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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: I've got a story for you, I hope so because

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Speaker 2: I look sorry, no, no, no, sorry. I was trying

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Speaker 2: to get this software up, don't I probably do. Wouldn't

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Speaker 2: that be great if you could plug yourself in software

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Speaker 2: update go on? Out of context? Of context, Kate, Inside.

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Speaker 3: Of context, Kate, Okay, it just be a.

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Speaker 2: Good time savor anyway. Sorry, I'm sorry for that pause.

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Speaker 2: I was just busily looking for something because I want

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Speaker 2: to talk. Oh my goodness, I want to talk about

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Speaker 2: something this morning that happened at home. And in a

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Speaker 2: world where you're so conscious of of things changing, you know,

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Speaker 2: the environment is changing, and certainly the way our kids

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Speaker 2: are being educated about things is really different to the

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Speaker 2: way that we were. Some might say things are way

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Speaker 2: too politically correct and what happened to the good old days?

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Speaker 2: But you do, Look, you do tend to change things.

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Speaker 2: And now that you're a parent, you get to decide

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Speaker 2: how your children learn. I want to talk to you

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Speaker 2: if you haven't censored your kids stuff properly? Right, And

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Speaker 2: this comes because my dad, he's the head of a

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Speaker 2: long line of hoarders in the reach.

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Speaker 4: That's what you also you also went through far Out

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Speaker 4: Brussels Sprout for us not on the show as.

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Speaker 2: Well, exactly. And we were reading nursery rhymes about being

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Speaker 2: run over by a tram and becoming strawberry jam with

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Speaker 2: some graphic cartoon.

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Speaker 3: We used to black sheep, can't do that anymore?

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Speaker 2: Do you not do that anymore?

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Speaker 3: Green sheep? There's no green sheep.

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Speaker 2: No, that's mem fox. That's not no, it hasn't. Have

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Speaker 2: they changed it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: They have.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what my daughter offered me on the

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Speaker 2: weekend as well?

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Speaker 3: A fad no a.

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Speaker 2: She came home from a party on this on a

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Speaker 2: Saturday night, said would you like a red ripper? And

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Speaker 2: I was like yeah, And I loved I absolutely loved those.

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Speaker 2: I would have said yes, but I didn't know what

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Speaker 2: she was talking about. Anyway, you were sucking on you, YouTuber,

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Speaker 2: I I can't call it that anymore. And a milk

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Speaker 2: I was always we found the imaginary friend lucking milky.

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Speaker 2: And anyway, anyway, Dad, right, he's going through stuff and

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Speaker 2: it's like maggot, Gosh, magazines, clothes, books like et cetera,

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Speaker 2: et cetera, all our school stuff when we were kids,

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Speaker 2: Like we've never we don't throw stuff out, and we

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Speaker 2: accumulate and have continue to. So anyway, he's coming through

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Speaker 2: all of these books that we had as kids. Thought,

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Speaker 2: you know, because May is mad for reading, I can't

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Speaker 2: get her out of a book. And so there were

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Speaker 2: some books, of course that I must have read when

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Speaker 2: I was a kid, and he said, May you might

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Speaker 2: like these, Dulan, your mummy used to read these when

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Speaker 2: she was little, and I didn't think anything about it.

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Speaker 2: There's like a whole series of the and they're called

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Speaker 2: girl's mystery stories. Read the book to it, I mean, yes,

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Speaker 2: I remember those. Did you read these as well? I

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Speaker 2: didn't read them, but I can remember in the library

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Speaker 2: at school. Yeah, so a girl's kind of tween novels,

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Speaker 2: I guess. Dancing with Danger, the Sea Has Her Secrets,

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Speaker 2: The Secret of World's End, Cottage, the Mystery rock Star, Okay,

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Speaker 2: look Out, the Inheritance, and this one she went with

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Speaker 2: first May, The Mystery of the Moors. Anyway, I gave

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Speaker 2: it to I was doing stuff at home and I thought,

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Speaker 2: this is good, a little break from Harry Potter. You

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Speaker 3: What did you read us?

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Speaker 2: Some the cold was eating through her clothing and into

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Speaker 2: her body. She found herself shivering violently. Vicky started back

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Speaker 2: down the hill, stumbling and sliding through the deepening snow.

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Speaker 2: I mean it just what I realized is that it's scary.

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Speaker 2: Because I said, right, darling, okay, mummy's time to go

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Speaker 2: of that stuff. She said, I'm going to have to

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Speaker 2: sleep with you tonight, and I said, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: we're not doing this anymore. It's a school night. You've

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Speaker 2: got to back into your bed. And oh no, I can't. Okay, Mummy,

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Speaker 2: I said, You've just you've had a nice read and

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Speaker 2: I couldn't stop reading it. There was a man with

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Speaker 2: a shot gun because when you think about it, have

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Speaker 2: a look at the cover history of them all listen,

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Speaker 2: because you know how hard it is when you can't

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Speaker 2: You don't want to give that to your kids at all,

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Speaker 2: and you don't even know.

