1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gaddigal Land Always was, always 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land. 3 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 2: Pyjix. I'm out and. 4 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 3: This is two broad chicks to show that shares life 5 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 3: less and tips to help make you rich in life 6 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 3: and welcome back and welcome to the show back, Hello 7 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 3: for having me. Oh my god, I'm so excited. I'm 8 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 3: ready to like do a full life rebrand. It's going 9 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 3: to be me at like one am with an led 10 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 3: light mask on, being like. 11 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:35,199 Speaker 2: Come to get out with like a green juice. 12 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, now that's crazy. It will still be a glass 13 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 4: of given you. 14 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 3: It'll be a cokes here with a fuck ton of 15 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 3: ice in it and like a vod capasita RIGATONI. 16 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's my plan tonight. And I'm going to watch 17 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:49,840 Speaker 4: Just Think Your Loves and Mormon Wives Reunion. 18 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 2: It's important that's all part of the rebrand because something 19 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 2: should remain consistent exactly. Yeah. 20 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: But yeah, in today's episode, We've got you on because 21 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: it's the perfect time of year we were saying to have. 22 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 2: You on because we're going to be talking how to. 23 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: Set your goals and create habits that actually stick in 24 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: twenty twenty. 25 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 4: Six, I'm like starting early on it. 26 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because that's what we often say, and 27 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: I'm sure you feel the same, that you don't have 28 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 1: to wait until the first of January to start creating 29 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: those habits that you want. 30 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:20,839 Speaker 5: I think that's the cheat code is to start before 31 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 5: the new year, like you have a little like ramp up, 32 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 5: do you know what I mean? It's a little practice 33 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 5: run and sometimes, like we know that study suggests it 34 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 5: takes on average sixty six days. Imagine if we started 35 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 5: in like November or like you know, early December, we've 36 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 5: come from end of gym, halfway through instilling a brand 37 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 5: new thing into our lifestyle. 38 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:41,919 Speaker 4: That what do I want to do for sixty six days? 39 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 2: I need to figure it out. By the end of 40 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 2: the episode, we'll know. 41 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 1: But before we get into it, we like to start 42 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 1: with a life lesson of the week. 43 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 2: So would you like to kick this off? 44 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: I do. 45 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 5: It's a good one. It's a really good one. And 46 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 5: it's to do with my phone. Oh, I bought a brick. 47 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 5: If you the brick? Yes, yes, yes, I have no 48 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 5: affiliation with the brand, but is the the best product 49 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 5: I have purchased all year. It's literally just a little 50 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 5: square device like a brick. And it's a magnet and 51 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 5: you stick it wherever you want. I put mine in 52 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 5: my fridge and basically you tap it like you would 53 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 5: like a pay pass thing. It blocks you out of 54 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 5: any social media app, basically any app on your phone. 55 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 5: It blocks all notifications. And the only way to override 56 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 5: that is to go over to the brick and untap yourself, 57 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:34,399 Speaker 5: like tap it again and physically. Yes. Yeah, so it's 58 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 5: like an intentional, deliberate choice to unblock yourself from social media. 59 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 5: So I used to have all that, like the Opal 60 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 5: app and whatever, but I would always override it. Yes, 61 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 5: I would always really dismiss, Yes, dismiss. When you decide 62 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 5: to make the decision to unbrick yourself, you have to 63 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 5: get up, walk over to wherever you have placed it, 64 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,959 Speaker 5: and they recommend you place it in a really inconvenient place. 65 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: Ah. 66 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 5: Some people keep it in their car. 67 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 3: Some people keep it ah ah yeah that's brutal, yeah 68 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 3: going outside. 69 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 4: Fuck. So I has ded occasion to the course. 70 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 71 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 5: So I have been like bricking myself or blocking myself 72 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 5: from distracting apps for like sixteen to twenty hours a day. 73 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 5: I just post, you know, unbreak myself for half an 74 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 5: hour and then break myself again and get back to 75 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 5: real life. My mental health has truly never been better. 76 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 2: Okay, I feel like I really need to do this. 77 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 5: I've had it for about a week, week and a half. 78 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 4: Okay, how long did you start with? 79 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 2: Did you were you? 80 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 4: Did you raw dog it to twenty hours? 81 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? 82 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 5: I did. I got to live in the afternoon one afternoon, 83 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 5: and I. 84 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 2: Really myselfy better than everyone else. 85 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 5: So I bricked it like seven thirty that the night 86 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 5: I got it. 87 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 4: That is my favorite. 88 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: I bricked it. I've bricked it. That's how I say. 89 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 3: I shit myself and I'm like scared being like fucking 90 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 3: bricked it. 91 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, so I break myself at seven thirty, got up 92 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 5: in the morning, checked my phone like by default, nothing 93 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 5: no Slack, no email, no Instagram, no TikTok nothing. 94 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 2: Wow. 95 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 5: All I have, like unbricked is my family group chat. Okay, 96 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 5: it was just wholesome messages from my family. I got up, 97 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 5: went for a morning walk, did a gym session, came 98 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,279 Speaker 5: back still nothing uninterrupted morning routine. 99 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm like kind of getting even anxious. 100 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 2: Yeah. 101 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 5: Picked up my phone by default, and I was like, oh, 102 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 5: there's nothing there there's nothing, there's on there, no unbreaked. 