WEBVTT - F**K I THOUGHT HE WAS GOING TO PROPOSE…

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<v Speaker 1>I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming.

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<v Speaker 2>She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of

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<v Speaker 2>my kissing style.

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<v Speaker 1>We boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours.

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<v Speaker 2>He's in a trash bin.

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<v Speaker 1>He's non recyclable, catching the muck.

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<v Speaker 2>I love being love. I love love.

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<v Speaker 3>On today's episode of Where's Your Head At, and I

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<v Speaker 3>will be filling us all in on the goss from

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<v Speaker 3>her vacation in Greece.

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<v Speaker 4>I had such a great time. I can't wait to

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<v Speaker 4>tell you guys all about it.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, then give it a rest.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll also be sharing my top tips on how to

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<v Speaker 4>have a seamless holiday with your partner and how to

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<v Speaker 4>handle spending so much time together.

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<v Speaker 3>Stay tuned to hear whether their time in Greece made

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<v Speaker 3>their relationship stronger or whether the cracks started to show.

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<v Speaker 4>Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks all

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<v Speaker 3>This is your new go to destination for las gossip,

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<v Speaker 3>intimate details, advice, and much more. Hello, So you just

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<v Speaker 3>got off a plane from Greece. Welcome back. Are you

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<v Speaker 3>happy to be home?

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<v Speaker 4>I am, I'm feeling really jet lagged, Like I did

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<v Speaker 4>not sleep well last night at all.

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<v Speaker 2>But you said you sleep well on the planes.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, like I slept like nine hours on my

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<v Speaker 4>thirteen and a half hour flight. If I want to

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<v Speaker 4>sleep on a plane, I literally will hit the sack

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<v Speaker 4>like that, like I'm just like out cold.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good skill to have.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like no sleeping tablets.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing as well. Yeah, I literally can't sleep on a plane.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm restless hours.

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<v Speaker 3>I remember on the flight home from Fiji, actually you

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<v Speaker 3>were out like a light and I was taking selfies.

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<v Speaker 1>Of it because I was resting my head on your shoulder.

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<v Speaker 2>Bind you though we had had that much red wine.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, we got drug.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we got smashed on the plane home from this.

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<v Speaker 4>Just to like keep everyone up to date, this was

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<v Speaker 4>when me and that finished Love Island. We went home

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<v Speaker 4>together because we were both from Melbourne, so we were sitting

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<v Speaker 4>beside each other and.

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<v Speaker 1>We had not been allowed to drink like more.

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<v Speaker 4>Than one drink I think at a time in weeks,

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<v Speaker 4>in like eight weeks of filming. And then we literally

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<v Speaker 4>got on the plane and we were like keep the

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<v Speaker 4>red ones roll.

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<v Speaker 3>Even come and keep ringing them in and then and

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<v Speaker 3>then I remember you spilt it everywhere with that drunk

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<v Speaker 3>we knocked it over.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, it's fun. Act How fun was that? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll try.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll post one of those, one of those photos actually

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<v Speaker 3>so people can see you passed out. So yeah, you

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<v Speaker 3>can sleep on a plane. But like I said to

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<v Speaker 3>you on the phone before, I've never had jet lag,

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't know what it's like.

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<v Speaker 2>What does it feel like?

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<v Speaker 4>But you've been to the UK multiple times? How have

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<v Speaker 4>you not had jet lags?

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<v Speaker 3>I think my body is just so hearty to that, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it just knows what to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, I've never had it.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's impressive. I mean I try really.

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<v Speaker 4>Hard because like I sleep for the right amount of time,

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<v Speaker 4>But I don't know. I think it's on the way

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<v Speaker 4>back that the jet lag is way worse. Like on

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<v Speaker 4>the way there, I'm excited to be on holiday. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just like you know, like you have a few drinks

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<v Speaker 4>at night, you like slide into that time zone very easily.

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<v Speaker 1>But on the way home, I'm just like horrible.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, once I put my retainer in for bed,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm all lights out.

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<v Speaker 2>My head hits the feeler like you're on a plane.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, maybe you need.

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<v Speaker 4>To put your retainer in on the plane and then

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<v Speaker 4>you'll like knock yourself out.

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<v Speaker 2>Good thought pattern. Actually, but how am I supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to people with a retainer? And if someone like

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<v Speaker 2>tries to wake me up or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, they do not disturb.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, it's looked like you had a nice a

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<v Speaker 3>nice trip, and I'm not talking about that one at

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<v Speaker 3>the of your reel where you fell over.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I talk to that through that first?

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<v Speaker 4>You haven't seen that, guys, Head to my Instagram page

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<v Speaker 4>and a Macavoyd twenty one and you can literally see

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<v Speaker 4>me shout out to myself. You can literally see me

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<v Speaker 4>fully stack it. It was so funny because we were

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<v Speaker 4>in Paris. It was like the most beautiful place in

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<v Speaker 4>the world, Like, literally today my favorite place I've ever been.

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<v Speaker 4>So if you're going to grease hot tip, head to Paros.

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<v Speaker 4>Put it on the list. You've seen the video. It

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<v Speaker 4>was like literally this wet concrete by the ocean. The

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<v Speaker 4>water was like coming over onto this concrete and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, I need the perfect timing for the perfect shot,

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<v Speaker 4>for the perfect Instagram reel, and Michael's like, I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like this is a really bad idea. Like, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think we should do this, and I was like no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 4>it'll be fine. Did it once looked at the video,

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I can do it better. He's like, babe,

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<v Speaker 4>this is a bit dangerous.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you sure you want to do crashing on that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? So you have to.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was like, I'm only going to do this twice,

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<v Speaker 4>and then I was like, okay, round two, let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally as soon as my.

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<v Speaker 2>Foot hit because I was like hit.

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<v Speaker 4>The concrete, I just fully went like ice skate sliding.

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<v Speaker 1>But in saying that, I caught myself.

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<v Speaker 4>Really well, Like if you look at the video, think

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<v Speaker 4>it's because I'm so clumsy that I'm so good at

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<v Speaker 4>catching myself full because I'm so used to stacking it.

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<v Speaker 2>I love.

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<v Speaker 3>The best bit about the video was well, the worst

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<v Speaker 3>bit for me was when your knee like jarred. I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, oh, I kept slowing down watching that. But

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<v Speaker 3>was how you just try to walk it off like

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<v Speaker 3>nothing had happened. But nah, that's all good.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it wasn't like nothing had happened.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just like I was like a deer in headlights.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like running from my life. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>get me.

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<v Speaker 1>Out of here.

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<v Speaker 2>Did it hurt? Did it hurt?

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<v Speaker 4>Though? Yeah, Like my knee was like so sore because

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<v Speaker 4>it I don't know if you can see how bad

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<v Speaker 4>I smash it, but I really fucking smashed my knee

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<v Speaker 4>against that concrete.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was having dinner after and I was like.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's keep keep the red ones flowing because I was

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<v Speaker 4>getting like shooting pains down my lower back.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's okay now, though, It's all good now.

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<v Speaker 4>I woke up the next day and I, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>we had the video memory to laugh it off, and

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<v Speaker 4>I was totally fine about it.

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<v Speaker 2>So tell us a bit more about your grease holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you enjoy it? What was the best bit of it?

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<v Speaker 2>Tell us all, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean, we I don't know if you guys know this,

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<v Speaker 4>but I went to Greece for a wedding. So we

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<v Speaker 4>went to zach Andhos for a wedding. The wedding was

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<v Speaker 4>stunning in the most picture perfect location. I hadn't met

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<v Speaker 4>any of Michael's friends. A lot of them were from

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<v Speaker 4>London from when he lived there, so it was really

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<v Speaker 4>nice to meet all of them. And like, me and

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<v Speaker 4>Michael just had so much fun at the wedding. He

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<v Speaker 4>was like, it's really like good to see that. My

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<v Speaker 4>friends like really love you. Just like cements how I

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<v Speaker 4>feel about you. So that was really cute. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we had like so much fun. We also had a christening,

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<v Speaker 4>like they had a wedding, but the people who were

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<v Speaker 4>getting married they had a baby who they wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>get christened there, so we had a christening there. So

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<v Speaker 4>there was lots of fun activities. We kind of did

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of exploring of that island, and then we

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<v Speaker 4>also explored a few of the other islands. From recommendations

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<v Speaker 4>from my Instagram, the most recommended place to go was Paros,

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<v Speaker 4>and it did not disappoint. It was incredible. But also Athens,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I loved Athens. I mean, to go to Greece,

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<v Speaker 4>I think the easiest way is to fly Melbourne to Athens.

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<v Speaker 4>And so Athens was kind of like this place that

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<v Speaker 4>we were like stopping over it and I was kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like like whatever, it's going to be like average,

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<v Speaker 4>like we'll stay there for a couple of nights. But

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<v Speaker 4>it was amazing, like just even saying.

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<v Speaker 1>The history there, history doesn't it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And just like exploring these like incredible historical like

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<v Speaker 4>what's what's what's.

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<v Speaker 1>Pathy?

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<v Speaker 2>What empire ruled there or something didn't they?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>We're here to talk about We're not here to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about from history. Want a history podcast, Jump on another one,

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<v Speaker 2>not this one. But I know something that you do

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<v Speaker 2>know about the food? How is the food?

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<v Speaker 4>I think I ate like my body weight and tetsiki,

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<v Speaker 4>like every single day we had it olive like the

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<v Speaker 4>meats there we divide octopus.

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<v Speaker 1>Loved the octopus. Has had so much octopus?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I like no, no, I've had octopus my family,

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<v Speaker 3>my close family friends, they're Greek, so they have octopus

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<v Speaker 3>ing that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's unreal, It's unreal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And then the euros three three You know what a

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<v Speaker 4>euros is? You don't know what a euros is. It's

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<v Speaker 4>just like a seuvlaki kind of thing, like the Greek

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<v Speaker 4>souvlaki with like they have fries in it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, is that what it's called? Yeah, euros, Yeah, called

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<v Speaker 2>it a euros.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the Greeks called it a euros and it was

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<v Speaker 4>like so good, a three euro fifty. If you're going

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<v Speaker 4>to Greece and you want to have a cheap meal,

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<v Speaker 4>that's like your go to it was so good.

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<v Speaker 2>So how was Michael and his motherland.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, he was in his element, Like obviously Michael's mom

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<v Speaker 4>is Greek and speaks Greek. His yeah, Ya speaks like

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<v Speaker 4>obviously she is Greek and her first language is Greek

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<v Speaker 4>and speaks mainly Greek. He can speak a little bit,

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<v Speaker 4>but he was like through, Yeah, he was fully pulling

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<v Speaker 4>out the big one. Like he was like at one

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<v Speaker 4>point he started talking to this woman in Greek when

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<v Speaker 4>we were shopping, and he only knows the basics, and

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<v Speaker 4>then she started trying to have a full conversation with.

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<v Speaker 1>Him, and he just saw absolutely lose it.

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<v Speaker 4>He was like, I have no idea what you're talking about,

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<v Speaker 4>and he's just like nodding his head and then he

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<v Speaker 4>like go back to the words that he knew. It

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<v Speaker 4>was so funny, but he was great, and like the

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<v Speaker 4>Greek people were loving that he was like trying at least.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I found when I lived in Italy, if I tried

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<v Speaker 3>to speak Italian, they would actually appreciate it. Yeah, even

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<v Speaker 3>though I had the most Australian accent on the end

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<v Speaker 3>of it, they still appreciated that I was trying to

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<v Speaker 3>say chow better.

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<v Speaker 4>Grazzi because that's Italian somewhat. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So my grandma's half Italian, so I've somewhat Italian in yes,

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<v Speaker 3>and he's got a pin I've got something in there,

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<v Speaker 3>like a little bit of it. So I famed that

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<v Speaker 3>when I was in Italy, but not enough to survive

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<v Speaker 3>when speaking Italian. Yeah, So who did mostly organizing for

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<v Speaker 3>your because I've been away with you and Michael, and

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<v Speaker 3>neither of you are very organizational on trips, So who did.

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<v Speaker 2>Most of it?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, look, Michael is actually really good. But what

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<v Speaker 4>we did is so I'm gonna say Michael, not me.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like very like carefree, go with the flow, whatever happens.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll just tell you that we flew into Sydney. Jen.

