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Speaker 1: Whip with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Eddi's Fitz with Kate Richie for your Wednesday podcast. Today

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Speaker 2: we are peering into look at you know what a

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Speaker 2: majority of people who pass away or get to their

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Speaker 2: eighties or nineties, I reckon there's a lot of things

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Speaker 2: that they forget that they've hidden in the house. But

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Speaker 2: I've got amazing stories that I have a mate whose

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Speaker 2: father left an eski full of stuff for his son

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Speaker 2: hidden in the house Kate, and no one had any

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Speaker 2: idea it was there.

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Speaker 1: Was it money?

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Speaker 3: Well, unfortunately it was.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, some of these things will blow your mind.

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Speaker 2: That's what we're asking, what did you find after they

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Speaker 2: had passed away?

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Speaker 4: This is the Fitzian Whipper with Cate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 5: Let's talk about the moment you realized if you're somebody

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Speaker 5: that carries a couple of eggs, I'm not afraid of that.

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Speaker 5: In fact, it's quite expensive to do and take some time.

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Speaker 5: So you should almost be proud of a few roles

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Speaker 5: as to sit down and your undies over your belly

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Speaker 5: every now and then to make yourself feel thinner. You know,

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Speaker 5: we all go through it at certain times of our lives.

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Speaker 5: But I want to know thteen twenty four ten. What

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Speaker 5: was the moment you realize things need to shift about

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Speaker 5: now that shouldn't have happened. And I tell you what,

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Speaker 5: that's the sign I needed to pull my head in.

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Speaker 5: I mean, it happens to everyone.

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Speaker 3: He does, you know, break the body, hair, breaking a.

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Speaker 2: Chair always have you seen someone break through the floor?

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Speaker 3: Breaking the leg of a chair? Like it is.

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Speaker 2: There's a moment where it's funny, it's slapstick comedy, but

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Speaker 2: also there's a moment where you go, mate, you've had it.

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Speaker 2: You've had a good festive season. Now it's time to

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Speaker 2: wind it up. Back to reality. There goes gravity.

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Speaker 5: There it goes gravity again, Tommy. Gravity is your enemy.

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Speaker 5: We had a guy come in here once. It was

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Speaker 5: more for a serious issue. I don't know if it

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Speaker 5: was obesity week or some sort of treasured holiday, but

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Speaker 5: there was a guy and I think he'd broken about

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Speaker 5: six beds.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's all right.

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Speaker 5: We had him in the corner there and he couldn't

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Speaker 5: really get onto the chair, could he? Yeah, Paul, But

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Speaker 5: you do look at some people. There was an Instagram

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Speaker 5: video getting around and it was a woman. I don't

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Speaker 5: know if you've seen this one She's on one of

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Speaker 5: those motorized scooters and unfortunately her behind.

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Speaker 3: Is so large.

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Speaker 5: She tries to leave the shopping center and she swallows it.

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Speaker 5: The scooter can get through, but the sides of a

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Speaker 5: bumb hanging out left and right can't get through the door,

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Speaker 5: and I reckon for that poor lass. That was probably

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Speaker 5: the moment that's got nice.

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Speaker 3: It's leading to her personal story. What's going on?

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Speaker 4: Per No.

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Speaker 5: I want to take you to Tracy who had her

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Speaker 5: moment in thirteen twenty four ten. Love to know when

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Speaker 5: your moment was. Tracy and her husband Stirs. Over the holidays,

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Speaker 5: they thought, let's nick up the SeaWorld. We love a

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Speaker 5: bit of SeaWorld.

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Speaker 3: Have good SeaWorld. You can swim with the dolphins there,

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Speaker 3: Yes you can.

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Speaker 5: They've got the world famous log ride as well. What

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Speaker 5: they also have too before you get onto the ride

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Speaker 5: at SeaWorld is they have the test seat to make

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Speaker 5: sure that you can actually fit in the seat and

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Speaker 5: the bar comes over you and Trace got into the

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Speaker 5: test seat and unfortunately three staff had to work to

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Speaker 5: get Trace out of the test seat.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, wait, I'm going to hold you up

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Speaker 2: here because this has happened to me before on the

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Speaker 2: MC doing ride at dream World, which is the that's

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Speaker 2: the motorbike. It's like you like you're sitting on a motorbike.

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Speaker 2: I got told it was just about to take off.

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Speaker 3: Thank god it did.

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Speaker 2: They said, sir, can we just measure you one hundred

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Speaker 3: I could have had my head taken off by Mick doing.

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Speaker 5: About a centimeter off the top way are they old?

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Speaker 2: Luckily they stopped me because if you are too excited

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Speaker 5: That so good old Tracy. She couldn't get the bar

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Speaker 5: had a good look at herself, Trace realized she'd been

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Speaker 5: munching new three thousand calories a day. That was it.

