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Speaker 1: Appoche production.

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Speaker 2: On this episode of We Will Always Have How often

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Speaker 2: should you wash your underwear?

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Speaker 1: Is that a question?

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Speaker 2: Well? Is this question has been written in by someone

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Speaker 2: that isn't me? How often our I'm just asking this

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Speaker 2: is just.

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Speaker 1: I'm blowing away that this is even a discussion.

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Speaker 2: No right, How could this person anonymously write this in?

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Speaker 2: That's disgusting. Well, I think thanks for asking this question anonymous.

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Speaker 1: Us you're going to say every other week.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the We Will Always Have podcasts with me

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Speaker 3: Christian Hull and Chrissy Hearn and over the next few episodes,

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Speaker 3: we've left Sydney behind and it's time for us to

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Speaker 3: explore my hometown of Brisbane.

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Speaker 2: Christy's phown up to stay with me for a couple

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Speaker 2: of nights. God help me, and we're going to do

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Speaker 2: a bunch of stuff and get ourselves into a whole

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Speaker 2: heap of chaos. I have another inquiry for you here.

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Speaker 2: It's about a gaps ooh. It says here. My wife

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Speaker 2: is pregnant with our third child, due in October. We

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Speaker 2: already have two girls, thirteen and six, who are very

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Speaker 2: close with one another. They'll be fourteen and seven when

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Speaker 2: the baby is born. Does anyone have experience with similar

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Speaker 2: age gap. My oldest jokes with us that will be

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Speaker 2: the old parents with the new edition. Both of our

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Speaker 2: girls were jealous at first, but they've come around. It

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Speaker 2: just blows my mind that my oldest will be twenty

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Speaker 2: one when my baby is seven.

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Speaker 1: Wow, well we have an age gap.

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Speaker 2: We do three?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Maxie and Charlie. The ten years difference between those.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there is two. What's the relationship because you've got

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Speaker 2: three sons. Charlie twenty three.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, twenty three, Jack's twenty four, seem to be twenty five,

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Speaker 1: and Max's thirty two soon to be thirty three.

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Speaker 2: Okay, is there relationship vastly different?

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Speaker 4: We've always been a close family, but I think that

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Speaker 1: Their interests are very different, so different.

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Speaker 4: They're a generation, so things that one would find interesting

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Speaker 4: the other doesn't. So yeah, and then there's Jack in

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Speaker 4: the middle, so he's got the best.

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Speaker 2: Do you find the relationship between Jack and Charlie different

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Speaker 2: between Max and Charlie?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're different people and different personalities.

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Speaker 2: No, but like Jack and Charlie closer because like growing up.

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Speaker 2: They were very very close in age. They what two

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Speaker 2: years apart?

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Speaker 1: Eighteen months?

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Speaker 2: God, you pumped them out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well Charlie was a Champagne baby. It was Christmas.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean?

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Speaker 1: It means that happy Amerson. Yeah, yeah, he was born

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Speaker 1: in September. I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I like I think that because of their interests, Like

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Speaker 5: Jack's a real Jack the lad you know, made him

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Speaker 2: More puts on the I makeup goes to Cali Mino.

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Speaker 1: He's always been like that and we love him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. But then Max is very grounded.

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Speaker 4: Max is my grounded, my crystals like air, you know,

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Speaker 2: Was there any concern when you were pregnant with I

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Speaker 2: mean Jack, for example, that the age? How would have

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Speaker 2: Max been? Eight?

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Speaker 1: That was great?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the two little ones, all right. Charlie and Jake

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Speaker 1: Here they are talking about what they used to do

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Speaker 1: before we got here. We fun there.

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Speaker 4: They are talking about what they used to do where

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Speaker 4: they used to go chips on a Sunday KFC, and

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Speaker 1: Everything quite funny.

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Speaker 2: So ultimately, don't be worried about it.

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Speaker 1: Be worried. Look a lot of people are having children

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well I'm four and a half year's difference with

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Speaker 2: I used to absolutely bully them. Oh, Christine, it was bad.

