Speaker 1: Get Morning every day.
Speaker 2: Welcome to a special part of the podcast, just a
Speaker 2: few little extended chats where pretty much nothing is off limits.
Speaker 2: For example, we're ready for this.
Speaker 1: Radio.
Speaker 2: We get to take a deeper dive as well. Jode'es
Speaker 2: into news real Abbey's love life, which is just as
Speaker 2: complex as a spider web.
Speaker 3: Okay, so we she couldn't tell this story on air
Speaker 3: because it's just because I'm so dead. Yeah, it's just
Speaker 3: so intense. But we were all gobsmacked. Okay, go on,
Speaker 3: just tell it. I feel like we take a deep
Speaker 3: dive into my love life on it.
Speaker 4: But anyway, so as we all know, this year, I've
Speaker 4: sort of been like, okay, I need to get back
Speaker 4: into the dating game. I'm thirty three now. I would
Speaker 4: like to find a husband and settle down. You know,
Speaker 4: the sausage dogs need a father figure in their life.
Speaker 4: Tory is a little a whole. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Anyway, so here I am.
Speaker 4: On the apps again because you know, how else do
Speaker 4: you meet people? And I swip by a guy and
Speaker 4: we match and we get talking and after probably a
Speaker 4: few weeks, we exchange numbers.
Speaker 1: He lives about an hour from Adelaide, So when you
Speaker 1: see you get talking. I don't really know how this
Speaker 1: weeks is.
Speaker 4: So you're online talking keah online, you're on the app talking,
Speaker 4: and then it got to a point like I don't
Speaker 4: have notifications on for the dating app, so you know,
Speaker 4: every now and then you have a look back and
Speaker 4: see if anyone's message or who you've matched with. So
Speaker 4: I got to the point where I was sort of
Speaker 4: missing messages and he was like, you know, do you
Speaker 4: want to swap numbers? So I was like yeah, fine, cool,
Speaker 4: So we swapped numbers. We're chatting. There's phone calls like
Speaker 4: there's you know, our long phone calls that we're getting
Speaker 4: to know each other. Anyway, then.
Speaker 1: We catch up and we have a coffee and it
Speaker 1: was a really quick coffee.
Speaker 4: It was really nice. It was like, you know, it
Speaker 4: was just good. He was a gentleman. He opened doors
Speaker 4: at the stage.
Speaker 3: Oh you come to theay, how was the service?
Speaker 4: He got a little bit angry because the bar of
Speaker 4: the barista was flirting with me.
Speaker 1: He was like what what was that?
Speaker 4: So? And was the general of the peacock there who
Speaker 4: you too have had an affair with? Yeah, I went
Speaker 4: on the days that he wasn't there because I knew
Speaker 4: that he might start.
Speaker 2: A rucking was crazy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so yeah, So we had our coffee and then
Speaker 4: the next day I get a.
Speaker 1: Phone call and it's him. You know, yep, cool, not
Speaker 1: out of the you know, not weird or anything.
Speaker 4: And he goes, oh, look, Abby, I need to tell
Speaker 4: you something before this goes any further. And in my
Speaker 4: head I'm thinking, all right, you know he's got kids,
Speaker 4: is married.
Speaker 1: Or whatever, like yeah, like you know something like that. Whatever.
Speaker 1: How many times have you used that to get out.
Speaker 2: I'll prove it.
Speaker 1: And so he says, I need to tell you something.
Speaker 4: I murdered somebody, sorry, back when I was fifteen, and
Speaker 4: I spent nine years in prison for it.
Speaker 2: WHOA, that is heavy.
Speaker 4: Now, Well, I at that point have just kind of
Speaker 4: gone silent slash. I'm laughing, what like, you know what
Speaker 4: someone told you something you just cannot believe. I literally
Speaker 4: just sat there and I have my laptop opening, so
Speaker 4: I've been working at home and I'm going.
Speaker 3: What the hell?
