1 00:00:05,881 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apodjay Production. 2 00:00:10,921 --> 00:00:14,001 Speaker 2: Welcome to the She Rises Podcast. I'm Ashy and I'm Tiana. 3 00:00:14,361 --> 00:00:15,201 Speaker 2: This podcast is. 4 00:00:15,201 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 3: About female empowerment and encouraging you to be your biggest, boldest, 5 00:00:18,801 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 3: and most authentic version of yourself. 6 00:00:20,961 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 2: We'd help you shed the shame, grow to a new level. 7 00:00:23,321 --> 00:00:26,241 Speaker 2: We're gonna laugh, cry, and talk about the topics everyone 8 00:00:26,281 --> 00:00:29,321 Speaker 2: else is too afraid to talk about. Get ready for 9 00:00:29,361 --> 00:00:30,761 Speaker 2: your next level of self. 10 00:00:31,201 --> 00:00:34,121 Speaker 3: Hello everybody, welcome back to another episode of She Rises 11 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:37,121 Speaker 3: with your favorites as She and Tiana. 12 00:00:36,361 --> 00:00:39,041 Speaker 2: And we're a bit scared today. So you would have remembered, 13 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:40,841 Speaker 2: or maybe you didn't if you didn't listen to it. 14 00:00:40,881 --> 00:00:43,480 Speaker 2: When Tiana first came on board, our producer came and 15 00:00:43,521 --> 00:00:46,761 Speaker 2: asked her a couple of questions and they were quite intense. 16 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:47,921 Speaker 2: She does not hold back. 17 00:00:48,001 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 3: She asks the harder hitting questions and the things that 18 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:52,041 Speaker 3: you would absolutely want to know about it personal. 19 00:00:51,881 --> 00:00:54,321 Speaker 2: All the juicy, nosy questions. This is what we call 20 00:00:54,361 --> 00:00:57,561 Speaker 2: our mystory episodes. So Katie, take it away, hate it away. 21 00:00:57,761 --> 00:00:59,921 Speaker 1: I like to ask the questions that I think everybody 22 00:00:59,921 --> 00:01:02,081 Speaker 1: wants to know the answers to, but that no one 23 00:01:02,121 --> 00:01:03,361 Speaker 1: would actually ask you. 24 00:01:03,521 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, like no one's willing to ask. 25 00:01:05,881 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: All right, question number one, what's the easiest cash you've 26 00:01:09,881 --> 00:01:10,441 Speaker 1: ever made? 27 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:16,161 Speaker 2: Influence work for sure, Although when I first launched anything, 28 00:01:16,401 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 2: the first launch is always the biggest. So when I 29 00:01:18,761 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 2: first launched active where it was over a million dollars 30 00:01:20,881 --> 00:01:22,681 Speaker 2: and twenty four hours when I first launched my app, 31 00:01:22,721 --> 00:01:25,481 Speaker 2: it was the same thing. But I feel influencer work 32 00:01:25,601 --> 00:01:28,121 Speaker 2: is the easiest work that you could do. Like when 33 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 2: influencers say they've got a hard job, I'm like, now 34 00:01:31,121 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 2: you don't, Like, yes, it takes you've got to be 35 00:01:33,881 --> 00:01:35,681 Speaker 2: creative and you've got to be on Like, for sure, 36 00:01:35,801 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 2: it still takes brain power, but it's very easy to 37 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:40,881 Speaker 2: promote a product that you genuinely loved. Yeah, so I'd 38 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:44,041 Speaker 2: say that would be pretty easy. Okay, cool, Yeah. 39 00:01:44,081 --> 00:01:46,041 Speaker 3: I would say for me when I invested into the 40 00:01:46,081 --> 00:01:50,121 Speaker 3: stock market, so like I wasn't actually doing anything for it, 41 00:01:50,161 --> 00:01:51,841 Speaker 3: Like obviously you have to do research and what you're 42 00:01:51,841 --> 00:01:53,161 Speaker 3: going to invest in to make sure that it's going 43 00:01:53,201 --> 00:01:55,601 Speaker 3: to be something worth investing in. But all I was 44 00:01:55,601 --> 00:01:57,961 Speaker 3: doing was adding money to it every week. Like I 45 00:01:57,961 --> 00:01:59,721 Speaker 3: did that for like a year straight and then I 46 00:01:59,761 --> 00:02:02,441 Speaker 3: made like half a million dollars in less than eight 47 00:02:02,481 --> 00:02:04,441 Speaker 3: months or six months while all like that just from 48 00:02:04,481 --> 00:02:06,641 Speaker 3: picking the stock, and I think I didn't have to 49 00:02:06,721 --> 00:02:07,881 Speaker 3: like work for that. 50 00:02:08,001 --> 00:02:11,681 Speaker 2: It felt like really easy money, girl math free. Honestly. 51 00:02:12,401 --> 00:02:14,441 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like I invested twenty k and got 52 00:02:14,441 --> 00:02:17,041 Speaker 3: back five hundred thousands. Yeah that is you know, so 53 00:02:17,361 --> 00:02:18,801 Speaker 3: I would say that's the easiest money. 54 00:02:19,001 --> 00:02:21,601 Speaker 1: What about when it dropped slightly, did you ever get 55 00:02:21,641 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: nervous and go, oh, I need to pull out? 56 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:25,841 Speaker 2: Yes, that definitely comes up one hundred percent. 