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Speaker 2: I tried to drown them in the pool all the time.

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Speaker 2: Psychotic behavior psychotic And I also used to do it.

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Speaker 2: They'd be in bed, lying in bed, and I push

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Speaker 2: and then really get bad, really bad.

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Speaker 1: I would never have thought that of you, really bad.

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Speaker 2: And then one time when I was babysitting, I obviously

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Speaker 2: is bad. This is actually Christian should be canceled bad.

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Speaker 2: And I put him like, this is concerning red flag's bad.

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Speaker 2: And I put him in a headlock and I was

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Speaker 2: like you and I put the knife up the blunt side.

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Speaker 2: I turned it around.

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Speaker 1: Because that's going to change life.

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Speaker 2: And I said, are you going to go to bed?

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Speaker 2: He's ready for this. This is so bad. Did that

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Speaker 2: but it was the blunt side, it was, It was fine.

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Speaker 2: And then he got out of the headlock, ran and

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Speaker 2: said no, not going to bed, not going to bed,

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Speaker 2: I had as the knife was spinning toward him. I

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't have done that. Thank you Nicholas for being

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Speaker 2: the most athletic human being. He got out of the way,

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Speaker 2: and then the knife stuck into the wall, into the rendering,

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Speaker 1: How did you explain that to your father? Oh?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no. So I was so traumatized from almost killing

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Speaker 2: my brother. I was like, oh my god, my brother

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Speaker 2: not a fucking kid. He doesn't even remember. I then

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Speaker 2: being grabbed and working up because they've got Chris. Poor mama.

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Speaker 2: That's like the first time, like finally we can leave

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Speaker 2: so much trouble and I was sewing and was like,

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Speaker 2: you've got fuck it for children. They wouldn't go to.

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Speaker 1: Bed your poor parents, I know, right four four? Could

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Speaker 2: We used to fight?

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Speaker 2: Look, I will say those were the worst of the worst,

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Speaker 2: and it didn't happen that offer.

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Speaker 1: So my boys, he's never fought that much. But when

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Speaker 4: I got this T shirt, this big, oversized shirt and

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Speaker 1: Both in it, and I who's the two of them?

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Speaker 4: And I still to this day can see Jack's face

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Speaker 4: as he's having to be in this T shirt because

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Speaker 1: What never do that again.

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Speaker 2: You traumatized them, traumatize myself really, because you put two

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Speaker 2: they just bashed the shit out of each was a.

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Speaker 1: Lot taller because Charlie failure to thrive was quite sure.

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Speaker 4: Looking up at Jack and his T shirt and Jack

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Speaker 1: I did not like that.

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Speaker 4: How did your parents used to like they discipline? Discipline

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Speaker 2: Oh it was screaming and shouting constantly. I mean we

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Speaker 2: charld abuse and I'm like, well, you children are fucking annoying. No, honey, no,

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Speaker 2: well that's not working, so fucking kick them in the

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Speaker 2: No you can't. You don't kick them in the face.

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Speaker 2: And we were awful and it was I think deserved.

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Speaker 2: But again, like I couldn't actually do that. I don't

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Speaker 2: But then I don't live with her, so she doesn't

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Speaker 2: And once did Mum or Dad turn this car around?

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Speaker 2: And I said to them, when we got older, I said,

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I remember I used to give the boys

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Speaker 4: I would look at them, I would clock them, and

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Speaker 4: they would run a mile.

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Speaker 1: They would absolutely run a mile.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I remember Dad had a thing when we were

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Speaker 2: out with friends who would touch his ear and that

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Speaker 2: Dad's friends, because I always used to go visits the

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Speaker 2: kids is at the same age, was like, that's what

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Speaker 2: look it was like a thank you, and then if

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Speaker 2: And there were two times that really stick in my

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Speaker 2: She just walked out the front door. It was one time,

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Speaker 4: Every one of my boys are completely different, and I

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Speaker 1: That I love hearing about the jama You know, you

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Speaker 2: From different so there's like different elements of favoritism within

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Speaker 1: If I want a problem solve, I go to Jack.

