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Speaker 1: Coming up. Bond Relatables Bare Minimum for the modern man.

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Speaker 1: Get a little list here, no Instagram. Wakes up at

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Speaker 1: five am, goes for a fifty kilometer run and then

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Speaker 1: reads thirty pages of a fem book Facts. That's Jake

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Speaker 1: and my schedule.

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Speaker 2: You just described my every day.

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Speaker 1: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig aka Daddy,

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Speaker 1: and my partner in crime, Oddie Clark aka.

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Speaker 3: Mummyah and everyone listening other baddies. Thanks for tuning in

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Speaker 3: once again, Thanks very much, guys. All right, I would

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Speaker 3: like to start today's episode off with a surprise my

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Speaker 3: partner in crime, my right hand man, my the Robin

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Speaker 3: hood to my badman wife.

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Speaker 1: Some would say mummy. And I was like, I was

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Speaker 1: at the markets last week and I came across a stall,

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Speaker 1: caught my eye. They caught your eye. Caught my eye.

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Speaker 1: All right now I think I'm trying I reckon. I

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Speaker 1: just give it to you. Okay. You thought of this,

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Speaker 1: and I thought I only would love this. I've my

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Speaker 1: wrapping is a will worst bad. Is this actually a

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Speaker 1: present for me? And I was gonna save it till

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Speaker 1: right before you, right before your birthday. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: see you on your birthday. It's gonna save it to

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Speaker 1: fright before your birthday. But I just thought, like it's

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Speaker 1: a while away, coming about the ways, and then I'll

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Speaker 1: just give you this now and not just gee something

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Speaker 1: else for your birthday because they're such a good guy,

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Speaker 1: you know, thanks man. So here you go, free primo

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Speaker 1: with the woolies.

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Speaker 3: I can already see what it is. This is sick. Fuck,

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Speaker 3: that's mad. So I got as you can see if

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Speaker 3: you're on YouTube. I'm wearing a vintage Von Dutch hat

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Speaker 3: and he's got me another one. This one's cool.

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Speaker 1: I love the rose. I'll put it on. Yea. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I thought it was sick. This is at a market. Wait,

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Speaker 1: you should have seen. They have heaps of him wait, endless,

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Speaker 1: really endless, how much like I probably would not so

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Speaker 1: this one. So you owe me forty five dollars but

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Speaker 1: uh no. So it's the funny thing is was I

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Speaker 1: was looking at him, yeah, and I was like, oh shit,

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Speaker 1: I was like I was, I was racking my mind.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I better get ODDI one just because

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Speaker 1: like I'm here. And then I was actually I was

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Speaker 1: going I was thinking about I don't have Cassie's phone number. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was gonna like text her or caller on Instagram

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Speaker 1: and be like, yo, look where I am, Like do

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Speaker 1: you want me to get one for you as well,

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Speaker 1: just to like save for his birthday? And then I

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Speaker 1: just didn't do it because I was like, what if

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Speaker 1: she's with him and he's like, why the fuck you

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Speaker 1: face time and her and I was like, fuck, it's

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Speaker 1: out two out of whack, and so but I just

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Speaker 1: was looking around and I was looking at them. They

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Speaker 1: were all like ninety bucks expensive, and then that one,

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Speaker 1: I was like, this is the coolest one here, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't even want to look at

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Speaker 1: the price. It was forty five bucks. I like the roads,

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Man. All good. I like it.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was like the best one. And look

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Speaker 1: they don't all suit my head now it looks exactly

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Speaker 1: that one. Yeah, how good? Yeah, sous, you have for

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Speaker 1: surets And I was I was wearing around that day.

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Speaker 1: I was to break it in for him. Thanks man.

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Speaker 1: It's well. Which market's Glee Glee Market. I'll probably be

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Speaker 1: next week. I gotta go day out with the missus.

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Speaker 1: She probably likes some markets. Yeah, well thanks man, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: holl good expect I expect that and I'll send you

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Speaker 1: an invoice. Yeah, you take it. Did you about to say,

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Speaker 1: I'm expecting another present from my birth Yeah, I'm expecting

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Speaker 1: another hat, another hat? Yeah easy, I got a plot.