57 00:02:25,881 --> 00:02:28,321 Speaker 3: But I think because even my family are very much 58 00:02:28,321 --> 00:02:30,241 Speaker 3: into it, and they're like, you buy, hold, never sell. 59 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:32,761 Speaker 3: So with that mentality of like, well, even if it 60 00:02:32,881 --> 00:02:35,321 Speaker 3: dips and the cycles happen, which happens every four years, 61 00:02:35,321 --> 00:02:37,081 Speaker 3: there's always like a bear market, which is where everything 62 00:02:37,161 --> 00:02:39,881 Speaker 3: drops and everyone freaks out, sells the houses, if you 63 00:02:39,921 --> 00:02:42,281 Speaker 3: can hold through that time, you'll naturally get that reoccurring 64 00:02:42,361 --> 00:02:44,721 Speaker 3: like up again. So if you can just hold strong, 65 00:02:44,841 --> 00:02:46,921 Speaker 3: then like you always continuously make money as long as 66 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:47,641 Speaker 3: you don't sell out. 67 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:51,921 Speaker 2: That's what they say. Yeah, so interesting, isn't a good 68 00:02:51,921 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 2: fun question? 69 00:02:52,921 --> 00:02:55,881 Speaker 1: Number two? Do you find each other sexually attractive? 70 00:02:58,081 --> 00:03:00,321 Speaker 2: One hundred percent of you seen it? Oh my god, 71 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 2: so funny. Yeah, definitely, I think it's beautiful. I said 72 00:03:04,561 --> 00:03:07,401 Speaker 2: at stable, she's so attractive, she's so beautiful when I 73 00:03:07,401 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: first met her, and then saying, oh my god, I 74 00:03:08,761 --> 00:03:11,521 Speaker 2: met this girl today, she's so hot. So yeah, for 75 00:03:11,561 --> 00:03:13,401 Speaker 2: sure people think of lesbians. 76 00:03:13,441 --> 00:03:16,761 Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll do yeah, went on, Yeah, I think actually 77 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:18,441 Speaker 3: is so beautiful. I'm like, I literally say to her 78 00:03:18,481 --> 00:03:20,281 Speaker 3: all the time, I'm like, if only you could see 79 00:03:20,281 --> 00:03:23,001 Speaker 3: yourself the way that I see you, mate, Like, oh. 80 00:03:23,041 --> 00:03:25,481 Speaker 2: And I say it about when like her meeting someone, 81 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,441 Speaker 2: I'm like, there is going to be men lining about 82 00:03:27,441 --> 00:03:29,441 Speaker 2: the door. If I was a guy, I'd be jumping 83 00:03:29,481 --> 00:03:29,761 Speaker 2: on it. 84 00:03:32,201 --> 00:03:36,081 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, even the questions we both love men, we 85 00:03:36,161 --> 00:03:37,881 Speaker 3: do we do so funny. 86 00:03:38,001 --> 00:03:40,401 Speaker 2: We appreciate women and their beauty. Yeah. When we speak 87 00:03:40,441 --> 00:03:42,601 Speaker 2: about actually being with women, it's like, yeah, probably not for. 88 00:03:42,561 --> 00:03:45,761 Speaker 3: Us, Yeah oh really Yeah, Yeah, it's something we'd like 89 00:03:46,241 --> 00:03:48,281 Speaker 3: openly like talk about, like, oh, would you ever, I'm 90 00:03:48,321 --> 00:03:49,121 Speaker 3: like probably not. 91 00:03:49,201 --> 00:03:51,121 Speaker 2: Like I don't think I could see myself. Yeah, I 92 00:03:51,121 --> 00:03:53,481 Speaker 2: could never date a woman. Talking about it and thinking 93 00:03:53,481 --> 00:03:55,681 Speaker 2: about it, I'm like that's hot, but actually doing it, 94 00:03:55,681 --> 00:03:57,001 Speaker 2: I don't know if I have the balls to do it. 95 00:03:57,961 --> 00:04:03,641 Speaker 2: Like even even the other what what I got invited? 96 00:04:03,801 --> 00:04:04,001 Speaker 1: Oh? 97 00:04:04,081 --> 00:04:04,481 Speaker 2: You did? 98 00:04:04,801 --> 00:04:08,441 Speaker 3: Yeah, so the other week, I indirectly got invited into 99 00:04:08,601 --> 00:04:11,561 Speaker 3: a relationship. If I was into that, this was something 100 00:04:11,601 --> 00:04:13,281 Speaker 3: I see myself doing. You know everything I was saying 101 00:04:13,321 --> 00:04:15,241 Speaker 3: to Ash, I'm like, Oh, if I was like genuinely 102 00:04:15,281 --> 00:04:17,401 Speaker 3: into it, maybe i'd probably question and attracted to both 103 00:04:17,441 --> 00:04:19,801 Speaker 3: of them. Attracted to both. Yeah, But just for me 104 00:04:20,041 --> 00:04:21,601 Speaker 3: when we talk about it, I'm like, oh, yeah, I 105 00:04:21,641 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 3: can talk about it, but doing it is a completely 106 00:04:23,681 --> 00:04:25,241 Speaker 3: different ball game. I'm like, I don't think i'd have 107 00:04:25,281 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 3: the balls to be able to do it. 108 00:04:26,601 --> 00:04:26,841 Speaker 1: Yeah. 109 00:04:26,921 --> 00:04:28,681 Speaker 2: And then connection for me with a woman like I 110 00:04:28,721 --> 00:04:31,161 Speaker 2: feel like I would need to be very emotionally connected 111 00:04:31,201 --> 00:04:34,281 Speaker 2: with them to be that attracted to them, Like I 112 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:37,241 Speaker 2: find the energy connection was what I find attractive. Of course, 113 00:04:37,281 --> 00:04:39,041 Speaker 2: when any woman walks past and it look beautiful, But 114 00:04:39,481 --> 00:04:41,121 Speaker 2: I think to do something like that, I would need 115 00:04:41,161 --> 00:04:41,921 Speaker 2: to have a connection. 116 00:04:42,201 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I couldn't just do something like that. I say 117 00:04:44,761 --> 00:04:46,161 Speaker 3: this too all the time. I'm like, I'm no better 118 00:04:46,201 --> 00:04:47,241 Speaker 3: than a man. When I see a girl at the 119 00:04:47,281 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 3: gym with a good bum, I'm like, she worked hard 120 00:04:49,281 --> 00:04:50,441 Speaker 3: for that, she got a good bump. 121 00:04:50,481 --> 00:04:51,161 Speaker 2: Yeah, But then I'm. 122 00:04:51,041 --> 00:04:53,161 Speaker 3: Also like love men with big builds and who are 123 00:04:53,241 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 3: muscly and like that's a mummy energy. 124 00:04:55,641 --> 00:04:56,121 Speaker 2: Yeah. 125 00:04:56,161 --> 00:04:58,801 Speaker 1: What about if it was a really hot couple and 126 00:04:58,841 --> 00:04:59,481 Speaker 1: they were. 127 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:02,281 Speaker 2: Both really good looking and you're single? I don't know, 128 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,961 Speaker 2: see that. I am like, Oh, I don't know, Maybe. 129 00:05:05,281 --> 00:05:07,001 Speaker 1: Just try it so there's no regrets. 