1
00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:02,360
Speaker 1: But if she's a friend of yours.

2
00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:04,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, and if she's fucking comfortable and I'm asking for

3
00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:06,440
Speaker 2: the reason you should be comfortable, and I'm telling her

4
00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:07,640
Speaker 2: you're not interested.

5
00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:13,800
Speaker 1: Surely you can do it. Hi, guys, welcome back.

6
00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:16,919
Speaker 2: My name is easy Almited, your host today, and this

7
00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:20,000
Speaker 2: is our mini episode. We have a bunch of dilemmas

8
00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,800
Speaker 2: from you, guys, and I'm excited just to get right

9
00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:23,439
Speaker 2: into them.

10
00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:26,120
Speaker 3: You know what, I put on a run sheet. The

11
00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,240
Speaker 3: theme of this week is short and sweet. Okay, these

12
00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:32,840
Speaker 3: are like short, sharp but interesting ones.

13
00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:35,120
Speaker 2: All right, so let's just get right into it.

14
00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:36,320
Speaker 3: Do you want me to read them to you?

15
00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:40,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? Fuck it? Go on, bite, let's go.

16
00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,720
Speaker 3: Okay. My sister won't stop going back to boys who

17
00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,040
Speaker 3: treat her like shit. I've told her so many times,

18
00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,920
Speaker 3: and I've tried my best, but nothing's working. What do

19
00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:51,600
Speaker 3: I do because her mental health gets so bad and

20
00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:54,040
Speaker 3: I end up coping with every bad emotion she has

21
00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,000
Speaker 3: because of it. By the way, love is so much

22
00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:57,960
Speaker 3: been there since day.

23
00:00:57,840 --> 00:00:59,279
Speaker 1: One, Thanks honeybun.

24
00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:03,120
Speaker 2: Honestly, I think we all have a friend like that,

25
00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:05,360
Speaker 2: like more than one friend.

26
00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:07,120
Speaker 3: Your friend, family member, even.

27
00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,720
Speaker 2: I've been that girl with a certain guy back in

28
00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:12,720
Speaker 2: the day. Do you know what I mean? I wish

29
00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:16,520
Speaker 2: I could tell you a good answer, but you cannot.

30
00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,759
Speaker 2: There's nothing you can do. Sadly, there is actually nothing

31
00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:24,039
Speaker 2: you can do. And even I find that when you

32
00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,639
Speaker 2: are really adamant that they don't go back to someone

33
00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,240
Speaker 2: or stay away from X y Z or do this

34
00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,440
Speaker 2: to that, they then start hiding things from you and

35
00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,920
Speaker 2: lying to you and then become resentful towards you because

36
00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,119
Speaker 2: they can't and they can't speak to you anymore about

37
00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:38,679
Speaker 2: what's going on.

38
00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:39,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, their problems.

39
00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,800
Speaker 2: There is actually fucking nothing you can do but sit, listen,

40
00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:44,520
Speaker 2: try and be a good friend and hope one day

41
00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:46,520
Speaker 2: they'll snap out of it. I know, it's so like

42
00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:48,400
Speaker 2: literally there's no answer.

43
00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, you need to play the long game with your

44
00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,120
Speaker 3: friend as well. As you said, you can't scare them away,

45
00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,400
Speaker 3: and like, I know there's some very honest people that

46
00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:57,920
Speaker 3: are happy just to like give it them in their but.

