1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apogee Production. 2 00:00:10,921 --> 00:00:14,801 Speaker 2: On this episode of We Will Always Have This year, 3 00:00:14,841 --> 00:00:19,361 Speaker 2: the kids received toys that broke shipping, toys that broke 4 00:00:19,401 --> 00:00:21,601 Speaker 2: as soon as the kids open them, toys that only 5 00:00:21,721 --> 00:00:26,601 Speaker 2: technically avoided copyright violations. Toys that I feel are covered 6 00:00:26,641 --> 00:00:31,361 Speaker 2: in lead dust. Welcome to the We Will Always Have 7 00:00:31,481 --> 00:00:35,161 Speaker 2: podcasts with Me Christian Hull and Chrissy Hearn and over 8 00:00:35,201 --> 00:00:38,081 Speaker 2: the next few episodes, we've left Sydney behind and it's 9 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,641 Speaker 2: time for us to explore my hometown of Brisbane. Chrisy's 10 00:00:41,681 --> 00:00:43,961 Speaker 2: flown up to stay with me for a couple of nights. 11 00:00:43,961 --> 00:00:46,041 Speaker 2: God help me, and we're going to do a bunch 12 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:51,761 Speaker 2: of stuff and get ourselves into our whole heap of chaos. Christine, 13 00:00:52,521 --> 00:00:57,441 Speaker 2: Happy World Chocolate Day, Happy World Chocolate Day. Now we 14 00:00:58,001 --> 00:01:01,761 Speaker 2: went to the supermarket, we did, and we bought what 15 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:06,041 Speaker 2: we think the superior chocolate bar is chocolate bar that 16 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 2: we would like to try that we've never tried. So 17 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 2: in front of us are our purchases. Now we will 18 00:01:13,401 --> 00:01:19,961 Speaker 2: start with what we think the most superior chocolate is 19 00:01:20,041 --> 00:01:23,601 Speaker 2: go to. Yeah, this is top shelf. You have chosen. 20 00:01:23,881 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: Well, I'm sorry, oh lint lint, you can't go wrong. 21 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,681 Speaker 1: This is top shelf. This is the crem Dila creme. 22 00:01:31,801 --> 00:01:35,121 Speaker 2: You haven't bought a bar you've bought like the little balls. 23 00:01:34,761 --> 00:01:37,321 Speaker 1: Because you can't decide because they're all the best, They're 24 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: all fabulous, They've got a high standard. But I must 25 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: say that my favorite. Am I allowed to tell you 26 00:01:42,121 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: what my favorite? All time? 27 00:01:43,521 --> 00:01:44,481 Speaker 2: Yes? 28 00:01:44,241 --> 00:01:45,761 Speaker 1: Is the white chocolate? 29 00:01:46,481 --> 00:01:48,721 Speaker 2: Really gorgeous? Controversial? 30 00:01:48,761 --> 00:01:49,561 Speaker 1: I think mine is. 31 00:01:50,001 --> 00:01:53,001 Speaker 2: This is by far the most superior chocolate to exist 32 00:01:53,121 --> 00:02:02,321 Speaker 2: on the market. Discuss you are discussed? Is the arrow mint? 33 00:02:03,641 --> 00:02:09,001 Speaker 2: That's so I am obsessed with? This is so good? 34 00:02:09,081 --> 00:02:13,361 Speaker 1: Yes? What your obsessions alike? What level of obsession? 35 00:02:14,401 --> 00:02:15,961 Speaker 2: I think people were thinking I was going to pull 36 00:02:16,001 --> 00:02:20,281 Speaker 2: that Caramelk's disgusting hate. I ate too much of it. 37 00:02:20,401 --> 00:02:22,681 Speaker 2: I did get obsessed with it. This isn't an obsession. 38 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,761 Speaker 2: This is a constant in my life. I love choc 39 00:02:24,841 --> 00:02:27,921 Speaker 2: mint ice cream. I'm a big chopp mint fan and 40 00:02:28,001 --> 00:02:29,361 Speaker 2: this just hits the spot. 41 00:02:29,441 --> 00:02:30,441 Speaker 1: Okay, right. 42 00:02:31,841 --> 00:02:35,161 Speaker 2: Next, we had the most superior bar chocolate bar. 43 00:02:36,121 --> 00:02:40,401 Speaker 1: Without a doubt. Oh my Chico roll. 44 00:02:40,481 --> 00:02:41,121 Speaker 2: One more time. 45 00:02:41,441 --> 00:02:42,081 Speaker 1: It's my cheek. 46 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 2: Do you know what a Chico roll is? Chico roll 47 00:02:45,481 --> 00:02:47,921 Speaker 2: is a big heated spring roll, This is a. 48 00:02:51,721 --> 00:02:55,641 Speaker 1: Not very popular there was they were very, very very. 49 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 2: Popular, and then they actually were stopped. 50 00:02:57,761 --> 00:03:00,161 Speaker 1: They yeah, and then they fell off the shelf and. 51 00:03:00,081 --> 00:03:01,761 Speaker 2: Now they can you what is it? 52 00:03:02,281 --> 00:03:07,041 Speaker 1: Well, it's a caramel chewy crunchy balls and loads. 53 00:03:06,721 --> 00:03:08,441 Speaker 2: Of choco or it is good. 54 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:09,641 Speaker 1: It is good. 55 00:03:10,601 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually love those. Yeah. My Superior chocolate bar 56 00:03:17,001 --> 00:03:18,561 Speaker 2: is another controversial one. 57 00:03:18,841 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: Mars. It's a MasPar No stock standard MasPar No. 58 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:27,801 Speaker 2: It's this is gonna be bad. Summer Roll. 59 00:03:31,201 --> 00:03:33,321 Speaker 1: With Bounty bars I love Bounty. 60 00:03:33,361 --> 00:03:36,561 Speaker 2: Bounty is my second favorite. I'm obsessed with Bounty. 61 00:03:36,641 --> 00:03:39,121 Speaker 1: I'm sorry the guys in this as Summer. 62 00:03:38,921 --> 00:03:43,881 Speaker 2: Roll is a like log of coconuts and chocolate and 63 00:03:43,921 --> 00:03:47,281 Speaker 2: it's covering coconut. Summer Roll is so good. 64 00:03:47,801 --> 00:03:50,121 Speaker 1: Bounty bar Cherry ripe for. 65 00:03:50,121 --> 00:03:53,881 Speaker 2: Me, Cherry right top of the list. Worst thing to everything, 66 00:03:54,161 --> 00:03:57,441 Speaker 2: Absolutely disgusting. Bring now, the next one is a chocolate 67 00:03:57,521 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 2: we've never had that. We're going to try it. 68 00:04:01,721 --> 00:04:02,401 Speaker 1: The Cara milk. 69 00:04:04,041 --> 00:04:06,121 Speaker 2: You've never had Cara milk. 70 00:04:05,921 --> 00:04:10,081 Speaker 1: I believe, so I'll be interested to try to go 71 00:04:10,121 --> 00:04:14,441 Speaker 1: on open it. 72 00:04:15,121 --> 00:04:17,001 Speaker 2: Did you know they have an easy to open packet? 