130 00:05:07,201 --> 00:05:09,561 Speaker 3: I would probably be curious about it for sure, But 131 00:05:09,561 --> 00:05:11,121 Speaker 3: whether I would actually go through with it or not, 132 00:05:11,201 --> 00:05:13,321 Speaker 3: I don't know because I have enough until now, you 133 00:05:13,401 --> 00:05:15,281 Speaker 3: know what I mean, And I've had conversations about it, 134 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 3: thought about it being like oh cool, I wonder what 135 00:05:17,001 --> 00:05:18,961 Speaker 3: that would be like, but still have never acted on it. 136 00:05:19,241 --> 00:05:21,641 Speaker 3: I think thinking about it and doing a completely different things. 137 00:05:21,801 --> 00:05:24,601 Speaker 3: And also, like like what you were saying, it's not 138 00:05:24,721 --> 00:05:27,161 Speaker 3: just about how they physically look, it's about like their connection. 139 00:05:27,241 --> 00:05:27,921 Speaker 2: Are they safe? 140 00:05:27,961 --> 00:05:29,601 Speaker 3: Like all the things that I would look for in 141 00:05:29,641 --> 00:05:31,721 Speaker 3: a man I think would be applied the same if 142 00:05:31,761 --> 00:05:32,721 Speaker 3: it were multiple people. 143 00:05:32,961 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: Yeah no, yeah, but this couple wasn't it for you? No, 144 00:05:35,681 --> 00:05:37,161 Speaker 2: it's a hard No, it's not for me. 145 00:05:37,481 --> 00:05:41,921 Speaker 3: Yeah, what about you, Katie? 146 00:05:40,081 --> 00:05:44,041 Speaker 2: I'm not sure. Jay would love to hear about it, 147 00:05:44,641 --> 00:05:45,881 Speaker 2: kind of be like I'm up for anything. 148 00:05:47,761 --> 00:05:50,241 Speaker 1: What have you said to a troll? This is probably 149 00:05:50,281 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: more fashy. What have you said to a troll that 150 00:05:53,001 --> 00:05:54,241 Speaker 1: you probably shouldn't have? 151 00:05:54,481 --> 00:05:56,121 Speaker 2: Oh, that's a good question. 152 00:05:57,041 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 1: Mmm. 153 00:05:58,481 --> 00:06:01,081 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's anything directly that I've said, 154 00:06:01,121 --> 00:06:02,961 Speaker 2: but I think I've just been a bit spicy back, 155 00:06:03,361 --> 00:06:05,361 Speaker 2: like maybe just you know, you to take good look 156 00:06:05,361 --> 00:06:08,721 Speaker 2: in the mirror, or I've been a bit passive, aggressive 157 00:06:09,041 --> 00:06:11,561 Speaker 2: or sarcastic back to them. I don't think there's anything 158 00:06:11,561 --> 00:06:13,401 Speaker 2: that really bad, Like I get told with my head 159 00:06:13,401 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 2: in a blender, I get told to go walk in 160 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:16,961 Speaker 2: front of a bus, I get told go jump off 161 00:06:16,961 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 2: a bridge. Never anything like that. It's more just like, okay, 162 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:23,161 Speaker 2: the other day someone wrote a shit review. I didn't 163 00:06:23,161 --> 00:06:25,481 Speaker 2: even say anything, actually, but I said to Tiana, like 164 00:06:25,521 --> 00:06:27,601 Speaker 2: I'd love to say to them, like you're complaining about 165 00:06:27,641 --> 00:06:29,881 Speaker 2: listening to me for the last fifteen years, yet you're 166 00:06:29,921 --> 00:06:32,881 Speaker 2: still here fucking listening. Yeah, Like go get a live, 167 00:06:33,161 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: go for a hobby. Why am I your hobby? Stuff 168 00:06:35,801 --> 00:06:37,681 Speaker 2: like that I think I've said over the years, like 169 00:06:37,721 --> 00:06:39,921 Speaker 2: why are you here? Surely you have something better to 170 00:06:39,961 --> 00:06:42,001 Speaker 2: do on your Sunday morning. See that there's a little 171 00:06:42,041 --> 00:06:43,121 Speaker 2: bit of attitude in there. 172 00:06:43,281 --> 00:06:44,561 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was just like, you're not putting up for 173 00:06:44,601 --> 00:06:47,561 Speaker 3: the bullshit of coming online, coming onto your page where 174 00:06:47,601 --> 00:06:48,361 Speaker 3: they don't have to be. 175 00:06:48,601 --> 00:06:50,561 Speaker 2: But I should just block and delete. But sometimes I'm 176 00:06:50,601 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 2: spicy and I'll just be like, well, what are you 177 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 2: doing here? Like, surely you have a busy life, don't 178 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:56,001 Speaker 2: you have kids to go be with instead of being 179 00:06:56,001 --> 00:06:56,761 Speaker 2: on my page. 180 00:06:57,081 --> 00:06:59,401 Speaker 3: You also dealt with it for fifteen years. Yeah, so 181 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:01,001 Speaker 3: I could imagine that would push your buttons. 182 00:07:01,081 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's not often, but every now and again I'll 183 00:07:04,161 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 2: add a little spicy. This definitely comes down and just 184 00:07:06,241 --> 00:07:07,921 Speaker 2: like no, fuck you and come on my page and 185 00:07:07,961 --> 00:07:09,361 Speaker 2: disrespect me like that. Yeah. 186 00:07:09,401 --> 00:07:11,521 Speaker 1: Does it ever continue into an argument back home? 187 00:07:11,601 --> 00:07:13,881 Speaker 2: No, don't allow it to because I'm just very protective 188 00:07:13,921 --> 00:07:15,281 Speaker 2: of my energy and I'm like, you don't deserve to 189 00:07:15,281 --> 00:07:16,681 Speaker 2: be my page if that's what you're going to do. 190 00:07:17,241 --> 00:07:19,041 Speaker 2: And most of the time I just block them, delete them. 191 00:07:19,041 --> 00:07:20,081 Speaker 2: You can see when they're being a. 192 00:07:20,001 --> 00:07:22,121 Speaker 3: Trolled, Yeah, when you're looking for a fight. 