that. However, I

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Speaker 3: have received a rather I rate email from one of

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Speaker 3: our listeners, and we do love it when our listeners

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Speaker 3: do contact we go. Please feel free to reach out.

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Speaker 3: I would just read it as it goes. Hey, Fitzy,

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Speaker 3: Whopper and Kate longtime listener, first time email. Isn't that

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Speaker 3: a kid?

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Speaker 1: Except that's so cute?

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Speaker 3: This is from Phil. He says, I've been listening to

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Speaker 3: the erotic novel and I have a bone to pick

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Speaker 3: with Whip. I'm a personal trainer and I've been in

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Speaker 3: the industry for about four years, and it's fair to

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Speaker 3: say I have never hit on any of my clients.

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Speaker 1: Course filthy Phil says that.

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Speaker 3: He then says I trained many attractive women, but it's

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Speaker 3: far too dangerous to cross that line into anything as

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Speaker 3: launches what Whip is proposing in his novel. I'm worried

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Speaker 3: that this book is going to give us good pts

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Speaker 3: a bad reputation.

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Speaker 2: Hey, can I give your heads up because the article

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Speaker 2: I'm holding here Phil, if you're listening, the name's Whipper,

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Speaker 2: not Whopper. This article says one in four women admit

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Speaker 2: to snogging their personal trainer.

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Speaker 4: Their personal trainer, or just apt.

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Speaker 2: Female jim bunnies, which they're called fall in love with

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Speaker 2: their personal trainer.

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Speaker 3: So respectful, boy, I thought playboy was a long time ago.

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Speaker 2: One in four admits to having a kiss, seven percent

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Speaker 2: actually turning up the head in the bedroom and getting

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Speaker 2: it on with their personal trainer.

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Speaker 6: I did date a personal training from the gym, but

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Speaker 6: it wasn't my personal trainer. My personal trainer is lovely

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Speaker 6: and you know married.

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Speaker 1: Would to kiss him?

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Speaker 4: Two children? No, he's my friend.

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Speaker 1: What's his name?

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Speaker 4: Jason with a y?

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Speaker 1: So were you flirting with this PT at the time?

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Speaker 6: Okay, I mean you know, I don't really have to

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Speaker 6: throw it around.

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Speaker 4: I just sworn around these days.

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Speaker 1: Then did he ask you out on the date?

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Speaker 6: Or did you at the sandwich bar downstairs? We got

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Speaker 6: on the escalator together?

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Speaker 1: And then where did you kiss him? You've just been

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Speaker 1: sweating up a truth.

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Speaker 5: Then you're going down for a saying that's not a date, mate,

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Speaker 5: No that's not I'm not saying that's the date where

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Speaker 5: it was like a Hey, why didn't I see more

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Speaker 5: of you outside the trend?

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Speaker 1: You know, Hey, where did the kiss happen? Did you

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Speaker 1: hook up with them?

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Speaker 6: I dated them for a while, wow, about three months

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Speaker 6: or something. It was one of those relationships that get

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Speaker 6: to the three month mark and then it's best to

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Speaker 6: In fact, he told me to cheer up on the

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Speaker 6: day of my NaN's funeral, and so in my mind,

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Speaker 6: so in my mind, I thought, I mean, not that

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Speaker 6: I'm this kind of person at all cut and dry,

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Speaker 6: but I in my mind, I thought, Oh, you have

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Speaker 6: to go, and you have to go right now.

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Speaker 7: Do you still have the commando's number in you or

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Speaker 7: Michelle Bridges is called through received a furious email from

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Speaker 7: a guy called Phil saying, you're giving Personal Train as

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Speaker 7: a bad rap by.

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Speaker 2: Releasing the book The Far Too Personal Trainer because the

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Speaker 2: main character, Ben Holder, likes to hook up with women.

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Speaker 1: Phil.

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Speaker 2: The article here says one in four women had met

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Speaker 2: snogging their personal trainer. I'm not far off at am

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Speaker 2: ikt Richie, now.

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Speaker 4: Were you not?

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Speaker 6: And I hate to say that you might be on

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Speaker 6: the money with your book because I had a girlfriend

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Speaker 6: and she was telling me this exact story where not

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Speaker 6: only did they hook up or have a snog, but

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Speaker 6: they they got together and it was the undoing of

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Speaker 6: a family.

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Speaker 4: This woman was married. The husband. I mean this is

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Speaker 4: from the husband's point of view, so it's.

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Speaker 6: Probably skewed, but he was really supportive of his wife

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Speaker 6: back out there and going to the gym and having

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Speaker 6: time to herself after she finished having the family, you know,

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Speaker 6: three children under their belt, and he would give her

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Speaker 6: the time to go.

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Speaker 4: She started.

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Speaker 6: She was feeling better, becoming more fit, and feeling really

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Speaker 6: good in herself. And I guess in some ways, like

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Speaker 6: when you do dancing with the stars and you stare

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Speaker 6: into the eyes of your trainer, you think.

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Speaker 4: It's not it's.

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Speaker 6: Less about me and more about this person making my

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Speaker 6: life better. So this woman ended up having a full

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Speaker 6: on love affair with her trainer and the left of

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Speaker 6: the family. The marriage broke, the marriage broke down, and

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Speaker 6: he just wishes he'd never encouraged her to go out.

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Speaker 5: And you should see her, right, get down and give

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Speaker 5: me ten minutes of of your lips and then they've

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Speaker 5: straight into it.

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Speaker 1: You should see her. Wow, is it? Mikayla? Have I

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Speaker 1: got that ride in box Hill?

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Speaker 8: Yes?

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Speaker 1: You're a personal training yourself?

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Speaker 8: Yes?

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Speaker 1: And have you been quite successful as a personal trainer?

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Speaker 8: I was not anymore, but I am married to him.

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Speaker 8: So now your children.

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Speaker 4: Trained him in the gym and now you're training him

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Speaker 4: around the house.

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Speaker 5: Yep. In the industry, though, Mikayla, is it well known

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Speaker 5: or is it taboo?

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Speaker 2: Sorry Phil, Mikayla, can you tell me how it went

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Speaker 2: from training someone so you had them as a client

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Speaker 2: to actually the next step.

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Speaker 8: He was the one assisting, And I thought to myself, no,

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Speaker 8: I can't see that, You're it's fine and whatever, and

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Speaker 8: then I kind of thought, I'm am I to see

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Speaker 8: a little bit slinky and try and then anyways to

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Speaker 8: them being successful.

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Speaker 1: So wow, you know it's more than just one night

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Speaker 1: as cale.

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Speaker 4: It's not always sort.

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