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Speaker 1: I got a team. It's Harps and Tiffany and Cook.

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Speaker 1: It's a you project. It's six years in, it's a

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Speaker 1: million episodes. It's amans past six on a Thursday night.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to be honest. I'm going to be honest.

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Speaker 1: We're prepared nothing. I'm also going to be honest. Tip's

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Speaker 1: mean to be cranky, just a bit cranky. Yesterday had

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Speaker 1: She threw a glow mesh in the shag pile, she

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Speaker 1: a little bit today.

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Speaker 2: Well it took all week, but yeah, I've come good today. Today,

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Speaker 2: I've come good.

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't even know who this is, but

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Speaker 1: it came up on my timeline this morning. Some lady

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Speaker 1: I think that follows me. And she's like, I don't

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Speaker 1: out there easternee spiritually slapfish together. But you know, sometimes

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm a bit like, I'm not sure, but

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Speaker 1: sometimes anyway, she was saying, and she was lovely. She

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Speaker 1: was talking about how she'd had a bunch of her

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Speaker 1: clients in this week or patience, whatever she calls them,

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Speaker 1: and they were all like you were when I chatted

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Speaker 1: to you yesterday, which was super flat, and she was

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Speaker 1: talking about how it had to do with the moon

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Speaker 1: the full moon, and I used to think it was bullshit.

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Speaker 1: I used to think that, which is just shows that

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Speaker 1: I was kind of ignorant because it's well known that

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Speaker 1: but i'll tell it for the show. I might have

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Speaker 1: told it once on this show, but I'm not sure.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, years ago, I did a and I mean

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Speaker 1: this with total respect, I did a corporate speaking gig

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Speaker 1: Awesome kids, by the way, awesome school, awesome teachers. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: But I was asking her about the school do you

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I was asking her, like, what's it like, and

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Speaker 1: she goes, oh, yes, Like the fucking dumbass. I'm like, wow,

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Speaker 1: I just tied it up. There's a link.

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Speaker 3: Maybe maybe I'm a bit aware wolf. For me, I

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Speaker 1: But you know what's funny is when, like when you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And it's a real it is a real life.

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Speaker 2: And like I always, you know, there's been times not

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Speaker 2: So and I really appreciate having that perspective because when

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Speaker 2: have to understand that it's just fucking not that easy

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Speaker 2: all the time. Like I was, I would turn up

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Speaker 1: Well, pleasure. I mean, it's but that's the thing, isn't it.

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Speaker 1: It's like sometimes you you have an awareness, like I

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Speaker 2: so I'm like, what's nothing to say? Well, it's good,

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Speaker 2: nothing's happened. There's nothing to unpack except my energy is

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Speaker 1: Can I ask you a question? Feel free to tell

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Speaker 1: But you're forty one.

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Speaker 3: I'm having an appointment tomorrow, all right?

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Speaker 1: Do you like is that I'm not kind of going?

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Speaker 2: like that. But this year, you know, last year, when

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Speaker 2: So I went, well, this all makes sense, and I

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Speaker 2: work I've done. But this year, when I wasn't in

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I want to quit. And I went, okay,

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Speaker 2: this is out of context. I think this might be hormonal.

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Speaker 2: My recovery is tanked this year. I've been waking up

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Speaker 2: the things tested. Do you know what else was interesting

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Speaker 1: three times a day? Like, and I'm not talking big meals,

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Speaker 1: I'm talking what you would call kind of regulation and

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Speaker 1: in fact, less than most dudes even at three meals

429
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Speaker 1: a day, I gain body fat and my brain doesn't

430
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Speaker 1: work optimally in the afternoon, Like my energy levels and

431
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 1: my cognitive function are better when I do not eat

432
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Speaker 1: through the day. Now is that a recommendation, No, that's biofeedback.

433
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Speaker 1: That's my personal experience. And this is why it is

434
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Speaker 1: incredibly important that people if you are going to see

435
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Speaker 1: an exercise physiologist and nutritionist to fucking physiotherapist, a doctor

436
00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:02,199
Speaker 1: and anything, trust them to a I'm not saying they're untrustworthy.

