Speaker 1: Take seventy coffee, settle into your seat. Good Jody and
Speaker 1: Hazy Matalie's favorite way to waken.
Speaker 2: Good morning, and like, welcome to your Wednesday morning.
Speaker 3: An eventful day for you yesterday, Andrew hate this.
Speaker 4: I'd love to hear from it if you've been involved
Speaker 4: in this situation on this thurday and twenty fourteen. So
Speaker 4: I was at Sir George's Bakery in North Adler. We've
Speaker 4: been there a couple of.
Speaker 3: Times, but you're there on the regular Futo regular actually,
Speaker 3: and I hope your wife car isn't listening this morning.
Speaker 4: Because I was doing something behind my wist back.
Speaker 2: You're partial, shall.
Speaker 4: Go against everything that we're trying to work on in
Speaker 4: our marriage right now.
Speaker 3: You're partial to a bacon a neg roles. The problem
Speaker 3: is you're on a budget, okay, and the budget doesn't
Speaker 3: allow for a baking neg role a day.
Speaker 5: No, And so.
Speaker 2: Yet we find ourselves in this space where you're at
Speaker 2: the St. George's Bakery. Once again.
Speaker 4: I keep on finding ways to reward myself. Oh I
Speaker 4: deserve this, I deserve this.
Speaker 2: What was the reward for yesterday Tuesday?
Speaker 4: Just get it through.
Speaker 3: So that's a great question, Andrew, need a treat.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yes, I was a big day. To be fair,
Speaker 6: it was very emotional. Yeah, there was a lot going on.
Speaker 6: I was exhausted yesterday.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a big day. I was sitting on
Speaker 4: the street and I was just having a coffee and
Speaker 4: I was parked. I've got the price park right in front.
Speaker 2: We called that.
Speaker 4: I don't never get it anyway, I'm not ageist, Jodes not.
Speaker 4: But a little old lady was parked in front of me,
Speaker 4: and she reversed out and absolutely smacked the hell out
Speaker 4: of my car. Goot some audio from it, so much
Speaker 4: so that she really did some damage on the back
Speaker 4: of her car.
Speaker 2: What was she driving?
Speaker 4: She was driving like this sort of old Toyota, sort
Speaker 4: of sort of half station wag.
Speaker 3: And sub things made out of one hundred percent Malaysian
Speaker 3: plus tent.
Speaker 4: And then she's sort of half pulled up and as
Speaker 4: I walked over to to get details, she just sped off.
Speaker 4: She just have it off.
Speaker 2: So you are the victim of a hit and run?
Speaker 4: What's the victim of a hidden run? And I got
Speaker 4: her a numberplate details. I couldn't find any damage on
Speaker 4: my car though, which is actually quite phenomenal, but her car.
Speaker 4: Was she she sprinted off? Drove off? I reckon like
Speaker 4: her tail gate was like hanging on the ground like
Speaker 4: sparks and.
Speaker 3: Just about okay, just a quick question. He's surprised that
Speaker 3: there was no damage to his car. Can you tell
Speaker 3: everyone what you drive? It's a dirty, big one of
Speaker 3: those American truck things range.
Speaker 7: Have a look at me.
Speaker 4: It's not it's a full range. In fact, statistically it's
Speaker 4: actually the most purchased car in Australia.
Speaker 3: It's compensation und that you must have a very small
Speaker 3: you know what.
Speaker 4: No, I need something that big to carry it around
Speaker 4: accord me.
Speaker 6: So there.
Speaker 4: I don't know what to do. I'm not sure if
Speaker 4: I'm supposed to call the authorities, but my cars find it.
Speaker 2: Do you think maybe did she know? Maybe she knows
Speaker 2: she knew.
Speaker 4: Because when she saw walking over she was off. She
Speaker 4: wonped off.
Speaker 7: Wow, I love old people. Good on it.
Speaker 4: That's someone's crazy, nana, right, I love.
Speaker 3: An eighty year old that it has no morals despite
Speaker 3: the fact she's lived on this planet for a very
Speaker 3: long time.
Speaker 2: She's like, nah, I don't care one d That's what
Speaker 2: she did.
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Speaker 4: All right, that's all coming up now, Joe's Can we
Speaker 4: pivot in a bit of a different direction because it's
Speaker 4: been quite the mixed couple of days. Yes, we want
Speaker 4: to rehash and what you did yesterday, which was extremely
Speaker 4: brave and that was open up on your journey when
Speaker 4: it comes to depression and mental health. Yes, morning.
Speaker 1: The following segment is the mature audiences only and may
Speaker 1: contain how all content, graphic language and nudity, not that
Speaker 1: you'll see it if easily offended, well you're about to
Speaker 1: find out just how easily your father.
Speaker 8: He's only money, Jody and hazes sex.
Speaker 5: Nothing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is the time of the morning where we
Speaker 4: are a little wood, a little bit risque. We're going
Speaker 4: straighten after seven o'clock. Don't you worry about it. But
Speaker 4: this sort of stuff, let's just get it out out
Speaker 4: of the system, shall Well. Did you know across the globe,
Speaker 4: particularly Generation Zas, there's a sex shortage, mean a genuine
Speaker 4: sex shortage. Gen Zetters are having less sex than previous
Speaker 4: generations coming through. Really, that's true. Okay, there's one country though,
Speaker 4: it's fucking the trend all right. Can you'd guess?
Speaker 2: I don't know who would be having a lot of
Speaker 2: sex in the UK.
Speaker 4: Lady, any ball teeth and it's the French French women.