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<v Speaker 3>My girlfriend was shook by this. We're getting on a

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<v Speaker 3>flight and and I still hadn't booked her accommodation for

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<v Speaker 3>our trip to Sydney.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>But the thing is is, like, what's the rule? The

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<v Speaker 4>rule is book flights early and book accommodation late, because

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<v Speaker 4>that's like the cheapest.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I haven't heard that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd like to have everything organized as well, like me

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<v Speaker 3>and general sitting there, like keep getting a secondhand anxiety

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<v Speaker 3>from you because of that.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, on the so when we went to Greece,

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<v Speaker 4>we were there for two weeks and that we left

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<v Speaker 4>the last four days totally free because we were like,

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<v Speaker 4>if we love somewhere and want to go back, we

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<v Speaker 4>want to be open to do that. If like we

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<v Speaker 4>get amazing recommend days whilst there, we want to be

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<v Speaker 4>free to do that. So we kind of did that

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<v Speaker 4>in Greece as well, like we had the day before

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<v Speaker 4>the last four days we had no idea, like we

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<v Speaker 4>kind of knew where we were going, but we hadn't

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<v Speaker 4>booked anything. So that's when we ended up doing Paros,

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<v Speaker 4>and then we ended up going back to Athens for

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<v Speaker 4>one last night because we loved it there, so like

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<v Speaker 4>let's just you know. And also this hotel in Athens

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<v Speaker 4>which is called Cocoa Matt b C, which has a

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<v Speaker 4>beautiful pool on the rooftop and also the most incredible

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<v Speaker 4>view of the Acropolis.

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<v Speaker 2>Was there many Australians over there, everyone traveling, So I

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<v Speaker 2>thought you'd just say people saw you.

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<v Speaker 4>There was a few Australians mainly in Paris, but I

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<v Speaker 4>reckon there was so many Americans in Greece, like so

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<v Speaker 4>many yeah, I think a lot of like the Melbourne

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<v Speaker 4>Melbourne people and like Melburn's did deciders are in Mikinos. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>we didn't go to Mickinoths because we had been before

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<v Speaker 4>and we were kind of like, you know what, we've

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<v Speaker 4>done it, we've been there, Like we want to see

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<v Speaker 4>new places, and like I don't really feel like going

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<v Speaker 4>and seeing everyone I know from Melbourne in Greece like

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<v Speaker 4>I want to. I don't know, there's something great about

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<v Speaker 4>being far away and knowing that you're not going to

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<v Speaker 4>see someone. But yeah, that night in Parros, like so,

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<v Speaker 4>me and Michael went to like one of the most

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<v Speaker 4>popular restaurants there. I think it's called like Barbarosa or

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<v Speaker 4>something incredible food, and like so many people like took

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<v Speaker 4>random videos of us whilst we're like eating, like you like.

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<v Speaker 2>Eating with your mouth open or dropping food out of

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<v Speaker 2>your mouth. Imagine that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, later on me and Michael had like a small

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<v Speaker 4>like bickering argument, like thinking we're like in this country

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<v Speaker 4>where no one knows us, and like it's gonna swipe

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<v Speaker 4>straight under the rug and we're never going to talk

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<v Speaker 4>about it again. And then the next morning I wake

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<v Speaker 4>up to all of these videos of me and Michael,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, fuck, I hope no one saw that argument,

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<v Speaker 4>not that one anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>Well on that, What was the hardest about traveling with

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<v Speaker 2>your partner for so long just in each other's pockets?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, like me and Michael spend a lot of time

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<v Speaker 4>together already, Yeah, because obviously we lived together. But yeah, like,

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<v Speaker 4>I guess it's always hard when you go on a

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<v Speaker 4>trip with anyone for you know, two weeks straight, three

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<v Speaker 4>weeks straight, however long it is, because you're just together

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<v Speaker 4>twenty four seven And if you love your me time,

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<v Speaker 4>you kind of don't get that unless you really make

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<v Speaker 4>a concerted effort to get it.

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<v Speaker 1>And we didn't make any me time.

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<v Speaker 4>So they did get to a point in the trip

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<v Speaker 4>where we had an argument one night.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>These things happen, like you know, I guess, like everyone argues,

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<v Speaker 4>and you know, we had a bit of a bit

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<v Speaker 4>of an argument on our holiday, all.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, So let's talk about that next, all right, So

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<v Speaker 3>you guys had a lovely trip. You guys had some

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<v Speaker 3>amazing memories, but you had a little arguments here and there.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want to explain to us how they started

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<v Speaker 3>and what happens.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, Like we had like a small argument, but then

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<v Speaker 4>we had one big argument. For the rest of the time,

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<v Speaker 4>we literally had like the best holiday ever, but there

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<v Speaker 4>was an argument.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds so silly to say it. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>just tell you what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, details out.

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<v Speaker 4>So I haven't actually told that this. This is like

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<v Speaker 4>the first time you're hearing this as well. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, So basically, me and Michael have obviously been

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<v Speaker 4>on a few trips now, Like we went to.

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<v Speaker 1>Thailand at the start of the year, we went to Bali.

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<v Speaker 4>And then obviously we had the Grease trip and like,

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<v Speaker 4>since I mentioned me and Michael were going to go

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<v Speaker 4>to Greece, specifically Santorini because it's like the Island of

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<v Speaker 4>Love and like you know, it's a very romantic place. Literally,

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<v Speaker 4>so many of my Instagram followers, and not just my

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<v Speaker 4>Instagram followers but also my family and friends were kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like, he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to propose. We think he's going to propose.

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<v Speaker 4>Get ready, get excited, da da da da da, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 2>I was guilty of this as well.

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<v Speaker 3>I did ask you before you left if you thought

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<v Speaker 3>he was going to But in my defense, I did

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<v Speaker 3>reply to one of your stories. You did say cheers

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<v Speaker 3>to us, and I replied with like a ring question mark, naturally,

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<v Speaker 3>like if anyone's going to think that's what it meant,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like, do you reckon? How many people reply

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<v Speaker 3>to that saying that.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, okay, so let me just reverse you for it,

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<v Speaker 4>because you saying that is actually part of my story.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, keep going, then I'll let you go.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So people literally from the moment I said we were

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<v Speaker 4>going to Greece, we're planting the seeds in my head

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<v Speaker 4>that Michael's going to propose this is it? Da da da,

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<v Speaker 4>And even Michael to a certain degree, like we're obviously

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<v Speaker 4>deeply in love. We love each other. It's been eleven months.

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<v Speaker 4>It's coming up to our one year anniversary, so it

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<v Speaker 4>hasn't even been a full year. It's almost been a year,

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<v Speaker 4>but not white and like obviously, like we would love

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<v Speaker 4>to get engaged, and we will eventually, but I think

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<v Speaker 4>those little seeds that were getting planted kind of got

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<v Speaker 4>my hopes up a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Naturally, you're only a woman, you're in love.

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<v Speaker 3>You're only a woman in love life, meaning like you're

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<v Speaker 3>in love and like you know, I don't blame you.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone everyone's like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and like everyone was thinking and literally from the

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<v Speaker 4>moment I landed in Greece, I was getting like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>gonna say if I'm being really honest and realistic, like

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<v Speaker 4>at least twenty people a day in my dms were

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<v Speaker 4>like ring.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he propose?

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<v Speaker 4>Even to the point where if I started posting stories

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<v Speaker 4>like halfway through my trip and apparently I was hiding

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<v Speaker 4>my left finger apparently, and people were like, there's a

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<v Speaker 4>ring on there. If you look at my photos in Santorini,

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<v Speaker 4>someone zoomed in on my ring finger and there's like

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<v Speaker 4>a blur on my ring finger and someone was like,

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<v Speaker 4>you've edited out the ring. Like this is constant, like

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<v Speaker 4>every time I opened my Instagram, like this was getting

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<v Speaker 4>fed through my ear. So like obviously there's like two

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<v Speaker 4>to three percent.

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<v Speaker 1>Who am I kidding? Like maybe twenty percent where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe he will propose.

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<v Speaker 4>No, like twenty no, Because me and Michael actually had

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<v Speaker 4>a chat where he was like, Babe, like I just

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<v Speaker 4>want you to know, like this is just a holiday,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I love you, we love each other, but like.

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<v Speaker 2>Was this before you left?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Before we left? He was like, I'm not proposing,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, okay, he's not proposing. Like but

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<v Speaker 4>then I was like, oh, but if he was proposing,

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<v Speaker 4>he'd probably say that because he wouldn't want to, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's very confusing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, of course that's getting all through just ye getting

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<v Speaker 4>the secondhand embarrassed. This's a pretty embarrassing story to tell,

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<v Speaker 4>but like, you know what, fuck it, we have a podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna be open and honest anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>So like obviously, like all of these things are happening,

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<v Speaker 4>and then we get to Santorini, the place that everyone

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<v Speaker 4>on Instagram, including my family and friends, thinks I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to get proposed to, and Michael and me are like

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<v Speaker 4>having this most amazing dinner, watching the sunset, drinking wine,

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<v Speaker 4>like literally loving life. And then Michael made this comment

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<v Speaker 4>and he was like I was talking to like one

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<v Speaker 4>of my friends at the wedding and he like said

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<v Speaker 4>to me, like, oh, you're going to propose. And I

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<v Speaker 4>was like no, and I was like okay, oh okay,

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<v Speaker 4>and then he and then he was like oh and

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<v Speaker 4>then like I asked, my friend, are you going to propose?

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<v Speaker 4>And he was like gave me this weird look, and

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<v Speaker 4>it made me think, like, is he going to propose anyway?

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<v Speaker 4>From that conversation, I was like in a half, I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, oh fine, I didn't want to be proposed

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<v Speaker 4>to anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Here it's a cliche.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever, Yeah, I kick out. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>I I was just like a bit like I wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>giving him the silent treatment, but I was a bit

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<v Speaker 4>like kind of like hurt me a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my heart, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's be ho.

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<v Speaker 3>I start twenty percent. You said before it was more

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<v Speaker 3>like forty five to fifty.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, I reckon it was forty five to fifty

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<v Speaker 4>before he like literally sat me down and was like, babe,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not going to propose, Like I just want to

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<v Speaker 4>be upfront.

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<v Speaker 3>And then like you said, that's classic diversion, isn't that

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<v Speaker 3>what somebody say?

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<v Speaker 4>That very confusing, Like the brain can play some serious

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<v Speaker 4>tricks on you anyway. Then Michael was kind of like

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<v Speaker 4>noticed that I was like, not like myself. And then

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<v Speaker 4>he's like, what's wrong, da da da, And I was

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<v Speaker 4>like I didn't like the way in that story you

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<v Speaker 4>told before when your friend asked you if you're going

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<v Speaker 4>to propose to me that you were like no, and

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<v Speaker 4>he was like I didn't say no. I said no,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not because I'm not. And then I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>so you don't want to. And then it got into

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<v Speaker 4>this like weird fight where we literally like started like

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<v Speaker 4>it was getting like a bit flat up, like it

0:20:01.920 --> 0:20:05.720
<v Speaker 4>got a bit like heated, and then I got quite upset.

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<v Speaker 1>To be kill me, and I was just like this

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<v Speaker 1>is fucked.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I'm literally in the most beautiful place on the

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<v Speaker 4>planet with the person I love, and I'm letting all

0:20:16.640 --> 0:20:21.560
<v Speaker 4>of these external things like feed into my mind and

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<v Speaker 4>like confuse me and like make me think that like

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<v Speaker 4>this is the moment when like I'm happy in my relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>I was in a relationship for six years and like

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<v Speaker 4>we literally didn't speak about like engagement or anything until

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<v Speaker 4>like the last year, and I think it's just because

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<v Speaker 4>like everyone's like feeding this stuff into my ear. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 4>I went silent on social media for twenty four hours,

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<v Speaker 4>and the last thing I posted was.

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<v Speaker 1>Me doing a cheers with Michael.

