1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: Hi, guys, welcome back to hear me out. I am 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: sitting here today with me and my date for the 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Actor Awards. 4 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 2: Oh my god. I don't think I've ever had a 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 2: female day. 6 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: Really, I've had few males, not many. 7 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:17,080 Speaker 2: You're pupping my cherry dough. 8 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: I am, but we're so excited. I got my dress 9 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:24,599 Speaker 1: today so that it is currently Tuesday and we go 10 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:26,639 Speaker 1: on Friday. I have to get up at four am 11 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: to slide there because like I didn't realize that the 12 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: awards start at like one p thirty. We need to 13 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 1: be at the Carver. Yeah. 14 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 2: I wonder if they edit it before it goes live 15 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 2: getting broadcast on Channel ten seven thirty. 16 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: Oh well they would then, wouldn't they. 17 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 2: I think. 18 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: So we're sitting there and the awards start at two thirty. 19 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm like, what's happening while everyone's watching? Will 20 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 2: we already be partying? 21 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 1: Hopefully? So there's the awards, Hopefully Jacob will be there. 22 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: I just I don't even need to say his last 23 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 1: name now you'll know. And then and after Barty so 24 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: I wear So I just think I wasn't going to go, 25 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: and then I called my mom. I wasn't not going 26 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 1: to go because I didn't think it was incredible. I 27 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: just feel like I didn't understand the magnitude of it 28 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: in some senses. And I was like, I think until 29 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: I got shortlisted. Like then, when I got shortlisted, I'm like, 30 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: oh h I must And Mum was like, you're never 31 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:16,960 Speaker 1: going to regret. Not You're never going to regret going. 32 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 2: Literally and hopefully nominated next year and every year. 33 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 1: But like, we don't know this so exactly, so may 34 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: as well just go celebrate what's been a huge first 35 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 1: season to hear me out six months huge, six months fast. 36 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: But yeah, I got a dress from a brand called 37 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: ant Screa, which they were so cute. I went over 38 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: there on it. I was like, oh, I'll be in 39 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 1: and out fifteen minutes, like I know what I want. 40 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: I liked them all, so it took me an hour 41 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:43,400 Speaker 1: and twenty because I just kept trying them on and 42 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 1: off and on and off, and I went for the 43 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: one that's not released yet, so at least I know 44 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 1: I will be the only one in it. It's very 45 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 1: like nineties five. You will have seen it by now. 46 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: It reminds me of like Rachel Green, true, and that's 47 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: why I love her. 48 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's she. 49 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, it's like a nineties stress. And then 50 00:01:58,080 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: I'll have my hair really straight. It'll be really cute, 51 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: but you'll see it any classic classic and then Blake 52 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: Haster match me. 53 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 2: I know I have not even like I've started slightly looking. Yeah, 54 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 2: we're recording this on a Tuesday. We're leaving Friday. 55 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, Friday, like four am, so we don't have time 56 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: to do anything on Friday. And what times your vote 57 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: are you leaving the same time? 58 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 2: I think, so okay, great, yeah, heaven I'm getting people 59 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 2: to book it. I just can't does that work? 60 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: Do you get like a pocket square or you could 61 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: wear a bow tie? 62 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 2: I was sinking like a flower or something, a. 63 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: Cute little flower? Yeah that matches the color of my dress. 64 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I might try to find something like from like, 65 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 2: as a guy, you're never gonna look one in a million. 66 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 2: But then I don't like wearing a suit and then 67 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 2: you see six other guys in it, so I'm like, 68 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 2: I know I'm not going to be one in the 69 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 2: We need a point of difference, Yes, we need some 70 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 2: hear me out flair. 71 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, we do. I agree. I'm excited to see what 72 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: you come up with, I. 73 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 2: Will keep you very posted ouse I need advice and 74 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 2: like everything. 75 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: Quick side note, I want to tell you about something 76 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: that happened to me last night with my fucking cat, 77 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: the fat fucking bitch only I can call her. She's 78 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: so she's quite fat. So this was like an ordeal. 79 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: And I don't no one gives a fuck about cat stories, 80 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: but like this was hell, and there was a lady 81 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: involved that I need to tell you about because I 82 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: just grinded my gears. So it was like ten pm 83 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 1: and I'm like, all right, I'm rounding up the boys 84 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 1: like my sister's cats because they go in a room 85 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: every night because they vomit every. 86 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 2: Night, instunning. 87 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, so, which is really fucking annoying. And now Riley's 88 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: away for three weeks, so who has to clean the vomit? Me? 89 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: And I found them and I'm like, where the fuck 90 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: is my cat? Like she is never she's never missing, 91 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: She's always somewhere. She's plopped along. You can hear her. 92 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: I have no idea where she is. I look up 93 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: and down, We've got like three stories, up and down 94 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: everything for like ten minutes, and then I start panicking 95 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: because I'm like she's not in the house. We do 96 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: keep the back door open during the day for them 97 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: to roam around. The boys can jump over our fences 98 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: because they're agile and skinny. My cat does not have 99 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 1: that luxury. She is too big. She cannot get herself 100 00:03:56,560 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: up that high usually usually anyway, I call my mom 101 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: and I'm like, Mom, I can't find Billy, Like, well, 102 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: that's not her name, Billy's my dog. I can't find 103 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: Bobby's Billy Bobby boo that my animal's names. Isn't that fuck? 104 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: That's so cute, though, I'm like, I can't find Bobby, 105 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 1: Like I have no idea where she is. I go outside. 106 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 1: I climbed the fence. I'm in like my pajama singl 107 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: and like these little skims micro pajama shorts which like 108 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: they're basically unkneas and like they shouldn't be worn in public. 109 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 1: I'm over the fence. I'm looking into the neighbor's yard 110 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: with the flashlight and like I feel like a freak. 111 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: But all their lights are off, so I'm like they 112 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: must be asleep. It's fine. They're like, won't know what's 113 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: going on, And I'm like, Mom, I cannot see her 114 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,160 Speaker 1: like I do not know. I'm yelling her name, she's 115 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:39,479 Speaker 1: not me owing back. And then finally I hear her, 116 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: and I go it's honestly, mum, it sounds like she's 117 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: more than one house over. How has she gotten there? 