103 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 5: At nine point thirty, started work and then I flicked 104 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 5: over to work mode and all the notifications came back 105 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 5: in and I was like, what the fuck? And the 106 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 5: next day I'll break myself and unbricked the same hours 107 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,359 Speaker 5: wild And what I love most about it is you 108 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,359 Speaker 5: can actually set different themes if you will. So there's 109 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 5: one I've set for a nighttime routine where it blocks everything, 110 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 5: and then there's also another like theme that I've set 111 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 5: called work mode and it allows only work related apps 112 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 5: to come through. It's changing my life. Yes, it was 113 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,359 Speaker 5: like one hundred dollars. Okay, that's that was Yeah, And 114 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 5: I think if you buy two three, it's like discounted 115 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 5: to add more. But the phone should be a tool. 116 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 5: It's like, I'm so dependent on this. It has changed 117 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 5: my life. And what I've really noticed and the life 118 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 5: lesson here is the phone. This year has been my 119 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,919 Speaker 5: biggest routine breaker and momentum killer. 120 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 3: Mmmm. 121 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 2: I agree. 122 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 4: I've had a bad year with my phone. 123 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 124 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 2: The screen time is the screen time is. 125 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: Cool. 126 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 2: It's really bad. 127 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 4: Okay, what's your life lesson? Sow? 128 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 1: My life lesson of the week is actually inspired by 129 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: the latest episode of The Kardashians. This week's episode was 130 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: all about Kim's trial after she was robbed in Paris, 131 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: like almost ten years ago. It was wild and I 132 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 1: couldn't believe that it's taken almost ten years for her 133 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 1: to finally like confront these people in court and for 134 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 1: them to go to prison and whatnot. But it was 135 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 1: really incredible. And obviously, you know, people have a lot 136 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: to say about the Kardashians and Kim Kardashian. She's definitely 137 00:05:57,040 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 1: not perfect. But there was one scene in it that 138 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: people have probably seen on socials and whatnot, because I 139 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: think it was used in some of the trailers and 140 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: stuff to promote the episode. But when she showed up 141 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: in court, she wore a shit ton of diamonds, I 142 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 1: including a recreation of the diamond ring that they stole. 143 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 2: And I think when I. 144 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 1: First saw that, I kind of was like, oh, like, 145 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: I don't know if I would have done that, and 146 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: like Chris Jenner also was like, do we think this 147 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 1: is a good idea? 148 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 4: And the prosecutor also told her not to do that. 149 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like they were being like, don't do that, it's disrespectful, 150 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 1: And I just really admired her for being like, no, 151 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 1: I'm going to show up as me and I'm not 152 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: going to let you take away a part of me again, 153 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: Like why do I have to show up and show 154 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:49,919 Speaker 1: respect to these people who disrespected me? And you know, 155 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: obviously not all of us are showing up to a 156 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 1: court case that's going to be splashed over the worldwide 157 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: news every single day. But I do think that there 158 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: are some things that you know, you'll be like, oh, well, 159 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: I'll tone myself down because I don't want to be disrespectful, 160 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: or I won't wear this because I don't want to 161 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 1: upset someone, or I won't you know, cut bangs because 162 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 1: my boyfriend won't like it. And I just thought that 163 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 1: if in that moment she could do that and be like, no, 164 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: I want to show up as myself, it's like a 165 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: good reminder for everybody to do that. 166 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thanks, Kimmy so good. 167 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 4: I saw that, Cliff, and I was also like, she. 168 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 5: Also looked, yeah, amazing. 169 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 4: Okay, my life lesson of the week is does the 170 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 4: perfect toast exist? 171 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 2: Oh? 172 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:36,239 Speaker 4: I have a photo and I want us all to vote. 173 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 3: Okay, okay for me, I'm going to pass the phone 174 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 3: around actually, you guys start beck, you start six. That 175 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 3: was so straightaway, and you looked at me like, obviously 176 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 3: it's sick. 177 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 2: I okay, wow, okay, mine is two? 178 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 5: What what is it? 179 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 2: I like? Really cooked almost burnt ots? 180 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 4: Okay, I I think I'm either three or six. 181 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 2: Six is perfect. 182 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 3: I want it to be soft on the middle, like bread, 183 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 3: but a little crisped on the outside. 184 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 2: Yeah that's not I don't like it like that, but 185 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 2: I understand. But the two tastes tastes burnt. I like it. 186 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: I like the smoky kind of flavor. I like that 187 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 1: it's crunchy. Can I be controversial yet brave? 188 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:33,960 Speaker 4: I can sometimes fuck with the nine too. 189 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 2: Ghost toast kind of. 190 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 5: Depends on the topping as well, what you're spreading. 191 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I fuck with the nine sometimes. 192 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 2: Is that the one that's barely cool? It's toasted? 193 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 1: Nah, that's basically stale bread like bread like that has 194 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: the texture of stale bread. 195 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 4: What's your nightmare toast on this one? 196 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 2: Or don't wait? What is that? 197 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 1: Nine? 198 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 2: Sorry? Nine? 199 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 1: A little bit of butter and jam on, But I 200 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: don't fuck with jammy one might one and four a 201 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 1: my nightmare toast? 202 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 5: Burn edges? 203 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 2: I like four as well. Here. If it doesn't come 204 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 2: out like that, I put it in for a bit longer. 205 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: This is good because if I ever burn my toast, 206 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 1: then you can just That's exactly what my boyfriend says. 207 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 2: If you so. Is Chris also a six. 208 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 5: No, he's like. 209 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 1: More in the middle, Like he's just like a whatever 210 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: sits exactly in the middle of that. 211 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 2: I don't think the perfect toast exists exactly. I think 212 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 2: that proved. 