1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apologiae Production. 2 00:00:10,641 --> 00:00:19,361 Speaker 2: Welcome to She Rises, Freaky Friday, Secrets, Horror, Scandal, Hysterios Wild, Hello, 3 00:00:19,441 --> 00:00:23,121 Speaker 2: and welcome back to Freaky Friday with your favorite hosts, 4 00:00:23,281 --> 00:00:25,441 Speaker 2: Stephanie and Tatiana. 5 00:00:25,521 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 3: We're so excited to be here. 6 00:00:26,841 --> 00:00:28,681 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, this is going to be a really 7 00:00:28,681 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 2: interesting submission for you today. So let's get stuck into her, 8 00:00:31,201 --> 00:00:32,121 Speaker 2: shall we? Oh? 9 00:00:32,161 --> 00:00:34,281 Speaker 3: This is juicy? Are you ready give it to us? 10 00:00:34,281 --> 00:00:37,121 Speaker 3: I don't think you are, okay. 11 00:00:37,281 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: So I grew up in a very religious family, like 12 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:43,401 Speaker 1: homeschool because public school was satanic kind of religious. My 13 00:00:43,521 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: dad is actually the pastor of our local church. At nineteen, 14 00:00:47,801 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: I moved down. Let's just say I went full rebellion. 15 00:00:51,281 --> 00:00:55,321 Speaker 1: I bartended part time, and I taught pole fitness. Last year, 16 00:00:55,401 --> 00:00:57,401 Speaker 1: I was short on rent and a friend convinced me 17 00:00:57,441 --> 00:01:00,521 Speaker 1: to do one private show for a client that she trusted. 18 00:01:01,001 --> 00:01:04,961 Speaker 1: He's loaded and harmless, she said. I agreed, I wore, 19 00:01:05,801 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: took the cash, and left. Oh my god, good and juicy. 20 00:01:09,881 --> 00:01:14,241 Speaker 1: By weeks later, my dad calls a church meeting. The 21 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,401 Speaker 1: church fund, which we've been saving for an orphanage trip, 22 00:01:17,681 --> 00:01:21,121 Speaker 1: was missing over eight thousand dollars and no one could 23 00:01:21,121 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: figure out where it went until I saw him, the 24 00:01:25,161 --> 00:01:28,241 Speaker 1: man from the private show, sitting next to my dad, 25 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:31,961 Speaker 1: arms folded, watching me. Turns out he's. 26 00:01:31,721 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 3: The church treasurer. 27 00:01:33,121 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: Oh my god, now he sends me double just to 28 00:01:36,961 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: keep my mouth shut. 29 00:01:38,481 --> 00:01:39,041 Speaker 3: Stop it. 30 00:01:39,121 --> 00:01:42,041 Speaker 1: I feel so guilty, so much shame, and also so 31 00:01:42,161 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: much anger because I can't bring myself to tell my 32 00:01:44,401 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: dad about this. I feel this would haunt me for 33 00:01:47,041 --> 00:01:49,601 Speaker 1: the rest of my life. What would you girls do? 34 00:01:50,801 --> 00:01:53,961 Speaker 2: Girl, you have gotten yourself into a sticky situation. 35 00:01:54,121 --> 00:01:56,201 Speaker 3: This is a big pickle. This is a problem. 