Speaker 1: I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.
Speaker 2: She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of
Speaker 2: my kissing style.
Speaker 1: We boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours.
Speaker 2: He's in a trash bin.
Speaker 1: He's non recyclable, catching the muck.
Speaker 2: I love being love. I love love.
Speaker 3: On today's episode of Where's Your Head At, and I
Speaker 3: will be filling us all in on the goss from
Speaker 3: her vacation in Greece.
Speaker 4: I had such a great time. I can't wait to
Speaker 4: tell you guys all about it.
Speaker 2: All right, then give it a rest.
Speaker 4: I'll also be sharing my top tips on how to
Speaker 4: have a seamless holiday with your partner and how to
Speaker 4: handle spending so much time together.
Speaker 3: Stay tuned to hear whether their time in Greece made
Speaker 3: their relationship stronger or whether the cracks started to show.
Speaker 4: Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks all
Speaker 4: things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between.
Speaker 3: This is your new go to destination for las gossip,
Speaker 3: intimate details, advice, and much more. Hello, So you just
Speaker 3: got off a plane from Greece. Welcome back. Are you
Speaker 3: happy to be home?
Speaker 4: I am, I'm feeling really jet lagged, Like I did
Speaker 4: not sleep well last night at all.
Speaker 2: But you said you sleep well on the planes.
Speaker 4: So yeah, like I slept like nine hours on my
Speaker 4: thirteen and a half hour flight. If I want to
Speaker 4: sleep on a plane, I literally will hit the sack
Speaker 4: like that, like I'm just like out cold.
Speaker 2: That's a good skill to have.
Speaker 1: That's like no sleeping tablets.
Speaker 2: Nothing as well. Yeah, I literally can't sleep on a plane.
Speaker 2: I'm restless hours.
Speaker 3: I remember on the flight home from Fiji, actually you
Speaker 3: were out like a light and I was taking selfies.
Speaker 1: Of it because I was resting my head on your shoulder.
Speaker 2: Bind you though we had had that much red wine.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we got drug.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got smashed on the plane home from this.
Speaker 4: Just to like keep everyone up to date, this was
Speaker 4: when me and that finished Love Island. We went home
Speaker 4: together because we were both from Melbourne, so we were sitting
Speaker 4: beside each other and.
Speaker 1: We had not been allowed to drink like more.
Speaker 4: Than one drink I think at a time in weeks,
Speaker 4: in like eight weeks of filming. And then we literally
Speaker 4: got on the plane and we were like keep the
Speaker 4: red ones roll.
Speaker 3: Even come and keep ringing them in and then and
Speaker 3: then I remember you spilt it everywhere with that drunk
Speaker 3: we knocked it over.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's fun. Act How fun was that? Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'll try.
Speaker 3: I'll post one of those, one of those photos actually
Speaker 3: so people can see you passed out. So yeah, you
Speaker 3: can sleep on a plane. But like I said to
Speaker 3: you on the phone before, I've never had jet lag,
Speaker 3: So I don't know what it's like.
Speaker 2: What does it feel like?
Speaker 4: But you've been to the UK multiple times? How have
Speaker 4: you not had jet lags?
Speaker 3: I think my body is just so hearty to that, like, yeah,
Speaker 3: it just knows what to do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I've never had it.
Speaker 1: Wow, that's impressive. I mean I try really.
Speaker 4: Hard because like I sleep for the right amount of time,
Speaker 4: But I don't know. I think it's on the way
Speaker 4: back that the jet lag is way worse. Like on
Speaker 4: the way there, I'm excited to be on holiday. I'm
Speaker 4: just like you know, like you have a few drinks
Speaker 4: at night, you like slide into that time zone very easily.
Speaker 1: But on the way home, I'm just like horrible.
Speaker 3: I mean, once I put my retainer in for bed,
Speaker 3: I'm all lights out.
Speaker 2: My head hits the feeler like you're on a plane.
Speaker 1: Well, maybe you need.
Speaker 4: To put your retainer in on the plane and then
Speaker 4: you'll like knock yourself out.
Speaker 2: Good thought pattern. Actually, but how am I supposed to
Speaker 2: talk to people with a retainer? And if someone like
Speaker 2: tries to wake me up or something.
Speaker 1: Like, they do not disturb.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, it's looked like you had a nice a
Speaker 3: nice trip, and I'm not talking about that one at
Speaker 3: the of your reel where you fell over.
Speaker 2: Can I talk to that through that first?
Speaker 4: You haven't seen that, guys, Head to my Instagram page
Speaker 4: and a Macavoyd twenty one and you can literally see
Speaker 4: me shout out to myself. You can literally see me
Speaker 4: fully stack it. It was so funny because we were
Speaker 4: in Paris. It was like the most beautiful place in
Speaker 4: the world, Like, literally today my favorite place I've ever been.
Speaker 4: So if you're going to grease hot tip, head to Paros.
Speaker 4: Put it on the list. You've seen the video. It
Speaker 4: was like literally this wet concrete by the ocean. The
Speaker 4: water was like coming over onto this concrete and I
Speaker 4: was like, I need the perfect timing for the perfect shot,
Speaker 4: for the perfect Instagram reel, and Michael's like, I feel
Speaker 4: like this is a really bad idea. Like, I don't
Speaker 4: think we should do this, and I was like no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 4: it'll be fine. Did it once looked at the video,
Speaker 4: I was like, I can do it better. He's like, babe,
Speaker 4: this is a bit dangerous.
Speaker 2: Are you sure you want to do crashing on that?
Speaker 1: Yeah? So you have to.
Speaker 4: So I was like, I'm only going to do this twice,
Speaker 4: and then I was like, okay, round two, let's go.
Speaker 1: Literally as soon as my.
Speaker 2: Foot hit because I was like hit.
Speaker 4: The concrete, I just fully went like ice skate sliding.
Speaker 1: But in saying that, I caught myself.
Speaker 4: Really well, Like if you look at the video, think
Speaker 4: it's because I'm so clumsy that I'm so good at
Speaker 4: catching myself full because I'm so used to stacking it.
Speaker 2: I love.
Speaker 3: The best bit about the video was well, the worst
Speaker 3: bit for me was when your knee like jarred. I
Speaker 3: was like, oh, I kept slowing down watching that. But
Speaker 3: was how you just try to walk it off like
Speaker 3: nothing had happened. But nah, that's all good.
Speaker 1: I mean, it wasn't like nothing had happened.
Speaker 4: I was just like I was like a deer in headlights.
Speaker 4: I was like running from my life. I was like,
Speaker 4: get me.
Speaker 1: Out of here.
Speaker 2: Did it hurt? Did it hurt?
Speaker 4: Though? Yeah, Like my knee was like so sore because
Speaker 4: it I don't know if you can see how bad
Speaker 4: I smash it, but I really fucking smashed my knee
Speaker 4: against that concrete.
Speaker 1: And then I was having dinner after and I was like.
Speaker 4: Let's keep keep the red ones flowing because I was
Speaker 4: getting like shooting pains down my lower back.
Speaker 2: But it's okay now, though, It's all good now.
Speaker 4: I woke up the next day and I, you know,
Speaker 4: we had the video memory to laugh it off, and
Speaker 4: I was totally fine about it.
Speaker 2: So tell us a bit more about your grease holiday.
Speaker 2: Did you enjoy it? What was the best bit of it?
Speaker 2: Tell us all, I.