193 00:07:22,321 --> 00:07:24,241 Speaker 2: Yeah, But over the years and my fifteen years have 194 00:07:24,281 --> 00:07:26,441 Speaker 2: I been back for sure, but never anything to the 195 00:07:26,481 --> 00:07:28,601 Speaker 2: extent that I look back, I'm like, holy shit, why 196 00:07:28,601 --> 00:07:29,961 Speaker 2: did I say that, you know. 197 00:07:30,161 --> 00:07:32,761 Speaker 1: What would you like to say to one of Ashley's 198 00:07:32,801 --> 00:07:34,801 Speaker 1: trolls when they tell her to put her head in 199 00:07:34,841 --> 00:07:35,321 Speaker 1: a blender? 200 00:07:35,481 --> 00:07:39,001 Speaker 3: Tatiana initially wanted to be like, get fucked. That sounds 201 00:07:39,001 --> 00:07:41,281 Speaker 3: so bad, but like that was my initial just response 202 00:07:41,281 --> 00:07:44,441 Speaker 3: thing because I'm so protective of her, but also like 203 00:07:44,481 --> 00:07:46,881 Speaker 3: what are you doing? Just honestly, like what are you doing? 204 00:07:46,921 --> 00:07:50,201 Speaker 3: Like I genuinely hope that one day you find something 205 00:07:50,241 --> 00:07:52,481 Speaker 3: that lights you up enough in life that you aren't 206 00:07:52,561 --> 00:07:56,161 Speaker 3: here sitting at your home on a computer putting down 207 00:07:56,201 --> 00:07:58,201 Speaker 3: someone who is doing everything that she can to create 208 00:07:58,201 --> 00:08:00,921 Speaker 3: a fucking really good life for herself, considering where she 209 00:08:00,961 --> 00:08:03,801 Speaker 3: came from, that she actually had the balls big enough 210 00:08:03,881 --> 00:08:05,801 Speaker 3: to go out and get where she fucking it in life. 211 00:08:05,841 --> 00:08:07,681 Speaker 3: Like the fact that you're sitting there doing that to 212 00:08:07,721 --> 00:08:09,681 Speaker 3: her just shows that maybe you wish that you could 213 00:08:09,681 --> 00:08:11,161 Speaker 3: have done that in your life and you haven't yet 214 00:08:11,161 --> 00:08:12,961 Speaker 3: done that, and she highlights that for you, So it's 215 00:08:12,961 --> 00:08:13,641 Speaker 3: something to look at. 216 00:08:13,761 --> 00:08:15,841 Speaker 2: I would love to just have a face to face conversation. 217 00:08:16,441 --> 00:08:18,761 Speaker 2: I feel like within five minutes of them actually getting 218 00:08:18,801 --> 00:08:20,641 Speaker 2: to know who I am and just talking to me, 219 00:08:21,041 --> 00:08:25,601 Speaker 2: their assumptions about me would dissolve, I really do. I'd 220 00:08:25,641 --> 00:08:27,441 Speaker 2: love to ask them and let them get out what 221 00:08:27,481 --> 00:08:30,081 Speaker 2: they want to say and then talk about it. They 222 00:08:30,201 --> 00:08:32,561 Speaker 2: realize a lot about themselves and a lot about the 223 00:08:33,281 --> 00:08:36,201 Speaker 2: maybe noise that they've collectively heard or read or felt 224 00:08:36,321 --> 00:08:38,521 Speaker 2: or assumed. I think it would disolve very quickly. They'd 225 00:08:38,521 --> 00:08:42,441 Speaker 2: almost be disappointed, like, oh, yeah, she's nice. I wasn't 226 00:08:42,481 --> 00:08:43,201 Speaker 2: expecting there. 227 00:08:43,401 --> 00:08:45,601 Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes as well, that's hard for people to look 228 00:08:45,601 --> 00:08:47,321 Speaker 3: at because then they have to admit that they're at fault. 229 00:08:47,521 --> 00:08:49,481 Speaker 2: Yeah. People don't like doing that, but you still do this. 230 00:08:49,521 --> 00:08:52,841 Speaker 2: You still did that. Also, love just talking about and 231 00:08:52,881 --> 00:08:55,921 Speaker 2: teaching about change. They hold onto things that I might 232 00:08:55,961 --> 00:08:58,601 Speaker 2: have said or done fifteen years I'm like, oh my gosh, 233 00:08:58,641 --> 00:09:00,201 Speaker 2: I was to go back and look at things that 234 00:09:00,241 --> 00:09:01,881 Speaker 2: you've done with fifteen years ago. You're a be a 235 00:09:01,921 --> 00:09:05,401 Speaker 2: completely different person now. Like allow people to evolve, grow 236 00:09:05,481 --> 00:09:08,081 Speaker 2: and change, Like we all have to forgive ourselves for 237 00:09:08,121 --> 00:09:09,801 Speaker 2: the mistakes that we made. We have to figure other 238 00:09:09,801 --> 00:09:11,521 Speaker 2: people as well. You just know that's a part of 239 00:09:11,561 --> 00:09:12,001 Speaker 2: their journey. 240 00:09:12,081 --> 00:09:12,641 Speaker 1: Yeah. 241 00:09:12,721 --> 00:09:14,881 Speaker 2: So yeah, but no one will ever meet up with me. 242 00:09:14,921 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 2: I've tried over the years. 243 00:09:15,961 --> 00:09:19,081 Speaker 1: Because they don't want to be proven wrong, or it's. 244 00:09:18,921 --> 00:09:21,281 Speaker 2: Embarrassing to be a troll. They know it is, because 245 00:09:21,281 --> 00:09:23,521 Speaker 2: then they have to own it. Yeah, own it. That's 246 00:09:23,521 --> 00:09:24,921 Speaker 2: not cool to be known as a troll. Why do 247 00:09:24,961 --> 00:09:27,561 Speaker 2: they have no photos on their profile because they're embarrassed. 248 00:09:27,561 --> 00:09:28,521 Speaker 2: They don't want to show you that they are. 249 00:09:28,721 --> 00:09:31,601 Speaker 3: People get uncomfortable with the face to face. People only 250 00:09:31,641 --> 00:09:34,201 Speaker 3: comfortable because it's behind a screen and they died so 251 00:09:34,241 --> 00:09:36,161 Speaker 3: that they can say the most unfiltered thing because there's 252 00:09:36,201 --> 00:09:39,081 Speaker 3: no repercussions, or they believe that there's no consequence or 253 00:09:39,121 --> 00:09:41,601 Speaker 3: repercussion for what they're choosing to do. But if they 254 00:09:41,761 --> 00:09:46,001 Speaker 3: had every single person that they respected, loved, valued, cared about, 255 00:09:46,081 --> 00:09:49,201 Speaker 3: or were inspired by sitting there watching them while they're 256 00:09:49,241 --> 00:09:52,201 Speaker 3: trolling somebody who's doing good, they would be so ashamed. 257 00:09:52,681 --> 00:09:54,881 Speaker 2: And it's not to make you feel shame or judgment if. 258 00:09:54,761 --> 00:09:57,641 Speaker 3: This is something that you're doing, but it's just recognizing, like, 259 00:09:58,121 --> 00:10:00,361 Speaker 3: would you actually be proud of the choices that you're 260 00:10:00,401 --> 00:10:03,361 Speaker 3: making if you were fully aware of how that might 261 00:10:03,401 --> 00:10:04,481 Speaker 3: impact you in your life? 262 00:10:04,561 --> 00:10:05,041 Speaker 2: You wouldn't. 263 00:10:05,081 --> 00:10:08,201 Speaker 1: It's like leaving a Google review, like you're happy to 264 00:10:08,281 --> 00:10:10,921 Speaker 1: leave a Google review telling a restaurant that their meal 265 00:10:11,001 --> 00:10:12,801 Speaker 1: was shit, but you didn't say it at the time 266 00:10:12,841 --> 00:10:13,361 Speaker 1: when you were there. 