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Speaker 4: Jack is very very data based, and he will say

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Speaker 2: Charlie is it's just like here's the money.

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Speaker 1: No, Charlie is the one. Well, how does this affect me?

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Speaker 4: Does this impact my life? Then it's like yeah, well

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Speaker 2: Like brings you back down the world, like, yeah, we're not.

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Speaker 2: Not right right. It's so hard to tell with my

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Speaker 1: But it's interesting, what do your parents come to you about?

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Speaker 2: Oh, absolutely nothing. They make sure that I'm still alive.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think Nick and Tim were always a lot

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Speaker 2: So let's just say we were lucky and fortunate enough

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And so Nick was really instrumental in I'll

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Speaker 2: call them in tears, oh yeah, oh god, and they're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: we go. They're like older brothers because they've also done

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Speaker 2: what They've run businesses. They're in sales, they can sell

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Speaker 1: So who did your brothers? Who's most like your dad?

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Speaker 2: Nick and Tim?

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Speaker 2: I mean they also look like him when he was there.

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Speaker 1: You are like your mum. He's very tasty, very much.

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Speaker 2: Instantly. Judge gets defensive, but like, you know, we're screaming

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Speaker 2: I like you.

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Speaker 1: Ated she got an opinion on everything.

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Speaker 2: No, I haven't had an interesting in a sense of

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Speaker 2: They're very empathetic and very selfless, always doing things they raised,

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Speaker 2: They just do a lot for a lot of other people.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, just said, you know, boys? Is that I

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Speaker 2: That's the secret family we're talking about, not a parent,

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Speaker 2: My brother got more privileges. He was often praised for

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Speaker 4: My brother, Oh no, he did nothing. It's weird, jack shit,

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Speaker 4: It was never I want you to go and do

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Speaker 1: Christmas Day to your parents.

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Speaker 2: Not anymore, and moms are fucking loving this. Now you're

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Speaker 2: old enough, Yeah, we're going to you for Christmas. I

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Speaker 2: think she's really like, oh, great, you know, I'll come

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00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:22,561
Speaker 2: in and help with the watching up. I'll come in

440
00:21:22,561 --> 00:21:24,961
Speaker 2: and do this. But it's the responsibility doesn't fall on

441
00:21:25,441 --> 00:21:27,960
Speaker 2: her anymore. But it always made me feel really sad,

442
00:21:28,120 --> 00:21:29,801
Speaker 2: and so I'd be like, oh, we better get in there,

443
00:21:30,441 --> 00:21:32,761
Speaker 2: because it felt like they wanted to go in and

444
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:35,321
Speaker 2: they have this like they were just beautiful human beings.

445
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:37,880
Speaker 2: They were all about pitching in and helping, and I'm like,

446
00:21:38,120 --> 00:21:44,640
Speaker 2: can't be bothered, sitting on the can't be fucked. I

447
00:21:44,681 --> 00:21:48,041
Speaker 2: want to bring up some red flags with you. The fashion.

448
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:51,321
Speaker 2: Oh yes, do you have any off the top of

449
00:21:51,321 --> 00:21:51,681
Speaker 2: your head?

450
00:21:52,041 --> 00:21:55,400
Speaker 1: Red flags for fashion? Tights under a dress is a

451
00:21:55,441 --> 00:21:58,241
Speaker 1: red flag for me. I don't like it. I understand it.

452
00:21:58,481 --> 00:22:00,281
Speaker 1: I understand the purpose.

453
00:22:00,201 --> 00:22:01,680
Speaker 2: But I don't like what's the purpose.

454
00:22:02,241 --> 00:22:03,960
Speaker 1: Oh, it's just to give another dimension?

455
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,921
Speaker 2: Well sometimes in winter, yeah.

456
00:22:06,961 --> 00:22:09,001
Speaker 4: Yeah, but then I kind of think, well a boot

457
00:22:09,041 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 4: would do that if you have a boot underneath a

458
00:22:11,521 --> 00:22:12,801
Speaker 4: nice long beat, but.

