WEBVTT - Hamish Blake on Co-Creating Australia’s no.1 Podcast, Parenting & What’s Important in Life

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<v Speaker 1>Hamish Blake. Well, straight talk mate, Thanks, Now, this is

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<v Speaker 1>very straight this joint. You were comfortable that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I did really sort of a chuckle there,

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<v Speaker 2>but that will be it for the That's it now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just straight talk, nothing lose. I don't think many

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<v Speaker 1>people really know about your background, Like, you know, where'd

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<v Speaker 1>you grow up?

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<v Speaker 2>I grew up in Melbourne. I'm a Melbourne boys, sort

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<v Speaker 2>of southeastern suburbs glen Waverley. Is that a good area

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<v Speaker 2>it is now but almost perfectly timed by the Blake

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<v Speaker 2>family too. We got in in nineteen eighty, held on

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<v Speaker 2>for twenty years. House prices went sideways for twenty years

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<v Speaker 2>that we got out just before the boot A good time.

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<v Speaker 2>It's super popular because there's like, you know, good schools

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff out there. But when I grew up it

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<v Speaker 2>was I look had a great time. It was a

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<v Speaker 2>pure kind of like suburban you know, especially like those

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<v Speaker 2>early years before teens. And then then I moved schools

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of times, like I ended up going to

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<v Speaker 2>school still in Melbourne, but like way down like Bayside

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<v Speaker 2>area we moved to. So but I had a pretty

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<v Speaker 2>fun childred. I've been thinking about my childhood a lot

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<v Speaker 2>later because I'm trying to explain to my kids, like

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<v Speaker 2>just really what boredom is and how it's good for

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<v Speaker 2>you and how it makes you imagine things and you

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<v Speaker 2>have to you know, just explaining to them, like we

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<v Speaker 2>didn't have screen time, not because our parents were like

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<v Speaker 2>you can't have screen times. Like we physically couldn't have

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<v Speaker 2>screen time. We didn't have screens. And the one screen

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<v Speaker 2>in the house we had wasn't showing shit for kids,

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<v Speaker 2>so like we couldn't have it. We could watch the microwave,

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<v Speaker 2>we could, like, we just didn't have screens, guys. So

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<v Speaker 2>just trying to get the kids now, like what did

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<v Speaker 2>you do? I was like, well, I remember, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I speaking to my little boy, who's eleven. I was

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<v Speaker 2>like number one summer around, you know. I was about

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<v Speaker 2>your age, Like we just ride bikes all the time,

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<v Speaker 2>like you just you know, that was the perfect childhood

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<v Speaker 2>and just get home and be back by dark. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like there was a building site nearby that must

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<v Speaker 2>have run into financial problems or whatever because it was

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<v Speaker 2>just a stalled building site for months. And I was

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<v Speaker 2>like they had builders sand and like clay there and

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<v Speaker 2>we're just chuck lumps of clay at each other. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>and that was that was great, that that was how

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<v Speaker 2>that was our time. We did not need complicated stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So what does your son say to that? That's very

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<v Speaker 1>interesting because you know today they're entertained all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>And I fight against this as well, but you know

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<v Speaker 2>that's this is the way of the world. But you know,

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<v Speaker 2>he's eleven now, so I know we haven't hit the

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<v Speaker 2>the waters starting to get a little bit choppy, but

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<v Speaker 2>we haven't hit the full rapids of the teenage years yet.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a big thing for me actually as a dad,

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<v Speaker 2>is trying to just do things that are just connected

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<v Speaker 2>to either just nature or just for the fun of adventure,

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<v Speaker 2>rather than being stuck inside or stuck on a screen.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you do this to make sure that you can

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<v Speaker 1>try and try to help your kids develop the need

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<v Speaker 1>to become creative as a result of being bored, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>go and pick up the clay and perform it through

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<v Speaker 1>each other. I mean that's creativity.

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<v Speaker 2>That is creativity, and we all have it in us.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. It's also just that letting creating the conditions

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<v Speaker 2>for imagination, Like I think play and imagination is a

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<v Speaker 2>huge It's a huge part of childhood, but I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's a huge part of life, like it is a

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<v Speaker 2>big part of what my professional career is. I think

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<v Speaker 2>kind of trying to hang on to that part of

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<v Speaker 2>your childhood that's imaginative and playful and just doing things

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<v Speaker 2>literally just for fun. You know that when you're a kid,

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<v Speaker 2>doing things just for the fun of it seems like

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<v Speaker 2>a good enough goal for an activity. And then as

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<v Speaker 2>we get older, doing things just for the fun of it,

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<v Speaker 2>well it just seems you know, it's regardless, that's frivolous,

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<v Speaker 2>that's like, well, there's more important things to do. But

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<v Speaker 2>I do think doing things just for the fun of

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<v Speaker 2>it should be is a high is high on the

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<v Speaker 2>hierarchy of importance, like you should do things just for

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<v Speaker 2>the fun of it. So yeah, as a as a parent,

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<v Speaker 2>like I think especially with little kids, and I again

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<v Speaker 2>i'm kind of really with any experience of what it's

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<v Speaker 2>like to have a child up to the age of eleven,

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<v Speaker 2>but just creating the conditions for them to be imaginative,

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<v Speaker 2>I think sometimes that's all you need. I was really

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<v Speaker 2>guilty of it too, especially when my little boy was young.

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<v Speaker 2>Did all the stuff, Like you know, I remember buying

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<v Speaker 2>him a Lego set that this was before the leg

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<v Speaker 2>the Lego Show came along. I was gonna say, then

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<v Speaker 2>I got Lego for free. I don't actually I still

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<v Speaker 2>have to buy it, but people think I get it

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<v Speaker 2>for free.

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<v Speaker 1>So you pick a little piece up every now in

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<v Speaker 1>the store.

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<v Speaker 2>I steal a lot from the show. But yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>then when people see me with a set, they're like, oh, God,

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<v Speaker 2>must be nice, you know, get free Lego, And I go, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I do, and I don't know. I have to buy

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<v Speaker 2>it from came up like everyone else. But I remember

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<v Speaker 2>my boy and like he loved Batman and I bought

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<v Speaker 2>him this like you know, quite complicated Batman twelve year

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<v Speaker 2>old one for a few like a fifteen year old,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like a Batman bill that split into

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<v Speaker 2>four pieces and I loved it. So I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>this is awesome. And he's five, and I'm like, you're

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<v Speaker 2>a very smart five year old, like we'll sort this

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<v Speaker 2>out together. And of course it's just like way too much.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think he could even do small Lego at

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<v Speaker 2>that stage you're still kind of on duplo. I remember,

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<v Speaker 2>like it was a great parenting lesson because I forced

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<v Speaker 2>it a bit. He really didn't want to do it

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<v Speaker 2>was getting a bit angsty. I ended up having to

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<v Speaker 2>like spend boxing day on the twenty seventh of December

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<v Speaker 2>building it. And then I looked over and he had

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<v Speaker 2>made out of duplow like ten bricks stuck together and

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<v Speaker 2>he's zooming it around and he's like, I've made this

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<v Speaker 2>is the batmobile. And I was like, yeah, of course,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what you meant to do when you five just

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<v Speaker 2>put ten things together and it's in your head. It's

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<v Speaker 2>in your imagination. So I love that about kids in

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<v Speaker 2>general and my kids, and I think, yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's you know, as much as we can, I reckon.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the antidote to kind of you know, that's the antidote.

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<v Speaker 2>Screen time is and letting him have the space and

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<v Speaker 2>the time to just imagine things and draw and just

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<v Speaker 2>you know, tinker around in nature.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting to talk about nature, and I know you

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<v Speaker 1>talk about natural things, but you know, we all talk

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<v Speaker 1>about nature and nurture. As a kid, yourself, homish, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you think you got from your parents in a

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<v Speaker 1>natural sense?

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<v Speaker 2>Question? My mum was incredibly is incredibly loving and caring,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I think I think in terms of the

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<v Speaker 2>nurture and Mum's Mum was a you know, a literature teacher,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, loved you know, I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I was trying to teach a Shakespeare and stuff when

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<v Speaker 2>we're in year six, which we weren't interesting. But I

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<v Speaker 2>do look back and I go, Mum, the cultured side

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<v Speaker 2>of Mum had a real impact too, you know, She's

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<v Speaker 2>it's that funny thing of like, no six year old

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<v Speaker 2>really cares about opera, but if it is, if you're

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<v Speaker 2>being shown these things, it has some kind of an

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<v Speaker 2>impact on you, particularly later on you've got some you say, mum.

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<v Speaker 2>Mum had that side. It wasn't really forced down a throat.

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<v Speaker 2>But when I think back to it, I'm like, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>somehow I know Vivaldi's Four Seasons and I never learned

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<v Speaker 2>an instrument or play it, but like it was, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>that was the kind of stuff mum, you know around

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<v Speaker 2>So Mum was that the intelligence side. I think Mum

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<v Speaker 2>was always very very keen for us to to sort

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<v Speaker 2>of intellectually expand ourselves as much as we could, and

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<v Speaker 2>but was also extremely loving and kind and Dad in

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<v Speaker 2>a funny way, in a funny way, this, this is this,

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<v Speaker 2>this sounds a bit in the inaccurate. I think I

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<v Speaker 2>got my sense of humor from Dad, but almost because

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<v Speaker 2>I was trying to get a rise out of him,

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<v Speaker 2>because he was quite It's not as he's not serious,

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<v Speaker 2>but he was. He was, you know, focused on what

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<v Speaker 2>he had to do, like Dad. So Dad worked for

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<v Speaker 2>most of his life, like he worked with my grandpa

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<v Speaker 2>farming until until I was kind of like five or

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<v Speaker 2>six that had farms like on the outskirts of Melbourne,

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<v Speaker 2>like cattle farms and market garden. And then Dad got

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<v Speaker 2>out of farming and he was he was doing irrigation,

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<v Speaker 2>so putting in like big large level like sprinkler systems

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, basic digging. It was just in the

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<v Speaker 2>dirt all day, like digging the hall and pipes and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So Dad was like, you know, he's he's driving a you.

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<v Speaker 2>He's always outside loading the you up with you tools

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<v Speaker 2>and diggers and pipes out of the shed. And like

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<v Speaker 2>Dad had big jobs going on, and so you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and I've always just wanted to make people laugh. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know where that comes from, but I've just always

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<v Speaker 2>thought that. You know, I'm always just in any situation

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<v Speaker 2>looking for what's the funniest thing that could happen here.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm trying to make Dad laugh. He's not in

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<v Speaker 2>the mood, but I know it's in there somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to find it.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically, just trying to like needle it out of him

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<v Speaker 2>the whole time. And so then if they did crack him,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, yeah, great, this is good. I'm getting

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<v Speaker 2>to him. And so it's not like he didn't want

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<v Speaker 2>to have fun, but he was just busy doing other shit,

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<v Speaker 2>but serious with his work, serious with his work. In

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<v Speaker 2>terms of the nature nurture. I was saying that somehow

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<v Speaker 2>it was in my nature to maybe be wanting to

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like comedy was in my nature. And so

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<v Speaker 2>it was like Dad it but he was like good

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<v Speaker 2>resistance training for it.

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<v Speaker 1>But did you get a rise out of me? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like you've got him to react to.

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<v Speaker 2>Laugh, going to react and so and it's that funny thing,

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<v Speaker 2>like I think it's not unusual for comedians or people

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<v Speaker 2>in the comedy world to boil it down like we're

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<v Speaker 2>all trying to get attention. Really, like it is a

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<v Speaker 2>bit of an attention economy now it is, it is,

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<v Speaker 2>and but I think comedy has always had that aspect.

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<v Speaker 2>I think if people got really honest, most you know,

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<v Speaker 2>anyone is there is like, oh yeah, there's someone in

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<v Speaker 2>their life they're trying to get the attention of. And

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<v Speaker 2>it was probably my dad. I mean probably there's still

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<v Speaker 2>a little part of me that's that little boy trying

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<v Speaker 2>to get these dat's attention.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you guys have been extraordinarily successful over a

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<v Speaker 1>long period of time, so you know, you success can

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<v Speaker 1>be measured lots of different ways, but for me, one

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<v Speaker 1>of the really important ways of measuring success is being

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<v Speaker 1>able to evolve perhaps or stay relevant in anyway and

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<v Speaker 1>have different types of shows over a long period of time.

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<v Speaker 1>And you guys have been extraordinarily good at that. What

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<v Speaker 1>role does curiosity play because jurisum me is really important? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>as a businessman, I'm a business funny hundred you're funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, But I think exactly the same thing though, because

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<v Speaker 2>you're being led by what interests you and man, I

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<v Speaker 2>think when you do it with the reverse, that's when

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<v Speaker 2>trouble starts. Because I think that's very kind of you

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<v Speaker 2>to say, like we've evolved and adapted. But it would

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<v Speaker 2>be wrong, I think would be wrong for people to

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<v Speaker 2>hear that, to be like, oh, we saw a trend

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<v Speaker 2>coming and we moved to it, because I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>that ever works, because then you're following what you are

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<v Speaker 2>assuming to be other people's interests and hoping you match them,

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<v Speaker 2>and you can't lose you lose connection with your inner voice.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's nothing unique either.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're not curious anymore. You just trying to do

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<v Speaker 2>the best job fitting in. And so for Ferrando and

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<v Speaker 2>I together and then and then even separately, the one

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<v Speaker 2>thing we've always prought ourselves on is going there's no

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<v Speaker 2>guarantees in any of this. There was never a guarantee

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<v Speaker 2>when we started, Like it just you just don't have

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<v Speaker 2>any guarantee. It's like you're putting things out there and

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<v Speaker 2>hoping it connects with an audience, and if it does,

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<v Speaker 2>that's great, and if it doesn't, well, I'd still rather

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<v Speaker 2>have put it out there and tried it anyway than not.

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<v Speaker 2>But there's just no guarantee. The only thing you can control,

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<v Speaker 2>like if you look at it from that perspective, like,

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<v Speaker 2>the one controllable you can control is is this interesting

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<v Speaker 2>to us, like is this interesting? And are we curious

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<v Speaker 2>about this? And curiousity is such a good word for it,

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<v Speaker 2>because you're like you're being led by what you think

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<v Speaker 2>is other funny, interesting, or just a fun way to

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<v Speaker 2>spend your day and in the pursuit of, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>an interesting problem to solve, Like a lot of TV

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<v Speaker 2>shows and even with the podcasts we do and separate stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd say you could classify all those things as interesting

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<v Speaker 2>problems to solve, like something like Lego Masters. If I

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<v Speaker 2>look at an episode, I go, all right, what's this

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<v Speaker 2>episode about? How can we solve the presenting of this?

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<v Speaker 2>Like how can we solve communicating this to the audience

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<v Speaker 2>in the funnest, most interesting way? Like that's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>how my brain would think about my job regard And

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<v Speaker 2>same with the podcast with Andy, Like every week we

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<v Speaker 2>get together on the Hamishanny podcast and go, what's the

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<v Speaker 2>what's the funnest thing we could do? What's the thing

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<v Speaker 2>that would excite us the most that we think would

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<v Speaker 2>also bring our audience along for the ride, because we

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<v Speaker 2>know if we're excited and where passionate, that's the best

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<v Speaker 2>bet we've got. Like that, we do think that's the

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<v Speaker 2>best way to kind of connect with your audience. So

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<v Speaker 2>long way of answering that question. But curiosity is huge

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<v Speaker 2>because it's your inner voice, like that's your gut. Your

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<v Speaker 2>gut is your curiosity, and if you're being led by that,

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of think you can't go wrong because if

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<v Speaker 2>something hits, it's going to be the best kind of

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<v Speaker 2>content because it's authentically what you're interested in. And if

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't hit, you can't still being true to yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's fine too.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's funny. I was just when you're talking

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<v Speaker 1>to me, then I was seeing a bet my brother.