267 00:10:13,441 --> 00:10:16,721 Speaker 2: Yes, wrong, right, it was a restaurant, and Polly appreciate 268 00:10:16,761 --> 00:10:19,841 Speaker 2: the feedback. If you're like, hey, my stake was really undercooked, 269 00:10:20,041 --> 00:10:22,601 Speaker 2: or this felt raw, or this had hair in it, 270 00:10:22,641 --> 00:10:24,601 Speaker 2: you'd rather that you get told face to face and 271 00:10:24,641 --> 00:10:26,481 Speaker 2: be able to make the improvements. Offer a free meal 272 00:10:26,641 --> 00:10:28,321 Speaker 2: or discount for next time they come. 273 00:10:28,521 --> 00:10:30,481 Speaker 3: But there's a way to do it, is like what 274 00:10:30,521 --> 00:10:32,041 Speaker 3: you were just saying when you were sharing that. 275 00:10:32,081 --> 00:10:33,401 Speaker 2: I was like, there's a way to do it. It's 276 00:10:33,441 --> 00:10:34,121 Speaker 2: like anything in life. 277 00:10:34,841 --> 00:10:37,761 Speaker 3: Communicators and not expecting that other people can't handle your 278 00:10:37,761 --> 00:10:38,481 Speaker 3: honest feedback. 279 00:10:38,601 --> 00:10:41,361 Speaker 2: Yes, you know, one hundred percent. There is always a 280 00:10:41,401 --> 00:10:43,521 Speaker 2: way to communicate. It can be done kindly and effectively. 281 00:10:43,721 --> 00:10:45,041 Speaker 3: And then I'm over here like, fuck off. 282 00:10:46,201 --> 00:10:48,241 Speaker 2: You don't actually do that though, No, I don't. You 283 00:10:48,681 --> 00:10:52,441 Speaker 2: get to clelie and you can feel angry in the moment. Yeah, 284 00:10:52,481 --> 00:10:53,401 Speaker 2: you know, that's normal. 285 00:10:53,561 --> 00:10:57,081 Speaker 1: Next question, is there an influencer that you wish you 286 00:10:57,121 --> 00:10:58,081 Speaker 1: were friends with. 287 00:10:59,241 --> 00:11:01,921 Speaker 2: The first person that comes to mind is Leila Harmosey. Yeah, 288 00:11:01,961 --> 00:11:03,161 Speaker 2: you love her? Do you love her? 289 00:11:03,961 --> 00:11:06,041 Speaker 3: I would love to be a fly on the wall 290 00:11:06,401 --> 00:11:09,161 Speaker 3: her perspective, her mindset, the way that she does business. 291 00:11:09,241 --> 00:11:12,961 Speaker 3: She's got like a billion dollar empire and come from nothing, 292 00:11:13,001 --> 00:11:16,001 Speaker 3: no money, you know, had to basically fend for herself 293 00:11:16,041 --> 00:11:18,201 Speaker 3: and had a really hard upbringing to where she is now. 294 00:11:18,241 --> 00:11:19,801 Speaker 2: I just find it really inspiring, and. 295 00:11:19,761 --> 00:11:21,761 Speaker 3: I just I have a lot of respect for her 296 00:11:21,801 --> 00:11:23,241 Speaker 3: and what I see her do and the way she 297 00:11:23,321 --> 00:11:28,001 Speaker 3: navigates not only business, but emotions, relationships. There are a 298 00:11:28,041 --> 00:11:29,881 Speaker 3: lot of beautiful things that I see her do, and 299 00:11:29,921 --> 00:11:32,441 Speaker 3: she's just got this like she emulates a lot of strength. 300 00:11:33,001 --> 00:11:34,761 Speaker 3: If I could, I would love to have a conversation 301 00:11:34,881 --> 00:11:36,881 Speaker 3: with her and yeah, be a fly on the wall. 302 00:11:37,161 --> 00:11:39,681 Speaker 2: I think that was really cool. I've always really liked Witnessments. 303 00:11:39,921 --> 00:11:43,441 Speaker 2: She's a US influencer. She has a help on venis app, 304 00:11:43,481 --> 00:11:46,401 Speaker 2: and she told her story of her upbringing and she 305 00:11:46,441 --> 00:11:49,801 Speaker 2: has really bad psoriasis, and she's gone through depression and 306 00:11:49,921 --> 00:11:52,641 Speaker 2: the online world, and I think maybe I find relatability 307 00:11:52,641 --> 00:11:54,721 Speaker 2: in her story as well, going through a lot of 308 00:11:54,761 --> 00:11:56,961 Speaker 2: grief at the moment, she's lost someone to cancer, and 309 00:11:57,561 --> 00:12:01,001 Speaker 2: she's just very honest and real and humble and just 310 00:12:01,001 --> 00:12:03,001 Speaker 2: seems like a really beautiful person. I think she'd be 311 00:12:03,001 --> 00:12:04,481 Speaker 2: a really nice vibe to be around. 312 00:12:04,601 --> 00:12:08,081 Speaker 1: What would you do if social media died tomorrow gone? 313 00:12:08,161 --> 00:12:10,161 Speaker 2: Well, when we went to eat and retreat, I really 314 00:12:10,161 --> 00:12:12,521 Speaker 2: loved not having my phone. I think I would really 315 00:12:12,561 --> 00:12:15,241 Speaker 2: enjoy your life without my phone. I love it and 316 00:12:15,281 --> 00:12:17,121 Speaker 2: I'm a digital to it, and it gives me all 317 00:12:17,121 --> 00:12:21,001 Speaker 2: these opportunities and it's fun. We do content every single day. 318 00:12:21,001 --> 00:12:23,841 Speaker 2: But I also loved how peaceful I felt not having 319 00:12:23,881 --> 00:12:27,921 Speaker 2: a phone, so I'd kind of accept it. But work wise, 320 00:12:27,961 --> 00:12:29,761 Speaker 2: I mean, I hope we could still do the podcast 321 00:12:29,881 --> 00:12:32,241 Speaker 2: and retreats. But does something. Podcasts are not a thing. 322 00:12:32,561 --> 00:12:34,601 Speaker 1: Podcasts are still a thing that you can't promote it 323 00:12:34,641 --> 00:12:36,561 Speaker 1: on social media. There's no socials. 324 00:12:36,801 --> 00:12:39,241 Speaker 2: Okay, hopefully we've built our podcasts up enough to continue 325 00:12:39,281 --> 00:12:43,041 Speaker 2: to go, keep going and your in person stuff. But yeah, retreats, workshops, 326 00:12:43,281 --> 00:12:45,961 Speaker 2: in person events. Hopefully we can still sell tickets without 327 00:12:46,121 --> 00:12:49,041 Speaker 2: social media. I've always wanted to be a dog washer. 