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Speaker 1: You know what I actually an idiot as well is

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Speaker 1: they had like an Instagram and everything, and I saw

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Speaker 1: screw There's like a little thing to scan with your

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Speaker 1: I forgot what the brand's called, like what the company

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Speaker 1: annoying got to go back. Yeah. But today, Jake, I

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Speaker 1: wanted to start the podcast with a part two of

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Speaker 1: what is the Bare Minimum for the Modern Man? Part two?

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Speaker 1: Part two?

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Speaker 3: And these one is sent in from everyone listening.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was the IG question this week. IG Question

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Speaker 1: of the week. So you want to start on me,

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Speaker 1: I'll start. Okay, you gus up knowing how to properly

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Speaker 1: that's not you. You know how to wipe it up? No,

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Speaker 1: you know how to you just spread this spread I do.

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Speaker 1: If I spill something, I'm pissed.

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Speaker 3: So I'm not like spending time to clean it properly, right, right,

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Speaker 3: like realistically unless it's water, like get a spray and like, oh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna do all that stuff. Yeah that mate,

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Speaker 1: I've been My sister scares me. She's scared. He's a

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Speaker 3: What's the bare minimum for the modern man? Knowing where

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Speaker 3: the clip is?

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Speaker 1: That's more than the bare minimum. Sorry, that's that's a lot.

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Speaker 1: I was like, that's a lot. What's his special expression?

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Speaker 1: little thing at the top. Yeah, it goes around the outside,

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Speaker 1: goes around the outside, it goes around everywhere. I knew that.

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Speaker 1: You know that because they told you. No, I already

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you what, like going back you know in

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Speaker 3: high school, how we learn about like laber.

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Speaker 1: We well we let yeah, we sort of. They didn't

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Speaker 1: teach us that. Yeah, it's in their best interest to

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Speaker 1: teach us how to pleasure. Yeah, why didn't they do that?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. They're just like, don't don't make babies,

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Speaker 1: and then you're good. Yeah we're a condos a banana

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Speaker 1: to say, you put it on. Some guys still try

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Speaker 1: and put it over their balls. What the fuck? I think? So?

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Speaker 1: Not me, not me from experience on a cold day,

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Speaker 3: That's actually a really good one. All jokes aside, really good.

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Speaker 3: Stop following unnecessary girls, pinnacle. Have you told everyone what

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Speaker 3: you've done? Have I told everyone? I don't think you have.

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm not on the polot. No you haven't, No

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Speaker 1: I haven't. One day I just went I went to

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Speaker 1: your girlfriend. You know what I did was I unfollowed

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend's best friend. And then one day I got

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Speaker 1: She was like, it was what the fuck? You unfollowed

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Speaker 1: Casey And I was like, oh, well she didn't make

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Speaker 1: the cart I was like, looks like she didn't make it. Beggars,

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Speaker 1: beggars cancessary girls. This is what it is. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't see that ship. I mean, to be fair,

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Speaker 3: It's quite the gesture though, like you're in a relationship

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Speaker 3: and you unfollow every girl.

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Speaker 1: Like well, I had said it before. I remember saying

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Speaker 1: just do it? And it hasn't affected me one bit,

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Speaker 1: not a single message of why do you want follow me?

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Speaker 1: Nothing like that. Well, I hadn't even noticed you unfollowed people, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: even though I unfollowed people that I'm friends with, if

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Speaker 1: fucking I message makes sense makes sense. Bare minimum for

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Speaker 1: the modern man asks for consent. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that

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Speaker 1: isn't that's got to be there's no assumptions that you

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Speaker 1: People think that. People think it's going to kill the mood.

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Speaker 1: And all it's going to do is make the girl

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Speaker 1: think like you're just very respectful. Yeah, which is it's

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Speaker 1: just like the most respectful thing you can do. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you can make Finally, is it okay if I take

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Speaker 1: your pants off? Honestly, you should ask why is there

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Speaker 1: an assumption? What if she's just into kissing you and

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Speaker 1: you start taking her pants off, and then, like you

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Speaker 1: you should ask, Like I with my girlfriend quite often,

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Speaker 1: I'll still I'll still say this is crazy to say

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Speaker 1: I'll say I'll just like say I'm gonna put it in.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna is it okay? Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna put

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Speaker 1: it called? Like any objections.

