1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: It fits in with Kate podcast. Welcome to the podcast. Hello, Hi, 2 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: it feels as though you know the stuff we used 3 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: to do. They all have brand new names, you know, 4 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 1: we just my brain is not working today and it's 5 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 1: because I have a lot on my mind and I 6 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: don't know if there's a new name for that. But 7 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: this morning, or today or whenever you're listening to this podcast, you've. 8 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 2: Taken mushrooms for the first I actually I really shouldn't. 9 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 1: Do that at work. I want to talk about silent walking. 10 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: Who would have thought? I thought it was just called 11 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: walking used to be called. 12 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, do you. 13 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: Know what I understand? 14 00:00:58,440 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 4: Enjoy the podcast. 15 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: Please enjoy the podcast while I go and sort my 16 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 1: head out. This is the Fitz and Whipper with Cape 17 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 1: Ritchie podcast. Let's talk about least attractive habits. Give us 18 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 1: a call. Thirteen twenty four ten. Maybe you've started seeing 19 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: someone and you actually think they're really nice, but you've 20 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: discovered something over the weekend that's a bit ekey. 21 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 5: My sister started dating and guard that she now has 22 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 5: two kids with. When they started dating, she found out 23 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 5: that he did martial arts. Wasn't into it at all. 24 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 5: Lovely guy, mum, but he does martial arts. 25 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: You know who I worked with recently, Nazim who's sang, 26 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: a very funny guy on a project for the ABC, 27 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: and he does what's it called jiu jitsu or something, 28 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: and like, I really like Nzine until then. 29 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 4: There's nothing wrong with there's nothing wrong. 30 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: With martial art suits and it's very it's a great fitness. 31 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: Oh god, I'm only I'm just I have preconceived ideas 32 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: of it. I actually think it's amazing for you, your 33 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: body and your annual mind. So so basically what women 34 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: want and what I'm looking for this morning, if you 35 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: fit this bill, give us a call. This is like 36 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: a speed. 37 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 3: Traffic dating address off air. 38 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 1: Okay, what I want is a bilingual, traveling blacksmith who 39 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 1: does archery, He knows his planets, and he reads. 40 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 3: Is that too much to that down for me? 41 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: Because what happened was number one, they did a survey 42 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 1: with women and they gave them like seventy hobbies and 43 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: women had to put them into the categories attractive or 44 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: least attractive. Of course, things topped the list. The most 45 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: attractive hobby that you want your fellow to be doing 46 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 1: is reading. With ninety eight point two percent of women 47 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: picked that who were there the the other like one 48 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: point eight percent of women that didn't put reading in 49 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: the attractive If I didn't. 50 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 4: Know that a man gave the. 51 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: Book was sexy, I think it is the fact that 52 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 1: he has interest in reading or can read. 53 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 5: Tom's one of the great catch readers. Aren't you with 54 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 5: the glass of tequila about your side? 55 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 4: A mocking burden? 56 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 2: So I think the other positive with that one is 57 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: as well as that you get some time to yourself 58 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:10,959 Speaker 2: while they are reading. 59 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 4: Maybe it's the peaceful nature of somebody reading. 60 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: Absolutely, But then you can move into a part of 61 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 1: the relationship where you both go to bed and just 62 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: read a book, foreign languages, playing an instrument, cooking, tick 63 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: tick if a man can cook, painting, writing, gardening, swimming, photography, 64 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 1: And then there is archery and blacksmithing who knew that 65 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: was a hobby? And traveling. And then you get to 66 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: the least to track me what do you think might 67 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: be top of the list, And I'll tell you some 68 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: of the others while you. 69 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 3: You have a little least attractive thing for a man 70 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 3: to do. 71 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: Weaving that's not on here. There is gambling, go karting, 72 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: no cigars, pawn arguing online Marriajauana clubbing, makeup. 73 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 3: Sounds like a great work away anime. 74 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 2: If one of your hobbies have a pawn, you have 75 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 2: a good heart. 76 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 6: Look at yourself. 77 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 4: I think at the time. 78 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: You know what, though, I think that's an argument from 79 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: a man where it's like, oh my goodness, I can't 80 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 1: believe you look at these kind of things. And that's 81 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: the argument you're hearing back from your partner who says 82 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: to you, but you said I should go to a hobby. Okay, 83 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: we are going to take some calls and then I'll 84 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 1: tell you what the least attractive hobby is. Christine in Bexley, 85 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 1: Good morning, Christine. What have you got a hobby that 86 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: throw to the guy? 87 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, used to love us steaks and reptile? 88 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 4: Are you dated to guy that liked reptiles? 89 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 8: And ye walk around the house with the snake around 90 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 8: his neck? 91 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 2: I see that can be quite dangerous. Did he have 92 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 2: the big aquarium as well, Christine? 93 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 3: That you had to keep it all set up? 94 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 8: He had it all set up. 95 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 5: So Christine, I would say, a grown adult with her 96 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:00,159 Speaker 5: love for an aquariums. 97 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:04,479 Speaker 1: A fish discuss disgusting. Yeah, no, what happens in the 98 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: middle of the night when his snake goes on the loose? 99 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. But he was a bit of a snake. 100 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: Where did you find him, Christine? 101 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 8: He was a friend of my brothers. 102 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:18,039 Speaker 4: How long did it last, Christine? 103 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 8: Probably a whole three weeks because I was petrified. 104 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 6: Sounds you deal with it when you say he was 105 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,160 Speaker 6: a snake. He didn't cheat on you, Christine, did. 106 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 8: He Yeah, he was a bit of a snake in 107 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 8: three weeks? 108 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Oh my goodness. 109 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: Well, apparently if you are listening this morning getting back 110 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: to our least attractive this is what you've got to 111 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 1: give up if your dating life is on the decrease. 