73 00:04:18,441 --> 00:04:23,081 Speaker 2: Here we go. It's in the mouth and it's being chewed. 74 00:04:23,121 --> 00:04:25,041 Speaker 2: You've gotta let it melt. It's like a chocolate you 75 00:04:25,041 --> 00:04:29,841 Speaker 2: should be sucking on. Thoughts that that's interesting to me, 76 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 2: that you love Link to white chocolate and that's so superior, 77 00:04:32,561 --> 00:04:35,241 Speaker 2: And then you eat this and you're like, nah, because 78 00:04:35,281 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 2: I think they're very similar. 79 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 3: Do you think, No, the Link chocolate white chocolate ball 80 00:04:42,001 --> 00:04:44,041 Speaker 3: melts in your mouth, like you don't even have to 81 00:04:44,121 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 3: chew it, It just kind of melts. Yeah, Okay, it 82 00:04:47,641 --> 00:04:49,401 Speaker 3: feels like it's got a bit of resistance. 83 00:04:51,361 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 2: Well yeah, okay, not a fan. I ate so much 84 00:04:56,440 --> 00:05:00,441 Speaker 2: of this in twenty eighteen and twenty nineteen that it 85 00:05:00,481 --> 00:05:03,721 Speaker 2: made me physically I cannot eat it and I don't 86 00:05:03,761 --> 00:05:06,361 Speaker 2: want to toot my own horn. Absolutely to want to 87 00:05:06,361 --> 00:05:09,921 Speaker 2: toot my own horn. I feel like I single handedly 88 00:05:10,721 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 2: and the reason why Karen Milk came back into production, 89 00:05:14,041 --> 00:05:18,681 Speaker 2: So Jason pj Over in New Zealand, they came to Melbourne, 90 00:05:18,721 --> 00:05:21,041 Speaker 2: they moved across and they were obsessed with Karraen Milk 91 00:05:21,081 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 2: and that's how I found it, and they managed to 92 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:25,761 Speaker 2: get it across to Australia and I was like, this 93 00:05:25,841 --> 00:05:28,241 Speaker 2: is the best chocolate I've ever had. Then it got discontinued. 94 00:05:28,681 --> 00:05:31,001 Speaker 2: I started to change to it at all, petition got 95 00:05:31,041 --> 00:05:35,321 Speaker 2: thirty nine thousand signatures and then miracuously, he's caramelk back 96 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:35,801 Speaker 2: on the shelves. 97 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:40,161 Speaker 1: I think when you started the whole Caramelt thing on socials, 98 00:05:40,761 --> 00:05:43,121 Speaker 1: I think I tried to get it, but every time 99 00:05:43,201 --> 00:05:44,921 Speaker 1: I showed it was sold out. 100 00:05:45,041 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 2: You're welcome, and I think. 101 00:05:46,401 --> 00:05:47,441 Speaker 1: That was all. 102 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 2: And do you know what Cadbury sent me? Absolutely nothing 103 00:05:50,681 --> 00:05:52,921 Speaker 2: here is yeah, they want nothing to do with me. 104 00:05:53,601 --> 00:05:57,721 Speaker 2: And also Cadbury, do you know what I discovered? Because 105 00:05:58,121 --> 00:06:00,481 Speaker 2: I ended up doing like a sponsored post through a 106 00:06:00,521 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 2: third party for the chocolates, and I wasn't allowed to 107 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:07,041 Speaker 2: eat more than two pieces in the video. I gotta 108 00:06:07,081 --> 00:06:09,641 Speaker 2: have two pieces? Am I? Who the fuck only eats 109 00:06:09,681 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 2: two pieces? Because that's the suggested serving daily suggested serving 110 00:06:13,241 --> 00:06:16,721 Speaker 2: science to two pieces squares. Get on your fucking horse 111 00:06:16,801 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 2: and ride away. Yeah right, Christine, have a question for you. 112 00:06:24,481 --> 00:06:26,721 Speaker 2: I want to ask you something. I'm thankful and I 113 00:06:26,761 --> 00:06:30,721 Speaker 2: want to read you this. It's from a parent. It 114 00:06:30,801 --> 00:06:36,441 Speaker 2: says I hate TEAMU so much. It's the thought that counts. 115 00:06:36,521 --> 00:06:39,161 Speaker 2: Be grateful for what you get, etc. Et cetera. But 116 00:06:39,241 --> 00:06:42,681 Speaker 2: I wish like hell Temu didn't exist and that Grandma 117 00:06:42,961 --> 00:06:46,761 Speaker 2: didn't find it. This year, the kids received toys that 118 00:06:46,801 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 2: broke as soon as the kids open them, Toys that 119 00:06:49,041 --> 00:06:53,841 Speaker 2: only technically avoided copyright violations, Toys that I feel are 120 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 2: covered in lead dust, toys with volume knobs stuck on max, 121 00:06:58,761 --> 00:07:03,281 Speaker 2: toys that appear to be failed production runs, definitely choking hazards, 122 00:07:03,601 --> 00:07:06,801 Speaker 2: and clothes that are incredibly poorly made and hard to 123 00:07:06,801 --> 00:07:10,241 Speaker 2: take on and off and very itchy. It's all litteral 124 00:07:10,321 --> 00:07:13,361 Speaker 2: garbage that you wouldn't pick up from a free box 125 00:07:13,401 --> 00:07:16,001 Speaker 2: at a yard sale. I couldn't even give half of 126 00:07:16,041 --> 00:07:18,681 Speaker 2: it to the kids. But now this pile of trash 127 00:07:18,761 --> 00:07:20,641 Speaker 2: is in my house and I have to do something 128 00:07:20,641 --> 00:07:23,681 Speaker 2: with it. We said thank you to Grandma, but fuck. 129 00:07:24,241 --> 00:07:26,881 Speaker 2: I hope Timu dies soon and never returns. 130 00:07:26,961 --> 00:07:29,161 Speaker 1: Oh, it's never going to go. It's going to get huge. 131 00:07:29,161 --> 00:07:32,881 Speaker 1: It's big. I don't like Timu. I've ordered from it 132 00:07:32,961 --> 00:07:35,761 Speaker 1: like twice, and then from then on in and I 133 00:07:35,841 --> 00:07:38,841 Speaker 1: got all these emails I buy this now with your 134 00:07:38,841 --> 00:07:39,761 Speaker 1: credit cards. 