WEBVTT - Episode 13: Father's Day

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Bromwyn listeners, and welcome to season two. It's Claire

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<v Speaker 2>you by me Headley Thomas and the Australian Father's Day

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<v Speaker 2>in Australia fell on September one, a fortnight after our

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<v Speaker 2>return for Manuel leave at home in Brisbane. I pictured

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<v Speaker 2>John Winfield in his ocean facing house which looks a

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<v Speaker 2>little like a fortress near Lennox Head. Everything inside the

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<v Speaker 2>property must have been spotlessly clean and in its proper place.

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<v Speaker 2>After months of scrutiny and public intrigue arising from the

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<v Speaker 2>first season of the Bromin podcast series, John might have

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<v Speaker 2>been fondly acknowledged that Father's Day by his two daughters

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<v Speaker 2>living nearby, Jody, the eldest, whose mother is John's first

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<v Speaker 2>wife Jenny, and Lauren, the youngest, whose mother Bromin was

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<v Speaker 2>John's third wife. Cristel, Broman's first daughter, lives some seven

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<v Speaker 2>hundred kilometers south in Sydney, and although she does not

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<v Speaker 2>share John's DNA, Cristel had started calling John dad when

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<v Speaker 2>she was five. Her biological father, Mark Davis, died when

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<v Speaker 2>Cristel was in her twenties. Over the past three decades,

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<v Speaker 2>Crystal's views about the fate of her mother and the

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<v Speaker 2>alleged role of John have changed many times. In episode twelve,

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<v Speaker 2>which dealt with the recent defrauding of Crystal by a

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<v Speaker 2>self proclaimed sole doctor, Crystal.

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<v Speaker 3>Wrote, both Mom and I were very trusting people, and

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<v Speaker 3>as a result, I was recently scammed my entire life

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<v Speaker 3>savings by strangers. It wouldn't surprise me if she trusted

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<v Speaker 3>the wrong person, someone she'd just met, and they were

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<v Speaker 3>responsible for her disappearance. I also have other theories, but

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<v Speaker 3>this seems likely to me as I know she never

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<v Speaker 3>would have left us for long. Imagine growing up with

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<v Speaker 3>some people around you thinking your dad murdered your mom.

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<v Speaker 3>I never wanted our next generation to go through what

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<v Speaker 3>my sisters and I experienced, ostracized and at times ridiculed

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<v Speaker 3>for being the daughter of JW. If anyone knows JW best,

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<v Speaker 3>it's us people that actually lived with him and Mum

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<v Speaker 3>behind closed doors. This has destroyed our lives at times,

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<v Speaker 3>and honestly, at the end of the day, there is

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<v Speaker 3>no body. It's all circumstantial evidence.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel this.

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<v Speaker 3>Podcast has only explored one possibility when there are other

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<v Speaker 3>possibilities to her disappearance. Our mum would never want this

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<v Speaker 3>kind of pain and heartache on her daughters and grandchildren.

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<v Speaker 3>She'd be devastated, as I know, she would just want

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<v Speaker 3>a happy life for us, just like we want for

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<v Speaker 3>our children. Thank you to those that have been there

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<v Speaker 3>for us throughout these years. It's hard enough growing up

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<v Speaker 3>without a mum, but having so much gossip about it

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<v Speaker 3>made it so much harder for us, and that's coming

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<v Speaker 3>from the daughter of a nurturing mum aka Brodwin Winfield.

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<v Speaker 2>Currently, Crystal is not on board with the new South

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<v Speaker 2>Wales Police position that John murdered Bronwin. This episode was

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<v Speaker 2>going to revolve around John's side of the story, the

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<v Speaker 2>version that he gave in the one and only recorded

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<v Speaker 2>interview he did with a detective that was in nineteen

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<v Speaker 2>ninety eight. I have the lengthy record of it and

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<v Speaker 2>for weeks I've been pouring over the detail and comparing

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<v Speaker 2>it with known facts as well as highly probable scenarios.

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<v Speaker 2>That exercise has been very worthwhile. It has yielded promising

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<v Speaker 2>new angles.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi Headley, here's the documents sent to us in two

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<v Speaker 5>thousand and.

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<v Speaker 2>Nine on Father's Day. While working out what to do

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<v Speaker 2>with some of the new and yet to be revealed

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<v Speaker 2>evidence in this case and where it should sit. In

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<v Speaker 2>season two of Bromman, I opened an email and his

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<v Speaker 2>wife Michelle Lead had taken some time between episodes to

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<v Speaker 2>do a thorough search of her files and email inbox,

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<v Speaker 2>just in case she had missed something of relevance.

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<v Speaker 5>Stumbled on them today going through my email archives. I

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<v Speaker 5>honestly don't remember ever seeing them, Michelle.

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<v Speaker 2>The largest file is titled Chronology. It is a Microsoft

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<v Speaker 2>word document and the metadata shows that it was first

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<v Speaker 2>printed in November two thousand and eight. It originated in

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<v Speaker 2>the New South Wales Police Unsolved Homicide Unit and one

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<v Speaker 2>of its authors must have been the highly respected senior

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<v Speaker 2>Detective George Radmore. George Radmore and other police from the

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<v Speaker 2>Unsolved Homicide Unit dedicated many hundreds of hours to the

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<v Speaker 2>case a decade after the Baalinot Detective Glenn Taylor's investigation.

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<v Speaker 2>Here is Bromwin's cousin, Meghan Reid, recalling some of her

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<v Speaker 2>contact back then with the now retired George Radmore. Meghan

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<v Speaker 2>spoke as Maddie Walsh went through folders of the evidence

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<v Speaker 2>with me at Meghan's home on Sydney's Northern Beaches. Months

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<v Speaker 2>before the podcast they started.

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<v Speaker 6>Here we have witness statements from nineteen ninety eight.

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<v Speaker 4>Yours isn't in nut war and yours are the plastic value.

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<v Speaker 7>I'd layne in two and nine twenty ten with George.

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<v Speaker 4>Add Moore, who I had a great relationship with. This

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<v Speaker 4>was the one case really upsetting.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't sold.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll think a lot of those emails are between Meagan

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<v Speaker 6>and George Radmore.

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<v Speaker 4>That's from George.

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<v Speaker 8>Thank you for your efforts last week. I know it

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<v Speaker 8>was draining, but it is necessary to get the full picture. Already,

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<v Speaker 8>you have provided evidence that I previously did not know existed,

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<v Speaker 8>and it is very important to the investigation. It makes

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<v Speaker 8>it all the more difficult and time consuming to try

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<v Speaker 8>to remember things from sixteen years ago, which is why

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<v Speaker 8>the documentation that I have requested is so important. It

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<v Speaker 8>would certainly have been easier if your statement had been

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<v Speaker 8>taken in more detail during the original investigation. However, we

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<v Speaker 8>cannot change that now.

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<v Speaker 7>George Radmore had successfully put away quite a few people

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<v Speaker 7>without bodies, and that's why they assigned him to it.

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<v Speaker 7>He's brilliant, He really is brilliant, and he was so disappointed.

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<v Speaker 2>Michelle Reid told me that the forty three page word

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<v Speaker 2>document titled Chronology was provided to her and Andy by

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<v Speaker 2>George Radmore. Perhaps the detective wanted Michelle and Andy to

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<v Speaker 2>fact check some of the details. The secondary heading on

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<v Speaker 2>the document states.

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<v Speaker 8>Strikeforce Chelmsbrook Murder of Bronwyn Winfield.

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<v Speaker 2>There are several hundred separate entries spanning almost forty years.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything that the police regarded as potentially relevant to their

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<v Speaker 2>investigation is in the Chronology document. The entries are in

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<v Speaker 2>columns under these headings day and time, then occurrence or event,

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<v Speaker 2>then reference document, and then matters arising. The first entry

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<v Speaker 2>is dated nineteen sixty nine.

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<v Speaker 8>Jonathan Winfield and Sybil Green meet while students at high school.

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<v Speaker 8>Nineteen seventy Jonathan and Sybyl commence sexual relationship while Sybil

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<v Speaker 8>fourteen years old. Nineteen seventy two, Sybil falls pregnant to

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<v Speaker 8>Jonathan while still fifteen years old. Parents decide they should marry.

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<v Speaker 8>Winfields suddenly ban Sybil from seeing Jonathan in March or

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<v Speaker 8>April nineteen seventy two. November nineteen seventy two, Sybil gives

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<v Speaker 8>birth to Sonya early nineteen seventy three. Jonathan denies paternity.

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<v Speaker 2>Before going further, some important points need to be clarified.

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<v Speaker 2>Sybil Green is a pseudonym. We are not identifying the

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<v Speaker 2>woman who was just fifteen when she conceived a child

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<v Speaker 2>during a relationship with John. John is older than the

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<v Speaker 2>woman we are calling Sybil by a couple of years.

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<v Speaker 2>When I opened the email from Michelle read and read

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<v Speaker 2>the names in the chronology document, I checked the records

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<v Speaker 2>of the Australians Bronman Facebook discussion group as an administrator

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<v Speaker 2>to see if Sonya and her mother had joined. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't approach Sonya or her mother, but soon after Michelle's

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<v Speaker 2>fortuitous discovery of the chronology document, Sonya approached us.

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<v Speaker 6>I got a message, am I a message request from

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<v Speaker 6>a lady called Sonya.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's why this episode is fundamentally different now to

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<v Speaker 2>the one that I had planned. Instead of revolving around

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<v Speaker 2>John's claims and John's shifting version in his nineteen ninety

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<v Speaker 2>eight police interview of who, What, When, where and why

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<v Speaker 2>at the time of Bromwin's disappearance, this first episode of

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<v Speaker 2>season two is the story of a woman fathered by John,

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<v Speaker 2>a woman who wants nothing to do with her father

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<v Speaker 2>apart from her objective to help Bromwin and her family

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<v Speaker 2>get justice. I'm talking here to Maddie Walsh a fortnight

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<v Speaker 2>after Father's Day as she sat in her car in

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<v Speaker 2>Sydney and I hunched over my laptop at home in Brisbane.

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<v Speaker 2>And there's some video at Bromwin podcast dot com.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, yeah, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Saturday morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Saturday morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell me about this Facebook message.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I actually got it at five pm yesterday, but

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't process it until today. And it says hello

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<v Speaker 6>Andy and read JW. Does Jodie realize she is not

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<v Speaker 6>his firstborn child. I'm asking you this as if she does, great,

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<v Speaker 6>But if not, then I'm thinking that could throw a

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<v Speaker 6>spanner in the works of her bond with her father.

