1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apod Shape Production. 2 00:00:22,641 --> 00:00:25,401 Speaker 2: Welcome back to another episode of Am I A Bad 3 00:00:25,681 --> 00:00:31,281 Speaker 2: Mum Podcast. I'm actually getting quite excited to head towards 4 00:00:31,321 --> 00:00:32,081 Speaker 2: the end of the year. 5 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:34,561 Speaker 1: Like I feel like I need a bit of a break. Yeah, 6 00:00:34,721 --> 00:00:35,241 Speaker 1: I don't know that. 7 00:00:35,481 --> 00:00:37,601 Speaker 2: You know, kids, you don't really get a break, Like 8 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:40,001 Speaker 2: sometimes it's even harder when they're not at school. 9 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:41,841 Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know. 10 00:00:41,881 --> 00:00:45,441 Speaker 3: I think the break is more the break in routine. Yeah, 11 00:00:45,480 --> 00:00:48,480 Speaker 3: the break in having to rush to school, having to 12 00:00:49,281 --> 00:00:52,801 Speaker 3: fill the lunchboxes, having to like remind them that they've 13 00:00:52,801 --> 00:00:57,081 Speaker 3: got swimming lessons. Yeah, like I'm not doing the swimming. 14 00:00:57,281 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 3: That has to come a point where you remember to 15 00:00:59,641 --> 00:01:03,161 Speaker 3: take your swimming stuff. Why doesn't your brain say, oh, 16 00:01:03,161 --> 00:01:05,881 Speaker 3: it's Wednesday. I have swimming this all. 17 00:01:05,721 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 2: The time, And even with teenagers, wage it doesn't change. 18 00:01:08,241 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 2: It's like, why do I have to be your pa 19 00:01:10,881 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 2: and my own? 20 00:01:11,961 --> 00:01:15,641 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't get it. I'm trying to like encourage 21 00:01:15,721 --> 00:01:19,681 Speaker 3: Gracie to, like, especially for this last term, to try 22 00:01:19,721 --> 00:01:23,401 Speaker 3: and take everything on herself. You know, like you're going 23 00:01:23,441 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 3: into high school next year. You have to somewhat find 24 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 3: maybe like a diary or like a Monday to Friday. 25 00:01:31,041 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 3: What have I got on this week because I'm sure 26 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:38,041 Speaker 3: that the same emails are not as entailed of their movements. 27 00:01:38,121 --> 00:01:39,961 Speaker 3: Do I still get emails in a high school that 28 00:01:40,041 --> 00:01:42,601 Speaker 3: tell me when their assessment is due and stuff like that. 29 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,161 Speaker 1: Oh, not their assessments. I'm worried about that. 30 00:01:45,241 --> 00:01:46,761 Speaker 3: I'm you're worried about that stuff. 31 00:01:46,881 --> 00:01:50,001 Speaker 2: Yeah, But what you'll find is that they'll drum it 32 00:01:50,081 --> 00:01:53,001 Speaker 2: into them pretty soon. You know, you need to be organized, 33 00:01:53,041 --> 00:01:55,601 Speaker 2: and they might give them a planner or something like that, 34 00:01:55,641 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 2: but they'll have to work it out, and they'll also 35 00:01:57,321 --> 00:02:00,081 Speaker 2: remind them in class. But what they'll also say is, 36 00:02:00,561 --> 00:02:02,441 Speaker 2: you know, this is what we expect of you now. 37 00:02:02,721 --> 00:02:03,201 Speaker 3: Yeah. 38 00:02:03,241 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 2: And what you'll find is she'll do it because it's 39 00:02:07,201 --> 00:02:08,081 