Speaker 4: Here's some stats for you, Jones yep. Increased number of
Speaker 4: sexual partners among women aged twenty five to twenty nine
Speaker 4: twenty nine four to having sex with at least ten
Speaker 4: different partners, a notable rise from eight percent in two thousand.
Speaker 3: Way War War War whar walk so women age between
Speaker 3: twenty five and twenty nine saying they've had ten different
Speaker 3: partners in their lifetime.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll pick up the pace, ladies.
Speaker 4: No to go, you're bucking the trend, but you're not
Speaker 4: a gen Zetta. No, I know when you set the
Speaker 4: standard all those years ago and the ancestors didn't follow.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Right, Also, what about this?
Speaker 3: They're sexual orientation ten percent identifies bisexual in France, five
Speaker 3: percent and sexual, two percent of lesbian, and two percent
Speaker 3: are asexual. I'd argue against that two percent of lesbian.
Speaker 3: There's got to be more than that. Thirty think, yes,
Speaker 3: I mean most women after four wines just they're a
Speaker 3: little bit, a little bit curious.
Speaker 4: I think, can we just sort of merge off into
Speaker 4: a different direction? Can we please pivot?
Speaker 2: Okay, go on? Yeah, really, yeah, I don't.
Speaker 4: Think it's a I don't think it's the thing for fellas.
Speaker 2: You don't reckon.
Speaker 3: I think I think because well, to be honest, women
Speaker 3: are more attractive than men.
Speaker 4: I think, yeah, that's true. Women smell better.
Speaker 3: Yeah, women are nicer, Women have softer lips, all those things.
Speaker 3: You know, women have nicer bodies. Women don't have that
Speaker 3: dangly bit.
Speaker 4: Between their lisp that very active.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 4: We actually were within this team we're trying to organize
Speaker 4: a wine tour. Yeah okay, so yeah we are so produces. Yeah,
Speaker 4: if we're going the wine to it, can we just
Speaker 4: keep an eye producing Molly and Jody as well. So
Speaker 4: anyone as a single young bloke. And if you're organizing
Speaker 4: trip right now, may you have a look. And going
Speaker 4: over to France.
Speaker 3: I don't know who's to say yeah, but they've always
Speaker 3: been busy, the French, haven't. They've always had just that
Speaker 3: aura about them that they're quite sexual and they're romantic.
Speaker 7: Let's be real.
Speaker 2: I mean, is it romance? Is it six vastly different?
Speaker 4: Is it the same thing? No, mate doesn't leave to
Speaker 4: long long eternal love and babies and all those tuff things.
Speaker 2: Right, just sex?
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, we're sex different people.
Speaker 2: Oh, don't wait, dumby, Oh.
Speaker 5: No, bears, pay your bills.
Speaker 4: You put it out there, Joe.
Speaker 2: I did. I could go in from Darlington.
Speaker 3: We are more than happy to pay your scum scuts.
Speaker 4: I think I think you lost her at scum.
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Speaker 2: Dotte Here Joe's after seven.
Speaker 4: Thirty minutes to talk about this shirt on Netflix.
Speaker 5: Which is just blowing up to grip the world, hasn't it.
Speaker 4: This is a very very strong, powerful meaning behind it
Speaker 4: is his adolescence.
Speaker 3: Yes, and you finally we convinced you to watch it yesterday,
Speaker 3: so that was good.
Speaker 4: All right? Can we just feel the course? By the way,
Speaker 4: can you hear that sound like? Can you hear that
Speaker 4: sound in the background?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 2: Okay, So this is what's happening.
Speaker 3: We are having our studios upgraded here at Nover so
Speaker 3: we're essentially sitting.
Speaker 2: In a boardroom that sits on Peery Street.
Speaker 3: There has there is a truck that is pulled up
Speaker 3: and he's doing some sort of maintenance and that is
Speaker 3: all your south all you and I can hear at
Speaker 3: the moment.
Speaker 4: Can we harmonize with its.
Speaker 2: Thirteen twenty four ten? Is that coming through the speaker?
Speaker 4: I think he's gone through nicely because.
Speaker 2: It produce Molly.
Speaker 3: This is going to be your job to go down
Speaker 3: and have a chat to that truck driver and just
Speaker 3: good luck.
Speaker 6: Luckily I'm so authoritive and scary looking, I know he'll
Speaker 6: be so I rest your two truck drivers are.
Speaker 4: Normally like, we want to do this. On thirteen and
Speaker 4: twenty four ten share your dating disasters, because I feel
Speaker 4: like it's got at least one dating disaster. It's not
Speaker 4: easy to find the right one, and sometimes you've got
Speaker 4: to learn of what not to do by doing the
Speaker 4: wrong thing. Here's an article for you, jod'es. It tells
Speaker 4: you the five dating mistakes that people make the top five.
Speaker 4: Number one sharing too much about themselves too soon. You've
Speaker 4: got to keep it to yourself. And the key is,
Speaker 4: I think asking questions, not trying to impress people with
Speaker 4: your own stuff.
Speaker 7: Absolutely, I was bad at that one. I always told
Speaker 7: them my whole life story. I would just get too excited.
Speaker 6: I just want to share and connect, and then I go, oh,
Speaker 6: that's way too much for someone you've just met.
Speaker 2: Have you ever heard that expression listen more than your talk.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a good one.
Speaker 7: I'm learning about that.
Speaker 4: That works very well.
Speaker 2: It's good in the corporate space when you're at work.
Speaker 4: Number two, fixated on whether there's chemistry or not, like
Speaker 4: just feel it. Number three, and this is a good one,
Speaker 4: bringing out past relationships in a negative way. Don't talk about.
