1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: I'm sure that you would like to think that you're normal. 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: I know I do, But then I think about what 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,039 Speaker 1: I'm really like and I realize that in many ways 4 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: I'm actually not very normal at all. For you, there's 5 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: probably bits of your life that aren't that normal either. 6 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: But are you or I, I don't know, in the 7 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: middle of the desert looking for UFOs with a bunch 8 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 1: of other believers and an ex member of take that. 9 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: Have you ever tried to split an atom in your kitchen? 10 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: Are you currently a member of the KKK? No, Well, 11 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: then you're probably You're probably pretty normal me too. Additionally, 12 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: the chances that John Ronson will want to chat with 13 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 1: you for his next book or his next documentary are very, 14 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 1: very slim, because for twenty five years, Welsh journalist John 15 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:56,279 Speaker 1: Ronson has been spending time with the absolute fringes of 16 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: our communities. He gets so deep in with these people 17 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: that truly humanize them. It's wonderful to see and it's 18 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 1: very useful for him too, especially well, there was that 19 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: time that he was outed as a Jew in the 20 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: middle of a jihadi training camp. He's got a wonderful, 21 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: quick witted charm about him and the self deprecating way 22 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: of being that probably saved his life. One of John's 23 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: most famous books is called The Psychopath Test, and he's 24 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: actually touring a live event to Australia kind of built 25 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 1: around that book. He's doing it before the end of 26 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: the year. I for want. I am absolutely thrilled by that, 27 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 1: because if this conversation that you're about to hear, if 28 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:38,039 Speaker 1: this conversation is anything to go by, the chance to 29 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: spend an evening with a person who has spent evenings 30 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 1: with the most extreme, the most terrifying, the most ideological 31 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: humans on the planet, the chance to spend that with 32 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: someone like that sounds incredibly comforting. He's utterly charming. Can't 33 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: wait for you to meet him. Get to the show 34 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: in a moment. I do have to play some mats 35 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: back after the break. Gooday, welcome to the show. This 36 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 1: is better than yesterday, helping you make today better than yesterday. 37 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: Since twenty thirteen, my name's Osha Gisburg. I am a 38 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: podcast I'm a best selling author and award winning documentary maker. 39 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: I'm a TV host. I'm an AirPod locator, a homusuficionado, 40 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: and a person who yelled at once again by the 41 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: same person who yelled at me in the street a 42 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: couple of weeks back. You can listen to the previous 43 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: episodes to help me to help understand that one. Thanks 44 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 1: to everyone that got in touch on the new mailing list. 45 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: Thanks for writing back to that one if you want 46 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: to get on the link there. I'm writing stuff that's 47 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: not I haven't been able to do for a while, 48 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 1: and it's not here on this show and it's great, 49 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: so big thanks to the links in the show notes. 50 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: My guest today is Jhon Ronson. He's extraordinary. He is 51 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: a prolific author and filmmaker. His work is mostly about 52 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: the oddness that exists in our community, from the quaint 53 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 1: oddness to the terrifying oddness. Some of his books have 54 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: actually made into feature films, The Men Who Steric Goats 55 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 1: that one, and Frank, which is about a loosely about 56 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 1: a band he used to be in. Now. One of 57 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: his most well known books is called The Psychopath Test. 58 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 1: You may have seen a Ted talk about it. That's 59 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: him and that book is what he's loosely setting out 60 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: to explore during the live event and he's bringing to 61 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: Australia come November. I'll put a link for that in 62 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 1: the show notes as well. It's a marvelous conversation. I'm 63 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: so thrilled, But I've got to have the opportunity to 64 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 1: chat with John Ronson. I know you will be too 65 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: on every second I can get with you, mister Ronson's 66 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: I understand, Well, you know what it is, and you've 67 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: done it a squidion times where you take eighteen hours 68 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: of planes to get somewhere and you're half an hour 69 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 1: someone turns into twelve minutes with someone turns into eight minutes, 70 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: where someone turns into them finding a coffee for three minutes, 71 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:13,839 Speaker 1: and you're like, fuck, I've got four minutes, yeah, eight 72 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: hundred frames. 73 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 2: Shit, that's sudding. I'm just had locks of that roof 74 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 2: the last time I was coming to Australia and I 75 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: was on the plane and I was listening to Michael 76 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 2: Paler's diary, like It's Around the World Diary, and I 77 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 2: was just it was like day four, you know, please, 78 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 2: and I was thinking, I'm not getting any sleep there, 79 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 2: and then suddenly it was day three hundred and ninety. 80 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 2: It's like, okay, I got some sleep. 81 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: I My dad gave me the book of that show 82 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: when I was a kid, and as you mentioned that, 83 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: I was like, go on another date where you can 84 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 1: show up to the BBC and go hello. I used 85 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: to be in Monte Paulis and I'd like you to 86 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,159 Speaker 1: pay for me and a film crew shooting on sixteen 87 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 1: millimeter to go around the world for a year and 88 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 1: they go ba. 89 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 2: Done. You're right those days of God. You know. The 90 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 2: first time I wrote a story for American GQ, I 91 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 2: was interviewing a robots. I was interviewing a robot built 92 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 2: by a billionaire called Martin Rothblatt. This is an amazing story. Well, 93 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 2: I told you the story quite quickly, and then get 94 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 2: to the point upot. 95 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: I mean, I think if you're going to join the 96 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: billionaires club, you're gonna need a name that sounds. 97 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 2: Right. Well, okay, So Martin Rothblat born Martin trans Woman 98 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 2: as a child went round NASA had a brain wave 99 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 2: for there's just a regular kid in Chicago. So if 100 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 2: I could, if I knew how to double the strength 101 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 2: of satellites, I could shrink the size of satellite dishes. 102 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:57,280 Speaker 2: And at that moment invented the concept of satellite radio 103 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 2: for carts. UH set up the Serious Network became a billionaire. 104 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:06,479 Speaker 2: This woman called Bana. They had a kid that the 105 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 2: kid is diagnosed with an untreatable lung condition called pulmonary hypertension. 106 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:16,599 Speaker 2: But he goes to the library and invents a treatment 107 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 2: for pulmonary hypertension, becomes a billionaire a second time over. Anyway, 108 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 2: by the time I entered Martin's orbit, she had she 109 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:30,840 Speaker 2: was trying to create a conscious sentient robot based on 110 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 2: her real life partner Beina. So I went off to 111 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:39,799 Speaker 2: interview being A the robot apparently the most sentient robot 112 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:42,679 Speaker 2: in the world. I got to say, not that sentient, 113 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 2: but it's something that interesting. You know what, when you 114 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 2: interview a robot, you feel the need to ask it 115 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 2: like profound questions like I said, what does electricity taste like? 116 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 2: And being a replied like a planet around the star, 117 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 2: which is either like awesome or meaningless. Anyway, the reason 118 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 2: why I tell you that story, it was the whole time, 119 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 2: the whole like five hours I was inter Beaner. There 120 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 2: was a limo outside the GQ a date for those 121 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,559 Speaker 2: dates of God, my God, you're lucky if you get 122 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:24,559 Speaker 2: if you get splashed by a puddle that limo drives over. 123 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 1: We've text out if you can't access and will reimburse you. 124 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: They're never going to reimburse you. 125 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 2: Ever, I can't believe that GQ paid for a libo 126 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 2: to sit there while I interviewed the robots. 127 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 1: Well man, that's uh, good on you, Martine Rains And well, 128 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: at least when you know in the world of billionaires. 129 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 1: I'm not the first person to say it, but if 130 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: you're a billionaire, someone's getting exploited somewhere right. 131 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 2: Well, this gets to the heart of my I'm not 132 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 2: saying about as a psychopath. I'm not absolutely yeah, yeah, 133 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 2: But I wrote a book called psychopath Test, which I'm 134 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 2: bringing to Australia and New Zealers. 135 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 1: Getting the plugging we're telling not even five minutes and 136 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: you're already there. I love the culture, action, rons and 137 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: good stuff. 138 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 2: Well, well, it speaks to the very thing you just 139 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 2: made up, which is does our society reward psychopathic character traits? 