Speaker 2: someone else telling her. 40 00:02:08,081 --> 00:02:08,641 Speaker 1: It's not you. 41 00:02:08,841 --> 00:02:10,881 Speaker 2: If it was you telling her, she'd be like, fuck 42 00:02:10,881 --> 00:02:13,521 Speaker 2: what mom say? She's still going to be across it 43 00:02:13,561 --> 00:02:16,001 Speaker 2: all if you make it obvious, like I'm not gonna 44 00:02:16,001 --> 00:02:17,841 Speaker 2: know about this stuff, you just have to wake it up. 45 00:02:17,921 --> 00:02:19,441 Speaker 3: That's what I was worried about. I was like, how 46 00:02:19,481 --> 00:02:21,841 Speaker 3: did you forget it was Wednesday? I know it's Wednesday 47 00:02:21,841 --> 00:02:23,281 Speaker 3: because I got to get up and go to work. 48 00:02:24,161 --> 00:02:26,881 Speaker 3: You got up and when it's Wednesday. Oh, it doesn't 49 00:02:26,881 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 3: matter about swimming, just pack your bag. Pack your bag 50 00:02:30,001 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 3: that she goes. Why can't you have reminded me the 51 00:02:31,761 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 3: night before. 52 00:02:33,401 --> 00:02:35,721 Speaker 1: Because you're the PA, you're the diary. 53 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 3: Oh yes, I had nothing even to come back with 54 00:02:39,561 --> 00:02:42,561 Speaker 3: on that note. I was just like, and then, you know, 55 00:02:42,601 --> 00:02:44,761 Speaker 3: you beat yourself up, as you do being a mom. 56 00:02:45,081 --> 00:02:46,761 Speaker 3: You go, maybe I should have just packed her bag 57 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 3: the night before. Would have been so much easier. She 58 00:02:48,601 --> 00:02:50,441 Speaker 3: wouldn't have had all of that mess around, she wouldn't 59 00:02:50,441 --> 00:02:51,241 Speaker 3: have had to come home. 60 00:02:51,441 --> 00:02:54,161 Speaker 2: And the problem is is that, yes, it is easier 61 00:02:54,161 --> 00:02:55,961 Speaker 2: for you to just do that or remind her or 62 00:02:56,001 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 2: pack the bag or whatever, like it's that's super easy. 63 00:02:58,561 --> 00:02:59,761 Speaker 1: That takes you like two seconds. 64 00:02:59,921 --> 00:03:05,241 Speaker 2: Yeah, However, all you're doing is extending they're not needed 65 00:03:05,361 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 2: to know anything about what today is gonna entail. 66 00:03:08,921 --> 00:03:11,281 Speaker 3: Just to top that off, just to make it so 67 00:03:11,361 --> 00:03:13,601 Speaker 3: that I'm not the only one that's in it. One 68 00:03:13,601 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 3: of the mom's got to fit stop the other morning. 69 00:03:16,921 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 3: It's a seven o'clock class, so most of them bring 70 00:03:19,721 --> 00:03:23,281 Speaker 3: the kids. They sit like in the krash area. By 71 00:03:23,321 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 3: the time we're finishing, they just walk to school. Anyway, 72 00:03:27,161 --> 00:03:29,961 Speaker 3: She rocks up and she's in a mood right, And 73 00:03:30,001 --> 00:03:34,081 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, everything okay, And she's like, how 74 00:03:34,281 --> 00:03:37,201 Speaker 3: do you walk out of the house with your shoes on? 75 00:03:37,441 --> 00:03:40,681 Speaker 3: So one of her boys have walked out of the house, 76 00:03:41,161 --> 00:03:44,441 Speaker 3: She's drove fifteen twenty minutes to cod to fit Stop 77 00:03:44,521 --> 00:03:47,201 Speaker 3: to then have to leave Stop after the class to 78 00:03:47,321 --> 00:03:49,281 Speaker 3: drive all the way home to drive them all the 79 00:03:49,321 --> 00:03:51,561 Speaker 3: way back to school. Because he just goes, I don't know, 80 00:03:51,641 --> 00:03:54,841 Speaker 3: I just forgot. Yeah, but you've got socks on your feet. 81 00:03:54,881 --> 00:03:57,481 Speaker 3: How did you forget the shoes? And he genuinely stood 82 00:03:57,481 --> 00:03:59,001 Speaker 3: there in front of all of us and was like, 83 00:03:59,041 --> 00:04:00,121 Speaker 3: I don't know, I just forgot. 