213 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, does the perfect toast exist? 214 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 3: Have your stay in the comments let us know. Yeah, 215 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 3: we'll post it on in Stadiram and TikTok. So you 216 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 3: guys can give us your thoat fight. 217 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: It out all right, Shall we get into the episode? Now, 218 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: let's do the damn Okay, twenty twenty six is coming. 219 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 1: We're getting a head start. 220 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 3: I really really like your approach to, you know, kind 221 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 3: of self betterment because it's not about doing a complete 222 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 3: overhaul of like your personality or your habit and like 223 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 3: basically waking up being like, Okay, I'm gonna be this 224 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 3: fit spoke queen that like seven hundred liters of water 225 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 3: a day, works out three times and like never uses 226 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:07,719 Speaker 3: their phone. It's about like the one percent better. So 227 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 3: what are the habits that will make you one percent 228 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 3: better every day? And how do you work to implement them? 229 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 5: So I think it depends on the kind of person 230 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,319 Speaker 5: that you are and what it is you're working towards. 231 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 5: So I would argue that my one percent better habits 232 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 5: are completely different to an athlete or a student. So 233 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 5: I would get very clear first and foremost, who do 234 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 5: I want to be or embody in twenty twenty six 235 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 5: and what am I working towards in twenty twenty six? 236 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 5: And then from there I typically choose like three to 237 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 5: find one percent better habits. And what I mean by 238 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 5: that is like your feel good fundamentals, So like, what 239 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 5: are the things if I did every single day non negotiable, 240 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 5: would make me just one percent better in terms of 241 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 5: the way that I feel, or one percent closer to 242 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 5: what it is that I'm working towards. 243 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 4: What's an example of like a one percent habit? 244 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 3: Because obviously I think we can get this thing in 245 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 3: our heads where it's like you think it's one percent, 246 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 3: but really you're going for like forty percent and it's 247 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 3: like it's too much. 248 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 5: Again, it's subjective. I would say yea for myself if 249 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:13,440 Speaker 5: I don't hydrate about the day, I feel discussing, I 250 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 5: have headaches, I am sluggish, I'm not working at my best. 251 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 5: Ability movement in the morning no negotiable for me. If 252 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 5: I don't, I'm grumpy, I don't want to work. It 253 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 5: impacts everything else. So if you can think about your 254 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 5: day to day, what are some things that if you 255 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 5: showed up in every single day? They could be as 256 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 5: simple as anything. It could be making your bed, It 257 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 5: could be getting some sun. It could be connecting with 258 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 5: someone before you start your work or whatever. Like, what 259 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 5: is something that fills up your carp but makes you 260 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 5: also feel like your very best. So I would choose 261 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 5: anywhere between you know, three to five of those, and 262 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 5: then start tracking them in a habit tracker. I believe 263 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 5: habit tracking four five years ago change my life. I 264 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 5: built a brand around it. Get yourself a habit tracker. Literally, 265 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 5: go to pinterests as free ones on Pinterest, print it off, 266 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 5: stick it on your wall, put in your feel good fundamentals, 267 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 5: and trial it for the first couple of weeks of January. 268 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 5: That is, in my opinion, the easiest way to start 269 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 5: building a new habit into your lifestyle. 270 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:11,439 Speaker 3: I agree I like the one percent idea because as well, 271 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 3: it is maybe like just having one extra glass of 272 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 3: water normally wood or like you said, just making your bed. 273 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 3: Making a bed in the morning scratches a part of 274 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 3: my brain that is so disgustingly satisfying. It's amazing. And 275 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 3: when I don't make it, I feel like shit. 276 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 4: But do you know what the best part is when 277 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 4: my boyfriend makes it. 278 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,559 Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, Like if i've like run, if I've 279 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 3: left before he has and I come. 280 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:42,239 Speaker 4: Home and the bed's been made, I'm like, Yes, who's getting. 281 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 2: Kidding me about me? I'm kidding Hi, mum, that's a joke. 282 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 3: I've never seen a penis in my life. 283 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 2: Okay, you also developed. 284 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 3: A theory which which I want to get into because 285 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 3: that blew up content wise for you as well. 286 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 2: Which collapse for you. 287 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:11,199 Speaker 4: But it's the future you theory? What is the future 288 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 4: you theory? 289 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 5: Okay? So the future You theory was actually inspired by 290 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 5: book I was reading at the time called TENX Is 291 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:19,199 Speaker 5: Easier Than two X, and basically the author talks about 292 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 5: how if you want to tenx your life completely overhaul 293 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 5: your life, you have to make sure that everything in 294 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 5: it around it the way that you think, the way 295 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 5: that you speak, what you eat, who you hang around 296 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 5: has to reflect that ten X version. So I loved 297 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 5: that concept. It was a little bit all or nothing though, 298 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 5: in my opinion. So I was like, how can I 299 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 5: mestion mold this to suit where I'm at in my 300 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:42,839 Speaker 5: life in the season I'm in. And I thought, Okay, 301 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 5: I'm actively always almost always chipping away at building my 302 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:51,199 Speaker 5: future self. How can I start living in accordance to her? 303 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 5: So if I think of like the biggest best version 304 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:56,880 Speaker 5: of future Beck, how does she move, how does she dress? 305 00:13:57,080 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 5: Who does she hang around? Like everything? How can I 306 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 5: start making every decision with her in mind? You know, 307 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:07,080 Speaker 5: I did a complete audit of who am I hanging around? 