437
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying it's your body. Ask good questions, and if

438
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Speaker 1: they fob you off, go get another doctor who doesn't

439
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Speaker 1: or trainer or whatever. Because when someone says to me

440
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Speaker 1: you need to do that, I'm like, cool, Why well

441
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,199
Speaker 1: why tell me? Why tell me the mechanism, tell me

442
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 1: the reason, and then if it makes sense to me,

443
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: you know, like, ultimately, I need to take ownership for

444
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Speaker 1: my body one and two what I do to my body,

445
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 1: or maybe three what I allow others to do to

446
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Speaker 1: my body, because at the end of the day, I've

447
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Speaker 1: got to live in this fucking thing. And I personally

448
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: have been given advice over the years that was wrong

449
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,680
Speaker 1: for me, and I did it because I trusted them

450
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Speaker 1: more than myself, and I ended up getting sick or

451
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 1: you know whatever, or injured or whatever the case may be.

452
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Speaker 1: And by the way, none of those people were trying

453
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Speaker 1: to do the wrong thing. But you know, even well

454
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Speaker 1: intentioned people do not understand your body totally because they

455
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Speaker 1: work with a range of bodies, you know.

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Speaker 2: So it was like, well, you know, back in that

457
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Speaker 2: at that first fight, when I had a ridiculous amount

458
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Speaker 2: lower amount of iron in my body, he was like,

459
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Speaker 2: I don't even know how you're training.

460
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Speaker 3: You've got no iron.

461
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Speaker 2: And when I went to get my blood so they

462
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Speaker 2: were fight bloods, and he's like, you got no iron.

463
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Speaker 3: I go, I didn't you test the iron? He goes, no,

464
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Speaker 3: I tested the iron.

465
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Speaker 2: You got no iron. I don't even know how you're training.

466
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Speaker 2: And I was like wow, oh right, And then he

467
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Speaker 2: gave me iron infusions. And then months later I went

468
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Speaker 2: to another doctor and had blood's done and he was like, ah,

469
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Speaker 2: your iron is ten times higher than it should be.

470
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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, doctor x y Z gave

471
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Speaker 2: me some mind infusued he goes, did he do it

472
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Speaker 2: by weight? I'm like, he goes, did he test why

473
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Speaker 2: you had that lower iron? In the first I go,

474
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Speaker 2: not right that, Like they're doctors, they should be looking

475
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 2: into that. Someone should be But when you don't know,

476
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 2: you just go okay, oh thanks, yeah, give me an infusion. Done, tick,

477
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 2: move on.

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Speaker 1: I heard I heard the very polarizing Jordan Peterson. So

479
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 1: forget his politics or whatever, folks, but just from a

480
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Speaker 1: personal experience, I heard him talking about he only eats meat.

481
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Speaker 1: Did you know that? No, Yeah, he only eats meat.

482
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 1: He's a carnival, like, doesn't even eat vegetables. Right, But

483
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Speaker 1: he had all of these conditions, all of these inflammatory conditions,

484
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Speaker 1: like problems with his teeth and his gums, and even

485
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Speaker 1: mental health issues because he got addicted to this painkiller.

486
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: I think it was in Europe anyway, I heard him talking. Also,

487
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Speaker 1: his daughter Mikayla has significant issues. Maybe they have a

488
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Speaker 1: few green veggies or something, but they definitely they eat carbs,

489
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Speaker 1: starchy carbs, and I'm pretty sure only meat, meat, and

490
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Speaker 1: like salt. Right now, would I recommend that to anyone? Fuck?

491
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Speaker 2: No?

492
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Speaker 1: Would I eat like that? Fuck nah? That is so

493
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Speaker 1: not appealing to me. But I think for three or

494
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Speaker 1: four years he's done that, and all of his health

495
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 1: markers are through the roof right Now, that's not science,

496
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Speaker 1: that's that's an anecdotal case, an equus one. But I

497
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Speaker 1: mean he's not an idiot, he's a PhD. He's a

498
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Speaker 1: very intelligent man. Love him, I hate him, and you go,

499
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Speaker 1: this is my point. My point is not we should

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Speaker 1: all do that. My point is we shouldn't all, you know,

501
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: become boxes or fucking bullfed bodybuilders or you know. But

502
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Speaker 1: the thing is this arbitrary, inflexible kind of way of

503
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Speaker 1: thinking that no, that doesn't work for bodies. No, that

504
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 1: doesn't work for somebodies, you know, and then you know

505
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 1: for you that that kind of you know, when you

506
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Speaker 1: go to two experts who basically give you very different

507
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Speaker 1: information within a short period of time about your own physiology,

508
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Speaker 1: you know, it's like then you kind of go, who

509
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Speaker 1: the fuck do I believe?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's who I believe?

