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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.

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Speaker 2: You are about to be a part of something historic.

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Speaker 2: You're going to be a part of a global radio

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Speaker 2: premiere because the songs I am going to play you

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Speaker 2: have never ever been played before on live radio, and

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Speaker 2: eighty eight point seven KBVR is the station that's going

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Speaker 2: to be doing it relatable.

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Speaker 3: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself Audie Clark ak Mummy,

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Speaker 3: and my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig aka.

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Speaker 1: Daddy and Oddie is Mummy because he's when you go

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Speaker 1: to when you're feel a lots out, and Jake is

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Speaker 1: the one you go to because he can't say no

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Speaker 1: to the baddies, and you guys listening are our baddies

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Speaker 1: and guys.

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Speaker 3: The energy in the room today is top of the scale,

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Speaker 3: Like I can breathe fire.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, who this is exciting.

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Speaker 3: The composure composer we've got I have we have party

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Speaker 3: poppers ready. Because this has been a five week journey

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Speaker 3: or this week six, it.

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Speaker 1: Could be we gave ourselves. I think it's week five.

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Speaker 3: This is week mate, We're beating the TI. This is

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Speaker 3: week five of trying to get one of our three

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Speaker 3: songs from the EP Batty on the radio, and we

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Speaker 3: think it's happening in exactly six minutes.

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Speaker 1: But we know it's happening in six minutes. We're waiting

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Speaker 1: for all three.

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Speaker 3: To be played by a lovely baddie named Lisa on

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Speaker 3: the radio station.

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Speaker 1: It is KBVR FM, and.

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Speaker 3: We think she's going to be playing it for a

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Speaker 3: whole hour, yes, which is super, super exciting.

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Speaker 1: But how are you feeling, Jake, I'm feeling very good,

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Speaker 1: and I just don't want to miss anything.

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Speaker 3: We've got six minutes out. I just want to start

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Speaker 3: playing it now so we make sure we catch everything.

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Speaker 3: So we're not going to mess around. Guys, this has

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Speaker 3: been a fucking journey. We're so excited to share it

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Speaker 3: with you. But just see what happens ten playing an

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Speaker 1: To miss anything.

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Speaker 4: Just keep going anytime anywhere they get on. The polics

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Speaker 2: Okay, Please Hello, Hello everyone, Leaspy Monday. You're tuned into

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Speaker 2: eighty eight point seven KBBR Core Vallas. I'm Lisa hold

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Speaker 2: Brand and I'm going to be your host for this

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Speaker 2: upcoming hour, and I got to tell you everyone, I'm

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Speaker 2: who is listening, that's you listeners, you are about to

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Speaker 2: be a part of something historic. You're going to be

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Speaker 2: I am going to play you have never ever been

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Speaker 2: I know you're probably all freaking out right now, just

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Speaker 2: a newly released EP called Baddie. The songs have been

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Speaker 2: written and performed by two amazing Australian dudes called Jake

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Speaker 2: Craig and Audie Clark. They are the hosts of a

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Speaker 2: podcast called Relatables. Relatables is a conversational podcast where Jake

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Speaker 2: and Audie discuss relationships and love and just life in general,

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Speaker 2: and they do it with a very feminist sort of

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Speaker 5: Which is very refreshing.

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Speaker 2: It's it's hilarious, it's informative and wholesome, but most of all,

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Speaker 2: it's relatable. So yeah, just a plug there, give them

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Speaker 2: a listen. You won't you won't regret it.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of fun anyway. So Jake and Audie

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Speaker 2: they've created this EP of songs based on some of

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Speaker 2: and Audie have recorded a special message for everyone listening

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Speaker 5: The way from Australia.

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Speaker 2: And then right after you hear their little message, you

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Speaker 2: will hear the first song from the EC which is

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Speaker 2: called Love a Boy's Version. So get ready, everyone, hold

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Speaker 2: on to your horses. You are about to be part

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Speaker 6: Enjoy.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, it's Jake and Audio from the Relatable and

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Speaker 1: we're so excited to have our EP debuting on the

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Speaker 3: This AP is called Battie, featuring three songs, Love a

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Speaker 3: for everyone.

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Speaker 1: We hope you enjoy.

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Speaker 7: Es it. Man, I think I'm in love.

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Speaker 8: Come on, be realistic.

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Speaker 3: Wait, no, I'm serious.

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Speaker 8: I think this one's different.

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Speaker 7: That's what you said the last time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, for the last time, I didn't feel I think we.

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Speaker 9: Set out makes deep, that two starts lasting.

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Speaker 7: You're only twenty four.

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Speaker 8: That I felt something, but don't feel whole. Maybe I

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Speaker 10: Ah like this, No, so I don't want gave me

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Speaker 8: A smile live.

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Speaker 7: Like two stars.

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Speaker 11: Last time the child that stop what if I love

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Speaker 8: What if?

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Speaker 3: That is my.

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Speaker 8: What if? I if you take the chance, then take me.

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Speaker 8: It's real. Hell, I can't despis sive.

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Speaker 11: Guys were like two stars lasting to each other.

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Speaker 10: But this time it's red Hill.

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Speaker 8: And that's im a chance on that need to go.

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Speaker 8: Maybe it's friend was me man, I think, I.

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Speaker 7: Think I'm in love.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: So that was the first time that Love a Boys

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Speaker 5: I just I love that song.

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Speaker 2: I can't you just picture a crowd full of people

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Speaker 5: Phone lights from left to right and swaying. It's just

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna we're gonna keep on going here With

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Speaker 2: the second song from the e P this one is

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Speaker 5: It's like I said.

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Speaker 1: This is his p O V.

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Speaker 12: Yeah yeah, always missing in ambition, walking circles in my room,

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Speaker 8: She lets his jokes, but she's texting me to today's

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: I know that she's ready, that's ano fact. But do

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Speaker 7: I've been waiting what to do? You told me yet

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Speaker 3: I was like, you mean right, Maybe it's stupid, maybe

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Speaker 6: I'm almost right, but never quiet and enough to find

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Speaker 6: Why can't we give this a try?

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Speaker 7: When you spray way way, my.

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Speaker 1: Gosh, it's c O B.

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Speaker 5: I love that one.

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Speaker 2: It's so it's so fun, it's a rocky. So many

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Speaker 2: at his joke, but she's texting me too.

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Speaker 5: I just love it. It makes me. It makes me

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Speaker 5: laugh every single time because it's so relatable. Am I right?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: For the third and final song of the EP, You

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Speaker 5: Right, here we go, He's well, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know how to liver in the eyes.

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Speaker 13: Is the effort even worth this time? I missed the

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Speaker 13: way we talked all night. Now it's just silence on

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Speaker 13: you're chasing shadows that could never look like He's smiling,

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Speaker 8: People think condo.

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Speaker 6: Lulu, don't you the sweet illusion? But we cracked in

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Speaker 6: the haze of your confusion. Don't want you to be here,

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Speaker 8: To be equal, just want you to be you. Then

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Speaker 7: Smoking my lungs bad.

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Speaker 1: It's not from the flame?

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Speaker 8: Is the way we went?

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Speaker 7: Now?

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Speaker 1: No one to blame.

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Speaker 14: You told me you had it off, and now you

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Speaker 14: barely call our root. Played the nights with the UFO post.

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Speaker 14: Now let's use your voice through with die with tone?

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Speaker 14: Was it ever real or was it just blood? Because

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Speaker 6: On red and caught the time trying to hold.

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Speaker 8: On to the sweet illusion?

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Speaker 1: But we crab your computation.

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Speaker 8: Don't want you to be Hi, don't be the behicle,

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Speaker 8: Just want you to be.

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Speaker 1: Then we can start again.

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Speaker 13: You say you're fine, but I know your tone. We

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Speaker 13: but I kept the king, still holding on to what

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Speaker 8: I guess it turned into that shadow, just not the

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Speaker 7: I guess some love face.

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Speaker 8: Did you even fine to hold on to the sweet illusion?

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Speaker 8: But were cracking the hate of your confusion? Don't want

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Speaker 8: you to be his? I don't need to vehicle, just

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Speaker 13: Then we can start again.

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Speaker 8: To hold on to the sweet allusion. But we're cracking

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Speaker 3: the gym and I felt hot, Yeah, bit of sexy.

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00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,160
Speaker 3: It wasn't a sexy came on and I felt hot, yeah,

444
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:43,680
Speaker 3: felt a bit naughty someone next to me.

445
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know if I should be

446
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 1: next to anyone.

447
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 3: I've listened to the gym and a couple of times,

448
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,960
Speaker 3: and I just think this is one of those prime

449
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 3: moments where you know people are thinking, he's.

450
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: Probably just listening to the hip hop or something.

