1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. I'm gonna phrase it. When you 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: say someone's emotional, there's normally like a negative connotation associated 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: with it. Yes, So if I was going to say, 4 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: women are more emotional, so they cry more like, people 5 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:12,800 Speaker 1: think that's bad, but I think it's a good thing 6 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: because they have more releases and more ways to express 7 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: themselves in more ways to feel in life. Relatable. 8 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 2: The Relatable podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig aka Daddy, 9 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 2: and my partner in crime Oddie Clark aka Mummy. And 10 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,840 Speaker 2: Mummy is the one you go to when, let's say, 11 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 2: maybe you're having some troubles with your friends. 12 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: You did it wrong, and Jake is Daddy because he's 13 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 1: always late. 14 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 2: Well, I didn't do it wrong. 15 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: Did you do it wrong? I don't know. 16 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 2: I think I do. Say is mummy? Didn't you say? 17 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 2: You said mummy is Mummy? Is ODDI ODDI is mummy 18 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 2: for the reason I said prior. And you guys are 19 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 2: the Barties. Obviously we can't forget about you. But as 20 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 2: promised two weeks late, he's done it three weeks late. 21 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: Technically, no too. 22 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 2: I've got a letter to myself. I was going to 23 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 2: write it to my older self. Yeah, but I wrote 24 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:20,839 Speaker 2: it to my younger self. 25 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: Okay, So what's the age backet you went to? 26 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 2: I think early days podcast? Okay, early days podcast two 27 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 2: years ago? Now I want to go like probably three, 28 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 2: two and a half to three. Okay, yeah, because wow 29 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 2: when you say that. So we've been doing this for 30 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 2: nearly three and a half years, and two years ago 31 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 2: actually is very early days of the podcast. But for 32 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 2: some reason, I feel like I've been doing this for 33 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 2: ten years. 34 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. I want to be saying, imagine what it actually 35 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: feels like to work somewhere for ten years. 36 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 2: Never done it. I don't think I've ever worked anyway 37 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: for more than three. 38 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: This is my longest term actually say this, actually I 39 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: think this is the longest. What would have been on 40 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: pile before you is being a tradue very close yeah, 41 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: very close jacket. It's a good feeling or a shit feeling? 42 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: Is it? 43 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 3: Like? 44 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 2: Oh this feels good? Okay? 45 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: Oh wait, do you mean if you did ten years 46 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:16,959 Speaker 1: chop and changing? Now, if you did ten years somewhere like, 47 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: oh it's good. I was like, I need to change. 48 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 2: If you enjoy the work, I think it's good. And 49 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 2: especially if you have good bosses, and they reward you 50 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 2: with stuff, you know, pay rises and they give you 51 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 2: like a ten year gift of fifteen year gift or whatever. 52 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 2: I don't know, stuff like that, like probably good if 53 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 2: you enjoy that type of grind, but I clearly didn't 54 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 2: like it. 55 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: I want to preface your letter before you say it. Okay, 56 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: so last week, you know how you didn't do it? Yeah, 57 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: I said to Jake before we started. I was like, 58 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: do you want to take fifteen minutes and write a 59 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: letter quickly? 60 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:48,799 Speaker 2: Yeah? 61 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:50,519 Speaker 1: And he goes, nah, we're. 62 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 2: Taking me like two hours. No, that's because, however, on 63 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 2: the spot like that, I can't write. I'm not on 64 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 2: the spot with you. Watch me. I can't run myself 65 00:02:57,600 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 2: a letter. 66 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: And I've just glimpsed and it's fours. 67 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 2: Hey, don't cut me short. Seven fuck you, it's seven 68 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: and a half. 69 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,360 Speaker 1: So it's six and a half, six and three quarters 70 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: fuck you, pretty big text. 71 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 2: I wanted to keep it short and sweet. 72 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: All right? How long did this take? 73 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 2: Care? I wrote it on the toilet, But if anyone 74 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 2: knows me, I'm usually there for a while. No. Look 75 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 2: last week when you said, like, you can just run 76 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 2: it right now, if you want it, And I was 77 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 2: like no, no, no, no no, Like I was comparing mind. 78 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 2: I was like comparing mind to yours and thinking, like fun, 79 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 2: I need to do like a good one, like Addie. 80 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 2: If I was to do one like you, actually think 81 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 2: I would have taken an hour when I kept it. 82 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: No, that's what makes us good, is like I'm me yeah, 83 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: and you're you, Yeah, your mummy. I'm not expecting less serious, 84 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 1: that's who you are as a person. 85 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 2: I thought you adding serious helped me a lot then, 86 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 2: because I thought you were just gonna say. I was 87 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 2: expecting less. 88 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: I never expected to go really deep. 89 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 2: I tried to go, yeah, let me read it anyway, okay, less, 90 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 2: I think this might be relatable. Hello Jake, don't laugh, 91 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 2: you don't. 92 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: Don't laugh, delivery none of the taste. 93 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 2: Hello Jake. As of right now, we are in your 94 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 2: definition successful. We do the podcast full time, we live 95 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 2: with our girlfriend, we have a dog, and we're moving 96 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 2: to the Gold Coast next year. Actually that kind of did. 97 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 2: At the point in time where I'm saying this, probably 98 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 2: didn't even think I was gonna do that. Yeah, well, 99 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 2: so congrats, you have a lot to look forward to. 100 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 2: But our list of things that defines success has gotten longer, 101 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 2: and I admit it sort of takes away that feeling 102 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 2: of success. Not that I don't yeah, not that I 103 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 2: don't think there is anything wrong with that. Does that 104 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 2: make sense? Because of course it's great to have goals. 105 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 2: I just really want to nail into your head too, 106 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 2: as they say, sit back and smell the roses. 107 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: Ah very nice. 108 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:12,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, el sweet. Because I've been talking about it on 109 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 2: Patreon a bit more lately. 110 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: It's kind of like the goal posts are always moving. 111 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what it is like, and I think that's fine. 112 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 2: You know, you you reach a goal. I remember a 113 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 2: long time ago saying like, if we get to a 114 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 2: point where the podcast is our full time job, I'm 115 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 2: considered retired. And being at that point, I haven't really 116 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:34,919 Speaker 2: sat back and thought like, obviously I appreciate it, but 117 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 2: that's a goal reached, and it's like I think, I 118 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 2: don't think about how maybe cool it is and like 119 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 2: give ourselves enough kudos or something, just just like that 120 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 2: we actually got there, because I think that we've now 121 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 2: moved what I would say we define as success or 122 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 2: me myself at least, you can't speak few I would 123 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 2: i'd say moved it further or the list has gotten longer, 124 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 2: and I think that's good. But we're still allowed to 125 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 2: be successful because we've already reached the ones that our 126 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 2: past has our past self has set. 127 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:17,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, and going like broad spectrum, it's really relatable because 128 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 1: when you're in something, I always describe it as it 129 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: doesn't feel real. No, but from an outsider looking in, 130 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: like if someone did something amazing they run one hundred kilometers, 131 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: like wow, you're a weapon, but the person who run 132 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 1: it doesn't feel like a weapon. 133 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 2: Well no, I think at the end of that race 134 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 2: they actually don't really feel very good at all. 135 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that was just the analogy the same with us, 136 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: Like when you're in something, it doesn't feel cool when 137 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:42,840 Speaker 1: you're doing it, No, maybe not no, And when a 138 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: good point, it's like before you run the race, you're thinking, 139 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 1: this is going to be so cool that I can 140 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: run one hundred kilometers. 141 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 2: And it's about the training. It's the training for the race, and. 142 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: Then when you're running it, you don't even think about it. 143 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 1: And it's like when we've got when we're here before 144 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: if you told us we could make the podcast our 145 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,039 Speaker 1: full time job, We're like, that is sick now we're here. 146 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: It's just like human nature is always thinking about one 147 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: more but also not being able to step back and 148 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 1: appreciate it for what it is. It's just fucking yeah, 149 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: why I couldn't life be easy? What do you believe in? 150 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: The saying? What is it You've got to what's the 151 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: cliche one where you've got to experience the bad to 152 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: accept the good or like to experience the good? 153 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 4: True? 154 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to. What is that saying? You have 155 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 2: to experience the bad to experience the good? You have 156 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 2: to Yeah, that's basically it. It's a roundabout way of saying, 157 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 2: I know exactly what you mean. Yeah, you have to 158 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 2: know what the bad feels like so you can know 159 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 2: what the good. 160 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: Do you though? 161 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 2: It's a good question. That's a good question. 162 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 1: Right now we're feeling good. We don't feel good. 163 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 2: Like we do, but we I I even I don't know. 164 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 2: I've even said, like I said to you the other day, 165 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 2: we look at numbers and if the numbers don't climb, 166 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 2: we are kind of like, oh, and if they go down, 167 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 2: oh my god, oh how dare they How fucking dare 168 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: they go down? And how dare we let that happen? 169 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 2: It's actually out of our control. But I was like, yes, 170 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 2: it's like, if we could get to like, say, fifty thousand, 171 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 2: an episode like that would be you know, that would 172 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 2: be good. What's the better if we get there? I'm 173 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 2: going to be like, yeah, but if it could just 174 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 2: be a hundred. 