118 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: I finally see her. She's hands either side of the fence, 119 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 1: like two houses down, like she's made it over like 120 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 1: four fences, and she's stuck on top of the fence. 121 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: And I'm like, she keeps now I'm meyowing because she 122 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:00,600 Speaker 1: realizes it's me, and I'm like, okay, I'm coming to 123 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: get ya. I'm coming. Maybe let's go. I put my 124 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: dressing gown that my grandma got me in my little 125 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: micro shorts, and I run around the back. I get 126 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 1: around the back because hopefully maybe she'll jump over the 127 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 1: big fence. I can carry her back around, yep, but 128 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 1: without having to go into the neighbor's yard. That was 129 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: my aim. I don't want to enter someone else's property. 130 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: I'll speak to we'll speak to anyone. It's ten pm 131 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: and everyone's lights are off. I don't want to wake 132 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 1: someone up to me like, hey, my cat's in your 133 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: yard anyway, So I go around the side to the 134 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 1: of the house is like next to mine, like the 135 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: next apartment block over, and she's silent again, and I'm like, 136 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 1: fucking great. So I go back. I can't see her anymore. 137 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: I go back to my house, can't see her anymore, 138 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 1: and I'm like, great, I'm going to have to knock. 139 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: And I'm pretty sure it's like I counted. I'm like 140 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: it's three houses down, like she's not in the one 141 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: next to us. So I knock on the door. No 142 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: one answers. I'm like, fuck, like she cannot get back. 143 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 1: She's she's terrified. I then ring the bell, which is 144 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: a loud bell, and some lady comes to the door 145 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: and she's like, clearly Benesley, she's young, she got like makeup, 146 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: bear in mind. I understand I'm being incredibly annoying, but 147 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: I'll get there. She was like had clearly just woken up, 148 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 1: and she's like hello, like are you okay? And I 149 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: was like, I'm so so sorry. My cat is stuck 150 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: in your yard. And you would think, all right, how 151 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 1: I would handle this, Oh my god, no worries come 152 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: in and grab her. It was like she looked at 153 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 1: me like so confused, and I was like, yeah, I'm 154 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,359 Speaker 1: really sorry, Like I looked over the fence. She's in 155 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: your yard, on your fence, Like, do you mind if 156 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 1: I grab her? She goes, oh, well, one of the 157 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: cats was in our yard the other day and she 158 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 1: took a photo of her, and she said they obviously 159 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: made their way back, so like, surely she can make 160 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 1: her way back. And I was like, okay, show me 161 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 1: the photo. It's not my cat, it's the boys. And 162 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,119 Speaker 1: the boys are very adre like they can do that stuff, 163 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 1: my cat can't. Oh no, this is a different cat, 164 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: Like that's my cat as well. She goes, wait, is 165 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: this your cat? I go, yes, I have three. This 166 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 1: one will not make its way back over. Please can 167 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: I grab it? She goes, I'm pregnant. I was like, okay, 168 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: and bear in mind, I've got my mom on time 169 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 1: right now in the pocket of my dressing gown. And 170 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: so she's just talking. I'm like shut up, and I 171 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 1: go I'm really sorry, like she won't make her way 172 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: back over, like she's been stuck there for hours now, 173 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: Please can I fucking get my cat? And she's like yeah, okay, okay, 174 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: lets me in. The first thing she says is she 175 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: gonna pee, And I go, I don't think so, Like, no, 176 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 1: she's never peeed, Like no, I don't think she will anyway. 177 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 2: That's not really pee inside. 178 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I go outside. She lets me out of 179 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: her back door, and I'm like, Harla fucking Louiah. My 180 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: cat is sitting on the fence. She's stuck there. 181 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 2: Do you have a visual of her up the top? 182 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't take a photo, but she's stuck 183 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 1: with like hands on either side of the fence, and 184 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: she's got really short legs, so that would have like her. 185 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: And so I go up to her and there's a couch, 186 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: like an outdoor couch sitting next to the fence, meaning 187 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 1: I would have to stand on this outdoor couch in 188 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: order to get high enough to grab my cat off 189 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 1: the fence. Outdoor couches they can be wiped down like 190 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: this is. I'm not talking about a white indoor couch. 191 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: I've got ug boots on. I'm like, do you mind 192 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: if I stand on your couch so I can reach her. 193 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: She doesn't say a word. I'm like, bitch, I can't 194 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: grow and get my cat like i'll anyway. So I 195 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: just kind of ignored her and just stood on the 196 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 1: fucking couch and grabbed my cat. And then she goes 197 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 1: fucking ballistic, puffs not the lady, okay, okay, puffs up 198 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: to the sides I've never seen her. Is clawing my 199 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: fucking arms off, is screeching so loud. My mom's like, 200 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: oh my god, oh my god, in my pocket. I 201 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 1: try and carry her back through the inside of the house, 202 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: and I have to get all the way through the 203 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 1: inside of the house to make it to the front door, 204 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: and then mine. She scratched. She pisces all over me, 205 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 1: all over me, soaks my singlet through. My dressing gown 206 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 1: is drenched. This lady's just asks me if my cat's 207 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 1: gonna pee, and I'm like, well, at least not on 208 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 1: your fucking floor. She's not. She'll pee on me. Scratches 209 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,319 Speaker 1: out of my arms. I have to drop her because 210 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 1: she's like hurt my hands, and she bolts upstairs. This 211 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: is not my house, oh my, this is the woman's house. 212 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 1: This is ten thirty pm right now. I go fuck, 213 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: I'm so so sorry this lady. Once again, she's giving 214 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: me no comfort, Like if someone if that had happened 215 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: to me, Bear in mind, I said to her, my 216 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,080 Speaker 1: cat's vaccinated. I know pregnant people can sometimes be scared 217 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: of cats because of a disease or something. I'm like, 218 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 1: she's vaccinated, she's harmless. You know. I literally vaccinated her 219 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 1: like a month ago, like again, meaning anyway, she's fine. 220 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: This lady's just standing like ten feet away from me. 221 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 1: I'm like, do you mind if I run up? Do 222 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 1: you mind if I go upstairs and look for her? 223 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: Because she's not going, Oh, just run go upstairs and 224 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: like find her. She's literally just standing there saying fucking nothing. 