511
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Speaker 2: Right, yes, making decisions like and you know what I

512
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Speaker 2: find interest. There's a lot of different diets out there,

513
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Speaker 2: and as soon as someone has a result, they they

514
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Speaker 2: want to be an advocate of it, which is which

515
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 2: is great, But how much of that is just validation?

516
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 2: But how many people that are on these radical diets

517
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Speaker 2: like carnival. How many of them started by first just

518
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 2: fucking off processed foods and going, you know, I'm just

519
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 2: going to eat whole foods. I'm just going to start there.

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00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 2: Test that first, because there you go from eating anything

521
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Speaker 2: and everything to only meet. Of course, whatever you cut out,

522
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 2: there's a portion of it that's going to be the culprit.

523
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 2: He's going to have a result of making you feel better.

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Speaker 2: Of course, when people do that, no one comes to

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Speaker 2: me and says, I'm carnival. I spent a year just

526
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Speaker 2: eating no processed food and that didn't work.

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Speaker 1: Upset Well, even when you think of things that people

528
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: now consider fucking miracle cures like ozenpic you go, okay,

529
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: so what does ozepic do? Ah? Well, I mean it

530
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Speaker 1: does a few things from a mechanism point of view

531
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Speaker 1: that aren't very fucking attractive some of them. But one

532
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: of the things that it does do it suppresses hunger.

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Speaker 1: Oh and what's the consequence of that? Are you eat less? Ah?

534
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: So people are losing weight? Hang on because they're reducing calories. Yeah. Ah, well,

535
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Speaker 1: here's a question. Is it possible to reduce calories just

536
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Speaker 1: by reducing calories? And before you send me an email. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know, it's easier said than done. I get it,

538
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 1: of course. I mean, do you know what fucking makes

539
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 1: me laugh? As when I put up a post and

540
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 1: someone writes easier said than done, I'm like, of course

541
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: you fuck with of course, it's everything is literally easier

542
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 1: said than done, you know. I mean, here's an idea,

543
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 1: and I know it's hard, and I know it's not convenient,

544
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 1: and I know it's not easy. I get it. But

545
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: if you just reduce your calories and you increase your

546
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 1: calorie expenditure, you're going to lose weight, you know. And yes,

547
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: there's a few rare exceptions, and we're putting aside people

548
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: with ridiculous not ridiculous, but rare hormonal. But for the

549
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 1: most part, the average punter, you know. But again, this

550
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: is not glamorous, quick, fun, sexy.

551
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 3: It's also a process of elimination.

552
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 2: Like food, there's always it, there's your physiological effort, affect

553
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 2: your emotional, your psychological attachment with food.

554
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 3: So that whole.

555
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 2: Intimate and fasting thing. For me, one of the things

556
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 2: I loved about it, aside from just energy, is my

557
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 2: relationship with food is so much better when I can

558
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 2: get up and fast and then eat in an eight

559
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 2: hour window. Right that just I'm known to obsess over food.

560
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 2: I can be really obsessive and bingey. I can eat

561
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 2: and I'll you know, once I start, it's like I

562
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 2: won't put it down. So then my next thing is, well,

563
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 2: now if I'm not going to fast because I've I

564
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 2: don't think that's doing my body good. Now I have

565
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 2: to look at other reasons. Why how do I now

566
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:39,479
Speaker 2: control my hunger hornbones without just wrestling with it and

567
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 2: going on, Well, that's just it. It's like no one else.