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<v Speaker 1>My brother's a lot younger than men. When he Leo

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<v Speaker 1>came in, there was a thing called Meccano.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm contractually Nola had to play with.

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<v Speaker 1>It was that they were sort of a competitor.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know why Lego's worried about but no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm not just saying this because I'm a Lego boy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so shit. The big bolts on him sheets I

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<v Speaker 2>had one as I did too, because you know, a

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<v Speaker 2>well meaning auntie had given me the crane or something

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<v Speaker 2>made Ada mcconnough. I was like, oh my god, this

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<v Speaker 2>is like when you look at Lego. And again I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not being paid to say this, but I think we

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<v Speaker 2>can all agree the engineering of Lego is like quite amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's brilliant.

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<v Speaker 2>These things click together, they stick. If you want to

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<v Speaker 2>get really deep in at that little circle on top's

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<v Speaker 2>called a stud and the gap on the bottom of

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<v Speaker 2>a Lego, but it's called the anti stud. And the

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<v Speaker 2>pressure with which they connect is called the clutch power

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<v Speaker 2>of the brick. It's actually quite scientific. Anyway, they stick together.

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<v Speaker 2>It's easy. You go over to mccano, you literally have

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<v Speaker 2>to put mini bolts and was nuts.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you're screwing on well, and a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people wuldn't even know what it was. And I remember

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<v Speaker 1>when then Lego came out and brought six years younger.

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<v Speaker 1>Then when Lego came out. One of the things I

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<v Speaker 1>know about my brother is he was very good at

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<v Speaker 1>the detail. Like he would sit for like a little

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<v Speaker 1>five year old kid or whatever. He would sit there

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<v Speaker 1>for hours and I was like ten or eleven, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be looking at what the fuck you do? And he

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<v Speaker 1>would five six hours. He do it all day long.

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<v Speaker 1>And but what's interesting about that is my brother and

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<v Speaker 1>I now do business together and my brother's a lawyer

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<v Speaker 1>and he does all our legal stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>The detail guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And then I look at you and Andy Leo, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>are you the creative and here's the detailed guy? Or

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<v Speaker 1>is sometimes because that's how you might be presented, or

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes it is actually the reverse In real life.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd say, as we've got older, we've probably got better

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<v Speaker 2>at the other guy's discipline. Do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>The reason I do the show down is because I

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<v Speaker 2>think he's so fun. He makes me laugh so much,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's not true to go I'm creative and he's not.

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<v Speaker 2>Because when he brings things, I you know, I love it,

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<v Speaker 2>Like we just make each other love. That's the that's

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<v Speaker 2>the lottery we've won, is we found this other person

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<v Speaker 2>that we just kind of have like a telepathy with

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<v Speaker 2>and we're just so aligned on what we think is

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<v Speaker 2>funny and a good adventure too. I think from the

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<v Speaker 2>moment we met.

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<v Speaker 1>Like do you remember that moment?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, definitely, And it was at Melbourne UNI.

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<v Speaker 1>What were you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>I took a year off and moved with my mum

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<v Speaker 2>to Sydney in the year two thousand. I come up

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<v Speaker 2>for the Olympics. I went to Synee and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>this should be fun. So I took a year off

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<v Speaker 2>and but and he went straight to You.

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<v Speaker 1>Watch me sort of compete in the bits.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a little bit late to get selection. I rolled

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<v Speaker 2>up as wild card, couldn't get I was like, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>I could do a shooting.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just bumming around Sydney, just trying to sneak

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<v Speaker 2>into the beach holleyball and stuff, and it was it was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a great fun time. But Ander had gone

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<v Speaker 2>straight to UNI. Then I moved back to Melbourne to

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<v Speaker 2>go to Union. He had gone straight to UNI, and

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<v Speaker 2>one of my mates from high school had become friends

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<v Speaker 2>with him. Got called Pete, and Pete's like, oh, mate,

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<v Speaker 2>I reckon. You got to make this guy Andy like

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<v Speaker 2>he actually reminds me a lot of you. I reckon.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are get on. And so we really Opeede

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<v Speaker 2>a lot because yet me and Andy Mett and immediately we're

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<v Speaker 2>like best friends and probably cut Pete out a bit

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<v Speaker 2>and Pete out to go up and find some other people.

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<v Speaker 2>So apologies Nlsey, But yeah, no. Then we were like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we were thick as thieves and I think

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<v Speaker 2>it was just sort of a sense of adventure that

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<v Speaker 2>we had with each other because we still talk and I,

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<v Speaker 2>in fact, the other day had a deep and meaningful

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<v Speaker 2>about this, like we still are interested in, like why

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<v Speaker 2>does this thing we do work?

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<v Speaker 1>Like how do we feel.

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<v Speaker 2>About We do a lot of analyzing, and like great,

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<v Speaker 2>it's full of gratitude, like great for analyzing because we

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<v Speaker 2>know how lucky we are to have each other. But

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<v Speaker 2>one of the things we often talk about is we've

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<v Speaker 2>probably got a pretty similar risk appetite as well, like

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<v Speaker 2>we like to have a go at some big things,

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<v Speaker 2>and especially when we're in our teens and twenties, Like

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<v Speaker 2>that's exactly what you should be doing in your teens

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<v Speaker 2>and twenties, Like this idea of going of just having

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<v Speaker 2>a crack at things, And it made it so much

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<v Speaker 2>easier though, to have a mate doing it. Like I

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<v Speaker 2>think one of the things Andy gave me, especially in

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<v Speaker 2>my twenties, that I'm way more grateful for any of

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<v Speaker 2>the kind of like normal markers of success, like any

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<v Speaker 2>of the financial rewards or you know, career longevity. One

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<v Speaker 2>of the best gifts I reckon Andy gave me was

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<v Speaker 2>at that time in my life is you just sort

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<v Speaker 2>of just finding your feet coming out of your teenage

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<v Speaker 2>years into your twenties. But he was a catalyst for courage.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, like you meet a best friend and then

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, all right, let's do it together. And I

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<v Speaker 2>am so grateful for that too, because you know when

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<v Speaker 2>you get a bit further down the track and it

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<v Speaker 2>will bit of gray in your beard. All you want

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<v Speaker 2>to do is tell people in their twenties just take

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<v Speaker 2>massive risks. Who cares, Like, just pedal as hard as

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<v Speaker 2>you can and to the extend you can be reckless,

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<v Speaker 2>not massive personal risks, like you're not massive careless risks,

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<v Speaker 2>but put yourself out there. Sorry, risk embarrassment, risk, risk

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<v Speaker 2>getting it wrong, risk, you know, humiliation. If you want

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<v Speaker 2>to have a business idea, if you want to have

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<v Speaker 2>a if you want to get up on stage, or

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<v Speaker 2>you want to release an album, or you want to

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<v Speaker 2>decide to be a dancer or whatever it is you

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<v Speaker 2>want to do, that's when you should do it in

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<v Speaker 2>your twenties because you've got the agility to bounce back

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<v Speaker 2>and it's always going to Any failure is going to

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<v Speaker 2>be great.

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<v Speaker 1>Lean into being vulnerable there, Yeah, who is a fuck yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Because but also come unfortunately well for me anyway, it

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<v Speaker 2>comes on at a time in your life where you

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<v Speaker 2>you're looking at the big wide world and you you

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<v Speaker 2>I definitely was at risk of going, you know, just

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<v Speaker 2>waiting until things seemed right.

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<v Speaker 1>Or like, Okay, I've got this.

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<v Speaker 2>You would that's yours that I reckon. I would have

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<v Speaker 2>at that age waited a lot longer thinking I was,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, that that fallacy of thinking that just wait

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<v Speaker 2>until a few more things fall into place, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>suddenly a few years have gone by and you actually

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<v Speaker 2>haven't done the thing that scares you. And I think

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<v Speaker 2>by meeting ando and having someone by your side, you

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<v Speaker 2>can gee each other up into doing the thing that

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<v Speaker 2>scares you. And it's always the best thing to like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, have this conversation Evey when the kids as

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<v Speaker 2>they're a little like this. The feeling that we all

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<v Speaker 2>want in life is almost always on the other side

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<v Speaker 2>of fear and the thing that scares you. And we

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<v Speaker 2>know that feeling. We love that feeling when we get there,

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<v Speaker 2>and we always like, oh, that's you know, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>going to be scared anymore. And of course we always

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<v Speaker 2>it's a permanent process of trying to face those fears

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<v Speaker 2>all the time, to remember to keep pushing through them.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it is how our brain has evolved. It

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<v Speaker 1>gets a way of survival. Yeah, when you say the

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<v Speaker 1>two of you you feel better having two of you

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<v Speaker 1>to do something. Is that because you feel better of

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<v Speaker 1>both fail and you can sort of say to each other, like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's say you're going to do somebody's.

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<v Speaker 2>Going to fail, you're alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's about not being alone. And you said something

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<v Speaker 1>really interesting a moment ago. You use the word courage,

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<v Speaker 1>and I love the word, but also fear. Courage sort

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<v Speaker 1>of sits somewhere between being completely fearful, in other words,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, stone dead, you won't do anything nothing, And

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<v Speaker 1>at the other end of the spectrum is reckless, where

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<v Speaker 1>you don't give a fuck. You do everything and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't give a shit about the outcomiscy and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>care if it hurts anyone either. That's reckless. Courage sort

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<v Speaker 1>of sits somewhere in the middle of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, don't think courageous without being scared, because that's great.

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<v Speaker 1>I love hearing that.

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<v Speaker 2>Courage is the overcoming of fear. Courage is being scared

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<v Speaker 2>and doing it anyway. Courage isn't the absence of fear,

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<v Speaker 2>because that is where you could be a psychopathy. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>it could just be like I don't assuming you're normal, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>assuming you're normal, like you, So you have to be

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<v Speaker 2>scared for the opportunity to be courageous, Like that's the

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<v Speaker 2>gift of fear. I suppose if you want to frame

0:20:48.160 --> 0:20:51.760
<v Speaker 2>it in that sense, you go, great, I'm scared, so

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<v Speaker 2>now I've got a chance to do something with it

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<v Speaker 2>and to see if I can overcome that fear.

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<v Speaker 1>And finding someone who has the same mindset was like minded, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>in a better way putting it like minded, that's pretty powerful.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you recognize that at the time. Did you feel

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<v Speaker 1>there's power in this?

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<v Speaker 2>I think for a second, because I just got to

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<v Speaker 2>UNI too, I think for a second I was like, Oh,

0:21:11.800 --> 0:21:13.719
<v Speaker 2>this is great. This is what UNI was meant to be.

0:21:14.200 --> 0:21:16.840
<v Speaker 2>You meant to meet all these great people, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I just expected to meet heaps more like Andy because

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<v Speaker 2>it was like day one I think we met and

0:21:22.320 --> 0:21:24.000
<v Speaker 2>then I went I actually, hang on a second, maybe

0:21:24.000 --> 0:21:27.720
<v Speaker 2>this is he's just one of one and we'll stick together.

0:21:27.800 --> 0:21:30.360
<v Speaker 2>So you know, we're really really lucky that we have that,

0:21:30.560 --> 0:21:34.360
<v Speaker 2>like mind and us, but simultaneously we're extremely different people too,

0:21:34.400 --> 0:21:36.720
<v Speaker 2>So I think that's the that's the that's the beauty

0:21:36.720 --> 0:21:38.600
<v Speaker 2>of it. We have so much that we have a

0:21:38.680 --> 0:21:40.720
<v Speaker 2>ven diagram overlap on, and then we have a heap

0:21:40.800 --> 0:21:43.760
<v Speaker 2>that we don't and that's what makes it. That's great.

0:21:43.840 --> 0:21:46.280
<v Speaker 2>We don't want two hamishes and we don't want to Andy's.

0:21:46.359 --> 0:21:46.960
<v Speaker 1>It wouldn't work.

0:21:47.040 --> 0:21:50.160
<v Speaker 2>It doesn't work. So that's the alchemy, you know. That's

0:21:50.240 --> 0:21:53.200
<v Speaker 2>that's one on one equals three is somehow we've got

0:21:53.320 --> 0:21:57.440
<v Speaker 2>We've got that. We've got that enough in common that

0:21:57.760 --> 0:22:01.399
<v Speaker 2>we completely understand each other, and then enough not in

0:22:01.480 --> 0:22:04.600
<v Speaker 2>common that we are our own kind of unique people.

0:22:04.840 --> 0:22:08.800
<v Speaker 2>So I think this was this this began because we're

0:22:08.800 --> 0:22:11.040
<v Speaker 2>talking about like, you know, the details guy and the

0:22:11.080 --> 0:22:19.919
<v Speaker 2>creative guy, and is extremely gifted at at at details.

0:22:19.960 --> 0:22:22.359
<v Speaker 2>I mean, he's we have a segment on the show

0:22:22.400 --> 0:22:25.560
<v Speaker 2>that makes fun of how detailed Orientity is. It's called

0:22:25.640 --> 0:22:27.760
<v Speaker 2>upset Andy just because he loves everything to be neat

0:22:28.080 --> 0:22:29.680
<v Speaker 2>organized like that.

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<v Speaker 1>For real, that's for real, that's real. Yes, And I

0:22:31.840 --> 0:22:33.200
<v Speaker 1>Gore just taking the Pierce.

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<v Speaker 2>No no, no, proberly. Now it's probably an undiagnosed something

0:22:37.600 --> 0:22:40.199
<v Speaker 2>that it's like it's all good fun. But you know,

0:22:40.280 --> 0:22:42.119
<v Speaker 2>he has a drawer at home that's like, you know,

0:22:42.560 --> 0:22:45.880
<v Speaker 2>batteries and like he has like everything labeled, and it's

0:22:46.240 --> 0:22:51.280
<v Speaker 2>whereas my house is just piles and complete chaos. So

0:22:52.160 --> 0:22:54.359
<v Speaker 2>I do. I mean, that's probably a little snapshot of

0:22:54.400 --> 0:22:58.879
<v Speaker 2>our brains too, Like my brain is quite chaotic, he isn't.

0:22:58.920 --> 0:23:01.000
<v Speaker 2>But I also think a big out of our relationship

0:23:01.080 --> 0:23:04.440
<v Speaker 2>is we love the other guys. We love the other

0:23:04.480 --> 0:23:08.840
<v Speaker 2>guy for their brain. So I think he likes what

0:23:08.920 --> 0:23:11.639
<v Speaker 2>comes out of my chaotic brain, and I know I

0:23:11.720 --> 0:23:14.880
<v Speaker 2>get so much benefit from his from the way he

0:23:14.920 --> 0:23:18.080
<v Speaker 2>does things, and I think that's an important part of

0:23:18.080 --> 0:23:19.600
<v Speaker 2>a partnership. I think you have to love the other

0:23:19.640 --> 0:23:23.000
<v Speaker 2>person's brain rather than go, mate, why are you so ain?

0:23:23.119 --> 0:23:25.239
<v Speaker 2>Or be more like me? It would be terrible if

0:23:25.280 --> 0:23:27.160
<v Speaker 2>he was more like me. And at the same time,

0:23:27.160 --> 0:23:29.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't think he's sitting there being like, hey, mate,

0:23:29.119 --> 0:23:32.320
<v Speaker 2>be more you go to be more structured in this stuff.

