1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,960 Speaker 1: This episode is brought to you by Ghannia and my 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Salar Order, and I've brought my sister Riley along with 3 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: me for this one too, because we actually both use 4 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: this one. It is our go to first cleanse to 5 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: remove sunscreen and up to one hundred percent of makeup 6 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: and impurities. And for the second year in a row, 7 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: Gharnia has partnered with Minus eighteen for the limited edition 8 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 1: my Sellar Pride bottle. Simple effective and made for everyone. 9 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: We love to hear it. So now let's get into 10 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 1: the episode. The Purple Sister is just the left of 11 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: a sister that isn't being excuse me, is he? We 12 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: both know that I ran this fucking ship when we 13 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: were younger. We know it. Hello and welcome back to 14 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: season two, episode two of Hear Me Out. I feel 15 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 1: like it wouldn't been hear Me Out these days that 16 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: occasionally having my sister. I'm back, So I'm back for good. 17 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:48,480 Speaker 1: Imagine every episode no too fair? Okay like you, yes, 18 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: I really enjoy doing it with you because we have 19 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: like that sister sort of energy that kind of like 20 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 1: about the banner. But Mom was like, why don't you 21 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: just get Riley on? And I'm like, no, why don't 22 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: you get me? Like, why don't you like become my 23 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: co host? And I'm like, because I kind of want 24 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: something that's like my own because I didn't have that before. 25 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? You're different than me 26 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: in that way. If I can do with someone else, yeah, no, 27 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 1: if I could do something with someone else, I would 28 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 1: do it every single time. All right, guys, this episode 29 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 1: is brought to you by our friends at Gania my 30 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: Cellar Order, proud supporters of Minus eighteen. I was actually 31 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: just talking to Rally about how my cellar Order is 32 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: like the best thing to ever be invented. Class said, 33 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 1: Actually I did say crack, So you don't have to off. 34 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 1: It's just heaven. I have it seven of them at home. 35 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: I like them aniones, yeah everywhere. All right, we're gonna 36 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: just get back in with some hear me outs. Tell 37 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: me you've got one. Tell me you've done the one 38 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 1: thing I needed to do in order to be a 39 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: good Okay, Okay, this is I don't know if this 40 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: is classified as to hear me out, but it is 41 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: something that came to mind. Hear me out. We need 42 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,559 Speaker 1: to bring back rolling up the bottom of your genes. 43 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: I that would just be so fucking handy for short 44 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: people like you, And I know, I like, yes, I 45 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: definitely think something needs to be done, something needs to change, 46 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 1: something needs to be invented, or something that you can 47 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: clip up the bottom of your gene or something. Because 48 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 1: the look of like rolling your jeans multiple times is 49 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: used to be a thing. So I'm like, could that 50 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 1: look come back? Like just having it rolled like a 51 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 1: like a cylindery roll of Do you know how to 52 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: fold up? I mean to fold if it doesn't stay. 53 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: I don't get how they walk around like that. I 54 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: had a pair of jeans and I was doing that 55 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: for a bit and it actually looked right. I think 56 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,839 Speaker 1: it's back. I just think you're not a part of it. Well, 57 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: I'll get in on it because I've seen a lot 58 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: of people wear that, but I've never done it, and 59 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: I have holes and I reckon. I have like five 60 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 1: jeans I wear on rotation and there's holes in four 61 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: of them because my body mules punch. But also, I 62 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: was you kind of want them busy, I mean, but 63 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 1: also you actually want them on the ground. I want 64 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: them on the ground, but minda like on the ground, 65 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: like four centimeters, do you know what I mean? Like, 66 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: and then my heels always get stuck in the back 67 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 1: and now it's a trooping hazard. Thesese are like expensive jeans, 68 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: and then that happened to my favorite pair of acne jeans. 69 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 1: So I got them taken up because I was like, 70 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: there's a huge fucking hole in the back of it. 71 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: Like I'll just get it cut off. Watering jeans is expensive, 72 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: and now they're too short, and I had to know, yeah, 73 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 1: you're kidding, Yeah, okay, I just have a question. It's 74 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: not really a hear me out, but Riley had to 75 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: come into my room at nine forty five this morning. 76 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: We're gonna leave at ten to record and she comes 77 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: in at nine forty five and I go, what are 78 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: you doing? Get out? She's like, it's not forty five, 79 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: Like you need to get up. Were like, we need 80 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: to go. Thank fuck. I at least had fifteen minutes 81 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: like do my makeup and everything. But bear in mind, guys, 82 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: I had six alarm set six one at nine one 83 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 1: at nine o five, one at nine O six, one 84 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: at nine seven one at nine ten. Why was I 85 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: a slate? I need to know? Actually, the best way 86 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: to wake like wake up. I think you need to 87 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: do a vulgar alarm, like one that's so like my god, 88 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: like you're up. Yeah, But because I have so many 89 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: alarms that go throughout the day, Like if I put 90 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,119 Speaker 1: that alarm on, but you need to, I think that's 91 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: the fix all of my alarms. I'm gonna put on 92 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: that day, which is probably gonna be about twenty I'm 93 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: gonna have that same sound. So I get really used 94 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: to a sound really well. Then keep one is the 95 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: good morning alarm, and you just change that time. That's 96 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: what I've got a morning alarm, and just that's that 97 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: one sound. Yeah, I just keep it separate from your 98 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 1: other ones because like people say, put your phone like 99 