225 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, I'll grow grab some treats. So 226 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 1: I got quickly run into my house, grab some treats, 227 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: run back, and then she's kind of just standing there 228 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 1: and I'm like can I I'm pointing to upstairs. I'm like, good, 229 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: can I like head upstairs and like fin her? She 230 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: goes the top floor room is closed. That top room 231 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:53,559 Speaker 1: is my room in my house. Bear in mind. Yeah, 232 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 1: So I go on the middle floor. This lady does 233 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: not help me. You would think she would at least 234 00:09:58,080 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 1: be standing next to me. No, she sits on her 235 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: couch downstairs, turns no lights on. I'm in the middle 236 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 1: level of her house with a flashlight, going room to room, 237 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 1: turning the lights on, searching around, turning them off. She's 238 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: literally saying nothing, just sitting down. Says well, I'm in 239 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 1: the dark in her middle level of her house, trying 240 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:15,680 Speaker 1: to look for my cat. I don't need you to 241 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 1: help me, but at least turn the lights on, woman, 242 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, and. 243 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 2: Just like signaling more that it's okay that you're. 244 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I was like I was. My heart was 245 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 1: going one hundred miles an hour. I didn't know how 246 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: to fix this solution. I just was like, I am 247 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: so sorry. I am so sorry. I do not know 248 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 1: what like, I don't know how to fix this, Like 249 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: I'll find her anyway. I pick up the stairs. The 250 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 1: cat is sitting right in front of her husband's door 251 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 1: because she thinks it's my room anyway. The lady then goes, 252 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go up in the lift and talk to 253 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: my husband. So do you want to just wait here? 254 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, I guess. Like the fact she's 255 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: not even willing to walk up the stairs, I'm like, 256 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 1: you're acting like my cat's like the beacon of COVID 257 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: nineteen or something like. I'm like she's gonna be You're 258 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 1: gonna be fine. Anyway, she went up in the lift. 259 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 1: The cat obviously immediately came down the stairs. Let me 260 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,679 Speaker 1: pick her up, take her home. But I'm covered in piss. 261 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: I've showered twenty minutes before I need to shower again. 262 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 1: It was just a shit show and that lady. I 263 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 1: was like, can I get your number, like in case 264 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 1: it happens again, And she's like, well, we can't do 265 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: this every time. I was like, well, fair, fair annoying 266 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:19,959 Speaker 1: for you, and die like, I do you know what 267 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 1: I mean? I do not want this to happen again, 268 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 1: But I actually don't know how to fix that. She's 269 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 1: never done it before, and I would hope that, like 270 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: she'd be scared off of doing it again. But I 271 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:30,439 Speaker 1: found out that cats don't really have that like call. 272 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 1: They don't really like have that thing where they like 273 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: do something wrong and learn from it. They don't associate 274 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 1: it with anything that's happened before. They may even be 275 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: curious to do it again. 276 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:45,719 Speaker 2: Hopefully not being stuck on the literal fans like I 277 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 2: don't want her being in pain, yeah, hopefully. 278 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: But I'm like, the cats don't associate that with a 279 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: certain thing like when they get scared, it's like fight 280 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 1: or fly, Like they're not like humans. It'll be like 281 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 1: I was scared of xyzed. It's just like I was scared. Okay, 282 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 1: what was I scared of? I don't remember. Yeah, let's 283 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 1: go again. Oh anyway, I know that was really long winded, 284 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: but like I went. When I got home, obviously my 285 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:09,959 Speaker 1: T shirt's like fucking soaked, and I looked in the 286 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: mirror and like my mason was red, like my ears 287 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 1: and everything. I was like, I've never it took me 288 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: so long to calm the adrenaline down because it was 289 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 1: just like you could help a bit more in that 290 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 1: situation and just be like it's honey, it's fine. 291 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, And not that you shouldn't have been, but where 292 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 2: you get like embarrassed. 293 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 1: I was so embarrassed. I was like I cannot believe 294 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: this is happening. Like I'm so fucking sorry, like lucky 295 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: none of it. I was again again like I'm so sorry, 296 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I would have just been like girl, 297 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 1: it's fine, like let's find your. 298 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 2: Cat, yeah, or just throw in a joke, Clay, Yeah, 299 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:41,960 Speaker 2: you had no control of it. Annoying that all the 300 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 2: cats look the same, so she probably thought you were 301 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 2: like lying, Yeah, you're like, oh no, that wasn't the 302 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 2: same one. 303 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 1: I'm like this, literally, isn't there three of them? Anyway, 304 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: this gets me to my point. I had to shower again, 305 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 1: and I just showered like ten minutes before, and every 306 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 1: time I shower, I have to moisturize. That wasn't my point, 307 00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: that's just a fact. I think everyone should do that 308 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: because like then your spin's really soft and your tan 309 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: stays longer. Anyway, this brings to me into my hemia 310 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 1: that actually had nothing to do with anything. Hear me out. 311 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 1: People that get home from a night out and do 312 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:16,359 Speaker 1: not shower before they get into bed are disgusting. 313 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 2: Yeah do you agree? 314 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:19,079 Speaker 1: Do you do that? 315 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 2: I do? Okay, good and like no matter how excruciating 316 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 2: it is, but you can you can feel the build. 317 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:30,199 Speaker 1: Up like sweaty obviously summer night disgusting. You're sitting in 318 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 1: ubers that like hundreds of people have probably sat in 319 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: those back seats. People have probably vomited on it and 320 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 1: it's been wiped down. Like you're in clubs, you're touching 321 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: up against you, well, you've got drinks on you, like 322 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 1: the only reason I bring this to the attention is because, 323 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: like my friend Leg and I, we always will shower 324 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:48,199 Speaker 1: when we get home. And she was talking to a 325 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 1: couple of her girlfriends and they were like, I cannot 326 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 1: believe you do that, Like I think that's crazy, Like wow, 327 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 1: you're waking up the whole house like la la lah, 328 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: Like I just can't be bothered. And I'm like, my 329 00:13:57,280 --> 00:14:00,040 Speaker 1: bed would then be like a disease zone, like I 330 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: can't get into my bed from the night out without 331 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? I'd have to change 332 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: my sheets. 333 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 2: Thewstays and hungover because it's the next day. 334 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 1: And also makes you I feel like it makes you 335 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 1: less hungover because you're at least awaking clean. 