1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,400 Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables. 2 00:00:01,680 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 2: I don't see any reason I think you should just 3 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 2: be like you're I love you. Material. 4 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 1: That's cute, that's actually really cute. My last one. Tell 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: us what your guy best friend has said and we'll 6 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: tell you what it means. I don't know what I 7 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: would do without you. 8 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 2: Relatable relatable talk said by myself, Jake Craig aka Daddy, 9 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: and my partner in crime, Whatdie Clark aka Mummy, and 10 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:40,279 Speaker 2: you guys are the baddes, And usually I say why 11 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 2: oldies um me when I forgot to do it. But 12 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 2: that doesn't matter because we have to get into the 13 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 2: episode straight away, and we are going to listen to 14 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 2: some voice notes of why you guys think you're petty. 15 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 1: I've never had Jake not talk so much in the intro. 16 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: We're not messing around today. 17 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 2: Never had me or you've never had me talk so 18 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 2: much in the intro. 19 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, not talk so much. Normally you have like a 20 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: little bit of an antidote about your life or something. 21 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 2: I always every time we go to record here here's 22 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:04,759 Speaker 2: me doing it again. Every time every time we. 23 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: Go to I was caught on I need a time. 24 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: Normally there's a minute or two for me to like 25 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: your fault, sit here, get ready, ready to play the 26 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,680 Speaker 1: voice notes. You'll tell me about your life. 27 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 2: This is your fault for mentioning it. But every time 28 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 2: we start the episode, right before we press record, we'll go, okay, 29 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 2: what are we going to do with we write down 30 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 2: right down on the white board, and we have like 31 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 2: catch up as like second or third. Yeah, and then 32 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 2: I always always always make it go first. But let's yeah, 33 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 2: stop stop, So let's get straight into the relatables voice 34 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 2: nails with. 35 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: The prompt being what's the pettiest thing you have ever done? 36 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: And we said this was two weeks ago, baddies. 37 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 2: I think this was I think the question was what 38 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 2: made you realize you're petty? Nah? 39 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: I don't think it was. Well, the baddies took it 40 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: as what's the pettiest thing you've ever done? 41 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 2: I like it, I guess at the same time that 42 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: would realize. 43 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: We preface that we love a bit of petty. There's 44 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: a time and a place for pettiness. Cheat it on 45 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: toxic ex bad dude if it's a dude. In general, 46 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: anything like that. 47 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 2: Petty things feel good when the person you've done it too, 48 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 2: brings it up and brings up the fact that it 49 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 2: like affected them. 50 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: That's so, that's so toxic. I reckon, there's a time 51 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:20,639 Speaker 1: and the place a little just a little bit to 52 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: be toxic. Let's listen to me. 53 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like toxicity in like healthy amounts, you know, 54 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 2: everything everything in what's. 55 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 1: It called abortion? 56 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, like we don't like toxicity. But okay, no, no, no incorrect. 57 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 2: I like toxicity when it's pettiness. Go on, It's like, yeah, 58 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 2: okay voicemail. 59 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 3: Number one, Hey boys, love the pod. I realized I 60 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 3: was petty when me and my ex broke up. I 61 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 3: found out that he had been cheating on me for 62 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 3: about a year, the last year of our relationship, and 63 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 3: because he's not the smartest man in the world, and 64 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 3: to get this pathwards all the time, my email was 65 00:02:56,560 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 3: his recovery email to get into his own email account. 66 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 3: So I got into his email and went through and 67 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 3: changed his past moods on all of the dating apps 68 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 3: that he had been on, and then also all of 69 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 3: his descriptions to all of his Netflix and stand and 70 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:22,239 Speaker 3: everything as well, and just decided to suck some ship 71 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 3: up and make it so we couldn't get into any 72 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 3: account that he held access to, which I think is the 73 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 3: bare minimum of what you what he probably deserved, but 74 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 3: also probably one of the most difficult things to come 75 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 3: back from when you can't get into any account that 76 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 3: you have that you have. So, yeah, that's my story. 77 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 3: Hopefully it's not too patty, but I probably should have 78 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 3: done more. 79 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: But okay, I know you're you're right. What did you 80 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: realize you're Patty should have done more. That's good. That's 81 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: really good because also, like all your bank accounts are 82 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: associated with it, so you're just losing money as well, 83 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: and you can't get back in to like cancel them 84 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: or change it, so you actually get to rip the 85 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: benefits of the money. 86 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 2: I really like what she did. 87 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: It's subtle. 88 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 2: I'm a big fan of what she did because at 89 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 2: the same because she said he's not the smartest guy, 90 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 2: it's a very good chance he's not going to catch 91 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: on to what she did because he may not remember 92 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:20,039 Speaker 2: that her email is the recovery email. You know, what 93 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 2: you could have done. One further is if you could 94 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 2: I don't know if you can do this, but use 95 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 2: your your email as a recovery email to change his 96 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 2: email password, oh completely and lock him out forever. 97 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:32,919 Speaker 1: He has to start a new one everything. 98 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 2: So and what that would have done, right is because 99 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 2: he can't then cancel Netflix and that no, no, no. 100 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 2: So the reason I say is because I've recently I 101 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 2: went through this the other day. Sorry, I'm fucking with 102 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 2: something back here. I went through this the other day. 103 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 2: I went through and I thought, I'm not using any 104 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 2: of my streaming services at the moment. I'm going to 105 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 2: cancel them all. And I'm gonna I was going to 106 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 2: say to you, go cancel all of yours and then 107 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 2: we'll reget them on the business because there's definitely an 108 00:04:58,000 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 2: argument of claimability there. 109 00:04:59,720 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: There is. 110 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 2: So I've gone and canceled all night. And but I 111 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 2: went and I so I went in my bank statements 112 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 2: to check what I was getting charged for. And so 113 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 2: I've been paying for KO, which is like a sports 114 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 2: thing here in Australia. 115 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 1: What do you watch on KO? 116 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 2: Actually, I won't lie to you. 117 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 1: I watch golf golf on care. 118 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 2: You can't get golf anywhere except Kay. Oh no, well 119 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 2: PGA you can get there anyway. But then I was like, 120 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 2: fuck I have I was like, I'm just I'll watch 121 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 2: highlights whatever. And so I went to go get rid 122 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:32,280 Speaker 2: of it, and I went and I couldn't, for the 123 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:35,600 Speaker 2: life of me, figure out what email I made the 124 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 2: account with. Wasn't my email, wasn't any of Relatable's emails, 125 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:41,919 Speaker 2: and so I didn't know what to do. And I 126 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 2: literally couldn't get a hold of anyone at KO. It 127 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 2: was a chatbot that wouldn't send me to a human, 128 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 2: and I was like, Okay, I call my bank. I 129 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 2: had to cancel my card and get a new one 130 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 2: sent to me. Really just so it stops, because the 131 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 2: card's going to cancel and then the account won't be charged, 132 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 2: and then KO will just cancel account for me because 133 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 2: I'm not paying them. 134 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 1: The admin is not like you. 135 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 2: I was doing an admin day. We'll get on to 136 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 2: this later, but basically that's what he would have That's 137 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 2: what he would have had to do. Yeah. Yeah, it 138 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 2: was honestly so annoying. 139 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 1: Guy. 140 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 2: The bank goes, we can't even guarantee it's not going 141 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 2: to charge your account, so just cause again if it happens. 142 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy. I remember I used to have something 143 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 1: with KO too, and it was really really hard to cancel. 144 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 2: Forty a month to a month. 145 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 1: Hell, you're getting ripped watch from golf. 146 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 2: I was getting fucking it is something. 147 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 1: There's got to be a way I can watch the 148 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:31,599 Speaker 1: free Yeah, I agree, it has to be next. 149 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 4: One something petty that I've done. I would say, I'm 150 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 4: not a petty person, but if you, like, if you 151 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 4: cross my line, I'm a different person to you completely. 152 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 4: And so my ex broke up with me for like 153 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 4: one of the dumbest reasons ever. And so when you 154 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 4: came to my place to pick up his clothes, like 155 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 4: he had some clothes at mine, I sprayed his favorite 156 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 4: perfume of mine all over his clothes, like drenched them 157 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 4: in it basically. So yeah, I would say that's pretty petty, 158 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 4: but it was years ago. 159 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:06,039 Speaker 1: So I like that. I like that too. 160 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 2: It was years ago, but who cares. 161 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: That's good little hit there, I reckon. 162 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 2: I really like that. I think that that's like, that's 163 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 2: actually that you could have gone pettier without me judging. 164 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's also like it's subtle in a sense 165 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: too that he wouldn't pick up on it because it 166 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: was just. 167 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 2: Like at your house, and you know what sucks is 168 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 2: like so for this guy at least, So do you 169 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 2: ever when you were younger. I had it happen to 170 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 2: me after I broke up with my first girlfriend. We 171 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 2: were quite young, and I don't know if it was 172 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 2: because maybe when you're young, you know, you're not very 173 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 2: into cologne's and perfumes and like stuff, so maybe she 174 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 2: had a bit of a generic one. I don't know, 175 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 2: but I remember being out somewhere one time and smelling 176 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 2: her perfume and like not remembering why I knew the smell, 177 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 2: and and I smelt it, and I was like, what 178 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 2: the fuck? And then it clocked me up. I was like, 179 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 2: oh my god, that's like such and such as like 180 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 2: old smell, and I was like, how do I still 181 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 2: remember that? 182 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 1: This has happened to me? Even with Cassie, I'll be 183 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 1: at the gym or out in public, I'm like, what 184 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: the hell? I was like, why why do I remember that? 185 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 1: And then I clock like, obviously, just a generic perfume 186 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: that a lot of women wear, which is funny. And 187 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh wait, maydant? I feel like everyone wears 188 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: the same deodorant, yeah, which is funny. Isn't that weird? Yeah, 189 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: it's funny how you associate the smell with a person 190 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 1: and so, how long ago was that that you remember that? Oh? 191 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 2: So it was like it was probably like a couple 192 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,679 Speaker 2: months after i'd broken up that girlfriend that I remember it. 193 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 2: But this guy that you did this too, he would 194 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 2: have picked up his clothes and not realized straight away, 195 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 2: and he would have got it all over him when 196 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 2: he picked him up and stuff, and then he would 197 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 2: have just been at home thinking, what is that nostalgic? 