47
00:01:57,880 --> 00:01:59,440
Speaker 2: Like and be like, fuck this, I'm not dealing with

48
00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,120
Speaker 2: this anymore. But like, is that do you want to

49
00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,760
Speaker 2: lose your friend? Because you probably will? Yeah, because these

50
00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,520
Speaker 2: people they're dealing with are usually very manipulative, very toxic

51
00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:07,880
Speaker 2: and are probably going to be the ones they always

52
00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,320
Speaker 2: end up running back to. So at least you want

53
00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,679
Speaker 2: to be in their life enough that they can come

54
00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,080
Speaker 2: to you if they need it. I just think you

55
00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:17,800
Speaker 2: really kind of just need to listen, and you know,

56
00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,359
Speaker 2: don't I'm not saying be like, yeah, good on your

57
00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,400
Speaker 2: gol like go back to him, like you can definitely

58
00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:24,200
Speaker 2: be like, I really don't think this is right for you,

59
00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:25,760
Speaker 2: Like how many times are you going to let this

60
00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:27,920
Speaker 2: poor treat you like this? But they need to at

61
00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,480
Speaker 2: least kind of know that you're there if they do

62
00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:32,320
Speaker 2: go back and it does go to shit again, which

63
00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:34,920
Speaker 2: it does, and it will sadly, sadly.

64
00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:38,000
Speaker 3: Sure effective tip for me because we want to make

65
00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:41,360
Speaker 3: the listener feel better. Obviously you can't completely erase this,

66
00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:43,960
Speaker 3: but I do find my friends and family that are

67
00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,680
Speaker 3: very obsessed with, you know, heartbreak or what they're going through.

68
00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,400
Speaker 3: I usually provide them stimulus because I find people going

69
00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,239
Speaker 3: through breakups love to read, love to listen to podcasts,

70
00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:56,079
Speaker 3: and like becomes their favorite uni subject love they're going

71
00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:59,239
Speaker 3: through it. It's just like give her on Attachment. Everyone

72
00:02:59,280 --> 00:02:59,960
Speaker 3: loves that book.

73
00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:02,800
Speaker 1: Everything I've read some sort of breakup books.

74
00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:04,720
Speaker 2: I had a breakup book that really helped me through

75
00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:05,480
Speaker 2: my last breaker.

76
00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,160
Speaker 3: I think I read a Breakup Boss by Zoe Foster

77
00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,679
Speaker 3: Blake once. I think I was like nineteen and had

78
00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:13,920
Speaker 3: my first heartbreak.

79
00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:15,560
Speaker 1: It like really helped me.

80
00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:17,919
Speaker 2: It may have also been Breakup Boss to.

81
00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:18,680
Speaker 1: Be completely honest.

82
00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,120
Speaker 3: Oh my god, twin.

83
00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:22,160
Speaker 1: Like it was really like it's kind of a fun

84
00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:22,840
Speaker 1: book to read.

85
00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,600
Speaker 3: Was it in like steps and like chapters as to

86
00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:27,680
Speaker 3: how the breakup go so f yeah, we read the

87
00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:28,120
Speaker 3: same thing.

88
00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, so maybe if she goes through a little breakup,

89
00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:33,480
Speaker 2: give that to her. It might maybe lead her on

90
00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,800
Speaker 2: path for the next guy, so she's not continuously going

91
00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,080
Speaker 2: back to the same old Yeah.

92
00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:39,680
Speaker 3: It's a learning journey, it is, but we.

93
00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,600
Speaker 2: All get there eventually, hopefully.

94
00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,680
Speaker 3: I feel like I can't find my true friends slash

95
00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,600
Speaker 3: best friends because I don't have a friendship group. I'm

96
00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:51,800
Speaker 3: always on the outer skirts of groups of three, and

97
00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:53,920
Speaker 3: I don't know how to make new friends because no

98
00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,480
Speaker 3: one seems to want to make friends these days. I'm

99
00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,600
Speaker 3: wondering how I should go about this. I want to

100
00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:01,960
Speaker 3: meet my soul sister and go to person. Don't get

101
00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,360
Speaker 3: me wrong, I love my friends, but I feel like

102
00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:06,720
Speaker 3: I'm on the outer skirts all the time. I just

103
00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,880
Speaker 3: want to feel important, loved and valued. I was thinking

104
00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,360
Speaker 3: of going on a kentiki in Europe, but I'm unsure

105
00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:14,440
Speaker 3: because I'd rather go to all the beaches and stuff.

