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Speaker 1: Coming up bond Relatables. No one knows you and no

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Speaker 1: one knows your partner better than you two. So all

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Speaker 1: these expectations you have about when someone should get engaged,

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Speaker 1: when someone should say I love you, anything like that,

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Speaker 1: Like who gives a fuck? As long as you're happy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like that's all the matters that you and your partner

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Speaker 1: figure it out together what works for you.

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Speaker 2: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig aka Daddy,

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Speaker 2: and my partner in crime, the one that I have

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Speaker 2: a bone to pick with, Budie Clark aka Mummy.

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Speaker 1: Another bone? Another bone? Is this one valid? This is

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Speaker 1: a valid bone? All right? All right? This is a

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Speaker 1: valid what's that trend? At the moment we listen and

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Speaker 1: we don't what is it? We listen and we don't judge.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you should have done that, because oh listen, I

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Speaker 2: need basically for the before we listen and we don't judge,

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Speaker 2: I would need an admission of guilt from you. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to listen and I'm pre judged for like

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Speaker 2: a week.

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Speaker 1: Usually I have a big rebuttal or. I like to

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Speaker 1: reflect and then go harder on you. Okay, Okay, so

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Speaker 1: go the floor.

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Speaker 2: This is like a story that the first thing I'm

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Speaker 2: going to say is is the story.

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Speaker 1: Somehow starts from when you get home from Balley, So

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Speaker 1: like months ago? What that is? Eight ago? So long ago? September?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, okay, so this is like it starts there,

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Speaker 2: so if Harry was here, it's just like four days

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Speaker 2: two weeks ago, nearly, I was driving to Beth's place,

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Speaker 1: I'll just go on there, just like just go see you,

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Speaker 2: And I was leaving in the morning or no, I

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Speaker 1: Hours before I got a better no caffee okay, sure,

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Speaker 1: and so I don't care. It was about too hey,

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Speaker 2: So okay, okay, So I got a coffee from McDonald's.

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Speaker 2: What coffee I actually do need.

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Speaker 1: To tell you? It adds to the story.

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Speaker 2: I got a large I sed allong black with a

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Speaker 1: Okay, so fair bit of milk and a large coffee.

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Speaker 1: I'm with you. And then I leave Oxford. You didn't

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Speaker 1: and then I'm just vibing in the car. I'm listening.

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Speaker 2: I think I must have been listening to Hamishnandi, remembering

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Speaker 2: project I've been vibing with that podcast lately.

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Speaker 2: it wasn't half empty. And I was halfway on the freeway.

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Speaker 2: Harry Harry goes Jake, that's not milk. And I said, Harry,

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Speaker 1: And then He comes down and he goes.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't the milk A oh no, no, no, no, He goes, oh,

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Speaker 2: I only could have been milk. Ah, And he walks

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Speaker 2: I was like, this is two coincidental, and he goes, nah,

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Speaker 2: I stick my head under looking for my water bottle.

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Speaker 1: There it is. And as soon as he took that

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Speaker 1: sure it's crazy? Should have brought a lot of it too,

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Speaker 1: Sure it's fine, you want to drink orange.

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Speaker 2: Juice, and the only person that's had to watch juice

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Speaker 2: picking you up from the Airport's best not like orange juice.

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Speaker 1: She didn't, she hasn't had tone juice in my car.

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Speaker 2: We're both adults and we drink coffee. Would you like

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Speaker 2: me to listen and not have my rebuttal? Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: if you have a rebuttal, No.

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Speaker 1: I'll own it and say apologies. We actually that day

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Speaker 1: But in my defense, Jack's car is not clean. I

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Speaker 2: as soon as he fucking took that out of the car,

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Speaker 1: You this orange juice ferment and explode and smell. I

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Speaker 2: No, I would have like sugar heaps of sugar in

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Speaker 2: the milk was the smell.

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Speaker 1: Was the smell. Sorry, And I got rid of the

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Speaker 2: But somehow at the same time, the sun because that

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Speaker 2: was the first couple really hot. Yeah, cook in the car,

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Speaker 2: just blow blow up the fucking.

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Speaker 1: At what point, because that was mid September, I came home.

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Speaker 1: It is now December at what point. I know you're

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Speaker 1: about to say, sh does that become a personal problem

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Speaker 1: for you? And it checks under their seats as soon

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Speaker 1: your problem. I know I should be a good passenger

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Speaker 1: princess and take my rubbish with me, but things happen,

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Speaker 1: problems happen, and I forget, and after that point, I

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Speaker 2: Clean my car and that, Yeah, I look at my cars.