0:23:32.359 --> 0:23:36.480
<v Speaker 2>I think, you know, thankfully he's he's always kind of

0:23:36.520 --> 0:23:39.320
<v Speaker 2>making space for me to just be like, yeah, that's

0:23:39.320 --> 0:23:41.520
<v Speaker 2>the way Haym does things. But we know we'll get

0:23:41.520 --> 0:23:43.399
<v Speaker 2>a result at the end, he'll spit something out and

0:23:43.440 --> 0:23:44.400
<v Speaker 2>that will be good for the show.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you always have that empathy between each other?

0:23:47.600 --> 0:23:49.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean it or take time?

0:23:49.480 --> 0:23:51.399
<v Speaker 2>It did take time. It probably did take to I reckon,

0:23:51.520 --> 0:23:55.200
<v Speaker 2>I reckon, especially early days, likereing in your twenties and

0:23:55.240 --> 0:23:57.240
<v Speaker 2>you're doing like you're doing a national radio show, and

0:23:58.560 --> 0:24:00.199
<v Speaker 2>there's no rule book for any of that stuff, like

0:24:00.240 --> 0:24:04.040
<v Speaker 2>you do learn by doing. And we're lucky to have

0:24:04.200 --> 0:24:07.720
<v Speaker 2>good people around us too that we made communication a

0:24:07.720 --> 0:24:10.080
<v Speaker 2>really big part of our team. So we did do

0:24:10.119 --> 0:24:14.520
<v Speaker 2>a lot of checking in with each other. And because

0:24:14.520 --> 0:24:17.200
<v Speaker 2>it's funny, you're growing as well at the same time,

0:24:17.440 --> 0:24:19.080
<v Speaker 2>so it's not like you come to the table as

0:24:19.160 --> 0:24:24.600
<v Speaker 2>complete humans. We came to each other as growing boys.

0:24:24.920 --> 0:24:28.800
<v Speaker 2>Like we're like twenty two, so you're growing with each

0:24:28.840 --> 0:24:30.480
<v Speaker 2>other and you go to keep checking in with each

0:24:30.480 --> 0:24:34.280
<v Speaker 2>other as you're growing up together to keep it working.

0:24:34.280 --> 0:24:36.399
<v Speaker 2>We always sort of joke that our partnership was we're like,

0:24:37.080 --> 0:24:41.240
<v Speaker 2>it's a nuclear reactor. We have to notice cracks before

0:24:41.280 --> 0:24:44.120
<v Speaker 2>someone else does, Like if we don't notice the cracks,

0:24:44.320 --> 0:24:46.919
<v Speaker 2>it could be catastrophic, and we're also aware of like

0:24:48.160 --> 0:24:50.840
<v Speaker 2>it's this. It was very strange thing that we ended

0:24:50.880 --> 0:24:54.240
<v Speaker 2>up doing with our lives because we're like we've commercialized

0:24:54.240 --> 0:24:57.680
<v Speaker 2>a friendship, like we we're mates, but now we're mates

0:24:58.400 --> 0:25:01.040
<v Speaker 2>for our job. Quick. Now that's what we build a

0:25:01.080 --> 0:25:03.280
<v Speaker 2>brand with two names in it. Yeah, it's us, Like

0:25:03.320 --> 0:25:06.800
<v Speaker 2>it's not like we it's not characters. It's like it's us.

0:25:07.000 --> 0:25:09.400
<v Speaker 2>So like you feel it, really you feel it because

0:25:09.400 --> 0:25:12.200
<v Speaker 2>you're like, shit, if this people don't like the show,

0:25:12.359 --> 0:25:15.240
<v Speaker 2>they don't like us. So it's kind of you're hanging

0:25:15.280 --> 0:25:17.040
<v Speaker 2>a lot on it. So that takes a little bit

0:25:17.040 --> 0:25:18.200
<v Speaker 2>of time to get your head around.

0:25:19.760 --> 0:25:22.760
<v Speaker 1>But talking to each other, is it like for real?

0:25:22.880 --> 0:25:24.840
<v Speaker 1>Like do you sit down, do you have a cadence?

0:25:24.920 --> 0:25:26.520
<v Speaker 1>Like you sort of sit down and say, well, once

0:25:26.520 --> 0:25:28.280
<v Speaker 1>a month, we get this is we're at.

0:25:29.119 --> 0:25:31.280
<v Speaker 2>It's never been good at formalizing it. I think we

0:25:32.880 --> 0:25:35.879
<v Speaker 2>it just has we've learned to do it organically, you know.

0:25:36.080 --> 0:25:39.280
<v Speaker 2>Even I mean honestly, yesterday we had a similar chat

0:25:39.320 --> 0:25:42.240
<v Speaker 2>and we were just just you know, we were into

0:25:42.240 --> 0:25:44.600
<v Speaker 2>the year in Owstoned podcast. We're seeing how we're going,

0:25:44.680 --> 0:25:48.119
<v Speaker 2>like you know, and a lot of the time, especially

0:25:48.160 --> 0:25:49.440
<v Speaker 2>at the you know, at the moment, because I feel

0:25:49.480 --> 0:25:52.960
<v Speaker 2>like we're in a great part of our lives. You know,

0:25:53.000 --> 0:25:54.440
<v Speaker 2>it's just it's a lot of times. So it's just

0:25:54.440 --> 0:25:56.320
<v Speaker 2>a real gratitude to just be like this is this

0:25:56.359 --> 0:25:58.280
<v Speaker 2>is great, Like we're really lucky, Like you have the

0:25:58.320 --> 0:26:03.760
<v Speaker 2>team we've got, you say that to each other, and

0:26:03.880 --> 0:26:08.640
<v Speaker 2>we've been us this before, took. I think the thing

0:26:08.760 --> 0:26:11.800
<v Speaker 2>that we're one of the other lotteries we want was

0:26:11.800 --> 0:26:13.880
<v Speaker 2>we didn't just find a person that makes us laugh,

0:26:13.920 --> 0:26:18.200
<v Speaker 2>and didn't just find a person that makes the performance

0:26:18.240 --> 0:26:22.160
<v Speaker 2>side of things really easy. We also found a person

0:26:22.640 --> 0:26:26.080
<v Speaker 2>who thinks we have the same definition.

0:26:25.640 --> 0:26:27.960
<v Speaker 1>Of what good is in terms of values.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, in terms of values, but I think it's as

0:26:30.600 --> 0:26:34.520
<v Speaker 2>well as to what we do professionally. But actually yeah,

0:26:34.560 --> 0:26:37.240
<v Speaker 2>in terms of values too. Like we want to have

0:26:37.280 --> 0:26:39.320
<v Speaker 2>a team around us that's having a good time. We

0:26:39.359 --> 0:26:41.760
<v Speaker 2>want to look after people. We want this to be

0:26:41.840 --> 0:26:48.120
<v Speaker 2>enjoyable for everyone. We want people to feel, whether it's

0:26:48.160 --> 0:26:50.399
<v Speaker 2>our audience or our team around us. I think we

0:26:50.440 --> 0:26:53.000
<v Speaker 2>want people to I think we want to stand for

0:26:53.080 --> 0:26:55.639
<v Speaker 2>what the good in life is. And like I said before,

0:26:55.680 --> 0:26:59.360
<v Speaker 2>like the just for fun element, the laughter and the

0:27:00.240 --> 0:27:03.600
<v Speaker 2>and the connection you can get to people in the

0:27:03.600 --> 0:27:07.800
<v Speaker 2>same room as you, but also listening by simply having

0:27:07.800 --> 0:27:08.480
<v Speaker 2>a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>But is that a luxury that you can deal in

0:27:12.040 --> 0:27:15.080
<v Speaker 1>now because you're so successful and you know you can

0:27:15.160 --> 0:27:16.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, you make good money, et cetera. Got good

0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:20.240
<v Speaker 1>coin you've accumulated or is that something that you guys

0:27:20.440 --> 0:27:21.560
<v Speaker 1>had from the very beginning.

0:27:22.040 --> 0:27:23.560
<v Speaker 2>I know it's easy to say it was there from

0:27:23.560 --> 0:27:25.520
<v Speaker 2>the very beginning, but I do think it has been.

0:27:25.560 --> 0:27:27.840
<v Speaker 2>I think it's been a core tenant of ours to go.

0:27:28.160 --> 0:27:30.280
<v Speaker 2>We like, if you were like, what does this show

0:27:30.359 --> 0:27:33.080
<v Speaker 2>stand for? Even back in early radio days, I think

0:27:33.119 --> 0:27:36.760
<v Speaker 2>we would have honestly said this before any this is

0:27:36.800 --> 0:27:40.000
<v Speaker 2>before a paycheck land, and like we stand for people

0:27:41.359 --> 0:27:44.040
<v Speaker 2>have the people we engage with having fun. We always

0:27:44.400 --> 0:27:48.160
<v Speaker 2>always at our happiest. I reckon when it's like listeners

0:27:48.280 --> 0:27:50.679
<v Speaker 2>or other people in the show coming up with funny

0:27:50.680 --> 0:27:53.879
<v Speaker 2>things and where like it's making us laugh, because I'd

0:27:53.920 --> 0:27:55.800
<v Speaker 2>be like, I think that's what we've always stood for,

0:27:55.880 --> 0:28:00.359
<v Speaker 2>the connection that humans can feel with each other when

0:28:00.840 --> 0:28:05.840
<v Speaker 2>sort of silliness is in the air, and that's that's

0:28:06.080 --> 0:28:09.320
<v Speaker 2>I think that's just what's always floated our boat. You know,

0:28:09.359 --> 0:28:11.000
<v Speaker 2>the first radio show we did for many years, we

0:28:11.040 --> 0:28:13.040
<v Speaker 2>did it for we were like, we'll work for free.

0:28:13.200 --> 0:28:18.840
<v Speaker 2>We did Monday nights. Yeah. Our first actual first contract

0:28:19.119 --> 0:28:22.159
<v Speaker 2>with this was with ostereo. Back in the days. This

0:28:22.280 --> 0:28:25.960
<v Speaker 2>was on Fox FM in Melbourne, like and it wasn't

0:28:26.040 --> 0:28:30.080
<v Speaker 2>national at that stage. We wanted to do the Drive

0:28:30.119 --> 0:28:33.399
<v Speaker 2>Show because we'd always loved drive radio because I don't know,

0:28:33.640 --> 0:28:35.520
<v Speaker 2>it's kind of similar these days too, but like breakfast

0:28:35.560 --> 0:28:38.640
<v Speaker 2>shows are about like breaking news and gossip and like headlines,

0:28:39.000 --> 0:28:42.720
<v Speaker 2>which has just never been our bag, and the Drive

0:28:42.760 --> 0:28:44.760
<v Speaker 2>Show felt like you could be silly. It's like escapism.

0:28:44.840 --> 0:28:48.000
<v Speaker 2>You can just talk about dumb stuff and make people laugh.

0:28:48.040 --> 0:28:49.440
<v Speaker 2>And we're like, that's what we want to do. We

0:28:49.480 --> 0:28:51.840
<v Speaker 2>want to do something this escapism. So we went to

0:28:51.840 --> 0:28:54.160
<v Speaker 2>them and we were like, you know, they kind of

0:28:54.240 --> 0:28:56.920
<v Speaker 2>were happy to have, like we're kind of happy to

0:28:56.920 --> 0:28:59.720
<v Speaker 2>give you guys the show, but they they offered us

0:28:59.720 --> 0:29:04.200
<v Speaker 2>Monday day to Thursday, and they're like, we can't afford

0:29:04.200 --> 0:29:06.760
<v Speaker 2>to pay you guys five days a week, which I've

0:29:06.760 --> 0:29:08.240
<v Speaker 2>never heard of before or whatever. Like then I was

0:29:08.240 --> 0:29:11.040
<v Speaker 2>sort of just hedging their beds. Maybe wanted to do music,

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:12.960
<v Speaker 2>but the reason they gave us was like, well, we

0:29:12.960 --> 0:29:14.920
<v Speaker 2>can't afford, we can't afford five days a week for

0:29:14.960 --> 0:29:16.280
<v Speaker 2>the show, and we went, all right, well, we'll do

0:29:16.280 --> 0:29:19.240
<v Speaker 2>Fridays for free because we don't want to do a

0:29:19.320 --> 0:29:21.480
<v Speaker 2>Monday to Thursday show because then all our listeners on

0:29:21.520 --> 0:29:23.680
<v Speaker 2>Friday will just not have a show to listen to

0:29:23.800 --> 0:29:26.720
<v Speaker 2>and they'll go somewhere else. So yeah, for the first

0:29:26.760 --> 0:29:30.200
<v Speaker 2>year we did Fridays for free, we got them back.

0:29:30.200 --> 0:29:32.200
<v Speaker 2>In subsequent years we did make them.

0:29:33.120 --> 0:29:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I think Ostereo over time has probably paid their way got.

0:29:37.160 --> 0:29:40.040
<v Speaker 2>To pay Fridays. But so I can honestly say, hand

0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:41.880
<v Speaker 2>on hut, like that was our It was never our

0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:45.560
<v Speaker 2>mission to you know, we never got into this to

0:29:45.760 --> 0:29:50.280
<v Speaker 2>make money. The money is an extremely happy side effect,

0:29:50.400 --> 0:29:54.600
<v Speaker 2>but I've never it just so of course you appreciative

0:29:54.640 --> 0:29:56.680
<v Speaker 2>and cognizant of like how lucky you are to be

0:29:56.680 --> 0:29:58.680
<v Speaker 2>in a position to make money out of this thing.

0:29:59.680 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 2>But it absolutely never a driver.

0:30:02.120 --> 0:30:06.480
<v Speaker 1>So you're you're the it's sort of like a a

0:30:06.520 --> 0:30:08.560
<v Speaker 1>straight guy and not so straight.

0:30:08.280 --> 0:30:10.800
<v Speaker 2>Guy sometimes, And I guess I guess that I kind

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:15.440
<v Speaker 2>of sound why people do say that, because it's like

0:30:16.000 --> 0:30:19.480
<v Speaker 2>it's it's I don't know, there's a thing where that's

0:30:19.520 --> 0:30:21.680
<v Speaker 2>kind of like one of the rules people know about

0:30:21.760 --> 0:30:24.760
<v Speaker 2>duos like you know, you go Laurela Hardy or straight straight.

0:30:25.320 --> 0:30:28.680
<v Speaker 2>I've never thought of any and I like that. I

0:30:28.720 --> 0:30:31.920
<v Speaker 2>just think we have different I actually think we're great

0:30:32.080 --> 0:30:35.520
<v Speaker 2>at playing like bass and treble and flipping. You know.

0:30:35.560 --> 0:30:37.320
<v Speaker 2>I just think I think. I just feel like it's

0:30:37.320 --> 0:30:40.160
<v Speaker 2>two different vibrations that kind of work with each other.

0:30:40.320 --> 0:30:41.480
<v Speaker 1>That sounds very scientific.

0:30:41.800 --> 0:30:44.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've started off going music and then I switched

0:30:44.200 --> 0:30:44.760
<v Speaker 2>to physics.

0:30:44.840 --> 0:30:46.720
<v Speaker 1>But I just think music and physics are related, so

0:30:46.760 --> 0:30:48.120
<v Speaker 1>it's okay, yeah.

0:30:47.800 --> 0:30:50.320
<v Speaker 2>Well there we go. There's mum's influence. Again. I wouldn't

0:30:50.320 --> 0:30:52.000
<v Speaker 2>know about bass and treble if it wasn't for Mum.

0:30:52.720 --> 0:30:54.120
<v Speaker 2>But do you know what I mean, I'd never have

0:30:54.240 --> 0:30:57.280
<v Speaker 2>gone like, I've never thought like, Okay, Andy's in the

0:30:57.320 --> 0:31:03.400
<v Speaker 2>suit and I'm the clown. We just it does feel

0:31:03.440 --> 0:31:06.400
<v Speaker 2>like a dance. Like Honestly, I'll go I'll stick with

0:31:06.400 --> 0:31:08.560
<v Speaker 2>physics because that is actually what I was studying at UNI.