451
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 8: Not at all.

452
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 1: I mean, to be fair, I was gonna say, it's

453
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 1: not I'm listening to a fucking ten out of ten stories,

454
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 1: Sarah J.

455
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 3: Matt, I'm lost in pretty okay, But up next, guys,

456
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 3: is ig Question of the Week and we've got something

457
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 3: a little bit different. So this is tell us what

458
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 3: he did, and we'll tell you if it's boyfriend or

459
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 3: situationship energy.

460
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 8: Yeah.

461
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 3: So there's a lot of actions that men have done

462
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 3: in like said stage, boyfriend or situationship, and we're going

463
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 3: to get to the bottom of them. Do you want

464
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 3: me to go first or you you go first? Okay,

465
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 3: tell us something he did. He told me it's ordinary

466
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 3: to love the beautiful, but it's beautiful to love the ordinary.

467
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 1: I want to can we change situationship to fuck boys?

468
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:52,360
Speaker 1: I feel like we can add that in there.

469
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 3: That's something a fuck boy would say. Oh, I was

470
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 3: thinking the opposite of that. It's ordinary to the beautiful,

471
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 3: but it's beautiful to.

472
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: Love the ordinary. It's giving boy. That's red Marcus Aurelia. Yeah, bro, Well,

473
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 1: but if he's actually telling the truth, it's kind of

474
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: like boyfriends. It's on the fence. But I think it's

475
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 1: slightly too cringe. That's fuck boys.

476
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 3: I just think that because it's so unoriginal. Yes, no,

477
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 3: no one's gonna people don't think like that cliche.

478
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,639
Speaker 1: It seems to be. Yeah, that's like a very He

479
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 1: definitely saw that somewhere. He definitely didn't come up with

480
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 1: that because it's not original. I'm gonna go with fun

481
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: boy because he's trying to sweep.

482
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 3: Right, Okay, we'll add that in there, dy boys in there.

483
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 1: And again, the cool thing about this, right is so

484
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,920
Speaker 1: we said, we asked everyone tell us something that he did.

485
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: So we said, we'll give our opinions of one of

486
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 1: those boyfriend energy situationship an energy, and we're going to

487
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 1: add fun boy energy. The the cool thing is they

488
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 1: didn't tell us that it was their like if it

489
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: was their boyfriend they said it, or their situationship that

490
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: said it. And so the funny thing is is some

491
00:27:58,400 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 1: of these things could have been said by a situation

492
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 1: and we're going to say it's boyfriend energy, and they're

493
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 1: going to be thinking, well, why hasn't he asked me

494
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 1: to be his girlfriend?

495
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 9: Then?

496
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 1: And the same goes for if it's something a guy

497
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 1: said and we said and it's a boyfriend and but

498
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 1: he we're like that situationship energy. This girl's gonna be thinking,

499
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to get anyone, you know, spiraling, but

500
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 1: I also want to get people thinking.

501
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 3: But it's also good because the people who sent these

502
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 3: in sometimes do spial, especially in situationship scenarios. Yeah, and

503
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 3: we are like a third point of view who can

504
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 3: tell the honest truth. And normally people around you have

505
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 3: to be nice and beat around the bush, but we can.

506
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 1: Just be like, hey, he's a fuck boy. That's a

507
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 1: good point. Yeah, okay, so he took me to five

508
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: of his friend's weddings. Five boyfriend material for sure, boyfriend

509
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 1: energy for sure. I would say one's borderline even one.

510
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 1: I think it's such a personable thing. I think taking

511
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 1: someone to a wedding, well in movies. I know, life

512
00:28:56,040 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: isn't a movie, but for some reason, maybe it's an

513
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: American thing or different family type thing, but you get

514
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: invited to a wedding, and quite often I think traditionally

515
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 1: you go to something like that with someone. Yeah, but traditionally,

516
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: so I we're not traditional anymore, but traditionally you go

517
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 1: to something like that with a date. So I think

518
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 1: sometimes it's actually not uncommon to just ask someone, say

519
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:26,239
Speaker 1: someone you've been on two dates with you go, hey,

520
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: I get my friend's wedding, would you like to be

521
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: my plus one?

522
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 3: Also date contradictory of that, though, like I see, a

523
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 3: wedding is such a personal thing, and like I only

524
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 3: want people actually know yeah or like have met. I

525
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 3: don't want some randy here, like it's oh yeah, this

526
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 3: is my date.

527
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: Who the fuck's at. I wouldn't go to a good

528
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: friends whe for like a third date. No, no, no, no, personally,

529
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 1: but some people do. I do think it's an American thing.

530
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 9: I do.

531
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 3: Also, I feel like their weddings would be fucking huge.

532
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 3: Everything's bigger in Texas.

533
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: That's very true. But I'm going to say, this is boyfriend.

534
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, okay, tell us something he did sent me

535
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 3: a picture of himself on the toilet with the catch

536
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 3: just caption hashtag birthing, Oh boyfriend, Yeah, that's boyfriend energy,

537
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 3: confident boyfriend.

538
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: Birthing. Yeah, taking a ship and sending a photo to

539
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 1: someone and saying birthing is crazy. He couldn't do that

540
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 1: in the situationship stage. She would run. Definitely could not

541
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: do that. But he got way too comfortable, way too quick.

542
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's fucking fine. Do you remember did

543
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 1: our friend group grow through a phase where they started

544
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: sending video like a photo of our ships to our group? Yeah?

545
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 7: I do.

546
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 3: I feel like I think it was in the mix

547
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 3: of COVID yeah for some reason I remember, and everyone

548
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 3: was like, yeah, good one.

549
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 1: Photos of big ones getting sent in it's so gross. Okay,

550
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: tell us something he did. Well, tell you if it's

551
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: boyfriend energy, situations, your energy, or fuck boy energy. Unfollowed

552
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: every girl on Insta when we started dating didn't even.

553
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 3: Have to ask boyfriend's boyfriend boyfriend. Yeah, that's a good man,

554
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 3: especially because she didn't have to ask.

555
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, just randomly calls me just to hear me.

556
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: Ooh here you what voice? Yeah, randomly calls you just

557
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: to hear you. I'm gonna say boyfriend. And the reason

558
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: I say yeah, that's boyfriend energy regardless, because that's kind

559
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 1: of another level of saying. That's like saying that your

560
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: voice calms me, your voice makes me feel Goodah, soothing.

561
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: That's something a boyfriend should be doing, so he better

562
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: be making it official.

563
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 9: Girl.

564
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 1: Okay, he said he loved me after the first date.

565
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 8: Ye.

566
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:01,719
Speaker 1: I don't think that's boyfriend material, love bomb. I think

567
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 1: that's break up material. It is.

568
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 3: I understanding if someone said that to me on a

569
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 3: first date, I'm like, oh, okay, yeah, imagine how nice

570
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 3: to meet you. You watched you watched our mate my mother. Yeah,

571
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 3: Ted Mosby, Yeah he did that.

572
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: On the first day. He runs back to a restaurant,

573
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: picks up that blue trumpet, steals that shit, gives it

574
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: a robin.

575
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's like, I love you well yeah, and

576
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 3: then for fucking nine seasons nothing happens between.

577
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 1: I feel like every friendship group has a friend like

578
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: Ted Moseby.

579
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 8: Yeah.

580
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 1: Who's the house we know? Becan't I think I can?

581
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 1: I know definitely who you think it is. Yeah, yeah,

582
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 1: I know who I think it is. Is it different?

583
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 7: No?

584
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,239
Speaker 1: No, no, no no, I just think that we may

585
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: have more than one.

586
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 3: It's cute but also cringe. All right, tell us something

587
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 3: he did. He offered to wipe my running nose on

588
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 3: his T shirt when I didn't have a tissue.

589
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 1: Oh boyfriend energy?

590
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 8: Yeah? Is it though?

591
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't it be new boyfriend energy? New boyfriend, new boyfriend?

592
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 1: And you wouldn't do that?

593
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 8: Now?

594
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 7: Fuck? No? Really?

595
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: Best you want to wipe your want on me? You're

596
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 1: snort on my T shirt? How wout I teach you

597
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: how to fucking snot rocket? Jesus Christ, bet what are

598
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 1: you talking about? Let just walk into a macasine, get

599
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 1: a napkin, you're not doing that ship. I see you're thinking.

600
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 7: That.

601
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: True. True, True. It's funny too, because when me and

602
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 1: Cassie go running like I can snot rock it on

603
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: the go, same Cassie can't. She has to stop and

604
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to get obviously she doesn't want to get.

605
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 1: I don't mind a bit of snot goes on my

606
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: T shirt when I'm running, on my face, wipe it off.