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<v Speaker 6>Perhaps the words needed for her and Lauren to question

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<v Speaker 6>his truths pre nineteen seventy two. I don't really have

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<v Speaker 6>any info in him, except that the look in his

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<v Speaker 6>eye and the way he treated women as a seventeen

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<v Speaker 6>year old was not well received by a certain fifteen

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<v Speaker 6>year old girl's mother, my grandmother. On her deathbed, I

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<v Speaker 6>made a promise that I would reach out when the

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<v Speaker 6>time was right. As a fifty one year old. I'm

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<v Speaker 6>not sure when that time is, but now kind of

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<v Speaker 6>feels right. I've been tossing up all week as to

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<v Speaker 6>who to contact, as strangely enough, Crystal is the only

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<v Speaker 6>one I feel any type of connection with, but I

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<v Speaker 6>don't think she is in the right frame of mind.

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<v Speaker 6>My kindest regards to you, Andy, You're an amazing brother, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Maddie, you are rock sol girl.

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<v Speaker 6>Your parents must be over the moon beaming proud.

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<v Speaker 2>I know who this woman is, and I'm so glad

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<v Speaker 2>that she's made contact.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't realize who she was until I spoke to

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<v Speaker 6>you about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, when you called me a short time ago and

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<v Speaker 2>you said, hey, I got this message from a woman

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<v Speaker 2>called Sonya, I immediately knew what you were going to

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<v Speaker 2>tell me.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, which is crazy that she reached out.

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<v Speaker 2>She is the daughter of a woman who was fifteen

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<v Speaker 2>when she became pregnant in nineteen seventy two. And my

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<v Speaker 2>understanding is that the parents of John and Sonya's mother

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<v Speaker 2>agreed or decided that they should marry.

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<v Speaker 6>So was that after his daughter was born.

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<v Speaker 2>That must have been before she was born. He was

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<v Speaker 2>older than her. From the documents I've seen, Maddie, Sonya

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<v Speaker 2>was born in November nineteen seventy two. The relationship had

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<v Speaker 2>just fallen apart, and they'd gone from being prepared to

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<v Speaker 2>marry to estrangement. And this poor young girl is having

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<v Speaker 2>John's baby. So when you got that message from Sonya,

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<v Speaker 2>what were you thinking?

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<v Speaker 6>I was still stuck trying to figure out how she

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<v Speaker 6>knew this and how she was related.

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<v Speaker 2>And she does describe a little cryptically in that key sentence,

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't she It.

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<v Speaker 6>Wasn't as though she said I am John's first daughter.

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<v Speaker 2>She's asking whether Jody knows that Sonya is actually John's

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<v Speaker 2>first child? But why is that important to Sonya?

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<v Speaker 4>Too?

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<v Speaker 6>Kind of breakdown that layer of trust that John and

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<v Speaker 6>Jody have shown that they have with each other, that

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<v Speaker 6>maybe Jody will take a step back and reevaluate what

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<v Speaker 6>her father has told her and all the truths he

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<v Speaker 6>has supposedly told her, and maybe rethink that not everything

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<v Speaker 6>is the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>That does sound like it's part of her motivation.

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<v Speaker 6>And I don't know many people who know about this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's been a very well kept secret. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think she's had any contact at all with her father.

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<v Speaker 6>I get that impression because she says pre nineteen seventy two,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't really have any info on him, which means

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<v Speaker 6>since she was born, she hasn't ever known him. Quite possibly,

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<v Speaker 6>her mother told her who her father was, but she

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<v Speaker 6>never had a relationship with him. And since this podcast

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<v Speaker 6>has come out, she's heard about him and she's felt

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<v Speaker 6>that she should reach.

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<v Speaker 2>Out this deathbed point. What do you take from that.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, it's almost as though her grandmother, Sonya's grandmother knew

0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:14.240
<v Speaker 6>that John wasn't a good person. Her grandmother had this

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<v Speaker 6>inkling that something wasn't quite right with him, and the

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<v Speaker 6>fact that she felt the need to tell Sonya on

0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:25.640
<v Speaker 6>her deathbed. We don't know much about John previous to

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<v Speaker 6>his first two wives. This is the earliest recollection of

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<v Speaker 6>any kind of relationship. It seems as though his behavior

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't good.

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<v Speaker 2>Then he's taken no responsibility for the care and upbringing

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<v Speaker 2>of his first child.

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<v Speaker 6>He doesn't seem like Sonya wants to know her father.

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<v Speaker 6>It's almost as though she wants Jodie to know the

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<v Speaker 6>truth about her father and Lauren to know that their

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<v Speaker 6>father isn't as great as he may seem. If she

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<v Speaker 6>really doesn't know, and she doesn't know this information, it

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<v Speaker 6>might cause her to take a little step back and

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<v Speaker 6>kind of really think about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Sonya's mother would have been John's first wife if things

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<v Speaker 2>had turned out differently.

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<v Speaker 6>If everything else played out, four wives or by the

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<v Speaker 6>time he was thirty Now, honestly, to me, that's weird behavior.

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<v Speaker 6>Who knows about this and just hasn't mentioned it. If

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<v Speaker 6>Lauren's aware, if Jodie's aware, I don't know. Would he

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<v Speaker 6>have confided that in them when they got older.

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<v Speaker 2>It also seems from the tone of that message that

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<v Speaker 2>she's formed a view of John, which is the same

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<v Speaker 2>view that the police and others have formed of John

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<v Speaker 2>as being responsible for Bromwin's disappearance.

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<v Speaker 6>It's just stuff coming out of the wouldwork like this

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<v Speaker 6>that changes a lot in terms of someone's character and

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<v Speaker 6>skeletons in the closet could.

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<v Speaker 2>Say, I'm trying to put myself in the shoes of

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<v Speaker 2>someone who's to become involved in a physical relationship with

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<v Speaker 2>a girl. She's far too young, But he's also very

0:18:14.680 --> 0:18:18.320
<v Speaker 2>young too. He's not a man in his thirties. His

0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:21.960
<v Speaker 2>brain is still developing at that age. However, on the

0:18:22.080 --> 0:18:26.879
<v Speaker 2>character point, the failure to be prepared to try to

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<v Speaker 2>support her contribute to her upbringing and education and her needs.

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<v Speaker 6>This does add into John's behaviors and patterns as well

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<v Speaker 6>of John's parents and his mother, and the constant need

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<v Speaker 6>to push the women away if they step on the

0:18:50.480 --> 0:18:54.159
<v Speaker 6>wrong toes or something happens. We know he tried to

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<v Speaker 6>pay off Jenny with Jodie for John to have City.

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<v Speaker 2>Maddie is referring to evidence given to the police by

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<v Speaker 2>John's first wife, Jennifer in the lead up to the

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<v Speaker 2>two thousand and two inquest. You heard some of it

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<v Speaker 2>in episode ten.

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<v Speaker 9>I remember John's mother saying something like no woman walks

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<v Speaker 9>out on my son. I recall John's parents turned up

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<v Speaker 9>one day with John and they.

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<v Speaker 4>Picked up Jody and walked out the door.

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<v Speaker 9>Grandma Winfield said, when you get your act together, you

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<v Speaker 9>can have a back. I blame myself now, but at

0:19:31.760 --> 0:19:34.959
<v Speaker 9>the time I didn't understand the laws properly, and I

0:19:35.000 --> 0:19:38.600
<v Speaker 9>was depressed and having problems with my life. And after

0:19:38.640 --> 0:19:43.040
<v Speaker 9>this John and myself initiated divorce proceedings. John offered me

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<v Speaker 9>twenty thousand dollars so he could keep custody of Jody.

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<v Speaker 9>I told him to stick his twenty thousand dollars and

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<v Speaker 9>take good care of Jody, and that's how John ended

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<v Speaker 9>up having custody of her. The way I was at

0:19:54.480 --> 0:19:58.000
<v Speaker 9>the time, I was mentally depressed and I'd become suicidal.

0:19:58.560 --> 0:20:00.800
<v Speaker 9>John wouldn't allow me to visit already at school, and

0:20:00.840 --> 0:20:03.760
<v Speaker 9>they constantly pushed me away from her. I used to

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<v Speaker 9>sit outside the school watching Jody play at lunchtime in

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<v Speaker 9>the school grounds.

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<v Speaker 6>There's this controlling nature that kind of threads through the family,

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<v Speaker 6>trying to gain control of the situation and pushing people

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<v Speaker 6>away when it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Go the way they want.

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<v Speaker 6>It would have been John's parents at that stage making

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<v Speaker 6>the decisions for John, I would assume, especially his mother,

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<v Speaker 6>given how much we know he adored her and how

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<v Speaker 6>much of a part she had in his life. I

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<v Speaker 6>do definitely think it would have been more of his

0:20:37.280 --> 0:20:41.320
<v Speaker 6>mother's decision to get Sonya and her mother out of

0:20:41.359 --> 0:20:44.080
<v Speaker 6>his life. Why are the women not being kept around?

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<v Speaker 6>Is it based on they're not perfect enough for John?

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<v Speaker 6>Or no, they're not perfect enough for John's mother.

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<v Speaker 2>Shortly before her disappearance, Bromwin wrote about John, his and

0:20:55.920 --> 0:21:01.800
<v Speaker 2>her unhappiness, perfectionism, and John's mother. Here it is in

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<v Speaker 2>the first episode.

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<v Speaker 10>I drifted away from John as he became more and

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<v Speaker 10>more depressed about the house being less than immaculate and

0:21:09.880 --> 0:21:13.119
<v Speaker 10>the death of his mother, the only woman he thought

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<v Speaker 10>was perfect. Eventually I switched off and became cold inside.

0:21:18.359 --> 0:21:20.960
<v Speaker 10>He had a heart of ice and always criticized me

0:21:21.040 --> 0:21:24.640
<v Speaker 10>no matter what I did. The man was cold and

0:21:24.760 --> 0:21:28.400
<v Speaker 10>heartless and gave nothing but expected everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you replied to Sonya, No, not yet. What do

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<v Speaker 2>you intend to say?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I was going to thank her for reaching out.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not sure it could have been easy. This is

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<v Speaker 6>her father. She's never had a relationship with him, and

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<v Speaker 6>I'm pretty sure she knows she never will. But she

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<v Speaker 6>also has sisters out there, half sisters.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like she wants to help.

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<v Speaker 6>She feels as though this is the starting of his lies.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean it's time. She said she was waiting for

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<v Speaker 6>the right time. Then I really think that time is now,

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<v Speaker 6>I guess before it's too late.

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<v Speaker 2>Feeling like she has a connection with Crystal and admiring

0:22:15.280 --> 0:22:19.960
<v Speaker 2>from Afar, you and Andy as she's listening to everything.

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<v Speaker 2>At the same time, it seems she suspects that her

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<v Speaker 2>biological dad killed a beautiful woman called Bromin.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe she has that thought in the back of her

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<v Speaker 6>mind that he.

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<v Speaker 4>Could have been her mother.

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<v Speaker 6>With Jenny's statement as well, and how John was violent

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<v Speaker 6>with her.

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<v Speaker 9>He'd yell at me and he made him scared of him.