112 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: In At number four is drinking. Debating is a number three, 113 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 1: cosplay at number two, and the number one unattractive hobby 114 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: is an interest in comic books. 115 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 3: Guy. 116 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 9: This is the fits in with with Kate Richie podcast. 117 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 1: Guys, is it frustrating you that everything has to have 118 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 1: a name now? Like things that we just. 119 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 3: Made used to? 120 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 1: Just do it now? 121 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 4: Just get on with it up and get on with it. 122 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 2: I didn't know what it was, but yeah, this gout 123 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 2: has been killing me. 124 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 4: That's different. That's a medical condition. 125 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 3: It's been die. 126 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: That's different. That's called a diagnosis. 127 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 6: Okay, gotcha. 128 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 1: Are you ready for a bit of raw dogging two 129 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:27,119 Speaker 1: point Oh? Guys? 130 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 3: What didn't we talk? 131 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 1: Yes, you talked about raw dogging last week, which is 132 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: basically traveling on a plane and doing it without a movie. 133 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 5: So that I would have thought that was raw dogging 134 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 5: two point zero, So pea because there wasn't original staring. 135 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 6: At the flight map. 136 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 2: Let's say you're doing Sydney to LA thirteen fourteen hours 137 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,919 Speaker 2: and they're looking at the flight map for thirteen hours. 138 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 3: Raw dog We'll. 139 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:57,679 Speaker 1: Wait for this. Raw dogging two point zero is now 140 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 1: something called silent Have a listen to this, girl. 141 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 10: I'm not saying hang up and hang out. That's kind 142 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 10: of what silent walking is. So it's the idea that 143 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 10: we're gonna leave our phones at home, unplug for music, 144 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 10: and just go for a walk and really focus on 145 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 10: mindfulness and connection with our bodies. 146 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: See. 147 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 3: So that's that's what it is. 148 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: It's about being in tune with yourself, just getting out there, 149 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: being with nature. It's great for your mental health. And 150 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 1: we're going to call what we used to call going 151 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: for a walk silent walking. 152 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 5: That I thought it was like when you don't make 153 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 5: a sound when you've got new sneakers, my dad, when 154 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 5: I've rather got new sneakers, it used. 155 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 4: To call them brothel creepers. No one, No one heard 156 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 4: your sneaking in and out? 157 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 6: Oh so John, John used to frequent it. 158 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 4: Did he let go your pair of brothel creepers? What 159 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 4: do you mean, John? 160 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 1: You never heard that before? 161 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 6: Christine. 162 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 1: That is way more about your dad. Then we need 163 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: to be brevated. 164 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 3: We'll never catch him in a heel anyway. 165 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: So leave your phone at home, guys, and just go 166 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: for a bit of a silent walk, which is no 167 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: it's different to walking. 168 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 5: Okay, And if you don't have time for that, just 169 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 5: raw dog it somewhere if you like. 170 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 3: Okay, there's your Monday player. 171 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: All right there? 172 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 9: Fit and with a with Kate, whichie podcast. 173 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 5: An unbelievable story, and that means we need to do. 174 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 4: What are the chances? 175 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 3: What are the chances? 176 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 5: I love ten if you've got a story of what 177 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:38,439 Speaker 5: are the chances? Stories of chance and coincidence where you 178 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 5: just can't believe it happened, or possibly the timing was 179 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 5: Heaven sent. 180 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:47,679 Speaker 3: You know what I mean, like, how lucky are you? Well, 181 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 3: that's a great how lucky are you? 182 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 4: Let me tell you. This guy's name is Eric Nori. 183 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 6: Eric. 184 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 4: Eric's from Florida. 185 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 5: This is how many times Eric seems to have survived 186 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 5: phenomenal moments with nature. 187 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 4: Eric has been. 188 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 5: Punched by monkeys twice, struck by lightning, bitten by a snake. 189 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 4: And attacked by a shark. Punched by monkeys gets in 190 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 4: the same categories the rest. 191 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 6: They are bitten by a snake. A lot of people 192 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 6: have been bitten by snakes. 193 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 1: I mean the lightning and that the show of hands 194 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:26,479 Speaker 1: in the studio though people's being bitten by a snake discuss. 195 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 2: No, but there would be I'd say lots of cases 196 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 2: around the world every day of snake bites. 197 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 6: Is not really shark bites. 198 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 5: Is he an unlucky man or is he a very 199 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 5: lucky man to survive all these moments. He talks about 200 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:44,199 Speaker 5: how he felt he was closest to death when he 201 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 5: was spearfishing in the Bahamas back in twenty thirteen. All 202 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 5: of a sudden, he was heading back to the boat 203 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 5: and he felt something on his leg was a shark 204 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 5: that then ripped his calf muscle off his leg, and 205 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 5: then all these other sharks started to circle, and the 206 00:09:58,600 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 5: blood found its way. 207 00:09:59,679 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 11: To the. 208 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 3: Is that a little reef shark or no serious shark? 209 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:06,959 Speaker 6: What were the other things that happened to him? The monkeys? 210 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 5: You got the punch and punched by monkeys. He was 211 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 5: struck by lightning, and he was bidden by a snake. 212 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 1: Well, I guess it depends on your attitude half glass, 213 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:19,200 Speaker 1: half full of empty, whether you describe yourself as a 214 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 1: lucky guy or an unlucky man. 215 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:22,839 Speaker 5: He had his wife, he had his father in law, 216 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 5: and his four daughters on the boat. 217 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 4: He screamed as the and what that was? Actually the 218 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:30,440 Speaker 4: monkey that punched him twice? 219 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 3: He was there. 220 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:37,319 Speaker 4: I'll make move on. Keep it light, mate, keep it light. 221 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 1: The monkey. 222 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 4: Hang on a minute. 