WEBVTT - ANNA OPENS UP ABOUT HARASSMENT AT THE TENNIS 0:00:00.440 --> 0:00:03.159 Matt, you are looking absolutely glowing today. 0:00:03.200 --> 0:00:04.000 What's your secret? 0:00:04.160 --> 0:00:07.080 Well, Anna, I've been using this new hydrating tanning myss 0:00:07.080 --> 0:00:08.600 called Goldie b with two e's. 0:00:09.080 --> 0:00:11.200 I have to check it out. I've never heard of it. 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:13.280 Go to their instagram. 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:16.080 I want the fairy Tale, I want the Prince Charming 0:00:16.480 --> 0:00:17.680 she how. 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:20.680 Do I put this? Isn't a fan of my kissing style. 0:00:21.720 --> 0:00:24.520 Boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in a 0:00:24.560 --> 0:00:25.080 trash bit. 0:00:25.160 --> 0:00:27.160 He's non recyclable catching him mu. 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:30.639 I love being love. I love love. 0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:34.000 Is it like uncool if you're a guy to like 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:34.720 Taylor Swift? 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:35.800 I don't think so. No. 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:39.120 I just feel like the guys have this thing where 0:00:39.120 --> 0:00:41.320 they're like put up this front, like I don't like 0:00:41.360 --> 0:00:42.040 Taylor Swift. 0:00:42.120 --> 0:00:43.720 I mean you should own what you like and what 0:00:43.720 --> 0:00:46.640 you're think. But yeah, I mean maybe it's a little 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:49.840 bit a little bit not cool. 0:00:55.160 --> 0:00:57.600 Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks all 0:00:57.680 --> 0:01:03.000 things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between. 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:05.920 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:08.319 intimate details, advice, and much more. 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:17.800 Hello everyone, I am still on the biggest high from 0:01:17.840 --> 0:01:21.000 the weekend. Taylor Swift was incredible, and the Goo Goo 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:23.240 dolls and Matchbox Funny were also incredible. 0:01:23.319 --> 0:01:26.039 Hi Matt, Hello, what do you call it? 0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:27.360 Your my merchant? 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:29.440 How do you get that? 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:31.560 From the Friendship bracelets? 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:33.560 Did you give any out of them? 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:36.440 No? So I wasn't really on top of like all 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:38.760 of the things that people were doing. But on I 0:01:38.760 --> 0:01:41.800 think two days before I went, I started seeing a 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:43.680 lot of like what people think you of wearing and 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:45.720 a lot of people had thirteen on their hand, and 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:49.840 then the friendship bracelets. So I actually had this Friendship bracelet. 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:52.440 It's actually a necklace and it says. 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:52.840 Anna on it. 0:01:53.000 --> 0:01:55.840 Why do you have that in the first place? I 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:56.440 just liked it. 0:01:59.120 --> 0:02:01.920 From ages and I saw it and I was like, 0:02:01.960 --> 0:02:04.280 I wonder if I wrap this around my wrist twice 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:05.000 if it's gonna work. 0:02:05.000 --> 0:02:05.480 And it did. 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:07.240 But I was like, I hope no one asked me 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:09.520 for it because it's the only one I have and 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:10.680 it's got my. 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:13.920 Name on it. Well, I didn't realize that the whole 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:16.280 like understand it until we got there that you have 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:19.080 to dress up with from one of her albums, So 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:21.840 like one was like, what was it? Reputation red? So 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:24.920 people were in red. People were in like the Reputation kids. 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:27.800 One were from what's her folk Lord album or something. 0:02:27.840 --> 0:02:29.720 I'm not sure. I don't know, Like I had to 0:02:29.800 --> 0:02:32.480 dress up from her albums. Yeah, called the errors to 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:33.360 all her errors? 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:35.560 Yeah, yeah, did you not know that? 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:38.480 I didn't really look into it, did I. 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:41.480 I did notice that you dressed up as Travis Kelsey though, 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:42.960 which I thought was hilarious. 0:02:43.040 --> 0:02:46.040 Obviously there was actually so many Kelsey jerseys walking around. 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:48.760 I did notice a couple I was laughing about. It's 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:50.799 all that the boyfriends and husbands were wearing them. 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:53.200 I know, it was really funny because obviously I went 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:57.079 with Michael and I did see a few other boyfriends there, 0:02:57.160 --> 0:03:00.960 and all of the boyfriends started off like very you know, 0:03:01.080 --> 0:03:02.880 just watching, not really singing along. 