568
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 2: Another thing that in that book that came up today

569
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 2: was talking about gut health and how feeding different. You

570
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 2: know people, they're talking about people that love chocolate, and

571
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 2: chocolate feeds a certain type of bacteria, and then that

572
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 2: bacteria is a colony inside your gut. And then when

573
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 2: you cut sugar out or chocolate or whatever, the food

574
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 2: is the craving subsidet. So it's like, oh, so then

575
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 2: you start to understand it from this the biology of

576
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 2: what you're eating, You go, oh, that might shift. Maybe

577
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 2: I can do some gut stuff. Maybe I can see

578
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 2: someone that can boost that part of my biology and

579
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 2: make it a little bit easier, and then I cannot

580
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 2: intermit fast and still have an easier time with food.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, oh look I mean the truth and the

582
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: this is Craig the EmPATH here of course, like losing

583
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:32,719
Speaker 1: weight is not easy, and I've never said it's easy,

584
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: but it's possible, like this is the good news, you know,

585
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: and like it's like I don't want to be I

586
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 1: met this guy today, right who maybe you know I

587
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 1: don't take on new coaching clients. A lovely guy. He's

588
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: got a bit of work to do when he knows that, right,

589
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,479
Speaker 1: And he's like really wants me to coach him. And

590
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: I said, I'm not going to say yes right now.

591
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 1: He's gone away, he's gone away tonight for a few weeks.

592
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 1: I said, I want you to think about it. I said,

593
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 1: but if you're interested in like if what you want

594
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 1: is me to be you to see me once a

595
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 1: week and I'm a little bit of a personal cheer squad,

596
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: and I tell you you're awesome and you're trying hard.

597
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: I go, I'm not that guy, like I'm interested in

598
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 1: you over the next five, ten, twenty years, really changing

599
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 1: how you know your mind, body, emotions work, because he

600
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: needs to and he knows that I'm interested in your

601
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 1: long term kind of quality of life and performance and experience,

602
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: and you're being happy content for all that, right, I'm

603
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 1: not interested in making you feel good for five minutes

604
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: in the middle of a chat. And it's like, we

605
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: are very in our culture. And I'm generalizing so not

606
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 1: all of our listeners, of course, but you know, we

607
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:57,399
Speaker 1: are so addicted to comfort and people telling us we're

608
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 1: amazing and validating our fear. And I understand all of that,

609
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 1: and we need to be loving, kind of empathetic. But

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Speaker 1: you know, there have been times in my life where

611
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 1: I needed someone to go, you've been a fucking idiot,

612
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 1: because I was being a fucking idiot, right. I just

613
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 1: was like, I wish that there was a person in

614
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Speaker 1: my life. And there have been a few who have

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00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: Thank you to those people, but who kind of called

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Speaker 1: me on my bullshit, you know. And I told this

617
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 1: story once or twice. But an old guy that I

618
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:33,359
Speaker 1: used to really look up to and love, he when

619
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Speaker 1: I was very young. He and he was real smart,

620
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Speaker 1: real wise. He said to me, you need to be

621
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Speaker 1: careful what you do with your mouth, because you're going

622
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: to bring people down or raise them up, and he goes,

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Speaker 1: you have a gift and you have a responsibility. What

624
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: you do with your mouth, what you choose to do,

625
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 1: is very important. And nobody had ever spoken to me

626
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: like that because I was a smart ass and I

627
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: could make people laugh or I could fucking slice and

628
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 1: dice them with my words, right, and I didn't want

629
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Speaker 1: to do that, but if somebody would have a go

630
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 1: at me, it was like somebody would throw one punch,

631
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Speaker 1: I would throw forty six, right, And that was just

632
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 1: about my bullshit. And he said that to me, and

633
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,399
Speaker 1: he goes, you can spend your life bringing people down

634
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: or up. It's a choice. And that changed my life.

635
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 1: But you know, I had to be told that, and

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00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: somebody had to go to me. You know, he didn't

637
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 1: say this because he's too nice, but like you're being

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00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:35,720
Speaker 1: a fuck with being a fuck, you know. And even

639
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Speaker 1: times when there were times when I had to say

640
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: to myself, Craig, you're not fat because you're fucking thick set,

641
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 1: full figure, Craig, you're fat because you're just overeating. You're

642
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 1: just overeating, you know. And I'm not saying anyone else,

643
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: so don't get upset. I'm talking about myself. But like

644
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: when I was morbidly obese, which I was as a

645
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 1: child then later as an adult. Right, I was one

646
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 1: hundred and seven kilos in my late twenties, right, which

647
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:08,839
Speaker 1: is nelly, What is that? It's third? What is that

648
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: thirty two kilos three kilos heavier than now? And it's