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Speaker 1: How about we go fifty to fifty. It's half my fault,

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Speaker 1: half yours because it took the three months of fermentating

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Speaker 2: You didn't think about it in the car every day,

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Speaker 2: Drake half an oras to stop thinking about it. Maybe

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Speaker 2: I just saw tummy, You don't know, intellectual thoughts all

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Speaker 1: Toby Wells. But can you make this for us? I

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Speaker 1: They're not easy to find something like that that's really good.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't have to recall my thoughts, but intellectual thoughts

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it does to be fair.

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Speaker 2: And you'd realize you don't have your hat in your

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Speaker 1: That is the core memory. Oh forgot about that, So

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Speaker 2: That's yeah, that was And I was like trying, you

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Speaker 1: Okay, I went back to when I was seven. I'm

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Speaker 2: This brings up a really good point, and it's like,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna try and get something out of this for you,

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Speaker 1: on this like facade and everything's okay. Like your single

436
00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:39,680
Speaker 1: mum was working, probably struggling to pay rent, she had

437
00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:41,159
Speaker 1: to get out of I don't know, probably use one

438
00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:42,919
Speaker 1: of her sick days. She was probably fucking angry that

439
00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:44,119
Speaker 1: she had to come. And then as soon as she

440
00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:45,480
Speaker 1: picked you up, she's probably a little bit angry, like

441
00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:47,840
Speaker 1: are you really sick? But it selfish old me? But overall,

442
00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:49,840
Speaker 1: like after an hour, you would have forgot about it,

443
00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:51,240
Speaker 1: because you might would have been like, oh, he's FeAs

444
00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:53,320
Speaker 1: he's my son. And it's really good how parents are

445
00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:55,960
Speaker 1: able to do that and not put any pressure on

446
00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:57,200
Speaker 1: their kids. It's a really good thing.

447
00:19:57,240 --> 00:20:00,440
Speaker 2: Unconditional love exists, yeah or else like no parent would

448
00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:03,200
Speaker 2: love their kids, Yeah, exactly because they fucking the kids

449
00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:06,000
Speaker 2: are the most like selfish little fuckers without even realizing it,

450
00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:08,640
Speaker 2: I know, and like even like going like one step further,

451
00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,800
Speaker 2: like as soon as we start getting mortgages, start having kids,

452
00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:13,960
Speaker 2: we have a dog, like vet bills, everything like that.

453
00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:16,120
Speaker 2: You just want to see him happy and like all

454
00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,639
Speaker 2: those other things just don't matter, and like we just

455
00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:21,639
Speaker 2: put on, like we said, unconditional love and we just

456
00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,240
Speaker 2: figure it out and it's so cool and cool to

457
00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:25,920
Speaker 2: look at it in like clidsight.

458
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:27,560
Speaker 1: Now it's yeah, weird to think about it.

459
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,200
Speaker 2: I remember last time I spoke to my mum about

460
00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:31,479
Speaker 2: like last time I was there. I've spoken to her

461
00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:35,280
Speaker 2: since a few times, but I remember we'd last time

462
00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:37,080
Speaker 2: we spoke about when we were that young and she

463
00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:41,679
Speaker 2: was single, and she like, when you're a kid, you

464
00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 2: don't really know what money is, no, And so when

465
00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:46,879
Speaker 2: I think back, I don't ever think like all my

466
00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:51,120
Speaker 2: struggling mother, because you're right, they always kind of just like.

467
00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:53,920
Speaker 1: Don't You're not going to be like to your kid,

468
00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:54,920
Speaker 1: I have no money.

469
00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:56,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, like to your like maybe to a twelve year

470
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:58,359
Speaker 2: old that might start to understand it, like, no, you

471
00:20:58,359 --> 00:20:59,720
Speaker 2: can't get that, because we actually have no money.

472
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:00,560
Speaker 1: You have to understand that.

473
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:03,520
Speaker 2: But to like a fucking four or five six year old,

474
00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,199
Speaker 2: you're not going to say to them like, we have

475
00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:08,160
Speaker 2: no money, because it's gonna be like what that?

476
00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:12,360
Speaker 1: And so I remember like my whole.

477
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:14,960
Speaker 2: Childhood up until I was like, like I think I

478
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,280
Speaker 2: knew Mom didn't have heaps of money, but I never

479
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,639
Speaker 2: knew up until like the last time went to Canada,

480
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:23,080
Speaker 2: like how little we actually had, but how much I

481
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:24,000
Speaker 2: felt like we had.

482
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, because love conquers conquers all. It could be that

483
00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,560
Speaker 1: it makes you like appreciate your parents more because like

484
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 1: when you're so young, you just don't understand things, and

485
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 1: now you're beginning to understand, you're like, well, like you'd

486
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 1: be thinking, oh, my mom was pretty loving and cool

487
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 1: about that day.