140 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 2: Do we? Of all the mental disorders? Psychopathy is the 141 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 2: worst of all the mental disorders, And yet is that 142 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 2: the one that we reward by they kick them our CEOs, 143 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 2: business leeders, our religious leaders, our presidents and so on. 144 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 2: What does it say about society? If that's the mental 145 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 2: disorder that we're rewarding, the one that gives the person 146 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 2: no empathy, no remorse, no guilt. 147 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 1: For people that might not you know, have not you 148 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: seen your work or wondering who's this guy that we're 149 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 1: talking about, and how can a person become a busines 150 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: this leader and be a psychopath, this thing that we're 151 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 1: taught from all the horror movies to be afraid of. 152 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to hold hang on, where is it? 153 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 2: Okay? 154 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: So I'm going to hold this phone in my hand right, 155 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: this phone, in the words of one of my favorite 156 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 1: podcast is blind Boy, this phone is dripping in blood. 157 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 2: All right. 158 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: The amount of minerals that had to get mined in 159 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 1: terrible conditions for this thing to get made is bonkers. 160 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 2: I thought you were going to say the about True 161 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 2: Crab podcasts you've been listening to. It's just a good flat. 162 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 1: But if you're you're the CEO of Apple, right, you 163 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: know where this stuff comes from, and in your heart, 164 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 1: in your brain, you're making a moral choice profit over people, 165 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 1: and you go, yes, I'll make the iPhone seventeen Supermax 166 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: And there you go, and you have to just switch 167 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 1: the other empathy part off to make that money, and 168 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: that's how you become the most profitable company in the 169 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:52,559 Speaker 1: history of the world. 170 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 2: So psychopaths make up twenty five percent of the prison population, 171 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 2: but they are responsible for sixty to seventy percent of 172 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 2: unrest inside prisons. So move that to the business world. Wow, 173 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 2: let's say let's say the head of Apple isn't a psychopath. Yeah, 174 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 2: but the head of a rival cell phone company is. 175 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:17,719 Speaker 2: That means everybody has to be a little bit more 176 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 2: psychopathic to keep up. So's there's smaller number that the 177 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 2: ripples are. 178 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: Big because people will We're recording this on the day 179 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: of the Republican National Convention. This is the day that 180 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 1: Trump is going to take the stage, right, and if 181 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 1: it's anything like last time, as I've heard you mentioned 182 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: in the past, an empty podium waiting for him to 183 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: walk up to it is more exciting than anything else. 184 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 1: And that's probably what going to be. It's going to 185 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: be in like an hour of television today and people 186 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: will see him speak and watch him lie four times 187 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: a minute, and people will go, the guy's a psychopath. 188 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: You probably know more about psychopaths than anybody I'm going 189 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 1: to speak to. Besides my own psychiatrist who knows a 190 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 1: lot about it. He does for tup of you to 191 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 1: be a leader like Donald Trump? Do you have to 192 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: be Do you have to be a psychopath? 193 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:08,559 Speaker 2: Do you think I don't know what particular disordered Trump pass? 194 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:12,199 Speaker 2: It's possible, And also, of course it's kind of psychopathic 195 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 2: to be an armchair diagnose with other people's psychopathy. Much 196 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 2: of what I do in the psychopath test is talk 197 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 2: about how the skills of learning how to spot psychopaths 198 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 2: can turn you into a bit of a psychopath too. 199 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 2: You get drunk with your power and you define people 200 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 2: by their matters stages. However, Trump's been in our lives 201 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 2: for a long time now. We's been in our lives 202 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 2: as a politician since twenty fifteen, for nine years now, 203 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 2: So you know, you could argue we've seen enough of 204 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,719 Speaker 2: Trump now to be able to give him some kind 205 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 2: of diagnosis. So my next question is, Okay, the difference 206 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 2: between a psychopath and a narcissist is ans has a 207 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 2: lot of stuff going on under the surface. They're wounded, 208 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 2: there's a lot of emotions, and that main means that 209 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 2: they lash out with a psychopath. What's going on under 210 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 2: the surface, there's nothing like it's just emptiness. So when 211 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 2: you look at Trump, which of those two feels right 212 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 2: for I kind of think that. 213 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:13,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I listen to have a lot of Karamuchie who 214 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: worked with him quite closely, and the white the Scaramgry 215 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,319 Speaker 1: talks about him. It's our would side of the former, 216 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:21,839 Speaker 1: and that's firsthand experience. 217 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think narcissists are really interesting, especially kind of 218 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 2: COVID narcissists, the ones that you just don't know. It's 219 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 2: kind of more interesting because they're not wearing it on 220 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 2: their sleeves and the way that Trump does. But I 221 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 2: think psychopaths are more interesting than narcissists because it's just 222 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 2: a certain set of characteristics, this idea that there's that 223 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 2: all of the term is superficial, there's nothing going on underneath. 224 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:52,079 Speaker 2: They look at that like regular people, but some people 225 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 2: would argue that they're nothing like regular people. They're more 226 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 2: like predatory animals, you know, the abigdal of underperform. They 227 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 2: see the world in terms sure to pray, be foolish, 228 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 2: stop to explode witnesses and others. Yeah, I think Trump 229 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 2: probably it's more likely to be ans the psychopathal though 230 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 2: I don't know for sure. 231 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 1: Because there's there's two combinations that are happening. There's, as 232 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 1: I mentioned, we're at the Republican National Convention today. But 233 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: it's a common thing to do. It's people do it 234 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: all the time. They go to a rally or a 235 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:26,839 Speaker 1: gunfair or you know, somewhere where there's a giant amount 236 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:28,319 Speaker 1: of polarized people. They do it out the front of 237 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: Coachella talking to hot girls in Native American headdresses. Right, 238 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: it is to kind of almost gotcha and you know, 239 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: naively interview someone on camera to get them to admit something. 240 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 1: What happens when there's super confident narcissist meets the ideologue? 241 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 1: What happens when that magic happens? 242 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 2: Right, Well, you know that's a very interesting question, and 243 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 2: obviously that's what we're saying Trump speaking tonight. I was 244 00:13:55,120 --> 00:14:00,679 Speaker 2: there eight years ago. Yeah, I was accident by the way, 245 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 2: sitting in the disabled area, which meant which meant that 246 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 2: I was desperate for the toilet for us of Trump speech, 247 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 2: but I couldn't get out because all the aisles was 248 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 2: people at wheelchairs. So it was a very unpleasant situation 249 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 2: set for all the broaderies. And he'd never stopped talking. 250 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 2: I couldn't get out I was dying for the toilet anyway. 251 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 2: That The most memorable line from that speech was I 252 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 2: alone can fix things. I alone can fix it. I 253 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 2: wonder whether things are going to be different this time around. 254 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 2: And I think he's going to pretend to be more 255 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 2: I hope not pretend. I hope he's got it in 256 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 2: him to be more conciliatory, more unifying. It doesn't really 257 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 2: means it, but it would be nice if he does it. 258 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 1: Because there's a thing that happens, and we've seen it 259 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 1: throughout history when a certain level of anxiety rise in 260 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: a population about unemployment, about cost of living, about national security, 261 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 1: for example, about some moral panic sometimes and that level 262 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: of anxiety gets to this point and no one in 263 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: leadership is doing anything about it, and then a person 264 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: comes along and says something like that, I alone can 265 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 1: do this, and then there's this great sense of oh, 266 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: thank fuck for that. I don't care about it anything else. 267 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 1: I just want this icky feeling inside me to go away. Boom, 268 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 1: you got my vote. And then now you get Sylvia 269 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 1: Belusconi or what's his mate in Venezuela, And these are all 270 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: democratically like the people. The whole strongman thing rises because 271 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 1: of it, and I wonder is the antidote to that 272 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 1: teaching the populace more about dan regulation and recognizing their 273 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: own anxiety and being more rational and being inoculated to 274 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 1: fear based messaging. 