WEBVTT - LOOKING BACK BEFORE THE WEDDING

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, Matt here. As you know, on the weekend

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<v Speaker 1>I married my beautiful wife Tammy. It was a weekend

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<v Speaker 1>full of celebrations enjoy. But before we talk about the wedding,

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<v Speaker 1>let's revisit Tammy's first appearance and Where's Your Head At?

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<v Speaker 1>Enjoy shall say, how are we? Hell?

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<v Speaker 2>Where's Your Head At? Is a podcast that talks all

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<v Speaker 2>things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between.

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<v Speaker 1>This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip,

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<v Speaker 1>intimate details, advice and much more.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, hello everyone, we have a very social guest in

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<v Speaker 2>the studio today. We have Matt's beautiful fiance Tammy.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, hi everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>I am welcome beautiful Tommy.

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<v Speaker 2>Happy to be here here, so nice for you to

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<v Speaker 2>be in Melbourne. And it's actually the weather has turned

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<v Speaker 2>up today. It's boiling for once.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's sunny today. The weather he is so up

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<v Speaker 4>and down. I never really used to come to Melbourne

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<v Speaker 4>because the weather's just a bit crazy for me.

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<v Speaker 1>But having times you've been to Melbourne before you started.

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<v Speaker 3>Dating, before I started dating you, I think I came

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<v Speaker 3>once or.

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<v Speaker 1>Twice whatever, and have you been a couple of times?

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<v Speaker 1>So we just came back from the local pub. We

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<v Speaker 1>walked down and went and had a what would you

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<v Speaker 1>call it a loosing the whistle shot of the killer.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't out us if we're going to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>It tends to be a secret.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, everyone knows. Yeah, So we're feeling a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit good here at the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Feeling good. We're also going to the Australian Open tonight's

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<v Speaker 2>with Michael. Yes, Little double Day. It's gonna be nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Timmy's ever been to the tennis obviously.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, you're in for a treat. It's going to be

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<v Speaker 2>so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know anything about tennis?

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<v Speaker 3>No? Not really. I know that like love means zero, love.

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<v Speaker 1>Is what we have. Baby does not mean zero here. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know the rules unless I'm actually sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>watching it. Then I like, remember the rules. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>something that I just think about every day today today,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, look, you guys are recently engaged. How is the

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<v Speaker 2>love bubble going? Because you guys are so in love.

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<v Speaker 2>It's honestly so beautiful to see.

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<v Speaker 3>It's really good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're very much in love. The love bubble hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>worn off. I don't think it ever, will you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they say the honeymoon stage. I just don't want the

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<v Speaker 1>honeymoon stage to end, and I don't think it will.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it will either. I don't believe the

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<v Speaker 2>honeymoon stage should end. I think if you keep like

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<v Speaker 2>working at things like you should be able to like

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<v Speaker 2>maintain it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I mean it's just about communication, isn't it. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think that we're really good at that. We've recently

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<v Speaker 1>discovered our what's the word forum figured out that Tammy's

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<v Speaker 1>avoidant and.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm that's my attachment stole.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, and I'm anxious, so like when there's something.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just trying to avoid and it's just.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, yeah, we found like a happy medium.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we figured that out.

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<v Speaker 1>We figure that out.

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<v Speaker 3>Very much in love and super happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, very happy. I met my match soulmates. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>tell each other all the time, my soulmates.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys, I actually like to never thought soulmates was

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<v Speaker 4>a thing, but I actually do now.

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<v Speaker 2>Really So until you met Matt, you just.

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<v Speaker 4>Literally like I was like, oh, like soulmates. Nah, but

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<v Speaker 4>I think we're like supposed to be together.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree. I said that. I think that like we're

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<v Speaker 1>always going to meet at some point, and this is

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<v Speaker 1>going to happen inevitably.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, Like, literally, both of you, you're melting my heart.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so obsessed. Let's take it back, shall we, to

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<v Speaker 2>the beginning, to the beginning, because right now you're so

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<v Speaker 2>happily in love and in the love bubble. But let's

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<v Speaker 2>take it back to that very first DM that Tammy

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<v Speaker 2>received from Nat. Take me through like your thought process

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<v Speaker 2>when that came through, because obviously I'm sure you get heaps.

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<v Speaker 3>Of d ms.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I usually like I won't open d ms,

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<v Speaker 4>I won't really look at them. But he had been

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<v Speaker 4>coming up, you guys have been coming up in my

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<v Speaker 4>for you on TikTok like heaps, and I always just

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<v Speaker 4>like swipe past and didn't really like looked much into it.

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<v Speaker 4>But I just I just always thought he was really,

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<v Speaker 4>really handsome and I saw I like I knew about

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<v Speaker 4>your Guys podcast, and I just always thought he was

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<v Speaker 4>really cute. And I was like, and when I saw

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<v Speaker 4>his message, it sort of stuck out to me and

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, you know what I'm gonna I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to open it and then I just gave.

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<v Speaker 1>It a little love her, like yeah, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Then I was like, oh, he'll message me now, because

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<v Speaker 4>like that was sort of me opening the door.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I did it. Nothing, he did it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, Okay, she liked it.

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<v Speaker 2>Then what happened?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I guess i'll see because I invited you to

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<v Speaker 1>the live show and I was like, well, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>i'll see you there.

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't actually like planning on coming. I think she

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<v Speaker 3>was planning. I was. I was just opening the door

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<v Speaker 3>for you to like make a move, make a move.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well I didn't obviously like I didn't, and then yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>A bit slow and then you had to yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>I was in Sydney with my little sister Ava, and

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<v Speaker 4>I was going to dinner with a bunch of friends

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, I'm gonna because I thought you

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<v Speaker 4>lived in Sydney.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know you were in Melbourne. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to see what he's up to.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, you in Sydney, and my sister

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<v Speaker 4>was like, I was like, like, these guys really cute.

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<v Speaker 3>So I messaged him and she was like no.

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<v Speaker 4>Why She was like, you know, yeah, I like best friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I give a about that.

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<v Speaker 4>But so I just pretended that I didn't message you,

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<v Speaker 4>but I like, secretly, while you were extra on the

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<v Speaker 4>podcast I was with her.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, you know what, I'm just not going

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<v Speaker 3>to tell her.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think the fact that Matt had sent your

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<v Speaker 2>message and then you liked it and then he didn't

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<v Speaker 2>message that made you think about him?

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<v Speaker 5>All?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I feel like that definitely made me like what

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<v Speaker 4>the hell because I'm not really that So I was like, excuse.

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<v Speaker 2>Me, I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, No, I just like I said to you, I

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<v Speaker 1>was not really dating at the time or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, you know, I've invited you nicely.

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't think of it.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, neither was I. I had sort of like

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<v Speaker 4>sworn off dating. I'd been on some like not great dates,

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<v Speaker 4>so I was like, I'm not dating. And then I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know if something was just like pulling me to you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the chiktok algorithm.

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<v Speaker 2>It where's your head and speed and the rest is history.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's talk about the first date because obviously you

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<v Speaker 2>weren't in Sydney.

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<v Speaker 1>And then so we started texting each other for a

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<v Speaker 1>week and then I was just like I'm saying to you,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't know if she gets like

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<v Speaker 1>my sense of humor, like I know, how like crude

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<v Speaker 1>or how like you know, how far I can go.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know, it's early days. So then

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<v Speaker 1>I messaged her. Remember I left the studio and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm just going to message you and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>here's my number. I give me a buzz when you're

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<v Speaker 1>not busy. And then what did you think?

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<v Speaker 2>When I said, yeah, what did you think of?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, I went into the office and I was talking

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<v Speaker 4>to all the girls, and I was like, why does

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<v Speaker 4>this guy want to call me? Like I don't like.

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<v Speaker 4>I just thought it was a bit strange that he

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to call me. And then I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe he's going to ask me to go on his podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was like, I was like I thought maybe

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<v Speaker 4>he didn't get that I was trying to flirt with him,

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<v Speaker 4>and then he was just going to like turn it

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<v Speaker 4>into like not not that. Yeah, So I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>hopefully he realizes I'm like hitting on him and he's

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<v Speaker 4>not about to he's going to ask me on a

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<v Speaker 4>date not to go on in his podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>And then yeah you did.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you called me, And then I missed your first call.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually I was washing my car and then I called

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<v Speaker 1>you back and then we spoke for like over an

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<v Speaker 1>hour and then yeah, the rest were I asked her.

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<v Speaker 3>And then he just randomly booked flight.

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<v Speaker 4>Was that the first day where he just sent me

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<v Speaker 4>like his flight confirmation to come to the Gold Coast?

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, yeah, a bit presumptuous, but that's a

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<v Speaker 4>bit much. I mean I thought it was like a

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<v Speaker 4>bit persumptuous. I was like, what if I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was busy, but well, you were busy with me? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was I thought.

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<v Speaker 5>It was really where she had another day day?

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<v Speaker 1>Did I say something like that? Because I remember I

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<v Speaker 1>sent you the flight itinery and then you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're actually coming or something? After mind you like telling

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<v Speaker 1>me to come, and then you're like are you actually coming? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're I was like, fuck, do you reckon?

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<v Speaker 1>She's got another day on and I just like crash

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<v Speaker 1>crashed the day and then yeah, so I flew up

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<v Speaker 1>that where you can't.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought it was cute. I liked the decisiveness.

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<v Speaker 2>And then for the first day tell me everything. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to know everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I did say, like you said you wanted to go

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere for dinner, didn't you? So I let you book

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<v Speaker 1>That was because I wasn't familiar with the Gold Coast. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>if it was Melbourne, I would have organized that, but

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<v Speaker 1>you said you wanted to try somewhere or something, so

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<v Speaker 1>we went there. Well, I booked bowling because I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like bowling was a bit better than going to the movies,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we ended up.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we didn't want to sit in a movie and

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<v Speaker 4>not be able to talk and get to know each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but then we're at dinner and talking and like

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<v Speaker 1>your conversation was so good and that we ended up

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<v Speaker 1>we're not going like talking through.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, dinner was really good.

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<v Speaker 4>Like you, I'm really shy and nervous when I first

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<v Speaker 4>meet someone. It made me feel really comfortable and like

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<v Speaker 4>you know when you sort of just don't want the

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<v Speaker 4>night to.

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<v Speaker 3>End, Like I've been on dates where I've been like

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<v Speaker 3>can this be over? Like I just want to go home?

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<v Speaker 3>But it was like the opposite of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, so we so right through. That's really nice. I

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<v Speaker 1>was felt the same way.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we had our first kiss. About that, tell us

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<v Speaker 3>about the first.

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<v Speaker 4>It honestly was like probably like my dream first kiss.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it was really it was really cute, it was hot.

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<v Speaker 4>It was hot, like we had just been obviously getting

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<v Speaker 4>along really well, and like, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know, I just was super super attracted to him.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I just remember I went to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like texting all my girlfriends and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Literally just want to make out with this guy.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, he's so hot, he's so funny, like

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<v Speaker 4>we're getting along so well, and I was like telling

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<v Speaker 4>them how much I just wanted to kiss him. And

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<v Speaker 4>then I came out of the bathroom and he was

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<v Speaker 4>walking down like towards where the bathrooms.