198 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 2: What is that? Why am I I'm horning? I missed? 199 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? What is that? Do I regret my decisions? I 200 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 1: think I should call it, but that is I'm going 201 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: to say, they weren't that petty. 202 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 2: Nah. You guys could have gone full like ten times 203 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 2: worse and still had me being like, yeah, that's fine. 204 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 1: If you've got some send him to the relatables voicemail. 205 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: But the new prompt for next week is, Jake, we. 206 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 2: Are going to do what is like the craziest, wildest 207 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 2: thing that a guy or I guess if you are 208 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 2: a guy that a girl has said during the deed 209 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 2: or like just post yeah or just before. I don't know, 210 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 2: but usually if they say something crazy just before, you're. 211 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,319 Speaker 1: Not going to go through yeah anything around sex. It's 212 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 1: the craziest thing. I remember we did an episode it 213 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 1: was like our third episode and a guy finished and yes, 214 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 1: and he said, the eagle has landed. 215 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 2: That was our first ever episodes. That would have been 216 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 2: like five deep mane yeah, five episodes deep. Yeah. Some 217 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 2: one had a story of of a guy finishing and 218 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 2: then being like you but send them be In the 219 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 2: description to the relabel's voicemail, it's like a call sign. 220 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:10,679 Speaker 1: It is no one. 221 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 2: I feel like our call signs of mummy and daddy. Unfortunately, 222 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 2: so you're not going to be able to like. 223 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 1: Should we get a call sign for ourselves? What would 224 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 1: yours be? 225 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 2: So? Yeah, when you finish, what would you want your 226 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 2: call sign to be? Actually, I don't think you'd have 227 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 2: one that isn't cringe true. But let's say, so, what 228 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 2: have we been What have I been reading? No, that's okay. Basically, 229 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:34,959 Speaker 2: let's say we're in a war, we're fighting for our country. 230 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 1: No, I reckon we do? We just finish having sex 231 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:40,439 Speaker 1: with our beautiful partners, and we have a call sign. 232 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:42,079 Speaker 2: Or that'd be more of a saying yeah, yeah, yeah, 233 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 2: and you're speaking in the third person, what would yours be? Okay, 234 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 2: give me a second I would I say, yours would 235 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 2: be I would do this is what I would say 236 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: leading up. The end is near, The end is near. 237 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: That sounds very proper, The end is near. I don't 238 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 1: know what mine would be. I feel like someone else 239 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: has to give it to Yours would more be like, 240 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: this is me ready, this is me. 241 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 2: Go go, go, go, go finish? Was that good for you? 242 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: Did you finish? Did you finish well? Three minutes you record? 243 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 2: Okay, baddies, it is time once again for our segment 244 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 2: of ins and outs for the week. 245 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:42,319 Speaker 1: Might I just say, Jake, I am loving this? 246 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:46,199 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm glad that you are loving this, because I'm 247 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 2: going to start with outs again, and I have been 248 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:54,200 Speaker 2: thinking about this one for a while. I'm going to say. 249 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:57,719 Speaker 1: Soft launches, man, Yeah, they're a thing of the past day. 250 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 1: Why were they even a thing in the first place. 251 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 2: I'm sick of soft launches. I don't want to be 252 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 2: looking at a story and thinking like, oh, looks like 253 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 2: such and such has got themselves into a cheeky little 254 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 2: relationship and all I see is a little a little 255 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 2: part of an arm. 256 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: Whose hand is that, yeah, exactly whose hand is that? 257 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,199 Speaker 2: Whose back of the head is that, I say, Tagger, 258 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 2: give me a full face frontal all right, I don't 259 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 2: even care if you're in a situationship or if you're 260 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 2: in a fresh relationship. I want you to do a 261 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 2: post freaking head on of this person with a bio 262 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 2: of who they are and why you're dating. 263 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 1: Them, and tag them so I don't have to do 264 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: the reces tag them. 265 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:33,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even I don't even need to know them. 266 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 2: I don't even need to know you. If I'm being 267 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 2: complete honest with you, I just like to snoop. 268 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:38,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, and we all know everyone's snooping. 269 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 2: Hey, if you're not snooping, you're drooping. I'm sorry. 270 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: I was terrible. I like it. I like it. I 271 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 1: like it. Okay, now I've said it before and I 272 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 1: will say it again, perfect, Ted. 273 00:12:55,880 --> 00:13:00,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, they're healthy energy drinks. My fridge is docked. Same, 274 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 2: so is our studio one, Jake. It certainly is. I'm 275 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:05,959 Speaker 2: very thankful for that. But yeah, I don't know. I'm 276 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 2: just not a big fan of the other ones. Like 277 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 2: all the other energy drinks, it's like just there's so 278 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 2: much dark packaging. It's not very appealing, and the ingredients 279 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 2: lists never ending. If someone could name me half of 280 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 2: the things on there, I'd be impressed. If someone could 281 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 2: name me two of the things on there, I'd be impressed. 282 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 1: Facts. That's why Murussa created perfect Ted. You didn't even 283 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 1: have us guys in mind when making them, and they 284 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:30,719 Speaker 1: actually slap and might I just ad mat They are 285 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: powered by a marcher. 286 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 2: They are very tasty and all natural ingredients as well. 287 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 2: Apple raspberry is my favor. 288 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: Ooh, I'm of a juicy peach man myself. 289 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 2: Hey, fair enough, where do you get yours? 290 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: You know where I get it from? Jake Coals. 291 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 2: Hey, you know what, I'm a Cole's guy. 292 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 1: Ordie, We're Coals dudes. 293 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 2: Let's go baddest. I have an update that's actually a 294 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 2: day for Roddie. Okay, an update, Okay. I had a 295 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 2: car crash last week, my fault. The developments of that 296 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 2: are that I have paid the person I hit. I 297 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 2: don't want to go into it again. I don't feel 298 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 2: like retell the story, and I also don't feel like 299 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 2: telling you how much I spent. But I did tell 300 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 2: Oddie and all the baddies over on Patreon. If you 301 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 2: want to head over to Patreon and find out how 302 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 2: much it costs me. I won't lie. It's a comical 303 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:27,280 Speaker 2: amount of money and I'm poor. 304 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 1: Now, might I just say, please go to Patreon for 305 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: Jake's sake, because actually I kind of need it. He 306 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 1: needs your money. 307 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 2: Go to patreon dot com forward slash letters sixty nine 308 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 2: and sign up for a month so you can go 309 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 2: hear how much it's cost me, and you might feel 310 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 2: better about spending your money. But I got insurance. 311 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 1: A little bit late. It doesn't matter. 312 00:14:57,680 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, probably about a week too late. 313 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 1: See you took there's a sign from the world to 314 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: get insurance. 315 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 2: I too get as a sign from the world. I 316 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 2: went and got insurance, and I'm I'm all covered. It 317 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 2: feels good. Probably took me like twenty minutes. 318 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: Go get in another car crash. It doesn't in day, 319 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: do your life. 320 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 2: I gotta wait a couple weeks. 321 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 1: I got a calling off period, mate, don't mean and 322 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 1: then go to how long is the calling off period? 323 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 2: I think it's like two weeks? Okay, yeah, yeah, two weeks. 324 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 2: You can hold off that drive safe for two weeks. 325 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 1: And then I covered. 326 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 2: I got roadside if. 327 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: I needed a wind shield, yeah, you got all. 328 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 2: If I win, I went all the way, you know what, 329 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 2: you know what, there was one more thing I could 330 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 2: have got, but it made it a lot more expensive, 331 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 2: with like two hundred extra dollars, and I was like, 332 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 2: don't need that, don't need that, Okay, But what I 333 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 2: wanted this to lead into was so me not having 334 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 2: insurance and then getting in a car accident is very 335 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 2: stupid of me. So I don't know what I want 336 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 2: to call this segment, but I whenever it happens, it 337 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 2: happens quite often in my life, I'll bring it up 338 00:15:56,720 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 2: on the pod. But I do this thing wre it 339 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 2: was where it's like the twenty minutes of inconvenience to me, 340 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 2: doing the admin of getting the insurance was too much 341 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 2: work to. 342 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: Do. 343 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 2: Basically, so that I had a car accident, I had 344 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 2: to pay a lot of money and in hindsight, I 345 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 2: should have just done the twenty minutes. Now maybe we 346 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 2: should call this hindsights or some shit like that. I 347 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 2: did another stupid thing. Didn't really cost me money, but 348 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 2: it just like has cost me some more. It's made 349 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 2: what would have been less of an inconvenience more of 350 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 2: an inconvenience. 351 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 1: You must have a bit of head noise at the moment. Yeah, 352 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 1: in life to be. 353 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 2: So, I am lucky enough to be a dual citizen 354 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 2: of Canada and Australia. 355 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 1: And a lot of people don't know you're Canadian. 356 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 2: No, no, yeah, so dual citizen. Very lucky. Mum's Canadian 357 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 2: family lives in the Canada, our dad lives here, and 358 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:56,120 Speaker 2: I live here, same country as my father obviously, and 359 00:16:57,400 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 2: I have an Australian past. And I used to have 360 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 2: a Canadian one, and then one of the one time 361 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,439 Speaker 2: I just went to go, I was going to Canada 362 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 2: and I needed to renew my passport, and so I 363 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:11,199 Speaker 2: went and got one, and I just got the I 364 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 2: got an Australian one, and I didn't think too much 365 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 2: of it when I went to do it, Like I didn't. 366 00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 2: I think I've always known I could have two, I 367 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 2: could have a Canadian and an Australian. But you always 368 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 2: just Australia has always just been allowed to go to Canada, 369 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 2: like if you honestly so. But now Australians need a 370 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 2: travel visa. So if you want to go to Canada, 371 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 2: it's easy, but you just apply, like I don't know, 372 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 2: a month prior. You just apply for a short travel 373 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 2: visa or whatever. Yeah, it's like it's exactly like. But 374 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:45,920 Speaker 2: and so for me to do that, because I come 375 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 2: up in the system as a citizen of Canada, I 376 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 2: can't get a visa. Oh and I don't have my 377 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 2: Canadian passport, so I have to go through this rigamarole 378 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 2: on the Canadian Immigration's website just getting a pass right. 379 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 2: And because I'm a citizen, obviously it gets passed every time. 380 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:05,160 Speaker 2: And the last three times I've gone to Canada, I've 381 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 2: done that right when I should have just got my Canadian. 