328 00:12:49,041 --> 00:12:51,041 Speaker 2: I don't think I'll do that anymore, though, that was 329 00:12:51,041 --> 00:12:53,361 Speaker 2: always to dream of mine. But even when I walk 330 00:12:53,361 --> 00:12:55,321 Speaker 2: into a health food store, I could so see myself 331 00:12:55,361 --> 00:12:58,001 Speaker 2: working in health food store. Love that I love health 332 00:12:58,001 --> 00:13:00,321 Speaker 2: food stores. I don't know, maybe if I ever had 333 00:13:00,361 --> 00:13:02,561 Speaker 2: to get like a normal job again quite unquote normal job. 334 00:13:02,601 --> 00:13:05,441 Speaker 2: That's probably where I would go interesting about you differ 335 00:13:05,561 --> 00:13:06,481 Speaker 2: through a normal. 336 00:13:06,841 --> 00:13:09,881 Speaker 3: I think initially, like if social media were to die tomorrow, 337 00:13:10,001 --> 00:13:13,441 Speaker 3: I would probably feel a lot of withdrawal at first, 338 00:13:13,761 --> 00:13:15,881 Speaker 3: Like I think I would be pretty devastated and gutted 339 00:13:15,881 --> 00:13:18,641 Speaker 3: because in the opportunity that social media does present, and 340 00:13:18,721 --> 00:13:21,681 Speaker 3: also that feeling of feeling connected to everyone. I remember 341 00:13:21,681 --> 00:13:24,681 Speaker 3: when I did a social media detox like six weeks, 342 00:13:25,001 --> 00:13:27,601 Speaker 3: and I remember initially feeling, holy shit, I'm actually not 343 00:13:27,641 --> 00:13:29,601 Speaker 3: as connected to people that as I thought I was, 344 00:13:29,641 --> 00:13:32,361 Speaker 3: because I'm plugging into everyone's lives, watching what they're doing, 345 00:13:32,681 --> 00:13:34,721 Speaker 3: but I'm not actually calling them, I'm not going and 346 00:13:34,761 --> 00:13:37,641 Speaker 3: seeing them. And I think initially I would feel that 347 00:13:37,721 --> 00:13:39,841 Speaker 3: disappointment and that feeling of like, oh. 348 00:13:40,001 --> 00:13:40,721 Speaker 2: Like whatever. 349 00:13:40,921 --> 00:13:43,081 Speaker 3: But I think with time I would adjust back to 350 00:13:43,121 --> 00:13:45,361 Speaker 3: normal life as well, you know, and I think I 351 00:13:45,361 --> 00:13:47,281 Speaker 3: would love it. It would be peaceful, Like what you said, 352 00:13:47,681 --> 00:13:50,721 Speaker 3: you'd be so present in your everyday life and it 353 00:13:50,761 --> 00:13:51,601 Speaker 3: would just be normal. 354 00:13:51,721 --> 00:13:54,081 Speaker 2: But what job would you do? Real estate agent? 355 00:13:54,321 --> 00:13:54,521 Speaker 3: Oh? 356 00:13:54,601 --> 00:13:56,281 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, that you're doing that. Yeah. 357 00:13:56,361 --> 00:13:58,041 Speaker 3: I even started that like a couple of years back 358 00:13:58,081 --> 00:14:00,241 Speaker 3: I started to go through that process just because I've 359 00:14:00,241 --> 00:14:02,841 Speaker 3: been in building in construction for my whole life. 360 00:14:02,881 --> 00:14:03,321 Speaker 2: That's cool. 361 00:14:03,361 --> 00:14:05,681 Speaker 3: So it's really like an avenue that I feel confident 362 00:14:05,721 --> 00:14:07,881 Speaker 3: and competent in and I think I could really. 363 00:14:07,641 --> 00:14:09,041 Speaker 2: Expand and that I think i'd have fun. 364 00:14:09,281 --> 00:14:11,761 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'd loving that, being able to communicate with new people, 365 00:14:11,841 --> 00:14:16,121 Speaker 3: make connections, you love all relationships, get to see beautiful houses. 366 00:14:16,161 --> 00:14:18,921 Speaker 3: I love interior design and all that sort of stuff. 367 00:14:18,961 --> 00:14:20,641 Speaker 2: So I feel like i'd really have fun with that. 368 00:14:20,721 --> 00:14:21,241 Speaker 2: That's cool. 369 00:14:21,321 --> 00:14:23,361 Speaker 1: Yeah, what about how it would make you feel in 370 00:14:23,441 --> 00:14:24,881 Speaker 1: terms of losing your audience. 371 00:14:25,281 --> 00:14:27,481 Speaker 2: I mean, it's really nice to get all those messages, 372 00:14:27,521 --> 00:14:29,361 Speaker 2: but I also don't rely on it for a source 373 00:14:29,401 --> 00:14:32,601 Speaker 2: of validation, So I think i'd be okay. It is 374 00:14:32,681 --> 00:14:34,201 Speaker 2: really nice and it's a nice stroke to my eg 375 00:14:34,241 --> 00:14:36,241 Speaker 2: and it's good to hear feedback of what I do 376 00:14:36,281 --> 00:14:38,921 Speaker 2: and what I say and how that impacts them. But yeah, 377 00:14:38,961 --> 00:14:40,801 Speaker 2: I feel like I don't rely on that, so I 378 00:14:40,841 --> 00:14:43,081 Speaker 2: think i'd be okay. But I would miss the connection. 379 00:14:43,161 --> 00:14:45,841 Speaker 2: I miss the variety, the miss the fun. Social media 380 00:14:45,921 --> 00:14:48,041 Speaker 2: is quite fun for me, apart from the hate, it's 381 00:14:48,121 --> 00:14:51,041 Speaker 2: quite fun. So I think i'd miss that aspect, especially TikTok. 382 00:14:51,081 --> 00:14:53,161 Speaker 2: It's just so fun. Yeah, it is fun. Yeah. 383 00:14:53,201 --> 00:14:56,401 Speaker 1: What is one thing that people don't know about you? 384 00:14:56,801 --> 00:14:59,121 Speaker 1: It would have been and you've talked about it, so 385 00:14:59,201 --> 00:15:01,961 Speaker 1: people do know now, but Tiana being a trady. 386 00:15:01,921 --> 00:15:04,641 Speaker 3: Yeap, one hundred percent. Yeah, people not knowing that. I 387 00:15:04,641 --> 00:15:07,241 Speaker 3: don't talk about it that often at all really on 388 00:15:07,241 --> 00:15:10,121 Speaker 3: social media. I have little bits and bobs, but not really. 389 00:15:10,161 --> 00:15:12,241 Speaker 3: It just feels like such like a past life now. 390 00:15:12,561 --> 00:15:14,801 Speaker 3: But literally worked on site for like five years, got 391 00:15:14,841 --> 00:15:17,681 Speaker 3: my carpentry my trade when I was by the time 392 00:15:17,721 --> 00:15:19,721 Speaker 3: I was fully qualified by the time I was nineteen, 393 00:15:20,041 --> 00:15:23,241 Speaker 3: I started in school surrounded by a job site full 394 00:15:23,281 --> 00:15:25,601 Speaker 3: of all men, just me and my sister and all men. 395 00:15:25,721 --> 00:15:27,721 Speaker 3: It was Yeah, it was a whole experience. Taught me 396 00:15:27,761 --> 00:15:32,001 Speaker 3: a lot about life, that's for sure. And like hard work, dedication, discipline. 397 00:15:33,481 --> 00:15:36,961 Speaker 1: Do you still do the odd carpentry job for people? 