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Speaker 5: She got rid of the takeaway and good old Trace

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Speaker 5: got back. She's now lost eighty nine Kiloschrice.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what give an effort? She should have

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Speaker 2: all year round unlimited.

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Speaker 3: Log rides with that. Yep, she shouldn't just.

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Speaker 2: Trace your back. You can fit in, you can go

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Speaker 2: on the log ride for as long as you want.

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Speaker 2: No one else wants to go on it because it's

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Speaker 3: It's all yours. Trace the long ride is yours.

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Speaker 5: Enjoy the giant log Lisa on the Central Coast. When

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Speaker 5: was the moment you realized you needed to get healthy?

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Speaker 6: Well, luckily this isn't that. I'll set you guys. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: but when you go through menopause, you get I've got

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Speaker 6: a relatively like normal figured person. You know, I'm not big,

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Speaker 7: You get this.

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Speaker 6: Tire around your stomach and I've tried durre in mine.

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Speaker 6: I've tried like a sax sender, which is the zempis cut.

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Speaker 5: Yah, yeah, yeah right.

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Speaker 6: Exercise nothing budgets that you can do anything, and you

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Speaker 6: still don't lose this little Really.

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Speaker 3: Have you.

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Speaker 2: Spoken of the doctors about it? Can you get rid

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Speaker 2: of the extra skin if you have to lace?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 8: No, it's a little.

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Speaker 6: It's funny because, like I said, I'm relatively normal and

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Speaker 6: my doctor actually said to me, if you want to

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Speaker 6: try a gastric spining.

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Speaker 7: Most of the.

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Speaker 6: People that I've told it sort of are you serious?

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Speaker 9: Like who is your doctor?

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Speaker 6: But yeah, I don't know. It's the kindest thing you cannot.

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Speaker 3: Can't get rid of.

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Speaker 9: It's ridiculous.

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Speaker 5: It's always away, you won't need it, but it always

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Speaker 5: goes from the last place you wanted to go from. Lisa.

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Speaker 5: When I'm losing weight, it's always my left breast. I

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Speaker 5: don't know what it is, but that too. You won't move.

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Speaker 8: I just.

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Speaker 3: That's we went on.

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Speaker 2: We went on the tram, but we're on trampoline the

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Speaker 2: other day and got three hours later. We finally got

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Speaker 2: Whip to stop moving. He'd been off the trampoline f haf.

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Speaker 3: An hour later. I was still going right.

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Speaker 5: It's not Fuddy laser on a plate.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 5: Anyway, hang in there.

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Speaker 2: You're only a what if away from a New Year

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Speaker 2: getaway with what if dot Com, Ozzie's just know how

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Speaker 5: It's in our DNA.

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Speaker 10: Book, your accommodation, flights, car hire and more, all of

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Speaker 10: the what is app.

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Speaker 3: What if It's Ozzy for travel.

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Speaker 5: Timmy Boston, Now this has got nothing to do with

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Speaker 5: the story fits of because I know he left something

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Speaker 5: on a car bonnet one time.

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Speaker 2: So, Kate, you don't know about Tim Boston, A very

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Speaker 2: dear friend of mine.

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Speaker 3: He was a couple of years older.

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Speaker 2: Growing up, he took my friends and I under his

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Speaker 2: I love the man to death.

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Speaker 1: Did you go to school with him?

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Speaker 2: No, I didn't go to school with Tim, but we

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Speaker 2: grew up together, playing football together, playing cricket together. He

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Speaker 2: got given out LBW by Wally Smith one day. And

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Speaker 2: the rule is at any suburban cricket club, Kate, you

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Speaker 3: Everyone knows that that's the rule.

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Speaker 2: Wally gave him out LBW and unfortunately Tom left a

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Speaker 2: gift in Wally's car on the.

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Speaker 3: Passenger's seat, just to just to gift, just a gift

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Speaker 3: for cricket.

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Speaker 1: Was it cricket?

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Speaker 3: Well, it wasn't really.

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Speaker 5: A gift because he wasn't happy, so he obviously he

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Speaker 1: It's awful your mate would have cooked it.

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Speaker 3: Well, I see Tim.

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Speaker 2: But Tim and I we have had some amazing times

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Speaker 2: over the years, and I will defend Tim all the

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Speaker 2: way to the point Kate that unfortunately I had to

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Speaker 2: go to jail with him one night and spent a

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Speaker 3: I went to go back him up.

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Speaker 2: The police officer said, well, you can come and look

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Speaker 2: after him in the jail cell. And then, unfortunately I

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Speaker 2: the next while Tim was asleep on the concrete.

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Speaker 3: Bed in the jail. So Tim and I have over

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Speaker 2: Unfortunately for Tim last year, his beautiful mother and father

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Speaker 2: passed away in the same year, and they were sorting

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Speaker 2: out the house Kate.

