Speaker 1: Apologie production. I'm Mickey Fisher, and welcome to the Village
Speaker 1: Crazy Lady. People are talking to me and they are
Speaker 1: not physically in this room, so just strap in for that.
Speaker 1: Can't call me crazy, so I said it first. Whoever's
Speaker 1: try to come through whatever messages need to come through, like,
Speaker 1: just bring it on. Let's do it Crazy Crazy Crazy
Speaker 1: The Village Crazy Lay Podcast. Hello, gorgeous legends, and welcome
Speaker 1: to another episode of the Village Crazy Lady. Hello everybody,
Speaker 1: I must apologize for dropping off the planet, mostly Earth specifically.
Speaker 1: I don't know how everyone else has been feeling recently.
Speaker 1: I know the energy has been really quite intense, quite confusing,
Speaker 1: a bit ungreen rounded. I know a lot of people
Speaker 1: have just really been feeling like they are going through
Speaker 1: it over the last few months. And I did not
Speaker 1: skip that experience. I got to enjoy that completely. Well
Speaker 1: maybe enjoy isn't the correct word, but I really felt
Speaker 1: like I was actually mentally struggling. To be honest with you,
Speaker 1: I have been working my little tush off for the
Speaker 1: last well forever, but especially over the last year. And
Speaker 1: the thing about me is that I am a hypocrite
Speaker 1: and I will give advice I will be telling people.
Speaker 1: Spirit is saying you need to slow down. Your body
Speaker 1: is telling you like you need to rest, you need
Speaker 1: to you need to receive, you need to give time
Speaker 1: to yourself. And yet I won't do that. I will
Speaker 1: go not advice for me, that's for everyone else but
Speaker 1: me until I get just I land on my ass,
Speaker 1: and surprisingly not in a physical way this time. It
Speaker 1: normally doesn't really happen for me physically anymore. I get
Speaker 1: to a point where I feel so mentally not okay,
Speaker 1: and I will sit there kind of going I've honestly
Speaker 1: have had like an identity crisis. I was like, who
Speaker 1: am I? What am I doing? I was spiraling into
Speaker 1: like I'm so unlikable, nobody likes me, I'm failing. What
Speaker 1: is the point? Like I'm gonna be so honest with you,
Speaker 1: Like I felt all of those things, even though my
Speaker 1: logical brain was going, bitch, what where is this coming from?
Speaker 1: What is going on? The thought spirals that I was
Speaker 1: in were just taking me down exactly where I needed
Speaker 1: to go to be honest, like now that I'm sort
Speaker 1: of out of it, and also, fucking Scorpio season does
Speaker 1: that to us, right, it goes Hey, let's get nice,
Speaker 1: deep and dark here, let's meet some shadow versions of ourself.
Speaker 1: But it really did. It took me so deep into
Speaker 1: some wise some insecurity, so many insecurities popped up. I
Speaker 1: was just disassociating. I was feeling really really overstimulated, feeling
Speaker 1: like a bad mum, feeling like a bad person, feeling
Speaker 1: like a bad psychic medium, friend, family member, all of
Speaker 1: the above. And so yeah, it really just took me
Speaker 1: on a bit of a journey and I just had
Speaker 1: to go, I can't actually show up right now because
Speaker 1: the person who needs me the most right in this
Speaker 1: moment is actually me, And that's a really hard thing
Speaker 1: to do when you feel like you, uh, responsible for others,
Speaker 1: which is crazy because like, no one fucking dies and
Speaker 1: made me god and made me, you know, responsible for
Speaker 1: every single fucking person on the planet or anything like that.