382 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 1: Passport because you're probably like two weeks before you go 383 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:12,919 Speaker 1: to go. Yeah, that's me. 384 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 2: That's literally me. And so every time I go to 385 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 2: Canada and I'm going to just get your Canadian passport a visa, 386 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 2: and I go, yeah, yeah, I'm going to Canada in July. 387 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:21,640 Speaker 1: You've left it too late. 388 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 2: And so I'm going. And I was like, all right, 389 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:26,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it. I'm proud of myself. I'm gonna 390 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 2: go through the f of getting my Canadian pasport. Let's 391 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 2: go cool. I don't have to worry about this fucking 392 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:34,719 Speaker 2: shit anymore. So I go and and I look up 393 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 2: and it's a little bit of a funny situation being 394 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 2: like a Canadian citizen living in Australia with an Australian 395 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:42,359 Speaker 2: passport but not a Canadian passport, And so I go 396 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 2: through and chatchuputis helped me out, best friend. Yeah, And 397 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,239 Speaker 2: so it ends up saying to me, have you had 398 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:51,119 Speaker 2: a Canadian passport in the past, And I said I have. 399 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 2: I have it from when I was a kid, and 400 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, awesome, awesome, awesome, And so what that does 401 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 2: for me is makes the application process so much easier. Now, 402 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:10,679 Speaker 2: it makes it easier if the Canadian passport is within 403 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 2: fifteen years of expiring fifteen full years. Oddie, guess when 404 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 2: mine expired sixteen It expired sixteen years ago. So I 405 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 2: have to do it as if I've never had a 406 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 2: Canadian passport for fifteen years. 407 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 1: You waited sixteen Oh. 408 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 2: That's like if I just did it last year, I 409 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,119 Speaker 2: would have been fine. 410 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 1: But that's like overall, just you as a whole. 411 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying. Guys, like I 412 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 2: do this with a lot of things, sixteen Like I 413 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 2: will put things off until the literal last minute, and 414 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 2: I put this one. 415 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: Off for more than so now you put it off. 416 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 2: So now what I have to do is what I 417 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 2: have to do is do an application for a brand 418 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 2: new adult passport living a. I have to have all 419 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 2: of these things. I have to do proof of Canadian citizenship, 420 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:06,479 Speaker 2: which is easy because I do have a passport from 421 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:07,919 Speaker 2: the past which I can send them, and then I 422 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 2: have proof of citisenship. I have a citistance all that stuff. 423 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 2: But what else I need is I need two references. 424 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 2: So that's two people that I've known. They don't have 425 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:20,919 Speaker 2: to be Canadian, but two people I've known for two years. 426 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:22,120 Speaker 1: Can they be family? 427 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 2: No, so it could be you and Cassie, it could 428 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 2: be your parents, anyone like that. And they need to 429 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 2: have a passport that's in date and stuff, so they 430 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:32,199 Speaker 2: would be my references. But what else it means is 431 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,920 Speaker 2: I have to get a guarant tour. The garrant tor 432 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 2: has to have known me for two years, can't be 433 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:39,160 Speaker 2: immediate family, has to have a Canadian passport and has 434 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 2: to live near me. Do you know anyone honestly? Luckily, Yeah, Okay, 435 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:49,040 Speaker 2: my dad's cousin. And I was like, but he's technically 436 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:49,639 Speaker 2: my cousin. 437 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 1: True second cousin. 438 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 2: I looked into it, I'm allowed to use him. So 439 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,880 Speaker 2: he lives in Manly. Yeah, so that's a forty minute 440 00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:57,400 Speaker 2: drive from me. Better go do that before I moved 441 00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:58,160 Speaker 2: to Queensland. 442 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:00,440 Speaker 1: See if he's contacted this random dude. I assume you 443 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:01,160 Speaker 1: never talked to him. 444 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 2: Oh no, I know him my whole life. He's a 445 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 2: very nice guy. I haven't a message him yet. I'm 446 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:07,919 Speaker 2: being honest with you. Better do that too. 447 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 1: Much in one day. 448 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 2: And but basically, so now I have to go through 449 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,119 Speaker 2: all this effort of getting like guarantee and all that 450 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,119 Speaker 2: stuff blah blah blah blah blah, when I could have 451 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 2: just done it last year. Not a journey bullshit. But 452 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 2: so yeah, it looks like I'm doing a bit more admint. 453 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:25,920 Speaker 1: I was thinking, when you're telling that story, god forbid 454 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 1: this ever happens. Touchwood. Yeah, but if you got divorced, 455 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,119 Speaker 1: you'd be the type of person and be like, like 456 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 1: you'd be divorced for ten years, be like brashly still 457 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 1: married technically, but between us we are together. 458 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 2: According to the government, we are together. 459 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,719 Speaker 1: That is, I haven't got around as signing the paper. 460 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,159 Speaker 2: That is so so true. I also would be the 461 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:56,159 Speaker 2: type like I don't think Beth would ever do this, 462 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 2: but I think I would be so easy to take advantage. 463 00:21:58,119 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 1: Of it a divorce, just like eighty two. 464 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:02,400 Speaker 2: All she has to do is say, I'll do every 465 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 2: answer paperwork, and I'll be like, I'll sign it. She's like, 466 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:09,359 Speaker 2: you want to get a load to look at it. Someone. 467 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 1: I'm proud of us. 468 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 2: We've had some contracts in our recent business activities and we've. 469 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: Got a lawyer to look at them. Yeah, for the 470 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:17,840 Speaker 1: first time in three years. 471 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 2: Expensive. 472 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. I paid the bill when I was 473 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:23,640 Speaker 1: like fuck, Like, I know they got to like UNI 474 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 1: for like nine years and shit or whatever is it 475 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 1: nine years? But we were doing the same work they 476 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: were with chat GPT. 477 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 2: You know what's funny is so they would send the 478 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 2: contract back with all these comments and stuff, and I 479 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 2: still had to put it into chatchyput and be like 480 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:43,920 Speaker 2: can you Every comment they made just didn't make sense 481 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 2: to me. So I still had to go into chattopute 482 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 2: and be like, is there any red flags in this thing? 483 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,439 Speaker 2: And the funny thing is the only things that I 484 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 2: brought up were the things chat GPT boy. 485 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because the language is not just in Lemon's terms, No, 486 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 1: We'll read in a contract and it says like we'd 487 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: have to copy and paste the paragraph and be like, 488 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:04,120 Speaker 1: what does this mean? 489 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 2: Like Article fifteen, subsection D. I'd copy and paste that 490 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:11,159 Speaker 2: pair of oph and but what does this mean? And 491 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,440 Speaker 2: it'd be like, Oh, this means you're actually signing over 492 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 2: every moral right you have to your life, and you 493 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 2: should probably tell them not to do that. And I 494 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 2: was like, yeah, I'm going to fucking go back on. 495 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 1: I don't understand that industry. It's like they've made up 496 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 1: this language that no one else can understand, and then 497 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,399 Speaker 1: only lawyers can actually understand it because they went to 498 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 1: school for nine years and it takes nine years to 499 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 1: learn a new language. 500 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:33,160 Speaker 2: Whatever happened to like some just on old handshake honesty. 501 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 2: How about you don't f me over and I won't 502 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,880 Speaker 2: f you over, and we'll just it's people look each 503 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:40,399 Speaker 2: other in the eyes and shake a hand. 504 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:43,960 Speaker 1: People are greedy, man, and every single way possible, at 505 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 1: any single turn, someone will try and fuck you over. 506 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 2: I don't know any bodies that have gone through some 507 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 2: like contract negotiations. I've always like, whenever you get a 508 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 2: job as like a casual worker or even a full 509 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,600 Speaker 2: time worker. I've never read the contract. I was just 510 00:23:56,640 --> 00:24:00,120 Speaker 2: signed it because it's just like obviously super normal. And 511 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 2: the thing you look at mainly is like if I 512 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:03,440 Speaker 2: want to leave, can I leave? You know how much 513 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:07,200 Speaker 2: notice I have to give? But we we went back 514 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 2: on a lot of things in this contract, and a 515 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:14,920 Speaker 2: lot of the answers from this company were like, this is. 516 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,440 Speaker 1: Just how it is industry standards, and. 517 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 2: We were like change it, Like okay, change it. 518 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, like you have a right to stand on because 519 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 1: it's the same with gyms and stuff. You look at 520 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 1: it and then there's like a two months. 521 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 2: The thing about gyms that I hate is when you cancel, 522 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 2: they're like, got to pay for one more month? 523 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, they get lave. 524 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 2: What do I do? 525 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 1: And giving you notice to leave, You're like, what do you? 526 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 1: Because we signed the contract at the start. But so 527 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,920 Speaker 1: I feel like, see greedy, it's like, we'll get one 528 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 1: more month out exactly what you know why it's industry standards. 529 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 1: Oh my days. 530 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,680 Speaker 2: I'm thinking if we have a height this twice now 531 00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 2: third time. 532 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:01,240 Speaker 1: We've got we've got new chance, guys. That's that's my 533 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:02,880 Speaker 1: fucking habit to put it right there. 534 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,199 Speaker 2: The habit with the old chairs when you can put 535 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 2: it down here? Yeah, setting, can I just mention three 536 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:13,400 Speaker 2: weeks in a row now I have woron no socks 537 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,880 Speaker 2: and I still haven't brought me. I feel naked being 538 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:16,960 Speaker 2: barefoot in this studio. 539 00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, your raw dog and I got toenails on me 540 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 1: at the why'd you bring that to light? Now? I'm 541 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 1: just gonna look at them and think about them the 542 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 1: whole time. Yeah, oh, you're talking about toenails, bro. 543 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 2: I saw a video on fucking TikTok of someone putting 544 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,439 Speaker 2: their toe out, long ass toenail, probably like as long 545 00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 2: as mine right now, theyre pretty long. They had this 546 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:45,400 Speaker 2: border Collie comes over, nibbles their tone out disgusting, disgusting 547 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 2: to be wat convenience wise. If your dog could do that, 548 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 2: would you let them? 549 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 1: No? Fuck? No fuck, no, no way would you? That 550 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 1: little darky nibble and you little toe. It's like those 551 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 1: fishes in balley. 552 00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 2: I actually food. I'm going to say, I'm crazy you 553 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:00,920 Speaker 2: could do it. I probably. 554 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 1: I've actually got a funny story about feet. I reckon 555 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 1: it's relatable for the baddies. Actually, all the baddies you 556 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,480 Speaker 1: get pedicures. My girlfriend told me this other day and 557 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: I thought it was funny. So my girlfriend's a long 558 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,000 Speaker 1: distance runner and like any girl who does a lot 559 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 1: of activity like running, sports, soccer, footy, hockey, whatever. Anyhow, 560 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 1: I'm sure you get callouses on your feet. And she robs. 561 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:24,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, she rocks up to get pedicures from people who 562 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,920 Speaker 2: aren't like native to speaking English, and apparently they like. 563 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 1: Judged the funk out of her feet. I think she's 564 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 1: got something wrong with him. And she's like, no, I promise, 565 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 1: I'm just a runner and they're like chat. 566 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:34,439 Speaker 2: She's like, please fix them. 567 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 1: Please. 