223 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 1: Wow. 224 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:48,959 Speaker 5: Anyway, he survived that, and he now tours talking, giving 225 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 5: speeches and talking about luck. 226 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm the guy who survived a Snake's to be 227 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 2: so interested to. 228 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 4: Tell us about the monkeys, mate? 229 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 6: It was twenty thirteen and I went to go give 230 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 6: a monkey nut. 231 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 1: Those monkeys, they are so awful. Did you know that today, 232 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: the ninth of September is the most common birthday, like 233 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 1: most people, not most people, but majority, no, not majority, 234 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: We go quite often people are born on the ninth 235 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 1: of September. More birthdays than not are on the ninth 236 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 1: of September. And Jess in our team here has two 237 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 1: members of her immediate family born today. You get this though, 238 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: mum born nine am, older sister born nine pm. 239 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 3: On the ninth of the night. 240 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 4: What are the chances you might win the Keith Urban tickets? 241 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 1: I love Keith Urban. 242 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 2: Melissa and Padsow, what are the chances Melissa group. 243 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 12: Morning guys running into the same person twice in two 244 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 12: separate countries, like six years apart. So I was I 245 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 12: was randomly more not randomly. I was in London and 246 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 12: coming home back to Sydney, catching a fly and just 247 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 12: walking through the airport and I've run into a. 248 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 13: Friend from UNI. 249 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 12: We didn't know we're going. 250 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 13: To be overseas at the same time. 251 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:13,199 Speaker 12: And then six years later, I was on my honeymoon 252 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 12: walking through Venice just randomly popped into a souvenir store 253 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 12: and then the same friend was in this souvenir store. 254 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 6: That's crazy, weird. 255 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: One because why it's crazy because why Well. 256 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 14: In Venice, all these little tiny shops and. 257 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 3: The shop. 258 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, have you had any history romantically with this person? 259 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 5: I think maybe you should. Is it something that would 260 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 5: be considered She's. 261 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 6: On a honeymoon mate. 262 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 1: Now, of course that didn't last very long. 263 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 4: That's true. 264 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:54,959 Speaker 14: I didn't know. 265 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 1: That's okay. I mean I'm divorced as well. Welcome to 266 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:59,079 Speaker 1: the club, girlfriend. 267 00:12:59,120 --> 00:12:59,680 Speaker 15: What happens? 268 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,680 Speaker 12: But then the funny thing is with this same friend. 269 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:06,119 Speaker 12: Then I was in the emergency section of the hospital 270 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 12: last year for my daughter and the same friend was 271 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 12: there for her kid. 272 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: Is she stalking? 273 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 5: You think that this is a great story, Melista. Thanks 274 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 5: for your contribution to the broadcast this morning. 275 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 6: Let's go to Rachel and Ramy. What are the chances? 276 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 8: Rachel, Hi, guys, So my story is I was known 277 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 8: for a walk will in this Centennial Park in Roundwick, 278 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 8: and I was going for a walk with a school 279 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:40,199 Speaker 8: friend and I keep my takeys for my tearing obviously, 280 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:45,200 Speaker 8: and the skeleton key of my Toyota parkey fell out 281 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 8: and I'm walking. I didn't know where it was in 282 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 8: Santannial Park. We walked around the circuit, so I thought 283 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 8: I was just get in one replace turing Toyota acquorded 284 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 8: me like seven hundred dollars. This was five years ago 285 00:13:57,600 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 8: to get this TA reprogrammed. 286 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 7: Then. 287 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 8: So I've got a few sons. One of my sons, 288 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 8: about a week later, was riding in Centennial Park, it 289 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 8: would have been like nine at the time, and comes 290 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 8: home crying, balling, he'll fall off my bike and he had. Actually, 291 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 8: it's so unbelievable. He's actually ridden over the skeleton key, 292 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 8: the key, part of my key, and that had made 293 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 8: him fall off his bike. And he came home crying 294 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 8: with the key and he founder. 295 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: That is amazing. Love that. I love that story. 296 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 6: That is so good. 297 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 1: I mean not that your son was crying, that you 298 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 1: got the key back. 299 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 8: I found the key. 300 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 13: I was happy. 301 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 3: Another extraordinary story. 302 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: Thank you for adding to the broadcast. 303 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:48,479 Speaker 3: Lara, Hello, good morning. 304 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 4: Good morning, Lara. 305 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 14: What are the chances my grandfather, my father, and my 306 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 14: brother were all born on the fourteenth of March. 307 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 8: Wo if my brother would have had his son on 308 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 8: the fourteenth of March, they would have been in the 309 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 8: Gift Book of World Records. 310 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 5: But oh, okay, don't worry about the paperwork. That's an amazing. 311 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 2: Disappointing by your brother. Really, isn't it. Do you let 312 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 2: him know about that? 313 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 7: Lara, Oh yeah, giving him a hard time? 314 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 14: Don you're worried? 315 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 9: I told him he's got the number three now. 316 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 5: Kate Richie, three great stories, Thank you, Melissa, Rachel. Yeah, 317 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 5: Keith Urbans high and a live world tourist heading to 318 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 5: Australia or. 319 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:32,479 Speaker 3: Heading to Australia in August twenty. 320 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 4: In August. 321 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 6: You wouldn't believe it, but. 322 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, take us on someone now, Keith Urban God, God, 323 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 5: we can see him live here. I say, yeah, Okayig. 324 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: Richie, I love I love Melissa, I love Melissa with 325 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, I'm running to you again. 326 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 3: What are you doing here? 327 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 1: You're off to see Keith Urban mal. 328 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 12: Very much that I knew that story was going to 329 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 12: come in here for something one day. 330 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 3: Yes, exactly. 331 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 1: Enjoy the show. He's fantastic. 332 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 5: Mel should call that person she keeps running into and 333 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 5: take her, take take her to Keith Urbans. 334 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 12: At the moment waiting for you. 335 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 9: This is the fits in with Her with Kate Richie podcast, Let's. 336 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 5: Talk politics for t here fits. I would suggest that 337 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 5: the election, the federal election here in Australia will take 338 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 5: place around March next year. I think the Prime Minister 339 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 5: will call it around Australia Day and then we'll hit 340 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 5: to the polls and vote around March. Let's now jump 341 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 5: to another country. Uh, We're heading to Venezuela right here. 342 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 5: And their president Nicholas Mandro he's had a bit of 343 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 5: an issue and things haven't been looking great. 