Speaker 1: Every day, Adelaide. Really it is so time for a
Speaker 1: let's go girl, I've got a hankering for a chick chat.
Speaker 2: Do you watch?
Speaker 3: And we are joined by newsreader Appy this Morning and
Speaker 3: also producer Zoe. Now I have a question for chick chat.
Speaker 3: Why is it always assumed that women will buy the
Speaker 3: presents in the family.
Speaker 4: Why?
Speaker 5: I'm not sure I'd be ticking that one, Andrew.
Speaker 3: And this question has arisen because the other night we
Speaker 3: were on the way to the bath Hotel to have
Speaker 3: dinner for my husband's brother's birthday, and in the car
Speaker 3: on the way he goes, He goes, you got Johnny present,
Speaker 3: didn't you? And I went, what, No, he is your brother,
Speaker 3: you be responsible and go and buy him a present.
Speaker 6: But also that you got a present, didn't you. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 6: it's your fault if you haven't. Totally It used me
Speaker 6: very much, I.
Speaker 2: Had said to him a week before.
Speaker 3: What are you getting John, I asked, I asked my
Speaker 3: sister in law, what would John like? I've done everything
Speaker 3: I can to facilitate it, but the actual job of
Speaker 3: going to buy a present, Why did that fall to me?
Speaker 1: Because no one gets so I checked with It is
Speaker 1: just in amongst all the girls. Is greg annoying us
Speaker 1: a little bit?
Speaker 3: But then he took it a step further and he goes, oh,
Speaker 3: I could just oh, you know what I could do?
Speaker 3: I could give him that voucher you got from the
Speaker 3: soft Hotel because we've got a night at the Soft
Speaker 3: Doel because I am c to function for and they
Speaker 3: gifted us an evening.
Speaker 2: He goes, I can just give him that.
Speaker 3: No, you can't, wouldn't That is my present for me
Speaker 3: for you and I.
Speaker 1: Okay, I need a chance to speak here, to represent
Speaker 1: all the male species.
Speaker 7: Go on.
Speaker 1: Then it comes from a beautiful place in our hearts,
Speaker 1: not because we're lazy, because we know that the ladies
Speaker 1: in our relationship again to do a better job of
Speaker 1: selecting the right gift.
Speaker 2: Why don't you just pile some more crap onto our plate?
Speaker 4: Wow?
Speaker 2: Can you?
Speaker 8: Well, I'll tell you what you do. Such a good job.
Speaker 1: I know that's in a way gas lighting. Do you
Speaker 1: want to give Do you want me to give you
Speaker 1: some examples?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: One time I got my beautiful wife and we've spoken
Speaker 1: about this before from Ned's who Instantley is in the
Speaker 1: shopping center near my house by the way, got too
Speaker 1: far out me a jewelry box, She car replied, I've
Speaker 1: never owned or wanted a jury box in my life.
Speaker 1: And I got that little necklace from Tiffany there on
Speaker 1: their own. She said, do you see me wearing anything
Speaker 1: else from Tiffany? I said no, I thought i'd surprised
Speaker 1: you'd make your debut. She said, there's a reason I
Speaker 1: don't wear anything Tiffy because I don't like it. I
Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know what I'm doing. No, I
Speaker 1: know that I don't know what we're doing.
Speaker 2: I know, but work it out.
Speaker 1: It's too hard to work.
Speaker 9: Do you know what happened to me?
Speaker 6: My ex boyfriend which he used to work away, and
Speaker 6: so he goes, Oh, your birthday's coming up. You go
Speaker 6: and pick what you want and I'll just put some
Speaker 6: money in your bank.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 9: And then I cracked it one night and I said, no,
Speaker 9: this is ball.
Speaker 6: The next birthday or the Christmas whatever it was, and
Speaker 6: I said, you need to go and you need to
Speaker 6: get me a present, and he did, and he did
Speaker 6: so badly that I stand next time, I just put
Speaker 6: my money in my account.
Speaker 8: Just been practical, practical.
Speaker 2: Do you know this is so?
Speaker 3: And we're and I blame us women as well, because
Speaker 3: we just do it because it's easier just to go
Speaker 3: and do it. When I split up from my first husband,
Speaker 3: I remember the Christmas after and the Christmas after that,
Speaker 3: I would still buy his family presents because I just
Speaker 3: knew that he wouldn't If I didn't do it, he
Speaker 3: wouldn't do it and they would get nothing.
Speaker 1: A bloody good job to it, didn't you thurteen twenty
Speaker 1: four ten.
Speaker 2: Let's do this?
Speaker 3: Who does all the present buying in your house? And
Speaker 3: how do you feel about it?
Speaker 9: Ladies?
Speaker 2: Responsibility falling to you?
Speaker 1: And the fella's thirteen twenty four ten. How much how
Speaker 1: stressful is it? Isn't there there, you poor thing?
Speaker 6: You're truly stressful at Christmas when Dad sits there with
Speaker 6: his coffee and the presence being opened.
Speaker 2: And all that, and oh, would you get a look
Speaker 2: at that?
Speaker 6: He's got no figure, no idea that mum got the
Speaker 6: PlayStation for the and can you answer this for me?
Speaker 10: I still have no answers for that question. Yeah, but
Speaker 10: I did get my son Marvel tickets for the weekend
Speaker 10: for Christmas. Yeah, my husband got the credit for it
Speaker 10: because he took him to the thing, and I got
Speaker 10: him like three rows backs, sent a stage amazing ticket,
Speaker 10: and my son came home goes Dad's.
Speaker 1: Amazing, best dad ever.
Speaker 10: And my husband just sits there with a massive smile
Speaker 10: on his face, like, yeah, yeah, this.
Speaker 2: Is the thing about you boys too.
Speaker 3: You're happy to take all the credit when things go
Speaker 3: well and you've done none of the hard work.
Speaker 8: I just sort of feel like it all comes back
Speaker 8: around again, doesn't it.
Speaker 3: But thank you so much, and good morning, good morning today.
Speaker 3: Yeah we're well thanks to your thoughts on this. I'm
Speaker 3: desperately keen to hear them.
Speaker 11: Oh you ready, Okay, So how do you'd understand this?
Speaker 1: You're what made the best decisions marrying you.
Speaker 12: Buy what marriage?
Speaker 13: Peat is always gould to make the best decision.
Speaker 14: To buy the right present, and when.
Speaker 15: She does, it's a team effort because we're a team.
Speaker 1: It's a marriage, That's what I'm talking about. And it
Speaker 1: all comes back around, and it all works itself out
Speaker 1: in beautiful.
Speaker 2: Ways, a good way.
Speaker 8: That's exactly what's going on.
Speaker 2: Let's go to tana.
Speaker 16: Hey, I'll my my own lawns if it means I
Speaker 16: don't have to buy the presence anymore. And I decided
Speaker 16: to dig in and I was like, nope, I'm not
Speaker 16: doing it anymore. A couple of years back, I'm like,
Speaker 16: I'm done.
Speaker 17: You want to buy.
Speaker 16: Present, you buy present. I'm sick of it. And you know,
Speaker 16: he got to the point where I was like, oh,
Speaker 16: just tell me what you want and I'll go get it.
