WEBVTT - WHEN TO TALK MONEY WITH YOUR PARTNER

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<v Speaker 1>I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.

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<v Speaker 2>She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of

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<v Speaker 2>my kissing style?

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<v Speaker 1>Boyfriend and girlfriend from about twelve hours.

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<v Speaker 2>He's in a trash bin.

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<v Speaker 1>He's non recyclable, catching her.

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<v Speaker 2>Mut I love being love. I love love.

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<v Speaker 1>On today's episode of Where's Your Head At, we are

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<v Speaker 1>sitting down with Julian Morrow, founder and CEO of Morrow

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<v Speaker 1>Accountants to chat all things finance, tax and when to

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<v Speaker 1>talk money with your partner.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, money certainly does play a part in relationships, so

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<v Speaker 3>we can't wait to ask Julian the hard hitting questions

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<v Speaker 3>such as when to start talking money with your partner.

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<v Speaker 1>He will also share his best tax tips and how

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<v Speaker 1>to handle debt.

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<v Speaker 2>Stay tuned.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Julian, Welcome to the podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey guys, thanks so much for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning and welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>We know that this is your busiest time of year,

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<v Speaker 1>so we are very grateful to have you on to

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<v Speaker 1>give everyone all of the all of the money tips,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not the best with my finances, as you know,

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<v Speaker 1>being my accountant, Matt, would you say you're good with finances?

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<v Speaker 3>I have gotten better in recent years. I was very

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<v Speaker 3>poor in my early twenties, like I sucked.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm going to say that you've gotten better over

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<v Speaker 4>the years or still a learning process?

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<v Speaker 2>What would you say?

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<v Speaker 4>There's a lot of inside jokes. Yeah, no, no, look,

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<v Speaker 4>you're getting better. But like everyone, it is a learning thing.

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<v Speaker 4>It's on something you learn in school, so naturally that's

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<v Speaker 4>why it makes sense to talk about, especially at this

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<v Speaker 4>time of the year where it's at everyone's forefront of

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<v Speaker 4>the mind as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm not gonna lie. I feel that Anna would

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<v Speaker 3>be pretty terrible and it would be really as an accountant.

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<v Speaker 1>There would bet I'm like an accountant's worst nightmare. And

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<v Speaker 1>I totally hold my hands up and admit that. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you're listening to this episode and you also feel

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<v Speaker 1>that you're not good with finances, this is the episode

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<v Speaker 1>to listen to because Julian just really simplifies things. He

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<v Speaker 1>makes it easy, he makes it fun, and I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>Anna called me a couple of weeks ago and was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>do you remember when we bought the new phones?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, what do you remember that? You

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<v Speaker 2>were trying to figure out the date because.

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<v Speaker 4>It was asking me what I was Probably I would

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<v Speaker 4>have been for some kind of record keeping that that

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't done properly. But I'm sure we got there at

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<v Speaker 4>the end, didn't we Anna?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what's interesting is like once I buy something,

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<v Speaker 1>it just does not like it doesn't cross my mind

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<v Speaker 1>ever again, Like I was asking that, like what did

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<v Speaker 1>I buy at this time of year?

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<v Speaker 2>And you were like, we bought an iPhone?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, did I? How would we? How

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<v Speaker 1>would how would you remember that?

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<v Speaker 2>I remember because I remember that story. So let's jump in.

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<v Speaker 1>What are some good top tips for the end of

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<v Speaker 1>financial year? Julian.

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<v Speaker 4>Funnily enough, I almost reckon it's like it gets in

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<v Speaker 4>the financial year, so it's almost planning for the new

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<v Speaker 4>financial Yet, as weird as that sounds, so people always

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<v Speaker 4>thinking backwards, so maybe it's like what did it work

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<v Speaker 4>this year? Right, because like you said, you're already behind

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<v Speaker 4>the eight ball, so it's like what can I do

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<v Speaker 4>differently for the next year? I like, and as boring

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<v Speaker 4>as it sounds. A lot of it is the record keeping,

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<v Speaker 4>so finding a system that works, whether it's the Ato

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<v Speaker 4>deductions app, whether it's like a drop box where you

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<v Speaker 4>just chuck receipts as you go, could be something more fancy,

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<v Speaker 4>like you know your accounting programs zero all that could

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<v Speaker 4>be as basic as a spreadsheet. But I think it's

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<v Speaker 4>really just having something because that's the basis of everything

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<v Speaker 4>that goes to the accountant. So without that, you're already

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<v Speaker 4>kind of like chasing your tail a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>I put on my receipts and just as ziplocked back,

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<v Speaker 3>just put them in a fit of my wardrobe.

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<v Speaker 2>That's my account.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was moving house, like very recently, I actually

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<v Speaker 1>found this box that my dad told me to keep

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<v Speaker 1>the accounts. But they're like from two thousand, like nineteen.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm surprised the ink is still actually visible, if at all.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if you've went through that.

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<v Speaker 1>Process on the receipt I was just going to say, so,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously I still have a hex stet, and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people around Australia still have a hex stet. What

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<v Speaker 1>are your thoughts on the increase in the indexation rates?

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<v Speaker 4>That was a bit rough wasn't it the hike? And

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<v Speaker 4>I can see it from both perspectives. So I read

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<v Speaker 4>an interesting article the other day and the way that

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<v Speaker 4>they worded it, and this is on the side of

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<v Speaker 4>the government for example, right, I'm on the fence eyes

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<v Speaker 4>where it is. But they pretty much said, let's just

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<v Speaker 4>say you've got a ten grand hex stet and you

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<v Speaker 4>know it takes you whatever ten years to pay it back.

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<v Speaker 4>And by the time you pay it back, that ten grand,

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<v Speaker 4>right because of inflation, is only worth eight thousand dollars. Right,

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<v Speaker 4>So there's a two thousand dollars gap that the government

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<v Speaker 4>wants to still collect on their money. So what they

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<v Speaker 4>would usually do is, if they don't do this indexation

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<v Speaker 4>thing for inflation, they'd probably try and get that money through,

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<v Speaker 4>say increasing taxes. So indirectly, it's going to come back

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<v Speaker 4>to us as the tax payers to kind of put

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<v Speaker 4>that short little bit of the heck stet. So that's

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<v Speaker 4>kind of you know, bringing it forward in terms of

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<v Speaker 4>it doesn't make sense, like yes, based on you know

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<v Speaker 4>what inflation is and all of that, do we like it?