344 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 4: So he's needed a bit of a distraction. He's needed 345 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 4: a brand new policy. Can I tell you? Also he 346 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 4: has a. 347 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 3: Weekly TV show, Maggief Albert had a weekly show? 348 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 6: Is it a variety show? 349 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 5: Does he have guess up late Thursday night with your 350 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:07,120 Speaker 5: Prime Minister? 351 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 6: So hi to your mom for me? 352 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:11,760 Speaker 5: All right, let's do some wacky ones. You guys want 353 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 5: to do a riddle time? You can do anything album. 354 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 5: I'd settle in for that show, can I I'm your 355 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:18,880 Speaker 5: Prime Minister and welcome. 356 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 2: You would need a bit of bit light entertainment when 357 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:24,160 Speaker 2: you couldn't have politics the whole time. 358 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 4: To be boring. You need a bit of a laugh. 359 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 5: And I wonder if he gets up there and does 360 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 5: sort of a tight five at the start like a 361 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:34,000 Speaker 5: lot of those Tonight shows do, or maybe Albot would 362 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:37,199 Speaker 5: dance through the audience like Ellen used to do at 363 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:40,360 Speaker 5: the start of the show, and now with a hawthorn 364 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 5: footy scarfon. 365 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 2: You've got I mean, how boring would it be seeing 366 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 2: your prime minister with his own television show. 367 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 6: Have to be a comedian involved. 368 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 4: You need a lot of work. 369 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:55,400 Speaker 6: So time you've got to take the pibals. 370 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 5: How do you well Je's come out and he said, 371 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 5: because there's a febit of heat. His political party isn't 372 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 5: doing very well. They've run into all sorts of trouble 373 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 5: and people have said, we have nothing to look forward 374 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:07,880 Speaker 5: to in this country. 375 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 4: So he's got a mix weekly TV show. 376 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,199 Speaker 5: And he said, all right, guys, I know this is 377 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:17,120 Speaker 5: going to sound strange, but I'm now, as your president, 378 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 5: making a change within this country that Christmas will be 379 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 5: moved from the twenty fifth of December to the first 380 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 5: of October. 381 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 4: It's coming in early, guys. 382 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 5: Wow, And it's not a joke. We're doing it early. 383 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 5: And he said, it's September. And now it already feels 384 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 5: like Chris, Oh my gosh, it stands around the corner, guys, the. 385 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 6: Birth of Jesus's move. 386 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:42,880 Speaker 5: I mean, what do you mean, We've got a cost 387 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 5: of living crisis in this country, it's Christmas time. 388 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:48,399 Speaker 4: What a better way to boost. 389 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 5: Retail and send him it of money into the system 390 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 5: like Christmas? 391 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 2: It is that their holiday time. It must be Why 392 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:57,679 Speaker 2: is he moving to the. 393 00:18:57,840 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 5: Start of October. He just thought it would be great 394 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 5: to have the feeling with Christmas in the air. But 395 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 5: this isn't a one off. This he shifted Christmas. He said, 396 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:06,360 Speaker 5: why don't we just do it earlier? 397 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:07,439 Speaker 6: It's going fun. 398 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 5: So it's like he sat down with his team in 399 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 5: the boardroom and said, what does everybody love? What's the 400 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 5: best feeling in the world? And someone's out Christmas time 401 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 5: and he's gone, right, get it on TV. 402 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 2: So boxing day sales on October second, correct, Okay. 403 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 5: And then I think we just roll out. I wonder 404 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 5: if Easter comes early or the long wait for Easter happen. 405 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 2: What do you do December twenty fifth in it's quite 406 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 2: nothing day. 407 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:35,920 Speaker 5: Well, you'll have to wait until next week's episode of 408 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 5: Let the President, Nick Call the Shots Extraordinary. 409 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,240 Speaker 9: This is the Fitting and Whipper with Kate Richie podcast. 410 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 2: I want to talk about ruining reputations. You're a mean reputation, Kate, geez, 411 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 2: that doesn't give you an opportunity play Taylor Swift, so. 412 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 1: You don't need the story anymore for incorrect visit man. 413 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:06,840 Speaker 2: Okay, so has this happened to you before where someone 414 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 2: has tried to ruin your reputation thirteen twenty fourteen. 415 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 6: To what extent did they go to? 416 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 1: I'm just going to run around it and get on 417 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 1: the phone. 418 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 5: Yeah, I was in a grave three actually and not 419 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 5: asking you mate. 420 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:23,400 Speaker 4: Oh sorry, that's sorry, rhetorical question listeners. 421 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, so, okay, I made of mine. 422 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 2: His wife got a coaching role at the local netbook 423 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 2: club to coach her daughter. 424 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:31,360 Speaker 6: Right. 425 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 2: The unfortunate thing with that is that another mum missed 426 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:38,440 Speaker 2: out on the job. So that mum that missed out 427 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 2: on the job and it took them ages to work 428 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 2: out who was doing it, made it her mission to 429 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 2: ruin the other mum's reputation. 430 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,119 Speaker 1: Oh she really wanted the job obviously. 431 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:50,720 Speaker 6: So it's stuck. 432 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 2: My my, They received an anonymous letter in their mailbox, right, 433 00:20:56,600 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 2: and my mate got it out of the letterbox, opened 434 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 2: it up, and it was claiming that his wife was 435 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,200 Speaker 2: cheating on her with a work colleague. So it was anonymous, 436 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 2: there was no name put to it. It was typed 437 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 2: on a computer and printed off and said, I just 438 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 2: want to make you aware that your wife is cheating 439 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 2: on you with one of her work colleagues. He's confronted her. 440 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 2: This is my mate. He's confronted his wife. She's freaking out, 441 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 2: started crying her eyes out. Obviously denied it right, and 442 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,119 Speaker 2: they worked it out, had no idea who it was. 443 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,680 Speaker 6: They actually rang the police. The police said, there's not 444 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 6: much that we can do about it. Her workplace. 