0:31:09.680 --> 0:31:12.719
<v Speaker 2>I just think we know exactly in any given moment,

0:31:13.080 --> 0:31:15.080
<v Speaker 2>how to counterbalance.

0:31:14.360 --> 0:31:15.640
<v Speaker 1>Which character you need to be, how to.

0:31:15.600 --> 0:31:17.880
<v Speaker 2>Counterbalance each other, to keep the center of gravity in

0:31:17.880 --> 0:31:19.800
<v Speaker 2>the same spot so we can move all over the place,

0:31:19.880 --> 0:31:22.200
<v Speaker 2>and the center kind of the show stays on track.

0:31:22.800 --> 0:31:24.960
<v Speaker 1>And what most people don't probably realize about you, because

0:31:25.000 --> 0:31:28.000
<v Speaker 1>you know you have sometimes you play loose and you're

0:31:28.000 --> 0:31:32.200
<v Speaker 1>probably more reputationally that that person and you totally.

0:31:32.680 --> 0:31:34.000
<v Speaker 2>That is the way I add.

0:31:34.040 --> 0:31:36.600
<v Speaker 1>But what's interesting you just said you talk about physics,

0:31:36.640 --> 0:31:40.080
<v Speaker 1>and the way you explain that was very logical and

0:31:40.200 --> 0:31:43.240
<v Speaker 1>very structured. And the way you talked about LEGO.

0:31:44.400 --> 0:31:45.400
<v Speaker 2>I am a bit of a science nerd.

0:31:46.000 --> 0:31:49.080
<v Speaker 1>I can see that, and Lego is very structured, and

0:31:49.960 --> 0:31:55.000
<v Speaker 1>it is about structured creativity, lateral and vertical strengths and engineered.

0:31:55.040 --> 0:31:57.240
<v Speaker 1>Nearly it is engineered, and I'm not saying nearly it

0:31:57.280 --> 0:32:01.120
<v Speaker 1>is engineered as brilliantly engineered. Most of you probably don't

0:32:01.160 --> 0:32:02.680
<v Speaker 1>know that about you. I mean, they don't get that

0:32:02.800 --> 0:32:04.960
<v Speaker 1>about you. Yes, it just seemed you for a bit

0:32:04.960 --> 0:32:05.520
<v Speaker 1>of a giggle.

0:32:05.920 --> 0:32:07.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I am I suppose I got a

0:32:08.560 --> 0:32:10.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, like anyone, you've got a lot of different

0:32:10.040 --> 0:32:15.240
<v Speaker 2>sides to the to the twelve side of dice, or

0:32:15.240 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 2>how many sides you've got. But I was doing maths

0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:22.840
<v Speaker 2>and physics at UNI. I was doing pure maths for

0:32:22.880 --> 0:32:26.280
<v Speaker 2>a little while, not quite full Adam Spencer level, but.

0:32:27.240 --> 0:32:28.840
<v Speaker 1>He is a free adam, but he's very.

0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:30.720
<v Speaker 2>Good, so I can't I'm not quite in his echelon.

0:32:30.800 --> 0:32:32.800
<v Speaker 2>But and because I did maths at school and I

0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:36.120
<v Speaker 2>found it like I've got a bit of a mathsy brain,

0:32:36.640 --> 0:32:39.320
<v Speaker 2>so I didn't find it difficult. And then I got

0:32:39.320 --> 0:32:41.400
<v Speaker 2>to Uni thinking like, oh this is great, Like I

0:32:41.480 --> 0:32:42.880
<v Speaker 2>was really good at maths at school, and then I

0:32:42.920 --> 0:32:47.840
<v Speaker 2>got to university. And when you roll into pure advanced

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:51.240
<v Speaker 2>mathematics at Melbourne University, that's when you go, Okay, these

0:32:51.280 --> 0:32:53.960
<v Speaker 2>kids are smart. I think I might not be in

0:32:54.000 --> 0:32:56.600
<v Speaker 2>the right place here. I was sort of thinking I'd

0:32:56.600 --> 0:32:58.920
<v Speaker 2>breeze in a couple of times a week, miss a

0:32:58.920 --> 0:33:01.320
<v Speaker 2>few lectures here and there. These guys are really serious

0:33:01.320 --> 0:33:05.400
<v Speaker 2>about maths, so I squeaked through and then I dropped it.

0:33:05.440 --> 0:33:06.840
<v Speaker 2>I dropped it out a bit.

0:33:06.640 --> 0:33:09.280
<v Speaker 1>But do you still feel as though that that style

0:33:09.320 --> 0:33:12.400
<v Speaker 1>of thinking is one of your strengths. I do.

0:33:12.760 --> 0:33:16.560
<v Speaker 2>I do because I think going back to looking at

0:33:16.960 --> 0:33:19.960
<v Speaker 2>creativity in comedy is a bit of a puzzle, and

0:33:20.000 --> 0:33:22.840
<v Speaker 2>a puzzle with many solutions. I think there is a

0:33:22.840 --> 0:33:27.880
<v Speaker 2>mathematical overlap to the way you can look at.

0:33:27.800 --> 0:33:29.840
<v Speaker 1>Creative nearly an algorithm to get to the end.

0:33:30.080 --> 0:33:33.200
<v Speaker 2>It is. It is, and it's kind of about pattern recognition,

0:33:33.240 --> 0:33:36.680
<v Speaker 2>like I remember in you know, for anyone that enjoys

0:33:36.680 --> 0:33:40.360
<v Speaker 2>maths like it, you can see numbers move and kind

0:33:40.360 --> 0:33:43.640
<v Speaker 2>of you know, the way you look at you can go, okay, well,

0:33:43.680 --> 0:33:46.760
<v Speaker 2>I know that this slips under that denominator and this

0:33:46.840 --> 0:33:48.320
<v Speaker 2>cancels that out, and you can kind of see the

0:33:48.320 --> 0:33:51.800
<v Speaker 2>equation moving before your eyes. That's the way maths works

0:33:51.840 --> 0:33:53.760
<v Speaker 2>when you get good at it, or like at a

0:33:53.840 --> 0:33:56.760
<v Speaker 2>certain level, and that's the way your brain kind of

0:33:56.800 --> 0:33:59.480
<v Speaker 2>you can you can see as you kind of get

0:33:59.480 --> 0:34:02.560
<v Speaker 2>into it, whether you doing like whether you're presenting, whether

0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:05.520
<v Speaker 2>you're kind of like freestyling a bit of like whether

0:34:05.560 --> 0:34:08.480
<v Speaker 2>we're doing stuff on the podcast. Your brain's always like

0:34:08.719 --> 0:34:10.640
<v Speaker 2>running the algorithm as fast as it can for what

0:34:10.680 --> 0:34:13.279
<v Speaker 2>are the possible outcomes here and what what could lead

0:34:13.280 --> 0:34:15.680
<v Speaker 2>off onto something else and what could branch into another

0:34:16.160 --> 0:34:18.600
<v Speaker 2>chain of thoughts. I think there is an overlap, like

0:34:18.640 --> 0:34:22.560
<v Speaker 2>I think I think I think speed of thought is

0:34:22.600 --> 0:34:27.120
<v Speaker 2>a fun thing to exercise too, Like I think that's

0:34:27.560 --> 0:34:28.120
<v Speaker 2>that's something.

0:34:27.960 --> 0:34:31.160
<v Speaker 1>As an intellectual exercise, because if you're watching that, most

0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:33.680
<v Speaker 1>people just watching your outcome, they're not getting what you do,

0:34:33.760 --> 0:34:36.040
<v Speaker 1>what you've put into that to get to that point.

0:34:36.400 --> 0:34:39.319
<v Speaker 1>You know you are freestyling. Then for pure John, your

0:34:39.360 --> 0:34:42.000
<v Speaker 1>brain's working, and I love that. How important is it

0:34:42.040 --> 0:34:45.040
<v Speaker 1>for you to deconstruct it like you do Lego and

0:34:45.040 --> 0:34:47.120
<v Speaker 1>then reconstruct it. See there's a problem, I'm going to

0:34:47.160 --> 0:34:49.200
<v Speaker 1>pull it out into his various parts and then I'm

0:34:49.239 --> 0:34:51.040
<v Speaker 1>going to put it all back together and hopefully you

0:34:51.040 --> 0:34:53.799
<v Speaker 1>don't have any pieces left over, and there's your outcome.

0:34:53.520 --> 0:34:55.160
<v Speaker 2>Totally, And I think that's the fun of it. That's

0:34:55.160 --> 0:34:55.879
<v Speaker 2>what I love.

0:34:56.000 --> 0:34:58.400
<v Speaker 1>That's what you do is that's what I love about what.

0:34:58.280 --> 0:35:02.960
<v Speaker 2>We get to do. You get infinite combinations basically. I

0:35:03.000 --> 0:35:05.200
<v Speaker 2>mean there's a thing in Lego which I think I'm

0:35:05.200 --> 0:35:09.160
<v Speaker 2>going to get this wrong, but if you take six bricks,

0:35:09.960 --> 0:35:12.800
<v Speaker 2>like two by four bricks, which is like eight studs

0:35:12.800 --> 0:35:18.760
<v Speaker 2>on the top, I think there is three million combinations

0:35:18.800 --> 0:35:21.280
<v Speaker 2>you can put those together in just those six bricks.

0:35:22.239 --> 0:35:25.480
<v Speaker 2>And so you know, for a Lego set that has

0:35:25.600 --> 0:35:27.719
<v Speaker 2>hundreds of bricks in it, it'd have to be in

0:35:27.760 --> 0:35:28.800
<v Speaker 2>the trillions.

0:35:29.080 --> 0:35:31.120
<v Speaker 1>Of combinations of combination of possibilities.

0:35:31.160 --> 0:35:32.719
<v Speaker 2>Not all of them look like a pirate ship. There's

0:35:33.160 --> 0:35:36.759
<v Speaker 2>a couple that look aesthetically pleasing, but you know you've

0:35:36.800 --> 0:35:38.480
<v Speaker 2>got to You've got under in combinations and.

0:35:38.440 --> 0:35:40.359
<v Speaker 1>That's but none of them are wrong.

0:35:40.760 --> 0:35:44.839
<v Speaker 2>None of them are wrong. Well well no, and there's

0:35:44.880 --> 0:35:46.760
<v Speaker 2>none of them are wrong. Some would be more.

0:35:46.560 --> 0:35:48.840
<v Speaker 1>Interesting, yeah, yeah, totally. So it's different.

0:35:48.960 --> 0:35:51.239
<v Speaker 2>Not all of them would work as a set. But

0:35:51.280 --> 0:35:52.759
<v Speaker 2>I think that's the fun of going, Okay, well, what

0:35:52.800 --> 0:35:55.440
<v Speaker 2>can we put together that would be appealing. So you know,

0:35:55.560 --> 0:35:57.279
<v Speaker 2>you're sitting down with any looking at a show, looking

0:35:57.280 --> 0:36:02.000
<v Speaker 2>at a podcast, or doing my own TV show or

0:36:02.000 --> 0:36:04.320
<v Speaker 2>whatever you have to do creatively, the fun is sitting

0:36:04.320 --> 0:36:07.919
<v Speaker 2>down and going, Okay, right now we have nothing, and

0:36:08.480 --> 0:36:10.920
<v Speaker 2>later on we're going to have something, and at some

0:36:11.760 --> 0:36:15.279
<v Speaker 2>point in between then we're gonna it's gonna come.

0:36:15.760 --> 0:36:17.959
<v Speaker 1>And that's your fun. I love that, that's your fun.

0:36:18.000 --> 0:36:20.319
<v Speaker 2>That's my fun. So somewhere in there a spark is

0:36:20.320 --> 0:36:24.040
<v Speaker 2>going to happen, and then from the tiniest spark, we're

0:36:24.040 --> 0:36:26.399
<v Speaker 2>going to fan those flames and then we're gonna that's

0:36:26.400 --> 0:36:28.600
<v Speaker 2>going to grow into something and I love. One of

0:36:28.640 --> 0:36:30.759
<v Speaker 2>the things I find most satisfying about a job is

0:36:30.800 --> 0:36:32.400
<v Speaker 2>like we get to the end of the year, and

0:36:32.400 --> 0:36:34.879
<v Speaker 2>particularly with the podcast, with with Ando, like we get

0:36:34.880 --> 0:36:39.720
<v Speaker 2>to go on these you know, awesome adventures, like either

0:36:39.800 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 2>physically going on an adventure or just creatively going on

0:36:42.160 --> 0:36:47.120
<v Speaker 2>a wild journey for something. And I love looking back

0:36:47.200 --> 0:36:52.880
<v Speaker 2>at where it started because so often it's it's that

0:36:53.080 --> 0:36:56.759
<v Speaker 2>it's it's a like one word or one sentence that

0:36:56.880 --> 0:37:00.000
<v Speaker 2>because we're in that environment where we're like, what what else,

0:37:00.160 --> 0:37:03.200
<v Speaker 2>what could happen? What could possibly come of this? And

0:37:03.239 --> 0:37:05.479
<v Speaker 2>you and you, but you have the experience of knowing

0:37:05.480 --> 0:37:07.520
<v Speaker 2>what feels like a good idea, what feels like a

0:37:07.520 --> 0:37:09.680
<v Speaker 2>bit of a shit idea, Like does that feel like

0:37:09.719 --> 0:37:11.680
<v Speaker 2>it has a rich vein of gold under it? Or

0:37:11.680 --> 0:37:15.120
<v Speaker 2>does it this feel like just dry ground. You know,

0:37:15.120 --> 0:37:18.759
<v Speaker 2>you're using all of those instincts to to end up

0:37:18.800 --> 0:37:21.000
<v Speaker 2>on a great adventure like we did this thing at

0:37:21.040 --> 0:37:23.080
<v Speaker 2>the end of the year and some of the fellas

0:37:23.080 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 2>in here until from their t shirts their podcast listeners,

0:37:26.040 --> 0:37:29.200
<v Speaker 2>but we did a we did a.

0:37:28.920 --> 0:37:32.120
<v Speaker 1>He's a fanboy total fambod Adam, well.

0:37:31.960 --> 0:37:35.160
<v Speaker 2>Adam, I mean you remember berg Boys from last year. Yep.

0:37:35.560 --> 0:37:39.920
<v Speaker 2>So the end of the year, the last show of

0:37:39.960 --> 0:37:43.640
<v Speaker 2>the year was a surprise show that we did from

0:37:43.680 --> 0:37:51.400
<v Speaker 2>Mildura where we robbed an accounting firm meeting about it.