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Speaker 1: I'll let everyone know. All right, it's not going to

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Speaker 3: Al yeah, kissing your back on like that. What's the

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Speaker 3: bare minimum for the modern man? Bar must be low?

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Speaker 3: Remembering my name?

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Speaker 1: What the fuck? Who are you talking to? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Bare minimum for the modern man? Follow through with plans? Oh?

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Speaker 3: I feel like so many dudes don't do that. They

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Speaker 3: talk the games. I'm gonna take your here. Yeah that

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Speaker 3: the other nothing, don't back out, ghost or it takes

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Speaker 3: you on the worst day ever.

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Speaker 1: Oh fuck yeah? Like bare minimum effort. That's like a

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Speaker 1: plan to change. Sorry, but plans to change.

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Speaker 3: Maybe fucking bullshit? What's the bare minimum for the modern

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Speaker 3: man getting on top?

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Speaker 1: What do some guys? I don't know. Are we figuring

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Speaker 1: that out? Ah? I didn't know that some dudes were

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Speaker 1: pillow princesses? Did? There must be ship? There must be Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you gotta get on top. You can start on top

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Speaker 1: pretty much every time, surely, Like I reckon eight times

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Speaker 1: out of ten, I'll start on top. Yeah, that's what.

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Speaker 1: it's like I need to quite feel like it's easier

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Speaker 1: for us to move our body in a way. There's

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Speaker 1: a lot of it. There's like squats, and also for

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Speaker 1: it's better for me to be in control so I

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Speaker 1: like I can kind of you gotta you need to

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Speaker 1: and I'm going to be good. If she's on top,

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Speaker 1: Is that okay? Or is so and so there? I

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Speaker 1: Give us one. What did I say to today? Your ship?

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Speaker 1: He's going to be bad? No? No, no, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: You're so goddamn beautiful and I miss you? Is that right?

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Speaker 3: Okay, guys, we're back helping one of our single listeners

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Speaker 3: Fine Love with Tinder live on the podcast If you knew,

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Speaker 1: We've just come to the studio. Brad, welcome to the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for having me. That's all right, Thanks for coming in, Matte,

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Speaker 1: He's actually I'm a good start, Brad. We would like

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Speaker 4: the mines.

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Speaker 1: Oh so kind of like a trade somewhere somewhere.

429
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Speaker 4: But yeah, no, I come from a big sales background,

430
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Speaker 4: so normally I should be good in an environment like this,

431
00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:33,240
Speaker 4: but I'm shouldn't.

432
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Speaker 1: It to you? Like it's very daunting thing, and like

433
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Speaker 1: I think it's admirable to be fair, very admirable. What

434
00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,200
Speaker 1: about what's some more questions make it easier for him?

435
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:42,800
Speaker 1: So you came from sales. How long have you worked

436
00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:43,280
Speaker 1: in the mines?

437
00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:47,520
Speaker 4: Roughly about two years, but I've only just recently moved

438
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Speaker 4: back to the valley.

439
00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,040
Speaker 1: And then so before that was sales.

440
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:55,280
Speaker 4: In Canberra Camera Yeah from Yeah, from Canberra, so real estate.

441
00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:58,800
Speaker 4: I was a good guest in property, but I also

442
00:20:58,840 --> 00:20:59,600
Speaker 4: did cars.

443
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:10,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like this guy that is already sold mummy girls.

444
00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:13,119
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, as you can tell, we can see Daddy

445
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:15,119
Speaker 3: or Jake's already sold, but I'm a bit more of

446
00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 3: a harder sale. So I want to see your first

447
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:22,639
Speaker 3: initial Tinder messages and see if Brad's living up to expectations.

448
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 1: So can we please see the d MS if you must.

449
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 4: If you have to, we'll.

450
00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:32,920
Speaker 1: Give my so who messages to first? Very nosy. Mummy

451
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:38,560
Speaker 1: is very nosy. I've got a good relationship. So Mad said,

452
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:42,119
Speaker 1: how spontaneous are you? And Brad said, I'm glad you asked.

453
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,240
Speaker 1: I'd say very Why is that? And she goes straight

454
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 1: to the point, I'm working with tinder? Would you like

455
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,000
Speaker 1: our first date to be on a podcast? Afterwards? You

456
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:54,760
Speaker 1: can take me on a real, dumb, real date that's bold. Afterwards,

457
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:56,440
Speaker 1: you can take me on a real one. To be fair,

458
00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:58,200
Speaker 1: this is good. Are you just asking a bunch of guys?