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<v Speaker 3>Are, and he literally just like grabbed me and kissed me.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like he just like read my mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, yeah, it's very hot.

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<v Speaker 2>That is like a movie moment.

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<v Speaker 3>It honestly felt like I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because he stopped and the like I sort of yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it was sparks flying definitely, the world stopped

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<v Speaker 2>around you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it definitely felt the sparks.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, guy, And then we.

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<v Speaker 1>Just kept chatting. We got another drink and kept chatting.

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<v Speaker 2>Then the night kind of wrapped up.

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<v Speaker 1>And then yeah, we went back to the hotel, had

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of drinks there, and then we the next day, actually.

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<v Speaker 3>I came and got a coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I messaged you and I was like, hey, I've

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<v Speaker 1>got some time to kill you want to come get

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<v Speaker 1>a coffee?

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<v Speaker 2>And this is before your flight back to the only.

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<v Speaker 1>Flew in for the night.

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<v Speaker 2>So then I was like a big gesture.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I wasn't dating at time, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what do I have to lose, Like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to go meet this really hot girl, which sparks

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<v Speaker 1>like the conversation has been flowing so well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and how is the chat in the morning?

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<v Speaker 1>It was good. Did we make it out in the morning? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think we were. We think we're cuddling at

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<v Speaker 1>the cafe in the booth.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so cute because when you do meet someone who

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<v Speaker 2>you're just like meant to be with the moment you

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<v Speaker 2>meet them, even like the phone conversation when you first

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<v Speaker 2>talk to them, you just like don't want to get

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<v Speaker 2>off the phone or you don't want to stuff hanging

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<v Speaker 2>out with them, and it just like meshes so well,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's just the best feeling in the whole world.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you nervous before the first day.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I definitely was a bit nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>What was your first impression of me?

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<v Speaker 4>I thought you were very tall. I answer like, I

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<v Speaker 4>was instantly very attracted to you. I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 4>he's a tall man.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember in the elevator, did I say something like

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<v Speaker 1>am I wearing something of yours? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I was just staring at you. You're nice to

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<v Speaker 4>look out baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I thought you were really funny and I

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<v Speaker 4>thought you were sweet, like it was really good.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you nervous, Yeah, I was nervous. Yeah, like good nervous,

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<v Speaker 1>like butterflies nervous. And I remember like when you first

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<v Speaker 1>walked off, I was like, shit, she's hot, because you

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<v Speaker 1>know when you like see people on Instagram and that

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like oh, and then you see him in person,

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<v Speaker 1>like I feel like you were hotter like in person

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<v Speaker 1>and you're hot.

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<v Speaker 2>You are, thanks, man, You guys are just a hot

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<v Speaker 2>couple together, like a very hot couple.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that's all you're getting from me.

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<v Speaker 2>So you started dating obviously long distance relationships still long

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<v Speaker 2>distance relationship kind of how is that going? Because that

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<v Speaker 2>must be a challenge.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not cut out for long distance. I hate it

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<v Speaker 4>so much, literally hate it.

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<v Speaker 1>It sucks. Like when it comes rough is like when

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<v Speaker 1>you've got like a I was saying the other day,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm still working obviously here in Melbourne, and then

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<v Speaker 1>like you finish the day at work and you just

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<v Speaker 1>want to go home and like just you know, cuddle.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I thought it would get sort of easier, like

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<v Speaker 4>I would get more used to it or it would

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<v Speaker 4>get easier.

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<v Speaker 3>But I feel like the more, like the longer we've been.

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<v Speaker 4>Together, want to be with you more and more like

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<v Speaker 4>it's making it harder, Like it's getting worse and worse.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I need.

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<v Speaker 3>You with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Granted that we haven't spent a week.

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<v Speaker 3>We've never spent a week apart.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah well yeah, sorry, Yeah, we haven't spent longer than.

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<v Speaker 2>A week apart since the first just the first day.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the first day. Yeah, I think, what's the longest

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<v Speaker 1>it's done? Like maybe six days? Five days? Yeah, probably

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<v Speaker 1>five days, five days, I reckon, Yeah, not that long at.

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<v Speaker 4>All, but that is still too long.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I really don't like it.

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<v Speaker 4>We like have had times where we'll like fall asleep

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<v Speaker 4>on FaceTime and cut that is so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Not the same a lot of face.

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<v Speaker 2>We missed the one big part of relationship, which is

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<v Speaker 2>the physical intimacy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. We Yeah, we face time a lot though.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are always on FaceTime. Yeah, is that your

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<v Speaker 2>like go to method of communication?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that's how Like I face time everyone, Like I

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<v Speaker 4>faced time all my friends, my employees, I face some

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<v Speaker 4>literally everyone. I don't I didn't before you, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>Well I just feel like it's good, like being able

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<v Speaker 4>to see the person you're talking to and like having icon.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I started calling and sometimes my family.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just so.

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<v Speaker 4>Used to, like if someone calls me normally, I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like it's so strange to me.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was that first call you had with Matt

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<v Speaker 2>really weird because it would have it was.

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<v Speaker 3>A bit weird for me, like because it was.

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<v Speaker 1>You're hiding in your car as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well my kids were like all screaming and sides.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I'm just gonna take this outside, yelling shouting

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<v Speaker 4>kids in the.

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<v Speaker 1>Background when I missed the first friend called, did you

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<v Speaker 1>then get out of the car and walk back inside.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then I like went back out to my car.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's cute.

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<v Speaker 2>And then from there there must have been like an

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<v Speaker 2>official chat. Did you guys have an official chat to

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<v Speaker 2>make it like boyfriend and girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you want me?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>It was really cute how you asked me.

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<v Speaker 1>So you shoot, Timmy was down in Melbourne and we

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<v Speaker 1>had a picnic on the beach. It was cold as

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, it was freezing because it was like

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<v Speaker 1>a sunset and then like the sun's setting and it

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<v Speaker 1>got like real cold.

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<v Speaker 3>Freezing, like yeah, I don't know what is with Melbourne.

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<v Speaker 1>That was so it was nice while we were talking.

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<v Speaker 3>It was beautiful and then for sunset.

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<v Speaker 1>And then just went cold, you know how it is here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then so Tammy from the start, like even when

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<v Speaker 1>we would stay and like I'd come to the Gold

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<v Speaker 1>Coast and all that, you'd ask me heaps of questions

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<v Speaker 1>like you would should google like a different what do

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<v Speaker 1>you call them my questions to ask?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just like you know, getting to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Like we had the like, well, yeah, so you bought

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<v Speaker 1>a box of cards. It's like questions to get to

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<v Speaker 1>know your partner.

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<v Speaker 2>So she was like that's so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're going through them while we're sitting there at

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<v Speaker 1>the picnic and like what was one of them? Like

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<v Speaker 1>what concept would you want to see stuff like that? Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how would you react to this all this sort of stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your just getting to know, like your future partner?

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<v Speaker 1>And then we got like halfway through the game. We've

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<v Speaker 1>been playing for a while, and then it was my

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<v Speaker 1>turn and I picked one up and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is a good one, and You're

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<v Speaker 1>like what is it? And I was like, will you

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<v Speaker 1>be my girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>So you made one up?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>It was so that's really cute.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know that I have never heard.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was like, with be my girlfriend? And

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<v Speaker 1>then you want to say yeah, you said yes, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It was. It was really sweet. Were you expecting it?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I was expecting it sort of about some

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<v Speaker 4>point we were going to end up together.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a cute way.

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<v Speaker 3>It was very sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>It was very had you guys said I love you

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<v Speaker 2>at that point?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You had pretty much that Yeah that day. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>before time you met my family.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you guys think it's awkward to say I love

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<v Speaker 2>you to someone for the first time, because I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like it's so awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I feel like I feel like it's overd when

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<v Speaker 1>you don't get it back.

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<v Speaker 2>If I guess that would be worse.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean I just I think like every time

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<v Speaker 4>I was looking at you, I was just thinking in

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<v Speaker 4>my head, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't something happened when you were going to say it

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<v Speaker 1>one time or something or doing something? What was it?

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<v Speaker 1>We were sitting having a drink at the bar and

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<v Speaker 1>you were like, what do you say? I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to say it or something. I was like, and where

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<v Speaker 1>I feel the same way. Yeah, I feel the same way.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just very like, I feel like our connection

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<v Speaker 4>was just so like instant, so it was it's really

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<v Speaker 4>easy to fall in love with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Same, And that's right because I knew what you

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<v Speaker 1>were going to say, and I was like, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to say it. I feel the same way.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to describe the connection that I see in

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<v Speaker 2>front of me right now, I would say it's very magnetic,

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<v Speaker 2>like you guys are so drawn to each other, it's

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<v Speaker 2>really beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, like the same person Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>We always make jokes that we're like the same twinning.

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<v Speaker 1>Same personality, same like sort of like yeah, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>the same. Like I feel I could be really goofy

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<v Speaker 1>with Tammy and she like accepts my like goofy side.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a really goofy side as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so like I can be silly and I can

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<v Speaker 1>do goofy stuff, and like she just gets it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I get her as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like I don't know someone that like when me

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<v Speaker 1>do stuff, like it's not like like she gets it.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't frown on it. Like I don't know, like

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<v Speaker 1>should I say how, well.

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<v Speaker 3>That's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we just we just do weird stuff. Yeah, weird.

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<v Speaker 1>We just get each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that can just be beat.

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<v Speaker 3>Just beat. People can just imagine what said.

0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:29.959
<v Speaker 4>But it's not what they probably think that it's probably.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's what you want in a relationship, right,

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<v Speaker 2>you want someone who you can just be yourself with,

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<v Speaker 2>be silly with, be goofy with, like not judge each other,

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<v Speaker 2>just like have fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's it. Like even that thing that it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, that's like, don't you.

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<v Speaker 3>Think it's so weird how he says beef?

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<v Speaker 4>It's be say how you say it?

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<v Speaker 1>You say I'm saying deep.

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<v Speaker 4>I just a lot or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but even that, like that's not like that's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And then there's other stuff that happened as well, that

0:20:17.320 --> 0:20:19.119
<v Speaker 1>are sort of like that, I say, oh, like this

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<v Speaker 1>would be funny or this would be hot or this,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like, you know, Sammy's like yeah, let's do.

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<v Speaker 2>It, and You're like cool, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like you guys are on the same wave, like yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>doule areas you guys met had the best first date

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<v Speaker 2>ever movie moment kiss, followed by like this little whorldwind

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<v Speaker 2>romance shall we say? That led to I love you

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<v Speaker 2>and being in an official relationship. And then I guess,

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<v Speaker 2>for you, Tammy, with such a huge platform, I guess

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<v Speaker 2>like the question of do I launch this into the public,

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<v Speaker 2>And I know that was kind of taken away from

0:21:02.320 --> 0:21:04.600
<v Speaker 2>you guys because there was videos of you guys that

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<v Speaker 2>were caught together, like at our live show on one

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<v Speaker 2>of your dates. What was that process like?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I've had very public relationships obviously very public breakups

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<v Speaker 4>and it's not fun to go through.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was I was just sort.