275 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 2: Well that's really interesting. So let me go back to 276 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 2: Cleveland Republican Convention of twenty sixteen. The reason why I 277 00:15:56,960 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 2: was there was because my old palay thirty years ago, 278 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 2: Alex Jones, the conspiracy theorist, was there. Thirty five years ago. 279 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 2: Me and Alex Jones snuck into Bohemian Grove together. It 280 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 2: had this wild adventure, and I had no idea that 281 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 2: one day he would have the ear of a president. 282 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 2: And that goes back to that earlier thing that you 283 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 2: said about when narcissists and ideologues meet. Because Trump and 284 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 2: Alex really did enable each other's bad behavior. I'm pretty 285 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 2: convinced that Alex kind of gave Trump permission to be 286 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 2: more conspiratorial, and Trump gave Alex permission to be more 287 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 2: kind of xenophobic. Alex wasn't a xenophob in his early days. 288 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 2: His interest was things like, you know, government, over which 289 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 2: Waco Ruby Richards so, but suddenly when he hooks up 290 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 2: with Trump, he starts talking about the Muslims, you know, 291 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 2: are coming and taking over, and you know, his rhetoric 292 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 2: completely changed. And then Trump was appealing to Alex's conspiratorial base. 293 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 2: So yeah, that was a very it felt to me 294 00:16:57,080 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 2: like a very toxic combination. Yes, I think teaching people 295 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 2: critical thinking and rationality is incredibly important. 296 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: How in your mind, over the course of your career 297 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:13,600 Speaker 1: you've seen as going down this path, do you feel 298 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 1: a correction may be coming? 299 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 2: Well, it's so interesting I think grappling with not just 300 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 2: in the media, but in many worlds were sort of 301 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 2: we're sort of edging towards a post institution society where 302 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 2: all the old gatekeepers don't hold any sway anymore. People 303 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 2: are becoming personal brands. Everybody's setting up their own you know, 304 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 2: Tucker Colson gets fired from Fox, he can go to 305 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:39,439 Speaker 2: Rumbull or he can go to X. Now, God, that's 306 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:43,480 Speaker 2: the first amout actually said X, not Twitter, clearly, clearly. 307 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:52,239 Speaker 2: It's so, yeah, it's a really interesting thing to grapple with. 308 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 2: What are the consequences of that? That's actually something I'm 309 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 2: looking at from the next book. Of fact, because I 310 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:00,439 Speaker 2: think it's one of the biggest, most size and changes 311 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 2: in my lifetime. It's you know, in many ways, I 312 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 2: think it's a positive thing. Like I you know, I 313 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:09,120 Speaker 2: spent years battle and gatekeepers in the in the early 314 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 2: years of my career, you know, begging TV stations to 315 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,119 Speaker 2: give me a chance and all of that, you know, 316 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:18,640 Speaker 2: and it was very frustrating to be kind of powerless 317 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:21,879 Speaker 2: at the face of hierarchies and ideologies and shade to 318 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 2: trends or whatever. So in many ways, this kind of 319 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:27,920 Speaker 2: post gatekeeper study is a positive thing. I think the 320 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 2: legacy media had too much power, got things wrong, excluded 321 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:38,159 Speaker 2: certain voices. There's all sorts of reasons why we needed 322 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 2: something like YouTube and then eventually you know, rumble and 323 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:45,879 Speaker 2: all of those places to come along. But we really 324 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 2: have to also deal with the fact that a post 325 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:51,919 Speaker 2: institution will do anything, goes, any kind of shit goes, 326 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 2: any lies or whatever is going to have real consequences too. 327 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:58,360 Speaker 2: So I think we have to sort of both grapple 328 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 2: with the reasons why we've entered this new world and 329 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:01,919 Speaker 2: what's going to happen next. 330 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:04,200 Speaker 1: I have a one woman focused group in my house. 331 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 1: My stepdaughter who was ten when I met her. She's 332 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: in now twenty and I see, I see the way 333 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 1: that her and her cohort interact online, and I wonder, 334 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,639 Speaker 1: you know, this idea of do I really want everything 335 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 1: documented forever ever always? I wonder if you can see 336 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 1: a correction coming in that generation. 337 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:27,239 Speaker 2: Yes, you're not the first person to have said that 338 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 2: to me. Not just we don't want to be on 339 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 2: social media all the time documenting every fact, but also 340 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 2: do we really want to have this tra cody accessive 341 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:40,879 Speaker 2: rules where we you know, disproportionately publish people for some 342 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 2: kind of bider transgression. I'm really interested that you said that, 343 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 2: and I say, you're not the only person to set 344 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 2: that to me. I think a new generation is covering 345 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 2: a lug to correct what they see, you know, was 346 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 2: the you know, the rogs of their older siphiles, like 347 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 2: quote unquote council culture, like being too idealistic and open 348 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 2: on the end Internet because you know, it's a minefield. 349 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 2: You know, in the early days, everyone was just so 350 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:08,480 Speaker 2: excited about the possibilities of social media, and I mean, god, 351 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:12,679 Speaker 2: you know, nobody's excited anymore. So Yeah, so I think so, Actually, 352 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:16,120 Speaker 2: I think it's it's only positive. You know, this book's 353 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 2: just come out that's causing a lot of waves. I'm 354 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:23,320 Speaker 2: the main thesis by Jonathan Height the Extras Generation. Yeah, 355 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:28,440 Speaker 2: and his main thing is we should ban cell phones 356 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 2: in kids that under sixteen under. When I first heard that, 357 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 2: I thought, I don't really agree with that, Like, I 358 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 2: think a better thing is to it's for them to 359 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 2: come to it themselves, and they don't want to use 360 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,440 Speaker 2: their phones as much. So you say that feels very 361 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 2: positive and refreshing for that reason. 362 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,879 Speaker 1: But they you know, she's now on the other side 363 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 1: of that part of her life. But then I see 364 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 1: it in I have other mates, We've got kids who 365 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 1: are he I don't know how he did it, but 366 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 1: he managed to keep his daughter off my wove until 367 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 1: she was sixteen. It was just I don't know how 368 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:04,159 Speaker 1: he did it, but he did it. 369 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 2: That's amazic. Yeah. I wouldn't have had a fucking chance 370 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 2: with my all. Just say that because I failed in 371 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:12,439 Speaker 2: it so badly. 372 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 1: I watched my four year old unlock his mum's phone 373 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 1: last night. It's like, honey, you're going to have to 374 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 1: change a company now, and she goes, no, no, no, I'll 375 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 1: give him three chances like, no, you're fucking oh, because 376 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:27,199 Speaker 1: I want clicking on TikTok and seeing some shit, you know, 377 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:31,159 Speaker 1: some fucking beheading or something. No, that's what's going to happen. 378 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, but how positive for kids to come to that 379 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:38,359 Speaker 2: realization themselves. For me, that feels like, you know, you 380 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 2: do want more laws in the world, you know, what 381 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:44,240 Speaker 2: you want is for people to come to the realization themselves. 382 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 1: Can I ask about how because I've seen you on 383 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:51,240 Speaker 1: stage and you do claim to be a socially awkward person. 384 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 1: But my career I've been on in broadcasting since for 385 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,920 Speaker 1: thirty years now, and you know I came up through 386 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 1: music myself, and so my career is spent on stage, 387 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 1: is spent you know, in front of millions of people 388 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 1: live television or just in front of thousands of people 389 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:12,679 Speaker 1: in a room. You do it very well. And so 390 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 1: while you do claim it awkward, I'm going to say 391 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:19,440 Speaker 1: that you do command the room very well. And might 392 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,840 Speaker 1: I add you and I have something in common in 393 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: that the attention to detail is extraordinarily important, in that 394 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: we share a common characteristic and that excellent, excellent, well 395 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:36,400 Speaker 1: thought T shirt choice is vital vital first ted talk 396 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 1: and you're wearing your Overlook Hotel. I'm like, I'm no, buddy, 397 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 1: I see you. 398 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 2: I know I crouched that level easter. I got to 399 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:51,439 Speaker 2: say it was Yeah. I just I feel very lucky, genuinely, 400 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 2: very lucky that my social anxiety, at all, of my 401 00:22:55,400 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 2: fucked upness, does it manifest of stage manifested dinner parties, 402 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 2: you know, busy bars. You know. I can't just can't 403 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,120 Speaker 2: bear to be there, need to get the hell out. 404 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 2: So thank god, you know, just thank god. I can't say, like, 405 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,640 Speaker 2: you know, it's not like I'm dying to get on stage, 406 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 2: but I feel very believed that for some reason I 407 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:21,439 Speaker 2: have the ability to do it. 408 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 1: Well, is it a sense of control when you're up there? 