WEBVTT - ARE YOU A BLACK CAT OR A GOLDEN RETRIEVER? 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:03.880 Matt, you are looking absolutely glowing today. What's your secret? 0:00:04.040 --> 0:00:06.960 Well, Anna, I've been using this new hydrating tanning myss 0:00:06.960 --> 0:00:08.480 called Goldie B with two e's. 0:00:08.960 --> 0:00:11.080 I have to check it out. I've never heard of it. 0:00:12.000 --> 0:00:13.119 Go to their instagram. 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:16.200 I want the fairy tale, I want the prince charming 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:17.919 she how. 0:00:17.800 --> 0:00:18.160 Do I put? 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:18.360 This? 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:20.520 Isn't a fan of my kissing. 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:24.160 Style boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:25.239 He's in a trash bit. 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:27.400 He's non recyclable. Catching her laugh. 0:00:28.720 --> 0:00:30.760 I love being love. I love love. 0:00:31.480 --> 0:00:34.879 You can bring the toxic out of anyone. Me and 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:43.280 no not ding. Where's Your Head At is a podcast 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:48.199 that talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:49.440 and everything in between. 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:52.440 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:54.760 intimate details, advice, and much more. 0:00:59.280 --> 0:01:02.560 Hello, I'm that we are in a new studio today. 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:05.120 We are too. How do you think of the traffic 0:01:05.160 --> 0:01:05.839 coming here? Though? 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:08.920 It was an absolute nightmare. I'm very worried for the future. 0:01:09.200 --> 0:01:11.520 Yeah, not good at all. And then I got stuck 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:15.440 behind these people doing roadworks and they had like I reckon, 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:17.440 I was the f like ten minutes. I was getting 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:20.160 so frustrated and then took a wrong turn and I 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:21.880 was just yeah, it's not good. What do you think 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:22.520 of your coffee? Though? 0:01:22.520 --> 0:01:24.760 I got, well, we're coming to you live from North Melbourn. 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:27.880 We have a new coffee shop. I don't know what 0:01:28.200 --> 0:01:32.000 this brewster has done, but this is the warmest coffee ever. 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:33.320 Did you ask for this extra hot? 0:01:33.400 --> 0:01:35.399 No, I didn't know. It was like a you know, 0:01:35.440 --> 0:01:37.760 those like tuck shops that like trades go to. It 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:39.520 was that sort of set up in the coffee machine 0:01:39.800 --> 0:01:41.360 doesn't look like a coffee machine. 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:43.520 I do miss the old coffee. I'm not gonna lie. 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:45.440 It's not as bad as I thought it would be. 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:47.000 It's not as bad as I thought it would be. 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:49.720 Okay, let's jump straight into the episode. What is your 0:01:49.760 --> 0:01:50.920 turn on of the week? 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:54.440 Well, and I guess what. I finally bought tickets to 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:55.760 your wedding in Greece. 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:58.480 Literally two months out. I sure you weren't going to come. 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:02.360 I'm very happy to the wedding finally you and Tammy. 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:05.840 Yeah you did leave it really last minute, like down 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:08.800 to the line. How are those prices looking that late? 0:02:09.520 --> 0:02:12.800 Grand? Each three grand one week in Greece? 0:02:13.440 --> 0:02:16.880 I literally looked to night like last night, and there 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:20.720 was flights for two thousand, three hundred. 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:23.080 Yeah, but then they out of the tax or something 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:24.040 when you get to the thing. 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:27.000 What yeah, seven hundred dollars worth. 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:29.240 Of it was like two seven who? What flight? 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:31.960 Who was Qatar? Oh? 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:34.360 Really? Maybe not the same dates as I wanted. We're 0:02:34.360 --> 0:02:35.120 going guitar. 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:37.920 Because three grand is a lot. But then again, like 0:02:37.960 --> 0:02:42.440 it's kind of your own problem. But I'm glad at 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:44.920 your coming. So you're going to make it to the 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:45.680 welcome dinner. 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:48.560 Yes, We'll get to the welcome dinner recovery, yes, and 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:51.160 then we fly out after that that day, no, the 0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:54.320 day after day after let's talk about are we going 0:02:54.400 --> 0:02:56.560 to go organized to go to that cave? 0:02:57.160 --> 0:02:57.440 Yes? 0:02:57.760 --> 0:02:58.079 Okay. 0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:01.120 So I was telling Matt about this place in Corfu 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:02.200 where I'm getting married. 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:04.920 Yeah, she's listening, turn off, it turned off. 