308 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 5: What am I? You know, my healthy habits at the moment? 309 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 5: How do I show up in my daily routines? 310 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: Like? 311 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 5: It was a huge moment for me to kind of 312 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 5: dissect everything I was doing. And it was as simple 313 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 5: as asking myself, is this in alignment with future you? No? 314 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 5: It actually goodbye, no longer allowed in my life for 315 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 5: my next season. And if it does reflect future me, 316 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 5: we continue that and or we elevate that. 317 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 4: So it's like basically building like the Sims character. 318 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 5: Exactly want to be. That's exactly it. Yeah, and it's 319 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 5: like making that conscious decision as frequently as you can 320 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 5: throughout your day to flick over to that future your mindset, Like, 321 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 5: is this decision I'm about to make, whether it's a 322 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 5: work decision or saying yes to this opportunity? 're going 323 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 5: to hang out with those people? Is this in alignment 324 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 5: with the person I'm actually wanting to be? 325 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 326 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 5: Yes, or no? 327 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 1: Because I think a lot of us have this idea 328 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 1: that the future version of us will be, you know, 329 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 1: magically just is completely different person. 330 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 4: And they'll just exist. Yeah, got a no effort. 331 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like you need to make steps and 332 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: actually action those things to become that person. With that 333 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 1: in mind, what are three things that the chicks can 334 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 1: do to set themselves up for success before twenty twenty six? 335 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 5: Okay, first thing I would do, and this is I 336 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 5: love this stuff type a girly I love it. Let's 337 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 5: ordit how twenty twenty five went. And it doesn't have 338 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 5: to be a ridiculous, crazy spreadsheet and all this data. 339 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 5: It can be as simple as what actually felt really 340 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 5: good in twenty twenty five, What didn't? What come long, 341 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 5: dear hair? 342 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 2: There was a shit? Yeah? So is it kind of 343 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 2: like split it up in just rose cons column? 344 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: Yeah? 345 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 4: Like what did I enjoy in twenty twenty five? 346 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 2: And what can I give them? What do I want 347 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 2: to leave? Swipe right and swipe left. 348 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 5: Exactly what are we bringing into twenty twenty six? Who 349 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 5: drained me? What drained me? What did I say yes 350 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 5: to when I really wanted to say no? Like, let's 351 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 5: just have a little think about what worked what did not. 352 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 5: The next thing obviously set your twenty twenty six goals, 353 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 5: which I love. I set anywhere between one to three 354 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 5: personal goals and then professional goals what's good? Yeah, And 355 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 5: then I do like a twelve week plan kind of 356 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 5: approach where I will do like ninety day sprints and 357 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 5: I've rint some repeat to the year's end. So I 358 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 5: will actually do an action plan for the quarter. So 359 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 5: based on this goal, this overarching goal for twenty twenty six, 360 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 5: what is required of me? 361 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? 362 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 5: Every quarter and then rinse and. 363 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 3: Repeat, builds up yep, yeah, yeah, I like that. We 364 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 3: do similar thing. 365 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 5: Kind of like reverse engineering the big goal into bite 366 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 5: sized pieces and then what's required of me? On a 367 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 5: daily basis, weekly, monthly, and then at the end of 368 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 5: that quarter I will audit, reflect, review, rinse, and repeat 369 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 5: until year's end. 370 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 2: I love that. 371 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 4: And what's the third thing you can do before the 372 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 4: end of the year. 373 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 5: Create a vision board? 374 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 2: I love my favorite part, but. 375 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 5: I have I have a little bit of like a 376 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 5: not a cheat code, but my suggestion for twenty twenty six. 377 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:10,359 Speaker 5: I used to fill my vision board full of tangible 378 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 5: material things the car, the business class, flight seat, whatever. 379 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 5: What I did really well last year I'm rinsing and 380 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 5: repeating for this year is I'm inserting images that reflect 381 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 5: the person I want to be, the person I need 382 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 5: to embody so that I can then get the car, 383 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:31,920 Speaker 5: the business you know. So, like there was a lot 384 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 5: of quotes and words and images on my vision board 385 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 5: last year and which I'm going to do this year 386 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 5: that represent things like discipline and confidence and being you know, 387 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:44,119 Speaker 5: a calculated risk taker, and like, you know, words and 388 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 5: quotes that reflect that, because when I look at that, 389 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 5: then I'm like, that's exactly who I need to be 390 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 5: in order to get all the other tangible stuff that 391 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 5: is scattered around here. So do a beautiful blend of 392 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 5: both if you can. 393 00:17:56,720 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 3: I love that we did like a vision board, not 394 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 3: this year, last year, right, and I didn't do one 395 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 3: this year and I felt that, but yeah I did. 396 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:10,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah I did. 397 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 1: I walked into the head of Disney and I said, 398 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 1: I want to make history. 399 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:22,640 Speaker 4: Sorry, sorry vocal stim. 400 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. Like, I feel like the year that we did 401 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 1: the vision board, I was able to then use it 402 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:35,119 Speaker 1: as like a thing to be like, well, look at 403 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:37,919 Speaker 1: all the things that I did achieve, right, and it 404 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 1: kind of holds you accountable. 405 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:41,360 Speaker 2: To be able to look back. 406 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 4: And realize like, okay, cool, I had like get a 407 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 4: new car on there, or I had gone a holiday, 408 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 4: or I had all these all these things on there 409 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,880 Speaker 4: that I'm like, holy shit, all of those happened. 