WEBVTT - Josh Rachele Reveals Other Crow Players' Secret Talents 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:05.240 We got get Morning every day every lam Adelaide. 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:14.840 And Jelly on the pie, flying through the gully singing 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:15.560 nearly with thee. 0:00:16.079 --> 0:00:18.599 Please welcome to the show, Joshua Shelley. 0:00:21.760 --> 0:00:24.960 Ah, there he is in the flesh, josh welcome, good 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:26.040 morning guys, thanks having me. 0:00:26.079 --> 0:00:28.440 Interestingly, he was nodding along to his intro. Then he 0:00:28.520 --> 0:00:31.720 loved it. How often have you heard that? 0:00:31.760 --> 0:00:34.000 By the way, about five hundred times. I think. 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:36.720 Just quickly take us through that, because that's why the 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:40.680 kick a forward boys, and you're in the actual skit 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:41.680 dancing along. 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:43.159 So it was all organized and everything. 0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:43.640 Yeah. 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:46.560 Unfortunately it was last year when we were in Perth 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:48.720 through our pre season camp, but that was one of 0:00:48.760 --> 0:00:50.440 the gigs I had to do and made it with 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:52.240 them boys. They were actually a great bunch of boys, 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:54.320 but the video wasn't too good. When it came out. 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:55.080 That was very good. 0:00:55.280 --> 0:00:57.279 I got some move It's interesting because they did one 0:00:57.320 --> 0:00:59.800 with cane corns as well, and you were saying he 0:00:59.880 --> 0:01:01.720 was They came into the studio and they did all 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:03.400 this stuff for Kine and just fired a couple of 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:05.399 questions at him and he walked into you and he was. 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:07.800 Like yeah, because Caine was like, right, I said to him, 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:10.040 you've got from six thirty five to six forty that's 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:13.440 in between breaks. And Josh Gallut came and was like 0:01:13.480 --> 0:01:15.480 say this, this, this, and this. Kane walks around. He's like, 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:17.720 I don't know what the hell he just did, and 0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:19.680 I was like, trust me, it's going to be very fun. 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:20.440 Yeah, and it was brilliant. 0:01:20.520 --> 0:01:24.000 Yeah, it is haunting you though it is gathering on 0:01:24.040 --> 0:01:24.640 you pumped. 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:28.080 Up, very pumped up, especially as we are Noughton three 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:30.160 at the moment, so it's a very important must win 0:01:30.240 --> 0:01:30.520 game for. 0:01:30.720 --> 0:01:32.960 We weren't going to mention the war, but you were. 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:36.120 He stopped on the front floor. 0:01:36.400 --> 0:01:38.880 Yeah, what's the feeling like at the club? Not the 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:40.920 best start of the season, it's not. 0:01:41.040 --> 0:01:44.679 But after last night's performance from one of our special talents, 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:47.800 Isaac Rank and it was quite unbelievable to watch him 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:51.200 go go live at playing guitar and singing on last night. 0:01:51.280 --> 0:01:53.160 So he's a bit of inspiration for us this week. 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:55.160 And it was a packed house and that's a lot 0:01:55.200 --> 0:01:57.120 of pressure and he just belted it out in he 0:01:57.240 --> 0:01:57.880 was so good. 0:01:58.000 --> 0:01:59.760 So for tuning for the first time, you're like, what 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:01.639 was Rancan sings and plays guitar. 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:15.720 Yeah, rap your is around this. That's not football are good. 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:18.760 That's not like somebody who's good at something else. 0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:19.040 Good. 0:02:19.240 --> 0:02:21.200 Yeah, that's like proper musician good. 0:02:21.480 --> 0:02:24.960 It's amazing actually, because that was the first time he's 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:26.799 ever performed in front of a massive crowd like that, 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:28.679 and prior to that, the week before it was in 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:30.760 front of twenty of his teammates and. 0:02:30.600 --> 0:02:32.359 That was it, and that was it, And was he 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:33.440 a bit nervous beforehand? 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:35.799 He was a lot more nervous. I think it's always 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:38.360 hard at performing in front of friends and people when 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:40.400 you see they're smiling in the background laughing because we 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:42.680 had no idea what he was doing. But out there 0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:44.280 he just performed. Amazing. 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:47.520 Isn't that funny from a bloke who performs in front 0:02:47.560 --> 0:02:50.359 of one hundred thousand people at the MCG and then 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:52.840 that's the thing that gets him with the anxiety. 