488
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:42,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, that I have ever told you At the time,

489
00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:46,240
Speaker 2: my dad came to Canada to visit us, and when

490
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:49,639
Speaker 2: he would come once or twice a year, that was

491
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,920
Speaker 2: like the deal. If Mom wanted to have us in Canada,

492
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:56,360
Speaker 2: then Dad would come and visit and they this whole deal,

493
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:58,399
Speaker 2: sort it out with the courts or something, and so

494
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 2: he would come and when he came, he would always

495
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 2: he would get us like our birthday present when we

496
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 2: were with him, and then like wouldn't and then he

497
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 2: would send something like small on our birthday because he

498
00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 2: wouldn't always be with us like me and Johyn have birthdays.

499
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:13,399
Speaker 1: That's different obviously.

500
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:15,879
Speaker 2: And I remember once he bought me and Joanna and

501
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,640
Speaker 2: Nintendo DS each. I don't remember how much they were

502
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 2: at the time, but I remember him coming to visit

503
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 2: and he got us a Nintendo.

504
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 1: DS and I was been sick as a kid.

505
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:27,440
Speaker 2: I was like bra, I was like Mario cart and shit, yeah,

506
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 2: poker fuck. I loved my DS. And as he's paying,

507
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:32,919
Speaker 2: he hands the girl his card and I was like,

508
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 2: is that got just never any money on it?

509
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 1: And he was like, no, I wish.

510
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,959
Speaker 2: And I always think about it now every now and

511
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:44,760
Speaker 2: then because obviously I have my own card and I

512
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 2: make my own money. And it's like when I was

513
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,640
Speaker 2: a kid, I genuinely was like that you can buy

514
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 2: anything with that.

515
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 1: To be that naive, how good is it? Ignorance is bliss.

516
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:59,639
Speaker 1: It is so bliss just looking back, even like at

517
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 1: school in our school was the best time he lived.

518
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,479
Speaker 1: You had no problem, even like when we were sixteen. Yeah,

519
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 1: it was the best life ever. The biggest issue.

520
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 2: I worried about when I was like going to school

521
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 2: was probably, I don't know, trying to find five bucks

522
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:19,440
Speaker 2: in the house somewhere to buy chocolate milk. You know,

523
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 2: he was such a privilege finding money to go to

524
00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,919
Speaker 2: the movies with friends or girls. Yeah, and you were

525
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,360
Speaker 2: like had to beg your parents or like go Moto

526
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 2: Lawn so you can go watch a movie.

527
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:30,680
Speaker 1: You're you're like, fuck off, and.

528
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 2: You're like and also when all your friends are like

529
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 2: planning to go to the movies and they're like you're coming,

530
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 2: you're coming, and like, yeah, I'll fucking be there, and

531
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 2: you go home and you're, dad, I want to go

532
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 2: to the movies.

533
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:38,239
Speaker 1: They're all going.

534
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,399
Speaker 2: He's like, no, no, it's time, Like for no other reason, no, no,

535
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 2: not for the money, just for the fact that like

536
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 2: he's just like, you don't get to do everything you want,

537
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,720
Speaker 2: and like my parents were super lenient and just like

538
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,160
Speaker 2: every now and then, maybe I was being a shit

539
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,440
Speaker 2: and they were just like, you don't get to do everything,

540
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:54,199
Speaker 2: and so you'd miss out. And then you see on

541
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,679
Speaker 2: everyone's like Snapchat was coming out, Instagram was coming out.

542
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 2: You see on their stories everyone's having a blast, and

543
00:23:58,240 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 2: you're like, I just wanted to go to the fucking movie.

544
00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:01,959
Speaker 1: I feel like this time of year we hanged out

545
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 1: with our friends. Recently, I know, surprise, that's crazy. Yeah,

546
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 1: we should have brought that up as a full topic,

547
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 1: I know, and just looking back, like you look back

548
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 1: at your year, but also you like reflect upon everything

549
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:13,640
Speaker 1: that's happened in your life at this time of year.

550
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,199
Speaker 1: It just always happens. Yeah, with that, I don't know,

551
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: just the reflective period. Yeah, it is very reflective. It's funny.

552
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 1: It was weird.

553
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 2: Also, I was kind of going into seeing our friends.

554
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,359
Speaker 2: There was I reckon, there's friends that we saw that. Yeah,

555
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,920
Speaker 2: you know, you're almost to think like are we even

556
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 2: still friends? Yeah, I haven't seen you for that long.