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:05.119 But by the end, I feel like they were all converted. 0:03:05.160 --> 0:03:08.480 They were all like uugh and about like dancing, having 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:09.200 a good time. 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:11.480 Well, Tammy offered me the ticket. It was meant to 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:13.960 be for a sister and I sister didn't want to go, 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:16.160 so I was like, yeah, I'll come and watch, like 0:03:16.240 --> 0:03:18.519 I don't obviously, I don't go out of my way 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:20.400 to listen to Taylor Swift like I hear it on 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:23.800 the radio, but like I love performances, I love like 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:26.119 the patternry of that, and like, yeah, she was good. 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:28.200 She was a good performer. I actually really enjoyed it. 0:03:28.200 --> 0:03:31.919 It was like a spectacle, like there was so many 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:35.480 people around. Everyone was up and about, everyone was dressed up. 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:39.200 It just felt like a real moment in history that 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:40.040 you got to be a part. 0:03:40.240 --> 0:03:43.720 And when she walked out, there's screams from like the 0:03:43.920 --> 0:03:46.240 fans was like deafening, And I said that to her, Tammy. 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:50.400 I was like, imagine ninety six ers people screaming for you, 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:53.840 you know, not your football team. You Like, that's nuts. 0:03:53.840 --> 0:03:57.520 That would be so like, yeah, crazy, exhilarating. 0:03:57.800 --> 0:04:01.280 How do you check your ego from that? You'd be like, 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:03.320 I'm the most powerful person. 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:05.720 In the world. Literally, you would be like, that's nice. 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:07.400 Six thousand people screaming for just you. 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:11.960 Bit three nights like ninety six, ninety six, ninety six, 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:14.119 Like that's three hundred thousand. 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:15.880 She could have got more as well if she didn't 0:04:15.880 --> 0:04:18.200 do a stage she did like Ed Chune in the 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:20.880 middle of the like the thing and filled up the 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:22.080 whole mcg. 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:24.279 Yeah, but I think she is just such a good performer. 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:27.839 Like when I saw ed Sheeran, the sound quality was 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:29.320 so bad, and I think it was just because it 0:04:29.360 --> 0:04:31.599 was I don't know, just the way he was in 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:34.520 the middle. It just didn't work. But no, she was incredible. 0:04:35.120 --> 0:04:38.160 Yeah. I loved her ten minute song of all too well. 0:04:39.480 --> 0:04:40.200 Do you like that song? 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:41.080 What's that one? 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:44.760 It's the one about Jake killen Horan pretty sure left 0:04:44.760 --> 0:04:51.000 your scarf at your sister's house, grabbed the car keys, 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:52.440 fuck the patriarchy. 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:55.080 Ah yeah, yeah, yeah, I love that song. 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:58.960 It's all It's Tammy plays it all the time in 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:00.719 the car, so I have no deceit, no choice but 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:01.200 to like it. 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:04.360 How much was your tickets to Taylor Swift. 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:05.719 I'm not sure. 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:09.520 Mine's worth three hundred and fifty dollars per ticket. 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:12.200 For I'm pretty sure mine would coach like a thousand. 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:14.279 And for my Valentine's Day present. 0:05:14.520 --> 0:05:17.200 On the day, Michael was like gave me like a 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:20.520 little IOU written down, being like I'm gonna buy the 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:23.280 Taylor Swift tickets for you, which I thought was really cute. 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:26.680 But three hundred and fifty dollars is a lot for 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:27.719 a concert ticket. 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:32.200 Times one hundred thousand apparently. 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:37.279 She made twenty six million dollars per show. How insane 0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:39.880 is that? Like even just to wrap your head around 0:05:39.920 --> 0:05:42.360 that is just like she. 0:05:42.400 --> 0:05:45.200 Deserves it though traveling and actually the performance she did, 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:47.320 I reckon she deserves it. But you went to another 0:05:47.360 --> 0:05:50.479 concert over the weekend, match Box twenty and the who 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:51.480 are the other people? I don't even know? 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:52.480 The Googoo Dolls? 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:54.560 Yeah, what are they? Who are they? What are they? 