Speaker 16: And he's like I don't know. And then it's the
Speaker 16: day and I was like, no, I'm done. So I
Speaker 16: was like, you are now in charge of presents. And
Speaker 16: then I felt really liberated until he outsmarted me and
Speaker 16: then just decided to give money.
Speaker 8: Yeah. Yeah, I still think that's what's So. How do
Speaker 8: you feeling now about situashan Tana? Do you regret anything?
Speaker 16: Well, you know what, I don't, because you know what
Speaker 16: I did to punish him. I was like, you you
Speaker 16: can write in the card.
Speaker 8: It's like I don't know how to write though.
Speaker 3: It's the other thing we always have to do is
Speaker 3: write in the cards.
Speaker 2: Like can't men do that either?
Speaker 8: She got better handwriting us.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's tough.
Speaker 2: I think you've learnt anything this morning.
Speaker 1: No, it's still a work in progress and we're still
Speaker 1: trying to work and out as we go.
Speaker 8: But here's the thing, Like.
Speaker 1: My wife will say to me, what do you want
Speaker 1: for Christmain, And I'll say I don't know.
Speaker 8: And then she'll get it right every single time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then I wont not to get her, so
Speaker 1: I'll do something like cut my ear off and give
Speaker 1: it to her in a little package.
Speaker 8: It just doesn't work, same as when Vincent did it
Speaker 8: back in the day.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just I think I genuinely think Tanna was
Speaker 3: right there. You need to practice, practice, practice, practice, and
Speaker 3: then just get better at it.
Speaker 8: Yeah, there's a message in all this. I'll get back
Speaker 8: to you. What a weekend it was.
Speaker 2: It was incredible live golf.
Speaker 3: Ninety four thousand people attended across the threat days and
Speaker 3: one man who was there yesterday was Peter melanowskis how
Speaker 3: Premierre welcome.
Speaker 13: Yes.
Speaker 2: I just said, you're a bit tired, and you're like,
Speaker 2: I'm good tired.
Speaker 18: It's just a big weekend, like the like you're just
Speaker 18: I mean, I've got a number of responsibilities I've got
Speaker 18: to do across the weekend, particularly talking to sponsors, and
Speaker 18: there are a lot of people who had come from
Speaker 18: into state who are significant business owners and industry leaders.
Speaker 18: And so by the end last night I was just
Speaker 18: starting to lose my voice, but honestly, it was it
Speaker 18: was just great to see the state come alive.
Speaker 12: And you know, the power of it.
Speaker 18: People talk about, you know, how full of the hotels
Speaker 18: and how many bums on seats on planes were there,
Speaker 18: and how busy restaurants were, and that's all important, that
Speaker 18: that does matter, and we can measure those things, but
Speaker 18: the power of it is having the eyes of the
Speaker 18: nation on us and actually people looking at South Australia
Speaker 18: in a different way. And that's that's what is really special,
Speaker 18: particularly at a time when you know, we've got a
Speaker 18: good story to tell economically, so we're grateful for that PROMI.
Speaker 1: How do you go with names everyone knows? You would
Speaker 1: have to know so many people's names, and I'm not
Speaker 1: talking about the one hundreds and thousands of people that
Speaker 1: know you. But also when you said if it's an
Speaker 1: important businessmen, you're trying to bring businesses South Australia, do
Speaker 1: you ever sort of slip up?
Speaker 12: Well, what happens is at the beginning of the day,
Speaker 12: I get.
Speaker 18: A list of you know, who's in the facilities and
Speaker 18: who I'm going to thank, so I get a bit of.
Speaker 12: A heads up, a bit of a heads up, or
Speaker 12: call it.
Speaker 1: A cheat sheet if you will.
Speaker 18: But no, look, you know, one of the one of
Speaker 18: the things that I enjoy about this job the most
Speaker 18: is I get to meet people in all different circumstances.
Speaker 18: You had to sort of really experience the extraordinary diversity
Speaker 18: of our state in fact like the country. And that's
Speaker 18: what really liked about yesterday because I try to walk
Speaker 18: around as much as I could, and there was just
Speaker 18: such a spread. You know, there was the heavy hitters
Speaker 18: paying god awful amounts of money to be there, and
Speaker 18: then but then you know, walking the course, there are
Speaker 18: a lot of young families. There, a lot of women,
Speaker 18: a lot more women and young people there yesterday, which
Speaker 18: I don't know if you saw that when you were
Speaker 18: walking around, but I thought, I thought, this is good.
Speaker 18: Is there's something for everybody, and that's important.
Speaker 1: You'd have to deal.
Speaker 8: With some very awkward social interactions.
Speaker 1: I knew you we don't know exactly what this particularly
Speaker 1: interaction entail yourself.
Speaker 3: And right now I'm embarrassed because I was going to
Speaker 3: tell this story not knowing that you were coming in this.
Speaker 3: I walked away from our conversation yesterday, and I don't
Speaker 3: know if you picked it up, but you said to
Speaker 3: me at the end, thank you so much for coming.
Speaker 3: And I said back to you, thank you so much
Speaker 3: for coming, and.
Speaker 2: Walked away my head. I'm like, what is wrong with me?
Speaker 1: So effectively you got your coffee and then the coffee
Speaker 1: person said enjoy coffee, and you said you too.
Speaker 12: I moved on pretty quickly.
Speaker 1: Don't worried.
Speaker 3: But I did run into your beautiful wife and a
Speaker 3: belle in the toilets when we're having a bit of
Speaker 3: a chat. And something nice for the premier to do
Speaker 3: yesterday was to take your parents along to say thank
Speaker 3: you so much for babysitting.
Speaker 12: Well that well, we're now like heated.
Speaker 18: They've been under the pump, both Annabelle's parents and my
Speaker 18: parents the last few months, to be honest, so it
Speaker 18: was nice to have them there.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a nice thing for you to do.
Speaker 8: Sleep you're very busy.
Speaker 18: It's been a really intense start of the year. But
Speaker 18: we've got a lot going on, like there's an awful
Speaker 18: amount of work. In fact, I'm down. After I leave here,
Speaker 18: we go down to Flinder's Medical Center and we've got
Speaker 18: a lot going on in that area at the moment,
Speaker 18: and that's I guess where all the focus is that
Speaker 18: in housing. They're the two things that occupy my mind
Speaker 18: the most. And we've got economically, I don't know if
Speaker 18: you guys saw it, but the Komworf Bank do this
Speaker 18: State of the State's report and for the second quarter
Speaker 18: in a row.
Speaker 1: We're number one.
Speaker 18: We've never had that position before ever in the history
Speaker 18: of the state. And so that's sort of humming along nicely.
Speaker 18: But our challenge is to make sure that if the
Speaker 18: economy is going well, how do we ensure that it
Speaker 18: isn't leaving people behind at the same time, and housing
Speaker 18: in that area is the thing that's really occupying our minds.
Speaker 18: And then there's challenges in health too, but we're trying
Speaker 18: to make as much progress.
Speaker 1: As we can.