175 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: Well how can we and everyone else because everyone's doing 176 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 1: cool things. We're listening right now exactly. Yeah, appreciate the training, 177 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: Appreciate the grind, not the end goal or like the 178 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 1: next thing. And I think it's just like clique as 179 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: it is, stopping and smelling the roses, but being self 180 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: aware that what you are doing is cool when you 181 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: just have to accept that. 182 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think a toxic trade of mine is I 183 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 2: look at, say, podcast numbers the way that most people 184 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 2: look at bank account. I think a good trade of 185 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,679 Speaker 2: mine is that I don't look at bank account and 186 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 2: think once I'm at this number, I'm good. It's just 187 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 2: not something I really think about, luckily, and I can 188 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 2: totally see why people think like that. But again, so 189 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,080 Speaker 2: say it's like I think in a way of it's 190 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 2: also the toxic way of if it's fifty thousand per episode, 191 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 2: then we're good, but when we get there, it's obviously 192 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 2: not going to be good, even though it's like good enough. Yeah, 193 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 2: nothing's ever good enough. And so I think, I don't know, 194 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,959 Speaker 2: you fucking I want to be able to like help 195 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 2: people and and live the life of the advice we give. 196 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 2: But I think at the same time, excepting that we 197 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 2: are also human, or that I am also human, excepting 198 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 2: that everyone's human. Yeah, excepting that everyone's human, and like, 199 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 2: you know, the best people compare themselves to other people 200 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 2: as well. Yeah, and it's also too like not saying 201 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 2: that we're the best people. I was talking about, like say, 202 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 2: I don't know fucking Brad Pitt or some shit, or 203 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 2: like maybe they don't feel like the best people either 204 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:52,319 Speaker 2: know exactly, they're still they're also human. 205 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 1: It's all in our head. And then also being human 206 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 1: is just like the things that affect you too. You 207 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 1: think everyone around you is perfect, but then you're so 208 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 1: hard on self. Yeah, it's such a double ended sword. 209 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 1: It's stupid. 210 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've started to hate social media again. Yeah, I've 211 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:07,080 Speaker 2: started to. 212 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 1: Really, it's a tricky thing to navigate social media because 213 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 1: really highlights the best that makes you feel like shit. Yeah. 214 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 2: Like sometimes I'll get a little thing in my head 215 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 2: where I go, what the fuck am I doing with 216 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 2: my time? What the what the fuck am I doing 217 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,599 Speaker 2: my time? And then I get mad at myself for 218 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 2: being like, you lazy prick do it. But I don't know. 219 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:34,319 Speaker 2: Maybe the quicker I accept that I'm not going to 220 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 2: do it, and I stop putting the pressure on myself 221 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 2: to do it. The quicker I will just be like, 222 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 2: it's not happening, So I'm not going to do it. Yeah, 223 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? 224 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 1: That is up next. I am excited because this is 225 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: the start of the Baddest Baddie campaign where we are 226 00:10:55,800 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 1: highlighting the real engines behind business and I just really 227 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 1: want to talk to you baddies who are doing cool things, the. 228 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:07,320 Speaker 2: Real engines behind the world, the world even Yeah, I 229 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 2: like that. 230 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 1: And today we're kicking things off with Chelsea Carford. Maybe 231 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: Crawford that might be better. 232 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 2: But so we're going to start with her hustle story. Okay, 233 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 2: this is baddie. 234 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a baddie who we're going to call 235 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: shortly before we do that, let's get her backstory behind 236 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: her business and a little bit about herself. 237 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 2: Love it. 238 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: So her hustle story was she started a business at 239 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 1: nineteen after suffering from painful periods for nine years being 240 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 1: told it was all in her head and she was 241 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: too young to have endometriosis. Fuck that, eh, So many 242 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 1: hospitals and tests were a lot of just being medically 243 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: gas lit. So she started a business and designed clothes 244 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 1: for all women and girls, but specifically for those with 245 00:11:51,200 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: endometriosis pcos this word aida mesiosis, aidanomiosis and painful periods. 246 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 1: My first product is a hoodie that's one hundred percent 247 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: cotton and has a pocket for a hot water bottle 248 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: and a heat pack. Best thing I've ever done. I 249 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:11,559 Speaker 1: love wearing it when it's cold, but even when I 250 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:16,079 Speaker 1: have my flare ups. And then also her baddie business 251 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 1: moment was releasing the first launch of her hoodies after 252 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:24,319 Speaker 1: her surgery where I got diagnosed with endometriosis. It was 253 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 1: a few days post off. Damn. Yeah, so she has it. Yeah, 254 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 1: she's got it. 255 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,960 Speaker 2: I hate doctors, dude, I hate doctors. 256 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:35,839 Speaker 1: Something about it. They've got a note. 257 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was something about doctors and not wanting to 258 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 2: put the effort in. It just irks me. 259 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: It's like if it's in their book and it says 260 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 1: like girls can't get indemutrious under the age of eighteen, 261 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 1: then I'm not going to do anything about it. 262 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 2: I also find case by case, you're right. Yeah, so 263 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 2: they get told obviously they're very very well educated, of course, 264 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 2: you know, and it probably gets hammered into them that 265 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 2: you know, for example, and demetriosis doesn't come to X 266 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 2: age and so she's younger than that age, and they go, 267 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 2: it's just it's just not a thing. I'm sorry, it's 268 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 2: just you're too young. It's it's on that head of yours. Therapy, 269 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:17,199 Speaker 2: that's all I do, therapy whatever, funk off. And so 270 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 2: then finally some doctor goes, well, let's test it, and 271 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 2: then boom has it. It's like just fucking test for shit. Yeah, 272 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 2: is there lack of tests or something. 273 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 1: I think it's lack of I don't know, like effort, 274 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:38,079 Speaker 1: will or the desire to help. It's more like going 275 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 1: back to the job. It's just like it's just my 276 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 1: job clocking in. It's their job, and it's hard for 277 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 1: people going through these type of things. He's a baddie 278 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: who's prevailed. Ye shall we Yeah, it's cool. Shit Hello. 279 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 2: Is that Chelsea? 280 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:55,079 Speaker 1: How are you going? Welcome to the Baddest Baddie. 281 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 5: I'm good, Thank you? 282 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 1: How are you? We are going really well. I'm joined 283 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 1: by Jake. Hello. Hi, thank you for staying up late. 284 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: We haven't mentioned to everyone that you are from England. 285 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, what time is it in England? 286 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 5: It's currently five past one in the morning. 287 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: Oh my god, So sorry very much for staying up. 288 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 1: It's fine, it's fine, And I've just read everyone your 289 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: hustle story and your business and wanted to say it's 290 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 1: very inspiring and just asked how's the business going, and 291 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 1: any any sort of hurdles you overcame just through doing it. 292 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 5: So I started the business probably about three years ago, 293 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 5: but it's had like changes in that it didn't really 294 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 5: start until I first think about the hospital about two 295 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 5: years ago with suspected endometrosis, and then I sort of 296 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 5: came up last year when I was in a really 297 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 5: bad syra. I think through a really bad time a 298 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 5: hoodie that could hold a hot water bottle or a 299 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:02,280 Speaker 5: heat pack sort of we're out like to college, to work, 300 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 5: to meet up with friends and stuff. And I only 301 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 5: got the sample of the hoodies a few months ago, 302 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 5: and I was like, I'm going to do it. I'm 303 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 5: going to put it out there, see what reaction it gets. 304 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 5: It got a huge reaction, and I put them up 305 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 5: for pre orders a week after my surgery, so I 306 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 5: wasn't even like fully recovered. I put them out and 307 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 5: we're movie sold out, which is just mental to me. 308 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: Damn. It's a great idea, Honestly, that's such a good story. 309 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 1: It is well, Chelsea, that is very inspiring. But also 310 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 1: we are here to have a little bit of fun 311 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: as well and put that business knowledge to the tests. 312 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 1: So are you ready for it? 313 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 2: Are you ready? 314 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 5: I'm ready? 315 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 2: Okay. 316 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 1: So imagine me and Jake are in the elevator and 317 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 1: you've just walked in. 318 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, hey Jake. 319 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 1: Business has been tough. 320 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels like we're just pressing the same floor 321 00:15:58,280 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 2: button every day. 322 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 1: Maybe if it's time we hit a new level. 323 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, but what's something actually innovative? 324 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 5: Well, now that you talk about it, guys, innovative my 325 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 5: business you do my pain obviously. 326 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 2: Explain well, a beauty of ung pain. I like that name. 327 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 2: That's interesting. How'd you come up with that? 328 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 5: It started when I ended up in hospital and I 329 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 5: was going through the worst time in my life, and 330 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 5: I was like, what should I do to help myself 331 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 5: and other women going through the same issue, same problems 332 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 5: like we do every day period cramps, heavy periods, being 333 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 5: told it's all normal when it's not just struggling every 334 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 5: day having to hold a hot water bottle in your 335 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 5: trousers with it falling and having to hold it and 336 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 5: getting frustrated. So I was like, you know what, I'm 337 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 5: just gonna create a hoodie and use the name vity 338 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 5: my Pain, which resonates with finding the beauty amongst all 339 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 5: of the horrible pain that you can go through and 340 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 5: just finding the beauty in it all still looking amazing 341 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 5: well being comfortable. And that's where the fiby came in. 342 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 2: Well, well, I asked, do you need investors because that 343 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 2: was a very good pitch. 344 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 1: That was great, Chelsea, that was really good. It was 345 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 1: funny you needed that little bit of Jake. And then. 346 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:28,639 Speaker 2: Oh wow, that was actually very good. I like how 347 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:31,040 Speaker 2: you It's almost like you were standing there just kind 348 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:34,880 Speaker 2: of eavesdropping on a conversation. You went, actually, well, I. 349 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 5: Always I always eaves dropping on conversations always, So she 350 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:39,160 Speaker 5: was a. 351 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 2: Pro Let's go you have experience. 