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<v Speaker 4>In Santorini, where I said cheers to us, and that

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<v Speaker 4>was before this big fight blew up. And obviously, like

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<v Speaker 4>I want to keep it real on social media, but

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<v Speaker 4>like it it was kind of like a personal topic,

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<v Speaker 4>and like I didn't want to make people feel bad

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<v Speaker 4>for asking because obviously they're excited of the like prospect

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<v Speaker 4>of maybe him proposing, and like, yeah, like I definitely

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<v Speaker 4>fed into it, and I should have been like more

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<v Speaker 4>like guys, like this isn't happening, and like I just

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<v Speaker 4>want to enjoy my holiday, which I mean I did

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<v Speaker 4>say at one point, but anyway, I'm getting off track. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 4>we did the cheers with the champagne glasses. I said

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<v Speaker 4>cheers to us. The flight broke out, and then I

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<v Speaker 4>woke up to a message from that in the morning,

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<v Speaker 4>and it was the ring emoji, the engagement ring emoji

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<v Speaker 4>with the question mark, And I was like.

0:21:42.840 --> 0:21:43.960
<v Speaker 2>Should I trigger you again?

0:21:44.640 --> 0:21:45.679
<v Speaker 1>You've re triggered me?

0:21:47.000 --> 0:21:49.000
<v Speaker 3>Well, what am I supposed to think? What's anyone's supposed

0:21:49.000 --> 0:21:50.840
<v Speaker 3>to think when that that was posted there?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't know that we're coupled in love

0:21:53.240 --> 0:21:57.000
<v Speaker 4>on holiday, like you know what I mean, We've only

0:21:57.040 --> 0:21:59.760
<v Speaker 4>been together for a year, and like obviously there's like

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of pressure.

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<v Speaker 2>Did that spark around to my message? No?

0:22:04.760 --> 0:22:07.840
<v Speaker 4>Well, I just like shown Michael the phone, and I

0:22:07.880 --> 0:22:13.879
<v Speaker 4>was like, look.

0:22:13.119 --> 0:22:14.520
<v Speaker 1>Look, I think it was.

0:22:14.760 --> 0:22:17.159
<v Speaker 4>It was a really eye opening experience to me because

0:22:17.200 --> 0:22:20.359
<v Speaker 4>after that, like after your message, and then we like

0:22:20.400 --> 0:22:23.080
<v Speaker 4>got over that, we kind of put drew a line

0:22:23.160 --> 0:22:25.199
<v Speaker 4>under it. I spoke to one of my friends and

0:22:25.240 --> 0:22:27.560
<v Speaker 4>she was just like, Babe, you're with like the love

0:22:27.600 --> 0:22:28.120
<v Speaker 4>of your life.

0:22:28.280 --> 0:22:30.360
<v Speaker 1>You both love each other. It's been a year.

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<v Speaker 4>Ye, Like yes, there's like external bullshit like kind of

0:22:35.000 --> 0:22:37.919
<v Speaker 4>like putting a dampener on your parade, but you're literally

0:22:38.000 --> 0:22:41.720
<v Speaker 4>in Greece, like enjoy it, have fun, like yeah, like

0:22:41.840 --> 0:22:45.679
<v Speaker 4>let's not like like wait for the moment to happen,

0:22:45.800 --> 0:22:47.639
<v Speaker 4>like it will happen when it's gonna happen.

0:22:48.080 --> 0:22:50.440
<v Speaker 3>Does Michael feel a lot of pressure with everyone saying

0:22:50.480 --> 0:22:52.720
<v Speaker 3>that and you're cracking it and all that sort of stuff,

0:22:52.720 --> 0:22:55.920
<v Speaker 3>Like does he now feel pressure around it?

0:22:56.119 --> 0:22:58.600
<v Speaker 4>I think that Michael already felt pressure around it. Like

0:22:58.640 --> 0:23:01.240
<v Speaker 4>if you go to his Instagram and like literally like

0:23:01.480 --> 0:23:04.240
<v Speaker 4>in the comment section, there's always like when you're proposing,

0:23:04.240 --> 0:23:05.040
<v Speaker 4>what are you waiting for?

0:23:05.080 --> 0:23:05.359
<v Speaker 1>People?

0:23:05.359 --> 0:23:07.760
<v Speaker 4>Now DM him as well, like he gets his own

0:23:07.840 --> 0:23:12.119
<v Speaker 4>like little like other messages now where he's getting constantly us.

0:23:12.240 --> 0:23:14.240
<v Speaker 4>So I think he definitely feels a lot of pressure,

0:23:14.280 --> 0:23:16.520
<v Speaker 4>and that's the last thing that.

0:23:16.600 --> 0:23:17.560
<v Speaker 1>I want for him.

0:23:17.600 --> 0:23:21.840
<v Speaker 4>Like I only want someone to propose to me if

0:23:21.880 --> 0:23:25.160
<v Speaker 4>they want to do it, like, not because there's any

0:23:25.240 --> 0:23:28.720
<v Speaker 4>level of pressure on them. And like, you know, I

0:23:28.720 --> 0:23:31.879
<v Speaker 4>think as well, because like Michael's thirty four, about to

0:23:31.920 --> 0:23:34.679
<v Speaker 4>turn thirty four, I'm thirty. I think people think that

0:23:35.720 --> 0:23:38.680
<v Speaker 4>things should move quicker, and like our relationship has moved

0:23:38.720 --> 0:23:41.240
<v Speaker 4>so quick already, Like we moved in with him four months.

0:23:41.920 --> 0:23:45.240
<v Speaker 4>We're very happy, and like, you know, I just want

0:23:45.280 --> 0:23:48.600
<v Speaker 4>it to be real because like we had an amazing

0:23:48.680 --> 0:23:53.400
<v Speaker 4>trip in Greece, but I think that kind of did

0:23:53.760 --> 0:23:56.840
<v Speaker 4>dampen it for about twenty four hours for us in Santorini.

0:23:57.560 --> 0:23:59.800
<v Speaker 4>And like on top of that, like everyone's getting fucking

0:23:59.800 --> 0:24:02.520
<v Speaker 4>pro posed to in Santorini, so like we're having this.

0:24:02.520 --> 0:24:05.119
<v Speaker 2>Fight where people getting proposed in front of your.

0:24:05.119 --> 0:24:08.960
<v Speaker 4>Constantly every night, every fucking night, And I was just

0:24:11.520 --> 0:24:14.359
<v Speaker 4>is someone actually taking the piss out of me? Because

0:24:14.400 --> 0:24:17.120
<v Speaker 4>it fucking feels like it. And then on top of that,

0:24:17.560 --> 0:24:19.320
<v Speaker 4>there's also like I don't know if you've seen them

0:24:19.359 --> 0:24:23.639
<v Speaker 4>in Santorini, there's these like engagement photo shoots that they

0:24:23.680 --> 0:24:26.080
<v Speaker 4>do where women wear like the big long dresses and

0:24:26.119 --> 0:24:27.920
<v Speaker 4>they're like flowing in the wind.

0:24:28.160 --> 0:24:30.919
<v Speaker 2>I have not seen that algorithm.

0:24:31.280 --> 0:24:35.040
<v Speaker 4>So we're like walking down the street and there's like

0:24:35.119 --> 0:24:39.320
<v Speaker 4>people doing like fake like engagement shoots like oh my god,

0:24:39.480 --> 0:24:42.199
<v Speaker 4>I said yes, like showing the ring, and I'm just like,

0:24:42.359 --> 0:24:44.800
<v Speaker 4>this is a piss take, Like this is actually a pisteke.

0:24:44.920 --> 0:24:48.560
<v Speaker 4>So look, if you're wanting to get proposed to, my

0:24:48.680 --> 0:24:51.200
<v Speaker 4>recommendation is don't go to Santorini because it's.

0:24:51.080 --> 0:24:53.760
<v Speaker 1>Just fucking in your face, wow, annoying.

0:24:54.000 --> 0:24:57.679
<v Speaker 3>Well on that, my sister got actually got engaged.

0:24:57.840 --> 0:25:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Congratulations to Congratulations to life.

0:25:00.240 --> 0:25:03.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, congratulations to Lara and Jayden, but the same sort

0:25:03.560 --> 0:25:05.800
<v Speaker 3>of thing. So we caught up with her one last

0:25:05.800 --> 0:25:07.840
<v Speaker 3>time to get some lunch, Me and my sister and

0:25:07.880 --> 0:25:10.440
<v Speaker 3>my mom. We all had lunch before she left, and

0:25:10.480 --> 0:25:12.920
<v Speaker 3>we're in the car and she was like, oh, none

0:25:12.960 --> 0:25:15.320
<v Speaker 3>of my friends have like nagging to get my nails done.

0:25:15.400 --> 0:25:17.600
<v Speaker 3>She's like, I guess Jada's not proposing then, and.

0:25:17.560 --> 0:25:20.800
<v Speaker 2>We're all just like sitting in the car. They were

0:25:20.800 --> 0:25:22.680
<v Speaker 2>all in the car like oh, and then she goes, well,

0:25:22.720 --> 0:25:24.639
<v Speaker 2>that's kind of a relief, Like now I can just

0:25:24.760 --> 0:25:27.119
<v Speaker 2>enjoy my trip and I don't feel like like I

0:25:27.160 --> 0:25:29.320
<v Speaker 2>have to worry about that. Yeah.

0:25:29.400 --> 0:25:33.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And he ended up proposing to her in Positano,

0:25:33.280 --> 0:25:36.919
<v Speaker 3>so in Italy, and they really romantic, So congratulations to them.

0:25:36.840 --> 0:25:39.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, congrats to them. But they've been together for how long?

0:25:39.880 --> 0:25:40.760
<v Speaker 2>Eight years? Seven years?

0:25:40.760 --> 0:25:42.360
<v Speaker 1>At exactly like that.

0:25:42.640 --> 0:25:44.960
<v Speaker 4>I think it was it was due and I think,

0:25:45.000 --> 0:25:47.080
<v Speaker 4>like they're such a gorgeous couple.

0:25:47.320 --> 0:25:50.560
<v Speaker 3>The same thing happened though before Jaden proposed. At the

0:25:50.600 --> 0:25:52.679
<v Speaker 3>table next to him were a couple of cross He

0:25:52.760 --> 0:25:54.200
<v Speaker 3>got down on one knees.

0:25:56.440 --> 0:25:58.000
<v Speaker 2>And he was like, well, shit, I can't do it

0:25:58.040 --> 0:26:00.400
<v Speaker 2>here sort of thing. So then they went for a walk, so.

0:26:00.320 --> 0:26:02.760
<v Speaker 4>The place that he had picked out to propose, someone

0:26:02.840 --> 0:26:03.560
<v Speaker 4>already did it.

0:26:03.640 --> 0:26:05.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then they're like what I mean, it's just

0:26:06.080 --> 0:26:06.720
<v Speaker 1>too much.

0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:08.639
<v Speaker 3>And then they made like a massive deal of it

0:26:08.680 --> 0:26:10.960
<v Speaker 3>as well, like the waiters and everything. And then, like

0:26:12.200 --> 0:26:13.960
<v Speaker 3>she said, she knew something was that, like he was

0:26:13.960 --> 0:26:16.400
<v Speaker 3>acting weird, like you could tell couldn't sit still before

0:26:16.400 --> 0:26:21.120
<v Speaker 3>they went for dinner, before or after the couple probably yeah,

0:26:21.119 --> 0:26:21.800
<v Speaker 3>it probably got.

0:26:21.640 --> 0:26:24.160
<v Speaker 2>Even worse than well.

0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:27.160
<v Speaker 4>I like, let's let's think about it in your situation Matt,

0:26:27.240 --> 0:26:29.679
<v Speaker 4>like when you asked Jen to be your girlfriend, you

0:26:29.720 --> 0:26:30.879
<v Speaker 4>were shitting brick.

0:26:31.160 --> 0:26:32.879
<v Speaker 2>I was wigging out, And she even said that to me,

0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:34.120
<v Speaker 2>like you're fully.

0:26:33.800 --> 0:26:36.600
<v Speaker 4>Wigging, Like imagine if you were getting down on one knee,

0:26:36.760 --> 0:26:37.480
<v Speaker 4>you would be.

0:26:37.720 --> 0:26:40.480
<v Speaker 3>She's actually said that to me. She goes like, I'm like,

0:26:40.640 --> 0:26:42.520
<v Speaker 3>if you ever do get down on one knee, can

0:26:42.560 --> 0:26:43.919
<v Speaker 3>you like please not make.