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<v Speaker 9>He said to me, I'll kill you if you say

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<v Speaker 9>that again. And at the time he had his hands

0:22:51.200 --> 0:22:54.800
<v Speaker 9>around my throat and was squeezing. I remember I managed

0:22:54.840 --> 0:22:58.480
<v Speaker 9>to say go ahead. Into my surprise, he kept squeezing

0:22:58.560 --> 0:23:01.359
<v Speaker 9>me around the throat. I managed to kick him in

0:23:01.400 --> 0:23:03.440
<v Speaker 9>the groin and I got away from him and hitting

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<v Speaker 9>the outside laundry.

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<v Speaker 6>After hearing the podcast, maybe she counts herself lucky that

0:23:09.960 --> 0:23:11.960
<v Speaker 6>she didn't grow up with her father like John.

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<v Speaker 2>Does she say anywhere in her note to you that

0:23:15.720 --> 0:23:19.760
<v Speaker 2>it's confidentially No, she didn't. Can you just mention to

0:23:19.800 --> 0:23:23.280
<v Speaker 2>her that you've shared it with me and we've talked

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<v Speaker 2>about it, and that we would really like to chat

0:23:25.680 --> 0:23:28.919
<v Speaker 2>to her. Yeah, we're happy to chat to her on

0:23:29.080 --> 0:23:31.720
<v Speaker 2>background or off the record at first, if she wants

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<v Speaker 2>to get comfortable.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, definitely, for sure.

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<v Speaker 6>I just think it's honestly insane. The developments that have

0:23:41.160 --> 0:23:46.119
<v Speaker 6>happened with in this case are crazy. We need to

0:23:46.160 --> 0:23:49.680
<v Speaker 6>dive right back into John's childhood. It might be hard

0:23:49.680 --> 0:23:51.560
<v Speaker 6>to get there, but I think that will answer a

0:23:51.600 --> 0:23:54.479
<v Speaker 6>lot his relationship with his parents when he was younger,

0:23:55.960 --> 0:23:59.240
<v Speaker 6>what he went through in school, everything that was really

0:23:59.359 --> 0:24:04.080
<v Speaker 6>going on during John's childhood and upbringing, and the family dynamic. Ultimately,

0:24:04.800 --> 0:24:07.480
<v Speaker 6>I really think it would answer a lot of questions

0:24:08.240 --> 0:24:10.520
<v Speaker 6>as to his character and why he is the way

0:24:10.560 --> 0:24:14.480
<v Speaker 6>he is, and why he keeps such picked secrets like

0:24:14.560 --> 0:24:18.959
<v Speaker 6>this to keep it so tightly under wraps. Even John's

0:24:19.000 --> 0:24:21.960
<v Speaker 6>parents not to have a relationship with their granddaughter, their

0:24:21.960 --> 0:24:26.159
<v Speaker 6>first granddaughter, is also a little bit unbathomable because she

0:24:26.440 --> 0:24:27.760
<v Speaker 6>was just an innocent baby.

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<v Speaker 2>Recording stopped, Maddie wrote back to Sonya, and then I

0:24:56.160 --> 0:24:59.480
<v Speaker 2>phoned her. We worked out that at the exact time

0:24:59.600 --> 0:25:02.640
<v Speaker 2>she was assigning to reach out to Andy and Maddie,

0:25:03.040 --> 0:25:06.960
<v Speaker 2>the police chronology document naming her as John's daughter was

0:25:07.000 --> 0:25:11.520
<v Speaker 2>being recovered by Michelle and sent to me. Sonya sounded

0:25:11.600 --> 0:25:16.879
<v Speaker 2>completely unemotional, unaffected. During our twenty minutes on the phone.

0:25:17.000 --> 0:25:20.320
<v Speaker 2>She matter of factly told me that her biological father

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<v Speaker 2>was a bad liar. His lying had shattered Sonya's mother

0:25:24.760 --> 0:25:28.040
<v Speaker 2>when John publicly denied being the father of the baby

0:25:28.119 --> 0:25:32.639
<v Speaker 2>growing inside the girl. The cruel result was the false

0:25:32.720 --> 0:25:36.399
<v Speaker 2>claim that a fifteen year old dealing with unplanned pregnancy

0:25:36.560 --> 0:25:40.240
<v Speaker 2>and whose first and only love back then had been John,

0:25:40.600 --> 0:25:44.639
<v Speaker 2>had slept around with different guys. Nothing could be further

0:25:44.680 --> 0:25:49.680
<v Speaker 2>from the truth. Part of Sonya's point is that significant

0:25:49.720 --> 0:25:54.560
<v Speaker 2>lies define a person's character. Exposing these lies might help

0:25:54.640 --> 0:25:58.960
<v Speaker 2>resolve Bromwin's case. It might prompt people aware of other

0:25:59.080 --> 0:26:03.040
<v Speaker 2>lies relevant to Broman's disappearance to come forward, and it

0:26:03.160 --> 0:26:07.159
<v Speaker 2>possibly explains why detectives on Bromin's case went to the

0:26:07.200 --> 0:26:12.000
<v Speaker 2>trouble of investigating John's conduct from the nineteen seventies. They

0:26:12.040 --> 0:26:16.679
<v Speaker 2>took a statement from the mother of Sonya. We agreed

0:26:16.720 --> 0:26:19.800
<v Speaker 2>to meet the following morning in Southport at the offices

0:26:19.840 --> 0:26:23.080
<v Speaker 2>of the Gold Coast Bollton newspaper, where I started forty

0:26:23.160 --> 0:26:26.920
<v Speaker 2>years ago as a copyboy. I was taken aback when

0:26:26.960 --> 0:26:29.200
<v Speaker 2>I saw her waiting for me in the lobby near

0:26:29.200 --> 0:26:34.760
<v Speaker 2>the elevator. Sonya is a physical near replica of John Winfield.

0:26:35.320 --> 0:26:41.199
<v Speaker 2>She's just younger. The likeness is incredible and at first disconcerting.

0:26:42.200 --> 0:26:46.879
<v Speaker 2>An accused murderer who has always emphatically denied wrongdoing and

0:26:47.000 --> 0:26:51.520
<v Speaker 2>emphatically denied that Sonya was his daughter, would surely admit

0:26:51.640 --> 0:26:54.560
<v Speaker 2>to being her father within moments of seeing her. Now,

0:26:55.760 --> 0:26:58.760
<v Speaker 2>I would wage a good money that a DNA test

0:26:58.880 --> 0:27:06.840
<v Speaker 2>would confirmternity. Margaret is Sonya had thoughtfully brought a family

0:27:07.000 --> 0:27:09.920
<v Speaker 2>pack of biscuits for us to snack on and leave

0:27:10.000 --> 0:27:12.280
<v Speaker 2>behind for the papers reporters.

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<v Speaker 4>Grandma raised me well.

0:27:15.400 --> 0:27:17.679
<v Speaker 2>We rowed the lift and crossed the floor of the

0:27:17.760 --> 0:27:20.920
<v Speaker 2>newsroom with the editor, Ryan Keene, who let us use

0:27:21.000 --> 0:27:26.480
<v Speaker 2>his office. I'm just going to use my phone, Ye

0:27:26.680 --> 0:27:31.760
<v Speaker 2>to do the recording. Sonya started telling her story. The

0:27:31.800 --> 0:27:35.439
<v Speaker 2>mother of two teenage boys tethered it to her grandmother,

0:27:35.760 --> 0:27:40.200
<v Speaker 2>who died in April twenty eighteen. In her last months,

0:27:40.520 --> 0:27:43.399
<v Speaker 2>Sonya was with the elderly woman almost every.

0:27:43.240 --> 0:27:48.080
<v Speaker 4>Day, and during that time a lot of conversations. We

0:27:48.200 --> 0:27:53.920
<v Speaker 4>had stories, who told secrets, who shared. Back in nineteen

0:27:53.960 --> 0:28:00.800
<v Speaker 4>seventy two, things were great financially, and my grandma pregnancy

0:28:01.119 --> 0:28:04.720
<v Speaker 4>thought it would be a great idea to separate the

0:28:04.800 --> 0:28:11.040
<v Speaker 4>two of them for my mother's benefit mental and emotional reasons,

0:28:11.200 --> 0:28:16.600
<v Speaker 4>which at the time wasn't told to my mother. In truth,

0:28:17.720 --> 0:28:21.520
<v Speaker 4>she thought her heart had been broken John was breaking

0:28:21.600 --> 0:28:25.879
<v Speaker 4>up with her was in fact my grandmother separated the

0:28:25.960 --> 0:28:28.800
<v Speaker 4>two of them for the final stages of the pregnancy.

0:28:29.680 --> 0:28:32.040
<v Speaker 4>She never said a nice word about him. She never

0:28:32.080 --> 0:28:37.640
<v Speaker 4>said a nice word about the Winfields. They were always

0:28:37.680 --> 0:28:42.280
<v Speaker 4>the words she uses, hoity tweety. My grandmother sent something

0:28:43.320 --> 0:28:49.320
<v Speaker 4>and removed my mother and myself from that circle. Fraternity

0:28:49.560 --> 0:28:55.000
<v Speaker 4>was always denied on his part. Abortion wasn't legal back then,

0:28:55.440 --> 0:28:59.440
<v Speaker 4>and it wasn't affordable within the family. My grandparents had

0:28:59.440 --> 0:29:02.520
<v Speaker 4>no money. They lived day to day. He drove a taxi,

0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:05.400
<v Speaker 4>so whatever fair he brought home at the end of

0:29:05.440 --> 0:29:08.520
<v Speaker 4>the day went to buy the food and what not

0:29:09.080 --> 0:29:11.960
<v Speaker 4>for the kids. So it was arranged for my mother

0:29:12.080 --> 0:29:18.440
<v Speaker 4>to go to South Australia where it could be done financially.

0:29:18.480 --> 0:29:21.080
<v Speaker 4>They weren't in a position for her to get to

0:29:21.120 --> 0:29:25.000
<v Speaker 4>South Australia. The pregnancy had gone along too far, so

0:29:25.200 --> 0:29:31.000
<v Speaker 4>termination wasn't possible in a safe sense. Then I was

0:29:31.160 --> 0:29:37.160
<v Speaker 4>to be adopted. I was supposed to be taken from

0:29:37.240 --> 0:29:44.280
<v Speaker 4>mom to become adopted. My grandfather became involved on the

0:29:44.360 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 4>day of my birth and refused that. Part of the

0:29:48.200 --> 0:29:52.640
<v Speaker 4>conversation was difficult for my grandmother to have emotionally, and

0:29:52.720 --> 0:29:56.680
<v Speaker 4>she kept getting very upset I think that was guilt

0:29:56.760 --> 0:29:59.480
<v Speaker 4>on her part because she thought it was the best

0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:02.560
<v Speaker 4>thing to do, and had my grandfather not stepped in,

0:30:03.400 --> 0:30:07.960
<v Speaker 4>that would have happened. Moving forward through the seventies eighties,

0:30:08.040 --> 0:30:12.480
<v Speaker 4>my bond with my grandmother was inseparable. She was like

0:30:12.600 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 4>my mom. I pretty much went from the hospital to her.