410 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 1: And like whether or not it's because the vision board 411 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 1: was there and subconciously reminding me, or whether it was 412 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 1: just like working hard or whatever. That is to be 413 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:02,879 Speaker 1: able to have that visually there, to be able to 414 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: look at it and be like, wow, I did the 415 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 1: things I wanted to do, and having that visual like 416 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: stimulant to be able to recognize that I regret not 417 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 1: making one this year. 418 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 4: So exactly twenty twenty six. 419 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 3: I'm absolutely making a vision board because I think that's 420 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 3: a good thing to reference. Is like doing it one 421 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 3: year and then not doing it and the difference. 422 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 2: Did I feel a difference? 423 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, I love it? 424 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, case study. 425 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:32,920 Speaker 1: Yeah literally, because I think a lot of us look 426 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,920 Speaker 1: at them as tools for motivation, which of course they are, 427 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 1: but also they can be a tool for gratitude too. 428 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's where I felt it, because like, yeah, I 429 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 4: didn't like wake up every day and fucking kiss my 430 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 4: vision board. 431 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 2: But you didn't. 432 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:47,680 Speaker 1: You did? 433 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:49,199 Speaker 4: Was it the photo of me? 434 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? 435 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,879 Speaker 4: But yeah, like it was a really good tool to 436 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 4: be able to look back on my achievements for the year. 437 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 4: That's what I really enjoyed from it. 438 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:00,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, So like yeah, and it was crazy how many 439 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:03,160 Speaker 3: el was like whoa like all the things. 440 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 2: I was like, magic witch. 441 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, let's talk self sabotage. 442 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 2: Sabotage? 443 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 3: How do we self sabotage our new year goals or 444 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:13,880 Speaker 3: our future? 445 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 2: You not as like a how do we do it? 446 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 4: Is that? 447 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 3: How do we avoid it? How do we avoid self sabotaging? 448 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:24,679 Speaker 3: We know how I can go for that episode? 449 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 4: You don't even that one back where we got that one? 450 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:33,880 Speaker 5: Okay, I think this is this is personal experience with 451 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 5: my goals where I have either set goals that are 452 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 5: so completely unrealistic to the human that I am like, 453 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 5: you're almost setting yourself up to fail. So something I 454 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,280 Speaker 5: saw a lot of this year was, and myself included, 455 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 5: every man and his dog got into running, which I love. 456 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 5: But you hear a lot of stories of people saying 457 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,199 Speaker 5: I fucking hate running. I've never run before in my 458 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,040 Speaker 5: entire life, but I want to run a marathon by February, 459 00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 5: and it's generary. So I feel like a lot of 460 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 5: us we have this idea in our brain, but then 461 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:07,360 Speaker 5: we also have an environment that is the complete opposite 462 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:11,200 Speaker 5: or a lifestyle that is a complete opposite. So while 463 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 5: I love being Delulu, I think it's also very important 464 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:16,439 Speaker 5: when it comes to goals that we set goals that 465 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 5: are realistic to either what we have right now or 466 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 5: what we know we will be so certain we can build, 467 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 5: because I feel like we're setting ourselves up a failure 468 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 5: failure otherwise. And the other thing I feel is a 469 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 5: lot of people set goals and then forget about the environment. 470 00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:37,479 Speaker 5: So how can you ensure that your environment reflects what 471 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 5: it is that you're working towards. So habit tracking, have 472 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 5: you got apps to hold your hand through that accountability? 473 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 5: Can you get yourself a brick? If you know? One 474 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 5: of your goals for yeah, bricks, get a broock for 475 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 5: twenty twenty six is to be more intentional? Okay, so 476 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 5: what's your environment? Like, what's your screen time? 477 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 4: Yeah? 478 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:55,400 Speaker 5: What apps are we using? What products or tools can 479 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 5: we insert into our environment to ensure that we are 480 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:02,120 Speaker 5: holding ourselves accountable and you know, meeting ourselves halfway through 481 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:05,680 Speaker 5: those goals? So two parted to that. One make sure 482 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 5: your goals are somewhat realistic to either the lack that 483 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,919 Speaker 5: you have right now or one that you know you 484 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 5: can absolutely work towards. And two make sure that you 485 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:18,200 Speaker 5: audit your environment is the environment I show up in 486 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 5: my digital, my physical, my emotional, reflective, Yeah, supportive. 487 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:26,159 Speaker 4: I also think as well. I think it's really important 488 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:30,400 Speaker 4: to make your goals like do you care about it? 489 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 4: Like do you even care about it? 490 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 1: And also like make them fun, Like I feel like 491 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 1: we do miss this element that like you know, yes, 492 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 1: there's really important goals around health and money and fitness, 493 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,560 Speaker 1: but I don't think we focus enough on goals that 494 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:49,159 Speaker 1: are like just genuinely fun, Like how am I gonna 495 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:53,280 Speaker 1: enjoy more time with friends? Or like how am I 496 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 1: going to feel like my most like whimsical light self, 497 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,720 Speaker 1: Like what are the ways that I'm gonna enjoy my 498 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:02,479 Speaker 1: goals rather than these feeling like a punishment rather than 499 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:05,119 Speaker 1: than being like negative goals, like making them positive and 500 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,919 Speaker 1: fun hate the whole thing and being like, you know, well, 501 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 1: how can we create goals that are leaning into the 502 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,360 Speaker 1: things that we're good at and the things that we want? 503 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, completely changing. 