36 00:01:56,481 --> 00:01:59,001 Speaker 1: I have so many I have no words, Like you're 37 00:01:59,041 --> 00:02:00,961 Speaker 1: close to your dad, could you imagine like going to 38 00:02:01,001 --> 00:02:01,761 Speaker 1: your dad about this? 39 00:02:02,081 --> 00:02:03,721 Speaker 2: When I think of my dad's best friend, there's no 40 00:02:03,761 --> 00:02:06,401 Speaker 2: fucking way if I thought of that being the person 41 00:02:06,401 --> 00:02:07,241 Speaker 2: that I had done that with. 42 00:02:07,561 --> 00:02:11,321 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Money is for an orphanage camp or the guilt. 43 00:02:11,601 --> 00:02:13,761 Speaker 1: How could you be spending that. I could not spend 44 00:02:13,761 --> 00:02:15,761 Speaker 1: that money and go to sleep at night and look 45 00:02:15,761 --> 00:02:17,241 Speaker 1: in the mirror and be proud of what I'm doing. 46 00:02:17,321 --> 00:02:18,601 Speaker 3: That's crazy. Come clean. 47 00:02:18,921 --> 00:02:21,521 Speaker 1: Oh, I would be like, Dad, this is a problem, 48 00:02:21,721 --> 00:02:24,161 Speaker 1: this is what I've done. We'll talk about that later, 49 00:02:24,601 --> 00:02:27,001 Speaker 1: but right now, like this treasure I needs to go. 50 00:02:27,121 --> 00:02:30,721 Speaker 1: You're very religious, dad. You're very religious dad, who is 51 00:02:30,721 --> 00:02:33,241 Speaker 1: the pastor of the church. I mean, I don't have 52 00:02:33,281 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: a close relationship with a father figure. But I imagine 53 00:02:35,881 --> 00:02:39,281 Speaker 1: I just I think I would rather that disappointment. Then 54 00:02:39,321 --> 00:02:41,921 Speaker 1: you have to live with the guilt of this money 55 00:02:41,921 --> 00:02:43,921 Speaker 1: that I'm spending that could have gone to helping kids 56 00:02:43,921 --> 00:02:44,961 Speaker 1: at an orphanage. 57 00:02:44,601 --> 00:02:47,481 Speaker 2: In so what And he's also paying her double now 58 00:02:47,561 --> 00:02:49,481 Speaker 2: of right, is that coming from the church or is 59 00:02:49,481 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 2: that coming from his own mind? 60 00:02:50,441 --> 00:02:53,201 Speaker 1: Well, there's no guessing. There's no more money in the church. Yeah, okay, 61 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:56,481 Speaker 1: so it's his own personal money. That's an expensive private 62 00:02:56,481 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: show like that was dollars you make a bank kind 63 00:02:59,921 --> 00:03:00,641 Speaker 1: of private show. 64 00:03:01,401 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean, Like, gosh, maybe there's 65 00:03:03,401 --> 00:03:05,961 Speaker 3: more to the story. Maybe it's not just a dance, 66 00:03:06,041 --> 00:03:08,441 Speaker 3: maybe eight thousand dollars for a dance, because that doesn't 67 00:03:08,441 --> 00:03:09,881 Speaker 3: make sense in my head. I don't think so. 68 00:03:10,001 --> 00:03:11,801 Speaker 2: I don't know how much stuff like that costs. But 69 00:03:11,841 --> 00:03:13,201 Speaker 2: I imagine it's not like that. 70 00:03:13,321 --> 00:03:15,321 Speaker 1: I imagine it's not. Well, actually, me and a couple of 71 00:03:15,361 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 1: girlfriends went to a ship club once a god a 72 00:03:16,881 --> 00:03:18,201 Speaker 1: up dance. It was not eight thousand dollars. 73 00:03:18,361 --> 00:03:18,641 Speaker 2: Yeah. 74 00:03:18,721 --> 00:03:21,801 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like a couple of hundred between us. Yeah, okay, 75 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 3: there you go. Yeah, I don't think you're making eight 76 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:26,721 Speaker 3: thousand dollars for one little private No, honey, you got 77 00:03:26,761 --> 00:03:27,921 Speaker 3: some more sins to confess. 