0:30:17.520 --> 0:30:21.200
<v Speaker 4>Mom was sixteen. She didn't know anything. My grandma had

0:30:21.240 --> 0:30:24.200
<v Speaker 4>already raised two girls, so she knew exactly what was

0:30:24.240 --> 0:30:29.200
<v Speaker 4>going on. My grandfather fell ill. He had many strokes

0:30:29.200 --> 0:30:32.400
<v Speaker 4>and many heart attacks before he passed away. I was eight.

0:30:33.800 --> 0:30:36.800
<v Speaker 4>He was like my dad, so I didn't miss having

0:30:36.800 --> 0:30:39.680
<v Speaker 4>a mom and dad figure. It's just that my real

0:30:39.760 --> 0:30:43.520
<v Speaker 4>mom was really really young. So when Grandma is sitting

0:30:43.520 --> 0:30:46.560
<v Speaker 4>with me passing away and telling me the truth of

0:30:46.640 --> 0:30:51.400
<v Speaker 4>the story, to me as an adult, it hadn't affected

0:30:51.440 --> 0:30:54.720
<v Speaker 4>my life for forty seven years, and it hasn't affected

0:30:54.760 --> 0:30:59.880
<v Speaker 4>my life since then. I've known that he didn't want me.

0:31:00.720 --> 0:31:05.280
<v Speaker 4>I'm known that his parents thought horrible things about my

0:31:05.360 --> 0:31:10.520
<v Speaker 4>mother and vocalized those things. It wasn't just her having sex.

0:31:11.160 --> 0:31:15.520
<v Speaker 4>He was involved as well. But he was the golden

0:31:15.600 --> 0:31:19.960
<v Speaker 4>child within his family and very very, very heavily influenced

0:31:20.840 --> 0:31:24.080
<v Speaker 4>by his mother. The first time I ever saw his

0:31:24.160 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 4>face was on the front page of The Australian.

0:31:28.520 --> 0:31:32.360
<v Speaker 2>When you saw the man you know is your father

0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:38.800
<v Speaker 2>for the first time. It was a photograph of him

0:31:39.280 --> 0:31:45.280
<v Speaker 2>in relation to this podcast, Romlan correct must have come

0:31:45.280 --> 0:31:46.040
<v Speaker 2>as quite a shop.

0:31:46.840 --> 0:31:51.760
<v Speaker 4>Honestly, I text my mom straight away and said, I'm

0:31:51.800 --> 0:31:52.560
<v Speaker 4>growing my hair.

0:31:54.880 --> 0:31:58.600
<v Speaker 2>You've just taken your calf after when I first saw

0:31:58.640 --> 0:32:02.239
<v Speaker 2>you downstairs in the lobby. Even it was struck by

0:32:02.280 --> 0:32:02.880
<v Speaker 2>the likeness.

0:32:03.120 --> 0:32:07.719
<v Speaker 4>That part with my mum has been difficult. There's a

0:32:07.720 --> 0:32:11.640
<v Speaker 4>photo on my great aunt's TV and it's a photo

0:32:11.720 --> 0:32:14.720
<v Speaker 4>of me in a school uniform at twelve or thirteen.

0:32:16.040 --> 0:32:18.080
<v Speaker 4>And that photo on the front page where he has

0:32:18.120 --> 0:32:23.320
<v Speaker 4>a mustache when he's younger. That's me. That is that

0:32:23.360 --> 0:32:27.560
<v Speaker 4>photo less than mustache. And until I saw that, I

0:32:27.720 --> 0:32:32.160
<v Speaker 4>never actually got what mum was saying, because sometimes she'd

0:32:32.160 --> 0:32:34.560
<v Speaker 4>say to me, I, forgot's sake, can you go and

0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:37.080
<v Speaker 4>put a shirt on. I just can't see your arms

0:32:37.160 --> 0:32:44.080
<v Speaker 4>or your shoulders because I'm that much for her a resemblance.

0:32:45.480 --> 0:32:51.040
<v Speaker 4>But I didn't see it until four months ago. It

0:32:51.120 --> 0:32:58.680
<v Speaker 4>wasn't really spoken about within our house. His name is very, very,

0:32:58.880 --> 0:33:03.400
<v Speaker 4>very rarely mentioned. I can remember as a teenager and

0:33:03.800 --> 0:33:08.880
<v Speaker 4>I was a silly smoker, and I came home with

0:33:08.880 --> 0:33:14.760
<v Speaker 4>a packet Wingfield cigarettes. My grandmother blew her stack. I

0:33:14.840 --> 0:33:17.880
<v Speaker 4>still didn't get it until on her deathbed and she

0:33:17.960 --> 0:33:21.960
<v Speaker 4>spoke about it, and I was like, ahuh, is.

0:33:21.920 --> 0:33:26.200
<v Speaker 2>There a name of a man on your birth certificate?

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:35.040
<v Speaker 4>It's blank or father unknown. I believe that your maternal

0:33:35.520 --> 0:33:41.720
<v Speaker 4>family was one hundred percent responsible to prove paternity. There

0:33:41.840 --> 0:33:47.320
<v Speaker 4>was no money for the test needed to prove what

0:33:47.440 --> 0:33:51.880
<v Speaker 4>they needed to prove. She would have been fourteen when

0:33:51.880 --> 0:33:55.000
<v Speaker 4>their relationship started, fifteen.

0:33:55.600 --> 0:33:59.880
<v Speaker 2>As it progressed, John had moved on by late nine

0:34:00.000 --> 0:34:04.240
<v Speaker 2>teen seventy two. Sonya was born in November of that year.

0:34:05.080 --> 0:34:08.920
<v Speaker 2>He is more from Jennifer Mason's statement to police, which

0:34:08.920 --> 0:34:10.319
<v Speaker 2>you heard in episode ten.

0:34:12.520 --> 0:34:16.000
<v Speaker 9>In approximately December nineteen seventy two, when I was sixteen

0:34:16.080 --> 0:34:18.799
<v Speaker 9>years of age, I met a young man named John

0:34:18.840 --> 0:34:19.680
<v Speaker 9>Winfield and we.

0:34:19.640 --> 0:34:20.880
<v Speaker 4>Formed a relationship.

0:34:21.680 --> 0:34:24.160
<v Speaker 9>We'd only been going out for about three months when

0:34:24.200 --> 0:34:27.520
<v Speaker 9>I fell pregnant. John Winfield and I married when I

0:34:27.640 --> 0:34:29.160
<v Speaker 9>was about three months pregnant.

0:34:31.440 --> 0:34:34.440
<v Speaker 2>When Sonya was born, her father would have been a

0:34:34.480 --> 0:34:38.680
<v Speaker 2>few months shy of his eighteenth birthday. Her mother had

0:34:38.760 --> 0:34:39.960
<v Speaker 2>just turned sixteenth.

0:34:40.960 --> 0:34:43.080
<v Speaker 4>I've known what the girls have looked like for many

0:34:43.080 --> 0:34:48.600
<v Speaker 4>many years. Strangely enough, would have been a very very

0:34:48.680 --> 0:34:53.600
<v Speaker 4>early two thousands. I was mistaken for Jodie in a

0:34:53.680 --> 0:34:57.399
<v Speaker 4>music shop in Byron Bay. I had long hair then,

0:34:58.120 --> 0:35:01.279
<v Speaker 4>and it wasn't until many years later that I realized,

0:35:01.880 --> 0:35:08.120
<v Speaker 4>oh my gosh, she's mistaken me for Jodie Winfield. Fifteen

0:35:08.200 --> 0:35:13.440
<v Speaker 4>years ago, I was mistaken again as one of the girls.

0:35:13.560 --> 0:35:16.960
<v Speaker 4>I don't recall which one. Someone came up and said,

0:35:17.040 --> 0:35:18.640
<v Speaker 4>I know you, I know you and your sister from

0:35:18.640 --> 0:35:23.239
<v Speaker 4>down ATLANTICX. And I don't have a sister, So I said,

0:35:23.280 --> 0:35:26.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm not me, mister. Sorry, I don't have a sister.

0:35:27.560 --> 0:35:32.279
<v Speaker 4>Oh sorry, I just got the resemblance is uncanny. So yeah,

0:35:32.360 --> 0:35:34.560
<v Speaker 4>it's been a minute.

0:35:35.280 --> 0:35:39.680
<v Speaker 2>You mentioned that you had seen photographs of the daughters,

0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:43.680
<v Speaker 2>and I think you're referring to Jody, Lauren and Crystal.

0:35:44.360 --> 0:35:52.799
<v Speaker 4>Correct. My wife, her best friend from school's friends with Jody.

0:35:52.960 --> 0:35:56.800
<v Speaker 2>Sonya explained that for about twenty years she had avoided

0:35:56.840 --> 0:35:59.960
<v Speaker 2>going to her wife's best friend's house in Lennox Head.

0:36:01.040 --> 0:36:03.640
<v Speaker 2>She recently asked that best friend.

0:36:03.680 --> 0:36:06.280
<v Speaker 4>Do you know these people, but I know she does.

0:36:07.360 --> 0:36:11.279
<v Speaker 4>When she was like, oh my god, he's that They

0:36:11.360 --> 0:36:14.920
<v Speaker 4>refer to him as JTM. She knows him from the

0:36:15.000 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 4>local lenox Head IgA.

0:36:18.440 --> 0:36:21.680
<v Speaker 2>I asked if her wife's friend had talked to Jodi

0:36:21.760 --> 0:36:25.800
<v Speaker 2>Wimfield about the existence of her half sister Sonya.

0:36:26.760 --> 0:36:26.840
<v Speaker 1>No.

0:36:27.080 --> 0:36:31.759
<v Speaker 4>Never, she would never air my laundry. She just knows

0:36:31.760 --> 0:36:34.600
<v Speaker 4>her socially through Lenox Head their friends.

0:36:35.480 --> 0:36:39.319
<v Speaker 2>Sonya had seen photographs of her half sisters Jody and

0:36:39.400 --> 0:36:43.160
<v Speaker 2>Lauren because of the mutual friend in Lennox Head, coincidentally

0:36:43.280 --> 0:36:47.239
<v Speaker 2>tagging them on Facebook. That friend was unaware at the

0:36:47.280 --> 0:36:49.440
<v Speaker 2>time of the biological ties.

0:36:50.239 --> 0:36:54.319
<v Speaker 4>Gosh, this is my boys were in nappies a long

0:36:54.360 --> 0:36:58.600
<v Speaker 4>time ago, and so I clicked on and I was like,

0:36:58.680 --> 0:37:02.480
<v Speaker 4>oh my gosh, I can see the resemblance.