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<v Speaker 4>Of like my next relationship, I'm not like posting anything

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<v Speaker 4>about it, like I don't want it in the public

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<v Speaker 4>or anything like that. But then like, I'm just so

0:21:28.760 --> 0:21:30.960
<v Speaker 4>obsessed with you that I was just like, you know what,

0:21:31.000 --> 0:21:34.800
<v Speaker 4>fuck it like, let's I just wanted to, like shot,

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<v Speaker 4>like I'm so in love and I'm so happy and

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<v Speaker 4>I just wanted to Like it's such a like a nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Thing, like I love love and I shouldn't have to.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's sort of hard though as well, when we're

0:21:46.720 --> 0:21:49.280
<v Speaker 1>hanging out so much and doing stuff. Yeah, both putting

0:21:49.280 --> 0:21:51.520
<v Speaker 1>stuff off it like because obviously I post on social

0:21:51.560 --> 0:21:53.960
<v Speaker 1>media as well, like so like we're posting at the

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<v Speaker 1>same place and it's like we're taking video or content

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<v Speaker 1>of each each other and stuff like that, and we

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't post it.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you guys annoyed when other people kind of took

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<v Speaker 2>that hard launch away from me? Or was it just

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it is what it is, not so much

0:22:10.040 --> 0:22:11.879
<v Speaker 1>them taking it away. It was more that like it

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<v Speaker 1>would have been.

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<v Speaker 4>Nice to Yeah, it would have been nice for us

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<v Speaker 4>to choose when we wanted to sort.

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<v Speaker 1>Of share it with the public and have that.

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<v Speaker 3>Just keep it christian us for as long as we

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<v Speaker 3>wanted sort.

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<v Speaker 1>Of thing, Yeah, not have the public pressure. Like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so early on like almost like you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're the start of us getting to know each other.

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<v Speaker 1>That would have been different and then like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but I guess it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like you know, it wasn't detrimental.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then obviously you guys did soft launch it

0:22:41.600 --> 0:22:45.399
<v Speaker 2>hard launch the relationship. Very cute by the way, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>What was the public reaction? I guess to Matt, people

0:22:51.800 --> 0:22:53.399
<v Speaker 2>are fun people.

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<v Speaker 4>Is just like there's a lot of miserable people out

0:22:56.560 --> 0:23:00.000
<v Speaker 4>there that just like, I don't see why so many

0:23:00.080 --> 0:23:02.080
<v Speaker 4>people are so negative about it.

0:23:02.160 --> 0:23:03.520
<v Speaker 3>I really don't understand.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why they think we care.

0:23:05.880 --> 0:23:09.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like I really could not care less. It's like,

0:23:09.880 --> 0:23:12.560
<v Speaker 4>why do they care so much? Like either be happy

0:23:12.560 --> 0:23:14.080
<v Speaker 4>for us or move on with yours.

0:23:14.280 --> 0:23:18.040
<v Speaker 1>I've always said, imagine actually commenting on something neative, Like

0:23:18.160 --> 0:23:20.200
<v Speaker 1>imagine just sitting there and doing that.

0:23:20.280 --> 0:23:22.240
<v Speaker 2>I can't imagine it. I actually just can't.

0:23:22.280 --> 0:23:25.520
<v Speaker 4>And I know what they're trying to achieve as well.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, what do you like? What do you get

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<v Speaker 4>out of this? Like it doesn't make you feel better

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<v Speaker 4>about your own life?

0:23:32.320 --> 0:23:35.040
<v Speaker 1>And someone people that are so happy and actually don't

0:23:35.080 --> 0:23:37.159
<v Speaker 1>give a shit about what you're saying either, Like we

0:23:37.240 --> 0:23:39.320
<v Speaker 1>laugh about something like most of them that we read

0:23:39.720 --> 0:23:43.160
<v Speaker 1>if we read it, we laugh and like ahaha, yeah yeah,

0:23:43.440 --> 0:23:45.040
<v Speaker 1>and we're just going to keep the receipts anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And I mean I just sort of can't wait

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<v Speaker 4>for everyone to just get over it and like because

0:23:50.880 --> 0:23:55.240
<v Speaker 4>I mean, we're going to be together and laugh. Like

0:23:56.119 --> 0:23:59.160
<v Speaker 4>people get over it eventually, I'm sure, but I think.

0:23:59.040 --> 0:24:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't have to. They don't fucking.

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<v Speaker 2>Fault, like yeah, so they're still quite negative even now,

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<v Speaker 2>would you say.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you know what, in the very beginning, it was

0:24:11.000 --> 0:24:15.240
<v Speaker 4>obviously overwhelmingly negative, like a lot more negative than positive.

0:24:15.280 --> 0:24:18.720
<v Speaker 4>But the amount of like positive like DMS and stuff

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<v Speaker 4>like that that I get now is like I think

0:24:20.920 --> 0:24:22.680
<v Speaker 4>as well for people trying to like stick up for

0:24:22.720 --> 0:24:24.800
<v Speaker 4>me because they see like the hate and stuff as well.

0:24:25.240 --> 0:24:27.040
<v Speaker 4>So that's been really nice. So I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 4>honestly like more positive now.

0:24:29.000 --> 0:24:32.280
<v Speaker 2>That's that's Sometimes I feel like people just say a

0:24:32.320 --> 0:24:35.400
<v Speaker 2>negative comment because obviously it's a big platform, so they're

0:24:35.400 --> 0:24:37.880
<v Speaker 2>like I want to say like something wild, so it gets.

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<v Speaker 4>Like the comment back and then her gets more Like

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<v Speaker 4>I would rarely comment back to one who I commented

0:24:46.160 --> 0:24:50.119
<v Speaker 4>back to someone about something, and then like my comment

0:24:50.160 --> 0:24:52.600
<v Speaker 4>will obviously like blow up and then they'll.

0:24:52.400 --> 0:24:53.120
<v Speaker 3>Just delete them.

0:24:54.320 --> 0:24:57.280
<v Speaker 4>Or what some people do is like I'll reply to

0:24:57.320 --> 0:25:00.040
<v Speaker 4>someone and I'm like polite and nice, but then I

0:25:00.040 --> 0:25:01.520
<v Speaker 4>will be like, oh my god, I didn't mean them

0:25:01.800 --> 0:25:04.560
<v Speaker 4>like that, or like just I'm like, don't comment.

0:25:04.359 --> 0:25:09.640
<v Speaker 5>Something rude, stick to your guns.

0:25:09.680 --> 0:25:13.520
<v Speaker 4>But usually I just you know, ignore everything, like whatever.

0:25:13.920 --> 0:25:15.200
<v Speaker 4>People can think what they want.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I get some random comments on mine, like I've

0:25:18.800 --> 0:25:21.119
<v Speaker 1>I've seen a few of them, and people are weird.

0:25:22.040 --> 0:25:22.440
<v Speaker 3>So weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't get it, Like I couldn't do it,

0:25:26.080 --> 0:25:28.160
<v Speaker 1>Like I just don't, Like I said, like you think

0:25:28.160 --> 0:25:30.520
<v Speaker 1>of zingers to comment on, like tiktoks and that, you know,

0:25:30.600 --> 0:25:36.480
<v Speaker 1>like if something something something wishy, like I never would comment,

0:25:36.600 --> 0:25:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Like I have mates and stuff that send me tiktoks

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<v Speaker 1>and they go read the comments and I'm like, no,

0:25:41.680 --> 0:25:44.240
<v Speaker 1>like who cares comments? You know what I mean? Yeah,

0:25:44.280 --> 0:25:46.199
<v Speaker 1>so if you are commenting on stuff, we don't give

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<v Speaker 1>a ship.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm getting a lot of nice.

0:25:50.040 --> 0:25:51.920
<v Speaker 1>We get that we read the nice ones. You obviously

0:25:51.920 --> 0:25:53.280
<v Speaker 1>do you taken the nice ones?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because I feel like it's easier to sort of

0:25:55.560 --> 0:25:58.720
<v Speaker 4>take on board the negative ones. But I think I'm

0:25:58.800 --> 0:26:01.080
<v Speaker 4>just because I've obviously, like been on Instagram stuff for

0:26:01.160 --> 0:26:05.000
<v Speaker 4>so long, so I'm sort of good at like not

0:26:05.160 --> 0:26:06.280
<v Speaker 4>listening to the negative ones.

0:26:06.320 --> 0:26:09.199
<v Speaker 1>Now I'm just like taking you as well. Yeah I

0:26:09.240 --> 0:26:10.200
<v Speaker 1>did notice that.

0:26:10.400 --> 0:26:12.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah you did say that.

0:26:11.720 --> 0:26:13.680
<v Speaker 1>That you don't take on the negative stuff. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I've just grown a thick skin with it,

0:26:15.600 --> 0:26:18.359
<v Speaker 4>and I've just liked told myself like it's not me,

0:26:18.480 --> 0:26:21.080
<v Speaker 4>it's them, like if they are so negative, like they

0:26:21.119 --> 0:26:22.560
<v Speaker 4>have something going on, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there any comment that someone will or could say

0:26:26.440 --> 0:26:29.080
<v Speaker 2>to you that does cut deep? Is there something that

0:26:29.359 --> 0:26:33.560
<v Speaker 2>hurts a specific like source spot that they sometimes can

0:26:33.680 --> 0:26:36.800
<v Speaker 2>like push you over the edge because it's it's must

0:26:36.880 --> 0:26:37.560
<v Speaker 2>be so hard.

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<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't say like something that just like really hurts.

0:26:41.200 --> 0:26:44.760
<v Speaker 4>But more so that is annoying is stuff being like

0:26:44.800 --> 0:26:48.720
<v Speaker 4>oh her poor kids. It's like you literally know nothing

0:26:48.920 --> 0:26:52.200
<v Speaker 4>about my kids' day to day life. My kids are

0:26:52.400 --> 0:26:57.879
<v Speaker 4>very happy children, they're very loved, they're like it's just

0:26:57.960 --> 0:27:01.360
<v Speaker 4>it's it's frustrating when they think like they can say

0:27:01.400 --> 0:27:03.960
<v Speaker 4>anything about my kids, like you really have no idea.

0:27:04.600 --> 0:27:08.119
<v Speaker 3>That's awful. Yeah, it pisses me off a bit, but yeah,

0:27:08.200 --> 0:27:09.119
<v Speaker 3>thats me off.

0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:11.360
<v Speaker 1>And then yeah they say about you being a mum,

0:27:11.359 --> 0:27:12.160
<v Speaker 1>like you're a great mum.

0:27:12.520 --> 0:27:16.280
<v Speaker 4>So I mean, yeah, I feel like mostly I get

0:27:16.320 --> 0:27:18.480
<v Speaker 4>good comments about like my parenting and stuff like that,

0:27:18.520 --> 0:27:21.480
<v Speaker 4>but it's like people don't actually know like my day

0:27:21.520 --> 0:27:23.480
<v Speaker 4>to day life, my kids.

0:27:23.480 --> 0:27:26.000
<v Speaker 1>They don't know, like, well, what do you put on Instagram?

0:27:26.240 --> 0:27:28.160
<v Speaker 1>Like what a story? A story is about.

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<v Speaker 4>Like fifteen to twenty Yeah, it's like that's just like

0:27:30.119 --> 0:27:31.480
<v Speaker 4>a little glimpse into it, you.