568 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 2: She needs to get like those earbuds that translate any language. Yeah, 569 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,879 Speaker 2: and just to hear what the gossip is about it. 570 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,680 Speaker 2: Like imagine she's just chilling there and this one lady 571 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 2: is just like saying to her friends because they. 572 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 1: Always talk, yeah, and you don't know what they're saying, and. 573 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 2: You have no idea what they're saying, and they're just 574 00:26:52,240 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 2: probably going this bitches feet, could you imagine? 575 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 1: How insecure? Imagine? But I reckon they don't talk shit 576 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 1: because like you never know when someone else can speak, 577 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 1: they talk ship. 578 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 2: I reckon know salons, dude, there is no way they 579 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:13,440 Speaker 2: don't talk. 580 00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 1: Look at yeah, like if they if. 581 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,399 Speaker 2: They have someone with maybe like I don't know, some 582 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 2: fat fingers, like they probably have like I got some 583 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 2: chubby ones over here or something like that. I reckon 584 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 2: they talk some ship. 585 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 1: Oh we should thinking about that. So lawyers have their 586 00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,399 Speaker 1: own language obviously, other countries have their own language that 587 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:34,680 Speaker 1: we can't understand. 588 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,360 Speaker 2: You and I should you Sponge, lawyers have their own 589 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 2: language and other countries have their own language into. 590 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 1: One because round circle, we should learn some heaps niche language, 591 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,320 Speaker 1: like it's really really niche that so we can talk 592 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 1: shit in public about people. 593 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,480 Speaker 2: Well, if duo Lingo wants to sponsor us, like it's 594 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 2: it's like a. 595 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:56,479 Speaker 1: Mad niche cool language, like like i'd cop Spanish, it's 596 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:56,840 Speaker 1: not niche. 597 00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,720 Speaker 2: But do you know that speak Spanish here Mandarin? Nah, dude, 598 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,680 Speaker 2: that would be really difficult. It'd be cool, But that 599 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 2: would be cool because Spanish would be cool because if 600 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 2: you go to Europe, a lot of countries speak Spanish. 601 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,400 Speaker 2: I think, I don't know what did I just make 602 00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 2: that up? I feel like only one country speaks Spanish 603 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:14,119 Speaker 2: in Europe, and that's Spain. Yeah, well, anywhere else speaks 604 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 2: Spanish in Europe? Where this could be really dumb. 605 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 1: But Portuguese that's its own language, is it? They speak Spanish? 606 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 2: You know what you're wigging out about is that in 607 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,959 Speaker 2: Brazil they speak Portuguese. That's it, that's it, speak Portuguese. 608 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 1: Ye, that's connection. 609 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 2: Right. They speak Spanish in Mexico, don't they. They don't 610 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 2: speak Mexicano. Now there's no Mexican. 611 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 1: See we should What about if we learned like Australian 612 00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 1: Australian we're speaking, We can't. 613 00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 2: You guys actually would not want us to go full 614 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 2: blown Aussie like that would It would not be good. 615 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 1: To listen, We're quite proper. And sometimes you and I 616 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:47,120 Speaker 1: get in the mood where like one of us will 617 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:48,480 Speaker 1: start saying the word a lot and then the other 618 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 1: one's like, oh, we can, we can relax a little bit. 619 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,480 Speaker 2: The thing about where we're from and where we grew 620 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:56,920 Speaker 2: up is it's considered a bogan Australian accent. 621 00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 1: Yeah we even said that bogan. 622 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. The thing people probably don't even know what Bogans are. 623 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 2: So no, it's like redneck, I feel like. So in Australia, 624 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 2: it's like the fifth biggest country in the world. But 625 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,520 Speaker 2: you could get someone from Perth here and they would 626 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 2: sound like you. There would be you know, someone not 627 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 2: from Autralia would not be able to tell the difference between 628 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 2: our accent. Oh no, whereas in England you can drive 629 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 2: now that's I don't believe that thirty kilometers. But that's 630 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 2: a conspiracy. And you're like, I have an English room mate, 631 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 2: yeah she said, she said, literally a Liverpool accent mate. 632 00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 2: You can drive apparently twenty minutes. 633 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: No, I don't believe completely the different. 634 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 2: Accent the UK is Wales, England, Scotland and then Northern Ireland. 635 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:51,120 Speaker 2: There's just there's a fake line between Scotland and England. 636 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,040 Speaker 2: You cannot understand Scottish people. 637 00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, like they have the thickest accent and they talk 638 00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:00,160 Speaker 1: supecific quick same. Yeah, she's crazy. 639 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 2: I don't get it. I just don't know how it's 640 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:05,200 Speaker 2: even possible to have like a different Is it called 641 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,720 Speaker 2: like cooquialisms or something? 642 00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:09,920 Speaker 1: Maybe it's a good word, but what's it called when 643 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 1: you're I couldn't say that colloquially poqu realism? 644 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, the week and you can spell that, no way. 645 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,560 Speaker 1: Ask me to. But that is if you get a 646 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:25,320 Speaker 1: thousand comments, we'll learn Spanish. 647 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 2: Dude, someone if do it Lingo wants to sponsor us, 648 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 2: I'll learn Spanish and talk about it on the episodes. 649 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 1: Anything for money. 650 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:32,760 Speaker 2: That's what I was going to say before is I've 651 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 2: come to realize that, like, I'm not going to do 652 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 2: stuff unless I'm paid or unless it's costing me money. 653 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,960 Speaker 2: I got insurance because it's costing me money. 654 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 1: It did something to get you off your ass. 655 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,640 Speaker 2: I started reading because we did it for the part 656 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,120 Speaker 2: and now technically we get paid to read. Yeah, and 657 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 2: then I did just like I do really like it. 658 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 2: Do you just sit at home and you're like, hmm, 659 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:53,520 Speaker 2: what am I getting paid for? 660 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,600 Speaker 1: Or what do I have to pay? Your two decisions? 661 00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,880 Speaker 1: And you're like, I've got to pay for groceries or 662 00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 1: I can get paid to read. Which one do I 663 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 1: want to do? 664 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:04,280 Speaker 2: That's a good question. 665 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 1: I pay for the gym, I might as well go, 666 00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 1: or do I want to read? 667 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 2: So basically I won't learn any language unless I am 668 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 2: paid to do it. 669 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 1: It's quite it's a lot of work. Probably it's years 670 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 1: of work. 671 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 2: Think about how sexy it would be. 672 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 1: Well, that could be our call sign. We say something 673 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 1: in different language, and I don't know what we say. 674 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 2: We could say like that is home. We just do 675 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 2: a Spanish segment. 676 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, we could go to Spain and do shows. Yeah, 677 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,120 Speaker 1: well no we didn't. What was the what was the 678 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 1: little cartoon that was Spanish Diego? And what was this 679 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 1: was the song that she used to sing. 680 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,480 Speaker 2: Dora, Door Door, that's the theme song. 681 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 1: Some Spanish in it. 682 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 2: You know what's crazy? Dora taught me how to count 683 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 2: to like six or seven in Spanish. You know, isn't 684 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,720 Speaker 2: it's it's quite your sink. 685 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,360 Speaker 1: That's your cour sign right there. 686 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,400 Speaker 2: It's not far off from apparently if you know Spanish, 687 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,120 Speaker 2: you like, I can learn Italian. 688 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. They all kind of like open French, whereas like 689 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: English is just his own thing and doesn't have any 690 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:14,680 Speaker 1: overlapping nature. 691 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,120 Speaker 2: Crazy thing to say, Oh no, actually I was gonna say. 692 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 2: I won't say what I was gonna say, but what 693 00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:20,840 Speaker 2: we could learn that would be caused German? 694 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think of one German word, not going to 695 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 1: think of it. No, I got it, snitzle. 696 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:36,240 Speaker 3: I mean. 697 00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 2: It's like asking in Italian. It's like like saying to 698 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 2: someone that can speak Italian, what what can you say? 699 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 2: In Italian? They say pizza? 700 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,320 Speaker 1: But wouldn'tizza in Italian be its own word. 701 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 2: I think pizza is the Italian word for pizza. 702 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 1: Oh is it? 703 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? Sh Actually, And like all the words that like 704 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:59,000 Speaker 2: Italian restaurants for passes, like casarice, I'm pretty sure that's 705 00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,280 Speaker 2: like Italian or its fetter chini French. I don't know. 706 00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,680 Speaker 1: Actually it makes so much sense because like I struggled 707 00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:05,240 Speaker 1: to read them. It makes me feel bad too, because 708 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 1: it's a different language. 709 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:09,680 Speaker 2: You'd be we'd be saying them wrong. 710 00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just point. 711 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,520 Speaker 2: I get that one with chicken and noodles. 712 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:21,200 Speaker 1: But what I wanted to talk about next was I 713 00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:22,680 Speaker 1: just went on a little bit of a trip. 714 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:23,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, how was it? 715 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 1: It was actually really really good, and I wanted to 716 00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 1: talk about it in a sense of we talk a lot. 717 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 2: About relationships on this podcast. No, yeah, we do quite 718 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,600 Speaker 2: a lot. I went camping up. 719 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 1: The East coast of Australia, drove about three and a 720 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 1: half hours up to a place called Diamond Head, which 721 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,440 Speaker 1: was very very beautiful, great spot. I can't believe we 722 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 1: didn't go there when we went on our trip pay 723 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, we just didn't know about it. 724 00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:49,600 Speaker 2: We just we punched it to Crescent Head. 725 00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, oh that's probably why, to be fair, but 726 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 1: I wanted to bring up in a sense of relationships. Finally, 727 00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:57,920 Speaker 1: I'm not putting you on the spot. What did you 728 00:33:57,960 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 1: say when I said, do you like camping anymore? 729 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:05,480 Speaker 2: I don't like it very much anymore because I like hotels. 730 00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 1: There you go, five star resorts. Exist is what you 731 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:12,480 Speaker 1: said to me, Yes, which I thought was very very valid. 