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:53.680 It's funny, isn't it. 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:54.200 It's crazy? 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:57.200 Joshua Shelley, do you have any hidden talents, like Isac Rankin? 0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:01.040 I don't, but apparently its getting thrown out the moment 0:03:01.080 --> 0:03:04.239 that I'm good on the decks, but I can't confound Never. 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:10.320 Jameson. We saw the article on the advertiser. The literally 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:10.960 were going to rip it. 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:14.280 Up, tell everyone where to come and see perform on 0:03:14.280 --> 0:03:14.680 the decks. 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:18.760 Yeah, Adelaida Oval Sunday nights. I am on at about 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:20.680 nine point forty, so there'll be square. 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:23.840 I'm forty on a Sunday night. Well, I definitely won't 0:03:23.840 --> 0:03:25.919 be too late for this school. 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:29.320 What about some of your teammates who is good at 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:30.400 something that we don't know about? 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:32.320 Good? 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:36.200 Riley O'Brien is a freak nerd so he got a 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:39.720 ninety nine point nine something at US. So he's unbelievable, 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:42.080 studying to be a doctor in neuroscience. 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:45.240 So he's done. He's actually crazy. 0:03:46.760 --> 0:03:49.280 If I had to say a funny one, Jakes Lego, 0:03:49.520 --> 0:03:52.600 he is he's hidden talents farting because all the time 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:56.560 he's in the room he stinks, so it's always it's 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:57.440 always coming out of him. 0:03:57.520 --> 0:03:58.920 Sounds like a seal when he fasts. 0:03:59.840 --> 0:04:02.280 We found out this and this is so low brow 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:05.040 and I'm so sorry, but it is funny. Seals when 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:06.800 they sneeze sound like a fart. 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:09.680 Ye live look into Josh h Shelly and Jake's Lego 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:15.680 just a cap young blokes, it's a seal protein intake. 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:19.520 It'sn't that amazing. Well, there you go, the things you 0:04:19.600 --> 0:04:20.120 find out. 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:22.480 We're gonna be OUs back, aren't you this week? There 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:26.840 we are hopefully Yep, confident everything is in the right direction. 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:32.240 Rooming with confidence is our Josh Jodie mentioned just before. 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:34.760 But from the outside looking, because you're a Melbourne boy, 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:35.160 aren't you? 0:04:35.279 --> 0:04:38.680 Yeah, sheppin and boy shepperdham boy soccer background, all those 0:04:38.720 --> 0:04:41.560 types of things. Are we absolutely the admiration of a 0:04:41.640 --> 0:04:44.000 nation right now? Like would people at Melbourne be like, 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:47.440 how jealous are we that everything is happening this week 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:48.040 in Adelaide? 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:50.760 Yeah, especially Victorians. I think Sydney was trying to do 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:52.960 a similar thing round one and it didn't really work 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:55.720 at the start of the year. But I know it's 0:04:55.760 --> 0:04:57.320 pretty it's pretty cool. They've got it locked in for 0:04:57.320 --> 0:04:59.880 the next few years, so hopefully it stays in Adelaide. 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:01.200 I absolutely love it. 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:03.600 It's interesting because nearly half the people coming this weekend 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:06.080 are from interstate, so it's about forty percent I reckon. 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:08.640 So yeah, it's it's going to be a cracking weekend. 0:05:08.720 --> 0:05:09.320 Can't wait for it. 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:11.080 Josh, we love you, Thank you for stopping by, and 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:12.600 we'll catch up with the end very very soon. 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:15.320 Thanks, guys, have a good one E's week. 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:16.800 You're waking up to Adelaide. 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:20.880 The news today, breaking news, what's the news today? 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:23.200 Most snooze news. 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:25.760 On the eve of gather around, we start to have 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:27.760 a look at the financial impact this thing is going 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:29.919 to have on our state abbey in the newsroom. 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:32.680 Yeah, it's a big one this year. So we made 0:05:32.720 --> 0:05:35.040 about eighty three million for the economy last. 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:35.880 Year, which is huge. 