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely not? And can we do anything about it? Not? Really?

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<v Speaker 4>So what are your thoughts on it?

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<v Speaker 1>I was pissed, like I was kind of like I

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<v Speaker 1>meant number one.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even want to go to UNI.

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<v Speaker 1>I was basically forced into it by teachers, parents and

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<v Speaker 1>all of the above. Didn't had no idea what I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do. Basically did like a two year couse.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you stay there for two years?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I have like a fuller ex set props.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a solid, solid time for someone that didn't want

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<v Speaker 4>to do it in the first place.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, do you know what's interesting though, I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>use all of the Like I started with media communications,

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<v Speaker 1>which I technically use everything I did for that. Then

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<v Speaker 1>I moved into pr still use that, so I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it technically.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't go to waste.

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<v Speaker 1>I do use it in my everyday life, but also

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<v Speaker 1>still annoying. And I think the bigger the hex step,

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<v Speaker 1>the more it really like implicated you. For instance, like

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<v Speaker 1>a friend of mine, he was about to buy a

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<v Speaker 1>house and because he had such a huge lump sum,

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<v Speaker 1>it was going up like dramatically, and he then couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>buy a house because he was like, I need to

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<v Speaker 1>put the money into paying off the hex sets.

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<v Speaker 4>So I don't get like, you know, it's it's kind

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<v Speaker 4>of a catch twenty two. So you want to pay

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<v Speaker 4>it off, but you want that money for a house

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<v Speaker 4>deposit with the hex stet the bank you know, he

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<v Speaker 4>has a lower borrowing power, so because you've got this

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<v Speaker 4>tex step, they won't give you as much of a loan.

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<v Speaker 4>So you know, it's all so just like constantly there

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<v Speaker 4>to deal with. But yeah, the more you make you

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<v Speaker 4>start to learn that they really law that money back

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<v Speaker 4>real quick once you're on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for someone who hates talking about finances, like maybe

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<v Speaker 3>grew up in a house where you know, talking about

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<v Speaker 3>money was a bit, you know, a taboo topic, and

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<v Speaker 3>then what are some ways for them to deal with

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<v Speaker 3>their finances and maybe be more better with an account

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<v Speaker 3>and something like that and get on top of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Well, I find a lot of our clients that

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<v Speaker 4>actually come to us because it is a younger demographic,

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<v Speaker 4>do come from that background. So they're bury the head

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<v Speaker 4>in this end. They don't want to deal with it,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's quite frightening. So I think it's it's one

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<v Speaker 4>probably finding a professional that you can relate with. I

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<v Speaker 4>suppose accountants, financial plan is mortgage brokers. Generally, it can

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<v Speaker 4>be quite daunting and intimidating. Nowadays, there are younger practitioners

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<v Speaker 4>out there, so maybe why it's just aligning with someone

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<v Speaker 4>that you can listen to and not feel intimidated by it.

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<v Speaker 4>And then maybe it's even doing your own research initially,

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<v Speaker 4>so you know, you feel like you're going into the

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<v Speaker 4>conversation with something. There's so many podcasts out there, there's

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<v Speaker 4>reading you can do online, There's endless amounts of information. So,

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<v Speaker 4>like anything, I think knowledge is power. You know, empower yourself,

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<v Speaker 4>learn some things, and then align yourself with the right people,

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<v Speaker 4>which I think, you know, it's like anything in life.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't avoid tax. You can't avoid a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>this fine and stuff as you grow up. So the

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<v Speaker 4>quickly you get a handle on it and get some

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<v Speaker 4>level of comfort, I think the better it is for everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I used to definitely put my head in the

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<v Speaker 1>sand with all things money and tax. I just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to deal with it. I was like, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>future me problem. But then I was like, nope, still.

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<v Speaker 2>There, still there.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought I would think about it and then get

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<v Speaker 3>like anxious, and then I talked to my account and

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<v Speaker 3>then should tell me a bunch of stuff and it

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<v Speaker 3>would just go in one it sounds like you know

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<v Speaker 3>what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Solly, what Julian said is completely accurate. Like I think

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<v Speaker 1>because you're younger, it kind of makes me feel a

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<v Speaker 1>bit more comfortable. It's just like, you know, roughly around

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<v Speaker 1>the same age. I can just have like a normal

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<v Speaker 1>chat with Julie. And I think if you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with tax having a good accountant is key

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<v Speaker 1>really because then it's like, Okay, you can help me

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<v Speaker 1>sort all of this thing that I just don't get.

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<v Speaker 4>And as much as you know, I love that that

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<v Speaker 4>method the whole like handball to the accountant and will know.

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<v Speaker 4>I try and like drill a bit of education into

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<v Speaker 4>clients so they are still at least learning as they

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<v Speaker 4>go and getting better where the professionals will draw the

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<v Speaker 4>nitty greedy, but at least you know, over time you

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<v Speaker 4>understand what's going on, because I think that's a missing

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<v Speaker 4>piece of the equation as well. People just pay people

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<v Speaker 4>to do things, but it's like, hey, let's understand what's

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<v Speaker 4>going on at the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Time, absolutely make your job easier as well.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll assume correct it has many times I don't and

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<v Speaker 4>I store this journey. It's all we're still at the

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<v Speaker 4>start of our journey three years in.

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<v Speaker 1>What are some like handy tips for someone who's maybe

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<v Speaker 1>in debt and they don't know how to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>claw their way out of it, or maybe they feel

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed to grow to an accountant or you know, there's

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<v Speaker 1>no judgment.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, No, not at all. So I suppose when you

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<v Speaker 4>talk about debt, it's like, you know, is it ato debt?

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<v Speaker 4>Is a credit card debt and all that kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think anything ATO related people kind of freak out.

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<v Speaker 4>But I always prefense it with if you've got something

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<v Speaker 4>to pay, the aho really aren't scary. They're open to

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<v Speaker 4>payment plans like they do two three years, no questions asked,

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<v Speaker 4>and they can do longer than that as well. So

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's just being open, being realistic in terms

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<v Speaker 4>of other debts, I think that's a more kind of

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<v Speaker 4>holistic thing to look at. So, you know, can you

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<v Speaker 4>consolidate debts, can you get lower interest rates? Do you

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<v Speaker 4>have a credit card? Do you actually need a credit card?