409 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 2: It definitely helps. I can't see people's faces because the 410 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,560 Speaker 2: lights are in your eyes. That helps a lot, right, 411 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,440 Speaker 2: And I'm sort of on my own, like the whole stage, 412 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 2: unless I have guests, which I will be I think 413 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 2: I do have, you know, you kind of on your own, 414 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 2: so the people in the audience become a bit more 415 00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 2: sort of theoretical. At the end of the Q and A, 416 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:44,959 Speaker 2: the lights come up and you can see everyone and 417 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 2: sometimes it gives me a little bit of a shark 418 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 2: because you haven't seen any of them until then. But 419 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 2: is it control? It's because a moment. You know, Bruce 420 00:23:55,800 --> 00:24:00,159 Speaker 2: Bringstein talks about how, you know, his father always out 421 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,680 Speaker 2: to the head. He never felt like he could talk 422 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 2: at home, so that's why he would now go on 423 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 2: stage for like three and a half hours every night 424 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 2: where he's like, you know, where everybody just has to 425 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 2: listen to him. Like that's not me, that's not what 426 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:22,479 Speaker 2: it is. But it's more just like feeling God for 427 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,640 Speaker 2: some mad reason, I do this, okay, so I might 428 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 2: as well just keep doing it. And also, if I'm 429 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:31,360 Speaker 2: like dying on stage, here's something really weird. Like if 430 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 2: I'm dying, if it's not working, a little big piece 431 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 2: of me, of my brain thinks, you know, right, you 432 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 2: know I'm going to turn this around, not like you know, 433 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 2: thank god, you know, I don't know, thank God. I've 434 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,000 Speaker 2: just got that because there's nothing else in my life 435 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 2: or personality that would make you think that that would happen. 436 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 2: But yeah, if I'm dying on stage, I'm not like 437 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 2: sweating and thinking fuck and I need to get off stage. 438 00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:01,639 Speaker 2: I'm thinking I'm going to whindle over the furliest weird. 439 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 2: I'm just glad. I'm just gloot. 440 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 1: Do you have because you and and Brian Cox having 441 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 1: common in that you early in your career, as you 442 00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:13,440 Speaker 1: developed a skill set by playing keyboards in in bands. 443 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 2: Going on was more successful than you. 444 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:21,680 Speaker 1: Can only get better from here, John, So what was it? 445 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 1: What was it that you learned from your days in 446 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 1: the back of a you know, a ford Esk you 447 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 1: know ford transit van, running up and down the M 448 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:33,120 Speaker 1: six on tour. What is it that you learn from 449 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:34,640 Speaker 1: those days that you still carry with you? 450 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 2: It was it was auris the looking glass, certainly in 451 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,119 Speaker 2: terms of having adventures, like getting out of your world 452 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 2: and going into new worlds. That's kind of what I 453 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 2: fell in love with being in About and the Thig 454 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,040 Speaker 2: with my band. Well we pick fake hat that he 455 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,919 Speaker 2: definitely took off, which made him even more mysterious and 456 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 2: you know, feeling like Alice and so it was. Yeah, 457 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:57,159 Speaker 2: it was the onder delar aspect. It was just like, 458 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 2: I want to have adventures, got to shadowy places, you know, 459 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:06,880 Speaker 2: carry off this absurd life that suddenly it is happening 460 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,359 Speaker 2: to me. Yeah, that's what I learned. 461 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 1: It is it is? It is, you know, the closest 462 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,120 Speaker 1: you can get to being a pirate. You're basically going 463 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,439 Speaker 1: from town to town. And there's plenty of bands that 464 00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,160 Speaker 1: wrote songs about going from town to town marauding, that's 465 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 1: for sure. 466 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:21,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I just thinking I never loved that aspects 467 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 2: of it quite so much, especially in a lowly paid 468 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:26,920 Speaker 2: van work. Quite often you're not spending it out in 469 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 2: a hotel. You're getting home at four in the morning 470 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 2: and then you have to unload all of your stuff 471 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:33,880 Speaker 2: before you can get to go to bed. So yeah, 472 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 2: that aspects of that I don't think I even loved. 473 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 2: Even in my early twenties did I love that? 474 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 1: But now you shar up with a you know, with 475 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,359 Speaker 1: a USB stick and a and a clicker and your 476 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 1: manager walking on stage and that's it. There's no load 477 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 1: in there, load out. 478 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:53,440 Speaker 2: There is a there's a weirdness though there because you're 479 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,640 Speaker 2: not traveling, if you're not doing all of that stuff, 480 00:26:55,960 --> 00:27:00,919 Speaker 2: the weirdness is there. The days are like twilight days. 481 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 2: You're just kind of sitting there waiting for the evening 482 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,440 Speaker 2: to come for you to go on stage because you're 483 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 2: not going to write, because then you just tie yourself 484 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,159 Speaker 2: out and not being good on stage. So yeah, so 485 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,679 Speaker 2: the upside is you just walks on stage, but the 486 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 2: downside is you've lifted Twilight Day. 487 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:22,640 Speaker 1: There was an Australian band called Grinsburne whose documentary, their 488 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 1: road documentary one tour, was called twenty three Hours of 489 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:26,119 Speaker 1: Waiting Around. 490 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, which there's something bleak about that. That's bleak. 491 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,639 Speaker 1: Charlie, what's rot? He's dead? Now here's a dramma from 492 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 1: the Rolling Stones. It was at the fortieth anniversary. I 493 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 1: think it's a movement in the Rolling Stones for forty years. 494 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:41,640 Speaker 1: I reckon eighteen months of that was playing. The rest 495 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,920 Speaker 1: was just waiting around, right. 496 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,480 Speaker 2: At least there's some solace to knowing that everyone's in 497 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 2: the same boat, right. I think that we all have 498 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,680 Speaker 2: to go through this weird this weirdness much. Think Bruce 499 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:57,159 Speaker 2: Pinstein again, what he pops up on my Instagram and 500 00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 2: I see what he's doing in the day. Did it 501 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 2: before he goes on stage that he said he's going 502 00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 2: round to Shane McGowan's house, he's going to hospitals, he's 503 00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 2: meeting children, and he pushes on. He really pushes heart, 504 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,679 Speaker 2: that guy, He really does I. 505 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:18,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, he lifts a lot. He's quite fair bit older 506 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 1: than me. But years ago I had a massage in 507 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: a hotel from someone like a legit one, don't get 508 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 1: me wrong, and she said, oh, I had Bruce Springsteen 509 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 1: under my thumbs last week. I said, really, what was 510 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 1: that Like? She goes, that man lifts a lot of weight. 511 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: He's just made out of anchor rope. And I thought, 512 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:35,919 Speaker 1: fucking hell, man. He wrote Born to Run at twenty 513 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,720 Speaker 1: four and now he's in his mid fifties and he's 514 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:39,560 Speaker 1: made of anchor rope. Well there you go, got on 515 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 1: your boss. 516 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:44,520 Speaker 2: Wow. God he has very full days, Bruce Pigstein, and 517 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 2: I think, but he's not doing everything we just talked about. 518 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 2: He's like riding on his motor bike. You know. He's like, yeah, 519 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 2: I'm faw. I've still played Open in New York a 520 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,640 Speaker 2: couple of months ago, and he's on by mind delight 521 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 2: because I sound like, see Jesus Well. 522 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 1: I hope that was the show where Nick Cave was 523 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 1: dancing side of stage next to Sting, which was an 524 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:13,480 Speaker 1: extraordinary piece of backstage footage. So that's sadly speaking of 525 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 1: you know, physicality, there is an element to your work, 526 00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 1: and I don't like to use the word process, but 527 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 1: ultimately I know it's a part of mine where walking 528 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 1: is a big part of how you come up with 529 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 1: ideas and how you marinate on things. Can you talk 530 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,520 Speaker 1: to me about the role of not doing the thing 531 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 1: that you need to do for your job in order 532 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 1: to get the ideas to do the thing you need 533 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 1: to do for your job. 534 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, totally. Well, certainly go to a new place. Sometimes 535 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 2: if you're blocked going to another room or going through 536 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 2: a walk, it does seem to unlock you. But more 537 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,960 Speaker 2: than that, so many of my stories come from just 538 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:57,280 Speaker 2: a tidy moment in an otherwise really boring academic book, 539 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 2: from The Psychopath Test through to my new show fell Apast, Like, 540 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:05,200 Speaker 2: I found so many stories that way a really boring 541 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:08,240 Speaker 2: audio book, and there's a tiny little gem in there 542 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 2: where you just think, you know, I didn't expect that. 543 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,120 Speaker 2: And I just can't think of anything more to pressing 544 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 2: than sitting there reading a big academic book or a sofa, 545 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 2: getting fat, not moving, not getting any exercise. So I 546 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 