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:38.159 But this year we've had forty percent of tickets have 0:05:38.279 --> 0:05:41.599 been sold to interstate and overseas visitors, which is really 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:44.120 good for us. A lot of them are coming over 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:49.200 and making the most of school holidays coming up and yeah, 0:05:49.360 --> 0:05:51.320 just coming over to head to the regions and go 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:54.000 to the Barossa and things like that. So obviously all 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:57.599 week there's gather around things happening. But they do think 0:05:57.600 --> 0:06:00.800 it's the economic value will surpass what we made last year, 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:03.839 so that's really good news. But yeah, gear up for 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:05.039 a wopper of a week. 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:07.760 I didn't not speak about it in a second, but 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:10.480 I did notice that they gather around spectacular last night. 0:06:10.560 --> 0:06:13.159 They were at Pains to do a lot of tourism 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:15.680 type stuff like show a lot of the regions, and 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:17.960 they had Billie Brownless going around in a bus and 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:20.039 so I feel like there's a real focus on the 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:21.480 tourism aspect. Yeah. 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:25.239 Max Gorn has been snapped at a few different places 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:27.680 out beaches and things like that. But Tom Hawkins he 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:30.520 did a video for I think it was Menado Zoo 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:33.920 maybe that was on the essay tourism page. So they're 0:06:33.960 --> 0:06:37.560 going to use and you abuse those that they can 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:42.000 well video. Is there anything cuter than Tom Hawks standing 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:45.039 there with a lima with a baby lima. 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:46.359 Like I speak on behalf of all three fans. I 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:47.760 die for Tom Wons. 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:50.320 Guy. 0:06:52.360 --> 0:06:55.600 Yeah, I know, yeah, okay, all right, So we spoke 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:58.120 about that gathering in Spectacular last night. It was pretty big, 0:06:58.279 --> 0:07:02.280 packed out the entertainment center. Your girl Delta performed, of 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:02.800 course she did. 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:05.200 She just did a medley and just doesn't know how 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:05.960 to miss that woman. 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:08.520 She's absolutely fallless. Now, every times you reckon, I can 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:10.440 say fall less. When you say Delta Gridram in the 0:07:10.440 --> 0:07:13.760 same second, it's like, as soon as you say the 0:07:13.760 --> 0:07:16.440 words Delta Gridram, I think my brain goes say flawless. 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:20.800 Yeah, sometimes I don't even get through the world flawless. 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:23.080 Sometimes I don't get through the word delta. I don't 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:24.200 even get to the word delta. 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:28.040 Flelter fludroum. 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:30.960 Anyway, she performed, but also the surprise package of the 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:33.240 night was Isaac rankin the Adelaide Crow. 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:36.320 Who sang a beautiful cover of a song that I 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:37.440 don't know but anyway. 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:37.480 Play it. 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:49.840 Let your heart melt to this. It's plenty good. 0:08:05.200 --> 0:08:09.800 Him playing the guitar, by the way, man, that. 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:10.840 Is really really good. 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:11.480 It's good, isn't it. 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:12.400 Don't you just imagine that. 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:14.680 It's like, I don't know, maybe it's raining, so it's 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:17.640 late at night and isa actually carrying you in his 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:19.160 arms and. 0:08:19.160 --> 0:08:20.760 You just feel safe, do you know what I mean? 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:24.160 Like when he's carrying you, you just feel like there's 0:08:24.200 --> 0:08:25.360 nothing else happening in the world. 0:08:25.400 --> 0:08:27.440 And seeing that acoustic version in your ear. 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:29.840 It's crazy. He's also carrying it at the same. 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:31.960 Night, and you're like, I could die for this man. 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:37.600 What about excuse me if you see my baby gleamur, 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:38.720 I'm over here. 0:08:38.960 --> 0:08:42.120 We've moved on quick. Serious talent from Isaac. 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:43.600 Yeah, so that was nice last night. 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:45.439 And then they did an interview with Bell and Rory 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:48.720 Sloan at the mostly on Date Night in inverted commas 0:08:48.880 --> 0:08:52.160 like this, seven cameras around, guys, you're broadcasting live into 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:53.000 the Entertainment. 