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Speaker 3: He was down for Christmas.

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Speaker 2: He stayed with my family and he went back to

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Speaker 2: through a few things and his sister said, Timmy, by

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Speaker 2: the way, Dad's left you an eski that was hidden

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Speaker 2: underneath the house and it's got your name on it.

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Speaker 2: And he starts getting a bit emotional, going, well, no

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Speaker 2: one knew about this, and Dad was just storing some

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Speaker 3: For him, and there was a little plark on there

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Speaker 3: that said this is for Tim.

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Speaker 5: Hadn't got him back with another one of the gifts.

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Speaker 2: There was Wally Smith's number, and he said leave him,

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Speaker 2: leave him another one in there. It was a packet

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Speaker 2: of Capstan cigarettes from nineteen sixty five, and every cigarette

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Speaker 2: was still in the packet.

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Speaker 3: So this is it's unbelievable.

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Speaker 2: Three pocket knives whip were in there, and I know

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Speaker 2: you like your pocket knives.

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Speaker 3: There were old pennies. This is the big one.

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Speaker 5: It's like a time capsule.

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Speaker 2: Joey Boston left his son and it was in this

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Speaker 2: old wooden eski with.

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Speaker 3: Tim's name on it. There was a gun in there.

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Speaker 5: Ooh, like a pistol Like Yeah, it was sort of

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Speaker 5: like an old Winchester.

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Speaker 3: It was an old pistol whip.

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Speaker 5: Pistol whip.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, it wasn't.

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Speaker 3: He didn't pistol whip his son.

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Speaker 2: But he's left him an old gun that nobody knew

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Speaker 2: that joe had in the family.

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Speaker 10: So he's had it in the house all this time

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Speaker 10: or eas of the house.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, isn't interesting because if you're going to leave something

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Speaker 5: like that, which obviously has many questions around it, don't

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Speaker 5: you want to give that to the person before you

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Speaker 5: the mystery of not knowing the history of the gun

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Speaker 5: That went missing? That I had to buy back from

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Speaker 2: It's why it's in a box or you can't, no

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Speaker 5: It's yeah, it's in storage. Yeah, but yeah, it's a

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Speaker 10: How does the how does the gun of your mate

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Speaker 10: what's his name again, Timmy? Compared to like a double

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Speaker 2: North very old, very old, kate to the point there

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Speaker 5: His dad wasn't I don't know a bank. Is that

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Speaker 2: Could be an element as well that he was storing

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Speaker 3: And Tim's sister has found it.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, but it has been named like it's been addressed

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Speaker 5: He said, a real story about my dad.

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Speaker 2: Well thirteen twenty fourteen. I want to hear from people,

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Speaker 2: what did you find after they died? Did they leave

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean all of those movies like Bridges of

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Speaker 10: It's like the fact that she knew her mother had

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Speaker 5: Kate, my great auntie passed away, and when we went

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Speaker 7: Heather that there's seven months difference between when she got

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Speaker 5: She thinks, because of yes, And I wonder how long

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Speaker 3: Not very long.

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Speaker 10: I don't believe they managed to have four kids and

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Speaker 11: I wasn't the Dune thing.

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Speaker 6: So she's a bit of a rebel.

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Speaker 2: I think, were you quite proud of?

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Speaker 8: Found out to each their own I was like, well,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that. Thank you, Jeremy in breakfast Point.

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Speaker 3: What did you find out after they died?

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Speaker 8: Uh?

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Speaker 12: Shivering years afterwards?

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Speaker 9: Five a class. I found out that I had another brother.

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Speaker 5: That often happens, Jeremy doesn't.

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Speaker 9: It Well, I don't read about it, but I hear

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Speaker 3: How did you find out, Jeremy.

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Speaker 9: Through routstory dot com?

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Speaker 12: When they went through that and my new brother's daughter

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Speaker 12: of a match going on. And what sort of beating

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Speaker 10: This a son that was born before you? Or born

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Speaker 10: whilst your dad had a family.

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Speaker 1: With you in it?

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Speaker 9: No knows before my dad met my mom.

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Speaker 5: She always makes for some interest, though, Jeremy doesn't it like,

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Speaker 5: It's so gifting kind of intrigue once I'm gone, you know, you.

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Speaker 2: Could buy a bottle of grains for the child to

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Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Robin and Giler pain Robin, what did you find out

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Speaker 3: He was in.

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Speaker 13: Hospital for a while with cancer, and he kept telling

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Speaker 6: The hospital and say have you found it?

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Speaker 13: Have you found it? And I ended up saying to

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Speaker 13: Wardrobe store wasn't there? And then I went searching again

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Speaker 13: He kept saying, in the butter dish underneath the wardrobe

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Speaker 13: there was a button dish with just over ten thousand

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Speaker 5: What a good modysh Robert?