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:09.280 Okay. It's called the Corfu Canal de Moor, and the 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:12.919 legend goes that if you and your partner swim in 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:15.680 there together, you will be together for life. 0:03:15.800 --> 0:03:16.960 Is it kissing there as well? 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:18.000 And I think kissing there? 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:18.320 Yeah? 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:21.839 Anyway, I was actually telling Michael's mum this and she's 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:23.720 like is that a good thing or a bad thing? 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:25.960 You're going to be together for life? Like, what if 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:27.040 you're not happy? 0:03:28.520 --> 0:03:29.680 No, I reckon, it's a good thing. I was going 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:32.239 to surprise Timmy and take her there and make it 0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:34.560 out and there and so then we stay together for life. 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:36.000 But I don't think we need a canal for that. 0:03:36.120 --> 0:03:39.400 Really, it's a very cute sentiment, though I definitely want 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:41.200 to do it. It's right up the north of the island, 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:43.839 so we need to organize a day to go there. 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:45.920 Well, yeah, my ek for the week just on that 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:47.280 is the price of the tickets. 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:52.920 To be honest, I would mind. Matt's favorite thing to 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:56.280 do when something costs like too much money, he like 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:58.480 gets his fist and he bites it and he's. 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:01.480 Like, we'll post the photo of it on the Facebook page. 0:04:01.520 --> 0:04:03.840 Is quite funny, isn't it Amber's thing when she calls me, 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:04.560 When I call her. 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:06.000 She has a photo of you. 0:04:06.120 --> 0:04:09.360 Like time started to do it as well, actually for 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:10.080 things as well. 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:12.160 It's actually like my favorite thing that you do. I 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:17.839 think it's hilarious. I'm like, wow, Well, my turn on 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:21.080 of the week is that Michael just had his Bucks party. 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:22.120 That's your turn on. 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:25.200 It's literally my turn on, Like I'm so turned on 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:28.120 by his Bucks party. Yeah, he was so well behaved. 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:29.799 No strippers, no strippers. 0:04:29.839 --> 0:04:32.880 They went down to Sorrento for the weekend, like it 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:35.400 was a long weekend and they all just had the 0:04:35.440 --> 0:04:36.039 best time. 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:36.479 You know. 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:40.120 They drunk expensive wine, they went out for food, they 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:42.800 played some like fun drinking games, but overall it was 0:04:43.279 --> 0:04:46.400 so tame. I was like, I am so glad and 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:49.560 marrying this man, Like this is so attractive to me. 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:52.360 And I don't think that a lot of people are 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:54.440 in my position. Like I feel like people are a 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:57.640 bit like after their partner or fiance goes on their 0:04:57.680 --> 0:04:59.800 Bucks weekend, they're a bit like off them, or they're 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:02.360 not happy about things that have happened. I literally got 0:05:02.400 --> 0:05:06.160 none of that. I wasn't even anxious he was there, 0:05:06.440 --> 0:05:08.400 Like I was like so happy that he was having 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:09.240 It's so good to have. 0:05:09.279 --> 0:05:11.719 A partner that when they go out you don't feel anxious, 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:13.880 Like they stay in communication with you the whole time, 0:05:14.000 --> 0:05:15.240 and like did he do that? 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:18.800 Yeah, no, he stayed in communication the whole time. But 0:05:18.839 --> 0:05:21.400 I wasn't trying to crowd him, but he was like, hey, babe, 0:05:21.440 --> 0:05:24.640 just got home like he was really good. So yeah, 0:05:24.680 --> 0:05:27.520 it's seriously a turn on for me because I'm just like, 0:05:27.600 --> 0:05:29.640 fuck yes, like finally. 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:31.800 My bucks will be the same, like a good. 0:05:31.600 --> 0:05:35.680 Guy good boys, not my child, good guy who's like actually, 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:38.600 you know, like not doing the right thing by me, 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:43.160 but like he's just not creepy and wanting that type 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:46.040 of Yeah that vibe. So anyway, I'm very turned on. 0:05:46.680 --> 0:05:48.880 That's what you're seeing. Or and then when he's there, 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:50.720 he's throwing dollar bills down. 0:05:51.120 --> 0:05:55.960 No, no, I were literally playing like board games, like 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:57.960 getting drunk together. I was like, that's so cute. 0:05:58.120 --> 0:05:58.920 I kind of love that. 