Speaker 4: Mean, we I don't know if you guys know this,
Speaker 4: but I went to Greece for a wedding. So we
Speaker 4: went to zach Andhos for a wedding. The wedding was
Speaker 4: stunning in the most picture perfect location. I hadn't met
Speaker 4: any of Michael's friends. A lot of them were from
Speaker 4: London from when he lived there, so it was really
Speaker 4: nice to meet all of them. And like, me and
Speaker 4: Michael just had so much fun at the wedding. He
Speaker 4: was like, it's really like good to see that. My
Speaker 4: friends like really love you. Just like cements how I
Speaker 4: feel about you. So that was really cute. So yeah,
Speaker 4: we had like so much fun. We also had a christening,
Speaker 4: like they had a wedding, but the people who were
Speaker 4: getting married they had a baby who they wanted to
Speaker 4: get christened there, so we had a christening there. So
Speaker 4: there was lots of fun activities. We kind of did
Speaker 4: a lot of exploring of that island, and then we
Speaker 4: also explored a few of the other islands. From recommendations
Speaker 4: from my Instagram, the most recommended place to go was Paros,
Speaker 4: and it did not disappoint. It was incredible. But also Athens,
Speaker 4: Like I loved Athens. I mean, to go to Greece,
Speaker 4: I think the easiest way is to fly Melbourne to Athens.
Speaker 4: And so Athens was kind of like this place that
Speaker 4: we were like stopping over it and I was kind
Speaker 4: of like like whatever, it's going to be like average,
Speaker 4: like we'll stay there for a couple of nights. But
Speaker 4: it was amazing, like just even saying.
Speaker 1: The history there, history doesn't it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And just like exploring these like incredible historical like
Speaker 4: what's what's what's.
Speaker 1: Pathy?
Speaker 2: What empire ruled there or something didn't they?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 2: We're here to talk about We're not here to talk
Speaker 2: about from history. Want a history podcast, Jump on another one,
Speaker 2: not this one. But I know something that you do
Speaker 2: know about the food? How is the food?
Speaker 4: I think I ate like my body weight and tetsiki,
Speaker 4: like every single day we had it olive like the
Speaker 4: meats there we divide octopus.
Speaker 1: Loved the octopus. Has had so much octopus?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like no, no, I've had octopus my family,
Speaker 3: my close family friends, they're Greek, so they have octopus
Speaker 3: ing that.
Speaker 1: It's unreal, It's unreal.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: And then the euros three three You know what a
Speaker 4: euros is? You don't know what a euros is. It's
Speaker 4: just like a seuvlaki kind of thing, like the Greek
Speaker 4: souvlaki with like they have fries in it.
Speaker 2: Oh, is that what it's called? Yeah, euros, Yeah, called
Speaker 2: it a euros.
Speaker 4: That's the Greeks called it a euros and it was
Speaker 4: like so good, a three euro fifty. If you're going
Speaker 4: to Greece and you want to have a cheap meal,
Speaker 4: that's like your go to it was so good.
Speaker 2: So how was Michael and his motherland.
Speaker 4: Oh, he was in his element, Like obviously Michael's mom
Speaker 4: is Greek and speaks Greek. His yeah, Ya speaks like
Speaker 4: obviously she is Greek and her first language is Greek
Speaker 4: and speaks mainly Greek. He can speak a little bit,
Speaker 4: but he was like through, Yeah, he was fully pulling
Speaker 4: out the big one. Like he was like at one
Speaker 4: point he started talking to this woman in Greek when
Speaker 4: we were shopping, and he only knows the basics, and
Speaker 4: then she started trying to have a full conversation with.
Speaker 1: Him, and he just saw absolutely lose it.
Speaker 4: He was like, I have no idea what you're talking about,
Speaker 4: and he's just like nodding his head and then he
Speaker 4: like go back to the words that he knew. It
Speaker 4: was so funny, but he was great, and like the
Speaker 4: Greek people were loving that he was like trying at least.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I found when I lived in Italy, if I tried
Speaker 3: to speak Italian, they would actually appreciate it. Yeah, even
Speaker 3: though I had the most Australian accent on the end
Speaker 3: of it, they still appreciated that I was trying to
Speaker 3: say chow better.
Speaker 4: Grazzi because that's Italian somewhat. Yeah.
Speaker 3: So my grandma's half Italian, so I've somewhat Italian in yes,
Speaker 3: and he's got a pin I've got something in there,
Speaker 3: like a little bit of it. So I famed that
Speaker 3: when I was in Italy, but not enough to survive
Speaker 3: when speaking Italian. Yeah, So who did mostly organizing for
Speaker 3: your because I've been away with you and Michael, and
Speaker 3: neither of you are very organizational on trips, So who did.
Speaker 2: Most of it?
Speaker 4: I mean, look, Michael is actually really good. But what
Speaker 4: we did is so I'm gonna say Michael, not me.
Speaker 4: I'm like very like carefree, go with the flow, whatever happens.
Speaker 2: I'll just tell you that we flew into Sydney. Jen.
Speaker 3: My girlfriend was shook by this. We're getting on a
Speaker 3: flight and and I still hadn't booked her accommodation for
Speaker 3: our trip to Sydney.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: But the thing is is, like, what's the rule? The
Speaker 4: rule is book flights early and book accommodation late, because
Speaker 4: that's like the cheapest.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I haven't heard that.
Speaker 3: I'd like to have everything organized as well, like me
Speaker 3: and general sitting there, like keep getting a secondhand anxiety
Speaker 3: from you because of that.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, on the so when we went to Greece,
Speaker 4: we were there for two weeks and that we left
Speaker 4: the last four days totally free because we were like,
Speaker 4: if we love somewhere and want to go back, we
Speaker 4: want to be open to do that. If like we
Speaker 4: get amazing recommend days whilst there, we want to be
Speaker 4: free to do that. So we kind of did that
Speaker 4: in Greece as well, like we had the day before
Speaker 4: the last four days we had no idea, like we
Speaker 4: kind of knew where we were going, but we hadn't
Speaker 4: booked anything. So that's when we ended up doing Paros,
Speaker 4: and then we ended up going back to Athens for
Speaker 4: one last night because we loved it there, so like
Speaker 4: let's just you know. And also this hotel in Athens
Speaker 4: which is called Cocoa Matt b C, which has a
Speaker 4: beautiful pool on the rooftop and also the most incredible
Speaker 4: view of the Acropolis.
Speaker 2: Was there many Australians over there, everyone traveling, So I
Speaker 2: thought you'd just say people saw you.
Speaker 4: There was a few Australians mainly in Paris, but I
Speaker 4: reckon there was so many Americans in Greece, like so
Speaker 4: many yeah, I think a lot of like the Melbourne
Speaker 4: Melbourne people and like Melburn's did deciders are in Mikinos. Okay,
Speaker 4: we didn't go to Mickinoths because we had been before
Speaker 4: and we were kind of like, you know what, we've
Speaker 4: done it, we've been there, Like we want to see
Speaker 4: new places, and like I don't really feel like going
Speaker 4: and seeing everyone I know from Melbourne in Greece like
Speaker 4: I want to. I don't know, there's something great about
Speaker 4: being far away and knowing that you're not going to
Speaker 4: see someone. But yeah, that night in Parros, like so,
Speaker 4: me and Michael went to like one of the most
Speaker 4: popular restaurants there. I think it's called like Barbarosa or
Speaker 4: something incredible food, and like so many people like took
Speaker 4: random videos of us whilst we're like eating, like you like.
Speaker 2: Eating with your mouth open or dropping food out of
Speaker 2: your mouth. Imagine that. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Well, later on me and Michael had like a small
Speaker 4: like bickering argument, like thinking we're like in this country
Speaker 4: where no one knows us, and like it's gonna swipe
Speaker 4: straight under the rug and we're never going to talk
Speaker 4: about it again. And then the next morning I wake
Speaker 4: up to all of these videos of me and Michael,
Speaker 4: and I'm like, fuck, I hope no one saw that argument,
Speaker 4: not that one anyway.
Speaker 2: Well on that, What was the hardest about traveling with
Speaker 2: your partner for so long just in each other's pockets?
Speaker 4: Oh, like me and Michael spend a lot of time
Speaker 4: together already, Yeah, because obviously we lived together. But yeah, like,
Speaker 4: I guess it's always hard when you go on a
Speaker 4: trip with anyone for you know, two weeks straight, three
Speaker 4: weeks straight, however long it is, because you're just together
Speaker 4: twenty four seven And if you love your me time,
Speaker 4: you kind of don't get that unless you really make
Speaker 4: a concerted effort to get it.