459
00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 1: I had to get his prayer straight. She says the

460
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 1: same thing, just explaining herself. It's in Sydney there and

461
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,679
Speaker 1: she goes what he goes, why me? Oh okay, I'm

462
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:12,680
Speaker 1: only up in newcast Newcastle. Can you link me? I'm

463
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 1: a newie too, which is a big green flag close

464
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,439
Speaker 1: by me.

465
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 2: I'm fully like, we're not done yet, but let's not

466
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 2: get ahead of our It was smooth, got to the

467
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:24,680
Speaker 2: point that this is looking good.

468
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, confident I rate that because it's a nervous and

469
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,440
Speaker 1: daunting thing putting himself out there definitely, so like, okin,

470
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:32,439
Speaker 1: that's a big green flag first date. It's nerve wracking

471
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Speaker 1: as not being filmed, Like, I really do feel like

472
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,440
Speaker 1: you're bor on his site at this point, and you're

473
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Speaker 1: meant to be on my side. Mom and Dad always

474
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Speaker 1: wanted the sun. Okay. But up next, we're going to

475
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 1: play a quick game and it's a bit of a

476
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 1: compatibility test. Oh yeah, true, and we'll jump into that

477
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 1: all right. So for the compatibility test, we're going to

478
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,639
Speaker 1: do red flag, green flag, which we we did a

479
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 1: couple with Maddie last week just to find out a

480
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Speaker 1: little bit about her. So we're just going to give

481
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Speaker 1: her a couple of the questions we gave her last

482
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 1: week because we didn't know her answers. So what he

483
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 1: has one? Who will go first? Okay, red flag, green flag?

484
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 1: She has a guy, best friend, red flag. Maddy also

485
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:14,640
Speaker 1: said red flag to that, So that's so far tick.

486
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 1: This one's this one's simple, red flag, green flag, perfect

487
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 1: Sunday morning for him, I asked, Maddie, is a coffee

488
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:25,160
Speaker 1: date and a walk through the markets?

489
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 4: That's it is a green flag, But I'm not a

490
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 4: coffee drinker and stuff like that. I'd probably chocolate, different ideas.

491
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 4: Water could be not a coffee, coffee energy drink.

492
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: No, no caffeine at all. No, no caffeine. Mummy is

493
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 1: really Mummy and Daddy have disputes about this daily. So

494
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:50,479
Speaker 1: we also had a green flag from Maddie last week.

495
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 1: But so you're not a coffee drinker, so that's all right.

496
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:55,679
Speaker 1: If you're drinking a coffee, a milkshake, milkshake or no sugar,

497
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 1: you're fit. You don't like sugar girl.

498
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,439
Speaker 4: No, I'm happy. I'm happy. She's happy.

499
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:10,879
Speaker 1: Oh, oh my god, my blessing.

500
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 5: That got her, That got mads, that got madshod And

501
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 5: last one brad red flag, green flag she starts she

502
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 5: started a run club and runs at it.

503
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, good, credit, green flag. Okay, here we go. That's

504
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 1: that's good. We've got a green flag for you. But

505
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:32,880
Speaker 1: last week it was we asked Maddie if he started

506
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 1: a run club and runs aut it. She says, red

507
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:36,640
Speaker 1: flag to start one, but a green flag to run

508
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 1: it one. Yeah, okay, don't start. Yeah I won't. I won't.

509
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:47,200
Speaker 1: Noted noted have you ever been to a run club? No? No, myself,

510
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 1: I actually do it independent man, like an independent. Would

511
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 1: you guys be open to a run club together. I say,

512
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: we like an independent Maddie, do you like an independent guy?

513
00:24:55,760 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 1: I want someone codependent. You want codependence with me? Is

514
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 1: that a cope or not? Well, as long as she's happy, right, Brad,

515
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 1: we'll keep going. We're gonna go us some new ones now,

516
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: but we're gonna do what we're gonna go. You get

517
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 1: a whiteboard each, so we'll ask a red flag, green flag,

518
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 1: and then you're right, red flag or green flag. But

519
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: you can't show each other flip. We'll see if you're compatible.

