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Speaker 1: Apoday production.

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Speaker 2: We begin today by acknowledging the traditional custodians of the

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Speaker 2: land on which we gather today and pay our respects

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Speaker 2: to their elders past and present. We extend that respect

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Speaker 2: to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people's here today.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the Grow and Glow Podcast. I'm Ashy, I'm Kiara.

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Speaker 3: This is a podcast where we learn, laugh, and level

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Speaker 3: up together. Let's go deep, let.

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Speaker 1: The emotions flow, and find the lessons to grow and glow.

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Speaker 1: Nothing is off the table with Grow and Glow, and

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Speaker 1: we're here to be your expander. Welcome back to the show.

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Speaker 3: Guys, Welcome back to Grill and Hello.

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Speaker 1: If you have not yet subscribed or click follow, please do.

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Speaker 1: It really supports our podcast and it means you don't

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Speaker 1: miss any of our future episodes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah we don't want that, no way.

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Speaker 1: Let's get straight into our share of the week.

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Speaker 3: What did you?

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Speaker 1: I know you've got quite a few up.

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Speaker 3: I don't know where to start today.

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Speaker 1: She's like this and this and this.

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Speaker 3: I know, bloody TikTok.

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Speaker 1: It gets me all the time.

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Speaker 3: I think you're going to share my favorite one first,

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Speaker 3: the false Scara, because I've had a few people messaging

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Speaker 3: me asking what have you done with your lashes? What

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Speaker 3: mascara are you wearing? And the reason I really like

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Speaker 3: it is because it looks so natural that you do.

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Speaker 1: Have really good lashes, but these look just even better.

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Speaker 3: And you just don't have to do them, and because

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Speaker 3: mine is so light and I can't have die on

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Speaker 3: my eyelashes. It's just so easy, guys. So they're called

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Speaker 3: false scara. The brand that I use is kiss and

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Speaker 3: you can get it at Priceline. They're basically like little

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Speaker 3: false slashes that you put underneath your eyelash instead of

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Speaker 3: on top. And I was a little bit like, oh,

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Speaker 3: how am I going to go doing this because I'm

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Speaker 3: like ashy were chatting about it, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: I don't wear fake lashes.

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Speaker 1: Can't put them on myself either, No.

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Speaker 3: But it was really nice and easy. It almost magnetized it.

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Speaker 3: So you put the bond down and it just like goes.

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Speaker 3: You look like straight in on it.

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Speaker 1: What if you put it on the wrong spot, you

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Speaker 1: just peel.

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Speaker 3: It off and you gotta seal that you put on

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Speaker 3: afterwards so you can get them in the right place first.

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Speaker 1: Genius.

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Speaker 3: But it's so good. It lasts like seven to ten.

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Speaker 1: Days, and then what happens. They just fall off with you.

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Speaker 3: You've got a remover, so you put the remover stuff

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Speaker 3: on and just peel them off and then you put

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Speaker 3: a new set on. So yeah, you've got to be

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Speaker 3: a little bit careful. Like when I'm in the shower,

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Speaker 1: So natural. Love, Yeah, we love.

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Speaker 3: What's your Share of the Week?

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Speaker 1: Mine is a TV show or Cold Presumed Innocence. The

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Speaker 1: you just want to, like binge watch a ton of them.

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Speaker 1: It's on Apple TV. But it's such a good series.

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Speaker 1: It's a crime one where a lawyer is having an

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Speaker 1: affair and then he gets accused of the woman's murder.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, and just the twists and turns, relationship dynamics.

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Speaker 1: It's really like edge of your seat. Every single epis

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Speaker 1: but highly recommend it. Oh that's good. It's on Apple

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Speaker 1: We just thought we'd do a massive catch up. There's

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Speaker 1: so many like little bits and pieces that we speak

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Speaker 1: about in other episodes, but we thought we'd do one

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Speaker 1: big catch up of everything that's been going on. Everything

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Speaker 1: we're feeling, the big changes that's been happening. You're feeling

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Speaker 1: You have to put yourself out there. I could have

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Speaker 3: You have to be open to like put it out

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Speaker 3: there and then open to be like, yeah, come on over,

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Speaker 1: And I also be open to like, you might not

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Speaker 1: And I do have private health insurance and I will

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Speaker 1: be covered to a certain degree if I decided to

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Speaker 3: old photos, and I just looked col and I was like,

433
00:17:20,481 --> 00:17:23,801
Speaker 3: where does the time go? Like, I'm so grateful that

434
00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:27,441
Speaker 3: I've had this amazing time. But it's just like the memory.

435
00:17:29,201 --> 00:17:34,400
Speaker 1: Photos him. I remember Chobby little face. He really was

436
00:17:34,441 --> 00:17:36,360
Speaker 1: a full blown little boy.

437
00:17:36,481 --> 00:17:39,840
Speaker 3: Now I know it's absolutely wild, but he had the

438
00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:42,080
Speaker 3: funnest day. I think you do the same ashually. I

439
00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:43,360
Speaker 3: let my kids decide if they want to go to

440
00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:47,080
Speaker 3: school and school, but then like, we're so lucky that

441
00:17:47,120 --> 00:17:48,681
Speaker 3: we are in the vision where they don't need to.

442
00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:50,480
Speaker 3: And I wouldn't want to go to school on my

443
00:17:50,521 --> 00:17:53,440
Speaker 3: birth if I didn't have to. I honestly can't believe

444
00:17:53,481 --> 00:17:55,880
Speaker 3: that I've got another kid that is over six. We've

445
00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:57,561
Speaker 3: got another year and a half, babe, and all three

446
00:17:57,600 --> 00:17:58,600
Speaker 3: of our kids will be in school.

447
00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:02,041
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy, And I just like this just it's

448
00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:04,041
Speaker 1: honestly mind boggling. Oh, I can't imagine.

449
00:18:05,521 --> 00:18:09,280
Speaker 3: No, it goes really really fast. It does.

450
00:18:09,441 --> 00:18:14,321
Speaker 1: Speaking of school, we have been really thinking about homeschooling Taj. Yeah,

451
00:18:14,360 --> 00:18:17,561
Speaker 1: and also I'll talk about the day care situation with Taler,

452
00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:21,321
Speaker 1: but yeah, we've just been having way bigger conversations around

453
00:18:21,321 --> 00:18:23,240
Speaker 1: what it could look like. And I've got another girlfriend

454
00:18:23,241 --> 00:18:25,201
Speaker 1: who's done it only for the last couple of months,

455
00:18:25,201 --> 00:18:28,041
Speaker 1: and she said it's just been incredible, like the connection

456
00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:31,360
Speaker 1: between her and her kids the time, just the values,

457
00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,920
Speaker 1: the thing that they value as a family and as parents,

458
00:18:33,921 --> 00:18:35,400
Speaker 1: and what they want their kids to learn, Like they

459
00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:37,561
Speaker 1: have full control over. It's not you go to school

460
00:18:37,561 --> 00:18:39,161
Speaker 1: and you have to learn about this. It's like what

461
00:18:39,201 --> 00:18:40,801
Speaker 1: do we value and what do we think is going

462
00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:43,001
Speaker 1: to serve you as an adult and as a kid.

463
00:18:43,441 --> 00:18:46,561
Speaker 1: It just sounds so beautiful. Steve and I were just

464
00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:49,761
Speaker 1: talking about like just different things that we wish was

465
00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:52,160
Speaker 1: taught in school. We have this conversation all the time,

466
00:18:52,281 --> 00:18:55,281
Speaker 1: like why is communication not a subject? Why is gut

467
00:18:55,281 --> 00:18:57,281
Speaker 1: health not a subject? I don't know, There's just so

468
00:18:57,321 --> 00:18:59,521
Speaker 1: many different topics and I'm like, I wish that was

469
00:18:59,561 --> 00:19:01,321
Speaker 1: done at school. But if you homeschool them, you could

470
00:19:01,360 --> 00:19:04,600
Speaker 1: literally structure your day still give them the foundational things

471
00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:06,801
Speaker 1: of mass neglish or whatever, but the things that you

472
00:19:06,961 --> 00:19:08,881
Speaker 1: really value and you think is going to benefit them,

473
00:19:09,120 --> 00:19:11,001
Speaker 1: you can implement and get the right teachers in place.