0:27:31.400 --> 0:27:34.640
<v Speaker 1>Know, like thirty seconds and then people they know you

0:27:34.680 --> 0:27:34.879
<v Speaker 1>like this.

0:27:35.160 --> 0:27:38.440
<v Speaker 3>Like chemen their whole day, Like how.

0:27:38.440 --> 0:27:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Much more it happens in a day?

0:27:39.640 --> 0:27:40.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah totally.

0:27:40.680 --> 0:27:43.240
<v Speaker 4>But it's like, yeah, like my kids are very happy,

0:27:43.520 --> 0:27:47.240
<v Speaker 4>very well taken care of. Obviously I didn't plan on

0:27:47.359 --> 0:27:51.280
<v Speaker 4>like the breakups and things like that, but it's just

0:27:52.240 --> 0:27:55.040
<v Speaker 4>the way it turned out, and you just make the

0:27:55.080 --> 0:27:59.280
<v Speaker 4>most of like what you're given kind of thing. Absolutely,

0:27:59.280 --> 0:28:02.640
<v Speaker 4>And I'm very and I'm sure they'll the benefit from

0:28:02.640 --> 0:28:04.160
<v Speaker 4>seeing me happy as well.

0:28:04.920 --> 0:28:11.840
<v Speaker 2>One hundred percent. So you guys decided to take your

0:28:11.880 --> 0:28:17.800
<v Speaker 2>first couple's trip to the beautiful mold Ives? Yeah, what

0:28:17.880 --> 0:28:20.680
<v Speaker 2>kind of sparked that idea? Like where did the whole

0:28:20.720 --> 0:28:22.359
<v Speaker 2>mold Ives trips come from?

0:28:22.920 --> 0:28:23.120
<v Speaker 4>Well?

0:28:23.200 --> 0:28:25.480
<v Speaker 3>I was actually planning on going.

0:28:27.400 --> 0:28:30.720
<v Speaker 4>I was planning on going with my two little sisters.

0:28:31.560 --> 0:28:32.840
<v Speaker 1>There's another reason for ava.

0:28:33.520 --> 0:28:34.440
<v Speaker 2>So they got the boo.

0:28:34.920 --> 0:28:38.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so we sort of wanted to go, like somewhere.

0:28:38.560 --> 0:28:39.520
<v Speaker 1>We wanted to go somewhere.

0:28:40.080 --> 0:28:43.080
<v Speaker 5>I thought, why didn't we just you threw it around

0:28:43.640 --> 0:28:45.200
<v Speaker 5>and then it was sort of like, yeah, I'll go,

0:28:45.560 --> 0:28:47.640
<v Speaker 5>let's do it. Yeah, you got thrown around a couple

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:50.160
<v Speaker 5>of times, and then it got closer and You're like,

0:28:50.200 --> 0:28:51.120
<v Speaker 5>do you want to come? And I was like, yeah,

0:28:51.120 --> 0:28:53.120
<v Speaker 5>I can come, let's get let's go. It would be fun.

0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:55.640
<v Speaker 1>And then I thought it would be good, like early

0:28:55.680 --> 0:28:57.880
<v Speaker 1>on as well, to go on a couple's trip to

0:28:58.280 --> 0:29:02.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, get that over there, we go, see how

0:29:02.040 --> 0:29:04.520
<v Speaker 1>we go. We could just get it over you know,

0:29:04.880 --> 0:29:06.160
<v Speaker 1>get it out of the way, see how we go.

0:29:06.360 --> 0:29:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Because they don't have one of the things that people

0:29:08.120 --> 0:29:11.160
<v Speaker 1>like judge, it's like a test. Yeah, I've never thought

0:29:11.160 --> 0:29:12.560
<v Speaker 1>of it like that. I never have.

0:29:12.920 --> 0:29:13.680
<v Speaker 3>I reckon it is.

0:29:13.880 --> 0:29:16.760
<v Speaker 2>I reckon it's a test really, Like sometimes I can

0:29:16.800 --> 0:29:18.800
<v Speaker 2>get the eck from people, like on holiday, I'm like,

0:29:20.640 --> 0:29:21.240
<v Speaker 2>you nearly got.

0:29:21.160 --> 0:29:23.080
<v Speaker 1>The eck for me at the Star No, I did

0:29:23.080 --> 0:29:23.880
<v Speaker 1>it stressed?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh about the proposal in generally really.

0:29:28.400 --> 0:29:28.920
<v Speaker 1>Get the ick.

0:29:29.000 --> 0:29:31.240
<v Speaker 3>I just couldn't understand why you were so obsessed with

0:29:31.240 --> 0:29:33.240
<v Speaker 3>the weather. I was like, it's still.

0:29:33.000 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 4>A beautiful place, Like if it rains, it's still beautiful,

0:29:35.840 --> 0:29:37.080
<v Speaker 4>Like get over.

0:29:36.920 --> 0:29:38.480
<v Speaker 2>It and move on.

0:29:40.440 --> 0:29:43.360
<v Speaker 1>Literally every half an hour going and staring out off

0:29:43.400 --> 0:29:44.920
<v Speaker 1>the balcony into the distance.

0:29:45.280 --> 0:29:49.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, wondering. Yeah, I don't know how I didn't put

0:29:49.200 --> 0:29:50.000
<v Speaker 3>two and two together.

0:29:50.480 --> 0:29:53.040
<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, how did you not? Yeah did you guess

0:29:53.040 --> 0:29:54.160
<v Speaker 1>it at all or anything? No?

0:29:54.320 --> 0:29:58.400
<v Speaker 4>Literally, not not in the slightest so no suspicion. I

0:29:58.440 --> 0:30:01.000
<v Speaker 4>thought maybe, if anything, he was gonna like plan like

0:30:01.040 --> 0:30:03.640
<v Speaker 4>I don't know, like a dinner or like, I don't know,

0:30:03.720 --> 0:30:06.800
<v Speaker 4>something cute and romantic, not a proposal like that was

0:30:07.360 --> 0:30:09.520
<v Speaker 4>definitely not so she had no idea.

0:30:10.120 --> 0:30:13.880
<v Speaker 1>Did you have any idea? Like when we were walking over.

0:30:14.000 --> 0:30:17.000
<v Speaker 4>Well, I thought like you just planned a cute, romantic

0:30:17.520 --> 0:30:20.040
<v Speaker 4>surprise dinner, which I thought was so sweet, Like I

0:30:20.080 --> 0:30:23.240
<v Speaker 4>almost started crying, like I thought it was so beautiful.

0:30:23.440 --> 0:30:27.320
<v Speaker 4>I wasn't expecting it. And then when you got down

0:30:27.360 --> 0:30:30.320
<v Speaker 4>on one knee, I think I almost passed out. I

0:30:30.440 --> 0:30:33.720
<v Speaker 4>was so like shocked, And then you thought out the

0:30:33.800 --> 0:30:35.760
<v Speaker 4>real like as soon as I saw the ring, I

0:30:35.800 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 4>was like, I I sort of blacked out at that point.

0:30:39.640 --> 0:30:41.560
<v Speaker 3>Like it was all very surreal.

0:30:41.760 --> 0:30:45.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah, and then I think we just both spent

0:30:45.600 --> 0:30:49.200
<v Speaker 4>a lot of the evening crying, Like there was a

0:30:49.200 --> 0:30:49.880
<v Speaker 4>lot of tears.

0:30:49.920 --> 0:30:51.320
<v Speaker 3>It was very emotional.

0:30:51.680 --> 0:30:54.760
<v Speaker 4>It was very romantic, like probably the most romantic time

0:30:54.800 --> 0:30:55.640
<v Speaker 4>in my life.

0:30:56.280 --> 0:30:58.960
<v Speaker 3>It was. It was it was magical.

0:30:59.120 --> 0:31:02.480
<v Speaker 1>We both said that like we don't remember what was

0:31:02.520 --> 0:31:04.080
<v Speaker 1>said as soon as I got on one knee, Like

0:31:04.120 --> 0:31:07.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't remember I remember like before saying what I

0:31:07.600 --> 0:31:10.440
<v Speaker 1>was saying about, you know, and wanted to all that

0:31:10.480 --> 0:31:12.600
<v Speaker 1>sort of stuff. And then when we both agreed, we're

0:31:12.600 --> 0:31:16.200
<v Speaker 1>sort of happy that like those two people have that moment.

0:31:16.480 --> 0:31:20.960
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's just like in that moment, in that moment forever.

0:31:21.080 --> 0:31:23.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And it was just like because all I remember

0:31:23.600 --> 0:31:24.840
<v Speaker 1>was as soon as I got one knee and I

0:31:24.840 --> 0:31:27.480
<v Speaker 1>started talking, like I started to like to hear, and

0:31:27.560 --> 0:31:28.960
<v Speaker 1>I was like choking up and.

0:31:28.880 --> 0:31:30.920
<v Speaker 3>Like crying, I'm gonna start crying.

0:31:31.280 --> 0:31:33.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But I didn't think I was gonna I didn't

0:31:33.280 --> 0:31:35.600
<v Speaker 1>think I was gonna cry, did I didn't think so,

0:31:35.880 --> 0:31:41.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you cry, but I didn't think I was

0:31:41.120 --> 0:31:43.320
<v Speaker 1>going to, like I just like rehearsed in my head

0:31:43.320 --> 0:31:44.640
<v Speaker 1>and like thought about what I was going to say,

0:31:44.680 --> 0:31:46.400
<v Speaker 1>and I thought about the moment over and over again.

0:31:46.440 --> 0:31:48.440
<v Speaker 1>I was like, nah'll be fine. But then like I

0:31:48.480 --> 0:31:50.240
<v Speaker 1>don't know about how what other guys are like. But

0:31:50.280 --> 0:31:51.760
<v Speaker 1>then as soon as you're actually in that moment and

0:31:51.800 --> 0:31:54.080
<v Speaker 1>you get down on one knee and it's like real,

0:31:54.200 --> 0:31:56.480
<v Speaker 1>It's like, yeah, I just started tearing up and crying.

0:31:57.040 --> 0:32:02.120
<v Speaker 2>It's so emotional just hearing you guys literally like so perfect.

0:32:02.320 --> 0:32:06.000
<v Speaker 3>It was everything about that whole trip was like very romantic,

0:32:06.160 --> 0:32:08.520
<v Speaker 3>very Yeah, it was beautiful.

0:32:08.600 --> 0:32:12.840
<v Speaker 1>It was the best trip holiday have ever been on,

0:32:13.880 --> 0:32:14.720
<v Speaker 1>the best time in life.

0:32:16.240 --> 0:32:22.480
<v Speaker 3>Guys. I'm actually going you're getting serious. I'm like I'm

0:32:22.480 --> 0:32:23.520
<v Speaker 3>getting a bit trying.

0:32:23.280 --> 0:32:25.160
<v Speaker 1>To keep it together. Yeah, and then we just spent

0:32:25.200 --> 0:32:27.160
<v Speaker 1>the rest of the trip just in our love bubble.

0:32:27.480 --> 0:32:27.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:32:28.160 --> 0:32:30.760
<v Speaker 2>It's just like so cool when you meet your person

0:32:31.080 --> 0:32:34.000
<v Speaker 2>and I just feel like going from like boyfriend and

0:32:34.000 --> 0:32:37.000
<v Speaker 2>girlfriend to engage, it just feels like a different level

0:32:37.000 --> 0:32:38.840
<v Speaker 2>of closeness. Don't you guys agree?