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,119 Speaker 1: on the other side of the room and like then 100 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: you kind of have to get up to turn off. Firstly, 101 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: I can't do that because I listen to a podcast 102 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:13,839 Speaker 1: to go to sleep, so I need it like next 103 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: to my head. Secondly, I would just walk straight back 104 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 1: into bed and think. The solution here is putting in 105 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: a little bit more effect in the sound. Has anyone 106 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:23,839 Speaker 1: ever used one of those little like wake up Sunshine, 107 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: Like you know there's ones that like light they like 108 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 1: wake you up with like light, like natural lighting vibe. 109 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: Oh okay, buy I would buy a fucking arms. That's 110 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 1: a good idea. Yeah, exactly, we needed where that maybe 111 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: comes an issue. I sleep with my mind's basically open 112 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: to let the natural lighting in the hopes that helps 113 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 1: my waking. And it doesn't. Wow, this is a problem. 114 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: It is a real do that sleeps. I've got it 115 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: in two weeks. It's just really hard because I'm meant 116 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: to be going in for. People have actually asked me 117 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 1: about this. I'm meant to be going in for. It's 118 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 1: like a twenty two hour sleep study. Like I'm in 119 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: there for from like seven pm. That net seven p Yeah. 120 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: I tried to say eke and I couldn't say it. Yeah, 121 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 1: something's fucking wrong with this one. I am meant to 122 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 1: go in at seven pm. They said they need me 123 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: asleep by eleven, which is fine, like an eleven lights out, 124 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 1: try sleep, vibe all devices out of the room, which 125 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 1: is gonna sounds like hell. It doesn't, But then what 126 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 1: sounds more like hell is the fact that they wake 127 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: me up at seven am, which if you expect me 128 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 1: to be able to stay awake when you come in 129 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:30,719 Speaker 1: and go hey, at seven am, is you get up. 130 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 1: I'm gonna fall back to sleep, but I'm not allowed to. 131 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: I have to then systematically fall asleep every two hours 132 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: for fifteen minutes until five pm. Like that is like 133 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 1: giving a form of torture up because I'm gonna sleep 134 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: for fifteen minutes to be fucking exhausted, and then I 135 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:46,039 Speaker 1: have to stay out for an hour and forty five 136 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 1: more minutes before they finally let me up again. Wow, 137 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: that's crazy. So yeah, I've been putting it off. I'm 138 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 1: sorry I have not fair. And also it's actually randomly 139 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: quite hard to like get a twenty four hour chunk 140 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: where like you don't need to do anything, you know, 141 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 1: that's actual honestly sounds like hell but necessary. Yeah, I'm 142 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: just a bit nervous for it, but I will update 143 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: you guys when that goes ahead. Also, I'm getting my 144 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 1: lips to solve with Tessa. Well no, because test is 145 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 1: gonna be away. Yeah, but it was meant to be. 146 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 1: And I haven't seen my lips without feelers since the 147 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 1: day I turned their team. I had pre booked my 148 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 1: lip for the day I turned their teen You were 149 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 1: crazy back then. I wasn't crazy. I just you did 150 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 1: the same thing with tattoos, like you got it, Donemazally. Yeah, 151 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 1: I just I wanted to feel free. I wanted to 152 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: feel adult, you know anyway, So that's gonna be fun. 153 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: Oh so I get them to dissolved, and then I 154 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 1: have the sleep study that you were going to be 155 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: suy mooing. But I have to go two weeks with 156 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 1: like no lit villow at all. And I'm really like, 157 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: that's just it's fun. It's not I'm not gonna I'm 158 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 1: not gonna die. I just if when you get so 159 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: used to seeing yourself a certain way and then all 160 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 1: of a sudden it's taken away from you, Like if 161 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 1: I go i A for two weeks, it's because my 162 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: lips look ship. Yeah, so just and I think I'm 163 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 1: a bit far off doing that, thank god, But I 164 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: actually am terrified. Yeah it's not necessary, but I think 165 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,280 Speaker 1: it is necessary. Yeah, they're migrating, they look like ducklips 166 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: or no, yeah, do anything. I don't at my face, 167 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: what the fuck? All right, So we have a listening 168 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: hear me Out from you guys, which always keeps submitting 169 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 1: those because we'll always be using them. Hear me Out 170 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: gossiping is sometimes just emotional bonding. Yeah, what do you think? 171 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: I actually think gossiping is necessary. Obviously to an extent, 172 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: is like ingrained in people. I wouldn't even say gossiping 173 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 1: almost insinuates that you're referring to someone else. But then 174 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 1: I would say bitching is necessary, like having a little 175 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: bitch with your best friend. I feel like sometimes it's 176 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 1: better to just get that feeling out. I also think 177 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: it's human nature. It is human nature, and I do 178 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: not think it's the worst thing in the world, as 179 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 1: long as you're not being like an absolute cump. But 180 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: something annoying to fucking randoms all the time. Yeah, you 181 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: can have your best friend like leg knows fucking everything, 182 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, She's not gonna go tell 183 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: anyone anything I say. So sometimes I'm just like, fuck, 184 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: this is really fucking annoying me. And I don't think 185 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 1: that makes me a bad person. No, I don't think 186 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 1: so either, And I think anyone that listens to this 187 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 1: and goes oh. I also like to share my opinions 188 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: on pretty much everything with everyone. I'm like, I'm not 189 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 1: gonna lucky all the people around you. No, I mean, 190 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 1: if you've got like a controversial opinion on someone, not 191 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 1: necessarily someone you know, but like, fuck, how do I 192 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: word this? Sort of sound like a p It's like, 193 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: I think we need to relinquish the I'm worried we're 194 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: gonna sound like a piece of shit right now because 195 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:32,839 Speaker 1: I think a lot of you are going to be 196 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 1: a green So yeah, so true, just just say it. 197 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: I just feel like you need to you need to 198 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: get it out, Like if I'm annoyed at this fucking person. 