Speaker 1: Hey guys, Matt here. As you know, on the weekend
Speaker 1: I married my beautiful wife Tammy. It was a weekend
Speaker 1: full of celebrations enjoy. But before we talk about the wedding,
Speaker 1: let's revisit Tammy's first appearance and Where's Your Head At?
Speaker 1: Enjoy shall say, how are we? Hell?
Speaker 2: Where's Your Head At? Is a podcast that talks all
Speaker 2: things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between.
Speaker 1: This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip,
Speaker 1: intimate details, advice and much more.
Speaker 2: Okay, hello everyone, we have a very social guest in
Speaker 2: the studio today. We have Matt's beautiful fiance Tammy.
Speaker 3: Hello, hi everyone.
Speaker 1: I am welcome beautiful Tommy.
Speaker 2: Happy to be here here, so nice for you to
Speaker 2: be in Melbourne. And it's actually the weather has turned
Speaker 2: up today. It's boiling for once.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's sunny today. The weather he is so up
Speaker 4: and down. I never really used to come to Melbourne
Speaker 4: because the weather's just a bit crazy for me.
Speaker 1: But having times you've been to Melbourne before you started.
Speaker 3: Dating, before I started dating you, I think I came
Speaker 3: once or.
Speaker 1: Twice whatever, and have you been a couple of times?
Speaker 1: So we just came back from the local pub. We
Speaker 1: walked down and went and had a what would you
Speaker 1: call it a loosing the whistle shot of the killer.
Speaker 3: Don't out us if we're going to do it.
Speaker 2: It tends to be a secret.
Speaker 1: Oh no, everyone knows. Yeah, So we're feeling a little
Speaker 1: bit good here at the moment.
Speaker 2: Feeling good. We're also going to the Australian Open tonight's
Speaker 2: with Michael. Yes, Little double Day. It's gonna be nice.
Speaker 1: Timmy's ever been to the tennis obviously.
Speaker 2: Really, you're in for a treat. It's going to be
Speaker 2: so fun.
Speaker 1: Do you know anything about tennis?
Speaker 3: No? Not really. I know that like love means zero, love.
Speaker 1: Is what we have. Baby does not mean zero here. No,
Speaker 1: I don't know the rules unless I'm actually sitting there
Speaker 1: watching it. Then I like, remember the rules. It's not
Speaker 1: something that I just think about every day today today,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Well, look, you guys are recently engaged. How is the
Speaker 2: love bubble going? Because you guys are so in love.
Speaker 2: It's honestly so beautiful to see.
Speaker 3: It's really good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're very much in love. The love bubble hasn't
Speaker 1: worn off. I don't think it ever, will you know,
Speaker 1: they say the honeymoon stage. I just don't want the
Speaker 1: honeymoon stage to end, and I don't think it will.
Speaker 2: I don't think it will either. I don't believe the
Speaker 2: honeymoon stage should end. I think if you keep like
Speaker 2: working at things like you should be able to like
Speaker 2: maintain it.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean it's just about communication, isn't it. And
Speaker 1: I think that we're really good at that. We've recently
Speaker 1: discovered our what's the word forum figured out that Tammy's
Speaker 1: avoidant and.
Speaker 3: I'm that's my attachment stole.
Speaker 1: And yeah, and I'm anxious, so like when there's something.
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to avoid and it's just.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, we found like a happy medium.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we figured that out.
Speaker 1: We figure that out.
Speaker 3: Very much in love and super happy.
Speaker 1: Yes, very happy. I met my match soulmates. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: tell each other all the time, my soulmates.
Speaker 4: You guys, I actually like to never thought soulmates was
Speaker 4: a thing, but I actually do now.
Speaker 2: Really So until you met Matt, you just.
Speaker 4: Literally like I was like, oh, like soulmates. Nah, but
Speaker 4: I think we're like supposed to be together.
Speaker 1: I agree. I said that. I think that like we're
Speaker 1: always going to meet at some point, and this is
Speaker 1: going to happen inevitably.
Speaker 2: Guys, Like, literally, both of you, you're melting my heart.
Speaker 2: I'm so obsessed. Let's take it back, shall we, to
Speaker 2: the beginning, to the beginning, because right now you're so
Speaker 2: happily in love and in the love bubble. But let's
Speaker 2: take it back to that very first DM that Tammy
Speaker 2: received from Nat. Take me through like your thought process
Speaker 2: when that came through, because obviously I'm sure you get heaps.
Speaker 3: Of d ms.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I usually like I won't open d ms,
Speaker 4: I won't really look at them. But he had been
Speaker 4: coming up, you guys have been coming up in my
Speaker 4: for you on TikTok like heaps, and I always just
Speaker 4: like swipe past and didn't really like looked much into it.
Speaker 4: But I just I just always thought he was really,
Speaker 4: really handsome and I saw I like I knew about
Speaker 4: your Guys podcast, and I just always thought he was
Speaker 4: really cute. And I was like, and when I saw
Speaker 4: his message, it sort of stuck out to me and
Speaker 4: I was like, you know what I'm gonna I'm going
Speaker 4: to open it and then I just gave.
Speaker 1: It a little love her, like yeah, and.
Speaker 4: Then I was like, oh, he'll message me now, because
Speaker 4: like that was sort of me opening the door.
Speaker 1: And then I did it. Nothing, he did it. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was just like, Okay, she liked it.
Speaker 2: Then what happened?
Speaker 1: Okay, I guess i'll see because I invited you to
Speaker 1: the live show and I was like, well, I guess
Speaker 1: i'll see you there.
Speaker 3: I wasn't actually like planning on coming. I think she
Speaker 3: was planning. I was. I was just opening the door
Speaker 3: for you to like make a move, make a move.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I didn't obviously like I didn't, and then yeah.
Speaker 3: A bit slow and then you had to yeah.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 4: I was in Sydney with my little sister Ava, and
Speaker 4: I was going to dinner with a bunch of friends
Speaker 4: and I was like, I'm gonna because I thought you
Speaker 4: lived in Sydney.
Speaker 3: I didn't know you were in Melbourne. So I was like,
Speaker 3: I'm going to see what he's up to.
Speaker 4: And I was like, you in Sydney, and my sister
Speaker 4: was like, I was like, like, these guys really cute.
Speaker 3: So I messaged him and she was like no.
Speaker 4: Why She was like, you know, yeah, I like best friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah I give a about that.
Speaker 4: But so I just pretended that I didn't message you,
Speaker 4: but I like, secretly, while you were extra on the
Speaker 4: podcast I was with her.
Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, I'm just not going
Speaker 3: to tell her.
Speaker 2: Do you think the fact that Matt had sent your
Speaker 2: message and then you liked it and then he didn't
Speaker 2: message that made you think about him?
Speaker 5: All?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: No, I feel like that definitely made me like what
Speaker 4: the hell because I'm not really that So I was like, excuse.
Speaker 2: Me, I love it.
Speaker 1: Well, No, I just like I said to you, I
Speaker 1: was not really dating at the time or anything like that.
Speaker 1: I was just like, you know, I've invited you nicely.
Speaker 1: I just didn't think of it.
Speaker 4: I mean, neither was I. I had sort of like
Speaker 4: sworn off dating. I'd been on some like not great dates,
Speaker 4: so I was like, I'm not dating. And then I
Speaker 4: don't know if something was just like pulling me to you.
Speaker 1: It's the chiktok algorithm.
Speaker 2: It where's your head and speed and the rest is history.
Speaker 2: So let's talk about the first date because obviously you
Speaker 2: weren't in Sydney.