504 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 3: Yourself and kind of like what you were saying on 505 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 3: the running thing, like with the internet, fabulous place, but 506 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:26,199 Speaker 3: we can sometimes absorb agreed other people's goals and like 507 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 3: trending goals lack with the running thing, and it's like. 508 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 4: Included became a runner for like three months. I still 509 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 4: love a run, but like, definitely I'm not as like 510 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 4: running as I used to be. 511 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,960 Speaker 2: Having goals that like you actually give a. 512 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 3: Shit about rather than absorbing what you think your goals 513 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,359 Speaker 3: are supposed to be is also a good way that 514 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 3: you're probably going to stick to it because you'll look. 515 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 2: Forward to it. Yeah, yeah, I agree, Yeah, we need 516 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,680 Speaker 2: more fun goals, more fun goals. 517 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 3: Okay, I really want to ask about this because Sala's 518 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:03,440 Speaker 3: probably one of the. 519 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 4: Most morning challenged. I'm gonna say people I have ever met. 520 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's hard for you, and it's okay. I don't. 521 00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 1: I just don't like waking up, and I never have, 522 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,879 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I never have. 523 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 2: I don't think I. 524 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,879 Speaker 1: Have like a bad morning routine per se, but I 525 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:26,199 Speaker 1: just hate waking up. And it's never no matter what 526 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 1: I do, it's never easier. It doesn't matter how much 527 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 1: sleep I get. You know what time I go to bed. 528 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 4: Howepy girl. 529 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 1: So you did a whole content series on how to 530 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 1: become a morning person? 531 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 2: How do we do this? First of all, bricked get 532 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 2: bricked up? 533 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 3: I love that, Like bricks can be like a joke 534 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 3: to like getting hard. 535 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 2: That's what I saying. 536 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 3: Getting bricked and then like bricking it is like shit, 537 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:54,919 Speaker 3: like you're shitting it, like you're like fuck, the opportunities 538 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:56,879 Speaker 3: are endless here getting bricks. 539 00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:58,479 Speaker 2: I love it. 540 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:04,120 Speaker 1: Morning routine horny for goals, that's the title of the episode. 541 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 5: If you don't want to be a morning girly, we 542 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 5: don't have to be a morning girly. I think that's 543 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 5: and really relating back to what you said, Like, sometimes 544 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 5: we absorb what people are doing, like our favorite influenzo 545 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 5: or our favorite fitspo or whatever, like oh, they're a 546 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 5: morning girly or they're a marathon runner. Let me do that. Yeah, 547 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 5: it doesn't actually have to be that way. However, if 548 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 5: you want to be an early bird, a morning girly, 549 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:30,879 Speaker 5: per se, I always recommend trying to make your morning 550 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 5: routine as fun as you possibly can, something that you 551 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,119 Speaker 5: look forward to. So tying it back to my feel 552 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 5: good fundamentals, I insert all my feel good fundamentals first 553 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 5: thing in the morning. So I wake up, I go 554 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 5: down to the beach, and I like connect with my 555 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 5: husband and my puppies. We go for a walk. That's 556 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 5: a huge feel good fundamental for me. 557 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 4: Come can I come for your feel good fundamentals? 558 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 5: Please do. 559 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,199 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be at the beach that heavac. 560 00:25:56,480 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 5: I'm here, Puffy go for a big walk, like four k, 561 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 5: five k walk by the beach, Like I look forward 562 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,159 Speaker 5: to that every single day. Like the moment I wake up, 563 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm so excited for this. 564 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:08,679 Speaker 1: More. 565 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,719 Speaker 5: What times do you wake up at the moment it's 566 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 5: around four No, it's like the alarm goes off and 567 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:16,920 Speaker 5: then like, I'll get up. 568 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 2: What time do you go to bed? 569 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:25,200 Speaker 5: Eight o'clock? And this is look back just a grandma, Sorry, 570 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,480 Speaker 5: this is my god. This is also part of the 571 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,400 Speaker 5: morning routine. Okay, what time do you guys go to bed? 572 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:30,920 Speaker 5: This is like like. 573 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 2: A leven I go to better like midnight consistently. Sorry, 574 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 2: I'm still before. 575 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 5: I am like I love that. 576 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 577 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, when I sleep past six o'clock, I'm like, oh. 578 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, good body, your body clock would just be day. 579 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yep. So the alarm goes off at four 580 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,160 Speaker 5: and then we get up around you know, four fifteen 581 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 5: down by the beach at summrise. 582 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 4: How beautiful I wish. 583 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,120 Speaker 5: I was like, it's honestly my favorite part of every 584 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:00,679 Speaker 5: single day. And I think that is the key. Just 585 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,000 Speaker 5: showing up consistently is I mean, that's why you. 586 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 4: Can wake up early, because you're like, I want to 587 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:05,239 Speaker 4: go do this thing. 588 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 5: I'm exactactly, and then I've condensed all my feel good 589 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 5: fundamental habits, my one percent habits. First thing in the morning, 590 00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,639 Speaker 5: I am so fucking excited to get home, eat breakfast, 591 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 5: and start work. I'm like, I'm ready for the day. 592 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 5: I am happy, I'm fueled, I'm caffeinated, I've spent time 593 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 5: with my husband and my puppies by the beach, Like, 594 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 5: how can you not know? 595 00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 2: It's very grounding. 596 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:28,640 Speaker 3: It's very like not letting a three pm marketing email 597 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 3: stress me out you've done your thing that kind of 598 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,160 Speaker 3: grounds you, and being like, Okay, this is what I'm 599 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 3: living for. I don't live to have like a KPI 600 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,159 Speaker 3: set for like twenty percent audience growth or what like, 601 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:41,359 Speaker 3: you know. 602 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 2: What I mean? 603 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 4: Yeah? 604 00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 5: And then another thing, also, I've been bricked. 605 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 2: Rick's bricked. 