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:55.520 You know that song? 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:58.720 And don't the world to see? 0:05:58.920 --> 0:05:59.960 Do they have any other ones? 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:02.960 Yeah, they've got slide, they've got heaps. 0:06:03.000 --> 0:06:06.040 I mean I will say Matchbox twenty and Goo Dolls 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:08.800 was like a once in a lifetime concert experience. 0:06:08.520 --> 0:06:10.120 Because they're only doing one. 0:06:10.520 --> 0:06:14.800 Well no, they're not doing three shows at the MCG. 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:19.239 You know, they went to Rushford Winery. They're literally touring 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:20.480 all of Australia. 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:21.159 Oh really. 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:23.120 It was a sold out show as well. 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:26.040 To them Mashbox. I remember Matchbox twenty from back in 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:29.919 the day. What would they sing little how Far We've Come? 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:30.400 Yeah? 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:32.280 I had my first kiss to that song. 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:36.800 And I told Michael and he was like, can you 0:06:36.880 --> 0:06:38.520 not ruin that song for me? 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:39.920 Sorry? 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:41.680 Well look how far you come? Now? 0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:43.000 Yeah? 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:45.920 I mean, if I had to pick between which one 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:47.800 was my favorite, I don't think I could. I think 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:50.840 they were both equally good for different reasons. 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:53.360 Well, people asked me, like, hol Taylor Swift, and I said, yeah, 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:56.320 it was amazing, but like I'm not an overly big 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:57.960 Taylor Swift fan, so like I'm not gonna see you 0:06:58.000 --> 0:06:59.080 and say it was the best time in my life. 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:01.880 It was very amazing, Like Tammy and Sass enjoyed it, 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:03.840 and it was cute watching them enjoy it, but like, 0:07:04.360 --> 0:07:05.159 you know, it was fun. 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:08.200 I saw the videos. If you dance long, don't act 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:09.440 like you didn't like it. 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:12.240 I feel like this is a guy thing, Like guys 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:14.000 don't want to admit that they like. 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:17.360 Taylor Swift songs are very catchy, Like. 0:07:17.360 --> 0:07:18.320 They're so catchy. 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:21.000 I saw the video of you literally dancing, having the 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:23.400 time of your life. Michael didn't want to look like 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:25.280 he was having a good time, but I know, secretly, 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:26.680 deep down he was having a good time. 0:07:26.720 --> 0:07:28.840 But ones that they smash on the radio, I obviously 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:31.000 know because I hear him all the time when I'm driving, 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:32.680 so I could get along to them. 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:35.400 Is it like uncool if you're a guy to like 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:36.120 Taylor Swift. 0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:37.200 I don't think so. No. 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:40.480 I just feel like the guys have this thing where 0:07:40.520 --> 0:07:42.720 they're like put up this front like I don't like 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:43.440 Taylor Swift. 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:45.120 I mean you should own what you like and what 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:47.760 you think. But I yeah, I mean maybe it's a 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:51.280 little bit a little bit not cool. 0:07:52.160 --> 0:07:52.640 Yeah. 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:54.160 Do you have a turn on this week? Or is 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:54.760 that your turn on? 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:56.520 Turn on of the week? 0:07:57.040 --> 0:08:01.480 I mean Seeing Googo Dolls play the song Iris, which 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:03.800 is one of my favorite songs ever and it's one 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:08.640 of Michael's favorite songs ever, was literally a core moment 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:13.440 unlocked for me and Michael. And we've still been kind 0:08:13.480 --> 0:08:17.400 of like unsure of what our first song will be 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:20.040 for our first dance at the wedding. And I think 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:26.040 you know that's in the mix now, So watch this space. 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:30.440 For the first dance. Is it a romantic song? 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:39.280 Yeah? You know this song surely an don't first dance? 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:39.640 Isn't it? 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:41.160 Well, what's the first dance wedding? 