474
00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:13,801
Speaker 1: So we're really looking into it. And there's a couple

475
00:19:13,801 --> 00:19:16,080
Speaker 1: of kids and the mums that Tarj's were the clothes

476
00:19:16,120 --> 00:19:18,080
Speaker 1: with that they will open to it as well. So

477
00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:19,640
Speaker 1: we thought, if we can get three or four of

478
00:19:19,721 --> 00:19:22,321
Speaker 1: us and we all get the same teacher, take turns

479
00:19:22,321 --> 00:19:24,840
Speaker 1: at each of our houses, and like, even Tarj is

480
00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:26,360
Speaker 1: loving tennis at the moment, you can get a tennis

481
00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,761
Speaker 1: liston each day and like, yeah, oh, and I would

482
00:19:28,761 --> 00:19:30,441
Speaker 1: obviously get a lot more time with him and take

483
00:19:30,481 --> 00:19:33,160
Speaker 1: Tile along to the different events. And there's a massive

484
00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:35,321
Speaker 1: homeschool and community and they all get together and go

485
00:19:35,360 --> 00:19:37,441
Speaker 1: to the beach and it just seems so beautiful.

486
00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:38,241
Speaker 3: Really does.

487
00:19:38,441 --> 00:19:41,400
Speaker 1: Now I've got more time and space and capacity, I'm like,

488
00:19:41,441 --> 00:19:43,440
Speaker 1: this is something that I definitely could do. But I

489
00:19:43,481 --> 00:19:45,360
Speaker 1: see how if I was still running a business and

490
00:19:45,360 --> 00:19:47,120
Speaker 1: Steve was working, or if you are listening and you

491
00:19:47,201 --> 00:19:49,521
Speaker 1: both were full time, it just it wouldn't work. Now

492
00:19:49,561 --> 00:19:52,641
Speaker 1: school is there. It's a great system that helps working parents,

493
00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:56,240
Speaker 1: like it's amazing. I'm not dissing school at all. I

494
00:19:56,321 --> 00:19:59,361
Speaker 1: just think every family, every kid, every situation and dynamic

495
00:19:59,481 --> 00:20:01,961
Speaker 1: is so different. So why not explore those we hate

496
00:20:02,001 --> 00:20:03,680
Speaker 1: it and go no, you go back to school. He

497
00:20:03,801 --> 00:20:06,641
Speaker 1: might hate it. We asked him at first, he was like, oh,

498
00:20:06,681 --> 00:20:08,441
Speaker 1: it's my friends. I said what would you rather do?

499
00:20:08,521 --> 00:20:11,241
Speaker 1: And he's like, oh, I don't mind. Like both sound fun,

500
00:20:11,281 --> 00:20:12,921
Speaker 1: but I'd like to try her home schooling and see

501
00:20:12,921 --> 00:20:14,160
Speaker 1: if I like it, and if not, can I go

502
00:20:14,241 --> 00:20:16,920
Speaker 1: back to my school. I was like, yeah, so I

503
00:20:17,001 --> 00:20:19,360
Speaker 1: were just looking into that, but yeah, so I was

504
00:20:19,681 --> 00:20:23,041
Speaker 1: from a previous episode totally against daycare for Tala once again,

505
00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,640
Speaker 1: not against daycare. Your kid's gone to daycare Tarjment's daycare,

506
00:20:26,201 --> 00:20:29,281
Speaker 1: but just for her and for me, I was just like,

507
00:20:29,360 --> 00:20:31,640
Speaker 1: it just doesn't feel right. We've had our nanny for

508
00:20:31,761 --> 00:20:34,921
Speaker 1: or should be five years this year. Beautiful Tash, She's

509
00:20:34,921 --> 00:20:37,281
Speaker 1: a walking angel. Absolutely love her. She's in one of

510
00:20:37,321 --> 00:20:39,481
Speaker 1: the best things for our families. She takes such good

511
00:20:39,481 --> 00:20:41,720
Speaker 1: care of our children. We're so close with her. We

512
00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:42,360
Speaker 1: even look.

513
00:20:42,281 --> 00:20:44,920
Speaker 3: Alike like she's talking, really do you really do?

514
00:20:45,201 --> 00:20:48,801
Speaker 1: We joke? We're like sisters from another mister very similar upbringings.

515
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,441
Speaker 1: Like it's just she's been so beautiful, but she's trying

516
00:20:51,481 --> 00:20:53,400
Speaker 1: to feel pregnant the moment, and now she's actually gonna

517
00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:57,000
Speaker 1: move away. Yeah, so she's moving way up north, so

518
00:20:57,041 --> 00:20:59,201
Speaker 1: she's kind of given us plenty of notice, but she'll

519
00:20:59,241 --> 00:21:01,801
Speaker 1: be going around February, which I bought my eyes out

520
00:21:01,801 --> 00:21:06,321
Speaker 1: when she told me. She cried, oh but yeah. Obviously

521
00:21:06,360 --> 00:21:08,360
Speaker 1: with Steve and I were like, Okay, what's our plan.

522
00:21:08,441 --> 00:21:10,521
Speaker 1: What do we want for Tala? How's it gonna work.

523
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,400
Speaker 1: At first, I was like, I'll definitely get another nanny,

524
00:21:13,921 --> 00:21:15,960
Speaker 1: just like not as often because I'm not working as

525
00:21:16,041 --> 00:21:18,281
Speaker 1: much now. And then he went to take targ for

526
00:21:18,321 --> 00:21:20,201
Speaker 1: a playdate at his friend's house and the mum text

527
00:21:20,281 --> 00:21:21,681
Speaker 1: me and said, I'll just go around the corner. You'll

528
00:21:21,681 --> 00:21:24,080
Speaker 1: see beside the kindy. That's where we'll be. I was like,

529
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,081
Speaker 1: you have a kindy. She's like, yeah, like I run

530
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,641
Speaker 1: a daycare. I was like, oh my gosh. And it's

531
00:21:28,681 --> 00:21:32,400
Speaker 1: just so holistic and natural and beautiful and wholesome, and

532
00:21:32,441 --> 00:21:34,880
Speaker 1: the whole backyard is just like filled with trees that

533
00:21:34,961 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 1: all the kids play on, this big wooden playground, a

534
00:21:36,961 --> 00:21:39,801
Speaker 1: big pile of mold. It's just like very nature based,

535
00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:42,001
Speaker 1: which is just very mean what I think our kids

536
00:21:42,041 --> 00:21:44,801
Speaker 1: need more of. And there's just a small group of

537
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 1: kids there and she has a big fan and takes

538
00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:50,241
Speaker 1: them out like little nature adventures. And Tyler did not

539
00:21:50,281 --> 00:21:51,961
Speaker 1: want to leave. Like I was dropping Taj off for

540
00:21:52,001 --> 00:21:54,321
Speaker 1: the day for a play date, she did not want

541
00:21:54,360 --> 00:21:57,561
Speaker 1: to leave. She lost her marbles and I messaged Steve

542
00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,160
Speaker 1: Aart was like, I actually think this is like a

543
00:22:00,201 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 1: beautiful place I would like Tyler to go to.

544
00:22:02,441 --> 00:22:03,241
Speaker 3: That's so exciting.

545
00:22:03,281 --> 00:22:06,080
Speaker 1: So yeah and quiet, and she sent me brochures and everything.

546
00:22:06,120 --> 00:22:07,961
Speaker 1: She's not open five days a week and it's more

547
00:22:07,961 --> 00:22:10,361
Speaker 1: limited hours, but that also suits me. Yeah, I can

548
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:11,281
Speaker 1: be more flexible now.