Speaker 2: That's so above our pay grade, isn't it.
Speaker 3: Sorry, however, your thoughts on shoeies, because there were a
Speaker 3: lot of them.
Speaker 2: Yes, I do you understand?
Speaker 12: Do you get it?
Speaker 18: I don't get it, I don't look well. Power to them.
Speaker 18: I got offered a few no no, no, no no,
Speaker 18: And and then some people said, oh, Bob Hawk scaled
Speaker 18: a few beers and stuff.
Speaker 12: Wasn't.
Speaker 18: Yeah, sure he did that after he left politics. It
Speaker 18: wasn't while he was in politics. So no, Look, look,
Speaker 18: people are having a good time. If they think drinking
Speaker 18: beer out of a shoe is a good thing to
Speaker 18: do out of a double that that's that's their call.
Speaker 12: But but where did it start?
Speaker 3: Was just taking on a life of it?
Speaker 1: Riccardo made it famous hero, but I he started it
Speaker 1: was somewhere else.
Speaker 8: I don't want to know the history if you don't know, yesterday.
Speaker 18: The Shark did one and people went absolutely nuts for it.
Speaker 1: Well, obviously a premier. You've come from double A and
Speaker 1: now you downstairs and have some funds. What we're going
Speaker 1: to do is, I'm going to give him my delicious
Speaker 1: all my dreams. There's more of a sandal than a shoe.
Speaker 3: Then don't start us on the on the toe fungus either.
Speaker 3: Thank you so much for coming in. Touch just turns
Speaker 3: to gold at the moment.
Speaker 18: The state's in a good spot, but we've got a
Speaker 18: lot of work to do, so it's going to keep powering.
Speaker 8: Hey, finally as well, nervous for thirst and on a couple.
Speaker 12: Of bloody showdowns. The showdowns are just such hard work.
Speaker 12: Like you know, I was sort of two weeks ago.
Speaker 18: I was thinking this might be one where we can
Speaker 18: go and Port hopefully we'll be looking good. But some
Speaker 18: big outs Crows and I didn't see any of it,
Speaker 18: but everyone's telling me the Crows looked really good. And
Speaker 18: you know Port's got some big injuries. So and then
Speaker 18: and every time we know showdowns are close. So just
Speaker 18: you know, now have to go through all the angina
Speaker 18: of and the sweating it out across weak But you
Speaker 18: know there's something special about showdowns. The state loves it
Speaker 18: and hopefully people get to enjoy themselves.
Speaker 1: Beautiful.
Speaker 3: You're a busy man, Thanks Jings.
Speaker 1: You're waking up to Adelaide today.
Speaker 4: What's the news today?
Speaker 2: Snooziness breaking it down for everyone this morning? Is Abbey
Speaker 2: in the newsroom. What's been going on overnight?
Speaker 9: Good morning.
Speaker 6: So the PM has called our domestic and family violence
Speaker 6: situation across Australia and national crisis. Essentially, thousands of people,
Speaker 6: not just women, also men who stood in solidarity with women,
Speaker 6: walked and rallied across the weekend in Adelaide. Ours was
Speaker 6: on Saturday morning at eleven at Parliament House yesterday, there
Speaker 6: was one in Canberra.
Speaker 9: The Prime Minister was heckled there.
Speaker 6: He was asked by organizers to talk, but he was heckled,
Speaker 6: and he continues to say that we need to do more.
Speaker 6: So he's calling a national Cabinet meeting on Wednesday. But yeah, essentially,
Speaker 6: at the crux of it, thirty two women have already
Speaker 6: died by the hands of an intimate partner this year.
Speaker 6: We're in April. It's disgusting. The figures absolutely disgusting. So
Speaker 6: they're going to look at perpetrator research. They're going to
Speaker 6: look at also bail laws as well. But yeah, we're
Speaker 6: getting to the point now where something's got to be done.
Speaker 6: The amount of round tables we've had, the amount of
Speaker 6: discussions we've working, and it's not working.
Speaker 2: One woman every four days this year.
Speaker 6: Oh, it's just absolutely insane. So I actually implore everybody,
Speaker 6: whether you're a man or a woman, to listen to
Speaker 6: the Imperfect podcast. They actually did a brought out the
Speaker 6: men who do the podcast put out an episode last week.
Speaker 6: Oh really, all to do around male violence. It is
Speaker 6: one of the most It will stay with me forever.
Speaker 6: I listened to it last week and it's just one
Speaker 6: of those podcasts that you finish that you just go, Wow,
Speaker 6: everybody's got a responsibility to do something here about this.
Speaker 6: It's not just government, it's everybody. You haven't listened to
Speaker 6: the imperfect, so oh, you would really enjoy it amazing.
Speaker 6: I went through a bit of a rough patch last
Speaker 6: year and listening to that just made me realize that
Speaker 6: everybody out struggling, but everybody out there goes through some
Speaker 6: of some similar things and it really really helped me
Speaker 6: get through that period in my life.
Speaker 9: So I really implore everybody that have listened to it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's talk about Lift Golf, shall we for just
Speaker 3: a moment. We just touched on it before. What is
Speaker 3: it ninety four thousand people across the weekend r.
Speaker 1: Hate result, which is what an improvement about twenty thousands
Speaker 1: last year.
Speaker 3: It's just golf, but it's just golf on steroids. It's
Speaker 3: absolutely incredible.
Speaker 8: It's party golf.
Speaker 2: Yeah, party golf.
Speaker 1: I give you watching it on TV and you're like,
Speaker 1: you're watching these guys tee off and you can hear
Speaker 1: it absolutely going off in the background.
Speaker 8: A couple of holes over.
Speaker 3: Yeah, anywhere else were standing there At one stage We're
Speaker 3: on the watering hole and this was belting out and everyone,
Speaker 3: like five thousand strong crowd would have been around us,
Speaker 3: all just singing along.
Speaker 2: Was so much fun.
Speaker 1: Jeez, I wonder, I wonder if everyone was really seeing that.
Speaker 9: To the top of their line, Tommy ran on the microphone.
Speaker 2: This is the labor of his Yes, Tommy was to
Speaker 2: my right. He was having a very good time. Young
Speaker 2: Tommy can.
Speaker 8: Be very vocal in these situation. Yes, a young tom Wren.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but well done to Adelaide. I mean, we just
Speaker 3: prove it time and time again, don't we.
Speaker 2: We just show up.
Speaker 8: It's good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why we keep on getting these big events.
Speaker 1: First of all, the premiere gets the here.
Speaker 8: Keep them here, excellent.
Speaker 2: We're going to talk about it.
Speaker 3: Just before nine o'clock I had a really super awkward
Speaker 3: conversation with the premier.
Speaker 1: I bet you did, I bet you did, and I
Speaker 1: bet you won't the hearth might as well. How many
Speaker 1: people are for a few years under the building. Idea's
Speaker 1: a premier.
Speaker 8: I'm going to say something to say, something that's completely starting.
Speaker 2: I know. Yeah, I'll tell you about it just before
Speaker 2: nine this morning.