0:37:03.520 --> 0:37:05.960
<v Speaker 2>Have you wanted to reach out to Jodie or the

0:37:06.000 --> 0:37:06.560
<v Speaker 2>other girls?

0:37:06.760 --> 0:37:12.879
<v Speaker 4>Never? Never, I feel so thankful that my grandmother had

0:37:12.880 --> 0:37:18.640
<v Speaker 4>the foresight that she had. I feel very, very sorry

0:37:18.719 --> 0:37:26.160
<v Speaker 4>for the girls more Crystal. I think that's because she

0:37:26.320 --> 0:37:31.360
<v Speaker 4>knew her mum. You know your mom at ten, you

0:37:31.400 --> 0:37:37.080
<v Speaker 4>miss your mom at ten. I feel really sorry for Crystal.

0:37:38.680 --> 0:37:42.440
<v Speaker 4>She must have so many stories going around in her mind.

0:37:43.440 --> 0:37:46.640
<v Speaker 4>But as far as any of the Windfield, I don't

0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:50.680
<v Speaker 4>like them. I don't dislike them. They exist and I exist.

0:37:50.920 --> 0:37:55.120
<v Speaker 4>We just exist separately. My grandmother had said to me

0:37:55.320 --> 0:38:01.040
<v Speaker 4>that they're all kidding themselves if they don't believe that

0:38:01.080 --> 0:38:02.680
<v Speaker 4>you exist. He knows you're his.

0:38:04.840 --> 0:38:08.879
<v Speaker 2>When you were growing up, Sonya, and when you were

0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:14.759
<v Speaker 2>old enough to understand that you were being raised by

0:38:15.080 --> 0:38:19.560
<v Speaker 2>your mother and your grandparents, did you ask questions? Did

0:38:19.600 --> 0:38:23.200
<v Speaker 2>you yearn to know who was your biological father?

0:38:24.640 --> 0:38:28.400
<v Speaker 4>There was a gentleman in my life who is still

0:38:28.400 --> 0:38:32.520
<v Speaker 4>in my life. He's been a fantastic father to me.

0:38:33.040 --> 0:38:37.720
<v Speaker 4>He's been an exceptional dad to me. He's been all

0:38:37.760 --> 0:38:42.360
<v Speaker 4>I've known and all I have needed as a father.

0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:48.080
<v Speaker 4>We have an awesome relationship as father and daughter. I

0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:51.279
<v Speaker 4>didn't come from him, He didn't make me, but we're

0:38:51.360 --> 0:38:52.160
<v Speaker 4>father and daughter.

0:38:53.320 --> 0:38:56.319
<v Speaker 2>Were you at the same time ever yearning to know

0:38:56.480 --> 0:38:59.200
<v Speaker 2>who your dad was biologically No?

0:38:59.440 --> 0:39:04.960
<v Speaker 4>Never, I've never felt the need to reach out to

0:39:05.120 --> 0:39:12.720
<v Speaker 4>establish any connection. My grandmother was troubled. She was worried

0:39:12.760 --> 0:39:18.240
<v Speaker 4>for me maturing, not knowing things like my medical history.

0:39:18.280 --> 0:39:20.640
<v Speaker 4>And I said to her, Grammy, you're just being eastily

0:39:20.719 --> 0:39:23.719
<v Speaker 4>you're on your Deathbedge, you're overthinking, You're worrying, Like, just

0:39:23.960 --> 0:39:28.560
<v Speaker 4>relax and enjoy your life. She said to me, you're

0:39:28.680 --> 0:39:34.080
<v Speaker 4>very blunt in your decision to just cut And I

0:39:34.120 --> 0:39:39.600
<v Speaker 4>think that I'm very blunt in my decision because from

0:39:39.719 --> 0:39:46.080
<v Speaker 4>nineteen seventy two until two thousand she lived in the

0:39:46.080 --> 0:39:50.359
<v Speaker 4>same house. If he wanted to reach out, he could

0:39:50.400 --> 0:39:53.320
<v Speaker 4>have reached out at any moment in his life.

0:39:54.920 --> 0:39:59.520
<v Speaker 2>When Bromwin disappeared in May nineteen ninety three, John's daughter

0:39:59.719 --> 0:40:03.879
<v Speaker 2>was six months away from her twenty first birthday. In

0:40:03.920 --> 0:40:07.000
<v Speaker 2>September of that year, John wrote to the family of

0:40:07.040 --> 0:40:11.960
<v Speaker 2>one of Roman's former boyfriends, Mark Guthrie. Mark and his

0:40:12.080 --> 0:40:15.520
<v Speaker 2>family believed at the time that he was the biological

0:40:15.560 --> 0:40:19.600
<v Speaker 2>father of Crystal, who was then aged ten. John took

0:40:19.640 --> 0:40:23.279
<v Speaker 2>the moral high ground in his letter. He explained to

0:40:23.400 --> 0:40:28.880
<v Speaker 2>Mark Guthrie what paternal responsibility really meant. Here's a reminder

0:40:29.000 --> 0:40:34.440
<v Speaker 2>from episode ten. John wrote to the family and to

0:40:34.560 --> 0:40:39.040
<v Speaker 2>their solicitor. I have a copy of the letter. These

0:40:39.040 --> 0:40:43.840
<v Speaker 2>are John's words, but it's not John's voice. One.

0:40:43.920 --> 0:40:47.880
<v Speaker 11>Mark has never personally or in writing approached us in

0:40:47.920 --> 0:40:52.960
<v Speaker 11>regards to access to Crystal. Two. We have always been locatable.

0:40:53.920 --> 0:40:57.160
<v Speaker 11>We have always been in the telephone book. Had he

0:40:57.239 --> 0:41:00.800
<v Speaker 11>really wanted to, Mark could have found us at any time.

0:41:02.040 --> 0:41:04.719
<v Speaker 11>Not only have you failed to mention the possibility of

0:41:04.840 --> 0:41:09.440
<v Speaker 11>child support, something that has been my responsibility for almost

0:41:09.560 --> 0:41:14.080
<v Speaker 11>eleven years, but you have failed to consider Crystal's feelings

0:41:14.719 --> 0:41:16.280
<v Speaker 11>and what she wants to do.

0:41:16.280 --> 0:41:17.880
<v Speaker 2>About this delicate situation.

0:41:19.480 --> 0:41:23.040
<v Speaker 11>I have a responsibility to Crystel to introduce her to

0:41:23.120 --> 0:41:27.680
<v Speaker 11>her real biological father, and I will. The lack of

0:41:27.760 --> 0:41:32.360
<v Speaker 11>any offers of financial support in almost eleven years also

0:41:32.520 --> 0:41:37.960
<v Speaker 11>tells me that mister Guthrie is not sure of fatherhood. Consequently,

0:41:38.560 --> 0:41:42.080
<v Speaker 11>that would lead us to the child support agency, and

0:41:42.120 --> 0:41:45.359
<v Speaker 11>a deduction from Mark's wages to the tune of one

0:41:45.440 --> 0:41:50.000
<v Speaker 11>hundred and forty five dollars per month backdated maintenance to

0:41:50.040 --> 0:41:55.040
<v Speaker 11>December nineteen eighty two with an interest adjustment would be

0:41:55.120 --> 0:41:59.640
<v Speaker 11>the best part of ten thousand dollars maintenance if I

0:41:59.680 --> 0:42:04.000
<v Speaker 11>am is payable up to the age of sixteen years,

0:42:04.640 --> 0:42:07.439
<v Speaker 11>so we could develop into a nice little nest egg

0:42:07.520 --> 0:42:14.400
<v Speaker 11>for Crystal in her later years. Yours, sincerely, John Winfield.

0:42:16.160 --> 0:42:19.000
<v Speaker 4>If you have never had it, you can't miss it.

0:42:20.000 --> 0:42:23.000
<v Speaker 4>So as a person I've never had him, so I

0:42:23.120 --> 0:42:27.200
<v Speaker 4>don't know him, so I've never missed him. I don't

0:42:27.280 --> 0:42:30.840
<v Speaker 4>know what it means to miss having a sister. I

0:42:31.000 --> 0:42:34.719
<v Speaker 4>do know that I have no inclination to have them

0:42:34.760 --> 0:42:39.319
<v Speaker 4>in my life. That was his choice back in the seventies.

0:42:40.520 --> 0:42:43.040
<v Speaker 4>You can make a choice, that's fine, but you can't

0:42:43.120 --> 0:42:47.800
<v Speaker 4>live your life denying. If the girls need to question

0:42:47.920 --> 0:42:56.719
<v Speaker 4>anyone's truths, his truths, start questioning them. Poor Crystal, as

0:42:56.760 --> 0:42:59.560
<v Speaker 4>a human, How can you put somebody through that.

0:43:00.400 --> 0:43:03.799
<v Speaker 2>I spoke to Crystal yesterday and I said, have you

0:43:03.840 --> 0:43:08.640
<v Speaker 2>ever known of any other siblings? And she said, no, no,

0:43:08.880 --> 0:43:12.279
<v Speaker 2>there's no one else. When do you think you understood

0:43:12.320 --> 0:43:18.719
<v Speaker 2>that your biological father's surname was Wingfield? Sonia said that

0:43:18.800 --> 0:43:21.800
<v Speaker 2>she was in her early twenties and her mother needed

0:43:21.840 --> 0:43:22.360
<v Speaker 2>to have.

0:43:22.200 --> 0:43:26.239
<v Speaker 4>Surgery and she was extremely paranoid that she wasn't going

0:43:26.280 --> 0:43:30.520
<v Speaker 4>to make it. And that's the first time she told

0:43:30.520 --> 0:43:34.920
<v Speaker 4>me his actual full name. I recall the conversation. I

0:43:34.960 --> 0:43:37.440
<v Speaker 4>said to her, why are you telling me this? You

0:43:37.480 --> 0:43:41.719
<v Speaker 4>know I'm not interested. Why now, in this moment of

0:43:41.800 --> 0:43:45.799
<v Speaker 4>our lives, are you telling me? And I was more

0:43:45.840 --> 0:43:50.920
<v Speaker 4>worried about surgery. I know she loved him. I know

0:43:51.200 --> 0:43:58.800
<v Speaker 4>she was smitten by young sexy sir for John first

0:43:58.840 --> 0:44:04.120
<v Speaker 4>loves that. Whether she was his, I don't know. There

0:44:04.160 --> 0:44:07.680
<v Speaker 4>could be older kids than me. All I know is

0:44:08.000 --> 0:44:12.840
<v Speaker 4>in seventy two he denied me, which broke my mother's heart.

0:44:13.719 --> 0:44:19.520
<v Speaker 2>Many of us would jump straight onto Google and start

0:44:19.560 --> 0:44:22.960
<v Speaker 2>looking for someone, but you never did that. You didn't

0:44:23.080 --> 0:44:27.080
<v Speaker 2>want to check him out. You didn't understand the case

0:44:27.760 --> 0:44:31.680
<v Speaker 2>that the police had tried to build. Sonya recalled having

0:44:31.719 --> 0:44:34.200
<v Speaker 2>to go to Balana with her mother for a meeting

0:44:34.320 --> 0:44:37.480
<v Speaker 2>with detectives investigating Bromin's alleged murder.