352 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, Chelsea, this is now going to go to 353 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 1: the baddies to vote to see who had a better 354 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:49,440 Speaker 1: elevator pitch. But thank you very much for coming. 355 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:52,239 Speaker 5: On, thank you for having me at all. 356 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 1: Had sleep, good sleep. 357 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 5: Thank you bye. 358 00:17:56,880 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 2: Okay, Next up the second as baddie is Taylor Mills. 359 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 2: All right, I got her hustle story in front of 360 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 2: me here. At just twenty years old, I packed up 361 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 2: my life and moved to one of the most remote 362 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 2: indigenous communities in Australia, ramming inning interesting Northern Territory to 363 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 2: work for the local government. There were no big teams, 364 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 2: no easy resources, and no one holding my hand. I 365 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 2: was thrown straight into the deep end when I asked 366 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 2: to step up into a management role, sorry management role, 367 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 2: despite having little to know experience, and I said yes. 368 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 2: Suddenly I was running and supporting day to day council 369 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 2: operations completely on my own, from waste management, payroll, housing, 370 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 2: youth services, aged care, postal services, municipal support and community engagement. 371 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:56,160 Speaker 2: I lived alone, showed up every single day and made 372 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:58,959 Speaker 2: it work. I owned the respect of my senior executives 373 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:03,160 Speaker 2: from large corporations, elders in the community, visiting officials and 374 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:06,960 Speaker 2: my community. By proving that young people are capable, we 375 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:10,880 Speaker 2: can lead, and we can lead well beyond my role. 376 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 2: I've always used my voice for impact. I wrote a 377 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:16,160 Speaker 2: speech on youth mental health that was read in Parliament 378 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 2: by Luke Gosling. I've served as NT Youth Ambassador and 379 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:26,359 Speaker 2: proudly represented by community null and By by winning the 380 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 2: GTNT School based Trainee of the Year Award after completing 381 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:35,160 Speaker 2: my Certificate three in business at sixteen. Now at twenty one, 382 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 2: I'm still breaking expectations managing a two hundred and fifty 383 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 2: property housing portfolio that supports economic growth in Nullumbi while 384 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 2: studying to become a licensed real estate agent. I've been 385 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 2: underestimated because of my age or gender, but I've proven 386 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,199 Speaker 2: every single time that capability has no age limit. My 387 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 2: hustle started early because I've always believed that it doesn't 388 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:01,159 Speaker 2: matter where you come from, how young you are, or 389 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:04,440 Speaker 2: what your background looks like. If you have determination, courage 390 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:08,199 Speaker 2: and a heart, you can lead anywhere. Because being a 391 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 2: baddie isn't just about confidence, It's about capability, consistency and courage. 392 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:18,160 Speaker 2: When no one is watching business, baddie moment My biggest 393 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 2: baddie moment was standing in ramming ginning hope, I'm not 394 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 2: butchering that hundreds of kilometers from the nearest city, realizing 395 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,360 Speaker 2: that at just twenty, I was running operations that kept 396 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 2: an entire community operational. Every decision mattered, every challenge was 397 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 2: mine to face, and I didn't just survive it, I 398 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 2: led through it. That moment proved me and everyone watching 399 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 2: that young women can lead just as strongly, just as smartly, 400 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 2: and just as powerfully as anyone else. 401 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 1: Wow. 402 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 2: Dad, I was kind of sick to read, Bro, I'm 403 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 2: not gonna lie. 404 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: Well written. 405 00:20:54,760 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 2: Bro. Let's get a tailor on the phone right now. Hello, Taylor, 406 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 2: It's Jake and Oddie from the Relatables. How are you good? 407 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 1: Thank you, HOLLI so good. 408 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 2: Welcome to the Baddest Baddy. You got Oddie here with me, 409 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:17,200 Speaker 2: of course, and I just read out your hustle story, 410 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 2: your badest baddie, badest business baddie moment, and my first 411 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:28,159 Speaker 2: takeaway is I just want to say, very inspirational and also, 412 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 2: my problems aren't problems. 413 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:34,159 Speaker 1: Wow. 414 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:36,200 Speaker 2: That was amazing. 415 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 4: Thank you so much, No, no. 416 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:44,439 Speaker 2: Thank you, so yeah. How are you're still how old? 417 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:47,680 Speaker 4: Are you now I spurned twenty one this year. 418 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:52,200 Speaker 1: Wait a second, you what that story is like? You've 419 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:53,159 Speaker 1: lived a lot, I was. 420 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 2: I thought that. I thought you're gonna be like twenty seven. 421 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 4: I felt like I've lived a life. 422 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 2: Are you still in the Northern Territory. 423 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, I've grown up here in my whole life. 424 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 2: Wow, And are you still at the may? I ask 425 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 2: how to pronounce? Is it Ramming Ginning? 426 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 6: You got it? 427 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 2: I think the first people get it. Are you still there? No? 428 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 4: So I moved back to my hometown at the start 429 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 4: of this year because I had a career opportunity come 430 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 4: up and I just took it. And so, yeah, I 431 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 4: left Ramming Getting It would have been about Christmas time. 432 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 4: It was pretty sad. I really did like it there, 433 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,320 Speaker 4: but you know, I was coming back to my hometown, 434 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 4: so it wasn't prove out of the situation. But yeah, 435 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,760 Speaker 4: I'm from Norland Boys, which is in northeast southam Land, 436 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:50,879 Speaker 4: which is also in the territory. It's very small. It 437 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 4: is a mining town. But if the mine is Rio Tinta, 438 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,159 Speaker 4: I'm not sure if you guys know that. 439 00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 2: I did not know, but I do know that I'm 440 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 2: Linery opening will be pretty good for the town. 441 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 1: I do know that. 442 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:08,919 Speaker 4: Well, it's controversial because this obviously is an indigenous community 443 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 4: in its own land. So the mine's actually closing shortly 444 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 4: and this town, yes, so this town is a mining town. 445 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 4: Most all the infrastructure, everything was built to keep the 446 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:24,919 Speaker 4: mine up so they could have people come in and 447 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:30,680 Speaker 4: you know, obviously mine bought site whatnot. Obviously, with that closing, 448 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 4: our community is so strong here in Olanboy and a 449 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 4: lot of the businesses and a lot of the residents here, 450 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,919 Speaker 4: we don't want it to become, you know, like a 451 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:43,359 Speaker 4: ghost town or no one's here and everything failed. So 452 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 4: at the moment, that's my business I'm working with Now. 453 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 4: We am part of a having sector in it. So 454 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 4: we have a portfolio of two hundred and fifty properties 455 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 4: and our goal is to provide that housing two specifically 456 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 4: businesses they can employ people to keep different operations going. 457 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 4: We have, yeah, different people like you know, you have 458 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 4: more businesses that keep you know, revenue coming into town. 459 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 4: You have paramatics, a bunch of people that we help support. 460 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:20,360 Speaker 4: But there's obviously within our town so many different places 461 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 4: that keep it going. So I really will be fine 462 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 4: after the mine closes, but I to be a part 463 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,120 Speaker 4: of this. You know, new change is going to be cool, 464 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 4: and that's just something I couldn't say no to. 465 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 2: So here I am fairer n. 466 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 1: You're taking all the right steps and you're there make 467 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:38,880 Speaker 1: the right change, which is really good. 468 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 2: Well yeah, all right, time to give us your pitch. 469 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,879 Speaker 2: All right. You seem like someone that has a pretty 470 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 2: good pitch under their belt. So Audie and I are 471 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 2: going to be as you know, we're going to pretend 472 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 2: we're in an elevator and you're maybe eavesdropping a little bit. 473 00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 2: We'll start talking and then you interject when you see fit. 474 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 2: All right, Jake, business has been tough. Yeah, it feels 475 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:10,119 Speaker 2: like we're just pressing the same floor button every day. 476 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 1: Maybe it's time we hit a new level. 477 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, but something actually innovative. 478 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 4: If you don't mind, may I inter debt? 479 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 2: Of course? 480 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:25,360 Speaker 4: Of course I believe you're on the right path here. 481 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 4: I believe people would strive. We should always say yes 482 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 4: to any opportunity we're given. And as you said, it 483 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:35,119 Speaker 4: is tough and it can be uncomfortable personally. At twenty, 484 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:38,840 Speaker 4: I moved to a population of eight hundred community and 485 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,640 Speaker 4: I knew nothing. I had no experience. I learned everything 486 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 4: as I went, and the nearest city was twelve hours away. 487 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 4: I've just said, yeah, that's all I did, and learn 488 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 4: and adapt and sometimes learning and adapting give you the skills. Honestly, 489 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 4: no plan could. Business can be tough, but it's our 490 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 4: job to keep it going and showing up every day, 491 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,720 Speaker 4: showing your passions. That's more important than any scale, any 492 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:10,959 Speaker 4: you know, validating from anyone. It's your passion because at 493 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,160 Speaker 4: the end of the day, it's just you that will 494 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 4: be there. Your business falls, so we've got to keep 495 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 4: pushing and keep our business or float by your driving 496 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 4: pass And that's the most important thing I could tell you. 497 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: Well, you're the right person to get in the elevator. 498 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,360 Speaker 2: You were the right person to get in this elevator 499 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:29,359 Speaker 2: if I do say so much. 500 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,840 Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, okay, Yeah. 501 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:41,600 Speaker 2: That was to go for motivation. Yeah, you're the person 502 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:47,440 Speaker 2: to call. Yeah, well, Taylor, thank you very much. We're 503 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 2: going to leave it up to the batteries to vote. 504 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 2: We've already had one one caller in today, so yeah, 505 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 2: you'll find out. I'm going to say within the next 506 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,560 Speaker 2: couple of weeks. Who's Who's won that one. 507 00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:58,880 Speaker 1: Who's moving on to the next round? 