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Speaker 3: Can I can I ask?

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Speaker 2: Because they do talk about this after you found it

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Speaker 2: and you would have got emotional seeing that.

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Speaker 3: Did he did he pass after that? Not long after that?

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Speaker 5: Or isn't it interesting?

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Speaker 13: The following day passed away. He probably held on until

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Speaker 13: he kept saying to me, you'd find the buttons if

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Speaker 2: God, how many of how many of those stories though,

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Speaker 2: would you find where they lose their memory? Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: it's completely forgotten about. And then you get some demolition

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Speaker 2: bloke wine undred and twenty kilos who finds it as

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Speaker 2: he's bringing the air, so it.

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Speaker 5: Doesn't matter what he wears.

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Speaker 1: So true, Why is that important?

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Speaker 3: Is it the pack?

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Speaker 5: Because that's what's a fortune?

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Speaker 2: Emma?

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Speaker 3: In friends as forest, what did you discover after they died? Him?

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Speaker 7: My dad's uncle. He when when he died there was

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Speaker 6: You're kidding, men's crazy.

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Speaker 5: I got to get on.

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Speaker 7: But they met each other at the funeral and then,

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Speaker 9: Had no idea that they were related.

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Speaker 7: Well rich your whole other family.

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Speaker 10: That is just madness. It does mean, though, that Dad's

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Speaker 5: He managed to keep both.

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Speaker 13: Of them very This is the Fits and Whipper with

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Speaker 3: Give us two numbers. This is getting ready for the

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Speaker 3: hundred million dollars pall tomorrow night. Give us two numbers.

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Speaker 3: What do you want? I want nine, nine and two,

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Speaker 3: Tommy thirteen and four. Too low, but too low. We

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Speaker 3: need to go high. Everyone goes so low with numbers impowerable.

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Speaker 5: If you go to the lot app, which I've been

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Speaker 5: Thursday and then the Saturday night Lotter.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that the Hamburger with a lot app?

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, I'm on that every other day.

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Speaker 3: That's not funny.

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Speaker 5: Tom thumbs up, thumbs up.

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Speaker 3: It's really good. I wish Kate was here for a double.

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Speaker 5: Well, do you know what there's? Actually? You can hit

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Speaker 5: what numbers have come up the most and the number

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Speaker 5: around maybe fifty eight percent, is number seven? Allow buy eleven?

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Speaker 3: Well, seven is supposed to be a lucky number, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: That's what Tommy? Isn't that?

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Speaker 2: What's the thing? The trick that you play? But pick

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Speaker 2: a number between number one and ten. Majority of people

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Speaker 5: Do they really?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the first time every.

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Speaker 5: Time I strike right. That was a pickup technique for yours,

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Speaker 5: tom Yeah, love lot of thank you. You never want to.

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Speaker 2: I love these stories. Usually when we tell these stories,

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Speaker 2: this is someone who has.

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Speaker 2: We usually tell these stories about how they burn through

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Speaker 3: But no, this is Gillian Bayford.

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Speaker 2: So Gillian Bayford won in twenty twelve with her husband

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Speaker 3: Jesus, So the thing is here.

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Speaker 2: Fifteen months later she oh man okay, so her husband

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Speaker 3: Now it says here that he he.

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Speaker 2: Broke up with her due to the stress of managing

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Speaker 2: such a colossive, colossal windfall. How can you have how

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Speaker 5: Well, they also see he tried to start a bit

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Speaker 5: of a family office, and what do we put it into?

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Speaker 5: What are we buy into? And he's mad he should

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: Well, see Gillian has been quite smart with her money.

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Speaker 2: But the thing is she's okay. So the two hundred

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Speaker 2: tough one because she said, you know what I'm going

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Speaker 2: to around about five six million dollars shit him out

452
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Speaker 2: of debt. The thing is, though, six months later Dad

453
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Speaker 2: Ian and also Colin the brother came back for more

454
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Speaker 2: Can we start another business that failed?

455
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Speaker 3: Can you get us out of this one? Then the

456
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Speaker 3: sister started coming.

457
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Speaker 2: Back for more money. Then Ian the farther. Ian's back again,

458
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Speaker 2: she's basically had to move. She's packed up, sold her house,

459
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Speaker 2: and she's moved to another country just to get away

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Speaker 2: from her family.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you always think, I mean, how much is

462
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Speaker 5: enough and how much is too much? Because if they

463
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Speaker 5: were to say, if she won twenty million dollars, that's

464
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Speaker 5: life changing. But she couldn't have Ian Graham, Gary's sister

465
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Speaker 5: and Greg come back time after time chasing the money.

