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Speaker 1: when your frontal lobe finally develops and you realize your

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Speaker 2: Let's get into the episode. Hey Jicks, I'm sal and

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Speaker 1: And this is Two Broke Chicks, the show that shares

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Speaker 1: life lessons and tips to help make you rich in life.

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Speaker 2: And today we are chatting signs that your frontal lobe

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Speaker 2: has developed. I'm ready as someone who isn't quite sure

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Speaker 2: there's has yet, right, I'm locked in. Yeah. And because obviously, like.

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Speaker 1: The whole concept of your frontal lobe developing is a

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Speaker 1: scientific term, but in terms of like pop culture lingo

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Speaker 1: and it as a concept, it's a very individual thing

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Speaker 1: where I feel like, you know, one moment, you look

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, dude. When we were like thinking

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Speaker 2: about things in this episode, I was like, I really

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like go me go, you go us collectively. And

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Speaker 1: frontal lobe era of your life exactly. You've got to

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Speaker 1: you know. And I do think that everybody's final product

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Speaker 2: If you're listening to this and you're like, hey, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because we still watch Disney movies on a regular basis,

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Speaker 1: Okay, before we get into our signs that our fondo

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Speaker 1: your obsession of the week.

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Speaker 2: My Obsession of the Week is a book that I've

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Speaker 2: been seeing all over my FYP and it's on my TV.

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Speaker 2: I haven't read it yet, but I wanted to share

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Speaker 2: it because I figured it could be a really cute

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Speaker 2: thing that we could do. Is like a book club

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Speaker 2: thing that we could all read it. And it's how

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Speaker 2: to be a Rich Old Lady, Your guide to easy investing,

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Speaker 2: building wealth, and creating the wild, beautiful life you want.

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Speaker 2: And it's really sounds like a really refreshing book. I

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Speaker 2: saw someone posting about even just the introduction, and basically

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Speaker 2: to be a Rich old Lady is a step by

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Speaker 2: step roadmap to financial freedom. It's not just about numbers

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Speaker 2: enough to dream into. Maybe your rich old lady is

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Speaker 2: wearing belly chains at the beach, tanned and wrinkly and

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Speaker 2: her diner coffee. Whatever your vision, this approachable guide to

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Speaker 2: investing and wealth building will help you build a plan

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Speaker 2: for tomorrow. So she goes into some of these topics

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Speaker 2: which I like that. Like she talks about retirement accounts

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Speaker 2: Let's jump in all right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't actually go out, you just go to Aldi.

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Speaker 2: This is what I get, like, remember this is why

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Speaker 1: And then I do think that the overarching sign that

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Speaker 2: And it's kind of pickles an aldie wine. That sounds

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Speaker 2: like a great night. What a trio? What a what

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Speaker 2: a treaty? If you will? If you will? I will?

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Speaker 1: Will you? When?

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Speaker 2: Will you wear wigs? Do your wear weeks?

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Speaker 1: is that my sign that your frontal lobe has developed

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah yeah. So this segment is brought to you

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Speaker 2: by our sponsor, Harris Scarf, who has a bunch of

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Speaker 2: and in twenty twenty two, most adults actually spent an

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Speaker 1: Wow. Crazy, Yeah, that is I do think probably a

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Speaker 2: thirty five percent of adults report a decreased desire. Did

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Speaker 2: I say it like that is I desire? But thirty

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Yeah, the simple pleasures in

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Speaker 2: Yeah all rightyay, no plans. No one's locking off the

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Speaker 2: You don't have to decline plants. The plans of doing

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Speaker 2: nothing are already set in stone. That's the plan. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you have an everything shower. Right, you're making a vodka

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Speaker 2: pasta rigatoni. The new season of one of your favorite

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Speaker 2: Now we're talking and like we're kind of saying at

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Speaker 2: developed era. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think for the first two years that I lived

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, we've all been there.

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Speaker 1: We've seen the pinterest exactly, which I was like, oh

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, so investing in like good bedding and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because as a renting girly, there's not that much

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Speaker 2: to stay at home. Exactly. It's a beautiful, beautiful cycle. Exactly.

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Speaker 2: What's been some of your favorite home investments.

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Speaker 1: Robovac for sure like an absolute life saver. It really

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Speaker 2: I absolutely love that.

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Speaker 1: Definitely, like some of the pots and pans that we've

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Speaker 1: It honestly change my life, Like when every single day

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Speaker 2: It's a ten out of ten for me. It's definitely

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Speaker 2: like sheets and good quality bedding is a frontal lobe

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Speaker 2: A good fan?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, a good fan, a good heater one And

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Speaker 1: like this is so nerdy, but like energy ratings, you

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Speaker 1: care about that because you notice how much it affects

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Speaker 2: It's because of the energy ratings of your appliance is

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Speaker 2: and I'm literally my final form is actually becoming my

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Speaker 2: well the energy. But oh my god, has happened. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so we've made it literally sorry to every dad in

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Speaker 2: the universe. Yeah for us all making fun of you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so did you say that Australians are apparently the

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Speaker 2: No one else in the world does that?