508 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,679 Speaker 4: Thank you very much, Thank you so much for having 509 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 4: me it all. 510 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 1: Enjoy the rest of your day. 511 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:04,960 Speaker 5: Bye bye. 512 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 513 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 2: I was thinking, fuck, she's good at Let's see how 514 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,640 Speaker 2: do I let me just say, let's if she forgot 515 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 2: to do a school assignment that was a presentation, and 516 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,399 Speaker 2: she went to school and the teacher goes, ah, you know, Taylor, 517 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 2: you go first. She'd get up and get an ayah 518 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:30,120 Speaker 2: having done. 519 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:36,160 Speaker 1: It, we would use the term spitballing. She was great. 520 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 2: She was great. 521 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:42,440 Speaker 1: Badies. As we found out in the Olympics, our opinions 522 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,360 Speaker 1: mean nothing. Yes, we are posing it to you. Who 523 00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 1: moves on to. 524 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 2: The next round of the Badest Party? 525 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,119 Speaker 1: So comment below who you want to see moving forward, 526 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,720 Speaker 1: either Chelsea or Taylor, and if. 527 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:59,360 Speaker 2: You would like to be involved for next week, sign up. 528 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:00,479 Speaker 1: The link is in the description. 529 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:12,679 Speaker 2: All right, daddies, Next up, we've got things that aren't 530 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,119 Speaker 2: just for boys. 531 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,880 Speaker 1: Again again, I'm excited this week. 532 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,680 Speaker 2: I've got boys weekends. 533 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 1: Wait, boys weekends are not just for the boys. The 534 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:25,520 Speaker 1: girls the girl. 535 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I say bring the girls, man. 536 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,280 Speaker 1: I think boys weekends should be a thing of the past. 537 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, what's with the why do we need a boy's weekend? 538 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:35,760 Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, it's just like gonna hang out 539 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 1: with my mates and they always go to like a 540 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 1: Beitha by just get pissed. 541 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:46,320 Speaker 2: Abetha, dude, dangerous living in where we live in Australia, 542 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 2: living in the UK or Europe and having Abitha Also, 543 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 2: I'm calling it Abiza. I'm sorry, I'm calling it Okay, 544 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 2: having Abiza that close. When we liked to go out 545 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,520 Speaker 2: and you can fly there like a couple of hours, 546 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 2: fly back the next morning. It would be So isn't. 547 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 1: That a bottle of water? Bottle like twenty five dollars? 548 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they want because they just want to drink alcohol. 549 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 1: Yeah right. 550 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 2: Things that aren't just for boys, energy drinks, edgy drinks, explain, 551 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 2: think about it, most energy drinks, they're made for men's. 552 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:28,800 Speaker 2: They made for us. Let's be real. It's all kind 553 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 2: of it's all very marcho, so very in your face. 554 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 2: Bulls monsters do it's they're made for men. 555 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 1: Thinking about now though, like, yeah, they're not that appealing 556 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:43,280 Speaker 1: for everyone. 557 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 2: Are they? Yeah, dude, that's why Marissa created perfect Heed 558 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 2: healthy energy drinks. They weren't even made with us guys 559 00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 2: in mind, and they actually slapped. 560 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:56,800 Speaker 1: Let me see healthy energy A powered by Marcher all 561 00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:01,160 Speaker 1: natural ingredients. Honestly, this is good, dude. 562 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 2: And the flavors slap. I'm all about that juicy peach 563 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 2: and what you got right now? But apple raspberry yummy? 564 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: Okay? And where can I get it? 565 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 2: Coals? Bro Just cols, Cols five minutes down the road. 566 00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 1: Coles five minutes away from everyone. 567 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 2: Everyone's got a coals near them, So. 568 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 1: Get stucked up, all right, Jake, I want to ask 569 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,200 Speaker 1: you something, Okay, if you had one wish, what would 570 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 1: it be? 571 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 2: If I had one wish? Yeah, what would it be? 572 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 1: Oh? 573 00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 2: God, bro ha, three more wishes? 574 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 1: You're a loser. Give me an actual response if I 575 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:45,600 Speaker 1: had one with. 576 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 2: What's wrong with that? If you asked me if I 577 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 2: had one wish, what would have been? I wished for 578 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 2: three more wishes. That means I have three more wishes, 579 00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 2: So pick me? Hey, how would that pick me? 580 00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 1: Your given? 581 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 2: I took what I was given, an I capitalized. 582 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 1: Three more wishes. 583 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 2: Please, I'm not I'm not bagging like that. Someone's offered 584 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 2: me a wish and I said, I wish for three 585 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,880 Speaker 2: more wishes. I'm gonna be confident and I'm going to 586 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 2: stand on business. When I say it. You say like three, 587 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 2: that's actually not because it's what I did. I said 588 00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:18,200 Speaker 2: three more wishes. I said it like that, didn't I 589 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 2: three more wishes? What do you want me to say? 590 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:21,960 Speaker 2: What would you wish for? 591 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 1: I would wish for all men to be better? Damn? Okay, 592 00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 1: Mike drop, motherfucker, this is what somebody? 593 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 2: Do you not know that that was one of my 594 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 2: wishes of my three. 595 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 1: Because it wasn't I know what's in there, mate monkey. 596 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 2: Genuinely though, three more wishes? All right. Wish number one 597 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:55,760 Speaker 2: Henry dies when I die, okay, Wish number two I 598 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 2: think I die like a week before Beth, and then 599 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 2: heartbreak kills her. Ye a right, especially because maybe probably 600 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 2: heartbreak from Henry. 601 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,960 Speaker 1: But also if you're you've passed the way, you don't 602 00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:05,760 Speaker 1: know how long it will take it, so it's unaffected 603 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 1: to you. You're unaffected. 604 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 2: No, but but I know now because of my wish 605 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 2: it takes a week, so I know she's coming, Whitney, 606 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:11,800 Speaker 2: Yeah right, I'll be lonely in heaven. 607 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 1: Yeah heaven. 608 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 2: Wish number three that all men are better. 609 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,920 Speaker 1: And that brings us to your question of the week. 610 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 1: What's something you wish? All men? You man? That was good? Eh, okay, 611 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:36,560 Speaker 1: let me kick things off. What's something you wish? All men? 612 00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:39,240 Speaker 1: You girls just want to have a regular guy who 613 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:40,640 Speaker 1: when she calls, he comes over. 614 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 2: Fucking earth? 615 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:47,840 Speaker 1: Do they? Though? I didn't think that, surely. 616 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, girls just want someone that's like reliable. 617 00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 2: You know he's going to answer the phone. You don't 618 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,680 Speaker 2: have to worry about where he is because he's already 619 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:56,480 Speaker 2: told you, because he actually tells you what he's doing, 620 00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 2: and you don't have to worry about the flake you're 621 00:32:58,360 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 2: not going to be fucking. 622 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 1: I took that as just sex, like no strings attached, 623 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 1: maybe like nine pm, hey good? 624 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe girls just want a good fuck? 625 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:09,760 Speaker 4: True? 626 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,960 Speaker 2: I mean, actually, let's be completely honest. It would make 627 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:14,800 Speaker 2: so much sense for girls who just want a good fuck, 628 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 2: because what else is a boy bringing into their life? 629 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:20,480 Speaker 2: Nothing but stress? So if he can fuck good, all 630 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 2: I want if I was a girl, sorry staking for 631 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,239 Speaker 2: him in here. But all they want is call him up, 632 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 2: he comes over, go away, using for that, use him, Yeah, 633 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 2: get good at it. 634 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,840 Speaker 1: I'll use you for it. Fucking hell? 635 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 2: All right, girls, what's something you wish all men knew 636 00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 2: the finger tongue. 637 00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,000 Speaker 1: Method, the finger tongue method. 638 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a bit. The only thing I can think is. 639 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 7: That, Yeah, when I was a bit younger, I thought 640 00:33:57,960 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 7: I came up without myself. 641 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:01,520 Speaker 4: I didn't. 642 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 2: I didn't see that in corner or anything, and. 643 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 1: And go for it yeaheah. Honestly, but when you're young 644 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 1: and like you're doing things for the first time, you 645 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 1: feel like a g It's funny. 646 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,880 Speaker 8: When you're younger, when you're younger and you're maybe in 647 00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:19,399 Speaker 8: a relationship or you're sleeping with someone and you try 648 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 8: something ever so slightly Actually, what am I talking about? 649 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,799 Speaker 8: Literally to this age, if you try something it was 650 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,800 Speaker 8: so slightly different and then and then like my girlfriend 651 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:29,920 Speaker 8: or when you're younger, single, whatever whoever you do it with. 652 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,320 Speaker 2: He goes, yeah, when you tried that, I liked that. 653 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:32,919 Speaker 2: That feels good. 654 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,400 Speaker 1: I remember. Do girls have the same sensation. I remember 655 00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,560 Speaker 1: trying Doggie for the first time ever, like ever, yeah, like, 656 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:41,880 Speaker 1: and I thought it was the best. 657 00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:46,759 Speaker 6: I was like, we are that good? Did you know 658 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 6: I felt that girls are like, yeah, we are them? No, 659 00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,759 Speaker 6: you don't reckon, surely I feel like it might be 660 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:57,600 Speaker 6: universal or. 661 00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:00,160 Speaker 1: Is it just a little male mind. 662 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 2: I can't see Doggie style being an overly enjoyable That 663 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:07,160 Speaker 2: was just about my example. 664 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 9: But if she didn't reverse cowgirls something, or like if 665 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 9: she just did something she's always wanted to try, or like, 666 00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,400 Speaker 9: I don't know, maybe like we get the balls to 667 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 9: you know, just walk in, don't even say hi, pin 668 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:20,799 Speaker 9: her up against the wall to start kissing her. 669 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:23,759 Speaker 2: Girls like that ship from books, bro girls like that 670 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:28,399 Speaker 2: ship from books. Actually I have one girls with something 671 00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,279 Speaker 2: you wish all men knew that's smart, would teach them 672 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:32,240 Speaker 2: how to pleasure a woman. 673 00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:32,880 Speaker 8: Facts. 674 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm learning a lot from that. 675 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:40,040 Speaker 2: Let me just say I have learned some stuff from Cassi. 676 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:44,239 Speaker 1: It's so good, honestly it is. Reese can actually f 677 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:50,759 Speaker 1: off because Cassie's boys wait, Reese's Vanilla af Cassian, he's 678 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:56,799 Speaker 1: a dog. Imagine. But us as young males are very 679 00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,840 Speaker 1: susceptible in the old mine department and watching porn and 680 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,240 Speaker 1: thinking that's our normal. Imagine if we were reading porn 681 00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:07,240 Speaker 1: written by girls, it makes such healthy relationships. 682 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:09,799 Speaker 2: It'll make a healthy sex life. I'll tell you that much, 683 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:10,640 Speaker 2: one hundred percent. 