732 00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,239 Speaker 1: But in a sense of relationships with your partner, I 733 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:19,879 Speaker 1: thought it is a very good way to bond. So 734 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 1: we went away for three nights and like something about 735 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 1: nature and maybe it's me, let me know if it's 736 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 1: you as well. It's like no distraction. Then you've got 737 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 1: all the time in the world and it kind of 738 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,839 Speaker 1: just like strips you back to nature and you and 739 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 1: your partner just get to be one together and you 740 00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,120 Speaker 1: just really slow down. I thought it was such a 741 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:40,680 Speaker 1: good me and Cass. You've been down for two years 742 00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:42,960 Speaker 1: and I'm happy with it. It's a great relationship. But 743 00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,799 Speaker 1: it kind of confirmed how much we love each other 744 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 1: in a sense because we stripped all the bullshit away 745 00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:49,600 Speaker 1: of society, all the shit we talk about on the 746 00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: podcast that annoys us, that is a real problem, but 747 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,520 Speaker 1: then also we kind of make it our problem and 748 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,279 Speaker 1: their distractions, and then you just go away and it's 749 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 1: kind of a little bit of escapism, which you don't 750 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 1: get with five star results because you still have to 751 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 1: go through all these people or just getting into checking 752 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:03,880 Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah. 753 00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:06,200 Speaker 2: You don't agree. I don't know, man, I feel like 754 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 2: I could do some pretty good bonding with Beth in 755 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 2: a private hotel room. 756 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,160 Speaker 1: No, it was good because it just kind of like 757 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:16,399 Speaker 1: I was thinking about it when I was there doing 758 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,600 Speaker 1: absolutely fuck all this at my campsite, looking at the grass, 759 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,520 Speaker 1: and like, our problems are very, very real, but also 760 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:28,160 Speaker 1: they're not, if that makes sense. Yeah, and we make 761 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 1: him ount problems and I don't want to take away 762 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,360 Speaker 1: from them. But also like there's something about life you 763 00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,399 Speaker 1: can make it so simple if you really really want 764 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,839 Speaker 1: it to, and something about camping forces you to make 765 00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,200 Speaker 1: your life simple and then the real beauties of human 766 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:44,400 Speaker 1: connection come out and that with your partner. And I 767 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,719 Speaker 1: think we experienced that as friends, which is probably the 768 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:49,480 Speaker 1: foundations of this podcast is we didn't realize it at 769 00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,840 Speaker 1: the time, but we stripped away all the bullshit and 770 00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 1: then we just had three months up the East Coast 771 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,920 Speaker 1: of Australia and really formed a good friendship because none 772 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:58,680 Speaker 1: of that bullshit was there. So I was just gonna 773 00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,520 Speaker 1: say for any bad he's out, they're wanting to have 774 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,239 Speaker 1: a bit of bonding with their boyfriend. Even if you're 775 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:05,399 Speaker 1: not a big camper, Just buy some shit kings gear, 776 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 1: go away for a weekend. 777 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,239 Speaker 2: If you guys are struggling and strip it back. If 778 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 2: the relationship seems to be struggling, it's all. 779 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,320 Speaker 1: It's not sexy, like a five star resort is sexy, 780 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,239 Speaker 1: and you kind of get to experience the person for 781 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: who they actually are. 782 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 2: It's clean. Yeah, it's sexy, it smells good. 783 00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:21,400 Speaker 1: It's not real. 784 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:22,279 Speaker 2: It's comfortable. 785 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,040 Speaker 1: It's not it's not who you are. 786 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:26,839 Speaker 2: It's very real because I'm living it. If I'm there, 787 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 2: I'm living it, and I think it. 788 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 1: Is very real. It's not real. It is. 789 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:32,640 Speaker 2: Why isn't it real? It exists. 790 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,160 Speaker 1: It's not real, but like the real you is, just 791 00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:38,520 Speaker 1: like you. Do you feel what I'm saying or not? 792 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,640 Speaker 2: I mean yes and no. Yeah, I can be the 793 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,840 Speaker 2: real me wherever I want to be me. Yeah, I 794 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 2: mean I hope I'm the real me. When I'm with 795 00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:45,799 Speaker 2: Beth at home. 796 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. But also the you who went away camping is 797 00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,000 Speaker 1: different to the you who's in a five star resort 798 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:52,239 Speaker 1: being on boogie and shit. 799 00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:53,760 Speaker 2: Why I'm just cleaner. 800 00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:58,279 Speaker 1: I feel you're like I stripped everything back, Yeah, and 801 00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,120 Speaker 1: you just like you're actually just the bare bone of 802 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 1: who Jake is, whereas that is you have all these 803 00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:04,400 Speaker 1: protections so you can be like the best version of yourself, 804 00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:05,719 Speaker 1: whereas that is just who you are. 805 00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:09,399 Speaker 2: I'm not sure I'm picking up what you're putting down. 806 00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 1: I reckon, like. 807 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:15,440 Speaker 2: Just take away the bullshit of life, but what's the 808 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:16,360 Speaker 2: bullshit of life? 809 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:17,880 Speaker 1: The distractions? Everything? 810 00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:19,439 Speaker 2: I mean, you could be at home and you could 811 00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,239 Speaker 2: turn your phone off. You could, you know what I mean, 812 00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 2: You're going to a five stories, but you can't. It 813 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 2: kind of forces you to do that. 814 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,160 Speaker 1: We talk about We've had three weeks or four weeks 815 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,760 Speaker 1: of talking about trying to get off our phone. It's harder, 816 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,400 Speaker 1: easier said than done. True. 817 00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, so you're saying having no reception that 818 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:34,880 Speaker 2: forces you to do it? 819 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty much, and like it's just it kind of 820 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,360 Speaker 1: it made me think of like what olden day relationships 821 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,800 Speaker 1: used to be. Like with like no TV, no social media, 822 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,319 Speaker 1: no comparison, nothing, It's just you and that person in 823 00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,320 Speaker 1: front of you, and that's it and it's beautiful. 824 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:51,839 Speaker 2: I think the thing that I actually would like, I 825 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 2: think the thing I would like is so number one 826 00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 2: is social media. You spoke about it on maybe a 827 00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,880 Speaker 2: Patreon episode that just go one or something and you 828 00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,360 Speaker 2: or maybe a Dylem's episode. I think it was a 829 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 2: Dylema's episode and someone's boyfriend said they wouldn't unfollow their 830 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:18,880 Speaker 2: ex girlfriend. And so I think that like if you 831 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:23,719 Speaker 2: did strip away the bullshit of phones and like, you know, 832 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,960 Speaker 2: all that, taking away the fact that when you break 833 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,680 Speaker 2: up with someone, you actually break up with them and 834 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:33,319 Speaker 2: forget about them would be way more healthy than what 835 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:34,920 Speaker 2: happens now these days. 836 00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,239 Speaker 1: Maybe the way to say it, and I'm beating around 837 00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 1: the bush is it kind of puts your life into 838 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:42,360 Speaker 1: perspective a little bit. It makes you reflect. 839 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,799 Speaker 2: On what actually is important and like, like we talk 840 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:46,600 Speaker 2: about breakups and how hard it is, like you said, 841 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 2: to get over someone because you see them all the time, 842 00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,680 Speaker 2: you see him out all that is a choice at 843 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:52,520 Speaker 2: the end of the day, and it makes you realize 844 00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:53,560 Speaker 2: that that's a. 845 00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,440 Speaker 1: Choice, and they're very real problems. 846 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:58,560 Speaker 2: But also it's a choice. I guess you're right, it is. 847 00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,880 Speaker 2: It does come down to it's a choice, isn't it. Yeah? 848 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,320 Speaker 2: But it's like if the power goes out at your house, 849 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:08,759 Speaker 2: you're like, what do we do? What do we? 850 00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? What do we do? I think they're definitely being 851 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 1: open and honest. There's definitely a point of time where 852 00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 1: you're like, this is boring, but also you just embrace it. Ah. 853 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:20,080 Speaker 1: But anyway, the takeaway was get out there, get camping, 854 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,799 Speaker 1: get get your insurance, don't crash your car. 855 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:28,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just recommend crushing it. I got Darcy's pet insurance. 856 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:30,960 Speaker 2: So now she's covered too. 857 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:31,600 Speaker 1: How much is that? 858 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,719 Speaker 2: It's seventy dollars a month, that's all right, shout out to. 859 00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:41,799 Speaker 2: Won't name the company because they ain't paying enough, but 860 00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:45,839 Speaker 2: seventy bucks a month and she's covered for So she's 861 00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 2: covered eighty percent all right, up to thirty thousand dollars 862 00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:51,040 Speaker 2: per year. 863 00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:52,719 Speaker 1: So if you lose twenty percent of it, you can't 864 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:53,200 Speaker 1: claim it. 865 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:57,799 Speaker 2: No no, no, no no no. So like she's covered for everything imaginable, 866 00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,719 Speaker 2: and it's each individual thing. It's thirty four dollars per 867 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:04,080 Speaker 2: year for that thing, and it's eighty percent cover. So 868 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:05,840 Speaker 2: I like, if it's a ten thousand dollars thing, I 869 00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:08,680 Speaker 2: pay two grand, you can get one hundred cent cover. 870 00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 2: Takes up to one fifty a month. Really that's a 871 00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:14,759 Speaker 2: fair because I read, Yeah, Henry Henry one hundred cent cover, 872 00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:18,680 Speaker 2: seventy bucks a month dash out compared to what's Henry's 873 00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:22,640 Speaker 2: Henry's an olden retriever. He's a mott. Basically, he's a 874 00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:24,760 Speaker 2: gold Retriever mixed with the cavalier. 875 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:40,040 Speaker 1: That is up next to his ig. Question of the week, 876 00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:43,279 Speaker 1: And if you're mule around here, you will know that 877 00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 1: one of our taglines for the podcast is putting him 878 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,680 Speaker 1: on the spot. Don't ship where you eat. 879 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:50,800 Speaker 2: No. 880 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,719 Speaker 1: Oh, it is one though, but that's your main one. 881 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 1: Girls and guys can't be best friend, yeah, yea, yeah 882 00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:58,280 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, and me when. 883 00:40:58,120 --> 00:40:59,919 Speaker 2: I finish having sex. Just to. 884 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:08,640 Speaker 1: So, we put up a question, tell us what your 885 00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:10,880 Speaker 1: guy best friend has said, and we will tell you 886 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,439 Speaker 1: what it actually means. All right, let me go first. 887 00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:18,520 Speaker 1: We're going to call this guy best friend language you 888 00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:22,959 Speaker 1: deserve way better than the guy you're dating right now. 889 00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:26,960 Speaker 2: What does that mean Jake, I think I think you 890 00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:28,319 Speaker 2: know what I think it means. What it means. 891 00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:30,479 Speaker 1: I think it means what he's what was said, no wrong, 892 00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,000 Speaker 1: I reckon it means you should be datting me? Really? 893 00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think that one means, like, you know, 894 00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 2: I actually think he's looking out for it. You reckon? 895 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:43,680 Speaker 1: Okay, Men always an ulterior motive. You deserve way better 896 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:46,560 Speaker 1: than the guy you're dating right now. I feel like 897 00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,319 Speaker 1: I'm giving benefit of the doubt. But if you're if 898 00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,000 Speaker 1: you're dating someone and I'm a friend, you kind of 899 00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:54,239 Speaker 1: just like and you're blissfully in a relationship, would you 900 00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:55,600 Speaker 1: want your friend to tell you that. 901 00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,920 Speaker 2: I would assume that this person's complaining about their boyfriend. 902 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,120 Speaker 1: You've put in two and two together, which we don't have. 903 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:05,840 Speaker 2: What do you mean, I'm not just gonna have randomly 904 00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:08,360 Speaker 2: come out. If this guy's just randomly come out and 905 00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:13,400 Speaker 2: said this guy sucks, I took it, then yeah he 906 00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:14,040 Speaker 2: wants to be with her. 907 00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:14,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. 908 00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:17,200 Speaker 2: I was thinking that she's being like, oh, he did this, 909 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,160 Speaker 2: he did this, he did this. 910 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,399 Speaker 1: If you had a girl best friend, you're in your 911 00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,239 Speaker 1: relationship very happy, and then your girl best friend's like Jake, 912 00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:26,280 Speaker 1: I think you can do way better. 913 00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:26,960 Speaker 2: How do you know? 914 00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:30,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't know my girlfriend. Yeah, that's exactly what 915 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:32,919 Speaker 1: it should be. But he's like, I'm better, I'm better. 916 00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:37,120 Speaker 1: You're you're too blissful, blissful, you think you're the best 917 00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:37,399 Speaker 1: of men. 918 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,239 Speaker 2: Tell us what your guy best friend said, will tell 919 00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:43,960 Speaker 2: you what he meant. If we didn't live so far apart, 920 00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:45,720 Speaker 2: I reckon we would be together. 