Speaker 1: So what an egotistical thing to think, Mikayla. It's very
Speaker 1: much giving the older sister energy. But yeah, I just
Speaker 1: had to go. If I don't give energy to myself
Speaker 1: right now, and if I don't, if I don't allow
Speaker 1: myself to really be in this and feel it and
Speaker 1: use the tools that I have and the tools that
Speaker 1: I teach and the tools that I share to help
Speaker 1: myself through this. Like it really was just such a
Speaker 1: moment of coming back to me and really nurturing myself
Speaker 1: and giving myself some grace, forgiveness, compassion, understanding, especially in
Speaker 1: a time where obviously the temperature of the world right
Speaker 1: now is really intense. There's really it's I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't need to tell you that. There's just obviously a
Speaker 1: lot going on, and especially as a psychic medium through
Speaker 1: the election time period, and I've got people messaging me
Speaker 1: every day, this is what you said, what do you
Speaker 1: think is going to happen? I'll be going to be okay,
Speaker 1: I'm really afraid. I'm scared all of the above. And
Speaker 1: there was just a lot of hate and a lot
Speaker 1: of really vulnerable people. My heart was feeling the hurt,
Speaker 1: especially on behalf of others, and I was just really
Speaker 1: brought into my human which I've really really learned is
Speaker 1: the most important thing that we can be doing right now.
Speaker 1: So today I really just want to chat about all
Speaker 1: the things within this time that have been coming up.
Speaker 1: Obviously there's been some big things happening in the world,
Speaker 1: and I'll continue to tell about that over the next
Speaker 1: few podcasts, and we've got some great guests. He'll be
Speaker 1: coming on and speaking to us. And I've really just
Speaker 1: been trying to think, how do I really need to
Speaker 1: be showing up right now, because you know, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of As I said, there's a lot of noise,
Speaker 1: there's a lot happening, and it can create some fear.
Speaker 1: It can create not just fear, but also a reactiveness,
Speaker 1: and we start to kind of even sort of get
Speaker 1: on a bit of a pedestal and feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: like what I say is right, what I feel is right.
Speaker 1: This is the way we kind of start to feel
Speaker 1: like we're a little bit better than everybody else and
Speaker 1: whatever it is. And it really I think Spirit's just
Speaker 1: given me so much guidance, Like my guides have just
Speaker 1: been sharing some beautiful wisdom with me over the last
Speaker 1: few weeks, and so I want to share that with you.
Speaker 1: You're okay, but also, let's just take a big deep
Speaker 1: breath also understanding. Sorry I said to take a big
Speaker 1: deep breath and then forgot to actually fucking do it.
Speaker 1: See this is what I mean, Right, I'll say it
Speaker 1: to you guys, But I'm trying to learn to actually
Speaker 1: take my own advice and not be a big, old
Speaker 1: fucking hypocrite. But yes, here are the things that have
Speaker 1: really been coming up. Slow down. We keep racing towards
Speaker 1: a finish line that doesn't actually exist. We feel like
Speaker 1: there's these these there are these these lines that we
Speaker 1: have to do, that we have to get to, and
Speaker 1: like we need to race towards them, and we need
Speaker 1: to make sure that we have everything. We're doing all
Speaker 1: the things, whether it's like career wise, and it's like, well,
Speaker 1: I need to achieve this, this, this, this, this and
Speaker 1: this because you know in this sort of certain amount
Speaker 1: of time, and I know Spirit often says to me
Speaker 1: there and because you know, my personal is quite obsessed
Speaker 1: with succeeding and creating and reaching the next goal and
Speaker 1: all of those sorts of things. So this is a
Speaker 1: lesson that I know very well. Spirits sort of said
Speaker 1: to me. They're like, I don't think you understand sort
Speaker 1: of like the timeline of things, and that not everything
Speaker 1: is supposed to be done right now. There is like
Speaker 1: perfect timing for things. Just because you're thinking about something,
Speaker 1: or just because you have an idea about something, or
Speaker 1: just because you want to achieve something doesn't mean that
Speaker 1: it needs to be achieved right now. Okay. They're like,
Speaker 1: if you are constantly measuring your success by the things
Speaker 1: that you're achieving on this list that you have, this like,
Speaker 1: you know, list you're trying to tick off, and I'll
Speaker 1: be successful if I'll be successful when, whether it's career,
Speaker 1: whether it's family, whether it's house, whether it's relationship. They're like,
Speaker 1: it's interesting because humans think that that is sort of
Speaker 1: the point of life, right is to kind of achieve
Speaker 1: a whole heap of things, is you know, And it
Speaker 1: sort of starts in school. We get told like what
Speaker 1: do you want to be when you grow up? And
Speaker 1: you know, and aim is to get married and have
Speaker 1: kids and buy a house, and get a degree and
Speaker 1: get a you know, really good paying job and do
Speaker 1: this that and all the other things. And these are
Speaker 1: the measurements of success. Here's your here's your list to
Speaker 1: tick off. They're like, that's not it. It's the moments
Speaker 1: between all of those things that are the real measurement
Speaker 1: of success, if that's the word that you want to use,
Speaker 1: because those things never feel like success because you'll reach
Speaker 1: one and then you're instantly forgotten about it and you're
Speaker 1: reaching for the next thing anyway, and you'll continue to
Speaker 1: do that until literally the day that you die. And
Speaker 1: then what will be enough? Like which what will it be?