684 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 1: It would be so much better and the sex would 685 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 1: be better for both parties. What's something you wish all 686 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:17,880 Speaker 1: men knew? How to listen? 687 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:26,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? I want to say, good one. How to listen 688 00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:29,959 Speaker 2: with like without trailing off? 689 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, being engaged in the conversation. Yeah, I think that's 690 00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:37,799 Speaker 1: I think that's what they meant. Your version of listening 691 00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 1: is just being there. 692 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 2: That's a lot of men's versions of listening as being 693 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,799 Speaker 2: there and like actually just like hearing it, but then 694 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,440 Speaker 2: not kind of maybe trying to put yourself in their 695 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,560 Speaker 2: shoes and feeling how they would feel and having actual 696 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 2: empathy for the situation. 697 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:54,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, actively listening. 698 00:36:54,840 --> 00:37:03,960 Speaker 2: Yes, okay, girl. What's something you wish all men knew? 699 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:06,720 Speaker 2: It's okay to cry? 700 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,719 Speaker 1: Oh? That's a sweeker one. Yeah, I wish more men 701 00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 1: knew that because I think I don't know, emotions are 702 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,279 Speaker 1: the devil. They shouldn't show them. 703 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:19,239 Speaker 2: Ever, Yeah, I would say I don't. I don't think 704 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,320 Speaker 2: I'm afraid to cry or think it's not okay to cry, 705 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:27,440 Speaker 2: but I just like for me to cry, it actually 706 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:28,840 Speaker 2: just does take a lot. 707 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:31,839 Speaker 1: I think it's more when you do have those sensations 708 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 1: to feel like it's coming. 709 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:38,880 Speaker 2: On Okay, can I just say if whenever I do 710 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:41,239 Speaker 2: get to a point that like the only thing I 711 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:44,759 Speaker 2: can do is have a good cry, that's actually like, 712 00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 2: for some reason, the best feeling it is. 713 00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 1: It's like a relief. Yeah, I feel better. I think 714 00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:52,560 Speaker 1: that's also it can be used as a tool in 715 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:54,759 Speaker 1: a sense, like men are scared of it, but also 716 00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:56,480 Speaker 1: your body's telling you that you need to do this 717 00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 1: for a reason. 718 00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like if I could cry and demand, I actually 719 00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,960 Speaker 2: would for like so many situations because for some reason, 720 00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,440 Speaker 2: I think like when you cry, obviously you feel so 721 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,520 Speaker 2: shitty you need to cry, But I always find that 722 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:07,759 Speaker 2: you feel a bit relieved after. 723 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was going to phrase it. When you say 724 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 1: someone's emotional, there's normally like a negative connotation associated with it. Yes, 725 00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,400 Speaker 1: So if I was going to say, women are more emotional, 726 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,239 Speaker 1: so they cry more, Like people think that's bad, but 727 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 1: I think it's a good thing because they have more 728 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,520 Speaker 1: releases and more ways to express themselves in more ways 729 00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 1: to feel in life. 730 00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:28,839 Speaker 2: We should you start using it as a compliment, like 731 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 2: you're emotional, own that shit, yeah, because you're actually like 732 00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,560 Speaker 2: healthy and let your emotions show. Yeah, exactly, it is. 733 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,839 Speaker 2: It is used such as so negatively, like you're so emotional, 734 00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:46,640 Speaker 2: even like I've had like Beth will go maybe through 735 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 2: a MoodSwing or something, and then she'll apologize for it, 736 00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:54,319 Speaker 2: and or she'll apologize for being upset because she's in 737 00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,520 Speaker 2: that phase right before a period and she'll be like, oh, 738 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,920 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, it's just because of this, or she'll be 739 00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 2: like like she apologizes for these things, and I'm always like, yeah, 740 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,160 Speaker 2: but you actually were feeling that in the moment. If 741 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:08,680 Speaker 2: you're allowed to feel that, yeah, you know, because that's how. 742 00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:09,319 Speaker 1: You felt at the time. 743 00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:09,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 744 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,839 Speaker 1: It's like also like you cry and then after you think, oh, 745 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:13,479 Speaker 1: I'm silly for crying, but no, that's how you felt 746 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:15,280 Speaker 1: and you deserve to cry. 747 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, what happened in society that broke us? 748 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:23,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what broke us us? 749 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:25,440 Speaker 2: You're genuinely they're like, what fucking broke us? 750 00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:27,520 Speaker 1: All right? 751 00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:31,319 Speaker 2: Girls, what's something you wish? All men knew? Well, you 752 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:35,000 Speaker 2: have spoken about this before. They shouldn't wear skinny jeans. 753 00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:39,000 Speaker 1: Facts. There's one guy on Love Island, I know, Cooper, 754 00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 1: how I thought they would have like wardrobe what's it called? 755 00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,440 Speaker 1: Stylists and like they'd go in there and dress them 756 00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:48,600 Speaker 1: all nice for the TVs, but they obviously brought their 757 00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:51,279 Speaker 1: own clothes. Oh yeah, I'd understand the girls because they 758 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,520 Speaker 1: had the dudees Like, fucking now, he's wearing white skinny 759 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,240 Speaker 1: jeans in twenty twenty five, He's. 760 00:39:55,040 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, whatever or where am I getting to? I'm 761 00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:04,399 Speaker 2: actually also I kind of feel as though I I'm 762 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,120 Speaker 2: all for I don't like to judge people for what 763 00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,000 Speaker 2: they wear, because you know, I want to let people 764 00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 2: express themselves in whatever they wear they want. But I'm 765 00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:13,360 Speaker 2: telling you right now, there is zero place in this 766 00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:14,600 Speaker 2: world for men wearing skinny. 767 00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:19,759 Speaker 1: Jeans were There's not much room to express yourself in them. 768 00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:25,800 Speaker 1: All right, good point. What's something you wish all men knew? 769 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:29,080 Speaker 1: Sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship? 770 00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:31,280 Speaker 2: Valid? 771 00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:34,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like, especially as young men, you think 772 00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 1: sex is everything, yeah, when in reality, it just supplements 773 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:43,160 Speaker 1: the beautiful relationship you have. Don't get me wrong, it's important. 774 00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:45,080 Speaker 2: I think, yeah, it's important, it's up there, but. 775 00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:46,839 Speaker 1: I think it supplements the connection you have. 776 00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:48,600 Speaker 2: What do you think is the most important thing in 777 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:49,319 Speaker 2: a relationship? 778 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:50,440 Speaker 1: Communication? 779 00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:56,560 Speaker 2: Communication? Yeah? That would I want to say, like, yeah, communication, trust, honesty, 780 00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:01,759 Speaker 2: all those things. Trust. I think trust three wishes. Again, 781 00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:02,840 Speaker 2: do you think trust? 782 00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:07,040 Speaker 1: I think trust is the foundation and you need that 783 00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:10,759 Speaker 1: for a relationship to thrive. And being realistic, you can't 784 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,960 Speaker 1: just be one thing. But I reckon communication. I think 785 00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:18,560 Speaker 1: that's what makes a relationship flourish. 786 00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:25,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, alright, I'm gonna say my top three trust, Yeah, communication, empathy. 787 00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,200 Speaker 1: Empathy is your top three. 788 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:28,680 Speaker 2: Empathy when needed. 789 00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:30,960 Speaker 1: You give a spider on you right now in your shoulder. 790 00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:38,719 Speaker 1: It's just a little one. He where is it? I 791 00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,279 Speaker 1: think it's gone. It's that one of you know, those 792 00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:44,719 Speaker 1: little jumping spiders. No, no, no, I'm not fucking with 793 00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,319 Speaker 1: your How would I just make that up? I think 794 00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:51,040 Speaker 1: it's going. I saved your life. 795 00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,799 Speaker 2: You did nothing. You sat there and did nothing even 796 00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:56,400 Speaker 2: helped me. I was asking you where it was. 797 00:41:56,560 --> 00:42:03,000 Speaker 1: I could have left that and you would have never known. Ridiculous. 798 00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:06,840 Speaker 2: FW you're welcome. 799 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:12,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. What's something you wish? All men new? 800 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:18,280 Speaker 1: Shoot your fucking shot. Oh that's a good one. 801 00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:19,640 Speaker 2: That is a good one. 802 00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,600 Speaker 1: I would say, get rejected and own it too. 803 00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:26,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, another like emotion that's unexplored because we're mad, 804 00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:28,840 Speaker 2: scared of it his embarrassment. Yeah, so apparently it's like, 805 00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:34,879 Speaker 2: go many fucking embarrass yourself. Men? All right, what's something 806 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:40,200 Speaker 2: you wish? Are Menne? Honesty hurts less than dishonesty. 807 00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 1: Oh? I like that. 808 00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,040 Speaker 2: Sometimes you have people to be like, yeah, the truth hurts. 809 00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:49,480 Speaker 2: It's like yeah, but lies hurt more. 810 00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:53,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, and lies just spiral as well. Yeah, and just 811 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:55,399 Speaker 1: spills over and there's more and more and more. We're 812 00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,640 Speaker 1: honesty Oho, yeah, honestly, what's it? Yeah? What's the saying? 813 00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,600 Speaker 2: What do you say before honestly host lesson dishonestly? 814 00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:02,720 Speaker 1: No, the truth hurts. 815 00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:03,240 Speaker 2: Truth? 816 00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:04,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a good saying. 817 00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:07,799 Speaker 2: Truth hurts. Yeah, it's a saying, but I may as 818 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:08,239 Speaker 2: well say it. 819 00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:11,760 Speaker 1: Okay, what's something you wish? All men knew fe play 820 00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:13,719 Speaker 1: is not just touching the clitorists? 821 00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:24,280 Speaker 2: What else is it? What else is it? Because clearly 822 00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:25,759 Speaker 2: I'm not doing that because I have said I don't 823 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:26,239 Speaker 2: know where it. 824 00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:30,920 Speaker 1: Is that could plan your to your advantage the kissing. 825 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:34,399 Speaker 2: Full play starts with maybe depends like the I could 826 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:38,040 Speaker 2: text bet right now and be like, girl, I had 827 00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:41,000 Speaker 2: a spider on me. All of you is doing things 828 00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:45,439 Speaker 2: to me. Full play could start now, I agree, I've 829 00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:54,160 Speaker 2: never done that. All right, girls, what's something you wish 830 00:43:54,200 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 2: all men knew? M If sexuality was a choice, we 831 00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:03,160 Speaker 2: wouldn't choose them, so do better. 832 00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,120 Speaker 1: What does that mean? Let's break that down. 833 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:09,600 Speaker 2: If sexuality was a choice, because it's not like you're 834 00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:14,520 Speaker 2: born with way you want to go, Yeah, then women 835 00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:15,439 Speaker 2: wouldn't choose men. 836 00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:16,879 Speaker 1: Ah, that is good. 837 00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:20,279 Speaker 2: So women born hetero sexual, Yeah, they wouldn't choose men, 838 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:21,280 Speaker 2: So fucking do better. 