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:55.120 Center for the footy show Spectacular. It ain't Date Nights 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:57.440 d Night there out of date night for their month. 0:08:57.520 --> 0:08:59.480 So I just to quickly wrap up all things football. 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:01.880 I'm squoting support Outela. Jason nor Francis is. 0:09:01.800 --> 0:09:04.320 Back in Oh your boy boy. 0:09:04.280 --> 0:09:06.800 No one listened to by the way, Yeah, loves it, loves. 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:10.760 My good morning Jason. If you are listening, thanks, he continued, support. 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:13.080 Appreciate that. Just go HEA's on the text. Thanks mate. 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:18.320 I did telling my time because he said, I listen 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:20.640 to you guys most mornings. So Jason, I don't care 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:23.480 if we're talking to the Prime minister. If your name 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:25.840 pops up on that phone screen, we're putting you on. 0:09:27.080 --> 0:09:27.840 Sorry, Anthony. 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:30.840 Jason nor Francis And also a quick question, do you 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:35.079 actually have his mobile number? Has he handed it over yet? 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:43.720 It was like, ah, we'll call you through the line 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:45.960 of that system, whatever it is. Do you trust me 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:49.160 with his number there? Anyway? 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:51.079 That's your post at Snooze News Joe's can you drop 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:53.240 the first question for the six fifteen vending machine quiz? 0:09:53.240 --> 0:09:55.800 Next, one more quick question. Do you have Delta's number? 0:09:55.920 --> 0:09:59.720 Absolutely not? They said, yeah, it starts with those three. 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:03.760 I couldn't find it football with her brother? What what 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:06.560 if I played football with trend? Why would I have 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:08.360 access to his sister's number? 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:09.720 Because you're not smooth enough. 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:10.400 That's why I. 0:10:10.320 --> 0:10:13.760 Thought, that's right. Yeah, Okay, I think I was. I 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:15.480 think I was competing with Brian McFadden. 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:15.719 Back. 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:18.800 I'm joyed with the home of freshets and throwbacks. 0:10:18.840 --> 0:10:19.880 Oh, there's no question about it. 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:20.400 You know that? 0:10:20.720 --> 0:10:23.240 What about this alarming study which kind of makes sense 0:10:23.559 --> 0:10:26.280 for the younger generations and probably makes sense for the 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:29.240 older generations as well. New research reveals most people are 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:33.600 afraid of being judged on their music taste. The data 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:36.080 collected by Spotify and Census Why I found that sixty 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:39.199 one percent of people say they're apprehensive about playing music 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:42.280 in front of their friends are whopping. Seventy seven percent 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:45.439 of gen z's are afraid of their mates judging their 0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:49.000 music choices, while only forty four percent of those ages 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:50.640 between thirty five and forty. 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:55.120 That's us take. I don't care about what their friends think. 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:57.640 Oh, this is ridiculous on it old, You're just like. 0:10:57.600 --> 0:10:59.800 I can't give a rats If I want to play 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:03.400 John Farnham's two Strong Hearts at that hot and singing 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:04.440 at the dome my lungs, I will. 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:08.120 And we're such an open, beautiful space here at Ovah 0:11:08.160 --> 0:11:11.920 by night. It's a judgment free for the most part. 0:11:12.720 --> 0:11:16.400 But for example, I mean Zoe your jen z I am. 0:11:16.600 --> 0:11:18.400 And you judge people on their music, I do. 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:22.520 Really aggressively, Okay, harshly, super great, so harsh if you 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:23.440 could you put them in jar. 0:11:24.040 --> 0:11:25.960 Would let me let me ask you this question. 0:11:26.040 --> 0:11:28.839 If you met a bloke and you found out that 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:31.760 he had musical taste that was questionable? 0:11:31.840 --> 0:11:33.120 Yes, that is that a nick? 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:35.400 That is the only situation in which is a nick. 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:37.440 Yes, I don't judge my friends music days. You guys 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:40.600 can listen to you John Farnham. That's all good now that. 0:11:41.240 --> 0:11:42.960 Especially now, don't you dare say you don't know who 0:11:43.040 --> 0:11:44.200 John Farner, I know who you don't. 