199 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:43,679 Speaker 1: If I'm annoyed at this person, I need to talk 200 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:45,079 Speaker 1: to you about it so I can know if I'm 201 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 1: being a bit choll. Yeah, I also want to know 202 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: if I'm mean crazy or if I'm crazy or is 203 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: this really annoying. That's pretty much it for me. It 204 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,559 Speaker 1: doesn't mean I don't like you. I just may not 205 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 1: like me right now many as you're annoying me. And 206 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: also I am well like if I have a fight 207 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: with someone, I'm not going to be like, oh, I 208 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: heard you were bitching about me, Like of course they 209 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 1: were were in an argument, you know what I mean. 210 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: I don't think it's a problem if someone's bitching about me, 211 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:11,839 Speaker 1: depends who they're enjoy But you know what is what 212 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: they're saying. Fucking can't stand when someone says, this person 213 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: said this about you. When someone's bitching. If someone bitches 214 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: to me about someone else, I will never tell that 215 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: person no, because that's just me. I feel like that's 216 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 1: you now chasing the drama. You're hurting so exactly, that's 217 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: to me when it gets really toxic and then they go, 218 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 1: but you can't say that I said, if someone I'm sorry, 219 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, I hate when people do that. They take 220 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: something really fucked okay, like oh, this person's slept with 221 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: your fucking ex boyfriend. Someone will go, oh, this person's 222 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: slept with your ex, but don't tell them. Don't say 223 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: anything to them because I don't want to get into 224 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 1: not on I don't want don't say it was me. 225 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 1: And it's like, well, fucking keep that information to yourself 226 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 1: an if I'm not allowed to do anything whatever, because 227 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: like that is actually a dire situation and something I 228 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 1: need to confront and you're not gonna let me. Don't 229 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: tell me. Though I hate those people. It's also like, 230 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 1: is this do you care that much about yourself right now? 231 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 1: Because it's not about you? Do you know what? I mean, like, 232 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: I'm really hurt now because I've heard that one of 233 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 1: my friends trade me and it's about you, do you 234 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: really want to be friends with this person? I know, 235 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 1: I hate, like I know they were like, it happens 236 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: all the fucking time. It actually happened to the other day. 237 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,439 Speaker 1: I don't mind that that that sort of stuff pass 238 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 1: on as as you please, you know. But it's like 239 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 1: when if I go to a friend and I'm like, 240 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: oh my god, like this person's really annoying me today, 241 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 1: then they tell that person I've said that that's when 242 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 1: the line is fine. Honestly, have not encountered a situation 243 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 1: like that since I was neither. I think with age 244 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: people do that less, but definitely when you're younger, I 245 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 1: agree that happens a lot more. Yeah, but it's like 246 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 1: it happens a lot when we were younger. I reckon 247 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: that was all the time. And it's like when someone 248 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:44,719 Speaker 1: goes I heard you said I was a bit, it's 249 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: like like I don't know what to say. Yeah, crazy, 250 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: all right, guys. On today's episode, we asked you to 251 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:58,079 Speaker 1: send in submissions of normal things that people make weird, 252 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: which I'm really actually excited for me as an anxious person, 253 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 1: like everything makes me feel really weird. But I just 254 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: want to remind you. This episode is brought to you 255 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 1: by Ghannia my clar order. This is their second year 256 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 1: partnering with Minus eighteen. Obviously, it's so nice to see 257 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 1: brands that we love supporting the community. And obviously everyone's 258 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 1: going to use my selar Worterer no matter what. So 259 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: it's like, you know, whether you're straight or gay or whatever, 260 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: but it is nice to know that a company like 261 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: that does support the community because I think when you 262 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 1: or if you ever do come out, you start to 263 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 1: be way more aware, like does this person have a 264 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 1: problem with being gay? Yeah, Like they might like me, 265 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: but do they hate Yeah? I am. 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Okay, I 286 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 1: had a couple that I wrote down, like I'm in 287 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: like two or three just that I thought were funny 288 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: that I wanted to say before I read your list, 289 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 1: because I think chances are they're going to be in 290 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 1: there too, But I wanted you guys to know that 291 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 1: it was my original thought. I'm kidding. I just want 292 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:01,559 Speaker 1: to start. Okay, firstly, walking around with an umbrella. I 293 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 1: would rather walk in the rain. Oh no, I use 294 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 1: an umbrella. See, I think it's my social anxiety is 295 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: going to make a lot of Yeah, that's crazy for me, 296 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: a little bit embarrassing. I reckon, it's way more embarrassing 297 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 1: walking around in the rain without an umbrella. No, yeah, 298 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:19,079 Speaker 1: like that. I would actually almost put that on my list. 299 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:22,719 Speaker 1: Yeah forgetting an umbrella. Okay for me though, Let's say 300 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 1: it's like spitting. I would rather just have a hood 301 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 1: and use an umbrella all the time. See I don't. 302 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: I'm not one of those people that have one in 303 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: my car and they think that is a problem. But like, 304 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 1: randomly enough, never have I been caught in a situation 305 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 1: where I've needed it. I honestly never have gone Fuck, 306 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: I wish I had an umbrella in my car. Like really, yeah, interesting, 307 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 1: this is actually I realized the other day and maybe 308 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:50,319 Speaker 1: not normal. Think, actually this is very normal if we're convoying. 