Speaker 1: And then so we started texting each other for a
Speaker 1: week and then I was just like I'm saying to you,
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know if she gets like
Speaker 1: my sense of humor, like I know, how like crude
Speaker 1: or how like you know, how far I can go.
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, it's early days. So then
Speaker 1: I messaged her. Remember I left the studio and I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm just going to message you and say, hey,
Speaker 1: here's my number. I give me a buzz when you're
Speaker 1: not busy. And then what did you think?
Speaker 2: When I said, yeah, what did you think of?
Speaker 4: Like, I went into the office and I was talking
Speaker 4: to all the girls, and I was like, why does
Speaker 4: this guy want to call me? Like I don't like.
Speaker 4: I just thought it was a bit strange that he
Speaker 4: wanted to call me. And then I was like, oh,
Speaker 4: maybe he's going to ask me to go on his podcast.
Speaker 4: So I was like, I was like I thought maybe
Speaker 4: he didn't get that I was trying to flirt with him,
Speaker 4: and then he was just going to like turn it
Speaker 4: into like not not that. Yeah, So I was like,
Speaker 4: hopefully he realizes I'm like hitting on him and he's
Speaker 4: not about to he's going to ask me on a
Speaker 4: date not to go on in his podcast.
Speaker 3: And then yeah you did.
Speaker 1: Yeah you called me, And then I missed your first call.
Speaker 1: Actually I was washing my car and then I called
Speaker 1: you back and then we spoke for like over an
Speaker 1: hour and then yeah, the rest were I asked her.
Speaker 3: And then he just randomly booked flight.
Speaker 4: Was that the first day where he just sent me
Speaker 4: like his flight confirmation to come to the Gold Coast?
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, a bit presumptuous, but that's a
Speaker 4: bit much. I mean I thought it was like a
Speaker 4: bit persumptuous. I was like, what if I.
Speaker 1: Was busy, but well, you were busy with me? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought it was I thought.
Speaker 5: It was really where she had another day day?
Speaker 1: Did I say something like that? Because I remember I
Speaker 1: sent you the flight itinery and then you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're actually coming or something? After mind you like telling
Speaker 1: me to come, and then you're like are you actually coming? Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then you're I was like, fuck, do you reckon?
Speaker 1: She's got another day on and I just like crash
Speaker 1: crashed the day and then yeah, so I flew up
Speaker 1: that where you can't.
Speaker 4: I thought it was cute. I liked the decisiveness.
Speaker 2: And then for the first day tell me everything. I
Speaker 2: want to know everything.
Speaker 1: I did say, like you said you wanted to go
Speaker 1: somewhere for dinner, didn't you? So I let you book
Speaker 1: That was because I wasn't familiar with the Gold Coast. Obviously,
Speaker 1: if it was Melbourne, I would have organized that, but
Speaker 1: you said you wanted to try somewhere or something, so
Speaker 1: we went there. Well, I booked bowling because I felt
Speaker 1: like bowling was a bit better than going to the movies,
Speaker 1: and then we ended up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we didn't want to sit in a movie and
Speaker 4: not be able to talk and get to know each other.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then we're at dinner and talking and like
Speaker 1: your conversation was so good and that we ended up
Speaker 1: we're not going like talking through.
Speaker 3: Yeah, dinner was really good.
Speaker 4: Like you, I'm really shy and nervous when I first
Speaker 4: meet someone. It made me feel really comfortable and like
Speaker 4: you know when you sort of just don't want the
Speaker 4: night to.
Speaker 3: End, Like I've been on dates where I've been like
Speaker 3: can this be over? Like I just want to go home?
Speaker 3: But it was like the opposite of that.
Speaker 1: Yes, so we so right through. That's really nice. I
Speaker 1: was felt the same way.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we had our first kiss. About that, tell us
Speaker 3: about the first.
Speaker 4: It honestly was like probably like my dream first kiss.
Speaker 4: Like it was really it was really cute, it was hot.
Speaker 4: It was hot, like we had just been obviously getting
Speaker 4: along really well, and like, I.
Speaker 3: Don't know, I just was super super attracted to him.
Speaker 4: And then I just remember I went to the bathroom
Speaker 4: and I was like texting all my girlfriends and I
Speaker 4: was like, I.
Speaker 3: Literally just want to make out with this guy.
Speaker 4: I was like, he's so hot, he's so funny, like
Speaker 4: we're getting along so well, and I was like telling
Speaker 4: them how much I just wanted to kiss him. And
Speaker 4: then I came out of the bathroom and he was
Speaker 4: walking down like towards where the bathrooms.
Speaker 3: Are, and he literally just like grabbed me and kissed me.
Speaker 3: And I was like he just like read my mind.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, it's very hot.
Speaker 2: That is like a movie moment.
Speaker 3: It honestly felt like I was.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because he stopped and the like I sort of yeah,
Speaker 1: it was amazing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it was sparks flying definitely, the world stopped
Speaker 2: around you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it definitely felt the sparks.
Speaker 3: Yeah, guy, And then we.
Speaker 1: Just kept chatting. We got another drink and kept chatting.
Speaker 2: Then the night kind of wrapped up.
Speaker 1: And then yeah, we went back to the hotel, had
Speaker 1: a couple of drinks there, and then we the next day, actually.
Speaker 3: I came and got a coffee.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I messaged you and I was like, hey, I've
Speaker 1: got some time to kill you want to come get
Speaker 1: a coffee?
Speaker 2: And this is before your flight back to the only.
Speaker 1: Flew in for the night.
Speaker 2: So then I was like a big gesture.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wasn't dating at time, and I was like,
Speaker 1: you know, what do I have to lose, Like, I'm
Speaker 1: going to go meet this really hot girl, which sparks
Speaker 1: like the conversation has been flowing so well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and how is the chat in the morning?
Speaker 1: It was good. Did we make it out in the morning? Yeah?
Speaker 3: I think so.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we were. We think we're cuddling at
Speaker 1: the cafe in the booth.
Speaker 2: It's so cute because when you do meet someone who
Speaker 2: you're just like meant to be with the moment you
Speaker 2: meet them, even like the phone conversation when you first
Speaker 2: talk to them, you just like don't want to get
Speaker 2: off the phone or you don't want to stuff hanging
Speaker 2: out with them, and it just like meshes so well,
Speaker 2: and it's just the best feeling in the whole world.
Speaker 1: Were you nervous before the first day.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely was a bit nervous.
Speaker 1: What was your first impression of me?
Speaker 4: I thought you were very tall. I answer like, I
Speaker 4: was instantly very attracted to you. I was like, wow,
Speaker 4: he's a tall man.
Speaker 1: I remember in the elevator, did I say something like
Speaker 1: am I wearing something of yours? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Because I was just staring at you. You're nice to
Speaker 4: look out baby.
Speaker 1: Thanks.
Speaker 4: And then I thought you were really funny and I
Speaker 4: thought you were sweet, like it was really good.
Speaker 1: Were you nervous, Yeah, I was nervous. Yeah, like good nervous,
Speaker 1: like butterflies nervous. And I remember like when you first
Speaker 1: walked off, I was like, shit, she's hot, because you
Speaker 1: know when you like see people on Instagram and that
Speaker 1: and you're like oh, and then you see him in person,
Speaker 1: like I feel like you were hotter like in person
Speaker 1: and you're hot.
Speaker 2: You are, thanks, man, You guys are just a hot
Speaker 2: couple together, like a very hot couple.
Speaker 3: Like that's all you're getting from me.