557
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 2: It's like if we really were friends, both of us

558
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,199
Speaker 2: would give enough of a shit to make time. But

559
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:35,679
Speaker 2: then like when you see them, it's like you have

560
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 2: saw each other yesterday.

561
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:39,679
Speaker 1: Maybe we will do a topic on it because this

562
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:41,879
Speaker 1: is the first time like our friendship group has like

563
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,159
Speaker 1: fully dissipated. There's like ten of us and now we

564
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 1: all just hang out with like our little individual groups.

565
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's not even It's like it's not like

566
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 2: you and me hang out and then all eight of

567
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,159
Speaker 2: them hang out together. It's like me and you obviously

568
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 2: hang out all the time, and then there's two others

569
00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,199
Speaker 2: that hang out all the time, and they haven't hung

570
00:24:59,240 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 2: out with any.

571
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 1: Of the you. It's like it's all we've all I

572
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 1: think this is like in school. We're all on the

573
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 1: same journey and we're all going through life but pretty

574
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 1: much the exact same point. Don't get me wrong. We

575
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 1: have different goals and we like different things in life,

576
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: but the end trajectory is all pretty much the same.

577
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 1: And like it took us a few years, but twenty

578
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: three twenty four is the first time, like we've all

579
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,119
Speaker 1: been on the train going the same way. We've had

580
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 1: to get off at a platform, and we've all got

581
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: on different trains.

582
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 2: Facts, it's a good analogy, to be fair, we've all

583
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 2: gone different directions.

584
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like taking it back to relatables. It's

585
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:36,440
Speaker 1: hard to like relate to them, like they're on fair enough.

586
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 1: They have a hard week's work and they want to

587
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 1: go get pissed on the weekend, or they have a

588
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 1: hard week's work and they want to go fucking enjoy

589
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 1: the weekend because they have like the best, Like they

590
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 1: have to make the most of that moment, where like

591
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 1: we can't relate.

592
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, I think the biggest thing is also

593
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 2: now like the fact that we're very lucky. I know,

594
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 2: like we we had to do it ourselves and we

595
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 2: had to make it this way. But I think now

596
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,919
Speaker 2: that we don't work for a while weekend, it's a

597
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 2: weird feeling.

598
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,120
Speaker 1: Oh it's weird because like not that we don't work hard,

599
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 1: but we aren't looking forward to the weekend because we

600
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: love what we do. Yeah, like like Monday, Wednesday, Saturday, Sunday,

601
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 1: they're all the same to me, Yeah, exactly, every single

602
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 1: day is the exact same. And like I'm still like

603
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: when I used to be a guarden maintenance person, I

604
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: would never think about going to do a garden on

605
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 1: the weekend, but I'm editing every weekend because I love it. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

606
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 1: it's hilarious, like happily pick up a couple of hours editing.

607
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 2: The only reason I would have, like, the only reason

608
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 2: I have any sort of like like it's still semi

609
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,199
Speaker 2: feels like a weekend is maybe because for years obviously

610
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:36,639
Speaker 2: it was.

611
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 1: But then also it's just that everyone around you is like.

612
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 2: Working, yeah, and then they're just not working for two days,

613
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 2: so you're kind of like, oh, it's obviously it's a weekend,

614
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 2: Like I know it's Saturday, but like you don't.

615
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 1: It's funny you don't. I think maybe we don't.

616
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 2: Appreciate like a day off as much anymore, or maybe

617
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 2: we do. I have no idea.

618
00:26:57,280 --> 00:27:01,640
Speaker 1: I've always thought that girls have a better way of

619
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: like managing their time and lives. I've always thought that

620
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:09,160
Speaker 1: because guys only ever work like seven to four, seven

621
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 1: to three or whatever and then live for the weekends.

622
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 1: Where I swear, girls have a better understanding of like

623
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,919
Speaker 1: making the most out of their days and getting jobs

624
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: where like it's good times and they have their morning free,

625
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 1: or they have their afternoon free, or they have like

626
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,120
Speaker 1: just a random Wednesday free, whereas guys just fucking work

627
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: and don't think about it. I say, I've always thought that, Yeah,

628
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 1: I will, like even little things like.

629
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:36,160
Speaker 2: Like Beth she gets one day off a week sometimes too,

630
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 2: like she because she works a lot, because she's like

631
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 2: a manager at a job, and so when she has

632
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,919
Speaker 2: her day off, me the complete opposite to her, Like

633
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 2: if I was working six days a week, my day off,

634
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 2: I'd be like I'm sitting on the lund all day. Yeah,

635
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: But her, she's like, no, I do want to have

636
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 2: a life. So it's like, I want to go to

637
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 2: the beach.