Speaker 3: Your ex No, and I always think, oh, if they've
Speaker 3: got bad things to say about the X, what will
Speaker 3: they say about me one day?
Speaker 4: Yes, but not asking your data any questions, which verge
Speaker 4: is back to numbers you producer, just talking about yourself,
Speaker 4: talking like hey, I'm talking overshare.
Speaker 6: It's like telling them way too much personal stuff because
Speaker 6: you're just excited.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, fair enough. At number five, remember to have fun.
Speaker 4: You're there to have fun. You shouldn't be stressful. Thirteen
Speaker 4: twenty four ten, Please share your dating disasters. I remember
Speaker 4: meeting up with I've told you before Joe's I'm meeting
Speaker 4: up with a young lady and north that I think
Speaker 4: we went to on cafe, great spot for her.
Speaker 2: That's where you took her of all the cat Really, I.
Speaker 4: Think I liked I think that was the first problem.
Speaker 2: I don't think that exists anymore.
Speaker 4: But it does not exist. It's been replaced by Sir
Speaker 4: George's bacon. They'd do a fantastic job. We established within twenty.
Speaker 3: Minutes someone's trying to get free bacon and egg roles
Speaker 3: this morning.
Speaker 2: You've mentioned them far too much.
Speaker 7: Wasn't watch your chin sound effects?
Speaker 4: I'm chipping away? We established within twenty minutes she was
Speaker 4: very religious girl, and we had established that she was
Speaker 4: waiting until marriage to do something, and I had established that.
Speaker 4: Unfortunately I forgot to wait till marriage. So within twenty
Speaker 4: five minutes we shook hands and agreed to part.
Speaker 7: Wait yeah, really, yeah, literally shook hands.
Speaker 4: I think we literally shook hands.
Speaker 7: Respect It was very respectful. I think this is a
Speaker 7: good story.
Speaker 4: Wasn't It wasn't a storm out, but it was certainly
Speaker 4: a dating disaster. I said, I was a home in
Speaker 4: time for dinner.
Speaker 5: I love that you were.
Speaker 3: Adult and honest enough for her to first go, Okay,
Speaker 3: I am not going to do that thing, and you
Speaker 3: were like, but I really like to do that thing.
Speaker 2: So let's as adults mutually agree to go what.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're not compatible, isn't it. It's really it's not compatible.
Speaker 4: Produced mother, You've got a good one, which you need
Speaker 4: to share with us. Next thirteen twenty four to ten,
Speaker 4: you're dating asses, please share and maybe help all the
Speaker 4: singles out there. Jones. Yes, and you're happily married now.
Speaker 4: But you've been around. Oh my god, and you were
Speaker 4: on the dating scene. Actually were you? You got married
Speaker 4: so young.
Speaker 7: Okay, there's a lot to unpack.
Speaker 4: I've said the wrong thing, haven't I said?
Speaker 2: You mean that's it?
Speaker 4: I don't mean. I don't mean that in a derogatory.
Speaker 2: Way, horrendously derogatory.
Speaker 4: Okay, save me. On thirteen and twenty, can you share
Speaker 4: your dating disasters?
Speaker 7: This is Adelaide's favorite way to awaken.
Speaker 4: It's hard for the singles out there.
Speaker 3: Oh stressful sound an easy space to navigate, especially with
Speaker 3: all the online dating as well. I saw an app
Speaker 3: the other morning on Like it was like Sunrise or
Speaker 3: something where it was basically less about what you look
Speaker 3: like and.
Speaker 2: More about connection.
Speaker 3: So instead of using an actual proof wealthy but it's
Speaker 3: like a blurred photo. No, I get to know each
Speaker 3: other through conversation as opposed to like you look hot, let's.
Speaker 4: Swipe you fall in love with their soul. Yeah, it's
Speaker 4: not about aesthetics.
Speaker 2: Show.
Speaker 7: Such a good show, sain't it?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 7: I haven't watched it?
Speaker 4: Next or two thirteen, three fourteen, you're dating disasters? Can
Speaker 4: you take us through it. Because everyone's been through that
Speaker 4: particular learning space, we're better for it and we know
Speaker 4: not what to do the next time.
Speaker 3: So just an answer to I just want to clarify
Speaker 3: a few things that you mentioned previously. Yes, I did
Speaker 3: get married young. I also got divorced young. That meant
Speaker 3: I was single for about eight years.
Speaker 4: Oh okay.
Speaker 2: So I have been on a date or two and
Speaker 2: one of them was the most horrific experience.
Speaker 6: In my life.
Speaker 4: Really property if you've got a dating disaster like Jodie.
Speaker 4: An article has popped about the five things you should
Speaker 4: absolutely not do when on a first day Chodes.
Speaker 2: Let me rip through them real quick.
Speaker 4: Some of them pretty obvious to.
Speaker 3: Yeah, sharing too much about yourself too soon, fixating on
Speaker 3: whether there's chemistry or not bringing up past relationships in
Speaker 3: a negative way, talking too much about yourself, and number
Speaker 3: five is forgetting to have fun. Producer, Molly, you've said
Speaker 3: you've done all of these.
Speaker 7: Well, it took me a while to find Jeremy, so
Speaker 7: I had to get it wrong a few.
Speaker 6: Times through some dragons, didn't you, Oh my gosh, boys, Yes,
Speaker 6: Then I met him.
Speaker 2: I was like, well this is good finally, Yeah, along.
Speaker 7: Dragons one of my first ever dates was so bad.