839 00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,480 Speaker 1: I was just thinking that men like there's no sexes. 840 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,480 Speaker 1: That's good though. What's something you wish all men knew? 841 00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,960 Speaker 1: I don't want a daddy? 842 00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,080 Speaker 2: Why? 843 00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:40,600 Speaker 1: I reckon that many single they want you, not a 844 00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:44,239 Speaker 1: daddy daddy, but that many single like girls would get 845 00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:46,040 Speaker 1: dms like do you want me to be your daddy? 846 00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:46,359 Speaker 3: Oh? 847 00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:53,080 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I you probably have them too. I've gotten 848 00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:59,560 Speaker 2: to the status where I have TikTok requests of old 849 00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:03,319 Speaker 2: men offering up some daddy services. 850 00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:07,319 Speaker 1: Really, yeah, bro, like paying you some cash to hang out? 851 00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:07,920 Speaker 1: Yeah bro. 852 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,719 Speaker 2: I don't know if they really counsel their bots, but 853 00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:13,359 Speaker 2: let me just say I'm honored. 854 00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:16,840 Speaker 1: We should mike you up and go. Could you imagine 855 00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:20,200 Speaker 1: you should add daddy them be like Okay, I've got 856 00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:24,239 Speaker 1: two thousand. No, imagine going to a daddy meet up 857 00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:26,800 Speaker 1: and out daddying the daddy. It's like I've got five, 858 00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 1: I've got ten. What's something you wish? All men knew? 859 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,000 Speaker 1: Sex on your period is not illegal? 860 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:39,239 Speaker 2: Fuck it, put towel down, it's so natural. Yeah, like 861 00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,720 Speaker 2: what do you what? What? What part of the bloody 862 00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:45,600 Speaker 2: you are they scared of? I don't know, Like if 863 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:48,440 Speaker 2: it's on you shower, if it's on the bed, wash 864 00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:48,880 Speaker 2: your sheets. 865 00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:50,200 Speaker 10: But I don't know. 866 00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:51,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. 867 00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:55,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, down your streets. 868 00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:57,360 Speaker 1: Youre getting hot and heavy shoes. I'll get two towels. 869 00:45:58,000 --> 00:45:59,239 Speaker 1: She probably don't say too, I'll get. 870 00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:03,080 Speaker 2: A town alright, I'll get it two tows It was. 871 00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:10,920 Speaker 1: In my head that's something I would say to it. 872 00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:15,760 Speaker 1: I'm better to be s sorry, tonight's quilt. The second 873 00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:16,239 Speaker 1: is gone. 874 00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:22,160 Speaker 2: We can do it on the floor. Last one, what's 875 00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:25,399 Speaker 2: something you wish? All men knew? It takes two seconds 876 00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:26,680 Speaker 2: to send a message. 877 00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:32,360 Speaker 1: It also takes two seconds to come. Wait, we know 878 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:36,400 Speaker 1: that one. What's something you wish? All menu? Honestly probably 879 00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:39,200 Speaker 1: the best one for last. The side effects of taking 880 00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:41,920 Speaker 1: birth control pills palid. 881 00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:46,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, valid. We spoke about it once. Actually, I think 882 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 2: you and I might have spoken about how they should 883 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:52,480 Speaker 2: stop sucking around and make it for men. They might 884 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,800 Speaker 2: be slowly bringing some out, but and there was a 885 00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,919 Speaker 2: dude that was like, nah, I wouldn't take it because 886 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,319 Speaker 2: about side effects, but he doesn't care about the girl 887 00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:05,160 Speaker 2: taking it. Someone comments on that video or that that 888 00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:07,920 Speaker 2: episode though, and was talking about like all the benefits 889 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:10,320 Speaker 2: of the pill. 890 00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:13,719 Speaker 1: I was like, okay for the male conception. 891 00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:16,759 Speaker 2: For women, Yeah, it was a girl. She was saying, like, 892 00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:19,000 Speaker 2: there's actually a lot of benefits for it, which is fair, 893 00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 2: Like it can help certain things, it can help regulate. 894 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:24,080 Speaker 1: Stuff, certain certain things for certain people. Yeah, and I 895 00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:26,080 Speaker 1: think they kind of use it as a one size 896 00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:26,880 Speaker 1: fits all type thing. 897 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:27,799 Speaker 2: It's not. I think you're right. 898 00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:28,200 Speaker 1: No, they do. 899 00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:31,160 Speaker 2: And the first thing most doctors would suggest, for say, 900 00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:34,920 Speaker 2: earlier in the episode, for Chelsea, I bet you, the 901 00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:36,799 Speaker 2: first thing a doctor suggested her was have you tried 902 00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:37,120 Speaker 2: the bill? 903 00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:40,759 Speaker 1: Yeah? And I even't think the context of that. How 904 00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:43,640 Speaker 1: I took it is men have this obsession of not 905 00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:47,640 Speaker 1: having safe sex and telling their partner to take the 906 00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:51,360 Speaker 1: morning after pill, which absolutely ruins a girl's hormones for 907 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:52,040 Speaker 1: a month or two. 908 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:54,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it fucks you up a yeah, yeah, it's terrible. 909 00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 1: And I think dudes just having this head like oh, 910 00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:00,279 Speaker 1: they can just deal with it tomorrow, as that's which 911 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:03,600 Speaker 1: we're like, no, understand what this is doing to the person. 912 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:05,719 Speaker 1: I just had sex with his body for a long 913 00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,960 Speaker 1: period time. It's not just this easy solution in your 914 00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:09,360 Speaker 1: head that you think it gets. 915 00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:10,080 Speaker 2: Rid of the problem like that. 916 00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:11,840 Speaker 1: It's not. There's repercussions. 917 00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:16,000 Speaker 2: Do you reckon? It's like, so say I would say 918 00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:18,000 Speaker 2: best and I didn't want to have a child for 919 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:22,759 Speaker 2: five years, and so because Beth she has PCOS and 920 00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:26,560 Speaker 2: she she's doesn't she's never had the pill, doesn't and 921 00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,560 Speaker 2: she's not gonna because like it will muck it up. 922 00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:33,600 Speaker 2: So is it if I went and got a vasectomy 923 00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:37,279 Speaker 2: because you can get reversed for SEXTI mes can, isn't 924 00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:40,200 Speaker 2: that is it totally safe? Like just go get a 925 00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:43,279 Speaker 2: viseecutive me chilling safe sex, Right, We're not going to 926 00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:45,440 Speaker 2: have a kid without you know, blah blah blah, and 927 00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:46,839 Speaker 2: then when we want one reverse that shit. 928 00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,440 Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I have no idea. You just have 929 00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,080 Speaker 1: to do you obviously go through all the steps of 930 00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:54,960 Speaker 1: testing your swimmers before. Yeah, and see if there's any 931 00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,640 Speaker 1: repercussions of reversing of a sectory because it might narrow 932 00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:59,520 Speaker 1: the pathway. And if you have shit swimmers, if you 933 00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:02,399 Speaker 1: want to have a in the future. I'm just spitballing here, 934 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:03,839 Speaker 1: But if you do all the test and it could 935 00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:05,759 Speaker 1: be a method that you to go down for sure. 936 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,360 Speaker 2: Fuck, I might looking at that. Probably maybe it's very expensive. 937 00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:09,719 Speaker 2: I don't know. But also you would pay for the 938 00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,919 Speaker 2: pill every month. But yeah, exactly. And also five ten years, 939 00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 2: that's your adds are. 940 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:16,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you two are becoming an entity and you're 941 00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:19,319 Speaker 1: figuring out what's best for what's best, what's best for 942 00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:23,160 Speaker 1: your relationship. Yeah, and with her pcos and you having 943 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:24,520 Speaker 1: really good swimmers, that could be an often. 944 00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:29,800 Speaker 2: But these swimmers, I tell you what I reckon these swimmers. 945 00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:35,879 Speaker 2: Let me think these swimmers are probably with the way 946 00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:39,880 Speaker 2: my body is, I'm going to say they got some issues. 947 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:52,200 Speaker 3: These down here and girls baddies. 948 00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:54,279 Speaker 2: Oh my god. It was like getting up to an 949 00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:56,960 Speaker 2: hour and I bet you think we're about to end it. 950 00:49:57,160 --> 00:50:02,759 Speaker 1: I bet you did, no no long episode. 951 00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:07,600 Speaker 2: I swear I've never had that. Okay, we won't talk about. 952 00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:08,800 Speaker 1: How Hold it in any longer? 953 00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:14,120 Speaker 2: Who did you say? Sorry, we won't talk about Love Island. 954 00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:14,720 Speaker 1: Love Island? 955 00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:18,160 Speaker 2: Right, we watched the first week, so you didn't have to. 956 00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, or you probably watch it too. 957 00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,120 Speaker 2: Maybe you did Love Island Australia by the way, Yeah, 958 00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:26,799 Speaker 2: all right, So neither one of us has ever watched 959 00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:30,319 Speaker 2: Love Island before, rightly so. And I'm not gonna lie 960 00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:33,319 Speaker 2: after watching the first week. I know why I've never 961 00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:33,960 Speaker 2: watched it. 962 00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,560 Speaker 1: But I'm excited for the next episode. 963 00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:38,719 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm excited to watch 964 00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:39,200 Speaker 2: it tonight. 965 00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:41,799 Speaker 1: I've got two to catch up on because I was 966 00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 1: busy last night. I'm excited two hours of it. Of 967 00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:48,879 Speaker 1: that ship. It's it's it's so ship that it's good. 968 00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:53,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, you see, that's what it is. It's it's just hard, Okay, 969 00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:57,000 Speaker 2: So let's just fucking get into it, all right. We 970 00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,400 Speaker 2: watched the first episode together and it's on Patreon if 971 00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:00,880 Speaker 2: you guys want to go watch our reactions to it, 972 00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:02,160 Speaker 2: and you can watch it along with us. 973 00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:03,640 Speaker 1: Next episode every week over there too. 974 00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:08,239 Speaker 2: Yes, sir, get book Club early just started The Housemaid. 975 00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:11,400 Speaker 2: You get the next episode every week and probably a 976 00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:13,960 Speaker 2: few Love Island episodes. All right, watch them with us 977 00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:18,960 Speaker 2: five dollars a month, enjoy. So they introduce all the 978 00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:23,720 Speaker 2: all the people, we got Cooper, Jotham, Zach Ross, Connor, 979 00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:27,840 Speaker 2: other men, and then we go Yanna, Lacey, Bailey, Shan Isabel. Okay, 980 00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:30,759 Speaker 2: now it's not all that, it's not all that important now, 981 00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:32,200 Speaker 2: but the way they introduce them is they come in, 982 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:33,920 Speaker 2: all the girls coming first, and all the boys come in. 983 00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:37,320 Speaker 2: The boys go, they stand on a heart, and the girls, 984 00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:42,000 Speaker 2: one by one, just off first glance, knowing pretty much 985 00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:45,040 Speaker 2: nothing like, not much at all about the boys. They 986 00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:47,200 Speaker 2: kiss the one that they're attracted to. Crazy they can 987 00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:49,279 Speaker 2: kiss one, or they can kiss five, they could kiss 988 00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:51,399 Speaker 2: all five and then they just got to go choose 989 00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:53,200 Speaker 2: their favorite one and they stand on their heart with them. 990 00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:58,840 Speaker 1: So I assume the contestants have watched previous Love Islands. Yes, yes, 991 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:00,280 Speaker 1: Because we were unbeknownst. 