Speaker 3: But but goodness, say, Jodie, you know how we talk
Speaker 3: about when we say stupid things and we walk away
Speaker 3: and just shake our heads it ourselves.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that was me yesterday.
Speaker 1: Took to a new level with the premiere. And he's sharp.
Speaker 1: He will remember, I know, he remember everything news.
Speaker 3: I was very quickly going to say, remember that time
Speaker 3: he came in here though, and he said to us
Speaker 3: when he's leaving, hey, guys, if there's anything you can
Speaker 3: do for me, let me know.
Speaker 2: And you and I looked at each other and sure, sure, yeah,
Speaker 2: and then.
Speaker 3: He goes, Oh my god, did I just say if
Speaker 3: there's anything you can do for me?
Speaker 2: I met him?
Speaker 8: Wait, wait other way around?
Speaker 9: Switch that around anyway.
Speaker 2: I got one back yesterday, so I'll tell you all
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 1: Looking forward to that, Looking forward to Thursday night as well,
Speaker 1: show Down fifty five.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a couple of injuries at PORL though.
Speaker 1: Few injuries on both sides as well. Can you believe
Speaker 1: as well? Though it's twenty seven apiece, is it? It's
Speaker 1: even really twenty seven wins each heading in to Showdown
Speaker 1: fifty five?
Speaker 8: That's amazing.
Speaker 3: Correct me if I'm wrong on this, and I might be,
Speaker 3: But does it feel like the last couple of years
Speaker 3: when the Crow shouldn't have won.
Speaker 1: They have one hundred percent you bang on. So every
Speaker 1: time there's been a couple of times where Port's gone
Speaker 1: in as aggressive favorites and the Crows have found something. I
Speaker 1: always say, just sort of for whatever reasons, even's up slight.
Speaker 1: It's going to even up even more so with I
Speaker 1: don't reckon Rosie plays right, so he does have a
Speaker 1: hamstring injury in the saying it's minor. He might play,
Speaker 1: he might not. It's a short turn around as if
Speaker 1: you're going to risk Rosy, you're not going to risk
Speaker 1: Connor probably of course. Literally, it's definitely not playing Sampower.
Speaker 1: Pepper's not playing because Confirmation has done his acl and
Speaker 1: for the Crows, Luke Peddler's out as well his bungy shoulder. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so there's injuries across the board but for the Crows Locke,
Speaker 1: Murphy and Jordan. But it's played in the tubes and sample,
Speaker 1: so I'll probably come in. Yeah, I can't wait. Thursday Night,
Speaker 1: first time show piece Thursday Night as well, it's going
Speaker 1: to be huge.
Speaker 3: I love Thursday Night Footy because it feels like the
Speaker 3: weekend's coming early, doesn't it.
Speaker 1: Friday feels like the extension of the weekend.
Speaker 2: So true.
Speaker 1: All right, there you go, that's your posts snooze news.
Speaker 1: Shall we jump on in? It's hot, very high, but
Speaker 1: do you know it's getting really cold. I just want
Speaker 1: to stay here forever.
Speaker 2: What's happening?
Speaker 1: Unless you're one of those people who doesn't believe in
Speaker 1: showering daily, that's right. Experts say that daily shower has
Speaker 1: no proven health benefit, dismissing the dowsing as a socially
Speaker 1: accept the practice geared towards staving off accusations of funkiness.
Speaker 1: As a list like Jake Gillenhall and Millericurnis admit they've
Speaker 1: been saying no to the nozzle. I would I would
Speaker 1: die for Jack Gillenhall and Millericurnis. But I'm still showering unfortunately,
Speaker 1: even though they say don't do it. Miller Cernas said
Speaker 1: she only showers occasionally, and her husband, Ashton Kuscher, said
Speaker 1: he washes his armpits and crotch daily, but nothing else.
Speaker 1: Nice Ashton, fresh pits and bits. It's all about it.
Speaker 1: Come on, and everyone's jumping on board as well. In
Speaker 1: terms of some of the experts. Manhattan dermatologist doctor Julie
Speaker 1: Russak says that showers could strip ray the skin's microbiome,
Speaker 1: whatever the hell that is, which plays a role in
Speaker 1: protecting the skin and is also extremely important in overall
Speaker 1: health of the body. And a chemist by the name
Speaker 1: of David Whitlock oh Witzy he said he was so
Speaker 1: adamant about preserving his germal barrier that the bathing abstainer
Speaker 1: didn't shower for twelve years, instead adopting to spray himself
Speaker 1: with good bacteria that he claims neutralizes the body's smell
Speaker 1: mate chemicals.
Speaker 8: We can only.
Speaker 1: Assume that he means he's dousing himself and links Africa.
Speaker 2: I had an uber driver the other day. He smells.
Speaker 12: He smelled delicious, so bad.
Speaker 3: That when I got out of the Uber, I took
Speaker 3: his smell with me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good, terrific because it almost got into your soul. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we've all been in a situation like that where you
Speaker 1: like But also if you're the one who's smelling, you
Speaker 1: probably get used to it within ten to fifteen minutes
Speaker 1: and then you don't realize that you're smelling. Yeah, So
Speaker 1: I wonder if you've been showering or not showering for
Speaker 1: days and days. You're so used to your own ode
Speaker 1: that you think that there is no odor.
Speaker 8: Yeah, that's what's going on.
Speaker 2: How many times a day do you shower?
Speaker 1: I share it at least twice a day.
Speaker 12: Yeah.
Speaker 8: The first time in the morning, I shared, like four
Speaker 8: thirty in the morning.
Speaker 1: I get here nice and early to have a shower,
Speaker 1: And sometimes I just sit there and stare at the
Speaker 1: wall and the shower washes away my tears.
Speaker 8: It's fine, it's all it's all fluid.
Speaker 1: You know. That's me just firing myself up and shower
Speaker 1: four thirty in the morning.
Speaker 2: You shower it work, too, which is odd?
Speaker 8: Yeah? Absolutely, what's wrong with that?
Speaker 3: Do you ever walk, for example, from the shower to
Speaker 3: the office and just a towel?
Speaker 2: Do you do that before everyone gets hit?
Speaker 8: Absolutely?
Speaker 1: Sometimes I do. Like I've told you before, sometimes I'm
Speaker 1: wearing a towel and it's hanging and I'm not even
Speaker 1: using my hands.
Speaker 3: A joke.
Speaker 8: Not this again.
Speaker 1: Let's a smell good though, This is a and I
Speaker 1: in the home of squeaky fresh hits that shower daily.
Speaker 2: Now, that's a job.
Speaker 4: That's a joke.
Speaker 1: That's a job joke, a terrible job. We believe in
Speaker 1: humor as the best medicine for every situation.
Speaker 8: Got a cough?
Speaker 1: Here, here's a joke. We'll fix it exactly, stuff like that.
Speaker 3: Okay, who wants to go first? Mine's mine's a bit
Speaker 3: borderline too dirty?
Speaker 2: Okay, that's okay.
Speaker 1: Well we led fearlessly and so courageously in this space
Speaker 1: phone news reader, Abby, and good morning to you abs.
Speaker 8: Do you want to kick us off?
Speaker 9: Good morning?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 9: I never start, so I may as well.