459
00:22:12,761 --> 00:22:15,561
Speaker 2: The tights would cover your whole like types feel good

460
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 2: that I don't have an obsession with lycra. But I've

461
00:22:18,921 --> 00:22:21,241
Speaker 2: worn tights for Mardi Gras and I've been like, oh,

462
00:22:21,681 --> 00:22:25,921
Speaker 2: like the stockings, I like breatheable. Oh and they make

463
00:22:25,961 --> 00:22:30,401
Speaker 2: your legs look such fun. Okay, I loved it. Okay,

464
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,680
Speaker 2: I fucking hate you know the Stanley cups?

465
00:22:33,561 --> 00:22:33,761
Speaker 5: Yes?

466
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:38,441
Speaker 2: Do you know there's accessories for Stanley cups. You can

467
00:22:38,481 --> 00:22:41,561
Speaker 2: put a Velcrow pouch and people put their phone and

468
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,521
Speaker 2: their keys in it. I'm like, your Stanley cup is

469
00:22:44,561 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 2: not a handbag.

470
00:22:46,721 --> 00:22:49,241
Speaker 1: It's a real crazy though. It's like, but.

471
00:22:49,201 --> 00:22:51,561
Speaker 2: I've never seen anyone out with it. I've just seen

472
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:56,321
Speaker 2: the odd influencer with these excessively accessorized embarrassing.

473
00:22:57,721 --> 00:23:00,441
Speaker 1: It's embarrassing to lug this around.

474
00:23:01,241 --> 00:23:04,881
Speaker 4: And honestly, is your hydration that bad that you need

475
00:23:04,921 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 4: to to be putting two point five liters of water

476
00:23:08,961 --> 00:23:10,081
Speaker 4: in there along.

477
00:23:09,801 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 1: With your person? And I disagreeet attached to it.

478
00:23:13,360 --> 00:23:16,801
Speaker 2: Well done on wanting to stay hydrated. Take your Stanley's

479
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,481
Speaker 2: and take your two liter water bottles?

480
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:21,440
Speaker 4: Would if you want to go even out back Australia, like,

481
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,440
Speaker 4: you can get yourself a Mount Franklin from war words

482
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,201
Speaker 4: like or for five dollars.

483
00:23:27,481 --> 00:23:29,481
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we'll fill it up from the top.

484
00:23:30,481 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 2: That's the same thing as filling up a water bottle

485
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:33,281
Speaker 2: and taking it with you.

486
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,561
Speaker 4: I saw this guy once walk through this door and

487
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:40,561
Speaker 4: he had, you know the water cooler bottles, you know,

488
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:41,201
Speaker 4: the big one.

489
00:23:41,281 --> 00:23:43,401
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've seen and they have those as water bottles,

490
00:23:43,481 --> 00:23:44,001
Speaker 2: and he had what.

491
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:45,561
Speaker 1: Is a water bottle and it was full.

492
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 2: And I'm like, four leaders?

493
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,881
Speaker 4: Why I wouldn't drink four leaders in four days? But see, like, honestly,

494
00:23:50,921 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 4: why would you need to carry that round?

495
00:23:53,041 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 1: Are you working?

496
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:56,641
Speaker 2: I love that everywhere because what he's doing is he'll

497
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 2: take it wherever he goes. He knows that he's got

498
00:23:59,001 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 2: to finish all of that.

499
00:23:59,921 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 1: And what a joke.

500
00:24:00,921 --> 00:24:03,640
Speaker 4: And don't even get me started on those water bottles

501
00:24:03,681 --> 00:24:06,841
Speaker 4: with the one hundred milk. Well done, You've just had

502
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:13,120
Speaker 4: one hundred meals, two hundred meals, well done, enjoy hundred meals.

503
00:24:13,241 --> 00:24:14,721
Speaker 4: You are nearly there.

504
00:24:14,961 --> 00:24:15,561
Speaker 1: Keep going.