Speaker 2: So you started dating obviously long distance relationships still long
Speaker 2: distance relationship kind of how is that going? Because that
Speaker 2: must be a challenge.
Speaker 4: I'm not cut out for long distance. I hate it
Speaker 4: so much, literally hate it.
Speaker 1: It sucks. Like when it comes rough is like when
Speaker 1: you've got like a I was saying the other day,
Speaker 1: because I'm still working obviously here in Melbourne, and then
Speaker 1: like you finish the day at work and you just
Speaker 1: want to go home and like just you know, cuddle.
Speaker 4: Like I thought it would get sort of easier, like
Speaker 4: I would get more used to it or it would
Speaker 4: get easier.
Speaker 3: But I feel like the more, like the longer we've been.
Speaker 4: Together, want to be with you more and more like
Speaker 4: it's making it harder, Like it's getting worse and worse.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I need.
Speaker 3: You with me.
Speaker 1: Granted that we haven't spent a week.
Speaker 3: We've never spent a week apart.
Speaker 1: Yeah well yeah, sorry, Yeah, we haven't spent longer than.
Speaker 2: A week apart since the first just the first day.
Speaker 1: It's the first day. Yeah, I think, what's the longest
Speaker 1: it's done? Like maybe six days? Five days? Yeah, probably
Speaker 1: five days, five days, I reckon, Yeah, not that long at.
Speaker 4: All, but that is still too long.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I really don't like it.
Speaker 4: We like have had times where we'll like fall asleep
Speaker 4: on FaceTime and cut that is so cute.
Speaker 1: Not the same a lot of face.
Speaker 2: We missed the one big part of relationship, which is
Speaker 2: the physical intimacy.
Speaker 1: Yeah. We Yeah, we face time a lot though.
Speaker 2: You guys are always on FaceTime. Yeah, is that your
Speaker 2: like go to method of communication?
Speaker 4: Well, that's how Like I face time everyone, Like I
Speaker 4: faced time all my friends, my employees, I face some
Speaker 4: literally everyone. I don't I didn't before you, but yeah,
Speaker 4: Well I just feel like it's good, like being able
Speaker 4: to see the person you're talking to and like having icon.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I started calling and sometimes my family.
Speaker 3: I'm just so.
Speaker 4: Used to, like if someone calls me normally, I feel
Speaker 4: like it's so strange to me.
Speaker 2: So it was that first call you had with Matt
Speaker 2: really weird because it would have it was.
Speaker 3: A bit weird for me, like because it was.
Speaker 1: You're hiding in your car as well.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well my kids were like all screaming and sides.
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm just gonna take this outside, yelling shouting
Speaker 4: kids in the.
Speaker 1: Background when I missed the first friend called, did you
Speaker 1: then get out of the car and walk back inside.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then I like went back out to my car.
Speaker 1: Oh that's cute.
Speaker 2: And then from there there must have been like an
Speaker 2: official chat. Did you guys have an official chat to
Speaker 2: make it like boyfriend and girlfriend?
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you want me?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: It was really cute how you asked me.
Speaker 1: So you shoot, Timmy was down in Melbourne and we
Speaker 1: had a picnic on the beach. It was cold as
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, it was freezing because it was like
Speaker 1: a sunset and then like the sun's setting and it
Speaker 1: got like real cold.
Speaker 3: Freezing, like yeah, I don't know what is with Melbourne.
Speaker 1: That was so it was nice while we were talking.
Speaker 3: It was beautiful and then for sunset.
Speaker 1: And then just went cold, you know how it is here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then so Tammy from the start, like even when
Speaker 1: we would stay and like I'd come to the Gold
Speaker 1: Coast and all that, you'd ask me heaps of questions
Speaker 1: like you would should google like a different what do
Speaker 1: you call them my questions to ask?
Speaker 3: Yeah, just like you know, getting to know.
Speaker 1: Like we had the like, well, yeah, so you bought
Speaker 1: a box of cards. It's like questions to get to
Speaker 1: know your partner.
Speaker 2: So she was like that's so cute.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going through them while we're sitting there at
Speaker 1: the picnic and like what was one of them? Like
Speaker 1: what concept would you want to see stuff like that? Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: how would you react to this all this sort of stuff?
Speaker 1: What's your just getting to know, like your future partner?
Speaker 1: And then we got like halfway through the game. We've
Speaker 1: been playing for a while, and then it was my
Speaker 1: turn and I picked one up and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I was like, this is a good one, and You're
Speaker 1: like what is it? And I was like, will you
Speaker 1: be my girlfriend?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 2: So you made one up?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: It was so that's really cute.
Speaker 3: I don't know that I have never heard.
Speaker 1: And then I was like, with be my girlfriend? And
Speaker 1: then you want to say yeah, you said yes, Yeah.
Speaker 3: It was. It was really sweet. Were you expecting it?
Speaker 4: I mean I was expecting it sort of about some
Speaker 4: point we were going to end up together.
Speaker 1: It was a cute way.
Speaker 3: It was very sweet.
Speaker 2: It was very had you guys said I love you
Speaker 2: at that point?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: You had pretty much that Yeah that day. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: before time you met my family.
Speaker 2: Do you guys think it's awkward to say I love
Speaker 2: you to someone for the first time, because I feel
Speaker 2: like it's so awkward.
Speaker 1: Well, I feel like I feel like it's overd when
Speaker 1: you don't get it back.
Speaker 2: If I guess that would be worse.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I just I think like every time
Speaker 4: I was looking at you, I was just thinking in
Speaker 4: my head, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Didn't something happened when you were going to say it
Speaker 1: one time or something or doing something? What was it?
Speaker 1: We were sitting having a drink at the bar and
Speaker 1: you were like, what do you say? I don't want
Speaker 1: to say it or something. I was like, and where
Speaker 1: I feel the same way. Yeah, I feel the same way.
Speaker 4: I was just very like, I feel like our connection
Speaker 4: was just so like instant, so it was it's really
Speaker 4: easy to fall in love with you.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Same, And that's right because I knew what you
Speaker 1: were going to say, and I was like, you don't
Speaker 1: have to say it. I feel the same way.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I had to describe the connection that I see in
Speaker 2: front of me right now, I would say it's very magnetic,
Speaker 2: like you guys are so drawn to each other, it's
Speaker 2: really beautiful.
Speaker 1: Well, like the same person Yeah.
Speaker 4: We always make jokes that we're like the same twinning.
Speaker 1: Same personality, same like sort of like yeah, a lot
Speaker 1: the same. Like I feel I could be really goofy
Speaker 1: with Tammy and she like accepts my like goofy side.
Speaker 3: I have a really goofy side as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so like I can be silly and I can
Speaker 1: do goofy stuff, and like she just gets it, and
Speaker 1: I feel like I get her as well.
Speaker 2: Yeah I love that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I don't know someone that like when me
Speaker 1: do stuff, like it's not like like she gets it.
Speaker 1: She doesn't frown on it. Like I don't know, like
Speaker 1: should I say how, well.
Speaker 3: That's weird.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we just we just do weird stuff. Yeah, weird.
Speaker 1: We just get each other.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that can just be beat.
Speaker 3: Just beat. People can just imagine what said.
Speaker 4: But it's not what they probably think that it's probably.
Speaker 2: I mean, that's what you want in a relationship, right,
Speaker 2: you want someone who you can just be yourself with,
Speaker 2: be silly with, be goofy with, like not judge each other,
Speaker 2: just like have fun.
Speaker 1: Well that's it. Like even that thing that it's going
Speaker 1: to be like, that's like, don't you.
Speaker 3: Think it's so weird how he says beef?
Speaker 4: It's be say how you say it?