0:26:43.800 --> 0:26:45.440
<v Speaker 2>It so obvious what you're about to do?

0:26:48.359 --> 0:26:50.159
<v Speaker 3>Even when I said the big illy to her, like

0:26:50.280 --> 0:26:55.000
<v Speaker 3>I was fucking wigging, Like I was like like starting sentences,

0:26:55.000 --> 0:26:57.280
<v Speaker 3>are not finishing.

0:26:58.920 --> 0:27:01.359
<v Speaker 4>Just going around and said you wouldn't know you had

0:27:01.359 --> 0:27:04.000
<v Speaker 4>a relationship podcast together.

0:27:04.880 --> 0:27:07.000
<v Speaker 3>Nothing gets you ready for that, like you know what

0:27:07.000 --> 0:27:09.000
<v Speaker 3>I mean. You go through it in your head and

0:27:09.000 --> 0:27:11.399
<v Speaker 3>then you get there and it's just still like you

0:27:11.440 --> 0:27:13.800
<v Speaker 3>know what they're going to say, but you're still just yeah,

0:27:13.920 --> 0:27:14.880
<v Speaker 3>so weird about it.

0:27:15.000 --> 0:27:17.800
<v Speaker 4>Well, like, speaking of Jen, she's about to turn thirty.

0:27:18.040 --> 0:27:20.840
<v Speaker 4>Is she have you guys spoken about a ring? Is

0:27:20.880 --> 0:27:21.800
<v Speaker 4>she wanting a ring?

0:27:23.280 --> 0:27:25.920
<v Speaker 3>Well, we've been under clear instructions from her sister that

0:27:26.000 --> 0:27:28.280
<v Speaker 3>she Jen can't get a ring until she does.

0:27:28.400 --> 0:27:31.160
<v Speaker 2>So why is that She's been with her partner now

0:27:31.200 --> 0:27:32.880
<v Speaker 2>for like six seven years.

0:27:32.880 --> 0:27:35.120
<v Speaker 1>Right, So she's like, I deserve.

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:36.920
<v Speaker 2>To go first.

0:27:37.359 --> 0:27:40.719
<v Speaker 3>I'll joke about it sometimes, Like I remember the other

0:27:40.760 --> 0:27:42.360
<v Speaker 3>day I sat down when Jen wasn't there and I said,

0:27:42.359 --> 0:27:44.440
<v Speaker 3>now that she's not here, like I'm looking at doing

0:27:44.480 --> 0:27:44.800
<v Speaker 3>it here.

0:27:44.880 --> 0:27:47.639
<v Speaker 2>And then he was like absolutely, no fucking way. And

0:27:47.680 --> 0:27:48.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I know, I'm just joking.

0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:50.600
<v Speaker 1>It's triggering.

0:27:51.359 --> 0:27:51.800
<v Speaker 2>Triggering.

0:27:52.359 --> 0:27:54.679
<v Speaker 1>She's like, maybe you should talk to her boyfriend and

0:27:54.720 --> 0:27:57.480
<v Speaker 1>be like, hey, can you get a rig along? Well, okay,

0:27:57.560 --> 0:27:58.359
<v Speaker 1>you're in no rush.

0:27:58.520 --> 0:28:01.440
<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean no, I'm in nor whish. I just yeah,

0:28:01.800 --> 0:28:04.359
<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to let them dictate anyway.

0:28:04.400 --> 0:28:06.480
<v Speaker 2>If if he holds up for another two to three

0:28:06.560 --> 0:28:08.360
<v Speaker 2>years and I'm read to go, I'm going to do it.

0:28:08.440 --> 0:28:10.280
<v Speaker 2>So I do what I want. Yeah, I do what

0:28:10.320 --> 0:28:12.160
<v Speaker 2>I want. I'm not going to Yeah, I don't care.

0:28:12.359 --> 0:28:16.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah for sure. Okay, Well, look, let's talk about the

0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:21.000
<v Speaker 1>top tips on how to vacation with a partner. It

0:28:21.040 --> 0:28:21.720
<v Speaker 1>can be tricky.

0:28:21.760 --> 0:28:24.040
<v Speaker 4>You're spending a lot of time together, so let's talk

0:28:24.080 --> 0:28:30.320
<v Speaker 4>about that next. Okay, Matt, it's always a huge deal

0:28:30.440 --> 0:28:33.880
<v Speaker 4>to go on holiday with your partner. The first tip

0:28:33.880 --> 0:28:36.359
<v Speaker 4>we have for our where's your Head Out listeners is

0:28:37.119 --> 0:28:39.720
<v Speaker 4>if you are in a new relationship, start with a

0:28:39.800 --> 0:28:45.480
<v Speaker 4>short weekend away before you're booking a huge international getaway, right.

0:28:45.880 --> 0:28:48.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean you want to sussy out the person

0:28:48.480 --> 0:28:50.960
<v Speaker 3>before you go away, what they're like when they're on holiday.

0:28:51.440 --> 0:28:55.040
<v Speaker 3>But in saying that, Genevieve and myself had booked Byron

0:28:55.160 --> 0:28:58.520
<v Speaker 3>before we were even official, would be hanging out for

0:28:58.680 --> 0:29:00.880
<v Speaker 3>like four weeks and then like the borders and everything,

0:29:00.880 --> 0:29:02.800
<v Speaker 3>we're opening. So she's like, do you want to go away?

0:29:02.840 --> 0:29:04.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, yeah, fuck it, I haven't been away in

0:29:04.400 --> 0:29:05.680
<v Speaker 3>like two years, let's do it.

0:29:05.720 --> 0:29:07.760
<v Speaker 1>Was that out both of our first troops with.

0:29:07.640 --> 0:29:10.440
<v Speaker 3>Our partner, Yeah, yeah, And then you guys were Yochi

0:29:10.600 --> 0:29:12.360
<v Speaker 3>and you guys were like, oh, we're planning on going

0:29:12.360 --> 0:29:13.880
<v Speaker 3>to Buyer and we're like, well, let's cross it over.

0:29:14.040 --> 0:29:15.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And we crossed it over for like two days

0:29:15.760 --> 0:29:16.800
<v Speaker 1>so you can have like a.

0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:18.040
<v Speaker 2>Little bit of a trip away together.

0:29:18.560 --> 0:29:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. That was cute.

0:29:19.760 --> 0:29:22.120
<v Speaker 2>So in saying that, like it just sussy out what

0:29:22.160 --> 0:29:23.040
<v Speaker 2>they're like, like.

0:29:23.000 --> 0:29:25.960
<v Speaker 1>Maybe, I mean like, yeah, I think that.

0:29:26.120 --> 0:29:28.720
<v Speaker 4>I think the most important thing is is like if

0:29:28.720 --> 0:29:31.240
<v Speaker 4>you haven't traveled with someone and you don't also live

0:29:31.280 --> 0:29:34.960
<v Speaker 4>with them, you actually haven't spent like a large amount

0:29:34.960 --> 0:29:37.120
<v Speaker 4>of time together. When you're on holiday, you're with someone

0:29:37.160 --> 0:29:38.000
<v Speaker 4>twenty four seven.

0:29:38.120 --> 0:29:39.720
<v Speaker 3>Mind you though, Jen and I had been in like

0:29:39.720 --> 0:29:43.400
<v Speaker 3>lockdown together, so like we've spent long times together in

0:29:43.440 --> 0:29:46.000
<v Speaker 3>each other's back yeah pucket for a long time.

0:29:46.120 --> 0:29:49.600
<v Speaker 4>But in a normal situation where you haven't spent like

0:29:49.760 --> 0:29:53.000
<v Speaker 4>long periods of time together, maybe a weekend away is

0:29:53.200 --> 0:29:54.680
<v Speaker 4>a better starting point.

0:29:54.760 --> 0:29:56.880
<v Speaker 2>And who doesn't love and who doesn't love a weekend

0:29:56.920 --> 0:29:58.400
<v Speaker 2>away as well a little staycation?

0:29:58.680 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Exactly? We love a stay case.

0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:01.200
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:30:01.240 --> 0:30:03.240
<v Speaker 3>The next one is make sure you both agree on

0:30:03.280 --> 0:30:06.600
<v Speaker 3>the destination and the expectations of the type of holiday. Yeah,

0:30:06.640 --> 0:30:09.320
<v Speaker 3>so that means are you going for a relaxing time

0:30:09.600 --> 0:30:12.280
<v Speaker 3>sightseeing or is it just a straight out party vibe

0:30:12.280 --> 0:30:14.920
<v Speaker 3>and you both want to let loose on this holiday.

0:30:15.120 --> 0:30:17.640
<v Speaker 4>I think setting those expectations is a big one. Like

0:30:18.000 --> 0:30:21.120
<v Speaker 4>I went on holiday with our producer Amber when we

0:30:21.120 --> 0:30:23.200
<v Speaker 4>were a bit younger, and I'm like, I used to

0:30:23.240 --> 0:30:25.800
<v Speaker 4>be a party girl and she is like an R and.

0:30:25.840 --> 0:30:28.840
<v Speaker 1>R like type of gallex there'd you go? She like Bali.

0:30:28.960 --> 0:30:31.000
<v Speaker 4>We were in Bali together and she was like, you know,

0:30:31.120 --> 0:30:32.880
<v Speaker 4>she likes the rest and relaxation.

0:30:33.080 --> 0:30:34.240
<v Speaker 1>She likes the massages.

0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:37.280
<v Speaker 4>So what we did on our trip to like equalize

0:30:37.280 --> 0:30:40.120
<v Speaker 4>it is we do one R and R day and

0:30:40.160 --> 0:30:42.640
<v Speaker 4>we do one party night, one R and R day,

0:30:42.680 --> 0:30:45.520
<v Speaker 4>one party night, and it was actually great. Like, as

0:30:45.600 --> 0:30:48.040
<v Speaker 4>long as you're both on the same page and everyone's

0:30:48.080 --> 0:30:51.920
<v Speaker 4>getting out of the holiday what they want, then it works.

0:30:52.240 --> 0:30:52.560
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:30:52.600 --> 0:30:56.880
<v Speaker 4>The next one is try avoiding drama at all costs.

0:30:56.960 --> 0:30:58.720
<v Speaker 4>A way that you can do this is just being

0:30:58.880 --> 0:31:01.400
<v Speaker 4>prepared and ready to compromise.

0:31:02.200 --> 0:31:07.440
<v Speaker 3>So that means not booking your accommodation after you've landed,

0:31:07.560 --> 0:31:10.840
<v Speaker 3>like Ana macavoid us jeez. But if you think you

0:31:10.840 --> 0:31:12.520
<v Speaker 3>can get away, that you can, and then how about

0:31:12.560 --> 0:31:14.719
<v Speaker 3>it just a room opening up. You had you booked

0:31:14.720 --> 0:31:16.880
<v Speaker 3>one night and then the room opened up for the

0:31:16.960 --> 0:31:19.719
<v Speaker 3>next night. Remember what's that when we went to Sydney,

0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:21.880
<v Speaker 3>So you only had one night in the hotel with us,

0:31:22.080 --> 0:31:25.800
<v Speaker 3>and then by sheer luck things.

0:31:25.520 --> 0:31:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Work out for me, Like I don't put too much

0:31:27.840 --> 0:31:29.720
<v Speaker 1>pressure on it. Look, the thing.

0:31:29.640 --> 0:31:32.920
<v Speaker 4>Is is like, yeah, you can be super prepared and

0:31:32.960 --> 0:31:36.320
<v Speaker 4>you can have a fucking itinery ready to go, But like, also,

0:31:36.440 --> 0:31:39.240
<v Speaker 4>how fun is it not knowing? It's part of the excitement.

0:31:39.280 --> 0:31:45.120
<v Speaker 4>Of traveling nah me and that traveled differently. So we're

0:31:45.160 --> 0:31:47.720
<v Speaker 4>just going to agree to disagree. But one thing that

0:31:47.760 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 4>we do agree on is compromise. So there's no point

0:31:50.840 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 4>in being the person who's going to be like mister

0:31:53.360 --> 0:31:56.240
<v Speaker 4>ride or missus ride all the time and like, you know,

0:31:56.800 --> 0:32:00.680
<v Speaker 4>not being willing to kind of like move you point

0:32:00.760 --> 0:32:01.400
<v Speaker 4>just to be right.