309 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 1: So like, if I'm driving somewhere and you know, test 310 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:54,839 Speaker 1: is driving behind me? Is he driving behind me? That 311 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 1: I get the full ick for you driving behind me, 312 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 1: because so cringe follow me? Yeah, Like can you make 313 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:05,559 Speaker 1: your own decisions? I know, or when I indicate to 314 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 1: get around moving lanes, I'm what are you going to do? Yeah, 315 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 1: Like if I'm moving to get around a slow car 316 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 1: and they do the exact same thing, Yeah, I'm like, 317 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:15,199 Speaker 1: that's so embarrassing. Wait. But then there's sort of one 318 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:18,319 Speaker 1: on that as well, is wait, no, can I deide 319 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 1: not because this is about comboing. Yeah. I also have 320 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 1: a hate when someone goes like, can we leave it 321 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: at the same time that we can drive together? Like 322 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 1: do we just use our side? Because I'm going to 323 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 1: be embarrassed you the whole way, and like I want 324 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: to be able to drive the way I want to 325 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: drive without worrying that you didn't make it to the stop. Yeah. Yeah, 326 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 1: I totally agree. And no one is the shout it 327 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 1: for some weird reason. And this is another one. So 328 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 1: the other day I was when SO is he in 329 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 1: my garage? One of us has to park behind. So 330 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 1: sometimes if like Easy's leaving first, I'll have to move 331 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 1: my car so she can get out and then I 332 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: go back in. Every time we do that, I'm moving 333 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 1: it for Easy to get out. You take us the 334 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 1: point I get the biggest gin to do. That's you 335 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: you you I don't know driving we both we both 336 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 1: do the sixty five, but we ever have to do 337 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 1: a two point turn. Is because the other day I 338 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 1: got the biggest ick, what you do it? I was like, 339 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 1: oh my god, I can't even look at her because 340 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: she was doing a sixteen point turn and she's actually 341 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 1: making it up. This is her. No, It's true. The 342 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: normal when when anyone does has to do more than 343 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 1: a three point turn, that's a nick. It's so normal 344 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 1: because it has to be done sometimes. But it's like, oh, 345 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 1: they get your shit together, I you know, funnily enough, 346 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 1: Actually I was. I think I was on a date 347 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 1: and I was driving in my car in the garage 348 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 1: and I was reversing out. I know, what did you do? 349 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 1: And I scratched the ship out of my car along 350 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 1: run of the side. Well, oh my god, Ike, is 351 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: he anyways to do? The next time, I was like, 352 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 1: is it a car? Okay? I'm like it's fine, my 353 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: car is fine. Oh yeah, I know. Anyway, so sometimes 354 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: you need to do those sixty point Yeah you do, 355 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 1: and you should have having your indicator on for longer 356 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:00,520 Speaker 1: than like five ticks. So true, like if I put 357 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 1: it on and I go fuck I've got like one 358 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 1: hundred meters left to drive and it's just going tick tick. 359 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, sometimes I turn it off and back on 360 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 1: because I'm so embarrassed. Yeah, like, why are you so eager? Yeah, 361 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: it's really embarrassing. Yeah. Yeah. Another one, which is probably 362 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: just me, is because I'm not like well versed in 363 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 1: like polarates land, those like five ten minutes before the 364 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: plartates glass starts and you're the laud like, are we 365 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: allowed to go and our friends in you? Yeah? Do 366 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 1: people start stretching. People stretch, and that's fine, but I 367 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 1: am not comfortable enough to do that. I don't stretch. 368 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 1: I'll lie there on my phone, but then I'll be 369 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: lying on my back most of the time, probably with 370 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 1: my phone like up above my head. My arms get 371 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: sore and I'm like, great to do a plarate's class 372 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: and my arms are really sore, and I just think, yeah, 373 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 1: I probably should stretch, but I stretch a little bit. 374 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 1: I think it's really obvious to everyone in the room. 375 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 1: This is social anxiety that I don't do pilarates often. 376 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 1: So I stretch. Everyone's gonna be like, why is she stretching? 377 00:16:57,280 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: Like she doesn't never know what she's doing. Yeah, that 378 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 1: is social anxiety. Yeah, I've got one. If you work 379 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 1: in an office, you you know, make your lunch in 380 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 1: the kitchen and sometimes you go and sit outside, like 381 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 1: if you're in an office building, and sometimes you like 382 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 1: heat up your lunch and you need to put it 383 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: in a bowl. But then like do you carry the 384 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,719 Speaker 1: bowl down in the lift and like walk outside the building? 385 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 1: Like that's because my friend Pe that I work with, 386 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 1: had to do that the other day, carry the bowl around, 387 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 1: and I was like, this is so embarrassing. I have 388 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:28,159 Speaker 1: it Like it's fine, you know, you're literally you're basically 389 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:32,480 Speaker 1: just walking outside. No, but like you should not. You shouldn't. 390 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 1: That needs a lid, you know. You if it's your 391 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:37,359 Speaker 1: container that you brought the food in, it's fine, But 392 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: the moment it was in a bowl not on No. 393 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:44,399 Speaker 1: I actually really yeah, but I've never experienced that. I 394 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: don't think I ever ate outside when I worked in 395 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 1: an office building. Really, i'd eat outside. I would always 396 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 1: eat and then I would go outside, like I just 397 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 1: want to get that food down. I'm always really fucking hungry. Though, 398 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:57,720 Speaker 1: to be fair, there's no time to put that in 399 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:01,120 Speaker 1: a bowl. Crossing out of in front of a bunch 400 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:02,879 Speaker 1: of cars that are waiting for you to go, because 401 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 1: in like light goes green, we cross. If it's on 402 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 1: a highway and there's like six cars facing