Speaker 7: I was really excited. I think I reckon. I was
Speaker 7: just at the age where we could drive, So what
Speaker 7: are you? Sixteen?
Speaker 6: And he picked me up, which I couldn't believe I
Speaker 6: was allowed to go firstly, and he took me to
Speaker 6: his mum's house and said I have to print something.
Speaker 6: I was like what, And we went into the mum's
Speaker 6: house and he printed off I reckon fifteen resumes was
Speaker 6: how's it go?
Speaker 4: Get it? And I like that.
Speaker 7: We got back in the car and I kid you not.
Speaker 6: We drove around to so many businesses and I sat
Speaker 6: in the car and he got out and gave his
Speaker 6: resume to business after business after business, and then he
Speaker 6: dropped me home. Why did you have to be involved
Speaker 6: in I don't know.
Speaker 7: I just want to go to the movie. He's like
Speaker 7: every other girl.
Speaker 4: Is there a little kids? At the end, you've gotten
Speaker 4: a job.
Speaker 2: Share with this stories is awful. I met this guy.
Speaker 2: I can't even remember where I met him.
Speaker 3: Anyway, I agreed to go on a date with him,
Speaker 3: and he came to pit me up when I left
Speaker 3: him in the lounge room downstairs, and I had to
Speaker 3: run upstairs to get something.
Speaker 2: And I came downstairs and he was filming. He's filming
Speaker 2: my house, and I heard him saying, oh, yeah, here
Speaker 2: I am guys, your own boys a meadow house. Oh
Speaker 2: my god, she's been joking.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 2: So I promptly said thanks anyway, this has been fun.
Speaker 2: But after you go, were you in the media at
Speaker 2: this time? Yes, that is terrifying awful fellas. Wow, So
Speaker 2: that's number six. So don't film someone's.
Speaker 4: House and in that particular moment you like, get out
Speaker 4: right now?
Speaker 2: Yeah I did.
Speaker 3: I was like, well, that's horrifying. Isn't that scary? And
Speaker 3: also what are your motives made? Why are you bragging
Speaker 3: to your friends?
Speaker 6: Weird?
Speaker 7: Just take around the block and dropped a few resumes
Speaker 7: off would have been better.
Speaker 2: Than this, so much better, less horrified.
Speaker 4: Chance, it's not a competition, but you won't. Well, thank
Speaker 4: you stuff. This is the biggest show on the planet
Speaker 4: and has absolutely gripped the world.
Speaker 5: Mistake, I haven't done anything.
Speaker 9: He's a good key there, Jamie. I want you to
Speaker 9: listen carefully. I'm going to start off with asking you do.
Speaker 10: You know a girl called Katie leaned? Yeah, describe each
Speaker 10: other as friends?
Speaker 4: Then is she at then, how would you ask her
Speaker 4: four part series called Adolescence on Netflix, Jude, It's been
Speaker 4: a while since I've seen a show and certainly sent
Speaker 4: some feedback where everyone's like, wow, that really moved me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so if you are like hazy, a little late
Speaker 3: to the party on this one. The series follows the
Speaker 3: heartbreaking story. It's a family whose world has turned upside down.
Speaker 3: They're thirteen year old called Jamie is arrested for the
Speaker 3: murder of a teenage girl from his school, and it
Speaker 3: unfolds in real time, and unbelievably, it's all shot each episode.
Speaker 3: Each four one hour episode is shot in one continuous.
Speaker 4: Line on don't you know that? And you sort of
Speaker 4: really take note of it. It's quite incredible.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you sat down and watched it yesterday. What
Speaker 3: were your initial reactions.
Speaker 4: First episode as well? Very confronting, like can you imagine
Speaker 4: everybody in that situation? Yeah, it's I mean, we're not
Speaker 4: going to give it away, but it's very much like, yeah,
Speaker 4: it feels real. Thanks you reckon like it. It feels
Speaker 4: like it could be a really genuine situation. That's why
Speaker 4: you can pitch yourself. Yeah, and if you've got kids
Speaker 4: in that situation, go wow, what would I do?
Speaker 3: That makes for good television, doesn't it When you can
Speaker 3: sit there and go, oh my god, what would I
Speaker 3: do if the police barged in guns, you know, poised
Speaker 3: and arrested my thirteen year old girl? Like, come on,
Speaker 3: It's just so very confronting. It raises a lot of
Speaker 3: issues to do with social media. Obviously, it raises some
Speaker 3: issues to do with Andrew Tait, who is this horrendous
Speaker 3: misogynist who is infiltrating all our schools and all our
Speaker 3: young boys at the moment, but also as the mother
Speaker 3: of girls, it makes you think, how do I protect
Speaker 3: my young girls from the effects of that, from blokes
Speaker 3: disrespecting them, maybe in the school system or just in
Speaker 3: a social situation.
Speaker 2: It raises so many questions. I have to say.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry if you haven't watched it to the end,
Speaker 3: but the last episode I sat and sobbed in the
Speaker 3: last scene.
Speaker 2: It's really it's a lot.
Speaker 3: It's a lot, but I think it in a good
Speaker 3: way because after watching this, I went into my thirteen
Speaker 3: year old's room and she sits on her phone most nights,
Speaker 3: no question.
Speaker 2: About that, And it's just scrolling and scrolling and I
Speaker 2: sat there.
Speaker 3: I said, right, I know you're going to hate this,
Speaker 3: but I need to ask you what's going on online
Speaker 3: for you because I just want to know if you're
Speaker 3: chatting to any boys or you know, are you having
Speaker 3: conversations with girls that are making you feel like bullied
Speaker 3: or uncomfortable?