Speaker 1: You say I'm saying deep.
Speaker 4: I just a lot or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but even that, like that's not like that's fun.
Speaker 1: And then there's other stuff that happened as well, that
Speaker 1: are sort of like that, I say, oh, like this
Speaker 1: would be funny or this would be hot or this,
Speaker 1: and it's like, you know, Sammy's like yeah, let's do.
Speaker 2: It, and You're like cool, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: It's like you guys are on the same wave, like yeah,
Speaker 2: doule areas you guys met had the best first date
Speaker 2: ever movie moment kiss, followed by like this little whorldwind
Speaker 2: romance shall we say? That led to I love you
Speaker 2: and being in an official relationship. And then I guess,
Speaker 2: for you, Tammy, with such a huge platform, I guess
Speaker 2: like the question of do I launch this into the public,
Speaker 2: And I know that was kind of taken away from
Speaker 2: you guys because there was videos of you guys that
Speaker 2: were caught together, like at our live show on one
Speaker 2: of your dates. What was that process like?
Speaker 4: Because I've had very public relationships obviously very public breakups
Speaker 4: and it's not fun to go through.
Speaker 3: So I was I was just sort.
Speaker 4: Of like my next relationship, I'm not like posting anything
Speaker 4: about it, like I don't want it in the public
Speaker 4: or anything like that. But then like, I'm just so
Speaker 4: obsessed with you that I was just like, you know what,
Speaker 4: fuck it like, let's I just wanted to, like shot,
Speaker 4: like I'm so in love and I'm so happy and
Speaker 4: I just wanted to Like it's such a like a nice.
Speaker 3: Thing, like I love love and I shouldn't have to.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's sort of hard though as well, when we're
Speaker 1: hanging out so much and doing stuff. Yeah, both putting
Speaker 1: stuff off it like because obviously I post on social
Speaker 1: media as well, like so like we're posting at the
Speaker 1: same place and it's like we're taking video or content
Speaker 1: of each each other and stuff like that, and we
Speaker 1: couldn't post it.
Speaker 2: Were you guys annoyed when other people kind of took
Speaker 2: that hard launch away from me? Or was it just
Speaker 2: kind of like it is what it is.
Speaker 1: I mean, it is what it is, not so much
Speaker 1: them taking it away. It was more that like it
Speaker 1: would have been.
Speaker 4: Nice to Yeah, it would have been nice for us
Speaker 4: to choose when we wanted to sort.
Speaker 1: Of share it with the public and have that.
Speaker 3: Just keep it christian us for as long as we
Speaker 3: wanted sort.
Speaker 1: Of thing, Yeah, not have the public pressure. Like yeah,
Speaker 1: so early on like almost like you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: you're the start of us getting to know each other.
Speaker 1: That would have been different and then like, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean, but I guess it is what it is.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like you know, it wasn't detrimental.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then obviously you guys did soft launch it
Speaker 2: hard launch the relationship. Very cute by the way, thank you.
Speaker 2: What was the public reaction? I guess to Matt, people
Speaker 2: are fun people.
Speaker 4: Is just like there's a lot of miserable people out
Speaker 4: there that just like, I don't see why so many
Speaker 4: people are so negative about it.
Speaker 3: I really don't understand.
Speaker 1: I don't understand why they think we care.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I really could not care less. It's like,
Speaker 4: why do they care so much? Like either be happy
Speaker 4: for us or move on with yours.
Speaker 1: I've always said, imagine actually commenting on something neative, Like
Speaker 1: imagine just sitting there and doing that.
Speaker 2: I can't imagine it. I actually just can't.
Speaker 4: And I know what they're trying to achieve as well.
Speaker 4: It's like, what do you like? What do you get
Speaker 4: out of this? Like it doesn't make you feel better
Speaker 4: about your own life?
Speaker 1: And someone people that are so happy and actually don't
Speaker 1: give a shit about what you're saying either, Like we
Speaker 1: laugh about something like most of them that we read
Speaker 1: if we read it, we laugh and like ahaha, yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: and we're just going to keep the receipts anyway.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I mean I just sort of can't wait
Speaker 4: for everyone to just get over it and like because
Speaker 4: I mean, we're going to be together and laugh. Like
Speaker 4: people get over it eventually, I'm sure, but I think.
Speaker 1: I don't have to. They don't fucking.
Speaker 2: Fault, like yeah, so they're still quite negative even now,
Speaker 2: would you say.
Speaker 4: Well, you know what, in the very beginning, it was
Speaker 4: obviously overwhelmingly negative, like a lot more negative than positive.
Speaker 4: But the amount of like positive like DMS and stuff
Speaker 4: like that that I get now is like I think
Speaker 4: as well for people trying to like stick up for
Speaker 4: me because they see like the hate and stuff as well.
Speaker 4: So that's been really nice. So I feel like it's
Speaker 4: honestly like more positive now.
Speaker 2: That's that's Sometimes I feel like people just say a
Speaker 2: negative comment because obviously it's a big platform, so they're
Speaker 2: like I want to say like something wild, so it gets.
Speaker 4: Like the comment back and then her gets more Like
Speaker 4: I would rarely comment back to one who I commented
Speaker 4: back to someone about something, and then like my comment
Speaker 4: will obviously like blow up and then they'll.
Speaker 3: Just delete them.
Speaker 4: Or what some people do is like I'll reply to
Speaker 4: someone and I'm like polite and nice, but then I
Speaker 4: will be like, oh my god, I didn't mean them
Speaker 4: like that, or like just I'm like, don't comment.
Speaker 5: Something rude, stick to your guns.
Speaker 4: But usually I just you know, ignore everything, like whatever.
Speaker 4: People can think what they want.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get some random comments on mine, like I've
Speaker 1: I've seen a few of them, and people are weird.
Speaker 3: So weird.
Speaker 1: I just don't get it, Like I couldn't do it,
Speaker 1: Like I just don't, Like I said, like you think
Speaker 1: of zingers to comment on, like tiktoks and that, you know,
Speaker 1: like if something something something wishy, like I never would comment,
Speaker 1: Like I have mates and stuff that send me tiktoks
Speaker 1: and they go read the comments and I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: like who cares comments? You know what I mean? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so if you are commenting on stuff, we don't give
Speaker 1: a ship.
Speaker 3: No, I'm getting a lot of nice.
Speaker 1: We get that we read the nice ones. You obviously
Speaker 1: do you taken the nice ones?
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I feel like it's easier to sort of
Speaker 4: take on board the negative ones. But I think I'm
Speaker 4: just because I've obviously, like been on Instagram stuff for
Speaker 4: so long, so I'm sort of good at like not
Speaker 4: listening to the negative ones.
Speaker 1: Now I'm just like taking you as well. Yeah I
Speaker 1: did notice that.
Speaker 3: Yeah you did say that.
Speaker 1: That you don't take on the negative stuff. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think I've just grown a thick skin with it,
Speaker 4: and I've just liked told myself like it's not me,
Speaker 4: it's them, like if they are so negative, like they
Speaker 4: have something going on, you know.
Speaker 2: Is there any comment that someone will or could say
Speaker 2: to you that does cut deep? Is there something that
Speaker 2: hurts a specific like source spot that they sometimes can
Speaker 2: like push you over the edge because it's it's must
Speaker 2: be so hard.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't say like something that just like really hurts.
Speaker 4: But more so that is annoying is stuff being like
Speaker 4: oh her poor kids. It's like you literally know nothing
Speaker 4: about my kids' day to day life. My kids are
Speaker 4: very happy children, they're very loved, they're like it's just
Speaker 4: it's it's frustrating when they think like they can say
Speaker 4: anything about my kids, like you really have no idea.