992 00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:01,920 Speaker 2: To it, we were like, what the fuck? 993 00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:07,720 Speaker 10: Apparently I was told by someone Australia Love Island apparently 994 00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:12,160 Speaker 10: so sexual UK and that not not not not like that? 995 00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:13,560 Speaker 1: Okay, I think. 996 00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:14,839 Speaker 2: I might watch the UK one instead next. 997 00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:16,799 Speaker 1: Ours is the only prerecorded one. 998 00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:20,200 Speaker 2: I hate that as well. Yeah, stupid. 999 00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:22,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know why. So well, I think it 1000 00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,160 Speaker 1: might because we're so far away from Europe. True doing 1001 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,239 Speaker 1: in Barley Butter be so easy, exactly. 1002 00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:31,279 Speaker 2: All right, after all this kissing games happened, we were 1003 00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:36,600 Speaker 2: dumbfounded by that. We've got couples. Yeah, Cooper and Yannah, 1004 00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:41,200 Speaker 2: Jothaman and Lacy Zach and Bailey Ross and Shaan Connor 1005 00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:45,440 Speaker 2: and Isabelle. All right, shall we do a short recap 1006 00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:51,040 Speaker 2: of the first week? Okay, a little bit. So they're 1007 00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:54,440 Speaker 2: all coupled up, they're head into the villa. It's a 1008 00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:57,839 Speaker 2: little awkward because they even though they've all kissed, they 1009 00:52:57,880 --> 00:53:00,000 Speaker 2: are very new to each other. 1010 00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:01,839 Speaker 1: But they all have to sleep with each other night 1011 00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:02,600 Speaker 1: one and so. 1012 00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:07,640 Speaker 2: From from night one, whatever couple you've coupled with, you 1013 00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,200 Speaker 2: sleep in the same bed and it's a double bed, 1014 00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:18,239 Speaker 2: and it's a show. I'm so glad I've never done that, 1015 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,840 Speaker 2: Like not that I was like, I couldn't do it. 1016 00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:23,880 Speaker 1: Wait, I can give the I put this on my TikTok. 1017 00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:27,200 Speaker 1: The shortest recap is the whole show is them just 1018 00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:30,080 Speaker 1: hanging out, hooking up with each other, figuring out who 1019 00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,280 Speaker 1: they like, and then there's one challenge. 1020 00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:36,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's insane. Week to week, that's what it is. 1021 00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:40,400 Speaker 2: Just hang out and then bombshell, bombshell, bombshell, yeah, bomb 1022 00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:49,680 Speaker 2: shell yore bro. So all right, So I think the 1023 00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:51,880 Speaker 2: way I want to do this is assuming everyone's watched 1024 00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:54,920 Speaker 2: it and watching along with us, Let's go into what 1025 00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:58,160 Speaker 2: do you think of Cooper and Yana? Cooper and Yanna 1026 00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:00,040 Speaker 2: while they were together? Obviously we know Mick just took it. 1027 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:02,680 Speaker 1: Tox. He can dumb. 1028 00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:05,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, it's it's very hard to watch. Yeah, yeah, 1029 00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:06,680 Speaker 2: it's ridiculous. 1030 00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:07,120 Speaker 1: He's that. 1031 00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,120 Speaker 2: He's very difficult to watch. 1032 00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,319 Speaker 1: I hate him, but I like him for the TV. 1033 00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:18,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's good TV. He's good TV. 1034 00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:18,799 Speaker 1: I'll give you that. 1035 00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:23,279 Speaker 2: When Mick took him and Cooper confronts Mick, craziest thing 1036 00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,560 Speaker 2: in the world to me? What about the craziest thing 1037 00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:25,919 Speaker 2: in the world? 1038 00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,399 Speaker 1: It picks ya? And then he says sorry for sending 1039 00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:30,440 Speaker 1: your home, and then Cooper's like, who says, I'm going? 1040 00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:33,840 Speaker 2: I know, like just fucking keep your mouth shut. The 1041 00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:37,600 Speaker 2: producers are like, yeah, I know, I know, Jontham and 1042 00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:39,560 Speaker 2: Lacy they were a good coup. 1043 00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:40,560 Speaker 1: I hated the mate. 1044 00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:41,879 Speaker 2: I thought that they were kind of good. 1045 00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,520 Speaker 1: You can't say you're planning a future with a dude 1046 00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:45,440 Speaker 1: and not know his name. 1047 00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:47,479 Speaker 2: That's a good point. Yeah, yeah, that's a good point. 1048 00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:50,799 Speaker 1: Like just like Lacey, but that I just couldn't look that. 1049 00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,239 Speaker 1: That was just ruining it for me. Jathan's my boy. 1050 00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:53,880 Speaker 2: I like Jothan. 1051 00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:55,160 Speaker 1: I like Jathan, dude, And you don't know why. 1052 00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:57,640 Speaker 2: I like Jothan mad normal. I think Jonathan's super normal 1053 00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 2: and actually kind of mature because he was very honest 1054 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,160 Speaker 2: with Lazy that he is interested in Gabby. And he 1055 00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:03,920 Speaker 2: was also very honest with Gabby that he is interested 1056 00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:08,280 Speaker 2: in Lacey. So whether or not he gets stolen, he's like, look, 1057 00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:11,600 Speaker 2: I know we're coupled up, but I want to get 1058 00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:15,080 Speaker 2: to know everyone. And then Lacey, God love her, but 1059 00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,960 Speaker 2: she actually is pretty toxic again with coop of everyone. 1060 00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:20,399 Speaker 2: You know, she's actually quite toxic. And I understand she's 1061 00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:23,880 Speaker 2: single and stuff, but I don't know. I mean, it's 1062 00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:27,759 Speaker 2: just the premise of the show just breeds toxicity. 1063 00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:29,640 Speaker 1: So I think that's who they cast. 1064 00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:35,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, Zach and Bailey, they're gone. Who cares? Ross and 1065 00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:39,840 Speaker 2: Shan I like them. Oh wait, at the start. I 1066 00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:42,920 Speaker 2: really liked Ross, still really liked Ross. At the very beginning, 1067 00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:46,840 Speaker 2: I didn't like Shann neither Shan was. It felt to 1068 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:51,600 Speaker 2: me she was trying to just cement her place on 1069 00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:55,560 Speaker 2: the show or something. Maybe she was just but she's 1070 00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,520 Speaker 2: just completely just settled in. 1071 00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:02,200 Speaker 1: I think it was her nerves. Yeah, that was like 1072 00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:03,240 Speaker 1: her way of coping. 1073 00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:03,880 Speaker 2: I think you're right. 1074 00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:06,880 Speaker 1: The TVs, she's like uncomfortable and like just saying things 1075 00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,840 Speaker 1: to like like be like, oh, yeah, Shan's cool. But 1076 00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:12,400 Speaker 1: now she's herself and like I would like her and Ross. 1077 00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:14,520 Speaker 2: I would agree. I really like Shannon Ross and I 1078 00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:16,560 Speaker 2: really like Sean. Now she was like, yeah, I think 1079 00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:21,359 Speaker 2: she's funny. All right. Now, Connor and Isabelle, they're good. 1080 00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:22,000 Speaker 1: But boring. 1081 00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:26,239 Speaker 2: Boring's good, baby boring, Hey, love is boring, my friend. 1082 00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:28,399 Speaker 1: Boring is good for real life, That's what I'm saying. 1083 00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:31,920 Speaker 2: But it makes good TV because you need one couple 1084 00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:33,160 Speaker 2: that everyone is rooting for. 1085 00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:36,000 Speaker 1: True, true, True. I saw actually a TikTok of them 1086 00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:37,040 Speaker 1: hanging out on the Gold Coast. 1087 00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:39,200 Speaker 2: That's what Best told me yesterday. So you know what 1088 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:42,600 Speaker 2: that tells me. They went the distance. Even they might 1089 00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:45,520 Speaker 2: not win though, true how do you win? Well, the 1090 00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:47,839 Speaker 2: way the Australian Love arm works is ridiculous. They film 1091 00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:50,440 Speaker 2: the whole thing and then they film it in a 1092 00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:53,799 Speaker 2: way where they film every single person winning and then 1093 00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,439 Speaker 2: we don't find out who wins because they will air 1094 00:56:56,520 --> 00:57:00,279 Speaker 2: it and we actually vote who wins and then they 1095 00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:05,160 Speaker 2: air that version. That's how it works. So the people 1096 00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:07,479 Speaker 2: on Love Island, that's the act they have to act 1097 00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:12,000 Speaker 2: and when they like, there's people so inefficient. There was 1098 00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:15,160 Speaker 2: in the past people doing Love Island contestants watching the 1099 00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:18,120 Speaker 2: finale and reacting to who won and being surprised that 1100 00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:21,439 Speaker 2: they won. Yeah, they didn't know what was coming because 1101 00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:22,760 Speaker 2: they actually they do in. 1102 00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:23,760 Speaker 1: Money as well as love. 1103 00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:28,880 Speaker 2: I don't know. Hopefully it's crazy and your career, yeah 1104 00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:32,880 Speaker 2: kind of. Usually they don't go back to work. All right, Okay, 1105 00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:35,600 Speaker 2: let's do favorite moment of the week. I got two. 1106 00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:40,640 Speaker 1: I have two as well. My favorite moment was either 1107 00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:45,720 Speaker 1: Rossie finding his confidence ah okay, and yeah, just becoming himself. 1108 00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:49,280 Speaker 2: I love that he's like so because he was a 1109 00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:52,080 Speaker 2: bit of I find him. He's he seems pretty normal 1110 00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:53,760 Speaker 2: to me as well, like he was a little nervous, 1111 00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:55,800 Speaker 2: he's a little scared to touch Suk. He doesn't want 1112 00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:58,240 Speaker 2: to overstep, and he feels as though he needs her 1113 00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:00,919 Speaker 2: to kind of like me, and Sean's like, I don't 1114 00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:03,720 Speaker 2: want you to be a pussy all this. Then Zach, 1115 00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:05,680 Speaker 2: before he gets kicked out, he goes he kisses Sean 1116 00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:07,640 Speaker 2: Ross is kind of like fuck. He like kicks him 1117 00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:09,800 Speaker 2: in the gear a bit, and so then him and 1118 00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:11,840 Speaker 2: Channa land on the bed like out in the villa 1119 00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:14,080 Speaker 2: or whatever, and he's kind of talking to her and 1120 00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:17,760 Speaker 2: he's like, I'm going to kiss you right now, and 1121 00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:20,800 Speaker 2: she's like, oh. 1122 00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:23,360 Speaker 1: I found out they have to ask for consent before 1123 00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:25,720 Speaker 1: they kiss the TV's and they cut it out. 1124 00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:28,240 Speaker 2: No, he says it, yeah, but they probably. 1125 00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:29,880 Speaker 1: The context of that one was not coming, but like, 1126 00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:32,520 Speaker 1: do you have Cooper and Lacey kissed? And it was 1127 00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:34,720 Speaker 1: kind of weird. I found out all the comments were 1128 00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:37,160 Speaker 1: saying that the producers they to verbally say I want 1129 00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:38,720 Speaker 1: to kiss you right now, Yes, you can kiss me 1130 00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:40,080 Speaker 1: right now, and then they cut that. 1131 00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:43,360 Speaker 2: And then they kiss. Yeah. Wow, So they just needed 1132 00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:46,760 Speaker 2: that for proof. Yeah, okay. My first favorite moment of 1133 00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:51,959 Speaker 2: the week was Yana talking to Cooper and Cooper goes, yeah, 1134 00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:53,760 Speaker 2: I'm just like. She's like, I like that, You're super honest. 1135 00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:55,280 Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, I'm just like mad honest, just like 1136 00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,680 Speaker 2: said how it is, you know sometimes like to my 1137 00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:00,440 Speaker 2: own detriment. She goes, what does that mean? And he's like, 1138 00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:03,160 Speaker 2: you know, to my own peril. She goes, come on, 1139 00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:05,200 Speaker 2: use a real human word. I don't know what that 1140 00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:07,640 Speaker 2: means either, and he goes, you know, like mo own demise. 1141 00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:10,000 Speaker 2: She's like, seriously, I don't know what any of that means. 