Speaker 1: What will enough? And meanwhile you've actually missed out on
Speaker 1: every single small moment, which when we think back to
Speaker 1: like memories for example, and if you've listened to this
Speaker 1: podcast and listen to when Sary came on and she
Speaker 1: was talking about how one of the biggest points, you know,
Speaker 1: if we're talking about what is the point of life,
Speaker 1: one of the biggest points of life is to collect memories.
Speaker 1: Because we take those memories, we take them into spirit,
Speaker 1: we share them with others, and that is how we evolve, right,
Speaker 1: that is how we you know, learn. And yet those
Speaker 1: memories are often made in those what I call the
Speaker 1: in between moments. And yet we don't consider any of
Speaker 1: that a measurement of success within the world. We don't
Speaker 1: consider how we're treating others a measurement of success. What
Speaker 1: we're doing for our community a measurement of success. How
Speaker 1: we're being present with ourselves and our families as a
Speaker 1: measurement of success. We don't consider rest, slowing down, looking
Speaker 1: after ourselves, looking after others, as a measurement of success. Instead,
Speaker 1: we like a measurement of success is like how much
Speaker 1: money we make, what our house looks like, where we live,
Speaker 1: what we're doing for work, how many followers we have,
Speaker 1: what are our clothes? Like all of these really quite capitalistic,
Speaker 1: materialistic things. And they're not saying don't have those, because
Speaker 1: that's important as well, you know, especially when it comes
Speaker 1: from a place of passion and sort of seeing a
Speaker 1: gap in society that you can a gap in community
Speaker 1: that you can feel and you have the passion, the drive,
Speaker 1: the skills and the heart to do that. But they're like,
Speaker 1: you're missing everything if you aren't cherishing and recognizing those
Speaker 1: small in between moments as the real purpose for being here.
Speaker 1: You know, we often talk about what's my purpose? Why
Speaker 1: am I here? And it's like, well, those moments, they're
Speaker 1: the ones that when you're sitting there lying in your deathbed,
Speaker 1: you're going to be wishing that you were more present
Speaker 1: in those moments, more present in the moments of connection
Speaker 1: and community and just holding your child or going out
Speaker 1: dancing with friends, or sitting there watching the sunset, or
Speaker 1: you know, being there for your community and helping others
Speaker 1: and being involved, you know, so there the moments that
Speaker 1: you're going to really be cherishing more than anything else.
Speaker 1: So that for me was such a big wake up
Speaker 1: call and something that I really had to like very
Speaker 1: consciously shift. I went, you know what, my goal is
Speaker 1: to shift my perspective. My goal is to shift my
Speaker 1: idea of success. And by doing that, honestly, it has
Speaker 1: for me brought so much calm, so much enjoyment. And
Speaker 1: on the flip side, all of my career successes have
Speaker 1: been going fine and great and it's like, oh wow,
Speaker 1: the world doesn't end when I just stop and be present.