549
00:22:11,360 --> 00:22:12,761
Speaker 3: So how many days a week does she do?

550
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:16,761
Speaker 1: She doesn't do Mondays, just Tuesday to Friday. Yeah, no

551
00:22:16,801 --> 00:22:20,001
Speaker 1: public holidays and it's like drop off at nine, pick

552
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,480
Speaker 1: up at four. Yeah, so it's just more limited, but

553
00:22:22,521 --> 00:22:23,440
Speaker 1: that so works for me.

554
00:22:23,681 --> 00:22:23,921
Speaker 3: Yeah.

555
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:25,801
Speaker 1: Something about her that I'm like, I would feel so

556
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 1: safe handing my child to you, But with a normal daycat,

557
00:22:28,201 --> 00:22:30,360
Speaker 1: it's like you don't know them from a bar of soap. Yeah.

558
00:22:30,441 --> 00:22:32,721
Speaker 1: I remember handing Taj over and I remember just sitting

559
00:22:32,721 --> 00:22:35,241
Speaker 1: in the car balling my eyes being like I didn't

560
00:22:35,241 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 1: actually know how do they suit them? Like no, yes,

561
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:39,681
Speaker 1: of course they're hagging them when you're there, but like

562
00:22:39,801 --> 00:22:41,440
Speaker 1: what if he sits in a corner crying and like

563
00:22:41,441 --> 00:22:43,201
Speaker 1: they're too busy with other I don't know. My head

564
00:22:43,321 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 1: just like, oh I just found that really harboutage and

565
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 1: I just couldn't put myself through it again. Yeah, some

566
00:22:50,761 --> 00:22:52,801
Speaker 1: kids are fine, Like you know, I've got friends that

567
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:54,721
Speaker 1: drop the kids off and like, Siema, I.

568
00:22:54,681 --> 00:22:56,360
Speaker 3: Know my kids weren't like that.

569
00:22:56,521 --> 00:22:59,001
Speaker 1: No, that's what I'm saying. It's not the daycare. It's

570
00:22:59,041 --> 00:23:02,761
Speaker 1: the child and it's the mum, And like my emotional capacity,

571
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,001
Speaker 1: I can't. Yeah, I just can't.

572
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,921
Speaker 3: So with homeschooling, end daycare? Do you know what you're

573
00:23:07,921 --> 00:23:08,480
Speaker 3: going to start?

574
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,321
Speaker 1: He's staying in school for this year. If we decided

575
00:23:11,321 --> 00:23:12,921
Speaker 1: to homeschool, it'd be from the start of next year.

576
00:23:13,001 --> 00:23:14,721
Speaker 3: Cool. And it's the same with Tyler as well.

577
00:23:14,921 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, Tash were leaving in feb So yeah, it'll

578
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:18,321
Speaker 1: be a whole new thing next year.

579
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:20,281
Speaker 3: Wow, I've got some big change.

580
00:23:20,321 --> 00:23:24,041
Speaker 1: I'm still it's not certain. I'm still like just investigating it,

581
00:23:24,201 --> 00:23:27,361
Speaker 1: and I hope the two friends that is close with

582
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 1: their parents are the same as me. I hope like

583
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,120
Speaker 1: they want to as well. I think together they'd be

584
00:23:32,120 --> 00:23:34,880
Speaker 1: really cool if it was just us. I think it

585
00:23:34,961 --> 00:23:37,160
Speaker 1: really struggling away from his friends and the school it

586
00:23:37,201 --> 00:23:38,521
Speaker 1: goes to is fantastic.

587
00:23:38,561 --> 00:23:39,481
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he likes school.

588
00:23:39,521 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 1: I don't hate it. There's just some things in there.

589
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, Oh, I wish they would teach them more

590
00:23:43,241 --> 00:23:44,681
Speaker 1: about this. I wish they would do more of this.

591
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 1: Like even the other day, one of the mums came

592
00:23:46,801 --> 00:23:48,561
Speaker 1: in into sound healing for them and I was like,

593
00:23:48,721 --> 00:23:51,041
Speaker 1: that would be like ful meditations. Down healing is something

594
00:23:51,041 --> 00:23:53,521
Speaker 1: I would incorporate weekly. If I was to homeschool him

595
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,721
Speaker 1: cooking classes, I would incorporate weekly. Yeah, it's just from

596
00:23:56,721 --> 00:23:58,721
Speaker 1: the air at the moment. To find out more.

597
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:01,001
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, I mean we did that as well, looked

598
00:24:01,041 --> 00:24:03,481
Speaker 3: into it for quite a while. Just the biggest thing is,

599
00:24:03,521 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 3: like you said before, when both parents are kind of

600
00:24:05,521 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 3: working and trying to juggle, like how you'd make it happen.

601
00:24:08,961 --> 00:24:10,801
Speaker 3: I think we definitely need some more help. So I

602
00:24:10,801 --> 00:24:14,360
Speaker 3: think it'd be quite an expensive task. And then yeah,

603
00:24:14,481 --> 00:24:15,801
Speaker 3: just getting like, you know, if we wanted to get

604
00:24:15,801 --> 00:24:17,680
Speaker 3: a teacher to help, but if you could do in

605
00:24:17,721 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 3: a community like that and get other moms and kids together,

606
00:24:20,761 --> 00:24:21,361
Speaker 3: that's such a.

607
00:24:21,281 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 1: Clever way of doing it. Yeah, because I've got a

608
00:24:22,681 --> 00:24:24,041
Speaker 1: girlfriend that does it, and that's what I said to

609
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,441
Speaker 1: about Pass and she goes, nah, Babe, it's not expensive

610
00:24:26,721 --> 00:24:29,561
Speaker 1: when you've got a community, like you're all helping, you're contributing,

611
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,761
Speaker 1: like you're all in there teaching them, and yeah, they're

612
00:24:31,761 --> 00:24:34,400
Speaker 1: definitely not well off financially, so it doesn't have to

613
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,001
Speaker 1: be expensive. But if you were to get a teacher

614
00:24:36,041 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 1: in and it's just for your kids, it probably would

615
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:39,641
Speaker 1: be more. Yeah, But I think when you really get

616
00:24:39,681 --> 00:24:45,481
Speaker 1: amongst the community, there's so much there. Yeah, like sol.

617
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 3: Exciteyyeah, good as well just being open and you know,

618
00:24:48,281 --> 00:24:50,321
Speaker 3: yeah learning new things about that and wonderful.

619
00:24:50,321 --> 00:24:52,801
Speaker 1: I'll be a mess to day I dropped Taylor off though, honestly,

620
00:24:52,921 --> 00:24:54,041
Speaker 1: I'd be like freedom.

621
00:24:54,281 --> 00:24:56,120
Speaker 3: I think the first day she's upset, you might be.

622
00:24:56,201 --> 00:24:57,880
Speaker 3: I think if she's like stoked the first week, you'll

623
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,361
Speaker 3: probably find it quite easy. But maybe the first day

624
00:25:00,360 --> 00:25:04,160
Speaker 3: when she's like mom, that's when you're like, I remember

625
00:25:04,201 --> 00:25:06,561
Speaker 3: sitting in my car crying after dropping them off.

626
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,400
Speaker 1: It can trume my whole day, just to try the

627
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:09,241
Speaker 1: whole day, and then you.

628
00:25:09,241 --> 00:25:10,721
Speaker 3: Checking your phone all the times if there's like pictures

629
00:25:10,721 --> 00:25:11,360
Speaker 3: that have come through.

630
00:25:12,481 --> 00:25:13,441
Speaker 1: So hard, isn't it.