607
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 3: Yeah I'm already sweaty. But she stops and I'm like, od,

608
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 3: it's so cute the way she does it.

609
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 7: That so.

610
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: Okay. He noticed I shortened my nails.

611
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 3: Wants to be boyfriend or his boyfriend. At tentative, I

612
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 3: would say, yeah, that's that's boyfriend. Yeah that's really good.

613
00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 3: That's a tough thing to notice too. Sure of the nails, Yeah,

614
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 3: I would.

615
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 1: I believe I would consider it bare minimum. And I

616
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 1: shouldn't be saying this, but I would be impressed if

617
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 1: someone noticed the change of color and nails. Cassie recently

618
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 1: got a different shade of red. I didn't notice. Yeah,

619
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 1: of course, but are you kidding? And I was like, fuck,

620
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 1: I should have got that. Beth came back the other

621
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 1: day with new nails, and she she told me she

622
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 1: shortened them, and I was like, wonderful. I didn't even

623
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 1: as soon as she came in, ooka shorten him anything.

624
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 1: It's good when they do that. You didn't have to

625
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 1: notice a thing.

626
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:39,919
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, tell us something. He did a booty tap

627
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 3: at the gym, respectful and discreet.

628
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 1: Okay. So obviously she's seeing this guy. He could be

629
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: her boyfriend, or he could be her situationship. And he

630
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 1: did a little booty tap at the gym. Boyfriend. Yeah,

631
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:56,320
Speaker 1: boy I'm going boyfriend. I think too much confidence. Situationship. Yeah, boyfriend.

632
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 1: Situationship wouldn't do that. And if he's doing that, and

633
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: it's the right to be asking you to his boyfriend.

634
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: If he's still in that situations he needs to write

635
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 1: like a consent form before he does it or something. Yeah, okay,

636
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 1: only asks to see me on weekdays. He's never free

637
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:18,319
Speaker 1: on weekends. Oh that's the opposite of what I thought

638
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: you were going to say. What's he doing on the weekend.

639
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 1: I have a theory. Is he going out and fucking?

640
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: I have a theory here?

641
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 7: What is it?

642
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: I think you might be his side piece? Yeah, oh,

643
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 1: I've heard his girlfriend before, doesn't live with her yet. Okay,

644
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: he's got a girlfriend, doesn't live there. Yeah, so during

645
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:42,839
Speaker 1: the week he's busy at work, they don't see each other. Yeah,

646
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: twenty minutes thirty minute drive apart from each other, so

647
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 1: maybe they don't see each other. They're both busy. So

648
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 1: during the week he does what he pleases. Yeah, the

649
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: weekend is with his girlfriend. You're his old reliable during

650
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 1: the week. I don't know. I could be.

651
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 3: He could be making you would think it's almost the

652
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 3: other way around, like the that you're with your girlfriend

653
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 3: on the week Yeah, and the weekends for the side,

654
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 3: I'm going to say that's fuck boy.

655
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

656
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like that, Like you shouldn't have a

657
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 3: time restraint on when you hang out. You should have

658
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 3: seen when you want to see. Yeah, okay, tell us

659
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 3: something he did added me to his close friends when

660
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:20,919
Speaker 3: we just met.

661
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Speaker 1: Fuck boy. Really, I think fuck boy, because I think

662
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 1: you're the only one in there too.

663
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Speaker 3: A lot of guys don't have close friends and they

664
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Speaker 3: just add like a girl. It's funny how you can

665
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 3: have a close friends they just have one person on that.

666
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:41,439
Speaker 3: Guys don't have close friends. It's a crazy one neither.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to do it. Neither do I. Yeah,

668
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:45,280
Speaker 1: I literally don't know how to do Sometimes it suggested

669
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: joint puts in your close friends. I'm like, where's it going,

670
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 1: I don't have any friends. I'll just send it to Addie.

671
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 1: I'll just stuff that would stuff that people normally put

672
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 1: on their close friends. I just put on my story. Yeah,

673
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: who has that many friends to have close friends? Actually

674
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: about it? Just fucking put it out to the world. Okay.

675
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 1: I see stuff in close friends and think that was

676
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 1: actually funny. Show all your followers. Yeah, my sister does

677
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: it all the time. I feel like having a close

678
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 1: friends is asking for attention. I don't know why. I'm sorry,

679
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. Hot take. That's a hot take. I

680
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: do agree. I don't know why I feel that way.

681
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 1: I actually have nothing to back it up.

682
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 3: But I feel as though having a close friends story

683
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 3: on Instagram for some reason is asking for attention.

684
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 1: And I don't know what I see it. I see it. Okay,

685
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 1: he said good night at eight pm, but he was

686
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: online to two a m. Two am. Fuck boy, Yeah he.

687
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 3: Could be boyfriend, like playing video games. He's fucking around

688
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 3: to be fair, like I get off my phone at eight.

689
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 1: Oh no, but I just like watch TV and I'll

690
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 1: occasionally go on to like check the littlest thing, but

691
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 1: then I go to to ten. Sometimes I will say, so,

692
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: now I live with Beth, I don't ever do it,

693
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 1: But when we didn't live together, I would say good night,

694
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,839
Speaker 1: knowing that honestly, because I'm about to go to bed

695
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:08,800
Speaker 1: in maybe thirty minutes. Right, I know I'm about to

696
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 1: be asleep in thirty minutes, and I say good night.

697
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she does this too, right, Because now I.

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00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 3: Want uninterrupted Yeah exactly, I'm saying that because I don't

699
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 3: want to.

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00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 3: I don't want to keep texting you. I love you,

702
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 3: but I want uninterrupted time. You've got a half an

703
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 3: hour time gap. I've got about an hour, okay, he's

704
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 3: got what's that six hours eight am too.

705
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,319
Speaker 1: That's six hours eight pm, eight pm to two am

706
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: and six hours. Yeah shit, yeah, I think that's fuck boy. Yeah,

707
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: he's out doing something. Tell us what he did? Held

708
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 1: me down and farted in my face. I'm gonna go boyfriend.

709
00:38:55,000 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 1: If he's not boyfriend, called the police. Please, either boyfriend

710
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 1: or brother? Did you do that with Jonah. Yeah, I

711
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: mean I'll fight around her and ship and then I

712
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 1: get pissed off when she fast. Okay, made dinner. But

713
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 1: he knows I have less than a month left in

714
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 1: town and we only started hanging out recently. Oh now

715
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: he just wants the fuck. Yeah, boy boy, he was

716
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: again in your pants. He knows.

717
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:31,359
Speaker 3: He's like, I've got to get out jail free card.

718
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I'm gonna be boyfriend until she leaves. Get everything, boyfriend.

719
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:37,879
Speaker 3: All I want is a girlfriend for a month.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 1: Win, not for you though, Okay, tell us what he

722
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 1: did introduce me to his dog. Woit I think that

723
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 1: that's boyfriend would personally yea because of how high up

724
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 1: I hold my dog. I think most people do. Yeah,

725
00:39:55,880 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: I put Henry up on. Like the other day, for instance,

726
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 1: Beth's younger sister, she went to our house to check

727
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 1: on the dogs because they were there for eight hours

728
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 1: alone and they're fine. But if she has the chance

729
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: to do it, we like to just let her go

730
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: see high to them. So then they see someone. Dra

731
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Speaker 1: other day and Beth said that the guy that her

732
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 1: younger sister is seeing came with her and this guy

733
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 1: said the first time Henry was meeting him.

734
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Speaker 8: I don't like this guy.

735
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:29,359
Speaker 1: I've met him once and had him before. He has

736
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Speaker 1: Oh lucky. I was gonna say, came into the house unannounced. No, no, no,

737
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: we weren't there. Yeah, Caitlyn brought in and so I

738
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: was mad at Caitlyn. I was like, Kenn, what are

739
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:44,240
Speaker 1: you doing, Henry? Why is this guy get the privilege

740
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 1: of meeting Henry if he's not even gonna ask you

741
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 1: to be his fucking girlfriend? I see, I see. It's

742
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: a bunch of bullshit.

743
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 3: Brother, Yeah, and I don't care about saying it all

744
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 3: out here. This guy needs to be called out the

745
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 3: fucking left, right and center.

746
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: That type of guy wouldn't listen to this podcast. No,

747
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 1: he wouldn't. He can get fun.

748
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 8: Hear that.

749
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 1: Caitlyn. You know she doesn't listen any Sometimes her mom does.

750
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:12,720
Speaker 1: And it's scary. It's scary knowing that. I feel like that. Okay,

751
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 1: he bought me an eight dollar came up candle for

752
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: my birthday? How old is she? Hope she's hopefully she's

753
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 1: like twelve eight dollars. Hopefully this is like a year

754
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 1: six relationship, because I would say he's a good if

755
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 1: it's under the age of fourteen, good boyfriend, his mom

756
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 1: bought it. Anything older than that, I would say, run

757
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:43,399
Speaker 1: girl and came. I say, that's fucking that's abysmal energy.