Speaker 6: Right, mine's at the time, mine's very short, and mine's
Speaker 6: very blow and I'll.
Speaker 9: Probably be fine, so I don't care though.
Speaker 2: Whatever.
Speaker 6: Also directed, what sort you hazy? Okay, ready, what's the
Speaker 6: difference between pink and purple? What's the difference between pink
Speaker 6: and purple?
Speaker 3: Sure?
Speaker 1: The grip?
Speaker 9: Okay, do you get it?
Speaker 2: Do you get it?
Speaker 8: Definitely get it.
Speaker 1: What I don't get joke is why it's potentially directed
Speaker 1: to mate. Oh you got to go down this blue path?
Speaker 18: Do?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll go next. Here we go two guys walking
Speaker 1: down the street and they come upon a dog who
Speaker 1: is licking its own you know what, And one guy
Speaker 1: says to the other, I wish I could do that.
Speaker 1: The other guy replies well, I'd start by patent him first.
Speaker 1: A miscommunication in terms of intentions.
Speaker 8: And things like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes it happened, sometimes it done. You've got to
Speaker 1: be so careful, You've got to be so all right.
Speaker 2: I might as well bring this home.
Speaker 3: Then a brunette, a redhead, and a blonde were in
Speaker 3: the obstetricians waiting room to discuss their pregnancies. The brunette
Speaker 3: said she was certain she was going to have a
Speaker 3: boy because she was on top when she got pregnant.
Speaker 3: The redhead said she was certain she was going to
Speaker 3: have a girl because she was in the missionary position
Speaker 3: when she got pregnant. All of a sudden, the blonde
Speaker 3: burst into tears. Between sobs, the brunette and the redhead
Speaker 3: finally got it to tell them why she was so upset.
Speaker 2: She told them she believes she's going to have puppies.
Speaker 1: The best spine abs the best part about this story
Speaker 1: is that a.
Speaker 6: Lot today has been disgusting, and we need to go
Speaker 6: and rinse our mouth.
Speaker 1: There the back of your anniversary, I hate that helped
Speaker 1: you in launching your Monday Hazy. It's Jody and Hazy
Speaker 1: in with you as we welcome producers Zoe, who's here
Speaker 1: to tell us about one of her mentors, and that
Speaker 1: is Kim Kardashian.
Speaker 5: Perhaps, right, anything, Kim, I've got it, I've got it.
Speaker 19: She's my hero. But I can relate to her a
Speaker 19: little bit, and I think lots of people would be
Speaker 19: able to bear with me. She sounds precious, but there's
Speaker 19: a good reason. Anytime she ever gets a Starbucks coffee.
Speaker 19: For those who haven't been to Starbucks, they put a
Speaker 19: cardboard sleeve around your coffee cup.
Speaker 5: So you don't burn.
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, if you can pass it.
Speaker 19: Over to me, Yeah, it's got the cardboard around it
Speaker 19: so that you don't burn your hands.
Speaker 5: Kim will make her.
Speaker 19: Assistant whoever she's with, take the cardboard sleeve off for
Speaker 19: her before she will have a sip of her coffee.
Speaker 19: It's a bit precious, yes, And so that made headlines
Speaker 19: for all the wrong reasons because she sounds super devery.
Speaker 19: But the truth is she has a massive sensory issue
Speaker 19: and she cannot handle the feeling, the sound, the look
Speaker 19: all of it, of the cardboard coming off of the
Speaker 19: coffee cup.
Speaker 5: Said, yeah, it's true.
Speaker 19: I hate the feeling, like the sound, and whoever's with me,
Speaker 19: like has to do it while I'm not looking.
Speaker 5: I can't see it be done. I can't hear it,
Speaker 5: I can't feel it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, twang, So just the use of the word.
Speaker 5: Like yeah, like I can't like hear it or feel it.
Speaker 8: It's like it's like really annoying.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it is one.
Speaker 2: I'm silly and dumb.
Speaker 5: I just think it's like dumb.
Speaker 8: That's a genuine sensory issue.
Speaker 19: Yeah, and I think I actually don't think it's unreasonable.
Speaker 5: It is.
Speaker 19: She's She describes it as like nails on a chalkboard,
Speaker 19: the sound and feeling of the cardboard.
Speaker 5: Everyone's got some sensory.
Speaker 2: We're going into that for Kim.
Speaker 5: She's my hero.
Speaker 1: He would die for.
Speaker 5: I want to be her.
Speaker 8: Little sensory issues that tip you over the end.
Speaker 3: I think we've discussed it before. I think I've got
Speaker 3: misophonia with small sounds. You really irritate me. No, exactly
Speaker 3: the one you're thinking of. Yeah, there's there's a guy
Speaker 3: at my other workplace who aggressively blows his nose with
Speaker 3: alarming regularity, and it does my head in. Yeah, that
Speaker 3: would trigger I never said anything, though, I've just said it.
Speaker 8: On the show.
Speaker 2: Confronted him and said, mate, can you stop.
Speaker 19: Maybe it's time to tune in between seven seven twenty
Speaker 19: two on a Monday.
Speaker 1: And use this as therapy as well instead of waiting
Speaker 1: till Friday when you do Jody's diary.
Speaker 2: Do you have any weird ones?
Speaker 1: Yeah, thirteen twenty four ten. What's your sensory issue? I've
Speaker 1: got a couple. I reckon spoken about it before, even
Speaker 1: though I do it quite a lot at the cafe.
Speaker 1: And that is the sound of someone sipping their tea aggressively.
Speaker 1: That's my dad back in the day. You would just
Speaker 1: be sitting there watching TV at night and just all
Speaker 1: of a sudden and you'd like, oh, we get it, mate,
Speaker 1: we can really enjoying your tea. The other one, though,
Speaker 1: as well, is the sound of swallowing.
Speaker 12: Oh oh god, it like that.
Speaker 5: That was a quick succession of as well.
Speaker 2: Do any of us do that?
Speaker 5: Do we golp?
Speaker 1: No, not that I know of. I wouldn't tell you,
Speaker 1: but I know, yeah, i'd one name. Okay, because people
Speaker 1: that are allowed swallowers and it's not their fault, clearly,
Speaker 1: but just tip sure of it.
Speaker 8: It's an ASMR thing for me as well.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, Ateen twenty four ten, Get involved this morning.
Speaker 3: Do you have any weird sensory things that trigger you?
Speaker 19: I'm no judgment, no, no judgment. If Kim K's got them,
Speaker 19: you know, and she's the best of us.
Speaker 1: I mean, Kim Kay.
Speaker 2: We can all connect with can't we all relate to
Speaker 2: Kim K?
Speaker 1: Your sensory issues that tip you over the edge? We
Speaker 1: had a news reader Abbey because I feel like abs
Speaker 1: because I'm going to take a bit of a random
Speaker 1: shot here, feel like you might.
Speaker 2: Have a cuddle, Like everything annoys you.
Speaker 6: Well, I hate being touched, so yes it does. You
Speaker 6: let him kiss you on the forehead. Yeah, that's hazy.