2: would much prefer to be listening to a ten hour 547 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 2: audio book and you're just just walking and walking and walking, 548 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 2: and I will I walk fifteen to twenty miles listening 549 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 2: to one of these books. The only downside is like 550 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 2: if you walk, if you're hiking and you see a squirrel, 551 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 2: you miss a paragraph, like it's like, oh squirrel, so 552 00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:46,280 Speaker 2: you know, so you've got to remember to concentrate. But 553 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 2: what gives me real solace is often like I'm worried, 554 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 2: like you know, it's my attention going to go. Am 555 00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:55,680 Speaker 2: I going to miss this moments that could be the 556 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,600 Speaker 2: most amasic story? And you never know maybe you have, 557 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 2: But very often suddenly when I'm thinking that, I just 558 00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 2: hear something and that's the moment. So it's that there's 559 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 2: a part of your brain that's still alive, even if 560 00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 2: you don't know that it is where where it's listening 561 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,880 Speaker 2: out for this moment of mystery. That's the moment. It's 562 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,240 Speaker 2: that mystery I didn't expect that. I want to go 563 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 2: down a rabbit hole to learn more about that. That's 564 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 2: what you're looking for. 565 00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 1: What are the people in your family say about you 566 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 1: if you haven't gone for a hike in a little. 567 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 2: While, Well, it never happens. I got for a hike 568 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 2: like every day, like I seven days a week. I 569 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 2: will either run or have a hike or something like that. Yeah, 570 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 2: I'm very motivated. All I do is work. 571 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:42,280 Speaker 1: How does that play out for someone who's got kids. 572 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 2: Well, it's like he's mid twenties now, so he doesn't 573 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 2: need me anymore. 574 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, we were little, surely you know there was like hey, 575 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 1: yeah remember this guy. 576 00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 2: No, no, no. When he was little. I took time off, 577 00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 2: like I gave up traveling. I started writing a column 578 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,120 Speaker 2: about my domestic life and the Guardian so I could 579 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,240 Speaker 2: stay home or and be born with my son. But 580 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 2: the irony is that then you start desperately hoping. It's 581 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,440 Speaker 2: a weekly column, so you start desperately hoping that something 582 00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:16,640 Speaker 2: will go wrong, like something bad will happen so you'll 583 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 2: have something to ride about. So the irony is that, 584 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 2: you know, my quest to be a more pleasant father 585 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 2: meant that I was like writing about bad things happening 586 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:30,120 Speaker 2: with my son in the Guardian, So it kind of 587 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 2: took me to a worse server. So I sort of Yeah, 588 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 2: so if you're thinking about writing a column about your 589 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 2: domestic life, it's a good idea not to do it. 590 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,640 Speaker 2: So yeah, but the upshot is I gave it up 591 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 2: for a good number of years, and I cut down 592 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,200 Speaker 2: my work for a good number of years. But now 593 00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,960 Speaker 2: he's left home, I just work all the time. It's 594 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,360 Speaker 2: the thing that brings the joy. And my wife doesn't 595 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 2: bad because we've been together so long with you know, 596 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 2: we don't you know, we don't need to be walking 597 00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,120 Speaker 2: around holding hands to give it to the space to 598 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:00,600 Speaker 2: do our thing. 599 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,160 Speaker 1: What do you think is different about your relationship to 600 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 1: relationships that haven't lasted as. 601 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:08,640 Speaker 2: Long's it's space. It's not putting any pressure on the 602 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 2: other person and just letting them do whatever they want. Basically, 603 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 2: no guilt, no pressure. Yeah, if they want to go 604 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:20,400 Speaker 2: away and you're you're left with the extremely old dog 605 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:24,080 Speaker 2: that won't stop coughing, do it, let them go away 606 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 2: and vice versa. So that's a particular moment that's happening 607 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 2: in my life right now. By the way, our dog 608 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 2: won't stop coughing. 609 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 1: Why do we choose pets as long as we do? 610 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,360 Speaker 2: I know, I know, I know, I know. It was 611 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 2: a few years ago when I was lying at bed, 612 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:44,560 Speaker 2: I was a bit depressed. I've been working on this 613 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,520 Speaker 2: podcast with the last days of August. That made me 614 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 2: a bit depressed because it was such a bleak story 615 00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 2: about the death of a porn star for Audible. Anyway, 616 00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 2: I would just remember lying there with my two dogs, 617 00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 2: thinking I want to I would have died before you, 618 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 2: like I wanted. That was one of the most dead 619 00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 2: and the other one's about to die. I don't show 620 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 2: that way anymore and cut a kai clap at that 621 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:09,879 Speaker 2: time before me. 622 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 1: I think I'm going to push for galafigus turtles or 623 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 1: African gray parrots, both of which outlive humans. Right. 624 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:18,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, See, that's the part of the world that you're 625 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 2: living in where those things are an option. We have 626 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:21,600 Speaker 2: no option. We're nowhere big. 627 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,440 Speaker 1: You can't keep those things here. You can't even keep 628 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,719 Speaker 1: a fucking wombat, even though they're in danger. I'd love 629 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,920 Speaker 1: to have a warm They're cuddly, they're delightful. They do 630 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 1: you know cubic pooh. Amazing animals, I tell you, yeah. 631 00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:39,760 Speaker 2: I tell you what slightly overrated of kangaroos. They were little. 632 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,239 Speaker 2: I went to a kangaroo sanctuary when I was in 633 00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:50,840 Speaker 2: Brisbane my house. Yeah, a little grumpy, a little stubbed 634 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 2: off fish like goats, So that way, I didn't love them. 635 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:58,840 Speaker 2: I did love the koala though, that I loved. You know, 636 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:00,839 Speaker 2: I held the koal of it, got my picture take 637 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,439 Speaker 2: it that you know, in the room where you pay 638 00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 2: there's pictures of like Elvis Costello holding. 639 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 1: Loan Pine. That's where I grew up. That was where 640 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 1: it was. My early BMX day writing was all around 641 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,880 Speaker 1: that area. That is where I grew up. And those kangaroo, 642 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:23,839 Speaker 1: the kangaroos that you saw, they are I'm not going 643 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,719 Speaker 1: to say they're the circus elephant version of the kangaroo, 644 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,960 Speaker 1: but they're They've all lived there their entire lives. I've 645 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 1: never seen the wild. They're all the children and the 646 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,080 Speaker 1: grand and grandchildren of the kangaroos that have always lived there, 647 00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,759 Speaker 1: and they're like, n unless you've got snacks for me, 648 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:39,919 Speaker 1: I'm fucking staying here, Okay. 649 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 2: What it's good to know that they were like. But 650 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:45,280 Speaker 2: there's that's a kangaroos looking at that's a situation. 651 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's ones that will suck you up if 652 00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:50,919 Speaker 1: you get in their space. And if you're driving at night, 653 00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 1: don't don't don't because they're bigger than human and they 654 00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:59,440 Speaker 1: will destroy your car and you it's you know, it's 655 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 1: a bad time. It's a real bad time. Just a 656 00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 1: moment away from John Ronson to say that if this 657 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 1: podcast is interesting to you, please share the show, tell 658 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:11,759 Speaker 1: a friend, subscribe to the newsletter. I've put it in 659 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 1: the show notes. I put stuff there now that I 660 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,839 Speaker 1: don't put elsewhere. I finally found a platform I can 661 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:24,480 Speaker 1: use quite easily. It's great back in a minute over 662 00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 1: time and the last, certainly since COVID. Many of us 663 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,880 Speaker 1: and I heard you talk about it. People we really 664 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:32,759 Speaker 1: care about, we've seen them just fall off the edge 665 00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 1: of reality, you know, into this wild ideological place that 666 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:39,240 Speaker 1: doesn't have a relationship to the rest of the world 667 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,799 Speaker 1: that other people live in. You have spoken to more 668 00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,080 Speaker 1: people who live there than anyone I've ever spoken to. 669 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,880 Speaker 1: So I don't feel so afraid, and so people may 670 00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,160 Speaker 1: perhaps don't feel so afraid of this shit happening again 671 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,799 Speaker 1: or worse, What do we need to know about people 672 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:58,920 Speaker 1: who exist in that space where they're literally operating in 673 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,480 Speaker 1: a parallel universe that just happens to breathe the same 674 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:02,440 Speaker 1: atmosphere that we do. 675 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,680 Speaker 2: It's well, such an interesting question to you raise one 676 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:08,920 Speaker 2: thing I say. I don't want to sound too much 677 00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:10,839 Speaker 2: like a like a New Yorker, but I was just 678 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:15,360 Speaker 2: reading in The New Yorker an interesting article about how 679 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:19,239 Speaker 2: maybe we should think of people who believe, you know, 680 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:24,239 Speaker 2: completely irrational things like you and I, or pizzagate or 681 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,759 Speaker 2: flat earth. Maybe we should think of them more like 682 00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:31,960 Speaker 2: religious believers, that these are symbolic beliefs, not real beliefs. 