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:01.240 That's where I'm at in my life as well. Though yes, 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:02.160 literally where I'm at. 0:06:03.000 --> 0:06:05.320 Nothing got too lit as well, Like I think they 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:07.520 were all in bed at like eleven o'clock, like they 0:06:07.520 --> 0:06:10.400 were like they carried on drinking like the next day 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:13.159 and stuff, but it didn't get too like they weren't 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:16.320 per bendering until six in the morning, like we're done. 0:06:16.360 --> 0:06:20.800 Pass not a vibe for me. Your hens is coming soon. 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:25.599 I may or may not have copped an invite. I did. 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:28.520 It's actually just my bridesmaids that we do have an 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:29.840 extra ticket. 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:31.240 And you don't want it to go to waste. 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:32.760 And I don't want it to go to waste. 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:35.800 I'm in the Gold Coast. I think I'll come along 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:36.280 for one night. 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:38.480 It's like a cabaret kind of on the first night 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:39.039 we're going to This. 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:40.840 Year's a dress up theme. It is, what do I 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:41.400 have to dress up? 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:45.599 I'll tell you later. It's a secret for now, but 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:48.000 I will tell you later. I actually you in this 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:50.680 dress up theme. Like it's literally making me laugh just 0:06:50.680 --> 0:06:54.279 thinking about it. Oh no, no, it's good, it's good. 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:57.000 We'll talk about this once. My hands. My Hands is 0:06:57.000 --> 0:06:58.280 on the twelfth of April. 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:01.400 Yes, I'll be up there that week kend. So this 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:03.599 is actually my first weekend in Melbourne in a long time. 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:04.200 It is. 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:06.320 How are you feeling getting to see all your friends 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:07.200 and family this weekend? 0:07:07.240 --> 0:07:09.080 Yeah? I love to and that I miss Tammy the 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:11.800 whole time. But it was good to have seen my family. 0:07:11.840 --> 0:07:13.480 I went to the foot of my family. You know, 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:18.520 I've never just this sounds very prude and very like obnoxious, 0:07:18.560 --> 0:07:20.320 but I've never just done general admission at the footy. 0:07:20.520 --> 0:07:23.000 This sounds very prude, well, you know, like very like 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:26.880 what's the word for it entitled like I've never done 0:07:26.960 --> 0:07:28.400 general admission? How did you find it? 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:30.040 It's cool? You know you got to find your seats. 0:07:30.040 --> 0:07:32.000 That was a bit like daunting walking right up to 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:36.360 the mcg oh my, you know we fair seats. Normally 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:38.160 I get my allocated seats. But it was fun. 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:42.440 Normally gets his allocated seats. Everyone medallion club. 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:45.200 That's so good for everyone around. 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:47.679 Free tickets by the players. I none of that. I 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:49.880 had to, yeah, walk up and find your own seat. 0:07:49.920 --> 0:07:52.440 It was good though. So we go for Recident and 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:57.160 my sister's boyfriends go for Hawthorm. Only one of them came. Yeah. 0:07:57.240 --> 0:08:00.840 Still a good game though Hawthorne. Yeah, well you said 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:03.520 Hawthorne just long day, long driving. 0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:08.240 That's not really articulating his words. It's got a bit lazy. 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:10.320 Do you know what was very cute though? What I 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:12.800 will say is I did see you after the footage 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:14.720 go for a wine with your mum, and it just 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:17.680 like warms my heart. Like the relationship you and your 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:20.080 mum have is actually very cute. Like it's a cute 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:21.920 that you would go for a wine with her and 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:25.200 like like choosing with your mates and her, Like I 0:08:25.240 --> 0:08:26.760 was like, bless it's so nice. 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:29.760 I mean, I wasn't as slack cute about it. I 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:31.440 was like, this is my chaperone home. 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:35.080 Okay, well my ech for the week. This is a 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:37.080 big inch and I don't even know if I've spoken 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:40.440 to you about this. So I went to the dentist 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:42.679 and I got a little bit of bonding because my 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:46.360 tooth had chipped, and because obviously, like weddings coming up, 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:48.400 I want to have, like, you know, the perfect smile. 