398 00:15:37,081 --> 00:15:38,001 Speaker 2: Absolutely not. 399 00:15:38,361 --> 00:15:40,001 Speaker 3: I remember saying to my last part like, don't ask 400 00:15:40,001 --> 00:15:42,121 Speaker 3: me to hang a painting, like I'm not gonna fucking. 401 00:15:41,961 --> 00:15:46,001 Speaker 2: Do it, Like I just it's so done. Yeah, it's 402 00:15:46,001 --> 00:15:46,441 Speaker 2: so done. 403 00:15:46,441 --> 00:15:48,881 Speaker 3: It doesn't even feel like a part of who I 404 00:15:48,921 --> 00:15:50,961 Speaker 3: am anymore. You know, I feel like before I used 405 00:15:50,961 --> 00:15:52,801 Speaker 3: to really use it as a way to like get 406 00:15:52,801 --> 00:15:54,281 Speaker 3: a bit of an ego hit because I got to 407 00:15:54,361 --> 00:15:56,601 Speaker 3: prove my worth and like what I was capable of 408 00:15:56,681 --> 00:15:58,801 Speaker 3: through that job, and a lot of that was like 409 00:15:58,841 --> 00:16:00,961 Speaker 3: wanting to prove even to my dad that I was capable. 410 00:16:01,001 --> 00:16:03,401 Speaker 3: You know, he had like he's got four girls, right, 411 00:16:03,681 --> 00:16:06,001 Speaker 3: and like who's gonna take over the famly business. His 412 00:16:06,121 --> 00:16:08,841 Speaker 3: son was like the last child, so he was always younger, 413 00:16:09,161 --> 00:16:11,521 Speaker 3: so you're like, oh, we'll take on the family business, 414 00:16:11,561 --> 00:16:13,441 Speaker 3: like even though we're girls. And it was like this 415 00:16:13,761 --> 00:16:16,161 Speaker 3: proving energy. But I did get a lot out of it, 416 00:16:16,201 --> 00:16:17,041 Speaker 3: so I'm grateful for it. 417 00:16:18,121 --> 00:16:21,001 Speaker 2: Probably something I haven't really spoken about up until recently 418 00:16:21,041 --> 00:16:23,201 Speaker 2: and then I'm actually like why the fuck do I care? 419 00:16:23,641 --> 00:16:25,441 Speaker 2: Is when I broke up with my first boyfriends, I 420 00:16:25,561 --> 00:16:29,241 Speaker 2: must have been eighteen. I worked behind bars in wa 421 00:16:29,561 --> 00:16:31,481 Speaker 2: and what they call a skimpy bar maids, so you 422 00:16:31,561 --> 00:16:33,241 Speaker 2: just wear like a skimpy outfit and they give you 423 00:16:33,281 --> 00:16:36,681 Speaker 2: tips and you make bank working by a bar, and 424 00:16:36,721 --> 00:16:38,641 Speaker 2: I used to carry shame for it. Then. Honestly, the 425 00:16:38,681 --> 00:16:40,761 Speaker 2: girls at Sin City in Bedroom, which is two of 426 00:16:40,761 --> 00:16:42,521 Speaker 2: the big nightclubs on the Gold Coast. Were you wore 427 00:16:42,561 --> 00:16:44,361 Speaker 2: more clothes than the girls than the Gold Coroast? Do? Yeah, 428 00:16:44,361 --> 00:16:47,281 Speaker 2: Like they were literally in bras and undersin bedroom, Yeah, 429 00:16:47,361 --> 00:16:49,961 Speaker 2: bedroom nightclub. But yeah, Me and a bunch of girlfriends 430 00:16:49,961 --> 00:16:51,841 Speaker 2: went over there and it was just staying on the 431 00:16:51,841 --> 00:16:53,641 Speaker 2: Gold Coast. I kept going back to my ex, even 432 00:16:53,641 --> 00:16:54,881 Speaker 2: though I knew I didn't want to be with him. 433 00:16:54,921 --> 00:16:57,081 Speaker 2: It was just company and I just could watch his 434 00:16:57,121 --> 00:16:59,401 Speaker 2: heartbreak every time I would go in and come out 435 00:16:59,401 --> 00:17:01,601 Speaker 2: and go in and come out. So I just packed 436 00:17:01,641 --> 00:17:03,321 Speaker 2: up and moved over there with a bunch of girlfriends, 437 00:17:03,321 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 2: and I had a lot of guy friends over there 438 00:17:04,681 --> 00:17:07,241 Speaker 2: that worked the minds and I spent about six months 439 00:17:07,281 --> 00:17:11,081 Speaker 2: working over there, making an absolute killing, and then met 440 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:13,321 Speaker 2: Steve online and came back to meet him and met 441 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 2: him and never went back. So yeah, it was a 442 00:17:15,801 --> 00:17:17,640 Speaker 2: crazy time in my life. It was really fun and 443 00:17:17,681 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 2: it was fun just to it didn't work that many hours. 444 00:17:20,001 --> 00:17:21,721 Speaker 2: You'd work like twenty hours a week and make ten 445 00:17:21,761 --> 00:17:22,321 Speaker 2: twenty grand. 446 00:17:22,441 --> 00:17:22,681 Speaker 1: Yeah. 447 00:17:22,721 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 2: They just men over there just tipped like crazy. I 448 00:17:24,961 --> 00:17:27,721 Speaker 2: was never a topless waiter yeah, or topless bar girl. 449 00:17:27,721 --> 00:17:29,681 Speaker 2: There was the pub that I worked out, and then 450 00:17:29,761 --> 00:17:31,561 Speaker 2: there was one next to it with their topless girls 451 00:17:31,561 --> 00:17:33,321 Speaker 2: were I never did that. I just didn't have the 452 00:17:33,360 --> 00:17:35,680 Speaker 2: confidence too. But yeah, it was fun. It was a 453 00:17:35,681 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 2: cool time in my life. Fun different be out at 454 00:17:38,201 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 2: home and make bank. Yeah, and a lots of holidays. 