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:47.160 Now that I'm back on dating apps, lots of people 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:48.439 will put their music taste on there. 0:11:48.520 --> 0:11:50.480 Yeah, it's an immediate green or red flag. I will 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:52.280 swipe yes or no, depending on their music taste. 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:55.440 Wow, okay, well let's just go around the room, shall we? 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:57.920 And why do we kick off with you? Your guilty 0:11:57.920 --> 0:11:58.480 pleasure song? 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:00.480 Your song? You're like, oh jeesus if I'm getting a 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:00.880 joked for this? 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:02.560 Yeah, this actually happened to me in the car. I 0:12:02.600 --> 0:12:04.880 just hit shuffle when this bad Bird came on. It's 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:06.400 a young MC buster move. 0:12:11.960 --> 0:12:12.960 No judgment here. 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:15.600 You got to think with this song suit me on 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:19.680 my MySpace page, producer Emily, what about you? 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:24.600 So mine's very embarrassing and for many years I would 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:26.400 never admit to it. And if it came on shuffle, 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:28.880 but oh what's this doing here? But now I've fully 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:32.040 embraced it. And it's the Queen Dolly parton and Kenny 0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:42.480 Rodgers islands in the stroke that wow, happen wrong? God, 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:44.280 Joe's loves it more than I do, you. 0:12:44.280 --> 0:12:48.959 Know, judgment from Jody quite the opposite, quite quite some appreciation. 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:51.200 I love that for you there, that's not a bad 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:54.199 juge Joe's. I'll take you through mine before we get 0:12:54.200 --> 0:12:56.439 to yours. All right, So look, I don't get to 0:12:56.480 --> 0:12:58.520 play this much at home. But if my MySpace was 0:12:58.559 --> 0:13:00.120 still going, then absolutely that's. 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:16.520 What our city every single every time we run this place. 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:22.400 And I don't think traditionally for what I kind of 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:24.760 an I'm supposed to like songs? 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:28.319 What does he say about fireflies? There's a line about fireflies. 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:31.400 I would like to make myself believe, And he sings 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:32.000 like that as well. 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:35.200 That's not traditionally, doesn't he sing about fireflies? 0:13:35.240 --> 0:13:35.839 It's the name of. 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:40.760 The song, So yes, they do speak about fireflers giving 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:42.280 out his subject. 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:43.720 What about yourself? Judge? 0:13:43.720 --> 0:13:46.200 What have you Got's a traditional chick anthem and I 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:48.319 it was sort of very uncool, but then it became 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:50.240 cool when it featured in Bridesmaids. 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:53.040 And it's a bit of Wilson Phillips, go on, is 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:53.439 it really? 0:13:55.400 --> 0:13:55.679 Come on? 0:13:55.760 --> 0:14:01.480 You know you're on this way in sud Someday somebody's 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:02.080 gonna make. 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:03.439 You want to turn around, say. 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:06.319 Tell then it? 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:08.960 Oh good? 0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:10.480 You know, don't you know? 0:14:11.000 --> 0:14:13.280 If you change is going away? 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:17.760 You just got a hold on for one more day? 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:22.000 What's going on here? 0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:22.360 No? 0:14:22.440 --> 0:14:27.920 I went back, We're back. Let's going on to you 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:32.240 one more day? Okay. So that's got so many spiritual connections. 0:14:32.280 --> 0:14:36.400 So many laugh lessons then really yeah. 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:37.480 So you can sustain or you can be comfortable with 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:39.320 the pain. It's up to you. 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:41.960 This is why Abby goes after you for your age. 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:44.880 This is very simple. 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:50.840 Twenty four ten your judgment free songs, give us a 0:14:50.880 --> 0:14:53.680 course sent us text I for double nine my nine. 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:55.960 There's no judgment here. We'll leave you a little bit 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:58.200 more of this. Go off, Jay. 0:15:00.480 --> 0:15:06.320 Pass you fine. 0:15:07.480 --> 0:15:09.920 Let's talk about relationships for just one moment. 