0:08:48.640 --> 0:08:51.480 Didn't want to have chip teeth. And the dentist was like, 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:54.680 are you really stressed out? And I was like not really. 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:56.920 He was like you are. 0:08:57.840 --> 0:08:59.320 I was like what do you mean I am? 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:02.200 And he's like you're grinding your teeth and it's like 0:09:02.280 --> 0:09:05.400 that's why your tooth is chipped. And I was like oh, 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:08.880 and he's like yeah, like your master muscle is really strong. 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:13.320 Apparently the dentist they can give you massive botox for 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:18.200 eight hundred dollars to relax your jaw. Yeah, so you 0:09:18.280 --> 0:09:23.439 don't like cle so you don't clench and destroy your teeth. Anyway, 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:26.760 ended up going to my local injector because it was 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:29.320 a lot cheaper than eight hundred dollars, and I was like, hey, 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:32.200 can you put like botox in my massive muscle so 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:33.959 that it relaxes my muscle because I don't want to 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:34.760 chip any more teeth? 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:36.040 A story and a tile? 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:36.760 What's that? 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:38.040 Was it just the cost of a story? 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:42.559 No, it wasn't like a clap. I paid for it anyway. 0:09:42.760 --> 0:09:45.440 I before I had it done, she was like, by 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:47.319 the way, like there's like a one in one hundred 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:52.200 thousand chance that it will hit this specific muscle in 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:55.160 your jaw and your smile. You won't be able to 0:09:55.200 --> 0:09:59.280 smile essentially, And I was like, fuck, do I want 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:01.679 to not smile my wedding? Do I want chip teeth 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:04.160 at my wedding? And I was like weighing up the options, 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:06.440 and then I'm like, come on, Anna, just do it. 0:10:06.559 --> 0:10:13.240 Like it's literally like not that lucky, unlucky, like one 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:16.080 in one hundred thousand chance whatever. I'm like, surely this 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:18.200 is not gonna happen to me anyway. I was like, 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:21.640 you know what, like I think this is like I 0:10:21.679 --> 0:10:23.480 know I'm not diagnosed with ADHD, but I think this 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:26.920 is an ADHD thing. When I want something like ticked off, 0:10:27.000 --> 0:10:29.400 I'm like, do it, don't think about it, don't think 0:10:29.400 --> 0:10:32.280 about the repercussions, and I was like, fuck it, let's 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:34.920 just do it like it's not a big deal. For 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:39.840 the next week. Up until this day, I have never 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:43.800 looked in the mirror at myself more and like literally 0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:46.760 so embarrassingly, I'm just smiling in the mirror like a 0:10:46.800 --> 0:10:50.920 full blown serial killer stalker. Honestly, I've never been more 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:52.800 fucking stressed out of my life. 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:56.000 So I didn't hit the spot. You're okay, I. 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:58.440 Don't think so. Like I've got like two more days 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:01.280 where it could potentially fuck up my smile. I'm pretty 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:03.160 sure I'm good. Like, look at myself now. 0:11:03.160 --> 0:11:04.040 Yeah, you're still smiling. 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:06.080 Fine, I'm still smiling. Fine, But imagine if this side 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:11.319 was just like down, Like imagine for your wedding, the 0:11:11.480 --> 0:11:14.640 one day where you need to be smiling. Like if 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:16.960 this was any other time, I don't think I would 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:19.480 have taken it seriously. But I've had mental breakdowns in 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:21.520 the past week over this shit. Like I haven't been 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:29.160 this stressed down a long time since some toxic excess. Okay, man, 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:33.160 I came across this TikTok the other day, and this 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:37.960 little theory is going very viral at the moment. And 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:42.040 basically it is the black cat and Golden Retriever theory. 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:46.400 Yes, my fiance sent this to me, really said that it's. 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:50.200 Us Okay, well, yeah, you are very golden retriever energy. 0:11:50.240 --> 0:11:53.240 So basically, the theory says that women are never happy 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:57.239 in their relationships or marriages if they end up chasing 0:11:57.440 --> 0:12:00.840 their man. So I think that's why a lot of 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:03.360 women end up being the black cat and the boyfriend 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:06.640 or fiance. Your husband ends up being the golden retriever. 