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Speaker 1: This is the Fitting and Whip with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: I sorry about this one, guys.

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Speaker 2: The age gap in a relationship is a big one.

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Speaker 2: How old's BJ twenty five?

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Speaker 3: No? No, no, she's she's about seven eight months younger

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Speaker 3: than me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, similar, So she's forty eight.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's forty eight now and I'm about to ten

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Speaker 3: forty nine.

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Speaker 1: Great check, great check.

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Speaker 2: Got really good chat and a great discussion point about

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Speaker 2: how far you can go either side when it comes

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Speaker 2: to an age gap. There is a theory that if

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Speaker 2: you have your age and add seven, then that's okay.

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Speaker 1: That theory has been getting around for a while. Who

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Speaker 1: started the theory?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, mate.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't there at the time, so I would be

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Speaker 1: forty four.

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Speaker 2: Take me to twenty two plus seven, God, twenty nine.

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Speaker 2: It's not It would have been weird if I was

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Speaker 2: dating a twenty nine year old. If I had a

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Speaker 2: girlfriend in her twenties and I'm forty five, I reckon.

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Speaker 1: It's starting to get a bit on the sussiety.

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Speaker 3: I think that's a question that we don't need to

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Speaker 3: ask you. If you asked that, poor young girl, that's

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Speaker 3: what are you.

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Speaker 2: Doing with a forty five year old, because he's a

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Speaker 2: really great guy.

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Speaker 1: He's got a hot body, and I love his intelligence.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for answering, Young girl. Ash is in an.

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Speaker 2: Interesting situation because Ash is one of the great cradle

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Speaker 2: snatches of the modern era.

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Speaker 1: How young is Craig? Because he's younger than you. Craig

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Speaker 1: was Christian? How young is Christian? He is thirty two?

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Speaker 1: And how old are you?

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Speaker 3: I am thirty seven five.

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Speaker 2: Did you know at the time or did you did

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Speaker 2: you actively go after a younger man?

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Speaker 1: I knew his age at the time, I do, I thought.

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Speaker 3: So when it was yeah, yeah, okay, So it wasn't

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Speaker 3: brought up in a date, because that would have been

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Speaker 3: a bit awkward, Ash, because you would have had to

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Speaker 3: go on, Hey, breaking news, I'm five years older than you,

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Speaker 3: and this just in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he's just In.

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Speaker 3: I was born in the eighties. But no, because on

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Speaker 3: the dating app we met on, his age was on

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Speaker 3: its profile, So.

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Speaker 2: I knew you deliberately moved the age to a younger bracket.

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Speaker 3: My bracket was.

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Speaker 1: My bracket was a little broader than most. I get

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Speaker 1: to say, open this, open, send me this. What was

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Speaker 1: the age bracket?

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Speaker 3: Going back a long time, now.

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Speaker 1: Was was it quite large?

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Speaker 3: Like what was the oldest what was the oldest year

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Speaker 3: prepared to go?

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Speaker 1: So it got up to fifty?

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Speaker 3: No, No, I would probably say maybe five maybe five

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Speaker 3: years either Sung.

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Speaker 2: You know, this is like that sixty minutes interview with

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Speaker 2: Cocaine Cassie's where she couldn't remember the pin to her phone.

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Speaker 1: But as you know exactly what's going on. It's been

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Speaker 1: a long time since I've been on a dating app.

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Speaker 1: I could her on the stand. So how did you

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Speaker 1: say you were thirty eight?

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Speaker 3: I'm thirty seven.

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Speaker 1: You're thirty seven, right? Would fifty be too high?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Yeah it's would forty eight be too high?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I'm out.

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Speaker 1: I mean what if.

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Speaker 3: What if someoney looks like they're fifty with her boyfriends

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Speaker 3: and about someone was forty five and looked sixty five?

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Speaker 1: I mean, is that something? Do you? Are you going

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Speaker 1: anywhere with this RTE? You've got nothing to win the break.

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Speaker 3: You're sweaty as well, are really nervous.

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Speaker 2: That's an older girl thing, that's like, that's like an older.

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Speaker 1: That's an older wife thing. You get nervous around young men.

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Speaker 3: I understand the last time Ash was this nervous was

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Speaker 3: when you asked her to do a hickey live on

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Speaker 3: a big.

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