445 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:41,119 Speaker 2: Her workplace then received an anonymous letter saying that she 446 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 2: had a criminal history and had repeatedly moved towns to 447 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 2: get away from her past. 448 00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:50,680 Speaker 6: Oh my god, isn't it. 449 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 2: So then they have to investigate that. They find out 450 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:56,359 Speaker 2: that that's untrue. She doesn't have a criminal history. So 451 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,719 Speaker 2: then she's freaking out, the husband's freaking out. They go 452 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:03,120 Speaker 2: to the police again and they go, okay, keep documenting 453 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 2: this because this is all evidence. Then finally, the netball 454 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 2: league has received an anonymous letter saying that she has 455 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,120 Speaker 2: been mistreating the junior girls in her team. 456 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:15,160 Speaker 4: Oh, you've over lettered. 457 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 6: This is it's unbelievable. It's the talk of the town. 458 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,920 Speaker 2: And that's when police have been called in and they're 459 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:25,160 Speaker 2: now going to look at CCTV footage of the building 460 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,879 Speaker 2: where the letter was let to find out who was 461 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 2: the culprit. 462 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:32,199 Speaker 6: But they're pretty sure they know who it is. 463 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 4: How you meant to cut the letters out of the 464 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 4: newspaper and. 465 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, in the old days or typewriters, pretty old 466 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:38,400 Speaker 1: school too. 467 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 4: That's good. 468 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 6: That's good movies, isn't it. 469 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 2: It's unbelievable the links that people will go to to 470 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:49,199 Speaker 2: ruin people's reputations because they didn't get something that they wanted. 471 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 5: That isn't The first thing that's going to happen is 472 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,160 Speaker 5: the police will sit down and go, all right, there's 473 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 5: anyone got beef with you who's met Niglie around the 474 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 5: edges at the moment. 475 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 6: But she did this is the thing. 476 00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:59,439 Speaker 2: She didn't know that this woman had beef with that, 477 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 2: and she did so the other woman didn't get the job. 478 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 3: And it wasn't like she blew up or anything. 479 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 2: She sort of kept it to herself, and unfortunately it's 480 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 2: bubbled inside of her and she's got to this point 481 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 2: where she said, well, the only way I can get 482 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 2: the job as the netball coach is if I ruin 483 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:18,240 Speaker 2: her reputation it's like Tony Harding, Well not quite. 484 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 1: I mean, no one's you know, attacked somebody's knees hammer. 485 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:28,359 Speaker 1: Yet she must really want to be the nipbull. I mean, 486 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,880 Speaker 1: wouldn't you Just wouldn't you be glad that it's one night, 487 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 1: two days off a week. Just rock up to the game. 488 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 1: You don't have to bring the balls. 489 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 4: Just be on waters. 490 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 6: This is contact in the highest order. 491 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 4: Isn't it? Wing defence? 492 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 2: Have you ever been accused of something Kate before in 493 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:47,400 Speaker 2: the industry? 494 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 4: Oh my god, where do we start? 495 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:53,399 Speaker 5: We've got We've only got to nine o'clock and Ellie's 496 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 5: going to hit the button. 497 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 4: For the rest of the show. 498 00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:59,440 Speaker 1: You have to wait for my memoir. 499 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:01,159 Speaker 3: Got eleven minutes. 500 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 6: You've got eleven minutes to tell your story. 501 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,680 Speaker 5: Oh my god. All right, and my coat has a 502 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 5: bit of a flip through the files. 503 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:13,400 Speaker 2: To what extent have people gone to ruin your reputation, 504 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 2: whether it's at work, whether it's at sporting clubs. 505 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 1: It could be Rex as well. They often do that 506 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 1: big time. 507 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 6: Leanne in Liverpool? What happened? 508 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 14: Leanne Well as a hairdresser with a lot of clientele, 509 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,480 Speaker 14: one of the girlfriends of a customer. I believed that 510 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 14: we were giving an extra head message when they got there. 511 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, criminal to say it was not included. 512 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 2: Just so Leanne, did you have to go to the 513 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,120 Speaker 2: police and tell them to investigate? 514 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:44,320 Speaker 1: Or no? 515 00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:45,840 Speaker 14: I did have to go out the front because she 516 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 14: set out the front of her car and told because 517 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 14: there was a shop front on the street, and told 518 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,080 Speaker 14: every male customer that came in with a missus, do 519 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 14: you realize what he's going in for? 520 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:55,120 Speaker 16: Oh? 521 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:57,720 Speaker 1: Always that what you mean? 522 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 2: Sorry, that was an extra bonus. There was an extra 523 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 2: bonus to the haircut. 524 00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:07,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 525 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,360 Speaker 6: Did you have you confronted this woman about it? 526 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 3: Or Oh? 527 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 14: When I found out, I stormed out the front. My 528 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:14,440 Speaker 14: boss was all going to get run over. 529 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 12: I'm like, hey, what are you doing? 530 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:17,159 Speaker 4: I got a bone to pick with you. 531 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. I didn't think anyone sitting in a car out 532 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 1: the front of anywhere is this is not something not 533 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:24,919 Speaker 1: quite right? 534 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 4: Oh my god? 535 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 14: Hospitalized after it. 536 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 2: But anyway, Natalie and Camden, how was your reputation ruined? 537 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 6: Natalie? 538 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 11: Hi, guys, Well, my best friend that I thought at 539 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 11: the time we were actually getting married in the same year, 540 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 11: and I. 541 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 13: Was super excited and I thought we'd do all the. 542 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 11: Planning together and all the things, and it turned out 543 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,960 Speaker 11: for the whole six months leading up to the wedding, 544 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 11: she was going around to all my close friends and 545 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 11: saying some horrible nasty things about me because we were 546 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 11: just getting. 547 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 13: Married in the same year. 548 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 4: And what were some of the things did you hear 549 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 4: about yourself? 550 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:05,320 Speaker 13: Just seems like I was stealing her ideas and her 551 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 13: dress was my address and all the things, and I 552 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 13: had no idea what her plans were because she was 553 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,440 Speaker 13: avoiding me and not talking to me, and I had 554 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 13: no idea what was going wrong. 