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:09.280 So you think you're the golden retriever. Tammy's the black cat. 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:11.160 I do in a way because when I'm happy in 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:14.679 a relationship, I just I'm you know, you'll do anything, Yeah, yeah, 0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:16.800 I do anything. I just want them to be happy. 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:19.040 I'm happy as a happy wife, happy life. Like I'm 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:22.240 just chill, Like, yes, I have my boundaries. Don't cross 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:24.960 my boundaries or that golden retriever turns into a pitbull, 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:27.520 you know what I mean. Like, and as long as 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:30.480 they're as long as they're respected, I'm a golden retriever. 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:33.560 Like, if you're feeling good in the relationship, you're golden 0:12:33.559 --> 0:12:34.480 Retriever energy. 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:37.600 Yeah, energy, and then and I don't mind that power 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:40.160 or power. I hate that word, but that dynamic in 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:43.000 a relationship, I'm totally I'm chill with that, Like, that's 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:44.880 fine with me. I don't need the power. I just 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:45.720 want to feel respected. 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:48.800 I would say that me and Michael are very black 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:50.840 cat Golden Retriever, which yeah, I. 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:52.640 Say the same. Yeah, yeah, me and Michael. 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:54.360 Have the same Michael is the same though, Like I 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:57.240 know not to cross his boundaries, and I think that's 0:12:57.320 --> 0:13:01.439 because if I do, he's like, he's not the Golden Retriever. 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:03.400 And I love the Golden Retriever. I'm like, I want 0:13:03.440 --> 0:13:06.360 to see the Golden Retriever. Okay, So I'm going to 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:08.640 tell you how to be the black cat. So the 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:13.640 black cat is independent, rational, slow and controlled, comes and 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:17.439 goes as you please, won't do favors, won't run after 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:21.640 anyone puts herself first. And a Golden Retriever, on the 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:25.680 other hand, jumps when you say jump and waits for 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:29.040 the approval and validation and love from the black Cat. 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:31.680 I mean, it's definitely a power dynamic. 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:33.760 Yeah, it sounds a little bit toxic when you explain 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:36.240 it like that, but it's not to that length. I 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:39.480 wouldn't think like it doesn't have to be so like 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:43.200 jumping for approval in that it's more just like easy going, 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:46.160 loving and like do you know what I mean? Yeah, 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:48.200 And like I don't think the power should be fully 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:49.560 like that, Like I said, I don't mind if the 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:51.760 girl has the power, like I've always been in relationships 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:53.880 like that, like I don't you don't want it, I 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:56.200 don't want Like yeah, I'm easy going, like if you 0:13:56.240 --> 0:13:57.600 want to, like you know, I mean, like I'll do 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:00.160 the masculine stuff, like make decisions on that sort of stuff, 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:03.800 but like not like just everyday sort of stuff like 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:06.280 you can. I'm happy to chase, do you know what 0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:06.640 I mean? 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:09.679 I totally think happy wife, happy life, Like I live 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:14.040 by that, but with a level of respect. I think 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:17.800 you can't just be like my way or the highway and. 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:20.200 You can't take it. And I've always said, don't take 0:14:20.200 --> 0:14:24.360 my nicest for weakness, your kindness for weakness, kindness for weakness, 0:14:24.360 --> 0:14:26.800 because it's not it's just me being me. I'm a 0:14:26.880 --> 0:14:27.360 nice person. 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:31.840 Okay, let's talk about celebrity couples, and let's dub them 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:34.920 the black cat or the Golden Retriever. So let's start 0:14:34.960 --> 0:14:38.040 with your favorite celebrity couple, Matt, Let's go Taylor Swift 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:39.560 and Travis Kelsey. Who do we think? 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:44.360 So? I think Kelsey's definitely the golden Retriever, But I 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:47.480 think Taylor Swift isn't a full black cat. 