631
00:25:13,721 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, So something really exciting is I might be doing

632
00:25:18,360 --> 00:25:22,921
Speaker 3: a bit of traveling in September. I feel so privileged

633
00:25:22,961 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 3: to be able to go and do this and just

634
00:25:24,721 --> 00:25:28,241
Speaker 3: work alongside Operation Smile. If you don't know about Operation Smile,

635
00:25:28,321 --> 00:25:32,961
Speaker 3: they basically an organization that repairs cleft lips. They also

636
00:25:33,001 --> 00:25:36,801
Speaker 3: do craniofacial surgeries, so you know, if people have got

637
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:38,881
Speaker 3: certain growths and stuff on their face, they can help

638
00:25:38,961 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 3: get rid of them. And a lot of these kids

639
00:25:41,201 --> 00:25:43,521
Speaker 3: in other countries are struggling a lot with eating and

640
00:25:43,561 --> 00:25:45,681
Speaker 3: just doing day to day tasks, like you know, they're

641
00:25:45,681 --> 00:25:47,321
Speaker 3: struggling so much, and they do it all in third

642
00:25:47,360 --> 00:25:50,761
Speaker 3: world countries because here in Australia it is all through

643
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 3: the government, which is amazing. How lucky we live in

644
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,721
Speaker 3: a country lucky where you know you've got that support.

645
00:25:56,561 --> 00:25:58,761
Speaker 3: So they have actually invited Kurt and I to go

646
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,321
Speaker 3: on a mission and I just like don't even have

647
00:26:01,441 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 3: words for it to be able to be there and

648
00:26:03,561 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 3: see in real time what they are actually do and

649
00:26:05,801 --> 00:26:07,360
Speaker 3: how they help these families.

650
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,360
Speaker 1: So what is a mission?

651
00:26:09,441 --> 00:26:11,681
Speaker 3: What they do is they go over and they meet

652
00:26:11,721 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 3: all of the little kids, and there's even some adults

653
00:26:13,721 --> 00:26:17,321
Speaker 3: that still haven't had that need surgery. They educate them,

654
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,081
Speaker 3: let them know what they're going to do. Then they

655
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 3: do the surgery for about three or four days on

656
00:26:21,120 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 3: all the different as many as they can in that time,

657
00:26:23,721 --> 00:26:26,481
Speaker 3: and they do postop on the last day and then leave.

658
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:30,281
Speaker 3: But basically, yeah, we've been invited to go and document

659
00:26:30,360 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 3: it all. So I'm so because it's something that you know,

660
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,521
Speaker 3: has been so close to curtain my heart, having Miller

661
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,561
Speaker 3: born with a cleft, and we've donated to repair a

662
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:44,001
Speaker 3: lot of clefts with them without business, which has been amazing.

663
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 3: And yes, so we're either going to go the end

664
00:26:46,921 --> 00:26:50,400
Speaker 3: of this year, so thirtieth of September to Manila, or

665
00:26:50,441 --> 00:26:53,241
Speaker 3: they've got one in May in India, or they've got

666
00:26:53,241 --> 00:26:56,521
Speaker 3: one next September in Manila as well. But obviously just

667
00:26:56,561 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 3: trying to align everything with the kids being looked after

668
00:26:59,241 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 3: and you know, getting over there. But I am just

669
00:27:02,921 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 3: so yeah, I'm so palm it's incredible life changing. I

670
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,001
Speaker 3: said to actually like Colonel come home and just things

671
00:27:10,041 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 3: that feel so big and significant will just feel so

672
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,041
Speaker 3: small and insignificant.

673
00:27:14,120 --> 00:27:16,321
Speaker 1: And just how cool that you can contribute in that way.

674
00:27:16,360 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: And even you're like editing and filming skills to be

675
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 1: able to really document in a way that can be

676
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,041
Speaker 1: so captivating, to spread the awareness, to make people watch

677
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:25,281
Speaker 1: what actually you know they do the work that they do,

678
00:27:25,801 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 1: and for you to go meet the kids and like

679
00:27:27,761 --> 00:27:30,241
Speaker 1: see them before surgery, like you know, hold their hand

680
00:27:30,241 --> 00:27:31,400
Speaker 1: going in or I don't know if you get to

681
00:27:31,441 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 1: do that, and then afterwards watch them coming out like

682
00:27:33,481 --> 00:27:35,041
Speaker 1: that whole.

683
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 3: And just the excitement of them coming out, and like

684
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 3: because so many of these kids as well, they completely

685
00:27:38,681 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 3: shunned by their community, so like kids throw rocks at them,

686
00:27:41,201 --> 00:27:43,161
Speaker 3: they won't play with them. They think that they're witches

687
00:27:43,561 --> 00:27:46,361
Speaker 3: in certain countries as well. So when you repair it,

688
00:27:46,360 --> 00:27:49,961
Speaker 3: it actually completely changes their life, like they're socially accepted

689
00:27:50,041 --> 00:27:53,041
Speaker 3: by their tribe and everything. Again, so I'm pumped for that.

690
00:27:53,201 --> 00:27:56,241
Speaker 3: And then they're also doing a fun run. So it's

691
00:27:56,281 --> 00:28:00,160
Speaker 3: on the eighth of September. It's ten kilometers.

692
00:27:59,801 --> 00:28:01,041
Speaker 1: So cool up here at brisy.

693
00:28:01,321 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 3: So if anyone wants to come, message me and I

694
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,361
Speaker 3: can give you the details. But that's just to raise

695
00:28:05,441 --> 00:28:08,201
Speaker 3: some awareness as well. So it's gonna be yeah, fun day.

696
00:28:08,321 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 3: I just love just being aligned with things that just

697
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:13,321
Speaker 3: like fill you up, like all the things I do

698
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,561
Speaker 3: and everyone that works there, like this organization. They're just

699
00:28:16,801 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 3: all so beautiful, Like every single person you come in

700
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,521
Speaker 3: contact with every event we go to, they're all so loving,

701
00:28:22,521 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 3: they're so caring, they're so genuine, down to earth, Like

702
00:28:25,481 --> 00:28:27,281
Speaker 3: we sitn't have coffee dates with them, Kurt and I

703
00:28:27,321 --> 00:28:30,441
Speaker 3: and catch ups and yeah, it's just such a beautiful organization.

704
00:28:31,360 --> 00:28:34,521
Speaker 3: But I'm so excited. And I said at the start

705
00:28:34,521 --> 00:28:37,201
Speaker 3: of this year, like I manifested this hugely. I kept

706
00:28:37,241 --> 00:28:40,561
Speaker 3: talking saying I wanted more travel. I think we had

707
00:28:40,561 --> 00:28:42,681
Speaker 3: it on the podcast either, Yeah, and I was talking

708
00:28:42,721 --> 00:28:45,161
Speaker 3: about a lot. And there's just been so many random

709
00:28:45,161 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 3: trips that have popped up this year and this is

710
00:28:47,481 --> 00:28:48,841
Speaker 3: just another one.

711
00:28:49,001 --> 00:28:49,641
Speaker 1: So cool.

712
00:28:50,321 --> 00:28:52,001
Speaker 3: I can't wait to have the experience and be able

713
00:28:52,041 --> 00:28:52,601
Speaker 3: to share it too.

714
00:28:52,761 --> 00:28:54,001
Speaker 1: I can't wait to seal the content.

715
00:28:54,281 --> 00:28:55,601
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, I'm plump.

716
00:28:55,601 --> 00:28:59,561
Speaker 1: It's gonna be amazing. Yeah, So we had our first

717
00:28:59,761 --> 00:29:02,401
Speaker 1: tar has ever had this, but hand foot in mouth

718
00:29:02,481 --> 00:29:06,841
Speaker 1: with Tala. Oh my goodness, poor little thing. It was

719
00:29:06,961 --> 00:29:09,921
Speaker 1: so rough for her. So she had none on her feet.

720
00:29:10,241 --> 00:29:12,681
Speaker 1: She had one little blister on her finger that never

721
00:29:12,681 --> 00:29:14,801
Speaker 1: actually popped or anything. It literally just like went away.

722
00:29:15,281 --> 00:29:19,681
Speaker 1: But underneath her tongue or it was like one massive ulcer.