0:32:39.200 --> 0:32:41.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's so nice.

0:32:41.360 --> 0:32:43.800
<v Speaker 1>It just made sense as well, like everyone's like saying

0:32:43.840 --> 0:32:46.000
<v Speaker 1>stuff like oh they're rushing, all that sort of stuff, but.

0:32:46.120 --> 0:32:48.920
<v Speaker 4>Like it's just it's just like when you know, you know,

0:32:49.080 --> 0:32:50.920
<v Speaker 4>like it just feels so.

0:32:51.320 --> 0:32:52.720
<v Speaker 1>Right, it makes sense.

0:32:52.880 --> 0:32:56.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it just it feels. Yeah, like we just know

0:32:56.120 --> 0:32:59.160
<v Speaker 3>we want to be together forever, and we just.

0:33:00.360 --> 0:33:04.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's not going to waste time. Yeah, wasting time?

0:33:04.720 --> 0:33:07.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why would you? Yeah, when you know, you know,

0:33:07.800 --> 0:33:10.880
<v Speaker 2>I feel like at our age as well, Like I

0:33:10.920 --> 0:33:12.640
<v Speaker 2>mean we're all roughly around the same age. I'm a

0:33:12.640 --> 0:33:17.160
<v Speaker 2>little bit older, but I think things move quicker definitely.

0:33:17.720 --> 0:33:20.120
<v Speaker 4>Well, I think maybe you just have like you have

0:33:20.320 --> 0:33:24.920
<v Speaker 4>just learnt the past, so you just know like what

0:33:24.960 --> 0:33:27.000
<v Speaker 4>you want more, you know, Like yeah, you know.

0:33:27.560 --> 0:33:28.960
<v Speaker 1>I said from the start, So a lot of the

0:33:29.000 --> 0:33:31.360
<v Speaker 1>things Tammy said, I remember if we're going back, like

0:33:31.400 --> 0:33:34.160
<v Speaker 1>should ask me questions that when we were together, and

0:33:34.160 --> 0:33:35.840
<v Speaker 1>should ask me a lot of like what are you

0:33:35.840 --> 0:33:38.200
<v Speaker 1>looking for in a partner? And I asked, like I've

0:33:38.200 --> 0:33:39.840
<v Speaker 1>done a lot of self work and a lot of

0:33:39.880 --> 0:33:42.240
<v Speaker 1>stuff like working and like thinking about that sort of

0:33:42.240 --> 0:33:45.480
<v Speaker 1>stuff before I met Tammy. And I don't sound selfish,

0:33:45.480 --> 0:33:47.320
<v Speaker 1>and but like we've said on this podcast before, like

0:33:47.400 --> 0:33:49.240
<v Speaker 1>when you're dating, you have to be a little bit selfish,

0:33:49.280 --> 0:33:50.320
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Because at the end of

0:33:50.320 --> 0:33:52.080
<v Speaker 1>the day, you're finding who you want to be with.

0:33:52.600 --> 0:33:54.520
<v Speaker 1>And I said to I said, from the start, like,

0:33:55.000 --> 0:33:58.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for how they make me feel, because I've

0:33:58.320 --> 0:34:00.680
<v Speaker 1>been in relationships where they don't make me feel good.

0:34:01.080 --> 0:34:02.800
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, that's what I'm looking for, and

0:34:02.800 --> 0:34:05.560
<v Speaker 1>Tammy makes me feel good. I feel good about myself.

0:34:05.560 --> 0:34:07.360
<v Speaker 1>It makes yeah, I feel good when I'm with you.

0:34:07.440 --> 0:34:08.759
<v Speaker 1>So I knew what I was looking for and that's

0:34:08.760 --> 0:34:09.400
<v Speaker 1>what I found.

0:34:10.640 --> 0:34:12.959
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean I feel the same. I just feel

0:34:13.040 --> 0:34:16.960
<v Speaker 4>like I sort of have like expectations in how I

0:34:17.000 --> 0:34:19.720
<v Speaker 4>want to be treated and like the type of person

0:34:19.760 --> 0:34:23.400
<v Speaker 4>I want. And I feel like he's definitely like treats

0:34:23.440 --> 0:34:29.680
<v Speaker 4>me perfectly and he's so amazing and I feel very lucky.

0:34:29.920 --> 0:34:33.560
<v Speaker 3>You guys are just each other's person really and truly.

0:34:34.400 --> 0:34:35.480
<v Speaker 1>It's getting really emotional.

0:34:39.080 --> 0:34:44.520
<v Speaker 2>Who did you guys call first when you like announced

0:34:44.760 --> 0:34:47.800
<v Speaker 2>the engagement. Who are you calling?

0:34:48.880 --> 0:34:50.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I didn't really call anyone.

0:34:51.719 --> 0:34:54.400
<v Speaker 4>The reception the Wi Fi wasn't that great, so I

0:34:54.520 --> 0:34:58.560
<v Speaker 4>was like messaging people like photos stuff like that.

0:34:58.800 --> 0:35:00.680
<v Speaker 1>A lot of them. Like I said before, my dad

0:35:00.680 --> 0:35:03.080
<v Speaker 1>got upset because I didn't call him. But I remember

0:35:03.080 --> 0:35:05.799
<v Speaker 1>calling like Mom, and it was like, really, ship wasn't

0:35:05.880 --> 0:35:08.080
<v Speaker 1>the Wi Fi? Like he couldn't really see much in

0:35:08.200 --> 0:35:11.280
<v Speaker 1>that so like and I felt as well, like everyone,

0:35:11.480 --> 0:35:13.600
<v Speaker 1>like I told everyone before what I was doing anyway,

0:35:13.640 --> 0:35:16.560
<v Speaker 1>like I told your family as well, like I told

0:35:16.600 --> 0:35:17.800
<v Speaker 1>people what I was I can't.

0:35:17.600 --> 0:35:21.640
<v Speaker 4>Even believe that that I told Yeah, like I just

0:35:21.719 --> 0:35:22.960
<v Speaker 4>had no idea about any.

0:35:22.800 --> 0:35:25.560
<v Speaker 1>Of this, you were, well. I only got a coffee

0:35:25.560 --> 0:35:28.800
<v Speaker 1>obviously with Amy and told her. I snuck around the

0:35:28.840 --> 0:35:30.040
<v Speaker 1>house and told everyone else.

0:35:31.280 --> 0:35:34.640
<v Speaker 4>At one point, I was walking downstairs and him and

0:35:34.840 --> 0:35:36.960
<v Speaker 4>Ava and Style were talking and Ama.

0:35:36.880 --> 0:35:38.400
<v Speaker 3>Was just like oh, And I was like, what are

0:35:38.400 --> 0:35:39.240
<v Speaker 3>you guys talking about?

0:35:39.840 --> 0:35:40.279
<v Speaker 1>Cover it up?

0:35:40.280 --> 0:35:44.000
<v Speaker 4>I don't remember like what the excuse was.

0:35:47.160 --> 0:35:48.799
<v Speaker 1>We were in her office as well, and all the

0:35:48.800 --> 0:35:51.440
<v Speaker 1>girls in her office stuff are having lunch downstairs and

0:35:51.440 --> 0:35:52.880
<v Speaker 1>you're in the gym and I was with them, and

0:35:52.920 --> 0:35:55.120
<v Speaker 1>I was showing him photos of the ring, and.

0:35:55.040 --> 0:35:57.239
<v Speaker 2>I remember the whole office near Yeah.

0:35:58.200 --> 0:36:01.200
<v Speaker 1>I just you know me, I'm so excited and I

0:36:01.280 --> 0:36:03.440
<v Speaker 1>was like I'm in love. Yeah, And then I remember

0:36:03.440 --> 0:36:05.880
<v Speaker 1>someone said it's massive or something and you walked in

0:36:05.920 --> 0:36:08.880
<v Speaker 1>and You're like, what's that? And I was like, no clue,

0:36:09.080 --> 0:36:11.120
<v Speaker 1>no clue and I was like yeah, and I cracked

0:36:11.120 --> 0:36:16.480
<v Speaker 1>a what's the word joke? Inappropriate joke refeat?

0:36:17.200 --> 0:36:21.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh god, So did he do well with the ring,

0:36:22.040 --> 0:36:25.000
<v Speaker 2>because yeah, the ring is perfect. She's like amazing.

0:36:25.520 --> 0:36:27.720
<v Speaker 4>Like as soon as he was getting down on one knee,

0:36:27.800 --> 0:36:32.040
<v Speaker 4>I was like in shock. But then we like showed

0:36:32.040 --> 0:36:35.720
<v Speaker 4>the ring. Oh my god, like it's stunning. It's honestly

0:36:35.800 --> 0:36:38.160
<v Speaker 4>like my dream ring. It's perfect.

0:36:38.360 --> 0:36:40.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I came to hell was there with me

0:36:40.560 --> 0:36:43.080
<v Speaker 1>when we did it? Well, I was saying to Taming

0:36:43.120 --> 0:36:46.000
<v Speaker 1>the other day, I can't wait to wear my band, Like,

0:36:46.120 --> 0:36:48.600
<v Speaker 1>I just want to wear that. So like I saw

0:36:48.640 --> 0:36:49.040
<v Speaker 1>you with.

0:36:48.960 --> 0:36:50.600
<v Speaker 2>The ring on, and I thought you had a wedding

0:36:50.640 --> 0:36:52.080
<v Speaker 2>band on.

0:36:52.280 --> 0:36:54.879
<v Speaker 1>The other thing was the other hand, Yeah, I think

0:36:54.880 --> 0:36:57.239
<v Speaker 1>some A couple of people commented that, Yeah, I'm really

0:36:57.239 --> 0:37:00.160
<v Speaker 1>excited to wear my wedding band just to you know,

0:37:00.760 --> 0:37:03.600
<v Speaker 1>let everyone jealous. Yeah, most jealous. You get to wear

0:37:03.600 --> 0:37:05.600
<v Speaker 1>a ring at the moment, I can't.

0:37:06.840 --> 0:37:07.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I want Michael.

0:37:07.640 --> 0:37:13.080
<v Speaker 5>I want to ring on him to let everyone knows everyone.

0:37:16.640 --> 0:37:21.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you guys are engaged, happily engaged wedding planning.

0:37:22.680 --> 0:37:26.120
<v Speaker 2>Is that happening? Matt's kind of spilled the beans that

0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:27.719
<v Speaker 2>there's going to be a wedding this year.

0:37:29.160 --> 0:37:33.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't. As time he keeps saying, it's whose

0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:34.920
<v Speaker 1>wedding is it?

0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:35.720
<v Speaker 3>It's yours? Baby?

0:37:35.800 --> 0:37:40.799
<v Speaker 4>No, that's been a bit of a grooms. I feel

0:37:40.880 --> 0:37:46.719
<v Speaker 4>like he's very like into the wedding planning more than

0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:52.040
<v Speaker 4>I would have. We barely just started, and I feel

0:37:52.040 --> 0:37:53.080
<v Speaker 4>like he's like, what's this, what's that?

0:37:53.200 --> 0:37:54.040
<v Speaker 3>What's like? What do we do?