Speaker 1: And we didn't make any me time.
Speaker 4: So they did get to a point in the trip
Speaker 4: where we had an argument one night.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like, yeah.
Speaker 4: These things happen, like you know, I guess, like everyone argues,
Speaker 4: and you know, we had a bit of a bit
Speaker 4: of an argument on our holiday, all.
Speaker 3: Right, So let's talk about that next, all right, So
Speaker 3: you guys had a lovely trip. You guys had some
Speaker 3: amazing memories, but you had a little arguments here and there.
Speaker 3: Do you want to explain to us how they started
Speaker 3: and what happens.
Speaker 4: Oh, Like we had like a small argument, but then
Speaker 4: we had one big argument. For the rest of the time,
Speaker 4: we literally had like the best holiday ever, but there
Speaker 4: was an argument.
Speaker 1: It sounds so silly to say it. I'm going to
Speaker 1: just tell you what happened.
Speaker 2: Yeah, details out.
Speaker 4: So I haven't actually told that this. This is like
Speaker 4: the first time you're hearing this as well. Oh okay,
Speaker 4: So yeah, So basically, me and Michael have obviously been
Speaker 4: on a few trips now, Like we went to.
Speaker 1: Thailand at the start of the year, we went to Bali.
Speaker 4: And then obviously we had the Grease trip and like,
Speaker 4: since I mentioned me and Michael were going to go
Speaker 4: to Greece, specifically Santorini because it's like the Island of
Speaker 4: Love and like you know, it's a very romantic place. Literally,
Speaker 4: so many of my Instagram followers, and not just my
Speaker 4: Instagram followers but also my family and friends were kind
Speaker 4: of like, he's.
Speaker 1: Going to propose. We think he's going to propose.
Speaker 4: Get ready, get excited, da da da da da, et cetera.
Speaker 2: I was guilty of this as well.
Speaker 3: I did ask you before you left if you thought
Speaker 3: he was going to But in my defense, I did
Speaker 3: reply to one of your stories. You did say cheers
Speaker 3: to us, and I replied with like a ring question mark, naturally,
Speaker 3: like if anyone's going to think that's what it meant,
Speaker 3: I feel like, do you reckon? How many people reply
Speaker 3: to that saying that.
Speaker 4: Well, okay, so let me just reverse you for it,
Speaker 4: because you saying that is actually part of my story.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, keep going, then I'll let you go.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So people literally from the moment I said we were
Speaker 4: going to Greece, we're planting the seeds in my head
Speaker 4: that Michael's going to propose this is it? Da da da,
Speaker 4: And even Michael to a certain degree, like we're obviously
Speaker 4: deeply in love. We love each other. It's been eleven months.
Speaker 4: It's coming up to our one year anniversary, so it
Speaker 4: hasn't even been a full year. It's almost been a year,
Speaker 4: but not white and like obviously, like we would love
Speaker 4: to get engaged, and we will eventually, but I think
Speaker 4: those little seeds that were getting planted kind of got
Speaker 4: my hopes up a little bit.
Speaker 2: Naturally, you're only a woman, you're in love.
Speaker 3: You're only a woman in love life, meaning like you're
Speaker 3: in love and like you know, I don't blame you.
Speaker 3: Everyone everyone's like that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and like everyone was thinking and literally from the
Speaker 4: moment I landed in Greece, I was getting like I'm
Speaker 4: gonna say if I'm being really honest and realistic, like
Speaker 4: at least twenty people a day in my dms were
Speaker 4: like ring.
Speaker 1: Did he propose?
Speaker 4: Even to the point where if I started posting stories
Speaker 4: like halfway through my trip and apparently I was hiding
Speaker 4: my left finger apparently, and people were like, there's a
Speaker 4: ring on there. If you look at my photos in Santorini,
Speaker 4: someone zoomed in on my ring finger and there's like
Speaker 4: a blur on my ring finger and someone was like,
Speaker 4: you've edited out the ring. Like this is constant, like
Speaker 4: every time I opened my Instagram, like this was getting
Speaker 4: fed through my ear. So like obviously there's like two
Speaker 4: to three percent.
Speaker 1: Who am I kidding? Like maybe twenty percent where I'm
Speaker 1: like maybe he will propose.
Speaker 4: No, like twenty no, Because me and Michael actually had
Speaker 4: a chat where he was like, Babe, like I just
Speaker 4: want you to know, like this is just a holiday,
Speaker 4: Like I love you, we love each other, but like.
Speaker 2: Was this before you left?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Before we left? He was like, I'm not proposing,
Speaker 4: and I was like, okay, he's not proposing. Like but
Speaker 4: then I was like, oh, but if he was proposing,
Speaker 4: he'd probably say that because he wouldn't want to, you
Speaker 4: know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like it's very confusing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, of course that's getting all through just ye getting
Speaker 4: the secondhand embarrassed. This's a pretty embarrassing story to tell,
Speaker 4: but like, you know what, fuck it, we have a podcast.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be open and honest anyway.
Speaker 4: So like obviously, like all of these things are happening,
Speaker 4: and then we get to Santorini, the place that everyone
Speaker 4: on Instagram, including my family and friends, thinks I'm going
Speaker 4: to get proposed to, and Michael and me are like
Speaker 4: having this most amazing dinner, watching the sunset, drinking wine,
Speaker 4: like literally loving life. And then Michael made this comment
Speaker 4: and he was like I was talking to like one
Speaker 4: of my friends at the wedding and he like said
Speaker 4: to me, like, oh, you're going to propose. And I
Speaker 4: was like no, and I was like okay, oh okay,
Speaker 4: and then he and then he was like oh and
Speaker 4: then like I asked, my friend, are you going to propose?
Speaker 4: And he was like gave me this weird look, and
Speaker 4: it made me think, like, is he going to propose anyway?
Speaker 4: From that conversation, I was like in a half, I
Speaker 4: was like, oh fine, I didn't want to be proposed
Speaker 4: to anyway.
Speaker 1: Here it's a cliche.
Speaker 2: Whatever, Yeah, I kick out. I love it.
Speaker 1: Anyway.
Speaker 4: I I was just like a bit like I wasn't
Speaker 4: giving him the silent treatment, but I was a bit
Speaker 4: like kind of like hurt me a little bit.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my heart, yeah.
Speaker 2: Let's be ho.
Speaker 3: I start twenty percent. You said before it was more
Speaker 3: like forty five to fifty.
Speaker 4: No, no, I reckon it was forty five to fifty
Speaker 4: before he like literally sat me down and was like, babe,
Speaker 4: I'm not going to propose, Like I just want to
Speaker 4: be upfront.
Speaker 3: And then like you said, that's classic diversion, isn't that
Speaker 3: what somebody say?
Speaker 4: That very confusing, Like the brain can play some serious
Speaker 4: tricks on you anyway. Then Michael was kind of like
Speaker 4: noticed that I was like, not like myself. And then
Speaker 4: he's like, what's wrong, da da da, And I was
Speaker 4: like I didn't like the way in that story you
Speaker 4: told before when your friend asked you if you're going
Speaker 4: to propose to me that you were like no, and
Speaker 4: he was like I didn't say no. I said no,
Speaker 4: I'm not because I'm not. And then I was like, oh,
Speaker 4: so you don't want to. And then it got into
Speaker 4: this like weird fight where we literally like started like
Speaker 4: it was getting like a bit flat up, like it
Speaker 4: got a bit like heated, and then I got quite upset.
Speaker 1: To be kill me, and I was just like this
Speaker 1: is fucked.
Speaker 4: Like I'm literally in the most beautiful place on the
Speaker 4: planet with the person I love, and I'm letting all
Speaker 4: of these external things like feed into my mind and
Speaker 4: like confuse me and like make me think that like
Speaker 4: this is the moment when like I'm happy in my relationship.