555 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:15,240 Speaker 4: Fair. 556 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:20,719 Speaker 1: It just doesn't say it is a very Yeah, I 557 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 1: can't speak incurity. It's insecurity. I'm trying to find the 558 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 1: right word that's still kind. 559 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 4: Jenny's in Liverpool, Hey Jen, what happened to you? 560 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 11: Yeah? 561 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 9: Hi? 562 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 15: Oh, yeah, I had a letter delivered to my place 563 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,719 Speaker 15: and I was saying about how I was having an affair. Oh, 564 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,360 Speaker 15: my husband was having an affair. Sorry, and my son 565 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:43,680 Speaker 15: was like a really horrible person and he was bullying 566 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 15: her child and this, that and the other, and my 567 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:50,159 Speaker 15: son was only about ten of time. Yeah, yeah, not 568 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,639 Speaker 15: at all true. Anyway, A little bit did be a 569 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 15: little bit of investigating myself. And it was actually a 570 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 15: local woman who had quite often done it to lots 571 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 15: of people, including the sister in lot. And it turns 572 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 15: out her son. 573 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 16: Was actually a murderer. 574 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:04,480 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Jenny. 575 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 15: I think she was very unhappy with her own life 576 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,879 Speaker 15: and wanted to keep putting it on everybody else's. 577 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 3: And how long had your husband been seeing her for? No, 578 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 3: that is. 579 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:20,600 Speaker 1: Ignore with Jenny, and Jenny apologize. He doesn't listen to 580 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:21,160 Speaker 1: us either. 581 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,359 Speaker 3: So did the police investigate that one for you, Jenny? 582 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 6: Or what happened? 583 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:29,240 Speaker 15: We were going to They couldn't really do anything unless 584 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,719 Speaker 15: they tried to do fingerprints and things like that. I 585 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 15: didn't really think it was sort of too much of 586 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 15: a big deal. It was only over time as I 587 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:39,439 Speaker 15: did the investigating, and other people had told me that 588 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,679 Speaker 15: they got letters and this person had got given letters 589 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:46,160 Speaker 15: to other people, including their own family members, and yeah, 590 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:48,399 Speaker 15: it was brutal. And then yeah, after that, I just 591 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 15: when I knew who it was, I just dis owned 592 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 15: them completely because I was like, apple wouldn't fall far 593 00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 15: from the tree. Unfortunately. 594 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you, Jenny, He's just a song and that 595 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:06,919 Speaker 5: this is the Whipper with Cape Richie Podcast. 596 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:06,880 Speaker 3: Me sing songs on so song. 597 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,240 Speaker 4: Okay, we have a warm up round. 598 00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 3: Guys. 599 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,360 Speaker 5: Welcome to song song from Monday. When the sun is out. 600 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:14,640 Speaker 5: It's a great day to play song. 601 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:14,920 Speaker 6: Song. 602 00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 4: The word is for our warm up round club. 603 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 2: In the club, fummy club, damn it Club. 604 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:25,120 Speaker 1: I love that song? 605 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 3: Shall we play that club? 606 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 1: Flow Writer club, can't handle Me right? 607 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 3: Story of your Life, Tom Lonely Hearts Club? Wo Okay, 608 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 3: love that? 609 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:36,639 Speaker 10: What on? 610 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:38,440 Speaker 4: Guys? That was a great warm up round. 611 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 5: It wasn't the easiest of words, but still you performed beautifully. 612 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 5: Congratulations everyone film warmed up. I feel that's I feel 613 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 5: that's great. The word is for our first official round 614 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 5: talk Talk. 615 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 1: Talk Talk Talk that talk to me Rihanna. 616 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 4: Okay, we'll take that as a yes. 617 00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 1: I'm listening to that in the car on the week. 618 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 6: Hasn't Karl got a song called can We Just Talk? 619 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 4: Ryan James? 620 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 3: Answer is that that's Ry Thomas? 621 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 4: Where are you talk to me? 622 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 6: Jason? 623 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 4: To rule us? 624 00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 3: I will you do not need? 625 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 4: Could have gone with let's talk about sex. 626 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:17,760 Speaker 1: That's a good one. 627 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,480 Speaker 4: Pillow talk, Zaye, also. 628 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,240 Speaker 3: Change your pillows at least. 629 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 2: Everything did just go is that Zayane's pillow talk? 630 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 5: What was have a sneaking suspicion it might be the 631 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 5: wrong audio on the You. 632 00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,840 Speaker 1: Need to change your pillows at least every two years. 633 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 3: Which person sheds about four kilos of skin? Most of 634 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 3: them ends up on your people? 635 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 5: Think song song is an informative Wow, thank you Zaye, 636 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:44,480 Speaker 5: what a great song. 637 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 4: I haven't heard that version. We all moved through to 638 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 4: the next round. Here we go. You need to be 639 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:52,760 Speaker 4: fast than this one. 640 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 1: The word is car, car, get away car Taylor Swift. 641 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 6: Cars by Gary Human. How does that cars? 642 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 17: Yeah? 643 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 1: This one? 644 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 3: Get in my car? Give you I want to to girl, 645 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:11,480 Speaker 3: fast car Tracy Chatman. 646 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 5: Thank you Thomas and Brian. What about belly Ocean? Get 647 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 5: out of My Dreams? 648 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 1: I love this song? Needs to make dances up to 649 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 1: this in the land get into mark car. 650 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 4: With car in an American accent. 651 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 1: In the backseat. B there. 652 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 6: Romancing the Stone, wasn't it? There was Indiana Jones movie? 653 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 12: Was it? 654 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 6: How did you? 655 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 4: How did No One go with shennon Nol? 656 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 3: Drive car? 657 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 1: Is that what you meant by You've got to get 658 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 1: in fast for this? 659 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 3: Or is that a fast car? 660 00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:47,080 Speaker 1: Junker? 661 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 4: Set Tom up beautifully. Okay, we are all through to 662 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:52,760 Speaker 4: the next round. 663 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:57,800 Speaker 3: The word is hell, Hi, way to hell, bang a 664 00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 3: c DC Brian. 665 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 1: James, Now we got back? Is telling that like about 666 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 1: out of hell. 667 00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 3: By the big guy Hell. 668 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 6: A quick look at the sheep pen at. 669 00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,720 Speaker 4: I've whistled it three times. 670 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:20,680 Speaker 1: No, I'm not gonna feeling good as hell. 671 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 3: Mate, Oh lizo, hello. 672 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 16: Off. 673 00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 4: Okay. Richie loves the game, but now she sits on 674 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 4: the sideline. 675 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 1: I love to be a spectator as well. I mean, 676 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:36,000 Speaker 1: I'm very supportive of the team. Go Tommy, Okay. 677 00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,080 Speaker 4: The word is sign or signs. 