Speaker 1: So just a reminder for everyone, big thing slowing down,
Speaker 1: and again speaking to the slowing down, they're sort of
Speaker 1: talking about, oh and sorry, actually collectively they want to
Speaker 1: speak to this as well, Okay, thank you. Think about obviously,
Speaker 1: the temperature of the world. There's a lot of there's
Speaker 1: a lot of change that wants to happen, and people
Speaker 1: really really really are wanting change. And one thing that
Speaker 1: they've been saying to me, especially today, they're like, I
Speaker 1: feel like you really need to talk about this is
Speaker 1: recognizing that it's a long game, Okay, recognizing that the
Speaker 1: change that we want doesn't just happen by talking about
Speaker 1: It doesn't just happen by going the government sucks, it's
Speaker 1: all shit, everything's fucked, the world is fucked, okay. It
Speaker 1: happens by one recognizing things, by going like the energy
Speaker 1: of that is not right those there are people that
Speaker 1: are being hurt here. There are people that are vulnerable,
Speaker 1: people being hurt here. And I really want to quickly
Speaker 1: share this channel, this message that downloaded to me a
Speaker 1: few weeks ago when I was in a real state
Speaker 1: of like what is the fucking purpose? Like what am
Speaker 1: I doing here? And I wrote this verbatim. Okay, so
Speaker 1: I'm going to read it verbatim and in my glasses
Speaker 1: on because I'm fucking blind. My guide said being spiritual
Speaker 1: isn't about being spiritual. It's about being human, you know.
Speaker 1: And I've spoken about that plenty times before. The whole
Speaker 1: fucking reason where here is to be human, not to
Speaker 1: be some fucking spirit god, otherwise why be here? You know?
Speaker 1: Float back up, and they said being the best human
Speaker 1: that you can be, which doesn't mean to say be
Speaker 1: better than others. It doesn't mean aim to be the best.
Speaker 1: It means understanding humanity, understanding that at its core, the
Speaker 1: blessing of being human is to feel love and spread love.
Speaker 1: It is to learn where love is missing and use
Speaker 1: that as a spark to insert it where you missed it. Okay,
Speaker 1: So what they meant by that was think about kind
Speaker 1: of using like your own trauma and experiences as your
Speaker 1: inspiration to understand where people might need the love that
Speaker 1: you missed, because like a lot of our traumas or
Speaker 1: our experiences kind of all center around some kind of love,
Speaker 1: lack of lack of safety, lack of autonomy, things like that. Okay,
Speaker 1: so what they're saying is take that, recognize where that
Speaker 1: is missing within the world, and take your lessons and
Speaker 1: your knowledge from what you've learned from it, and insert
Speaker 1: it there because you understand, you understand what that feels like. Okay.
Speaker 1: It's not to be better then or greater then. Okay,
Speaker 1: big fucking theme. We're not here to be better, bigger,
Speaker 1: greater than anybody else. Okay, it's not to ascend beyond it.
Speaker 1: It is to be a part of it. You will
Speaker 1: learn more from each other than you ever will from us. Okay.
Speaker 1: That was such a big thing. They're like stop, Like, yes,
Speaker 1: we're here to guide you yes, we're here to help you,
Speaker 1: but speak to the other fucking humans down there. They said,
Speaker 1: Our job, honestly is to continue to push you down,
Speaker 1: as in push us down to earth, not like fucking
Speaker 1: kick us over and be like take that bitch. They
Speaker 1: were like explaining that quite energetically. They're like, it's just
Speaker 1: constantly going no, no, no, no, be down there, be
Speaker 1: down there, be down there. Okay, oh yeah, they said,
Speaker 1: as in push you into earth, into the experience of it.
Speaker 1: Why aren't you listening to each other, each person needing
Speaker 1: to be louder than the last. Here the ones who
Speaker 1: have lost the most, because they by far have the
Speaker 1: most to give. They have suffered and lost, and their
Speaker 1: hurt has turned into knowledge. When the right people experience
Speaker 1: the wrong thing, they will use it as ammunition for purpose.
Speaker 1: It becomes the beating drum to their every day. Their
Speaker 1: depth of experience means that their depth of compassion is
Speaker 1: deeper than yours. So listen to them when they yell
Speaker 1: and scream, listen. And when they were explaining the people
Speaker 1: who have lost the most, the ones who we really
Speaker 1: need to be listening to, they're talking like the indigenous.