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<v Speaker 4>Like all these little things, even though small in nature,

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<v Speaker 4>have to pay credit cards, Carlo and text debts. After

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<v Speaker 4>a while, it can feel quite overwhelming when you've got

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<v Speaker 4>all these things lingering over it, So I think it's

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<v Speaker 4>kind of yeah, getting it all together, trying to make

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<v Speaker 4>a little plan.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what I did with my credit card, I am

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<v Speaker 3>obviously like a lot of kids when you went when

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<v Speaker 3>you were younger overseas, you got a credit card to

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<v Speaker 3>like help you through it. I eventually ended up just

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<v Speaker 3>like cutting it up and putting it away so I

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<v Speaker 3>couldn't use it.

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<v Speaker 2>When I got back, I found myself.

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<v Speaker 4>I did not trust yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, every time I make a payment on it, and

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<v Speaker 3>you know, you go through like I'm cold for your

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<v Speaker 3>grocery shop, and like I have my money on my

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<v Speaker 3>actual account. But for some reason, I was like, I'll

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<v Speaker 3>use my credit card because there's less of a chance

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<v Speaker 3>of it like declining with this cute girl, so I

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<v Speaker 3>would attack that then.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So eventually I was like, nah, I got rid

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<v Speaker 2>of it, and just yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's also like after pay, you know what

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<v Speaker 4>I mean. You might actually have the money, but because

0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:42.880
<v Speaker 4>you're presented with the option of after pay, you're just like,

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<v Speaker 4>why would I pay my money. I'll use their money

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<v Speaker 4>and pay it off slowly, which I don't necessarily agree with.

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes I feel like, if you if you've got the money,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, use it. If you don't have the money

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<v Speaker 4>why you're buying it, maybe you wait out a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit longer. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like two types of people though, in the world,

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<v Speaker 1>right there's people who love a credit card, and then

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<v Speaker 1>there's people like me who I've never had a credit

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<v Speaker 1>card in my life. I'm scared of it. My parents

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<v Speaker 1>have like drilled it into me, like, never get a

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<v Speaker 1>credit card, you'll be in debt. But I've now somehow

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<v Speaker 1>realized I think through TikTok, maybe through Julian, that actually

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<v Speaker 1>credit cards can be beneficial. Can you explain to us

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<v Speaker 1>how credit cards are beneficial?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's funny that you say that, because it really

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<v Speaker 4>must be TikTok, or maybe it's just like something that's

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<v Speaker 4>gone on, because all of a sudden, I am seeing

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<v Speaker 4>everyone talking about credit cards, and I'm like, what's happened recently?

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<v Speaker 4>But in short, I think the thing that excites people

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<v Speaker 4>is about the rewards points, whether that's like when you

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<v Speaker 4>sign on to a credit card, I give you a

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<v Speaker 4>bunch of points, or when you spend you get kind

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<v Speaker 4>of credit card points. You can eventually use the flights

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<v Speaker 4>and you know, vouchers and things like that. So in

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<v Speaker 4>its simplest form, as long as you're paying the credit

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<v Speaker 4>card off ye straightaway or you're not forgetting to you're

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<v Speaker 4>not disadvantaged by using their credit card, and you get

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<v Speaker 4>the points as an extra little reward or so to speak.

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes people get a bit carried away with that, and

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<v Speaker 4>you've got to kind of remember that you do also

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<v Speaker 4>pay your credit card fees and all that kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>But there are definitely bargains out there to be had

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<v Speaker 4>by joining up to a credit card. They give you

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<v Speaker 4>a bunch of sign on points. And as long as

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<v Speaker 4>you're good with your money and you remember to make

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<v Speaker 4>the payments to the credit card and you're not actually

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<v Speaker 4>using it to live on your me it's like Matt said,

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<v Speaker 4>then you can actually get ahead from that point side

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<v Speaker 4>of things.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of points, because we talked about this on the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast the other day, and do you want to ask Julian,

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<v Speaker 1>this is your time to.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, what's the best credit card for the best

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<v Speaker 3>points system?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, I my credit you tell me the one I.

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<v Speaker 3>Was telling you about before my bank ended up sending

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<v Speaker 3>me an email saying I had X amount of points

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<v Speaker 3>to use from when I used to use my credit card,

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<v Speaker 3>but I was told you about before, and I went

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<v Speaker 3>on to like the link and I followed the link

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<v Speaker 3>ended up only being a ten dollars Amazon gift, Like, oh.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, okay, naturally, I feel like you're bank sending going

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<v Speaker 4>to promote their product, which is fair. I almost feel

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<v Speaker 4>like you need a degree in credit cards because there

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<v Speaker 4>are so many things to consider, So it's like, what's

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<v Speaker 4>the annual fee, what's the sign on bonus? How many

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<v Speaker 4>points do you get per dollar you spend? And they're

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<v Speaker 4>all constantly running promotions and competing against each other, so

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<v Speaker 4>it's almost suggests going to like those compare websites, putting

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<v Speaker 4>in how much you're going to spend, what's applicable, and

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<v Speaker 4>it'll just spit out kind of who's got the best

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<v Speaker 4>sign on promotion, who's got the cheapest rates, how many

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<v Speaker 4>how many points do you get? And go with that,

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<v Speaker 4>because I don't think there's one kind of like this

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<v Speaker 4>card is the is the goat and then you go

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<v Speaker 4>with that.

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<v Speaker 3>When I was younger, or when I was growing up,

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<v Speaker 3>my parents would say get a credit card, pay like

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<v Speaker 3>a bill on it, and then paid off straight away.

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<v Speaker 3>So your credit score is why is there any truth

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<v Speaker 3>in that? Or is that an urban legend?

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<v Speaker 4>No, No, the parents are onto something. It's the credit

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<v Speaker 4>card is an interesting one. So people think like they

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<v Speaker 4>should get one purely because they need a credit score,

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<v Speaker 4>like they won't to eventually buy a home, and without

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<v Speaker 4>a credit card it won't work. So we've done homelans

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<v Speaker 4>for clients and they've never had any form of debt

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<v Speaker 4>at all, and they just got the home loan.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Sorry, there are you to say.