135 00:07:39,761 --> 00:07:42,521 Speaker 2: Start they take your information and they. 136 00:07:42,641 --> 00:07:45,881 Speaker 1: Can't stand it. I wish I'd never touched it. I 137 00:07:45,921 --> 00:07:48,841 Speaker 1: am so sad that people feel that they have to 138 00:07:48,881 --> 00:07:51,561 Speaker 1: buy something for a gift. I mean, I'm aul in, 139 00:07:51,721 --> 00:07:53,441 Speaker 1: let's go out for a coffee and I'll take you. 140 00:07:53,601 --> 00:07:56,241 Speaker 1: We'll have an experienced type thing. You don't necessarily have 141 00:07:56,281 --> 00:08:01,161 Speaker 1: to spend money. Teamu sends out all these gifts. I 142 00:08:01,241 --> 00:08:03,921 Speaker 1: worry about the poor people having to make them in 143 00:08:03,961 --> 00:08:07,801 Speaker 1: these countries and getting two dollars fifty a day. Nah, 144 00:08:07,801 --> 00:08:08,761 Speaker 1: it doesn't sit right with me. 145 00:08:08,801 --> 00:08:11,281 Speaker 2: I don't like it. It's cheap shit. I remember first 146 00:08:11,281 --> 00:08:15,761 Speaker 2: buying from Timu and then my email just was absolutely 147 00:08:16,881 --> 00:08:20,681 Speaker 2: in undated hamage spam. But then, I mean, I'm not 148 00:08:20,721 --> 00:08:23,641 Speaker 2: one to talk because I used Wish before Temu. I 149 00:08:23,841 --> 00:08:25,881 Speaker 2: constantly was buying things off Wish. It was like the 150 00:08:25,881 --> 00:08:27,001 Speaker 2: internet's two dollars shop. 151 00:08:27,321 --> 00:08:28,281 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm. 152 00:08:28,241 --> 00:08:31,241 Speaker 2: Still buy things on Teu because yeah, this is the 153 00:08:31,281 --> 00:08:33,361 Speaker 2: tough part. And this is primarily what I also went 154 00:08:33,401 --> 00:08:36,441 Speaker 2: out of business is because all the stuff I was 155 00:08:36,481 --> 00:08:39,201 Speaker 2: selling on the fuck off shop was basically it was 156 00:08:39,201 --> 00:08:42,281 Speaker 2: also available on Temu because it's just a direct link 157 00:08:42,321 --> 00:08:44,761 Speaker 2: to the factories in China that are making them, so 158 00:08:44,841 --> 00:08:47,281 Speaker 2: it's completely cut out the middle man. And so I think, 159 00:08:47,401 --> 00:08:52,081 Speaker 2: is Temu, Wish, Amazon, is this just the new way 160 00:08:52,161 --> 00:08:56,921 Speaker 2: that we're going to shop because it's so cheap, right, 161 00:08:56,961 --> 00:09:00,161 Speaker 2: and you can get these products that ultimately not all 162 00:09:00,201 --> 00:09:03,641 Speaker 2: of them, but ultimately these are the same factories that 163 00:09:03,681 --> 00:09:07,361 Speaker 2: are then sending it to your shop that you're buying 164 00:09:07,361 --> 00:09:09,761 Speaker 2: it from at you know, twice or three times the 165 00:09:09,801 --> 00:09:10,681 Speaker 2: price here in Australia. 166 00:09:10,721 --> 00:09:13,641 Speaker 1: Well, the price point you can't argue with. But it's 167 00:09:13,681 --> 00:09:15,761 Speaker 1: going to fall apart, it's going to break apart. It's 168 00:09:15,841 --> 00:09:19,041 Speaker 1: not of any sort of substance. 169 00:09:19,081 --> 00:09:20,801 Speaker 2: Like some of the things that I've bought. 170 00:09:21,601 --> 00:09:22,161 Speaker 1: What have you brought? 171 00:09:22,361 --> 00:09:25,281 Speaker 2: I'm totally proud of because it should be supporting local 172 00:09:25,641 --> 00:09:29,001 Speaker 2: but just like a lot of the pottery tools which 173 00:09:29,041 --> 00:09:31,921 Speaker 2: is just just wooden skewers and stuff like that, and 174 00:09:32,001 --> 00:09:35,321 Speaker 2: rolling pins that would be twenty four dollars that are 175 00:09:35,441 --> 00:09:37,201 Speaker 2: three dollars and so. 176 00:09:37,641 --> 00:09:39,601 Speaker 1: And the shipping, I think you get free shipping at 177 00:09:39,601 --> 00:09:40,081 Speaker 1: times on. 178 00:09:40,241 --> 00:09:41,961 Speaker 2: Well, the shipping has definitely changed because it used to 179 00:09:41,961 --> 00:09:44,081 Speaker 2: be like six to eight weeks. But now it's almost 180 00:09:44,161 --> 00:09:47,361 Speaker 2: like team who's set up locations in Australia, so it's 181 00:09:47,361 --> 00:09:49,561 Speaker 2: not coming from China. They've already shipped all to Australia 182 00:09:49,921 --> 00:09:52,081 Speaker 2: and then in a couple of days it's here. Amazon 183 00:09:52,201 --> 00:09:54,641 Speaker 2: Prime is another one one day delivery. 184 00:09:55,521 --> 00:09:57,281 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's certainly getting faster than it. 185 00:09:57,441 --> 00:10:02,481 Speaker 2: That's insane. There's a documentary on Netflix about this particular 186 00:10:03,121 --> 00:10:08,121 Speaker 2: Amazon Prime one day delivery servis and it started ages 187 00:10:08,161 --> 00:10:11,561 Speaker 2: and ages ago when Jeff Besas was like, what's the 188 00:10:11,641 --> 00:10:14,001 Speaker 2: ultimate goal? In ninety eight, what's the ultimate goal? Someone 189 00:10:14,041 --> 00:10:15,761 Speaker 2: can just go online, click it and it just appears 190 00:10:15,761 --> 00:10:18,881 Speaker 2: at your door. And so they've built this whole machine 191 00:10:18,881 --> 00:10:21,161 Speaker 2: to be able to do that, which they basically do, 192 00:10:22,281 --> 00:10:25,161 Speaker 2: and it does so well because in the moment I'm like, oh, 193 00:10:25,201 --> 00:10:28,441 Speaker 2: I really need X, y Z, and then you just 194 00:10:28,441 --> 00:10:32,201 Speaker 2: one click and it's going to arrive tomorrow. Versus but 195 00:10:32,241 --> 00:10:35,561 Speaker 2: that's the thing, versus writing a list, getting in the car, 196 00:10:35,841 --> 00:10:38,321 Speaker 2: go to a car park, going to the shops, seeing 197 00:10:38,401 --> 00:10:41,441 Speaker 2: it instilling going oh and actually I don't need all 198 00:10:41,481 --> 00:10:42,281 Speaker 2: of these things. 199 00:10:42,881 --> 00:10:45,321 Speaker 1: It's impulse buying. And I think that we get very 200 00:10:45,481 --> 00:10:48,001 Speaker 1: caught up in the moment of oh I need this, 201 00:10:48,241 --> 00:10:49,881 Speaker 1: I need this now quickly. 202 00:10:50,121 --> 00:10:54,761 Speaker 2: I mean, just look at the room you're sitting, look 203 00:10:54,801 --> 00:10:55,721 Speaker 2: at all this stuff. 204 00:10:56,161 --> 00:10:58,921 Speaker 1: But it's treasures. I love it. I think, you know, 205 00:10:59,921 --> 00:11:02,721 Speaker 1: keeper's bloody nightmare can get it all up and dusting. 