758
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 1: That's a great ideaund partner's next birthday as a piss take.

759
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: I have really good presence hidden. Just get some terrible

760
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 1: eight dollar candle. I told Bet the other day that

761
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:55,320
Speaker 1: I already got her birthday present. She goes, what is it?

762
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: Where is it? I'm gonna go And I told her

763
00:41:56,560 --> 00:42:03,240
Speaker 1: it's here. Yeah, it's a digital thing. But I should

764
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: rock on her birthday, should wake up. I should give

765
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 1: you a candy. I can even go shit away like

766
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:10,880
Speaker 1: something worse.

767
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 3: This is what I'm talking Aboutally goes like soap or

768
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 3: something that's like custom made soap or something customs.

769
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 1: Kind of cute.

770
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 3: All right, I got one or two more. Tell us

771
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 3: something he did. He got into a car crash and

772
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 3: called me first.

773
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 1: Boyfriend. Yeah, yeah, boyfriend, man, definitely boyfriend.

774
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 3: Have you had the sort of the stage in your

775
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,800
Speaker 3: relationship Probably unconsciously did it. You've ever been like signing

776
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 3: up to a gym wave and it's like next of kin. Yeah,

777
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 3: I used to do like Michael Clark, my dad or

778
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 3: always did my dad, and now I'm like, oh, I

779
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 3: bet as my emergency contact.

780
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 1: Where one time I did you as my emergency contact.

781
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:55,399
Speaker 3: Sometimes I do you and then write my own number

782
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 3: because I can't I go if I put you down,

783
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 3: I looking for your number sometimes like if it's.

784
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: Something stupid, I'm not going to die. I'm like, yes,

785
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: write down my own number again. Annoying something. Okay, he

786
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 1: gave his rolex to me to ensure that he will

787
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: talk to me after his two months long boy's trip.

788
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 1: The thinking process of some dudes.

789
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 3: It's like coming back on promise when I feel though,

790
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 3: when I feel like I want to cheat on you,

791
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna remember you have my rolex.

792
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, what how did you think that was a good idea?

793
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:41,879
Speaker 15: It's crazy, Well, it's obviously, I actually do think it's

794
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 15: boyfriend energy. No no, no no no no no no

795
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:49,320
Speaker 15: no no no, like very stupid dumb boyfriend energy. Like

796
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 15: if we're talking about energies, it's like someone i'd want

797
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 15: to break up with, the thinking.

798
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 3: Of it is still boyfriend energy. Okay, okay, okay, okay,

799
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 3: I got one last one. Tell us something he did

800
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:04,360
Speaker 3: brush my hair whilst watching Task Master Boyfriend.

801
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:07,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good show. Is it kind of funny? Actually,

802
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: the British one is quite funny. The New Zealand also

803
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: randomly is also very funny. Oh, I don't know why.

804
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 1: The New Zealand one is just like really good. That's

805
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: the accents and the ship they do. But it's a

806
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 1: weird concept of a show. I haven't seen it. It's

807
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 1: like basically get they get comedians in that's why it's funny,

808
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: and they get them to do tasks, random, super difficult tasks.

809
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 1: You probably see videos of Si on Facebook and they

810
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 1: just do these tasks and they compete and the fuck

811
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: they're honestly so funny. Okay, it's weird. It's definitely boyfriend

812
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 1: if it's like that. Okay, my last one flew to

813
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 1: Sydney to see him. He got so drunk the night

814
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 1: before he forgot to pick.

815
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 9: Me up.

816
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 1: That man. Never see him ever again. Fucking.

817
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:55,800
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Speaker 3: book Club early with an extra exclusive bit in the

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Speaker 3: pov book club in there. We're trying to make the

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Speaker 3: most valuable Patreon ever for five dollars, which a few

824
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:18,440
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Speaker 3: out soon early. Oh my god, it's so much value.

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Speaker 3: But otherwise, thanks for supporting us.

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Speaker 1: We love your headphones on Notti, let's sill QUI checking

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Speaker 1: whether theyre up to on the on the good old

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Speaker 13: Chack the even worth the time I missed the way

831
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 13: we talked all night.

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Speaker 8: Holding on.

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Speaker 1: Dance guys. Let's uh, let's do a dilemma and one

834
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 1: and then to check in after. Okay, actually, okay, I

835
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 1: know I want to go first on dilemmas, so I've

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Speaker 1: got an update from one if you want to submit

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00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: a dilemma. We actually got a lot last week. I

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Speaker 1: was going through to the.

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Speaker 8: Holy Moly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry about for three weeks. The link got expired

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Speaker 3: for some reason, so I put it on the answer story.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully it's all working again. But yeah, linked the description

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Speaker 1: or on Instagram you go to our Lincoln bio, scroll

844
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 1: down to the bottom confessions. You can add a confession.

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Speaker 1: It's all anonymous. The instant one always works let's go okay.

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00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 1: Quote we'll not quote more of a title. I dumped him, Yes,

847
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 1: we love that. So quick update about the man that

848
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 1: said I love you, but I'm not in love with you.

849
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: Remember that, I do remember. I gave myself a few

850
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 1: weeks to process what he said and what I was

851
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 1: willing to deal with and not in a relationship. I

852
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:56,400
Speaker 1: don't really know, I must have. After a few discussions

853
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: about it, I went with my gut and was going

854
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 1: to break up with him after he got back from

855
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: a Bucks weekend we had discussed prior. My one boundary

856
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 1: for the weekend was that I was okay with him

857
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:09,359
Speaker 1: going to a strip club, but I didn't want him

858
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: paying for a lap dance. Fast forward, He paid for

859
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,720
Speaker 1: a lap dance, told me, and I took your advice

860
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:18,840
Speaker 1: and broke up with him over text. Lol. Fast forward

861
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 1: to now rekindled an old flame that the universe has

862
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 1: brought back to me. We met at eighteen and we're

863
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 1: now twenty five. Who lives in Sydney and I'm in Yapoon,

864
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,760
Speaker 1: So have booked tickets to Sydney for a long, sexy weekend.

865
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Speaker 1: Don't let your boyfriend stop you from finding your husband.

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00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:36,319
Speaker 1: See you there boys. Oh, so see you boys their

867
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Speaker 1: XX because we live in Sydney. I was like, I

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Speaker 1: don't want to go to that. I was thinking when

869
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,359
Speaker 1: I first read this, I was like, I was like, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,

870
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: And I was thinking, oh, but hey, if all it

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00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 1: is just a fun sexy weekend.

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Speaker 12: Go for it.

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00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:49,879
Speaker 8: Nah.

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00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 3: No, I think she might have rekindled something that could

875
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:56,440
Speaker 3: be a future man. I like it and I'm glad

876
00:47:56,920 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 3: you listen to your gut. Yes, little recap story, she

877
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 3: sent a dilemma and the guy said I.

878
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 1: Love you, but I'm not in love with you.

879
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:05,879
Speaker 8: It was weird.

880
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 3: And then he's been sus about a Bucks night and

881
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:10,400
Speaker 3: she was saying a gut made her feel like she

882
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 3: wanted to break up, and he said do it. Yeah,

883
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 3: trust that which we have shifted gear recently and started

884
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 3: listening to our gut and telling some guys do actually

885
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:21,800
Speaker 3: need to be broken up with when they need a

886
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 3: bit of a kick in the ass, or they're not

887
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 3: doing the bare minimum or not even being a nice

888
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 3: man in general.

889
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:29,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm happy for you. You sound super happy. Yep.

890
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 1: It's good to hear the end of the dilemmas because

891
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 1: I like that. We just give advice, and then it's

892
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 1: I've been keen on updates, and if you're going to

893
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 1: do an update, send it to the same place. Yeah,

894
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 1: and just big caps update yeah, and then little just

895
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:45,359
Speaker 1: like update. This was the dilemma. Here's the update. Yeah,

896
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 1: I love the updates. But okay, we'll do my dilemma

897
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: and then we'll listen to we'll see where the radio

898
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 1: is at. Okay, boys, I'm dying a bit dramatic and

899
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:58,320
Speaker 1: in need of help asap. I've been with my boyfriend

900
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: of almost three years now, but I think I want

901
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 1: to break up with him, although I'm not super sure how.