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<v Speaker 1>We've done homelands for people who don't have a credit card.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like me and then he said debt.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, oh not me, got some other

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<v Speaker 4>debts over here. Yeah, So you don't necessarily need those

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<v Speaker 4>things to you know, be able to get home loans

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<v Speaker 4>and all that kind of stuff. But it can just

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<v Speaker 4>build a bit of street credit in the bank world

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<v Speaker 4>to show that you've got some repayment history, like there's

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<v Speaker 4>something that's lodged on your file. But obviously it works

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<v Speaker 4>on the flip side. If you stuff up and have

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<v Speaker 4>late repayments, then they're like, you know, they see that

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<v Speaker 4>when you go for home loans, and then you've just

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<v Speaker 4>got to explain it, So as long as you're on

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<v Speaker 4>top of it, it can help you, but you can

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<v Speaker 4>also get ahead without it as well.

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<v Speaker 2>What's what I've seen? What's a good credit score?

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<v Speaker 4>Mate? To be honest, the credit scores. I don't like

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<v Speaker 4>do credit score. So when we do a home loan, right,

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<v Speaker 4>the banks kind of had their system, so I think

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<v Speaker 4>from memory it's like a thousand to maybe twelve hundred,

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<v Speaker 4>depending on what system you go with in terms like

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<v Speaker 4>the best. But yeah, you'll I just.

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<v Speaker 2>Checked mine the other day, so I thought I might

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<v Speaker 2>as well.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you get?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that? Is that worth disclosing on?

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<v Speaker 2>End?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>What did you get out of one thousand and I

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<v Speaker 3>got eight hundred and ninety eight?

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<v Speaker 4>Now that's good. Yeah, that's like that's like a very

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<v Speaker 4>good to excellent kind of range, mate, I'd be pretty happy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, banks listening, I'm ready for a mortgage.

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<v Speaker 2>He's ready.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously, inflation is such a big topic at the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>How do people save when inflation is just feels like

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<v Speaker 1>it's going up and up and up.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's a good question, and I think you know,

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<v Speaker 4>with savings, it's kind of like increasing income or decrease expenses.

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<v Speaker 4>That's that's how I look at, you know, when I'm

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<v Speaker 4>talking to businesses, and increase profit, like they're the two options.

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<v Speaker 4>So obviously, increasing income is hard when you're with an

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<v Speaker 4>employee and you can't get a pay rise and all

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<v Speaker 4>those types of things, So I do you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>sure you guys see it more often these days, see

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<v Speaker 4>people doing the side gigs, doing little online jobs, contracting,

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<v Speaker 4>gig economy, selling clothing, all that kind of stuff. So

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like just tapping into any kind of passive

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<v Speaker 4>source of income is definitely going to help. Two, it's

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<v Speaker 4>probably the boring side of it, which is kind of

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<v Speaker 4>prioritizing and almost just like being more accountable. So even

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<v Speaker 4>though that sounds really kind of like I can't say,

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<v Speaker 4>because my income's not going up, maybe there's still room

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<v Speaker 4>for you to maximize your spending. So once a month,

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<v Speaker 4>sit down, have a SaaS C where you're spending on.

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<v Speaker 4>You might have subscriptions that you're paying for that you

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<v Speaker 4>don't actually use anymore. Electricity is all gone up from

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<v Speaker 4>the first of July, and maybe you're not on the

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<v Speaker 4>best package anymore. Health insurance, car insurance, just like so

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<v Speaker 4>many things that we just subscribe to and just like

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<v Speaker 4>set and forget. It's probably liked a review of everything,

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<v Speaker 4>and see where there's room to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I reckon getting rid of Ubery's. I would save so

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<v Speaker 1>much money, you would use.

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<v Speaker 2>It so much. I don't. I refuse to pay the livery.

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<v Speaker 1>Julian has seen how much. I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 1>would remember, because you've probably done everyone's tax I've my

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<v Speaker 1>Uber eats is out of control.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just refuse.

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<v Speaker 4>I am like an independent. I can't react when I

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<v Speaker 4>see people's bank accounts. But every now and then I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>it's a lot of bats.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I spoke, it's something I really want to like

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<v Speaker 1>cut out, Yeah, right now, do it right now.

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<v Speaker 4>But the way it works with the adduritudy, you re installed,

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<v Speaker 4>like it's got all your history there. They make it

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<v Speaker 4>really easy for you just to jump back on board,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what. I like.

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<v Speaker 1>They give me discounts except when I haven't ordered, like dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>they like at dinner time, at like five o'clock, just

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<v Speaker 1>before they send me a little notification to remind me

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<v Speaker 1>they're there.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, yeah, you must be like a previous and

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<v Speaker 4>that can't be a good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got like the what is it?

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<v Speaker 2>The Uber.

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<v Speaker 1>Rewards thing or something where you spend ten dollars and

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<v Speaker 1>then it gives you discounts and then you actually end

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<v Speaker 1>up saving.

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<v Speaker 2>It's bad. I'm a sucker for a program on that.

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<v Speaker 3>I was speaking to my Max, mostly looking at getting

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<v Speaker 3>the property market as Anna recently did, and I was like,

0:19:21.720 --> 0:19:24.679
<v Speaker 3>he owns three properties, and I was like, how, like,

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<v Speaker 3>what do you give me some advice? And he just

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<v Speaker 3>said the best thing I can say is just go without.

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<v Speaker 3>He was like, you need, you know, like make sacrifices, like.

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<v Speaker 4>When you prioritize. Yeah. Correct. I think, like anything, whether

0:19:37.400 --> 0:19:40.600
<v Speaker 4>it's business, property work, Like I think we see online

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<v Speaker 4>all these success stories like zero to one hundred people

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<v Speaker 4>just buying properties, but there usually is like a real

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<v Speaker 4>hustle behind it. So in the instance of what we're

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<v Speaker 4>saying inflation and you're like I can't get any more income,

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, yeah, go without prioritize what don't you need

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<v Speaker 4>so you can get into something like the property market

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<v Speaker 4>and yeah, enjoy that space. Ye.

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<v Speaker 3>Advice I have now is coffees. That's the only thing

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<v Speaker 3>that I am. I'm not coming it out lata. So

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, you know, going random trips to the

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<v Speaker 3>shops and buying clothes.

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<v Speaker 2>Cut that out.

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<v Speaker 4>You know how many coffees a day?

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<v Speaker 2>How many I'd have between four or five?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so I had four bucks at four bucks a pop.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I got soy milk a medium, so.

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<v Speaker 4>That's about that's about eight fifty in Melbourne.

0:20:26.359 --> 0:20:30.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah literally. Yeah, So that's a big vice.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a big vice, it is.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know it's better than buying, Like I usually

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<v Speaker 3>go to the shops every weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>And but I told you should get the statchels.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah you did. I should probably do that.