0:32:01.480 --> 0:32:03.080
<v Speaker 1>I think that's an important point.

0:32:03.200 --> 0:32:06.280
<v Speaker 3>Well, you're on holiday, like you guys can both do

0:32:06.360 --> 0:32:08.280
<v Speaker 3>what you want to do, make like you said with am,

0:32:08.360 --> 0:32:10.720
<v Speaker 3>but do both things so you're all enjoying it.

0:32:10.840 --> 0:32:13.400
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, compromise is key, and I think if you're in

0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:16.880
<v Speaker 4>a relationship, not just on holiday you need to compromise,

0:32:16.960 --> 0:32:19.680
<v Speaker 4>but especially on holiday, you need to compromise.

0:32:19.520 --> 0:32:22.280
<v Speaker 3>All right, try new things out together, So like aim

0:32:22.400 --> 0:32:26.760
<v Speaker 3>to create new romantic memories together. So like I mean one,

0:32:26.800 --> 0:32:29.400
<v Speaker 3>for instance, would be jenn and I when we went away,

0:32:29.480 --> 0:32:31.440
<v Speaker 3>Like it doesn't even have to be forced, Like we

0:32:31.560 --> 0:32:33.440
<v Speaker 3>just had a nice time in the swimming pool together

0:32:33.600 --> 0:32:35.560
<v Speaker 3>and like she put up a TikTok and she's like,

0:32:35.560 --> 0:32:36.920
<v Speaker 3>this is my new favorite memory.

0:32:36.680 --> 0:32:40.080
<v Speaker 1>Together because it was so cute. I loved that. That

0:32:40.200 --> 0:32:41.880
<v Speaker 1>was really sweet. Who filmed that?

0:32:41.920 --> 0:32:46.120
<v Speaker 2>By the way, her sister Nikki. But if you saw

0:32:46.160 --> 0:32:48.960
<v Speaker 2>in my story, we set up my phone as a

0:32:49.280 --> 0:32:52.440
<v Speaker 2>set like on selfie record, like hands free, and we

0:32:52.480 --> 0:32:54.360
<v Speaker 2>were like swimming around trying to get this video of

0:32:54.400 --> 0:32:56.720
<v Speaker 2>us like coming out of the water together kissing, and

0:32:56.760 --> 0:32:58.360
<v Speaker 2>I kept saying, oh, that's going to fall because it

0:32:58.400 --> 0:32:59.960
<v Speaker 2>was only resting on a beer can. I'm like, that's

0:33:00.080 --> 0:33:01.680
<v Speaker 2>a fall, that's going to fall, and kept doing it

0:33:01.760 --> 0:33:03.600
<v Speaker 2>and then it just falling.

0:33:05.320 --> 0:33:07.600
<v Speaker 3>The best thing about that video is I dive down

0:33:07.640 --> 0:33:10.600
<v Speaker 3>to pick it off and I miss, and then you

0:33:10.640 --> 0:33:12.880
<v Speaker 3>have to go and then you see Jen go there

0:33:12.880 --> 0:33:13.880
<v Speaker 3>it is, and I'm like, oh.

0:33:14.080 --> 0:33:14.680
<v Speaker 2>Pick it up.

0:33:15.280 --> 0:33:19.120
<v Speaker 4>That was a cute moment though, yeah, like very cute, unplanned,

0:33:19.160 --> 0:33:21.040
<v Speaker 4>but like look for those moments and even try to

0:33:21.080 --> 0:33:23.200
<v Speaker 4>make some with your partner that your partner isn't ready

0:33:23.200 --> 0:33:24.320
<v Speaker 4>for as well.

0:33:24.320 --> 0:33:25.320
<v Speaker 2>I can make it more romange.

0:33:25.440 --> 0:33:27.840
<v Speaker 4>Like me, I went on a hike with Michael and Athens,

0:33:27.920 --> 0:33:30.200
<v Speaker 4>even though I'm not like a big hiker, but I knew,

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:32.280
<v Speaker 4>I knew it made him happy, and when we got

0:33:32.360 --> 0:33:34.520
<v Speaker 4>up to the top, it was actually not as bad

0:33:34.560 --> 0:33:37.280
<v Speaker 4>as I had anticipated and it was actually fun.

0:33:37.480 --> 0:33:40.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, even that reminds me as well. Jen and I

0:33:40.600 --> 0:33:43.760
<v Speaker 3>went on a hiking Byron and it's actually pinned on

0:33:43.760 --> 0:33:45.480
<v Speaker 3>her Instagram. She said it's her favorite memory is the

0:33:45.480 --> 0:33:47.440
<v Speaker 3>photo of us up there because it was really romantic.

0:33:47.920 --> 0:33:48.040
<v Speaker 2>Ku.

0:33:48.440 --> 0:33:49.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, very cute.

0:33:49.800 --> 0:33:50.120
<v Speaker 2>All right.

0:33:50.160 --> 0:33:52.680
<v Speaker 3>So the next one and I tried to remove from

0:33:52.720 --> 0:33:55.840
<v Speaker 3>this list, but I said, Jen and I do it,

0:33:55.920 --> 0:33:58.600
<v Speaker 3>so it's really cute. Buy a souvenir together that you

0:33:58.640 --> 0:34:01.760
<v Speaker 3>can look back on at your time spent. So like

0:34:01.880 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 3>we've bought like on one trip, we've got like a horseshoe.

0:34:05.440 --> 0:34:07.680
<v Speaker 3>On another trip, she's got like this butterfly. We've just

0:34:07.720 --> 0:34:09.880
<v Speaker 3>got that cute stuff that we put up around our

0:34:09.960 --> 0:34:12.319
<v Speaker 3>room that we can remember holidays by.

0:34:12.440 --> 0:34:12.640
<v Speaker 2>Look.

0:34:12.719 --> 0:34:14.720
<v Speaker 1>Me and Michael got an evil eye bracelet.

0:34:14.840 --> 0:34:18.560
<v Speaker 3>We've you know what I else we started to do

0:34:18.600 --> 0:34:20.279
<v Speaker 3>as well, which is a cute thing as well. We've

0:34:20.280 --> 0:34:23.759
<v Speaker 3>got a jar and if we pop like a champagne,

0:34:23.800 --> 0:34:26.759
<v Speaker 3>like a nice champagne, I keep the cork and I

0:34:26.800 --> 0:34:28.520
<v Speaker 3>write the date and what it was from and we

0:34:28.560 --> 0:34:29.359
<v Speaker 3>put it into the jar.

0:34:29.680 --> 0:34:29.839
<v Speaker 2>Man.

0:34:29.960 --> 0:34:30.960
<v Speaker 1>That's so cute.

0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:32.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like who thought of that?

0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:34.840
<v Speaker 3>I did when we went away for my birthday, Like

0:34:34.840 --> 0:34:36.399
<v Speaker 3>they popped champagne and the thing I was like, I'll

0:34:36.400 --> 0:34:38.200
<v Speaker 3>take that and I've written like the fourth of July

0:34:38.560 --> 0:34:39.920
<v Speaker 3>dinner for my birthday.

0:34:40.120 --> 0:34:41.480
<v Speaker 1>That's so c oh my god.

0:34:41.520 --> 0:34:44.280
<v Speaker 4>That reminds me I have not given you your birthday present. Fuck,

0:34:45.440 --> 0:34:47.960
<v Speaker 4>how long has it been? I need to keep the

0:34:48.000 --> 0:34:51.160
<v Speaker 4>podcast up today about when you actually get this birthday present.

0:34:51.440 --> 0:34:53.560
<v Speaker 4>I was literally meant to give it to you before

0:34:53.680 --> 0:34:54.240
<v Speaker 4>I left.

0:34:54.520 --> 0:34:55.840
<v Speaker 2>I've completely forgotten about that.

0:34:56.080 --> 0:34:58.120
<v Speaker 4>I'd completely forgotten about it until you just took out

0:34:58.160 --> 0:34:58.720
<v Speaker 4>your birthday.

0:34:58.760 --> 0:34:59.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry.

0:34:59.719 --> 0:35:01.800
<v Speaker 2>Well, I look forward to receiving that there.

0:35:02.000 --> 0:35:03.680
<v Speaker 4>Maybe I'll give it to you on the podcast so

0:35:03.719 --> 0:35:06.200
<v Speaker 4>you can open it here everyone listening.

0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:10.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, note to self the next one.

0:35:10.600 --> 0:35:14.120
<v Speaker 4>The next one is make sure you spend time apart

0:35:14.160 --> 0:35:17.160
<v Speaker 4>on your holiday, Like being with anyone twenty four to

0:35:17.160 --> 0:35:19.799
<v Speaker 4>seven is a big ask, even if you are the

0:35:19.840 --> 0:35:24.000
<v Speaker 4>most compatible people like I reckon, I couldn't find anyone

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:28.000
<v Speaker 4>who's more compatible to me than Michael is. And even

0:35:28.600 --> 0:35:31.760
<v Speaker 4>like when we had that fight, especially it really dawned

0:35:31.800 --> 0:35:34.840
<v Speaker 4>on me that I didn't have enough, like I hadn't

0:35:34.880 --> 0:35:37.960
<v Speaker 4>had any me time. Yeah, and even like we ended

0:35:38.080 --> 0:35:40.239
<v Speaker 4>up like taking some space from each other. We spent

0:35:40.320 --> 0:35:43.680
<v Speaker 4>an hour apart, like collected our thoughts and then came

0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:46.919
<v Speaker 4>back together, and even just having that hour apart where

0:35:46.920 --> 0:35:50.320
<v Speaker 4>I could like really process things myself and just even

0:35:50.440 --> 0:35:52.839
<v Speaker 4>just like I literally in that hour, like I spent

0:35:52.920 --> 0:35:54.400
<v Speaker 4>some time thinking, but then I just went on my

0:35:54.480 --> 0:35:57.000
<v Speaker 4>phone and just like chilled out and like did some

0:35:57.120 --> 0:35:59.839
<v Speaker 4>meat things, like it made such a difference years.

0:36:00.160 --> 0:36:04.720
<v Speaker 3>Here's a hypothetical thing for you. An our meantime would

0:36:04.719 --> 0:36:07.759
<v Speaker 3>be so much nicer if it's just you guys going

0:36:07.800 --> 0:36:09.399
<v Speaker 3>apart from each other, being like I just want an

0:36:09.400 --> 0:36:11.399
<v Speaker 3>hour away, like we can go, like go for a walk,

0:36:11.480 --> 0:36:13.319
<v Speaker 3>go for a run, train, do what you want to do,

0:36:13.560 --> 0:36:15.880
<v Speaker 3>would be so much nicer than if you've argued and

0:36:15.920 --> 0:36:16.640
<v Speaker 3>then taking.

0:36:16.480 --> 0:36:19.480
<v Speaker 2>That hour apart, because actually the hour apart.

0:36:19.160 --> 0:36:21.439
<v Speaker 3>Can feel so much more lonely and so much more

0:36:21.920 --> 0:36:25.279
<v Speaker 3>daunting and anxiety ridden if you've had an argument then

0:36:25.320 --> 0:36:28.240
<v Speaker 3>spending it. So be proactive and take that hour apart

0:36:28.320 --> 0:36:30.120
<v Speaker 3>before it turns forced.

0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:33.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like fun fact for everyone who's listening, because I

0:36:33.840 --> 0:36:36.400
<v Speaker 4>know this, but not everyone knows. When that has an

0:36:36.520 --> 0:36:40.240
<v Speaker 4>argument with someone, he literally cannot stand having time apart,

0:36:40.360 --> 0:36:40.960
<v Speaker 4>like he.

0:36:41.000 --> 0:36:42.440
<v Speaker 1>Needs to immediately fix it.

0:36:42.480 --> 0:36:45.799
<v Speaker 4>So I can just see it in your eyes, You're like.

0:36:45.880 --> 0:36:49.840
<v Speaker 3>No, No, that hour and hour apart would go for

0:36:50.040 --> 0:36:53.360
<v Speaker 3>literally like a fucking year. I did eything would be

0:36:53.400 --> 0:36:55.360
<v Speaker 3>running for my mind. I just can't do it. I

0:36:55.360 --> 0:36:57.040
<v Speaker 3>can't do it. I honestly can't. You know, when we

0:36:57.160 --> 0:36:58.520
<v Speaker 3>arguing that I just can't do it, I need to

0:36:58.560 --> 0:36:59.600
<v Speaker 3>fucking nut it out there.