638
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, yeah, yeah, fair enough, fair enough

639
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: for the beach.

640
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I don't want to go to the

641
00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 2: beach at that time, but they want to get to

642
00:27:59,640 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 2: the beach.

643
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 1: It's actually pretty good. And then I'm like, funk, how like, how.

644
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 2: Do you know that you're going to regret not going

645
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 2: when at the time you don't want to go.

646
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 1: Yeah. They make the most out of things. Yeah, they

647
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 1: make the most time in their lives. Alrighty, Jake. I

648
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:26,879
Speaker 1: don't want to steal the limelight of a deep intellectual thought,

649
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: but this is what I think a deep intellectual thought

650
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: is you do your thing. Everybody comment comment below. What

651
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: deep intellectual thought do you like? Do you like Jake's storyline,

652
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 1: his rabbit hole in his brain? Deep thought? The definition

653
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: is in the beholder? Is that in saying you're going

654
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: back to being Yoda? Mate? What's the beholder saying? The beholder?

655
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what the beholder is now you've said

656
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 1: this before. The beholder is someone who's saying something. Yeah. Yeah,

657
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: So like the the definition is defined by you, yeah yeah, yeah.

658
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: But I shouldn't be judging you because it's your definition of.

659
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, there's a there's a quote though that has

660
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 2: ends we behold on.

661
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 1: It means the same thing. Everyone. Let me know what

662
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: deep thought you like? Jake saw mine? Okay, mine's got

663
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 1: a title. Here we go, Here we go. So does mind?

664
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: What was your title? Intellectual thoughts? You named it? That's okay,

665
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 1: that's title of the segment, not the title of the

666
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 1: deep thought title of all. The title of your thought

667
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 1: would be like dad gets stung by a bee, and

668
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: the title of I think how much I appreciate the

669
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 1: appreciation of parents came from you. That's not part of okay,

670
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: so these things hurt? All right? Tell me if you

671
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: like best things hurt? Or are your relationship expectations holding

672
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 1: you back? Shure off.

673
00:29:55,680 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 2: Our metric for success in relationships has always been based

674
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 2: on what we see everyone else do.

675
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 1: And I'm like evident of that. You look at your

676
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: parents and you think, oh they do that, it must

677
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 1: be good, or you look at other couples and you think,

678
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: oh they do that and it must be good. And

679
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 1: for me, it all started I think in year like

680
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 1: you were talking about, this is a bit of your

681
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 1: deep thought year nine or ten get back there. Mate

682
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: with my first girlfriend, tell me if you relate, and

683
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: I would judge how well things were doing based on

684
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 1: the couples around us. I was like, why are we

685
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: sleeping over? Why don't we talk every night? I haven't

686
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: met her parents yet? Like are we good or not?

687
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 1: And I was judging it purely off the fact of,

688
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 1: like everyone around me not actually being present with this

689
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: person and figuring out how our relationship worked. I am guilty. Yeah,

690
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: I think everybody is, honestly. And let's take a step further.

691
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 1: What is your immediate thought if I told you that

692
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 1: my girl maybe not the first one, but see see

693
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: what you think? What do you think when I tell

694
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 1: you my girlfriend and I are sleeping in different rooms,

695
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 1: or we don't plan to live together in the future,

696
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 1: or we don't really have sex that much? The first

697
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 1: one all for the second one? Weird, third one weird. Yeah, yeah,

698
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 1: your immediate thought is that it's weird because or we're

699
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 1: having some type of issue, because that's the preconception everyone

700
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 1: has on relationship. You guys don't have sex, you guys

701
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 1: must have a fucking problem. Right, yeah, right, there's like

702
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: a number this many times a week we've talked about

703
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: it man, Yeah, yeah, yeah, And we don't think that

704
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 1: because we're not open minded. It's because we're taught to

705
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 1: have this preconception from a young age that those sort

706
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: of signs are signs of a relationship falling apart. While

707
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 1: it can be, but that's not always the case. Relationship

708
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 1: experts say one of the biggest barriers couples face are

709
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 1: their own expectations. When we compare ourselves to the social norms,

710
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 1: we begin to develop resentment towards our partner or opposite

711
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 1: end feel guilty for coming up short in the relationship.

712
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 1: So it's going on social media. You'll think, like, your

713
00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: boyfriend doesn't get do enough things, and then you start

714
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: to sent him because you're comparing your boyfriend to these

715
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: beautiful people on Instagram who get them their girlfriend flowers

716
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: every single day. Or you think, oh, I'm not enough,

717
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: I'm not as pretty as those girls because you're comparing

718
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 1: yourself all the time. So maybe is rejecting everything you

719
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 1: know about good relationships the key to having a good one.