0:15:10.000 --> 0:15:13.000 Can we have you ever looked at that old couple 0:15:13.040 --> 0:15:15.000 that are walking down the street and they're holding hands 0:15:15.040 --> 0:15:17.160 and they've been together for sixty years, and you go, 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:18.360 how'd you guys do it? 0:15:18.480 --> 0:15:18.680 Yeah? 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:21.840 And cheese. They've both got some stories to tell. 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:26.600 Yes, So a couple's therapist has noticed seven signs of 0:15:26.640 --> 0:15:30.080 couples who made it. So these are the qualities that 0:15:30.120 --> 0:15:33.440 got people to the other side of the marriage battleground, 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:36.360 if you will. So there's seven things here, and as 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:38.400 I say them, I want you to mentally tick them 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:40.600 off and see if that's what you're doing in your marriage. 0:15:40.640 --> 0:15:43.320 To Kara and play along at home. Please have a 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:45.080 think about oh, okay, do we do that or do 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:45.360 we not? 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:45.760 Do that. 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:52.360 And for the purposes of this exercise, I've brought in 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:55.040 producer Zoe, who's only in her twenties, but it's just 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:56.520 been through a relationship breakup. 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:57.200 So here's a. 0:15:57.120 --> 0:15:58.880 Few hints and tips for you. 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:02.160 To get through. I really appreciate. 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:03.360 It to be here, so soon tell me if it's 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:07.840 too So, well, we're here, all right. The first one 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:11.760 that the therapist noticed about these couples is that they 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:14.360 were friends and they genuinely enjoyed. 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:14.800 Each other's. 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:18.160 That's the most important. 0:16:18.160 --> 0:16:21.200 And they genuinely enjoyed each other's company, and they were 0:16:21.200 --> 0:16:23.600 excited to come home and hear about each other's day. 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:24.920 So that's the first one that I. 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:27.320 Had that so okay, we'll see where I lack. 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:31.080 They had difficult conversations. Well, you had a difficult conversation 0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:34.320 with you. It was like this is done. 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:35.200 No. 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:39.280 So they didn't cope by avoiding or denying that anything 0:16:39.360 --> 0:16:39.680 was wrong. 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:40.840 So they hit things head on. 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:43.840 Yeah, that's hard, and that's really hard for your stock 0:16:43.880 --> 0:16:46.840 standard bloke to wipen up and talk about what's exactly 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:48.640 on your feelings and you know you're at the jumpman 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:50.600 and say that's me to an absolute teap. My wife 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:52.120 will say as well, we said the other day. She'd 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:54.800 be like, I'll speak to you week after week. 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:56.000 Is what's going on? What's going on? 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:59.160 Noting nothing, nothing, And then one night, maybe after a 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:00.840 beer and a half of Belae, hey, I'm ready to 0:17:00.880 --> 0:17:01.280 talk for. 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:04.720 An hour and a half. Yeah, where did they come from? 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:07.879 And she's like, I want to watch the Real Housewives? 0:17:08.160 --> 0:17:08.960 She's Atlanta. 0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:10.640 I just want to watch the football. 0:17:10.720 --> 0:17:14.760 Yeah, this is a good one. They take the mickey out. 0:17:14.600 --> 0:17:17.600 Of each other, so you make light of each other's quirks. 0:17:17.640 --> 0:17:19.760 So you might get annoyed by them sometimes. And let's 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:21.520 be honest, when you first start out in a relationship, 0:17:21.560 --> 0:17:24.360 everything they do is cute. But after six seven years 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:27.120 it's like that is so annoying. But you can still 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:28.800 take the PI double five out of it, which is 0:17:28.840 --> 0:17:32.520 important as well. They let each other be themselves, so 0:17:32.560 --> 0:17:34.000 they didn't want to change the other person. 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:36.160 That's really important. 0:17:36.359 --> 0:17:39.639 Okay, yeah, absolutely, because if you go into a relationship, 0:17:39.720 --> 0:17:41.919 and this is from a guy who's searching an expert 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:44.240 in relationship, don't you just if you have a relationship 0:17:44.240 --> 0:17:46.800 thinking that there's an ideal person that your partner could 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:48.200 be and you think that you could mentually change them 0:17:48.200 --> 0:17:48.800 over time. 0:17:48.960 --> 0:17:51.440 You probably won't. Yeah, you probably won't be able to change. 0:17:51.440 --> 0:17:53.040 And you fell in love with that person because of 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:55.159