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<v Speaker 3>But like I said, I'd go to the shops buying

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<v Speaker 3>you like routh Ren or Tommy shirt like one hundred

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<v Speaker 3>and fifty, then go to the bar and spend god confidence.

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<v Speaker 2>Amount of money. Yeah, I'm just you know, saving my coin.

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<v Speaker 4>Just buying coffee saving coin.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye, my coffee saving coin change. You can take anything

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<v Speaker 2>from me, but not my coffee. Put that on a

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<v Speaker 2>T shirt. That's a great little slogan.

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<v Speaker 1>What age are you seeing people now getting into the

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<v Speaker 1>property market. There's been a real shift in people buying

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<v Speaker 1>houses just because it's so so expensive.

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<v Speaker 4>I look, to be honest, I think thirty or early

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<v Speaker 4>thirties is kind of what I'm seeing, and it's not

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<v Speaker 4>like no one's shocked about it, no one's embarrassed about it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's kind of the normal. I still deal with people

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<v Speaker 4>that are buying in their mid to early twenty late twenties. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 4>but once again, it could just be you know, the

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<v Speaker 4>deposit is usually the hardest part of a homeland. So

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<v Speaker 4>people could be in a good job by the time

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<v Speaker 4>they're late in late twenties, but they haven't saved the deposits.

0:21:36.520 --> 0:21:39.560
<v Speaker 4>So you get people that have kind of family guarantels

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<v Speaker 4>or inheritances which are always going to kind of get

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<v Speaker 4>them there earlier. But otherwise for people that are paying

0:21:45.880 --> 0:21:48.560
<v Speaker 4>rent and you know, still living their life, traveling and

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<v Speaker 4>all that kind of stuff, I feel like you're prioritizing

0:21:51.240 --> 0:21:53.880
<v Speaker 4>all you're savings. So, you know, thirty is kind of

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<v Speaker 4>what I've seen, and there's just still so like a

0:21:56.240 --> 0:22:00.080
<v Speaker 4>lot of uncertainty out there, interest rates, house prices, and

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<v Speaker 4>it all contributes to people's going to appetite for it

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<v Speaker 4>as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Matt's like, Matt has a deposit, but he's worried

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<v Speaker 1>about the repayments. Do you have any advice from that?

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<v Speaker 4>What are you actually worried about.

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<v Speaker 3>That, just in terms of like, yeah, like I went

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<v Speaker 3>and looked online the other day at real estate and

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<v Speaker 3>I was looking and it gives you, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>the calculated amount, and I was just like, yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>looking through that and I was like, well, it was

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<v Speaker 3>only a couple of hundred bucks more than when I

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<v Speaker 3>was paying rent.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I thought I can do it, but I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know a commitment sort of gives me the.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just what I tell people is the bank isn't

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<v Speaker 4>going to lend someone the money if they can't afford it,

0:22:38.280 --> 0:22:40.520
<v Speaker 4>because people will be able to afford it, So the

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<v Speaker 4>bank's aren't going to give you what you can afford anyway,

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<v Speaker 4>and they already build in a buffer like to to

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<v Speaker 4>reduce what you're paying. So if the bank's comfortable doing it,

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<v Speaker 4>it's then just a bit of a mentality thing. And

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<v Speaker 4>I think until you get the home loan and in

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<v Speaker 4>that mindset, you're always not going to be one hundred

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<v Speaker 4>percent ready for it. But once you're in, I think

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<v Speaker 4>you just kind of to learn to deal and you

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<v Speaker 4>just kind of it's just really adulting. One oh one.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's just scary having that loan over your head.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, well, do I want to do that or

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<v Speaker 3>do I want to you know, take off to Europe

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<v Speaker 3>and not come back pretty extended amount of time, and

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<v Speaker 3>you know, yeah, so it's sort of like what do

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<v Speaker 3>I do? But yeah, if something, if something I like

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<v Speaker 3>comes along, I'll definitely look into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, we've got some great advice from Julian. We

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<v Speaker 1>are going to come back in a moment and talk

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<v Speaker 1>all things money in relationships. Okay, Julian, So when is

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<v Speaker 1>the best time to start talking about money with your partner?

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<v Speaker 1>Because this one is like an icky one. People get

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<v Speaker 1>a bit weird about this one.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously, not first date.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it'd be a good story, you know, the

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<v Speaker 4>track if it worked out. What did you guys talk about?

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<v Speaker 4>Don't think there's a role or right. I also feel

0:24:03.200 --> 0:24:06.960
<v Speaker 4>like there's like little milestones that'll force you to talk

0:24:07.000 --> 0:24:09.600
<v Speaker 4>about it even if you don't want to. So you know,

0:24:09.680 --> 0:24:12.680
<v Speaker 4>for example, it's like, do you want to start ranting together,

0:24:12.800 --> 0:24:15.720
<v Speaker 4>moving together? Are going on a trip? Is it serious?

0:24:15.880 --> 0:24:17.360
<v Speaker 4>You know, to the point where you're talking about buying

0:24:17.400 --> 0:24:20.760
<v Speaker 4>a house together, and naturally you just can't not talk

0:24:20.800 --> 0:24:23.359
<v Speaker 4>about it, so I feel like it's fine. Initially you know,

0:24:23.560 --> 0:24:25.160
<v Speaker 4>like hey, what do you make? What do you do?

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<v Speaker 4>That's a bit weird. But eventually, like as you guys

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<v Speaker 4>start to do things as a unit, I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>it's going to all start start coming up. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>what did you like in prior dating? On what side

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<v Speaker 4>of the fence were you open? Pretty hesitant?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty open.

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<v Speaker 1>I never talked about it ever.