78 00:03:28,041 --> 00:03:32,441 Speaker 1: Oh. No, the treasurer doesn't know it's her because she 79 00:03:32,481 --> 00:03:35,081 Speaker 1: wore a mask. So she's looking at him, going, I 80 00:03:35,121 --> 00:03:36,841 Speaker 1: know you spent the money, but he doesn't know that 81 00:03:36,921 --> 00:03:38,761 Speaker 1: she was one with a private dance because she wore 82 00:03:38,761 --> 00:03:39,121 Speaker 1: a mask. 83 00:03:39,161 --> 00:03:41,961 Speaker 2: But at the end she says, oh, he pays a double, 84 00:03:42,201 --> 00:03:43,401 Speaker 2: so he does know that it's her. 85 00:03:43,561 --> 00:03:45,201 Speaker 1: Oh so I wonder how he found out with the 86 00:03:45,521 --> 00:03:47,401 Speaker 1: last situation. That's interesting. 87 00:03:47,601 --> 00:03:50,161 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's somehow they would have known each other. Was 88 00:03:50,441 --> 00:03:51,121 Speaker 3: that is tricky. 89 00:03:51,161 --> 00:03:53,761 Speaker 1: But I just morally and out of integrity, Yeah, I 90 00:03:53,761 --> 00:03:56,201 Speaker 1: don't think I can live with myself. It's like cheating things. 91 00:03:56,201 --> 00:03:58,241 Speaker 1: Like you know, you hear about people keeping cheating secrets 92 00:03:58,241 --> 00:03:58,841 Speaker 1: from the partners. 93 00:03:58,881 --> 00:03:59,401 Speaker 3: That's true. 94 00:03:59,481 --> 00:04:02,441 Speaker 1: I would feel physically ill. Yeah, I would be vomiting 95 00:04:02,481 --> 00:04:04,521 Speaker 1: every night. Yeah, staring at Steve knowing I'd done that, 96 00:04:04,561 --> 00:04:05,321 Speaker 1: like I could not. 97 00:04:05,321 --> 00:04:07,681 Speaker 2: And then like the thought of keeping that secret, being 98 00:04:07,721 --> 00:04:11,041 Speaker 2: dishonest and then going and being intimate with your partner again, it's. 99 00:04:10,921 --> 00:04:12,041 Speaker 3: Like all of it. 100 00:04:12,081 --> 00:04:14,401 Speaker 2: So it's like that's her dad who's really close and 101 00:04:14,441 --> 00:04:16,121 Speaker 2: every hoow she goes to church, she's going to be 102 00:04:16,161 --> 00:04:19,201 Speaker 2: reminded of kids. Yeah, I know that money is supposed 103 00:04:19,241 --> 00:04:21,081 Speaker 2: to go to them, and it went to your lap dance. 104 00:04:21,081 --> 00:04:23,041 Speaker 1: Literally, And now what are you spending that money on. 105 00:04:23,281 --> 00:04:25,081 Speaker 1: I feel like it's obviously you need to come clean 106 00:04:25,281 --> 00:04:27,281 Speaker 1: gat the money back. Yeah, because those kids need to 107 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: roof over their head, they need food on their plate, 108 00:04:28,921 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: they need like clothes on their bodies that money would 109 00:04:31,361 --> 00:04:31,641 Speaker 1: have gone to. 110 00:04:31,681 --> 00:04:33,361 Speaker 3: That's all you just need money for. And at the 111 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:35,681 Speaker 3: end of the day, with things like this, that will 112 00:04:35,681 --> 00:04:38,121 Speaker 3: it awate you forever ever. It will make you sick. 113 00:04:38,201 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 3: It will make you make you sick. 114 00:04:39,561 --> 00:04:41,801 Speaker 2: I feel like as well, karma comes back around. I 115 00:04:41,801 --> 00:04:44,721 Speaker 2: believe in karma, and I believe that karma comes around immediately, 116 00:04:45,361 --> 00:04:48,521 Speaker 2: and there will be some kind of repercussion for you 117 00:04:48,601 --> 00:04:50,681 Speaker 2: continuing to choose this, especially if you do whatever a 118 00:04:50,721 --> 00:04:52,321 Speaker 2: long period of time, it will come back to bite 119 00:04:52,361 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 2: you in the ass for sure, whatever way that looks. 