720
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 1: What do you think.

721
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 2: Everything you know about is it like quote unquote good

722
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 2: that type of good relationships?

723
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: Fuck? You know, I wouldn't be I'd be open to try.

724
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 1: And so we often talk about comparison as the thief

725
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 1: of joy on here, and we will always recently have

726
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: talked about how someone's body count can define them even

727
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 1: if you didn't know them beforehand. This sort of combines

728
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 1: both solutions to form like a bigger idea. Dating is

729
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: about opening up to a person, the person in front

730
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 1: of you, being completely present, leaving your relationship preconceptions and

731
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: judgment at the door, and figuring out the relationship that

732
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 1: works for you, for you both and no one else,

733
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 1: rather than trying to change them into the preconception that

734
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: you think is good at dating, embracing their differences and

735
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: stop trying to relate to everyone else on your phone

736
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: and find your own journey and just maybe there might

737
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: be a little bit of weight lifted from your shoulders

738
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 1: when dating fuck And the other takeaway is also this

739
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 1: is where I think we're guilty maybe giving dilemmas, but

740
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 1: more so in our friendships. The other takeaway is to

741
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 1: not relay your preconceptions about relationships onto your friends. I'm

742
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: completely guilty of doing it, so you don't know what's

743
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 1: working for them in their relationship behind closed doors. So

744
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 1: who's to say that. I think my normal is what

745
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 1: you should be doing. And like I've maybe hindered some

746
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 1: relationships in the past because I'm thinking, no, you should

747
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: be having sex three times a week, or no, that's

748
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: weird that you guys don't talk every night, and I

749
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: voice those things, and really that's making that relationship work

750
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 1: because I don't know what their relationships like. So and

751
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 1: just to end on, here's a couple points that we

752
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: constantly bring up on the pod, which I think applies

753
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: to only you, and the relationship really knows if it's

754
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 1: going to work or not. And like what us or

755
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: anyone else says, really is just open, open, open minded,

756
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 1: take take it as you will. So body count do

757
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 1: what you want. Last the last name debate if a

758
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 1: girl should take guys last name who cares? Do whatever

759
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 1: you think is right in your relationships? Who's care train

760
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 1: as well? Early on in the POT I wasn't and

761
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: then we got a sick email that changed my mind.

762
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 1: Did I not change your mind?

763
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:35,840
Speaker 2: Nah? Posting your partner on social media? You want to

764
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:37,359
Speaker 2: do it, you don't want to do it, It doesn't matter,

765
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,760
Speaker 2: do whatever you want. It's a point how often should

766
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 2: you have sex as much as.

767
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:44,720
Speaker 1: You want, as little as you want. Exactly when should

768
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: you say I love you? Like, is there any timeframe

769
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 1: you should say it? No, say when you feel it.

770
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 1: Drop drop your preconceptions about any of these things. And

771
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 1: the last one is we often talk about it. We

772
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 1: don't think long distance should work, which I personally stand by,

773
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 1: but like I don't know your relationship. Yeah, but it's

774
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,240
Speaker 1: like you just you probably have a pretty good idea

775
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: that you don't think it'll work for you for me. Yeah,

776
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: that's what all this advice is about. And I think

777
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: it's really important to like step back and realize that

778
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: no one knows you, and no one knows your partner

779
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,799
Speaker 1: better than you two. So all these expectations you have

780
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 1: about when someone should get engaged, when someone should say

781
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 1: I love you, anything like that, Like, who gives a

782
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 1: fuck as long as you're happy. Yeah, Like that's all

783
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 1: the matters that you and your partner figure it out

784
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: together what works for you.

785
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 2: It is tough, and I wonder how do you catch yourself?

786
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:36,800
Speaker 2: Like I obviously social media is huge for that because.

787
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 1: I think that's why it's so prominent now is because

788
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 1: you can compare yourself so much on social media. Yeah,

789
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: and if it would be like.

790
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 2: You don't want to air dirty laundry on social media

791
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 2: because like some stuff you want to keep private, but like,

792
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 2: do you think it would be is it healthy to

793
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 2: be honest?

794
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 1: And like, let's say you.

795
00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 2: Like you had a fight with your girlfriend, do you

796
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 2: just like not for do you for a while just

797
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 2: like not post him if you're the type of couple

798
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 2: to post or something like that, like or do you

799
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,240
Speaker 2: be like, yeah, I actually got to find my girlfriend

800
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 2: last night.

801
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: This is what it was about. This was her argument,

802
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:12,720
Speaker 1: This was my argument.

803
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 2: I ended up believing I was wrong and just want

804
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 2: to let everyone know that nobody's perfect and like you know,

805
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 2: people can argue and shit and get over it.