902
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 1: For a bit of context, I feel like a last

903
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 1: priority all the time. For example, he's currently on an

904
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: eight week holiday to Europe with the boys and not me. Oh,

905
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 1: and I feel like he just kind of likes the sex. Okay,

906
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 1: I didn't at the time, but now I think the

907
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 1: time apart has really opened my eyes to some behaviors

908
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:35,320
Speaker 1: and I low key miss being single in brackets perhaps

909
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:39,240
Speaker 1: toxic toxic of me. Here's the kicker. We are planning

910
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: to move overseas together at the end of the year

911
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:46,720
Speaker 1: with some other people as and everything is paid and booked.

912
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 1: Fuck that.

913
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 3: If you're ever having the thought that you want to

914
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 3: break up with someone even though he is a dog

915
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:57,360
Speaker 3: and he's gone on an eight week boy's trip, he

916
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:00,800
Speaker 3: deserves to be broken up with and not being a

917
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 3: relationship where someone is thinking that having those doubts.

918
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 1: I guess, actually, how do you feel about so when

919
00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:10,400
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship they've been together for three years?

920
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 1: Because I think, definitely you need to be able to

921
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 1: have time apart and be able to go do things

922
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 1: with your friends. But for some reason, I do see

923
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 1: an eight week trip to Europe with just your mates.

924
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: I kind of think, reading between the lines, that's crazy.

925
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,360
Speaker 3: I think that's the same. I think that's kind of wild,

926
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 3: Like eight weeks, it's weird. I think, like thinking back

927
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:38,839
Speaker 3: to when I was like eighteen, nine and twenty, that's

928
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 3: something I might have done.

929
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, been like I need to do this with the boys, yea,

930
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 1: yeah yeah now and yeah exactly just with me, but yeah,

931
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 1: I was just with you.

932
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:52,399
Speaker 3: But now my mindset would be even if I still

933
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 3: had a really close knit group of friends who were

934
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 3: going into Europe, I'll be like, oh, I want to

935
00:50:57,640 --> 00:50:59,399
Speaker 3: go to Europe for I'm going to go two weeks

936
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 3: with them, and do you want to meet me over

937
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 3: and we'll.

938
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: Do the other six weeks together.

939
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 7: Yeah.

940
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 3: I think that there's things where even let's say, you know,

941
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 3: very far out of it, you know, they're talking about

942
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:10,320
Speaker 3: the trip and say, you and I want to go

943
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 3: on this big long trip or whatever, and then we

944
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:15,439
Speaker 3: ask our girlfriends to come, and they're like, oh.

945
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: I would love to blah blah blah blah blah meh,

946
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: but like just for some reason they couldn't. I would

947
00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: understand if it was something you really wanted to do

948
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 1: with them, and then maybe you and I go Okay,

949
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 1: fuck it, well we'll go just here together, and then

950
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 1: how could you come for just this small amount of

951
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 1: time and we'll meet up blah blah blah blah, like

952
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 1: we're trying to work something out, but not even being invited. Yeah,

953
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 1: not being invited. I think that's crazy. After being together

954
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 1: for three years, even.

955
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:40,720
Speaker 3: That thought of he just likes the sex, it's probably

956
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,360
Speaker 3: right then if you're having that thought true, if you

957
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 3: feel like he's just there because like it's using you

958
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 3: for sex, then yeah, I think that's Yeah, it's not

959
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:52,000
Speaker 3: very nice at all. And well her dilemma is she's

960
00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 3: This is really really relatable because when you're in a relationship,

961
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 3: you book things in events, and she's obviously put a

962
00:51:57,719 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 3: lot of money down to.

963
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:00,359
Speaker 1: Move overseas well.

964
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 3: The question firstly is still you still do you want

965
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 3: to do that being single or without him? But I

966
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:08,320
Speaker 3: think if you don't want to move overseas, fuck it,

967
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:10,839
Speaker 3: cut your losses. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I've always said five

968
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:12,680
Speaker 3: ten thousand dollars, fuck it. You can make a back

969
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:15,560
Speaker 3: who cares whoever booked it. Also, if he's a nice guy,

970
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:18,360
Speaker 3: do it on amicable terms. He hopefully will be like,

971
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 3: all right, let's get a refund for what we can.

972
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 3: He might not want to go either. Yeah, probably can't

973
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:24,399
Speaker 3: get some flights and stuff, and you'll lose a couple

974
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 3: thousand dollars. But I think your piece is much more

975
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 3: important than five ten thousand dollars. I prefer to lose

976
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:36,360
Speaker 3: ten grand and be happy, then make then make that

977
00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 3: ten grand worth it.

978
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 1: And be unhappy. Yeah, when you say it out loud,

979
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 1: it sounds pretty obvious, right, And never stand in a

980
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 1: relationship for monetary reasons. Yeah at all? I think how

981
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: does she do it? He's over seas for a weeks.

982
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:55,320
Speaker 1: M hmm, chicky face time. I don't know what do

983
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 1: you do? Like, do you want it to be over

984
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 1: and done with?

985
00:52:57,560 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 7: Now?

986
00:52:57,840 --> 00:52:59,319
Speaker 1: You just wait till he gets home and just say

987
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,440
Speaker 1: I've been thinking about things. The thing about with a

988
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,879
Speaker 1: breakup is sometimes I think you don't need a reason,

989
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 1: but people always demand a reason.

990
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 15: Why?

991
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 7: Why why?

992
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 3: I don't think you need a reason. I mean, simple

993
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 3: as you don't want to be with them anymore. Ah well,

994
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 3: the tough thing here is too though, so spiraling a

995
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,319
Speaker 3: little bit. If she does it over the phone, he's

996
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 3: just going to go out and fuck heaps in Europe.

997
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 3: But also then it's over, so then you kind of win.

998
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 3: But also do you owe it to him to do

999
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 3: it in person because it's been three years. But then

1000
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 3: also I kind of think in person is probably wait.

1001
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, so just wait. And also if you wait till

1002
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 1: he's home and he's faithful overseas, that means when you

1003
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 1: do it in person at home, And because if you

1004
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 1: do what overseas, he would go probably try and have

1005
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:45,400
Speaker 1: sex with people overseas. And again, if you break up

1006
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:47,919
Speaker 1: with him, within his rights, but you can also stop

1007
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: him from doing.

1008
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 3: It petty, because hey, why not he's where for the

1009
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 3: girl is so like mentally start checking out now and

1010
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 3: then when he gets here, like, yeah, well thanks for

1011
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:01,959
Speaker 3: leaving me here eight weeks.

1012
00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:04,040
Speaker 1: But it made me realize that I don't like it

1013
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:07,000
Speaker 1: that much. A eight weeks is so long. Two months,

1014
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 1: that's crazy, that's crazy. I think.

1015
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:12,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, anything over like two weeks, three weeks, we've had

1016
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:15,439
Speaker 3: a contingency plan of how I'm going to see you again,

1017
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:18,239
Speaker 3: unless it was like work, if he was with.

1018
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 1: His family, it might be different. But with your mates,

1019
00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 1: the boy with your mates, yeah, I don't know.

1020
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 3: I don't know who do you want to hang out

1021
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 3: with our friends for that line at all? We're done

1022
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 3: after a date because they just get pissed.

1023
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 11: Yeah.

1024
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:31,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he's just immature.

1025
00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 3: So I think you're slowly realizing it two girls. So

1026
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 3: when you do fully realize it, you'll be like, yeah,

1027
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:39,799
Speaker 3: I'm gonna trust my gut and do what.

1028
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 9: I know is right.

1029
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think just break up with him, right knowing

1030
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 1: like just you need to accept the fact that you

1031
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,239
Speaker 1: may just lose your money with the trip overseas thing.

1032
00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:55,400
Speaker 1: But if he's also kind of thinking, oh, you're amicable

1033
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: about it, and like actually thinking the same thing. Then

1034
00:54:57,640 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 1: you guys can go, well, let's train where you're out

1035
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,239
Speaker 1: so we can both train it much money back as possible. Yeah,

1036
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:02,920
Speaker 1: if if that's the way it goes. But again, just

1037
00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:05,799
Speaker 1: go into it thinking now I'm probably just gonna take Yeah,

1038
00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 1: you know what time.

1039
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,839
Speaker 3: It is, Simon is we're like itching to see where

1040
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 3: we're at, Where we are, where we're at, headphones off.

1041
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: Hopefully it's not over. Oh oh shit, what's next?

1042
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 8: Oh I don't know again.

1043
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 1: Oh that's what they're up to, you guys. I think

1044
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:35,560
Speaker 1: it's gonna be over soon.

1045
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 3: We'll try and call Lisa maybe at the end to

1046
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:43,040
Speaker 3: give some advice is available, and that I was crazy, Okay,

1047
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:46,319
Speaker 3: next dilemma. So long one for you, guys. My ex

1048
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 3: boyfriend and I had been together for five years. We

1049
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 3: broke up in twenty twenty three due to ongoing struggles.