Speaker 1: So it's minimal too.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like he's got to stand five feet away and
Speaker 6: just a quick on the forehead. We hug sometimes sometimes
Speaker 6: we hug. I have missophonia as well. I really struggle
Speaker 6: if I'm on the phone and someone's doing something else,
Speaker 6: I like cooking or whatever. You running the other day
Speaker 6: when you called me you were walking, I was about
Speaker 6: to kill you, but I might just suck it up
Speaker 6: and don't say anything.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I've got that.
Speaker 6: And then also when I get into bed, I do
Speaker 6: the weird foot thing down the bottom of the bed
Speaker 6: like it's got it the sheet. If the sheets aren't
Speaker 6: nice and flat, I've got to get up and remake
Speaker 6: the end of my bed because the sheets have to
Speaker 6: be nice and flat for my feet to feel nice.
Speaker 8: It's weird. Wow, really weird.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I know. Yeah, probably explains why I'm single.
Speaker 2: No, I'm can't think of a few other reasons.
Speaker 3: All right, we're taking your calls this morning on thirteen
Speaker 3: twenty four ten.
Speaker 2: You're weird. Sensory issues that tip you over the edge.
Speaker 2: Let's go to Tash. Good morning.
Speaker 14: As we were growing up, our dad would always wake
Speaker 14: up and have a cup of tea in the morning.
Speaker 16: He would swirl his spoon around at.
Speaker 14: Length ten times and then tap it three times.
Speaker 2: On the edge of the mug, just to.
Speaker 15: Wake up up.
Speaker 3: Like that. I can relate to this, Tash. My mum
Speaker 3: Colleen does it as well. She'll make a cup of
Speaker 3: coffee first thing in the morning. And it's just the
Speaker 3: excessive stirring, isn't it.
Speaker 11: It would drive us, especially if we'd had a big
Speaker 11: night the night before.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you just wanna have a little, nice, little sleeping
Speaker 3: and all you can hear is tapping.
Speaker 8: Dingding, things.
Speaker 1: That's clearly just part of the therapeutic process of making
Speaker 1: your teeth.
Speaker 8: I think it is going through the process.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Steph, good morning. Weird sensory issues hit us.
Speaker 11: I cannot listen to people brushing that feet. Just the
Speaker 11: sound of it is horrible.
Speaker 8: Were we talking stuff?
Speaker 1: We're talking old school with the brush or an electric
Speaker 1: toothbrush as well, either of them.
Speaker 11: The sound of it is horrible. I can't even listen
Speaker 11: to myself. I have to do it in the shower,
Speaker 11: so I can't hear it.
Speaker 8: Just I just wonder what sort of condition your teeth
Speaker 8: are in.
Speaker 13: No, I have no.
Speaker 11: Feelings, no nothing. I brush them twice a day all.
Speaker 2: Had you got the dentist. I'm going for a cleaner
Speaker 2: the dentist today. Can you cope with that?
Speaker 11: I put headphones in.
Speaker 2: Put headphones in. That's amazing.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 2: Good morning, Emma, good morning.
Speaker 15: How are you both?
Speaker 3: Good?
Speaker 5: Good?
Speaker 2: What tips you over the edge?
Speaker 7: Cotton buds?
Speaker 8: Cotton ball?
Speaker 1: Sorry, cotton balls just a texture.
Speaker 15: Oh, it's gross, It's like cornflower.
Speaker 3: It's the weird.
Speaker 15: Mum used to have a jar when we were kids,
Speaker 15: and you know, we would use it for like makeup removing,
Speaker 15: sort of stuff. Oh no, even the thought of it now,
Speaker 15: it's just gross. It just does something to you.
Speaker 1: Okay, no, yeah, everyone's got everyone's got their own little perks.
Speaker 3: Let's keep going with this. I reckon, they're doing twenty
Speaker 3: four ten therapeutic. I think it's good for people with
Speaker 3: cotton balls jeez.
Speaker 1: And just want to get off their chest. Didn't know
Speaker 1: it was a thing. Turns out it's very much a thing.
Speaker 1: Thirteen twenty four to ten is sensory issues. Off the
Speaker 1: back of Kim Kardashi and her little issue with coffee
Speaker 1: cups and those little bits of cardboard they go around.
Speaker 8: Let's just get it off her chest.
Speaker 2: Come on, guys, let's go to Melanie.
Speaker 10: Is it mel people cracking k.
Speaker 17: Yes?
Speaker 3: Do you find there are some people that just do
Speaker 3: it all the time?
Speaker 7: Yes, theories and my head flicks around, you know that
Speaker 7: that just you just get that sudden flick and I
Speaker 7: just glare fit goes up with punch you.
Speaker 8: Your presence are cracking the knucklies.
Speaker 1: And then there's a study I reckon maybe a year
Speaker 1: or so that came out that said, actually, cracking knuckles
Speaker 1: isn't doesn't give you arthritis. It's not that bad.
Speaker 13: For you.
Speaker 1: So for poor people like Melanie, we're like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: there's not even health side effects to it anymore.
Speaker 2: No, do you crack your knuckles?
Speaker 8: It feels weird. Yeah, you know people pull their fingers
Speaker 8: and crack.
Speaker 2: Yes, oh.
Speaker 8: Yeah, just the cut of my finger.
Speaker 2: Good morning, Cassie, Good morning guy.
Speaker 11: Why can't marshmallows.
Speaker 10: Really chalk on a chalk for it?
Speaker 14: I can't touch them.
Speaker 2: They are a little bit powdery, aren't they.
Speaker 16: Yeah, getting the it just thinking about it.
Speaker 2: But what a sad little hot chocolate you must have.
Speaker 17: Still I still have some.
Speaker 14: I still have the marshmallow. I just like maneuver it
Speaker 14: in without touching the marshmellow.
Speaker 1: Really okay, so how do you How do you do that?
Speaker 1: By the way, you've got to use with a knife
Speaker 1: and fork for something.
Speaker 16: No, I just like because I usually get them a
Speaker 16: takeaway cups.
Speaker 14: I just like take the cup, like the lid off,
Speaker 14: and I just like pour it in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, got put the lid back on, right, marshmallow hate us?
Speaker 8: You got marshmallows.
Speaker 1: Sure they probably need to go to the gym and
Speaker 1: tighten up just a little bit, but they're doing their best.
Speaker 2: So watch your weird sensor reissue.
Speaker 7: So good morning. I can't touch wood Oh do you
Speaker 7: know do you know.
Speaker 15: How difficult it is to find a rolling pin?
Speaker 2: That's right?
Speaker 13: You know?
Speaker 15: Do you want to know where?
Speaker 10: I actually found one where New.
Speaker 8: Zealand progressive the Geways. So what happens? What do you feel?
Speaker 8: Do you get? What sort of sensations do you get?
Speaker 15: So it's a real I can only describe as an ink.
Speaker 7: But it's just I can't touch it. I just it's
Speaker 7: it just goes through my whole body when I just
Speaker 7: it wouldn't spoon anything, cannot.
Speaker 4: Do it terrribly, isn't it?
Speaker 1: That's producers. I was telling us well that she's got
Speaker 1: a very close friend by the name of Tulula who's
Speaker 1: got the exact same thing.