683 00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:34,160 Speaker 2: The point of this article was making that I thought 684 00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:38,040 Speaker 2: was very interesting and sort of spoke to something that's 685 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 2: kind of been in my mind too. Is you know, 686 00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,759 Speaker 2: religious people tend not to act at home like God 687 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:48,719 Speaker 2: is watching them. You know, they're still they reacted ungodly 688 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:52,600 Speaker 2: ways when they're not, you know, nobody sees them, so 689 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,520 Speaker 2: that means they don't really they're not real believers. It's 690 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,719 Speaker 2: more like a symbolic belief. And so maybe the same 691 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,799 Speaker 2: is true for the for the believer qan on and 692 00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,240 Speaker 2: so on. However, at the same time, I would also 693 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,560 Speaker 2: say that we are all of us, not just people 694 00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:10,800 Speaker 2: on the right. Obviously, everybody is susceptible to conspiratory or thinking. 695 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 2: Just look at what happened after the assassination of Trump 696 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,799 Speaker 2: on Trump Suddenly it was the left of it all 697 00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:20,280 Speaker 2: saying it's an inside job, it's stage, it's a postblug operation, 698 00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 2: all the things that we've been mocking the right for 699 00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,839 Speaker 2: all of this time. Another interesting thing I read was 700 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:30,840 Speaker 2: people reporting on the shooting at pizzagate at the Comet 701 00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,239 Speaker 2: Ping Pung restaurant in Washington, d C. Where the guy 702 00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 2: came in and you know, tried to rescue the kidnapped 703 00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:41,960 Speaker 2: children who'd be like sex slaved by Hillary Clinton. The 704 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:46,880 Speaker 2: people reporting on that don't say something which is that 705 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:52,080 Speaker 2: almost never happens. It almost never happens. There was loads 706 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:54,319 Speaker 2: of people at qan on and they didn't do that 707 00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:58,279 Speaker 2: very often. It happened sometimes, true, but it doesn't happen 708 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,480 Speaker 2: that much. There's this whole on the left about how 709 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:09,160 Speaker 2: maga people and militia people are all white supremacists secretly 710 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:13,760 Speaker 2: plotting to or just plotting to kick start an ethnic 711 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:17,239 Speaker 2: based civil war, and I just don't think there's any 712 00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:20,640 Speaker 2: truth to that at all. I think there's not very 713 00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,720 Speaker 2: much racism in that world. It's much more an anti 714 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:28,160 Speaker 2: government thing, an anti institution thing. And the reason why 715 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 2: they think people think that, academics on the left, I 716 00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:35,480 Speaker 2: think that is because when civil wars started, other countries 717 00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,439 Speaker 2: like Parsnia will wander. It's always ethnic based. It's always 718 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,240 Speaker 2: tribal based. So if civil war's going to start in America, 719 00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:44,280 Speaker 2: it must be ethnic based. So it's almost like there, 720 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 2: it's almost like a sort of false mathematical equation. So 721 00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:52,560 Speaker 2: all of this is to say, and you know, maybe 722 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:54,600 Speaker 2: in a couple of weeks or a couple of months, 723 00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 2: this is going to seem very naive. I don't think 724 00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,839 Speaker 2: anything particularly bad is going to happen. I don't think 725 00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,239 Speaker 2: the right is going to kick start some sort of 726 00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,520 Speaker 2: civil war. In fact, if there's any political violence is 727 00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:09,560 Speaker 2: going to come from the left. True at Charlottesville, you 728 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 2: had all of those Jews would not replace us. You've 729 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 2: got a resurgence of anti Semitism coming from the left 730 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,360 Speaker 2: as well as for the right. So I'm not saying 731 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:20,839 Speaker 2: it's like plain sailing. But what I am saying is 732 00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:24,440 Speaker 2: that it's there's a certain amount of paranoia in thinking 733 00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:27,760 Speaker 2: that all of these kids with you know, gun clubs 734 00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,200 Speaker 2: in Michigan are or you know, plotting to start a 735 00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:33,080 Speaker 2: civil war. That's just you know, overblown and not true 736 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 2: and dangerous because it means that you know, you demonize 737 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 2: them and they get more more angry, and you know, 738 00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:41,440 Speaker 2: the problems are on both sides. 739 00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:43,600 Speaker 1: You're right. I mean, my my brother and his husband 740 00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,280 Speaker 1: live in Michigan and they had people they have fifteen 741 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 1: to try to take over the governor's house. It's it's 742 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:50,480 Speaker 1: not not happening. 743 00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:55,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not nothing, but it's also it's not nothing. 744 00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,319 Speaker 2: But it's also overblown on the left, I'd say, it's 745 00:40:58,360 --> 00:40:59,640 Speaker 2: what's what's going on there? 746 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,000 Speaker 1: How much of what we see when we see the 747 00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:05,600 Speaker 1: froth and the bluster and the whether it be someone 748 00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:07,880 Speaker 1: writing in a comment box or someone standing on the 749 00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:11,520 Speaker 1: street going this that the other but Jews will not 750 00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:14,360 Speaker 1: replace us, how much of that is I feel this 751 00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,239 Speaker 1: in my heart or I'm saying this because I want 752 00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:20,840 Speaker 1: the people around me to think I'm okay, so I 753 00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,080 Speaker 1: don't feel so alone. 754 00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:26,960 Speaker 2: That's really interesting. I think antisemitism. You know, I'm Jewish, 755 00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,719 Speaker 2: and so I've been sort of noticing, you know, the 756 00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:32,799 Speaker 2: sort of rise and anti semitism, especially since you know, 757 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:36,839 Speaker 2: October seventh, but before too, you know, David Badil wrote 758 00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 2: his book two Just Don't Come Back in, you know, 759 00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,560 Speaker 2: four or five years ago about how there was a 760 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:46,600 Speaker 2: rise of antisemitism on the left and how people conflate 761 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:51,239 Speaker 2: it's really government policy with the Jews and so out 762 00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:53,320 Speaker 2: in the way that you wouldn't do with other cultures. 763 00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,680 Speaker 2: And that feels real. That feels real. I've got to say, 764 00:41:56,880 --> 00:42:00,280 Speaker 2: it feels that they really, they really don't like us. 765 00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,880 Speaker 2: It's really in their hearts. And that's coming from both sides. 766 00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,400 Speaker 2: It's coming, you know, for the right. I'm the left. 767 00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:08,680 Speaker 2: That's a kind of bleak way of looking at it. 768 00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:10,799 Speaker 2: But that doesn't feel performative to me. 769 00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:17,120 Speaker 1: It's because that thing itself is is bananas to you. You've, 770 00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,280 Speaker 1: as I said, you've been in the homes of people. 771 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:21,960 Speaker 1: You've you've put yourself a great peril to go and 772 00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:25,160 Speaker 1: speak with people who have quite publicly said we want 773 00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:28,200 Speaker 1: to kill people like you, or we support you not 774 00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,480 Speaker 1: having any rights or anything like that. When you see 775 00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:33,359 Speaker 1: and I went to a gig, went to go see 776 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 1: a mate's band play at the university here and it's 777 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:39,759 Speaker 1: like ninety tenths in the in the quadrangle, you know, 778 00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,560 Speaker 1: with all kinds of flags, and I you know, I 779 00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:47,560 Speaker 1: saw Pride flags hanging amongst Palestinian flags, and I'm thinking, like, 780 00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:51,680 Speaker 1: do you do you know what happens? Come on, man, 781 00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,479 Speaker 1: like you probably don't wear leather shoes because you're worried 782 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,560 Speaker 1: about the cows that like, what, what do you think 783 00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:01,000 Speaker 1: is happening? And at the is that people are having 784 00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,359 Speaker 1: to hold in their heads at the same time when 785 00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:04,200 Speaker 1: they're trying to. 786 00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:09,239 Speaker 2: I actually live right on the Pride Route in New 787 00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:13,400 Speaker 2: York City. I've got the department so down down in 788 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,799 Speaker 2: Greenwich Village and so yeah, so I saw that. I 789 00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 2: saw an awful lot of pro Palestinian you know, banners. 790 00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:23,319 Speaker 2: I couldn't work out how whether some some weren't like 791 00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:27,600 Speaker 2: official Pride floats, some were black people infiltrating and tried 792 00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:31,160 Speaker 2: to shut them march right. Yeah, that definitely was happening. 