1142 00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:11,480 Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck? 1143 00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:13,400 Speaker 1: How have you gotten through life? 1144 00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:17,080 Speaker 2: Legitimately, you're like a certified plumber. They're not stupid people 1145 00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:21,600 Speaker 2: like you've insane. That's it was the funniest thing to me. 1146 00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:23,520 Speaker 1: I was like, what excuse me? 1147 00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:27,160 Speaker 2: Honestly, have to break it down for what's your second 1148 00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:28,000 Speaker 2: favorite moment of the week? 1149 00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:29,680 Speaker 1: Now, I'll live it with one, and well. 1150 00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:31,560 Speaker 2: My second favorite is just any time Lacey tries to 1151 00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:32,280 Speaker 2: say Jotham's day. 1152 00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:33,160 Speaker 1: That is funny. 1153 00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:40,480 Speaker 2: Any single anytime Jontham, Jonathan, oh Gotham, fuck what's his 1154 00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:43,320 Speaker 2: name again? And a producer goes behind the camera Jotham. 1155 00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:49,600 Speaker 2: She goes, Jonathan, all right, worst, what's your least favorite 1156 00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,480 Speaker 2: moment of the week, Gabby grinding on got them. Oh 1157 00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:56,080 Speaker 2: my god, in the fucking the first challenge. I hated 1158 00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:56,640 Speaker 2: that challenge. 1159 00:59:56,680 --> 01:00:00,240 Speaker 1: By the way, I'm all for shooting your shot, but 1160 01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:02,840 Speaker 1: like the grinding, I was like, Nah, this is too much. 1161 01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:05,680 Speaker 2: This is too much, dude, but that challenge is insane, 1162 01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:11,720 Speaker 2: Like they sexualize it way too much. It's crazy, and. 1163 01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:15,360 Speaker 1: I don't know how this gets, this ship gets approved. 1164 01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:20,480 Speaker 2: I know, neither do I crazy? All Right? My favorite, 1165 01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:25,160 Speaker 2: my worst moment of the week anytime Cooper spoke, specifically 1166 01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:28,920 Speaker 2: when he confronted Mick for stealing Yana, and I was like, 1167 01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:31,240 Speaker 2: that was the hardest thing for me to watch because 1168 01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:35,560 Speaker 2: Mix kind of just clearly like he wasn't like Yanna 1169 01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:39,360 Speaker 2: in mixed defense, Like Yanna actually had a conversation with 1170 01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:42,520 Speaker 2: Mick and did say that she's she thinks he's attractive 1171 01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:45,840 Speaker 2: and interested in stuff. He did want Isabelle didn't get 1172 01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:49,160 Speaker 2: to talk to her. He's not obviously not gonna steal her, 1173 01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:51,560 Speaker 2: like she genuinely doesn't want to ask Yana is showing interest. 1174 01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:55,040 Speaker 2: And then Yanna goes and she says to Cooper like 1175 01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:57,240 Speaker 2: I swear I didn't show him any interest. And so 1176 01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:59,200 Speaker 2: then Cooper's kind of like confronting Mick, like, why did you. 1177 01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,400 Speaker 1: Choose y did your mom? Because she did show him 1178 01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:02,160 Speaker 1: interest exactly. 1179 01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:04,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like so that's what I'm saying is like she 1180 01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:06,520 Speaker 2: showed interest, so mix Like, so Cooper's going on, I 1181 01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:08,000 Speaker 2: just spoke to Yana and she's like, yeah, I don't 1182 01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:09,400 Speaker 2: even know why he chose me, Like I wasn't trying 1183 01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,280 Speaker 2: to interest. He's like, why don't you choose Bailey the 1184 01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:13,120 Speaker 2: one that was single? And he goes, you know, I 1185 01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:16,000 Speaker 2: genuinely like nice girl, but I couldn't force it. I'm 1186 01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:18,000 Speaker 2: not going to force something. I do think I could 1187 01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:21,520 Speaker 2: see something with Yanna. And then Cooper's like, yeah, that's 1188 01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:23,240 Speaker 2: not what she said to me. And I was like, dude, 1189 01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:25,480 Speaker 2: just fucking take your pill and swallow it. 1190 01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:28,480 Speaker 1: Like yeah, take the l hold that just we're no back. 1191 01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:30,240 Speaker 1: But also good TV, man. 1192 01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:34,440 Speaker 2: Good TV, good TV. Okay, my game, I'm gonna call 1193 01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:38,400 Speaker 2: my game, yes or no? Okay, all right now. Scenario 1194 01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:45,800 Speaker 2: You're with Cassie and she goes, I've got I've got 1195 01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:47,400 Speaker 2: a friend that she's been trying to tea up this 1196 01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:48,760 Speaker 2: dinner with one of her really good friends for a 1197 01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:51,520 Speaker 2: long time. She's having at dinner. All right, So you 1198 01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:53,840 Speaker 2: guys go out for dinner. The couple rocks up. It's 1199 01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:56,000 Speaker 2: her one of her heap's good friends that she's been 1200 01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:59,280 Speaker 2: wanting you to meet for ages, and she's brought her boyfriend. Now. 1201 01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:04,640 Speaker 2: Her boy friend is in every scenario one of these guys, right, 1202 01:02:04,680 --> 01:02:08,240 Speaker 2: So it's like Cooper, Connor, Ross, Zach, Jotham, Mick. Yeah. 1203 01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:10,400 Speaker 2: I'm going to name a name, and I want you 1204 01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:12,920 Speaker 2: to say yes or no on whether or not you 1205 01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:18,640 Speaker 2: would say yes or no. Two after the date, Yeah, 1206 01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:23,320 Speaker 2: after the double date, her friend's boyfriend, one of the 1207 01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:26,720 Speaker 2: one of the boys from the island messages you, and 1208 01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:29,280 Speaker 2: for this instance, because it's you, asks you to go 1209 01:02:29,280 --> 01:02:29,880 Speaker 2: to the gym. 1210 01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:32,439 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, go to the gym, all right? 1211 01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:42,320 Speaker 2: Cooper no, Connor yeah, yeah, Ross, Yeah, Zach yeah, Jotham yeah, 1212 01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:45,040 Speaker 2: Mick no, Yeah, that was pretty good. 1213 01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:48,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll go Zach. 1214 01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:51,840 Speaker 2: He seems like I'd go Zach. He seems pretty pretty goofy. 1215 01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:55,520 Speaker 2: He got a little weird before he left. In my opinion, 1216 01:02:56,080 --> 01:02:58,360 Speaker 2: one of my favorite moments. I felt bad for Bailey, 1217 01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:01,200 Speaker 2: but he'd already kind of broken up with Bailey and 1218 01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:03,000 Speaker 2: he's into shann He wants to let Sean know that 1219 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:06,360 Speaker 2: he's into it, so he makes an omelet and he goes. 1220 01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:07,840 Speaker 2: He brings it down and all the girls are there 1221 01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:10,080 Speaker 2: and they're like, oh my god, look like Zach. To 1222 01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:12,560 Speaker 2: Bailey like, oh my god, look Zach, Like Bailey made you. 1223 01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:15,480 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Bailey, Zach made you breakfast. And she's kind 1224 01:03:15,520 --> 01:03:18,240 Speaker 2: of like, oh, no way. He walks over here Sean 1225 01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:20,880 Speaker 2: and Sean goes, oh, it's for me, and he's like yeah. 1226 01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:22,000 Speaker 2: It was a voice of awkward. 1227 01:03:22,120 --> 01:03:26,120 Speaker 1: I've seen smooth matesesoo oh my gosh. But that was 1228 01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:28,560 Speaker 1: the first week recaps of Love Island. 1229 01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:31,240 Speaker 2: Yes, so if you like to let us know in 1230 01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:33,840 Speaker 2: the comments, please let us know if you want us 1231 01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:37,640 Speaker 2: to keep watching it. It's a bit odd. 1232 01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm not, I'm not. 1233 01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:41,280 Speaker 2: I'll watch it. Well, definitely, I'm watching it with Beth, 1234 01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:43,920 Speaker 2: so it's good, so I'll definitely keep watching it if 1235 01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:45,400 Speaker 2: everyone wants us to, Yeah, why not? 1236 01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:54,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? Bad is. It's time for the comments. If you 1237 01:03:54,240 --> 01:03:56,800 Speaker 1: want to get your comment read, simply just comment below 1238 01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:59,960 Speaker 1: on the episode you're listening to. I have got Spotify 1239 01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:04,360 Speaker 1: with AMK listening to you guys speak about moving has 1240 01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:07,680 Speaker 1: been so validating. I am from Ireland and moving countries 1241 01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:12,720 Speaker 1: next September for my masters, and it's so overwhelming. It's 1242 01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:15,600 Speaker 1: been really nice hearing you guys talk about your move 1243 01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:17,880 Speaker 1: and how you're feeling about it. Well, best of luck 1244 01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:18,800 Speaker 1: with the move, AMK. 1245 01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:19,800 Speaker 2: Girl. 1246 01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:21,360 Speaker 1: Keep talking about it till that happens. 1247 01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:24,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, let us know how it goes. I'm gonna not 1248 01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:26,760 Speaker 2: that I complain about it, but I'm gonna stress myself 1249 01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:30,160 Speaker 2: out less because at least we're not moving countries. Yeah. Wow, 1250 01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:35,240 Speaker 2: I got Megan Berland. She said, I think the stretch. 1251 01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:38,280 Speaker 2: Last week we spoke about the stretch. Remember that. So 1252 01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:40,760 Speaker 2: I think the stretch is when men use a doorway 1253 01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:43,840 Speaker 2: to stretch, like arms stretched up to the top of 1254 01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:45,160 Speaker 2: the frame and leaning in. 1255 01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:47,320 Speaker 1: Oh, I could see that I've. 1256 01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:54,000 Speaker 2: Never done that, Like, I've never done That's not it? 1257 01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:58,200 Speaker 2: Only god hot. I'll quickly over one more from Julia Paul. 1258 01:04:58,240 --> 01:04:59,800 Speaker 2: This is funny. Thank god. Me and my men met 1259 01:04:59,840 --> 01:05:01,800 Speaker 2: in med school, so we both know where the c 1260 01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:06,560 Speaker 2: is located. You know what your med school. 1261 01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:07,120 Speaker 1: Or whatever. 1262 01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:09,360 Speaker 3: That is? 1263 01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:11,920 Speaker 1: It time for one a year sign off the episode. 1264 01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:14,160 Speaker 1: If you want to get called by one of us, 1265 01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:16,520 Speaker 1: it will be linked in the description today, we are 1266 01:05:16,520 --> 01:05:17,440 Speaker 1: calling Jess. 1267 01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:20,160 Speaker 2: Hello. 1268 01:05:20,320 --> 01:05:24,240 Speaker 1: Hello, is that Jess? Yes, it's audio Jake from the 1269 01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:26,880 Speaker 1: Relatables podcast. How's it going good? 1270 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:28,520 Speaker 2: Thanks? How are you really really good? 1271 01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,920 Speaker 1: We are calling to see if you could please kindly 1272 01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:35,720 Speaker 1: sign off one of our episodes. I can, Oh my gosh, 1273 01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:36,840 Speaker 1: do you have something prepared? 1274 01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:40,760 Speaker 2: I'm sorry enough, I actually do. Let's go. 1275 01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:45,240 Speaker 5: Okay, so all the ladies out there, do not settle 1276 01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:47,440 Speaker 5: for less. You deserves so much more than any man 1277 01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:47,920 Speaker 5: can give you. 1278 01:05:48,480 --> 01:05:52,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go love that. That's a great way to 1279 01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:55,000 Speaker 1: sign off the episode. Thank you very much, Jess, and 1280 01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:59,400 Speaker 1: enjoy the thanes at all. So bad bye, but. 1281 01:06:01,040 --> 01:06:06,560 Speaker 2: Baddies, Unfortunately it is time for us to sign off. 1282 01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:10,480 Speaker 2: All right, so you know what to do. If you're 1283 01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:14,280 Speaker 2: on a hot girl walk, take a photo fucking tag us, 1284 01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:17,440 Speaker 2: all right. If you're reading a book, take a photo 1285 01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:18,680 Speaker 2: fucking tagers. 1286 01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:20,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, fucking daggers if. 1287 01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:22,920 Speaker 2: You want to. If you want to email us, I 1288 01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:24,520 Speaker 2: don't even give a fuck anymore. Right, If you want 1289 01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:26,720 Speaker 2: to email us, do it right. Email us about anything 1290 01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:28,240 Speaker 2: you want to email us about, literally, if you want 1291 01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:29,720 Speaker 2: to put a dilemma in or email by the way, 1292 01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:31,680 Speaker 2: Relatable six other gym dot com. See if you can 1293 01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:35,360 Speaker 2: deVie to sigh for that dilemmas Coming back next week, 1294 01:06:35,560 --> 01:06:40,760 Speaker 2: all right, anything else, that's it. We love you, Stay bad.