0:36:59.640 --> 0:37:02.240
<v Speaker 4>And then yeah, I'm the same, like I do prefer

0:37:02.320 --> 0:37:04.120
<v Speaker 4>to but I think because it was a bigger argument,

0:37:04.200 --> 0:37:06.839
<v Speaker 4>I did actually appreciate the alone time and then I

0:37:06.880 --> 0:37:08.760
<v Speaker 4>was like, Okay, I'm ready for him to come back.

0:37:08.800 --> 0:37:11.759
<v Speaker 2>Where is it all right?

0:37:11.880 --> 0:37:14.360
<v Speaker 3>The next one is don't spend too much time on

0:37:14.440 --> 0:37:17.320
<v Speaker 3>your phone. Absolutely obviously you're there trying to get memories,

0:37:17.320 --> 0:37:19.839
<v Speaker 3>trying to get photos, but like it does, everyone says

0:37:19.840 --> 0:37:21.640
<v Speaker 3>that these days, live in the moment and live in

0:37:21.640 --> 0:37:24.360
<v Speaker 3>that moment with your partner. Yeah, that's where memories are created.

0:37:24.520 --> 0:37:24.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:37:24.880 --> 0:37:27.040
<v Speaker 4>I think for me and Michael, we kind of like

0:37:27.200 --> 0:37:28.960
<v Speaker 4>it wasn't really a rule, but it was just something

0:37:29.000 --> 0:37:31.239
<v Speaker 4>that we did when we were away, Like when we

0:37:31.280 --> 0:37:33.760
<v Speaker 4>would get to dinner for the first like ten minutes,

0:37:34.200 --> 0:37:36.200
<v Speaker 4>if there was like a sunset or whatever, we'd like

0:37:36.239 --> 0:37:38.359
<v Speaker 4>take photos and then we literally put our phones down

0:37:38.400 --> 0:37:39.759
<v Speaker 4>for the rest of the time, like.

0:37:40.040 --> 0:37:41.759
<v Speaker 3>It's a massive jen And I do that as well

0:37:41.760 --> 0:37:43.959
<v Speaker 3>when we go out for dinners, like obviously, like there's

0:37:43.960 --> 0:37:45.840
<v Speaker 3>the content I have to get because I'm obviously working

0:37:45.920 --> 0:37:47.440
<v Speaker 3>or what on and so forth, like I have to

0:37:47.440 --> 0:37:49.640
<v Speaker 3>get the photos in that. But then after that, like

0:37:49.760 --> 0:37:53.000
<v Speaker 3>no messages replied or just takes away from what you're doing.

0:37:53.080 --> 0:37:56.000
<v Speaker 4>You're constantly on silent mode. I'm like, nah, this isn't

0:37:56.000 --> 0:37:57.480
<v Speaker 4>a constant mode that you can be.

0:37:58.920 --> 0:38:02.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then you've figured out the way of notifying

0:38:02.440 --> 0:38:03.560
<v Speaker 3>me even though it's on dn D.

0:38:03.719 --> 0:38:08.120
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm like, notify anyway. I'm like, what the Fuck'm like,

0:38:08.200 --> 0:38:10.400
<v Speaker 4>this motherfucker is always on silent mode.

0:38:10.520 --> 0:38:11.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't always be that.

0:38:12.520 --> 0:38:19.360
<v Speaker 2>That is me caught out. Don't plan a holiday together

0:38:19.400 --> 0:38:20.239
<v Speaker 2>when you're on the rocks.

0:38:20.239 --> 0:38:22.440
<v Speaker 3>So don't do like a spontaneous holiday like oh, this

0:38:22.520 --> 0:38:23.960
<v Speaker 3>is going to get us back together, like we're going

0:38:24.000 --> 0:38:26.360
<v Speaker 3>to go on a nice holiday. You can't put a

0:38:26.400 --> 0:38:28.040
<v Speaker 3>band aid over it. Like, if you're on the rocks

0:38:28.040 --> 0:38:31.279
<v Speaker 3>and you're arguing here or away, you're still going to

0:38:31.320 --> 0:38:31.600
<v Speaker 3>be there.

0:38:31.719 --> 0:38:35.480
<v Speaker 4>Don't try and save the relationship. Don't just except where

0:38:35.520 --> 0:38:35.919
<v Speaker 4>you're at.

0:38:36.239 --> 0:38:41.200
<v Speaker 3>Don't buy a puffy don't. Don't like going on a

0:38:41.239 --> 0:38:42.799
<v Speaker 3>holiday together is sort of the same. You're just going

0:38:42.880 --> 0:38:45.760
<v Speaker 3>to argue in a different state or different different location.

0:38:46.280 --> 0:38:46.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:38:46.719 --> 0:38:50.839
<v Speaker 4>Another one, let's try to budget according to someone who

0:38:50.880 --> 0:38:53.600
<v Speaker 4>maybe isn't earning as much, because I think there's a

0:38:53.640 --> 0:38:55.680
<v Speaker 4>lot of pressure when you go on holiday to kind

0:38:55.719 --> 0:38:59.359
<v Speaker 4>of like meet the other person's expectations and like, yeah,

0:38:59.400 --> 0:39:02.160
<v Speaker 4>like it's great to do like you know, nice dinners

0:39:02.239 --> 0:39:04.560
<v Speaker 4>here and there, but like don't feel like you always

0:39:04.600 --> 0:39:06.680
<v Speaker 4>have to do that. Like two nights on our holiday,

0:39:06.760 --> 0:39:08.520
<v Speaker 4>me and Michael, we went out for a few drinks

0:39:09.480 --> 0:39:12.000
<v Speaker 4>and we just like bought a euros and like had

0:39:12.040 --> 0:39:14.280
<v Speaker 4>Euroses in bed and watched a movie like.

0:39:14.200 --> 0:39:14.839
<v Speaker 2>That's really good.

0:39:14.920 --> 0:39:18.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm the same with that, like Jen and I.

0:39:18.400 --> 0:39:21.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm lucky that she will actually use the same like

0:39:21.200 --> 0:39:22.480
<v Speaker 3>want to do that sort of stuff as well. It

0:39:22.520 --> 0:39:25.520
<v Speaker 3>doesn't all have to be like really expensive restaurants and that, yeah,

0:39:25.640 --> 0:39:28.960
<v Speaker 3>because I'm not a fine food eater. Really like to me,

0:39:29.200 --> 0:39:33.880
<v Speaker 3>it's like just feed me. It's a I enjoy like

0:39:33.920 --> 0:39:35.080
<v Speaker 3>a great feed, like love it.

0:39:35.120 --> 0:39:37.319
<v Speaker 2>But I'm real easy going, like I would just do

0:39:37.360 --> 0:39:37.919
<v Speaker 2>the same thing.

0:39:38.400 --> 0:39:40.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And like even like when we were in Santorini.

0:39:40.520 --> 0:39:42.920
<v Speaker 4>We like I think in Paris as well, Like we

0:39:42.960 --> 0:39:45.400
<v Speaker 4>went out to like the bottle sharp bought like a

0:39:45.400 --> 0:39:49.680
<v Speaker 4>four yeuro wine. It was beautiful and just like drank

0:39:49.719 --> 0:39:52.440
<v Speaker 4>by the pool with our own wine. Like you know,

0:39:52.520 --> 0:39:55.760
<v Speaker 4>like I think there's definitely ways that you can save money.

0:39:55.800 --> 0:39:58.120
<v Speaker 4>I don't think we need to be like you know

0:39:58.200 --> 0:40:00.560
<v Speaker 4>what I mean, for the money, flash it out and

0:40:01.280 --> 0:40:03.839
<v Speaker 4>like you know, if you come back a little with

0:40:03.880 --> 0:40:06.000
<v Speaker 4>a little bit more coin in your bank account, you're

0:40:06.000 --> 0:40:07.400
<v Speaker 4>both probably going to be a bit happier.

0:40:07.520 --> 0:40:09.880
<v Speaker 3>And yeah, and you've had a great time there as well.

0:40:09.920 --> 0:40:12.440
<v Speaker 3>Still you dot doesn't all need to be extravagant memories,

0:40:12.480 --> 0:40:16.680
<v Speaker 3>that's right. Be prepared for some small arguments and the

0:40:16.719 --> 0:40:18.480
<v Speaker 3>main thing is to be able to work through them

0:40:18.600 --> 0:40:20.799
<v Speaker 3>and get through it in a kind way. So like

0:40:21.440 --> 0:40:24.400
<v Speaker 3>it's no different if you're away or if you're here, Like,

0:40:24.960 --> 0:40:27.600
<v Speaker 3>just come to some sort of conclusion that's not going

0:40:27.640 --> 0:40:28.480
<v Speaker 3>to ruin your trip.

0:40:28.640 --> 0:40:29.799
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't agree more. Matt.

0:40:30.120 --> 0:40:33.240
<v Speaker 4>I saw that you actually went away on a little

0:40:33.280 --> 0:40:36.000
<v Speaker 4>mini vak when I was in Greece, So we're going

0:40:36.040 --> 0:40:41.319
<v Speaker 4>to talk about that next, okay, Matt.

0:40:41.400 --> 0:40:42.640
<v Speaker 1>So towards the end of my troop.

0:40:42.760 --> 0:40:44.880
<v Speaker 4>I saw that you went on a bit of a

0:40:45.000 --> 0:40:48.719
<v Speaker 4>romantic getaway with Jen and I think her sisters were

0:40:48.719 --> 0:40:49.439
<v Speaker 4>their Is that right?

0:40:49.680 --> 0:40:50.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:40:50.080 --> 0:40:53.160
<v Speaker 3>So we went to just Pass Lawn. It was just

0:40:53.280 --> 0:40:58.200
<v Speaker 3>like really nice Airbnb. So this had been planned before

0:40:58.280 --> 0:40:59.120
<v Speaker 3>my time.

0:40:58.960 --> 0:41:00.680
<v Speaker 1>So what do you mean before your time?

0:41:00.800 --> 0:41:02.120
<v Speaker 2>So before I started dating Jen.

0:41:02.360 --> 0:41:05.759
<v Speaker 3>So this was a wedding present from Jen and her

0:41:05.800 --> 0:41:09.360
<v Speaker 3>sister to their old their older sister Sam and Michael.

0:41:09.480 --> 0:41:11.080
<v Speaker 3>So they were all going to go on a trip.

0:41:11.280 --> 0:41:13.680
<v Speaker 1>So this is with Jen's X was supposed to go.

0:41:13.880 --> 0:41:15.439
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he was probably supposed to be honest, So I've

0:41:15.520 --> 0:41:19.880
<v Speaker 2>just I've just slid.

0:41:18.600 --> 0:41:21.239
<v Speaker 3>Like fuck, yeah, hey guys. So I'm just happy to

0:41:21.280 --> 0:41:21.680
<v Speaker 3>be there.

0:41:22.960 --> 0:41:23.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:41:23.160 --> 0:41:24.960
<v Speaker 3>It was a really nice It was really romantic. So,

0:41:25.040 --> 0:41:27.200
<v Speaker 3>like I said the video before, was like really romantic.

0:41:27.200 --> 0:41:28.879
<v Speaker 3>I had some us time while we're still there because

0:41:28.880 --> 0:41:31.200
<v Speaker 3>the property was huge and there's like fire pit up

0:41:31.200 --> 0:41:34.360
<v Speaker 3>in the corner, like different rooms everywhere, like in the pool.

0:41:34.680 --> 0:41:36.200
<v Speaker 3>So it was really nice to get away and spend

0:41:36.200 --> 0:41:37.640
<v Speaker 3>that time for a couple of nights away.

0:41:37.760 --> 0:41:40.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the pool looked beautiful. I was like wow to

0:41:40.719 --> 0:41:41.040
<v Speaker 1>go there.

0:41:41.239 --> 0:41:42.880
<v Speaker 2>There was no PJ pool, but I still got the

0:41:42.920 --> 0:41:43.520
<v Speaker 2>job done.