606 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, no one's bothering me. Yeah, no, slack channel nothing. 607 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 4: Do you sleep with your phone in your room? 608 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:54,400 Speaker 5: I do? 609 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do, but it's bricked. 610 00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 5: It's bricked. 611 00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 2: Okay, it's brick. 612 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:02,439 Speaker 4: I'm buying. I'm gonna be breacked up after this. 613 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 2: I'm breaked up right now. I'm kidding. 614 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,159 Speaker 5: My only other tip as well with morning routines is 615 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,119 Speaker 5: I also feel, especially when you're first getting into wanting 616 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 5: to get up early earlier. Sorry, it's like starting the 617 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:17,080 Speaker 5: night before, So it's like, how can you remove that 618 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 5: friction when you wake up and like, oh fuck, I 619 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 5: haven't got any clothes, picked up my walk. Oh where 620 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 5: are my sneakers? 621 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 2: Fuck? 622 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 5: I just won't go. Yeah, So I'll set up my 623 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 5: active wear and my sneakers the night before, and then 624 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:30,000 Speaker 5: I'll obviously be in bed, like eight o'clock, eighteen thirty. 625 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 5: What time did you fall asleep? I fall asleep quite quickly. 626 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,840 Speaker 5: Maybe nine wow? Nine thirty No, probably not even nine thirty. 627 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say that probably wouldn't even be 628 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 2: enough sleep. Wow. 629 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,960 Speaker 1: Sometimes God to spare that like one am. Yeah, not 630 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 1: laying there with like existential dread. 631 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 2: That's just man. Okay. 632 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 4: I want to get into our next topic because twenty 633 00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 4: twenty six is the year of the Sunday game plan. 634 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 4: It is slut for this love a Sunday. 635 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 3: Game plan and Sunday scaries it out. Sunday game plan 636 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 3: is in. So again, you recently did content around this, 637 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 3: tell us what's the Sunday game plan. 638 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 5: The Sunday game plan is basically your little action plan 639 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 5: or your to do list that you are going to 640 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 5: tick off and complete every Sunday that is going to 641 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 5: set you up for the week ahead or even just Monday. Again, 642 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 5: this is going to be really dependent on who you are, 643 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 5: what you do for work, whether you're a mom, business, 644 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 5: own or whatever. It's going to be dependent. But what 645 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 5: are the things that you can do on a Sunday 646 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 5: that come Monday you're like, fuck, I'm ready for the week. 647 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 5: I don't even have to worry about it. So I 648 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,400 Speaker 5: used to before I implemented like a Sunday game plan, 649 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 5: I would wake up on a Monday and be like, oh, 650 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,160 Speaker 5: what have I got coming out this week? Holifark like 651 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 5: we're having a meeting, like let me just double check, 652 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 5: and it would just be I'd be scrambling Monday morning. 653 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 5: So every Sunday I food prep. I don't meal prep. 654 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 5: I food prep so I chop up on my veggies 655 00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 5: and my meat. And I hate meal prepping. I can't 656 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 5: eat like food write the same meal, so do that. 657 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 5: Look at my calendar what's coming up Monday and the 658 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 5: rest of the week. Then I write Mondays to do list. 659 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:08,880 Speaker 5: I don't have to worry about it. I can come 660 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 5: straight into my office on Monday morning. I know exactly 661 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 5: what to do. It is time blocked, it is chunked, 662 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 5: it is ready to go. I will do a house reset, 663 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 5: not a ridiculous one. Just wash the sheets, change the 664 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 5: bed sheets, whatever that makes me feel really really good. Yeah, 665 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 5: and just like little odd jobs around the home, predominantly 666 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,719 Speaker 5: that come Monday, I've walked downstairs to a clean kitchen, 667 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 5: my to do list is done, the house smells nice, 668 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 5: fresh laundry. 669 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 3: I feel like I'm in a dream scale that it's 670 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 3: the best feelingly. 671 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 5: And do you know what, though a lot of people 672 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 5: like your Sunday game plan may be doing absolutely fucking nothing. 673 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 5: I got a lot of comments on that video saying 674 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 5: my Sunday is to just do absolutely nothing and rest 675 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 5: like that is my game plan. That is perfectly fine too. 676 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,240 Speaker 2: Do you know what? You can also have the best 677 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 2: of both worlds. 678 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 3: And I am reaching the final form of becoming my 679 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 3: mother because you you know how like on a Saturday morning, 680 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 3: your mum would wake up and you would hear her 681 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,520 Speaker 3: banging around downstairs and he'd be like, and you'd be like, 682 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 3: stay in bed, stay in bed, otherwise she's going to 683 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 3: make me do the Saturday clean right. These chores, right, 684 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:12,720 Speaker 3: It's always crazy to me when I meet someone and 685 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:13,520 Speaker 3: they're like, what. 686 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,320 Speaker 4: Do you mean chores? And they didn't have chores growing up, Like, 687 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,400 Speaker 4: what do you mean your chores? And clean the bathroom? 688 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 3: Wash your house crazy to me, each their own lovely 689 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 3: for them, but yeah, the Saturday clean. 690 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 4: And you can hear Mom banging around down there. You 691 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 4: can smell the jif in the jif. 692 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 3: She's rocking and rolling, and she'd be like, go to 693 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 3: your chores and be like, I'll do them. It's Saturday, 694 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 3: Like i'll do them when I like, i'll do them today. 695 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 4: I'll do them in the afternoon. Procrastinate a queen. And 696 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 4: Mom would always be like, no, because you get them 697 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:44,760 Speaker 4: done now and then you can enjoy your afternoon and 698 00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 4: you get to enjoy it in a clean house. And 699 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 4: I'll be like you just I prefer to do reaching 700 00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 4: my final form. I'm like, if doing everything in the 701 00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 4: morning to then be able to sit down and click 702 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 4: play on the TV and look at your space that 703 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:04,640 Speaker 4: is so clean, if I could bottle that and sell 704 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 4: it a millionaire, like it's the best feeling in the world. 