Speaker 3: That's awful. Yeah, it pisses me off a bit, but yeah,
Speaker 3: thats me off.
Speaker 1: And then yeah they say about you being a mum,
Speaker 1: like you're a great mum.
Speaker 4: So I mean, yeah, I feel like mostly I get
Speaker 4: good comments about like my parenting and stuff like that,
Speaker 4: but it's like people don't actually know like my day
Speaker 4: to day life, my kids.
Speaker 1: They don't know, like, well, what do you put on Instagram?
Speaker 1: Like what a story? A story is about.
Speaker 4: Like fifteen to twenty Yeah, it's like that's just like
Speaker 4: a little glimpse into it, you.
Speaker 1: Know, like thirty seconds and then people they know you
Speaker 1: like this.
Speaker 3: Like chemen their whole day, Like how.
Speaker 1: Much more it happens in a day?
Speaker 2: Yeah totally.
Speaker 4: But it's like, yeah, like my kids are very happy,
Speaker 4: very well taken care of. Obviously I didn't plan on
Speaker 4: like the breakups and things like that, but it's just
Speaker 4: the way it turned out, and you just make the
Speaker 4: most of like what you're given kind of thing. Absolutely,
Speaker 4: And I'm very and I'm sure they'll the benefit from
Speaker 4: seeing me happy as well.
Speaker 2: One hundred percent. So you guys decided to take your
Speaker 2: first couple's trip to the beautiful mold Ives? Yeah, what
Speaker 2: kind of sparked that idea? Like where did the whole
Speaker 2: mold Ives trips come from?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 3: I was actually planning on going.
Speaker 4: I was planning on going with my two little sisters.
Speaker 1: There's another reason for ava.
Speaker 2: So they got the boo.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we sort of wanted to go, like somewhere.
Speaker 1: We wanted to go somewhere.
Speaker 5: I thought, why didn't we just you threw it around
Speaker 5: and then it was sort of like, yeah, I'll go,
Speaker 5: let's do it. Yeah, you got thrown around a couple
Speaker 5: of times, and then it got closer and You're like,
Speaker 5: do you want to come? And I was like, yeah,
Speaker 5: I can come, let's get let's go. It would be fun.
Speaker 1: And then I thought it would be good, like early
Speaker 1: on as well, to go on a couple's trip to
Speaker 1: you know, get that over there, we go, see how
Speaker 1: we go. We could just get it over you know,
Speaker 1: get it out of the way, see how we go.
Speaker 1: Because they don't have one of the things that people
Speaker 1: like judge, it's like a test. Yeah, I've never thought
Speaker 1: of it like that. I never have.
Speaker 3: I reckon it is.
Speaker 2: I reckon it's a test really, Like sometimes I can
Speaker 2: get the eck from people, like on holiday, I'm like,
Speaker 2: you nearly got.
Speaker 1: The eck for me at the Star No, I did
Speaker 1: it stressed?
Speaker 3: Oh about the proposal in generally really.
Speaker 1: Get the ick.
Speaker 3: I just couldn't understand why you were so obsessed with
Speaker 3: the weather. I was like, it's still.
Speaker 4: A beautiful place, Like if it rains, it's still beautiful,
Speaker 4: Like get over.
Speaker 2: It and move on.
Speaker 1: Literally every half an hour going and staring out off
Speaker 1: the balcony into the distance.
Speaker 3: Yeah, wondering. Yeah, I don't know how I didn't put
Speaker 3: two and two together.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, how did you not? Yeah did you guess
Speaker 1: it at all or anything? No?
Speaker 4: Literally, not not in the slightest so no suspicion. I
Speaker 4: thought maybe, if anything, he was gonna like plan like
Speaker 4: I don't know, like a dinner or like, I don't know,
Speaker 4: something cute and romantic, not a proposal like that was
Speaker 4: definitely not so she had no idea.
Speaker 1: Did you have any idea? Like when we were walking over.
Speaker 4: Well, I thought like you just planned a cute, romantic
Speaker 4: surprise dinner, which I thought was so sweet, Like I
Speaker 4: almost started crying, like I thought it was so beautiful.
Speaker 4: I wasn't expecting it. And then when you got down
Speaker 4: on one knee, I think I almost passed out. I
Speaker 4: was so like shocked, And then you thought out the
Speaker 4: real like as soon as I saw the ring, I
Speaker 4: was like, I I sort of blacked out at that point.
Speaker 3: Like it was all very surreal.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, and then I think we just both spent
Speaker 4: a lot of the evening crying, Like there was a
Speaker 4: lot of tears.
Speaker 3: It was very emotional.
Speaker 4: It was very romantic, like probably the most romantic time
Speaker 4: in my life.
Speaker 3: It was. It was it was magical.
Speaker 1: We both said that like we don't remember what was
Speaker 1: said as soon as I got on one knee, Like
Speaker 1: I don't remember I remember like before saying what I
Speaker 1: was saying about, you know, and wanted to all that
Speaker 1: sort of stuff. And then when we both agreed, we're
Speaker 1: sort of happy that like those two people have that moment.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just like in that moment, in that moment forever.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it was just like because all I remember
Speaker 1: was as soon as I got one knee and I
Speaker 1: started talking, like I started to like to hear, and
Speaker 1: I was like choking up and.
Speaker 3: Like crying, I'm gonna start crying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I didn't think I was gonna I didn't
Speaker 1: think I was gonna cry, did I didn't think so,
Speaker 1: I mean, you cry, but I didn't think I was
Speaker 1: going to, like I just like rehearsed in my head
Speaker 1: and like thought about what I was going to say,
Speaker 1: and I thought about the moment over and over again.
Speaker 1: I was like, nah'll be fine. But then like I
Speaker 1: don't know about how what other guys are like. But
Speaker 1: then as soon as you're actually in that moment and
Speaker 1: you get down on one knee and it's like real,
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I just started tearing up and crying.
Speaker 2: It's so emotional just hearing you guys literally like so perfect.
Speaker 3: It was everything about that whole trip was like very romantic,
Speaker 3: very Yeah, it was beautiful.
Speaker 1: It was the best trip holiday have ever been on,
Speaker 1: the best time in life.
Speaker 3: Guys. I'm actually going you're getting serious. I'm like I'm
Speaker 3: getting a bit trying.
Speaker 1: To keep it together. Yeah, and then we just spent
Speaker 1: the rest of the trip just in our love bubble.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: It's just like so cool when you meet your person
Speaker 2: and I just feel like going from like boyfriend and
Speaker 2: girlfriend to engage, it just feels like a different level
Speaker 2: of closeness. Don't you guys agree?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so nice.
Speaker 1: It just made sense as well, like everyone's like saying
Speaker 1: stuff like oh they're rushing, all that sort of stuff, but.
Speaker 4: Like it's just it's just like when you know, you know,
Speaker 4: like it just feels so.
Speaker 1: Right, it makes sense.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it just it feels. Yeah, like we just know
Speaker 3: we want to be together forever, and we just.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not going to waste time. Yeah, wasting time?
Speaker 2: Yeah, why would you? Yeah, when you know, you know,
Speaker 2: I feel like at our age as well, Like I
Speaker 2: mean we're all roughly around the same age. I'm a
Speaker 2: little bit older, but I think things move quicker definitely.
Speaker 4: Well, I think maybe you just have like you have
Speaker 4: just learnt the past, so you just know like what
Speaker 4: you want more, you know, Like yeah, you know.