336 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's my hangover. You were like, I'll go 337 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,839 Speaker 2: have a shower before I go to bed, But first 338 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 2: thing I'm. 339 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 1: Doing it's showering again, and then it's basically like all 340 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: of your sins are washed away. 341 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 342 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: And I was driving down the road the other day 343 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: and I saw a man. He was naked, which you 344 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 1: don't actually see very often, but he was homeless, I assume, 345 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 1: and he was naked with a headband like a head 346 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 1: headband like just around his penis, and I thought he 347 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: sat down at the bus stop, and that made me think, 348 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: See what if you sat on that bus stop right 349 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 1: after him, and then you just got into your bed, 350 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Yeah, the world's too 351 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: dirty to get into your bed without a shower. I'm 352 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 1: sorry it is. Yeah, it was. It was traumatic, and 353 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: to be honest, I was kind of like, oh, like 354 00:14:55,760 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 1: I don't know why I looked, but he actually sat 355 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 1: like he turned the same way as my car started 356 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: moving forward, he like sat down, So I didn't actually 357 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: see anything. 358 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 2: But okay, so he didn't crash. 359 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: No, But I think people the worry that it's like 360 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: waking up the house. 361 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 2: I'm like, an, what everyone's awake or that? 362 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 1: Like I'm stomping around regardless, I may as well be clean. 363 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no in between you either wide awake. Yeah 364 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 2: you are dead asleep from the night. 365 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 1: Before, and like people go wake me up? Who cares 366 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: go back to sleep? Do you know what I mean? 367 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 1: Like this stuff, I'm like, I fall. Maybe it's just me, 368 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 1: but I literally go to bed like no. 369 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:36,239 Speaker 2: People are so pressed about their sleeps having to be uninterrupted. 370 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 2: Oh my sister, what a privilege. 371 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 1: So one night I went down into her room. One 372 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: night I asked her a question. I don't remember what 373 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 1: it was. It was, it was important for me. I 374 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 1: needed the answer of it. Then for the next three 375 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 1: weeks she goes, please don't come into my room. I'm sleeping. 376 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 1: It was so scary. I'm like scary. I didn't storm 377 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 1: in yelling. I literally like knocked and like cracked and 378 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 1: stuck my head. And she says it was terror. Fine. 379 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: Every night I go to bed, I'm scared you're gonna 380 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: walk in and wake me up. She can't have like 381 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 1: interrupted sleep for me? Is fine. Yeah, I'm going back 382 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: to bed in three minutes. I'll be back asleep before 383 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 1: you leave the room. 384 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 2: It's just like it happens. I just don't think I'm 385 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 2: a deep sleeper. 386 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 1: I'm not a deep sleeper anyway. That was my that 387 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 1: was my rant, and may hear me out? 388 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 2: Did we get to this morning? I feel like this 389 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 2: has just gone in so many directs. 390 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 1: Oh, my cat's doing a mess again. Yeah, Oh no, 391 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 1: but that's that's just them always. Of course, when you're 392 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 1: carrying a million things and you drop one thing, the 393 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 1: one thing you drop is something that spills fucking every hour. 394 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: It was my protein shake, and then it was right 395 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 1: in front of the door, so I had to have 396 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 1: the door open in order to clean it. And then 397 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 1: both the boy cats jumped over me and escaped outside, 398 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: and it took me about twenty minutes to find one 399 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 1: of them. I'm sorry, Riley, but like I'm at my 400 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 1: wits or d mom, And there's a moment all over 401 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 1: the floor which I haven't had time to clean, so 402 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: I'll have to clean when I go. 403 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 2: And is she like the designated cleaner? 404 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 1: I say, they're your cats, you clean the moment because 405 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: I had to clean the shit when my cat had 406 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 1: in continents? 407 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's Do you know what I mean? Yeah? 408 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 2: I know what you mean. 409 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 1: And people say that cats are easier than dogs? Are they? 410 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 1: Do you have a hear me out? 411 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 2: I do, so I hear me out this week. It's 412 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 2: not like fully fleshed out, but I think you'll hopefully 413 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 2: respect what I'm saying. Hear me out. Yeah, I don't 414 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 2: think it's necessary, and I don't do this anymore, but 415 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 2: I'll explain why I don't. If you say, hi, nice 416 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:27,119 Speaker 2: to meet you, I find it really unnecessary when that 417 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 2: person's like, oh we met at this event. 418 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, thank because like then you have to go, oh, 419 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 1: we've met and it's like, yeah we met at this event, 420 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 1: it's like, well, I clearly didn't remember. And then sometimes 421 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 1: people actually get really annoyed about it. I remember having 422 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 1: some people talk on a podcast once about a friend 423 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 1: of mine saying that to them, and it was like, 424 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 1: isn't me just saying hi, nice to meet you better 425 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 1: than me saying nothing, like I don't remember you. I 426 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 1: literally I'm not doing it on purpose. 427 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:52,959 Speaker 2: And you're not proud not to remember. 428 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:55,639 Speaker 1: No, it's embarrassing, and it's like I just say, you know, 429 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 1: if I've said it and I've met you before like once, 430 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:00,399 Speaker 1: you know, if we've hung out and and it's like 431 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 1: maybe it's a bit different, you'll be like, oh it's easy, 432 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 1: like remember me. But like saying we've met is. 433 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 2: Rude and like of course you can like clean it 434 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 2: up with like oh yeah of course, but like some 435 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 2: people they do like really attack. I have my PTSD case. 436 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 2: This is why I never say nice suit you anymore, 437 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:19,639 Speaker 2: even if I know I have not met that person, 438 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, on the off chance, yeah, but I think 439 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 2: I was like twenty one and that was my first 440 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 2: job in the industry. And a guy came into the 441 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 2: studio and I just greeted him at the door. I'm like, Hi, 442 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:32,439 Speaker 2: I'm Blake, so nice to meet you. I was a sorry, 443 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 2: sorry we've met. I was like, oh my god, I'm 444 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:38,360 Speaker 2: so sorry. Where was it again? Oh so you don't 445 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 2: remember the event? 446 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Like can you not be so rude? 447 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 1: I'm already so embarrassed. 448 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:45,880 Speaker 2: And he was also like forties and I was twenty one. 449 00:18:45,960 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 2: I'm not just like may yeah. 450 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 1: And it's like, ooh, I'm trying to do by saying hi, 451 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:51,640 Speaker 1: nice to meet you as be polite. 452 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 453 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 1: And it's like even the other day I did it 454 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:56,199 Speaker 1: at an event and like she didn't say anything, but 455 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:58,479 Speaker 1: I said like I went around like in a circle, 456 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 1: and I was like I'd met the first person, and 457 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 1: so the second person, I was like, kind, nice to 458 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 1: meet you, and then I'm like, fuck with met, but 459 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: I kin'dt just kept going. But it's like that was 460 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 1: she didn't say anything, like, just don't say anything. It's 461 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 1: a nice like I'm trying to be blunted. 