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:50.040 I think she is, do you I don't think she is. 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:51.880 I think she definitely is. 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:54.080 Okay, I feel like she's got a bit of Golden 0:14:54.080 --> 0:14:57.080 Retriever about her, like her song lyrics and that. I 0:14:57.120 --> 0:14:58.280 don't know, I feel like that. 0:14:58.600 --> 0:15:01.400 Yeah, I think Taylor Swift is very black cat, and 0:15:01.440 --> 0:15:04.400 I think Travis Kelce is definitely the golden retriever of 0:15:04.400 --> 0:15:09.720 that relationship. Let's move on Haley Bieber and Justin Bieber. 0:15:10.280 --> 0:15:11.760 I don't know enough about him, but I feel like 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:14.400 Biber would be a bit of a golden Retriever. 0:15:14.480 --> 0:15:16.400 Do you think he's a I see her as a 0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:18.760 black cat, But then I don't know if I necessarily 0:15:18.800 --> 0:15:23.920 see him as a golden retriever. He knows he's worth yeah, 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:25.800 do you know what I mean? Like, I feel like 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:28.520 he would hold a lot of the power in that relationship. 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:31.760 Yeah, I don't know enough about him. Like I said, 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:33.200 I don't know, but the way you see him in 0:15:33.240 --> 0:15:35.400 like photos, and that looks like he's following her and 0:15:35.440 --> 0:15:38.880 she's leading. Yeah, do you know what I mean? Yeah, 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:42.160 I love this couple's dynamics. Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively 0:15:42.440 --> 0:15:44.200 love the dynamics. 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:45.840 They just dote on each other. 0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:47.960 Yeah, it's so nice. And I've seen him, like I 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:49.800 saw a tiktop of him walking in like New York, 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:51.960 like a path one, and they just look they look 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:53.040 perfect for each other. 0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:53.280 Ye. 0:15:53.800 --> 0:15:55.880 Love, they're in love. They look like so good together. 0:15:56.240 --> 0:15:58.960 I think you can tell when a couple are just 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:01.480 two best friends. Yeah, you know what I mean, Like 0:16:01.520 --> 0:16:04.040 when they just both respect each other, they both love 0:16:04.080 --> 0:16:05.400 each other, and they both. 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:07.120 Care for each other, and they just want the best 0:16:07.120 --> 0:16:07.560 for each other. 0:16:07.640 --> 0:16:10.320 Like the speeches they give about each other, I'm like, oh, 0:16:10.560 --> 0:16:13.880 so funny. It's even like about like him talking about 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:16.400 her as a mother, I'm just like, oh, that's so lovely. 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:19.400 So yeah, I would definitely say she's the black cat. 0:16:19.480 --> 0:16:24.120 He's the golden retriever. Yeah, let's go to couples who 0:16:24.360 --> 0:16:29.480 have broken up. Let's go Kanye West and Kim Kardashian. 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:32.920 What do you even explain Kanye, He's. 0:16:32.960 --> 0:16:34.000 He's no golden Retriever. 0:16:34.120 --> 0:16:35.480 He's just all over the place. 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:38.560 True of a black cat, you reckon one hundred percent. 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:40.680 But then I think Kim Kardashians a bit of a 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:44.120 black Cat's I think they're both black cats. Maybe that 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:45.040 site didn't work out. 0:16:45.280 --> 0:16:47.120 Maybe I think he doesn't even know what he is 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:49.480 half the time, because I've seen him on like keeping 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:52.680 up with the Kardashians, and he seems a bit Golden Retrievery. 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:56.200 But then when they first started dating, he was literally 0:16:56.280 --> 0:16:59.600 like doing the most extravagant things for her, and that's 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:01.120 very good and retrievers. 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:03.280 I saw the episode when he brings the hard drive 0:17:04.080 --> 0:17:06.160 with the video on it, remember that, And he took 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:08.720 the coach flight. That's real Golden Retriever sort of vibes. 0:17:08.880 --> 0:17:12.720 And even the proposal, like the surprise proposal, and he 0:17:12.800 --> 0:17:17.000 used to like literally send thousands of flowers to her house. 0:17:17.280 --> 0:17:19.159 Yeah, I think he is, but I think he's just 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:20.800 really confused in his own head. 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:27.960 Fair enough, Okay, last one, Amber Heard and Johnny Day. 0:17:27.920 --> 0:17:29.480 Well, you spoke about this last night on the phone 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:31.639 because I was watching a movie with Amber Heard with 0:17:31.640 --> 0:17:33.320 my mom and I said to Anna, I said it 0:17:33.359 --> 0:17:35.040 on the phone. I was like, I can't look at 0:17:35.080 --> 0:17:37.760 her the same without thinking of her squatting over a pillow. 0:17:40.520 --> 0:17:43.119 Literally, I was like, I can't. 0:17:42.840 --> 0:17:45.240 Look at either of them the same. After that trial, 0:17:45.280 --> 0:17:48.280 Well that's it. Yeah, I lost Johnny Depp lost his 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:51.560 sparkle for me after that trial because I just saw 0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:54.280