you and 403 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 1: you're the only one, you're the only one crossing. You know, 404 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 1: they're all looking. Are you on your phone? Are you 405 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 1: looking straight ahead? If you're on your phone and people 406 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:17,479 Speaker 1: are gonna go? Does this guy really have to check 407 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 1: her phone while she crossed the fucking road? Or could 408 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 1: she just cross the road? Yeah, I've asked you all. 409 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 1: Do you look at them? It's all really embarrassing, and 410 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:28,400 Speaker 1: do you wave them? No, there's a light, a traffic okay, 411 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 1: I'm thinking on a zebra crossing. Hey guys, No, I 412 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 1: mean I'm a day thank you. I actually say thank 413 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: you when i'm We've had this seat. You don't listen 414 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 1: to the podcast at all. She doesn't because we've me 415 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 1: and Black. I've had this discussion at length and had 416 00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 1: a real at length on this topic at length. Yeah somewhat. Yeah, 417 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 1: you just said. I said, I think it's polite to wave. 418 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 1: Blake says, I hate when people wave because it's like that. 419 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 1: I like when people wave. You know what I think 420 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: is a dying arnt. Waving thank you to someone when 421 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 1: they let you through on a No one fucking doesn't anymore, 422 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 1: no one, And it actually ruins my day. No, it 423 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: really does. But I remember vividly when we Dad used 424 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 1: to drop us to school, there was we'd always stop 425 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:13,880 Speaker 1: with this cafe get us chocolate, and then we would 426 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 1: go down this side street that was kind of like 427 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: a one way, like cars had to pull away, pull 428 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: aside to let the other car throw and it was 429 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 1: always like it would take five minutes to get through 430 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 1: the street. Every single time. I remember, I sitting in 431 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 1: the front seat as a kid, would pay so much 432 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 1: attention to the fact that people say thank you, and 433 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:30,200 Speaker 1: Dad would always say, like it's good to like pass 434 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: it forward, Like if you say thank you to someone, 435 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 1: they'll be like, oh that was nice, and they'll probably 436 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 1: say thank you to the next person. Like always just 437 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:38,879 Speaker 1: say thank you. I will yell in my car whenever 438 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 1: someone doesn't wave, I go thank you, thank you. Every 439 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 1: single time. I've always out loud thank you something every time. 440 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, fuck you every time ye thank you, and 441 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 1: it puts me in a bad mood. It does because 442 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 1: I'm like I just I've been sitting here for thirty 443 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 1: seconds waiting for you to get closer, and you can't 444 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 1: even just put your finger just fucking finger on. Yeah, 445 00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 1: even just appreciate it. Yeah, No, it's through to if 446 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: you don't say thank you, please start doing it, because 447 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 1: it's really, it's really and I actually get really happy 448 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 1: when people do do it. I'm like, I'm like, yeah, 449 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: you know what, you're welcome. I'm happy to stop for you. Yeah, 450 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 1: and I will see me to take a person too, 451 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,479 Speaker 1: now because I like to see it. I stop more 452 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 1: often than not now because I actually like to see 453 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:16,360 Speaker 1: if people are going to say thank you, like bait 454 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 1: them and so what. Maybe I want some joy in 455 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: my life now that we have gotten some of ours 456 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 1: out of the way, I want to hear yours. Let's 457 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 1: get into it. Blowing your nose? Why do I feel judged? 458 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 1: I can speak for a hand on this because my 459 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 1: nose drips like a fucking tap ever since I got 460 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:36,439 Speaker 1: it done. Yeah, it's so humiliating. It's like gross. If 461 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:39,640 Speaker 1: people are eating, I think it's rude. I would wig 462 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 1: rather someone blow their nose than sniff. Oh absolutely, yeah, 463 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:46,120 Speaker 1: if you sniff and I hear you get two sniffs 464 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:47,879 Speaker 1: before you have to look at a tissue before I 465 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: fucking yeah, but I blow my nose like so fucking often. 466 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 1: I think it's only really embarrassing for me when I'm 467 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 1: really done up and I'm out somewhere, Like I'll be 468 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: at the club and I'll get a tissue and blow 469 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:05,679 Speaker 1: my nose because it's just like, honestly, my nose fucking 470 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: I'm seeing my doctor about it. It's really fucking annoying. 471 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:12,879 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's it's humiliating. I wouldn't say humiliating if 472 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 1: you saw a fucking good looking guy whip out a 473 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 1: tissue at a club and blow his No, yeah, no, 474 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 1: you do it in too many places. But there are 475 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: a lot of places where it's completely acceptable if you're like, yes, 476 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 1: like during the day and anywhere where you're like having 477 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 1: a drink. Yeah, if you're like out to look hot 478 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 1: and you move out a tissue I had to blow, 479 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 1: you're also not allowed to sniff. So so yeah, it's challenging. 480 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 1: But like if on dates, for example, I have to 481 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:38,119 Speaker 1: blow my nose a lot, and I will literally go 482 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 1: to the door into it. Yeah, yeah, because I can't 483 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 1: be on a one on one day therefore, meaning they're 484 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 1: looking directly at me always, and I just go, yeah, 485 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 1: it's so fucking embarrassing. Yea, so fair. Everyone's gonna be like, 486 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 1: oh this sels get embarrassed by everything, but yeah I do, 487 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:58,920 Speaker 1: and what oh okay. Receiving a compliment, I literally go 488 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 1: in to fly. I've gotten really good at receiving compliments. 