462 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, my new line is nice to see you. 463 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good dame perfect, or like, Hi, how 464 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:16,120 Speaker 1: are you? That's fine? 465 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? True? 466 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 1: Hi, how are you going? 467 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,880 Speaker 2: I do like because I do it very frequently now 468 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 2: When I say Hi, nice to see you, the person 469 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 2: usually says the same bag. I'm like, are we playing 470 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 2: the same game? 471 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 1: But then sometimes it's like, then you wonder have I 472 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 1: met this person? And I don't know if I have. 473 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:32,920 Speaker 1: It's a hard game. I think everyone just needs to 474 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: be a little bit less sensitive. Some people may not 475 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 1: remember you, do you know what I mean? Not everyone's 476 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 1: incredibly memorable to everyone. Sorry, all right, And then to 477 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,160 Speaker 1: close it all out to hear me out, We're gonna 478 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:46,159 Speaker 1: do one from you guys. 479 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god. Actually I was going through your hear 480 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 2: me out dms. Someone has DMed hear me out M 481 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 2: and I think you're gonna like it? Okay, high is 482 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 2: I have a really rogue he me out? Might hear 483 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 2: me out? Is it? Unique? Or creative? Names for kids 484 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 2: should be left to children whose parents are very attractive 485 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:09,400 Speaker 2: and they are destined to be cute kids. I don't 486 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 2: think weird looking kids can also have weird names. I'm 487 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 2: so sorry this sounds crazy and probably sounds really bad, 488 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 2: but I fear. I'm maybe right, what do you think? 489 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? Like yeah, but then you always run into the 490 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 1: run into the chance that your kid parents are hot 491 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 1: like Scott Dissy Kid and Courtney Kardashian and they end 492 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 1: up with a Mason. Do you know what I mean? 493 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 2: I was like, is she gonna go there? 494 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:34,159 Speaker 1: Yeah she is? 495 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 2: He means, well, oh yeah. 496 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 1: I yeah, I do agree that funky like there's this ars. 497 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 1: I will always remember this as legs, like mum has 498 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 1: a friend and she's named her kid like Icy and 499 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: I don't remember the other one. But I just was like, 500 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:56,479 Speaker 1: they're like, are really funky, like cool parents, and like 501 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 1: they've got these cool they'll dress their kids and cool stuff. 502 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 1: And I'm like, that's so dope. I love that name. 503 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,679 Speaker 1: But naming them like Apple and like Blue Ivy and 504 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 1: shit like doesn't happen. But like Icye, that's cute. 505 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:08,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, take our need a little bit of time. 506 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, there needs to be there needs to be a line. 507 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 1: Nick Cannon's kids, for example, We've discussed this before. 508 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 2: Oh likes kids, They're like not even No. 509 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: I do think celebrities need to relax. That's why I 510 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 1: really liked that. Taylee Bieber and Justin just named him Jack. Yeah. 511 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 2: I was like, great, thank you, I'll remember that. 512 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:33,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you. But I do think I don't know 513 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 1: if you've noticed, but Kim Kardashian's daughter North, there comes 514 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 1: a moment where you need to pull on the parenting 515 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 1: rains a little bit and go, this is a thirteen 516 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 1: year old. She's got a piercing in her fucking finger. 517 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 2: I haven't seen that. 518 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:49,119 Speaker 1: It's like a barbell that goes like through her fucking finger. 519 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 2: Oh. 520 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, she's got blue hair, she's got fucking what 521 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 1: twenty inch heels on, she's got the grills in. I'm 522 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,679 Speaker 1: like corseted tops on that like push her boobs up. 523 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, self expression, absolutely, but your child is 524 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 1: also in the public eye. Yeah, just pull on the 525 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:11,200 Speaker 1: reins a little bit, like you still are a parent. 526 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 1: And I feel like I just look at that as 527 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 1: bad parenting. 528 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 2: Mmm. I Actually one of North's lives came up on 529 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:21,440 Speaker 2: my TikTok and Kim was in the background. I think 530 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 2: she like entered and she's like, how much longer are 531 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 2: you gonna be? Because I just have to wait in 532 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,679 Speaker 2: here until you're done. I'm like, she doesn't even need 533 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 2: to be taking this live right now. 534 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 1: You're the parent, like you literally just say all right 535 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: done now I want to leave press end. Though, also 536 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,119 Speaker 1: like it's so easy for like child starts to like 537 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 1: get off the rails, like yeah, and having so much 538 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 1: spotlight at such a young age like really affecting them. 539 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:44,920 Speaker 1: So I'm like, make over a little bit more privacy. 540 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,920 Speaker 1: I just I don't know. I'm not a parent. I 541 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 1: can't understand that. I'm also not fucking Kim Gardashian, but 542 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,440 Speaker 1: I think when I see the photos of North, I'm 543 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:55,160 Speaker 1: just like that is to me insane. 544 00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:57,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean like I think she was always 545 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 2: like when you are a child star, yes you are 546 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,199 Speaker 2: likely almost to go off the rails, but I think 547 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 2: almost putting her in the music and rap scene as well. 548 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 1: Like yeah, letting her get fake fucking face tattoos and 549 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 1: like yeah with these chains covered in diamonds on them. 550 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 1: I just think, like, you're not letting this kid be 551 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 1: a kid anymore. And maybe she's gotten past that, you 552 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 1: know what I mean, like long ago, but I do 553 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,479 Speaker 1: think there needs to come a level of like oh 554 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 1: my god, no, no, she's twelve. 555 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:28,360 Speaker 2: Sorry, Oh that's crazy. 556 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 1: Like I forgot if you don't know what Northwest looks 557 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 1: like right now, have a look like it's more just yeah, 558 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 1: she's got her clause, her diamond grills in. It's like, 559 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,399 Speaker 1: this is a twelve year old kid and her mom 560 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 1: could so easily be like, you're not fucking doing that shit. 561 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, or her dad and our generation especially. 562 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's got two piercings in her hand. 563 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 2: Now dad, Oh, that like gives me anxiety. Imagine thing, 564 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 2: it's caught on something. 565 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:56,159 Speaker 1: I just think you need to somewhat slow down the 566 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:57,440 Speaker 1: aging of a kid like that. 567 00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 2: And our generation is super light. Kids be kids. I 568 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 2: think we have probably been raised by a generation that 569 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,560 Speaker 2: probably didn't have that. But like this is like to 570 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:09,440 Speaker 2: the next extreme. 571 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, like that's not a kid anymore. She got a 572 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 1: stept in piercing as well, Like just say no. On 573 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:22,640 Speaker 1: this episode, it is helped me out this saens some time. 574 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 1: It has been sometime. I feel like I'm just getting 575 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 1: wiser and wiser every day with that frontal lobe developing. 