649
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:18,240
Speaker 1: because I was eating shit. It wasn't it wasn't genetically predetermined,

650
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 1: and it wasn't like, Oh fucking woe is me. I

651
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: was just being a dickhead with food. I was eating

652
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 1: way too much. I was eating bad food. I was

653
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: eating too much food and the consequence. And that's not

654
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 1: self loathing, that's just honesty, that's just harps. You're doing

655
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 1: this thing, and this is the result. Now you can

656
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: jump up and down. You can talk about your genetics,

657
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 1: you can you can talk about the business dinners that

658
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: you have to go to. You can talk about how

659
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 1: busy you are and how you don't have time to

660
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 1: prep meals. You can and then but you're still fucking fat, Right,

661
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:53,439
Speaker 1: you can like and at the end of the day,

662
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 1: for me, anyway, that works for me. Obviously, I'm not

663
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 1: going to walk up to someone and talk like that ever. Right,

664
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: But the truth is the truth. If you're wasting your talent,

665
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 1: you're wasting your talent. So don't get upset at me

666
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: because you're the one wasting it, you know, if you're

667
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 1: bullshitting and saying it's a time thing when it's a

668
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: you thing. Also, don't get mad at me if it

669
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,839
Speaker 1: actually is a you thing. If it isn't a you thing,

670
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,319
Speaker 1: then I'm wrong and you're right. That's cool, carry on,

671
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 1: But don't spend your life rationalizing failure and underachievement and

672
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: underperformance and wasted potential because you actually don't want to

673
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 1: own your own actions or your own choices or your

674
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 1: own behaviors. Like you know, you're never going to have

675
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: more talent than you've got right now, tif, I'm never

676
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 1: going to have more talent than I've got. I can

677
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 1: get more skill, I can get more efficiency, I can

678
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 1: get maybe a bit more muscle, I can get a

679
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 1: bit more knowledge, I can get a bit more qualified,

680
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 1: but I can't get more talented. So the question is

681
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 1: how much of my talent will I use? And I

682
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: think that's all potential genetic potential, creative potential, intellectual potential,

683
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 1: business potential, personal professional, Like I tried real hard and

684
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:23,839
Speaker 1: I'm nowhere near my limit, you know, So you know

685
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 1: that's what fascinates me.

686
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 2: I was talking to a girl yesterday and did eight

687
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 2: years eighteen years as gymnast, and we were talking about

688
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 2: gymnasts and body image and identity and what's in. I

689
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 2: talked about how I remember when I was first started boxing,

690
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 2: super lean and ripped and crazy.

691
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 1: You know.

692
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 2: I used to say, like, I'm so glad people used

693
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 2: to say to me, you should do bodybuild and get

694
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:45,879
Speaker 2: on stage like you're already like you could just get

695
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 2: on stage tomorrow with this bray tand and I was like,

696
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 2: I wouldn't stick to the diet plan. I have no

697
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,840
Speaker 2: interest in being that strict with my diet because I

698
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:55,840
Speaker 2: just want to eat what I want to eat. But

699
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 2: I used to say, I'm so glad that that body

700
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 2: is just to reaper cut of the thing that I

701
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 2: love doing that much that I do it. And that's

702
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,240
Speaker 2: an easy thing to think about yourself. But at times

703
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 2: when I wasn't able to train, or times when I

704
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 2: didn't feel that way about my body, it was like, oh,

705
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 2: like there's sometimes you aren't bullshitting yourself too, Like, you know,

706
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 2: I wasn't always that and then sometimes I was driven.

707
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,919
Speaker 2: In fact, it's easy to say, like I've got great

708
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 2: genetics and I've always been really active, but there's been

709
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 2: bouts of times in my life where I eat to

710
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 2: move and move to eat where I go and chastise myself.

711
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 2: And like before I started sport, I would be go

712
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 2: haul off to the gym because I'd just overeating a

713
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 2: whole bunch of shit, because the idea of putting on

714
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 2: weight was fucking a non event, like you know so,

715
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 2: and I spent a lot of and but would never

716
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 2: fully admit that to myself. There were just bouts of that,

717
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 2: and then you get into a sport and you're like, oh,

718
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 2: I don't you know body image. Look at those bodybuilders

719
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 2: that obsess over food. I'm just this is just you

720
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 2: know ah. And then next minute, Yeah.