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:44.080 So slow dance? Our song is slow? 0:08:46.040 --> 0:08:48.720 I mean I think I think, yeah, I don't know 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:51.000 if that's going to be it. There's there's like three 0:08:51.240 --> 0:08:56.440 that we're deciding between. And Amber, our writer of this 0:08:56.520 --> 0:09:00.240 podcast is Actually she is a dancer as well. He's 0:09:00.280 --> 0:09:03.120 going to do dance lessons with Michael and I. 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.040 I mean I were talking about doing that as well. 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:07.240 Really have no rhythm whatsoever. 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:07.720 I don't. 0:09:07.960 --> 0:09:09.720 Me and Michael are dancers. 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:13.200 Like the thought of, like the whole wedding part does 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:15.680 not scare me in the slightest, But the thought of 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:18.720 having to do an actual dance routine in front of people, 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:23.000 I'm like, oh, cringe, Like that is so cringe to me. 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:25.599 The grooms in and I learning something. 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:28.800 A little l like, yeah, you've told me this. 0:09:29.480 --> 0:09:30.600 I don't want to say too much. 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:32.720 And it's a really good idea. I will say that. 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:34.319 The dance is funny as as well. 0:09:34.480 --> 0:09:35.480 It's hilarious. 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:35.960 Yeah. 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:38.200 I can't wait to see the footage of that. 0:09:38.440 --> 0:09:39.520 Well you'll be there. 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:45.440 Well yeah, actually no, why did I. 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:50.640 Say, Well I turn on for this week is obviously 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:52.960 I'm not going to go too much into detail about it. 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:55.920 I'm just going to say the super Bowl was last week. 0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:59.200 We know that favorite day of the year. 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:03.480 Yeah, when to a big arm party wasn't even a party, 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:04.719 it was like a showing of it, but it was 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:06.280 a lot bigger than me and the boys thought we 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:08.480 bought tickets to this event and it was like sory, 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:09.160 I was packed. 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:12.240 I did see it. It looked fucking crazy. There was 0:10:12.640 --> 0:10:15.160 cheerleaders there. I was like, what is this place that 0:10:15.200 --> 0:10:15.680 you're asking? 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:17.559 It was really full on. They had like their own 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:19.320 halftime show and all that sort of stuff. It was 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:21.080 like a great day with the boys. You know, there's 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:24.960 always drinking punishments. I actually came last in fantasy so 0:10:24.960 --> 0:10:26.240 I had to wear a clown outfit. 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:27.520 I did see that. 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:30.640 We're a sign that says I suck at fantasy football. 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:33.120 Next you'll be my year. Don't worry. But yeah, it 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:34.920 was the best day. I love it so much fun. 0:10:35.360 --> 0:10:39.920 Well, look, I saw an article about Morgan Riddle, which 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:44.160 is the girlfriend of American tennis player Taylor Fritz, and 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:49.360 she was actually talking about her experience with American football 0:10:49.480 --> 0:10:52.440 and how she keeps getting harassed, and I thought that 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:54.199 was stuper super interesting. 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:58.160 What did she say? She went to the Super Bowl. 0:10:57.960 --> 0:10:59.000 So I have the quote here. 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:02.719 She said, in the last three days, I've been grabbed, groped, harassed, 0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:07.880 cat called incessantly basically every few minutes when we were 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:10.200 out in public. And it was really bad at the 0:11:10.240 --> 0:11:13.240 game today. We couldn't even enjoy the game without getting 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:17.280 bothered by drunk, rude, gross male fans. It's extremely stressful 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:17.960 and scary. 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:21.120 So men were like yelling at her during the game, 0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:25.559 like the corn Where do men think that, like that 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:28.040 is the way to like talk to a lady or 0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:31.199 it's just disgusting, Like what do they think is that's 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:33.920 going to achieve? Then make a girl feel uncomfortable. No, 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:36.400 girl's going to turn her around and be like, Wow, 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:38.040 I love the way you just called out to me. 