Speaker 1: I said from the start, So a lot of the
Speaker 1: things Tammy said, I remember if we're going back, like
Speaker 1: should ask me questions that when we were together, and
Speaker 1: should ask me a lot of like what are you
Speaker 1: looking for in a partner? And I asked, like I've
Speaker 1: done a lot of self work and a lot of
Speaker 1: stuff like working and like thinking about that sort of
Speaker 1: stuff before I met Tammy. And I don't sound selfish,
Speaker 1: and but like we've said on this podcast before, like
Speaker 1: when you're dating, you have to be a little bit selfish,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Because at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, you're finding who you want to be with.
Speaker 1: And I said to I said, from the start, like,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for how they make me feel, because I've
Speaker 1: been in relationships where they don't make me feel good.
Speaker 1: And I was like, that's what I'm looking for, and
Speaker 1: Tammy makes me feel good. I feel good about myself.
Speaker 1: It makes yeah, I feel good when I'm with you.
Speaker 1: So I knew what I was looking for and that's
Speaker 1: what I found.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I feel the same. I just feel
Speaker 4: like I sort of have like expectations in how I
Speaker 4: want to be treated and like the type of person
Speaker 4: I want. And I feel like he's definitely like treats
Speaker 4: me perfectly and he's so amazing and I feel very lucky.
Speaker 3: You guys are just each other's person really and truly.
Speaker 1: It's getting really emotional.
Speaker 2: Who did you guys call first when you like announced
Speaker 2: the engagement. Who are you calling?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't really call anyone.
Speaker 4: The reception the Wi Fi wasn't that great, so I
Speaker 4: was like messaging people like photos stuff like that.
Speaker 1: A lot of them. Like I said before, my dad
Speaker 1: got upset because I didn't call him. But I remember
Speaker 1: calling like Mom, and it was like, really, ship wasn't
Speaker 1: the Wi Fi? Like he couldn't really see much in
Speaker 1: that so like and I felt as well, like everyone,
Speaker 1: like I told everyone before what I was doing anyway,
Speaker 1: like I told your family as well, like I told
Speaker 1: people what I was I can't.
Speaker 4: Even believe that that I told Yeah, like I just
Speaker 4: had no idea about any.
Speaker 1: Of this, you were, well. I only got a coffee
Speaker 1: obviously with Amy and told her. I snuck around the
Speaker 1: house and told everyone else.
Speaker 4: At one point, I was walking downstairs and him and
Speaker 4: Ava and Style were talking and Ama.
Speaker 3: Was just like oh, And I was like, what are
Speaker 3: you guys talking about?
Speaker 1: Cover it up?
Speaker 4: I don't remember like what the excuse was.
Speaker 1: We were in her office as well, and all the
Speaker 1: girls in her office stuff are having lunch downstairs and
Speaker 1: you're in the gym and I was with them, and
Speaker 1: I was showing him photos of the ring, and.
Speaker 2: I remember the whole office near Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just you know me, I'm so excited and I
Speaker 1: was like I'm in love. Yeah, And then I remember
Speaker 1: someone said it's massive or something and you walked in
Speaker 1: and You're like, what's that? And I was like, no clue,
Speaker 1: no clue and I was like yeah, and I cracked
Speaker 1: a what's the word joke? Inappropriate joke refeat?
Speaker 2: Oh god, So did he do well with the ring,
Speaker 2: because yeah, the ring is perfect. She's like amazing.
Speaker 4: Like as soon as he was getting down on one knee,
Speaker 4: I was like in shock. But then we like showed
Speaker 4: the ring. Oh my god, like it's stunning. It's honestly
Speaker 4: like my dream ring. It's perfect.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I came to hell was there with me
Speaker 1: when we did it? Well, I was saying to Taming
Speaker 1: the other day, I can't wait to wear my band, Like,
Speaker 1: I just want to wear that. So like I saw
Speaker 1: you with.
Speaker 2: The ring on, and I thought you had a wedding
Speaker 2: band on.
Speaker 1: The other thing was the other hand, Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: some A couple of people commented that, Yeah, I'm really
Speaker 1: excited to wear my wedding band just to you know,
Speaker 1: let everyone jealous. Yeah, most jealous. You get to wear
Speaker 1: a ring at the moment, I can't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want Michael.
Speaker 5: I want to ring on him to let everyone knows everyone.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you guys are engaged, happily engaged wedding planning.
Speaker 2: Is that happening? Matt's kind of spilled the beans that
Speaker 2: there's going to be a wedding this year.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. As time he keeps saying, it's whose
Speaker 1: wedding is it?
Speaker 3: It's yours? Baby?
Speaker 4: No, that's been a bit of a grooms. I feel
Speaker 4: like he's very like into the wedding planning more than
Speaker 4: I would have. We barely just started, and I feel
Speaker 4: like he's like, what's this, what's that?
Speaker 3: What's like? What do we do?
Speaker 1: I'm like, whoa bab? Yeah, I would say, and then he.
Speaker 4: Has all these like suggestions and stuff. I'm like, I mean,
Speaker 4: I'll take them on board, but i'll get back to
Speaker 4: you this day.
Speaker 3: I wasn't expecting you to be so.
Speaker 1: Then I don't know, like we're meeting with the wedding planner.
Speaker 3: You're a meeting with the wedding plan tomorrow.
Speaker 2: And I was like fixciting.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I originally was like, I'm not going to go.
Speaker 1: It's not you know, I don't need to be there.
Speaker 1: It's not for black. But then I'm like, no, fuck it,
Speaker 1: I want to go. Yeah. I was always want.
Speaker 3: To When did you not want to go?
Speaker 4: I think I thought you weren't getting harm and then
Speaker 4: you let me know that that you were definitely coming.
Speaker 1: I've had some suggestions at a forum, pretty sure in
Speaker 1: case I do get him over the line.
Speaker 3: I mean, this is a good thing.
Speaker 2: Michael has absolutely no interest, Like he's like really leaving
Speaker 2: it up to me. I'm like, hello, I could use
Speaker 2: a little bit of health here. I don't want this
Speaker 2: all to be I.
Speaker 1: Honestly didn't think i'd have an interest. Like I always said,
Speaker 1: I'll just rock up and say my vows, and I
Speaker 1: do and that's it. But like, I don't know, like
Speaker 1: it's so fucked hit my tiktoks now just wedding algorithm.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm on. I'm like, how to write your vowels properly? Really? Yeah,
Speaker 3: I like already started writing, so have you.
Speaker 1: I've got my main points I want to hear to compare.
Speaker 3: I was like, when I was writing out, I was crying.
Speaker 4: So I feel like I'm going.
Speaker 3: To be a mess on our wedding.
Speaker 1: Yeah, when I did my ones, I was I was tearing. Enough.
Speaker 2: Is it going to be a big wedding a small wedding?
Speaker 2: What are we thinking?
Speaker 3: It's going to be like one hundred and twenty people?
Speaker 3: So I think good size.
Speaker 2: That's a really good size.
Speaker 1: I realized it. I was thought it was going to
Speaker 1: be hard putting people down, but it's actually not.
Speaker 2: Been putting people down, like cutting people.
Speaker 1: Cutting people, I mean getting invited No, but I just
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, if I hadn't hung out
Speaker 1: with you in the last X amount of years, Like
Speaker 1: my mom said, she can't even like she doesn't even
Speaker 1: know half people at her wedding now, And I was like,
Speaker 1: I want to keep it to like my nearest and
Speaker 1: dearest share that moment, Like I'm not going to invite
Speaker 1: people that haven't come through my life and they come
Speaker 1: out of the woodwork. Trust me, a lot of people have.