520
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 3: Now you're both ready? Yeah, okay, red flag, green flag.

521
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 3: Dog sleeps in the bed.

522
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 1: Don't look at his answers. I'm not looking. No turn.

523
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 1: We've got a red and a green. No, so, Maddie

524
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: said green, Brad said red, okay, red flag, green flag.

525
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:46,200
Speaker 1: Her ex looks after her dog and she goes away.

526
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:51,400
Speaker 1: Suspense is killing me here. Ah, we've got a big

527
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 1: two big my friends. Lets go home. Maddie has learned

528
00:25:54,760 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 1: her lesson. That's it. Yes, and we can just pay

529
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 1: for someone you can take with you. You got for

530
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: a reason, I fully believe.

531
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Speaker 2: If you can't let me drop him off at my

532
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 2: exister dog City.

533
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 1: He can then pay for the dog sitting. You can

534
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,919
Speaker 1: split it. But did Brad get the dog? Is it

535
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 1: Brad's dog? Is it my problem? I'm looking for a

536
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: father for my labrador. So yeah, fair enough, But you

537
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 1: said red now, so stepdad, he'll be the dad that

538
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 1: stepped up, big, quick, quick question. Then are you ready

539
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 1: to step up to be a step dad to a dog?

540
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:40,639
Speaker 1: Got my own son? Oh yeah, dog. My heart sunk

541
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:42,359
Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm not ready to be a

542
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:43,160
Speaker 1: grandfather yet.

543
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:47,719
Speaker 4: Hell I got a dog back home, dog Olie, and

544
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 4: he's a Staffy's.

545
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: A cute dog. That's a green flag. Okay, but so

546
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 1: it's one one in the moment, so this is a

547
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 1: tide breaker compatible So this one red flag, green flag.

548
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 1: She's on a night out by herself and you're at home. Okay,

549
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:10,959
Speaker 1: we're not done. I'm not done. And she puts on

550
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 1: another boy's jumper because she's cold. All right, all right, ready,

551
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 1: she's already turned. Oh we've got a red and a green.

552
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 1: Here we go to be fair. Although it wasn't the

553
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 1: same answer, I think that's good on his fact that

554
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: he's the fact that he is, that Brad is open.

555
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 1: What's it called secure him secure enough in himself, do

556
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: not care. That's a good answer. All right, Brad, thank

557
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 1: you very much for coming in. I think that concludes

558
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: the date. Very appreciated to say, we're very impressed. We

559
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 1: won't give too much away, but thank you very much. Okay,

560
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:43,680
Speaker 1: Bradley has left the room. All right.

561
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 3: To wrap this episode up, Mad's we would like to

562
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 3: have a rating on the date with Brad. We're quite

563
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 3: pressed clearly that on the overall signed things doesn't matter.

564
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 3: So what would you rate the date out? I got

565
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 3: high hopes here?

566
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: Your face is so flat? Did you say that? I

567
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: would say like eight? An eight good score, right score,

568
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 1: to be honest? What did you rate him? Eight? Were agreed? Yeah,

569
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,199
Speaker 1: I mean agree with you eight for sure? Say so too.

570
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 1: I was quite We got three eights. Look at him,

571
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: he was good.

572
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 2: See it was that comment when he said, as long

573
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 2: as she's happy, I'm happy, And that just got me.

574
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 1: I've got the independence too, like I got butterflies, got

575
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: a good goal. He ticked all the boxes for us. No,

576
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: it was good. And the fact he even came. I

577
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: think I just want to I just want to know

578
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: you're taking care of from a dad's perspective. You know,

579
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 1: he seems like that type of guy in the minds. Yes,

580
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 1: still keeping fit.

581
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 3: But but but we won't get ahead of ourselves because

582
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 3: we've changed mads to get two dates off Tinder. So

583
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 3: come back next week.

584
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: We really need the second one. We'll give him a

585
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: fair shot. Come on, daddy, So next week we're challenging

586
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 1: you to go out and find one more date on

587
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,719
Speaker 1: Tinder and we'll bring him in next week. Let's do it,

588
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 1: same thing, have another date. Exciting stuff. Thank you very much.

589
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: Thank you.