466
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Speaker 5: It'd be gone pretty quickly. So you wonder what the

467
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:04,879
Speaker 5: right amount is. And secondly, if she just shut up

468
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Speaker 5: and put it in the bank and lived off the interest,

469
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Speaker 5: sweet as can be?

470
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Speaker 3: He how's this one for Colin as well?

471
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Speaker 2: Because Colin, she forked out thirty seven million dollars for

472
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Speaker 2: her family and they and they weren't happy. Colin wanted

473
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Speaker 2: more money from her. Colin Colin got her to pay

474
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Speaker 2: for his wedding and he was so upset that he

475
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Speaker 2: didn't get more money that he didn't invite it to

476
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Speaker 2: the wedding team.

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Speaker 5: Colin.

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Speaker 3: But there's a un I don't know, Colin.

479
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Speaker 2: That was the That was the last time that Colin

480
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Speaker 2: got any money from Gillian Bayford.

481
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Speaker 3: And she's now moved to another country.

482
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Speaker 2: She's loaded the family, You're a Stinker, cal good Luck

483
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Speaker 2: and the Power book.

484
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Speaker 5: This is the.

485
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Speaker 11: Fitting and Whip Her with Kate Richie podcast.

486
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Speaker 3: The Chances.

487
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Speaker 5: Plenty of calls coming through to the one I want

488
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Speaker 5: to give you this morning. Fits you right. I've talked

489
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Speaker 5: it up, mate, I've said it. This is an extraordinary story.

490
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:09,040
Speaker 5: So I will tell you the story about Britney and Roman.

491
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 5: Now they are now married, but when they first met,

492
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Speaker 5: they started dating obviously, and as you do, you meet

493
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Speaker 5: the family and the family. Roman took him, took Brittany

494
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Speaker 5: over to his place to meet mom and dad, and

495
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Speaker 5: they started talking about Roman as a younger boy, and

496
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Speaker 5: just to embarrass him, they went that extent further, that

497
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Speaker 5: little bit further, and they decided to put on a

498
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Speaker 5: video of him at the age of five, jumping at

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Speaker 5: a fair on a jumping castle. It was that moment

500
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Speaker 5: Brittany went, hang on a minute, that kid jumping next

501
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Speaker 5: to Roman is someone I know. It's me What of

502
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Speaker 5: the Jesus years prior to their meeting? You not?

503
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Speaker 7: Really?

504
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Speaker 4: It was? It was?

505
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Speaker 1: And you want to it over there?

506
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Speaker 2: I want to learn more about Rome and Nick in

507
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Speaker 2: Castle Cove.

508
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Speaker 3: What are the chances Nick?

509
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Speaker 4: Oh, I am going. Look. I used to go and

510
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Speaker 4: see a physio regularly, sorry for a couple of years.

511
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Speaker 4: Then public she went traveling. I was over in London.

512
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,920
Speaker 4: I stuffed up my leg again and I went into

513
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Speaker 4: the physio and to get it strapped. And it was

514
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Speaker 4: my old physio from Sydney.

515
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Speaker 5: No way, a random physio in London. You walked and

516
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Speaker 5: it was your old physio from Sydney. Get stuffed.

517
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Speaker 4: Yep.

518
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Speaker 2: That is a good story, Nick, great way to kick

519
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Speaker 2: it off. Twenty twenty four.

520
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Speaker 1: A nice recap with Kate's not impressed.

521
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Speaker 5: It's going to pull apart everything I do today.

522
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Speaker 3: It's Chloe those days, Chloe Jordan's springs. One of the chances,

523
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Speaker 3: Hi guys.

524
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Speaker 11: So I sat next to a girl in university in

525
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Speaker 11: one of our lectures. We got talking and turned out

526
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Speaker 11: that her cousins married my cousin. Her brother used to

527
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Speaker 11: come into one of the cafes that I worked out

528
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Speaker 11: as a customer, and her now husband my brother used

529
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Speaker 11: to work for his parents, and we have the same

530
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Speaker 11: family friends.

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Speaker 13: And as well.

532
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Speaker 11: She went to high school with one of my sort

533
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Speaker 11: of teenage wings. So we ended up having four connections

534
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Speaker 11: just from a conversation.

535
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Speaker 5: That's one of the chances for lay a connection Kate

536
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Speaker 5: to explain what's happened there.

537
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,120
Speaker 1: Thank you more than three?

538
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 5: That's four.

539
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Speaker 10: Aren't we lucky to have him on the tane?

540
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Speaker 3: It's amazing.

541
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Speaker 2: I wonder if Roeman was involved in Hailey and Maronga,

542
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:52,959
Speaker 2: what are the chances.