0:44:38.239 --> 0:44:41.600
<v Speaker 4>I mean I didn't want to go because I wasn't interested.

0:44:42.400 --> 0:44:46.399
<v Speaker 4>I still don't really know why I was in there

0:44:46.440 --> 0:44:46.879
<v Speaker 4>that day.

0:44:48.080 --> 0:44:50.760
<v Speaker 2>Her mother made a police statement at the time.

0:44:51.960 --> 0:44:57.760
<v Speaker 4>I never researched. I was never interested. I did feel. However,

0:44:58.200 --> 0:45:01.800
<v Speaker 4>on one episode of the plot cast, you were driving

0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:04.880
<v Speaker 4>in Lennox and I was in the car with you

0:45:06.239 --> 0:45:07.239
<v Speaker 4>in my mind.

0:45:08.960 --> 0:45:10.880
<v Speaker 12>Literally around the corner at five ten minutes, I can

0:45:10.920 --> 0:45:13.200
<v Speaker 12>take you there. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll take you

0:45:13.239 --> 0:45:18.120
<v Speaker 12>for a drive. We call this the Headlands. That's where

0:45:18.560 --> 0:45:20.200
<v Speaker 12>I see John walking around here.

0:45:23.160 --> 0:45:24.040
<v Speaker 2>A millionaires role.

0:45:24.080 --> 0:45:27.719
<v Speaker 12>I call it he bought a dual block, one for

0:45:27.800 --> 0:45:31.560
<v Speaker 12>himself and one for Jody. Always get him confused, Sorry, Ledley,

0:45:34.160 --> 0:45:36.120
<v Speaker 12>now here we are here. Yeah, he bought that block

0:45:36.160 --> 0:45:39.840
<v Speaker 12>and that block the house next saw that to jobs.

0:45:40.320 --> 0:45:41.319
<v Speaker 12>That's a fortress.

0:45:41.960 --> 0:45:43.160
<v Speaker 2>That is very odd looking.

0:45:43.880 --> 0:45:46.640
<v Speaker 12>It a big needs of him inside.

0:45:47.360 --> 0:45:48.880
<v Speaker 4>That's his car and the driveway.

0:45:49.239 --> 0:45:57.120
<v Speaker 2>That's him there right, very ecclusive. As you can see.

0:45:57.680 --> 0:45:59.920
<v Speaker 4>You're sitting up there in your smug castor.

0:46:01.520 --> 0:46:04.160
<v Speaker 12>Seemed like a terrible person do.

0:46:05.440 --> 0:46:07.799
<v Speaker 2>This has weighed on you for a long time.

0:46:07.719 --> 0:46:09.560
<v Speaker 12>Because I have a sister, and if it hadn't been

0:46:09.600 --> 0:46:11.600
<v Speaker 12>my family, I just don't know how I would be

0:46:11.600 --> 0:46:12.960
<v Speaker 12>able to handle that.

0:46:15.600 --> 0:46:18.240
<v Speaker 2>She was a friend and a good friend at the time.

0:46:18.840 --> 0:46:20.680
<v Speaker 2>We'd still be friends today. I know we would.

0:46:23.000 --> 0:46:25.279
<v Speaker 4>I was sitting on the footstool next to my bed.

0:46:25.800 --> 0:46:30.600
<v Speaker 4>I got on Google Maps, and before you'd finished speaking,

0:46:31.480 --> 0:46:34.920
<v Speaker 4>I'd worked out his address. I google Maps searched the

0:46:34.960 --> 0:46:38.200
<v Speaker 4>house and there was a photo of him on the

0:46:38.239 --> 0:46:42.799
<v Speaker 4>Google Maps of his house standing over what looked like

0:46:42.920 --> 0:46:46.440
<v Speaker 4>a shower area, an outside shower. That's the first and

0:46:46.520 --> 0:46:47.240
<v Speaker 4>the last time.

0:46:48.040 --> 0:46:51.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know that photo you're talking about. We paused

0:46:51.480 --> 0:46:53.840
<v Speaker 2>to open the packet of biscuits she had brought.

0:46:55.040 --> 0:46:58.000
<v Speaker 4>Grandma always said, you have to blame someone to the table,

0:46:58.080 --> 0:47:00.319
<v Speaker 4>no matter where you're going, you have to take something

0:47:00.320 --> 0:47:03.040
<v Speaker 4>to the table, old Scotch finger.

0:47:04.239 --> 0:47:05.080
<v Speaker 2>How's your mum doing.

0:47:06.880 --> 0:47:11.480
<v Speaker 4>The relationship between my mum and I is amazing.

0:47:12.800 --> 0:47:15.600
<v Speaker 2>Sonya told me her mother had been following the case

0:47:15.800 --> 0:47:18.280
<v Speaker 2>again with the podcast.

0:47:18.640 --> 0:47:24.960
<v Speaker 4>Regarding the podcast, I think she's like everybody else, wondering

0:47:24.960 --> 0:47:30.839
<v Speaker 4>what the police were are and will be doing. We're

0:47:30.960 --> 0:47:35.840
<v Speaker 4>very hopeful that you guys will get a good outcome

0:47:35.880 --> 0:47:40.319
<v Speaker 4>for the girls, whatever that may be. She's content that

0:47:40.440 --> 0:47:44.680
<v Speaker 4>I'm content. Every now and then I'm forced to think

0:47:44.680 --> 0:47:50.799
<v Speaker 4>of him because my mum will bring something garp. There

0:47:50.880 --> 0:47:55.880
<v Speaker 4>was a time I lost patience with her, which was

0:47:55.960 --> 0:47:58.800
<v Speaker 4>not long after she found out that Bronwin Winfield was

0:47:58.840 --> 0:48:02.240
<v Speaker 4>a missing person. She found out by chance. She saw

0:48:02.280 --> 0:48:06.480
<v Speaker 4>her missing person sign on the IgA notice board at

0:48:06.560 --> 0:48:11.480
<v Speaker 4>Lennox Head, noticed the surname, put three and three together,

0:48:12.719 --> 0:48:16.200
<v Speaker 4>worked it out that Ron win Winfield and John Winfield

0:48:16.320 --> 0:48:20.560
<v Speaker 4>was the same John Winfield that was my father. For

0:48:20.600 --> 0:48:24.080
<v Speaker 4>a long time, it was all she wanted to speak about,

0:48:25.239 --> 0:48:29.280
<v Speaker 4>and for all of that long time I would avoid

0:48:29.280 --> 0:48:31.759
<v Speaker 4>speaking to her. Because it was all she wanted to

0:48:31.760 --> 0:48:35.160
<v Speaker 4>speak about. I said to my grandma the one day

0:48:35.200 --> 0:48:39.200
<v Speaker 4>on the phone, I just I can't do it anymore.

0:48:39.440 --> 0:48:44.600
<v Speaker 4>I cannot listen to it anymore. It's not what life is.

0:48:45.000 --> 0:48:48.680
<v Speaker 4>Life is different. And that's the decision he chose back

0:48:48.719 --> 0:48:51.480
<v Speaker 4>in the seventies, and thank god you chose what you

0:48:51.640 --> 0:48:57.239
<v Speaker 4>chose in the seventies. Mattie said something, and I thought

0:48:57.320 --> 0:49:02.680
<v Speaker 4>to myself, I know that there's documents with my name

0:49:02.719 --> 0:49:06.400
<v Speaker 4>on it, whether it's a statement or whether it's just

0:49:06.520 --> 0:49:09.080
<v Speaker 4>a note that I was in the station that day.

0:49:10.000 --> 0:49:14.200
<v Speaker 4>I thought that I would reach out purely because you

0:49:14.239 --> 0:49:18.400
<v Speaker 4>would never have found me. I have nothing to hide.

0:49:19.840 --> 0:49:22.239
<v Speaker 4>All you have is the name of Sonya. I don't

0:49:22.239 --> 0:49:25.040
<v Speaker 4>even go by that name, but I go by the

0:49:25.120 --> 0:49:27.279
<v Speaker 4>name of Lee. I've done nothing wrong, though, I have

0:49:27.400 --> 0:49:30.680
<v Speaker 4>nothing to be ashamed of. And that's what Grandma said

0:49:30.719 --> 0:49:32.600
<v Speaker 4>to me. Well, you'll know when the time is right

0:49:32.680 --> 0:49:36.839
<v Speaker 4>to reach out. Whether she meant reaching out to one

0:49:36.880 --> 0:49:41.080
<v Speaker 4>of the girls, whether she meant reaching out to one

0:49:41.120 --> 0:49:44.840
<v Speaker 4>of Bronwyn's family, I don't know who she meant reaching

0:49:44.920 --> 0:49:49.600
<v Speaker 4>out to. This might sound a bit silly, but you

0:49:50.280 --> 0:49:54.120
<v Speaker 4>mentioned that you had read the document with my name

0:49:54.160 --> 0:49:57.560
<v Speaker 4>on it about the same time that I had started

0:49:57.600 --> 0:50:00.640
<v Speaker 4>thinking about maybe now is the right time.

0:50:01.880 --> 0:50:06.200
<v Speaker 2>Coincidences like these sometimes seem more likely to be calmer.

0:50:07.040 --> 0:50:10.279
<v Speaker 4>It might give the girls a different light to see

0:50:10.320 --> 0:50:13.040
<v Speaker 4>their father in. You know, if you can't be honest

0:50:13.080 --> 0:50:15.680
<v Speaker 4>and open about it now that yes, I got a

0:50:15.680 --> 0:50:18.359
<v Speaker 4>girl pregnant on the beach in Cronulla in nineteen seventy two,

0:50:19.000 --> 0:50:21.399
<v Speaker 4>I own it. I did it, and I lied about it.

0:50:22.239 --> 0:50:25.240
<v Speaker 2>When you say he lied about it, are you referring

0:50:25.280 --> 0:50:27.879
<v Speaker 2>to his denial of patunity.

0:50:28.200 --> 0:50:31.759
<v Speaker 4>Because he may as well have lied about the whole relationship,

0:50:32.000 --> 0:50:35.160
<v Speaker 4>which is I think what broke my mother's heart.

0:50:36.400 --> 0:50:40.480
<v Speaker 2>The shame and stigma of teenage pregnancy must have shaped

0:50:40.560 --> 0:50:43.560
<v Speaker 2>some of the decisions made by Sonya's grandparents.