921 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:51,040 Speaker 1: Oh, what does that actually mean? Means that one's tough. 922 00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,080 Speaker 1: That means I want to be with you, but I 923 00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:54,600 Speaker 1: kin'd admit my feelings to you. 924 00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,200 Speaker 2: I think it does mean he wants to be with her. 925 00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,960 Speaker 2: I do think we didn't live so far how far, 926 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,720 Speaker 2: like half an hour, we didn't live so far apart, 927 00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,560 Speaker 2: I think we would be together. I think that, you. 928 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,560 Speaker 1: Know what, I feel like he's admitting that. 929 00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:14,720 Speaker 2: I think that he's saying he likes her, but he's 930 00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:18,320 Speaker 2: wanting to keep it, like there's a there's a reason 931 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 2: he he doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Yeah, but 932 00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:23,120 Speaker 2: he's admitting feelings. 933 00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:24,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, that he does like it. 934 00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:26,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say he's admitting feelings. 935 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:31,000 Speaker 1: This one's tough. Tell us what your guy best friend 936 00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:33,480 Speaker 1: has said, and will tell you what it means he 937 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,040 Speaker 1: is sixty six, so I'm safe, right, No way there 938 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:36,880 Speaker 1: could be feelings. 939 00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 2: Your best friend is a sixty six year old man. 940 00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:43,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I all. 941 00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 2: I don't have much to say to this, apart from 942 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:51,520 Speaker 2: the fact that I think that you should probably call 943 00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:52,359 Speaker 2: the police on this guy. 944 00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:56,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. I would say that my dad's sixty six or 945 00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:58,960 Speaker 1: sixty seven. And if he had a girl best friend 946 00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,480 Speaker 1: who was like twenty six, hooked the fuck. Also, he's 947 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:04,239 Speaker 1: like weird and old, Like, what could you relate to. 948 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:08,399 Speaker 2: Him about it? If my dad had a friend and 949 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:12,440 Speaker 2: it was a twenty five year old woman, I would say, Dad, 950 00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:15,799 Speaker 2: you're not my dad, I would say. I'd say, I'd 951 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:20,000 Speaker 2: say Dad, Actually, sorry, Brett. Should I call you by 952 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,680 Speaker 2: your legal name, government name? 953 00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:23,239 Speaker 1: That's all you are. 954 00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:26,600 Speaker 2: You are no longer anything apart from the vessel that 955 00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:28,400 Speaker 2: I came into this life for the vessel. 956 00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:31,280 Speaker 1: Actually, my mum was the vessel. 957 00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, you were, you were, you were, you were barely 958 00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:36,360 Speaker 2: the fertilizer of the sea that brought me into this world. 959 00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,520 Speaker 2: Tell us what your guy best friend said. We'll tell 960 00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:45,680 Speaker 2: you what he meant. This is an action. He left 961 00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:47,280 Speaker 2: a toothbrush at my place. 962 00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,960 Speaker 1: Guy friend ly toothbrush at Why was his toothbrush at 963 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:55,920 Speaker 1: your place in the first place? You having a sleepover. 964 00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:57,560 Speaker 1: If you're having a sleepover your. 965 00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:02,680 Speaker 2: Guy best friend, something else going on there isn't there. 966 00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:05,239 Speaker 2: But in a relationship, like I sometimes just forgot my 967 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,080 Speaker 2: toothbrush and it meant nothing. Could you do it if 968 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:09,200 Speaker 2: you were just dating? Yeah? 969 00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:11,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, but if their guy best friends doesn't mean nothing. 970 00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,040 Speaker 2: If it's our best friend and truly nothing more, it 971 00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:16,840 Speaker 2: could just mean nothing. He just forgot to always. 972 00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:18,680 Speaker 1: Keep planning to see to make her think about him. 973 00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:22,160 Speaker 2: Also, he's trying to impress you. Men that are just 974 00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:25,880 Speaker 2: your friend. Ain't bringing a toothbrush to someone's house? 975 00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh yeah, let's think this your guy best friend. 976 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:30,319 Speaker 1: He wouldn't bring shit. 977 00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,200 Speaker 2: He's done this because he's trying to impress you and 978 00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:35,600 Speaker 2: be like. 979 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:36,920 Speaker 1: I'm clean, I'm clean. 980 00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:37,840 Speaker 2: Right. 981 00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,759 Speaker 1: Next one, I could book us a little getaway if 982 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:41,239 Speaker 1: you're keen. 983 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:47,520 Speaker 2: Ummm yeah, that sounds romantic. 984 00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,600 Speaker 1: That sounds really romantic. That sounds very romantic to me. 985 00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:52,520 Speaker 1: But it's that if you're keen. 986 00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,640 Speaker 2: I could book us to get away. If you're keen. 987 00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:57,719 Speaker 1: It's kind of like to cover his ass and in 988 00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:58,799 Speaker 1: case she says, No, I'm not. 989 00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:04,600 Speaker 2: I feel sounding very romantic. Little get away a two 990 00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,240 Speaker 2: persons getaway is far too romantic. 991 00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't call it get away. Call it like. 992 00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:10,760 Speaker 2: Also, you don't call it a getaway like we're getting 993 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:11,400 Speaker 2: away together. 994 00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:14,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, call it like let's go hang No, hangout sounds 995 00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:15,359 Speaker 1: bad to what else could you call it? 996 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,960 Speaker 2: I just I feel like, let's go have sex. Yeah, 997 00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:19,600 Speaker 2: that's what he's say. 998 00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:22,120 Speaker 1: That's what it means. Let's go have sex if you can. 999 00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:25,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would agree with that. Okay, tell us what 1000 00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:26,920 Speaker 2: your guy best friend said. Will tell you what he 1001 00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:31,200 Speaker 2: meant he said if he wanted to, he would, and 1002 00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,680 Speaker 2: if he hurts you, I'm not saying I'll fight him, 1003 00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:37,000 Speaker 2: but i'll fight him. I'm kind of gotta I gotta 1004 00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:37,439 Speaker 2: say something. 1005 00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:40,640 Speaker 1: I kind of like this a protective guy best friend. 1006 00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:41,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1007 00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:42,239 Speaker 1: I do like that too. 1008 00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:44,520 Speaker 2: I kind of like the little if you wanted to 1009 00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:45,239 Speaker 2: would thing. 1010 00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,560 Speaker 1: I feel that that's been Is that being a supportive friend? 1011 00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:49,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1012 00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:51,160 Speaker 1: I feel like that. There's nothing to read into on 1013 00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:51,480 Speaker 1: that one. 1014 00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:55,240 Speaker 2: He's like, I don't know the thing about offering up protection, 1015 00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:59,040 Speaker 2: you think that that's like to be fair? I mean, 1016 00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:03,120 Speaker 2: if a woman best friend said that, you would be like, yes, 1017 00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,680 Speaker 2: you're just offering up a bit of protection that. 1018 00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:07,560 Speaker 1: She needs protected. I feel like it's nice to have. 1019 00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:09,120 Speaker 1: It's an individual preference. 1020 00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:10,080 Speaker 2: It could be harmless. 1021 00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:11,800 Speaker 1: Tell us what your guy best friend said, and we 1022 00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:14,799 Speaker 1: will tell you what it means. I would never want 1023 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:18,040 Speaker 1: to disrespect you and insert my boyfriend's name. 1024 00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:21,120 Speaker 2: Wait, I would never want to disrespect for you. 1025 00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:24,480 Speaker 1: And like, so I think it's like, oh, I want 1026 00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:27,200 Speaker 1: to disrespect you like Jake did. 1027 00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:32,759 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, wait oh I would never want to disrespect 1028 00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:36,560 Speaker 2: you like your boyfriend did to you type thing. Yeah, 1029 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:39,480 Speaker 2: oh my god, yeah he loves you. I think he 1030 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:45,879 Speaker 2: loves Yeah, he really likes you, because like, I don't 1031 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:49,680 Speaker 2: think someone that's platonic is saying like I would never 1032 00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:50,759 Speaker 2: do that to you. 1033 00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:52,840 Speaker 1: No, no, no, yeah. 1034 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:55,279 Speaker 2: Like if you if you got disrespected, I wouldn't say that. 1035 00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:58,359 Speaker 2: I would never you know what I mean? 1036 00:47:58,440 --> 00:47:59,959 Speaker 1: I got cheated on you, Yeah I would. 1037 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,919 Speaker 2: I would never do it too, And you'd be like yeah, 1038 00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:06,640 Speaker 2: because we would never be again, you know, Like in 1039 00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:09,520 Speaker 2: this situation, I think that that one's bad and that 1040 00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:11,799 Speaker 2: one's really bad. All right, this one, I'm not try 1041 00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:13,799 Speaker 2: how I feel about this one. It's my last one. 1042 00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:18,000 Speaker 2: Tell us what your guy best friend said, and we'll 1043 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:22,360 Speaker 2: tell you what he meant. Your wife material not girlfriend material. 1044 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:27,880 Speaker 1: Ooh, wife material not girlfriend material means. 1045 00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:35,359 Speaker 2: Oh you're my second option. Why because he's thinking about 1046 00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:37,840 Speaker 2: the long game. That means he wants to fuck around 1047 00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:39,520 Speaker 2: right now and you want to fuck her. He's like 1048 00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,680 Speaker 2: planning a seed to make you fuck around right now 1049 00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:42,520 Speaker 2: and then then the long game. 1050 00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:43,239 Speaker 1: I want to marry you. 1051 00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:48,399 Speaker 2: Oh you're taking it that way. Yeah, I actually that's 1052 00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:50,799 Speaker 2: a good I wouldn't I wouldn't disagree with that, but 1053 00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:54,800 Speaker 2: I wanted to ask, actually, what's the difference between wife 1054 00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,240 Speaker 2: material and girlfriend material? 1055 00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:58,000 Speaker 1: It's the same thing in my eyes. 1056 00:48:58,080 --> 00:48:59,839 Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, I feel like and no, no, 1057 00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,719 Speaker 2: husband material and boyfriend material it's the same thing, right. 1058 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:06,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, our vision of dating is if they're your girlfriend, 1059 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,840 Speaker 1: you see a future with them and potentially you get married. 1060 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:11,759 Speaker 1: Where I think a lot of men go wrong in 1061 00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:14,360 Speaker 1: a sense of dating is just dating a girlfriend is 1062 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,080 Speaker 1: just lardy, dart doesn't mean much. Yeah, I think the 1063 00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,719 Speaker 1: whole perception of what dating is is wrong. Like the 1064 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:21,839 Speaker 1: intention should be that if I'm dating you, I see 1065 00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:23,040 Speaker 1: a future with you, but a lot of men just 1066 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:23,960 Speaker 1: to date to fuck. 1067 00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:25,600 Speaker 2: And just like in this way, this guy's saying it 1068 00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:28,880 Speaker 2: like insinuating that wife material is boring because it's like 1069 00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,719 Speaker 2: lasts a long time and the girlfriend material is fine. 1070 00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:33,399 Speaker 2: So is he saying his friend is not fun? 1071 00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:35,160 Speaker 1: True? There's another way to take you. 1072 00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:37,560 Speaker 2: You guys trying to say that, like being wife material 1073 00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:39,120 Speaker 2: is like which one is the good one? 1074 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:41,239 Speaker 1: They're both good ones. They should be the same thing. 1075 00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:45,000 Speaker 2: I I don't see any reason I think you should 1076 00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,120 Speaker 2: just be like you or I love you material. 1077 00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:51,879 Speaker 1: That's cute. That's actually really cute. My last one. Tell 1078 00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:53,719 Speaker 1: us what your guy best friend has said and we'll 1079 00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:57,000 Speaker 1: tell you what it means. I don't know what I would. 1080 00:49:56,840 --> 00:50:04,000 Speaker 2: Do without you. Yeah, I think that he wants to 1081 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:08,120 Speaker 2: date you. Mm yeah, I think that means I want 1082 00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:10,160 Speaker 2: this to be more. Yeah, I agree, I think he 1083 00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:12,800 Speaker 2: think he wants to date you. To be fair, though 1084 00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:15,800 Speaker 2: a lot of actual best friends would just be would 1085 00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:17,040 Speaker 2: say like I don't know what to do without you? 1086 00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:20,160 Speaker 1: True? Yeah? Would I say that I don't know what 1087 00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:22,960 Speaker 1: i'd do without you, Jake? To be fair, I personally wouldn't, 1088 00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,320 Speaker 1: but I could see like best friend saying that. 1089 00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:27,360 Speaker 2: You personally wouldn't know what you would do without me. 1090 00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:29,160 Speaker 2: That's sweet. 