206 00:11:02,801 --> 00:11:05,361 Speaker 1: I'm freaking out about that. But I love the fact 207 00:11:05,361 --> 00:11:08,321 Speaker 1: that you've got little treasures around the place. But again, 208 00:11:08,801 --> 00:11:11,441 Speaker 1: you know, do you need two of them? You've got 209 00:11:11,441 --> 00:11:12,841 Speaker 1: your dogs one here, that's. 210 00:11:12,761 --> 00:11:15,281 Speaker 2: Right, you're taking the good one. See I bought that 211 00:11:15,561 --> 00:11:19,081 Speaker 2: dog that you're taking off Temu and how much the 212 00:11:19,081 --> 00:11:23,281 Speaker 2: gold one? So for those wondering, it's an inflatable poodle 213 00:11:23,401 --> 00:11:26,081 Speaker 2: like balloon. You know there's balloons that you sculpt and 214 00:11:26,361 --> 00:11:29,041 Speaker 2: it's squatting in a squatting position, taking a pool and 215 00:11:29,081 --> 00:11:31,801 Speaker 2: it's just like a plastic sculpture. Take a little balloon 216 00:11:31,841 --> 00:11:34,361 Speaker 2: poop and it's cute and funny. And I saw that 217 00:11:34,761 --> 00:11:36,881 Speaker 2: this is the thing. This is the other thing I 218 00:11:36,921 --> 00:11:39,241 Speaker 2: need to bring up. I saw that on an Instagram 219 00:11:39,281 --> 00:11:42,401 Speaker 2: ad and that was drop shipped right, And do you 220 00:11:42,441 --> 00:11:46,121 Speaker 2: know what drop shipping is? No? But so that drop 221 00:11:46,161 --> 00:11:48,681 Speaker 2: shipping right. So I scroll on Instagram, I see the 222 00:11:49,321 --> 00:11:53,081 Speaker 2: pooing balloon animal dog. I go, that's fucking hilarious. I 223 00:11:53,201 --> 00:11:56,921 Speaker 2: need that. Tat that it's eighty dollars. I go, okay, 224 00:11:56,961 --> 00:11:59,441 Speaker 2: well get one of those, and then I buy it. 225 00:12:00,121 --> 00:12:02,121 Speaker 2: And then it comes to me. Now the person that 226 00:12:02,201 --> 00:12:05,761 Speaker 2: is selling. That is drop shipping, which means they've made 227 00:12:05,801 --> 00:12:09,281 Speaker 2: the website. Their website sells one item. You buy that 228 00:12:09,321 --> 00:12:12,121 Speaker 2: one item, all your information goes straight to the factory 229 00:12:12,201 --> 00:12:15,281 Speaker 2: in China and they may touch it, they ship it 230 00:12:15,321 --> 00:12:19,081 Speaker 2: to me. But that seller gets my eighty dollars and 231 00:12:19,121 --> 00:12:22,161 Speaker 2: pays the factory in China the twelve dollars fifty for 232 00:12:22,281 --> 00:12:26,201 Speaker 2: the shitting poodle. I then did a Google search, found 233 00:12:26,241 --> 00:12:28,921 Speaker 2: it on TMU for twelve dollars fifty, bought another one, 234 00:12:29,281 --> 00:12:31,761 Speaker 2: and so I look at that and I go, I mean, 235 00:12:31,961 --> 00:12:33,801 Speaker 2: what's the future going to be like? 236 00:12:34,401 --> 00:12:36,321 Speaker 1: Well, it's going to be made up of things that 237 00:12:36,361 --> 00:12:37,801 Speaker 1: we don't necessarily. 238 00:12:37,601 --> 00:12:39,561 Speaker 2: A lot of I feel like a lot of small businesses. 239 00:12:39,561 --> 00:12:40,241 Speaker 2: You can't. 240 00:12:40,601 --> 00:12:44,361 Speaker 1: They can't. They can't, they cannot certainly cope with having to, 241 00:12:44,681 --> 00:12:47,601 Speaker 1: you know, competing with that twelve dollars fifty. 242 00:12:47,601 --> 00:12:50,961 Speaker 2: And also when you see an ad on Instagram, I 243 00:12:51,001 --> 00:12:54,121 Speaker 2: want you to google the products. Yeah, okay, I always 244 00:12:54,121 --> 00:12:57,041 Speaker 2: google it. Because the drop shipping people doing an excellent 245 00:12:57,161 --> 00:13:01,721 Speaker 2: job of creating beautiful websites, beautiful imagery. They pull in reviews, 246 00:13:02,081 --> 00:13:03,921 Speaker 2: so you see all these five star reviews. They're just 247 00:13:03,961 --> 00:13:06,161 Speaker 2: pulled in off the TMO website. 248 00:13:06,201 --> 00:13:06,761 Speaker 1: Is that right? 249 00:13:06,841 --> 00:13:09,481 Speaker 2: Yeah? And so you see this on you go, oh, 250 00:13:09,521 --> 00:13:11,641 Speaker 2: that's obviously. Look at all the reviews, look at all 251 00:13:11,641 --> 00:13:15,561 Speaker 2: this I'll pay fifty five dollars for an inflatable bath pillow, 252 00:13:16,121 --> 00:13:18,641 Speaker 2: see buy it off them. But if you just googled it, 253 00:13:18,681 --> 00:13:20,081 Speaker 2: you can get it for five dollars. 254 00:13:20,921 --> 00:13:24,521 Speaker 1: What do you reckon about TikTok shop? I reckon again, 255 00:13:24,721 --> 00:13:26,881 Speaker 1: impulse buy when it comes to a stroke. 256 00:13:26,721 --> 00:13:28,481 Speaker 2: I don't understand it. Do you know what it is? 257 00:13:28,761 --> 00:13:30,841 Speaker 1: So? What it is? It is going to be something 258 00:13:30,961 --> 00:13:33,961 Speaker 1: that well, everybody else has got it. Basically you can't 259 00:13:33,961 --> 00:13:36,121 Speaker 1: have it. Yeah, and you can get on it. You 260 00:13:36,121 --> 00:13:38,761 Speaker 1: can be a TikTok affiliate. So if there's a product 261 00:13:38,801 --> 00:13:41,481 Speaker 1: that you've liked using, you talk about it on your 262 00:13:41,561 --> 00:13:43,881 Speaker 1: videos and it's like an affiliate. 263 00:13:43,961 --> 00:13:46,761 Speaker 2: Okay, So say I love this steam mop. So I 264 00:13:46,881 --> 00:13:48,401 Speaker 2: just go ooh a steam mop. 265 00:13:48,761 --> 00:13:51,761 Speaker 1: You say steam mop. I've used it, You demonstrate it, 266 00:13:51,801 --> 00:13:54,481 Speaker 1: you get it going, you show the results. You can say, 267 00:13:54,601 --> 00:13:57,041 Speaker 1: click on the link in my bio and you can 268 00:13:57,121 --> 00:13:59,801 Speaker 1: purchase that. You then get a percentage of that. 269 00:13:59,921 --> 00:14:01,921 Speaker 2: Say, but where's that link coming from? Where are you. 270 00:14:01,921 --> 00:14:04,161 Speaker 1: Linking it to? Seller, it's a company. 271 00:14:04,201 --> 00:14:05,441 Speaker 2: But where do you find the seller? 272 00:14:05,721 --> 00:14:08,561 Speaker 1: On the TikTok marketplace, you can have them on there. 273 00:14:08,641 --> 00:14:10,961 Speaker 2: Oh you know what this is? Exactly like well, the 274 00:14:11,001 --> 00:14:12,761 Speaker 2: Amazon affiliate program. 275 00:14:12,441 --> 00:14:14,801 Speaker 1: Which I am part of but have no idea. 276 00:14:14,921 --> 00:14:15,681 Speaker 2: I did it too. 277 00:14:16,481 --> 00:14:17,161 Speaker 1: Was it any good? 278 00:14:17,321 --> 00:14:21,161 Speaker 2: Actually it's exactly the same. So basically you have Amazon. 279 00:14:21,201 --> 00:14:25,201 Speaker 2: They've bought so they're already selling all of these products. Yes, yeah, okay, 280 00:14:25,241 --> 00:14:27,481 Speaker 2: I see exactly what it is. So basically you go 281 00:14:27,521 --> 00:14:30,081 Speaker 2: onto Amazon and you go, oh, that's a great product. 