0:24:42.600 --> 0:24:46.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'd be pretty open. I'd have nothing to really hide.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of each one of my exes have Actually,

0:24:50.520 --> 0:24:52.879
<v Speaker 3>how do I say, like not helps me financially, but

0:24:52.960 --> 0:24:56.439
<v Speaker 3>helps me mentally get better saving and it helps me

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<v Speaker 3>like like my most recent X, she was very like

0:25:00.240 --> 0:25:03.080
<v Speaker 3>she like gotaby savvy, got me onto like a new

0:25:03.119 --> 0:25:06.040
<v Speaker 3>bank to say, put my money in the one before

0:25:06.080 --> 0:25:08.399
<v Speaker 3>that helped me pay off my debts and like, you know,

0:25:08.480 --> 0:25:09.480
<v Speaker 3>save up a bit of coin.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not all doom and gloom, you know. I think

0:25:13.040 --> 0:25:15.840
<v Speaker 4>we always speak in the bad side, like I'm opening

0:25:15.880 --> 0:25:18.719
<v Speaker 4>myself up. I'm vulnerable, you know, with my finances. But

0:25:19.040 --> 0:25:21.919
<v Speaker 4>the flip side is they come in from a different perspective,

0:25:22.240 --> 0:25:24.439
<v Speaker 4>have their own situation that can help you as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, It's interesting though, like I kind of roughly knew

0:25:28.800 --> 0:25:31.320
<v Speaker 1>what Michael was making, but it wasn't until we got

0:25:31.320 --> 0:25:35.200
<v Speaker 1>the home loan that I actually saw everything laid out

0:25:35.320 --> 0:25:37.640
<v Speaker 1>like it was. It's the first time I've ever seen

0:25:37.640 --> 0:25:41.720
<v Speaker 1>that from any of my ex boyfriends, I mean, any partner.

0:25:41.800 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 1>So I was like, oh, this is interesting, Like this

0:25:44.119 --> 0:25:46.240
<v Speaker 1>is like I felt like I was kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>intruding on his privacy a little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I think when you go down the path of

0:25:51.560 --> 0:25:54.280
<v Speaker 4>the home loan, everything's on the table because the banks

0:25:54.359 --> 0:25:57.040
<v Speaker 4>will pull out everything. So and also that could be

0:25:57.200 --> 0:26:00.880
<v Speaker 4>like the cause of some arguments amongst cup like for example,

0:26:00.920 --> 0:26:04.080
<v Speaker 4>if you have debts that they didn't know about and

0:26:04.119 --> 0:26:06.520
<v Speaker 4>that's an added stress on the relationship and then it

0:26:06.560 --> 0:26:08.360
<v Speaker 4>all kind of comes out at that point in time.

0:26:08.480 --> 0:26:11.040
<v Speaker 4>So then it raises a question like when you should

0:26:11.040 --> 0:26:12.960
<v Speaker 4>I actually tell them about it as well.

0:26:13.359 --> 0:26:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I've seen a lot of things like that,

0:26:15.600 --> 0:26:17.840
<v Speaker 1>saying like a lot of the times the reason why

0:26:17.920 --> 0:26:20.440
<v Speaker 1>couples break up is due to finances.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think it's financial stress and even just like

0:26:24.880 --> 0:26:26.959
<v Speaker 4>the trust element of it. So if you think about it,

0:26:27.000 --> 0:26:30.760
<v Speaker 4>if one person in the relationship is making big purchases

0:26:30.960 --> 0:26:33.080
<v Speaker 4>without talent the other one, Well, that's going to be

0:26:33.280 --> 0:26:36.040
<v Speaker 4>a huge show if they've got account or debts that

0:26:36.040 --> 0:26:38.960
<v Speaker 4>they're not disclosing with the other person. Once again, it

0:26:38.960 --> 0:26:41.720
<v Speaker 4>becomes like a trust thing. So I feel like it's

0:26:41.760 --> 0:26:46.480
<v Speaker 4>really heavy in relationships. And then obviously just like financial stress,

0:26:46.520 --> 0:26:49.359
<v Speaker 4>and is there an imbalance in the relationship as well

0:26:49.600 --> 0:26:51.879
<v Speaker 4>from a financial perspective, even though you don't want that

0:26:51.960 --> 0:26:55.159
<v Speaker 4>to be, you know, part of the relationship, at the

0:26:55.240 --> 0:26:58.080
<v Speaker 4>end of the day, it's forced upon you. So you've

0:26:58.080 --> 0:27:01.120
<v Speaker 4>got scenarios where one person earning a lot, one person

0:27:01.200 --> 0:27:03.520
<v Speaker 4>might not be earning as much, Like what does that

0:27:03.600 --> 0:27:06.199
<v Speaker 4>do for the couple's dynamics? How do they kind of

0:27:06.440 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 4>balance that out and make sure no one feels guilty? Like,

0:27:09.400 --> 0:27:10.320
<v Speaker 4>it's pretty complex.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think, Like, let's just say, if you're

0:27:12.760 --> 0:27:16.080
<v Speaker 1>renting with your partner and one person's earning like double

0:27:16.119 --> 0:27:19.959
<v Speaker 1>the other person, how does that go with like rent paying?

0:27:20.000 --> 0:27:23.399
<v Speaker 1>Should the person who's earning double be paying more rent?

0:27:23.600 --> 0:27:25.440
<v Speaker 1>Like how do you think it kind of works? Or

0:27:25.440 --> 0:27:26.840
<v Speaker 1>should it all be fifty to fifty?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's good, that's a good question, is what I mean.

0:27:30.680 --> 0:27:34.639
<v Speaker 4>So I feel like you can't force the person's making

0:27:34.680 --> 0:27:37.919
<v Speaker 4>more to pay more. Yeah, I think you're you're almost

0:27:38.080 --> 0:27:40.120
<v Speaker 4>going to have the conversation before you move into the place,

0:27:40.160 --> 0:27:42.600
<v Speaker 4>because otherwise I could lead to disaster because if they

0:27:42.600 --> 0:27:45.280
<v Speaker 4>don't agree, you can't. It's just assume. But if you

0:27:45.320 --> 0:27:48.160
<v Speaker 4>want it to be like accounting and be like, let's

0:27:48.160 --> 0:27:50.560
<v Speaker 4>do it as a proportion of what you earn. That

0:27:50.680 --> 0:27:54.800
<v Speaker 4>makes sense on paper, but relationship and personally what you know,

0:27:54.960 --> 0:27:58.200
<v Speaker 4>it could be a different scenario. So yeah, I think, yeah,

0:27:58.359 --> 0:28:00.800
<v Speaker 4>everything has to presume fifty fifty unless you have the

0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:03.119
<v Speaker 4>chat to be like they comfortable pay more because they

0:28:03.119 --> 0:28:03.520
<v Speaker 4>make more.

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<v Speaker 1>I prefer to pay fifty to fifty, I think, just

0:28:05.880 --> 0:28:08.480
<v Speaker 1>because I would feel a bit like uncomfortable even if

0:28:08.480 --> 0:28:12.000
<v Speaker 1>my partner was earning more to be like making I.