489 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:05,239 Speaker 1: And I mean, no, no, I don't really. I don't mean 490 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 1: it like that. I mean when I was I remember 491 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 1: someone a couple years ago said like, why you're really 492 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,120 Speaker 1: good at like taking compliments, and I said, because it's 493 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 1: kind of rude in my mind. If I go like, hey, 494 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 1: oh my god, Riley, that dress looks really good on you, 495 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:17,440 Speaker 1: and Riley goes, oh my god, no it doesn't, like no, 496 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 1: it stopped. Oh you know what, even if you don't 497 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 1: believe it, just say thank you. That's nice. Yeah, because 498 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: if you deflect it and you're like, oh my god, no, 499 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 1: the other person, you're forcing them to double down. Yeah, 500 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,359 Speaker 1: And then I'm going, no, it really does. Yeah, and 501 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 1: then it's like that person doesn't need to I didn't 502 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: want to do that, and I just wanted to be 503 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 1: polite and tell you that your dress looks good on you. 504 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 1: And now I'm having to convince you that your life 505 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 1: is waiting with do you know what I mean? So 506 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 1: if someone compliments you, literally just say thank you. That's 507 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 1: really nice. End of everyone's tuppy. And it doesn't mean 508 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:49,639 Speaker 1: you are comfortable taking the compliment, but it is just 509 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 1: the nicest way. It actually my best way to feel better. 510 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,880 Speaker 1: So think about other people, like, your hair looks really 511 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 1: good today. I barely did it. No, just say literally 512 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 1: just woke up, well you and be like, oh, really, 513 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 1: thank you? You know what I mean? I send? Yeah, 514 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:06,920 Speaker 1: it really does send me into fight or flight only 515 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,880 Speaker 1: because I'm like, I don't want to keep going. Yeah 516 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: I only had the one Yeah yeah, waiting for someone 517 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 1: to put a protective screen on your phone and you're 518 00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:23,679 Speaker 1: just left standing there empty handed. That's fair, Yeah I do. 519 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: Or when you need your phone screen repaired and you 520 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 1: just have to walk around Jadson phoneless, not knowing what 521 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:29,879 Speaker 1: time to go back and pick it up because you 522 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 1: don't have a clock. Oh my god, no ship. Yeah, 523 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:35,399 Speaker 1: I always ring a friend with him. I'm getting my 524 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 1: phone repaired. They're gonna come back in twenty minutes. How 525 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 1: the fuck am I going to know what it's we 526 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 1: look at the sun. Yeah, liked dial Yeah, if you 527 00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:47,200 Speaker 1: have a watch, great, you like that would have been easier. Yeah, 528 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 1: by sometimes Yeah, but like I really struggle to read 529 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 1: an a long time. I can, but it'll give me 530 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: it'll take me about a minute. We haven't really trained 531 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,360 Speaker 1: that part of our brains at this legness generation. Yeah. 532 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,360 Speaker 1: I know how to read a clock. If you go time, 533 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 1: we've got time out is we'll figure thirty seconds to 534 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 1: read it easy. Yeah, but like people that can just like, 535 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 1: oh it's ten forty two. No, you're insane, Like what 536 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 1: the fuck? Yeah. I think it's a tech run part 537 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,959 Speaker 1: and I think it's something that is dying. I actually 538 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 1: think it actually probably comes from practice. Oh, it absolutely would. 539 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,399 Speaker 1: But like with our generation, we've never needed it. But 540 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,119 Speaker 1: I think weird. But imagine having like a digital walk No, no, no, 541 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 1: that's horrible. I think you don't need to wear a watch. No, 542 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,439 Speaker 1: because a kid I rocked a digital watch and a 543 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 1: log got nothing. Yeah, yeah, we did Swatch. Yeah, I 544 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 1: love Wow. Getting a new watch was on my favorite 545 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:36,159 Speaker 1: things in the world. Yeap, was there? Hold on? Was 546 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 1: there a brand called baby G Yeah? There was what 547 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,560 Speaker 1: we loved. I had a pink baby. Yeah, I had 548 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 1: a blue one. I want to look that up. Lesbian. 549 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: I feel like lesbians were purple. Yeah, guys, I was 550 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,600 Speaker 1: the purple sister. People who have two sisters will know 551 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 1: there's a pink sister and there's a purple Yeah, and 552 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 1: the purple sister is just the left of a sister. 553 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,520 Speaker 1: That isn't the pink Excuse me, is it? We both 554 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 1: know that I ran this fucking ship when we were younger. 555 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,399 Speaker 1: We know it. You did everything I did. You followed 556 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 1: me around like a bad smell. You did, you did, 557 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 1: And I missed those fucking days. You miss those days? 558 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 1: I think, actually not really, but I did feel powerful. No, 559 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 1: to be fair, I was just watching Modern Family and 560 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,680 Speaker 1: Haley and Alex the two sisters, and Hailey was saying 561 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 1: like having a little sister was like having your own 562 00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 1: little cheerleader because they just thought, seriously, they thought you 563 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,480 Speaker 1: were like the sun. I actually have like vivid memories. 564 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 1: We would go to parks on the weekend and I 565 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 1: would make it the obstacle course. And I was always 566 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 1: the one who would make the obstacles. You and Casey 567 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 1: would just follow me. We do obstacle courses and that's 568 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 1: just what we called it, and we just like do 569 00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:38,920 Speaker 1: things and you would literally trail behind me. It was 570 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:44,199 Speaker 1: crazy in that fucking order. It's so vibes anyway, So 571 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: you know that I wasn't the fucking leftover sister. All right, 572 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 1: you were getting the leftovers. You're still the purple. I 573 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 1: was just not the pink. The pink is like, no, 574 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 1: it's fucking not man. Purple was cool. Pink was like 575 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 1: back then, pink it's cool. Now pink is cool, yeah, 576 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,679 Speaker 1: but purple's cool. Pink's like number one. Wow, you're delusional. 