282 00:14:30,521 --> 00:14:33,121 Speaker 2: I'm going to spook it. And when you're part of 283 00:14:33,121 --> 00:14:35,761 Speaker 2: the affiliate program, you grab the link, you throw it 284 00:14:35,801 --> 00:14:38,161 Speaker 2: into your affiliate program. It gives you a brand new 285 00:14:38,161 --> 00:14:42,761 Speaker 2: link and you go buy this new diceon attachment, and 286 00:14:42,801 --> 00:14:45,201 Speaker 2: then anyone that buys it the link reads that and 287 00:14:45,241 --> 00:14:46,961 Speaker 2: it gives you five percent of the sales. Because I 288 00:14:47,001 --> 00:14:50,201 Speaker 2: made a video where I bought a mop attachment for 289 00:14:50,241 --> 00:14:53,401 Speaker 2: the Dison unapproved, I got into so much trouble. Why 290 00:14:53,441 --> 00:14:57,201 Speaker 2: did you explain? And it just was this mop you 291 00:14:57,241 --> 00:15:00,321 Speaker 2: can touch under the dison and mop the floors. I 292 00:15:00,361 --> 00:15:02,841 Speaker 2: had an affiliate link. The video blew up on TikTok 293 00:15:03,241 --> 00:15:05,481 Speaker 2: and I ended up making maybe two two hundred and 294 00:15:05,481 --> 00:15:08,041 Speaker 2: fifty dollars from sales, which sound like a lot. I 295 00:15:08,081 --> 00:15:11,001 Speaker 2: was like, fucking help, that's okay, that's pretty good. And 296 00:15:11,041 --> 00:15:13,361 Speaker 2: then Dyson came out and said, absolutely, do not buy 297 00:15:13,361 --> 00:15:16,601 Speaker 2: these things. You voided your warranty. Then I actually wonder 298 00:15:17,121 --> 00:15:21,401 Speaker 2: if I was a Catalyst because recently Catalyst again Dyson 299 00:15:21,441 --> 00:15:25,321 Speaker 2: have just brought out a MOP attachment for their They've 300 00:15:25,321 --> 00:15:29,001 Speaker 2: brought out a MOP. Not only if I inspired Carra Milk, 301 00:15:29,121 --> 00:15:32,841 Speaker 2: Oh my godson, mop attachment. You're an influencer, right, and 302 00:15:32,881 --> 00:15:35,641 Speaker 2: so that's what TikTok shop is competing with, which. 303 00:15:35,481 --> 00:15:38,281 Speaker 1: They don't know when TikTok shops coming to Australia, right, 304 00:15:38,321 --> 00:15:41,521 Speaker 1: They're always saying soon soon, first quarter, first quarter. 305 00:15:41,681 --> 00:15:43,841 Speaker 2: Well, so can you buy it through the app? 306 00:15:44,241 --> 00:15:46,721 Speaker 1: Yes, you'll be able to just click on the link 307 00:15:46,761 --> 00:15:48,361 Speaker 1: and it'll take you through and you can pay. 308 00:15:48,401 --> 00:15:49,841 Speaker 2: Oh this is going to be horrific. 309 00:15:49,921 --> 00:15:53,041 Speaker 1: Oh I cannot wait. I want to give this such 310 00:15:53,121 --> 00:15:54,041 Speaker 1: a go really. 311 00:15:54,121 --> 00:15:56,961 Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, I mean to be fair, Yes, I think 312 00:15:57,001 --> 00:16:01,081 Speaker 2: it'll generate an income for people, but that's just flogging 313 00:16:01,081 --> 00:16:01,721 Speaker 2: team as shit. 314 00:16:02,161 --> 00:16:04,121 Speaker 1: No, I'm not flogging Team. I'm going to be very 315 00:16:04,121 --> 00:16:07,201 Speaker 1: selective on what products I sell. But I want skincare, 316 00:16:07,881 --> 00:16:10,641 Speaker 1: I want creams, I want makeup, I want Yeah, I'm 317 00:16:10,681 --> 00:16:11,361 Speaker 1: going to go for it. 318 00:16:11,481 --> 00:16:12,721 Speaker 2: I think you do well, because I mean you did 319 00:16:13,121 --> 00:16:16,241 Speaker 2: in Avon. You've already got this is your moment. This 320 00:16:16,321 --> 00:16:17,921 Speaker 2: is what the Taro cards said. 321 00:16:18,161 --> 00:16:18,641 Speaker 1: This is it. 322 00:16:18,921 --> 00:16:24,641 Speaker 2: This is you pivoting shops and flourishing. The Taro cards said, 323 00:16:25,201 --> 00:16:26,921 Speaker 2: this is your moment. 324 00:16:27,121 --> 00:16:30,081 Speaker 1: I'm going to be that what's that lady's name, Delvin 325 00:16:30,201 --> 00:16:33,601 Speaker 1: Delaney or something who would sell things on like Harry 326 00:16:33,641 --> 00:16:36,401 Speaker 1: Delavin on the Midday Show. 327 00:16:36,521 --> 00:16:40,521 Speaker 2: I could be Oh Moira now on GMTE we go Moira. 328 00:16:40,881 --> 00:16:43,841 Speaker 2: Thanks Bert. Have you ever wanted to vacuum up a 329 00:16:43,881 --> 00:16:46,361 Speaker 2: bowling ball? Well, this is the thing. Remember when they 330 00:16:46,401 --> 00:16:48,721 Speaker 2: did that and the billion cubes. 331 00:16:48,401 --> 00:16:50,641 Speaker 1: And doing that. I'm going to be doing that. I 332 00:16:50,681 --> 00:16:53,121 Speaker 1: think we could document how I go with it. 333 00:16:53,441 --> 00:16:56,001 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to give it a go and I'd 334 00:16:56,001 --> 00:16:58,561 Speaker 2: love for you to report back in. But TikTok Shop 335 00:16:58,601 --> 00:17:00,561 Speaker 2: has been supposed to be coming to Australia. 336 00:17:01,401 --> 00:17:03,961 Speaker 1: Having said that I wouldn't mind giving Amazon Prime Ago 337 00:17:04,321 --> 00:17:07,441 Speaker 1: or that some of affiliates. Yeah, I just don't know 338 00:17:07,481 --> 00:17:08,081 Speaker 1: how to say it. 339 00:17:08,001 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 2: That it's a lot of work. It's hard. 340 00:17:10,201 --> 00:17:11,681 Speaker 1: It's on the pinterest. I think you can. 341 00:17:11,721 --> 00:17:13,761 Speaker 2: I think once you get TikTok shot because TikTok's the 342 00:17:13,761 --> 00:17:15,480 Speaker 2: social app, it's all the links are going to be there, 343 00:17:15,521 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 2: it's going to be much easier. 344 00:17:20,360 --> 00:17:22,401 Speaker 1: So I was listening the other day right about red 345 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:25,680 Speaker 1: flags and the possibilities that people have these ideas of 346 00:17:25,681 --> 00:17:28,360 Speaker 1: what a red flag is, and one of them was 347 00:17:28,561 --> 00:17:33,401 Speaker 1: that this couple didn't have a joint bank account and 348 00:17:33,441 --> 00:17:36,001 Speaker 1: that it was a red flag not to have that. 349 00:17:36,041 --> 00:17:37,721 Speaker 1: They've got this separate bank accounts. 350 00:17:37,801 --> 00:17:38,681 Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think? 351 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:40,561 Speaker 1: Oh god, no, that is green. 352 00:17:40,761 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 2: That is green all the way, an enormous green flag, 353 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:48,281 Speaker 2: the biggest green flag of all time. It's a red 354 00:17:48,321 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 2: flag if you think it is a red Totally agree. 