84 00:04:01,721 --> 00:04:01,921 Speaker 1: Oh. 85 00:04:02,081 --> 00:04:04,481 Speaker 3: It's like it's mind blowing, mind blowing. 86 00:04:04,521 --> 00:04:07,361 Speaker 1: That is like have you ever forgotten to put your 87 00:04:07,361 --> 00:04:08,161 Speaker 1: shoes on? When you know? 88 00:04:08,561 --> 00:04:10,241 Speaker 3: I looked at him, I said, but how come all 89 00:04:10,281 --> 00:04:12,001 Speaker 3: of us can come to the gym and know that 90 00:04:12,041 --> 00:04:13,361 Speaker 3: we have to put our shoes on to come to 91 00:04:13,441 --> 00:04:15,601 Speaker 3: the gym. It's as simple as that. And he just 92 00:04:15,681 --> 00:04:17,681 Speaker 3: looked at me. It was just like shrugging. And mind you, 93 00:04:17,761 --> 00:04:19,521 Speaker 3: he's the same age as else, so he's. 94 00:04:19,361 --> 00:04:22,601 Speaker 2: Just like doesn't care, be quite right, big fuss. Shoes 95 00:04:22,601 --> 00:04:23,401 Speaker 2: are overrated? 96 00:04:23,961 --> 00:04:26,321 Speaker 3: When he was leaving, I was like, enjoyed the day 97 00:04:26,361 --> 00:04:38,401 Speaker 3: at school with those shoes on. Am I a bad 98 00:04:38,481 --> 00:04:40,841 Speaker 3: mum for not having a comeback? 99 00:04:41,921 --> 00:04:43,321 Speaker 1: Or you didn't think of one quick enough? 100 00:04:43,361 --> 00:04:46,521 Speaker 3: No, No, I didn't know. So this moment, maybe I'd 101 00:04:46,601 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 3: had a really long day, but I was like kind 102 00:04:48,401 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 3: of just feeling like dumbed down a bit and was 103 00:04:51,001 --> 00:04:54,281 Speaker 3: just like I can't even fight, just can't even fight, 104 00:04:54,361 --> 00:04:56,481 Speaker 3: couldn't even come up with a comeback. It had like 105 00:04:56,641 --> 00:05:00,921 Speaker 3: moments of flashback to my own school days where we 106 00:05:01,001 --> 00:05:03,001 Speaker 3: used to do it all the time as kids, but 107 00:05:03,121 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 3: here I am as an adult saying don't do that 108 00:05:05,361 --> 00:05:08,121 Speaker 3: because it'll sink into your skin. So one of them 109 00:05:08,161 --> 00:05:12,681 Speaker 3: comes home and she has a big imprint of pen 110 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:14,961 Speaker 3: all over her leg, and then I look at one 111 00:05:14,961 --> 00:05:17,281 Speaker 3: of the hands and there's heaps of ink all over 112 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:21,441 Speaker 3: her hand, but like proper drawn, like she sat there 113 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:25,321 Speaker 3: obviously really bored as shit doing something at school, maybe learning, 114 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 3: drawn all over her leg, drawn all over her hand. 115 00:05:29,001 --> 00:05:31,921 Speaker 3: And then I said, baby, you can't do that. You 116 00:05:31,961 --> 00:05:34,201 Speaker 3: can't draw on your stuff like that. Ink is really 117 00:05:34,201 --> 00:05:36,601 Speaker 3: bad for you to sink into your skin. It's like poison. 