1050
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 3: We ended up getting back together a few months later.

1051
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 3: When we had that conversation, I admitted to cheating on him,

1052
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 3: and that's why I became more withdrawn in the relationship.

1053
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 3: I regret it immensely, and it was a one night

1054
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:10,360
Speaker 3: stand with someone I knew. During this conversation, he admitted

1055
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 3: sleeping with a prostitute at the start of our relationship.

1056
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 3: I accepted this as an equal mistake on both our parts,

1057
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 3: as did he. In the end, we broke up in

1058
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 3: twenty twenty five because our values and goals weren't aligning,

1059
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:26,279
Speaker 3: not because of the cheating, as we had forgiven each other.

1060
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 3: For that pause before we get to the actual dilemma bit.

1061
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 3: We talked similarly about this of another dilemma on Patreon,

1062
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 3: which I think is a very interesting conversation to be had.

1063
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 3: So here we go, going forward into new relationships and

1064
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 3: into dating scenes. I want to be very honest about

1065
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 3: my past mistakes, as I feel like it's a part

1066
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:48,319
Speaker 3: of me and my story. It's something I would never

1067
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:51,240
Speaker 3: ever do again, as it's caused so much mental distress

1068
00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 3: and grief. With the guilt I was carrying in brackets,

1069
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:57,279
Speaker 3: I cannot understand how people cheat consistently and brackets. So

1070
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,400
Speaker 3: my dilemma is if someone told you they had cheated

1071
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 3: in the past and shared this story, would that make

1072
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:06,319
Speaker 3: you trust them less and therefore strain the new relationship

1073
00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:08,360
Speaker 3: or would you accept them for who they are and

1074
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 3: trust that their words are true. Also, when would you

1075
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:13,800
Speaker 3: tell something like this in the stages of dating.

1076
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 1: Fuck okay, okay, okay, okay, definitely I think honesty best policy, right, Yeah,

1077
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 1: how would I feel? Because this has never happened to me,

1078
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:31,160
Speaker 1: so I actually don't know what I would feel initially,

1079
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 1: but knowing me, I think I would at the time

1080
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 1: they tell me, I think I would think, oh shit,

1081
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 1: a bit of a bomb drop. Yeah, that's what I

1082
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 1: would think, right, And then I would have this feeling

1083
00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 1: in my stomach of oh, maybe I don't want to

1084
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 1: see them. Maybe I don't Maybe I think this is

1085
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 1: a bad idea because I would go through that spiral

1086
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 1: that everyone would go through, or if they can cheat,

1087
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:57,800
Speaker 1: then can they do it again? But then I would

1088
00:57:57,840 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 1: probably I think in the past, asked, I would have

1089
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,920
Speaker 1: stuck to the unhealthy mindset. But thinking about it now,

1090
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 1: I think maybe with growth but a frontal low develpment,

1091
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:13,440
Speaker 1: I would probably think, Yeah, people make mistakes all the time.

1092
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what she was going through at the

1093
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:20,120
Speaker 1: time or what you know this person was going through

1094
00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 1: at the time of the cheating, and I would probably

1095
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 1: maybe just want to talk to them about it and

1096
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:25,520
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I've never been with someone that's done it.

1097
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:29,480
Speaker 1: I've never done it. I just want you to know that.

1098
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:33,240
Speaker 1: I mean, I obviously don't know your story, and I

1099
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 1: would just be like, I just think like I would

1100
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 1: definitely give them a chance. I agree. I think it

1101
00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 1: would be a thing of needing to be I don't know,

1102
00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 1: maybe just I don't know how to approach it.

1103
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:48,720
Speaker 3: I think it's actually a really good way to filter

1104
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 3: out shallow men, because, like you said, I had the

1105
00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 3: same initial reaction where I was like, oh shit, yeah,

1106
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 3: shock reaction, and then my first thinking was like, if

1107
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 3: she could do it once, you'll do it again. I

1108
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 3: think that's what that sort of yeah back in the day, Yeah,

1109
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 3: I'm saying, but even more thinking about it, the type

1110
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 3: of person and how admirable it is for someone to

1111
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:16,080
Speaker 3: own up to that and tell me in confidence is insane,

1112
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 3: and if someone can appreciate that, I think it's the right.

1113
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 1: Thing to do.

1114
00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 8: You know what.

1115
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:28,720
Speaker 1: I think you saying that if someone has cheated in

1116
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:34,920
Speaker 1: a past relationship and they tell someone that they're dating

1117
00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 1: about the cheating, I actually think that it's a green

1118
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:47,720
Speaker 1: flag because someone that has the capability to cheat again

1119
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 1: just wouldn't bring it up exactly. Yeah, So I think, oh,

1120
00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:54,720
Speaker 1: He's right, You're going to filter out a lot of

1121
00:59:54,760 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: guys that think very poorly, and you're going to find

1122
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:02,240
Speaker 1: a guy that thinks. Oh, I appreciate you for telling

1123
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: me that. Obviously it hurt you a lot to do it.

1124
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 1: I mean, you hurt someone in the process, but like

1125
01:00:08,320 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 1: the guilt probably.

1126
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 3: Was very she's verbally showing her growth, yeah, and what

1127
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:16,920
Speaker 3: she's gone through to overcome said thing, yeah, which I

1128
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:19,200
Speaker 3: think is super admirable and such a green flag.

1129
01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:21,600
Speaker 1: Like you said, so yeah, I think that, Yes, someone

1130
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 1: that admits to cheating in the past is actually more

1131
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 1: inclined to probably not cheat, yeah, because if they if

1132
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 1: they didn't say it, they'd cheat again or they yeah,

1133
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 1: they might have the capacity to cheat again.

1134
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 3: And in interesting, very interesting, And when do you reckon

1135
01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 3: is a good stage within dating to tell someone that

1136
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 3: because initial shock value, like we said, is oh shit,

1137
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 3: But you do need time to think about it, and

1138
01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 3: you kind of don't you want like a little bit

1139
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:47,080
Speaker 3: of rapport there, So definitely not like the first two

1140
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:50,280
Speaker 3: three dates, I don't think. Okay, when do you start

1141
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 3: having those like sort of really deep conversations and start

1142
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 3: opening up about your past and stuff?

1143
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 1: Some people kind of have a pretty quick bite. True.

1144
01:00:57,320 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 1: You know, everyone's different. Some people take a old warm up,

1145
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 1: some people warm up like that. Yeah, So I'm gonna

1146
01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:07,680
Speaker 1: say just literally, whenever you your gut is telling you

1147
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 1: the time is right, whenever you think, Okay, I really

1148
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:14,240
Speaker 1: like this person, I see it going somewhere, I straight

1149
01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 1: away want to have the chat of I really like you,

1150
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 1: Like I'm not dating anyone else, and you know, but

1151
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 1: I want to be one hundredercent honest from a start

1152
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 1: in the past. Do you just tell them what happened,

1153
01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:28,160
Speaker 1: Like I've cheated in the past, fucking maybe feel like shit,

1154
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 1: never ever gonna do it again. But I just think

1155
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:32,680
Speaker 1: that you deserve to know that.

1156
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think really listen to your gut and just

1157
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 3: gauge the conversation, Like every single relationship will be different

1158
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:42,320
Speaker 3: with each person because those conversations do come up in

1159
01:01:42,400 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 3: different stages. So when both of you start opening up

1160
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 3: about different things, you'll be like, oh, this could be

1161
01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 3: my time. Yeah, don't just do it like randomly over

1162
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:50,760
Speaker 3: like the start of a dinner.

1163
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 1: I'm going back. Actually, is it the wrong thing to

1164
01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 1: also not tell them they don't have a right to

1165
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:02,840
Speaker 1: know their past?

1166
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 9: Yeah?

1167
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 1: It's not that they Yeah, they don't have the it's

1168
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 1: not their right to know. But I mean, you you

1169
01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 1: telling them is just you being open and notes. But

1170
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 1: here's my thinking is like, is ignorance bliss? Well, I

1171
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 1: think the devil's advocate.

1172
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:20,959
Speaker 3: By the way, Either way, it's up to the person

1173
01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 3: who's cheated because they could not tell them because they think, oh,

1174
01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:26,560
Speaker 3: they don't need to know. But they also could not

1175
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 3: tell them because they haven't healed. So depending which one

1176
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 3: that is, Yeah, because it doesn't really matter because the guy,

1177
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 3: say in the scenario, is one who is just a

1178
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:36,920
Speaker 3: new guy.

1179
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:39,240
Speaker 1: He doesn't have deserve to know what Bony means. She's

1180
01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: trying to think, yeah, yeah, like is there actually a wrong?

1181
01:02:41,760 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 1: Is there a right and wrong approach?