355 00:17:52,120 --> 00:17:56,801 Speaker 1: I absolutely am so passionate about Yeah. Same because I 356 00:17:56,840 --> 00:18:00,521 Speaker 1: really truly believe as a woman, right, you need your 357 00:18:00,561 --> 00:18:04,641 Speaker 1: own bank accounts, independence, independence, so that if something happens 358 00:18:04,801 --> 00:18:07,161 Speaker 1: or if you want to buy something, you're not asking 359 00:18:07,201 --> 00:18:11,640 Speaker 1: for anything. You've got your own funds. Right. Talk about 360 00:18:11,681 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 1: these women that are putting their pay into the joint 361 00:18:15,041 --> 00:18:19,601 Speaker 1: bank accounts. No, no way, not. 362 00:18:19,441 --> 00:18:22,561 Speaker 2: Happening, Absolutely not. And I find it interesting. I mean, 363 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:24,881 Speaker 2: I'm not in a relationship, but don't want to throw 364 00:18:24,921 --> 00:18:27,361 Speaker 2: my brother under the bus here. But they don't fight 365 00:18:27,441 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 2: about that. They don't have an issue with yet. But 366 00:18:29,921 --> 00:18:31,880 Speaker 2: he's like, well, no, well you can't take from this 367 00:18:31,921 --> 00:18:34,120 Speaker 2: account because it's just paying the mortgage. So yes, the 368 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:37,321 Speaker 2: money is in there, you know. And so I liked 369 00:18:37,321 --> 00:18:40,641 Speaker 2: it from that element as well. And then just the 370 00:18:40,681 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 2: independence level of it all because he's the one that 371 00:18:43,481 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 2: was also spoke to me about having multiple accounts to 372 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,481 Speaker 2: being able to divide everything up. I have friends who 373 00:18:48,521 --> 00:18:51,321 Speaker 2: love to have a cigarette, and then ninety dollars a box? 374 00:18:52,201 --> 00:18:53,561 Speaker 2: What to have a cigarette? 375 00:18:53,681 --> 00:18:54,241 Speaker 1: Oh god? 376 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:56,241 Speaker 2: And they're really expensive. So if you've got a joint 377 00:18:56,241 --> 00:18:59,201 Speaker 2: account and someone's a smoker and the other person isn't, 378 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:01,961 Speaker 2: well someone's spending a lot more than the other person 379 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 2: ninety dollars. Yeah, And so that element, there's so much independence. 380 00:19:07,120 --> 00:19:09,400 Speaker 1: It's very important to have your own bank account. And 381 00:19:09,441 --> 00:19:12,041 Speaker 1: I love the idea if you've got your mortgage, you 382 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:15,601 Speaker 1: transfer money into your mortgage fund and then you've got 383 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:18,081 Speaker 1: your own bills. Do you think it's a red flag 384 00:19:18,281 --> 00:19:20,521 Speaker 1: for one person to be paying all the bills? 385 00:19:20,681 --> 00:19:22,281 Speaker 2: I think you need to have a conversation because a 386 00:19:22,281 --> 00:19:24,880 Speaker 2: lot of the time, I mean, while you were raising kids, 387 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 2: were you working? So where was your income? 388 00:19:27,120 --> 00:19:29,201 Speaker 1: I was always an entrepreneur, was the idea? 389 00:19:29,360 --> 00:19:32,801 Speaker 2: Okay, so you always had an income. Not everyone has that. 390 00:19:33,360 --> 00:19:36,640 Speaker 2: So would you then say it was unfair that the 391 00:19:36,721 --> 00:19:39,400 Speaker 2: parent that is outworking is the only one paying the 392 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 2: bills while the other person would be raising the kids. 393 00:19:42,120 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 1: Well, I think that's a conversation you have Prior you 394 00:19:44,801 --> 00:19:46,321 Speaker 1: have that, Well, what are we going to do? How 395 00:19:46,360 --> 00:19:49,481 Speaker 1: we manage? What can you bring to the table while 396 00:19:49,481 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: you're not actually physically working outside the home. You're working 397 00:19:53,521 --> 00:19:55,521 Speaker 1: inside the home. I'm telling you you're working there. 398 00:19:55,561 --> 00:19:57,640 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I think you're doing more work in 399 00:19:57,681 --> 00:19:58,761 Speaker 2: the home aany other person. 400 00:19:59,281 --> 00:20:01,640 Speaker 1: But what do you think you could bring? So Ricardo 401 00:20:01,681 --> 00:20:03,881 Speaker 1: and I we had a conversation. And I always had 402 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:07,360 Speaker 1: a side hustle, so I would look after kids after school, 403 00:20:07,681 --> 00:20:09,521 Speaker 1: so they would come and I would get paid for that. 404 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:12,120 Speaker 2: You've always had your own bank account and being able 405 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 2: to have he secretly ever bought anything all the time. 406 00:20:17,201 --> 00:20:19,041 Speaker 2: It's not really secret when it's your own money that 407 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:20,921 Speaker 2: he has no access to or can see. 408 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:26,880 Speaker 1: But nor would I. I think you would be okay 409 00:20:26,921 --> 00:20:31,161 Speaker 1: with you. Ricardo has a passion for horses, right right, 410 00:20:31,241 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 1: and he has shares in it. 411 00:20:34,281 --> 00:20:36,481 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I know so many people that do that. 412 00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:38,801 Speaker 1: And he loves it. That's his passion. He follows it, 413 00:20:39,001 --> 00:20:41,481 Speaker 1: he gets weekly updates. It has a great time. 414 00:20:42,281 --> 00:20:45,400 Speaker 2: Don't I know a few people that own a horse, 415 00:20:45,561 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 2: like part own a horse. 