577 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 1: Obviously those days went more to you than they did. Remember, 578 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:15,080 Speaker 1: I actually reckon you know how people We've laughed about 579 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,480 Speaker 1: this before. People will post videos on TikTok of like 580 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 1: the fucked up things that their older sibling made them 581 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,920 Speaker 1: do that they just thought was normal. Yeah. I think 582 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 1: I've done an episode on that before, Like what did 583 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: you lie to your sibling about that? They like thought 584 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:28,680 Speaker 1: I was actually here for that one, but no, there 585 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 1: was like people would like, I don't know, do like 586 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,159 Speaker 1: really make them their siblings do fucked up shit, like 587 00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,879 Speaker 1: make their life like hell, like like wipe their ass 588 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:38,720 Speaker 1: or something like that. I'm like, I don't think I 589 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 1: ever did anything that bad. I actually think I was 590 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 1: an okay older sister when we were like children. Yeah 591 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 1: you were fine. Yeah, you just forget angry at me. 592 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,200 Speaker 1: Whenever I wanted to wear the same clothes as you, 593 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:49,959 Speaker 1: I would get so mad. Well, to be fair, mom 594 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 1: and dad always used to buas match and shit they 595 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:55,159 Speaker 1: did they did. Yeah, Okay, telling your parents that you 596 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 1: have a boyfriend or girlfriend, yeah, it's that's so so embarrassing. 597 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 1: Try telling them you're gay. Oh good shot. Yeah, fuck crazy. 598 00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:07,240 Speaker 1: That would have been crazy. But I don't like, I 599 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:10,199 Speaker 1: think it's very few and far between. The like that 600 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 1: I'll actually be seeing someone that I'm interested in telling 601 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 1: my parents is like hell on a fucking stick. I 602 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 1: think you've got you ease into it, like I'm going 603 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,640 Speaker 1: on a date with this person. Then it's like, okay, 604 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,879 Speaker 1: they know who this person is. Yeah, then you'd be like, oh, 605 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,679 Speaker 1: I'm seeing them a bit more instead of just being like, 606 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 1: out of the blue, I have a partner. You've never 607 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,879 Speaker 1: heard of them before, you know, No, I've never like 608 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,399 Speaker 1: mum knew who Tessa was and that we were talking 609 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,119 Speaker 1: every day. So when I told her. It was like 610 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,119 Speaker 1: it was like, Okay, I know who this person is. 611 00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 1: At least I'm not just like I'm going, yeah, surprised bitch. 612 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:41,720 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think next time I have to tell 613 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 1: my parents I have a partner. It's gonna be really scary. Yeah, 614 00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:47,960 Speaker 1: it's going to be crazy, like we should have a 615 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 1: dinner to celebrate at this point, Well, it's gonna be 616 00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,480 Speaker 1: my husband. I have no desire on dating someone next season. 617 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,880 Speaker 1: Walking into a shop and not buying anything, I feel 618 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 1: like people think I've stolen Oh my god, humiliating. It's not. 619 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,080 Speaker 1: I don't think people think I'm slen. I just think, 620 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,439 Speaker 1: what a waste of e waste this person's what a 621 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 1: waste of this person who works his time? Yeah, you know, like, 622 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 1: oh you can you can help with anything? No, just leave, 623 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,680 Speaker 1: like and you know instantly that you're not buying anything. Yeah, 624 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 1: and walk in you're like wow, Well, like if I 625 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 1: try a bunch of stuff on and then I give 626 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: it back to them and they go, how'd you go 627 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,919 Speaker 1: with everything? And I go, yeah, I'm just gonna leave it. 628 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 1: It's like they go full fuck you. Then yeah, you 629 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: kill me, kill me? No, I do hate that as well, 630 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 1: or like going into a restaurant and realizing that you 631 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,240 Speaker 1: need you're not interested in eating at this restaurant, standing 632 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:32,960 Speaker 1: at the menu out the front, reading and they and 633 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:34,919 Speaker 1: they're like standing there waiting for you. Oh my god, 634 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 1: you're at a table. I'm just reading the menu. All good. Then, 635 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 1: like this when you sucks is basically what you're saying, 636 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: good night. Yeah, you're literally like, yeah, you did not 637 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 1: pull me in. Sorry. I got your chance and you 638 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 1: missed it. You know, I agree. Another thing that's normal 639 00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 1: that people make weird. Why the fuck is everyone so 640 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 1: embarrassed to tell people they fall asleep? When someone falls asleep, 641 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,600 Speaker 1: like while they're watching a movie and you're like, did 642 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 1: you just fall asleep? There was like, nah, no, I 643 00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,720 Speaker 1: didn't fall asleep. It's like this weird fucking thing that 644 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 1: people we're embarrassed to stay. Tell you why I do sep. 645 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 1: I'll tell you exactly why I do that. Why the 646 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,480 Speaker 1: reason I do that? There are a few nicer feelings 647 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,800 Speaker 1: in the world than falling asleep watching TV with other 648 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 1: people around you knowing, like a few nicer feelings. That's no. 649 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 1: It as a hectic sleeper. It's wonderful. We're all watching 650 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 1: a movie. There's about forty five minutes left to this movie. 651 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 1: I can just sleep on this couch for forty five 652 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: minutes with sound in the background, and they'll wake me 653 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 1: up when the movie is done, and I can go upstairs. 654 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 1: Like it's just a nice relaxing time tonight, because you 655 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 1: know there's an end time to it is when the 656 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 1: movie stops, and it's just it's peaceful, quite frankly. So 657 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 1: when someone goes, have you fallen asleep? No, I wasn't asleep. 658 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 1: I wasn't asleep. If I'm watching a movie in the 659 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 1: person next to me fall asleep, I'll just go, oh, 660 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 1: we'll just turn the movie off, We'll go to bed. 661 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 1: I don't want that to happen. I want to have 662 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:47,960 Speaker 1: those forty five minutes of uninterrupted sleep time while the 663 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 1: movie is playing. So I lie, all right. That's why 664 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,480 Speaker 1: I do it. Taking pads or tampons to the toilet, Like, 665 00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 1: why do you have to hide them? It's a normal thing. Literally, 666 00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:00,120 Speaker 1: when I'm at working, I need to like change to 667 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 1: my tampon. I will always hide it in my pocket. 668 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,280 Speaker 1: So why do I do that? Like, why can't I 669 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 1: just walk with it? Literally? Every single woman in the 670 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 1: office does the same thing, like we all need to 671 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:11,600 Speaker 1: do it, or like why is it embarrassings when you 672 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:13,400 Speaker 1: were younger and you probably use pads for the first 673 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 1: like couple periods or whatever, or like if you didn't 674 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 1: have a tampon, you have a pad, Like you are 675 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,360 Speaker 1: folding up that pad so small and like holding it 676 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 1: in your hand because there is nothing more or opening. 