Speaker 2: I'm not surprised.
Speaker 1: They're coming there.
Speaker 2: And everyone loves the wedding as well. Like people if
Speaker 2: people know, like they're going to be in the vicinity
Speaker 2: and there's a wedding going on, they're like, why.
Speaker 3: Would I not get some free food and some entertainment.
Speaker 4: I love weddings as well, just the like vibe in
Speaker 4: the air at weddings is always so nice.
Speaker 1: It's haven't we I mean too as well? Two Yeah,
Speaker 1: but yeah.
Speaker 3: I'm really excited about ours and yours.
Speaker 2: Yeah I know, well, yeah, you guys will go to
Speaker 2: my wedding together.
Speaker 3: Yeah, love will be in the air, so he.
Speaker 1: Should we just a lope in Greece take over the
Speaker 1: day after. I say that I might propose before I
Speaker 1: shoul probably propose.
Speaker 3: He's like, I'll take I'll take the back of this.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3: I was like, it's fine. Yeah, is a better choice?
Speaker 1: Definitely?
Speaker 2: Have you guys picked like a date and venue or
Speaker 2: is that like not happened yet.
Speaker 1: We've got some front runners.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we've got a few venues we're looking at. Wait,
Speaker 4: we don't think we're even going to tell our guests
Speaker 4: our venue. I think we're going to like have a
Speaker 4: meeting point and just bring everyone on buses.
Speaker 3: So it's a little surprise.
Speaker 2: I love that idea, so exciting.
Speaker 1: We have a date, Yeah, we have a date that
Speaker 1: we want that we want, so I've already told some
Speaker 1: people to save it. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I have blocked that week out, and I was lucky
Speaker 2: enough to get to see Tammy's dress on news eve.
Speaker 2: She showed it to me. It's very beautiful.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's my perfect dress. Really, I don't want to
Speaker 3: say yeah in front of you.
Speaker 4: I've never gotten a wedding dress before. I've never planned
Speaker 4: a wedding before.
Speaker 3: I've never you know, yeah, never gone all of this
Speaker 3: stuff before, so.
Speaker 1: And on that people like comment stuff and all that
Speaker 1: sort of stuff, and I.
Speaker 3: Don't really care. I've been engaged three times.
Speaker 1: Get over. I make light of it as well.
Speaker 5: I call her than Yeah, I'm collecting the stones.
Speaker 1: She's got her own gauntlet.
Speaker 3: I mean it's a good thing.
Speaker 2: Right, Like when I was twenty nine and hadn't been
Speaker 2: engaged at all, I was like, I'm offender that I
Speaker 2: haven't been proposed to.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I mean she's a catch.
Speaker 2: Of course she's gonna.
Speaker 6: You know, I don't know why people have such a
Speaker 6: problem with it, Like I don't and I'm marrying, so
Speaker 6: what's their problem? Yeah, it's all but yeah, I've never
Speaker 6: like started planning a wedding before.
Speaker 3: So yeah, this is all very exciting.
Speaker 2: Are you guys nervous at all?
Speaker 1: That's what she meant when she said rooms the other day.
Speaker 1: I was sort of what did I say? I called
Speaker 1: you up? Have you found anything else out about the venues?
Speaker 3: Like he's very just like hounds me about what.
Speaker 1: I want that.
Speaker 4: I'm like, like I didn't think. I like, I'll let
Speaker 4: you know I'm like, why are you so? And he
Speaker 4: was like, send me the budding player's number. This older
Speaker 4: I'm like, just let me do it.
Speaker 1: I honestly didn't think i'd be that invested. I didn't
Speaker 1: think that I am. I want like, I didn't think
Speaker 1: I think I'll chill out a bit more. Once you're
Speaker 1: going to get work, You're going to be like full, No,
Speaker 1: I want by the end of it.
Speaker 2: Why don't you focus on things like you know, your suits,
Speaker 2: like your grooms men, you can make them a little buck.
Speaker 1: But what we've said that because obviously tell me did
Speaker 1: a bridesmay thing, and I've picked my groomsmen and I've
Speaker 1: told him and I was like, well, like I want
Speaker 1: to do a dinner or something with them. But I
Speaker 1: was like, what do you like, what do you get
Speaker 1: the guys like you guys do that?
Speaker 3: Probably not?
Speaker 2: Maybe just take them to the.
Speaker 1: Pub, Like what would you get him? Like, I was thinking,
Speaker 1: like Catholics for the day.
Speaker 2: That's yeah, nice, that's nice to get them engraved.
Speaker 1: Maybe you get them in grave with m Z.
Speaker 3: We again collecting back at the end.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Tammy sekowski that that rolls off the tongue.
Speaker 3: Yeah, will you change your name.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I love that, I said, I don't.
Speaker 2: It does sound nice, actually, I said, I understand if
Speaker 2: you don't want to.
Speaker 4: Well, it's like none of my kids have my last name,
Speaker 4: so it's like I'm not trying to you know, like yeah,
Speaker 4: so it's not like I'm trying to hold on to
Speaker 4: it for a reason like this is.
Speaker 1: True, Well your brand is your name.
Speaker 4: Yeah, obviously my like brand and but you keep you
Speaker 4: but yeah I can still yeah, like people can call
Speaker 4: me whatever they want, but yeah, it'll.
Speaker 1: Be that's exciting. But back to the Greens, And I
Speaker 1: didn't know what to give them, So I think anyone's
Speaker 1: got any ideas, let us know.
Speaker 2: Haven't you already asked?
Speaker 1: But I want to do something. I want to do, like,
Speaker 1: you know, give them so thing at least, like what
Speaker 1: what would we wear T shirts or something on the day.
Speaker 1: I don't know, like.
Speaker 2: Jammers like Peter Alexander my face printed off.
Speaker 1: You do, you probably won't make the video wedding video
Speaker 1: and I want my face.
Speaker 3: You guys can have my face.
Speaker 1: Makes more sense. And we were going to get a
Speaker 1: top made for me with like Tammy and then the
Speaker 1: different photos of those ones that come from the TikTok.
Speaker 4: I love that.
Speaker 3: Definitely one of them. When definitely definitely.
Speaker 1: Shout Oh the bucks and hens. That's exciting. When's your hands?
Speaker 2: So, I don't know, I actually am having my hands
Speaker 2: in April, and I think it's literally just the bridesmaids.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I'll take that as a hen.
Speaker 2: But I'm not planning it.
Speaker 3: I haven't planned anything. You guys might a bitted.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure.
Speaker 2: What's your plans.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm leaving it up to my sister, yea, my
Speaker 3: best man.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think we're going to do something separately and
Speaker 4: then come together.
Speaker 2: Oh nice, that'll be cute.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it's just the groomsmen and just like
Speaker 1: the bridesmaids sort of the same Yeah, same vibe, same vibe.
Speaker 2: So then we all I'm getting the hint to yours.
Speaker 1: They'll obviously be extra ones shucked around and then it's
Speaker 1: not up to me. I'm gonna make it and then
Speaker 1: like we'll meet up, and then I think it'd be
Speaker 1: good for both wedding parties to get to know each
Speaker 1: other that can have that almost like drinking session like
Speaker 1: sort of thing, because obviously drinking bonds everyone.
Speaker 3: It really does do ye love, We love the tequila shar.
Speaker 1: Oh. Yeah.
Speaker 2: One of the last things that I think we've not
Speaker 2: touched on was I wanted to know how you thought
Speaker 2: Matt was with your kids.
Speaker 3: He's really good with my kids.