678 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 2: I saw the sign and it opened up my eyes. 679 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:47,680 Speaker 6: I saw the sign. Give me some kind of sign. 680 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 3: Girl? 681 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 4: Is that in the system? Yess? 682 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 3: Orry moye, not a funky junkie. 683 00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 6: Tell you this system? 684 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 4: Thank you? 685 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:02,800 Speaker 1: You want a junkie? 686 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,280 Speaker 3: What a crime that song was? 687 00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 6: Don't have a crack at Peter mate. 688 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 4: The word is this is getting tougher. 689 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:25,800 Speaker 17: The word is oh what oh h oh. 690 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 6: O mg, oh my god. 691 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 3: We will accept josha, Oh my god. 692 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 4: Oh what a feeling. We will accept that. What the 693 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 4: Toyota commercial. 694 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 6: You know there's another song I was there. 695 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 4: We could have gone oh pretty woman. 696 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, we'll let you all through there because that's fun. 697 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 4: Okay, here we go. We move on to the emergency sheet. 698 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:49,720 Speaker 6: Oh jesu's just going through the sheets. Here is Corona. 699 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 4: The word is weather. 700 00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 6: Whether Taylor Swift the weather song, isn't it now? We 701 00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:57,600 Speaker 6: did apparody on that. 702 00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 3: Is it like take the weather you everywhere you go? 703 00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:03,080 Speaker 6: Weather? 704 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 1: What about w h e Ting? 705 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:11,520 Speaker 3: I'll accept oh weather weather. I think I'm out. 706 00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:15,200 Speaker 4: I'll have a wether song Boom Thomas see later. 707 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,560 Speaker 5: Brian James wins on a crowded house song. 708 00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:21,360 Speaker 9: This is the Fits In with with Kate Richie podcast. 709 00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,720 Speaker 1: I want to talk about sleep this morning. I don't know. 710 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 1: Did you have a good night? 711 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 5: I did a record time with my sleep app near 712 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:33,440 Speaker 5: mask on last night, and I did five hours. 713 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 1: From when you went to bed. And then do you 714 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 1: get frustrated and tear it off? 715 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, because the strength of the air blowing into my 716 00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:43,600 Speaker 5: nose to help me breathe intensifies and then it feels 717 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 5: like it feels like there's a volcano erupting on your face. 718 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 2: Did you did you hear from Batman Baane last night? 719 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:54,800 Speaker 2: As you do look like Baine. 720 00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 4: When they put it on. 721 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 3: It's quite sexy. 722 00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 4: It's got a I don't. 723 00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:00,200 Speaker 1: Know, are you're allowed to use the allowed to talk 724 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,800 Speaker 1: about the Elephant Man. I don't know if a lot 725 00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:04,320 Speaker 1: of people would know the Elephant Man, but it was 726 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 1: a very very old film, and I just get the 727 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,600 Speaker 1: feeling that when you're in bed with your sleep apnear master, 728 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:10,719 Speaker 1: it would be like the scene with elephant Man in 729 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 1: the bed. 730 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:13,360 Speaker 5: Yes, it has a chin strap as well, which helps 731 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:14,959 Speaker 5: goes out at the top of my head, which helps 732 00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:15,439 Speaker 5: keep my mouth. 733 00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:16,120 Speaker 6: How do you feel? 734 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:17,799 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you should bring it in here. 735 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:23,400 Speaker 2: Okay, I had time in bed was seven hours forty 736 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,920 Speaker 2: five For me time of sleep six hours fifty. 737 00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:30,960 Speaker 1: That is wonderful. Well, I mean I have a girlfriend 738 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:32,719 Speaker 1: even this morning who said she was off. 739 00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:33,000 Speaker 6: To the gym. 740 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:33,640 Speaker 1: Julie. 741 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:34,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, Julie. 742 00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 1: It is Julie. One good thing about insomnia. I mean 743 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:41,359 Speaker 1: she gets up and she goes to the gym. I know, 744 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 1: my sister has to sleep with background noise, right, And 745 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if she just got used to falling 746 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 1: asleep in front of the TV or. 747 00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 4: My sister's the same. 748 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,400 Speaker 5: She's tvvy has to be on in the bedroom for 749 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 5: her to fall asleep. 750 00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 1: But there's something that could be going on inside your 751 00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,640 Speaker 1: brain that means that you need to have this background 752 00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 1: noise going on. I mean, on a very basic level, 753 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 1: it's what you're used to. So it's habit and it's routine. 754 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:08,680 Speaker 1: It's like, you know, you take your makeup off and 755 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 1: you put your moisturizer on. That could also be your routine. 756 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,960 Speaker 2: Can we just throw it out there quickly? Thirteen twenty fourteen. 757 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 2: What do you have to have on for you to 758 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:18,520 Speaker 2: fall asleep? 759 00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 1: Maybe it's the kid screaming in the next room, plug 760 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:25,359 Speaker 1: not going to sleep. Maybe you need earplugs, Maybe you 761 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 1: need music. Obviously drinking way too much alcohol that will 762 00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,759 Speaker 1: make you toss and turn at night. But what they're 763 00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 1: saying is that having to play music or having to 764 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 1: maybe it's even your favorite podcasts that you are now 765 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:46,280 Speaker 1: used to, is that it's rooted in a much deeper 766 00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,680 Speaker 1: level of mental health that you may actually need to 767 00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 1: get a handle on. And it's all to do with 768 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:56,919 Speaker 1: avoidance and distraction, and that like any of us, whether 769 00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:01,879 Speaker 1: it's our phone or shopping or eating, once quite often 770 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:08,400 Speaker 1: we use these distractions to stop feeling our emotions. And 771 00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,880 Speaker 1: once once we take away the distraction, or once we 772 00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,799 Speaker 1: take away the noise at night to lull us into 773 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:17,640 Speaker 1: a false sense of security to get to sleep, our 774 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:21,600 Speaker 1: emotions come rushing back. We're just left. It's just you 775 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:26,319 Speaker 1: and your head and silence. And for some people that 776 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,799 Speaker 1: is way way too much. It's a trauma response. This 777 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,840 Speaker 1: is what the doctor has said, or the guy studying this. 778 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:37,600 Speaker 1: It's a trauma response to abandonment issues. The noise tricks 779 00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:41,840 Speaker 1: your brain into thinking you are falling asleep alone, but 780 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 1: in actual fact you're not. Your brain is still crowded. 781 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,320 Speaker 1: I mean, it's much more positive to have a lovely 782 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:51,680 Speaker 1: podcast or you know, I see the sense in these 783 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 1: calming podcasts. 