0:37:54.239 --> 0:37:57.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, whoa bab? Yeah, I would say, and then he.

0:37:57.960 --> 0:38:00.600
<v Speaker 4>Has all these like suggestions and stuff. I'm like, I mean,

0:38:00.640 --> 0:38:03.680
<v Speaker 4>I'll take them on board, but i'll get back to

0:38:03.719 --> 0:38:05.439
<v Speaker 4>you this day.

0:38:06.040 --> 0:38:07.640
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't expecting you to be so.

0:38:09.239 --> 0:38:11.680
<v Speaker 1>Then I don't know, like we're meeting with the wedding planner.

0:38:11.760 --> 0:38:14.200
<v Speaker 3>You're a meeting with the wedding plan tomorrow.

0:38:14.040 --> 0:38:15.240
<v Speaker 2>And I was like fixciting.

0:38:15.320 --> 0:38:17.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I originally was like, I'm not going to go.

0:38:17.239 --> 0:38:18.719
<v Speaker 1>It's not you know, I don't need to be there.

0:38:18.719 --> 0:38:20.600
<v Speaker 1>It's not for black. But then I'm like, no, fuck it,

0:38:20.640 --> 0:38:23.040
<v Speaker 1>I want to go. Yeah. I was always want.

0:38:22.880 --> 0:38:25.560
<v Speaker 3>To When did you not want to go?

0:38:26.600 --> 0:38:29.120
<v Speaker 4>I think I thought you weren't getting harm and then

0:38:29.239 --> 0:38:31.600
<v Speaker 4>you let me know that that you were definitely coming.

0:38:31.760 --> 0:38:37.239
<v Speaker 1>I've had some suggestions at a forum, pretty sure in

0:38:37.280 --> 0:38:39.080
<v Speaker 1>case I do get him over the line.

0:38:40.680 --> 0:38:41.719
<v Speaker 3>I mean, this is a good thing.

0:38:41.719 --> 0:38:44.720
<v Speaker 2>Michael has absolutely no interest, Like he's like really leaving

0:38:44.760 --> 0:38:47.560
<v Speaker 2>it up to me. I'm like, hello, I could use

0:38:47.560 --> 0:38:49.040
<v Speaker 2>a little bit of health here. I don't want this

0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:49.799
<v Speaker 2>all to be I.

0:38:49.840 --> 0:38:52.040
<v Speaker 1>Honestly didn't think i'd have an interest. Like I always said,

0:38:52.040 --> 0:38:53.680
<v Speaker 1>I'll just rock up and say my vows, and I

0:38:53.719 --> 0:38:56.000
<v Speaker 1>do and that's it. But like, I don't know, like

0:38:56.560 --> 0:38:59.400
<v Speaker 1>it's so fucked hit my tiktoks now just wedding algorithm.

0:38:59.680 --> 0:39:04.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm on. I'm like, how to write your vowels properly? Really? Yeah,

0:39:04.200 --> 0:39:07.439
<v Speaker 3>I like already started writing, so have you.

0:39:07.840 --> 0:39:12.120
<v Speaker 1>I've got my main points I want to hear to compare.

0:39:14.000 --> 0:39:17.160
<v Speaker 3>I was like, when I was writing out, I was crying.

0:39:18.080 --> 0:39:19.720
<v Speaker 4>So I feel like I'm going.

0:39:20.680 --> 0:39:21.880
<v Speaker 3>To be a mess on our wedding.

0:39:22.239 --> 0:39:25.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when I did my ones, I was I was tearing. Enough.

0:39:25.560 --> 0:39:27.440
<v Speaker 2>Is it going to be a big wedding a small wedding?

0:39:27.440 --> 0:39:28.240
<v Speaker 2>What are we thinking?

0:39:29.719 --> 0:39:32.640
<v Speaker 3>It's going to be like one hundred and twenty people?

0:39:33.800 --> 0:39:35.600
<v Speaker 3>So I think good size.

0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:37.160
<v Speaker 2>That's a really good size.

0:39:37.040 --> 0:39:38.880
<v Speaker 1>I realized it. I was thought it was going to

0:39:38.960 --> 0:39:41.560
<v Speaker 1>be hard putting people down, but it's actually not.

0:39:41.840 --> 0:39:44.360
<v Speaker 2>Been putting people down, like cutting people.

0:39:44.160 --> 0:39:52.960
<v Speaker 1>Cutting people, I mean getting invited No, but I just

0:39:53.040 --> 0:39:54.399
<v Speaker 1>I was like, all right, if I hadn't hung out

0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:56.279
<v Speaker 1>with you in the last X amount of years, Like

0:39:57.680 --> 0:39:59.600
<v Speaker 1>my mom said, she can't even like she doesn't even

0:39:59.600 --> 0:40:02.640
<v Speaker 1>know half people at her wedding now, And I was like,

0:40:02.680 --> 0:40:04.160
<v Speaker 1>I want to keep it to like my nearest and

0:40:04.200 --> 0:40:06.840
<v Speaker 1>dearest share that moment, Like I'm not going to invite

0:40:06.880 --> 0:40:09.120
<v Speaker 1>people that haven't come through my life and they come

0:40:09.160 --> 0:40:11.840
<v Speaker 1>out of the woodwork. Trust me, a lot of people have.

0:40:12.000 --> 0:40:13.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm not surprised.

0:40:14.840 --> 0:40:15.600
<v Speaker 1>They're coming there.

0:40:15.800 --> 0:40:18.120
<v Speaker 2>And everyone loves the wedding as well. Like people if

0:40:18.120 --> 0:40:20.040
<v Speaker 2>people know, like they're going to be in the vicinity

0:40:20.160 --> 0:40:22.080
<v Speaker 2>and there's a wedding going on, they're like, why.

0:40:22.000 --> 0:40:26.879
<v Speaker 3>Would I not get some free food and some entertainment.

0:40:26.920 --> 0:40:29.440
<v Speaker 4>I love weddings as well, just the like vibe in

0:40:29.480 --> 0:40:31.479
<v Speaker 4>the air at weddings is always so nice.

0:40:31.600 --> 0:40:40.560
<v Speaker 1>It's haven't we I mean too as well? Two Yeah,

0:40:40.600 --> 0:40:41.080
<v Speaker 1>but yeah.

0:40:40.960 --> 0:40:43.240
<v Speaker 3>I'm really excited about ours and yours.

0:40:43.520 --> 0:40:45.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah I know, well, yeah, you guys will go to

0:40:45.840 --> 0:40:46.680
<v Speaker 2>my wedding together.

0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:49.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, love will be in the air, so he.

0:40:49.680 --> 0:40:55.440
<v Speaker 1>Should we just a lope in Greece take over the

0:40:55.520 --> 0:40:58.480
<v Speaker 1>day after. I say that I might propose before I

0:40:58.440 --> 0:40:59.320
<v Speaker 1>shoul probably propose.

0:41:01.320 --> 0:41:03.239
<v Speaker 3>He's like, I'll take I'll take the back of this.

0:41:03.920 --> 0:41:05.280
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh.

0:41:05.440 --> 0:41:12.759
<v Speaker 3>I was like, it's fine. Yeah, is a better choice?

0:41:13.320 --> 0:41:13.840
<v Speaker 1>Definitely?

0:41:13.960 --> 0:41:17.960
<v Speaker 2>Have you guys picked like a date and venue or

0:41:18.080 --> 0:41:21.120
<v Speaker 2>is that like not happened yet.

0:41:22.120 --> 0:41:23.320
<v Speaker 1>We've got some front runners.

0:41:23.400 --> 0:41:25.959
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we've got a few venues we're looking at. Wait,

0:41:26.000 --> 0:41:28.520
<v Speaker 4>we don't think we're even going to tell our guests

0:41:29.200 --> 0:41:31.359
<v Speaker 4>our venue. I think we're going to like have a

0:41:31.400 --> 0:41:34.360
<v Speaker 4>meeting point and just bring everyone on buses.

0:41:34.440 --> 0:41:36.360
<v Speaker 3>So it's a little surprise.

0:41:37.440 --> 0:41:40.040
<v Speaker 2>I love that idea, so exciting.

0:41:40.080 --> 0:41:42.200
<v Speaker 1>We have a date, Yeah, we have a date that

0:41:42.280 --> 0:41:44.480
<v Speaker 1>we want that we want, so I've already told some

0:41:44.480 --> 0:41:45.919
<v Speaker 1>people to save it. Yeah.

0:41:45.960 --> 0:41:50.759
<v Speaker 2>I have blocked that week out, and I was lucky

0:41:50.880 --> 0:41:55.040
<v Speaker 2>enough to get to see Tammy's dress on news eve.

0:41:55.840 --> 0:41:58.880
<v Speaker 2>She showed it to me. It's very beautiful.

0:41:59.440 --> 0:42:02.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's my perfect dress. Really, I don't want to

0:42:02.239 --> 0:42:06.360
<v Speaker 3>say yeah in front of you.

0:42:06.680 --> 0:42:09.960
<v Speaker 4>I've never gotten a wedding dress before. I've never planned

0:42:09.960 --> 0:42:10.600
<v Speaker 4>a wedding before.

0:42:10.640 --> 0:42:13.440
<v Speaker 3>I've never you know, yeah, never gone all of this

0:42:13.520 --> 0:42:14.399
<v Speaker 3>stuff before, so.

0:42:14.680 --> 0:42:16.680
<v Speaker 1>And on that people like comment stuff and all that

0:42:16.719 --> 0:42:17.560
<v Speaker 1>sort of stuff, and I.

0:42:17.600 --> 0:42:20.920
<v Speaker 3>Don't really care. I've been engaged three times.

0:42:21.000 --> 0:42:22.680
<v Speaker 1>Get over. I make light of it as well.

0:42:22.719 --> 0:42:26.360
<v Speaker 5>I call her than Yeah, I'm collecting the stones.

0:42:27.480 --> 0:42:28.440
<v Speaker 1>She's got her own gauntlet.

0:42:29.000 --> 0:42:30.160
<v Speaker 3>I mean it's a good thing.

0:42:30.239 --> 0:42:32.399
<v Speaker 2>Right, Like when I was twenty nine and hadn't been

0:42:32.400 --> 0:42:34.520
<v Speaker 2>engaged at all, I was like, I'm offender that I

0:42:34.560 --> 0:42:35.600
<v Speaker 2>haven't been proposed to.

0:42:35.719 --> 0:42:37.720
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like, I mean she's a catch.

0:42:37.760 --> 0:42:39.080
<v Speaker 2>Of course she's gonna.

0:42:39.200 --> 0:42:41.120
<v Speaker 6>You know, I don't know why people have such a

0:42:41.160 --> 0:42:44.440
<v Speaker 6>problem with it, Like I don't and I'm marrying, so

0:42:44.680 --> 0:42:48.520
<v Speaker 6>what's their problem? Yeah, it's all but yeah, I've never

0:42:48.640 --> 0:42:50.880
<v Speaker 6>like started planning a wedding before.

0:42:51.000 --> 0:42:53.200
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, this is all very exciting.

0:42:53.600 --> 0:42:54.919
<v Speaker 2>Are you guys nervous at all?

0:42:56.400 --> 0:42:58.520
<v Speaker 1>That's what she meant when she said rooms the other day.