Speaker 4: And I said and he sort of was, oh, I
Speaker 4: just wanted to tell you because you know, if this
Speaker 4: goes any further, most women just walk away when I
Speaker 4: tell them, man rahah. And I was like okay, well
Speaker 4: that's fair enough. And I said, can you who was
Speaker 4: the guy who was killed? And he told me the
Speaker 4: name and I put it into Google on my laptop
Speaker 4: as he's on the phone, and I search it. Legit,
Speaker 4: this is full on legit was him and another guy.
Speaker 4: The other guy was sort of I guess you could
Speaker 4: call the instigator. This guy obviously still went along and
Speaker 4: did it.
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.
Speaker 4: Anyway, So the whole thing, I'm sort of okay, I'm
Speaker 4: going to go now, I'll talk to you later.
Speaker 1: Bye.
Speaker 4: But the whole thing was telling people about the situation.
Speaker 4: And I had majority of all of you here, do
Speaker 4: not go on a second date with him, do not
Speaker 4: see him again, and you know, do not do it.
Speaker 4: Have I had mentors saying, Abby, if you advertiser, get
Speaker 4: ahold of this, that you're dating someone who used to
Speaker 4: who's murdered someone, you're not a good look for you
Speaker 4: for your profile.
Speaker 1: Then I went to dinner with my two sisters.
Speaker 4: Now my family, mum makes it known all the time
Speaker 4: how much she just wants me, you know where. It's like,
Speaker 4: I don't want to have to worry about you anymore.
Speaker 4: I just want you to find someone. My family all
Speaker 4: turned around and said, oh I have he.
Speaker 1: Was fifteen, he did his time. Oh my god, surely
Speaker 1: you know he's changed. He's changed, he's changed. It's fine.
Speaker 4: I said, he's got four kids in New South Wales
Speaker 4: that he doesn't see as well.
Speaker 1: And oh no, it's fine mention that.
Speaker 4: Oh so so I've got you guys saying do not
Speaker 4: go there.
Speaker 1: I've got the family going.
Speaker 4: Oh, he's probably changed, and you know he's trying to
Speaker 4: use redemption and give him a second chance just because
Speaker 4: they want me married off and with someone.
Speaker 2: Wow, you know, this was death. The only death that
Speaker 2: will accept is someone who's been involved with a eat
Speaker 2: gasoline accidents as a fifteen. That's heavy stuff to deal with.
Speaker 1: Very very heavy.
Speaker 4: And of course then i've you know, he was a
Speaker 4: child when it happened, so name's been suppressed, et cetera. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm doing as much research as possible. What can I find?
Speaker 4: What can I dig up?
Speaker 1: My goodness, just you found some stuff? Yeah, found some stuff.
Speaker 2: So he's a kicker as well, Jodes. So Abs thought
Speaker 2: so she was finding a date match on Tinder. Yeah,
Speaker 2: turned out she typed in wrong and she got it
Speaker 2: from Krimda.
Speaker 3: And just for all those wondering, that was a very
Speaker 3: niche so landa reference to about the gasoline accident.
Speaker 2: Good stuff, oh dear.
Speaker 4: Anyway, so the search for the love of my life continues.
Speaker 4: I did actually work at a wedding a few weeks ago,
Speaker 4: and they had met on Tinder, so they were a
Speaker 4: Tinder success story. So a few people who I interviewed,
Speaker 4: I told, oh, I've actually just matched with a murderer,
Speaker 4: and they all went, oh, yeah, I think that's a
Speaker 4: universe telling you to give up. Yeah, yeah, maybe.
Speaker 2: What about when when Abbe introduces a new bloke to
Speaker 2: other families his name is Joseph and what's their name,
Speaker 2: Unt Coney, and the parents are like, oh no, he's
Speaker 2: completely fine. You're like, God, do some research's goodness say?
Speaker 4: And then there we are pressing play on the net
Speaker 4: on the new Netflix true crime documentary and bang happy pots.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: To be fair, though, I met Greg when I was
Speaker 3: his pinpal and he was in Yetler. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you guys have worked out. Yeah, it's true.
Speaker 3: We've got four beautiful children together.
Speaker 1: No, I didn't have any data