590
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 3: All right up next to his dilemma. So if you

591
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 3: want to submit a dilemma, go to our link in

592
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 3: bio on Instagram, scroll down to the bottom it'll say

593
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 3: weekly dilemmas and submit it in a Google doc.

594
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: And our Instagram. We should let everyone know it's just relatable.

595
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: Said figure. Relatable has a picture of our faces there right, dilemma.

596
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 3: I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly two years now.

597
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 3: When we first started dating, he was watching porn, which

598
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 3: is fine because the relationship was new. Then when I

599
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 3: found out, I told him that I didn't like it

600
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 3: and would like him to stop when we're getting more

601
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 3: serious and sex was becoming a regular thing.

602
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: He told me at the time he would. However, just

603
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: last weekend, I found out he's still watching porn on

604
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: a regular basis fortnightly to weekly. When I asked him

605
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:54,959
Speaker 1: why he was watching it when he saw each when

606
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 1: we saw each other twice a week and sometimes more,

607
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: he just said sometimes he needs a visual help when

608
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 1: he's horny and I wasn't around. He also didn't think

609
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: at the time that he was doing any wrong until

610
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: he saw how it made me feel, which was very

611
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 1: upset and disappointed. I honestly don't know why he kept

612
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 1: it from me for so long and feel like he's

613
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 1: cheating on me. I don't know what to do. I

614
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: might be a bit dramatic, but it's made me feel

615
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: like shit and our sex relationship meaningless. Fuck, So it's

616
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: really made it feel crappy. Yeah, damn, I honest I

617
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 1: like so many people do it, but I feel like

618
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to use that as an excuse to make

619
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: it okay.

620
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 3: I think the worst part about this dilemma is you

621
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 3: voiced how you feel, which is very very good. He said, okay,

622
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 3: I'll stop, and he went against his word. Yeah, the

623
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 3: actual act of masturbating in a relationship to me, isn't

624
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 3: the worst thing.

625
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wonder what like not that you would ever

626
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: find out about this one. But what if he was

627
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 1: to masturbate without porn? Do you care if he masturbates?

628
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 1: I wonder, Yeah, she's I think she might a little bit.

629
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 1: But it's funny though, because the dynamic for master bedding

630
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 1: to a man and a female I think is very

631
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: very different. Like, dudes just do it to get off

632
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: the sensation and we don't think anything of it. Most

633
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 1: of the time. We get post that clarity and like, fuck,

634
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 1: we're disgusting. That's the funniest thing ever. That's so true.

635
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 1: If you watch, if you're watching porn and you're done,

636
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 1: if you finish before the video finishes and it's still on,

637
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: the first thing you do is you get that the

638
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 1: fuck out of your Yeah, your eyes out of my sight,

639
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 1: You clear your history and hope it never happened to you.

640
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: Do you feel like crap? Bro?

641
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Speaker 3: But to a girl, I can't speak for him, but

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Speaker 3: I think it's a more like sexual intimate thing pleasuring

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Speaker 3: their body.

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Speaker 1: It's a sensation they're thinking of a person they love.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure. Yeah, I mean some girls might do it

646
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Speaker 1: the same way as guys, and then some some girls

647
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Speaker 1: might be but they don't get postal clarity. I know

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Speaker 1: that they don't. I don't think they do. I'm pretty

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Speaker 1: sure they don't. I just agree, really, I don't think

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Speaker 1: they get clarity like we have that sense, you know

651
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Speaker 1: how some dudes don't want to hug up the sex initially.

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Speaker 1: They don't get that, do they. I think they do. No,

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Speaker 1: I mean they could do that, don't. Oh yeah, get

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Speaker 1: hold up here ready? So I think the girls don't

655
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Speaker 1: like if you finish but your girlfriend hasn't, like the

656
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Speaker 1: person you're with hasn't, and you keep going for you

657
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Speaker 1: that you're going, you're doing it for her. You don't

658
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Speaker 1: keep going because you find it pleasurable. Still, No, you're

659
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Speaker 1: doing it for them. You're doing it for them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and like you're really trying to keep it up. I

661
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Speaker 1: think it's the same for if they finish before you.

662
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Speaker 1: It's not like they want to. I don't think, like

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Speaker 1: some people can have multiple orgasms, but I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 1: a majority of the time, it's like they want you

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Speaker 1: to finish as soon as you can, as soon as

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Speaker 1: they finish, because they get the same thing that they're done.