505
00:24:15,721 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 4: I think it's so patronizing, like they tell me what

506
00:24:19,201 --> 00:24:22,241
Speaker 4: I can bloody drink and when I should drink it off.

507
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:25,001
Speaker 1: All the way, Okay, I'm very passionate about that.

508
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:29,801
Speaker 2: Also in the fashion I despise bucket hats.

509
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,360
Speaker 1: Oh I love a bucket Oh they're hideous.

510
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 4: Oh I love the reversible ones so much fun. I

511
00:24:36,481 --> 00:24:38,400
Speaker 4: spotted them there at Bluey's World.

512
00:24:38,441 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 1: Did you see that? I thinking you would look so

513
00:24:42,761 --> 00:24:43,641
Speaker 1: in a bucket hat.

514
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,801
Speaker 2: It makes me look like it I just twelve year old. No,

515
00:24:47,961 --> 00:24:50,121
Speaker 2: maybe that's where this problem stemps from.

516
00:24:50,241 --> 00:24:53,721
Speaker 1: It is no play, it's trauma is the same.

517
00:24:54,120 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 4: I had so many bucket hats for me, so many

518
00:24:57,801 --> 00:24:58,481
Speaker 4: can't stand them.

519
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 2: I hate them. This next one is a green flag

520
00:25:03,001 --> 00:25:05,281
Speaker 2: for me. Oh okay, but it's a red flag for

521
00:25:05,321 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 2: a lot of other people. What shoe am I constantly wearing?

522
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:10,321
Speaker 4: Oh?

523
00:25:10,360 --> 00:25:12,241
Speaker 1: You've got your crocs on continual?

524
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:13,921
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on crocs?

525
00:25:14,001 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 4: Look, I have got a pair of crocs, and I

526
00:25:16,041 --> 00:25:17,640
Speaker 4: see that there is a time and a place for

527
00:25:17,681 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 4: a croc.

528
00:25:18,521 --> 00:25:19,561
Speaker 2: I do I disagree?

529
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 4: Beach where summer reminds me of the crocs? When you

530
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:27,561
Speaker 4: add a sock to it in winter, That's when I

531
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 4: draw the line. I say, no, that's like the Birkenstocks.

532
00:25:30,921 --> 00:25:33,880
Speaker 4: You know, the Boston ones, the Boston Birkenstocks.

533
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 2: Beautiful shit. It looks like I'm going to show you

534
00:25:38,120 --> 00:25:42,401
Speaker 2: I have bought custom socks for my crocs and they

535
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 2: look great. I'm just going into my room, okay, so

536
00:25:46,441 --> 00:25:52,201
Speaker 2: we want to go here now I'm going to put

537
00:25:52,241 --> 00:25:55,481
Speaker 2: these on and you can't tell me I don't look

538
00:25:55,681 --> 00:25:59,561
Speaker 2: amazing in a Kroc and a sock. Okay, have you

539
00:25:59,561 --> 00:26:01,360
Speaker 2: got any other fashion red flags?

540
00:26:01,441 --> 00:26:03,841
Speaker 1: I think fashion is very fluid. You can wear what

541
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: you want, how you want. I have fun with it.

542
00:26:06,321 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 1: I don't wear dresses, so for me, that's a red flag.

543
00:26:09,521 --> 00:26:12,041
Speaker 1: I don't, will you?

544
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:16,041
Speaker 2: Okay, here go, bladies and gentlemen presenting Christian Hall in

545
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 2: pink crocs and pink socks.

546
00:26:20,921 --> 00:26:23,561
Speaker 1: Now then they're the new fashion coming out.

547
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,761
Speaker 2: Those socks, these are two dollars from came up. Well.

548
00:26:26,921 --> 00:26:30,761
Speaker 4: The cut of those if you wear them with a loafer,

549
00:26:31,441 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 4: they're very on trend at the moment. Do you know

550
00:26:34,201 --> 00:26:37,521
Speaker 4: my loafers, my Joe Mercers. I see a lot of

551
00:26:37,561 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 4: people now wearing those shaped socks.