1182
01:02:43,640 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 3: Because well, I think in this scenario there isn't a

1183
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:48,360
Speaker 3: wrong approach because she has healed.

1184
01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but if some she knows she's not going to

1185
01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 1: do it again.

1186
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, she knows, so she can do whatever she wants

1187
01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 3: and she's done the right thing. But someone who's cheated

1188
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 3: before and is hiding it, and that kind of feels

1189
01:02:57,240 --> 01:02:57,920
Speaker 3: like maybe they'll.

1190
01:02:57,760 --> 01:03:00,720
Speaker 1: Do it again. Well that's wrong, and he doesn't. Yeah,

1191
01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 1: And then doesn't tell anyone that I cheated in the past.

1192
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:05,040
Speaker 1: That's the wrong thing. This is an interesting one. I

1193
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:07,440
Speaker 1: actually i'd like comments on this. I would like to

1194
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:11,400
Speaker 1: know what everyone thinks, like, yeah, definitely the person, the

1195
01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 1: new partner, the new Yeah, they don't have the right

1196
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:17,560
Speaker 1: to know. But what do you think is the right

1197
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:19,080
Speaker 1: thing to do? Because I'm a little torn. I don't

1198
01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:20,560
Speaker 1: think I would. Yeah, I don't think anything is right

1199
01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 1: or wrong. That's interesting, very interesting. I do think there's

1200
01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 1: a right and wrong approach from the person being told though.

1201
01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:30,600
Speaker 1: That's what I think is interesting as well. Oh yeah, yeah,

1202
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:34,000
Speaker 1: the receiver. The receiver, definitely, their reaction could tell you

1203
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:38,440
Speaker 1: so much. Yeah, it's funny how much I think our

1204
01:03:39,440 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 1: I don't want it to our own.

1205
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 3: Horn, but our development of being a man in our

1206
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:50,040
Speaker 3: sort of like maturity levels and feminine and masculine energies

1207
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 3: have sort of been accelerated because of this podcast and

1208
01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 3: being exposed to hundreds of thousands of women's thoughts, which

1209
01:03:59,360 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 3: we're very very Yeah. Yeah, but I think it is

1210
01:04:01,920 --> 01:04:05,240
Speaker 3: we have quite a unique insight into dating because of that.

1211
01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:08,040
Speaker 3: But it is it's hard when you go out and

1212
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:09,800
Speaker 3: date and then you see men who have that initial

1213
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 3: shock value and they never get over that, and you're like,

1214
01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 3: it's just you can see that appeal.

1215
01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 1: I get a weird This is like kind of off topic,

1216
01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 1: but from I guess from doing this podcast with GiB

1217
01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:23,040
Speaker 1: like you said, having a lot of dilemmas from women,

1218
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 1: different insights from women, you know, our own girlfriends, and

1219
01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 1: then also just having grown up with our friends. The

1220
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:34,880
Speaker 1: vibe for some reason that I get is a man's

1221
01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 1: mindset when he starts to date someone new, is that

1222
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:46,120
Speaker 1: this woman that they almost think so this that they

1223
01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 1: think this woman is mine and how dare she have

1224
01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 1: lived a life before me? Type of situation. I don't

1225
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 1: think they don't think that word for word in their head,

1226
01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:57,600
Speaker 1: but when they get told things about the woman's past

1227
01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 1: that they think that they don't like, it's still that

1228
01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 1: purity question. It's like, yeah, it's about purity. They think

1229
01:05:03,400 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 1: that they deserve to have someone that's pure, and their

1230
01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 1: definition of pure is low body count, not having to

1231
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:12,120
Speaker 1: have a cheated like all these things right, But for

1232
01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 1: some reason, women are way more accepting to the fact

1233
01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:18,160
Speaker 1: that the new person they're dating has lived a life

1234
01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:21,080
Speaker 1: before them. Oh yeah, for some reason, Yeah, I feel

1235
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:23,080
Speaker 1: like men don't accept that life has been lived before.

1236
01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 1: I don't know, and I could be wrong, but it's

1237
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 1: just a vibe I get.

1238
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:29,720
Speaker 3: I've always been lucky to for some reason think like

1239
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:33,480
Speaker 3: I'm only like taking into consideration the person in front

1240
01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:35,840
Speaker 3: of me right now. Yeah, but also you saying that

1241
01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 3: it's funny. I had a little bit of an epiphany

1242
01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:41,800
Speaker 3: recently because I've talked about before we both have friends

1243
01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 3: drifting apart, and we have different directions in life and

1244
01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:49,360
Speaker 3: not unhappy to say that we don't really have that

1245
01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:52,920
Speaker 3: many friends anymore because we have such a unique job.

1246
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:57,400
Speaker 3: But I also had an epiphany being I also think

1247
01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 3: we drifted apart because of how they do view women

1248
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 3: and how we consciously we Yeah, I think we subconsciously

1249
01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 3: first before my mental state could catch up sort of.

1250
01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 3: I remember being eighteen and nineteen, so I think a

1251
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:13,800
Speaker 3: lot of men go through this and they never have

1252
01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:17,760
Speaker 3: the actual shift. And they say how these dudes view

1253
01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:20,600
Speaker 3: women of like sort of sex objects or not being pure,

1254
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 3: and you're like, sort of, that's just how hears. That's

1255
01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:25,120
Speaker 3: how I would think when I was eighteen, Like, that's

1256
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:26,720
Speaker 3: just how what to name is, That's how what's name.

1257
01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:30,000
Speaker 3: But realistically now I'm like, actually, I really don't align

1258
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:33,200
Speaker 3: with how he views women, and I've taken a step

1259
01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 3: away because I can't have that in my life.

1260
01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:38,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, and yeah, that's how that's just him, but I

1261
01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 1: don't want to be a part of that. Yeah. Subconsciously

1262
01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:42,040
Speaker 1: we've just been like fuck that.

1263
01:06:42,320 --> 01:06:45,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I remember, I remember being uncomfortable when I

1264
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:47,120
Speaker 3: was aiding, but I still was like, oh, no, that's

1265
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:48,080
Speaker 3: just my mate, that's how he is.

1266
01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:48,479
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1267
01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:51,040
Speaker 1: But now I'm like the wrong which also created is

1268
01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:55,560
Speaker 1: actually that's actually almost a bigger problem then, you know,

1269
01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:57,560
Speaker 1: just saying oh, that's just how he is, he's just

1270
01:06:57,640 --> 01:06:59,320
Speaker 1: a man, and not calling them out as almost a

1271
01:06:59,320 --> 01:07:02,880
Speaker 1: bigger problem then the actual shit that men do because

1272
01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 1: they need to be fucking called out random I forgot

1273
01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 1: to actually I want to do do this at the

1274
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 1: start of the episode. But New South Wales, so Western Australia,

1275
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:15,440
Speaker 1: has this. There is a law that got It was

1276
01:07:15,520 --> 01:07:18,640
Speaker 1: a law that first happened in England. It's called Claire's Law.

1277
01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:20,840
Speaker 1: It's been in England for a while, I believe, and

1278
01:07:20,960 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 1: what it is is a woman named Claire. I don't

1279
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:27,640
Speaker 1: know the full story, and maybe I won't repeat the story.

1280
01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:28,760
Speaker 1: We should look it up, and they do it in

1281
01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:31,280
Speaker 1: next week's episode, but just so we get it proper.

1282
01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:36,000
Speaker 1: But basically, what Claire's Law is is if a woman

1283
01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:39,920
Speaker 1: starts dating a man and she has good reason to

1284
01:07:39,960 --> 01:07:42,680
Speaker 1: believe maybe he has a pass of domestic violence, she

1285
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 1: can go use Claire's Law at a police station and

1286
01:07:45,200 --> 01:07:48,160
Speaker 1: get his past domestic violence history. So the police officers

1287
01:07:48,680 --> 01:07:50,480
Speaker 1: they have it. There's a thing you need to fill

1288
01:07:50,520 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 1: out and they will deem whether or not that you

1289
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:55,120
Speaker 1: have a good reason to see this guy's history, and

1290
01:07:55,160 --> 01:07:56,480
Speaker 1: then they'll give it to you and they'll say either

1291
01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:59,160
Speaker 1: he does have past domestic violence or he doesn't. And

1292
01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:02,440
Speaker 1: so that means that if a girl does have a

1293
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 1: reason to believe that a guy she's seeing, even if

1294
01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:07,440
Speaker 1: she likes him, has something has a history of domestic violence,

1295
01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 1: and the police say he actually does, she can get

1296
01:08:09,400 --> 01:08:11,600
Speaker 1: out of it before it even happens. That's good, which

1297
01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:14,640
Speaker 1: is sick. So Western Australia has it. New South Wales

1298
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:18,400
Speaker 1: there's currently a thing a petition to sign to get it.