793 00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:37,200 Speaker 2: But yeah, it's this idea that Judaism is equitable with 794 00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:40,279 Speaker 2: white supremacy seems to be a kind of, you know, 795 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:44,480 Speaker 2: feeling among some people in the left. You know, sometimes 796 00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,359 Speaker 2: it's just a slip, you know. There was this big 797 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:52,759 Speaker 2: case of Britain of this incredibly anti Semitic mural that 798 00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:57,399 Speaker 2: turned up in Shoreditch or Hackney in East London, which 799 00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:59,279 Speaker 2: had all the tropes of you know, the sort of 800 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:03,840 Speaker 2: Jewish bags controlling the world and Joremi Corvid like you know, 801 00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:05,799 Speaker 2: it was the Labor Party at the time over here, 802 00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:09,040 Speaker 2: like liked the Facebook post about it, and and I 803 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:10,919 Speaker 2: think that was two things at once. That was both 804 00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:15,400 Speaker 2: you know, upsetting a discocistic for Duce, but also arguably 805 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:17,880 Speaker 2: for some other people it was a misunderstanding, like some 806 00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 2: people were liking that picture not realizing that there was 807 00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 2: all as anti Smitic imagery in there. But yeah, the 808 00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:31,880 Speaker 2: dissonances is it's it's it's upsetting, Like I find this 809 00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:36,319 Speaker 2: all upsetting. A friend of mine, you know, somebody who 810 00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:38,960 Speaker 2: I really like as a friend and admire as a person, 811 00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:42,840 Speaker 2: gave it to where they said that Jewish journalists in 812 00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:47,440 Speaker 2: New York should declare whether or not they went to 813 00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:50,759 Speaker 2: Israel as teenagers, so we would know whether or not 814 00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,239 Speaker 2: to trust them because maybe they were brainwashed by the 815 00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 2: Israeli government. Yeah, and that just, you know, really disheartened me. 816 00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:01,640 Speaker 2: I just thought, you wouldn't say that about other. 817 00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:05,560 Speaker 1: Other You wouldn't say that about someone from Uganda. 818 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:08,520 Speaker 2: No, you would say about anyone. You would say about 819 00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,239 Speaker 2: Irish people, you would say about Muslims, you know, you 820 00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,680 Speaker 2: would say about anybody. So you know, that felt like 821 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:15,720 Speaker 2: a like a shift. 822 00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:18,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, how much of that kind of stuff is I'm 823 00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 1: saying this because I truly believe it, or I'm saying 824 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:23,400 Speaker 1: it because I want to feel a part of something, 825 00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,040 Speaker 1: or I want I want to feel left alone. I'm 826 00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:30,800 Speaker 1: stuff because I want to feel less alone. If I 827 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,760 Speaker 1: speak in this way, then these people who look powerful 828 00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:36,360 Speaker 1: and look organized and look like they know what's going on, 829 00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:40,160 Speaker 1: I get to stand with them, because then I feel 830 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,600 Speaker 1: less alone than over here by myself, just worried. 831 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:47,400 Speaker 2: That's certainly what was happening in the stories that I 832 00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 2: wrote about it in my books that you can perp 833 00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,959 Speaker 2: appreciate about the sort of early days of what became 834 00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:57,439 Speaker 2: known as councel culture. And there was absolutely a sort 835 00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 2: of group a sense of you know, group enjoyment. You know. 836 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:04,240 Speaker 2: The main story of that book was that justin Saco 837 00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:07,560 Speaker 2: story to tweets, yeah, I go to Africa. I hope 838 00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,759 Speaker 2: I don't get AIDS. Just kidding, I'm white. And then 839 00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:12,600 Speaker 2: when she was asleep on the plane, you know, my 840 00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:14,960 Speaker 2: book sort of dissects everything that happened to hers. She 841 00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:19,120 Speaker 2: was asleep and oblivious, and absolutely all of these groups 842 00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:24,239 Speaker 2: were just joyfully, you know, supporting each other for you know, 843 00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:26,359 Speaker 2: and egging each other role and there was this sort 844 00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,400 Speaker 2: of group joy. And there were so many groups by 845 00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:32,480 Speaker 2: the way that night, everyone from kind of misogynists due 846 00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,400 Speaker 2: to social justice people through to hipsters, like, all of 847 00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:40,120 Speaker 2: these different groups are all having great fun, group identifying 848 00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:42,399 Speaker 2: by destroying this person who was asleep on a plane 849 00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,520 Speaker 2: and oblivious to everything that was going on. So yeah, 850 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:47,320 Speaker 2: I'd say in that book it looked very it was 851 00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:51,000 Speaker 2: favoruch about groups, about feeling part of the group, feeling 852 00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 2: part of something. I'd also thinking you were doing something 853 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:57,320 Speaker 2: morally right. You know, it's no surprise that, you know, 854 00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:01,600 Speaker 2: many social scientists over the years have so that people 855 00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 2: behave in moll violently when they think they're doing it 856 00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:06,359 Speaker 2: in the service of a moral good. 857 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:09,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's well. I remember what a director of 858 00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,480 Speaker 1: mine when I worked for this music TV channel, we 859 00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,040 Speaker 1: would often do this big live things. There was bands, 860 00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:16,480 Speaker 1: there was thousands of kids. I've been involved in riots 861 00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:18,280 Speaker 1: and stuff before, so I was aware of how badly 862 00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:21,879 Speaker 1: everything could go. And he just said to me, you've 863 00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:25,160 Speaker 1: got the microphone. All people need is permission to behave. 864 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:27,000 Speaker 1: If you tell them to dance and look after each other, 865 00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:28,960 Speaker 1: they'll dance look after each other. If you tell them 866 00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,920 Speaker 1: to riot they'll write it's up to you, because that's 867 00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:34,680 Speaker 1: all people want. People look for a clue, Oh we 868 00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:37,360 Speaker 1: can do this, right. All they want is permission and 869 00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:40,600 Speaker 1: the you know, the choice not to be theirs and 870 00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:43,840 Speaker 1: the way they go. And I was just everybody else was, 871 00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:47,719 Speaker 1: and yeah, it's it's fascinating. I think, you know, group 872 00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,160 Speaker 1: grew crowds and what happens to our decision making when 873 00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:54,960 Speaker 1: it's there's social proof is extraordinary. It can happen incredibly quickly. 874 00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,879 Speaker 1: Like as I mentioned, I've been in riots and fuck me, man, 875 00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:00,760 Speaker 1: it can turn with it five. 876 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:05,040 Speaker 2: Absolutely. I ran a little bit about crowd theory. Actually 877 00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:08,160 Speaker 2: in Saving Public Shame. There was this terrible Yeah, there 878 00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:10,879 Speaker 2: was this terrible French guy in the nineteenth century called 879 00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:14,840 Speaker 2: Gustaf Lebonne who wrote this book about crowds coming up. 880 00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:16,920 Speaker 2: Was it called The Wisdom of Crowd I can't remember 881 00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:21,200 Speaker 2: or something of crowds anyway, Like here's his line was there? 882 00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:23,719 Speaker 2: You know which I think is wrong is that, you know, 883 00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:27,879 Speaker 2: in a crowd, man is no different from a grain 884 00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:30,520 Speaker 2: of sand being like pushed a pulled by the wind. 885 00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,319 Speaker 2: He basically described, you know, man in the crowd will 886 00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:38,200 Speaker 2: descend to the level of a child or a woman. 887 00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:42,280 Speaker 2: It was a real asshole. Anyway, I don't agree. 888 00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:43,800 Speaker 1: With the last part, but I can roll. 889 00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:47,600 Speaker 2: Well, well, okay, let me give you a counter argument 890 00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:49,520 Speaker 2: to that, because yes, you know, at first you think, 891 00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:51,479 Speaker 2: you know, maybe we are just like grains of sand 892 00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:55,080 Speaker 2: in the wind. But this massive riot unfolded in London. 893 00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,279 Speaker 2: I come remember a few years ago. It was like 894 00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,840 Speaker 2: the biggest right that we'd had, you know, in decades, 895 00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:02,320 Speaker 2: and it was really scary. You know, people were like 896 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:06,560 Speaker 2: smashing all over the place. It was all over the yeah, 897 00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,600 Speaker 2: and it was getting closer and closer to our house. 898 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,319 Speaker 2: We lived in Highgate at the time, but we want, 899 00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:15,879 Speaker 2: we were watching on the news really scared. It's like fun, 900 00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,439 Speaker 2: they're getting closer, they're in Camden. No now they're is literal, 901 00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,279 Speaker 2: oh shit, they're getting closer. They're getting closer. And we 902 00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:24,000 Speaker 2: lived at the top of this quite high hill at 903 00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:26,400 Speaker 2: the time, Highgate West Hill, which is like probably the 904 00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:29,360 Speaker 2: steepest tend in London. And you know what, the riot 905 00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:32,040 Speaker 2: got to the bottom of the hill and didn't go 906 00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:36,560 Speaker 2: up the hill. They just carried on. And I was thinking, 907 00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:40,200 Speaker 2: if they were like grains of sand, they'd have got 908 00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:42,920 Speaker 2: up the hill suddenly disagreed. 909 00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,760 Speaker 1: I disagree, so that it's the path of least resistance. 910 00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:49,080 Speaker 1: It flows like water thermodynamics, the whole thing. It's wild man, 911 00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:49,960 Speaker 1: the parallels. 912 00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:53,000 Speaker 2: I hear what you said. I do hear what you're saying. 913 00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 2: But the one thing I would also add is that 914 00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:57,640 Speaker 2: some people who are anti Gustaf the Barn, some anti 915 00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:00,440 Speaker 2: Clowd theorists, would say that if we think of the 916 00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:05,120 Speaker 2: crowd as just this sort of thoughtless mass, yeah, then 917 00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:09,439 Speaker 2: the downside of that is we're not listening to any 918 00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:13,480 Speaker 2: concerns that they had. That sometimes people write for practical 919 00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:15,520 Speaker 2: reasons and so so con be used to sort of 920 00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:16,920 Speaker 2: form of social control. 