Speaker 1: They're like, fucking listen. Listen to the most oppressed people
Speaker 1: on that planet. Listen to poverty stricken, the people in
Speaker 1: the third world, world countries, the people experiencing war and
Speaker 1: jet aside. Listen to those people. Don't listen to those
Speaker 1: who don't really have that much to lose or have
Speaker 1: lost very much, because they are they are evolution. The
Speaker 1: more that we and especially we are literally Pluto's just
Speaker 1: come into a into aquarius, then we'll do an episode
Speaker 1: on that with someone who knows about it way more
Speaker 1: than I do. But what I do know is that
Speaker 1: it is fucking revolution time, baby. It is time where
Speaker 1: and we're seeing it. We're seeing indigenous women standing up
Speaker 1: and fucking yelling and screaming and saying listen, and people
Speaker 1: will police them and tell them that they're saying it wrong,
Speaker 1: that they're speaking wrong, that they're being and polite there whatever,
Speaker 1: but they're not being heard any other way. Listen to
Speaker 1: those people. The people who have lost the most have
Speaker 1: acquired more knowledge than we have. So what we need
Speaker 1: to be doing is listening. Okay, they're like and within
Speaker 1: that as well, and they're saying again, like we're kind
Speaker 1: of getting caught up in these wrongs and these rights
Speaker 1: of the world, okay, and we're kind of, you know,
Speaker 1: getting swept up in all of that as opposed to
Speaker 1: listening to the people again who have lost the most,
Speaker 1: the people who have had sort of like the most,
Speaker 1: who have experienced hate from the world more than anybody else. Okay,
Speaker 1: they're the ones who need our love, attention, compassion, and
Speaker 1: we can learn the most from so super duper important
Speaker 1: and I love that they shared that, and just the
Speaker 1: concept of like, stop trying to be the best fucking person.
Speaker 1: That's that's not the point. And the other things that
Speaker 1: they were talking about was speaking into like what's within
Speaker 1: our control? Okay, what power do I have and what
Speaker 1: do I have control over? Okay, because there's a lot
Speaker 1: that we don't have control over it. In reiki, we
Speaker 1: one of the pillars that in dr U Sui is reiki,
Speaker 1: which is what I teach and is the most traditional
Speaker 1: form he talks about. It's called just for today, do
Speaker 1: not worry. And I always say to people like, it's
Speaker 1: more than that, right, because it's not as like if
Speaker 1: you just tell someone, oh, have you just tried not worrying,
Speaker 1: it's like, oh my god, wow, I can't believe I
Speaker 1: didn't think of that. That solves all of my life's problems.
Speaker 1: But what reiki does teach is that the only thing
Speaker 1: you literally have control over ever at any given time
Speaker 1: is what you are doing right now, right now, in
Speaker 1: this present moment, what you were doing, not what anybody
Speaker 1: else is doing. You can't control that. You can't control
Speaker 1: any thing that has happened up until this very moment. Okay,
Speaker 1: So if you find yourself stuck in the worry of
Speaker 1: the past and the what ifs and that I wish
Speaker 1: I did, and the struggling to forgive and accept and
Speaker 1: surrender to past versions of ourselves and maybe things that
Speaker 1: we've done or things that we've experienced, or things that
Speaker 1: we wish we hadn't. Whatever that is, it's done. We
Speaker 1: have no control over it. The only thing we have
Speaker 1: control over is us right now in this moment. And
Speaker 1: that goes for the future as well, when we find
Speaker 1: ourselves getting caught up in the what's going to happen,
Speaker 1: what's next? I don't know what to do, I don't
Speaker 1: know what's you know, all of these things that could
Speaker 1: happen or might happen, or all of that. Again, they're
Speaker 1: like the only thing that determines your future. Is what
Speaker 1: you're doing right now. That's it. That's the only thing
Speaker 1: that you have control over. So really like coming back
Speaker 1: to constantly what do I have control over? I have
Speaker 1: control over me? What do I have power over? I
Speaker 1: have power over myself. I have power remembering that power
Speaker 1: and that's not power over others. Okay, I love I
Speaker 1: think it was Brene Brown. She said, there's a difference
Speaker 1: between power of power too and power for. And I
Speaker 1: always think about that when in any scenario, whether it's
Speaker 1: considering somebody else's intention, is there intention power of power
Speaker 1: for or power to? Considering my own intention? Is this
Speaker 1: power of power for? Or power too? Okay? So just
Speaker 1: really thinking about that and in regards to what do
Speaker 1: I have control over? Okay. And Spirit was telling me
Speaker 1: this this morning, and this has been a bit of
Speaker 1: a theme for me as well. Get involved, take action. Okay,