0:50:44.600 --> 0:50:49.480
<v Speaker 4>They thought that they would pretend that I was Grandma's baby,

0:50:50.040 --> 0:50:53.920
<v Speaker 4>because no one had actually seen Mom pregnant as such,

0:50:54.080 --> 0:50:58.399
<v Speaker 4>because she was a very slim girl, quite slight. So

0:50:58.440 --> 0:51:00.720
<v Speaker 4>there was this thing I will just say that it's

0:51:01.120 --> 0:51:07.879
<v Speaker 4>Grandma's new baby. My auntie, who was like eight at

0:51:07.880 --> 0:51:11.719
<v Speaker 4>the time, was playing silly buggers on the stairs and fell.

0:51:13.120 --> 0:51:16.480
<v Speaker 4>Mom came out, Grandma came out, the neighbors saw Mom's

0:51:16.480 --> 0:51:18.759
<v Speaker 4>big belly and the couple was won.

0:51:19.960 --> 0:51:21.360
<v Speaker 2>And then where were you raised?

0:51:22.400 --> 0:51:23.040
<v Speaker 4>In the shire?

0:51:24.360 --> 0:51:27.080
<v Speaker 2>Sonia told me that she had listened carefully to the

0:51:27.120 --> 0:51:31.239
<v Speaker 2>first ten episodes of the Broman podcast series, as well

0:51:31.280 --> 0:51:35.480
<v Speaker 2>as these subscriber only bonus episodes of eleven and twelve.

0:51:36.440 --> 0:51:37.479
<v Speaker 2>Have you formed a view?

0:51:39.320 --> 0:51:44.879
<v Speaker 4>I think I formed my grandmother's view. My opinion of

0:51:45.000 --> 0:51:50.040
<v Speaker 4>him is what she feed into me.

0:51:50.520 --> 0:51:53.480
<v Speaker 2>What did she feed into you of him?

0:51:54.680 --> 0:51:59.840
<v Speaker 4>How different my life would have been with him in it?

0:52:00.480 --> 0:52:01.360
<v Speaker 4>For the negative?

0:52:02.920 --> 0:52:05.920
<v Speaker 2>For what reasons? What did she describe in his personality

0:52:06.000 --> 0:52:06.520
<v Speaker 2>or character?

0:52:07.360 --> 0:52:11.120
<v Speaker 4>His controllingness? She said, him and his mother had a

0:52:11.160 --> 0:52:14.960
<v Speaker 4>look in their eye, a look that you wouldn't cross.

0:52:16.480 --> 0:52:21.040
<v Speaker 4>And the day she saw that look was the day

0:52:21.120 --> 0:52:25.600
<v Speaker 4>she knew and she saw the look about three and

0:52:25.600 --> 0:52:30.080
<v Speaker 4>a half, four months into the pregnancy, she said. Prior

0:52:30.160 --> 0:52:34.320
<v Speaker 4>to the pregnancy, he was very welcomed within the house.

0:52:34.520 --> 0:52:36.800
<v Speaker 4>It's come over for dinner all the time. The whole

0:52:36.800 --> 0:52:41.520
<v Speaker 4>couple think they were boyfriend and girlfriend for a long time.

0:52:42.760 --> 0:52:47.120
<v Speaker 4>They were in a relationship. It's not like she had

0:52:47.239 --> 0:52:51.360
<v Speaker 4>just a small version of John. He loved her cooking.

0:52:51.440 --> 0:52:53.839
<v Speaker 4>He would often come to the home and you know,

0:52:53.880 --> 0:52:56.759
<v Speaker 4>they'd sit down and then Pa would run him home

0:52:56.800 --> 0:53:03.240
<v Speaker 4>again in the gab So she knew him well and

0:53:03.320 --> 0:53:04.880
<v Speaker 4>she said he was lovely at stuff.

0:53:29.280 --> 0:53:34.120
<v Speaker 2>Sonya spoke of the nineteen eighties movie Puberty Blues. The

0:53:34.120 --> 0:53:37.399
<v Speaker 2>Australian classic is based on the book of the same name,

0:53:37.560 --> 0:53:41.360
<v Speaker 2>written in the seventies by Gabrielle Carey and Kathy Lett.

0:53:42.360 --> 0:53:45.360
<v Speaker 2>It weaves a story about teenage girls growing up in

0:53:45.400 --> 0:53:49.040
<v Speaker 2>the Shire and around Cronulla in a culture of underage sex,

0:53:49.200 --> 0:53:52.719
<v Speaker 2>panel vans, surfing and deeply entrenched misogyny.

0:53:54.280 --> 0:53:56.759
<v Speaker 4>Who is he one of the boys he's sending down

0:53:56.760 --> 0:53:59.040
<v Speaker 4>at the beach Worksy's old man and he's got a

0:53:59.080 --> 0:54:02.040
<v Speaker 4>panel band. Oh god, do I look it right?

0:54:02.560 --> 0:54:03.000
<v Speaker 2>Routable?

0:54:06.440 --> 0:54:11.920
<v Speaker 4>If you meet Bruce Bruce, Debbie hie, yeah, ghetto Bruce,

0:54:13.040 --> 0:54:13.720
<v Speaker 4>go for it.

0:54:14.400 --> 0:54:16.000
<v Speaker 2>Well, come on, he won't fight.

0:54:23.040 --> 0:54:33.759
<v Speaker 4>Will you go around with me? Yeah? Give have a

0:54:33.800 --> 0:54:34.239
<v Speaker 4>good time.

0:54:36.719 --> 0:54:40.759
<v Speaker 13>I was conceived on Valentine's Day seventy two, so I

0:54:40.800 --> 0:54:44.759
<v Speaker 13>was born nine months after that. It just all blew up,

0:54:44.960 --> 0:54:49.040
<v Speaker 13>And Grandma believes it all blew up over money.

0:54:49.360 --> 0:54:55.960
<v Speaker 4>They'd spoken about married joining. His mother's bond was unbreakable.

0:54:56.680 --> 0:55:00.560
<v Speaker 2>At the same time. Your grandmother wanted to separate her

0:55:00.680 --> 0:55:01.759
<v Speaker 2>daughter and John.

0:55:01.840 --> 0:55:06.120
<v Speaker 4>Not until mid pregnancy when it started to get nasty.

0:55:06.400 --> 0:55:09.280
<v Speaker 4>On the Winfields part. It was all about what John

0:55:09.480 --> 0:55:14.080
<v Speaker 4>said and what John's mother said, and Mum having any

0:55:14.160 --> 0:55:18.480
<v Speaker 4>say in her pregnant self was not going to be allowed.

0:55:19.160 --> 0:55:24.640
<v Speaker 4>She was going to be controlled. Grandma remembers Mom coming

0:55:24.680 --> 0:55:28.160
<v Speaker 4>home and they'd been out for dinner. He used to

0:55:28.400 --> 0:55:31.440
<v Speaker 4>like to eat Chinese food. The meal was sweet and

0:55:31.480 --> 0:55:35.640
<v Speaker 4>sour pork. Grandma said that. Mom's like, oh, John's such

0:55:35.680 --> 0:55:38.839
<v Speaker 4>a gentleman. He pulls my chair out for me and

0:55:39.239 --> 0:55:42.000
<v Speaker 4>he justhes my food up for me. He only lets

0:55:42.040 --> 0:55:45.400
<v Speaker 4>me have a couple of spoons of rice though, And

0:55:45.520 --> 0:55:48.799
<v Speaker 4>Grandma was like what, and she said, oh, yeah, he

0:55:48.960 --> 0:55:53.040
<v Speaker 4>likes me to watch my weight. I can remember Grandma saying,

0:55:53.120 --> 0:55:55.040
<v Speaker 4>That's the minute I knew I was right.

0:55:56.680 --> 0:56:00.239
<v Speaker 2>Sonya's mother was badly smeared in the blame game which

0:56:00.239 --> 0:56:04.440
<v Speaker 2>followed her pregnancy. The decision of John and the Winfield

0:56:04.520 --> 0:56:08.600
<v Speaker 2>family to walk away from responsibility and formally deny a

0:56:08.719 --> 0:56:13.880
<v Speaker 2>paternity cut deeply. Sonya's mother was still besotted with John.

0:56:14.440 --> 0:56:17.319
<v Speaker 2>She had changed her life. She was forced to hide

0:56:17.400 --> 0:56:21.600
<v Speaker 2>from local busybodies. As her belly grew with John's baby,

0:56:21.920 --> 0:56:25.279
<v Speaker 2>her wounding over John's claim that he was not the

0:56:25.360 --> 0:56:30.160
<v Speaker 2>father of her unborn baby was made worse. Sonya's mother

0:56:30.320 --> 0:56:33.520
<v Speaker 2>was characterized as a girl who must have cheated on John.

0:56:34.239 --> 0:56:36.719
<v Speaker 2>She was tarnished as a girl who was carrying an

0:56:36.800 --> 0:56:38.240
<v Speaker 2>unknown man's baby.

0:56:39.360 --> 0:56:46.400
<v Speaker 4>I remember Grandma saying, missus Winfield. The words were something

0:56:46.480 --> 0:56:53.080
<v Speaker 4>along the lines of an easy piece of work. Of course,

0:56:53.160 --> 0:56:56.440
<v Speaker 4>she goes all the way to the city for tech,

0:56:57.680 --> 0:57:03.160
<v Speaker 4>so here's no saying that it's John's baby, because she's

0:57:03.520 --> 0:57:05.120
<v Speaker 4>an easy piece of work.

0:57:06.680 --> 0:57:09.960
<v Speaker 2>Sonya knew from our first conversation on the telephone that

0:57:10.040 --> 0:57:13.239
<v Speaker 2>I had read about her on Father's Day in a

0:57:13.320 --> 0:57:17.320
<v Speaker 2>sixteen year old police document recovered by Bromwin's sister in law,

0:57:17.400 --> 0:57:21.920
<v Speaker 2>Michelle read, that's the document that mentions Sonya and her

0:57:22.000 --> 0:57:26.280
<v Speaker 2>birth in nineteen seventy two. I told Sonya in that

0:57:26.440 --> 0:57:29.680
<v Speaker 2>call that Michelle was going through her emails to make

0:57:29.720 --> 0:57:33.920
<v Speaker 2>sure that she hadn't overlooked anything. Michelle was wanting to

0:57:34.080 --> 0:57:38.000
<v Speaker 2>ensure that season two of Bromin leaves no stone unturned,

0:57:38.720 --> 0:57:41.960
<v Speaker 2>at least as far as her own documents and files

0:57:42.000 --> 0:57:47.480
<v Speaker 2>are concerned. I wondered whether you were aware of the podcast,

0:57:48.040 --> 0:57:52.000
<v Speaker 2>and whether you were connected in any way to what

0:57:52.160 --> 0:57:55.640
<v Speaker 2>was unfolding, and whether your mom was I decided to

0:57:55.720 --> 0:57:58.680
<v Speaker 2>just let it rest for a bit and just see

0:57:58.720 --> 0:58:01.840
<v Speaker 2>what would happen. And then you came forward.