118 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:38,361 Speaker 3: I don't know if that's true, but that's what my 119 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:42,321 Speaker 3: mom anyway. So then here I am, like years later 120 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,561 Speaker 3: saying this to my own child, and I was just like, 121 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 3: look how much ink you've got. You've got it on 122 00:05:46,561 --> 00:05:47,841 Speaker 3: your leg, your arm, you do. 123 00:05:47,801 --> 00:05:49,521 Speaker 1: Just see me with drawing all over me. 124 00:05:51,401 --> 00:05:53,241 Speaker 3: I just said, you can't anyway. I went down the line. 125 00:05:53,281 --> 00:05:56,161 Speaker 3: If you can't, it's poisonous, it's bad for you, it's 126 00:05:56,161 --> 00:05:58,681 Speaker 3: bad for your skin. She goes, well, you can't talk. 127 00:05:58,721 --> 00:06:02,681 Speaker 3: She goes, you've got tattoos. Oh yeah, I said, excuse me. 128 00:06:02,841 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 3: She goes, that's ink. 129 00:06:04,481 --> 00:06:07,361 Speaker 1: If it's not pen ink, I don't even know what 130 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:08,401 Speaker 1: that's made of, what chat. 131 00:06:08,481 --> 00:06:11,041 Speaker 3: Is made of that? So I just sat there, Well, 132 00:06:11,081 --> 00:06:13,921 Speaker 3: I don't know the answer mind you like, I've only 133 00:06:13,961 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 3: got the very fine line and you like they're not sleeves, 134 00:06:17,201 --> 00:06:18,361 Speaker 3: like everything can be hidden. 135 00:06:18,561 --> 00:06:23,041 Speaker 2: But the ink is injected under your skin, whereas she's 136 00:06:23,121 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 2: only drawing over it. So I mean, the argument would 137 00:06:25,681 --> 00:06:27,161 Speaker 2: be that hers is better for her. 138 00:06:28,201 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 3: So there I find myself in this situation not having 139 00:06:32,081 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 3: it come back. Also, as I'm standing there talking to her, 140 00:06:35,801 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 3: just kind of like almost trying to fight my point 141 00:06:39,041 --> 00:06:41,681 Speaker 3: of the story, but not really having any backing. I'm like, 142 00:06:41,761 --> 00:06:44,361 Speaker 3: find myself, start to like turn my arm so that 143 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,641 Speaker 3: you can't see anything. It was like, that is so 144 00:06:46,761 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 3: disrespectful of you. I have an adult like obviously, which 145 00:06:50,281 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 3: kid was it? 146 00:06:51,401 --> 00:06:51,841 Speaker 1: Elsie? 147 00:06:51,921 --> 00:06:54,961 Speaker 3: Yeah, of course. And she's standing there and she's like, yeah, 148 00:06:55,001 --> 00:06:56,841 Speaker 3: well you can't talk. You've got them all over you, 149 00:06:57,241 --> 00:06:59,481 Speaker 3: all over me. I was like, I don't have them 150 00:06:59,481 --> 00:07:00,961 Speaker 3: all over me. And I said, do you see me. 151 00:07:01,041 --> 00:07:03,321 Speaker 1: Drawing all over my haven't you? 152 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 3: No, I've got like onto but they're tiny, tiny, They're 153 00:07:06,921 --> 00:07:10,801 Speaker 3: all fine line sort of tiny. Anyway, the whole point 154 00:07:10,801 --> 00:07:13,001 Speaker 3: of this is is that when you get bailed by 155 00:07:13,201 --> 00:07:18,121 Speaker 3: your child that you have no comeback. It feels so awkward, 156 00:07:18,961 --> 00:07:19,641 Speaker 3: so awkward. 157 00:07:19,721 --> 00:07:23,081 Speaker 2: Also, let's just have a like little think for a 158 00:07:23,121 --> 00:07:25,921 Speaker 2: moment of the stuff that kids do that makes no sense. 