677 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:24,160 Speaker 1: To be fair, I have not got my period in 678 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 1: like five years. I just skip it, so this is 679 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,040 Speaker 1: old news for me. And to be honest, I don't 680 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:29,480 Speaker 1: even know if I could use fucking tampon to the 681 00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 1: nails I get these days opening a pod or a 682 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 1: tampon and the noise it makes. Honestly, I'm not insecure 683 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 1: about that. You're not, no, Maybe I just haven't been 684 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 1: grown up enough since I've had to do that running 685 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 1: after a ping pong ball when you're playing beer pong, 686 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 1: and we say beer pong because like who the fuck 687 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,680 Speaker 1: plays ping pong these days, Like yeah, obviously beer pong. 688 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,680 Speaker 1: It's humiliating, or like even when you're or when you're 689 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 1: sitting watching the beer pong and the bowl rolls under 690 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 1: you and you have to get it for them. Yeah, 691 00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 1: and it's like you're kind of leaning down when you 692 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 1: have to trolling. Well, my opinion, you need to walk 693 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 1: as slowly as possible, calm, cool and collected. And only 694 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: you've only got one bob down. You've got one chance. 695 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: You have one show, so make sure it's within reach. Yeah, 696 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,400 Speaker 1: and you know that when you get reached down, you're 697 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 1: gonna get it. You bob down, and you don't get it. 698 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 1: If someone else gets it, that's it. It's like apple Bobby. 699 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 1: Yeah you get one. Yeah, you get one. Yeah, totally. 700 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 1: Turning back around on a walk, yeah, so fair humiliated, 701 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 1: Like I don't walk loops. I walk one way, and 702 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,400 Speaker 1: then I will always find some sort of even if 703 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,000 Speaker 1: it's just like a little thing. I'll walk around on 704 00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 1: the path, like walk around a tree, because turning around 705 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:41,840 Speaker 1: walking around a tree, no, I'm serious, I do it 706 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 1: because you can't. Just that's fucked. I check all I do, 707 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,960 Speaker 1: have a nice big glance around. I'll look at my phone, 708 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 1: I'll do the pretend. Oh fuck, I need to go 709 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 1: this way. Really, yeah, put on a fucking show. Everything. Also, 710 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 1: to be fair, though, I don't really walk, yeah, I 711 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,880 Speaker 1: generally walk in a loop. Yeah. No, I walk in 712 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 1: a straight Actually, that's so not true. I do a 713 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 1: turn around. I walk around this cafe thing, that's what 714 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 1: I do. This is actually really true. When you're at 715 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 1: someone else's house like client, relative, friend, whatever, and they 716 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:13,840 Speaker 1: offer you a cold drink or a coffee, you're always 717 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 1: gonna say no because saying I'd love one feels so 718 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 1: fucking wrong, even though like you want nothing more than 719 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,520 Speaker 1: to have a fucking coffee at that moment. No, I disagree. 720 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: I always say yes if I want it. What if 721 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 1: you're like a doctor's waiting room and they go, do 722 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 1: want a coffee? Actually yeah, I go yeah, yeah. I 723 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,960 Speaker 1: don't say fuck with that, love one, but I pretty 724 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 1: much always say yes when they ask. When someone asked 725 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:34,200 Speaker 1: me that, whether it's water, tea or a c at 726 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 1: a friend's house, no I wouldn't. Oh yeah, I don't 727 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 1: want anyone making me. But it's I'm like, if you're 728 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 1: if this is your job and you're being paid to 729 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 1: be like a receptionist, you're asking me for a drink, 730 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:42,520 Speaker 1: like y'all have a coffee. And if I go to 731 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 1: get my head on and they said you want a coffee, yes, 732 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 1: oh yeah absolutely, And we went to a hairdress when 733 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 1: we were younger, for like a whole life, because it 734 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:51,480 Speaker 1: was like mum's hairdresser, and it was just this was 735 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,640 Speaker 1: the Italian guy or Paul Paul, and Paul never gave 736 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 1: us drinks. Paul never gave us anything. It was Paul 737 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 1: gave me a mullet for six years up to my bleach. 738 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 1: Paula very busy anything but a mullet anyway. So when 739 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 1: I first went to my first addresser that wasn't him, 740 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:12,160 Speaker 1: which I think was after that whole Bleach fiasco, I 741 00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 1: think it was Edwards and Co. And they offered me 742 00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:15,840 Speaker 1: a coffee, and I thought, oh my god, this is 743 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:17,960 Speaker 1: this is the world, and this is what I'm meant 744 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,960 Speaker 1: to be living. You know, how have I gone so 745 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 1: long without this? I know, I think we just we 746 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 1: thought that that was all we were going to get. Yeah, 747 00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: I didn't think it was an experience like it is. 748 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 1: Had gone in the addresses lovely. Some of them even 749 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:33,120 Speaker 1: have menus. That's some of them give you champagne. Yeah, 750 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 1: I don't want a champagne. I'm not a casual drinker. 751 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:39,239 Speaker 1: I'm a bitten shrinker. Yeah, very healthy you are, but 752 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 1: like I'm not someone that like has a glass of 753 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:42,400 Speaker 1: wine when I'm a dinner with my family, I'd just 754 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 1: rather have I love a glass of wine. Yeah no, 755 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:46,840 Speaker 1: I'm not having that alcohol for no fucking reason. I 756 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,000 Speaker 1: mean having ten or I'm having none. That's not a 757 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 1: really healthy mindset. I'm lying, that's not healthy. I had 758 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 1: like four, I don't know last time I've had four. One. 759 00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 1: I just won't have any, you know what i mean. 760 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 1: Like anyway, I think that's all we have done. I 761 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 1: would like to again thank our friends at Ghania my 762 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,960 Speaker 1: Salar Water and thank them for being such a big 763 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 1: part of the Pride community. We love you and we 764 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,360 Speaker 1: will see you guys. Well, you'll see me next week, Riley, 765 00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:13,960 Speaker 1: maybe in a month. You just give me a few 766 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:18,120 Speaker 1: months and I'll be here every episode. Guys. Bye bye,