552
00:26:39,721 --> 00:26:43,880
Speaker 1: What about the Krok and the sock? You look not

553
00:26:43,921 --> 00:26:44,400
Speaker 1: a similar?

554
00:26:46,120 --> 00:26:46,281
Speaker 4: Look?

555
00:26:46,360 --> 00:26:48,281
Speaker 1: I like it on you because I think that's totally

556
00:26:48,360 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 1: on brand.

557
00:26:50,281 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 2: Bows on babies love it.

558
00:26:52,681 --> 00:26:53,120
Speaker 1: I love it.

559
00:26:53,561 --> 00:26:55,321
Speaker 2: I'm sorry with no hair.

560
00:26:55,561 --> 00:26:56,921
Speaker 1: Oh it's so adorable.

561
00:26:57,001 --> 00:26:59,120
Speaker 2: I do worry no hair.

562
00:26:59,681 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I hear what you're saying underlining there, but it

563
00:27:02,561 --> 00:27:05,801
Speaker 4: is so cute when they've got like no hair, bored

564
00:27:05,801 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 4: as a badger, and then they've got this bow that's

565
00:27:08,441 --> 00:27:09,881
Speaker 4: as big as their head itself.

566
00:27:10,120 --> 00:27:13,761
Speaker 2: Just to let everyone know that's my daughter.

567
00:27:14,120 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's so cute.

568
00:27:16,041 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 2: My sister in law did that and I was just

569
00:27:18,321 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 2: was like, take it off. No, she does not need that.

570
00:27:22,481 --> 00:27:27,761
Speaker 2: My niece so cute. Oh what a beautiful boy, What

571
00:27:27,801 --> 00:27:30,801
Speaker 2: a beautiful boy. And it didn't really bother my sister

572
00:27:30,801 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 2: in law, but I was like, I'm just gonna put

573
00:27:32,441 --> 00:27:34,481
Speaker 2: a bow on her head now. Oh what a beautiful girl.

574
00:27:34,521 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 2: What a beautiful girl. And I was like, oh my gosh, Yes, babies,

575
00:27:37,120 --> 00:27:38,281
Speaker 2: you can't really tell.

576
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 1: Well, Charlie was a magnificent baby.

577
00:27:41,201 --> 00:27:43,321
Speaker 2: I mean he's quite a stunning Oh.

578
00:27:43,201 --> 00:27:47,081
Speaker 4: My goodness, he was beautiful. And people would say, oh,

579
00:27:47,201 --> 00:27:50,201
Speaker 4: isn't he a beautiful little girl all the time.

580
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, just gorgeous. He was bored as a badger.

581
00:27:53,761 --> 00:27:56,041
Speaker 2: Okay, I want to ask you if this is a

582
00:27:56,080 --> 00:28:00,160
Speaker 2: red flag wearing the same shirt multiple times.

583
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:06,681
Speaker 1: Now, Look, I do have an opinion here. I believe

584
00:28:06,961 --> 00:28:08,801
Speaker 1: I'm taking this from a safe space.

585
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,001
Speaker 4: Okay, I believe that we're in a safe space here

586
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,201
Speaker 4: and you're not going to get upset. Well, I hope

587
00:28:13,281 --> 00:28:15,201
Speaker 4: you don't get upset with what I'm about to talk.

588
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,321
Speaker 2: You can say you hate it and it's not going

589
00:28:17,360 --> 00:28:17,761
Speaker 2: to change.

590
00:28:18,120 --> 00:28:21,640
Speaker 4: I see it as laziness that you've got the same

591
00:28:21,681 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 4: shirt and you wear it continuously. You've got multiple so

592
00:28:24,761 --> 00:28:27,201
Speaker 4: it's not like you're wearing the same one every day.

593
00:28:27,441 --> 00:28:30,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've got six of the same pattern of shirt

594
00:28:30,761 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 2: from Ganda. If you've watched me for a while, you

595
00:28:32,721 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 2: know exactly the one I'm talking about, the.

596
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 1: One that looks like a tattoo.