806
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:25,320
Speaker 1: Well, I think step one is obviously to only listen

807
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,760
Speaker 1: to what's in your relationship. But step two is remember

808
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 1: when you came to me and said, your girlfriend, Beth

809
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 1: is the happiest a girlfriend has ever made you, and yes,

810
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 1: so contempt with it and happy. Yeah, and you wanted

811
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 1: me to know that, Yeah, just in case in the

812
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: future there was a fight or something and I'm obviously

813
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 1: going to pick your side. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I just

814
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: wanted me to know that she's the happiest anyone is out.

815
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:46,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I need if I ever, I'm coming

816
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: to you like fucking ow Beth beIN saying you just

817
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 2: be like, don't remember that one time you told me?

818
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like though. Step two is as the

819
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,479
Speaker 1: person not in a relationship, because everyone's friends talk about

820
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 1: their relationship issues, rather than me saying, I don't know,

821
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: maybe Beth is on your back about I don't know

822
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,399
Speaker 1: something something so that you put the toilet seat down. Yeah,

823
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 1: you let the seat down. There's a classic example that

824
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: doesn't really matter. But then rather than me saying like, no,

825
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, like all the couples leave the toilet

826
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: seat down, yeah, I say like, oh, I'm more open

827
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: minded response yeah, rather than coming at it from what

828
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 1: I think is right. Step two like the person who's

829
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 1: not in a relationship, rather than putting my what I

830
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: think is right onto you just thinking like the open

831
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:31,399
Speaker 1: minded like, well, I see where that's coming from. Maybe

832
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 1: you should like, I don't know, figure it out for her.

833
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just not that put a sign up. Just

834
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 2: remember to put a toilet set down. It's not that hard.

835
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. And then also if you come to me, I'm

836
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 1: always not going to pick your side because I'm your friend. Like,

837
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,439
Speaker 1: I'm coming at it from an open minded mindset because

838
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 1: I don't know what's in your relationship and why she

839
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: likes having the toilet set up so much. Yeah, like

840
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: there could be a deeper underlying reason. Obviously classic example,

841
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 1: but yeah, no, it's yeah, that's one that you know

842
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: that so should be a very solvable one.

843
00:37:56,200 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like I am the king, if I ever

844
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 2: ever am asked for advice, I think I say what

845
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 2: I think is right, but I back it up with

846
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 2: it's just what I think.

847
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 1: Is that kind of maybe? Is it like right?

848
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:14,839
Speaker 2: Maybe should the words the words shouldn't be like this

849
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 2: is what I think the words should be, Like, oh,

850
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 2: you know, I did. I mean, I feel like I

851
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 2: try and look at things from both sides a lot

852
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 2: of the time, but I definitely I end I know

853
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 2: what I know, what I do.

854
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 1: I end so many things with that's I think that

855
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,320
Speaker 1: is my opinion. Now let that be what you think.

856
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 2: They don't fucking don't make a decision and then come

857
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 2: blame me if it's the wrong one.

858
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 1: I think that's good to a certain extent because some

859
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 1: people are like what's the saying like they'll die on

860
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 1: the hill with their morals? Some people will die on

861
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 1: a hill. A yeah, I've never understood that. I think

862
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: it's rather where you both come from, like an open

863
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:52,240
Speaker 1: minded standpoint, those sort of people to appreciate where someone

864
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: else is coming from, rather than dying on their hill.

865
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 1: What is it hill that you're willing to die on?

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's something we should like get better at, Like

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Speaker 1: we're so open minded and easily changeable. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's something I'm like? I wonder?

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Speaker 2: Well, Okay, I think there is one hill that we're

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Speaker 2: both willing to die on that we agree on. Maybe

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Speaker 2: we should come to next week and okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: First of all, the hill that we're willing to die

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Speaker 2: together that we wouldn't I think we're both going to

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Speaker 2: die on a week on? Is that we for one,

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Speaker 2: we think a guy and a girl can be friends.

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Speaker 2: Don't take this out of context, but they can't be

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Speaker 2: best friends.

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Speaker 1: I've done that Hill's hill we're willing to die on.

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Speaker 1: I'm willing to tumble down that.

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Speaker 2: But maybe we should try and actually come next week

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Speaker 2: with we should start it off with we have three

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Speaker 2: things that we both like, don't talk about it beforehand.

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Speaker 2: So I come with three hills I'm willing to die on,

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Speaker 2: and you come with three you'll will to die on.