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Speaker 1: What? Yeah, so like the energy sticker on the fridge

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Speaker 1: think an American or something. I'll find the original TikTok

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Speaker 2: Shit, why do we do that? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to take it off though, either, Like

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to go home and take it off.

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Speaker 2: Just I feel like it's a comfort thing, my friend patriotic.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, how else would I know what its energy

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Speaker 1: rating is exactly? I could look it up exactly. People

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Speaker 1: would be like literally google it.

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Speaker 2: But no, oh, I hate that. I know it's part

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Speaker 2: Love that frontal lobe developed. Tick, go to print.

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Speaker 1: All right, moving on to this next sign that your

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Speaker 1: frontal lobe has developed and it's prioritizing over perception.

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Speaker 2: Ooh. I don't know if this is.

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Speaker 1: Like a part of growing up, but I have seen

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Speaker 1: it a lot on TikTok as well, like people who

459
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 1: are like I know that my frontal lobe develops because

460
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 1: I look at some of the things that I used

461
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: to wear, like the really tight pieces, or like the

462
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 1: really big shoes, or like the huge earrings, and I'm like,

463
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 1: I can't do it anymore, or at least not all

464
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: the time, and like reaching for things that are baggier

465
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 1: and comfier, and that I just find that something that

466
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: feels comfortable is where I feel the most confident. Do

467
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,199
Speaker 1: you feel the same, Yeah, Like when I look back

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Speaker 1: at stuff that I used to wear, like to the

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Speaker 1: club in my early twenties, and I don't know if

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Speaker 1: this is also maybe a just like a style and

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Speaker 1: trend thing too. But I would be wearing like huge,

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00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 1: huge platforms and massive heels and I could really push

473
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Speaker 1: through the pain, but I was uncomfortable all night long,

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Speaker 1: and then at the end of the night, I'd be

475
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Speaker 1: like taking off my shoes and I'd be covered in

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Speaker 1: blisters and whatever.

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Speaker 2: But I was like, I'm committed to it for the law.

478
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:07,640
Speaker 2: And do you think it was more like I'm dressing

479
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 2: for others rather than for myself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, because I'm five to one and so that's

481
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: always been a big insecurity for me is my height.

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Speaker 1: So I'd be going out wearing huge platform shoes and

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Speaker 1: I used to do that at UNI as well, or

484
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Speaker 1: even if I was just like out for a walk,

485
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Speaker 1: I'd wear like stacked creepers instead of a sneaker. You know,

486
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 1: I was just embarrassed that I would look short, which

487
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: now that I look back, I'm like, nobody cares about that.

488
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,360
Speaker 1: Nobody's looking at your height and judging you.

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Speaker 2: And if they are, like, that's so weird. Yeah, like

490
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Speaker 2: that's really really bizarre.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes I do think there are things that you

492
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Speaker 1: will wear that maybe aren't super comfortable, But again, you're

493
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 1: wearing it because it makes you feel like a version

494
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Speaker 1: of yourself that you like. And it's not like, oh

495
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Speaker 1: this is cool or somebody's going to think that I'm

496
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Speaker 1: hot or attractive. It's like I feel hot contact. So

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Speaker 1: that's why I'm willing to wear something that maybe is

498
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Speaker 1: a little bit uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: But like, comfort is different to everyone. I know so

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Speaker 2: many people that can literally wear a heel the entire

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Speaker 2: day and then not bothered one bit. Totally. It's not

502
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 2: actually about the physical notion of comfort. It's like what

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Speaker 2: makes you feel good.

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Speaker 1: And there's like a socio emotional theory that explains this

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00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 1: as well. Apparently as you get older, you perceive that

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Speaker 1: you have less time and therefore you care less about

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Speaker 1: what other people think.

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00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 2: That lock me in. That is a developed frontal lobe.

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Speaker 2: You don't give a fuck.

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00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, And yeah, I think that goes either way,

511
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Speaker 1: whether that's like you wear heels to the office or

512
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: to go grocery shopping and you're like, I don't care

513
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,239
Speaker 1: if people think that I'm too much, or if you

514
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 1: rock up wearing like a really baggy pair of jeans

515
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:56,640
Speaker 1: and thongs, Like it's basically that you are approaching how

516
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 1: you dress and how you present yourself to reflect how

517
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Speaker 1: you feel inside, not to cater for other people's perceptions

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00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: of you.

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00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 2: I love that. There's like a quote that kind of

520
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 2: ties that in, and it's like the don't set yourself

521
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 2: on fire to keep others warm, which you know, you

522
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,679
Speaker 2: can probably pull that into a multiple of other scenarios

523
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 2: of like, you know, going out of your way for

524
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 2: people that don't deserve it, or being kind to those

525
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:21,479
Speaker 2: who aren't kind to you as well. But I think

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00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 2: it applies to this as well, of being like, don't

527
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 2: go above and beyond for the make belief, perception and

528
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:31,879
Speaker 2: opinions of other people that don't even matter, you know.