Speaker 4: My kids love him, like obviously not trying to put
Speaker 4: him into like dad role or anything like that, but
Speaker 4: they he's.
Speaker 3: Really good with it.
Speaker 4: Wolf is especially obsessed with him, really like coffee, things
Speaker 4: that he does and stuff.
Speaker 3: It's really probably tries to impress.
Speaker 4: Him and like that will have his hat backwards and
Speaker 4: then we will put his hat back.
Speaker 3: I'm like, you've never done that.
Speaker 1: When I came downstairs the other day, what did he say?
Speaker 1: It was so funny. He was like, Matt, tell me
Speaker 1: a little bit about your browser or something, and he
Speaker 1: was trying to like sell me this browser for my
Speaker 1: phone something. Then took upstairs. It was like talking me through. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's fine. I love Posy as well, and obviously sask
Speaker 1: here as well. Love them all the very very sweet,
Speaker 1: good kids, and yeah, I get along with them all
Speaker 1: so cute.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love to hear it.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Should we finish on a wiz? Guys, there's a bit
Speaker 2: of an impromptu quiz. Not know what's coming.
Speaker 1: If it's something, how well we know each other? I
Speaker 1: reckon you're yeah, I don't know. I always go blank
Speaker 1: on this sort of it's okay.
Speaker 3: If it goes really bad, it will be out.
Speaker 2: So if you're hearing this right now, it went I'm
Speaker 2: going to just go Matt to Tammy, Tammy to Matt
Speaker 2: as we answer them. Okay, So I would just like
Speaker 2: point at you guys, okay, describe each other in one word,
Speaker 2: kind loving kid. We're getting a bit more tricky. You
Speaker 2: can't look at each other this time. You look at me.
Speaker 2: Color of each other's eyes.
Speaker 3: His eyes are like hazel, they're like brown and green.
Speaker 1: Yeah, blue. Well that Taylor Swift song. I'm going to
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift with Tammy. Are you so excited? Bort a
Speaker 1: Travis Kelsey Jersey to Melbourne, Melbourne.
Speaker 2: I would not be surprised if Matt brings a sign
Speaker 2: about Travis. He's so obsessed with him.
Speaker 3: It's not normal. Okay.
Speaker 2: How does your partner like their coffee.
Speaker 1: If it's a weekend. First of all, both always iced,
Speaker 1: never normal if it's a weekday, just a straight long
Speaker 1: black iced if it's the week end, and alm and
Speaker 1: ice latte with caramel syrup.
Speaker 2: Is that right? Wow?
Speaker 4: That's he usually just has like a soy latte. He's
Speaker 4: a simple guy. Well, I am always like your soy
Speaker 4: milk because I hate it. So now he started drinking almond.
Speaker 1: Milk or oat milk.
Speaker 2: Okay, it's regular switched.
Speaker 3: Out and the occasional long black ice.
Speaker 1: Yeah I did so.
Speaker 2: Yeah, guys are doing very well so far. This is
Speaker 2: going out.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: Your partner's favorite color. He likes red and black and gold.
Speaker 1: Is that yeah, that's my favorite?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I was.
Speaker 1: That's really good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's very good.
Speaker 1: Pink. Yeah, I love pink.
Speaker 3: I'm a pink girl.
Speaker 2: Yeah, love love pink.
Speaker 1: That's pretty cool.
Speaker 4: You remember, I'm pretty sure you told me on like
Speaker 4: your first day, and like I.
Speaker 1: Think i've You're like, it's so weird that you remember that.
Speaker 1: It's my football teams a kid, it's a football team
Speaker 1: winning the Grand Final.
Speaker 4: Say that, I have a really bad memory. So that's impressive. Okay,
Speaker 4: favorite TV show at the moment. Your partner's favorite TV
Speaker 4: show at the moment.
Speaker 1: At the moment, Vampire Diaries.
Speaker 4: Yours is also a vampire because yeah, that's what I'm
Speaker 4: forcing to watch.
Speaker 1: I can't even look at my phone or anything.
Speaker 3: If he starts going on this point.
Speaker 1: I'm like literally like pauses it and just I pause it.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh wait, that's what I do to Michael.
Speaker 3: But that's so good.
Speaker 2: You used to play in all the time that like
Speaker 2: you hate when people use their phone, like even like
Speaker 2: if your mum used her phone.
Speaker 1: I did, and that's why I went. But then when
Speaker 1: you're the culprit, we were on the couch and you
Speaker 1: did it, and I was like, fuck, we are too
Speaker 1: much alive. I was like, we're seriously too much alike.
Speaker 1: And she was having like telling the media off my phone.
Speaker 3: Okay, we have it.
Speaker 2: Two more. What's your partner's signature dish that they cook
Speaker 2: that you love?
Speaker 1: Breakfast record? Pancakes?
Speaker 2: Pancakes?
Speaker 1: Okay, are you deep frying or something? Don't you deep
Speaker 1: from something?
Speaker 3: You on a pan?
Speaker 1: But wasn't there? Don't isn't there something like extra butter
Speaker 1: or something? You said? You but yeah, and then you
Speaker 1: put something extra in the whiped cream.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I put maple syrup. I do whipped butter with
Speaker 3: maple syrup. Yeah, Matthew, have you ever caught me. Ever,
Speaker 3: I don't think so mouthing out.
Speaker 2: I don't think I cooked you that needs to be
Speaker 2: on your list of something to have.
Speaker 1: Not cooked a barbecue for something.
Speaker 3: You never cooked.
Speaker 4: Anything for me, but which I'm fine with, Like, yeah,
Speaker 4: we haven't really had that much of a chance to
Speaker 4: like actually cook through.
Speaker 2: We just go out to.
Speaker 1: Yeah even sometimes I'm not even.
Speaker 3: Like restaurants.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's also like honeymoon phase. I feel like that's
Speaker 2: so normal.
Speaker 1: Have not cooked you, You've never He's like, surely with me, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I'm not. I don't. It's very well offing on
Speaker 1: this podcast. I don't. I'm not being fan of cooking
Speaker 1: full stop.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's I don't really want you to cook
Speaker 2: for me. That okay, probably best cook for you, Okay.
Speaker 2: Last one is your partner an introvert or an extrovert
Speaker 2: or both.
Speaker 1: I think Tammy is an introvert at heart, Like even
Speaker 1: before we came in this podcast, she was very nervous
Speaker 1: and very shy. Like everyone would you think, with who
Speaker 1: Tammy is and all that sort of stuff, that she's extroverted,
Speaker 1: but she's not. Really. She does well for an introvert
Speaker 1: to be out there so much and put herself out there.
Speaker 3: I feel, Yeah, you're definitely extrovert.
Speaker 4: You're like the loudest person I've ever met in my life,
Speaker 4: always like good balance.
Speaker 2: Yeah, guys, we are so happy for you both. You
Speaker 2: guys make an incredible couple. All of the haters can
Speaker 2: go fuck themselves because seriously, you guys are so magnetic,
Speaker 2: so in love, and it's been really nice having you
Speaker 2: on the podcast and just witnessing it in here today.
Speaker 2: Thank you so much Tammy for coming on the podcast.
Speaker 1: And I've never had, like I said, like, it's been
Speaker 1: a big deal to bring you on the podcast. I
Speaker 1: don't know how nervous you were, and I really appreciate
Speaker 1: you coming on.
Speaker 3: Thank you guys for having me. It's been fun.
Speaker 1: I wanted to tell our stories thing I asked you
Speaker 1: want to here. God, I'm.
Speaker 3: A thank you. Bye bye