723
00:29:20,401 --> 00:29:23,081
Speaker 1: So for a cup, she was just absolutely miserable. I've

724
00:29:23,081 --> 00:29:25,321
Speaker 1: never seen her like that. She really showed me what

725
00:29:25,361 --> 00:29:28,361
Speaker 1: a happy kid she is. But she couldn't drink her bottle.

726
00:29:28,481 --> 00:29:33,161
Speaker 1: She barely ate. It was also super painful, so painful,

727
00:29:33,241 --> 00:29:35,601
Speaker 1: like I almost wish they were on her hands or feet.

728
00:29:35,601 --> 00:29:38,921
Speaker 1: I feel like that may have been easier, but oh

729
00:29:38,961 --> 00:29:41,121
Speaker 1: it was so sad. So that was really hard. And

730
00:29:41,201 --> 00:29:43,401
Speaker 1: that finished, and then she got an eye infection. I

731
00:29:43,441 --> 00:29:45,121
Speaker 1: was like, oh my goodness, what the hell. And it

732
00:29:45,161 --> 00:29:48,121
Speaker 1: wasn't conjunctivitis and it wasn't a sty. The doctor took

733
00:29:48,121 --> 00:29:49,521
Speaker 1: a swab to find out what it is, but I

734
00:29:49,521 --> 00:29:51,361
Speaker 1: didn't hear back from him. I need to actually call.

735
00:29:51,761 --> 00:29:53,681
Speaker 1: But she went on her first antibotics, which I just

736
00:29:53,721 --> 00:29:55,521
Speaker 1: hate giving. I know they're necessary and hence why I

737
00:29:55,561 --> 00:29:58,041
Speaker 1: gave them to her, But just like rebuilding her gut

738
00:29:58,081 --> 00:30:01,041
Speaker 1: health back up now. But yeah, that was rough, like

739
00:30:01,441 --> 00:30:02,281
Speaker 1: a handfut in Mauth.

740
00:30:02,361 --> 00:30:04,681
Speaker 3: We haven't had that in her house yet. Touch Actually

741
00:30:05,201 --> 00:30:07,881
Speaker 3: really lucky because a lot of our friends have had that,

742
00:30:07,961 --> 00:30:10,121
Speaker 3: like daycare and stuff. Yeah don't they picked up from

743
00:30:10,161 --> 00:30:11,281
Speaker 3: So just said had it first?

744
00:30:11,401 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: No, he hasn't had it. So apparently it could be

745
00:30:13,241 --> 00:30:16,481
Speaker 1: shopping trolley's, it could be a park there you go, swimming,

746
00:30:16,561 --> 00:30:20,921
Speaker 1: It could be anywhere. Wow, anyone has an open blister. Yeah,

747
00:30:21,041 --> 00:30:23,361
Speaker 1: or like if I kissed her, I could get it

748
00:30:23,641 --> 00:30:25,601
Speaker 1: there you go. So we were just and like she

749
00:30:25,721 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 1: loves going outside, so we were home bound and I

750
00:30:28,761 --> 00:30:31,521
Speaker 1: get such cabin fever, Like it was really really hard

751
00:30:31,521 --> 00:30:34,521
Speaker 1: to be a home for that whole time. We've got

752
00:30:34,521 --> 00:30:36,601
Speaker 1: a little area down near our house. It's like just

753
00:30:36,841 --> 00:30:38,601
Speaker 1: kind of goes onto a creek. So I take her

754
00:30:38,641 --> 00:30:40,681
Speaker 1: down there to like throw sticks in the water, and

755
00:30:40,721 --> 00:30:42,841
Speaker 1: that was like her little outing. But otherwise it was

756
00:30:42,881 --> 00:30:45,441
Speaker 1: just in the backyard and like playing with the toys again.

757
00:30:45,481 --> 00:30:47,761
Speaker 3: Did she get stir crazy too, Yeah, my kids do

758
00:30:47,801 --> 00:30:48,241
Speaker 3: as well.

759
00:30:48,161 --> 00:30:49,801
Speaker 1: And a lot of screen time, which I don't really

760
00:30:49,841 --> 00:30:52,081
Speaker 1: give her any screen time, but when she was in

761
00:30:52,281 --> 00:30:55,601
Speaker 1: so much pain, it was the only thing that was Yeah,

762
00:30:55,721 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 1: I tried going outside, I tried like playing games with her,

763
00:30:58,041 --> 00:30:59,601
Speaker 1: and she was just like are we are? We are?

764
00:30:59,641 --> 00:31:01,281
Speaker 1: We gotta do what you gotta do. So we had

765
00:31:01,321 --> 00:31:03,041
Speaker 1: to like wean her off the TV, which we've done.

766
00:31:03,081 --> 00:31:04,601
Speaker 1: It only took a couple of days, but that was

767
00:31:04,681 --> 00:31:05,801
Speaker 1: like saved us.

768
00:31:05,801 --> 00:31:08,521
Speaker 3: They get so addicted, don't they so addicted so quickly,

769
00:31:08,841 --> 00:31:09,281
Speaker 3: so quick.

770
00:31:09,481 --> 00:31:10,921
Speaker 1: It also allowed me to still be able to do

771
00:31:10,921 --> 00:31:12,241
Speaker 1: a bit of work on my phone while she was

772
00:31:12,241 --> 00:31:14,481
Speaker 1: watching TV. Like still she still wanted to be cuddled.

773
00:31:14,841 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: But yeah, there were some long days. It was a

774
00:31:17,481 --> 00:31:18,121
Speaker 1: long week.

775
00:31:19,321 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 3: Speaking of saws and mouth. Yeah, remember how Curdie got

776
00:31:22,481 --> 00:31:24,841
Speaker 3: the side of his lip burned. I haven't actually spoke

777
00:31:24,841 --> 00:31:26,761
Speaker 3: about this on the podcast, but Kurt went to get

778
00:31:26,761 --> 00:31:30,681
Speaker 3: a skin check and he had a severe sun spot

779
00:31:30,681 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 3: on his lip so straight away the doctor wouldn't even

780
00:31:34,081 --> 00:31:36,641
Speaker 3: let him leave without burning it right then and there, Kurt,

781
00:31:36,681 --> 00:31:38,321
Speaker 3: So it was one of the most painful things on

782
00:31:38,361 --> 00:31:42,121
Speaker 3: your lip. He's ever experienced, so much nerve ending. So

783
00:31:42,121 --> 00:31:44,761
Speaker 3: he had like a massive big burn on the side

784
00:31:44,761 --> 00:31:46,721
Speaker 3: of his lip. It was all bleeding like it took

785
00:31:46,841 --> 00:31:48,921
Speaker 3: ages to heal as well. You're thinking in your mouth

786
00:31:48,961 --> 00:31:49,761
Speaker 3: it would heal quick, but.

787
00:31:49,761 --> 00:31:50,641
Speaker 1: It's outside the mouth.

788
00:31:50,681 --> 00:31:53,961
Speaker 3: It's not a true true. But anyways, he's got to

789
00:31:54,001 --> 00:31:56,161
Speaker 3: go back because they said he's actually got a laser

790
00:31:56,161 --> 00:31:59,561
Speaker 3: his entire bottom lip. He's not looking forward to a bay.

791
00:32:00,001 --> 00:32:02,001
Speaker 3: They wanted that once box was really bad, but they said,

792
00:32:02,001 --> 00:32:04,721
Speaker 3: then he takes three layers off his whole bottom lip

793
00:32:04,761 --> 00:32:07,321
Speaker 3: and just the healing and that kissing for you guys,

794
00:32:07,481 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 3: no kissing and even like just trying to have like

795
00:32:09,521 --> 00:32:11,721
Speaker 3: a warm drink or something like, you can't do any

796
00:32:11,761 --> 00:32:12,561
Speaker 3: of that stuff.

797
00:32:12,801 --> 00:32:13,801
Speaker 1: For god, I know.