120 00:04:54,201 --> 00:04:55,161 Speaker 3: I think you're gonna tell your dad. 121 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:57,241 Speaker 1: Yeah, And also if he's done this once, what's to 122 00:04:57,281 --> 00:05:00,001 Speaker 1: stop him from stealing again? You're preventing it from happiness. 123 00:05:00,041 --> 00:05:03,001 Speaker 2: That's right, because it's more than just the situation between 124 00:05:03,041 --> 00:05:03,481 Speaker 2: you and him. 125 00:05:03,561 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 3: It's the church. 126 00:05:04,161 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 2: It's not that it's the money, it's the children. It's 127 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 2: the church morals. And to have someone so high up 128 00:05:09,521 --> 00:05:12,681 Speaker 2: who is supposed to be trustworthy, who is actually not trustworthy. 129 00:05:13,001 --> 00:05:15,321 Speaker 2: I think that in itself is something to come clean for. 130 00:05:15,481 --> 00:05:15,961 Speaker 1: I agree. 131 00:05:16,561 --> 00:05:20,321 Speaker 3: Oh girl, that's a good submission that can you please? 132 00:05:20,681 --> 00:05:26,841 Speaker 3: Can you follow up? Because information that's juicy. 133 00:05:27,081 --> 00:05:28,961 Speaker 1: Even if you decide not to go ahead with saying 134 00:05:29,081 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: you think, can you let us know? I'm so curious, 135 00:05:32,241 --> 00:05:34,001 Speaker 1: But just remember, like you are the one that has 136 00:05:34,041 --> 00:05:35,721 Speaker 1: to look in the mirror every single day and be 137 00:05:35,721 --> 00:05:38,321 Speaker 1: proud of who you are, your values, how you show up, 138 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:40,921 Speaker 1: how you treat other people, where you're contributing, where you're 139 00:05:40,921 --> 00:05:44,041 Speaker 1: making impact. All that is so important to me, Like 140 00:05:44,081 --> 00:05:45,161 Speaker 1: I just can't imagine. 141 00:05:45,241 --> 00:05:47,601 Speaker 2: Yeah, And the good thing about when you do come 142 00:05:47,601 --> 00:05:50,161 Speaker 2: clean about things that are terrible to come clean about, 143 00:05:50,641 --> 00:05:52,201 Speaker 2: you can learn to live with it. Because you learn 144 00:05:52,281 --> 00:05:54,201 Speaker 2: to overcome it, you can heal it. But if you're 145 00:05:54,281 --> 00:05:56,881 Speaker 2: hiding it, in secrecy and shame, and you're just like 146 00:05:57,041 --> 00:05:58,721 Speaker 2: doing it on your own, like it will forever eat 147 00:05:58,761 --> 00:06:00,681 Speaker 2: away at you. At least if you own it, then 148 00:06:00,681 --> 00:06:03,161 Speaker 2: you can take accountability for it and you can actually 149 00:06:03,961 --> 00:06:06,041 Speaker 2: one day move past it. And I think that's a 150 00:06:06,041 --> 00:06:09,241 Speaker 2: better route to go down. My gosh, Yeah, speaking from experience, 151 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:11,161 Speaker 2: not not with this. 152 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 3: I definitely haven't done nothing like this. 153 00:06:13,001 --> 00:06:15,841 Speaker 1: So even told me about an eight thousand no no girl, 154 00:06:15,841 --> 00:06:16,721 Speaker 1: why are you in the podcasting? 155 00:06:16,961 --> 00:06:20,361 Speaker 3: Straight? If they were eight thousand dollars I've been doing Honestly, 156 00:06:20,401 --> 00:06:23,361 Speaker 3: that's a lot of money. Damn. Yeah, do a little dance. 157 00:06:23,521 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 1: Speaking of dance classes and love dancers, that's it's completely 158 00:06:26,721 --> 00:06:27,201 Speaker 1: booked out. 159 00:06:27,241 --> 00:06:28,961 Speaker 3: But it's a couple's dance class. 