576 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 1: So let's there we go, all right, Hi is he? 577 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with the party, please never stop. So my 578 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 1: dilemma has a bit of a backstory. I used to 579 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,280 Speaker 1: work with this guy a few years ago. Let's call 580 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 1: him Zach. We were both in relationships at the time, 581 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:43,800 Speaker 1: but he always had a super floaty energy with me 582 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:45,960 Speaker 1: and would always make comments about how I never have 583 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: trouble with guys. Well, I have a boyfriend, so I 584 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 1: hate fucking men. If I ever got attention from a customer, 585 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 1: he would go on about it. Because of this, I 586 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,399 Speaker 1: knew he probably wasn't a great boyfriend. Yep, I reckon. 587 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 1: On top of that, he would also make comments about 588 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:06,399 Speaker 1: his girlfriend, calling her a prawn, which is unattractive face 589 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 1: but attractive body. I didn't know this terminology, and he 590 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 1: was one who actually explained it to me, which is crazy. 591 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,199 Speaker 1: That's fucking That's such a rude thing to say, especially 592 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:18,920 Speaker 1: about your partner. He was having issues with his girlfriend 593 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 1: and ended up cheating on her and broke up with her. 594 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:24,919 Speaker 1: Fuck this guy. I don't think she ever knew the reason, 595 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: but he had a sob story about how crazy she was, 596 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,359 Speaker 1: which is why he did it. This is I'm kicking 597 00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,359 Speaker 1: my flight or flight in. This is fucking the story 598 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:35,159 Speaker 1: I tell you. Okay, fast forward a few years I 599 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:38,680 Speaker 1: now work with his new girlfriend's sister, The new girlfriend 600 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 1: is called Amy, and let's call Zack's sister Jess for 601 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,920 Speaker 1: the sake of making things easier. He came into my 602 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 1: work with Amy and was laughing so much when he 603 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 1: saw me. The girl submitting says, oh, is that your 604 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,639 Speaker 1: sister with Zack? As in her work friend, like, is 605 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,119 Speaker 1: your sister dating Zach now? And she said yes and 606 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 1: asked him I knew him? I said yeah. She asked 607 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 1: if we dated and I said no way, I would 608 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: never And she asked why, But I didn't say. She 609 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 1: just said he used to be a shit, but he's 610 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:11,639 Speaker 1: better now. Yeah. I've only worked with her for a 611 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,560 Speaker 1: short period of time. But my question is should I 612 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 1: tell her and potentially ruin a relationship or should I 613 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 1: leave it if he's changed. I personally would want to 614 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 1: know if I was dating someone who was cheated in 615 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 1: the past. But I can also see it from the 616 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,479 Speaker 1: side that people deserve a chance to redeem themselves from 617 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 1: past mistakes. He can redeem himself while the girlfriend's still 618 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 1: being aware that he was a shit in the past. 619 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 2: True, do you know what I mean? Yeah, he can. 620 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 1: I would let her know because I think I do 621 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:41,159 Speaker 1: not think people change that drastically, And I don't like 622 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,400 Speaker 1: the negative talk of the girlfriend to like a girl 623 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 1: you work with, I think is honestly one of the 624 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:49,479 Speaker 1: worst parts there. Yeah, the girl dating him now can 625 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 1: be aware and he can still be like, but I 626 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 1: won't do it again and prove that he won't do 627 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:56,160 Speaker 1: it again. But I don't think knowledge, the knowledge. 628 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,399 Speaker 2: Of that, yeah, is a bad thing. I think if 629 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,679 Speaker 2: he took away like all these exams, Like, I think 630 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:05,160 Speaker 2: it's honestly, prawn to me is like more offensive than cheating. 631 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:06,879 Speaker 1: And I know that's not true, but it is so 632 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 1: fucking narsty. 633 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:12,159 Speaker 2: I've never heard that, you've never heard and no one 634 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:12,639 Speaker 2: should know. 635 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 1: That, Like, yeah, Like I grew up on that term 636 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:16,680 Speaker 1: because all the fucking people I knew back in the 637 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 1: day would always call people prawns. It's like you've just 638 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 1: got a really ugly face, but like your body's hot. 639 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,679 Speaker 1: It's so fucking rude. 640 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:26,399 Speaker 2: It's sickening. But to speak about your girlfriends like. 641 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 1: That to a girl coworker, Yeah, it's so fucking ig. 642 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 2: And it's hard because I know, like you don't have 643 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,680 Speaker 2: the full context of this new relationship, and it sounds 644 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 2: like they've lost touch. So like he could have become 645 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 2: a better person. 646 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 1: Maybe he has, but like, what's the problem with knowing 647 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 1: that he used to be a shit one? Like if 648 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,160 Speaker 1: he's a good one now, it won't matter, and he'll 649 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 1: prove himself and he'll prove his worth and he won't 650 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 1: cheat again. It'll'll be swell. Yeah, But like, what's the 651 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 1: problem with being aware of that? Because maybe he's already 652 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 1: doing that shit but the girlfriend's too embarrassed to talk 653 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: about it. 654 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,399 Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I think this is a rare case, not 655 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,520 Speaker 2: totally rare, but like this is the one case you 656 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 2: actually should step out. 657 00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, calling someone a prawn's fucking nasty. If you 658 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 1: call people that, you you deserve shit things. Okay, Number two, 659 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 1: I've just turned twenty and moved from Perth to Whistler, Canada. 660 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:18,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you lucky. Fuck I love Whisla. I 661 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,560 Speaker 1: feel like so many people that don't know so many 662 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 1: Australians go there during ski season and like even like 663 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,240 Speaker 1: teach people. They're like ski instructors. Like when I was younger, 664 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,400 Speaker 1: I had a lot of Australian ski instructors. 665 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,159 Speaker 2: And yes, so many people move over there. 666 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, my friends moved there. 