0:41:45.600 --> 0:41:50.400
<v Speaker 4>Jason Matt's dad's pool company for anyone who's not around that. Okay,

0:41:50.440 --> 0:41:53.520
<v Speaker 4>So I have a question. It was obviously super beautiful

0:41:53.719 --> 0:41:58.760
<v Speaker 4>you were there with her sisters and their partners. But yeah,

0:41:58.880 --> 0:42:01.920
<v Speaker 4>I want to know, do you guys have any arguments

0:42:02.040 --> 0:42:03.600
<v Speaker 4>on your little getaway?

0:42:04.480 --> 0:42:09.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so we had a an argument. Yeah, it was

0:42:09.600 --> 0:42:13.200
<v Speaker 3>more or less like I'll set the tone. Jen obviously

0:42:13.320 --> 0:42:15.720
<v Speaker 3>is really excited for this weekend. She's it's been canceled

0:42:15.760 --> 0:42:18.600
<v Speaker 3>over and over him for like two years. But my

0:42:18.760 --> 0:42:21.360
<v Speaker 3>mate just went through a breakup. So we were leaving

0:42:21.480 --> 0:42:24.759
<v Speaker 3>early the Sunday morning, and he wanted to meet up

0:42:24.760 --> 0:42:26.560
<v Speaker 3>with us all on the Saturday night and have drinks

0:42:26.600 --> 0:42:28.319
<v Speaker 3>and like you know, chat to him about the.

0:42:28.280 --> 0:42:30.759
<v Speaker 1>Breakup, drink his sorrows away.

0:42:31.000 --> 0:42:31.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:42:31.320 --> 0:42:33.640
<v Speaker 3>So to that, so I've gone out, met up with him.

0:42:33.719 --> 0:42:36.160
<v Speaker 3>We've had a pretty reality night. I ended up walking

0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:38.200
<v Speaker 3>in the door at four am. One thing she said

0:42:38.280 --> 0:42:42.879
<v Speaker 3>was don't be hungover for tomorrow. I was hungover. She

0:42:43.160 --> 0:42:45.200
<v Speaker 3>in all due respect to Jen, she was very good

0:42:45.239 --> 0:42:47.480
<v Speaker 3>about it, like woke up, giving me back tickles, had

0:42:47.480 --> 0:42:48.680
<v Speaker 3>Panada already for me.

0:42:49.040 --> 0:42:51.480
<v Speaker 1>Got me like the life of luxury.

0:42:51.600 --> 0:42:54.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So like she was really understanding about She knew

0:42:54.320 --> 0:42:55.800
<v Speaker 3>that I had to go out and see my best mate,

0:42:55.880 --> 0:42:58.719
<v Speaker 3>so she was like real like looking after me. And

0:42:58.760 --> 0:43:00.719
<v Speaker 3>then we got in the car. So and naturally she

0:43:00.920 --> 0:43:05.320
<v Speaker 3>is irritable. And when I'm hungover, I'm very vocal about

0:43:05.320 --> 0:43:07.600
<v Speaker 3>being hungover. So it's a two and a half hour drive.

0:43:07.719 --> 0:43:09.960
<v Speaker 3>I normally drive. I know she doesn't like driving the

0:43:10.000 --> 0:43:10.399
<v Speaker 3>whole way.

0:43:10.440 --> 0:43:15.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, ah, I didn't complain sleeping on and off,

0:43:15.600 --> 0:43:18.080
<v Speaker 2>and she's just like annoyed because the one thing she

0:43:18.120 --> 0:43:20.400
<v Speaker 2>asked for me was don't be hungover, So she was

0:43:20.440 --> 0:43:21.239
<v Speaker 2>annoyed about that.

0:43:21.960 --> 0:43:23.720
<v Speaker 3>That set the tone for the rest of the trip,

0:43:23.760 --> 0:43:25.680
<v Speaker 3>and she should be annoyed. I give her like I

0:43:25.719 --> 0:43:28.880
<v Speaker 3>said that, like, she should be annoyed. Then the rest

0:43:28.920 --> 0:43:32.680
<v Speaker 3>of the trip, we're going good. Until everyone's been drinking

0:43:32.680 --> 0:43:34.920
<v Speaker 3>a little bit. We're having a bit. Drinks were flowing,

0:43:34.960 --> 0:43:37.319
<v Speaker 3>and we had Mexican and if everyone's up to date

0:43:37.320 --> 0:43:40.080
<v Speaker 3>with TikTok, we did the tortilla challenge.

0:43:40.280 --> 0:43:42.120
<v Speaker 2>Oh god, yeah, so you.

0:43:42.040 --> 0:43:44.040
<v Speaker 1>Can just see where this is going already.

0:43:44.239 --> 0:43:47.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So Nicki and Murph went first. It was all right,

0:43:47.360 --> 0:43:49.120
<v Speaker 3>I can't remember who spat their water out. One of

0:43:49.160 --> 0:43:50.960
<v Speaker 3>them did, and then I was like, all right, I'll

0:43:50.960 --> 0:43:52.120
<v Speaker 3>go with gen So.

0:43:53.600 --> 0:43:53.680
<v Speaker 4>Me.

0:43:53.800 --> 0:43:58.080
<v Speaker 3>At the best of times, I'm pretty rough with my

0:43:58.600 --> 0:43:59.239
<v Speaker 3>partner Jen.

0:43:59.360 --> 0:44:01.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty rough, like she'll say to me.

0:44:01.880 --> 0:44:03.799
<v Speaker 3>She'll be like, you got to remember, I'm just like

0:44:03.840 --> 0:44:05.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm a dainty girl, like I'm pretty like when I

0:44:06.000 --> 0:44:09.799
<v Speaker 3>hug like, I'm pretty like I'm a big sixty.

0:44:09.480 --> 0:44:16.760
<v Speaker 4>Five five Sorry, yeah, I'm six five and three quarters.

0:44:16.920 --> 0:44:20.120
<v Speaker 4>He's six six. He doesn't know his strength, yea, what

0:44:20.160 --> 0:44:21.799
<v Speaker 4>you're kind of getting. So I'm getting at so like

0:44:21.840 --> 0:44:23.080
<v Speaker 4>all the time she said to me, you're too rough

0:44:23.120 --> 0:44:24.640
<v Speaker 4>for me. You're too rough for me. Like I'll lift

0:44:24.640 --> 0:44:28.239
<v Speaker 4>her up, put her in like wrestling holes and all

0:44:28.280 --> 0:44:28.920
<v Speaker 4>this sort of stuff.

0:44:28.920 --> 0:44:31.040
<v Speaker 3>I'll pretend to wrestling puncher, you know what I'm like.

0:44:31.200 --> 0:44:35.160
<v Speaker 3>And then he's nuts. Yeah, So we get the water

0:44:35.200 --> 0:44:37.560
<v Speaker 3>in our mouth and do the papers rock. I get

0:44:37.560 --> 0:44:39.880
<v Speaker 3>the first slap. It's not anything thing. I hit her

0:44:39.880 --> 0:44:42.279
<v Speaker 3>with a tortilla, so good, she gets the next one.

0:44:42.360 --> 0:44:44.719
<v Speaker 3>I like put my head for like willingly like to

0:44:44.800 --> 0:44:45.640
<v Speaker 3>take the tortilla.

0:44:45.960 --> 0:44:46.360
<v Speaker 2>I get it.

0:44:46.400 --> 0:44:48.440
<v Speaker 3>Mind you, these totillas had already been in the oven,

0:44:48.520 --> 0:44:51.640
<v Speaker 3>so they weren't just like soft tortillas. They had a

0:44:51.680 --> 0:44:53.480
<v Speaker 3>bit of behind it.

0:44:53.680 --> 0:44:56.200
<v Speaker 1>So she slapped you in the face with the tortilla.

0:44:56.320 --> 0:44:58.640
<v Speaker 1>Your tilla tilla. Yeah, how did he say it?

0:44:58.680 --> 0:45:04.800
<v Speaker 4>Tortilla, tortilla, tomato tomatoes, I guess, continue with tatilla.

0:45:04.840 --> 0:45:08.520
<v Speaker 2>And then the next one, I got to hit her

0:45:08.560 --> 0:45:09.360
<v Speaker 2>with a totilla.

0:45:09.440 --> 0:45:12.560
<v Speaker 3>So she has the mouthful of water and I don't know,

0:45:12.640 --> 0:45:16.600
<v Speaker 3>I got a little bit carried away and I swung

0:45:17.160 --> 0:45:19.480
<v Speaker 3>and it was a combination of the totilla being hard,

0:45:20.080 --> 0:45:23.360
<v Speaker 3>me hitting too hard, and just the most perfect connection

0:45:23.480 --> 0:45:27.800
<v Speaker 3>on her cheek that it's gone. Just then I've laughed

0:45:27.840 --> 0:45:30.880
<v Speaker 3>because it's actually like connected her and I've gone spat

0:45:30.960 --> 0:45:32.960
<v Speaker 3>my water everywhere like all over her.

0:45:33.320 --> 0:45:34.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

0:45:34.360 --> 0:45:36.600
<v Speaker 3>It was safe to say that she wasn't She wasn't

0:45:36.640 --> 0:45:40.400
<v Speaker 3>too impressed by that, so fair enough. So she obviously

0:45:40.520 --> 0:45:42.960
<v Speaker 3>was a bit annoyed with me. She was like, in

0:45:43.000 --> 0:45:45.720
<v Speaker 3>a the thing that I hate most and you mentioned before,

0:45:45.840 --> 0:45:47.759
<v Speaker 3>is like where it's not resolved straight away. So she

0:45:47.880 --> 0:45:49.960
<v Speaker 3>was just like, give me space, and I like, I

0:45:50.000 --> 0:45:53.160
<v Speaker 3>get really like anxious, yeah, real like, well, let's just

0:45:53.160 --> 0:45:54.680
<v Speaker 3>sort of see out now, let's sort thisee out now.

0:45:55.200 --> 0:45:55.760
<v Speaker 2>And then.

0:45:57.200 --> 0:45:59.120
<v Speaker 3>I like we ended up speaking about it, and I said,

0:45:59.120 --> 0:46:01.120
<v Speaker 3>look like, if I was with my sisters, like you've

0:46:01.120 --> 0:46:02.719
<v Speaker 3>seen me, like, I'll walk up and like slap with

0:46:02.719 --> 0:46:04.680
<v Speaker 3>Emma on the face, and she'll slap me back harder,

0:46:04.760 --> 0:46:05.960
<v Speaker 3>like we don't.

0:46:05.760 --> 0:46:07.800
<v Speaker 1>Like, it's not your sister.

0:46:08.360 --> 0:46:10.120
<v Speaker 3>She didn't grow up with a brother either, so she

0:46:10.120 --> 0:46:12.080
<v Speaker 3>hasn't grown up with that sort of like stuff. Like

0:46:12.120 --> 0:46:13.840
<v Speaker 3>if I said, if I was first seing my sisters,

0:46:14.120 --> 0:46:16.080
<v Speaker 3>they would have just given it back to me harder, like,

0:46:16.320 --> 0:46:17.440
<v Speaker 3>and I forget that.

0:46:17.440 --> 0:46:18.680
<v Speaker 2>That is ira if I was.

0:46:18.680 --> 0:46:21.840
<v Speaker 1>Doing it with my brother, I would have absolutely wallet.

0:46:21.600 --> 0:46:23.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, exactly, yeah, And she hasn't grown up with

0:46:23.920 --> 0:46:25.640
<v Speaker 3>a brother and that sort of stuff, And I forget

0:46:25.680 --> 0:46:27.960
<v Speaker 3>that because I love her so much like I love

0:46:28.000 --> 0:46:30.359
<v Speaker 3>my sisters, I think I can treat her the same way,

0:46:30.480 --> 0:46:33.760
<v Speaker 3>and I haven't. Really in my mind, I can't compartmentalize

0:46:33.760 --> 0:46:36.200
<v Speaker 3>the difference between that I think this is like what

0:46:36.280 --> 0:46:37.359
<v Speaker 3>I think, So this.

0:46:37.280 --> 0:46:39.880
<v Speaker 4>Is what you think happened, but now you're going to

0:46:39.960 --> 0:46:41.360
<v Speaker 4>work on yeah.

0:46:41.280 --> 0:46:43.000
<v Speaker 2>Not being Yeah.