Speaker 8: Can't touch a wood rolling Is that a thing?
Speaker 2: The wooden rolling pin?
Speaker 8: So do you know other people that have this phobia?
Speaker 15: No, my husband just thinks I'm weird.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she should start a group though, So I do have.
Speaker 15: I do have one other one?
Speaker 8: Yeah, eating eating.
Speaker 7: Loud beats when they're chewing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you chew your mouth open. It just sends
Speaker 1: people into an absolute different stratosphere.
Speaker 2: One of my kids does that. I lose my mind.
Speaker 8: And hell's this particular kid, she's eleven, grow up seriously,
Speaker 8: for goodness sake, shut your mouth.
Speaker 2: How many times you'll have to tell you eat with
Speaker 2: your mouth shut?
Speaker 8: Eat with your mouth shut. There you go. It's quite therapeutic,
Speaker 8: wasn't it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good.
Speaker 1: Oh, those little sensory issues that we have. Oh good,
Speaker 1: that's get a bit of the black eyed peas. Sorry,
Speaker 1: catching up with a couple of people who we may
Speaker 1: not be friends with now, because like the cornerstone of
Speaker 1: a good friendship is knowing the other person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it, I get it.
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. Let's bring them in now they are
Speaker 3: from the cheek seats. It is Mel and Tim. Good morning.
Speaker 3: I've made the same mistake, so I still make that
Speaker 3: same mistake, So don't worry about it.
Speaker 8: And it's call him Tom, you don't.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Hey, Hazy, Hey Karen, love it to speak to you.
Speaker 8: I'd rather tell them than guarantee.
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness. Now I do have a bone to
Speaker 3: pick with you two. Actually, so now we're even that
Speaker 3: I've called you the wrong name. So sometimes when I'm
Speaker 3: working at Channel ten, just in the newsroom, we go
Speaker 3: and do silly stories about cows and you just have
Speaker 3: a chat to the cow and you think this won't
Speaker 3: go anywhere, this is just me being an idiot. And
Speaker 3: then next minute you get all these text messages from
Speaker 3: people saying, oh my god, you've made the promo of
Speaker 3: the cheap, cheap seats.
Speaker 4: That's two mistakes, Jody. Maybe that's why they send you
Speaker 4: on the cow stories, because the big news stories they
Speaker 4: can't real good. Just on that. I think we've got
Speaker 4: that grab it before we do there. There are obviously
Speaker 4: some great historic television interviews over the time. You think
Speaker 4: Frost Nixon, you think the Diana interviews with Martin Basher,
Speaker 4: and then you get Jody chatting to a cow.
Speaker 2: Do you plan on pooing on anyone? Today's job?
Speaker 4: Wonderful insights.
Speaker 19: I feel honored to be added to the illustrious list
Speaker 19: of your interviewees.
Speaker 2: Yes, you have talked to a cow and.
Speaker 19: This is huge.
Speaker 3: Oh listen, I do love you too. You do such
Speaker 3: magnificent work on this show. How did you first work
Speaker 3: out that you have this beautiful chemistry together where you
Speaker 3: can just bounce off each other.
Speaker 5: We're still trying to work that out.
Speaker 4: Actually, can I answer now, Mel sorry literally literally, we
Speaker 4: were just put together. We've done a few have you
Speaker 4: been paying attention episodes together and I don't know if
Speaker 4: you've seen that show. You know you've got the likes
Speaker 4: of Sampang Kitty flanagain Marty, she go, oh, they're fantastic.
Speaker 4: They're all about seventy five years old. I think we
Speaker 4: just bonded over our youth. And then Channel ten came
Speaker 4: to us and said, you know, we've run out of ncies.
Speaker 4: Would you guys like to get together and do a show?
Speaker 4: And fortunately, I.
Speaker 9: Said you can talk to My agent said please please.
Speaker 4: So it's like you guys, you know, you know occasionally
Speaker 4: in the media you don't like each other, but you
Speaker 4: do have to work together, and I tend to pull
Speaker 4: it off pretty well.
Speaker 1: Speaking of that's timid. The media can be very very
Speaker 1: tricky in terms of relationships, et cetera. Are you at
Speaker 1: the stage now where people are aggressively tipping you off
Speaker 1: and maybe some media people are trying to throw other
Speaker 1: people under the bus by giving you guys content.
Speaker 4: Well, Jodie, I don't know if you can answer this,
Speaker 4: but we've become aware that since the show's started, journals
Speaker 4: will sometimes do it story and then they'll send the
Speaker 4: what's that message saying, I hope this gets me on
Speaker 4: the cheap seats.
Speaker 9: Get that sometimes this doesn't get me on the cheap seats.
Speaker 14: Nothing.
Speaker 9: Well, they'll be like ab sailing down a building or something.
Speaker 4: Or talking to a cow about its digestion? Is are
Speaker 4: you aware of it? Is that? Does that happen in
Speaker 4: the newsroom.
Speaker 3: There are certain people in the newsroom who would most
Speaker 3: definitely do things on purpose to try and get in
Speaker 3: the cheap seats. I, however, am not one of them.
Speaker 3: Whenever I hear I've ended up on the cheap seats,
Speaker 3: I go, oh, for the love of Christ, what have
Speaker 3: I done? Now?
Speaker 4: Often we go to awards nights and you'll see someone
Speaker 4: that we've mentioned on the show, and it's a real
Speaker 4: either they're happy to see us or that an active
Speaker 4: restraining order. Again, it's a real weird mix. Yeah, when
Speaker 4: they're always I've actually just got to go to the bathroom,
Speaker 4: You're like, okay, all right, not a fan.
Speaker 3: Guys, Well, no, I genuinely am a big fan of
Speaker 3: your show.
Speaker 2: I love your work. And it returns this week, doesn't it?
Speaker 2: Eight forty on Channel ten and ten play.
Speaker 8: Yes, guys, thank you so much for having chat with us.
Speaker 4: Thank you. We'll be watching Jody you on Keen and
Speaker 4: Hazy on seven. We love watching Adelaide and News. So
Speaker 4: you can give us some stuff. If there's some more cows.
Speaker 12: Out there, Yeah, that'd be really handy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks guys, have no problem, Joe.
Speaker 1: It's a very interesting headline in the advertiser today reads
Speaker 1: should kids be given mental health days of school?
Speaker 2: Okay, it's an interesting one.
Speaker 3: They're saying when a young person is diagnosed with a
Speaker 3: mental health condition, of professional suggests that they might need
Speaker 3: a day or two of school.
Speaker 8: What are your thoughts?
Speaker 1: I this is a new age, and this is somewhere
Speaker 1: where I've been split in two different generations. So the
Speaker 1: first generation is without actually knowing about it. It is
Speaker 1: particularly for young blokes hide your feelings at all costs. Yes,
Speaker 1: under every single circumstance. And I grew up on the farm,
Speaker 1: and not because my dad used to do it, but
Speaker 1: I think he just sort of naturally used to think.