Speaker 2: Is there any confrontation?
Speaker 3: So I love that a show like that on Netflix
Speaker 3: can make you have those conversations because I don't have
Speaker 3: them enough so much.
Speaker 4: So coming up next we'll continue this conversation. They're set
Speaker 4: to entry use classes to take one particular aspect which
Speaker 4: is raised in this series, which can be incredibly beneficial
Speaker 4: to the next generation coming up low void situations like that.
Speaker 4: So let's talk about that next. We are talking about
Speaker 4: a series on Netflix which is taking over the planet,
Speaker 4: and that is adolescence. Bring mistake.
Speaker 7: That I haven't done anything.
Speaker 9: He's a good kid, Jamie. I want you to listen carefully.
Speaker 9: I'm going to start off with asking you.
Speaker 10: Do you know a girl called katieleled Yeah, describe each
Speaker 10: other as friends?
Speaker 8: Then is she that? Then?
Speaker 4: Why would you ask her?
Speaker 3: So if you haven't had the chance to watch it,
Speaker 3: it's essentially the story of a thirteen year old boy
Speaker 3: who is accused of murdering a girl from his school.
Speaker 3: It sparked a conversation about the influence of social media
Speaker 3: and the misogynistic content on young boys. So basically, there's
Speaker 3: this Andrew Tait influence where he's teaching boys that women
Speaker 3: need to be in the home, that they need to
Speaker 3: respect you. There's sexual objects, et cetera, et cetera, all
Speaker 3: that boring, disgusting stuff. So what it has done has
Speaker 3: sparked a movement to address harmful behaviors from misogyny in schools.
Speaker 3: There's already program called Raise here in Adelaide who do
Speaker 3: that very very well. But it sparks the question should
Speaker 3: we have a curriculum in schools that has to teach
Speaker 3: boys respect? And I'm sad to even say those words,
Speaker 3: that we have to sit down to our young boys
Speaker 3: because I think that's our job as parents. But is
Speaker 3: that a necessary thing or should we be doing that
Speaker 3: instead of teaching the algebra because at the moment it's
Speaker 3: a worldwide problem.
Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, and we should be. We should be because
Speaker 4: you can't compare to when we grow up and what
Speaker 4: we had access to versus what's happening now. So it's
Speaker 4: easy to think, well, you know, we were dinosaurs back there.
Speaker 4: We have all the information now and it's absolutely going
Speaker 4: to head in the right direction. It's not because there's
Speaker 4: more and more access to the crap. There's more access
Speaker 4: to Andrew Tait and absolute pillicks like that. Unfortunately, we
Speaker 4: couldn't even if we wanted to get that sort of information.
Speaker 4: We'll blissfully unaware that there were things like that happening
Speaker 4: in the world when we were growing up. Most now,
Speaker 4: with a five to ten seconds you can access the
Speaker 4: most horrendous stuff that is humanly possible.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, Like the handheld device is teaching your
Speaker 3: young son about sex and about women and how submissive
Speaker 3: they should be, and that is horrifying.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I think this is a great move to
Speaker 2: have this in school.
Speaker 3: I mean, can you imagine if adolescence sparks this whole
Speaker 3: new curriculum in schools.
Speaker 2: I think that would be a great thing.
Speaker 4: It would be huge. So I don't know. As a dad,
Speaker 4: I've got an almost seven year old, I'm not sure
Speaker 4: what to do here. I don't want him one devices
Speaker 4: at all, but he has to be actually has to
Speaker 4: be on iPad every night for school, So I'd like
Speaker 4: to be able to filter it out, but you can't
Speaker 4: filter it out, and we're in a new spot where
Speaker 4: we don't know how to deal with this sort of
Speaker 4: stuff because we never had to deal with it ourselves.
Speaker 4: So tuition and everything from parents is obviously the key,
Speaker 4: and from teachers, but associating with certain friends, et cetera.
Speaker 4: It's really worrying.
Speaker 3: But also conversely, there is someone out there who is
Speaker 3: telling young boys that my daughter is to be submissive,
Speaker 3: and my daughter is there for his pleasure, and my
Speaker 3: daughter is to be an object to be used any
Speaker 3: way he wants, and.
Speaker 4: They're listening to him, and they're paying him money for
Speaker 4: this advice. I know, that's what it's like. It blows
Speaker 4: your mind, and it's easy for us to be like, well,
Speaker 4: that's just absolute bull crap. But it's a different generation
Speaker 4: with different heroes.
Speaker 3: If that's the biggest influence on our young boys at
Speaker 3: the moment, we're in real trouble.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think we're all on this together, particularly for parents.
Speaker 4: But if you've got some advice as well, we'd love
Speaker 4: to hear from your thirteen and twenty four ten. But
Speaker 4: I mean I'd highly recommend watching adolescents for everyone across
Speaker 4: the board, different ages, whether you're a youngster, whether you're
Speaker 4: a parent, everybody. Yeah.
Speaker 6: Absolutely, Do you too feel as parents that having these
Speaker 6: classes in schools would make you feel better?
Speaker 8: Yes?
Speaker 4: Yeah, one d percent absolutely before it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so in a way it could reiterate what you're
Speaker 6: telling them at home, So it's coming from you, but
Speaker 6: also from an authority figure.
Speaker 3: One hundred percent, Like these boys need to hear this
Speaker 3: from a very early age. That's where they get their
Speaker 3: ideas from from as the young boys, that's where they
Speaker 3: form their beliefs.