0:37:52.080 --> 0:37:54.560
<v Speaker 2>The boss knew, but no one else knew. Right, are

0:37:54.560 --> 0:37:56.719
<v Speaker 2>you familiar with the film from the nineties I think

0:37:56.840 --> 0:37:59.840
<v Speaker 2>was Sneakers with Robert Redford. So this is what I

0:37:59.880 --> 0:38:02.920
<v Speaker 2>mean about a very random idea. Way earlier last year,

0:38:02.960 --> 0:38:06.160
<v Speaker 2>like a round about April, I happened to be flicking

0:38:06.200 --> 0:38:08.839
<v Speaker 2>through TV and Sneakers was on, and I was like, oh,

0:38:08.840 --> 0:38:11.120
<v Speaker 2>I remember this film and I loved this film. The

0:38:11.120 --> 0:38:13.120
<v Speaker 2>plot line of Sneakers was it was a bunch of

0:38:13.120 --> 0:38:16.640
<v Speaker 2>like ex hackers, like CIA people that now is it

0:38:16.640 --> 0:38:19.880
<v Speaker 2>called red hat teams or black black hat? Yeah, so

0:38:20.360 --> 0:38:22.920
<v Speaker 2>before that term existed. You know, they go to banks

0:38:22.920 --> 0:38:25.480
<v Speaker 2>and they go, we'll break in. They need the boss's approval,

0:38:25.520 --> 0:38:27.359
<v Speaker 2>you know. The chairman of the board goes, sure, break

0:38:27.360 --> 0:38:28.960
<v Speaker 2>into our bank. See if you can get in, tell

0:38:29.000 --> 0:38:31.520
<v Speaker 2>us where our vulnerabilities are, you know. So the opening

0:38:31.520 --> 0:38:33.120
<v Speaker 2>scene is like they've robbed a bank. They give this

0:38:33.120 --> 0:38:35.399
<v Speaker 2>guy a check for twenty million dollars. So you think

0:38:35.440 --> 0:38:37.239
<v Speaker 2>it's a you know, you think it's a robbery film,

0:38:37.239 --> 0:38:38.920
<v Speaker 2>but they're actually good guys. And then you know, the

0:38:39.000 --> 0:38:40.480
<v Speaker 2>cham's like, all right, we got to fix this whatever.

0:38:40.840 --> 0:38:43.839
<v Speaker 2>And then they go off on their adventures. Now, I

0:38:43.880 --> 0:38:46.120
<v Speaker 2>was like, I don't know if this exists as a

0:38:46.200 --> 0:38:48.799
<v Speaker 2>job where you can just break into places they can

0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:51.200
<v Speaker 2>burgle people. But I was like, we should do our

0:38:51.200 --> 0:38:54.080
<v Speaker 2>own sneakers. So we start chatting on the shows. Then

0:38:54.080 --> 0:38:56.760
<v Speaker 2>we go if you are the boss of a business,

0:38:56.800 --> 0:38:58.239
<v Speaker 2>like you have to be the boss. You can't and

0:38:58.280 --> 0:38:59.799
<v Speaker 2>it has to be your business. You can't just make

0:38:59.880 --> 0:39:03.359
<v Speaker 2>us rob your mate's motorbike shop or your enemy's motorbix shop.

0:39:03.960 --> 0:39:06.600
<v Speaker 2>Like write in, tell us, like what you want us

0:39:06.640 --> 0:39:08.479
<v Speaker 2>to do. So we get thousands of entries from people

0:39:08.520 --> 0:39:11.040
<v Speaker 2>going yeah, like you know, I'm an optrometrist. Could you

0:39:11.760 --> 0:39:13.880
<v Speaker 2>see how many glasses you can steal? Whatever? So we're

0:39:13.880 --> 0:39:15.600
<v Speaker 2>sifting through them all, but we're like, well, we're not

0:39:15.600 --> 0:39:17.680
<v Speaker 2>going to talk about this because we don't want to

0:39:17.680 --> 0:39:20.560
<v Speaker 2>tip anyone off. But this lovely guy Rob wrote in

0:39:20.600 --> 0:39:22.480
<v Speaker 2>and was like, look, I listened to the show with

0:39:22.520 --> 0:39:25.520
<v Speaker 2>my son every week. You know, he's eighteen. I've got

0:39:25.520 --> 0:39:27.719
<v Speaker 2>an accounting firm in Mildura. It's about twenty people that

0:39:27.760 --> 0:39:31.759
<v Speaker 2>work here. We have a company, Suzuki Swift. Do you reckon?

0:39:31.840 --> 0:39:33.799
<v Speaker 2>You could break in and steal the company? Car and

0:39:33.840 --> 0:39:36.839
<v Speaker 2>we're like love this. So didn't talk about it all year.

0:39:37.920 --> 0:39:40.319
<v Speaker 2>We had heaps of off air meetings that we were

0:39:40.360 --> 0:39:41.880
<v Speaker 2>like recording how are going to rob in? And we

0:39:41.880 --> 0:39:43.799
<v Speaker 2>came with this plan to like fake a gas leak,

0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:47.279
<v Speaker 2>and we you know, made up a gas truck and

0:39:47.320 --> 0:39:50.359
<v Speaker 2>we got a fake one eight hundred number. What A

0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:52.520
<v Speaker 2>lot of effort was put into this is how we're

0:39:52.520 --> 0:39:54.200
<v Speaker 2>going to get in. This is how we get the keys.

0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:55.920
<v Speaker 2>But anyway, it was so funny.

0:39:56.040 --> 0:39:56.800
<v Speaker 1>Are you in disguise?

0:39:57.360 --> 0:39:59.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we wore like has camp. So the plan was

0:39:59.640 --> 0:40:02.280
<v Speaker 2>get there at five in the morning, tape up the building,

0:40:02.760 --> 0:40:04.680
<v Speaker 2>and then the first people that arrive at shipping they

0:40:04.680 --> 0:40:07.000
<v Speaker 2>had the keys to go, hey, there's been a gas leak.

0:40:07.120 --> 0:40:09.440
<v Speaker 2>You know you can call this number. Can you let

0:40:09.560 --> 0:40:12.760
<v Speaker 2>us in and we'll check it out. It actually worked

0:40:12.840 --> 0:40:15.000
<v Speaker 2>unbelievably well. Like I was there the whole time, going goes,

0:40:15.040 --> 0:40:16.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what's going to happen, but I promise

0:40:16.520 --> 0:40:17.800
<v Speaker 2>you it's not going to go the way we planned,

0:40:17.840 --> 0:40:21.040
<v Speaker 2>but kind of actually did. Got in. I got through

0:40:21.080 --> 0:40:25.279
<v Speaker 2>reception first raw, I opened almost Suzuki keys. I was like,

0:40:25.320 --> 0:40:27.600
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, this is unbelievable, right, out the back,

0:40:27.680 --> 0:40:32.120
<v Speaker 2>stole the car, hooting and hollering, and they're great people,

0:40:32.200 --> 0:40:35.080
<v Speaker 2>Like I think, where are those gas guys going? We

0:40:35.200 --> 0:40:37.600
<v Speaker 2>haven't seen them for ages. So he's had so much

0:40:37.600 --> 0:40:39.680
<v Speaker 2>fun doing that. But you know, and there were legends

0:40:39.719 --> 0:40:41.279
<v Speaker 2>and we went back to you know, gave the car back,

0:40:41.320 --> 0:40:44.200
<v Speaker 2>met everyone at the office. But to us, it was

0:40:44.239 --> 0:40:46.600
<v Speaker 2>like this is one of This is to us like

0:40:46.640 --> 0:40:49.319
<v Speaker 2>almost the podcast in its funest form. You know, it's

0:40:49.360 --> 0:40:53.400
<v Speaker 2>listeners getting involved this this this this guy who is

0:40:53.400 --> 0:40:57.359
<v Speaker 2>the head of an accounting firm in Madura like love that.

0:40:57.440 --> 0:40:59.680
<v Speaker 2>He's like, I'm up for this. This just just seems

0:40:59.680 --> 0:41:00.000
<v Speaker 2>like fun.

0:41:00.680 --> 0:41:03.879
<v Speaker 1>It seems to me that you like to get as

0:41:03.920 --> 0:41:06.799
<v Speaker 1>many people in to enjoy what you're going to enjoy.

0:41:06.840 --> 0:41:09.719
<v Speaker 1>You you want everybody to have fun of this.

0:41:09.920 --> 0:41:12.919
<v Speaker 2>It's just always funnier because.

0:41:12.640 --> 0:41:15.160
<v Speaker 1>It's it funnier for everybody or funnier to you or

0:41:15.239 --> 0:41:16.360
<v Speaker 1>is it because you want to share this.

0:41:16.440 --> 0:41:18.440
<v Speaker 2>I I think it's infectious too. I think there's a

0:41:18.480 --> 0:41:20.239
<v Speaker 2>part of it. You love it because you're like we

0:41:20.320 --> 0:41:22.239
<v Speaker 2>all have it in us, Like we all, like I

0:41:22.280 --> 0:41:24.839
<v Speaker 2>was saying before, like we all want to play and

0:41:25.280 --> 0:41:31.279
<v Speaker 2>I love that it can be you know, we've I've

0:41:31.280 --> 0:41:33.919
<v Speaker 2>always said, like, we do not want people standing there

0:41:33.960 --> 0:41:36.279
<v Speaker 2>watching us on the roller coaster. I would much rather

0:41:36.360 --> 0:41:38.600
<v Speaker 2>we take everyone on the roller coaster and we're all

0:41:38.640 --> 0:41:41.600
<v Speaker 2>on it together. It's just infectious. It's just more fun

0:41:41.640 --> 0:41:43.320
<v Speaker 2>if everyone's on board.

0:41:43.400 --> 0:41:45.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't reckon most of us change. We've still got

0:41:45.120 --> 0:41:45.600
<v Speaker 1>the boy in this.

0:41:45.840 --> 0:41:47.879
<v Speaker 2>But we do. We do because I mean, I'm sure

0:41:48.680 --> 0:41:51.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, I think it's commonly understood that it's like

0:41:52.000 --> 0:41:54.600
<v Speaker 2>we don't we just you know, we're a tree. We

0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:55.879
<v Speaker 2>just grow more layers on the air.

0:41:55.920 --> 0:41:57.160
<v Speaker 1>We think we grow up, but we don't.

0:41:57.200 --> 0:41:59.439
<v Speaker 2>We don't. We just we have the same care.

0:41:59.600 --> 0:42:02.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm still boy. I mean, I'm still the same kid

0:42:02.040 --> 0:42:04.120
<v Speaker 1>that I'll always always have been. You know, you know,

0:42:04.200 --> 0:42:06.480
<v Speaker 1>there's not too many guys like you and Andy like

0:42:06.560 --> 0:42:08.920
<v Speaker 1>together for a long time. I mean, I look at

0:42:08.920 --> 0:42:11.319
<v Speaker 1>there's a younger version of you today that's the down

0:42:11.840 --> 0:42:14.800
<v Speaker 1>the inspired unemployed boys. I mean, they're very similar.

0:42:14.400 --> 0:42:16.120
<v Speaker 2>To you two guys, and I love those boys.

0:42:16.160 --> 0:42:19.120
<v Speaker 1>They're great, they're awesome, and but there are much younger versions.

0:42:19.160 --> 0:42:21.479
<v Speaker 1>So they haven't actually stood the test of time yet.

0:42:21.520 --> 0:42:23.200
<v Speaker 1>But like over time, I mean they've gone through lots

0:42:23.200 --> 0:42:24.279
<v Speaker 1>of ups and downs and they have.

0:42:24.400 --> 0:42:27.759
<v Speaker 2>But and I think I do sometimes correct people when

0:42:27.760 --> 0:42:29.320
<v Speaker 2>they're like they're the next time is shandy because I'm like,

0:42:29.320 --> 0:42:32.839
<v Speaker 2>they're so nice in a good way, like they're they're

0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:37.160
<v Speaker 2>they're different, great thing that they've discovered themselves. But one

0:42:37.160 --> 0:42:38.759
<v Speaker 2>thing I love about those guys too is and that

0:42:38.760 --> 0:42:42.000
<v Speaker 2>I really admire about them is their risk appetite. You know,

0:42:42.040 --> 0:42:45.239
<v Speaker 2>their willingness to put themselves out there is what has

0:42:45.280 --> 0:42:51.759
<v Speaker 2>earned them. They're very deserved rewards and following. It's so

0:42:52.160 --> 0:42:56.759
<v Speaker 2>that's really infectious to watch the honesty with the way

0:42:56.760 --> 0:42:58.800
<v Speaker 2>they put themselves out there. And it's those boys. Plus

0:42:58.840 --> 0:43:00.839
<v Speaker 2>I love that they've got all them's around them too.

0:43:00.840 --> 0:43:04.560
<v Speaker 2>There's like the supporting cast, and I just think they're great.

0:43:04.880 --> 0:43:07.440
<v Speaker 2>They're actually really good humans at heart too, which I

0:43:07.440 --> 0:43:10.920
<v Speaker 2>think you can feel. But again, they have a real

0:43:11.120 --> 0:43:14.000
<v Speaker 2>just for fun element. They love it, they love their

0:43:14.040 --> 0:43:19.600
<v Speaker 2>their there's like the they're a great example I think

0:43:19.640 --> 0:43:22.640
<v Speaker 2>of going this is what this is. This is the

0:43:22.719 --> 0:43:25.839
<v Speaker 2>fun you can have if you're willing to as much

0:43:25.840 --> 0:43:29.160
<v Speaker 2>as you can, like put ego aside and and you know,

0:43:29.239 --> 0:43:33.239
<v Speaker 2>embrace the silliness in life and and go on an

0:43:33.239 --> 0:43:36.120
<v Speaker 2>adventure and and that's what I mean by you know,

0:43:36.239 --> 0:43:37.279
<v Speaker 2>taking a big sweet teacher.

0:43:37.320 --> 0:43:39.840
<v Speaker 1>The lms are very close similar to you and Andy.

0:43:40.000 --> 0:43:42.359
<v Speaker 1>I mean, would you say that? And I don't want

0:43:42.360 --> 0:43:46.319
<v Speaker 1>to a bit weird, but you love Andy, yeah, get weird.

0:43:46.400 --> 0:43:47.240
<v Speaker 1>You love love Andy?

0:43:47.320 --> 0:43:50.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you love Death and of course I do because

0:43:50.320 --> 0:43:55.640
<v Speaker 2>he's just like yeah, a thousand per of course, you know.

0:43:55.719 --> 0:43:57.560
<v Speaker 2>And I love a lot of my mates, but it's

0:43:57.600 --> 0:44:00.520
<v Speaker 2>a it's a really well of all, my mate. I

0:44:00.520 --> 0:44:02.719
<v Speaker 2>don't want any mates looking this going have I made

0:44:02.760 --> 0:44:07.920
<v Speaker 2>the cut? I love you. I like you, Darren.

0:44:10.160 --> 0:44:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I get that.

0:44:10.640 --> 0:44:12.520
<v Speaker 2>So you feel you feel a love for your mates,

0:44:12.520 --> 0:44:14.239
<v Speaker 2>but for any it's a really special kind of love

0:44:14.320 --> 0:44:18.919
<v Speaker 2>because it's also a love forged by fire, because you've

0:44:18.920 --> 0:44:22.680
<v Speaker 2>been in places that only the other guy would understand experiences.

0:44:22.880 --> 0:44:24.960
<v Speaker 1>And so the two of you must be sitting back

0:44:25.000 --> 0:44:28.400
<v Speaker 1>at the moment and looking at other long term partnerships

0:44:28.440 --> 0:44:30.640
<v Speaker 1>like Colin Jacky at the moment, like you must be

0:44:30.680 --> 0:44:34.800
<v Speaker 1>reflecting on that sort of situation and think fuck like totally.

0:44:34.840 --> 0:44:38.720
<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's that's on a partnership level too. That's

0:44:38.760 --> 0:44:42.040
<v Speaker 2>sad because no one ever wants it to end, like

0:44:42.080 --> 0:44:44.680
<v Speaker 2>it's really fun doing things with when you find that

0:44:44.680 --> 0:44:48.040
<v Speaker 2>special person, it's really fun doing things with that person.

0:44:48.120 --> 0:44:50.920
<v Speaker 1>Does that galvanize you into being that that that event?

0:44:51.680 --> 0:44:54.880
<v Speaker 1>Watching that from afar? Does that galvanized you two to

0:44:55.040 --> 0:44:56.840
<v Speaker 1>sit back and be a bit more grateful about what

0:44:56.840 --> 0:44:58.919
<v Speaker 1>you've got And does it remake give you a little

0:44:58.920 --> 0:45:01.239
<v Speaker 1>bit reminder, let's make sure we don't go down that path.