1299
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:19,800
Speaker 1: Oh when't they just deprove that? So I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know why they need to prove it her way.

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Speaker 1: So Beth brought it up to me the other day

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Speaker 1: and she has there's a petition that she said she signed,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, fuck, I need to get the

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Speaker 1: link from her. We need to put it in the

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01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 1: description of this episode, and everybody go sign that fucking link.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we can get some Let's hopefully let's get some

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Speaker 3: fucking signatures on this thing, and let's get Claire's Law

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Speaker 3: a thing in New South Wales because repeat offenders, like

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Speaker 3: people that have offended once are the people that are

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Speaker 3: going to offend again.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And also what I'm talking about is sort of like

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Speaker 3: the star of then the star of the spectrum. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like they're just the stereotypical blokes, which I don't like saying,

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01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:56,799
Speaker 3: but they're just the way they view women is completely

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01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:58,960
Speaker 3: wrong and it's no balls effect into those sort of

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01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 3: problems one hundred percent. And I guess going back to

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Speaker 3: our group of friends wasn't that bad by any means.

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Speaker 3: But a simple sort of scenario, if I was eighteen

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Speaker 3: and in a scenario where two guys in the front seat,

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Speaker 3: I'm in the back seat with another mate and their

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01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:14,120
Speaker 3: cat calling a girl's walking past, my friends never did this,

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Speaker 3: But if it did, I wish I had the tools

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Speaker 3: as an aideen, you old two voice up and be like, hey, man,

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Speaker 3: don't fucking do that.

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Speaker 1: But it's set. The problem is we just keep quiet. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And that's the thing that sucks is a lot of

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Speaker 1: men need to admit, right. So when I say this,

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Speaker 1: I'm not attacking you, I'm not attacking me. I'm not

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Speaker 1: attacking anyone. But if you're in a situation where you

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01:09:32,439 --> 01:09:34,800
Speaker 1: think you should be calling your friends out but you're

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01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:38,960
Speaker 1: to quote unquote scared, that's the problem or the problem

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01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:41,559
Speaker 1: is us when men don't have the capability or tools

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Speaker 1: to do it, and we just need to stop being

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01:09:43,200 --> 01:09:46,160
Speaker 1: fucking babies. That's literally, it's it's a simple thing. It's

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's a simple thing. And in

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01:09:48,360 --> 01:09:50,720
Speaker 1: this situation, I too am a pussy and I need

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01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:53,040
Speaker 1: to accept that. But it's a thing where if you're

1339
01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:56,679
Speaker 1: in the situation, it's just got to be like fright.

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Speaker 1: I think it's more than that.

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Speaker 3: It's that we didn't realize the magnitude the issue, not

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01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:03,719
Speaker 3: that we're pussy. Maybe, Yeah, it's like we didn't realize

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01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:05,200
Speaker 3: that was the problem when it was happening.

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Speaker 1: But now we can realize that it's funny. It's like

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Speaker 1: I can call someone out for littering. Yeah, I can't

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01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:12,880
Speaker 1: cast some for dick. Yeah, literally, fucking what literally?

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01:10:12,960 --> 01:10:15,559
Speaker 3: And if you start it there, this snowball effect doesn't

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01:10:15,720 --> 01:10:17,000
Speaker 3: happen as frequently hoping.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I find that link. Definitely, Yeah, definitely we

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01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 1: think that. But why do they not just think, Yeah,

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01:10:22,840 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 1: this is a pretty good lord to have. Let's just

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01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:24,720
Speaker 1: do it.

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01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 3: I don't know common sense with like all that comment

1354
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:29,559
Speaker 3: shit doesn't really make sense.

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Speaker 1: It's eleven ten. I think our hour is over. We

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01:10:31,840 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 1: can't listen to the song we call Yeah, see if

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01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:47,679
Speaker 1: she picks up. Hello. We listened to it on the podcast.

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Speaker 8: We've Got Everything.

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Speaker 6: We've got it all.

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01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:49,559
Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: You just made our day, our year, our artist's career,

1362
01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:54,160
Speaker 3: our podcast career.

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Speaker 1: You just made everything. Guys. That was so much fun.

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Speaker 3: Wait, so we were sitting here, we started like five

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01:11:02,760 --> 01:11:05,040
Speaker 3: We started playing the radio like five minutes before, just

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01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 3: to like make sure we got everything.

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Speaker 1: And we didn't know you were going to come on

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01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 1: do like proper radio stuff. You sounded. Yeah, we could

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01:11:11,520 --> 01:11:13,680
Speaker 1: see that podcast award you got. Yeah, you have a

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01:11:13,720 --> 01:11:14,719
Speaker 1: podcast word for a reason.

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Speaker 5: Guys, I told you I'm fully trained, and yeah, an award.

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Speaker 1: And we're still on the podcast, by the way, so

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Speaker 1: I should have said that.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's all good basically.

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01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:31,080
Speaker 3: So I saw your message. Then, So there were seven

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01:11:31,200 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 3: full rounds of the songs, yeah yeah, yeah, No, seven

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01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:38,680
Speaker 3: full rounds of the EP yeah yeah.

1378
01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:41,560
Speaker 1: Did you like break the charts or anything? Get some

1379
01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:43,680
Speaker 1: comments saying this is the best radio It was the

1380
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 1: radio station crashing, so many leap of people tuned in,

1381
01:11:46,640 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 1: like that's.

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Speaker 5: Exactly what it was.

1383
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Speaker 2: You know, I'm gonna I'm gonna have to speak to

1384
01:11:50,280 --> 01:11:52,920
Speaker 2: the radio team to get all the numbers file for us.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, thank you, thank you. Mention what we're gonna do, Well,

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01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:02,439
Speaker 1: we're gonna so I asked you, I got your adjust

1387
01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:04,760
Speaker 1: to saying some merch we've got We've got hats and

1388
01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:07,320
Speaker 1: then the old merch, but we also have I don't know,

1389
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:10,240
Speaker 1: we've said this kind of privately, subtenly. I don't know

1390
01:12:10,240 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 1: if people picked up we have new merch coming in.

1391
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:15,519
Speaker 1: It's actually been ordered. So we'll send you there's two jumpers,

1392
01:12:15,640 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 1: like two hoodies and one T shirt. Will send you

1393
01:12:17,439 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 1: that to stuff.

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01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:20,960
Speaker 5: Well, kit it out fun Oh my gosh, thank you

1395
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:23,559
Speaker 5: guys so much. I had was a flash.

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01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:25,240
Speaker 1: I'm so glad you had a good time because you

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01:12:25,240 --> 01:12:26,280
Speaker 1: full drove like an hour to.

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Speaker 8: Do this, didn't you.

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Speaker 1: I did? Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I mean I'm doing other things here too, so don't worry.

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01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:35,000
Speaker 1: I don't want it to be a full lte of them.

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01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:38,600
Speaker 1: In evening I saw people from it saying Lisa is

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01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 1: a real bad Yeah. Actually I want to say, Lisa,

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01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 1: you actually might be the baddest bad.

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01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:49,200
Speaker 11: Stop it stop.

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01:12:49,320 --> 01:12:51,799
Speaker 5: You can't be giving away that title so lately.

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01:12:51,920 --> 01:12:58,599
Speaker 1: Guys, can anybody contest? Yeah, studio, we had party poppers.

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01:12:59,000 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 1: The floor is still crazy.

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01:13:01,360 --> 01:13:03,160
Speaker 2: Oh did you guys pop any champagne?

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01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:11,880
Speaker 1: Unfortunately, we don't drink if you're a real bad. But

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Speaker 1: thank you so much, Lisa. Thanks again.

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01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:17,120
Speaker 5: It was my sincerest pleasure you guys.

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Speaker 1: I had.

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01:13:17,760 --> 01:13:18,720
Speaker 13: Yeah, I had so much fun.

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01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:22,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to We hope you have a great afternoon. Bye.

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Speaker 5: Thanks you guys have a great morning.

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Speaker 3: Bye.

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Speaker 7: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well legend, well, I mean hey, look, I mean

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Speaker 1: maybe no comments this episode a little bit differently.

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Speaker 3: We're too excited. We want to say thank you for

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01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:40,200
Speaker 3: everything bad. He's not only for this song and the

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01:13:40,320 --> 01:13:43,240
Speaker 3: radio campaign, but just the support recently. Thank you for

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01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:47,560
Speaker 3: the life you've given us, love, your stay bad, stay.

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01:13:47,680 --> 01:14:07,320
Speaker 8: Bad, and wasn't a man. I think, I think I'm

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Speaker 8: in love.