Speaker 4: I was in a relationship for six years and like
Speaker 4: we literally didn't speak about like engagement or anything until
Speaker 4: like the last year, and I think it's just because
Speaker 4: like everyone's like feeding this stuff into my ear. So anyway,
Speaker 4: I went silent on social media for twenty four hours,
Speaker 4: and the last thing I posted was.
Speaker 1: Me doing a cheers with Michael.
Speaker 4: In Santorini, where I said cheers to us, and that
Speaker 4: was before this big fight blew up. And obviously, like
Speaker 4: I want to keep it real on social media, but
Speaker 4: like it it was kind of like a personal topic,
Speaker 4: and like I didn't want to make people feel bad
Speaker 4: for asking because obviously they're excited of the like prospect
Speaker 4: of maybe him proposing, and like, yeah, like I definitely
Speaker 4: fed into it, and I should have been like more
Speaker 4: like guys, like this isn't happening, and like I just
Speaker 4: want to enjoy my holiday, which I mean I did
Speaker 4: say at one point, but anyway, I'm getting off track. Anyway,
Speaker 4: we did the cheers with the champagne glasses. I said
Speaker 4: cheers to us. The flight broke out, and then I
Speaker 4: woke up to a message from that in the morning,
Speaker 4: and it was the ring emoji, the engagement ring emoji
Speaker 4: with the question mark, And I was like.
Speaker 2: Should I trigger you again?
Speaker 1: You've re triggered me?
Speaker 3: Well, what am I supposed to think? What's anyone's supposed
Speaker 3: to think when that that was posted there?
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know that we're coupled in love
Speaker 4: on holiday, like you know what I mean, We've only
Speaker 4: been together for a year, and like obviously there's like
Speaker 4: a lot of pressure.
Speaker 2: Did that spark around to my message? No?
Speaker 4: Well, I just like shown Michael the phone, and I
Speaker 4: was like, look.
Speaker 1: Look, I think it was.
Speaker 4: It was a really eye opening experience to me because
Speaker 4: after that, like after your message, and then we like
Speaker 4: got over that, we kind of put drew a line
Speaker 4: under it. I spoke to one of my friends and
Speaker 4: she was just like, Babe, you're with like the love
Speaker 4: of your life.
Speaker 1: You both love each other. It's been a year.
Speaker 4: Ye, Like yes, there's like external bullshit like kind of
Speaker 4: like putting a dampener on your parade, but you're literally
Speaker 4: in Greece, like enjoy it, have fun, like yeah, like
Speaker 4: let's not like like wait for the moment to happen,
Speaker 4: like it will happen when it's gonna happen.
Speaker 3: Does Michael feel a lot of pressure with everyone saying
Speaker 3: that and you're cracking it and all that sort of stuff,
Speaker 3: Like does he now feel pressure around it?
Speaker 4: I think that Michael already felt pressure around it. Like
Speaker 4: if you go to his Instagram and like literally like
Speaker 4: in the comment section, there's always like when you're proposing,
Speaker 4: what are you waiting for?
Speaker 1: People?
Speaker 4: Now DM him as well, like he gets his own
Speaker 4: like little like other messages now where he's getting constantly us.
Speaker 4: So I think he definitely feels a lot of pressure,
Speaker 4: and that's the last thing that.
Speaker 1: I want for him.
Speaker 4: Like I only want someone to propose to me if
Speaker 4: they want to do it, like, not because there's any
Speaker 4: level of pressure on them. And like, you know, I
Speaker 4: think as well, because like Michael's thirty four, about to
Speaker 4: turn thirty four, I'm thirty. I think people think that
Speaker 4: things should move quicker, and like our relationship has moved
Speaker 4: so quick already, Like we moved in with him four months.
Speaker 4: We're very happy, and like, you know, I just want
Speaker 4: it to be real because like we had an amazing
Speaker 4: trip in Greece, but I think that kind of did
Speaker 4: dampen it for about twenty four hours for us in Santorini.
Speaker 4: And like on top of that, like everyone's getting fucking
Speaker 4: pro posed to in Santorini, so like we're having this.
Speaker 2: Fight where people getting proposed in front of your.
Speaker 4: Constantly every night, every fucking night, And I was just
Speaker 4: is someone actually taking the piss out of me? Because
Speaker 4: it fucking feels like it. And then on top of that,
Speaker 4: there's also like I don't know if you've seen them
Speaker 4: in Santorini, there's these like engagement photo shoots that they
Speaker 4: do where women wear like the big long dresses and
Speaker 4: they're like flowing in the wind.
Speaker 2: I have not seen that algorithm.
Speaker 4: So we're like walking down the street and there's like
Speaker 4: people doing like fake like engagement shoots like oh my god,
Speaker 4: I said yes, like showing the ring, and I'm just like,
Speaker 4: this is a piss take, Like this is actually a pisteke.
Speaker 4: So look, if you're wanting to get proposed to, my
Speaker 4: recommendation is don't go to Santorini because it's.
Speaker 1: Just fucking in your face, wow, annoying.
Speaker 3: Well on that, my sister got actually got engaged.
Speaker 1: Congratulations to Congratulations to life.
Speaker 3: Yeah, congratulations to Lara and Jayden, but the same sort
Speaker 3: of thing. So we caught up with her one last
Speaker 3: time to get some lunch, Me and my sister and
Speaker 3: my mom. We all had lunch before she left, and
Speaker 3: we're in the car and she was like, oh, none
Speaker 3: of my friends have like nagging to get my nails done.
Speaker 3: She's like, I guess Jada's not proposing then, and.
Speaker 2: We're all just like sitting in the car. They were
Speaker 2: all in the car like oh, and then she goes, well,
Speaker 2: that's kind of a relief, Like now I can just
Speaker 2: enjoy my trip and I don't feel like like I
Speaker 2: have to worry about that. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And he ended up proposing to her in Positano,
Speaker 3: so in Italy, and they really romantic, So congratulations to them.
Speaker 1: Yeah, congrats to them. But they've been together for how long?
Speaker 2: Eight years? Seven years?
Speaker 1: At exactly like that.
Speaker 4: I think it was it was due and I think,
Speaker 4: like they're such a gorgeous couple.
Speaker 3: The same thing happened though before Jaden proposed. At the
Speaker 3: table next to him were a couple of cross He
Speaker 3: got down on one knees.
Speaker 2: And he was like, well, shit, I can't do it
Speaker 2: here sort of thing. So then they went for a walk, so.
Speaker 4: The place that he had picked out to propose, someone
Speaker 4: already did it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then they're like what I mean, it's just
Speaker 1: too much.
Speaker 3: And then they made like a massive deal of it
Speaker 3: as well, like the waiters and everything. And then, like
Speaker 3: she said, she knew something was that, like he was
Speaker 3: acting weird, like you could tell couldn't sit still before
Speaker 3: they went for dinner, before or after the couple probably yeah,
Speaker 3: it probably got.
Speaker 2: Even worse than well.
Speaker 4: I like, let's let's think about it in your situation Matt,
Speaker 4: like when you asked Jen to be your girlfriend, you
Speaker 4: were shitting brick.
Speaker 2: I was wigging out, And she even said that to me,
Speaker 2: like you're fully.
Speaker 4: Wigging, Like imagine if you were getting down on one knee,
Speaker 4: you would be.
Speaker 3: She's actually said that to me. She goes like, I'm like,
Speaker 3: if you ever do get down on one knee, can
Speaker 3: you like please not make.
Speaker 2: It so obvious what you're about to do?
Speaker 3: Even when I said the big illy to her, like
Speaker 3: I was fucking wigging, Like I was like like starting sentences,
Speaker 3: are not finishing.
Speaker 4: Just going around and said you wouldn't know you had
Speaker 4: a relationship podcast together.
Speaker 3: Nothing gets you ready for that, like you know what
Speaker 3: I mean. You go through it in your head and
Speaker 3: then you get there and it's just still like you
Speaker 3: know what they're going to say, but you're still just yeah,
Speaker 3: so weird about it.