106
00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,719
Speaker 2: I've never done a kentiki, so I'm not sure what

107
00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:21,240
Speaker 2: the point of difference is there with normal traveling, except

108
00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:22,719
Speaker 2: for the fact that I know you'd be in a group.

109
00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:26,120
Speaker 2: I'll say I felt a lot like that growing up

110
00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:27,680
Speaker 2: as well. You're always going to I feel like a

111
00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,440
Speaker 2: lot of people always feel like the third of a three.

112
00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,720
Speaker 2: I think it's more common than you would think it

113
00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:37,280
Speaker 2: would be. I would say the best advice I can

114
00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:40,440
Speaker 2: give is effort. If there's someone in that group that

115
00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,240
Speaker 2: you really like spending time with, but maybe you don't

116
00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,279
Speaker 2: feel like you're hanging out with them much like be

117
00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:46,480
Speaker 2: texting them, put effort in, like, just try and make

118
00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:49,680
Speaker 2: those connections stronger. Even maybe you do something you love

119
00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:51,880
Speaker 2: and try and find someone with a mutual hobby from you,

120
00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:53,600
Speaker 2: and maybe you can find a best friend that's like

121
00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:55,679
Speaker 2: completely new and from a different group.

122
00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:57,600
Speaker 1: Like what's what's some hobbies?

123
00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:01,440
Speaker 3: I don't really have any of those walking pilates pilarates.

124
00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:03,440
Speaker 2: You might meet a polarate's best friend. Maybe you can

125
00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:06,919
Speaker 2: join a book club, maybe you can start doing a

126
00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:09,240
Speaker 2: netball after school, like some of my friends do that shit.

127
00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:12,400
Speaker 2: And I just think it's very easy to sit around

128
00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:14,720
Speaker 2: and expect everyone to invite you to everything and get

129
00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:18,039
Speaker 2: upset when they don't. It is a way it's harder

130
00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:21,120
Speaker 2: for the person inviting to remember fucking everyone, you know

131
00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:23,520
Speaker 2: what I mean. You need to be in the forefront,

132
00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,400
Speaker 2: putting in effort, and I think those connections will build stronger.

133
00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,599
Speaker 2: And right now, I think finding that best friend will

134
00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:32,279
Speaker 2: be something like finding the love of your life.

135
00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:33,920
Speaker 1: I think they'll fallll it literally.

136
00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:37,120
Speaker 3: A little bit, and like your intuition, usually it is

137
00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,640
Speaker 3: mostly right, But just like when you're feeling on the

138
00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,560
Speaker 3: outskirts of this group of three, maybe it is a

139
00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:46,159
Speaker 3: bit internalized because if they have history, the friendship to

140
00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:47,920
Speaker 3: those three is probably going to be a lot more natural.

141
00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:50,279
Speaker 3: It just doesn't feel natural for you yet. But time

142
00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:51,719
Speaker 3: is the biggest hiller, right.

143
00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:55,800
Speaker 2: I honestly just find effort and texting and calling and like,

144
00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:59,159
Speaker 2: forming those bonds deeper is the way I've always gotten

145
00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:00,160
Speaker 2: closer to people.

146
00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:03,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's no like big experience or something that needs

147
00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:06,000
Speaker 3: to happen for you to like break through. Like there

148
00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:07,440
Speaker 3: will just be a day where you're like, ah, this

149
00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:07,960
Speaker 3: is natural.

150
00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:10,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, even at work, Like my sister's met some of

151
00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,080
Speaker 2: her best friends. She was just at her best friend's wedding.

152
00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,480
Speaker 2: They met a gum tree at like a grocery store

153
00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:15,320
Speaker 2: like five years ago.

154
00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,640
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? Like, you can meet

155
00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:18,520
Speaker 1: people anywhere.

