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Speaker 1: Apoche production.

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Speaker 2: What was it. What was it like for your fist

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, very funny. So this was during COVID.

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Speaker 2: You're not supposed to be doing anything in COVID. But we.

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Speaker 1: Had this one friend. Now when I first like really

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Speaker 1: became partners and we really became committed relationship, Spencer had

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Speaker 1: this couple that was his really good friends and at

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Speaker 1: the time he was like, let me bring them in

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Speaker 1: and let the four of us hang out, so you

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Speaker 1: can get an understanding of what it's like to be

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Speaker 1: intimate with four people. Now, our intimacy was not penetration.

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Speaker 1: It was like we rolled at that time, so like

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Speaker 1: we would roll and then just snuggle and chat and

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Speaker 1: they share their scenarios with me to see like if

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Speaker 1: I would be interested in not, so they kind of

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Speaker 1: like gradually eased me into what would be like to

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Speaker 1: like really be in a sexual foursome. Fast forward to COVID.

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Speaker 1: Shortly before that happened, that couple ended up getting divorced,

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Speaker 1: nothing having to do with the Life Cell or anything.

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Speaker 1: It was just whatever. But we still really remained really

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Speaker 1: good friends with the guy part of it, and we

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Speaker 1: would hang out all the time, like nothing ever happened

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Speaker 1: between the relationship or anything, so come covid. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what ended up sparking my brain, but I was

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Speaker 1: like really wanting to try and really push my boundary.

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Speaker 1: So I said to Spencer one day he was going

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Speaker 1: to see his friend, and I said to him, I

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Speaker 1: why don't we ask him if he wants to join

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Speaker 1: us and see what happens. You know, I'm thinking, since

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Speaker 1: seems so sweet to me early on, and you know,

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Speaker 1: kind of eased me into it, like it would be

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Speaker 1: a good experience having this guy do it. So I'm

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Speaker 1: thinking that when Spencer goes to see him, he's gonna

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Speaker 1: talk to him about it and like map it all

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Speaker 1: out and whatever. And no, he just invited him to

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Speaker 1: come over that night. So he comes over and we're

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Speaker 1: sitting at the dinner table and Spencer goes, so, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, you want to bang us or you know, like,

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Speaker 1: how do you? I was like, oh my good. I

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Speaker 1: was like, I thought that you were going to ask

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Speaker 1: set up, Like what the fuck up? Guard? So, you know,

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Speaker 1: one thing led to another, and we did. We started

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Speaker 1: out in the living room, and I think that I

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Speaker 1: originally started out and I was like blowing both of

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Speaker 1: them because I was like trying to figure out how

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Speaker 1: I probably should have watched porn or something I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: give myself, you know, some like insight, but I didn't,

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Speaker 1: and so here I am. I'm just like trying to

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Speaker 1: make it work or whatever. And the groove just really

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Speaker 1: started going and it was so amazing. And at one

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Speaker 1: point in the middle of all of this, I turned

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Speaker 1: to Mike. I turned to my fiance. No, I was like,

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Speaker 1: I love you so much.

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Speaker 2: This is so.

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Speaker 1: Like, what a weird thing to do. I'm like, what

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Speaker 1: a weird thing to say at this moment. But but you.

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Speaker 2: Know, that was your first threesome. You're saying, that's your

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Speaker 2: first threesome. Yeah, and this might sound like a funny question,

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Speaker 2: but how did you know how to share it out

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Speaker 2: between the two and without one getting jealous on one

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Speaker 2: lose them out?

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Speaker 1: That was my biggest concern, you know, but each of

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Speaker 1: them are so experienced that my partner really loves to

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Speaker 1: watch me get banged. So for him, it was easy

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Speaker 1: really flowed so easily, and even to this day, like

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Speaker 1: I never worry about it because I know at the end,

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Speaker 1: after our play session is over, with whomever it is,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be fucking my guy right Like there's never

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Speaker 1: a point in time where we end the night of

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Speaker 1: So I know he's always going to get his final

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Speaker 1: like what he enjoys, Like most importantly, he loves when

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Speaker 1: my voina is so stretched out that like it feels

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Speaker 1: like nothing when he's fucking me, So you know, if

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Speaker 2: Have you ever done a threesome with them?

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Speaker 1: Just cheeks? Yep, we've done? How is that? Oh? So great?