Speaker 4: Well, like, speaking of Jen, she's about to turn thirty.
Speaker 4: Is she have you guys spoken about a ring? Is
Speaker 4: she wanting a ring?
Speaker 3: Well, we've been under clear instructions from her sister that
Speaker 3: she Jen can't get a ring until she does.
Speaker 2: So why is that She's been with her partner now
Speaker 2: for like six seven years.
Speaker 1: Right, So she's like, I deserve.
Speaker 2: To go first.
Speaker 3: I'll joke about it sometimes, Like I remember the other
Speaker 3: day I sat down when Jen wasn't there and I said,
Speaker 3: now that she's not here, like I'm looking at doing
Speaker 3: it here.
Speaker 2: And then he was like absolutely, no fucking way. And
Speaker 2: I'm like, I know, I'm just joking.
Speaker 1: It's triggering.
Speaker 2: Triggering.
Speaker 1: She's like, maybe you should talk to her boyfriend and
Speaker 1: be like, hey, can you get a rig along? Well, okay,
Speaker 1: you're in no rush.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean no, I'm in nor whish. I just yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm not going to let them dictate anyway.
Speaker 2: If if he holds up for another two to three
Speaker 2: years and I'm read to go, I'm going to do it.
Speaker 2: So I do what I want. Yeah, I do what
Speaker 2: I want. I'm not going to Yeah, I don't care.
Speaker 1: Yeah for sure. Okay, Well, look, let's talk about the
Speaker 1: top tips on how to vacation with a partner. It
Speaker 1: can be tricky.
Speaker 4: You're spending a lot of time together, so let's talk
Speaker 4: about that next. Okay, Matt, it's always a huge deal
Speaker 4: to go on holiday with your partner. The first tip
Speaker 4: we have for our where's your Head Out listeners is
Speaker 4: if you are in a new relationship, start with a
Speaker 4: short weekend away before you're booking a huge international getaway, right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean you want to sussy out the person
Speaker 3: before you go away, what they're like when they're on holiday.
Speaker 3: But in saying that, Genevieve and myself had booked Byron
Speaker 3: before we were even official, would be hanging out for
Speaker 3: like four weeks and then like the borders and everything,
Speaker 3: we're opening. So she's like, do you want to go away?
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, fuck it, I haven't been away in
Speaker 3: like two years, let's do it.
Speaker 1: Was that out both of our first troops with.
Speaker 3: Our partner, Yeah, yeah, And then you guys were Yochi
Speaker 3: and you guys were like, oh, we're planning on going
Speaker 3: to Buyer and we're like, well, let's cross it over.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And we crossed it over for like two days
Speaker 1: so you can have like a.
Speaker 2: Little bit of a trip away together.
Speaker 1: Yeah. That was cute.
Speaker 2: So in saying that, like it just sussy out what
Speaker 2: they're like, like.
Speaker 1: Maybe, I mean like, yeah, I think that.
Speaker 4: I think the most important thing is is like if
Speaker 4: you haven't traveled with someone and you don't also live
Speaker 4: with them, you actually haven't spent like a large amount
Speaker 4: of time together. When you're on holiday, you're with someone
Speaker 4: twenty four seven.
Speaker 3: Mind you though, Jen and I had been in like
Speaker 3: lockdown together, so like we've spent long times together in
Speaker 3: each other's back yeah pucket for a long time.
Speaker 4: But in a normal situation where you haven't spent like
Speaker 4: long periods of time together, maybe a weekend away is
Speaker 4: a better starting point.
Speaker 2: And who doesn't love and who doesn't love a weekend
Speaker 2: away as well a little staycation?
Speaker 1: Exactly? We love a stay case.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: The next one is make sure you both agree on
Speaker 3: the destination and the expectations of the type of holiday. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so that means are you going for a relaxing time
Speaker 3: sightseeing or is it just a straight out party vibe
Speaker 3: and you both want to let loose on this holiday.
Speaker 4: I think setting those expectations is a big one. Like
Speaker 4: I went on holiday with our producer Amber when we
Speaker 4: were a bit younger, and I'm like, I used to
Speaker 4: be a party girl and she is like an R and.
Speaker 1: R like type of gallex there'd you go? She like Bali.
Speaker 4: We were in Bali together and she was like, you know,
Speaker 4: she likes the rest and relaxation.
Speaker 1: She likes the massages.
Speaker 4: So what we did on our trip to like equalize
Speaker 4: it is we do one R and R day and
Speaker 4: we do one party night, one R and R day,
Speaker 4: one party night, and it was actually great. Like, as
Speaker 4: long as you're both on the same page and everyone's
Speaker 4: getting out of the holiday what they want, then it works.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: The next one is try avoiding drama at all costs.
Speaker 4: A way that you can do this is just being
Speaker 4: prepared and ready to compromise.
Speaker 3: So that means not booking your accommodation after you've landed,
Speaker 3: like Ana macavoid us jeez. But if you think you
Speaker 3: can get away, that you can, and then how about
Speaker 3: it just a room opening up. You had you booked
Speaker 3: one night and then the room opened up for the
Speaker 3: next night. Remember what's that when we went to Sydney,
Speaker 3: So you only had one night in the hotel with us,
Speaker 3: and then by sheer luck things.
Speaker 1: Work out for me, Like I don't put too much
Speaker 1: pressure on it. Look, the thing.
Speaker 4: Is is like, yeah, you can be super prepared and
Speaker 4: you can have a fucking itinery ready to go, But like, also,
Speaker 4: how fun is it not knowing? It's part of the excitement.
Speaker 4: Of traveling nah me and that traveled differently. So we're
Speaker 4: just going to agree to disagree. But one thing that
Speaker 4: we do agree on is compromise. So there's no point
Speaker 4: in being the person who's going to be like mister
Speaker 4: ride or missus ride all the time and like, you know,
Speaker 4: not being willing to kind of like move you point
Speaker 4: just to be right.
Speaker 1: I think that's an important point.
Speaker 3: Well, you're on holiday, like you guys can both do
Speaker 3: what you want to do, make like you said with am,
Speaker 3: but do both things so you're all enjoying it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, compromise is key, and I think if you're in
Speaker 4: a relationship, not just on holiday you need to compromise,
Speaker 4: but especially on holiday, you need to compromise.
Speaker 3: All right, try new things out together, So like aim
Speaker 3: to create new romantic memories together. So like I mean one,
Speaker 3: for instance, would be jenn and I when we went away,
Speaker 3: Like it doesn't even have to be forced, Like we
Speaker 3: just had a nice time in the swimming pool together
Speaker 3: and like she put up a TikTok and she's like,
Speaker 3: this is my new favorite memory.
Speaker 1: Together because it was so cute. I loved that. That
Speaker 1: was really sweet. Who filmed that?
Speaker 2: By the way, her sister Nikki. But if you saw
Speaker 2: in my story, we set up my phone as a
Speaker 2: set like on selfie record, like hands free, and we
Speaker 2: were like swimming around trying to get this video of
Speaker 2: us like coming out of the water together kissing, and
Speaker 2: I kept saying, oh, that's going to fall because it
Speaker 2: was only resting on a beer can. I'm like, that's
Speaker 2: a fall, that's going to fall, and kept doing it
Speaker 2: and then it just falling.
Speaker 3: The best thing about that video is I dive down
Speaker 3: to pick it off and I miss, and then you
Speaker 3: have to go and then you see Jen go there
Speaker 3: it is, and I'm like, oh.
Speaker 2: Pick it up.
Speaker 4: That was a cute moment though, yeah, like very cute, unplanned,
Speaker 4: but like look for those moments and even try to
Speaker 4: make some with your partner that your partner isn't ready
Speaker 4: for as well.
Speaker 2: I can make it more romange.