0:45:01.239 --> 0:45:02.440
<v Speaker 1>It ended up that way no matter what.

0:45:02.600 --> 0:45:05.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I wouldn't say it's that event particularly, but you

0:45:05.320 --> 0:45:08.279
<v Speaker 2>you always are aware that, hey, we're going to have

0:45:08.320 --> 0:45:12.240
<v Speaker 2>extra pressures on us because we our relationships in the open.

0:45:12.960 --> 0:45:19.239
<v Speaker 2>And and that carries with it every single day. Like

0:45:19.239 --> 0:45:21.800
<v Speaker 2>when you're on radio. Every day you're on air, you're

0:45:22.280 --> 0:45:23.680
<v Speaker 2>you don't know what you're going to say every day,

0:45:23.760 --> 0:45:27.239
<v Speaker 2>No one does because there's too much talking. Would be

0:45:27.239 --> 0:45:30.240
<v Speaker 2>physically impossible to script a radio show. There's too much talking,

0:45:30.560 --> 0:45:32.120
<v Speaker 2>so you never know what you're going to say. So

0:45:32.120 --> 0:45:35.080
<v Speaker 2>it's a huge trust exercise with the person you're on

0:45:35.120 --> 0:45:36.920
<v Speaker 2>air with. And it's you know, it's the dance, and

0:45:37.320 --> 0:45:41.040
<v Speaker 2>anyone in radio knows this dance, whether it's two people,

0:45:41.080 --> 0:45:45.560
<v Speaker 2>four people, five people, You're like all every day trying

0:45:45.560 --> 0:45:47.320
<v Speaker 2>to create something out of nothing with each other, and

0:45:47.880 --> 0:45:50.560
<v Speaker 2>you're taking tons and tons of risks thousands of times

0:45:50.560 --> 0:45:52.520
<v Speaker 2>a day to just see how it goes with each

0:45:52.560 --> 0:45:55.080
<v Speaker 2>other with each other because you've thrown something out there

0:45:55.120 --> 0:45:58.000
<v Speaker 2>about the other person, about yourself, and you're always seeing

0:45:58.040 --> 0:46:02.040
<v Speaker 2>how each other responds. And so you know, anyone that

0:46:02.120 --> 0:46:06.960
<v Speaker 2>does that dances is it has to be really skilled

0:46:06.960 --> 0:46:08.759
<v Speaker 2>at it. And like you know, obviously Colin Jackyo are

0:46:08.800 --> 0:46:12.240
<v Speaker 2>the They've been around for twenty four twenty four years,

0:46:12.280 --> 0:46:16.280
<v Speaker 2>I think it was. It's like unbelievably skilled and experienced people,

0:46:16.360 --> 0:46:21.040
<v Speaker 2>so and successful, crazily successful because of their skill, because

0:46:21.040 --> 0:46:24.319
<v Speaker 2>of their their talent as broadcasters. And so you know

0:46:24.400 --> 0:46:27.040
<v Speaker 2>you're in this game. And but you also know looking

0:46:27.080 --> 0:46:32.160
<v Speaker 2>ahead the road is littered with you know, eventually most people,

0:46:32.840 --> 0:46:35.920
<v Speaker 2>that comes to an end, like every good band and

0:46:35.960 --> 0:46:39.200
<v Speaker 2>every you know, there's that's so you know, you're so

0:46:39.280 --> 0:46:41.359
<v Speaker 2>aware that partnerships come to an end. So it's not

0:46:41.400 --> 0:46:43.399
<v Speaker 2>like and and I have looked at the klan Jack

0:46:43.480 --> 0:46:47.759
<v Speaker 2>situation in particular, but we're always aware that, like, well,

0:46:47.760 --> 0:46:51.880
<v Speaker 2>we don't want this to end, and that's why we

0:46:51.960 --> 0:46:53.520
<v Speaker 2>check in. We're like are you still having fun? Are

0:46:53.520 --> 0:46:55.080
<v Speaker 2>you still having fun. And we've always checked in along

0:46:55.120 --> 0:46:57.759
<v Speaker 2>our career because there have been times we've done full

0:46:57.800 --> 0:47:00.000
<v Speaker 2>time radio. There have been times we've done full time

0:47:00.680 --> 0:47:04.120
<v Speaker 2>and full time television and that was just wild. Then

0:47:04.160 --> 0:47:06.239
<v Speaker 2>we've done a little bit of radio and full time TV,

0:47:06.280 --> 0:47:09.240
<v Speaker 2>and we've always ebbed and flowed. But all those changes,

0:47:09.239 --> 0:47:12.520
<v Speaker 2>I would say have happened because preemptively we've gone, hey,

0:47:13.400 --> 0:47:17.120
<v Speaker 2>before it gets too much, before this burns us out.

0:47:17.680 --> 0:47:19.880
<v Speaker 2>I can feel it coming, not now, but maybe in

0:47:19.920 --> 0:47:23.319
<v Speaker 2>a year. How would you feel about, you know, would

0:47:23.320 --> 0:47:25.200
<v Speaker 2>we step back from the Drive show? Could we do

0:47:25.280 --> 0:47:28.319
<v Speaker 2>something different? And that's probably one of the things I'm

0:47:28.360 --> 0:47:32.239
<v Speaker 2>most grateful for too. We've always, I reckon so far,

0:47:32.480 --> 0:47:37.520
<v Speaker 2>pre empted a load that would break us and stayed

0:47:37.640 --> 0:47:40.400
<v Speaker 2>ahead of each one of you. Yeah, and then you know,

0:47:40.440 --> 0:47:43.120
<v Speaker 2>and I've had kids, and A doesn't have kids, or

0:47:43.120 --> 0:47:45.960
<v Speaker 2>it doesn't have kids yet too, so we've known there's

0:47:46.000 --> 0:47:48.920
<v Speaker 2>different life pressures coming too. And so once the kids

0:47:48.960 --> 0:47:52.799
<v Speaker 2>came along, and I said, Danna, look, we've had a

0:47:52.800 --> 0:47:57.319
<v Speaker 2>great time in our life being super ambitious, and you

0:47:57.320 --> 0:47:59.839
<v Speaker 2>know we could have we could afford to just kind

0:47:59.840 --> 0:48:04.520
<v Speaker 2>of prioritize TV and whatever we wanted to do, I think,

0:48:04.520 --> 0:48:08.239
<v Speaker 2>but now with kids. And it was awesome with this,

0:48:08.320 --> 0:48:11.000
<v Speaker 2>and I said, I'm just not I said, you know

0:48:11.040 --> 0:48:15.200
<v Speaker 2>what I think I've I've known. I know enough people

0:48:15.280 --> 0:48:18.399
<v Speaker 2>that are further down the road that look back and go, Man,

0:48:18.640 --> 0:48:20.280
<v Speaker 2>I can't believe I didn't go in a family holiday

0:48:20.280 --> 0:48:21.759
<v Speaker 2>because I had a big deal at work going on,

0:48:21.840 --> 0:48:24.880
<v Speaker 2>or any of that. And I said, I I know

0:48:25.080 --> 0:48:27.719
<v Speaker 2>enough to know that I will regret if I don't

0:48:27.960 --> 0:48:32.120
<v Speaker 2>prioritize the kids, especially being in the extremely fortunate position

0:48:32.200 --> 0:48:35.680
<v Speaker 2>that I can do this. I can be not busy,

0:48:36.040 --> 0:48:38.399
<v Speaker 2>I can afford to be not busy, and I can

0:48:38.440 --> 0:48:41.520
<v Speaker 2>afford to be there and around the kids and make

0:48:41.600 --> 0:48:44.800
<v Speaker 2>time and space to just to pick ups drop offs,

0:48:45.040 --> 0:48:48.040
<v Speaker 2>take him out of school and go on adventures. And

0:48:48.040 --> 0:48:49.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to do that. And he was great. He

0:48:49.880 --> 0:48:52.520
<v Speaker 2>was like, all right, let's let's adapt and we can

0:48:52.880 --> 0:48:53.560
<v Speaker 2>shift our life.

0:48:53.760 --> 0:48:56.640
<v Speaker 1>Because because I was going to ask you, you're married

0:48:56.680 --> 0:48:59.720
<v Speaker 1>to Zoe, and your she's she has her own business.

0:49:00.040 --> 0:49:04.000
<v Speaker 1>Important is it that she's not? How important has it

0:49:04.000 --> 0:49:05.920
<v Speaker 1>been for you? I should say, not generally speaking, but

0:49:05.960 --> 0:49:08.080
<v Speaker 1>how important is for you that she has her own

0:49:08.280 --> 0:49:11.960
<v Speaker 1>purpose in life and outside of your joint purpose being

0:49:12.000 --> 0:49:14.399
<v Speaker 1>your family. But how important has that been to make

0:49:14.560 --> 0:49:17.160
<v Speaker 1>these things work? Well, yeah, in your case.

0:49:17.719 --> 0:49:19.919
<v Speaker 2>So how important is it for me that Zoe has

0:49:19.960 --> 0:49:22.799
<v Speaker 2>her own Well, well, it's important for me because so

0:49:23.120 --> 0:49:27.240
<v Speaker 2>needs that. If she didn't want to run a business,

0:49:27.440 --> 0:49:28.960
<v Speaker 2>I would not be saying.

0:49:29.239 --> 0:49:30.720
<v Speaker 1>Hey, go and get a business, Go get a business.

0:49:30.719 --> 0:49:33.239
<v Speaker 2>It's important to me. It's important to me because it's

0:49:33.239 --> 0:49:37.040
<v Speaker 2>important to her. So my you know, Zo's an extremely driven,

0:49:37.800 --> 0:49:43.600
<v Speaker 2>like unbelievably, she's a polymath. She's all like she's good

0:49:43.600 --> 0:49:46.640
<v Speaker 2>at everything, saying to her all the time. Hey, I

0:49:46.640 --> 0:49:51.120
<v Speaker 2>think the reason you might be feeling like pretty like

0:49:51.280 --> 0:49:54.720
<v Speaker 2>pretty lot overloaded is you have like three full time jobs,

0:49:54.800 --> 0:49:58.240
<v Speaker 2>like running you know, being a founder of skincare company

0:49:58.320 --> 0:50:01.600
<v Speaker 2>and coming up with new lie and you you know,

0:50:01.760 --> 0:50:06.360
<v Speaker 2>cool new products and doing package redesigns and launching new

0:50:07.239 --> 0:50:11.120
<v Speaker 2>you know, variants, and like having this company that has

0:50:11.160 --> 0:50:15.160
<v Speaker 2>you know, forty fifty people and as successful as like

0:50:15.200 --> 0:50:18.520
<v Speaker 2>that's a full time job. Writing books that is also

0:50:18.520 --> 0:50:20.800
<v Speaker 2>a full time job. Being a mum that's also a

0:50:20.840 --> 0:50:22.759
<v Speaker 2>full time job. You have three full time jobs and

0:50:22.800 --> 0:50:24.080
<v Speaker 2>you're trying to kind of do them all at once,

0:50:24.120 --> 0:50:25.880
<v Speaker 2>and they don't. A lot of the jobs don't.

0:50:25.719 --> 0:50:28.840
<v Speaker 1>Know about each other so or care about it.

0:50:28.840 --> 0:50:29.319
<v Speaker 2>So it's going to.

0:50:29.320 --> 0:50:30.840
<v Speaker 1>Create like kids don't care about all that.

0:50:30.920 --> 0:50:32.960
<v Speaker 2>There's going to be some tectonic plates that hit each

0:50:32.960 --> 0:50:36.160
<v Speaker 2>other here and so so. But that's just has always

0:50:36.160 --> 0:50:38.840
<v Speaker 2>been Zis Bay. She's unbo like from a young age,

0:50:38.840 --> 0:50:43.439
<v Speaker 2>like she's just been like she has a restless mind

0:50:43.480 --> 0:50:45.000
<v Speaker 2>in the best possible way, because.

0:50:44.800 --> 0:50:45.799
<v Speaker 1>She's like a force of nature.

0:50:45.800 --> 0:50:48.040
<v Speaker 2>Now, she is a force in nature. So I love

0:50:48.160 --> 0:50:50.440
<v Speaker 2>that about her because that's who she is. So that's

0:50:50.480 --> 0:50:55.200
<v Speaker 2>why it's important for me to make space for that

0:50:55.640 --> 0:50:59.160
<v Speaker 2>and support her in the best ways I can. Sometimes

0:50:59.160 --> 0:51:02.560
<v Speaker 2>that just means getting out of the way, which I

0:51:02.600 --> 0:51:06.399
<v Speaker 2>do so, which I do lovingly. And then other times

0:51:06.400 --> 0:51:09.520
<v Speaker 2>that means being the person that she can, being a

0:51:09.640 --> 0:51:12.239
<v Speaker 2>rock that she can confide in and Lena when when

0:51:12.239 --> 0:51:12.839
<v Speaker 2>she needs that.

0:51:12.960 --> 0:51:15.680
<v Speaker 1>So did you notice any change then in regards to

0:51:15.719 --> 0:51:19.080
<v Speaker 1>your relationship with Andy, Like when that happens? So you know,

0:51:19.280 --> 0:51:21.640
<v Speaker 1>you meet him when you first meet her, and then

0:51:21.920 --> 0:51:23.799
<v Speaker 1>you start going out with her and spending more time

0:51:23.840 --> 0:51:25.680
<v Speaker 1>with her and maybe less time with him, perhaps I

0:51:25.719 --> 0:51:27.719
<v Speaker 1>don't know. And then he knows you're going to get

0:51:27.760 --> 0:51:31.560
<v Speaker 1>married and then long come the kids. How how do

0:51:31.600 --> 0:51:34.280
<v Speaker 1>you guys manage that process you as an open conversation,

0:51:34.320 --> 0:51:35.680
<v Speaker 1>Hey mate, I'm married, I got kid.

0:51:36.080 --> 0:51:37.920
<v Speaker 2>I think we've actually always been pretty good at that

0:51:37.960 --> 0:51:41.000
<v Speaker 2>side of things, because even from yeah, no, there was

0:51:41.000 --> 0:51:42.560
<v Speaker 2>no point right to kick Andy out of the bed,

0:51:42.600 --> 0:51:44.879
<v Speaker 2>to be like I'm sorry mate, No, no, sorry mate,

0:51:44.920 --> 0:51:49.560
<v Speaker 2>we probably can't do this anymore. I actually think we

0:51:49.560 --> 0:51:52.600
<v Speaker 2>were pretty well set up for that even from radio days,

0:51:52.600 --> 0:51:56.880
<v Speaker 2>because we we started doing like the show was national

0:51:57.040 --> 0:52:01.279
<v Speaker 2>and we were twenty five, I reckon maybe twenty six,

0:52:01.400 --> 0:52:04.400
<v Speaker 2>like we're pretty young, and the show was national and

0:52:04.480 --> 0:52:07.960
<v Speaker 2>it was successful like it was in its heyday, and

0:52:09.719 --> 0:52:11.439
<v Speaker 2>that was a lot like that was. You know, you're

0:52:11.600 --> 0:52:14.879
<v Speaker 2>traveling every week, you're in different capital cities and doing

0:52:14.920 --> 0:52:18.239
<v Speaker 2>crazy things with the radio show. And I think from

0:52:18.400 --> 0:52:21.960
<v Speaker 2>that pressure cooker we also learned in the early days

0:52:22.000 --> 0:52:24.000
<v Speaker 2>that like, okay, we need to kind of cultivate our

0:52:24.040 --> 0:52:25.680
<v Speaker 2>own lives outside of each.

0:52:25.560 --> 0:52:28.200
<v Speaker 1>Other, like an agreement, like an unseated agreement, so to speak.