0:42:58.560 --> 0:43:00.359
<v Speaker 1>I was sort of what did I say? I called

0:43:00.360 --> 0:43:02.520
<v Speaker 1>you up? Have you found anything else out about the venues?

0:43:02.560 --> 0:43:05.200
<v Speaker 3>Like he's very just like hounds me about what.

0:43:05.280 --> 0:43:05.839
<v Speaker 1>I want that.

0:43:06.200 --> 0:43:09.879
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, like I didn't think. I like, I'll let

0:43:09.880 --> 0:43:12.120
<v Speaker 4>you know I'm like, why are you so? And he

0:43:12.239 --> 0:43:15.720
<v Speaker 4>was like, send me the budding player's number. This older

0:43:15.960 --> 0:43:17.359
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, just let me do it.

0:43:17.520 --> 0:43:19.880
<v Speaker 1>I honestly didn't think i'd be that invested. I didn't

0:43:19.880 --> 0:43:23.000
<v Speaker 1>think that I am. I want like, I didn't think

0:43:23.040 --> 0:43:25.560
<v Speaker 1>I think I'll chill out a bit more. Once you're

0:43:25.560 --> 0:43:29.160
<v Speaker 1>going to get work, You're going to be like full, No,

0:43:29.239 --> 0:43:30.440
<v Speaker 1>I want by the end of it.

0:43:30.800 --> 0:43:33.680
<v Speaker 2>Why don't you focus on things like you know, your suits,

0:43:34.120 --> 0:43:36.600
<v Speaker 2>like your grooms men, you can make them a little buck.

0:43:37.239 --> 0:43:39.319
<v Speaker 1>But what we've said that because obviously tell me did

0:43:39.360 --> 0:43:41.799
<v Speaker 1>a bridesmay thing, and I've picked my groomsmen and I've

0:43:41.840 --> 0:43:43.960
<v Speaker 1>told him and I was like, well, like I want

0:43:43.960 --> 0:43:45.680
<v Speaker 1>to do a dinner or something with them. But I

0:43:45.719 --> 0:43:47.560
<v Speaker 1>was like, what do you like, what do you get

0:43:47.800 --> 0:43:49.239
<v Speaker 1>the guys like you guys do that?

0:43:49.560 --> 0:43:50.040
<v Speaker 3>Probably not?

0:43:50.200 --> 0:43:51.239
<v Speaker 2>Maybe just take them to the.

0:43:51.160 --> 0:43:53.759
<v Speaker 1>Pub, Like what would you get him? Like, I was thinking,

0:43:53.800 --> 0:43:55.600
<v Speaker 1>like Catholics for the day.

0:43:55.640 --> 0:43:58.920
<v Speaker 2>That's yeah, nice, that's nice to get them engraved.

0:43:59.040 --> 0:44:00.880
<v Speaker 1>Maybe you get them in grave with m Z.

0:44:03.160 --> 0:44:06.480
<v Speaker 3>We again collecting back at the end.

0:44:13.320 --> 0:44:16.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Tammy sekowski that that rolls off the tongue.

0:44:16.719 --> 0:44:18.399
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, will you change your name.

0:44:18.800 --> 0:44:22.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think I love that, I said, I don't.

0:44:23.000 --> 0:44:25.200
<v Speaker 2>It does sound nice, actually, I said, I understand if

0:44:25.200 --> 0:44:25.799
<v Speaker 2>you don't want to.

0:44:26.000 --> 0:44:28.839
<v Speaker 4>Well, it's like none of my kids have my last name,

0:44:29.040 --> 0:44:32.760
<v Speaker 4>so it's like I'm not trying to you know, like yeah,

0:44:32.800 --> 0:44:35.520
<v Speaker 4>so it's not like I'm trying to hold on to

0:44:35.680 --> 0:44:37.480
<v Speaker 4>it for a reason like this is.

0:44:37.400 --> 0:44:39.000
<v Speaker 1>True, Well your brand is your name.

0:44:39.080 --> 0:44:41.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, obviously my like brand and but you keep you

0:44:41.680 --> 0:44:45.080
<v Speaker 4>but yeah I can still yeah, like people can call

0:44:45.120 --> 0:44:47.200
<v Speaker 4>me whatever they want, but yeah, it'll.

0:44:46.920 --> 0:44:51.400
<v Speaker 1>Be that's exciting. But back to the Greens, And I

0:44:51.400 --> 0:44:54.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't know what to give them, So I think anyone's

0:44:54.040 --> 0:44:55.319
<v Speaker 1>got any ideas, let us know.

0:44:55.480 --> 0:44:56.440
<v Speaker 2>Haven't you already asked?

0:44:56.840 --> 0:44:59.040
<v Speaker 1>But I want to do something. I want to do, like,

0:44:59.120 --> 0:45:01.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, give them so thing at least, like what

0:45:01.480 --> 0:45:03.719
<v Speaker 1>what would we wear T shirts or something on the day.

0:45:03.800 --> 0:45:04.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like.

0:45:05.239 --> 0:45:11.920
<v Speaker 2>Jammers like Peter Alexander my face printed off.

0:45:16.160 --> 0:45:20.480
<v Speaker 1>You do, you probably won't make the video wedding video

0:45:20.520 --> 0:45:22.040
<v Speaker 1>and I want my face.

0:45:22.520 --> 0:45:24.000
<v Speaker 3>You guys can have my face.

0:45:23.880 --> 0:45:27.800
<v Speaker 1>Makes more sense. And we were going to get a

0:45:27.840 --> 0:45:29.799
<v Speaker 1>top made for me with like Tammy and then the

0:45:29.840 --> 0:45:32.000
<v Speaker 1>different photos of those ones that come from the TikTok.

0:45:32.520 --> 0:45:33.120
<v Speaker 4>I love that.

0:45:34.320 --> 0:45:37.480
<v Speaker 3>Definitely one of them. When definitely definitely.

0:45:37.160 --> 0:45:40.800
<v Speaker 1>Shout Oh the bucks and hens. That's exciting. When's your hands?

0:45:43.880 --> 0:45:48.920
<v Speaker 2>So, I don't know, I actually am having my hands

0:45:48.960 --> 0:45:54.080
<v Speaker 2>in April, and I think it's literally just the bridesmaids.

0:45:55.080 --> 0:45:56.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well I'll take that as a hen.

0:45:57.480 --> 0:45:58.480
<v Speaker 2>But I'm not planning it.

0:45:58.520 --> 0:46:00.520
<v Speaker 3>I haven't planned anything. You guys might a bitted.

0:46:00.560 --> 0:46:01.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure.

0:46:01.520 --> 0:46:02.600
<v Speaker 2>What's your plans.

0:46:03.800 --> 0:46:07.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm leaving it up to my sister, yea, my

0:46:07.640 --> 0:46:08.040
<v Speaker 3>best man.

0:46:08.520 --> 0:46:10.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think we're going to do something separately and

0:46:10.680 --> 0:46:12.040
<v Speaker 4>then come together.

0:46:12.400 --> 0:46:14.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh nice, that'll be cute.

0:46:14.640 --> 0:46:16.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I think it's just the groomsmen and just like

0:46:16.880 --> 0:46:20.279
<v Speaker 1>the bridesmaids sort of the same Yeah, same vibe, same vibe.

0:46:20.280 --> 0:46:25.120
<v Speaker 2>So then we all I'm getting the hint to yours.

0:46:26.480 --> 0:46:30.359
<v Speaker 1>They'll obviously be extra ones shucked around and then it's

0:46:30.360 --> 0:46:33.879
<v Speaker 1>not up to me. I'm gonna make it and then

0:46:33.960 --> 0:46:35.320
<v Speaker 1>like we'll meet up, and then I think it'd be

0:46:35.360 --> 0:46:37.640
<v Speaker 1>good for both wedding parties to get to know each

0:46:37.640 --> 0:46:41.200
<v Speaker 1>other that can have that almost like drinking session like

0:46:41.280 --> 0:46:43.920
<v Speaker 1>sort of thing, because obviously drinking bonds everyone.

0:46:43.920 --> 0:46:47.440
<v Speaker 3>It really does do ye love, We love the tequila shar.

0:46:49.480 --> 0:46:52.360
<v Speaker 1>Oh. Yeah.

0:46:52.960 --> 0:46:54.960
<v Speaker 2>One of the last things that I think we've not

0:46:55.080 --> 0:46:58.560
<v Speaker 2>touched on was I wanted to know how you thought

0:46:58.560 --> 0:46:59.800
<v Speaker 2>Matt was with your kids.

0:47:00.400 --> 0:47:02.200
<v Speaker 3>He's really good with my kids.

0:47:02.239 --> 0:47:07.239
<v Speaker 4>My kids love him, like obviously not trying to put

0:47:07.280 --> 0:47:11.480
<v Speaker 4>him into like dad role or anything like that, but

0:47:11.560 --> 0:47:12.600
<v Speaker 4>they he's.

0:47:12.480 --> 0:47:13.120
<v Speaker 3>Really good with it.

0:47:13.239 --> 0:47:18.720
<v Speaker 4>Wolf is especially obsessed with him, really like coffee, things

0:47:18.800 --> 0:47:19.920
<v Speaker 4>that he does and stuff.

0:47:19.920 --> 0:47:22.840
<v Speaker 3>It's really probably tries to impress.

0:47:22.440 --> 0:47:25.960
<v Speaker 4>Him and like that will have his hat backwards and

0:47:26.000 --> 0:47:27.640
<v Speaker 4>then we will put his hat back.

0:47:28.480 --> 0:47:29.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, you've never done that.

0:47:31.719 --> 0:47:33.920
<v Speaker 1>When I came downstairs the other day, what did he say?

0:47:34.000 --> 0:47:38.120
<v Speaker 1>It was so funny. He was like, Matt, tell me

0:47:38.160 --> 0:47:40.400
<v Speaker 1>a little bit about your browser or something, and he

0:47:40.440 --> 0:47:42.400
<v Speaker 1>was trying to like sell me this browser for my

0:47:42.480 --> 0:47:47.200
<v Speaker 1>phone something. Then took upstairs. It was like talking me through. Yeah,

0:47:47.200 --> 0:47:49.960
<v Speaker 1>he's fine. I love Posy as well, and obviously sask

0:47:50.000 --> 0:47:52.800
<v Speaker 1>here as well. Love them all the very very sweet,

0:47:52.800 --> 0:47:55.399
<v Speaker 1>good kids, and yeah, I get along with them all

0:47:56.000 --> 0:47:56.640
<v Speaker 1>so cute.

0:47:56.920 --> 0:47:58.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I love to hear it.

0:47:58.560 --> 0:47:58.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:47:59.000 --> 0:48:02.520
<v Speaker 2>Should we finish on a wiz? Guys, there's a bit

0:48:02.560 --> 0:48:06.759
<v Speaker 2>of an impromptu quiz. Not know what's coming.

0:48:06.640 --> 0:48:08.920
<v Speaker 1>If it's something, how well we know each other? I

0:48:09.000 --> 0:48:12.720
<v Speaker 1>reckon you're yeah, I don't know. I always go blank

0:48:12.760 --> 0:48:13.840
<v Speaker 1>on this sort of it's okay.

0:48:13.920 --> 0:48:16.000
<v Speaker 3>If it goes really bad, it will be out.