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Speaker 2: And doesn't matter what topic right, and we'll try it

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Speaker 2: to die. There's a ninety nine percent chance we're going

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Speaker 2: to agree on all six. But if we don't, that's

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Speaker 2: an interesting thing. I've got one that you going to

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Speaker 2: die to. Abortion should just be legal and up to

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Speaker 2: the mum.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's yeah, that's want I think. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm pro choice, like pro your body, your choice. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's another hill. Yeah, more like personal life. I want

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Speaker 1: to think of some like they don't need to be edgy.

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Speaker 2: I just want to be like, what's something that I

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Speaker 2: think that I don't think everyone's going to think?

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Speaker 1: Mm yeah, okay, I reckon. We could come up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's a good one for next Monday. Let's write that down. Okay.

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Speaker 2: I've got I just have one question, proposition for you

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Speaker 2: to finish us off today.

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Speaker 1: Love a good proposition.

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Speaker 2: So the proposition is going to cost about five hundred

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Speaker 2: dollars of relatables bunny technically O money, okay, okay, recently,

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Speaker 2: I know it's for the taxman.

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Speaker 1: It's for the tax man. We're gonna were gonna look

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Speaker 1: bad on paper, Okay.

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Speaker 2: But so my sister has done it, and I've always

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Speaker 2: wanted to do it because so you know what twenty

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Speaker 2: three and me is no. Twenty three and me. You

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Speaker 2: go in, you buy a kit, we would get two.

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Speaker 2: It's about so it's like one hundred and twenty nine

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Speaker 2: USD for each one, okay.

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Speaker 1: Like what club type of kit you buy?

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Speaker 2: Like it's a little box, comes in, swab your mouth

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Speaker 2: and then you send it back and they test your

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Speaker 2: DNA and they tell you everything about everything, Oh, where

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Speaker 2: you're from, like a family trade, Like it's like yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's about like your yeah, or it's like ancestry, but

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Speaker 2: it's more like like all your heritage where you're from,

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Speaker 2: like lineage, like you know, like you might have someone

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Speaker 2: like you might have ties that link back to like

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Speaker 2: point zero one percent of like Jamaica, like something random,

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Speaker 2: you know. And I just find it because I was

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Speaker 2: shits and Gigs did it, yeah, and I was listening

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Speaker 2: and I was like, fuck, that's interesting, and I know

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Speaker 2: that mine's interesting, and I know you think yours isn't.

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Speaker 1: I was about to say, I feel like there's gonna

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Speaker 1: be the biggest letdown for mine. But I know you

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Speaker 1: think yours isn't. But I have a I reckon, like

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Speaker 1: there's something in there. So where's the five hundred dollars

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Speaker 1: come from? One? Twenty nine? So it's on usd each? Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's about two so that's about yeah, so it's a

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Speaker 1: little bit but okay, it'd be cool. I've always thought

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Speaker 1: those things were a little bit iffy, really, like how

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Speaker 1: do they know? Like realistic? How far I come from?

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Speaker 1: Like realistically? Like I don't particularly agree with that though, really,

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Speaker 1: Like I reckon that is pulling fucking numbers out of

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Speaker 1: a computer some surely yeah and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Joanne has done it, yeah, and I was like when

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Speaker 2: she did hers, I.

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Speaker 1: Was like, oh, well, now I know mine. But siblings

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Speaker 1: aren't the same. See that goes back to my computer theory.

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Speaker 1: How are we not the same?

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Speaker 2: But no, Sometimes it's like sometimes the daughter can look

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Speaker 2: keeps like the mum.

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Speaker 1: It's still have nothing like the dad, but you still

947
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Speaker 1: have the same DNA DNA.

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Speaker 2: But you don't, like you actually pull more from one.

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Speaker 2: So it's like you brother don't have the same DNA.

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Speaker 1: But in my head like we still have the same DNA,

951
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Speaker 1: but that was just more prominent and overpowered that one. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but then you wouldn't have the same DNA anyway, I'm

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Speaker 1: down to do it. Yeah, okay, either way, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll see. So you don't know if you fully believe it. No,

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Speaker 1: I reckon, it's bullshitgon, it's a money grab. One hundred

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Speaker 1: and twenty nine dollars, two hundred dollars. Surely there's one

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Speaker 1: in Australia that does it. Maybe, yeah, but yeah, do

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Speaker 1: some research and do it. I reckon, it's a massive

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Speaker 1: money grack. I'm going to order too, and one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: Why does that cost two hundred dollars? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Scientists they get paid a lot. Go read the five

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Speaker 1: print and see what the fire print says. You'll probably

963
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Speaker 1: say like, this isn't accurate at all. Oh yeah, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I believe it. I believe in it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do it, all right, everybody, Thank you for listening.

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Speaker 2: Once again. You know what to do.

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