156
00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:21,200
Speaker 2: I just think putting in the time and effort and

157
00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,080
Speaker 2: showing people that you want to spend time with them

158
00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:24,359
Speaker 2: and you want to talk to them and be around

159
00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:26,000
Speaker 2: them is like the closest way to like and the

160
00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:27,599
Speaker 2: easiest way to kind of make that bond.

161
00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:28,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

162
00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:30,239
Speaker 3: And as for kentiki, I've never been on one.

163
00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:31,680
Speaker 2: But I haven't either, but I think if you do

164
00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,400
Speaker 2: want to meet new people, that might actually be a

165
00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:34,680
Speaker 2: really fun experience.

166
00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:34,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

167
00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,080
Speaker 3: And I think it's super common for people to go

168
00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:40,000
Speaker 3: solo and I think, don't quote me, you can go

169
00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:43,720
Speaker 3: on specifically solo ones. Yeah, and don't worry about like

170
00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,560
Speaker 3: the beaches and things. I think you can get like

171
00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:47,560
Speaker 3: three day kentikies.

172
00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:47,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

173
00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:49,680
Speaker 2: And I think my friend Hannah has been on a

174
00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:52,520
Speaker 2: Kentikian liked her. It's like, even if you go with

175
00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,080
Speaker 2: like I don't know two other girls, and I'm sure

176
00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:57,279
Speaker 2: you'll meet another group of girls on that Kentiki and

177
00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:58,680
Speaker 2: you can all become friends, and you em and know

178
00:06:58,720 --> 00:06:59,520
Speaker 2: one of the other girls.

179
00:06:59,440 --> 00:06:59,880
Speaker 1: Might become you.

180
00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:03,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then while you're in Europe, like my boyfriend

181
00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:05,400
Speaker 3: went on a Kentucky, I made plans with friends that

182
00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:07,000
Speaker 3: he met on the Kentucky after that.

183
00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that will probably. I think that's actually a

184
00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:10,119
Speaker 1: good shout.

185
00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:13,320
Speaker 2: If you're looking to meet people and potentially meet the

186
00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,560
Speaker 2: one true love friends.

187
00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:16,840
Speaker 1: Maybe try the Kentucky.

188
00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:22,160
Speaker 3: But you got this girl? Yeah, all right, I'm finishing

189
00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:23,280
Speaker 3: on a really juicy one.

190
00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:23,880
Speaker 1: All right? Good?

191
00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:26,080
Speaker 3: Hey is he? Please help me?

192
00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:26,760
Speaker 1: Thank you?

193
00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,440
Speaker 3: Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year

194
00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:32,720
Speaker 3: and a half. Within the last year, my best friend

195
00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:36,120
Speaker 3: of almost five years keeps getting drunk and asking us

196
00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:39,080
Speaker 3: more hymn, specifically for a three songs.

197
00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,240
Speaker 1: Oh my god, get out this get out. That is

198
00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:42,800
Speaker 1: not a friend.

199
00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:45,880
Speaker 3: This obviously makes me upset, but she only does it

200
00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,200
Speaker 3: when she's drunk, and I feel weird bringing it up

201
00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:51,120
Speaker 3: after Please help me. My boyfriend and I have tried

202
00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,440
Speaker 3: to set boundaries with her, but it still doesn't sit

203
00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:54,000
Speaker 3: right with me.

204
00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:56,960
Speaker 1: Okay, god dangn mo things.

205
00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:00,440
Speaker 2: Yes, you may feel awkward, but you absolutely to bring

206
00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,960
Speaker 2: that up. I would bring it up the day after

207
00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:07,400
Speaker 2: or two days after so the hangover anxiety for her settles.

208
00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:08,080
Speaker 1: This girl.

209
00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,880
Speaker 2: Bear in mind, would no one remember that she said

210
00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,280
Speaker 2: these things? Surely, especially if she's saying it time and

211
00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,360
Speaker 2: time again, or she's at least fucking thinking it. You

212
00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:18,440
Speaker 2: need to ask her why she says that and tell her,

213
00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,920
Speaker 2: tell her just straight out. It makes me really uncomfortable.