0:52:28.239 --> 0:52:31.200
<v Speaker 2>It's just mentally we understood that, like, hey, we're probably

0:52:31.200 --> 0:52:35.280
<v Speaker 2>not going to see each other this weekend for two reasons.

0:52:35.440 --> 0:52:38.280
<v Speaker 2>A we've already seen each other for about one hundred

0:52:38.280 --> 0:52:43.799
<v Speaker 2>hours this week. But also so I'm good love seeing you,

0:52:43.880 --> 0:52:45.680
<v Speaker 2>but I do have other people I need to see,

0:52:45.960 --> 0:52:47.920
<v Speaker 2>and same with Ando. But we also realize we have

0:52:47.960 --> 0:52:49.520
<v Speaker 2>to live our own lives because thenhen we get back

0:52:49.520 --> 0:52:51.879
<v Speaker 2>together to the radio show, we need to have something

0:52:51.920 --> 0:52:52.480
<v Speaker 2>to talk about.

0:52:52.560 --> 0:52:54.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, some new experience, some new exeriences.

0:52:54.440 --> 0:52:56.520
<v Speaker 2>We can't start every story and have the other guy go, yeah,

0:52:56.520 --> 0:53:01.360
<v Speaker 2>I was there. So we we actually got pretty good

0:53:01.400 --> 0:53:04.520
<v Speaker 2>by necessity at having our own lives early early doors.

0:53:04.680 --> 0:53:07.799
<v Speaker 1>Does your experience being married and having children? Does that

0:53:07.880 --> 0:53:10.239
<v Speaker 1>then inspire you? Did that then inspire you to have

0:53:10.719 --> 0:53:12.680
<v Speaker 1>you know that you have a podcast about dad's being

0:53:12.760 --> 0:53:15.920
<v Speaker 1>dads like you know, because it seems like you nearly

0:53:16.000 --> 0:53:22.040
<v Speaker 1>turn the curiosity into a show, which turns into a business.

0:53:22.400 --> 0:53:25.799
<v Speaker 1>Like in other words, I'm interested in this this thing,

0:53:26.560 --> 0:53:29.280
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't mind finding out more about it from other dads,

0:53:30.239 --> 0:53:33.520
<v Speaker 1>So therefore I might make a show about it, and

0:53:33.520 --> 0:53:35.000
<v Speaker 1>that show becomes part of your infantry.

0:53:35.560 --> 0:53:37.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, we never to be a business. We did

0:53:37.960 --> 0:53:41.000
<v Speaker 2>have a sponsor to pay Tim who had to quit

0:53:41.040 --> 0:53:45.520
<v Speaker 2>his job to edit the show, but doing much how

0:53:45.640 --> 0:53:48.200
<v Speaker 2>the dad's dad that was a actually, you know, because

0:53:48.560 --> 0:53:51.600
<v Speaker 2>we both have experience being at podcast networks. The podcast

0:53:51.719 --> 0:53:53.680
<v Speaker 2>network we do, they have a shaning podcasts. But they

0:53:53.719 --> 0:53:56.120
<v Speaker 2>were like, please give us this show so we could

0:53:56.719 --> 0:53:58.640
<v Speaker 2>and especially for a season. When I was like, day

0:53:58.640 --> 0:54:00.279
<v Speaker 2>I ask you or you put it to them, they

0:54:00.320 --> 0:54:04.200
<v Speaker 2>asked me because they were like, oh, you're doing it, yeah,

0:54:04.520 --> 0:54:06.239
<v Speaker 2>please do it with us like you're doing a show.

0:54:06.560 --> 0:54:10.680
<v Speaker 2>And I said, with the greatest love and respect, it's

0:54:10.719 --> 0:54:12.799
<v Speaker 2>more important that I just do this in a little

0:54:12.840 --> 0:54:17.320
<v Speaker 2>apartment in Bondi with my mate Tim, and we don't

0:54:18.080 --> 0:54:21.040
<v Speaker 2>do it's not sponsored, because I think I would. I

0:54:21.080 --> 0:54:23.319
<v Speaker 2>would hate for it to feel because it was really

0:54:23.400 --> 0:54:25.640
<v Speaker 2>from the heart, like that show How Are the Dad's Dad?

0:54:26.280 --> 0:54:32.000
<v Speaker 2>We've done three seasons and we are coming back to it.

0:54:32.000 --> 0:54:33.680
<v Speaker 2>It's so from the heart. I was like, I was

0:54:33.760 --> 0:54:36.280
<v Speaker 2>just I think this whole thing falls apart if it

0:54:36.320 --> 0:54:39.920
<v Speaker 2>feels like it was for combak or whatever. Yea, even

0:54:39.960 --> 0:54:42.799
<v Speaker 2>though I think audiences understand like at some point you

0:54:42.840 --> 0:54:44.759
<v Speaker 2>do have to pay the bills and you have to

0:54:45.000 --> 0:54:48.680
<v Speaker 2>pay people that have you know, can't just do this

0:54:48.760 --> 0:54:52.080
<v Speaker 2>for fun. That was a really important one. And so

0:54:52.200 --> 0:54:55.279
<v Speaker 2>How Are the Dad's Dad? I love doing, and it

0:54:55.360 --> 0:54:56.560
<v Speaker 2>was a bit of a scary. That was a bit

0:54:56.560 --> 0:54:58.719
<v Speaker 2>of a leap for me to like purely curiosity led

0:54:58.760 --> 0:55:02.959
<v Speaker 2>but without the safety blanket of comedy, because I also

0:55:03.000 --> 0:55:04.360
<v Speaker 2>sort of made the decision earlier. I was like, I

0:55:04.440 --> 0:55:07.520
<v Speaker 2>think this has to be not a funny show. And

0:55:07.920 --> 0:55:09.600
<v Speaker 2>that was really scary for me to do.

0:55:09.880 --> 0:55:11.240
<v Speaker 1>But it's not meant to be funny.

0:55:11.480 --> 0:55:13.399
<v Speaker 2>Not meant to be funny. I mean, I'm I don't

0:55:13.440 --> 0:55:16.960
<v Speaker 2>stop recording if someone makes a joke, But I was like,

0:55:17.360 --> 0:55:20.359
<v Speaker 2>I think it'll lose its meaning to if people come

0:55:20.400 --> 0:55:22.479
<v Speaker 2>to the show thinking we have to find funny things

0:55:22.520 --> 0:55:25.480
<v Speaker 2>about being There's plenty of that, and there's like great

0:55:26.560 --> 0:55:29.480
<v Speaker 2>millions of hours of great stand up on parenting. But

0:55:29.560 --> 0:55:31.640
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I don't think. I don't want to

0:55:31.719 --> 0:55:33.440
<v Speaker 2>do that for this. I think there's a deeper thing

0:55:33.520 --> 0:55:36.400
<v Speaker 2>at play here. I think men really do want to

0:55:36.400 --> 0:55:38.600
<v Speaker 2>talk about being dads and the fact that when you're

0:55:40.040 --> 0:55:43.399
<v Speaker 2>anyone that's a younger dad or any dad is trying

0:55:43.440 --> 0:55:45.040
<v Speaker 2>to do it different than their dad did it, and

0:55:45.080 --> 0:55:50.799
<v Speaker 2>sometimes you're borrowing from your father's playbook, but other times,

0:55:50.800 --> 0:55:53.080
<v Speaker 2>and I'd include myself in this, with all due respect

0:55:53.080 --> 0:55:56.200
<v Speaker 2>to my old man. I'm not borrowing from his playbook.

0:55:56.600 --> 0:55:59.120
<v Speaker 2>I feel like this whole thing started because I was like,

0:55:59.280 --> 0:56:01.560
<v Speaker 2>I feel like a lot of the ways that i'm

0:56:01.600 --> 0:56:03.840
<v Speaker 2>a dad, if I really dig down on it, some

0:56:03.880 --> 0:56:06.680
<v Speaker 2>of my core philosophies are just like things I overheard

0:56:06.680 --> 0:56:09.040
<v Speaker 2>someone say at a barbecue, and I'm like, Oh, that's

0:56:09.080 --> 0:56:10.040
<v Speaker 2>a cool thing to do with you.

0:56:10.080 --> 0:56:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I'll try that.

0:56:10.520 --> 0:56:12.160
<v Speaker 2>I might do that. And I was like, I think

0:56:12.160 --> 0:56:13.960
<v Speaker 2>we're doing that a lot as dads, because there's not

0:56:14.000 --> 0:56:16.960
<v Speaker 2>tons of resources necessarily for dads these days. There are

0:56:17.040 --> 0:56:20.799
<v Speaker 2>good resources, but we're not flooded. And I was like,

0:56:21.160 --> 0:56:23.240
<v Speaker 2>I think I would like to listen to this show

0:56:23.280 --> 0:56:28.680
<v Speaker 2>where you're essentially just stealing the wisdom of other men

0:56:28.719 --> 0:56:32.360
<v Speaker 2>that I think are good dads, and we're sharing it,

0:56:32.400 --> 0:56:34.560
<v Speaker 2>and you're picking up some of those picking up some

0:56:34.600 --> 0:56:38.840
<v Speaker 2>of those tips and philosophies and overarching ideas. And I

0:56:38.880 --> 0:56:41.560
<v Speaker 2>also just think I'd never get sick of hearing examples

0:56:41.640 --> 0:56:45.720
<v Speaker 2>of good dads. Ever, I could just hear it all day.

0:56:45.960 --> 0:56:49.040
<v Speaker 1>It's funny you said something interesting. I mean, I borrow

0:56:49.080 --> 0:56:51.359
<v Speaker 1>from my dad's playbook, but that was just be dad.

0:56:51.400 --> 0:56:52.759
<v Speaker 1>Go out and earn as much more as you can

0:56:53.239 --> 0:56:54.919
<v Speaker 1>work as hard as you can. It doesn't really matter

0:56:54.960 --> 0:56:56.960
<v Speaker 1>what happens with the kids. That then matter if they

0:56:56.960 --> 0:56:58.600
<v Speaker 1>see you, they don't see you. If you don't turn up,

0:56:58.600 --> 0:57:02.000
<v Speaker 1>but you do turn up, that playbook piece might be

0:57:02.200 --> 0:57:04.279
<v Speaker 1>made today might be the wrong way to go about

0:57:04.320 --> 0:57:07.080
<v Speaker 1>it unless you had the perfect dad. You know, the

0:57:07.200 --> 0:57:10.000
<v Speaker 1>playbook piece because I just employed the playbook and then

0:57:10.040 --> 0:57:11.439
<v Speaker 1>I'm a lot older than you, and I just took

0:57:11.480 --> 0:57:14.840
<v Speaker 1>something out of something that happened in the sixties, you know,

0:57:14.880 --> 0:57:17.439
<v Speaker 1>and today the world's different. Kids want more things, kids

0:57:17.520 --> 0:57:22.520
<v Speaker 1>expect something not to expect. But kids, well, there's more

0:57:22.560 --> 0:57:24.840
<v Speaker 1>opportunities for us to share every moment with them. And

0:57:24.880 --> 0:57:26.680
<v Speaker 1>I think what you're doing is a great job. You know,

0:57:26.760 --> 0:57:29.840
<v Speaker 1>Like you said, you don't you can manage your life

0:57:30.400 --> 0:57:32.960
<v Speaker 1>around spending more time with the kids, which is probably

0:57:32.960 --> 0:57:34.680
<v Speaker 1>what your dad didn't do because he was so busy

0:57:34.720 --> 0:57:36.800
<v Speaker 1>putting the irrigation pipes in and leaving at seven o'clock

0:57:36.800 --> 0:57:38.360
<v Speaker 1>in the morning was six thirty morning to get to

0:57:38.360 --> 0:57:40.840
<v Speaker 1>someone by seven am. Because he's a trading and he

0:57:40.880 --> 0:57:43.760
<v Speaker 1>got home late and he's probably stuffed. And probably the

0:57:43.760 --> 0:57:45.439
<v Speaker 1>reason you're trying to get a rise out of may dad,

0:57:45.560 --> 0:57:47.520
<v Speaker 1>you just always think about work.

0:57:47.440 --> 0:57:49.960
<v Speaker 2>And that's that balance, and I reckon a lot of

0:57:49.960 --> 0:57:54.880
<v Speaker 2>guys have these days, you know, people with young, young

0:57:55.000 --> 0:58:01.000
<v Speaker 2>or youngish kids. You're at the same time, I think, going, Okay,

0:58:01.040 --> 0:58:03.560
<v Speaker 2>I understand why dad had to do what he did,

0:58:03.800 --> 0:58:07.120
<v Speaker 2>so I'm not there's no resentment there, there's a there's

0:58:07.760 --> 0:58:11.040
<v Speaker 2>no resentment. He was a man doing the best he

0:58:11.080 --> 0:58:14.040
<v Speaker 2>could with what he had, and I understand his decisions.

0:58:14.400 --> 0:58:16.400
<v Speaker 2>But at the same time, I'm not going to do that.

0:58:16.680 --> 0:58:18.120
<v Speaker 2>So when you make that choice to go, well, I'm

0:58:18.160 --> 0:58:21.880
<v Speaker 2>not going to be like that, you go all right,

0:58:21.960 --> 0:58:24.000
<v Speaker 2>so what am I going to be? And that's that

0:58:24.160 --> 0:58:26.760
<v Speaker 2>I think, especially when you have new to fatherhood, they

0:58:26.760 --> 0:58:30.400
<v Speaker 2>have that feeling of going, all right, well, I'm going

0:58:30.440 --> 0:58:33.280
<v Speaker 2>to I'm going to write my own playbook here and

0:58:33.320 --> 0:58:35.960
<v Speaker 2>and where am I going to get that information from?

0:58:36.280 --> 0:58:39.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for me, that's a pretty cool position to be.

0:58:39.240 --> 0:58:41.040
<v Speaker 1>And I mean, do you actually sit down with Zoe

0:58:41.200 --> 0:58:44.120
<v Speaker 1>and say to her, look, how lucky we are that

0:58:44.200 --> 0:58:46.080
<v Speaker 1>we can actually do this. You know, we're going to

0:58:46.080 --> 0:58:47.040
<v Speaker 1>write our own playbook?

0:58:47.080 --> 0:58:49.520
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, and and and it's scary and you make a

0:58:49.520 --> 0:58:52.920
<v Speaker 2>lot of mistakes, and that part's Okay, that's fine. That's

0:58:53.520 --> 0:58:58.160
<v Speaker 2>probably one of the greatest if terms of gratitude, you know,

0:58:58.240 --> 0:58:59.840
<v Speaker 2>the fact that you get to kind of try again.

0:58:59.880 --> 0:59:03.840
<v Speaker 2>And kids just generally are so forgiving, especially when they're little.

0:59:05.120 --> 0:59:08.120
<v Speaker 1>They don't remember anyway, thank god, Yeah, they don't. There's

0:59:08.160 --> 0:59:10.360
<v Speaker 1>anultystemic but like you know, there.

0:59:10.240 --> 0:59:12.800
<v Speaker 2>Is that old thing that they don't remember anything you say.

0:59:12.920 --> 0:59:15.720
<v Speaker 2>They just remember how they felt and what they saw

0:59:15.800 --> 0:59:18.160
<v Speaker 2>you do and what they saw you do. So and

0:59:18.200 --> 0:59:21.200
<v Speaker 2>that's that's a huge part of it too. And and

0:59:21.280 --> 0:59:24.200
<v Speaker 2>I do believe what they you need to be there

0:59:24.280 --> 0:59:25.360
<v Speaker 2>for them to see.

0:59:25.480 --> 0:59:28.160
<v Speaker 1>For them to see what you do, as opposed to

0:59:28.200 --> 0:59:29.520
<v Speaker 1>them just seeing or that just goes to work all

0:59:29.560 --> 0:59:29.840
<v Speaker 1>the time.