1091 00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:31,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I probably wouldn't. We do quite a lot together, 1092 00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:33,440 Speaker 1: but I don't think I wouldn't voice it like that. 1093 00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:34,879 Speaker 2: I'll tell you one thing, you wouldn't be making money. 1094 00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:40,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, mate, I'll tell you what I do all the admin. 1095 00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:42,200 Speaker 1: You wouldn't be making money either. 1096 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:55,600 Speaker 2: Badi's time for dilemmas. I just wanted to actually put 1097 00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:58,640 Speaker 2: out there that if you have submitted a dilemma on 1098 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:02,120 Speaker 2: the main episodes and it has not been answered by 1099 00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:05,040 Speaker 2: yours truly, then you should go over to Patreon and 1100 00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:07,920 Speaker 2: sign up at patreon dot com forwards US Relatable sixty 1101 00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:09,920 Speaker 2: nine all link in the description, all linko in the 1102 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:13,520 Speaker 2: description because they have their own dilemmas link and there's a. 1103 00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:15,359 Speaker 1: Lot less Yeah, we get to all of them over there. 1104 00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:19,040 Speaker 2: Any who, I've got a good one. Hi. I'm in 1105 00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:21,879 Speaker 2: a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend. The only thing that's 1106 00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:25,480 Speaker 2: starting to get to me is from outside the relationship, 1107 00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:28,320 Speaker 2: not from him, And it's that I am five or 1108 00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:33,320 Speaker 2: eleven and he is five ten. I am unexpectedly tall 1109 00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:36,960 Speaker 2: for a woman, and people comment on it regularly, and 1110 00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:41,200 Speaker 2: I can get insecure about it. Sometimes my boyfriend isn't short, 1111 00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,880 Speaker 2: but he is an inch shorter than me, So I 1112 00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:46,960 Speaker 2: get comments from other women about this about once a month, 1113 00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 2: and it feeds into my insecurity about my height. When 1114 00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:53,200 Speaker 2: I get comments about my height, I always say I'm 1115 00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:56,440 Speaker 2: the shortest in one in my family, which is true 1116 00:51:56,760 --> 00:52:00,239 Speaker 2: and disarms the conversation. Having an answer ready that people 1117 00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,120 Speaker 2: don't always know how to respond to forces the conversation 1118 00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 2: forward and keeps me from focusing on it. I was 1119 00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:08,520 Speaker 2: wondering if you had any idea about a similar statement. 1120 00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:12,839 Speaker 2: I have to disarm comments about his slash me being 1121 00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:16,640 Speaker 2: taller than him, so his height slashed me being taller 1122 00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:19,399 Speaker 2: than him. These comments are always towards me when he 1123 00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,759 Speaker 2: isn't around, and only by other women. I don't want 1124 00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:27,239 Speaker 2: it to be aggressive towards the person, just disarming that's 1125 00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:28,120 Speaker 2: actually devoed. 1126 00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:31,799 Speaker 1: This brings up a great conversation in a sense of 1127 00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:35,160 Speaker 1: I guess it's a little bit of insecurity on her side, 1128 00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:38,640 Speaker 1: and everybody has well, yeah, from the outside world. Everybody 1129 00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:43,080 Speaker 1: has insecurities. People have bad hairlines, bad skins, something weird 1130 00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:43,560 Speaker 1: on their body. 1131 00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:44,320 Speaker 2: Start with airlines. 1132 00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:46,880 Speaker 1: First one that came to mind, why do you start 1133 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,520 Speaker 1: with airlines? First? One that came to mind, Dude, what 1134 00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:51,560 Speaker 1: that's nothing to do with the person sitting next to 1135 00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:58,400 Speaker 1: me anyway. Yeah, everybody's got insecurities, bad hairlines, and I 1136 00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:04,640 Speaker 1: would argue that disarming is a little bit of a 1137 00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:09,080 Speaker 1: band aid fix. And I think in the long run, 1138 00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:13,160 Speaker 1: because this is hard because you're obviously fine of your height, 1139 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:14,640 Speaker 1: but then all these people are saying comments and you 1140 00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:17,080 Speaker 1: don't want it to affect your relationship or your insecurities, 1141 00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:20,719 Speaker 1: and I want to show that like, yeah, I feel that, 1142 00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:25,000 Speaker 1: but also I wouldn't want to continue to disarm people. 1143 00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:28,319 Speaker 1: I prefer to figure out a strategy to be like 1144 00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:31,520 Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with that, or me how tall I am, 1145 00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:34,960 Speaker 1: instead of like just closing off the conversation having something 1146 00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:36,680 Speaker 1: better to say, where it's like puts them in their 1147 00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 1: place because it's a them problem, not a me problem. 1148 00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:42,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, I wonder so comments probably it's probably sly little 1149 00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:45,759 Speaker 2: comments like oh he's shorter than you. Ain't like I'm 1150 00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:48,799 Speaker 2: pretty tall tall for a girl. I feel like the 1151 00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:51,680 Speaker 2: comments are probably like you know, or like you know, 1152 00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,080 Speaker 2: it's wild that you're tald in your boyfriend, or he's 1153 00:53:54,120 --> 00:53:57,359 Speaker 2: pretty short or things like that. I feel like it's 1154 00:53:57,360 --> 00:53:59,319 Speaker 2: pissing me off too, because I know a common thing 1155 00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,800 Speaker 2: for women is like the things they wear, and older 1156 00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:03,480 Speaker 2: women say like a couple of you're wearing that? 1157 00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:06,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, like put on a longer dress. Yeah, And it's 1158 00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:09,200 Speaker 1: a similar thing. And instead of disarming it, is there 1159 00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:10,920 Speaker 1: a way to put them in their place because it's 1160 00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:15,239 Speaker 1: them mindset thing that is wrong, not me, is what 1161 00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:15,960 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get at. 1162 00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:18,359 Speaker 2: Could I don't know if this is a disarming thing, 1163 00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:19,759 Speaker 2: but could you just say what's wrong with that? 1164 00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:23,799 Speaker 1: And it's it's kind of like you're gonna get a 1165 00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,879 Speaker 1: lot of conflict and be okay with that rather than 1166 00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:30,680 Speaker 1: just moving the conversation on because I hate conflict too. 1167 00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:34,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, the confrontation of yeah, I'm sure there's two things, right, 1168 00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:37,239 Speaker 2: So if you I think that you could as soon 1169 00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:39,319 Speaker 2: as someone says something, you could just say like, oh, 1170 00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:41,520 Speaker 2: and is there a problem with that? Like that is 1171 00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:44,000 Speaker 2: kind of confronting. That's that's that's a more of a 1172 00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:46,640 Speaker 2: confronting approach, right. But if you do say that, people 1173 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:49,399 Speaker 2: are gonna be like oh oh oh no, no, you know. 1174 00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:50,359 Speaker 1: That's simple too. 1175 00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:55,399 Speaker 2: Or you could say this one would probably get them 1176 00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:57,239 Speaker 2: to I assume I reckon this would get them to 1177 00:54:57,239 --> 00:55:00,480 Speaker 2: shut up pretty quickly and like change the conversation. And 1178 00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:02,600 Speaker 2: if they say they make a comment about either your 1179 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:06,040 Speaker 2: height being taller than him or him being shorter than you, 1180 00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:07,840 Speaker 2: you could just say like, yeah, but at least he 1181 00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:11,480 Speaker 2: loves me. Oh you know what I mean, Like, yeah, 1182 00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:14,120 Speaker 2: but like at least he treats me good. Hmmm, he's 1183 00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:16,400 Speaker 2: a good boyfriend. Like, I don't look at that. 1184 00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:19,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe maybe no. I think the second bit's even 1185 00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:23,239 Speaker 1: better if if someone comments about his heart or to. 1186 00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:24,600 Speaker 2: Be a little bit confronting. 1187 00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:25,480 Speaker 1: To you, I was like, oh, I don't know, I 1188 00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:26,160 Speaker 1: don't even look at that. 1189 00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:28,840 Speaker 2: I don't even look at that. Yeah, it's just not 1190 00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:30,160 Speaker 2: something I look at it. Well, I don't know, is 1191 00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:35,080 Speaker 2: he Yeah, I didn't really. I mean yeah, you could 1192 00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:38,440 Speaker 2: say like like, oh, you're tall on your boyfriend. 1193 00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:41,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, but fuck he's packing down fairs. 1194 00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:47,000 Speaker 2: You say, hey, the height went where it counts. That's 1195 00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:48,799 Speaker 2: how you can start say hey, the height went where 1196 00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:51,000 Speaker 2: it counts. I think one thing I think saying so 1197 00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:53,200 Speaker 2: I feel bad that you feel the need to say like, oh, 1198 00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:55,920 Speaker 2: but I'm the shortest in my family because then what 1199 00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:58,960 Speaker 2: you're trying to prove is that, like you're not very tall. 1200 00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:03,880 Speaker 2: So it's like, obviously, I assume this is an assumption. 1201 00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:07,480 Speaker 2: It never safe to assume, but like there's been times 1202 00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:08,759 Speaker 2: in your life where you're like, man, I wish I 1203 00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:11,839 Speaker 2: was shorter. Yeah, right, which should not be the case. 1204 00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:13,799 Speaker 2: And it sucks that these comments make you feel that way. 1205 00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:15,120 Speaker 2: In the world makes you feel that way. I mean, 1206 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:18,440 Speaker 2: we've joked around about men's heighth. Yeah, you know, imagine 1207 00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:20,120 Speaker 2: if I can looking down at your boyfriend kiss them 1208 00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:21,759 Speaker 2: and stuff. It's all a joke. I'm not going to 1209 00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:26,200 Speaker 2: judge someone that's actually Yeah, but it's also like one 1210 00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:29,280 Speaker 2: of the reasons that makes you unique and beautiful exactly. Yeah, 1211 00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:32,400 Speaker 2: Like you're five eleven and like that's rare for a 1212 00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:34,480 Speaker 2: girl like you said to be that tall, and it's 1213 00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:36,680 Speaker 2: one of your attributes rather than one of your negatives. 1214 00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:38,719 Speaker 2: And I think it's just like it's good to change 1215 00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,400 Speaker 2: your mindset and put them in their place because you 1216 00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:43,120 Speaker 2: are a beautiful person and you don't have to make 1217 00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:46,319 Speaker 2: no excuse for anyone to make you feel normal. So yeah, 1218 00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:50,239 Speaker 2: I feel like, okay, ready Number one is I don't know, 1219 00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,359 Speaker 2: in no particular order, choose your favorite. A comment gets 1220 00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:56,959 Speaker 2: made and you say, is that a problem? A comment 1221 00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:59,279 Speaker 2: gets made and you say, yeah, but at least he 1222 00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:01,760 Speaker 2: loves me. A comment gets made and you say, oh, 1223 00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:04,799 Speaker 2: I didn't really notice that on A common gets made 1224 00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:08,359 Speaker 2: and you say, yeah, but I feel like I had 1225 00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:10,200 Speaker 2: one more in my head the heart went where it mattered. 1226 00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:13,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I went. 1227 00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:20,360 Speaker 2: No the best one. Lazi makes me come. Yeah that one, 1228 00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:23,360 Speaker 2: because like you're you're not saying that you want to, 1229 00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:27,920 Speaker 2: You just want to comment a reply that makes them 1230 00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:29,000 Speaker 2: shut up, I make shut up? 1231 00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:32,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, make them shut up. That's what it should be, alright, bad. 1232 00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:35,440 Speaker 1: His next dilemma. I'm twenty eight, single and panicking that 1233 00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:38,360 Speaker 1: I've somehow missed my chance at finding my person. Six 1234 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,840 Speaker 1: months ago, I left a relationship that was awful for 1235 00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:44,240 Speaker 1: my self, worth something I'm really proud of. But now 1236 00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,600 Speaker 1: I'm on the other side, the fear has crept in. 1237 00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:49,560 Speaker 1: I thought leaving would make space for something better, but 1238 00:57:49,600 --> 00:57:53,320 Speaker 1: instead I'm alone, swiping apps that feel completely tapped out. 1239 00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:55,400 Speaker 1: I live in a small area, and I swear I've 1240 00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:58,680 Speaker 1: seen every face within a fifty kilometer radius, including a 1241 00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:01,040 Speaker 1: few I'd rather not see again. Up there's some pretty 1242 00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:04,560 Speaker 1: unhinged dates. I want to enjoy being single, so I 1243 00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:07,720 Speaker 1: try to romanticize my alone time. But it's hard when 1244 00:58:07,840 --> 00:58:10,680 Speaker 1: every quiet moment turns into a spiral of what if 1245 00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:11,440 Speaker 1: there isn't. 1246 00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:12,040 Speaker 2: Anyone for me? 1247 00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,840 Speaker 1: Everyone around me is in a long term relationship, and 1248 00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:18,440 Speaker 1: turning thirty like this feels so terrifying. Plus I live alone. 