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<v Speaker 3>Agree as well. I think that it saves any not resentment,

0:28:16.280 --> 0:28:24.000
<v Speaker 3>but like yeah, or like control over the like you

0:28:24.040 --> 0:28:26.720
<v Speaker 3>know you're not financially clential control everything.

0:28:26.760 --> 0:28:29.399
<v Speaker 2>It just keeps it very like do you know what

0:28:29.440 --> 0:28:34.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean? Down the line? Yeah, no gray area on

0:28:34.200 --> 0:28:34.720
<v Speaker 2>that though.

0:28:35.760 --> 0:28:40.640
<v Speaker 3>First dates who pays men or girl?

0:28:41.160 --> 0:28:42.920
<v Speaker 4>So what you do is you pulat your pace, lifts

0:28:42.920 --> 0:28:44.400
<v Speaker 4>at the table and you look at it.

0:28:45.360 --> 0:28:48.480
<v Speaker 2>I agree. I agree this week.

0:28:48.720 --> 0:28:51.720
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think I reckon you go down just the

0:28:51.760 --> 0:28:54.760
<v Speaker 4>path of whoever organizes it. I reckon they can run

0:28:54.800 --> 0:28:58.800
<v Speaker 4>with doing the first date. Yeah, but obviously, like I

0:28:58.880 --> 0:29:00.720
<v Speaker 4>think everyone's pretty mature these is. Actually I don't know

0:29:00.840 --> 0:29:03.520
<v Speaker 4>daily world, but after a few days, I think it's

0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:05.840
<v Speaker 4>like an open chat, like it's fine if you split it.

0:29:05.840 --> 0:29:08.520
<v Speaker 4>It's fine. If someone gets one, you get the next one.

0:29:08.640 --> 0:29:10.960
<v Speaker 4>It's that kind of thing. But yeah, for the first one,

0:29:10.960 --> 0:29:13.160
<v Speaker 4>I reckon ever organizes it just sort of.

0:29:13.120 --> 0:29:14.920
<v Speaker 2>Out and then someone picks up.

0:29:15.280 --> 0:29:20.040
<v Speaker 1>That's why I never organized the first day.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, Yeah, I agree, and I agree whoever pays

0:29:23.520 --> 0:29:26.680
<v Speaker 3>the main bill, the other person picks up, you know,

0:29:26.880 --> 0:29:28.000
<v Speaker 3>drink afterwards or.

0:29:28.080 --> 0:29:32.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah yeah, and you still do you know, you

0:29:32.600 --> 0:29:34.640
<v Speaker 4>still offer to pay. I still think that's nice. You

0:29:34.680 --> 0:29:40.080
<v Speaker 4>don't go in with like the expectation. Yeah, yeah, I'm

0:29:40.120 --> 0:29:40.520
<v Speaker 4>over that.

0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:42.880
<v Speaker 2>Don't even bother with that for me. No, you have

0:29:42.960 --> 0:29:43.800
<v Speaker 2>to do stretch.

0:29:43.920 --> 0:29:45.360
<v Speaker 1>You need to stretch for the wallet.

0:29:45.400 --> 0:29:46.600
<v Speaker 2>Otherwise they're like, you're.

0:29:46.520 --> 0:29:49.280
<v Speaker 3>Like, oh, you know, like I can get it in

0:29:49.320 --> 0:29:50.320
<v Speaker 3>their arms like this.

0:29:51.960 --> 0:29:52.160
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:29:52.240 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Do you think it's wise to keep bank accounts separate?

0:29:58.360 --> 0:30:00.760
<v Speaker 1>When you're in a relationship or is there a time

0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:03.080
<v Speaker 1>that comes where you should merge.

0:30:03.320 --> 0:30:04.880
<v Speaker 4>I think you could have the best of both. I

0:30:04.960 --> 0:30:08.000
<v Speaker 4>think you can still have joint accounts, so like you

0:30:08.080 --> 0:30:11.000
<v Speaker 4>have joint goals, savings, et cetera. But then you've still

0:30:11.000 --> 0:30:14.880
<v Speaker 4>got kind of your personal accounts that you live through

0:30:14.920 --> 0:30:17.360
<v Speaker 4>to some extent. So I think it's pretty complex in

0:30:17.400 --> 0:30:19.720
<v Speaker 4>terms of like what you're both spending on. It could

0:30:19.760 --> 0:30:22.040
<v Speaker 4>be like you've got a and this is kind of

0:30:22.040 --> 0:30:24.479
<v Speaker 4>getting more into like not really a relationship, more like

0:30:24.560 --> 0:30:27.920
<v Speaker 4>a marriage or something quite serious, where you've got, you know,

0:30:28.240 --> 0:30:30.160
<v Speaker 4>you work out your savings goal and then you've both

0:30:30.160 --> 0:30:32.920
<v Speaker 4>got a discretionary spend per week and then maybe that's

0:30:32.960 --> 0:30:37.040
<v Speaker 4>what goes through your personal accounts. But like anything, I

0:30:37.040 --> 0:30:40.160
<v Speaker 4>think it's just communication. You're both on the same page.

0:30:40.280 --> 0:30:42.680
<v Speaker 4>There's no wrong or right. But definitely you can still

0:30:42.720 --> 0:30:46.360
<v Speaker 4>have personal bank accounts. Everything doesn't have to be joint

0:30:46.440 --> 0:30:47.800
<v Speaker 4>from the get GOA.

0:30:47.440 --> 0:30:50.800
<v Speaker 3>Ideally you'd want a savings account that you have like

0:30:50.920 --> 0:30:53.880
<v Speaker 3>holiday savings, and you have a bills one, then you

0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:55.560
<v Speaker 3>have the one that you pay the mortgage in and

0:30:55.640 --> 0:30:58.520
<v Speaker 3>you transfer to that, and then whatever you have left

0:30:58.520 --> 0:31:00.640
<v Speaker 3>you have a great amount you both trans for whatever's

0:31:00.720 --> 0:31:01.160
<v Speaker 3>left over.

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:05.080
<v Speaker 2>Free game is yours free game? Yeah, if you want

0:31:05.080 --> 0:31:05.480
<v Speaker 2>to get.

0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:10.760
<v Speaker 4>That, I reckon that. I reckon that works unless you

0:31:10.800 --> 0:31:13.680
<v Speaker 4>get into that situation, Matt, where one person's earning double

0:31:14.000 --> 0:31:17.160
<v Speaker 4>so then they've got this massive excess. It's like, well

0:31:17.200 --> 0:31:19.000
<v Speaker 4>this is this is good to spend, isn't it, Because

0:31:19.040 --> 0:31:19.640
<v Speaker 4>that's the issue.

