WEBVTT - OFF AIR | Abbey Went On A Date With A Murderer?! 😱

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<v Speaker 1>Get Morning every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to a special part of the podcast, just a

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<v Speaker 2>few little extended chats where pretty much nothing is off limits.

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<v Speaker 2>For example, we're ready for this.

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<v Speaker 1>Radio.

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<v Speaker 2>We get to take a deeper dive as well. Jode'es

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<v Speaker 2>into news real Abbey's love life, which is just as

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<v Speaker 2>complex as a spider web.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so we she couldn't tell this story on air

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<v Speaker 3>because it's just because I'm so dead. Yeah, it's just

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<v Speaker 3>so intense. But we were all gobsmacked. Okay, go on,

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<v Speaker 3>just tell it. I feel like we take a deep

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<v Speaker 3>dive into my love life on it.

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<v Speaker 4>But anyway, so as we all know, this year, I've

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<v Speaker 4>sort of been like, okay, I need to get back

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<v Speaker 4>into the dating game. I'm thirty three now. I would

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<v Speaker 4>like to find a husband and settle down. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>the sausage dogs need a father figure in their life.

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<v Speaker 4>Tory is a little a whole. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, so here I am.

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<v Speaker 4>On the apps again because you know, how else do

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<v Speaker 4>you meet people? And I swip by a guy and

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<v Speaker 4>we match and we get talking and after probably a

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<v Speaker 4>few weeks, we exchange numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>He lives about an hour from Adelaide, So when you

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<v Speaker 1>see you get talking. I don't really know how this

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<v Speaker 1>weeks is.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're online talking keah online, you're on the app talking,

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<v Speaker 4>and then it got to a point like I don't

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<v Speaker 4>have notifications on for the dating app, so you know,

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<v Speaker 4>every now and then you have a look back and

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<v Speaker 4>see if anyone's message or who you've matched with. So

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<v Speaker 4>I got to the point where I was sort of

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<v Speaker 4>missing messages and he was like, you know, do you

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<v Speaker 4>want to swap numbers? So I was like yeah, fine, cool,

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<v Speaker 4>So we swapped numbers. We're chatting. There's phone calls like

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<v Speaker 4>there's you know, our long phone calls that we're getting

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<v Speaker 4>to know each other. Anyway, then.

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<v Speaker 1>We catch up and we have a coffee and it

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<v Speaker 1>was a really quick coffee.

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<v Speaker 4>It was really nice. It was like, you know, it

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<v Speaker 4>was just good. He was a gentleman. He opened doors

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<v Speaker 4>at the stage.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you come to theay, how was the service?

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<v Speaker 4>He got a little bit angry because the bar of

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<v Speaker 4>the barista was flirting with me.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like what what was that?

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<v Speaker 4>So? And was the general of the peacock there who

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<v Speaker 4>you too have had an affair with? Yeah, I went

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<v Speaker 4>on the days that he wasn't there because I knew

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<v Speaker 4>that he might start.

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<v Speaker 2>A rucking was crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so yeah, So we had our coffee and then

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<v Speaker 4>the next day I get a.

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<v Speaker 1>Phone call and it's him. You know, yep, cool, not

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<v Speaker 1>out of the you know, not weird or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>And he goes, oh, look, Abby, I need to tell

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<v Speaker 4>you something before this goes any further. And in my

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<v Speaker 4>head I'm thinking, all right, you know he's got kids,

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<v Speaker 4>is married.

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<v Speaker 1>Or whatever, like yeah, like you know something like that. Whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>How many times have you used that to get out.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll prove it.

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<v Speaker 1>And so he says, I need to tell you something.

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<v Speaker 4>I murdered somebody, sorry, back when I was fifteen, and

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<v Speaker 4>I spent nine years in prison for it.

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<v Speaker 2>WHOA, that is heavy.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, Well, I at that point have just kind of

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<v Speaker 4>gone silent slash. I'm laughing, what like, you know what

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<v Speaker 4>someone told you something you just cannot believe. I literally

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<v Speaker 4>just sat there and I have my laptop opening, so

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<v Speaker 4>I've been working at home and I'm going.

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<v Speaker 3>What the hell?