Speaker 4: Do you know the other thing as well as I've
Speaker 4: got to try and make sure that I, if it's
Speaker 4: something that my kids aren't doing, going to veer them away,
Speaker 4: not really discipline with it, because I feel like as
Speaker 4: a youngsters sometimes your natural reaction to what an authority
Speaker 4: figure of saying you want to go the other way.
Speaker 4: So you don't want to be like you cannot do that,
Speaker 4: because then naturally kids might go, well, now I want
Speaker 4: to do it because you're being so aggressive about it.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: And as a fine as a fine balance yeah yeah.
Speaker 3: And also I'm lazy in this space in terms of
Speaker 3: monitoring what they do online. Because life is so busy,
Speaker 3: and life so busy for everyone, it's easier. I just go, okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: I have a tablet and make no mistake at starting
Speaker 3: at five years old. My five year old daughter sits
Speaker 3: on an iPad far too much, so I think this
Speaker 3: is a big kickup the ass for parents this show.
Speaker 4: Definitely watch it too. It's apart from just how incredibly
Speaker 4: shot it is, it's the first time in a long
Speaker 4: time where you've watched something on any sort of stream
Speaker 4: platform going oh my gosh, this could actually help.
Speaker 3: I think it's time we've got someone on who actually
Speaker 3: knows what they're talking about.
Speaker 4: Yes, one hundred percent. And in this space as well,
Speaker 4: we could learn different ways developments to handle situations like
Speaker 4: this and sort of make sure we don't get in
Speaker 4: this space. And speaking of from HEADSPICCE, this is psychologist
Speaker 4: Nicola Venda Totti.
Speaker 3: Nikola, the first question I have for you is how
Speaker 3: do we stop ourselves from thinking so negatively?
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's tricky. You mentioned yesterday that we have this
Speaker 8: negativity bias in our brains, and so we're designed to
Speaker 8: pay attention to things that might go wrong or things
Speaker 8: that are difficult more so than positive experiences that have
Speaker 8: for us. So I think the first thing is, yeah,
Speaker 8: acknowledging that that's super normal. And you mentioned yesterday as
Speaker 8: well that it's difficult to pay attention in the moment.
Speaker 8: And so one of the key things that people can
Speaker 8: do is to start to really grow and build these
Speaker 8: skills to be able to pay attention in the moment.
Speaker 8: And you know, it's commonly referred to as mindfulness, and
Speaker 8: people think, oh, yeah, what's that thing? Is that sitting down,
Speaker 8: you know, huming and being a yogi bit not at
Speaker 8: all cultivating skills to help you to pay attention in
Speaker 8: the moment, to really help to unhook from these difficult thoughts,
Speaker 8: because anxious thoughts are always going to be around, and
Speaker 8: so we don't focus our attention on trying to get
Speaker 8: rid of them, but rather how we handle them in
Speaker 8: the moment.
Speaker 2: And do you challenge them as well? When you have
Speaker 2: a negative thought like that, do you ask yourself? Is
Speaker 2: that true?
Speaker 8: You can do? And for some people that's a really
Speaker 8: really helpful strategy, and so I encourage people to try that.
Speaker 8: But if that doesn't work for you, that's also okay.
Speaker 8: It's a skill that will sometimes work for me, but
Speaker 8: not always, so there will be times where instead I
Speaker 8: might think, Okay, so what's happening in my mind here?
Speaker 8: Or this is my anxious mind talking and you know,
Speaker 8: is there a problem here that I need to solve?
Speaker 8: That's the first question that you know, it's useful to
Speaker 8: ask because sometimes there is something that we need to do.
Speaker 8: But if there's not a problem to be solved, then
Speaker 8: we can think, okay, so what is it that's triggering
Speaker 8: my mind to think like this?
Speaker 6: You know?
Speaker 8: Have I got the basics right? Did I sleep well
Speaker 8: last night? Have I I had enough water? Have I
Speaker 8: had enough food? You know, is there anything different about
Speaker 8: my routine or is there something that's happening in my
Speaker 8: life that's maybe leading me to look at the world
Speaker 8: with tinted glasses Because we talk about rose tinted glasses,
Speaker 8: their anxiety tinted glasses.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, as well, Nikola, some quick methods to potentially
Speaker 4: deal with anxiety. Is there any sort of quick ones
Speaker 4: that we can incorporate reasonably quickly?
Speaker 8: Yeap, sure, So looking after the basics, so you know,
Speaker 8: this is the stuff sometimes that people think, Oh really,
Speaker 8: the sleep, the making sure that you've eaten enough, you know,
Speaker 8: making sure that you've moved your body. So exercise can
Speaker 8: be important. But it doesn't have to look like going
Speaker 8: to the gym. It doesn't have to look like, you know,
Speaker 8: doing something that's unpleasant. But moving your body in a
Speaker 8: way that makes sense if we think the anxiety will
Speaker 8: give an increased amount of adrenaline in your body. Moving
Speaker 8: your body makes you burn it off, So it kind
Speaker 8: of makes sense that actually.
Speaker 4: Totally. So it's just everything situations where my wife's side
Speaker 4: not but she almost puts the joggers on me goes
Speaker 4: go for a run and get out of here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just getting outside, getting some sunshine and moving your
Speaker 3: body can be everything. Just before we let you go,
Speaker 3: I want to ask you how do you know when
Speaker 3: you need help? Because how does how can you sit
Speaker 3: there and go okay, well, I'm just worried about something.
Speaker 2: Hang on white? Am I worried? Or is that anxiety?
Speaker 2: Hang on white?