798
00:32:14,041 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 3: The poor thing means so lucky that they've picked up

799
00:32:15,721 --> 00:32:18,361
Speaker 3: on it. Yeah, it's not cancerous yet, but if he

800
00:32:18,441 --> 00:32:20,241
Speaker 3: left it so they said, the severe sun spot another

801
00:32:20,241 --> 00:32:23,001
Speaker 3: couple of years, who knows, so it could have yeah,

802
00:32:23,121 --> 00:32:25,681
Speaker 3: definitely gone that way. So Little reminded to get the

803
00:32:25,721 --> 00:32:27,961
Speaker 3: sun check as well. But he's got a book in

804
00:32:28,041 --> 00:32:29,841
Speaker 3: to get that done. He keeps putting it off, and

805
00:32:29,881 --> 00:32:31,521
Speaker 3: he keeps going, oh, just weight, i'ld just wait, and

806
00:32:31,561 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 3: I'm like, now I know, and also just really painful.

807
00:32:34,761 --> 00:32:37,041
Speaker 3: It takes ages to heal. So he's just like and

808
00:32:37,121 --> 00:32:38,641
Speaker 3: last time, I feel like everyone's just looking out of

809
00:32:38,641 --> 00:32:40,361
Speaker 3: me a bit funny, like has he been punched in

810
00:32:40,401 --> 00:32:42,601
Speaker 3: their face? Or like what's happened because a big bump

811
00:32:42,641 --> 00:32:46,441
Speaker 3: on his lip? But yeah, I know the whole bottom lip.

812
00:32:46,761 --> 00:32:48,921
Speaker 1: Oh, it would make yourself conscious. I remember my mum

813
00:32:48,961 --> 00:32:50,761
Speaker 1: had skin cancer and she had to do chemo treatment,

814
00:32:50,761 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 1: which they put this cream on her face and it

815
00:32:52,201 --> 00:32:55,681
Speaker 1: basically like burns the cancer away, but your whole face

816
00:32:55,881 --> 00:32:59,281
Speaker 1: is like it looks like scabbed and bleeding and raw,

817
00:32:59,401 --> 00:33:02,201
Speaker 1: like it's literally taking layers of your skin off. And

818
00:33:02,361 --> 00:33:04,321
Speaker 1: I remember the first time I saw her, I just like,

819
00:33:04,761 --> 00:33:06,721
Speaker 1: I'm pretty good with most medical things, Like it takes

820
00:33:06,761 --> 00:33:08,681
Speaker 1: a lot to like not gross me out, but gross

821
00:33:08,721 --> 00:33:11,001
Speaker 1: me out. Yeah, And I just was like, oh my gosh,

822
00:33:11,241 --> 00:33:14,561
Speaker 1: your face looks so sore. But she just went out.

823
00:33:14,721 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 1: She she was was really surprised. Actually she didn't really care.

824
00:33:17,321 --> 00:33:19,881
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, look at me, but whatever, whatever to do.

825
00:33:19,921 --> 00:33:22,361
Speaker 1: And it's twelve week treatment. Yeah, so what can you do?

826
00:33:22,401 --> 00:33:25,401
Speaker 1: You can't hire for twelve weeks, definitely, But yeah that's

827
00:33:25,441 --> 00:33:27,801
Speaker 1: just when it's on your face. I get a big

828
00:33:27,841 --> 00:33:29,401
Speaker 1: pimpo and I find that hard lot.

829
00:33:29,281 --> 00:33:31,281
Speaker 3: And even painful. Like in how we find like We're

830
00:33:31,281 --> 00:33:34,361
Speaker 3: just saying how painful pimples can be. Like getting things

831
00:33:34,401 --> 00:33:37,001
Speaker 3: like that done is so like so sensitive.

832
00:33:37,081 --> 00:33:39,521
Speaker 1: I feel like the injected just that it's always more

833
00:33:39,561 --> 00:33:41,761
Speaker 1: painful than like normal botox because there's so many nerve

834
00:33:41,841 --> 00:33:45,521
Speaker 1: endings around your lips here you go so much more sensitive. Yeah,

835
00:33:45,761 --> 00:33:48,601
Speaker 1: speaking of health, I feel like I'm finally like falling

836
00:33:48,641 --> 00:33:50,681
Speaker 1: back in love with the gym. Yeah, and I've realized

837
00:33:50,681 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 1: it's taken me such a long time. Like obviously I

838
00:33:52,761 --> 00:33:54,481
Speaker 1: was pregnant with Tiler and I still move my body.

839
00:33:54,521 --> 00:33:57,401
Speaker 1: I honestly think I haven't loved the gym like Waits

840
00:33:57,481 --> 00:34:00,401
Speaker 1: Gym since I had my own gym. Because having my

841
00:34:00,441 --> 00:34:02,681
Speaker 1: own gym, it was just the whole environment. The culture

842
00:34:02,681 --> 00:34:05,281
Speaker 1: of the community is all females. I just like it

843
00:34:05,321 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 1: so much, so I had that to compare to. So

844
00:34:07,481 --> 00:34:09,161
Speaker 1: every gym I went to, I was just like, oh,

845
00:34:09,161 --> 00:34:11,521
Speaker 1: there's just no five the music shit, and like no

846
00:34:11,561 --> 00:34:14,881
Speaker 1: one's friendly and it just the classes didn't love so

847
00:34:15,081 --> 00:34:17,401
Speaker 1: kind of just like mainly trained from home and gone

848
00:34:17,441 --> 00:34:19,281
Speaker 1: to the gym like once maybe twice a week, just

849
00:34:19,281 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 1: because I do like weights, but I wasn't loving it.

850
00:34:21,881 --> 00:34:23,841
Speaker 1: And since I've met my girlfriend Tiana. We go four

851
00:34:23,881 --> 00:34:25,681
Speaker 1: times a week now, and it's just so nice to

852
00:34:25,681 --> 00:34:28,361
Speaker 1: one have accountability, Like I would not get up at

853
00:34:28,401 --> 00:34:30,481
Speaker 1: quarter past four to go to the gym if I

854
00:34:30,521 --> 00:34:34,001
Speaker 1: wasn't meeting her. Absolutely en two the endorphins I get.

855
00:34:34,041 --> 00:34:36,601
Speaker 1: It overflows to my whole day because we're not only

856
00:34:36,801 --> 00:34:39,281
Speaker 1: active and moving our bodies and it feels healthy, like

857
00:34:39,321 --> 00:34:41,761
Speaker 1: we're giggling, we're laughing, we're having deep conversations. We're getting

858
00:34:41,801 --> 00:34:43,921
Speaker 1: to hang out. Yeah, like four times a week now,

859
00:34:43,921 --> 00:34:46,721
Speaker 1: which is so cool, and she pushes me. Yes.

860
00:34:46,801 --> 00:34:49,641
Speaker 3: So honestly, having a gym buddies game changer. There's no

861
00:34:49,681 --> 00:34:51,721
Speaker 3: slacking off, same as dance. That's so I said to you, like,

862
00:34:51,761 --> 00:34:53,401
Speaker 3: as soon as my friends drop off and I'm on

863
00:34:53,401 --> 00:34:55,361
Speaker 3: my own, I don't go. I do it for like

864
00:34:55,361 --> 00:34:57,081
Speaker 3: a few weeks, and then I'm like, it's not as fun.

865
00:34:57,201 --> 00:34:59,641
Speaker 1: It is not as fun. You can go, you can

866
00:34:59,681 --> 00:35:01,601
Speaker 1: get it done, and You're like, yeah, you can put

867
00:35:01,681 --> 00:35:02,881
Speaker 1: music on me to go to the gym, but it's

868
00:35:02,921 --> 00:35:05,481
Speaker 1: just not the same as having so much training. So

869
00:35:06,161 --> 00:35:09,001
Speaker 1: I'm loving it. And I thought the gym actually was

870
00:35:09,121 --> 00:35:11,521
Speaker 1: kind of like a past version, like oh, that was

871
00:35:11,521 --> 00:35:13,361
Speaker 1: just when you were younger, You've had kids now like

872
00:35:13,361 --> 00:35:15,001
Speaker 1: making up with these stories. But I'm like, no, I

873
00:35:15,001 --> 00:35:17,561
Speaker 1: actually fucking love the gym, and I get up super

874
00:35:17,561 --> 00:35:19,361
Speaker 1: early so that I can be back before my kids

875
00:35:19,401 --> 00:35:21,081
Speaker 1: wake up, Yeah, to get my me time, and then

876
00:35:21,081 --> 00:35:22,721
Speaker 1: I'm fully present with them, and I just feel like

877
00:35:22,801 --> 00:35:25,681
Speaker 1: I've got more capacity for them as well. That's so good.