543
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Speaker 8: We were staying a few nights in Canberra and the

544
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Speaker 8: first night we were in bed to sleep and we

545
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Speaker 8: could hear his rustling. I was like, oh my god,

546
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Speaker 8: what was and then obviously couldn't find anything. And then

547
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,679
Speaker 8: something had crawled over my husband's face, and I was like,

548
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:07,920
Speaker 8: what is it? And then the next night you could

549
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,679
Speaker 8: hear it rustling or munching or something, and then still

550
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 8: couldn't find anything. And then the third night we saw

551
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Speaker 8: something run from the lounge. I saw something, but I

552
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 8: couldn't see exactly what it was. And then we had

553
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 8: obviously kids with the snack bag, like an Aldi bag

554
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 8: was always snacked, and my husband was like, oh, let's

555
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,439
Speaker 8: hope we don't bring it home with asked haha. I

556
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 8: packed the car up. Thanks goodness, the snack bag was

557
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 8: in the books normally it's at my feet. Got home

558
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 8: and then unpacking stuff and I was pulling out like food,

559
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Speaker 8: and I was like, why is there a hole in

560
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Speaker 8: the wee big bag? And why is the beanie because

561
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 8: it was cold? Why is it like shrivel like started

562
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Speaker 8: being munched? And there were a few other holes in packages.

563
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Speaker 8: And then this king jumped out and ran under the bridge.

564
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Speaker 3: No, sorry, can you say that again? Because Whipple was

565
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Speaker 3: talking at the time. Yeah, you told us what it was.

566
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Speaker 8: Yeah, little mouse mouse ran under our fridge and like,

567
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Speaker 8: I just had to leave.

568
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 2: So what No, that's pretty amazing. They brought the mouse

569
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Speaker 2: home with him. What are the chances that that would happen?

570
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Speaker 3: Kate? I think at least tender one.

571
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Speaker 5: I don't know if that makes the category of what

572
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Speaker 5: are the chances?

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Speaker 10: It's a great story, and Bridy told it with such season.

574
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Speaker 3: Bridy's next.

575
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Speaker 2: Now, Bridy, you've got because we've been talking about we've

576
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Speaker 2: been talking about.

577
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Speaker 3: The royals lately. If you got a royal, what are

578
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Speaker 3: the chances?

579
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Speaker 7: Yeah?

580
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Speaker 8: Yeah, I do.

581
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Speaker 5: What have you got?

582
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Speaker 8: My best friend just got home from Denmark.

583
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Speaker 7: She was at a club after like a bar, after

584
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Speaker 7: skiing all day.

585
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Speaker 8: And she ran into a guy on her way to

586
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Speaker 8: the bathroom and they got chatting and this guy was like,

587
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Speaker 8: my good friend is also half Danish, half half Australian

588
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:02,160
Speaker 8: and she.

589
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Speaker 7: Says, so am I And he was like, yes, the

590
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 7: Prince do you.

591
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 13: Want to go meet it?

592
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 8: And she was like, oh, oh no, you're joking, Like, no.

593
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 2: Way you know him.

594
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,120
Speaker 7: And then an hour passes, he's exiting the bar and

595
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Speaker 7: they're rejecting him for.

596
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Speaker 3: To get into the club.

597
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 8: The Prince because he's too intoxicated.

598
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:24,919
Speaker 9: Was yeah, that was him, and he couldn't get in intoxicated.

599
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 3: Follows the start school, which which one's Prince Christian, that's.

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Speaker 5: The eldest son.

601
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Speaker 1: Fits with the head, He's the eldest son. So whichy club?

602
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Speaker 4: Was?

603
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Speaker 2: This got a crush on the I don't that is

604
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Speaker 2: an eighteen year old boy.

605
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 3: Serious?

606
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: No, I was talking.

607
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 10: I was offering up comment when I was looking at

608
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Speaker 10: the television the other day with him waving on the balcony.

609
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,919
Speaker 10: They were my private thoughts that I was sharing with

610
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Speaker 10: the studio.

611
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 1: They are not on air.

612
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Speaker 5: It wasn't private the time you said, oh my god,

613
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Speaker 5: I think I'm a chance to become a queen.

614
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Speaker 1: No, I didn't say anything like that. I am a queen.

615
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,360
Speaker 10: I don't need a prince to prove it.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

617
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 6: Yes, The fits in with a with Kate Witchie podcast.

618
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 3: Hey do you want to be hit by a dumb criminal?

619
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Speaker 5: This is the first dumb criminal for twenty twenty four.

620
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Speaker 2: Can I take you back to the first day of

621
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 2: freedom that you ever got when you first got your peace?

622
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 2: Remember that feeling in the car driving back from the

623
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Speaker 2: test yourself. You're so excited to go to your mate's

624
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Speaker 2: place and you don't have to listen to mom and

625
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 2: dad anymore. Independence is there? Made it till yours?