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<v Speaker 4>And I said and he sort of was, oh, I

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<v Speaker 4>just wanted to tell you because you know, if this

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<v Speaker 4>goes any further, most women just walk away when I

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<v Speaker 4>tell them, man rahah. And I was like okay, well

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<v Speaker 4>that's fair enough. And I said, can you who was

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<v Speaker 4>the guy who was killed? And he told me the

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<v Speaker 4>name and I put it into Google on my laptop

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<v Speaker 4>as he's on the phone, and I search it. Legit,

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<v Speaker 4>this is full on legit was him and another guy.

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<v Speaker 4>The other guy was sort of I guess you could

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<v Speaker 4>call the instigator. This guy obviously still went along and

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<v Speaker 4>did it.

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<v Speaker 1>Blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 4>Anyway, So the whole thing, I'm sort of okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going to go now, I'll talk to you later.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye.

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<v Speaker 4>But the whole thing was telling people about the situation.

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<v Speaker 4>And I had majority of all of you here, do

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<v Speaker 4>not go on a second date with him, do not

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<v Speaker 4>see him again, and you know, do not do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Have I had mentors saying, Abby, if you advertiser, get

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<v Speaker 4>ahold of this, that you're dating someone who used to

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<v Speaker 4>who's murdered someone, you're not a good look for you

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<v Speaker 4>for your profile.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I went to dinner with my two sisters.

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<v Speaker 4>Now my family, mum makes it known all the time

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<v Speaker 4>how much she just wants me, you know where. It's like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to have to worry about you anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>I just want you to find someone. My family all

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<v Speaker 4>turned around and said, oh I have he.

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<v Speaker 1>Was fifteen, he did his time. Oh my god, surely

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<v Speaker 1>you know he's changed. He's changed, he's changed. It's fine.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, he's got four kids in New South Wales

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<v Speaker 4>that he doesn't see as well.

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<v Speaker 1>And oh no, it's fine mention that.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh so so I've got you guys saying do not

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<v Speaker 4>go there.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got the family going.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, he's probably changed, and you know he's trying to

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<v Speaker 4>use redemption and give him a second chance just because

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<v Speaker 4>they want me married off and with someone.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, you know, this was death. The only death that

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<v Speaker 2>will accept is someone who's been involved with a eat

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<v Speaker 2>gasoline accidents as a fifteen. That's heavy stuff to deal with.

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<v Speaker 1>Very very heavy.

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<v Speaker 4>And of course then i've you know, he was a

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<v Speaker 4>child when it happened, so name's been suppressed, et cetera. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm doing as much research as possible. What can I find?

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<v Speaker 4>What can I dig up?

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<v Speaker 1>My goodness, just you found some stuff? Yeah, found some stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So he's a kicker as well, Jodes. So Abs thought

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<v Speaker 2>so she was finding a date match on Tinder. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>turned out she typed in wrong and she got it

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<v Speaker 2>from Krimda.

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<v Speaker 3>And just for all those wondering, that was a very

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<v Speaker 3>niche so landa reference to about the gasoline accident.

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<v Speaker 2>Good stuff, oh dear.

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<v Speaker 4>Anyway, so the search for the love of my life continues.

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<v Speaker 4>I did actually work at a wedding a few weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 4>and they had met on Tinder, so they were a

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<v Speaker 4>Tinder success story. So a few people who I interviewed,

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<v Speaker 4>I told, oh, I've actually just matched with a murderer,

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<v Speaker 4>and they all went, oh, yeah, I think that's a

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<v Speaker 4>universe telling you to give up. Yeah, yeah, maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>What about when when Abbe introduces a new bloke to

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<v Speaker 2>other families his name is Joseph and what's their name,

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<v Speaker 2>Unt Coney, and the parents are like, oh no, he's

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<v Speaker 2>completely fine. You're like, God, do some research's goodness say?

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<v Speaker 4>And then there we are pressing play on the net

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<v Speaker 4>on the new Netflix true crime documentary and bang happy pots.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>To be fair, though, I met Greg when I was

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<v Speaker 3>his pinpal and he was in Yetler. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you guys have worked out. Yeah, it's true.

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<v Speaker 3>We've got four beautiful children together.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I didn't have any data