Speaker 4: Like me, I went on a hike with Michael and Athens,
Speaker 4: even though I'm not like a big hiker, but I knew,
Speaker 4: I knew it made him happy, and when we got
Speaker 4: up to the top, it was actually not as bad
Speaker 4: as I had anticipated and it was actually fun.
Speaker 3: Yeah, even that reminds me as well. Jen and I
Speaker 3: went on a hiking Byron and it's actually pinned on
Speaker 3: her Instagram. She said it's her favorite memory is the
Speaker 3: photo of us up there because it was really romantic.
Speaker 2: Ku.
Speaker 1: Yeah, very cute.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 3: So the next one and I tried to remove from
Speaker 3: this list, but I said, Jen and I do it,
Speaker 3: so it's really cute. Buy a souvenir together that you
Speaker 3: can look back on at your time spent. So like
Speaker 3: we've bought like on one trip, we've got like a horseshoe.
Speaker 3: On another trip, she's got like this butterfly. We've just
Speaker 3: got that cute stuff that we put up around our
Speaker 3: room that we can remember holidays by.
Speaker 2: Look.
Speaker 1: Me and Michael got an evil eye bracelet.
Speaker 3: We've you know what I else we started to do
Speaker 3: as well, which is a cute thing as well. We've
Speaker 3: got a jar and if we pop like a champagne,
Speaker 3: like a nice champagne, I keep the cork and I
Speaker 3: write the date and what it was from and we
Speaker 3: put it into the jar.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 1: That's so cute.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like who thought of that?
Speaker 3: I did when we went away for my birthday, Like
Speaker 3: they popped champagne and the thing I was like, I'll
Speaker 3: take that and I've written like the fourth of July
Speaker 3: dinner for my birthday.
Speaker 1: That's so c oh my god.
Speaker 4: That reminds me I have not given you your birthday present. Fuck,
Speaker 4: how long has it been? I need to keep the
Speaker 4: podcast up today about when you actually get this birthday present.
Speaker 4: I was literally meant to give it to you before
Speaker 4: I left.
Speaker 2: I've completely forgotten about that.
Speaker 4: I'd completely forgotten about it until you just took out
Speaker 4: your birthday.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.
Speaker 2: Well, I look forward to receiving that there.
Speaker 4: Maybe I'll give it to you on the podcast so
Speaker 4: you can open it here everyone listening.
Speaker 1: Okay, note to self the next one.
Speaker 4: The next one is make sure you spend time apart
Speaker 4: on your holiday, Like being with anyone twenty four to
Speaker 4: seven is a big ask, even if you are the
Speaker 4: most compatible people like I reckon, I couldn't find anyone
Speaker 4: who's more compatible to me than Michael is. And even
Speaker 4: like when we had that fight, especially it really dawned
Speaker 4: on me that I didn't have enough, like I hadn't
Speaker 4: had any me time. Yeah, and even like we ended
Speaker 4: up like taking some space from each other. We spent
Speaker 4: an hour apart, like collected our thoughts and then came
Speaker 4: back together, and even just having that hour apart where
Speaker 4: I could like really process things myself and just even
Speaker 4: just like I literally in that hour, like I spent
Speaker 4: some time thinking, but then I just went on my
Speaker 4: phone and just like chilled out and like did some
Speaker 4: meat things, like it made such a difference years.
Speaker 3: Here's a hypothetical thing for you. An our meantime would
Speaker 3: be so much nicer if it's just you guys going
Speaker 3: apart from each other, being like I just want an
Speaker 3: hour away, like we can go, like go for a walk,
Speaker 3: go for a run, train, do what you want to do,
Speaker 3: would be so much nicer than if you've argued and
Speaker 3: then taking.
Speaker 2: That hour apart, because actually the hour apart.
Speaker 3: Can feel so much more lonely and so much more
Speaker 3: daunting and anxiety ridden if you've had an argument then
Speaker 3: spending it. So be proactive and take that hour apart
Speaker 3: before it turns forced.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like fun fact for everyone who's listening, because I
Speaker 4: know this, but not everyone knows. When that has an
Speaker 4: argument with someone, he literally cannot stand having time apart,
Speaker 4: like he.
Speaker 1: Needs to immediately fix it.
Speaker 4: So I can just see it in your eyes, You're like.
Speaker 3: No, No, that hour and hour apart would go for
Speaker 3: literally like a fucking year. I did eything would be
Speaker 3: running for my mind. I just can't do it. I
Speaker 3: can't do it. I honestly can't. You know, when we
Speaker 3: arguing that I just can't do it, I need to
Speaker 3: fucking nut it out there.
Speaker 4: And then yeah, I'm the same, like I do prefer
Speaker 4: to but I think because it was a bigger argument,
Speaker 4: I did actually appreciate the alone time and then I
Speaker 4: was like, Okay, I'm ready for him to come back.
Speaker 2: Where is it all right?
Speaker 3: The next one is don't spend too much time on
Speaker 3: your phone. Absolutely obviously you're there trying to get memories,
Speaker 3: trying to get photos, but like it does, everyone says
Speaker 3: that these days, live in the moment and live in
Speaker 3: that moment with your partner. Yeah, that's where memories are created.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think for me and Michael, we kind of like
Speaker 4: it wasn't really a rule, but it was just something
Speaker 4: that we did when we were away, Like when we
Speaker 4: would get to dinner for the first like ten minutes,
Speaker 4: if there was like a sunset or whatever, we'd like
Speaker 4: take photos and then we literally put our phones down
Speaker 4: for the rest of the time, like.
Speaker 3: It's a massive jen And I do that as well
Speaker 3: when we go out for dinners, like obviously, like there's
Speaker 3: the content I have to get because I'm obviously working
Speaker 3: or what on and so forth, like I have to
Speaker 3: get the photos in that. But then after that, like
Speaker 3: no messages replied or just takes away from what you're doing.
Speaker 4: You're constantly on silent mode. I'm like, nah, this isn't
Speaker 4: a constant mode that you can be.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you've figured out the way of notifying
Speaker 3: me even though it's on dn D.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like, notify anyway. I'm like, what the Fuck'm like,
Speaker 4: this motherfucker is always on silent mode.
Speaker 1: I can't always be that.
Speaker 2: That is me caught out. Don't plan a holiday together
Speaker 2: when you're on the rocks.
Speaker 3: So don't do like a spontaneous holiday like oh, this
Speaker 3: is going to get us back together, like we're going
Speaker 3: to go on a nice holiday. You can't put a
Speaker 3: band aid over it. Like, if you're on the rocks
Speaker 3: and you're arguing here or away, you're still going to
Speaker 3: be there.
Speaker 4: Don't try and save the relationship. Don't just except where
Speaker 4: you're at.
Speaker 3: Don't buy a puffy don't. Don't like going on a
Speaker 3: holiday together is sort of the same. You're just going
Speaker 3: to argue in a different state or different different location.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Another one, let's try to budget according to someone who
Speaker 4: maybe isn't earning as much, because I think there's a
Speaker 4: lot of pressure when you go on holiday to kind
Speaker 4: of like meet the other person's expectations and like, yeah,
Speaker 4: like it's great to do like you know, nice dinners
Speaker 4: here and there, but like don't feel like you always
Speaker 4: have to do that. Like two nights on our holiday,
Speaker 4: me and Michael, we went out for a few drinks
Speaker 4: and we just like bought a euros and like had
Speaker 4: Euroses in bed and watched a movie like.
Speaker 2: That's really good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm the same with that, like Jen and I.
Speaker 3: I'm lucky that she will actually use the same like
Speaker 3: want to do that sort of stuff as well. It
Speaker 3: doesn't all have to be like really expensive restaurants and that, yeah,
Speaker 3: because I'm not a fine food eater. Really like to me,
Speaker 3: it's like just feed me. It's a I enjoy like
Speaker 3: a great feed, like love it.
Speaker 2: But I'm real easy going, like I would just do
Speaker 2: the same thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And like even like when we were in Santorini.