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:39.199 Here's my number, Like. 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:42.640 Yeah, But I think it's because, like they see her, 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:45.920 she's out of their league, so they're kind of just 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:49.800 it's like an it feels antagonistic, Like when you're on 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:52.200 the receiving end of it, it feels scary and then 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:55.199 like someone's antagonizing you and it's stressful. 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:57.000 Have you been on the other end of it? I 0:11:57.040 --> 0:11:58.760 know we're on the phone the other day and I 0:11:58.880 --> 0:12:02.320 heard what happened to some guy said something and I 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:03.720 was like, what was that? And you're like, some guy 0:12:03.800 --> 0:12:05.160 was calling out to me or something. 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:08.720 Yeah. I was in Woolworth and I walked out and 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:11.160 I was on the phone to Matt. Yeah, and this 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:13.040 guy yelled something at me. I can't remember what it was, 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:15.360 but it was a bit I don't know, it was on. 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:16.959 The line said it was beautiful or something. 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:18.920 Yeah, it was something like that, but I think it 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:19.440 was a bit. 0:12:19.320 --> 0:12:20.240 More seedy than that. 0:12:20.640 --> 0:12:23.640 Yeah, and he yelled out to me, and my instant 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:26.360 reaction like obviously it's nice to get a compliment, but 0:12:26.520 --> 0:12:27.960 to me, I'm like scared. 0:12:28.080 --> 0:12:30.760 It's not like that. I'm like scared. I'm like I. 0:12:30.720 --> 0:12:33.720 Start I started walking quickly. I was like, I'm running 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:36.320 to my car, like to Matt, like, it actually is 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:38.080 like very uncomfortable. 0:12:38.160 --> 0:12:40.480 That's why I don't understand why a guy would go 0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:42.880 through the head and think that that's the right thing. 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:46.200 But also remember when I was at the tennis and 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:48.920 I showed you that video, Yeah that was nice. So 0:12:49.120 --> 0:12:51.280 when I was at the tennis this year, and to 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:54.600 be fair on Morgan, I think she's pretty lucky that 0:12:54.720 --> 0:12:57.960 her boyfriend is a tennis player, because I think the 0:12:58.080 --> 0:13:00.640 tennis crowded a lot more than. 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:01.360 The football crowd. 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:04.320 I think the football crowd are a bit more full 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:07.320 on and it's very much boys club, and you know, 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:09.160 they all affirm that type of behavior. 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:10.440 But it's absolutely not on. 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:13.600 But I was at the tennis at the Australian Open, 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:18.400 and I literally was just watching the tennis with my 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:25.680 girlfriend and this guy from across the aisle constantly was harassing. 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:26.280 Me the whole game. 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:29.760 Like I did not enjoy the tennis match because this 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:32.640 guy was calling out to me. He was doing a 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:35.880 kissy face at me, he was waving at me. I 0:13:35.920 --> 0:13:38.960 literally put my hand up to show him my ring 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:42.200 did not deter This guy really wanted nothing to do 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:44.600 with the fact that I was engaged, to the point 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:49.040 that in the kind of halftime mark, he came. 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:50.800 Up to me and introduced himself. 0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:54.440 I felt so uncomfortable because it's so hard being a 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:55.520 female because. 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:58.720 You don't want to be rude, be rude. 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:01.040 I know that you should be rude, but I think 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.280 I have this problem. 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:05.640 I would want my partner to be rude. If someone 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:07.760 was doing that, yeah, go away. 0:14:08.320 --> 0:14:10.760 No, I like I wasn't being friendly, let's put it 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:13.640 that way. But I have a problem with if I'm 0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:16.920 like in a public setting to be like fuck off, 0:14:17.040 --> 0:14:18.800 Like I would just never say. That's just not in 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:21.320 my character. And I think the people pleas are in 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:23.280 me is just like just try and play cool, just 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:26.920 look ahead, just pretend it's not happening. But really I 0:14:26.960 --> 0:14:30.200 should be like, this is inappropriate, Please stop cat calling me. 