626
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 5: Yeah.

627
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 2: Twenty five year old Blake over in Brampton, this is

628
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 2: in the UK, was pulled over fifty. He was going

629
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Speaker 2: over fifty kilometers above the limit, weaving in and out

630
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Speaker 2: of traffic heading home from his peas test.

631
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Speaker 3: Police pull him.

632
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Speaker 2: Over, Wind down his window and go mate, what's that

633
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 2: open beer doing in the front there?

634
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 3: And he set up. Boys, I'm celebrating. I just got

635
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 3: my piece. No, have you got the RBT.

636
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 2: He's out there as well, Jess if you can find

637
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 2: it as well. Just blow into this straw, young man

638
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 2: if you can. Congratulations, you got your pee?

639
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 5: There he is.

640
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 2: He's blown point zero three so and on your ps.

641
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 2: You know, you're not allowed to have any alcohol in

642
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 2: your system. So he's been done first day, twenty minutes

643
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 2: after he got his peas, he's over the limit and

644
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 2: he's been speeding.

645
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 5: He's like, he wasn't waiting for a mate, was he jes,

646
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 5: you got that in the system? And pulled over on

647
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 5: the side of the road in front of his car,

648
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 5: smashed up on the grassy nile, waiting for a mate.

649
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 3: That one that brown cardigan cry, I'm just waiting for

650
00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 3: a mate.

651
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 2: The guy who had a crowd and then he got

652
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Speaker 2: his dog out the back of the car and someone

653
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 2: starts filming him and he goes, I don't know, I

654
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 2: don't know what you're talking about. I've just rocked up

655
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 2: that car, was it? He goes, mate, we just sweet

656
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 2: to get out of the back of the car. He goes, oh,

657
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 2: it's not my car, I'm.

658
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 5: Taking the dog for or what are you talking about?

659
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 4: The fits in Whip Her with Kate Ritchie podcast.

660
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 3: You got to laugh at these stories.

661
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 2: But some blokes are so unromantic it's just amazing. So

662
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 2: there's a woman that's gone she's gone to the internet

663
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Speaker 2: for a little bit of help.

664
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Speaker 3: He her name's Gretel.

665
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Speaker 2: She's thirty five years of age the year before. So

666
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 2: last year Kate, her boyfriend forgot her birthday.

667
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Speaker 5: Can happen?

668
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 3: Yes, So she said, you need to redeem yourself.

669
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Speaker 2: I want to trip away and I just I want

670
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Speaker 2: to spend some time with you. Let's go away for

671
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 2: a nice trip. Get me a present, and all I

672
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 2: want is for you to write down some.

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Speaker 3: Beautiful words on a cart.

674
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Speaker 2: Right So, the day before they're about to go on

675
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 2: the trip, she reminded him about the cart, and she

676
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 2: knew straight away that he hadn't.

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Speaker 3: Got her a cart.

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Speaker 1: They hadn't card.

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Speaker 10: And I think that's your first mistake, underestimating the value

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Speaker 10: are the written word?

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Speaker 3: So do I you're a horder?

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Speaker 1: Oh dear?

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Speaker 7: Really?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: You've got boxes of I mean I have thrown a

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Speaker 10: lot out, but I do have little plastic sleeves and

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Speaker 10: things at say, SPE's your cards, sentimental cards, cards to

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Speaker 10: keep cards were made much and that's you know what

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Speaker 10: this pile.

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Speaker 2: That's all I want from the kids as well for

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Speaker 2: my birthday. Just I want you to sit down for

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Speaker 2: twenty minutes and write some beautiful words out. Man, How

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Speaker 2: hard is that to do? So anyway, I agree. So

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Speaker 2: she reminded him about the card. Tomorrow we're leaving to

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Speaker 2: go on the holiday. You need to redeem yourself. The

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Speaker 2: next day, they're about to leave to go to the

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Speaker 2: airport and he said, I need to just quickly, I'll

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Speaker 2: be back.

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Speaker 3: She said, well, we're running late, and he said no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: Say she's found out that he's gone down to the

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Speaker 2: local petty station to sort out a card and buy

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Speaker 2: some flowers.

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Speaker 3: She said, they were the ugliest flowers I've ever seen.

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Speaker 2: And he brought me back my favorite smoothie from the

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Speaker 2: petrol station as it gifts as well.

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Speaker 3: But there was a card. She said, I'm not going

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Speaker 3: to open it here.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to open it before we get on the

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Speaker 2: flight so I can get a little bit emotional. So

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Speaker 2: they get to the airport they're about to get on

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Speaker 2: the flight. She opens up the card and there's no

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Speaker 2: words in the card, but there's an a four piece

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Speaker 2: of paper. She opens the piece of paper and she

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Speaker 2: realizes straightway that the bloke.