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00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, literally, my last sign that your frontal lobe has

530
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:40,679
Speaker 1: developed is that you stop finding dopamine in chaos and

531
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: self sabotaging.

532
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 2: No more just doing it for the plot. Yeah, Like

533
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 2: rewinds like five years ago when we're doing this, and

534
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 2: I was like, do it for the plot, do it

535
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 2: for the plot, Fuck it up, get it out. The

536
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 2: plot's done. We're at the end of their book now. Also,

537
00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 2: we need some lulls in the way, we need.

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00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: The reconcilly all right, that's fine, And again this ties

539
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 1: into the whole thing of being like we need undeveloped errors.

540
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: But it's like we were talking about this and talking

541
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,919
Speaker 1: about you know, a couple friends, and there are so

542
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: many theories around why you feel the need to sometimes

543
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: blow things up because you need change, and that actually

544
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 1: comes from anxiety, and feeling anxious in situations is actually

545
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 1: what causes you to feel calmer and like you've got

546
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 1: things more put together by creating chaos and babe, Like

547
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 1: if you find yourself always picking fights, or you're always

548
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 1: angry with a friend, or your job just is always

549
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 1: the wrong job, or something's always wrong, Like that's an

550
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 1: anxiety response and sabotaging things in your life, whether it's

551
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: you know, relationships that you have, whether it's your job,

552
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: whether it's your friends, whatever it is, and you constantly

553
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: feel the need to like blow things up and move

554
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: overseas or drastically.

555
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 2: Change jobs, or cut your hair, get bangs, whatever it is.

556
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: It's actually a response to your anxiety and not actually

557
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: what the world is happening around you. Yeah, it's like

558
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: a force distraction, Like you create this chaos so that

559
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 1: you can distract yourself with that and maybe point the

560
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: things rather.

561
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 2: Than looking at yourself rather than what you're actually feeling, which, yeah.

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00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: Maybe you are always chasing after like the wrong type

563
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 1: of person because it would be scarier to end up

564
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: with the right type of person, which on paper could

565
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: be a little bit on your own, yeah, or be

566
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: on your own or go yeah with somebody who on

567
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 1: paper they might be a bit boring. But then as

568
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 1: a result, like you maybe have to be a little

569
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 1: bit more vulnerable or get a little bit more effort

570
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 1: into that relationship, or if.

571
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 2: You have more to lose, back to what I would do,

572
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 2: like I would be like I would date the wrong people.

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00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 1: So that was always exciting and busy and amazing, but

574
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Speaker 1: it actually was like an avoidance strategy of spending time

575
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: on my own, yeah, and just being alone and enjoying

576
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: that time. And also if you're in a relationship that

577
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:09,959
Speaker 1: is chaotic, it's less scary to lose. You're like whatever,

578
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: like good, Yeah, chaos doesn't equal passion, you know, like

579
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 1: you can find passion instill and calm moments.

580
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 2: You don't need chaos. Yeah, you were always really really.

581
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: Good at recognizing when someone's self sabotaging, which I know

582
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 1: you never want to be sitting on like a pedestal

583
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 1: and be like, but you can just see it, like

584
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: because we've all been there, and maybe that's what it is.

585
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: It's like you can recognize behaviors that you or people

586
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: in your life have had, and you're like, Okay, I

587
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: can see what's happening. What would your advice be to

588
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: someone if they're like I feel like I have a friend,

589
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: you know, they're I feel like they're self sabotaging.

590
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 2: What would your advice be?

591
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 1: Well, part of it is that obviously give them as

592
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 1: much advice, but sometimes they do need to blow shit

593
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 1: up to face the consequences and realize that maybe the

594
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: alternative is actually what they want. I do think that

595
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 1: people have to learn these things, but also like ask them,

596
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 1: like what would the alternative be or what do they

597
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: really want out of the situation?

598
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, what's the ideal scenario?

599
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, if they do want to like move overseas and

600
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: like completely you know, change their life, It's like.

601
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that could be really cool, but what are you hoping.

602
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 1: To get out of that experience? And maybe why couldn't

603
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 1: you get those things here? Or like same in a relationship,

604
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 1: like what do you actually want out of the relationship.

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00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 1: And I think if you ask them those like straightforward questions,

606
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 1: sometimes those things will reveal themselves.

607
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 2: That's good advice. Hmm.

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Speaker 1: Well that's a wrap on another episode of.

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Speaker 2: Two bro Chicks.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for having us in your well developed ear. Yes, chickies,

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Speaker 1: we absolutely I hope everyone's feeling very frontal lobe developed.

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Speaker 2: Vibe.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and let us know the signs of your frontal

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Speaker 1: lobe has developed in the comments, because, like we said,

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Speaker 1: this is so unique.

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Speaker 2: The more unhinged, the better I love it.

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Speaker 1: We want to hear it for everyone, Pickles for all

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Speaker 1: young That just made me really hungry, and thanks again

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620
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Speaker 1: low but switches on, you don't want fast fixes. You

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Speaker 1: want things that last, make your routine smoother and help your.

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Speaker 2: Space feel more put together.

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