214
00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:22,680
Speaker 2: I appreciate if you didn't ask that. We're not interested

215
00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,720
Speaker 2: in doing that. You know, you know, I love you,

216
00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:26,480
Speaker 2: but I don't really understand why you're saying that, Like,

217
00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:29,600
Speaker 2: it's making me feel really weird. If she does it again,

218
00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:31,720
Speaker 2: and beyond that, we'll reassess the friendship, do.

219
00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:32,360
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

220
00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:35,200
Speaker 2: But I think you need to tell her that you

221
00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:36,040
Speaker 2: know she said that.

222
00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:38,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't think it's a problem that's going

223
00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:38,640
Speaker 3: to go away.

224
00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,880
Speaker 2: You need to bring it to her attention. And that

225
00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:43,720
Speaker 2: is something you need to do for the benefit of

226
00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:45,960
Speaker 2: your relationship. And I know it's scary, but you absolutely

227
00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:49,560
Speaker 2: have to two. Do we ever look inside and wonder

228
00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:51,680
Speaker 2: maybe why she's saying it? Do you know what I mean?

229
00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:53,880
Speaker 2: So I think we need to start while talking to her,

230
00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,480
Speaker 2: because what if she's like, oh, your boyfriend's been saying

231
00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:59,800
Speaker 2: that to me. Hopefully that's not the case totally. You

232
00:08:59,880 --> 00:09:01,679
Speaker 2: just really need to talk to her, and you need

233
00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:04,960
Speaker 2: to do it when you're sober and when she's not,

234
00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:08,559
Speaker 2: not directly the day after, but come at it kindly

235
00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:11,640
Speaker 2: so of there is so she met like, because sometimes

236
00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:12,680
Speaker 2: she might bounce back.

237
00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:13,839
Speaker 1: And just be like, yeah, well he wants to have

238
00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:15,760
Speaker 1: a the reason with me, and like maybe he doesn't,

239
00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:16,080
Speaker 1: you know.

240
00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,640
Speaker 2: I just think just come at it from a friendship

241
00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:20,960
Speaker 2: perspective of like, you know, I love you, like I

242
00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:22,800
Speaker 2: know you don't mean it badly, but it's just been

243
00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:25,160
Speaker 2: a couple of times hours making me feel a bit uncomfortable.

244
00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,000
Speaker 2: So like, I'd appreciate if you could just stop, because

245
00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:28,719
Speaker 2: we're not interested in doing that.

246
00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was an interesting point before because when she

247
00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:34,840
Speaker 3: said me and my boyfriend had tried to set boundaries,

248
00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:36,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, I wonder what he's actually done, because like

249
00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,480
Speaker 3: he very well could. But from what I'm seeing from

250
00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,760
Speaker 3: this short message like it doesn't really suggest anything, so

251
00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:45,680
Speaker 3: one would almost, yeah, want to confront it from that angle,

252
00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:47,840
Speaker 3: just like, is there something more here that I'm not

253
00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:51,360
Speaker 3: aware of? And I wouldn't feel uncomfortable, Like it's obviously

254
00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:53,800
Speaker 3: not an ideal situation, but you obviously if.

255
00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:55,760
Speaker 2: She's a friend of yours, Yeah, and if she's fucking

256
00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,160
Speaker 2: comfortable and I've asked her brothers, she should be comfortable.

257
00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,440
Speaker 2: En I'm telling her you're not interested, Sure you can

258
00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:01,679
Speaker 2: do it. I believe in you.

259
00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:02,720
Speaker 3: Wow, that's juicy.

260
00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:03,520
Speaker 1: That is juicy.

261
00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:10,720
Speaker 2: Al Right, guys, that was the MINISOD. Miss you guys,

262
00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:12,600
Speaker 2: and I will chat to you soon and you can

263
00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:14,240
Speaker 2: hear me on hear me out of course.

264
00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:15,719
Speaker 1: All right, bye guys, Love you