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Speaker 1: They're like, I'm done. Now this doesn't feels good as

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Speaker 1: it did just before. Yeah. Ah, interesting, it's funny how

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Speaker 1: we still don't know. We don't know anything. Yeah, we

670
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 1: still know nothing in this situation. It's so this is

671
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Speaker 1: a tricky one. I would say, did you say it

672
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Speaker 1: feels like he's cheating on me? Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think it's because she might see master banning as

674
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 3: he's thinking of being with other women, not her. Yeah,

675
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Speaker 3: Like that's not what master beaning to a dude really is.

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Speaker 3: I'm not like backing him and saying he's right by

677
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Speaker 3: any means, just like we don't think about what it is.

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Speaker 1: We just do it.

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Speaker 3: But I think the major red flag is it's fair

680
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Speaker 3: you're allowed to have validating feelings, like you're allowed to be.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you shouldn't. You shouldn't be like supporting it. We

682
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 1: shouldn't make Yeah, you don't have to support it. Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. And the fact that she said like that, this

684
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Speaker 3: doesn't make me feel good. Yeah, big green tick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And then he went against his word. I think

686
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Speaker 1: that's the worst part. Yeah. He said he would stop

687
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Speaker 1: and he didn't. Yeah, And he broke your trust.

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Speaker 3: There that's the thing that hurts me a little bit,

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Speaker 3: So I would rather I would probably say, like, like,

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Speaker 3: take away the situation. Imagine you said like I don't

691
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Speaker 3: like you following girls on Instagram and you're like, okay, fine,

692
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Speaker 3: and then he went and followed more girls on Instagram.

693
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Speaker 1: Be like, oh what the fuck?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, breakaway sex from the equation because sex is confusing.

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Speaker 3: I would still be like, you've broken my trust. We're

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Speaker 3: going to have a serious conversation about this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think I don't think there's anything wrong with

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Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, I think he might have. Actually, yeah,

699
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Speaker 1: he broke his trust because you asked him not to

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Speaker 1: and he still did it because he said he would

701
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Speaker 1: stop doing it. And just because it's something that everybody

702
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Speaker 1: does doesn't make it okay. No, so interesting one.

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Speaker 3: I bet he didn't think about the magnitude of what

704
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Speaker 3: you were saying. No, he was just like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

705
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Speaker 3: I'll stop. And he hid it from you because you're guilty.

706
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 3: He just yeah, because he knows you didn't like it,

707
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 3: and he and I'm sure he loves you. But guys

708
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Speaker 3: just unfortunately pawns a thing.

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Speaker 1: And it's very addictive. A lot of no excuse for it.

710
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 1: Young males are addicted the baorn. Oh yeah, very addictive. Yeah,

711
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Speaker 1: people get heaps addicted to it. You're addicted to the sensation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's just it's an easy dopamin It's sort

713
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Speaker 3: of like TikTok scrolling on a video and you get

714
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Speaker 3: hips of dopamine releases. It's the same as wanking. One

715
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Speaker 3: thing I can do maybe to ease your mind.

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Speaker 1: Again not saying what he's doing is okay, but he

717
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Speaker 1: doesn't want to be with the person he's watching. No, No,

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Speaker 1: I like, God, I never wants all that. No, like

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Speaker 1: you don't. The guy never ever wants to. He never thinks,

720
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Speaker 1: oh I wish that was my girlfriend. He never he

721
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 1: never thinks that. No, it's just a means to an end.

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Speaker 1: It's to get from A to B and it's a

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Speaker 1: five minute thing. So if that makes you feel any better,

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Speaker 1: I hope it does. But also I want you to

725
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Speaker 1: know that your feelings are valid and you need to

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Speaker 1: have a chat with him. Then you need to just

727
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Speaker 1: let him know that you broke your trust. And if

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Speaker 1: he can't accept that, and if he's like, look, I

729
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Speaker 1: just want to watch lah like it's what it is

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Speaker 1: maybe you're not right for each other because you guys,

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Speaker 1: values are different. Values could just be different. It's definitely.

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Speaker 3: It's a tricky conversation adding that sex in the equation,

733
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Speaker 3: but yeah, I think you need to have that chat.

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