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Speaker 1: It's so great. Two things I love. I love watching

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Speaker 1: my partner be pleasured, But I also love listening to

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Speaker 1: so to hear them, you know, have know that he's

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Speaker 1: giving them the same pleasure is just so erotic in

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Speaker 1: my opinion, and the flow goes really well. That's the thing,

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Speaker 1: Like everybody has to be willing to sit back for

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Speaker 1: a second. Everybody has to be willing to like not

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Speaker 1: be selfish and their sexual needs at that time and

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Speaker 1: just let everything organically flow. So I never put so

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Speaker 1: do that. You know, I usually am like doing some

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Speaker 1: caressing while they're doing their business. But you know, for

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Speaker 1: the most part, it flows so easily when it's done right. See.

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Speaker 1: To answer one of your questions early on, my Fansee

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Speaker 1: always said, when the stars and moon align, you will

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Speaker 1: know you want to bang somebody, and if you don't

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Speaker 1: get that sensation, don't do it. And I have followed

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Speaker 1: that every single time, and every single play session that

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Speaker 1: Like I've never regretted any of them, Like they're just

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Speaker 2: Just everything once where you've you've got that jealous instinct,

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Speaker 2: never not.

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Speaker 1: In a sexual aspect, I can say like maybe sometimes

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Speaker 1: like over a text message or not a text message,

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Speaker 1: So like we have rules where neither one of us

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Speaker 1: because it keeps a transparency, It keeps everybody on the

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Speaker 1: same page, especially for the play partners, so they know

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Speaker 1: that we're aligned and they know what their place is.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes the girls don't know what the rules are, so

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Speaker 1: they'll try and message like outside of a group message.

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Speaker 1: And so initially, like one time there was that where

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Speaker 1: like upset because I was just like, this is not

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Speaker 1: the rules and this is not what we're supposed to doing.

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Speaker 1: So in that aspect, yes, but never in a sexual regard.

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Speaker 2: Ever, it was never wed the first time you seen

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Speaker 2: him like sexually, get someone else and you have to

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Speaker 2: watch Never No, I see that. That's what I'm trying

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Speaker 2: to get around, because that would be very hard for

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Speaker 1: It's true. So okay, so let's talk about that for

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Speaker 1: a second. When I first met him and I was

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Speaker 1: him like I don't understand, Like how do you separate

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Speaker 1: actually being able to have sex with somebody? Because you're

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Speaker 1: always taught like you need to love somebody, you need

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Speaker 1: I promise you, when the moment is right, you will understand.

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Speaker 1: I probably talked to him about it like six months before,

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Speaker 1: ask the same question, but I don't understand. How do

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Speaker 1: not feel those emotions? And he's like, I promise when

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Speaker 1: the stars and moving a ligne, you will know and

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Speaker 1: it will be just that, and it's true. And I've

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Speaker 1: I've always been very into that particular situation that was

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Speaker 1: I always felt just the sexual energy of like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, this is gonna happen. This is like what

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do, you know, And so I think that

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Speaker 1: that's how I always was able to get through it.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever in tried to entice any coal for

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying like I'm doing.

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Speaker 1: No so you know here, we know I funny enough.

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Speaker 1: So like six months after I had met my fiance,

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Speaker 1: my corporate job ended up moving to a different state.

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Speaker 1: So my job position ended up getting eliminated. But my

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Speaker 1: bosses all knew very well what it was that I

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Speaker 1: was up to. Since my home life was so fucked up.

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Speaker 1: It was like my bosses were all like my family

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Speaker 1: type deal. So when I first met Spenser, I went

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Speaker 1: I told my bosses, even like the head of HR,

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Speaker 1: what the fuck was I thinking? Freaking head of HR

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Speaker 1: in this company. I'm like the CEO of this company.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I'm going to a swingers party this weekend.

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Speaker 2: And you're like what, yeah, like and imagine the Christmas

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Speaker 2: parties the right.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, they were very inquisitive when I got back

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Speaker 2: My god, you wouldn't ever go anywhere thing you were

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Speaker 1: You you should go Oh yeah, Oh they were. They're like,

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Speaker 1: you need to walk us through it, like this happens?

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Speaker 1: How was it? And I'm like trying to explain, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, because everybody has this idea that you walk

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Speaker 1: into a swingers party and it's going to be this

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Speaker 1: huge orgy, but it's like that you walk into the event,

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Speaker 1: you know, they usually start at nine o'clock at night,

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Speaker 1: and it's like any other bar you go there, any.

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Speaker 2: Of a bar, it's like any of her I've never

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Speaker 2: walked into a bar yet when I've gone okay, I'm

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Speaker 2: going on the dunce floor and they're taking a body

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Speaker 2: clothes off, So it's not like any of her bar.

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Speaker 1: I must be going to some born balls. I know

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Speaker 1: that your history has to be pretty exciting too. I

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Speaker 1: can't imagine you see anything wild in your day. I mean,

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Speaker 1: and I thought it was a party animal, but oh

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Speaker 1: my god, I can't with this