0:58:02.840 --> 0:58:06.520
<v Speaker 4>I pressed send, and I was like, Okay, well, there

0:58:06.560 --> 0:58:09.880
<v Speaker 4>you go. You've done it. But I felt so relieved

0:58:10.040 --> 0:58:11.280
<v Speaker 4>that I pressed send.

0:58:12.160 --> 0:58:15.920
<v Speaker 2>And what happens with these podcasts investigations is people listen

0:58:16.800 --> 0:58:21.480
<v Speaker 2>and hear other good people coming forward for the first

0:58:21.560 --> 0:58:26.280
<v Speaker 2>time disclosing information that they've held pretty close for a

0:58:26.360 --> 0:58:30.680
<v Speaker 2>long time, and that has a very powerful effect on

0:58:31.560 --> 0:58:36.240
<v Speaker 2>listeners who also have information. And he think I'm alone.

0:58:37.080 --> 0:58:41.520
<v Speaker 2>Other people are sharing information that's more or less valuable

0:58:41.520 --> 0:58:43.000
<v Speaker 2>than mine. I should just do it.

0:58:43.720 --> 0:58:47.400
<v Speaker 4>I had a feeling the same time that you were

0:58:47.440 --> 0:58:48.880
<v Speaker 4>reading the document.

0:58:49.480 --> 0:58:56.880
<v Speaker 2>Hypothetical seem John Winfield makes contact with you and says, look,

0:58:57.240 --> 0:59:01.480
<v Speaker 2>i'm your father and I want to you and tell

0:59:01.560 --> 0:59:04.800
<v Speaker 2>you a bit about why I haven't been in touch.

0:59:05.640 --> 0:59:06.480
<v Speaker 2>How do you respond?

0:59:07.200 --> 0:59:13.520
<v Speaker 4>I would probably not respond. I don't feel he's worthy

0:59:13.560 --> 0:59:17.640
<v Speaker 4>of a response from me. I'm not a Winfield. I

0:59:17.720 --> 0:59:22.000
<v Speaker 4>know who I am, and I don't need anything from him,

0:59:22.680 --> 0:59:27.680
<v Speaker 4>whether it be an apology, whether it be I still

0:59:27.720 --> 0:59:32.560
<v Speaker 4>don't believe your mind. I'm complete. If anything that he's

0:59:32.680 --> 0:59:36.680
<v Speaker 4>reaching out for is something that's going to benefit him,

0:59:36.920 --> 0:59:42.120
<v Speaker 4>whether it be emotionally, mentally, whatever that's on him, I'm

0:59:42.160 --> 0:59:43.720
<v Speaker 4>blessed he's not in my life.

0:59:44.400 --> 0:59:45.960
<v Speaker 2>Do you have any anger towards.

0:59:47.760 --> 0:59:51.760
<v Speaker 4>I don't have anything toward him except oh my god,

0:59:51.760 --> 0:59:55.080
<v Speaker 4>I've got to grab my hair. And that is just

0:59:55.320 --> 1:00:00.880
<v Speaker 4>purely for my mum. Obviously, I'm not the most girliest

1:00:00.920 --> 1:00:05.040
<v Speaker 4>of girls you've ever come across, and Mum is and

1:00:05.400 --> 1:00:08.720
<v Speaker 4>was a very girly girl. She was very glamorous in

1:00:08.760 --> 1:00:13.200
<v Speaker 4>the seventies, you know, very petite and beautiful with gorgeous

1:00:13.200 --> 1:00:17.520
<v Speaker 4>blond hair. Nothing like me. When I saw him on

1:00:17.600 --> 1:00:20.160
<v Speaker 4>the front page of the paper, I was like, you

1:00:20.280 --> 1:00:23.959
<v Speaker 4>can't deny. You're going to look like a fool. Every

1:00:23.960 --> 1:00:28.320
<v Speaker 4>time I walked into a room up until I was thirty,

1:00:29.240 --> 1:00:32.240
<v Speaker 4>my mother would be like, oh my god, it's so

1:00:32.440 --> 1:00:35.440
<v Speaker 4>much like him. When I told my wife over lunches

1:00:35.520 --> 1:00:38.640
<v Speaker 4>today that I was catching up with you today, and

1:00:38.680 --> 1:00:41.640
<v Speaker 4>she said, oh my god, I've got goosebumps, I said,

1:00:41.680 --> 1:00:45.080
<v Speaker 4>I do you think I should pre warn Headley, he's

1:00:45.120 --> 1:00:49.160
<v Speaker 4>going to feel like he's sitting opposite John. The resemblance

1:00:49.280 --> 1:00:54.840
<v Speaker 4>is uncanny. There literally is nothing. I don't like him.

1:00:54.920 --> 1:00:57.600
<v Speaker 4>I don't dislike him. I don't respect him. I don't

1:00:57.640 --> 1:01:01.080
<v Speaker 4>disrespect him. He's just a guy I saw on the

1:01:01.120 --> 1:01:04.120
<v Speaker 4>front page of the newspaper for the first time four

1:01:04.160 --> 1:01:07.640
<v Speaker 4>months ago, who happened to get my mother pregnant. That's

1:01:07.840 --> 1:01:10.520
<v Speaker 4>all he is to me. He'll never be my dad.

1:01:10.560 --> 1:01:13.760
<v Speaker 4>He'll never be my father, will never be mates, will

1:01:13.800 --> 1:01:17.120
<v Speaker 4>never sit down and have a copper together. I will

1:01:17.160 --> 1:01:21.520
<v Speaker 4>never break bread with him, purely because my grandmother would

1:01:21.560 --> 1:01:23.160
<v Speaker 4>be disgusted in me if I did.

1:01:24.800 --> 1:01:30.080
<v Speaker 2>From everything I've been told about John, he's extraordinarily tight

1:01:30.440 --> 1:01:37.000
<v Speaker 2>with money. He would possibly be concerned that any acknowledgment

1:01:37.040 --> 1:01:42.640
<v Speaker 2>by him of your existence could reduce the wealth that

1:01:42.720 --> 1:01:44.919
<v Speaker 2>he has and the estate that he has.

1:01:45.720 --> 1:01:50.160
<v Speaker 4>It's always about money with Winfield. Grandma always said that,

1:01:50.360 --> 1:01:55.280
<v Speaker 4>and in nineteen seventy two it was about eleven dollars

1:01:55.320 --> 1:01:58.760
<v Speaker 4>a week or seventeen dollars a week or whatever. In

1:01:58.800 --> 1:02:04.120
<v Speaker 4>twenty twenty four it's about ocean front estates. I remember

1:02:04.200 --> 1:02:10.360
<v Speaker 4>Grandma saying something along the lines of eleven dollars seventeen

1:02:10.440 --> 1:02:14.240
<v Speaker 4>dollars per week that they didn't want to have to

1:02:14.280 --> 1:02:16.520
<v Speaker 4>pay for you to.

1:02:16.720 --> 1:02:20.960
<v Speaker 2>Be As you listen to the story with the knowledge

1:02:20.960 --> 1:02:24.800
<v Speaker 2>that the person at the center of it, the person

1:02:25.200 --> 1:02:30.560
<v Speaker 2>suspected by police and read family of having murdered Promin,

1:02:30.840 --> 1:02:34.520
<v Speaker 2>knowing that he's your father, are you affected?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think of him as my father. I've managed

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<v Speaker 4>to successfully be unaffected by it. As I said, I

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<v Speaker 4>feel for.

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<v Speaker 2>Crystal, there seems to be still a curiosity in you,

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<v Speaker 2>because otherwise why would you be listening to it.

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<v Speaker 4>Back when I was in ballin a police station, I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't understand why I was there, but I also left

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<v Speaker 4>there thinking this is going to be finished off soon.

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<v Speaker 2>Would love me to show you some of the start

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<v Speaker 2>of that documentary. Referring to yes please, I started to

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<v Speaker 2>make a point apparently your dad's sorry, I shouldn't callim

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<v Speaker 2>your dad Sonya's face changed, she appeared uncomfortable and excused

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<v Speaker 2>herself to go to the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 4>Just threw me a bit before when you said your dad.

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<v Speaker 4>Of course he's not and it will never be. No

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<v Speaker 4>one's actually said those words ever before your you know,

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<v Speaker 4>But I yeah, sorry about that I understand. Yeah, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm happy if that helps you in any way with

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<v Speaker 4>your investigations. It's actually really nice to know that my

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<v Speaker 4>grandmother's eye for detail was so detailed when my mom

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<v Speaker 4>was that young. There's photos of me and my mom,

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<v Speaker 4>and some of those photos are very very similar to

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<v Speaker 4>photos I've got on your website of Bridman and the

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<v Speaker 4>girls when the girls were young. I have a very

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<v Speaker 4>similar photo and it's like, oh.

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<v Speaker 2>My God, like.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, Goma, But it could have been me and

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<v Speaker 4>my mom. I think she was spot on with the

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<v Speaker 4>controlling and the dominating.

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<v Speaker 2>What would you say to Lauren, Crystal and Jodi about

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<v Speaker 2>their beliefs and what they've been.

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<v Speaker 4>Told, even if they deep down inside, no, the answer

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<v Speaker 4>is going to hurt them. Ask the question anyway. Jody's

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<v Speaker 4>coming up to an age where she's going to, whether

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<v Speaker 4>she likes it or not, biologically, start questioning things. As

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<v Speaker 4>you're coming up to fifty and you're going through menopause

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<v Speaker 4>and everything, think inside dey's changing, and you can have

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<v Speaker 4>the lowest of lows and the highest of highs. And

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<v Speaker 4>if there's a time in her life where she's wondering

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<v Speaker 4>what the true answers to the questions are this is

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<v Speaker 4>the time where she should lighten her load, just be open.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a level of dishonesty, whether it's the story of

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<v Speaker 4>whatever happened to Bronwyn, whether it's the story of John

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<v Speaker 4>Winfield and his life, that it just seems to get

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<v Speaker 4>these extra levels of layers of unbelievable things on top

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<v Speaker 4>of them. The girls should just be allowed to know

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<v Speaker 4>their truths.

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<v Speaker 2>You said before that you were very hopeful there would

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<v Speaker 2>be a good outcome. What do you believe is a

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<v Speaker 2>good outcome.

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<v Speaker 4>For the girls? Then? What happened to Bronwyn, the good,

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<v Speaker 4>the bad, the ugly, whatever it may be, they deserve

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<v Speaker 4>to know. It's got to be the heaviest load for

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<v Speaker 4>them to carry.

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<v Speaker 2>Bronwyn is written and investigated by me Headley Thomas as

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<v Speaker 2>a podcast production for The Australian. If anyone has information

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<v Speaker 2>which may help solve this cold case, please contact me

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<v Speaker 2>confidentially by emailing Bronwyn at the Australian dot com dot au.

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<v Speaker 2>You can read more about this case and see a

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<v Speaker 2>range of photographs and other artwork at the website Bronwyn

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