921 00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:19,840 Speaker 1: And I've heard I've heard you take Q and A. 922 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:21,279 Speaker 1: There's a Q and A that's part of your show 923 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:24,399 Speaker 1: that you're bringing to Australia on your tour. I've heard 924 00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:26,759 Speaker 1: you take Q and A, and I've heard questions from 925 00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:29,279 Speaker 1: I heard this particularly one question that was like, well 926 00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:32,600 Speaker 1: that that lady bought a ticket, waited in line, you know, 927 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,560 Speaker 1: and then stood up, knowing what the thousands and hundreds 928 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:36,880 Speaker 1: of people in the room we're going to think of her, 929 00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:40,000 Speaker 1: and she just went on this full tire rate and 930 00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:42,759 Speaker 1: the way that you I really have to applaud you 931 00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 1: because you modeled a really extraordinary way of communicating with 932 00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:50,080 Speaker 1: someone who was clearly afraid and clearly believed very much 933 00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:52,600 Speaker 1: what she was talking about. I don't know if people 934 00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:54,279 Speaker 1: are going to ask you those questions in Australia, but 935 00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:56,160 Speaker 1: the Q and a part of the show. Do you 936 00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:58,360 Speaker 1: do you look forward to it? Do you worry about stuff? 937 00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:02,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? That woman that you're talking about that doesn't happen 938 00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:05,960 Speaker 2: very often. Yeah. She stood up and basically said yeah, 939 00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:07,920 Speaker 2: and I'm glad I did too, And in fact, I 940 00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:09,960 Speaker 2: said to my producer, we have to leave that in. 941 00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:12,719 Speaker 2: She basically does this whole thing about you know, five 942 00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:16,000 Speaker 2: g towers and you know, COVID conspiracies like trying to 943 00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:18,319 Speaker 2: I'm trying to stop her and then find I said, look, 944 00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:21,920 Speaker 2: I've got to stop here. It got typical BBC and 945 00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:23,920 Speaker 2: I said, you know, no, you know, this isn't the 946 00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:28,000 Speaker 2: BBC trying to silence, you know, a truth teller. This 947 00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:29,960 Speaker 2: is the fact that there's four hundred people in this 948 00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:33,880 Speaker 2: room and I've got to look after that, like you know, welfare, 949 00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:35,839 Speaker 2: like some people don't want to listen to a great 950 00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,960 Speaker 2: date long you know, works of brands. That's the statement 951 00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:41,239 Speaker 2: to know a question. And it did make me think, 952 00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:43,680 Speaker 2: and I'm not saying that this woman was analyssist, but 953 00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:45,560 Speaker 2: it did make me think that what was going on 954 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:49,800 Speaker 2: here was a battle between the individual and the institution. 955 00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:53,160 Speaker 2: She thought I as you know, a representative of the 956 00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:56,120 Speaker 2: BBC was like shutting her down, and I was like, no, 957 00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:58,320 Speaker 2: you know, I have to look after the four hundred 958 00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,320 Speaker 2: people in the room and you know, and keep this conversation, 959 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:04,120 Speaker 2: keep this event going. And it did make me think, 960 00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:09,799 Speaker 2: you know, as institutions crumble, narcissists thrive and end. 961 00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:12,120 Speaker 1: The antidote to all of it is just kind of 962 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,399 Speaker 1: knowing what you're looking at, I guess, and your work 963 00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:18,480 Speaker 1: is really me at least understand a lot more of 964 00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:23,480 Speaker 1: what those traits look like when they are in the 965 00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:27,520 Speaker 1: leadership position or a company's policy or a person standing 966 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:30,319 Speaker 1: up asking a question. You know, I don't don't try. 967 00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:32,839 Speaker 1: It helps me not dehumanize it so much. And I'm 968 00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:33,440 Speaker 1: grateful for that. 969 00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:36,360 Speaker 2: Well, I really, I really appreciate that. But the other 970 00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:39,279 Speaker 2: answer your question is, yeah, I especially by the time 971 00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:41,320 Speaker 2: I come to Australia, I'm hoping it's not going to 972 00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:45,759 Speaker 2: be all psychopathity mental health stuff like you know, I 973 00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:48,360 Speaker 2: think I'm going to tell some stories about, you know, 974 00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:50,640 Speaker 2: the time I went ufl hunting with Robbie Williams, or 975 00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:53,040 Speaker 2: tried to sneak into the Heap and grove with Alex Jones, 976 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:55,800 Speaker 2: like like if the Knight turns into that stuff to 977 00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:57,000 Speaker 2: count the end? 978 00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:00,640 Speaker 1: You know? Ah, was it now? I want to know 979 00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,960 Speaker 1: was it net Worth? Backstage at Oasis? 980 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:05,400 Speaker 2: Robbie? 981 00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:11,480 Speaker 1: Was it call me Rob Robbie? 982 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:16,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, well I definitely called him Rob because it was twenty. 983 00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:19,840 Speaker 2: It was about twenty, don't spoiler. I want to hear it. 984 00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:23,200 Speaker 2: I will tell you the story of the night. I've 985 00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:25,160 Speaker 2: got to say, it's pretty much the best story I've start, 986 00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:29,080 Speaker 2: so I hope to tell it. It's a top tier anecdote. 987 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,160 Speaker 1: John, You're an absolute delight, and thank you so much 988 00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:34,200 Speaker 1: making the time to do this. I'm thrilled you coming 989 00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:36,960 Speaker 1: to our country again. It's been a while. It'll be 990 00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:40,120 Speaker 1: an interesting time. You're here right around the American election, 991 00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:45,040 Speaker 1: so it'll be fascinating and no matter what, absolutely, and yeah, 992 00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:46,720 Speaker 1: it's an interesting time to be alive. 993 00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:50,600 Speaker 2: I'm super excited to come back. I always love coming back. 994 00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:52,480 Speaker 1: I'm glad we're alive in the world at the same 995 00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:56,480 Speaker 1: time because I've always liked yours helps me feel less 996 00:53:56,560 --> 00:54:00,680 Speaker 1: nuts and yeah I did. It is a bit too 997 00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:02,760 Speaker 1: early for me to be on taking my medication today. 998 00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:07,080 Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, I have been nuts and so 999 00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:10,399 Speaker 1: I spend time with you. Is is a real treat 1000 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:11,960 Speaker 1: and makes me feel a lot less insane. So thank 1001 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:13,600 Speaker 1: you so much, John, Thank. 1002 00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:15,280 Speaker 2: You so much. It was it was a great conversation. 1003 00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:17,320 Speaker 2: I really enjoyed talking to you. And and you know 1004 00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:20,520 Speaker 2: another speaking now that I'm talking to you in Australia, 1005 00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:22,279 Speaker 2: tell me something else that makes me feel a little bit. 1006 00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:25,719 Speaker 2: That's nuts. Amil and the Sniffers my new favorite, my 1007 00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:31,560 Speaker 2: new favorite band. Awesome. Fucking aren't they sick? 1008 00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:33,920 Speaker 1: They are proper, proper, proper. 1009 00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:38,160 Speaker 2: I love them. Amil and the Sniffers, Our Chapel Roan 1010 00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:41,440 Speaker 2: are the two greatest things that have come out of 1011 00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:42,680 Speaker 2: music in the last few years. 1012 00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,319 Speaker 1: I couldn't agree with you more. That video, that one 1013 00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:48,320 Speaker 1: that they do at the Clueless Liquor Short store and 1014 00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:53,800 Speaker 1: in North Hollywood is fucking It's is great. She is electric. 1015 00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:56,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's super incredible. 1016 00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:59,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, great, Well, I hope you see them when you 1017 00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:00,120 Speaker 1: come out, man. 1018 00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:03,360 Speaker 2: Hope so too. They were playing in New York, but 1019 00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:07,359 Speaker 2: Doors were Yeah, but doors were at eight. I thought 1020 00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:10,360 Speaker 2: there was two support bands till they came on, and 1021 00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:12,439 Speaker 2: I thought, I'm not going to stay up till after ten. 1022 00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:13,240 Speaker 1: Mate. 1023 00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:13,680 Speaker 2: I am. 1024 00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:16,919 Speaker 1: I'm fifty years old, and after going around the world 1025 00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:19,800 Speaker 1: with a triple A around my neck, I'm like, when's 1026 00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,880 Speaker 1: the kid, when's the how many minutes on my ticket 1027 00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:24,920 Speaker 1: and how many a's are on it? No, thank you, 1028 00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:26,399 Speaker 1: I haven't watch KP. 1029 00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:30,160 Speaker 2: And I feel exactly the same way. I don't have 1030 00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,360 Speaker 2: to wait until I have the sniffers of a legacy 1031 00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:34,640 Speaker 2: band and go on at seven thirty. So I've been 1032 00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:36,080 Speaker 2: seeing them in forty years time. 1033 00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:37,880 Speaker 1: This is the way I have a great night. 1034 00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,200 Speaker 2: Man, it's a great talk. 1035 00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:44,839 Speaker 1: Thanks for sticking with that. That was so Boodoper good. 1036 00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:48,279 Speaker 1: That is John Ronson. What a cracker. Huh. He's coming 1037 00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:51,160 Speaker 1: to Australia in November. The night is brilliant. It's called 1038 00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:55,640 Speaker 1: John Ronson's Psychopath Night twenty twenty four and it's weather. 1039 00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:57,840 Speaker 1: Just to have the ticket stub. I think if anyone 1040 00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:00,120 Speaker 1: keeps the ticket stub anymore, it's on my phone. I 1041 00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,840 Speaker 1: don't know well worth the price of a mission. He 1042 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:05,800 Speaker 1: has written so many books I would encourage you to 1043 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:08,840 Speaker 1: explore any one of them, and his TED talks were 1044 00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:10,560 Speaker 1: also quite delightful. If you haven't heard of his stuff 1045 00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:12,480 Speaker 1: before and he'd listened to this today, you may think, oh, 1046 00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:14,960 Speaker 1: that's interesting guy. Just go Todd John Ronson in the 1047 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:19,319 Speaker 1: TED thing I enjoy. I'm back here on Friday. Thanks 1048 00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,440 Speaker 1: so much for listening. Please tell a friend about the 1049 00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:25,040 Speaker 1: show that helps us enormously. 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