1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: With Kate Richie. What did your parents discipline you with 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: when you got into trouble when you were younger? Wooden 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: spoon soap I do love. And you know there's the 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: old stories of the soap in the mouth if they swear, 5 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 1: or if you're caught having a dart when you're younger. 6 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: There's always that one that you hear of. Well, why 7 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: don't you go through a packet of smoke? Smoke the 8 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: whole year? 9 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 2: You feel at the end of that I reckon it 10 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 2: kind of works, and that if you've consumed too much 11 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 2: of one thing, you never want to have it again, 12 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 2: if it's been a bad experience. 13 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: Well this happened to this poor kid. A dad from 14 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 1: China has caught his eleven year old son playing video 15 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 1: games on his phone at one thirty am earlier this month, 16 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: and it was way past the youngster's bed time. Obviously, 17 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: what are they playing? That's alex kid, isn't it? Oh awesome? 18 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: He's on his phone? Okay. The dad Hwang is his name, 19 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 1: decided that instead of taking away his son's phone, he'd 20 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: let him play for as long as he wanted, on 21 00:00:56,520 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: one condition he wasn't allowed to sleep. Oh so he 22 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: made him play, you have to keep playing that video game. 23 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 1: It was one thirty in the morning. Huang left the 24 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: room and he came back the next morning at seven 25 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 1: thirty am, and the boy was still going strong. What 26 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: games he playing now? Jess street Fighter, Bit of street Fighter. 27 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 1: That's interesting. He's still going strong, enjoying his time on 28 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 1: the unnamed video game. But after twelve hours of gaming, 29 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: he failed to fight off the desire to sleep. He 30 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: dozed off at one thirty pm. Huwang immediately woke his 31 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 1: son up and told him to keep playing, and the 32 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: youngster managed to keep going for another few hours until 33 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 1: he reportedly pleaded for forgiveness at six thirty pm the 34 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: next night. Yep, seventeen hours after he was caught playing 35 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: the video game. That'll teach him. 36 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 2: I don't know if it will, because a minute he 37 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 2: feels better, he's going to go I'm back on get 38 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 2: me street Fighter. 39 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 40 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 4: Well, I think you do that with everything, don't you. 41 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 4: You have excess of anything to do that again. 42 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: I drink till you feel better. 43 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 3: Drink Southern Comfort one night. I'll never do that again ever. 44 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: Well, and you got busted. 45 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 3: I ended up in a horrible state down to the 46 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 3: beach one night. 47 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: My God, give me, but that wasn't your parents giving 48 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: you Southern comfort? 49 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 3: Was it? No? No to drink the rest of the bottle? 50 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 3: I did that by myself. 51 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 4: I don't think you heard fits his question, But the 52 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 4: thing was I'm talking about it's extreme parent but I'm 53 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 4: just talking. 54 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 3: About when you've had so much of one thing. 55 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: Were any of your parents around? Dad could maybe link 56 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: to the store. 57 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 4: Do you have a mom? 58 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 5: And I do? 59 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 2: I can tie it into Dad picking me up from 60 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 2: the beach because I needed help. 61 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: So you can see they so since my best mate 62 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: his mom Joy, and she was a single mum, and 63 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: all us lads used to go around there. So whenever 64 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: we had to go to a house party Kate, we 65 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: would say we're having a sleepover at Semps's house so 66 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: we could get away from our parents. Joy had to 67 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: put up with us the whole time. With Joy a 68 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: little more leanient, she was the best. She would cook 69 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: for us, She was the best. But I remember when 70 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 1: SEM's got into trouble. He she would get our uncooked rice, 71 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: hard rice and put it on the what do you 72 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: call it? Floor? But but what's that time lino floor? 73 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 1: And she would spread it on the ground and he 74 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: would have to get down on his knees and kneel 75 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 1: on the uncooked rice, spasms killing me. Are you sick? Yeah? Yeah, 76 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: And he had to stand there like he was in 77 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: Toamo Bay with his hands behind his head as we're 78 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: laughing in the background, and it's like, Mom, this hurts. 79 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: This hurts. 80 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 2: Got thirty more seconds on the rice, and then they'd 81 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 2: cook the rice to eat what he'd knelt on, and 82 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 2: it tasted like Lino, I took it a bit fast. 83 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 4: She really did. 84 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 3: End on that. 85 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 4: That is so extreme. 86 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good, isn't it? 87 00:03:58,920 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 3: It works? 88 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: Is about and Buckston, What was your extreme parenting experience? 89 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 5: Warning guys, so when I was younger, the Iron one 90 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 5: of five. When we were younger, if we ever got 91 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 5: in trouble, we would have to be sitting in a 92 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 5: corner facing a wall with our hands on our heads 93 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 5: for hours on hours hours. 94 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 2: See this is the thing we were talking about this yesterday. 