Speaker 4: We like I think in Paris as well, Like we
Speaker 4: went out to like the bottle sharp bought like a
Speaker 4: four yeuro wine. It was beautiful and just like drank
Speaker 4: by the pool with our own wine. Like you know,
Speaker 4: like I think there's definitely ways that you can save money.
Speaker 4: I don't think we need to be like you know
Speaker 4: what I mean, for the money, flash it out and
Speaker 4: like you know, if you come back a little with
Speaker 4: a little bit more coin in your bank account, you're
Speaker 4: both probably going to be a bit happier.
Speaker 3: And yeah, and you've had a great time there as well.
Speaker 3: Still you dot doesn't all need to be extravagant memories,
Speaker 3: that's right. Be prepared for some small arguments and the
Speaker 3: main thing is to be able to work through them
Speaker 3: and get through it in a kind way. So like
Speaker 3: it's no different if you're away or if you're here, Like,
Speaker 3: just come to some sort of conclusion that's not going
Speaker 3: to ruin your trip.
Speaker 1: I couldn't agree more. Matt.
Speaker 4: I saw that you actually went away on a little
Speaker 4: mini vak when I was in Greece, So we're going
Speaker 4: to talk about that next, okay, Matt.
Speaker 1: So towards the end of my troop.
Speaker 4: I saw that you went on a bit of a
Speaker 4: romantic getaway with Jen and I think her sisters were
Speaker 4: their Is that right?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: So we went to just Pass Lawn. It was just
Speaker 3: like really nice Airbnb. So this had been planned before
Speaker 3: my time.
Speaker 1: So what do you mean before your time?
Speaker 2: So before I started dating Jen.
Speaker 3: So this was a wedding present from Jen and her
Speaker 3: sister to their old their older sister Sam and Michael.
Speaker 3: So they were all going to go on a trip.
Speaker 1: So this is with Jen's X was supposed to go.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was probably supposed to be honest, So I've
Speaker 2: just I've just slid.
Speaker 3: Like fuck, yeah, hey guys. So I'm just happy to
Speaker 3: be there.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: It was a really nice It was really romantic. So,
Speaker 3: like I said the video before, was like really romantic.
Speaker 3: I had some us time while we're still there because
Speaker 3: the property was huge and there's like fire pit up
Speaker 3: in the corner, like different rooms everywhere, like in the pool.
Speaker 3: So it was really nice to get away and spend
Speaker 3: that time for a couple of nights away.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the pool looked beautiful. I was like wow to
Speaker 1: go there.
Speaker 2: There was no PJ pool, but I still got the
Speaker 2: job done.
Speaker 4: Jason Matt's dad's pool company for anyone who's not around that. Okay,
Speaker 4: So I have a question. It was obviously super beautiful
Speaker 4: you were there with her sisters and their partners. But yeah,
Speaker 4: I want to know, do you guys have any arguments
Speaker 4: on your little getaway?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we had a an argument. Yeah, it was
Speaker 3: more or less like I'll set the tone. Jen obviously
Speaker 3: is really excited for this weekend. She's it's been canceled
Speaker 3: over and over him for like two years. But my
Speaker 3: mate just went through a breakup. So we were leaving
Speaker 3: early the Sunday morning, and he wanted to meet up
Speaker 3: with us all on the Saturday night and have drinks
Speaker 3: and like you know, chat to him about the.
Speaker 1: Breakup, drink his sorrows away.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So to that, so I've gone out, met up with him.
Speaker 3: We've had a pretty reality night. I ended up walking
Speaker 3: in the door at four am. One thing she said
Speaker 3: was don't be hungover for tomorrow. I was hungover. She
Speaker 3: in all due respect to Jen, she was very good
Speaker 3: about it, like woke up, giving me back tickles, had
Speaker 3: Panada already for me.
Speaker 1: Got me like the life of luxury.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So like she was really understanding about She knew
Speaker 3: that I had to go out and see my best mate,
Speaker 3: so she was like real like looking after me. And
Speaker 3: then we got in the car. So and naturally she
Speaker 3: is irritable. And when I'm hungover, I'm very vocal about
Speaker 3: being hungover. So it's a two and a half hour drive.
Speaker 3: I normally drive. I know she doesn't like driving the
Speaker 3: whole way.
Speaker 2: I'm like, ah, I didn't complain sleeping on and off,
Speaker 2: and she's just like annoyed because the one thing she
Speaker 2: asked for me was don't be hungover, So she was
Speaker 2: annoyed about that.
Speaker 3: That set the tone for the rest of the trip,
Speaker 3: and she should be annoyed. I give her like I
Speaker 3: said that, like, she should be annoyed. Then the rest
Speaker 3: of the trip, we're going good. Until everyone's been drinking
Speaker 3: a little bit. We're having a bit. Drinks were flowing,
Speaker 3: and we had Mexican and if everyone's up to date
Speaker 3: with TikTok, we did the tortilla challenge.
Speaker 2: Oh god, yeah, so you.
Speaker 1: Can just see where this is going already.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So Nicki and Murph went first. It was all right,
Speaker 3: I can't remember who spat their water out. One of
Speaker 3: them did, and then I was like, all right, I'll
Speaker 3: go with gen So.
Speaker 4: Me.
Speaker 3: At the best of times, I'm pretty rough with my
Speaker 3: partner Jen.
Speaker 2: I'm pretty rough, like she'll say to me.
Speaker 3: She'll be like, you got to remember, I'm just like
Speaker 3: I'm a dainty girl, like I'm pretty like when I
Speaker 3: hug like, I'm pretty like I'm a big sixty.
Speaker 4: Five five Sorry, yeah, I'm six five and three quarters.
Speaker 4: He's six six. He doesn't know his strength, yea, what
Speaker 4: you're kind of getting. So I'm getting at so like
Speaker 4: all the time she said to me, you're too rough
Speaker 4: for me. You're too rough for me. Like I'll lift
Speaker 4: her up, put her in like wrestling holes and all
Speaker 4: this sort of stuff.
Speaker 3: I'll pretend to wrestling puncher, you know what I'm like.
Speaker 3: And then he's nuts. Yeah, So we get the water
Speaker 3: in our mouth and do the papers rock. I get
Speaker 3: the first slap. It's not anything thing. I hit her
Speaker 3: with a tortilla, so good, she gets the next one.
Speaker 3: I like put my head for like willingly like to
Speaker 3: take the tortilla.
Speaker 2: I get it.
Speaker 3: Mind you, these totillas had already been in the oven,
Speaker 3: so they weren't just like soft tortillas. They had a
Speaker 3: bit of behind it.
Speaker 1: So she slapped you in the face with the tortilla.
Speaker 1: Your tilla tilla. Yeah, how did he say it?
Speaker 4: Tortilla, tortilla, tomato tomatoes, I guess, continue with tatilla.
Speaker 2: And then the next one, I got to hit her
Speaker 2: with a totilla.
Speaker 3: So she has the mouthful of water and I don't know,
Speaker 3: I got a little bit carried away and I swung
Speaker 3: and it was a combination of the totilla being hard,
Speaker 3: me hitting too hard, and just the most perfect connection
Speaker 3: on her cheek that it's gone. Just then I've laughed
Speaker 3: because it's actually like connected her and I've gone spat
Speaker 3: my water everywhere like all over her.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: It was safe to say that she wasn't She wasn't
Speaker 3: too impressed by that, so fair enough. So she obviously
Speaker 3: was a bit annoyed with me. She was like, in
Speaker 3: a the thing that I hate most and you mentioned before,
Speaker 3: is like where it's not resolved straight away. So she
Speaker 3: was just like, give me space, and I like, I
Speaker 3: get really like anxious, yeah, real like, well, let's just
Speaker 3: sort of see out now, let's sort thisee out now.
Speaker 2: And then.
Speaker 3: I like we ended up speaking about it, and I said,
Speaker 3: look like, if I was with my sisters, like you've
Speaker 3: seen me, like, I'll walk up and like slap with
Speaker 3: Emma on the face, and she'll slap me back harder,
Speaker 3: like we don't.