667 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 2: My friend randomly did and like broke our help boy. 668 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:40,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, with my boyfriend and our mate, we applied for 669 00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: staff housing through our job and got it. However, here's 670 00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 1: the catch. I'm stuck living with five boys. I've gone 671 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,720 Speaker 1: from living with just me and my mum to just 672 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 1: me and five boys, and it's a nightmare. I actually 673 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 1: couldn't think of anything fucking worse than that. Most of 674 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,600 Speaker 1: them are nice, but they're just so grotty. They don't 675 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 1: want to clean anything, and one of them makes me 676 00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. Oh my god, girl, everyone will be in 677 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 1: the lounge room and he just knocks on my door, 678 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 1: comes in and lays on my bed to talk. Then 679 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 1: once he did that and left, and I heard him 680 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 1: saying to the boys, me and Jess just had sex. 681 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 1: When no one replied to him, he made the joke again. Yeah, 682 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,760 Speaker 1: if you're living with your boyfriend, bound some boundaries. Your 683 00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 1: boyfriend should be like, can you fucking stop? You're making 684 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,479 Speaker 1: my girlfriend uncomfortable? And boys need to also be adults 685 00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 1: and clean their own fucking shit. My room was flooded 686 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 1: twice with toilet water. We had carpet, might I add Ooh, 687 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 1: so my boyfriend and I were moved into an emergency 688 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 1: unit till it dried and they changed the carpet. Thank god. 689 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 1: I came home one day to find out all of 690 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 1: my stuff, to find all of my stuff, moved around 691 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,280 Speaker 1: and noticed the blanket from my bunk was missing. I 692 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,680 Speaker 1: looked everywhere for it and found it in that boy's bed. 693 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 1: Why are you taking my blanket and sleeping with it? 694 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 1: That's rank That blanket would be. 695 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:50,280 Speaker 2: Going in the bin. 696 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:52,960 Speaker 1: Anyways, I'm not sure how you can solve that for me. 697 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 1: Just send me your hope some prayers. I would just say, 698 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: Step one is your boyfriend needs to put some boundaries 699 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:00,160 Speaker 1: in place with the guy that's making you uncomfort Well, 700 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:02,880 Speaker 1: you need to tell him. I'm assuming you have, yeah, 701 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:05,600 Speaker 1: but he needs to man up and be like, hey, dude, like, 702 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 1: don't make jokes like that around my girlfriend or about her. 703 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 1: Like she's living here with us. I want to make 704 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 1: her comfortable. You know. 705 00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. There's no quick fixed nervously like this is 706 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,840 Speaker 2: shared housing. Oh this you need to save up mond 707 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 2: because of a job. Yeah, potentially get out of that scenario. 708 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 2: It's not easy. I would ask, though, how did you 709 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,480 Speaker 2: go staying at that emergency unit? Like I'm sure it 710 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 2: wouldn't have been that flash, but like, were there enjoyable 711 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 2: moments with you and your boyfriend? 712 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 1: But that was an emergency. They're saying here because they've 713 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 1: all got a job, and that's their housing that they 714 00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 1: get given to work as like a Whistler do you 715 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 1: know what I mean. 716 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 2: I'm not saying to move in there, but like that 717 00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:45,239 Speaker 2: was their experience being alone them two staying the night 718 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,920 Speaker 2: alone or whether it's two or three nights, Like, was 719 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 2: that positive? And can you draw from that experience to 720 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 2: be like, hey, probably is better just you and I 721 00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 2: and hopefully from there, why they can either set up 722 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 2: an escape route or two. 723 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,239 Speaker 1: But meaning if they want to work in Whistler at 724 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 1: this job, they've been given free housing with all these 725 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,560 Speaker 1: people because they're all probably working together in Whistler, meaning 726 00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 1: they'd have to then pay rent somewhere else if they 727 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 1: wanted to be alone. I'm assuming this housing Stork or 728 00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:17,040 Speaker 1: it's cheap housing. Yeah, I'm assuming Whistla. They're pretty like 729 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: you're probably only going to be there for like six months, 730 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,000 Speaker 1: maybe unless you're there permanently, but like a lot of 731 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 1: the time people go for like ski season and then 732 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: come back. I think their boundaries just needs to be 733 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,840 Speaker 1: set with that man, because that's fucking disgusting. And also 734 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 1: burn that blanket actually, to be honest, if it was 735 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 1: my blanket, I just wash it. My ex fucking I 736 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 1: think he had sex on my blanket with someone else, 737 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 1: and I just washed it and I couldn't look at 738 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:40,480 Speaker 1: it for a while. But now she's back in my bed. 739 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 1: She's coming to the Actor Awards with me. 740 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:45,720 Speaker 2: I know she's really cute. 741 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 1: Kind of a long one, but I really like this 742 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 1: guy at my UNI. He's Italian, tall, blonde hair, blue eyes, 743 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,880 Speaker 1: sound sexy. He had a girlfriend at the start of 744 00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: the semester. We still got along very well and we're 745 00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 1: really good friends. We sat next week each other almost 746 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 1: all of the time and talked with full confidence one night. See, 747 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,400 Speaker 1: maybe I've got some serious trauma from like ex's cheating 748 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 1: on me, But like if I knew that my boyfriend 749 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 1: was at UNI, you can have friends that are girls 750 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,040 Speaker 1: I don't like. I don't want you to make new ones, 751 00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Yeah, maybe that's toxic, 752 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 1: Maybe that's crazy. 753 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,520 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I'm sure there's things that had happened to 754 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 2: use every time you heard of someone new, You're probably like, yeah, I. 755 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 1: Just think if I found out that he made Like 756 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 1: I do believe you can have friends of the opposite sex, 757 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 1: like I really truly do. But I just think making 758 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 1: a new friend when you've got it, Like if my 759 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 1: boyfriend was sitting next to a girl every single day 760 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 1: at UNI, I'd be like, who the fuck is this bitch? 761 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 2: I'm coming with you and why does she like? 762 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:46,959 Speaker 1: She probably talks you more than I do because you're 763 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 1: at UNI all day every day. 764 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 2: It's uncomfortable. 765 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not ideal. Not your fault, no, girl. But 766 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 1: one night we went out with some of our friends 767 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,080 Speaker 1: from UNI and he told me that his golfriend had 768 00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 1: broken up with him, but he seemed really upset about it, 769 00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 1: and I was still treated him like a good friend 770 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 1: from there, and he started texting me all day every 771 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 1: day and kissed me the next week at the same club. 772 00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:09,640 Speaker 1: Fucking relationships are brutal. We then went on a trip 773 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,880 Speaker 1: for three days just the two of us, to Madrid, Wow, 774 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 1: from south of Spain, and we had a great time. 775 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 1: So naturally I started developing feelings. See that's the thing. 776 00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 1: He always probably liked her, That's why he was sitting 777 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:22,400 Speaker 1: next to her on UNI every day. That's why you 778 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 1: can't make new friends when you're own a relationship. I 779 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 1: stand by it, Yeah, I really do. 780 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 2: It's just unfortunate because it doesn't have to be like that. 781 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you might meet the love of your fucking 782 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,840 Speaker 1: life while you're dating someone else, do you know what 783 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:37,240 Speaker 1: I mean? And then it ends and you'd start dating 784 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:38,920 Speaker 1: the person you were meant to always be with. So 785 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 1: it's yeah, it's neither here nor there. I just I 786 00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 1: get triggered. The next weekend, he started acting weird and 787 00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 1: barely texting me when he normally took a thirty minutes 788 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 1: to respond. I didn't make a big deal out of it, 789 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 1: because I can be quite avoidant sometimes too. However, that 790 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,120 Speaker 1: Sunday night, he sent me a voice note implying that 791 00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 1: he wanted to end things. Why. The next day UNI, 792 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 1: he told me his ex had asked him to try again. 