416 00:20:47,120 --> 00:20:51,041 Speaker 1: They're obsessive. Well, he has a great Who am I 417 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:53,880 Speaker 1: to say you can't spend your heart owned money on 418 00:20:53,961 --> 00:20:57,081 Speaker 1: that if you get enjoyment from that? Oh yeah? Who 419 00:20:57,120 --> 00:21:00,001 Speaker 1: am I to judge by resin. 420 00:21:01,321 --> 00:21:04,521 Speaker 2: And need a sort of cow Oh I see what 421 00:21:04,561 --> 00:21:04,881 Speaker 2: you mean. 422 00:21:05,281 --> 00:21:08,081 Speaker 1: Yeah, And he says to me when it comes to Sydney, Christine, 423 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:09,521 Speaker 1: we're going to go to the races. We're going to 424 00:21:09,521 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 1: go to the members. I have no desire. 425 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:12,880 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, absolutely not. 426 00:21:12,961 --> 00:21:16,481 Speaker 1: I have no desire whatsoever. But I will go. Yep, 427 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:19,160 Speaker 1: I'll get a new outfit and I'll parade it around 428 00:21:19,201 --> 00:21:22,441 Speaker 1: like the horse and yeah, but it's not my couple. 429 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,321 Speaker 2: Yeah. Look, I would say horse racing is a bit 430 00:21:24,321 --> 00:21:25,081 Speaker 2: of a red flag. 431 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 1: Oh I don't like it, but no, but no, that's 432 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:32,521 Speaker 1: his passion. Oh, that's his passion, and he loves a 433 00:21:32,521 --> 00:21:33,561 Speaker 1: little interest that he had. 434 00:21:33,721 --> 00:21:35,241 Speaker 2: Does he have a separate back account? 435 00:21:35,241 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 1: Of course he does. 436 00:21:35,921 --> 00:21:36,801 Speaker 2: Do you know how much he's in it? 437 00:21:36,961 --> 00:21:39,321 Speaker 1: I don't care. It's his business. 438 00:21:40,281 --> 00:21:43,881 Speaker 2: That would up to me. I'd be like, how much 439 00:21:43,961 --> 00:21:45,761 Speaker 2: is in there? Do you want to go for a 440 00:21:45,801 --> 00:21:46,600 Speaker 2: month to Europe? 441 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:47,121 Speaker 1: Of course? 442 00:21:47,201 --> 00:21:49,880 Speaker 2: You pay your half? Okay, I'll pay my half. 443 00:21:50,481 --> 00:21:51,361 Speaker 1: I We're not like that. 444 00:21:51,761 --> 00:21:54,801 Speaker 2: So we're talking red flags. You brought up a good one. 445 00:21:55,001 --> 00:21:56,640 Speaker 2: Would you check going. 446 00:21:56,400 --> 00:22:01,681 Speaker 1: Through someone a partner's mobile phone? Is that a red 447 00:22:01,761 --> 00:22:04,401 Speaker 1: flag to you? If you if your partner said to you, Christian, 448 00:22:04,561 --> 00:22:06,001 Speaker 1: I wanted to your phone. 449 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,561 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, that means there's obviously trust issues. 450 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,640 Speaker 1: But what if you've show no reason for him to 451 00:22:11,801 --> 00:22:13,401 Speaker 1: or her to be doing that? 452 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,801 Speaker 2: That's still trust issues. Christine, Why would you like to 453 00:22:15,921 --> 00:22:17,241 Speaker 2: look at my phone? Why? 454 00:22:17,441 --> 00:22:19,681 Speaker 1: I don't know, because I wouldn't do it. But people do. 455 00:22:19,961 --> 00:22:23,721 Speaker 1: People get phones and go through and check to see 456 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 1: who's been messaging. Yes, yeah, yes, And the amount of 457 00:22:29,681 --> 00:22:30,801 Speaker 1: women that do it is. 458 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:32,801 Speaker 2: Great, great, I understand it. 459 00:22:33,441 --> 00:22:35,561 Speaker 1: I think I'm so blase. I'd be going, oh yeah, 460 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:37,401 Speaker 1: go for it, mate, go for it. 461 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,241 Speaker 2: It's like reading someone's journal. 462 00:22:39,721 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 1: See that. I would not tolerate that. I don't know 463 00:22:42,241 --> 00:22:43,081 Speaker 1: if that's a red. 464 00:22:42,921 --> 00:22:44,960 Speaker 2: Flag, but that's reading someone's journal. 465 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 1: Invasion of private. 466 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:50,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I personally don't like it. I don't want to 467 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,880 Speaker 2: get people into trouble. I will say this, if you've 468 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,201 Speaker 2: got a pass code on your phone, you have sometimes 469 00:22:55,201 --> 00:22:56,880 Speaker 2: you have to have one because if you've got your 470 00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:00,001 Speaker 2: Apple wallet. And also I had to have a pass 471 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 2: code for work. I hated it. But I'm like, if 472 00:23:03,201 --> 00:23:06,880 Speaker 2: you've got a pass code, why you have a path codet? 473 00:23:07,120 --> 00:23:12,640 Speaker 2: Like that? Anyone that turns their phone over at the table, oh, 474 00:23:12,681 --> 00:23:14,400 Speaker 2: I'm like, why are you turning your phone over? Like? 475 00:23:14,441 --> 00:23:17,801 Speaker 2: What are you worried about coming through on you? What 476 00:23:17,801 --> 00:23:20,521 Speaker 2: are you worried popping up on your screen? I mean 477 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,441 Speaker 2: for you. I love when your phone's turn over because 478 00:23:22,441 --> 00:23:24,360 Speaker 2: you've got every notification unknown to man, and you get 479 00:23:24,360 --> 00:23:25,401 Speaker 2: distracted so easily. 480 00:23:25,481 --> 00:23:28,441 Speaker 1: And I have to do that because if. 481 00:23:28,360 --> 00:23:30,120 Speaker 2: You don't want to be distracted, put it in your pocket. 482 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:32,281 Speaker 2: If you need it to be on the table, why 483 00:23:32,321 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 2: is it turned over? 484 00:23:33,321 --> 00:23:33,561 Speaker 1: Like what? 485 00:23:33,761 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 2: Like? 486 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,281 Speaker 1: That's interesting one before? 