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Speaker 1: Hi, and welcome back to bounce Forward with me, Tipple.

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Speaker 2: I'd like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land

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Speaker 2: on which I'm recording this podcast, the warundry people of

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Speaker 2: the cooler Nation. I pay my respects for elders past

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Speaker 2: and present. Today on the show is the wonderful Celia Pacola.

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Speaker 2: She's a comedian and actor writer host of Thank God

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Speaker 2: You're Here on Channel ten. You would have also seen

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Speaker 2: her on have You Been paying Attention? And she's a

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Speaker 2: dear friend of mine, has been for a while where

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Speaker 2: it's very closely with my husband on thank God You're Here.

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Speaker 2: And there's nothing this woman can't do. She's an absolute

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Speaker 2: inspiration to me and so many other women out there.

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Speaker 2: So welcome Celia to bounce forward. Celia, thank you so

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Speaker 2: much for joining me. Hi, Tip, you know my husband

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Speaker 2: because you work together on thank God You're Here, which is.

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Speaker 1: Going right off. So tell me what does the show

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Speaker 1: mean to you?

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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, what does it mean to me? What does

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Speaker 3: thank God to Hear mean to me? I mean, first

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Speaker 3: and FOREMT, Well, it's a it's a job in my

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Speaker 3: chosen career, like very that's sort of the first thing

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Speaker 3: I think is there's no guarantees in this industry to

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Speaker 3: actually have, you know, there's do what you love, and

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Speaker 3: then there's do what you love to pay the bills.

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Speaker 3: So I'm very appreciative and my role. There's only one

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Speaker 3: person who can get that job, you know, So I'm

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Speaker 3: very grateful that it's my job and to have the

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Speaker 3: structure of having such a fun workplace above and beyond that,

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Speaker 3: it's like like there's my comedy heroes. I watched this

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Speaker 3: show before I did stand up. I was in the

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Speaker 3: audience for the last for season four watching it, and

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Speaker 3: I'm still completely beside myself to be in the orbit

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Speaker 3: of working dog who I you know, So that's that's

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Speaker 3: a huge part of it as well. Yes, so it

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Speaker 3: means it means a lot. It really means a lot.

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Speaker 3: And this second season has been so much more enjoyable

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Speaker 3: because the first one was so much more fear and

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Speaker 3: nerves because it was like auditioning, you know. I didn't

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Speaker 3: want to break this show. We didn't know whether how

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Speaker 3: it would be received bringing it back, and I didn't

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Speaker 3: know how I'd be received as a host, So that

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Speaker 3: was really and also just figuring out how to do

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Speaker 3: it I've never hosted a show like that before.

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Speaker 2: Hosting different to stand Up because I think, like, you're

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Speaker 1: Doing standout, you're so confident. How is it different?

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Speaker 3: It's very different. Firstly, I don't have a whole a microphone,

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Speaker 3: which sounds like a small thing, but it's very strange.

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Speaker 3: I spent the first eight episodes trying to figure out

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Speaker 3: what to do with my hands. Also, it's like stand

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Speaker 3: Up is me representing me and doing jokes about me

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Speaker 3: and stories and whatever I want to do, whereas this

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Speaker 3: is not about me. My job is functional is creating

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Speaker 3: a warm and fun and safe environment where everyone knows

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Speaker 3: like to think of myself as the smiling face who

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Speaker 3: I was making sure everyone is comfortable and safe right

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Speaker 3: up until they're not. So it's very different in that.

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Speaker 3: And I don't I've been asked a host many times

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Speaker 3: before now and I've always said no because I don't

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Speaker 3: But I think it was It took the pressure off

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Speaker 3: me knowing that it's a role that is functional. I

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Speaker 3: just have to be I have a very specific job

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Speaker 3: also I have to enjoy it. I feel like you

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Speaker 3: and I just do like it. Anyway.

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Speaker 2: You look like you're having a great time and having

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's half the time it's either some

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Speaker 3: So half the time it's mates, and then the rest

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I am generally having a nice time.

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Speaker 2: So let's talk comedy. Why did you get into comedy?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I didn't have there was no other options.

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Speaker 3: then I dated around that time I met a comedian.

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Speaker 1: That's amazing. Celia.

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Speaker 2: You've spoken in your stand up about meeting your partner

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Speaker 1: Can you share with me what was the first message?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't remember, I don't remember some of the

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Speaker 3: TIF that you may or may not know Raya or Rio.

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Speaker 3: You have to be like approved by the community. Now,

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know what it's based. I think

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Speaker 3: it was like it's for fun. And I was only

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Speaker 3: I was nervous to go on dating apps because it's

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Speaker 1: It's really catty. They're like proper little humans.

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Speaker 3: It's really fun. But I'm getting that we're getting the

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Speaker 3: beginnings of sass moods. Yeah, so like grumpy.

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Speaker 1: And like what I wanted to ask you because it's hard,

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Speaker 3: Sometimes something will happened and I'll go, oh, this doesn't

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Speaker 1: So important and it helped so many people. Celia's the

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Speaker 1: same with the kids stuff.

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Speaker 3: But the parenting stuff I found even because that's not

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Speaker 3: many people really struggle to have children and all of that.

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Speaker 3: So it's so such a delicate area. But I think,

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Speaker 3: real funny stuff and she's going to go, I'm going

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Speaker 1: About that that.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, we're going to leave our chat with Celia

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Speaker 2: just there for now, and I'll be back in a

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Speaker 2: couple of days with part two of my awesome catch.

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Speaker 1: Up with Celia Procola. Thanks so much for listening to

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