Speaker 1: don't just say the government sucks. The world is far,
Speaker 1: everything's going to shit. They're trying to, you know, control
Speaker 1: our minds, now this, now that, and everything else. And
Speaker 1: we're getting caught up in the words and the fear
Speaker 1: and the and the all of those sorts of things,
Speaker 1: which is easily done. I've been there. We've all been there,
Speaker 1: and there's a way to listen and take things on
Speaker 1: and go that's really interesting without it turning into a
Speaker 1: fuel that can become hateful and can actually be the
Speaker 1: opposite of productive and be the opposite of helpful, and
Speaker 1: can just turn into more toxic words and become more
Speaker 1: just like like toxic fluff in the world, you know,
Speaker 1: without any actual real action. It's actually just adding fuel
Speaker 1: to sort of a hateful fire, and it's and it's
Speaker 1: not doing anything other than harming people. Okay, think about
Speaker 1: like the impact of your words or the impact of
Speaker 1: what you're doing and what you're involved in. Is this
Speaker 1: hurting or harming? And like really think about like the
Speaker 1: people again constantly bring it back down to not the words,
Speaker 1: not the language, not what we're being told, not what
Speaker 1: you're hearing, not the circles that you're in, nothing like that. People,
Speaker 1: Are you judging people that you don't even know? Are
Speaker 1: you trying to tell people how to live and you
Speaker 1: don't even and you know nothing about them? Okay, again,
Speaker 1: you're not better then, you don't know better than somebody.
Speaker 1: You can't tell somebody what to do with their life,
Speaker 1: and their body and how they should express and who
Speaker 1: they should be. Like, nobody died and made you fucking
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ or source fucking energy. Okay, we need to
Speaker 1: just take a back fucking seed and go who do
Speaker 1: I have control over me? Cool? That's great, nobody else.
Speaker 1: But if you do have a problem with the world
Speaker 1: or the government or the whatever, else, Like one thing
Speaker 1: that I've sort of learned and what I'm being told
Speaker 1: is like, well, get involved. Don't be upset with the government,
Speaker 1: but then and shit on it and say it's the
Speaker 1: worst thing in the world, but not be involved. Recognize
Speaker 1: that this is the very human thing that we're working with. Okay,
Speaker 1: me personally, I've signed up to volunteer. It's a volunteer
Speaker 1: for the Greens Party because I want to be a
Speaker 1: part of it. I want to be a part of
Speaker 1: the conversation. I don't want to just be some fucking
Speaker 1: spiritual person who thinks that I'm above all of it
Speaker 1: and that I can just descend it all and that
Speaker 1: if I'm just you know, in high vibe feelings, then
Speaker 1: like that will do it. No, I want to actually
Speaker 1: be the change that I want to be involved. I
Speaker 1: want to be the change. I want my kids to
Speaker 1: see that, Like it's important that we use our human
Speaker 1: bodies to be involved in the very human things, Like
Speaker 1: these things are important, like don't just say shit, take action,
Speaker 1: get involved in the humanness. Okay, that is what we
Speaker 1: are here for. We're not here to be above it
Speaker 1: and better than it. Okay. And again this is all
Speaker 1: coming from just a place of like I've been on
Speaker 1: this journey as well, and these were all things that
Speaker 1: I just one like the settling into the humanness. That
Speaker 1: takes the pressure off as well. Okay, we don't need
Speaker 1: to be oh like, we don't need to be better
Speaker 1: than anybody else. That's not what we're here to do. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's the opposite in fact, Like if anything, we want
Speaker 1: to get on the same like not even get on
Speaker 1: the same level, because we are all on the same level.
Speaker 1: If you truly think that you have you are above
Speaker 1: other people, Like you're the one who needs to be
Speaker 1: doing the most amount of work right now around that.
Speaker 1: That's sort of the thing that we maybe you need
Speaker 1: to be looking into. It's not productive, it doesn't help.
Speaker 1: Like the thing that I'm constantly thinking about is evolution
Speaker 1: and moving forward and taking on what's new and not
Speaker 1: going backwards, but yeah, forever like learning, like how are
Speaker 1: we evolving? And it's really beautiful. I guess that is
Speaker 1: something like having the connection to to spirit and having
Speaker 1: connection to you know, different life forces as well and
Speaker 1: different galactic beings. They share that and teach that into
Speaker 1: such a such a beautiful way where they're just like
Speaker 1: just look at each other, like soul to soul. You know,
Speaker 1: how did those the people that you're judging, would they
Speaker 1: be judging you the same amount that you judge them.