878
00:35:26,321 --> 00:35:28,241
Speaker 3: I play the craze changed that for me hugely.

879
00:35:29,801 --> 00:35:30,001
Speaker 1: Yeah.

880
00:35:30,441 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 3: As soon as the kids started being okay and liking

881
00:35:32,561 --> 00:35:34,641
Speaker 3: the crage, I was like, sweet, now I can go

882
00:35:34,721 --> 00:35:36,521
Speaker 3: way more. But until that point, I feel like I

883
00:35:36,601 --> 00:35:38,721
Speaker 3: was the saying I was like once a week, twice

884
00:35:38,761 --> 00:35:41,481
Speaker 3: a week, you know the box, Yeah, ticking the box.

885
00:35:41,521 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 3: Whereas now can I go together a lot of the time? Yeah,

886
00:35:44,481 --> 00:35:45,681
Speaker 3: And we just bring them, put them in the grace

887
00:35:45,881 --> 00:35:46,321
Speaker 3: and they love it.

888
00:35:46,321 --> 00:35:48,241
Speaker 1: They look forward to it. I love how good.

889
00:35:48,521 --> 00:35:48,721
Speaker 2: Yeah.

890
00:35:49,121 --> 00:35:51,161
Speaker 3: We were so nervous to try as well. So anyone

891
00:35:51,201 --> 00:35:52,921
Speaker 3: who's been like hesitating, going, oh, I don't know how they're

892
00:35:52,921 --> 00:35:54,281
Speaker 3: going to go, give it a try.

893
00:35:54,521 --> 00:35:54,921
Speaker 1: So good.

894
00:35:55,001 --> 00:35:56,121
Speaker 3: Yeah, wish we did it earlier.

895
00:35:57,001 --> 00:35:59,521
Speaker 1: Epic. Isn't it so good? And I feel like when

896
00:35:59,561 --> 00:36:02,121
Speaker 1: you're moving your body consistently, it's obviously an overflow to

897
00:36:02,161 --> 00:36:03,721
Speaker 1: you more conscious of what you put in your body.

898
00:36:03,761 --> 00:36:05,921
Speaker 1: You want to be feeling it Like, it's so true.

899
00:36:06,161 --> 00:36:08,641
Speaker 1: Realize I was kind of not under eating purposely, but

900
00:36:08,681 --> 00:36:10,881
Speaker 1: now I'm more conscious of eating enough so that I

901
00:36:10,921 --> 00:36:13,121
Speaker 1: can train and have the energy to train well.

902
00:36:13,041 --> 00:36:13,761
Speaker 3: And gay muscle.

903
00:36:13,961 --> 00:36:16,921
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like really conscious how much protin I'm eating

904
00:36:16,961 --> 00:36:19,361
Speaker 1: and not as much like sugary lily sweets, which I've

905
00:36:19,361 --> 00:36:20,481
Speaker 1: been pretty good since eten.

906
00:36:20,761 --> 00:36:22,161
Speaker 3: Sorry, I just brought some fundation.

907
00:36:24,441 --> 00:36:27,801
Speaker 1: Good ingredients. Speaking of a hack that I found has

908
00:36:27,801 --> 00:36:29,641
Speaker 1: worked really well. If you're trying to cut out sugar,

909
00:36:30,081 --> 00:36:33,481
Speaker 1: brush your teeth. Honestly, friggin treat. I do it. I

910
00:36:33,521 --> 00:36:35,281
Speaker 1: was going to have it after dinner having something sweet,

911
00:36:35,281 --> 00:36:37,041
Speaker 1: but even during the day from craving something. Now I

912
00:36:37,081 --> 00:36:37,721
Speaker 1: brush my teeth.

913
00:36:37,721 --> 00:36:38,521
Speaker 3: That's such a good idea.

914
00:36:38,641 --> 00:36:42,521
Speaker 1: Nothing tastes good when you've got like strong minty taste

915
00:36:42,521 --> 00:36:44,361
Speaker 1: in your mouth instantly goes away.

916
00:36:44,641 --> 00:36:47,041
Speaker 3: You got me onto the tongue scraper. I love it.

917
00:36:47,241 --> 00:36:50,961
Speaker 1: If you're good your mouth, you got me on to

918
00:36:51,081 --> 00:36:53,081
Speaker 1: do it the first thing you do before you have water. Otherwise,

919
00:36:53,121 --> 00:36:55,161
Speaker 1: if you have water, actually swallowing some of the toxins

920
00:36:55,201 --> 00:36:57,601
Speaker 1: like scrape for a I've been doing before bed and

921
00:36:57,641 --> 00:36:58,401
Speaker 1: then in the morning.

922
00:36:58,601 --> 00:37:01,721
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, so good, so good. Getting your recommendations.

923
00:37:01,801 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I love it recommend things. I feel

924
00:37:05,481 --> 00:37:07,121
Speaker 1: like I recommend health stuff to you and you recommend

925
00:37:07,121 --> 00:37:12,081
Speaker 1: beauty stuff to me. It's so drue. I love it.

926
00:37:12,121 --> 00:37:14,801
Speaker 1: So I'm going to Europe with just Taj. I know.

927
00:37:14,881 --> 00:37:16,601
Speaker 1: I spoke about this on a previous episode of Like

928
00:37:16,641 --> 00:37:18,721
Speaker 1: My Intrusive Thoughts. If you haven't listened to that episode,

929
00:37:18,761 --> 00:37:20,761
Speaker 1: it's quite a deep one, a very vulnerable one of

930
00:37:20,801 --> 00:37:23,841
Speaker 1: the intrusive thoughts that go through my mind when it

931
00:37:23,841 --> 00:37:26,081
Speaker 1: comes to traveling with my kids. And yeah, we just

932
00:37:26,201 --> 00:37:28,801
Speaker 1: decided to book Taj and Ice. We're going over to Italy.

933
00:37:28,801 --> 00:37:30,481
Speaker 1: We've got one night in Rome together and then we

934
00:37:30,481 --> 00:37:32,001
Speaker 1: go out to the wedding destination, which is out in

935
00:37:32,001 --> 00:37:34,361
Speaker 1: the middle of nowhere. It's literally like a big property,

936
00:37:34,881 --> 00:37:36,881
Speaker 1: and then we're going to Paris for four nights. So

937
00:37:37,241 --> 00:37:40,041
Speaker 1: I'm so excited. He's so excited. I think it's going

938
00:37:40,081 --> 00:37:41,561
Speaker 1: to be a trip that I would just look back

939
00:37:41,561 --> 00:37:42,961
Speaker 1: on for the rest of my life and like that

940
00:37:43,001 --> 00:37:46,201
Speaker 1: was such a special Mum and Sun Train incredible. We're

941
00:37:46,241 --> 00:37:49,121
Speaker 1: really close, but I do feel like since Tyler's come along,

942
00:37:49,241 --> 00:37:51,641
Speaker 1: he's more closer to Steve because I kind of was

943
00:37:51,681 --> 00:37:55,081
Speaker 1: breastfeeding and up with her, and like she's very mummy's girl,

944
00:37:55,161 --> 00:37:57,361
Speaker 1: Like she's so mean to Steve. No daddy, I want

945
00:37:57,481 --> 00:38:01,601
Speaker 1: mummy like sassy, Like it's so mean. I'm like, oh,

946
00:38:01,721 --> 00:38:03,641
Speaker 1: you have such a nice dad, like I would have

947
00:38:03,841 --> 00:38:06,361
Speaker 1: dreamed to have a dad like him. She'll go out

948
00:38:06,361 --> 00:38:09,001
Speaker 1: of it, I know, but naturally, I just I'm with

949
00:38:09,081 --> 00:38:11,281
Speaker 1: her more so I can't wait to have this quality

950
00:38:11,321 --> 00:38:13,041
Speaker 1: time with just Targe. And I also feel like when

951
00:38:13,041 --> 00:38:15,001
Speaker 1: I'm with her, I can't give my order charge because

952
00:38:15,041 --> 00:38:16,081
Speaker 1: she interrupts every.