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Speaker 3: Has gone to chat GPT.

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Speaker 2: And print it off chat GPT a message that he's

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Speaker 2: then folded up the a four piece of paper and

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Speaker 2: put in the card.

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Speaker 3: She knew straight away because this is what it said,

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Speaker 3: My dearest Gretel.

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Speaker 2: As I pen down these words, my heart swells with

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Speaker 2: both love and remorse. Last year I unintentionally let a

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Speaker 2: slip a moment that should have been all about celebrating

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Speaker 2: you your birthday. I can't find words enough to express

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Speaker 2: how sorry I am of that oversight.

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Speaker 5: Come on as as if a block's.

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Speaker 3: Writing this down.

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Speaker 2: In the past year, I've reflected on the importance of

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Speaker 2: cherishing every special moment with you. Your presence in my

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Speaker 2: life is a gift that I don't take for granted,

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Speaker 2: and I'm committed to making up for the laps I

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Speaker 2: had last year. Today, on your birthday, I want to

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Speaker 2: flood your world with joy, laughter, and endless love. You

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Speaker 2: deserve nothing less than the extraordinary, and I promise to

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Speaker 2: be the one who brings it to you. May this

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Speaker 2: day be filled with the magic that you bring into

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Speaker 2: my life every day. Now this is where he slipped up, Kate,

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Speaker 2: because at the end it said, happy birthday, my love.

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Speaker 2: Here's the making every moment count with all my heart

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Speaker 2: brackets your name.

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Speaker 5: Open ai. Oh no, do you know what I was

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Speaker 5: going to give him the benefit of the doubt, because

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Speaker 5: all those words would not fit in the card. So

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Speaker 5: you may have thought, I'll pop it into a word

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Speaker 5: document and then I'll print it out and I'll put

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Speaker 5: it inside.

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Speaker 10: Okay, right, he's never strung a sentence together like that before.

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Speaker 5: We could have argued that, But what's the difference between, say,

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Speaker 5: chat GPT and a phosaurus.

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Speaker 10: I'm not even having this conversation with you. If that's

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Speaker 10: what you're your opening argument makes sense.

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Speaker 2: What you also need to do, though, is that you

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Speaker 2: need to you need to go to chat GPT. But

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Speaker 2: then you've also got to You've got to write it

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Speaker 2: as if you would write it. So you need to

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Speaker 2: change things and take words out there that obviously that

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Speaker 2: he doesn't understand.

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Speaker 10: No, but don't even I don't even know. You don't

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Speaker 10: have to go to chat GPT. Surely she would rather,

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Speaker 10: you know, one small paragraph, maybe even three sentences that

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Speaker 10: actually meant something, and that he had written and that

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Speaker 10: was from his heart, because I don't. Sometimes it doesn't

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Speaker 10: even really matter what it says. It's the effort require

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Speaker 10: it's knowing that someone has thought ahead, I think, and planned,

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Speaker 10: like even the flowers from the petrols and the smoothie,

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Speaker 10: it's not. It means that your birthday is an after thoughts.

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Speaker 5: Do you know what's interesting though, When you're in a

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Speaker 5: relationship for a while, it becomes hard to try and

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Speaker 5: write something different on a card year after year.

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Speaker 3: It's not that hard to be honest.

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Speaker 5: So much for everything you do. I love you to pieces.

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Speaker 5: You're the backbone of the relationship. Yah, A boring, boring,

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Speaker 5: same crad hot love Mick.

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Speaker 3: You know love Mick.

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Speaker 10: I think if you can say it, if you can

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Speaker 10: say that stuff from the heart, no matter how repetitive

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Speaker 10: it is, a year after year you're winning at a relationship.

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Speaker 3: Do you know what you need to do?

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Speaker 2: You need to just to write down some of the

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Speaker 2: biggest things that have happened in your relationship that year.

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Speaker 2: And if you can go back and count those things

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Speaker 2: in a card and say, you know what, when I

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00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 2: was feeling really down here, your support was.

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Speaker 3: You and my rock. I couldn't have done it without you.

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Speaker 3: They appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: And how easy is that to do to think back

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Speaker 2: for the last year, something that happened that was significant

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Speaker 2: in your relationship.

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Speaker 1: Mate, I wasn't good though.

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Speaker 10: What if you look back on the year that you've

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Speaker 10: had with that person and you hate every moment of it,

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Speaker 10: and you can't be you can't think of anything. In fact,

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Speaker 10: you don't care if you ever see them again.

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Speaker 3: I wonder.

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Speaker 5: I wish I could make you as happy as a

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Speaker 5: handbag does.

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Speaker 3: Therese are over main levels going again.

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Speaker 5: That's a three month I can feel the flip coming on.

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Speaker 5: I can definitely feel the flip. It's in Whipper with

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