Speaker 3: Is that anxiety or is it depression? Sure, it's really
Speaker 3: difficult to be able to tell the difference.
Speaker 8: Absolutely, And I suppose you know what and anxiety are
Speaker 8: really in the same masket. Okay, when you think about
Speaker 8: you know, do I need to speak to somebody. Do
Speaker 8: I need to ask for help? You might think about
Speaker 8: how intense is this feeling. Is it something that I'm
Speaker 8: struggling with a lot? Is it something that even when
Speaker 8: I talk to friends or when I try to apply
Speaker 8: you know, some techniques like breathing or grounding, or when
Speaker 8: I go for a run, I exercise that actually it's
Speaker 8: not helping. That would be a time to ask for help.
Speaker 8: Or when you know it's really getting in the way
Speaker 8: of you being able to go about your life. So
Speaker 8: it might mean that you're not seeing your friends as match,
Speaker 8: or you're starting to miss work or miss school. I'd
Speaker 8: say yeah, functionally, if it's starting to impact you, it's
Speaker 8: absolutely a good time to talk to somebody.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm looking before we let you go. Of course,
Speaker 4: you were from head Space. Can you tell us exactly
Speaker 4: what headspicce off is.
Speaker 7: Yeah, absolutely so.
Speaker 8: Headspace is a youth mental health service, so we work
Speaker 8: with people between the ages of twelve and twenty five.
Speaker 8: The great thing about Headspace it's a well known brand
Speaker 8: and there are a huge number of centers all across
Speaker 8: the country. So there are five functional in Adelaide, one
Speaker 8: in the center and then in the north, South and
Speaker 8: in the West, so we.
Speaker 4: Do lots and lots of cool stuff.
Speaker 8: We work with people around anxiety, around depression, lots of
Speaker 8: different mental health challenges and really try to support people
Speaker 8: to to recover and that's probably the best way to
Speaker 8: put it, to identify what their strengths are and then
Speaker 8: to live the kind of lives that they want to live.
Speaker 8: So we've got a combination of mental health professionals. We'll
Speaker 8: also have lift experience practitioners, so they're a really important
Speaker 8: part of the Headspace model. There are people who are
Speaker 8: employed as a result of their mental health experience, so
Speaker 8: they're trained by Headspace but also employed to share their
Speaker 8: lift experience, and I think that's super powerful. If you
Speaker 8: can talk to people who also understand from their own perspective, then.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just want to thank you so much for
Speaker 2: coming in. I could talk to you about this stuff
Speaker 2: all day. It's actually really quite fascinating and what we
Speaker 2: delve into.
Speaker 4: It isn't it one hundred percent? Nikola Venda Totti, thank
Speaker 4: you so much for stopping by, and we've learned a lot.
Speaker 4: There's no doubt that your chat here as well has
Speaker 4: helped a lot of people so thank you so much.
Speaker 4: Thank you for having me, Joe. Do you feel like
Speaker 4: us as humans we're getting smarter or dumber simpler?
Speaker 2: I am definitely, but we should.
Speaker 4: Be getting better given all the new advancements in technology.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Unfortunately though, I think the smartphones, which have all those advancements,
Speaker 3: are making us stupider.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're not getting smarter at all. We're gett dummer
Speaker 4: and there is a study to prove it. We need
Speaker 4: to talk about it very very soon.
Speaker 3: Well, given we are absolute idiots in this budget space,
Speaker 3: we thought we'd recruit the.
Speaker 2: NERD NERD alone.
Speaker 3: Recruitment services of someone on the level above us, that
Speaker 3: is five double a Channel seven news presenter Will Gooding
Speaker 3: is welcome to the studio.
Speaker 11: You're talking about me just then? Yeah, okay, I'm level
Speaker 11: above physically and mentally.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: No, you were just right with NERD.
Speaker 3: I think, yeah, okay, So what's in it for people
Speaker 3: in the budget, both federally and in this state.
Speaker 7: Let's go.
Speaker 11: The big question you need to ask yourself is what
Speaker 11: you can you spend five dollars on five dollars because
Speaker 11: that's what everyone's going to be getting a week one
Speaker 11: year from now.
Speaker 5: The good news is you've got a year to think
Speaker 5: about it.
Speaker 11: But the tax cuts that were renounced in the budget
Speaker 11: yesterday that we weren't expecting amount to about five dollars
Speaker 11: a week from July one next year. Right now, that's
Speaker 11: and get you excited. How about this, there's another five
Speaker 11: dollars a week coming for you a year after that.
Speaker 11: I know, don't spend it all at once. In fact,
Speaker 11: what can you actually buy for five dollars these days?
Speaker 5: There's not a hell of a lot but three quarter
Speaker 5: a cup of coffee, three with the standard milk.
Speaker 11: You can't get it. You're not getting a note with that,
Speaker 11: my friend, good luck with that. That's the That's probably
Speaker 11: the big thing that we didn't expect was coming. It's
Speaker 11: not getting anyone particularly excited because, as I say, five
Speaker 11: dollars isn't going to go a long way. The other
Speaker 11: one that I think people probably will appreciate is one
Speaker 11: hundred and fifty dollars off their power bill again, so
Speaker 11: that rebate has been has been extended, so it'll help
Speaker 11: a little bit.
Speaker 3: Still going up a long way, though, I think with
Speaker 3: your five dollars a week, what you should do is
Speaker 3: shout him something from the vending machine at Channel seven.
Speaker 4: Oh that's nice, that's good.
Speaker 5: Would what would you get? We get nuts.
Speaker 4: There, We get a nice little pack of the nuts.