Speaker 1: Would they be telling you how to live the same
Speaker 1: way that you're telling them how to live and how
Speaker 1: to exist? Have you ever had a conversation with them?
Speaker 1: Have you ever noticed what they do for the world,
Speaker 1: the kindness they inject, the way that they treat others.
Speaker 1: Have you ever noticed that? And maybe that's something you
Speaker 1: should be noticing beyond anything else. Okay. The other thing,
Speaker 1: especially coming into Christmas time, is choosing peace for ourself. Okay,
Speaker 1: And they don't mean just like choosing peace as in
Speaker 1: like you know, choosing whatever is like calm or I'm
Speaker 1: not getting involved in things because I need to choose
Speaker 1: my cheap piece and being my piece, like obviously there's
Speaker 1: there's a balance to it, and sometimes peace comes in
Speaker 1: the form of quite dramatic action, you know, peace comes
Speaker 1: in the form of speaking up and having to be
Speaker 1: in a state of confrontation or making a drastic decision
Speaker 1: or whatever it is. Okay, but really think about, you know,
Speaker 1: your life, think about how you feel, think about I
Speaker 1: like to think about the things in my life and
Speaker 1: what does feel like peace? Does my relationship feel like peace?
Speaker 1: Does my family feel like peace? The people in my life?
Speaker 1: Does that person feel like peace to me? Does this
Speaker 1: work or this job does that feel like peace? You know?
Speaker 1: Does it feel And when I say peace, I mean
Speaker 1: just that feeling, not like the word, the feeling, that
Speaker 1: feeling of peace, that feeling of feeling safe peace, that
Speaker 1: feeling of feeling like you can be yourself completely because
Speaker 1: that's peaceful, right. Having to be dishonest about who you
Speaker 1: are and feeling like you are having to overthink and
Speaker 1: over analyze everything that you do and every word that
Speaker 1: you say and every single way that you show up.
Speaker 1: That doesn't feel like peace. Okay, So they're like, really
Speaker 1: consider that, you know, and if you're feeling like your
Speaker 1: life is feeling very stressful, and it's feeling like so
Speaker 1: discombobulated and you're not enjoying it. Really like strip it back.
Speaker 1: What's not feeling peaceful right now? What do I need
Speaker 1: to be saying yes two more? What do I need
Speaker 1: to be saying no to more? What feels more like
Speaker 1: peace right now? And especially at a time where it
Speaker 1: feels like there's not a lot of that going on
Speaker 1: in the world, So just really considering that. And lastly,
Speaker 1: I mean, I've got so many more things that I
Speaker 1: feel like I could talk about for one hundred years.
Speaker 1: This is what happens when I disappear. I'm like, I'm back,
Speaker 1: and anyway, I could write four novels by coming into
Speaker 1: this season spend I know, I feel like a lot
Speaker 1: of people have been isolating a bit more as far
Speaker 1: as just feeling I think because of how everyone's been feeling,
Speaker 1: and maybe we've just been trying to sort of navigate it,
Speaker 1: work it out for ourselves, and like you know, it's
Speaker 1: been quite stressful and full on at the moment, we've
Speaker 1: sort of been like isolating ourselves from people. We haven't
Speaker 1: really been socializing as much in the way of real socialization,
Speaker 1: not just like being around people, but being around people
Speaker 1: who we can be really honest with, okay, because I
Speaker 1: think there's a lot of people who've been feeling bit
Speaker 1: shitty lately, to be honest, but feeling like they don't
Speaker 1: want to burden anybody else, or feeling like they don't
Speaker 1: they don't even know how to really articulate the feeling
Speaker 1: as well, so they've just kind of been like isolating,
Speaker 1: kind of shutting themselves off. And there's a period of
Speaker 1: that that's important. Sometimes it's good for us to sort
Speaker 1: of just spend some time in our own energy, really
Speaker 1: understanding how we feel and why we feel that way.