0:31:19.960 --> 0:31:22.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well then you'd you'd go back and reflect on

0:31:22.400 --> 0:31:24.280
<v Speaker 3>a percentage of your pace.

0:31:25.880 --> 0:31:26.480
<v Speaker 4>You're good.

0:31:26.760 --> 0:31:29.920
<v Speaker 1>What issues can arise if you do share a bank account,

0:31:30.040 --> 0:31:32.160
<v Speaker 1>like let's just say you split up. How does that

0:31:32.200 --> 0:31:33.760
<v Speaker 1>all kind of unravel?

0:31:34.520 --> 0:31:37.760
<v Speaker 4>Look, I don't know, Like from a legal perspective, I

0:31:37.840 --> 0:31:40.120
<v Speaker 4>think that is like a law question. But I think

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<v Speaker 4>if it's in a bank account, there is still somewhat

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<v Speaker 4>of an accountability like that you can see who's pulled

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<v Speaker 4>the money out, like if there's debts, like you're both

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<v Speaker 4>liable for them. It doesn't just fall into one person's

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<v Speaker 4>you know lap. But in short, I haven't seen that

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<v Speaker 4>too much, so I don't actually know. It's a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit scary, Like you hear about horror stories and people

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<v Speaker 4>take all the money or just like financial blackmail and

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<v Speaker 4>all that kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's a very legal question.

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<v Speaker 1>Like financial control is such a scary thing in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think like it, like you do see it

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<v Speaker 1>like a little bit around.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you from my ex used to like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>for everything, and then she's like, give me her card

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<v Speaker 3>and it would notify her. And then if I go

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<v Speaker 3>into the shops and I pay for my money, why

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<v Speaker 3>don't use my card?

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<v Speaker 1>I should get annoyed.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I would say that's called like living the highlighte.

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<v Speaker 2>What's that.

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<v Speaker 1>For me?

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<v Speaker 4>Don't be bad when you break up? But while he

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<v Speaker 4>was in it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know when he gets out of the relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's like, I was financially controlled.

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<v Speaker 2>She made her money against my will. I've saved all

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<v Speaker 2>this money, but she Maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>What about if let's just say this is not I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not asking this personally, but I just thought it would

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<v Speaker 1>be an interesting question. If you buy a house with

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<v Speaker 1>someone and then you break up, how does that work?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that a legal question as well?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe?

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<v Speaker 4>So let me just grab that lawyer in the other room.

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<v Speaker 4>You're both on the title and you've got joint ownership. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 4>the legal parties kind of when you sell it, how

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<v Speaker 4>do you sell it? All that kind of stuff, making

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<v Speaker 4>sure it's an independent kind of sale. But at the

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<v Speaker 4>end of the day, the mortgage has to be cleared,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, agents need to be paid. Whatever's left theoretically

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<v Speaker 4>gets paid fifty fifty to you. I think it's probably

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<v Speaker 4>just more complex in terms of what stage of the

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<v Speaker 4>relationship are they. Is it a divorce, what's the divorce settlement?

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<v Speaker 4>He's a fifty to fifty. That's why I'm like, is

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<v Speaker 4>it a legal question? But in the simplest form, it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>if it's all shared, then it makes sense that it

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<v Speaker 4>gets a clear get.

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<v Speaker 1>Your cash fitty fitty. I'm not planning on breaking up

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<v Speaker 1>anytime soon, so.

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<v Speaker 4>No, yeah, get into the property first.

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<v Speaker 1>What are some ways that you can make better money

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<v Speaker 1>choices just on the daily? Would you say, obviously, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>five coffees a day is probably not the best money

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<v Speaker 1>choice by Matt.

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<v Speaker 3>What about that app that you pay through and then

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<v Speaker 3>if it's five dollars thirty it rounds it off to

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<v Speaker 3>six dollars. What's that I can't remember the name of it,

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<v Speaker 3>and then it gives you the seventy cents into a

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<v Speaker 3>savings account.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah, there is something like that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>that's that's good. I feel like that's kind of what's

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<v Speaker 4>two questions Is one it's like we want to save more,

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<v Speaker 4>and then like little apps like that can help. And

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<v Speaker 4>then two itch is kind of like are we are

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<v Speaker 4>we spending more? So I think it's a mixture of one.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, setting some goals without a goal, I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like it's hard to make anything actionable because you kind

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<v Speaker 4>of think to yourself, what's five bucks, what's fifty bucks,

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<v Speaker 4>what's one hundred bucks? One doesn't say say five grand

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<v Speaker 4>for the end of the year for a trip, right,

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<v Speaker 4>makes you accountable? Two then it just comes down to

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<v Speaker 4>actually going through and seeing where you're at, being accountable,

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<v Speaker 4>staying on top of the spending. So day to day

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<v Speaker 4>you don't need to look at it, but at the

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<v Speaker 4>end of a month, reassess and see where you're at. Otherwise,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, three months, six months slips and you've done

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<v Speaker 4>all this spending and you're not on top of it.

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<v Speaker 4>And then maybe just yet find the system that works

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<v Speaker 4>to track it easy. So whether it is like I

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<v Speaker 4>said earlier, like an app or just putting aside half

0:35:31.360 --> 0:35:34.440
<v Speaker 4>an hour a month to go through your spending. I

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<v Speaker 4>think that's the stuff that's going to make you accountable

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<v Speaker 4>and actually help you just get a little bit ahead

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<v Speaker 4>and not bury your head in the sand. Do the

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<v Speaker 4>whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, my mum once said, look after the hundreds and

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<v Speaker 3>the thousands will.

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<v Speaker 4>Come, it all ends up. Is Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>You might think, oh, it's just a hundred bucks, you know,

0:35:59.280 --> 0:36:01.640
<v Speaker 3>buy that at that dress, and then you're like, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what, that's a hundred bucks.

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<v Speaker 2>So still bus Yeah, still can saving.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, Juliane, we better let you go because it

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<v Speaker 1>is tax time and we know that you are very,

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<v Speaker 1>very busy. So thank you so much for making the

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<v Speaker 1>time for this. I'm also going to need to send

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<v Speaker 1>my tax about to say, filtering for your receipts that

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<v Speaker 1>you're thinking.

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<v Speaker 4>I will continue make so much guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks, I appreciate it. Chat s