0:46:43.120 --> 0:46:45.040
<v Speaker 3>So we ended up like yeah, we ended up talking

0:46:45.040 --> 0:46:46.640
<v Speaker 3>about it, and then I was sort of like, well,

0:46:46.640 --> 0:46:48.080
<v Speaker 3>if we don't sort this out, like I don't want

0:46:48.080 --> 0:46:49.799
<v Speaker 3>to be here, like your family and this awkward thing.

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:52.120
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'll I'll leave, and she's like, and

0:46:52.120 --> 0:46:53.040
<v Speaker 2>it just made things worse.

0:46:53.120 --> 0:46:56.160
<v Speaker 3>We just spiraled and then eventually we discussed it like

0:46:56.280 --> 0:46:58.279
<v Speaker 3>tears were hot, and then we've just made up and

0:46:58.320 --> 0:46:59.760
<v Speaker 3>had the best time for the rest of the trip.

0:47:00.080 --> 0:47:02.640
<v Speaker 4>Your did her family know that you guys were arguing,

0:47:02.800 --> 0:47:04.040
<v Speaker 4>like was it vocal enough?

0:47:04.280 --> 0:47:07.400
<v Speaker 2>They not vocal enough? But the energy and like.

0:47:07.480 --> 0:47:08.840
<v Speaker 1>There was there was a big energy.

0:47:08.880 --> 0:47:10.719
<v Speaker 2>She has a big energy shift. Yeah, you could tell

0:47:10.760 --> 0:47:12.759
<v Speaker 2>she was upset, and I felt terrible that the last

0:47:12.800 --> 0:47:13.839
<v Speaker 2>thing I wanted to do was hurt her.

0:47:14.000 --> 0:47:15.919
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I'm just coming fun and got carried away

0:47:15.920 --> 0:47:16.880
<v Speaker 3>with my big biceps.

0:47:17.480 --> 0:47:21.759
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I knew you to say something wild like that.

0:47:21.840 --> 0:47:23.080
<v Speaker 1>I was just waiting for it.

0:47:23.400 --> 0:47:27.400
<v Speaker 4>Look, she jenny'sn't your sister, she's your girlfriend, and like

0:47:27.760 --> 0:47:28.560
<v Speaker 4>I'm with her on this.

0:47:28.680 --> 0:47:29.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Matt.

0:47:30.000 --> 0:47:30.160
<v Speaker 4>No.

0:47:30.160 --> 0:47:30.960
<v Speaker 2>No.

0:47:30.520 --> 0:47:34.080
<v Speaker 3>Now that I'm calmed down and i'm rational thinking I'm

0:47:34.120 --> 0:47:38.000
<v Speaker 3>not pumped full of ten beers and like six cocktails,

0:47:38.000 --> 0:47:41.560
<v Speaker 3>I understand that I shouldn't be swinging too hard.

0:47:42.080 --> 0:47:46.400
<v Speaker 4>Plus you're already you're already on probation after your little drinking.

0:47:46.920 --> 0:47:48.680
<v Speaker 2>From the night before so it was just fuel to

0:47:48.719 --> 0:47:50.640
<v Speaker 2>a fire. Yeah.

0:47:50.680 --> 0:47:51.920
<v Speaker 1>Well, other than that, you had a.

0:47:51.840 --> 0:47:54.640
<v Speaker 3>Great trip though, it was it was amazing. Then we

0:47:54.719 --> 0:47:56.920
<v Speaker 3>had the next night's steak night. It was unreal. She

0:47:56.960 --> 0:47:59.839
<v Speaker 3>obviously has steaks, she's vegetable, the rest of us did,

0:47:59.840 --> 0:48:02.000
<v Speaker 3>and had a massive phone. It was really it was

0:48:02.040 --> 0:48:04.200
<v Speaker 3>really nice to get away and I'm really grateful that

0:48:04.239 --> 0:48:06.040
<v Speaker 3>I got to experience that with her family.

0:48:07.040 --> 0:48:08.920
<v Speaker 4>Well, look, it's that time of the show that you

0:48:08.960 --> 0:48:11.920
<v Speaker 4>guys have all been waiting for. It's time to find

0:48:11.920 --> 0:48:18.239
<v Speaker 4>out where our heads are at. Let's do it, Okay, Matt.

0:48:18.280 --> 0:48:21.760
<v Speaker 4>The first question is from a listener and they say,

0:48:22.560 --> 0:48:26.239
<v Speaker 4>I'm wondering how soon is too soon? My boyfriend wants

0:48:26.280 --> 0:48:28.839
<v Speaker 4>to organize a trip. But we've only been dating for

0:48:28.880 --> 0:48:31.960
<v Speaker 4>two months and I've only ever slept over a couple

0:48:32.040 --> 0:48:36.080
<v Speaker 4>of times. Nothing longer will we last the distance?

0:48:37.360 --> 0:48:40.080
<v Speaker 3>I mean, like I said before, Jed and I booked

0:48:40.080 --> 0:48:42.799
<v Speaker 3>a trip before we'd even started dating, so we were

0:48:42.880 --> 0:48:45.319
<v Speaker 3>dating for like four weeks. So I don't think there's

0:48:45.320 --> 0:48:48.319
<v Speaker 3>never too soon. But if you only slept over a

0:48:48.320 --> 0:48:51.920
<v Speaker 3>couple of times, I suggest maybe sleeping over a little

0:48:51.920 --> 0:48:54.360
<v Speaker 3>bit more and sussing it out before you jump into

0:48:54.400 --> 0:48:55.400
<v Speaker 3>a holiday.

0:48:55.800 --> 0:48:56.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:48:56.120 --> 0:48:59.319
<v Speaker 4>I mean maybe if she's asking this question, maybe intuitively

0:48:59.360 --> 0:49:02.200
<v Speaker 4>something doesn't feel quite right and she's like a bit

0:49:02.239 --> 0:49:03.200
<v Speaker 4>apprehensive about it.

0:49:03.239 --> 0:49:06.200
<v Speaker 2>But like maybe when she slept iver snored the whole night,

0:49:07.040 --> 0:49:07.640
<v Speaker 2>she doesn't want.

0:49:07.520 --> 0:49:11.640
<v Speaker 4>To in my opinion, like fuck it, Like you only

0:49:11.680 --> 0:49:14.000
<v Speaker 4>live once. Why not go on a holiday and you

0:49:14.000 --> 0:49:15.560
<v Speaker 4>can see if it's going to work or not. Like

0:49:15.760 --> 0:49:17.800
<v Speaker 4>make it a little week and get away and actually

0:49:17.920 --> 0:49:18.640
<v Speaker 4>love see how you go.

0:49:18.800 --> 0:49:21.520
<v Speaker 3>I actually love that thought of like thought pattern as well,

0:49:21.600 --> 0:49:23.640
<v Speaker 3>like fuck it in like six three years from there,

0:49:23.680 --> 0:49:24.960
<v Speaker 3>you could be laughing. I remember when I went on

0:49:24.960 --> 0:49:30.200
<v Speaker 3>that holiday with that guy like that random for two months, Like, yeah,

0:49:30.280 --> 0:49:33.000
<v Speaker 3>I reckon, you know what, go on that holiday.

0:49:32.800 --> 0:49:34.400
<v Speaker 2>On the holiday, Yeah, see what happens.

0:49:34.440 --> 0:49:36.440
<v Speaker 3>Even if it's a staycation for a couple of nights,

0:49:36.520 --> 0:49:38.520
<v Speaker 3>Just go and see how it is. Bring a tit

0:49:38.520 --> 0:49:41.840
<v Speaker 3>little number packaging in and just have a sex field

0:49:41.920 --> 0:49:42.640
<v Speaker 3>night somewhere.

0:49:44.520 --> 0:49:48.000
<v Speaker 4>Okay, the next listener has said, I really want to

0:49:48.040 --> 0:49:51.520
<v Speaker 4>go on holiday with my partner, but I seriously cannot

0:49:51.880 --> 0:49:53.440
<v Speaker 4>shit in their vicinity.

0:49:54.760 --> 0:50:00.400
<v Speaker 1>I have proof anxiety. I shit you not really?

0:50:00.880 --> 0:50:03.840
<v Speaker 2>Hell, oh my god. I should probably read these before

0:50:03.920 --> 0:50:04.799
<v Speaker 2>this is hilarious.

0:50:05.360 --> 0:50:09.600
<v Speaker 3>I haven't even thought of this actually, Oh what it's

0:50:09.600 --> 0:50:11.400
<v Speaker 3>obviously coming from a girl, i'd assume.

0:50:11.680 --> 0:50:16.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean here, like I'm not gonna like do

0:50:16.600 --> 0:50:19.080
<v Speaker 4>a number two in front of my partner either, But

0:50:19.080 --> 0:50:20.360
<v Speaker 4>there's a door you can close.

0:50:20.680 --> 0:50:22.840
<v Speaker 1>Literally, Like as soon as I get into the toilet,

0:50:22.880 --> 0:50:23.880
<v Speaker 1>I like put on music.

0:50:24.520 --> 0:50:27.600
<v Speaker 4>Nothing is heard, nothing is seen, We've pretended to happen.

0:50:27.920 --> 0:50:30.040
<v Speaker 1>There's air fresher. No, we move on with life.

0:50:30.400 --> 0:50:37.160
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, okay, Well from my experience personally, I will

0:50:37.160 --> 0:50:38.279
<v Speaker 3>make sure there's a TV on.

0:50:38.440 --> 0:50:41.600
<v Speaker 2>I'll turn it up. I make it clear what I'm about.

0:50:41.320 --> 0:50:44.960
<v Speaker 3>To go do I say, I say, you do not

0:50:45.000 --> 0:50:46.879
<v Speaker 3>want it, like, you do not want to come in here.

0:50:46.880 --> 0:50:50.239
<v Speaker 2>This is between me and the toilet and God that.

0:50:50.280 --> 0:50:52.719
<v Speaker 1>Announces it to the room even with me. He's like,

0:50:53.200 --> 0:50:55.440
<v Speaker 1>I will be going to the toilet.

0:50:55.640 --> 0:50:58.480
<v Speaker 2>To do a poo, Yeah, just so everyone knows.

0:50:58.520 --> 0:51:00.560
<v Speaker 3>So I've got my privacy in there, and then I've

0:51:00.560 --> 0:51:02.200
<v Speaker 3>sit in a TikTok hole to cover up the noises

0:51:02.200 --> 0:51:05.799
<v Speaker 3>in there. But this is going this Ready for this,

0:51:05.880 --> 0:51:08.160
<v Speaker 3>buckle up. My ship doesn't.

0:51:07.920 --> 0:51:12.279
<v Speaker 2>Stink literally literally, I can get gen to prove it.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are we talking about this. You're so strange.

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<v Speaker 3>Literally, I can confirm. I can confirm, so.

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<v Speaker 1>What you've never farted and it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Smelled occasionally depending if I.

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<v Speaker 1>Then your ship occasionally smells.

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<v Speaker 2>Once a month. Ah, I generally confirm G is coming.

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<v Speaker 4>From a guy with an enormous ego who literally thinks.

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<v Speaker 2>His ship don't see.

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<v Speaker 3>I know that's the whole. That's irony of it. That's

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<v Speaker 3>the irony of it, that my ship does not stink.

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<v Speaker 3>I will, I will prove this with gen something.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't need you to prove it, no one, because

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<v Speaker 1>a flying fuck.

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<v Speaker 2>What I'm trying to say is I can't relate to this.

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<v Speaker 1>What that's to say is he's perfect.

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<v Speaker 3>My suggestion here is you don't have to shit right

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<v Speaker 3>in front of them, and maybe don't book a room

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<v Speaker 3>that has the toilet open scheme or something like look

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<v Speaker 3>into it and make sure that there's a bathroom of

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<v Speaker 3>the closed door, or go to maybe one house in

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<v Speaker 3>the lobby. You know that I would have shot in

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<v Speaker 3>front of gym like the first like two to three months.

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<v Speaker 3>My housemate would laugh because I would come bouncing in

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<v Speaker 3>the house, just sprinting straight.

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<v Speaker 2>V lighting for the toilet. So I didn't have to

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<v Speaker 2>do it at Hirst.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe good shit doesn't stick.

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<v Speaker 2>Why I just still felt uncomfortable.

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