784 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:55,319 Speaker 6: Can I disagree with this? 785 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:59,359 Speaker 1: Not because it's science, so you can't. 786 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 2: Don't you want to feel relaxed and have as much 787 00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:04,080 Speaker 2: sleep as you can eat? 788 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:07,320 Speaker 1: What can you do? What it's saying, though, fits very 789 00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:10,400 Speaker 1: very clearly is that yes, we do want to relax, 790 00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 1: but we need to have the ability as humans to 791 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,879 Speaker 1: be able to relax, to feel our emotions, to let 792 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 1: them to to have them, let them go through the 793 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 1: body and still be okay without the distraction. Let's take 794 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,360 Speaker 1: some calls on this. This Morning Shop. We speak to 795 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:27,840 Speaker 1: rachelle Heal. 796 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,880 Speaker 3: Hi, guy, how are you? 797 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:32,959 Speaker 4: Your whole family has a sleeping trick? Is that right? 798 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 9: Yeah? 799 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:35,880 Speaker 15: I use a white machine noise. 800 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,799 Speaker 12: I take it everywhere with me and it's nothing to 801 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 12: do with dealing with your emotions. It's what it does 802 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 12: is like, you know, when you're going to sleep. 803 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 13: Do you hear all different noises? You've got the cars 804 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:50,360 Speaker 13: going by, You've got all different noises. 805 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,040 Speaker 7: So what it does if you focus only. 806 00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:53,800 Speaker 1: On that one noise? 807 00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 6: Gotcha? 808 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:57,320 Speaker 3: Okay, it helps you go to sleep. 809 00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:58,879 Speaker 4: But still the same thing, isn't it. 810 00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:00,839 Speaker 5: It's a distraction, so you don't fill alone, so you're 811 00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 5: not left in your own headspace. 812 00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,520 Speaker 2: But can I tell you, I get anxiety to think 813 00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:08,239 Speaker 2: if I'm if I want all those feelings that I've 814 00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,879 Speaker 2: had for the decade, I don't want them rushing into 815 00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 2: my head as I'm trying to get to sleep. 816 00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,360 Speaker 6: I'm trying to push them all away. 817 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,160 Speaker 1: There, you just said it. You just proved our point. 818 00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:20,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, your Murray in Mortdale? How do you get to sleep? 819 00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:22,040 Speaker 16: Muss legend? 820 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:23,160 Speaker 4: Legend? 821 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:24,160 Speaker 1: Great? 822 00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 16: I actually like a cheeky little playlist on Spotify, A 823 00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:35,000 Speaker 16: bit of music of background noise, said silent, I can't 824 00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 16: sleep as much noise. 825 00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:39,440 Speaker 3: Same one every night, Murray. 826 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,120 Speaker 16: Absolutely, what is what's on it? 827 00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 4: Murray? 828 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:46,640 Speaker 16: The sort of music with no lyrics, no instruments. It's 829 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:47,959 Speaker 16: literally just like what noise. 830 00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:50,920 Speaker 5: It's just how can you down like a rain forest 831 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,960 Speaker 5: or something people do the nature noises? 832 00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, but then you need to go up to the 833 00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:57,080 Speaker 1: toilet when you hear. 834 00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:04,480 Speaker 2: A streamed Jack and Kellyville tell us about your partner, Jack. 835 00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:08,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, well morning, by the way, good morning Jack. 836 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:09,960 Speaker 5: Yeah. 837 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 7: So my partner uses it. Used to be my son's 838 00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,759 Speaker 7: when he was a baby's toy. So what it is 839 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:20,160 Speaker 7: is that to crab. The lights up and it makes 840 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:23,520 Speaker 7: a like a water picture on the ceiling as well 841 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:28,520 Speaker 7: as some fish and plays some music. So originally I 842 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 7: got it for my son and then he's now stick. 843 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,319 Speaker 7: So my partner uses it and I've actually have to 844 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:34,719 Speaker 7: buy two. 845 00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,640 Speaker 1: That is amazing. I think I had one like that. 846 00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:42,719 Speaker 1: It was like a night see project. 847 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, projector crab and then it also plays a heartbeat, 848 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,759 Speaker 7: which is a bit freaky, you know, adult obviously to 849 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:48,440 Speaker 7: the child. 850 00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:50,719 Speaker 16: Yeah, and is it. 851 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:52,359 Speaker 4: A good picture that the club puts up? 852 00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:55,879 Speaker 7: It's good, but her eyes are closed, and it keeps 853 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 7: me awake because it literally lights up the whole room. 854 00:39:58,960 --> 00:39:59,480 Speaker 16: It looks good. 855 00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 7: I definitely recommend it. An adult might be a bit different. 856 00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,319 Speaker 2: It works, you know what if it goes out of 857 00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:08,799 Speaker 2: business though, This is the thing. I'm glad that you've 858 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:11,239 Speaker 2: you've got a couple there, Jack, because you might have 859 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:14,000 Speaker 2: to buy another one. We'll just go quick. One more 860 00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:16,680 Speaker 2: bricking bre in picked in? How do you get the 861 00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:17,279 Speaker 2: slate break? 862 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:18,920 Speaker 7: Good morning guys. 863 00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,400 Speaker 12: So I'm basically mine's not white noise. 864 00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,000 Speaker 14: Mine's more socks. So like, I can't really get to 865 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,480 Speaker 14: see about having something covering my feet and something in 866 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 14: my toes, like. 867 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:29,120 Speaker 1: Wear socks to bed. 868 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:31,719 Speaker 12: Do. 869 00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 1: I I couldn't think of anything worse than covering. 870 00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:37,400 Speaker 6: Up my feet. 871 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,400 Speaker 1: No men are like that. I think men are like 872 00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,719 Speaker 1: human electric blankets. 873 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:46,560 Speaker 2: I just even I've got the ceiling fan on now 874 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,960 Speaker 2: still We've just gone to spring, and I suppose it's 875 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,400 Speaker 2: been quite warm in Sydney, but I've still got it 876 00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 2: on too. I'm still and my feet are hanging out 877 00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:55,959 Speaker 2: the whole time. 878 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,560 Speaker 4: That's the problem with six six, Tommy. What do you 879 00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:01,400 Speaker 4: do to relax before bed? Cup of tea? 880 00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, Heroine. 881 00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:10,680 Speaker 5: Covering all bases. There nothing on the nod, nothing would 882 00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,360 Speaker 5: surprise me. What a weird end of the DAYTA They're. 883 00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:15,880 Speaker 9: Fit and With with Kate Richie podcast. 884 00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,000 Speaker 4: Guys, now you finished listening to this episode. 885 00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,400 Speaker 3: We had a great chat with Andy Lee. You can go. 886 00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:26,439 Speaker 5: We had a great chat with Andy Lee. You can 887 00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,239 Speaker 5: go and check that out on the podcast. 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