159 00:07:26,041 --> 00:07:29,881 Speaker 2: You've sat there and you've drawn all over your leg. 160 00:07:30,281 --> 00:07:33,401 Speaker 2: I remember having a conversation and this is one of 161 00:07:33,401 --> 00:07:35,041 Speaker 2: those things that you think you're never going to say 162 00:07:35,041 --> 00:07:38,001 Speaker 2: as a human being. I remember saying to my girls, 163 00:07:38,041 --> 00:07:41,521 Speaker 2: and they must have been about two or three maybe, 164 00:07:41,961 --> 00:07:46,201 Speaker 2: and I was like, gosh, stop drawing on your sandwiches. 165 00:07:46,841 --> 00:07:51,081 Speaker 2: I never thought I would ever say those words, stop 166 00:07:51,281 --> 00:07:52,961 Speaker 2: drawing on your sandwiches. 167 00:07:53,721 --> 00:07:57,921 Speaker 3: Stop drawing on sandwiches, someone said to me the other day. 168 00:07:58,361 --> 00:08:00,841 Speaker 3: They said like, very similar, but they had to say 169 00:08:01,081 --> 00:08:05,761 Speaker 3: stop drawing with your shit because they've taken nappy off 170 00:08:06,121 --> 00:08:09,041 Speaker 3: and had started drawing with it all over the wall. 171 00:08:09,921 --> 00:08:12,921 Speaker 3: And I was like, I can happily say that I 172 00:08:13,001 --> 00:08:14,481 Speaker 3: never well, I never had. 173 00:08:14,281 --> 00:08:18,281 Speaker 2: That coloring crayons on the walls, which is very frustrating, 174 00:08:18,681 --> 00:08:19,881 Speaker 2: but that's the totally other thing. 175 00:08:20,001 --> 00:08:22,401 Speaker 1: And yeah, you're right, I never had that with my girls. 176 00:08:22,641 --> 00:08:25,921 Speaker 2: I've heard so many stories about babies that get to 177 00:08:25,961 --> 00:08:27,761 Speaker 2: the point where they can take off their nap and 178 00:08:27,801 --> 00:08:29,001 Speaker 2: they're like, oh, yeah. 179 00:08:28,881 --> 00:08:31,041 Speaker 3: Mum told me to go to sleep, and so instead 180 00:08:31,041 --> 00:08:32,921 Speaker 3: I'm going to shit in my nappy and then write 181 00:08:32,961 --> 00:08:35,121 Speaker 3: with it on the wall. And she's got. 182 00:08:34,961 --> 00:08:37,961 Speaker 1: Twins, Oh god, learning from each other. 183 00:08:38,041 --> 00:08:40,241 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I was like, I wouldn't have coaked 184 00:08:40,681 --> 00:08:46,241 Speaker 3: my nephew and my niece both different times where my 185 00:08:46,401 --> 00:08:51,801 Speaker 3: mother Nanadee was babysitting them using my porter cot. They 186 00:08:51,881 --> 00:08:55,281 Speaker 3: both did it at my house in my portercot and 187 00:08:55,361 --> 00:08:57,641 Speaker 3: I looked at Mom and I was like, nah, nanad 188 00:08:57,841 --> 00:08:59,801 Speaker 3: they're on your watch. I ain't helpful with that shit. 189 00:09:00,161 --> 00:09:03,841 Speaker 3: Like literally, I was like, what is with these kids? 190 00:09:04,081 --> 00:09:09,081 Speaker 3: To talk about the grandparent ererupt she was a firecracker 191 00:09:09,121 --> 00:09:13,201 Speaker 3: that day. Happened twice over the time, and then after 192 00:09:13,241 --> 00:09:16,801 Speaker 3: the second time it was that horrific. But I was like, 193 00:09:16,881 --> 00:09:18,921 Speaker 3: just throw the fucking thing out. I don't want the 194 00:09:18,961 --> 00:09:21,281 Speaker 3: porta coop back. I'd rather kids sleep on the floor 195 00:09:21,321 --> 00:09:22,161 Speaker 3: and then keep that. 196 00:09:22,321 --> 00:09:24,921 Speaker 2: Just throw it out, because it doesn't matter how hard 197 00:09:25,041 --> 00:09:28,481 Speaker 2: you clean that, ye know, even when like when you 198 00:09:28,521 --> 00:09:31,241 Speaker 2: do nappies and stuff and you get some on your finger, 199 00:09:31,881 --> 00:09:33,961 Speaker 2: the amount of times you wash your head and the 200 00:09:34,001 --> 00:09:35,801 Speaker 2: smell doesn't come out. 201 00:09:36,441 --> 00:09:40,201 Speaker 3: I genuinely when talking to other people that are going 202 00:09:40,241 --> 00:09:44,801 Speaker 3: through the toddler stages and