95 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 2: I reckon our parenting is too soft, Like I don't 96 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:23,559 Speaker 2: do any of that gear with my kids. 97 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: But back in the day, you. 98 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 4: Think you can, I think you might be arrested. 99 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 3: When I was here with a cricket bat. 100 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: I was slapped, I was wooden spooned a cup that 101 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 2: all you go for four or no. 102 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 3: Not at all all. 103 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 4: I remember when I was a kid, my brother Stuart, 104 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 4: he played video games for hours and hours and hours. 105 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 4: We were all up the back at Miss Hayden's house 106 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 4: and he walked out the back door when he finally 107 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 4: got busted after being on the computer game for a 108 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 4: long time and. 109 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 1: Collapsed on the concrete from overgaming. I think. So he 110 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 1: finally find Carmen san Diego. Is that the game that 111 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,479 Speaker 1: he was playing. Where in the world? Where in the world? 112 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 3: So he was in Rio. 113 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 2: My dad when I was thirteen, he caught me looking 114 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 2: at some adult material online and for the next week 115 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 2: I had to sit tag your watches or no adult 116 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:16,720 Speaker 2: material online maserati. 117 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:18,479 Speaker 3: I had to sit there for the next week and 118 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 3: keep watching it. 119 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my gosh, that what with 120 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 1: your dad? 121 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, he sat there, so he took the week off 122 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 2: word work. A few of the guys came around as well. 123 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 2: We watched, We went through every video on the It 124 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 2: was just extraordinary and I was we. 125 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: Were stuffed Amy in Mosvar. What was the extreme parenting 126 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:37,040 Speaker 1: experience he had. 127 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 5: Hey, guys, when I was fourteen, my dad he made me. 128 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: Say that again. He made you what he made me. 129 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 3: That's disgusting. Amy. 130 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 1: Who was around Amy? Any other family members there? Or 131 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: is it just you and dad? 132 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 2: So I went, oh, I remember when you were younger 133 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 2: and you'd be at a party or something and you 134 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 2: go to pick up your beer and someone would have 135 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 2: asked in the top of it, oh, just the worst 136 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 2: taste of the wood trigs. 137 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 1: Did it work? 138 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 4: Amy? 139 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, you stop eating? Danny and Penrith 140 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: extreme parenting. What happened? Dan? 141 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 5: So obviously as a child, you'd have tantrums. My mum 142 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,599 Speaker 5: would put me in a cold shower fully clothes to 143 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 5: stop me from crying. 144 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 4: I don't know if I agree with that. That's quite shaming. 145 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 5: Well, I wouldn't stop you from crying, just you kind 146 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 5: of get going. 147 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 4: And you get a cold and then Mum's got to 148 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 4: it causes it creates more work for the parents. 149 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 3: Don't know about yah. 150 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 1: See, i I've threaten Lenny when Lenny doesn't want to 151 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 1: go to sleep at night sometimes and I feel like 152 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: he's doing it on purpose to keep his brain. They're 153 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: up Gernie and his brother just wants to. Yeah, Gurnie's 154 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 1: do work, just even just pointing to the spare bedroom upstairs. 155 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: Stark up there, and it's free for you. If you 156 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: keep annoying your brother, you can go and sleep up there. 157 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: That's fine. And you can see the terror in. 158 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 4: His eye, instill fear in the child. 159 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: That's way throwing a certain and it's really hot. So 160 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: to go up there, you got to slope to share 161 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: a room. 162 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:28,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, they I love that. 163 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: Still in bunk beds. So Hugh's getting to the age 164 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 1: where he wants a room by himself and Lenny's getting 165 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: it quite sad now that I might lose the bro 166 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: have to have another baby. Sej and I are in 167 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: bunk beds as well. Room. Yeah, it's great. 168 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 3: At least you're in the same room. Shanny and Cronulla. 169 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 3: Welcome to the show Extreme Parenting. 170 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 5: Hey, guys, my father used to our elbows on the 171 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 5: table at dinner time. He would get the back of 172 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 5: a butter knife and make sure that we weren't actually 173 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 5: watching you and whack us with the back of a 174 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 5: but the knife. 175 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: Is that really these days? The old elbows on the tap? 176 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 1: It come. 177 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 4: No, I don't don't put your elbows on. I have 178 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 4: to say, table man is a really big time big thing, 179 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 4: biggest turn off. 180 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: Many rocked up to the dinner table the other night 181 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: on a Swiss ball and thought he was so good, 182 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: like bouncing up and down just looking at me. You 183 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: knew it was annoying. And then he'd go under and 184 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: he'd pinch the dog, come back up, bounce away. 185 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 3: I was like, you should stop doing that, just in 186 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 3: your chair there. It just looks a bit, I don't know. 187 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: Go under again, pinch the dog, come back out, feed 188 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: the dog some of his food that he didn't want 189 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 1: to wat. 190 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 3: Come on, Lenny, you could put kid into line. 191 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 1: I put him into a cold shower with Kate Richie. 192 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:50,599 Speaker 4: No