793 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:05,719 Speaker 1: He said he wasn't sure if he wanted to get 794 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 1: back together with her or continue to get to know me. 795 00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,359 Speaker 1: I told him that for me, that meant he didn't 796 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:11,839 Speaker 1: want to be with me, but that we could still 797 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 1: be friends and not make it awkward because we were 798 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:15,319 Speaker 1: still going to be seeing each other for the rest 799 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 1: of UNI. You're very mature a girl. Help me out. 800 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:21,640 Speaker 1: Should I give him a chance or just leave it 801 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 1: as it is, even though that would be not talking 802 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 1: ever again, don't give him a chance. He wants his 803 00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:28,760 Speaker 1: cake and eating it. He's eating it too. I agree 804 00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:30,439 Speaker 1: breaks up with a girl because if someone else goes 805 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:31,600 Speaker 1: on a trip with him and then is done and 806 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,000 Speaker 1: wants to be back with his ex, he probably just 807 00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:34,160 Speaker 1: wanted a little summer. 808 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:35,400 Speaker 2: Fling and it's just so fresh. 809 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,719 Speaker 1: So he's still probably got a lot of feelings for 810 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:39,400 Speaker 1: this X. Not to say he doesn't have them for 811 00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:41,440 Speaker 1: you too, but he can't be playing both sides, So 812 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:44,360 Speaker 1: I would remove yourself with the from the equation. You 813 00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,239 Speaker 1: will find a man that only has eyes for you. 814 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're in his life before, so potentially, if 815 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:50,560 Speaker 2: there's a good guy. 816 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,920 Speaker 1: With things may come back around. But for now, I 817 00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 1: think give him his space to figure out his fucking shit, 818 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 1: because you don't need to be involved in that, and 819 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,839 Speaker 1: it will only get messy up from now and forward, 820 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:03,640 Speaker 1: and it will now that the girlfriend if he ever 821 00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 1: tells her, hey, yeah, that girl, I sit next to 822 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:06,360 Speaker 1: me in Uni every day. Yeah, I went on a 823 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,640 Speaker 1: trip with her to Spain. The girlfriend's now going to 824 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:10,880 Speaker 1: have a huge fucking problem with him ever being around 825 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:11,319 Speaker 1: you again. 826 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:12,280 Speaker 2: Oh my god, totally. 827 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,319 Speaker 1: I think you should be done with him for now 828 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 1: until he sorts his shit out. We'll see, all right. 829 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:19,640 Speaker 1: How is he such a dilemma? 830 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:20,359 Speaker 2: Yeah? 831 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 1: No, not for you, Yeah for me. I dated this 832 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,120 Speaker 1: boy for about two years a little over a year ago. 833 00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 1: Since then, he's gotten a new girlfriend. The girlfriend is 834 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:34,880 Speaker 1: my best friend's fiance's sister. Okay, it would be like 835 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 1: Leg's boyfriend zeb sister, do you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, 836 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,400 Speaker 1: And the next sentence were like who the ex boyfriend 837 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 1: and I met when we were together? We hate that shit. Anyway, 838 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,879 Speaker 1: he has been plus one to my best friend's wedding 839 00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:53,680 Speaker 1: despite his name being on my invite. That's so stiff. 840 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:55,919 Speaker 1: Oh because the wedding. He might'st come out like way 841 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,560 Speaker 1: before the wedding, so they were probably still together. I 842 00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:00,880 Speaker 1: was recently invited to the hens my best friend and 843 00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,600 Speaker 1: the new girlfriend is going too, as she's the groom sister. 844 00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,520 Speaker 1: Should I engage in conversation with her as it's only 845 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:08,720 Speaker 1: a small group or a void her at all costs. 846 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,239 Speaker 1: Not sure what will make it more awkward, not to mention, 847 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,200 Speaker 1: she has made the ex boyfriend block me, despite him 848 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 1: needing to fix a dent he left in my car 849 00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 1: from backing into it. She has also behaved super childishly, 850 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:25,440 Speaker 1: stepping on my feet, giggling are we twelve? Giggling, bumping 851 00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 1: into me when I see them out. I'm wanting to 852 00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 1: avoid her being childish towards me too. I yeah, honestly, 853 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,320 Speaker 1: I've been in situations like that with like partners, ex's 854 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,480 Speaker 1: on new girlfriends, and I'm just always polite. Yeah, it's 855 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,440 Speaker 1: not really either of your faults that you like the 856 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,200 Speaker 1: same person or you did. I think for the sake 857 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,560 Speaker 1: of your best friend, you want things to go smoothly, 858 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 1: just be polite. You know, I sit next to her. 859 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,880 Speaker 1: You don't have to talk to her directly, but like, 860 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 1: if you're in a conversation together or if you end up, 861 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 1: just go in with an open mind. I wouldn't go 862 00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:57,480 Speaker 1: in with too much of a plan. If you end 863 00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:00,480 Speaker 1: up near each other, great, be polite for a question, 864 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,360 Speaker 1: ask how she's going. I don't think there's any benefit 865 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,760 Speaker 1: to being rude. I don't think it will help anyone 866 00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:06,399 Speaker 1: in the long run. 867 00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:08,400 Speaker 2: And I think maybe try have a buddy, because it 868 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:11,040 Speaker 2: does sound like she is likely to try and do something. 869 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:12,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, and if she does, the only person that looks 870 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,279 Speaker 1: dumb is her because she's dating the boy. Now you're not, 871 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,640 Speaker 1: you're chillen, So why is she getting so worked up? 872 00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,440 Speaker 2: And yeah, I would have naturally voted actually not to go, 873 00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,560 Speaker 2: just to avoid it at all, but I do know 874 00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 2: it's going to feed this narrative of maybe the list. 875 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 1: Also it's her best friend's hens. 876 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:28,160 Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. 877 00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:32,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're going, and you're gonna have a good time, 878 00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:34,520 Speaker 1: focus on your best friend, given her the best day ever, 879 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:36,360 Speaker 1: and just be polite. 880 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it might be more of a conscious effort 881 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,000 Speaker 2: like avoiding her because it does sound like she might follow. 882 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like, to be honest, you'll probably are 883 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 1: not wanting to be your best friend. Kind of shit 884 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:46,879 Speaker 1: does tend to happen. 885 00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:48,440 Speaker 2: Give her a few white wines. 886 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, and she'll probably be asking you all about. 887 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,040 Speaker 2: Your live and she'll come back her out. 888 00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,360 Speaker 1: She'll be fun, You'll be fun, all right, honeys, that 889 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,359 Speaker 1: was today's episode. I think maybe we do a part 890 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,040 Speaker 1: two of help me Out in the coming weeks, but 891 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,080 Speaker 1: thank you again for all of your submissions. Once again, 892 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,280 Speaker 1: I would not be here without you. I am forever 893 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,880 Speaker 1: grateful for all of you listeners. I love you, and 894 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:09,359 Speaker 1: I will chat to you next week.