953
00:38:15,881 --> 00:38:17,721
Speaker 3: Five and they need you so much more. I can

954
00:38:17,761 --> 00:38:20,001
Speaker 3: feel like with Red two, it's hard to have quality

955
00:38:20,001 --> 00:38:21,881
Speaker 3: time with the others when she is around. Like even

956
00:38:21,921 --> 00:38:23,521
Speaker 3: if Kur just takes her out for half the day

957
00:38:23,561 --> 00:38:24,881
Speaker 3: and I got the other two, I'm like, oh I

958
00:38:24,881 --> 00:38:28,521
Speaker 3: can really, it's not conset mum, mum mum that I

959
00:38:28,521 --> 00:38:29,401
Speaker 3: want this want that.

960
00:38:29,401 --> 00:38:31,841
Speaker 1: It's just one hundred percent. So I'm excited to just

961
00:38:31,961 --> 00:38:34,281
Speaker 1: be fully present with him. They're just going for twelve days,

962
00:38:34,281 --> 00:38:35,761
Speaker 1: which I know sounds like a lot, but for a

963
00:38:35,761 --> 00:38:38,161
Speaker 1: europe trip, it's actually not no, if you're allowed twenty

964
00:38:38,161 --> 00:38:40,081
Speaker 1: four hours on one end twenty four hours in the

965
00:38:40,081 --> 00:38:42,921
Speaker 1: back end to get home, and the time difference is

966
00:38:42,961 --> 00:38:44,721
Speaker 1: so hard to adjust to and it's going to be

967
00:38:44,761 --> 00:38:45,481
Speaker 1: pretty go go go.

968
00:38:45,761 --> 00:38:47,041
Speaker 3: So what's the time difference?

969
00:38:47,081 --> 00:38:49,761
Speaker 1: Like it's like complete opposite, pleet opposite. Yeah, around like

970
00:38:49,801 --> 00:38:52,481
Speaker 1: I think two pm, but it was like three am

971
00:38:52,961 --> 00:38:53,401
Speaker 1: at home.

972
00:38:53,521 --> 00:38:56,281
Speaker 3: Oh wow. It's like it's like complete opposite, so out

973
00:38:56,321 --> 00:38:57,321
Speaker 3: of wag wow.

974
00:38:57,681 --> 00:39:00,641
Speaker 1: But I'm so excited. It's going to be so fun.

975
00:39:00,801 --> 00:39:01,321
Speaker 3: So exciting.

976
00:39:01,321 --> 00:39:04,001
Speaker 1: So when you go again September seventh, September seventh, and

977
00:39:04,041 --> 00:39:06,521
Speaker 1: the wedding is on the twelve. Yeah, so she's gonna

978
00:39:06,561 --> 00:39:09,561
Speaker 1: look so beautiful. I should be the most stunning bride. Stunning, Yeah,

979
00:39:09,681 --> 00:39:12,241
Speaker 1: like she really is. There's not one bit of like

980
00:39:12,321 --> 00:39:15,881
Speaker 1: closet psychoe is there. Someone is so perfect You're like,

981
00:39:16,121 --> 00:39:19,361
Speaker 1: you've got to be a closet psycho. There's nothing with her.

982
00:39:19,601 --> 00:39:21,561
Speaker 1: It is so even like when she has a little

983
00:39:21,561 --> 00:39:23,321
Speaker 1: bit of fire, she's like, oh no, I bought my fire.

984
00:39:23,401 --> 00:39:24,921
Speaker 1: I'm like, are we talking beath.

985
00:39:24,761 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 3: Fire or we're talking like proper fire.

986
00:39:27,041 --> 00:39:30,721
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, beasth fire. Oh and then lastly for me,

987
00:39:30,841 --> 00:39:32,641
Speaker 1: is just we've got our next ultimate girl's day out.

988
00:39:32,641 --> 00:39:34,241
Speaker 1: We don't have another one booked in, but this is

989
00:39:34,241 --> 00:39:36,841
Speaker 1: happening August eleventh. So yeah, as I said, the day

990
00:39:36,881 --> 00:39:38,921
Speaker 1: before I go into hospital, So it's gonna be really

991
00:39:38,961 --> 00:39:41,041
Speaker 1: nice for me to be in their energy do the ice.

992
00:39:40,881 --> 00:39:44,721
Speaker 3: BA Honestly will be. It's the most incredible day. If

993
00:39:44,761 --> 00:39:46,801
Speaker 3: you guys haven't listened to my episode speaking about the

994
00:39:46,801 --> 00:39:50,321
Speaker 3: breathwork session, go listen to it. Yeah, just for that alone,

995
00:39:50,401 --> 00:39:52,161
Speaker 3: like that experience that I got out of it. The

996
00:39:52,161 --> 00:39:55,401
Speaker 3: breathwork alone is worth the whole day. Yeah, but everything's amazing,

997
00:39:55,521 --> 00:39:58,601
Speaker 3: so such good value. I'm really excited for that August eleventh.

998
00:39:59,361 --> 00:40:00,961
Speaker 1: Otherwise, that's a big catch up.

999
00:40:01,041 --> 00:40:03,721
Speaker 3: Yeah, now, I know, I feel like we haven't done

1000
00:40:03,721 --> 00:40:05,961
Speaker 3: one of these ages. We had so much to talk.

1001
00:40:05,881 --> 00:40:08,761
Speaker 1: About so much. We like dabble in it in little episodes.

1002
00:40:08,801 --> 00:40:11,481
Speaker 1: But yeah, hey, you guys know all the lowdown ps.

1003
00:40:11,921 --> 00:40:16,001
Speaker 3: Love yourself enough to choose happiness over convenience. Disconnect from

1004
00:40:16,001 --> 00:40:18,681
Speaker 3: social media when it feels toxic, create a life that

1005
00:40:18,721 --> 00:40:21,561
Speaker 3: feels good on the inside, Let go of what weighs

1006
00:40:21,601 --> 00:40:24,641
Speaker 3: you down. Understand when you need time for yourself. End

1007
00:40:24,641 --> 00:40:28,281
Speaker 3: cycles of self neglect, Speak kindly to yourself, be honest

1008
00:40:28,281 --> 00:40:31,521
Speaker 3: with yourself about your feelings, challenge thoughts that don't serve you,

1009
00:40:31,641 --> 00:40:34,281
Speaker 3: and believe in yourself. I love that.

1010
00:40:35,121 --> 00:40:38,761
Speaker 1: PS. Gentle reminder, no person is one hundred percent heel

1011
00:40:38,841 --> 00:40:42,721
Speaker 1: because healing isn't linear. We go backwards and forwards and

1012
00:40:42,761 --> 00:40:46,041
Speaker 1: sometimes we're all over the place, but that's the process.

1013
00:40:46,321 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 1: Please don't think you must be one hundred percent heel

1014
00:40:48,801 --> 00:40:51,161
Speaker 1: to deserve love and good things in life, because you

1015
00:40:51,281 --> 00:40:56,281
Speaker 1: absolutely do. Always Amen, men, thanks for joining us. Guys,

1016
00:40:56,321 --> 00:40:57,761
Speaker 1: will see you on Wednesday.

1017
00:40:57,881 --> 00:40:58,601
Speaker 3: See you then by