Speaker 1: But Spirit's like, okay, it's time to come out of
Speaker 1: your cave now, little bears, time to come out. Spring
Speaker 1: has sprung, the winter has passed. Okay. But they're like,
Speaker 1: choose who you spend time with wisely, Okay, be around
Speaker 1: people who you can be really honest with and like
Speaker 1: not small talk conversation, no, no, how are you really feeling?
Speaker 1: What have you been going through? Really consciously take time
Speaker 1: to spend time with people who make you feel good.
Speaker 1: And then, lastly, so the analogy that Spirit gave me was,
Speaker 1: imagine you invite all your friends or family whatever over
Speaker 1: for dinner, and you're like, yep, can't wait to have
Speaker 1: everyone over for this big dinner at my house. And
Speaker 1: while everyone else is socializing, talking, laughing, having a drink, whatever,
Speaker 1: catching up, playing board games, having the best time ever,
Speaker 1: you were stressed off your fucking face, trying to put
Speaker 1: on a roast, trying to like make the house look amazing,
Speaker 1: every little detail everything is perfect, making sure every single
Speaker 1: detail is perfect, and you've got above and beyond, and
Speaker 1: you're so stressed that you are basically hating it. You're like,
Speaker 1: this is so stressful. I'm not having a good time
Speaker 1: at all. And while you are so busy and consumed
Speaker 1: making sure everything is perfect and making it bigger than
Speaker 1: Ben fucking her and putting all that effort in, you've
Speaker 1: missed out on the connection, the joy, the fun, the love,
Speaker 1: the all of those things that were right in front
Speaker 1: of you. Take that energy into especially the rest of
Speaker 1: this year, where we can get really caught up in
Speaker 1: the what are we doing, how we doing it? Making
Speaker 1: sure everything's perfect, making sure everything is like you know,
Speaker 1: it can become a bit of an over consumerists, just
Speaker 1: perfectiony comparisony. That's not a fucking word, But you know
Speaker 1: what I mean time of year, and that's not just
Speaker 1: like fucking Christmas Day itself. I'm just talking in general.
Speaker 1: We can and in general just getting caught up in
Speaker 1: just the perfectedness of it all and the stressing so
Speaker 1: much that we miss the things that are important, as
Speaker 1: I said, the fun, the connection, the love, the joy,
Speaker 1: the conversation, the all of those things that are right
Speaker 1: in front of us, and we are missing it completely
Speaker 1: because we are so stressed that we end up not
Speaker 1: enjoying it. So please, please, let's try our best to
Speaker 1: enjoy what is right in front of us that we
Speaker 1: might be missing because we're two in our heads. We're
Speaker 1: too stressed thinking about everything. We haven't done, everything we
Speaker 1: need to do, everything that's not perfect, everything that's not right,
Speaker 1: or anything else, and because of that, we've missed it all.
Speaker 1: We're missing or the good shit that's right in front
Speaker 1: of you. And like circling back to the first thing
Speaker 1: that I said at the beginning of the episode, when
Speaker 1: we were talking about missing out on the small moments
Speaker 1: that are actually the big moments, the memories that make
Speaker 1: life what it is. It's the entire purpose. So if
Speaker 1: you're looking for purpose. That's it. That is fucking it.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much guys listening to my ted talk
Speaker 1: and for being patient with me while I took some
Speaker 1: time off to consider what a padded room might feel
Speaker 1: like and how that might be quite enjoyable and quiet
Speaker 1: and what I really felt like I needed at some stages.
Speaker 1: To be honest, it was quite a time. But also
Speaker 1: look after each other, check in on your friends, check
Speaker 1: in on yourself. A reminder that I do group healings
Speaker 1: every single week. I've been doing them for so long,
Speaker 1: I've done them for tens of thousands of people. I
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Speaker 1: And I did that because I wanted something that is
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Speaker 1: people who just want to dip their toes into trying
Speaker 1: energy healing and readings and stuff like that. But also
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Speaker 1: you know, our podcast. This is for us, for all
Speaker 1: the crazies, for all the village crazies, for all the
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Speaker 1: I hope you guys have a beautiful week. I'm so
Speaker 1: glad to be back Bushy Tailed, and I'm ready to
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Speaker 1: See you lady guys. Bye