they're talking about this so passionately, 203 00:09:44,841 --> 00:09:46,521 Speaker 3: and they're just like, I didn't know what to do. 204 00:09:46,601 --> 00:09:48,561 Speaker 3: And you're like, oh man, you're in the trenches, like 205 00:09:48,721 --> 00:09:51,041 Speaker 3: right now, that kind of stuff. Yeah, we've all been 206 00:09:51,081 --> 00:09:54,721 Speaker 3: through it, but that is like trench's material. She's like, 207 00:09:54,801 --> 00:09:56,161 Speaker 3: I didn't know what to do. I said, well, what 208 00:09:56,201 --> 00:09:57,361 Speaker 3: did you do? And she goes, I don't know. I 209 00:09:57,401 --> 00:09:59,641 Speaker 3: just picked the kid up, sort of not wanting to 210 00:09:59,641 --> 00:10:01,801 Speaker 3: touch it, and then sort of dropped it into the 211 00:10:01,841 --> 00:10:04,961 Speaker 3: shower and just thought I'd just hose them off. 212 00:10:05,641 --> 00:10:12,801 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, a hard one. It is, so where 213 00:10:12,841 --> 00:10:14,481 Speaker 2: did you get to with the stop? 214 00:10:14,561 --> 00:10:18,481 Speaker 3: Nothing had legway, then ninety seconds wouldn't have worked. Nothing, 215 00:10:18,521 --> 00:10:21,001 Speaker 3: I had nothing. I was speechless. I was like, look down. 216 00:10:21,081 --> 00:10:23,121 Speaker 3: I sort of covered them back up and was like, 217 00:10:26,081 --> 00:10:28,401 Speaker 3: I've been defeated by my nine year old. And I 218 00:10:28,481 --> 00:10:30,841 Speaker 3: was like, this is bullshit. You're just coloring in on 219 00:10:30,881 --> 00:10:32,681 Speaker 3: your skin in your head. You walk away. You've got 220 00:10:32,721 --> 00:10:37,241 Speaker 3: about fifty comebacks, but at that particular point on that day, 221 00:10:37,321 --> 00:10:37,961 Speaker 3: I had nothing. 222 00:10:38,081 --> 00:10:40,641 Speaker 2: It's not what you need to do in that situation 223 00:10:40,801 --> 00:10:43,441 Speaker 2: is you need to take some time out right down 224 00:10:43,601 --> 00:10:46,401 Speaker 2: those comebacks and then go back to them and go, hey, 225 00:10:46,561 --> 00:10:50,081 Speaker 2: just by the way, that conversation that we had yesterday 226 00:10:50,161 --> 00:10:52,761 Speaker 2: that you don't remember or care about anymore, well, I've 227 00:10:52,761 --> 00:10:55,281 Speaker 2: got this to say now. The reason I've got tattoos 228 00:10:55,321 --> 00:10:57,841 Speaker 2: is because blah blah blah blah blah, your ink is 229 00:10:57,841 --> 00:11:00,401 Speaker 2: so much worse for you. I've done the research, I've 230 00:11:00,401 --> 00:11:01,321 Speaker 2: looked at Google. 231 00:11:02,601 --> 00:11:05,041 Speaker 3: I don't even know if it is or it is it. 232 00:11:05,041 --> 00:11:07,321 Speaker 3: And I was just like, I remember someone saying that 233 00:11:07,361 --> 00:11:09,161 Speaker 3: to me I'll just go with that. You know, like 234 00:11:09,201 --> 00:11:10,481 Speaker 3: someone teld me, don't we in the skin? 235 00:11:10,561 --> 00:11:11,361 Speaker 1: It's really bad for you. 236 00:11:11,401 --> 00:11:13,801 Speaker 3: And it's like poison in your skin. You're not thinking 237 00:11:13,801 --> 00:11:16,281 Speaker 3: about that way laying they're getting your tattoo. What about 238 00:11:16,281 --> 00:11:19,961 Speaker 3: the people that are covered in tattoos, Like literally I 239 00:11:19,961 --> 00:11:22,201 Speaker 3: saw someone the other day literally their whole head had 240 00:11:22,241 --> 00:11:27,281 Speaker 3: been tattooed. Oh, I just oh. And then I'm worried 241 00:11:27,281 --> 00:11:28,801 Speaker 3: about my kid getting a text and. 242 00:11:29,401 --> 00:11:31,241 Speaker 2: Yeah, but then let's have a look at how bad 243 00:11:31,361 --> 00:11:32,881 Speaker 2: hair dye is for us. 244 00:11:34,081 --> 00:11:35,401 Speaker 3: Oh, we don't need to go down much to