1249 00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:21,160 Speaker 1: How do I actually enjoy being single and trust that 1250 00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:22,280 Speaker 1: love will find me again? 1251 00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:27,160 Speaker 2: I think that we've had a lot of dilemmas like 1252 00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:32,200 Speaker 2: this before, or a few at least, and I can't 1253 00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:34,560 Speaker 2: give any advice from like a position of being in 1254 00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:37,440 Speaker 2: that situation. No, But like what you're asking, what she 1255 00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:39,120 Speaker 2: asked at the end was how do I would say? 1256 00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:40,560 Speaker 2: How do I how. 1257 00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:42,360 Speaker 1: Do I actually enjoy being single? And how do I 1258 00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:43,800 Speaker 1: trust that love will find me again? 1259 00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:48,240 Speaker 2: I don't know if there's a how to for that. 1260 00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:51,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's no real guide there. 1261 00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:54,280 Speaker 2: But Yeah, being. 1262 00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:59,960 Speaker 1: Single it's tough though, because the age thing is annoying because, 1263 00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:02,920 Speaker 1: like the last dilemma, the people around you put this 1264 00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:06,320 Speaker 1: pressure on you. Yeah, especially for women, you gotta find 1265 00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:08,960 Speaker 1: a man and have kids. There's so much pressure, which 1266 00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:14,200 Speaker 1: In reality, a number means nothing. Everyone's on their own journey. 1267 00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:17,600 Speaker 1: But it's easier said than done, and it's very daunting. 1268 00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:20,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, the saying life's not a race is like the 1269 00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:24,600 Speaker 2: hardest one to live by. Yeah, because comparison it happens 1270 00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:27,200 Speaker 2: no matter what, Oh my god, compare Like I don't know, 1271 00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:29,200 Speaker 2: here's okay. The only thing I would say that I 1272 00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:31,800 Speaker 2: think might work if you try it is like just 1273 00:59:31,840 --> 00:59:33,560 Speaker 2: like fucking throw your phone off a bridge for a 1274 00:59:33,560 --> 00:59:34,920 Speaker 2: month or some shit. I don't know. Just see what 1275 00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:37,280 Speaker 2: happens when you don't have anything to compare to. Just 1276 00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:39,439 Speaker 2: live your life, do the hobbies you like doing, turn 1277 00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:41,880 Speaker 2: your phone off, like, try that and if it doesn't work, 1278 00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:43,680 Speaker 2: come back to us. Like, I actually don't know apart 1279 00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:45,560 Speaker 2: from the fact that it's like, you know what you 1280 00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:49,280 Speaker 2: like doing outside of work, you know what you like doing, like, 1281 00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:51,400 Speaker 2: you know the hobbies you like, You know that you 1282 00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:53,400 Speaker 2: know who your friends are and stuff like if you 1283 00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:56,160 Speaker 2: want to enjoy being single, I guess you just have 1284 00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:57,960 Speaker 2: to come to terms with the fact that you're single 1285 00:59:58,000 --> 00:59:59,480 Speaker 2: and it'll find you want to find. 1286 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:04,840 Speaker 1: It's kind of advice. I would also like steer you 1287 01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:06,360 Speaker 1: off the dating apps. 1288 01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,760 Speaker 2: After oh yeah, dating apps ae bit. 1289 01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:12,200 Speaker 1: We were told to watch Married at First Sight to 1290 01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:15,120 Speaker 1: get some content on offer and give their opinions. I 1291 01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:17,480 Speaker 1: watched one episode and Jake, did you watch it? That 1292 01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:19,640 Speaker 1: was the worst thing I've ever watched in my life. 1293 01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:25,160 Speaker 1: I refuse, I'm not watching anymore. And like the way 1294 01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:26,320 Speaker 1: the men are. 1295 01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:28,840 Speaker 2: Dude. Apparently there was one girl in there that was 1296 01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:33,040 Speaker 2: like a model, right, like beautiful, and she's up there 1297 01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:35,880 Speaker 2: and this guy he's little thing beforehand and is like, 1298 01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:39,040 Speaker 2: I don't want a girl that's fat. I don't want 1299 01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:40,840 Speaker 2: a girl that's blah blah blah blah blah. And he 1300 01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:42,600 Speaker 2: looks at her in her and she's like, oh, she's 1301 01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:46,400 Speaker 2: all right. Apparently she's like beautiful, she's tall than him. Yeah, 1302 01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:48,840 Speaker 2: and that was a problem for him, and that was 1303 01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:49,400 Speaker 2: a problem for him. 1304 01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:51,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's what I mean. And I think what 1305 01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:55,760 Speaker 1: the men on the show really depict h how harsh 1306 01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:57,200 Speaker 1: it is out there, and they're a type of men 1307 01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:59,680 Speaker 1: on the apps. I think the men any man who 1308 01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:01,200 Speaker 1: wants to all on that type of show go on 1309 01:01:01,240 --> 01:01:04,040 Speaker 1: the apps aren't really There's obviously some stories which are 1310 01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:06,680 Speaker 1: really good, but ninety percent of them aren't. There for 1311 01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:09,440 Speaker 1: the right reasons. So again, you don't want to hear it, 1312 01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,840 Speaker 1: but it'll come to you when you least expect it, 1313 01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:13,640 Speaker 1: and you want it to happen in real life. I reckon 1314 01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:16,800 Speaker 1: just because I don't know I watched that. I was though. 1315 01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:19,600 Speaker 2: I think like real life, yes, Instagram everyone's like yeah, 1316 01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:20,920 Speaker 2: everyone like meets online. 1317 01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:23,560 Speaker 1: Still, I mean not the apps. I feel like those 1318 01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:24,480 Speaker 1: intentions are fucked. 1319 01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:28,200 Speaker 2: I don't know about the apps as well, So I'm 1320 01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:31,960 Speaker 2: just trying to think, like, is there could you go 1321 01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:34,440 Speaker 2: on like a if if you really want a man, 1322 01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:39,640 Speaker 2: could you go to singles nights or anything like those? 1323 01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:40,800 Speaker 2: I feel like they used to be a thing. 1324 01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:43,520 Speaker 1: Maybe, But I would also argue that it's not what 1325 01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:45,640 Speaker 1: you want to hear. But because you're thinking, like, oh, 1326 01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:47,240 Speaker 1: I've got a time limit, I want to find a man, 1327 01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:50,880 Speaker 1: it never happens. But when you when somehow there's that 1328 01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:54,560 Speaker 1: switch in your mind where you're really happy with where 1329 01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:58,240 Speaker 1: your life's at and you're fine with yourself and you're grinding, 1330 01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:00,560 Speaker 1: you're becoming the best version of yourself and you don't 1331 01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:02,960 Speaker 1: need a man. That's when it happens to you. And 1332 01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:04,360 Speaker 1: you don't want to hear that. But right now. Your 1333 01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:07,480 Speaker 1: mindset's like clock's ticking and in a man and then 1334 01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:10,560 Speaker 1: shitty men are happening, and you're like kind of forcing 1335 01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:10,880 Speaker 1: is in the. 1336 01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:12,560 Speaker 2: Right word, but it's the best way to describe it. 1337 01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:15,800 Speaker 2: You're forcing it so it's not happening. Yeah, that would 1338 01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:17,640 Speaker 2: be my advice. Yeah, and it's really hard and you 1339 01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:18,640 Speaker 2: don't want to hear that, and I know that. 1340 01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:19,280 Speaker 1: It's a shit advice. 1341 01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:21,720 Speaker 2: Maybe I'm trying to think here, like what if you Okay, 1342 01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:23,760 Speaker 2: last my last little bit of advice is like, what 1343 01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:26,919 Speaker 2: if you were to treat yourself the way you would 1344 01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:30,040 Speaker 2: want to be treated by a man, Just see what 1345 01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:31,920 Speaker 2: it's like. So like, treat yourself the exact way you 1346 01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:33,840 Speaker 2: would want to be treated like that, and then just 1347 01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:39,440 Speaker 2: like it's kind of be your own relationship. 1348 01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:40,520 Speaker 1: Romanticizing your life. 1349 01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:43,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like romanticize your own life for a bit and 1350 01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:44,600 Speaker 2: then you might just start loving it and then you 1351 01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:46,960 Speaker 2: just get mad comfortable and it's been six months since 1352 01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:48,320 Speaker 2: you left this other guy, you're still kind of going 1353 01:02:48,360 --> 01:02:51,160 Speaker 2: through a heartbreak and shit, like it's still fresh. Just like, 1354 01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:54,400 Speaker 2: romanticize your life. Be like main character energy driving down 1355 01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:56,600 Speaker 2: the coast, fucking like being a beast. I don't know, 1356 01:02:56,760 --> 01:02:59,360 Speaker 2: find yourself flowers, taking yourself on dates. Yeah, and that 1357 01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:01,120 Speaker 2: doesn't mean you can't fuck other people. Take yourself on 1358 01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:03,600 Speaker 2: a holiday, take yourself. 1359 01:03:03,360 --> 01:03:15,080 Speaker 1: On a getaway with your best friend. That is his 1360 01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:17,280 Speaker 1: time for comments. If you want to get your comment read, 1361 01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:20,520 Speaker 1: simply comment on the episode you are listening to Spotify. 1362 01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:26,120 Speaker 1: Jake has YouTube. Yes, let me go first. Mel Z said, 1363 01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:27,880 Speaker 1: I'm listening to this while on the treadmill, and I 1364 01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:30,120 Speaker 1: feel like the in quotes that Winnie the Pooh comment 1365 01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:33,800 Speaker 1: has almost made me fall off in regards to Jake 1366 01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:36,640 Speaker 1: having sex with his shirt on, Yeah, every now and then, 1367 01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:39,440 Speaker 1: every now and then, everyone's gonna go do it, Winned. 1368 01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:41,360 Speaker 2: The Pooh, I don't have his belly. 1369 01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:44,440 Speaker 1: That could be your call sign. What's he saying? Where's 1370 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:45,320 Speaker 1: my honey? 1371 01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,640 Speaker 2: Like his voice? What's his voice? Is quite funny? 1372 01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:49,920 Speaker 1: Honey sir? 1373 01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:54,800 Speaker 2: Oh wait wait wait wait wait? So that was actually 1374 01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:58,120 Speaker 2: quite good. But he could I could be like crust Robin. 1375 01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:01,840 Speaker 2: You could be like, oh, we have some honey for you. 1376 01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:03,000 Speaker 1: That's creepy. 1377 01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:09,320 Speaker 2: AnyWho, this is just a sneaky little comment from a 1378 01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:14,440 Speaker 2: lovely a lovely lady named Bianca breaks spear I believe 1379 01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:17,880 Speaker 2: she said. I believe it was the first episode in 1380 01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:24,120 Speaker 2: this studio. The lighting is Chef's kiss today. 1381 01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:26,760 Speaker 1: It thumbs up for the lighting, it thumbs up. We 1382 01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:29,160 Speaker 1: won't show you a photo or it doesn't look the best, 1383 01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,680 Speaker 1: but it works doesn't mean I mean the other side. 1384 01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:32,200 Speaker 2: It's good. 1385 01:04:32,840 --> 01:04:34,280 Speaker 1: But it's time for wanting you to sign off the 1386 01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:36,360 Speaker 1: episode bad. If you want to get called by Jake 1387 01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:39,360 Speaker 1: and I, simply click the link in the description. Today 1388 01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:44,120 Speaker 1: we're going to try calling Maddie. Call has been forwarded 1389 01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:44,880 Speaker 1: to voicemail. 1390 01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:50,040 Speaker 2: Hello, Maddie, this is Jake and Oddie from the Relatables 1391 01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:53,760 Speaker 2: podcast and really we really wish you picked up. 1392 01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:55,440 Speaker 1: Disappointed a little bit, but it's okay. 1393 01:04:55,560 --> 01:04:57,240 Speaker 2: The bad he isn't going to get any advice this 1394 01:04:57,280 --> 01:04:59,040 Speaker 2: week because somebody couldn't pick up the phone. 1395 01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:02,320 Speaker 1: Sh people get busy, but you know we're gonna call 1396 01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:06,880 Speaker 1: you next week. Maddie, please pick up, please please, All right, baddies, 1397 01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:09,120 Speaker 1: that's it for today. We actually called behind the scenes 1398 01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:10,560 Speaker 1: three other people and no one picked up. 1399 01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:12,640 Speaker 2: So yeah, that's why we just left the message for Maddie. Hope. 1400 01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:14,040 Speaker 2: Let's hope she gets it and she answers. 1401 01:05:14,040 --> 01:05:16,720 Speaker 1: Next more baddies sign up into the description otherwise we 1402 01:05:16,760 --> 01:05:17,439 Speaker 1: love you. Yeah. 1403 01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:19,880 Speaker 2: If you're a baddie that'll answer their phone, feel free 1404 01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:22,160 Speaker 2: to sign up in the description to give some advice 1405 01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:24,240 Speaker 2: or else we might be there's a chance we might 1406 01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:26,480 Speaker 2: be running out of baddies. We're gonna have to stop. 1407 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,440 Speaker 1: No, I don't think so. There's heaps there, they just 1408 01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:30,000 Speaker 1: don't pick up. 1409 01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:31,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point. 1410 01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:32,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, we love you. 1411 01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:33,560 Speaker 2: Stay bad.