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Speaker 4: And I remember.

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Speaker 2: Hughey's eighth birthday and I think it was up to

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Speaker 2: gluttony in the movie seven.

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Speaker 3: Oh, he said, Dad, I don't really, I don't know

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Speaker 3: about this. Oh my gosh. I don't know what scared

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Speaker 3: you as a kid. Maybe you read something like the

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Speaker 3: Girl's Mystery Story that Kate Ritchie and may have been

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Speaker 3: reading Sarah and Penrith, what about you.

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Speaker 1: So it's actually my daughter. She has a really irrational

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Speaker 1: fear of birds.

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Speaker 2: Birds, so any type of bird, Sarah.

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Speaker 1: Or yes, anything. It actually started when she was in

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Speaker 1: about preschool age. We went out to get in the

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Speaker 1: car and some birds had got in my car and

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Speaker 1: I was flying around crazily and I was screaming, And

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Speaker 1: I think it's just scarleful life.

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Speaker 2: I think it has sometimes. I think you get those

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Speaker 2: fears where Mum and Dad take you to like the

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Speaker 2: Wildlife Haram Sanctuary, and then the rose ellas are in you.

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Speaker 3: The joy that I get when there is a kid

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Speaker 3: that is so scared of dogs, I realize that your

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Speaker 3: dog is right next to them.

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Speaker 5: No, in a weird twist, a lot of birds are

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Speaker 5: scared of Tom.

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Speaker 2: That's actually quite good. Yeah, I'd give that edding down.

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Speaker 3: To give that a What Denise in the room unlessa'

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Speaker 3: in Campbelltown?

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Speaker 4: What's so your weed fear Melissa Dolls.

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Speaker 2: Meto, Melissa, did you watch the did you watch the

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Speaker 2: movie Dolls when you were growing up with a porcelain mac?

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Speaker 6: I sure did. And also is it Alabella whatever it's called, Annabella, Annabelle.

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Speaker 2: I don't know the second one that's exactly the same

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Speaker 2: as me. I can't stand. What about the eyes, Melissa,

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Speaker 2: is the eyes that freak you out?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: And my kids, my kids won't go to my mom's

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Speaker 1: house and sleep there because they're scared of the dolls.

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Speaker 2: Sharon for men, I watch your daughter terrified off Sharon.

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Speaker 4: Oh. A few years ago, there used to be this

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Speaker 4: image that would come around on the kid's screens on

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Speaker 4: the Internet called momo.

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Speaker 3: Oh I know Momo, Yes, a lot of mom at.

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Speaker 4: Home, Oh my god, and it terrified her. And he

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Speaker 4: has three older brothers that would just just terrify her,

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Speaker 4: constantly sending her pictures doing every just sent me crazy.

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Speaker 6: She would even go to school and a picture would

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Speaker 6: come up on her iPad or her phone and has

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Speaker 6: to literally pick her up from school and bring her

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Speaker 6: home terrified.

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Speaker 2: We all know someone that looks like, well, we thought

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Speaker 2: your nickname was mofa at school, wasn't it.

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Speaker 3: What does that mean?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 3: In a weird twist.

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Speaker 5: Though most of the images you see online are of

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Speaker 5: Tom Ivey that scare.

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Speaker 2: Kids, that was that was actually quite good.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't give that a ding dong.

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Speaker 3: Arst Jane.

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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, I've always had a fear of getting older

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Speaker 1: and getting married to someone with really bad breath. And

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Speaker 1: I'm living out that nightmare now.

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Speaker 2: Oh like serious platosis or oh something like that.

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Speaker 4: It's just horrid.

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Speaker 1: I have to sleep in a different room.

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 3: Have you spoken to her about us?

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Speaker 1: I just sing a little bit of extra chewing gum

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Speaker 1: here and there, and you know, is there anything that

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Speaker 1: you can do about a dean or well, apart from

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Speaker 1: sleeping separate rooms?

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Speaker 2: Fits in? Not much? Really, Oh Dean, you need to

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Speaker 2: because she might not even know.

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Speaker 1: Oh she knows.

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Speaker 3: Don't worry about it because.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't want to have a kiss.

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Speaker 5: Quite often, Dean Cake gets what I can only describe

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Speaker 5: as an onion horror, and sometimes I just have to

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Speaker 5: look at it and go, you know what, I'll start

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Speaker 5: crying if you keep chopping that onion breath in my face.

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Speaker 2: It's not even funny, So don't laugh at that. I know,

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Speaker 2: don't give that a Dan don I think the snack

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Speaker 2: man deserves the ding dong there.

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Speaker 3: Thanks Buddy, thanks for a cool sits in.

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