160 00:06:29,081 --> 00:06:31,641 Speaker 1: This is kind of off topic, but Steve sits in 161 00:06:31,721 --> 00:06:33,721 Speaker 1: the chair all her husbands do, and we learn a 162 00:06:33,841 --> 00:06:35,281 Speaker 1: dance and practice on them. 163 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:36,041 Speaker 3: That's so booked. 164 00:06:36,961 --> 00:06:39,401 Speaker 1: That's so fun because I can Steve love dances and 165 00:06:39,481 --> 00:06:41,961 Speaker 1: dance for him before. But being in the dance shdio 166 00:06:42,121 --> 00:06:44,241 Speaker 1: like and all the girls where lingeris are like little 167 00:06:44,281 --> 00:06:47,241 Speaker 1: skimpy outfits, like being at Environ with the teacher, the lights, 168 00:06:47,281 --> 00:06:48,801 Speaker 1: the music, the other girls, like. 169 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:51,041 Speaker 2: You're so in the hot, you're so in the environment, 170 00:06:51,041 --> 00:06:53,361 Speaker 2: so you kind of have like the Stephanie comes out. 171 00:06:53,521 --> 00:06:54,241 Speaker 3: Yeah, because at. 172 00:06:54,161 --> 00:06:56,161 Speaker 1: Home and sometimes like oh the kid's gonna hear the 173 00:06:56,241 --> 00:06:58,681 Speaker 1: music or knock on the door. I've forgot the routine, 174 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:03,121 Speaker 1: our carpet burn. I'm just getting in my head. Yeah, 175 00:07:03,161 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 1: and he doesn't know any different, he just likes. But 176 00:07:05,841 --> 00:07:07,681 Speaker 1: I just can't wait for that. Just reminded me. I 177 00:07:07,681 --> 00:07:09,561 Speaker 1: book that in fordun So I'm really excited. You have 178 00:07:09,601 --> 00:07:11,201 Speaker 1: to tell us all about it. I will definitely come 179 00:07:11,241 --> 00:07:13,081 Speaker 1: on absolutely to tell you guys about it. All right, lovely, 180 00:07:13,081 --> 00:07:14,801 Speaker 1: thank you so much for bringing this in. Honestly, give 181 00:07:14,881 --> 00:07:15,441 Speaker 1: us a follow up. 182 00:07:15,561 --> 00:07:15,961 Speaker 3: I can. 183 00:07:16,121 --> 00:07:17,761 Speaker 2: Or if you are somebody else who has a sticky 184 00:07:17,801 --> 00:07:21,441 Speaker 2: situation like this where you are really let's say, shameful, 185 00:07:21,521 --> 00:07:23,601 Speaker 2: you don't know who to tell, You really think that 186 00:07:23,641 --> 00:07:24,961 Speaker 2: you're going to take it to the grave and you 187 00:07:24,961 --> 00:07:27,041 Speaker 2: think I've got to die with this lie bring it in. 188 00:07:27,161 --> 00:07:29,561 Speaker 3: It's a good story. Yeah, but it is a good story. 189 00:07:29,641 --> 00:07:31,241 Speaker 3: We might not feel good about it. We're here for 190 00:07:31,281 --> 00:07:32,681 Speaker 3: the lulls. We want the juice. 191 00:07:32,761 --> 00:07:34,841 Speaker 2: Yeah. And also again there's no shame, no judge on 192 00:07:35,041 --> 00:07:37,121 Speaker 2: this is just an open space. You can bring anything 193 00:07:37,121 --> 00:07:38,481 Speaker 2: in and we just want to have a chat about it. 194 00:07:38,561 --> 00:07:41,281 Speaker 3: Yeah, more context of better either. Now there's two sentences. 195 00:07:41,321 --> 00:07:43,241 Speaker 3: We want to know all the details. Yeah yeah. 196 00:07:43,281 --> 00:07:45,001 Speaker 2: Stephanie and Tatian are also going to give you the 197 00:07:45,001 --> 00:07:46,681 Speaker 2: most honest and direct opinion. 198 00:07:46,801 --> 00:07:49,161 Speaker 3: There's no filters. There's no filters. Yeah yeah, and you 199 00:07:49,201 --> 00:07:51,121 Speaker 3: love it. We love it, love it, We love them already. 200 00:07:51,201 --> 00:07:52,841 Speaker 3: We'll see you on the next fight. Bye.