455 00:17:41,801 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 2: Took my friends on holidays, paid off some bills. I 456 00:17:44,120 --> 00:17:45,801 Speaker 2: think because I never took my top off and I 457 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 2: was never a flirty bar made I was more the 458 00:17:47,921 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 2: guy's mates. I got tipped a lot better than a 459 00:17:51,201 --> 00:17:53,120 Speaker 2: lot of the other girls because I was quite friends 460 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:55,880 Speaker 2: with them. And I also felt really protected, Like I 461 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:57,880 Speaker 2: think it's quite a dangerous job for girls, like if 462 00:17:57,880 --> 00:17:59,801 Speaker 2: you don't have people there, whereas I had a lot 463 00:17:59,801 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 2: of guy friends there that were protecting me. So I 464 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:03,481 Speaker 2: would get dropped off and picked up every shift, whereas 465 00:18:03,521 --> 00:18:05,721 Speaker 2: a lot of girls would stay up in the bar 466 00:18:05,921 --> 00:18:08,281 Speaker 2: or like walk home. And there was some stuff that 467 00:18:08,321 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 2: happened to a lot of women, but I always felt 468 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:12,880 Speaker 2: I was just friends with everyone. Yeah, it was cool. 469 00:18:13,120 --> 00:18:14,801 Speaker 2: So I haven't really ever spoken about that because it 470 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:16,880 Speaker 2: was embarrassed now and every now and again because you 471 00:18:16,921 --> 00:18:18,440 Speaker 2: have to have a different name, so my name was 472 00:18:18,481 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 2: Pam over there PAMs. Every now and again, I'll do 473 00:18:21,201 --> 00:18:23,041 Speaker 2: a Q and A and someone will write how you 474 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:24,161 Speaker 2: go on PAM and I'm. 475 00:18:23,961 --> 00:18:28,041 Speaker 1: Like, oh doug it, Oh my god, I come hide 476 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:29,721 Speaker 1: from that tole. 477 00:18:30,041 --> 00:18:31,561 Speaker 2: Yeah, but now I'm like, oh, why do I care 478 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:35,001 Speaker 2: so much? It was actually like, yeah, sixteen years old 479 00:18:35,721 --> 00:18:36,801 Speaker 2: and it's just a little chapter. 480 00:18:37,001 --> 00:18:40,001 Speaker 1: So what's the most you've ever been paid for a 481 00:18:40,041 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 1: social media post? 482 00:18:41,761 --> 00:18:45,001 Speaker 2: One singular post is fifteen thousand dollars? Most have been paid. 483 00:18:45,321 --> 00:18:48,360 Speaker 2: My average was like ten thousand consistently, and then it 484 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,921 Speaker 2: depends if you go now it's like real story set 485 00:18:51,241 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 2: stories are now. One set can be three frames, another 486 00:18:54,120 --> 00:18:57,041 Speaker 2: set can be five frames. TikTok. I don't really get 487 00:18:57,041 --> 00:18:59,001 Speaker 2: paid on tikto. I don't get any jobs book for TikTok, 488 00:18:59,441 --> 00:19:03,641 Speaker 2: but Instagram and Snapchat. Yeah, my biggest was fifteen thousand dollars. Wow, Yeah, 489 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 2: that's cool. 490 00:19:04,360 --> 00:19:07,801 Speaker 1: Would you rather be rich and ugly or poor and hot? 491 00:19:09,001 --> 00:19:11,921 Speaker 3: Wait, richard reach and ugly or poor and hot rich 492 00:19:12,001 --> 00:19:16,161 Speaker 3: and ugly because and ugly don't get worked Onne, I'll 493 00:19:16,201 --> 00:19:17,961 Speaker 3: go visit botox stuff. 494 00:19:18,521 --> 00:19:19,281 Speaker 1: That's so good. 495 00:19:19,801 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, rich and ugly for sure. Yeah, I feel like 496 00:19:22,201 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 2: you just had a funn of life. If you had 497 00:19:23,441 --> 00:19:25,801 Speaker 2: more money, you're poor. You can't do anything. You're hotter 498 00:19:25,801 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 2: when you got kidding? 499 00:19:27,921 --> 00:19:30,201 Speaker 3: Well, you know, I mean, have you seen Jeff bezos 500 00:19:30,281 --> 00:19:33,160 Speaker 3: is with that younger girl? Now he's what's the name 501 00:19:33,241 --> 00:19:35,880 Speaker 3: she just went to space Lauren Sanchez or something like that. 502 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 2: I only just saw it on Instagram other day. 503 00:19:37,681 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 3: But he was previously with his other wife that he'd 504 00:19:39,721 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 3: been with for forever and then they had a divorce. 505 00:19:42,481 --> 00:19:44,360 Speaker 3: How to split and now he's with like some young woman. 506 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know. 507 00:19:44,961 --> 00:19:49,561 Speaker 2: I mean so, I'm like, that's so funny. 508 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 1: Who's the most famous person you have in your phone? 509 00:19:52,120 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 2: Ashy? I think I have anyone famous in my phone? 510 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,721 Speaker 2: He's not that roll. But Brian Reeves, who went viral 511 00:19:59,801 --> 00:20:01,961 Speaker 2: on social media for a while. He was my relationship coach. 512 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:05,361 Speaker 2: Otherwise not I think. So I've known so one that's 513 00:20:05,360 --> 00:20:11,441 Speaker 2: had sex with Channing Tatum. Cool. Katie loves it. She's 514 00:20:11,721 --> 00:20:13,440 Speaker 2: and nodding and I loved her and she told me. 515 00:20:13,441 --> 00:20:17,561 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, yeah, did she see him again? 516 00:20:17,801 --> 00:20:19,401 Speaker 2: Yeap, multiple times? 517 00:20:19,761 --> 00:20:20,601 Speaker 1: And then what happened? 518 00:20:20,921 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 2: It just went off and did his career in life? 519 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:25,201 Speaker 1: Was it before he was famous? 520 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 3: No? 521 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:30,281 Speaker 2: More recent after his divorce with Jenna that's all my questions. 522 00:20:31,681 --> 00:20:34,041 Speaker 2: They are good questions. We will see Katie another couple 523 00:20:34,041 --> 00:20:35,761 Speaker 2: of months for another one where she can take the 524 00:20:35,801 --> 00:20:39,161 Speaker 2: time to prehap some questions. Again, thanks for joining us, 525 00:20:39,281 --> 00:20:42,561 Speaker 2: Thank you, Thanks Katie, see you guys on Friday. Bye.