721
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Speaker 1: I think the core messages here are one body awareness.

722
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:21,760
Speaker 1: Two more broadly, self awareness, uh, self regulation, and self control.

723
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, we all that's the ever present

724
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 1: challenge for all of us. And self control might be

725
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 1: with how you speak to people, it might be with

726
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 1: how you spend your money. It might be with how

727
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 1: much television you watch, or how much study you're getting done.

728
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 1: Or you know, how you're responding to criticism. You know,

729
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 1: it's like and that's the thing, you know, It's like,

730
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 1: I mean, this is going to sound cheesy, but that's

731
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 1: literally why I called this show that you project, you know,

732
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:57,719
Speaker 1: because it's like that is I'm the project, You're the

733
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 1: we are the project. In my life. You know, my

734
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 1: biggest challenge will always be me. My biggest asset and

735
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 1: problem will be me, my ability to make good decisions,

736
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:11,359
Speaker 1: my ability to manage myself. Before I try to even

737
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 1: have any impact on anyone else's life, I need to

738
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: make sure that I'm I'm not a fuck up, I'm

739
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: not a fraud, that I am walking my talk. You know.

740
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 1: It's like I said to this dude today, you know

741
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 1: what I did love about this dude today? He sits

742
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: down and he goes, so I'm a narcissist. And I'm like,

743
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 1: oh my god. You know, I don't think any man

744
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 1: has ever sat down I go go on and he goes.

745
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 1: I know, he goes, I'm full of ego, I'm insecure.

746
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:46,319
Speaker 1: I do things for attention. I'm like, well, you're a

747
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 1: pretty fucking evolved narcissist, right, Like that's and I'm like

748
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 1: I was. I said, you know what, and he and

749
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 1: you'd think, oh, he's not a narcissist then because he's

750
00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 1: but then and he is. But he wants to like

751
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 1: he was brave enough to go, this is what I

752
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 1: do and how I am and it creates problems, like

753
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 1: it is just at that point where he's gone, it's

754
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: I know what I do and I recognize the problems

755
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:18,320
Speaker 1: that it creates and I need help. I'm like, wow,

756
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:21,919
Speaker 1: that's that. I don't know that anyone has ever said

757
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 1: that to me, So fucking go, you go, you know,

758
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 1: I love that. I love it when men can be

759
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 1: a bit like, I'm the problem, so by the way,

760
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:38,319
Speaker 1: I'm the problem. Cool, good work, so well done. That's

761
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 1: awareness and acknowledgment. Step one. Fucking pat on the back.

762
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: All right, let's go, motherfucker, let's be better.

763
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,919
Speaker 3: You know, he wouldn't have lied you not saying yes

764
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 3: straight away and.

765
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 2: Then haaps what that is? It's a training him, the

766
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 2: coaching him.

767
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, no, well I don't you know. I mean,

768
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 1: for me, coaching people's are sweet because I want to

769
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,840
Speaker 1: help people, but I don't want people then to become

770
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 1: dependent on that help.

771
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 2: But I don't think that's coaching. So coaching leaves them

772
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 2: with more tools than they came with.

773
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 1: Yeah that theoretically, yes, but that isn't how it plays

774
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: out with a lot of coaches and trainers. You're right,

775
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 1: you're right, But I also know some people who have

776
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:28,320
Speaker 1: had the same psychologists, coach, fucking trainer for ten years.

777
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: My dude, if you still need to go, it's not

778
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: the best model, you know. So, Hey, that was interesting,

779
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: Look at us go.

780
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:39,720
Speaker 3: Who needs a plan?

781
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 1: Ah? Who needs a plan?

782
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 2: Hey?

783
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: Everybody, don't forget to follow tiff on Instagram. You can

784
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 1: follow her.

785
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,360
Speaker 2: At Tiffany and Co Tiffany with a Double A or

786
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 2: Roll with the Punches Underscore podcast. Then you won't get

787
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 2: all the cat and dog photos.

788
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, Or you can follow Fatty Harps, Craig, Anthony Harper,

789
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 1: and and tips. Home address is Unit three. Uh, I

790
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:08,319
Speaker 1: don't know what it is actually all right? Thanks Tip.

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Speaker 1: Stop Bye