705 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 1: Well, that's kind of what the Sunday game plan is, right, 706 00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,360 Speaker 1: because then you're doing all of that sort of like 707 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 1: annoying admin, getting it out of the way on a 708 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 1: Sunday so that you can set yourself up and enjoy 709 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:20,720 Speaker 1: your week. 710 00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 4: I also think you can adapt that to whatever suits 711 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 4: your like schedule absolutely, So for example, I love doing 712 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,040 Speaker 4: that on a Friday afternoon. 713 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:33,000 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I just realized how like I'm hot 714 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 3: I am now like being like I love cleaning my 715 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 3: apartment on a Friday night. 716 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:37,680 Speaker 2: What the fuck happens? 717 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's thirty. 718 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:40,959 Speaker 1: Yeah. 719 00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, we used to have fake tan sheets and now 720 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 3: I'm cleaning Jesus Christ, that's how, you know. But I 721 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 3: love like a Friday afternoon at like four o'clock doing 722 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:57,840 Speaker 3: the apartment clean and then like having the everything shower, 723 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 3: ordering the ubrees, and then sitting down to watch my teley. 724 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,160 Speaker 3: It's honestly so good. And then Saturday morning you wake 725 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,040 Speaker 3: up and it's all clean and you don't have to 726 00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 3: do chores on the weekend. 727 00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 4: So yeah, it's. 728 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 5: Literally like really dependent on your schedule. I know a 729 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 5: lot of people who also have like a midwek reset 730 00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,880 Speaker 5: as well. Yeah, they get it done in a week. 731 00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 1: I think I need both need like the beginning and 732 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,680 Speaker 1: then middle and like different things. 733 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 4: Yes, because you're a clean freak, I can't. 734 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:28,520 Speaker 2: Deal with the clutter. You said that you're type A. 735 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:32,360 Speaker 1: Have you always been really good at like habit tracking 736 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,880 Speaker 1: and really organized, or is this something that you have 737 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:36,960 Speaker 1: like built upon us, you've grown up and realized what 738 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 1: works for you. 739 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 5: No, I've always been like that. Yeah, I've always been 740 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:46,960 Speaker 5: a little bit weird. Weird, like with like to do 741 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:48,800 Speaker 5: lists and ticking things. 742 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 3: Off and like once you get a hit of the 743 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 3: super gene, you're like, oh, that's good. 744 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 2: It's like Bruce and Funny Nemo. Yeah it smells. 745 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 4: That's like when you like tick off something, You're like. 746 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:02,920 Speaker 2: That's good. Yeah that's me. Yeah. 747 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, Bruce in finding Nemo is me after I complete 748 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:06,560 Speaker 4: the task. 749 00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:10,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, I can really resonate with that. Yeah. 750 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 2: Okay. 751 00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 1: To wrap up the episode, we always ask our guess 752 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,440 Speaker 1: what their biggest life lesson was, but I would love 753 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 1: to know for you. 754 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 2: Has there been a quote. 755 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:22,640 Speaker 3: A learning or a life lesson that completely altered your 756 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,279 Speaker 3: brain chemistry this year? 757 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 5: Yes, it was a recent one. It was when I 758 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,279 Speaker 5: this was like literally two weeks ago. I had a 759 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 5: really big opportunity arise, a little bit scary, a little 760 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:38,279 Speaker 5: bit of a risk, if you will, And I was 761 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,879 Speaker 5: saying to Zach, Oh my god, my Husband'szach, what if 762 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:42,960 Speaker 5: this doesn't work out? Like this is a huge investment 763 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,560 Speaker 5: of my time and money and what have you. And 764 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:50,080 Speaker 5: he looked at me and he said, Rebecca, fortune favors 765 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:54,839 Speaker 5: the brave. So he said, if you are going to 766 00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:57,359 Speaker 5: get whatever it is that you want in this life, 767 00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 5: because you are brave enough and you know, fearless enough 768 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,920 Speaker 5: to go after what you want, the opportunity, the success, 769 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 5: the abundance of freedom, everything is going to favor you 770 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,960 Speaker 5: taking this risk. And I was like, I'm going to 771 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,719 Speaker 5: implement that whenever I think about, you know, guest speaking 772 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 5: or taking a big opportunity or taking on a big project. 773 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:19,399 Speaker 5: Fortune favors of brave. 774 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:22,800 Speaker 4: I love that and it's a classic for a reason. 775 00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,480 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but it's a good. 776 00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 5: I had never heard it before and I really, oh 777 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:29,959 Speaker 5: my god, I love that in my life. 778 00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:30,880 Speaker 2: Wow. 779 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,680 Speaker 5: I was like, I need to implement this or remember 780 00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:37,239 Speaker 5: this whenever I get a little bit scared or risk 781 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,480 Speaker 5: comes about, and I'm like, oh, well, the payoff fortunes 782 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:40,319 Speaker 5: is going to favor you. 783 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,160 Speaker 4: Yes, And it might not do it straight away, but 784 00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 4: it will in the end. 785 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, absolutely always. Oh my gosh, Well, thank you 786 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,680 Speaker 1: so much for coming on the show. I know that 787 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:52,520 Speaker 1: we both feel incredibly motivated now and I'm sure the 788 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,000 Speaker 1: chicks do as well. But where can the chicks find 789 00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 1: you and learn more about you and what you do? 790 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:57,000 Speaker 2: Uh? 791 00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,120 Speaker 5: Just Bex Stewart on Instagram and TikTok. 792 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 1: Amazing show notes, Thank you so much and also be 793 00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 1: such a queen. She flew down today to come and 794 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 1: do this podcast with us, So thank you. 795 00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:09,759 Speaker 2: We appreciate it so much. 796 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:13,280 Speaker 4: And yeah, also get your hands on Beck's habit tracker. 797 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,719 Speaker 1: Yeah definitely we'll put links show notes, but thanks to 798 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,200 Speaker 1: your chicks for having us in your ear holes. 799 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:19,080 Speaker 5: We love to be here. 800 00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:20,320 Speaker 2: Bye bye