1 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 1: Podcast. I need to talk about Tinder. I've never been on. 2 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 2: If anybody's wondering, you'll find her on Raya, which is 3 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 2: the celebrity? 4 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: Is that correct? Is it? Me and Harry Styles? Apparently? 5 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: I've never even heard it put this way that young 6 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: people don't like putting in the hard graft when you're 7 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 1: on the hunt for someone. What does that mean? Like 8 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: a bit of hard work? Okay, that's what That's what 9 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: is typed here. And so Tinder have realized that dating 10 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: procedures have changed, and so they've brought in a few 11 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: new functions because the people who are now dating right 12 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: and are very or should be in that age group 13 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: of being active on Tinder were growing up and had 14 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: their formative years during COVID, and so they weren't as 15 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: social generally anyway. Things were really different. So you weren't 16 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: going out to night clubs and going on dates and 17 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 1: things like that for quite, you know, quite a few years. 18 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 1: So they're more hesitant. 19 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 2: About getting out and about getting. 20 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 1: Out and about but. 21 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:21,119 Speaker 2: One on one, Okay, they're not comfortable. 22 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 1: No, so that the old fashion date one on one 23 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 1: putting in the hard yards isn't They're not quite as 24 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: keen about that. Sad, isn't it They would rather just 25 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 1: maybe hang out a bed maybe I don't. 26 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 2: Know, group of friends and text. 27 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: And I think we spoke about it on the show 28 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 1: the other day where in the US people are going 29 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: jelly and wrestling. No, not jelly wrestling. It was yes, 30 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: speed dating, but wrestling wrestling. 31 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 2: They're not actually competing themselves. 32 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: They're going to. 33 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 2: Watch it owen. 34 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: They have they water off are low pressure dating. And 35 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: so there is a new function called the double date. 36 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: I'm talking about this like I know all about it. 37 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:11,399 Speaker 1: So if you're actually on Tinder and you've seen this 38 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: double dating feature, correct me if I'm wrong, And I'm 39 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: so sorry if I am getting it wrong. You don't 40 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: go on your own. You don't just go with one 41 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 1: other person. Maybe you take a friend. Maybe there's two 42 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 1: of you that meets up with another two. I see 43 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 1: scrolling through his fault see whether there is a double 44 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 1: date feature. 45 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 2: He is he loves a dating app, he's not afraid 46 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 2: of it, and in fact, he's dominated Grinder for years. 47 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 2: Not on Grinder, aren't you? Why not? I just don't 48 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 2: like grind. So when do you go as a gay 49 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 2: man if you're not on grinder. I'm not a Oh okay, 50 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 2: I'm sure you want to keep that private. But do 51 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 2: you feel the intensity of the than the pressure of 52 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 2: one on one? 53 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely. And Tinder is awful. 54 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 2: You will swipe on Tinder and you get a match 55 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 2: and then nothing, nothing happens. People are becoming lazier and lazier, 56 00:02:58,800 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 2: aren't they. 57 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: And I think is a majority of people that are 58 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 1: on there that only want one thing, Kate? 59 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 2: What's that? A meal? 60 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:05,799 Speaker 1: Right? 61 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 2: Necessarily a meal that you get at a restaurant. 62 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 1: Oh, I thought it might be. I think if they 63 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: were only after one thing, it might be that you 64 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:22,239 Speaker 1: might feel their petrol tangle. I mean, that's what everybody's after. 65 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 2: Was that story about girls that got into the routine 66 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 2: of going on a date every night of the week. 67 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 2: Traditionally the guy would pay and that's how they would 68 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 2: get their dinner. About that, Yeah, bitually got into this 69 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 2: habit and it might have been three nights a week, Kate, 70 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 2: Richie Wednesday, a lot of work, a lot of free feed. 71 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: But it's not free, can I say? And we've also 72 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: spoken about this for Okay, I'm generalizing, but for a 73 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: woman to go on a date for an occasion the guy. 74 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: The guy comes home, he may not even get He 75 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: may even just change his shirt in the car on 76 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: the way home from work or at the train station. 77 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: A woman has probably dropped easy two hundred bucks that 78 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: week on fake tanning and nails and a blow dry, 79 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: and maybe she's bought new underwear all of that staff 80 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: or even like long term investments as well. So I 81 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: think maybe, I mean, I wouldn't expect anyone to pay. 82 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: I don't know the last time somebody bought me. 83 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 2: I took Kate Richie out for dinner and didn't pay. 84 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 2: Do you reckon? There's a chance of date number two? 85 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 2: Read forget about. 86 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 1: It, present red Rooster and to Kate Richie. She's there 87 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: in a flat I love a warm chicken roll in 88 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: the back of the Sigma. 89 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 2: You don't have to turn up. 90 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: This is the Fitzy Kate podcast A great shows like this. 91 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 2: Download the Nova player, Fire, the app store or Google Playing.