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:34.160 Where do they think that that is like an appropriate behavior, 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:36.520 like gentlemen behavior, Like it's just so gross and how 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:38.320 do they think that you're going to turn it? Like? 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:40.160 I just don't get I don't get it. 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:44.520 I sent Matt the video of this guy at the tennis. 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:46.880 Facebook page or you're out him if anyone knows who 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:48.280 he is or should you out him? 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:50.720 I mean, I can put it on the facebook page. 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:51.760 I have no problems with that. 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:54.480 It's pretty funny. He's not funny, sorry, but like he's 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:56.320 full on like kiss blowing you kisses. 0:14:57.080 --> 0:15:00.040 Yeah, he's like like he's like going like to me, 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:01.880 I was like, oh, like yuh. 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:04.080 And the Dwayne Johnson on your finger did not scare 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:04.840 him away. 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:07.800 To turn the rock Johnson. He was like not threatened 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:08.640 by it at all. 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:13.720 I mean, is alcohol a player in men kind of 0:15:13.800 --> 0:15:17.440 starting to be a bit vulgar and push limits with 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:19.440 females at these sporting events. 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:22.800 I think if they're to start off with they are 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:26.040 like that, then yeah, alcohol heighten that. So if they're 0:15:26.040 --> 0:15:30.120 disrespectful and you know, Mike, is the word you said 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:33.120 vulgar and like just gross, I think that it would 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:36.520 heighten that behavior. Yeah, I think alcohol plays a factor 0:15:36.520 --> 0:15:39.280 in it. But yeah, I just did their mum not 0:15:39.400 --> 0:15:42.480 raise them to be like gentlemen and the right person? 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:43.840 I feel like clearly not. 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:47.720 I feel like people like miss some like learning key 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:51.840 learning lessons because I mean, you wouldn't. The thing is 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:54.280 as well, like you wouldn't want someone to do that 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:56.480 to your sister or your mum or your aunt or 0:15:56.480 --> 0:16:00.400 anyone in your family. So then I think what on 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:01.880 earth is going on in your head? 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:04.040 Like I wouldn't want people doing that to my sisters 0:16:04.120 --> 0:16:04.720 or my partner. 0:16:04.800 --> 0:16:09.440 Absolutely, Michael was fuming as well. Of course I was 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:12.720 messaging Michael because I was saying to him, I'm really scared. 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:17.040 This guy's been pretty intimidating. He's cat calling me, and 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:18.320 he was fuming. 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:20.280 I think you have every right, Any girl has every 0:16:20.360 --> 0:16:22.800 right time to fuck off if they're in that situation. 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:26.200 But then he's literally sat right there. I feel like 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:31.560 I underestimate how intimidating a man can be a drunk 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:34.880 man to a woman who's there with another female friend. 0:16:35.080 --> 0:16:36.840 True, you know what I mean. 0:16:36.720 --> 0:16:39.120 Like, it's such a hard I don't know what the 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:42.840 right thing to do is what I'm saying, because my 0:16:43.040 --> 0:16:47.360 brain tells me to say get bugged, But then I 0:16:47.360 --> 0:16:50.000 don't know. There's something that comes over me where I'm 0:16:50.040 --> 0:16:51.960 not trying to be rude to anyone, and I'm just 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:54.600 sometimes I think the best thing to do is just 0:16:54.640 --> 0:16:57.080 to pretend it's not happening. But I know that's probably 0:16:57.120 --> 0:17:00.120 not right either. I don't know. Maybe we should to 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:02.520 near this conversation on the Facebook page so we can, 0:17:02.840 --> 0:17:04.680 you know, come back around to it. But I mean, 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:07.680 it happens on a daily basis to females and it's 0:17:07.720 --> 0:17:08.880 completely unacceptable. 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:15.040 I agree. And what's your ick of this week? 0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:17.480 Okay, so there's it's not. 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:23.560 It is it should be. But my ich of the 0:17:23.600 --> 0:17:26.200 week is that I started this show on Netflix. It's 0:17:26.280 --> 0:17:29.760 number one in Australia at the moment on Netflix Australia. 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:32.359 It's called One Day Now. 0:17:32.400 --> 0:17:35.280 I've started this show. I think it's like fourteen episodes 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:39.160