Speaker 5: We can share it because one a week, five double
Speaker 5: a nova nuts.
Speaker 4: There you go.
Speaker 5: To collaborate.
Speaker 11: Thank you Anthony Albanezi bringing people together five dollars at
Speaker 11: a time.
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you will good things. And I think we
Speaker 4: can safely assume that what we'll thought was that we
Speaker 4: need to quit our jobs with all this extra cash coming,
Speaker 4: and thank you will.
Speaker 3: Okay, this is alarming. There is a global decline in
Speaker 3: human cognitive abilities. A new study has shown. Let me
Speaker 3: break that down for you. We were done before. Now
Speaker 3: we're dumma.
Speaker 5: Oh no dumb, you are really dune.
Speaker 4: Thank you Antoline Dotson.
Speaker 8: Okay.
Speaker 3: Basically, there's been a consistent decline, especially from young people,
Speaker 3: in reading, mathematics, and science skills.
Speaker 2: Oh dear.
Speaker 3: These trends coincide with the rise of smartphones and social media,
Speaker 3: no surprise. They're suggesting that changing changes in information consumption
Speaker 3: and digital environments may negatively impact attention spans, memory and
Speaker 3: self regulation.
Speaker 2: Makes sense, doesn't it.
Speaker 4: So I'm thirty nine years old, I feel like and
Speaker 4: English was my subject at school. I feel like I
Speaker 4: used to be absolutely elite at spelling well really, and
Speaker 4: now every time I write anything, and particularly type it,
Speaker 4: I'm questioning myself.
Speaker 3: Right, what's because it's all done for you these isn't
Speaker 3: it auto correct on your phone?
Speaker 4: Spot on?
Speaker 2: Yeah, spell check on your computer?
Speaker 6: Do you know what?
Speaker 4: Though, when you're putting in scripts and things at Channel seven,
Speaker 4: there's no wardo correct. So when you're saying when you're
Speaker 4: watching the news and you see the little thing, the
Speaker 4: little strap at the bottom pop up with words sort
Speaker 4: of plugging what's coming up, that's all manually written by
Speaker 4: some joking yeah.
Speaker 3: That when you write your story, and we write our
Speaker 3: own stories, by the way, I really yeah, when you
Speaker 3: write your story and you have to manually fill in
Speaker 3: those little straps down the bottom, they're called soupers.
Speaker 7: So for example, doesn't do it.
Speaker 4: Yeah. So so for example, if we're talking about I
Speaker 4: don't know, Zach Butter's is a head of schedule and
Speaker 4: the words pop up down the bottom, it's like Zack
Speaker 4: on track or something like that that's been put in.
Speaker 4: That's a very clever one too, by the way, thank
Speaker 4: you very much treasure out that. But the amount of
Speaker 4: times I have entered that incorrectly, and then someone else
Speaker 4: is like, hey, muscles, that's incorrect spelling. Yeah, you're not
Speaker 4: my ultimate my ultimate spelling mistake.
Speaker 6: Go on.
Speaker 4: You know when you see news package come up and
Speaker 4: then your name pops up the reporter, you didn't misspell
Speaker 4: You know one time I misspelled my name. That's good,
Speaker 4: isn't it? And now one picked it up? Picked up.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh I did that, man, Yeah, that's
Speaker 3: actually I'm quite anal I using that word, but I'm
Speaker 3: quite anal about doing that. And I check it and
Speaker 3: double check and triple check because you're gonna look so
Speaker 3: stupid I can't spell that word.
Speaker 6: Sure we shall we Oh my god, should.
Speaker 7: We put this to the test?
Speaker 4: Sure?
Speaker 7: So you are really the reason I didn't go to UNI. Okay,
Speaker 7: we have some words here. We're going to start with.
Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, we're doing a spell spelling tst Yeah,
Speaker 2: we have to.
Speaker 4: This is tough.
Speaker 3: Okay, to your word is accommodate accommodate a double C O.
Speaker 2: O double M com comm date or date O D
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Speaker 7: That we got there. Hazy, Yes, bureaucracy.
Speaker 4: It's so hard l jez b b b b e.
Speaker 6: Oh my.
Speaker 4: B e A was a b b us.
Speaker 7: You are e a U c r a c ye.
Speaker 2: Hard when you can't write it down. I need to
Speaker 2: write these books.
Speaker 7: Okay, is out on level one to Jody miscellaneous.
Speaker 2: M I s C miss today, M I s C
Speaker 2: miss e l A n e o U S.
Speaker 4: What an idiot? Seriously, you are really dumb.
Speaker 7: Shall we jump ahead to level three?
Speaker 5: This is advance can have some redemption.
Speaker 7: I can't even read this word insurmountable hazy.
Speaker 4: In sub mountable.
Speaker 2: Is that we said mountable?
Speaker 4: Okay? Cool? I don't even know what the word is.
Speaker 4: I N S you R y M O U N
Speaker 4: t A b l E.
Speaker 2: I want I want to redeem myself.
Speaker 7: Yeah all right, Jodie, yep.
Speaker 5: What is this word ubiquitous? That's easy?
Speaker 2: Can I write you b E q u I S
Speaker 2: three buzzers?
Speaker 4: Thank you?
Speaker 6: All right?
Speaker 7: So it's U b I q u I t o
Speaker 7: u s hazy. If you can spell this final word,
Speaker 7: you will win.
Speaker 4: It is quizical quizical. Let's get q u i z.
Speaker 2: Z uh buzboun No.
Speaker 6: No one can spell already in this room please, you
Speaker 6: are really gone.