0:48:17.760 --> 0:48:20.399
<v Speaker 2>So if you're hearing this right now, it went I'm

0:48:20.400 --> 0:48:23.160
<v Speaker 2>going to just go Matt to Tammy, Tammy to Matt

0:48:23.200 --> 0:48:25.120
<v Speaker 2>as we answer them. Okay, So I would just like

0:48:25.160 --> 0:48:29.680
<v Speaker 2>point at you guys, okay, describe each other in one word,

0:48:30.160 --> 0:48:34.560
<v Speaker 2>kind loving kid. We're getting a bit more tricky. You

0:48:34.600 --> 0:48:36.759
<v Speaker 2>can't look at each other this time. You look at me.

0:48:37.640 --> 0:48:39.240
<v Speaker 2>Color of each other's eyes.

0:48:40.200 --> 0:48:43.880
<v Speaker 3>His eyes are like hazel, they're like brown and green.

0:48:44.040 --> 0:48:52.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, blue. Well that Taylor Swift song. I'm going to

0:48:52.520 --> 0:48:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Taylor Swift with Tammy. Are you so excited? Bort a

0:48:56.040 --> 0:48:58.560
<v Speaker 1>Travis Kelsey Jersey to Melbourne, Melbourne.

0:48:58.560 --> 0:49:00.960
<v Speaker 2>I would not be surprised if Matt brings a sign

0:49:01.080 --> 0:49:03.440
<v Speaker 2>about Travis. He's so obsessed with him.

0:49:03.480 --> 0:49:05.040
<v Speaker 3>It's not normal. Okay.

0:49:05.239 --> 0:49:07.920
<v Speaker 2>How does your partner like their coffee.

0:49:09.040 --> 0:49:13.040
<v Speaker 1>If it's a weekend. First of all, both always iced,

0:49:13.200 --> 0:49:16.319
<v Speaker 1>never normal if it's a weekday, just a straight long

0:49:16.400 --> 0:49:19.719
<v Speaker 1>black iced if it's the week end, and alm and

0:49:19.800 --> 0:49:21.360
<v Speaker 1>ice latte with caramel syrup.

0:49:21.560 --> 0:49:22.880
<v Speaker 2>Is that right? Wow?

0:49:23.400 --> 0:49:29.680
<v Speaker 4>That's he usually just has like a soy latte. He's

0:49:29.680 --> 0:49:33.200
<v Speaker 4>a simple guy. Well, I am always like your soy

0:49:33.200 --> 0:49:35.839
<v Speaker 4>milk because I hate it. So now he started drinking almond.

0:49:35.560 --> 0:49:36.440
<v Speaker 1>Milk or oat milk.

0:49:36.600 --> 0:49:39.279
<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's regular switched.

0:49:38.960 --> 0:49:41.600
<v Speaker 3>Out and the occasional long black ice.

0:49:43.440 --> 0:49:44.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah I did so.

0:49:44.520 --> 0:49:46.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, guys are doing very well so far. This is

0:49:46.480 --> 0:49:47.080
<v Speaker 2>going out.

0:49:48.920 --> 0:49:49.320
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:49:49.640 --> 0:49:54.520
<v Speaker 2>Your partner's favorite color. He likes red and black and gold.

0:49:54.880 --> 0:49:56.320
<v Speaker 1>Is that yeah, that's my favorite?

0:49:56.840 --> 0:49:59.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know. I was.

0:49:59.480 --> 0:50:00.000
<v Speaker 1>That's really good.

0:50:00.840 --> 0:50:02.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's very good.

0:50:02.600 --> 0:50:04.399
<v Speaker 1>Pink. Yeah, I love pink.

0:50:04.719 --> 0:50:05.439
<v Speaker 3>I'm a pink girl.

0:50:05.680 --> 0:50:07.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, love love pink.

0:50:07.360 --> 0:50:07.960
<v Speaker 1>That's pretty cool.

0:50:08.040 --> 0:50:10.600
<v Speaker 4>You remember, I'm pretty sure you told me on like

0:50:10.640 --> 0:50:12.239
<v Speaker 4>your first day, and like I.

0:50:12.160 --> 0:50:15.920
<v Speaker 1>Think i've You're like, it's so weird that you remember that.

0:50:16.080 --> 0:50:18.279
<v Speaker 1>It's my football teams a kid, it's a football team

0:50:18.280 --> 0:50:19.120
<v Speaker 1>winning the Grand Final.

0:50:22.800 --> 0:50:28.440
<v Speaker 4>Say that, I have a really bad memory. So that's impressive. Okay,

0:50:29.120 --> 0:50:31.960
<v Speaker 4>favorite TV show at the moment. Your partner's favorite TV

0:50:32.000 --> 0:50:32.680
<v Speaker 4>show at the moment.

0:50:33.440 --> 0:50:36.600
<v Speaker 1>At the moment, Vampire Diaries.

0:50:37.440 --> 0:50:44.719
<v Speaker 4>Yours is also a vampire because yeah, that's what I'm

0:50:44.840 --> 0:50:45.719
<v Speaker 4>forcing to watch.

0:50:46.080 --> 0:50:47.760
<v Speaker 1>I can't even look at my phone or anything.

0:50:49.000 --> 0:50:50.520
<v Speaker 3>If he starts going on this point.

0:50:50.360 --> 0:50:54.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like literally like pauses it and just I pause it.

0:50:55.040 --> 0:50:57.600
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh wait, that's what I do to Michael.

0:50:57.960 --> 0:50:58.839
<v Speaker 3>But that's so good.

0:50:58.920 --> 0:51:01.520
<v Speaker 2>You used to play in all the time that like

0:51:01.760 --> 0:51:04.080
<v Speaker 2>you hate when people use their phone, like even like

0:51:04.160 --> 0:51:05.480
<v Speaker 2>if your mum used her phone.

0:51:06.239 --> 0:51:08.920
<v Speaker 1>I did, and that's why I went. But then when

0:51:09.800 --> 0:51:12.160
<v Speaker 1>you're the culprit, we were on the couch and you

0:51:12.200 --> 0:51:13.520
<v Speaker 1>did it, and I was like, fuck, we are too

0:51:13.600 --> 0:51:16.480
<v Speaker 1>much alive. I was like, we're seriously too much alike.

0:51:16.920 --> 0:51:19.040
<v Speaker 1>And she was having like telling the media off my phone.

0:51:19.600 --> 0:51:20.960
<v Speaker 3>Okay, we have it.

0:51:21.680 --> 0:51:26.520
<v Speaker 2>Two more. What's your partner's signature dish that they cook

0:51:26.640 --> 0:51:27.239
<v Speaker 2>that you love?

0:51:31.520 --> 0:51:34.120
<v Speaker 1>Breakfast record? Pancakes?

0:51:34.280 --> 0:51:34.920
<v Speaker 2>Pancakes?

0:51:35.040 --> 0:51:38.160
<v Speaker 1>Okay, are you deep frying or something? Don't you deep

0:51:39.040 --> 0:51:39.720
<v Speaker 1>from something?

0:51:39.960 --> 0:51:41.200
<v Speaker 3>You on a pan?

0:51:41.480 --> 0:51:43.640
<v Speaker 1>But wasn't there? Don't isn't there something like extra butter

0:51:43.760 --> 0:51:46.239
<v Speaker 1>or something? You said? You but yeah, and then you

0:51:46.440 --> 0:51:47.799
<v Speaker 1>put something extra in the whiped cream.

0:51:49.480 --> 0:51:52.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I put maple syrup. I do whipped butter with

0:51:52.400 --> 0:51:57.719
<v Speaker 3>maple syrup. Yeah, Matthew, have you ever caught me. Ever,

0:51:58.719 --> 0:52:00.799
<v Speaker 3>I don't think so mouthing out.

0:52:01.600 --> 0:52:04.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't think I cooked you that needs to be

0:52:04.239 --> 0:52:06.440
<v Speaker 2>on your list of something to have.

0:52:06.600 --> 0:52:08.040
<v Speaker 1>Not cooked a barbecue for something.

0:52:08.840 --> 0:52:10.240
<v Speaker 3>You never cooked.

0:52:10.080 --> 0:52:12.640
<v Speaker 4>Anything for me, but which I'm fine with, Like, yeah,

0:52:12.680 --> 0:52:15.440
<v Speaker 4>we haven't really had that much of a chance to

0:52:15.560 --> 0:52:17.000
<v Speaker 4>like actually cook through.

0:52:18.760 --> 0:52:20.080
<v Speaker 2>We just go out to.

0:52:22.360 --> 0:52:25.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah even sometimes I'm not even.

0:52:28.960 --> 0:52:30.040
<v Speaker 3>Like restaurants.

0:52:30.640 --> 0:52:33.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's also like honeymoon phase. I feel like that's

0:52:33.440 --> 0:52:34.040
<v Speaker 2>so normal.

0:52:34.400 --> 0:52:40.200
<v Speaker 1>Have not cooked you, You've never He's like, surely with me, Yeah,

0:52:40.440 --> 0:52:42.560
<v Speaker 1>but I'm not. I don't. It's very well offing on

0:52:42.600 --> 0:52:44.640
<v Speaker 1>this podcast. I don't. I'm not being fan of cooking

0:52:44.840 --> 0:52:45.319
<v Speaker 1>full stop.

0:52:45.440 --> 0:52:47.919
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's that's I don't really want you to cook

0:52:47.960 --> 0:52:53.560
<v Speaker 2>for me. That okay, probably best cook for you, Okay.

0:52:53.880 --> 0:52:59.200
<v Speaker 2>Last one is your partner an introvert or an extrovert

0:52:59.400 --> 0:52:59.840
<v Speaker 2>or both.

0:53:00.480 --> 0:53:03.879
<v Speaker 1>I think Tammy is an introvert at heart, Like even

0:53:03.880 --> 0:53:06.200
<v Speaker 1>before we came in this podcast, she was very nervous

0:53:06.239 --> 0:53:09.920
<v Speaker 1>and very shy. Like everyone would you think, with who

0:53:10.040 --> 0:53:12.080
<v Speaker 1>Tammy is and all that sort of stuff, that she's extroverted,

0:53:12.120 --> 0:53:16.920
<v Speaker 1>but she's not. Really. She does well for an introvert

0:53:17.000 --> 0:53:19.080
<v Speaker 1>to be out there so much and put herself out there.

0:53:19.120 --> 0:53:22.400
<v Speaker 3>I feel, Yeah, you're definitely extrovert.

0:53:23.120 --> 0:53:25.840
<v Speaker 4>You're like the loudest person I've ever met in my life,

0:53:26.560 --> 0:53:28.880
<v Speaker 4>always like good balance.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, guys, we are so happy for you both. You

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<v Speaker 2>guys make an incredible couple. All of the haters can

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<v Speaker 2>go fuck themselves because seriously, you guys are so magnetic,

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<v Speaker 2>so in love, and it's been really nice having you

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<v Speaker 2>on the podcast and just witnessing it in here today.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much Tammy for coming on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've never had, like I said, like, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal to bring you on the podcast. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how nervous you were, and I really appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>you coming on.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you guys for having me. It's been fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to tell our stories thing I asked you

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<v Speaker 1>want to here. God, I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>A thank you. Bye bye