Speaker 1: That's probably what you do versus now and ten to
Speaker 1: fifteen years later. It's all about speaking about what is
Speaker 1: going on, because if you don't and you let it
Speaker 1: absolutely ball up. Then bad things can happen, and it
Speaker 1: has happened. I've lost two friends to suicide, so it's
Speaker 1: a genuine split generation. I just want my son to
Speaker 1: be able to he's six years old. I want him
Speaker 1: to be able to tell me exactly what's going on
Speaker 1: inside his head and not feel like he has to
Speaker 1: hold on to absolutely everything, because that would be the
Speaker 1: difference between my generation and his generation. And who knows
Speaker 1: he could save all sorts of things.
Speaker 3: Well, you were saying, he already is showing signs of
Speaker 3: being a bit insulo when things are going on.
Speaker 1: Yes, so we know, and my wife knows more than maybe,
Speaker 1: because she's so unbelievably intuitive of those sort of things.
Speaker 1: She knows when the stuff going on. And also the
Speaker 1: fact when we hear from the teachers and everything's good,
Speaker 1: and it comes home and sort of maybe acts out
Speaker 1: a little bit. But then even I can pick it
Speaker 1: up when I pick it up from school and I
Speaker 1: get flashbacks when I was a kid.
Speaker 8: How school good? We're enough to not much? What was
Speaker 8: your favorite part?
Speaker 13: Oh?
Speaker 1: Nothing?
Speaker 8: Just the one word answers, yeah.
Speaker 1: Versus you just hope that your kids coming through and
Speaker 1: get to a space where they can speak about what's
Speaker 1: on them on plus a little bit more.
Speaker 2: I think this is a really good idea. I was
Speaker 2: for a little while.
Speaker 3: They're taking each of my kids out individually, just for
Speaker 3: a mummy daughter day. Yeah, just so you have that
Speaker 3: one on one time without the other kids around, and
Speaker 3: you can really get to know what's going on. And
Speaker 3: they loved it, and I found that really beneficial. I
Speaker 3: would like it if my kids could turn around and say, Mum,
Speaker 3: I just I'm overwhelmed at the moment for whatever reason,
Speaker 3: and I just need a day off. Because I remember
Speaker 3: feeling that way in high school. Did you Sometimes it
Speaker 3: was just the workload and it was just you know,
Speaker 3: things mightn't be going well with your friends, and you
Speaker 3: just wanted a day at home to sleep.
Speaker 2: And I don't think that's a bad idea.
Speaker 3: And I think teaching our kids to preserve their mental
Speaker 3: health is a wonderful thing to teach them. However, it
Speaker 3: could get a little bit tricky when they turn that
Speaker 3: around and take the PI double five. That's miss I
Speaker 3: need a mental health day, well do you? Or you
Speaker 3: just don't want to go to school today.
Speaker 1: So, and I think we very much agree on this,
Speaker 1: and we don't want to sound like hard us is,
Speaker 1: but the difference between mental health and potentially having a
Speaker 1: bad day, Yes, there is a difference, a big difference
Speaker 1: between feeling bad about things because they're not going away
Speaker 1: versus genuinely having depression.
Speaker 3: The article makes a good point. Ask them regularly how
Speaker 3: they feel on a ten point scale. So how do
Speaker 3: you feel today?
Speaker 2: Out of ten?
Speaker 3: If you notice a pattern of them being like five
Speaker 3: four four four, then obviously it's becoming a developing issue.
Speaker 2: That's a good way to monitor it.
Speaker 8: We should start that here every morning. How are you feeling?
Speaker 2: Can you feel out of ten? Because sometimes I walk
Speaker 2: in in your face.
Speaker 1: Because I've pressed the button and now something really bad happening.
Speaker 3: You feel like the whole network's gone down because you
Speaker 3: press the wrong button.
Speaker 9: Should we start this today? Are you feeling hazy?
Speaker 1: I'm feeling a nine, nine and a half. I'd say
Speaker 1: almost close to ten because that's a very easy weekend.
Speaker 9: Hey, feeling joy it?
Speaker 2: I'm about I'd say solid eight and a half.
Speaker 8: Where are you?
Speaker 9: I'll go with the six, will take that.
Speaker 3: Thirteen twenty four to ten. We're taking your calls on
Speaker 3: this one. Stacey does this a good idea.
Speaker 10: Absolutely.
Speaker 14: I've done it with my own kids before, so I'm
Speaker 14: all and I think as adults, if we struggle with
Speaker 14: our own mental health or anxiety or pressures of work,
Speaker 14: and we have time off just for our own mental health,
Speaker 14: way not our children.
Speaker 2: So you're sorry you I was gonna say.
Speaker 14: I think kids these days, and particularly teenagers, have so
Speaker 14: much more pressure than what we did as kids and teenagers.
Speaker 2: Well it's a social media pressure.
Speaker 14: Absolutely, and you know the school and friendships and everything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, beautiful for it, Thanks Stacy, Thank you so much. Maria.
Speaker 13: Have good idea, Yeah, great, great idea, with maybe one
Speaker 13: little tiny clause, and that would be as long as
Speaker 13: the child, teenager or younger is not left to be
Speaker 13: on the device all day, because I think that then
Speaker 13: becomes sort of it just takes away any positive effects
Speaker 13: of having a mental health day. They can be outside
Speaker 13: or doing something chering.
Speaker 17: Or hanging out with a parent. I think that is
Speaker 17: the ideal. But if it's just a matter of understander,
Speaker 17: sit on my device and scroll for however many hours,
Speaker 17: I think that defeats the purpose entirely.
Speaker 2: And I guess too.
Speaker 3: Marie makes such a great point, but then does that
Speaker 3: Is that a flow on for parents in the workplace too.
Speaker 3: Can you go to your workplace and say, I've got
Speaker 3: to spend the day with my child because they're having
Speaker 3: a mental health day?
Speaker 2: Where does that all see it?
Speaker 1: Look?
Speaker 13: I don't know.
Speaker 17: I don't have the answer to that, but I know
Speaker 17: that the whole thing of I guess it's convenient and
Speaker 17: I get that, and kids want it. I get that
Speaker 17: as well. But in the work that I do, I
Speaker 17: see it, and it's just is it just defeats the purpose.
Speaker 17: So unless we can come up with a plan, and
Speaker 17: maybe it has to be a plan thing that you
Speaker 17: can take a care is leave day or something, and
Speaker 17: I mean it does make it.
Speaker 1: I guess you.
Speaker 17: Actually more organized and more It's going to take more effort,
Speaker 17: but just do that's necessarily the whole day. But maybe
Speaker 17: you know that you're actually spending time with that child
Speaker 17: to support them and to find out, like you said,
Speaker 17: what's going on. And maybe that won't happen like in
Speaker 17: the first hour of you hanging out. Maybe they need
Speaker 17: their own time. But gradually, yea, they will be able
Speaker 17: to share perhaps more about what's going on in their lives.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Mary, very well said. You could probably say
Speaker 1: that it'll be in the same category. It's quite obviously
Speaker 1: common if you leave work to go home for the child,
Speaker 1: so it could almost be blanked in the same category.
Speaker 8: I think, oh, there go