Speaker 1: Like, it's not your sister.
Speaker 3: She didn't grow up with a brother either, so she
Speaker 3: hasn't grown up with that sort of like stuff. Like
Speaker 3: if I said, if I was first seing my sisters,
Speaker 3: they would have just given it back to me harder, like,
Speaker 3: and I forget that.
Speaker 2: That is ira if I was.
Speaker 1: Doing it with my brother, I would have absolutely wallet.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, exactly, yeah, And she hasn't grown up with
Speaker 3: a brother and that sort of stuff, And I forget
Speaker 3: that because I love her so much like I love
Speaker 3: my sisters, I think I can treat her the same way,
Speaker 3: and I haven't. Really in my mind, I can't compartmentalize
Speaker 3: the difference between that I think this is like what
Speaker 3: I think, So this.
Speaker 4: Is what you think happened, but now you're going to
Speaker 4: work on yeah.
Speaker 2: Not being Yeah.
Speaker 3: So we ended up like yeah, we ended up talking
Speaker 3: about it, and then I was sort of like, well,
Speaker 3: if we don't sort this out, like I don't want
Speaker 3: to be here, like your family and this awkward thing.
Speaker 2: I was like, I'll I'll leave, and she's like, and
Speaker 2: it just made things worse.
Speaker 3: We just spiraled and then eventually we discussed it like
Speaker 3: tears were hot, and then we've just made up and
Speaker 3: had the best time for the rest of the trip.
Speaker 4: Your did her family know that you guys were arguing,
Speaker 4: like was it vocal enough?
Speaker 2: They not vocal enough? But the energy and like.
Speaker 1: There was there was a big energy.
Speaker 2: She has a big energy shift. Yeah, you could tell
Speaker 2: she was upset, and I felt terrible that the last
Speaker 2: thing I wanted to do was hurt her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm just coming fun and got carried away
Speaker 3: with my big biceps.
Speaker 1: Oh, I knew you to say something wild like that.
Speaker 1: I was just waiting for it.
Speaker 4: Look, she jenny'sn't your sister, she's your girlfriend, and like
Speaker 4: I'm with her on this.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Matt.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 3: Now that I'm calmed down and i'm rational thinking I'm
Speaker 3: not pumped full of ten beers and like six cocktails,
Speaker 3: I understand that I shouldn't be swinging too hard.
Speaker 4: Plus you're already you're already on probation after your little drinking.
Speaker 2: From the night before so it was just fuel to
Speaker 2: a fire. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, other than that, you had a.
Speaker 3: Great trip though, it was it was amazing. Then we
Speaker 3: had the next night's steak night. It was unreal. She
Speaker 3: obviously has steaks, she's vegetable, the rest of us did,
Speaker 3: and had a massive phone. It was really it was
Speaker 3: really nice to get away and I'm really grateful that
Speaker 3: I got to experience that with her family.
Speaker 4: Well, look, it's that time of the show that you
Speaker 4: guys have all been waiting for. It's time to find
Speaker 4: out where our heads are at. Let's do it, Okay, Matt.
Speaker 4: The first question is from a listener and they say,
Speaker 4: I'm wondering how soon is too soon? My boyfriend wants
Speaker 4: to organize a trip. But we've only been dating for
Speaker 4: two months and I've only ever slept over a couple
Speaker 4: of times. Nothing longer will we last the distance?
Speaker 3: I mean, like I said before, Jed and I booked
Speaker 3: a trip before we'd even started dating, so we were
Speaker 3: dating for like four weeks. So I don't think there's
Speaker 3: never too soon. But if you only slept over a
Speaker 3: couple of times, I suggest maybe sleeping over a little
Speaker 3: bit more and sussing it out before you jump into
Speaker 3: a holiday.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean maybe if she's asking this question, maybe intuitively
Speaker 4: something doesn't feel quite right and she's like a bit
Speaker 4: apprehensive about it.
Speaker 2: But like maybe when she slept iver snored the whole night,
Speaker 2: she doesn't want.
Speaker 4: To in my opinion, like fuck it, Like you only
Speaker 4: live once. Why not go on a holiday and you
Speaker 4: can see if it's going to work or not. Like
Speaker 4: make it a little week and get away and actually
Speaker 4: love see how you go.
Speaker 3: I actually love that thought of like thought pattern as well,
Speaker 3: like fuck it in like six three years from there,
Speaker 3: you could be laughing. I remember when I went on
Speaker 3: that holiday with that guy like that random for two months, Like, yeah,
Speaker 3: I reckon, you know what, go on that holiday.
Speaker 2: On the holiday, Yeah, see what happens.
Speaker 3: Even if it's a staycation for a couple of nights,
Speaker 3: Just go and see how it is. Bring a tit
Speaker 3: little number packaging in and just have a sex field
Speaker 3: night somewhere.
Speaker 4: Okay, the next listener has said, I really want to
Speaker 4: go on holiday with my partner, but I seriously cannot
Speaker 4: shit in their vicinity.
Speaker 1: I have proof anxiety. I shit you not really?
Speaker 2: Hell, oh my god. I should probably read these before
Speaker 2: this is hilarious.
Speaker 3: I haven't even thought of this actually, Oh what it's
Speaker 3: obviously coming from a girl, i'd assume.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean here, like I'm not gonna like do
Speaker 4: a number two in front of my partner either, But
Speaker 4: there's a door you can close.
Speaker 1: Literally, Like as soon as I get into the toilet,
Speaker 1: I like put on music.
Speaker 4: Nothing is heard, nothing is seen, We've pretended to happen.
Speaker 1: There's air fresher. No, we move on with life.
Speaker 3: So yeah, okay, Well from my experience personally, I will
Speaker 3: make sure there's a TV on.
Speaker 2: I'll turn it up. I make it clear what I'm about.
Speaker 3: To go do I say, I say, you do not
Speaker 3: want it, like, you do not want to come in here.
Speaker 2: This is between me and the toilet and God that.
Speaker 1: Announces it to the room even with me. He's like,
Speaker 1: I will be going to the toilet.
Speaker 2: To do a poo, Yeah, just so everyone knows.
Speaker 3: So I've got my privacy in there, and then I've
Speaker 3: sit in a TikTok hole to cover up the noises
Speaker 3: in there. But this is going this Ready for this,
Speaker 3: buckle up. My ship doesn't.
Speaker 2: Stink literally literally, I can get gen to prove it.
Speaker 1: Why are we talking about this. You're so strange.
Speaker 3: Literally, I can confirm. I can confirm, so.
Speaker 1: What you've never farted and it's.
Speaker 2: Smelled occasionally depending if I.
Speaker 1: Then your ship occasionally smells.
Speaker 2: Once a month. Ah, I generally confirm G is coming.
Speaker 4: From a guy with an enormous ego who literally thinks.
Speaker 2: His ship don't see.
Speaker 3: I know that's the whole. That's irony of it. That's
Speaker 3: the irony of it, that my ship does not stink.
Speaker 3: I will, I will prove this with gen something.
Speaker 1: You don't need you to prove it, no one, because
Speaker 1: a flying fuck.
Speaker 2: What I'm trying to say is I can't relate to this.
Speaker 1: What that's to say is he's perfect.
Speaker 3: My suggestion here is you don't have to shit right
Speaker 3: in front of them, and maybe don't book a room
Speaker 3: that has the toilet open scheme or something like look
Speaker 3: into it and make sure that there's a bathroom of
Speaker 3: the closed door, or go to maybe one house in
Speaker 3: the lobby. You know that I would have shot in
Speaker 3: front of gym like the first like two to three months.
Speaker 3: My housemate would laugh because I would come bouncing in
Speaker 3: the house, just sprinting straight.
Speaker 2: V lighting for the toilet. So I didn't have to
Speaker 2: do it at Hirst.
Speaker 1: Maybe good shit doesn't stick.
Speaker 2: Why I just still felt uncomfortable.
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