487 00:23:36,521 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, going through someone's phone and someone's messages, your relationship 488 00:23:40,681 --> 00:23:41,961 Speaker 2: is not in a healthy position. 489 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,561 Speaker 1: If that's happening, not at all, not at all. Would 490 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:46,041 Speaker 1: you do it? 491 00:23:46,201 --> 00:23:48,400 Speaker 2: Would I do it? Absolutely? 492 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:49,561 Speaker 1: Oh you would, Yes. 493 00:23:49,681 --> 00:23:53,321 Speaker 2: If I thought something was going on, if I was 494 00:23:53,441 --> 00:23:57,640 Speaker 2: concerned for cheating, there's something that I'm unsure about, a 495 00:23:57,681 --> 00:24:00,041 Speaker 2: partner that could be happening at work, Gotta go through 496 00:24:00,041 --> 00:24:04,201 Speaker 2: the remiss I'm so nosy. Absolutely, if I felt uneasy 497 00:24:04,241 --> 00:24:09,321 Speaker 2: about something, I would need it. She just look, Oh well, 498 00:24:09,360 --> 00:24:12,561 Speaker 2: the well talking would come first, but I would assume 499 00:24:12,561 --> 00:24:16,001 Speaker 2: they'd be denial. So my inner brain would be like, oh, 500 00:24:16,041 --> 00:24:17,921 Speaker 2: they're lying, they're lying. So can you. 501 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: Read someone like, can you sit there and know that 502 00:24:20,801 --> 00:24:21,360 Speaker 1: they're lying? 503 00:24:22,681 --> 00:24:25,241 Speaker 2: I don't think so. I think that gets better with age. 504 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:29,241 Speaker 2: I in my twenties, I was so trusting. I trusted everyone. 505 00:24:29,281 --> 00:24:31,921 Speaker 2: I'd watch anyone that said anything online. I believed them. 506 00:24:32,241 --> 00:24:34,561 Speaker 2: I was like, why would anyone have any reason to lie? 507 00:24:34,961 --> 00:24:38,001 Speaker 2: And then as you get oh, you realize these days, 508 00:24:38,360 --> 00:24:41,241 Speaker 2: I've definitely learned that you know three sides to every story. 509 00:24:41,521 --> 00:24:42,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely. 510 00:24:42,281 --> 00:24:46,400 Speaker 2: And I love using the example of Lizzo's like, I 511 00:24:46,481 --> 00:24:51,601 Speaker 2: believe all three are true, all three sides are true. 512 00:24:52,120 --> 00:24:55,481 Speaker 2: For example, so Lizzo got canceled recently because she had 513 00:24:55,521 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 2: inappropriate relationships with her dancers. So her dancers didn't like 514 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 2: the relationship she had with them. She didn't realize it 515 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:06,201 Speaker 2: was inappropriate. And then there was the truth in middle, right, 516 00:25:06,241 --> 00:25:08,041 Speaker 2: and so I like to look at it. She was 517 00:25:08,120 --> 00:25:11,360 Speaker 2: so like, there was no inappropriate relationships. You know, she 518 00:25:11,441 --> 00:25:13,680 Speaker 2: takes them to strip clubs. I don't think there was 519 00:25:13,681 --> 00:25:16,001 Speaker 2: no sexual harassment, but it was just like a boss 520 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:20,201 Speaker 2: and employees, right, she saw them as her friends and 521 00:25:20,241 --> 00:25:22,640 Speaker 2: because she's you know, on her own, and she toured 522 00:25:22,721 --> 00:25:26,041 Speaker 2: with them, and well, no, she did. Look, there was 523 00:25:26,120 --> 00:25:28,561 Speaker 2: a little bit or structural like forcing them on strippers, 524 00:25:28,561 --> 00:25:30,721 Speaker 2: and there was Look, there was stuff that was really 525 00:25:30,721 --> 00:25:33,240 Speaker 2: inappropriate and stuff that she shouldn't have done, but she 526 00:25:33,241 --> 00:25:35,721 Speaker 2: didn't see that at the time. So she came out 527 00:25:35,721 --> 00:25:37,360 Speaker 2: and said all these things, and I believed her, and 528 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, yes, you're right, so that is your truth. 529 00:25:41,001 --> 00:25:43,480 Speaker 2: It's wrong though, and what you did was wrong. You 530 00:25:43,521 --> 00:25:45,801 Speaker 2: had the dancers side of the story, and you go, yes, 531 00:25:45,921 --> 00:25:48,640 Speaker 2: everything they've said is exactly true. And then you've got 532 00:25:48,681 --> 00:25:51,041 Speaker 2: to go into the middle where you judge both of 533 00:25:51,041 --> 00:25:53,241 Speaker 2: those situations and you've got to try and work it out. 534 00:25:53,321 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 2: So every time I'm listening to someone when they're saying 535 00:25:57,281 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 2: their side of a story, you go, well, look, you 536 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,001 Speaker 2: don't know their situation and what's going on in their head, 537 00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:06,041 Speaker 2: so what they've said is true. I'm not with like 538 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:09,400 Speaker 2: perpetrators or I think you can be empathizing with someone 539 00:26:09,481 --> 00:26:12,441 Speaker 2: that didn't realize they've done something yeah wrong. And I'm 540 00:26:12,481 --> 00:26:16,001 Speaker 2: not talking murder, rapen those people in the bin. 541 00:26:16,561 --> 00:26:20,401 Speaker 1: I'm talking like, on reflection, I made a mistake, yea. 542 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 1: On the next we will always have what a joke. 543 00:26:28,281 --> 00:26:30,761 Speaker 1: Don't even get me started on those water bottles with 544 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 1: the one hundred milks. Well done, You've just had a 545 00:26:33,961 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 1: hundred meals, two hundred meals, well done, promo. 546 00:26:39,441 --> 00:26:40,120 Speaker 2: Hundred meals. 547 00:26:40,201 --> 00:26:44,360 Speaker 1: You are nearly there. Keep going. I think it's so patronizing. 548 00:26:45,281 --> 00:26:47,321 Speaker 1: I can't tell me what I can bloody drink and 549 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:48,360 Speaker 1: when I should drink it.