597
00:28:35,241 --> 00:28:36,961
Speaker 2: Everyone thinks it looks like a body tattoo.

598
00:28:37,041 --> 00:28:39,521
Speaker 1: It does it? I thought, yeah, it does. But the

599
00:28:39,561 --> 00:28:41,201
Speaker 1: thing is, I think that's your uniform.

600
00:28:41,481 --> 00:28:42,521
Speaker 2: It is my uniform.

601
00:28:42,681 --> 00:28:45,761
Speaker 4: And there's a celebrity that also has a uniform, and

602
00:28:45,801 --> 00:28:48,041
Speaker 4: I think it's Russell Crowe off the top of my head,

603
00:28:48,361 --> 00:28:52,561
Speaker 4: and he will wear very similar clothing every day because

604
00:28:52,601 --> 00:28:54,441
Speaker 4: he wants to piss the paparazzi.

605
00:28:54,601 --> 00:29:00,081
Speaker 1: Oh, so he'll just wear I wonder, is that what

606
00:29:00,081 --> 00:29:02,561
Speaker 1: you're doing? And you think you they're.

607
00:29:02,441 --> 00:29:06,721
Speaker 2: Out the front all the time, the most comfortable to rayon. Lastly,

608
00:29:07,361 --> 00:29:09,401
Speaker 2: how often should you wash your underwear?

609
00:29:11,121 --> 00:29:11,841
Speaker 1: Is that a question?

610
00:29:12,041 --> 00:29:15,241
Speaker 2: Well, this is this question has been written in by

611
00:29:15,321 --> 00:29:20,161
Speaker 2: someone that isn't me. How often? How I'm just asking

612
00:29:20,201 --> 00:29:20,881
Speaker 2: this is just just.

613
00:29:21,121 --> 00:29:23,721
Speaker 1: I'm blowing away that this is even a discussion.

614
00:29:23,281 --> 00:29:26,921
Speaker 2: You know, right, How could this person anonymously write this in?

615
00:29:27,041 --> 00:29:31,041
Speaker 2: That's disgusting. Well, I think thanks for asking this question anonymously.

616
00:29:31,881 --> 00:29:34,401
Speaker 1: You're going to say every other week what you can.

617
00:29:34,961 --> 00:29:37,161
Speaker 2: I'd love to know your opinion first before you give.

618
00:29:37,201 --> 00:29:41,601
Speaker 4: Fine, Well, sometimes twice a day, once a day, what

619
00:29:42,041 --> 00:29:44,761
Speaker 4: a day it's hot, if.

620
00:29:44,601 --> 00:29:45,401
Speaker 1: It's a hot day.

621
00:29:45,561 --> 00:29:49,241
Speaker 2: But does the vigion need to be clean? Because does

622
00:29:49,281 --> 00:29:53,361
Speaker 2: it go up inside of what the underwear? Yeah, and

623
00:29:53,561 --> 00:29:55,601
Speaker 2: we go up inside the end? Well, does it need

624
00:29:55,641 --> 00:29:58,001
Speaker 2: to be clean so the fishing stays clean?

625
00:29:58,441 --> 00:29:59,361
Speaker 1: I think it's just all.

626
00:29:59,281 --> 00:30:02,641
Speaker 4: About it's hot, it's sweaty, you know, you want to

627
00:30:02,681 --> 00:30:03,761
Speaker 4: feel fresh.

628
00:30:03,441 --> 00:30:06,401
Speaker 2: And every day twice a day is my also my answer.

629
00:30:06,641 --> 00:30:10,001
Speaker 4: I think you're saying, come on once a days, no,

630
00:30:10,081 --> 00:30:11,321
Speaker 4: twice a day for Andy?

631
00:30:11,281 --> 00:30:15,401
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, twice a day is what I do. I mean,

632
00:30:15,481 --> 00:30:18,961
Speaker 2: it's what that anonymous person should be doing, should be doing, Yeah,

633
00:30:18,961 --> 00:30:19,521
Speaker 2: twice a day