0:59:29.920 --> 0:59:31.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I know that's really for a lot of dads,

0:59:31.760 --> 0:59:34.760
<v Speaker 2>and there's zero judgment there and there's a lot of

0:59:36.400 --> 0:59:39.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, and that's that's a lot of people's reality.

0:59:39.080 --> 0:59:40.360
<v Speaker 2>So it's certainly not saying you've got to be in

0:59:40.360 --> 0:59:42.400
<v Speaker 2>your kids face twenty four seven, of course not because

0:59:42.400 --> 0:59:46.360
<v Speaker 2>they also you know, for the moms and dads that

0:59:46.360 --> 0:59:49.200
<v Speaker 2>are out there like working hard, and that's more and

0:59:49.240 --> 0:59:51.160
<v Speaker 2>more the reality these days, Like I think things are

0:59:51.160 --> 0:59:54.560
<v Speaker 2>harder and harder. Kids do see that, and there's a

0:59:54.600 --> 0:59:57.800
<v Speaker 2>huge I think there's a huge benefit to that. They're like,

0:59:57.840 --> 1:00:00.160
<v Speaker 2>this is what it takes to be an adult. This

1:00:00.200 --> 1:00:02.240
<v Speaker 2>is what takes to do this for you guys. And

1:00:02.280 --> 1:00:03.840
<v Speaker 2>then there's the other bits where you are there and

1:00:03.880 --> 1:00:05.840
<v Speaker 2>how do you manage those and what do you stand

1:00:05.840 --> 1:00:07.600
<v Speaker 2>for and what are your pillars when you're there?

1:00:07.720 --> 1:00:09.760
<v Speaker 1>So you've just kicked off your podcast again for twenty

1:00:09.800 --> 1:00:12.160
<v Speaker 1>twenty six. Put it starts in March or something, but

1:00:12.200 --> 1:00:14.840
<v Speaker 1>you have a quite a long break. I love this part.

1:00:15.600 --> 1:00:16.400
<v Speaker 1>I love this man.

1:00:16.600 --> 1:00:19.160
<v Speaker 2>Thank god someone loves it because I it's tough, but

1:00:19.240 --> 1:00:21.120
<v Speaker 2>it is the government mandated podcasting.

1:00:21.160 --> 1:00:23.720
<v Speaker 1>Can you just go through that? Because at this government mandate,

1:00:23.800 --> 1:00:25.760
<v Speaker 1>this is a what do you have three months? What's

1:00:25.760 --> 1:00:26.080
<v Speaker 1>the deal?

1:00:26.400 --> 1:00:29.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I was getting ready to go to the podcast

1:00:29.640 --> 1:00:33.040
<v Speaker 2>a few months ago, walking out the door, and kids like,

1:00:33.080 --> 1:00:35.120
<v Speaker 2>where are you going? I was like' podcasting. You're like,

1:00:35.160 --> 1:00:37.560
<v Speaker 2>you haven't done that for ages. I was like, I mean, well,

1:00:37.720 --> 1:00:40.360
<v Speaker 2>sneaks up on you, guys. It's been eight weeks. And

1:00:40.360 --> 1:00:42.680
<v Speaker 2>then Zo Goo's twelve mate, I was like, has it

1:00:42.720 --> 1:00:46.400
<v Speaker 2>been twelve? That has been twelve? Again? With the work

1:00:46.440 --> 1:00:48.920
<v Speaker 2>life balance, we kind of just sat down at the

1:00:48.920 --> 1:00:51.200
<v Speaker 2>start of podcasting and went and you know this about podcasts,

1:00:51.200 --> 1:00:53.919
<v Speaker 2>and it's like, you make your own rules. You could

1:00:53.920 --> 1:00:55.680
<v Speaker 2>be like, hey, guys, we're going to do a season

1:00:55.720 --> 1:00:58.600
<v Speaker 2>of the show and it's eight weeks and everyone goes

1:00:58.600 --> 1:01:00.960
<v Speaker 2>all right, Or you could do a season and it's

1:01:01.000 --> 1:01:04.120
<v Speaker 2>one hundred episodes and everyone goes all right. You just

1:01:04.200 --> 1:01:06.800
<v Speaker 2>kind of make your own rule. So we thought it

1:01:06.920 --> 1:01:10.400
<v Speaker 2>felt about right to do forty weeks a year, and

1:01:10.440 --> 1:01:14.000
<v Speaker 2>then it did, I mean, it did over time evolve

1:01:14.040 --> 1:01:19.680
<v Speaker 2>into I guess we would rather just say, hey, we

1:01:19.720 --> 1:01:22.280
<v Speaker 2>want twelve weeks off. It's become known as the government

1:01:22.280 --> 1:01:26.200
<v Speaker 2>mandated podcasting break, which is it's really it's it's it's

1:01:26.240 --> 1:01:28.080
<v Speaker 2>difficult for us, but that's I don't know if you

1:01:28.080 --> 1:01:30.680
<v Speaker 2>know this or not, but the government to avoid podcasts

1:01:30.680 --> 1:01:32.680
<v Speaker 2>to burnout, which is one of the government's big priorities.

1:01:33.800 --> 1:01:36.040
<v Speaker 2>They yeah, they make us take most food.

1:01:36.040 --> 1:01:39.440
<v Speaker 1>Don't know that that audience audience.

1:01:39.200 --> 1:01:43.600
<v Speaker 2>But we spend most of the break fighting the bastards

1:01:44.160 --> 1:01:47.160
<v Speaker 2>that so far just bloand ad. You just blocked at

1:01:47.160 --> 1:01:50.880
<v Speaker 2>every road. But we'll never stop the fight, and who knows,

1:01:50.880 --> 1:01:52.600
<v Speaker 2>maybe we'll see a future where that break could come

1:01:52.680 --> 1:01:53.880
<v Speaker 2>down to ten weeks or.

1:01:54.000 --> 1:01:55.800
<v Speaker 1>Because you're just waiting, you just can't wait to get it.

1:01:56.040 --> 1:01:59.160
<v Speaker 2>When we're just at home rehearsing, that's making sure you're

1:01:59.360 --> 1:02:01.600
<v Speaker 2>lining up at pen in our pads, like just getting

1:02:01.680 --> 1:02:04.480
<v Speaker 2>really ready, doing mite checks, charging out the batteries, just

1:02:04.720 --> 1:02:05.840
<v Speaker 2>for the cameras.

1:02:05.480 --> 1:02:07.360
<v Speaker 1>Just practicing in front of the mirror, ready to go,

1:02:07.600 --> 1:02:08.160
<v Speaker 1>ready to go.

1:02:08.520 --> 1:02:10.680
<v Speaker 2>But then that twelve weeks that does fly by, and

1:02:10.720 --> 1:02:13.120
<v Speaker 2>then you're back into it for forty relentless weeks a year.

1:02:13.400 --> 1:02:15.919
<v Speaker 1>What's interesting about that too, you know, is in terms

1:02:15.960 --> 1:02:20.560
<v Speaker 1>of the way you think you mentioned something interesting there.

1:02:20.600 --> 1:02:24.160
<v Speaker 1>You just you said, okay, well that's what we want

1:02:24.200 --> 1:02:27.560
<v Speaker 1>to do for work life balance, call it that. But

1:02:27.640 --> 1:02:30.240
<v Speaker 1>what we'll do is we'll turn this into an algorithm.

1:02:30.320 --> 1:02:33.640
<v Speaker 1>We'll talk about a season, forty week season and we

1:02:33.760 --> 1:02:35.720
<v Speaker 1>need and we'll take twelve weeks off, but that twelve

1:02:35.720 --> 1:02:38.680
<v Speaker 1>weeks will actually allocate something around that. We call it

1:02:38.720 --> 1:02:42.000
<v Speaker 1>the you know, the government mandated period and the whole thing.

1:02:43.520 --> 1:02:45.320
<v Speaker 1>You know, like most people are looking to go, oh

1:02:45.320 --> 1:02:48.960
<v Speaker 1>that makes sense, Yeah, yeah, that's good. But all you've

1:02:48.960 --> 1:02:51.800
<v Speaker 1>done is you delivered some logic. It's mathematical.

1:02:51.960 --> 1:02:53.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, and it makes it.

1:02:53.600 --> 1:02:54.240
<v Speaker 1>It's logical.

1:02:54.440 --> 1:02:57.720
<v Speaker 2>I do think it makes the show better because we

1:02:58.040 --> 1:02:59.919
<v Speaker 2>you know, it kind of like gives a good rece

1:03:00.240 --> 1:03:02.320
<v Speaker 2>I actually actually think it's good for you.

1:03:02.480 --> 1:03:04.440
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I really like that.

1:03:04.400 --> 1:03:05.280
<v Speaker 2>Twelve week holiday.

1:03:05.360 --> 1:03:07.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but do you think people hang out and saying, oh,

1:03:08.080 --> 1:03:09.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm missing out on the show I wanted to.

1:03:10.200 --> 1:03:12.240
<v Speaker 2>I think we pushed it to the limit. We do

1:03:12.320 --> 1:03:14.440
<v Speaker 2>get people towards you and being like, hey, guys.

1:03:14.480 --> 1:03:16.200
<v Speaker 1>The foot shoe. So you're starting a fucking show.

1:03:16.320 --> 1:03:19.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, fifty minutes a week when you start, I'm back

1:03:19.880 --> 1:03:21.800
<v Speaker 2>on to do the show. But it does, it does

1:03:21.800 --> 1:03:24.560
<v Speaker 2>work for us for you know, recharging. We also kind

1:03:24.600 --> 1:03:26.760
<v Speaker 2>of knock off, you know, you can wrap up other

1:03:26.800 --> 1:03:27.960
<v Speaker 2>TV projects at the end of the year.

1:03:28.000 --> 1:03:30.280
<v Speaker 1>It creates a little bit of doing nothing.

1:03:30.280 --> 1:03:32.840
<v Speaker 2>But it again, it is that thing that we sort

1:03:32.840 --> 1:03:35.720
<v Speaker 2>of to actually peel the curtain back a little bit.

1:03:35.760 --> 1:03:39.720
<v Speaker 2>It's that making sure you've got that it never becomes

1:03:39.720 --> 1:03:43.320
<v Speaker 2>a burden. I would hate, especially for our podcast, everything

1:03:43.320 --> 1:03:45.960
<v Speaker 2>like it doesn't. Our podcast is one thousand percent our

1:03:46.000 --> 1:03:48.200
<v Speaker 2>favorite part of the week. We are like busting to

1:03:48.200 --> 1:03:52.280
<v Speaker 2>get in there. We deliberately cap the shows about forty

1:03:52.280 --> 1:03:55.720
<v Speaker 2>five fifty minutes, because as podcast listeners ourselves, we're like,

1:03:56.280 --> 1:03:59.000
<v Speaker 2>I know, I've had comedy shows that I really enjoy,

1:03:59.600 --> 1:04:02.160
<v Speaker 2>but I've haven't listened to for a few weeks. And

1:04:02.200 --> 1:04:03.919
<v Speaker 2>then I look at the I'm like, oh my god,

1:04:03.920 --> 1:04:07.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm thirty episodes behind, and I just mentally am like, eugh,

1:04:08.680 --> 1:04:10.479
<v Speaker 2>it's too you know, it's too many.

1:04:10.760 --> 1:04:12.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, We've always tried to.

1:04:12.440 --> 1:04:15.880
<v Speaker 2>Keep it that amount just so it feels like everyone

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<v Speaker 2>can still be up to date with it. So it

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<v Speaker 2>is a bit of a chance for people to kind

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<v Speaker 2>of get through the backlog towards the end of the year.

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<v Speaker 2>And our main goal is to never ever ever have

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast feel like it it's thin, like every episode

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<v Speaker 2>is always jam packed. We have too much We record

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<v Speaker 2>too much stuff for an episode. That's fine. That's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of the way we like it because we're so excited

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<v Speaker 2>to be in there. We've had the podcast in people

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<v Speaker 2>come and go We'll just do two epps a week,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, yeah, then if it's if we had two,

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<v Speaker 2>like just enough episodes, it just isn't the same energy

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<v Speaker 2>as one jam packed one.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the way we like it. I just love

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<v Speaker 1>the way you guys structure everything again, and I have

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<v Speaker 1>to say, like, this's mean a lot of fun to me.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I'm just finding about how you think,

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<v Speaker 1>because the most exciting days of my week is when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing my podcast and I get to meet people

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<v Speaker 1>like you and I get to find it learn how

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<v Speaker 1>people think it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree there is an energy to that too, isn't

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<v Speaker 2>there When talking about how are the Dad's Dads? Sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>we will record three of those in a day, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I know you do a fair few of these in

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<v Speaker 2>a day too. Do you get tired from it or

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<v Speaker 2>do you get energized?

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<v Speaker 1>I get tired after yes, Like when I get home,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm gone, But like during the process, I'm okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know whether it's because I know a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of confidence between.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think it's funny because when we did how

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<v Speaker 2>the Dad's Dad, I was like, I was expecting to

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<v Speaker 2>be cooked, but I was like buzzing afterwards. And I

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<v Speaker 2>think it has something to do with when you're curious

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<v Speaker 2>and you're like mentally engaged. I don't know, you're just

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<v Speaker 2>in the right place. I think it's a good indicator

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<v Speaker 2>that you're in the right spot. Brain's energized.

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<v Speaker 1>But I should come on your dad's dad's dad because

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<v Speaker 1>I got four sons and I've got five green kid's

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm granddadding as well. And it's a completely different

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<v Speaker 1>process to being a dad. Howm I F I love it,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's a and the kids all got different characteristics

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<v Speaker 1>and personalities, et cetera, the grand kids that is, and

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<v Speaker 1>and I just yeah, it's it's an amazing experience for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you reckon? What do you reckon? You are doing

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<v Speaker 2>differently as a granddad than you did as a dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Much more present, interesting and doing silly things like like

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<v Speaker 1>on Sunday, I had Billy come over and he's too

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<v Speaker 1>and we lay down on the bunk bed. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got bunk beds and every even all the kid grand.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is a beautiful not every grandpa does that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm laying on the bunk bed with him and

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<v Speaker 1>he loves this so silly, but he wants to go,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got a table chance seven. We got two orange

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<v Speaker 1>type tennis balls. He holds me and go and get

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<v Speaker 1>two orange table tennis balls. And we would just lay

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<v Speaker 1>on the bed on the bottom bank bunk and he

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<v Speaker 1>wants me to throw the ball my one up and

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<v Speaker 1>then hit the top bunk and bounce down. He laughs,

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<v Speaker 1>he said off and he does exactly the same. And

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, this is entertaining kid. I could have sat

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<v Speaker 1>there for hours doing it so easily and tained and

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<v Speaker 1>just laughing and giggling. And my life is fairly complex

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<v Speaker 1>into my business world, and and I thought, how nice

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<v Speaker 1>is this? Like it's therapy, therapy, it's the best mate.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes me get a little bit teary, because I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's that's the point of life, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's actually the connections, like it's in the little moments.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's easy to think that it's the trips

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<v Speaker 2>to Disneyland, or it's not. It's not.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not in this by the way, Yeah, exactly. I

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<v Speaker 1>lost one kid in Disneyland. I lost him.

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<v Speaker 2>So you had five, did you? You got him back?

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<v Speaker 1>I got him back. That's quick, very good. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>You know we're meant to be going to l a Disneyland. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I think we're going next year. I have to keep

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<v Speaker 2>a look up for it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's mental there by the way.

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<v Speaker 2>If I see a kid that looks like you would

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<v Speaker 2>about twenty five, maybe even a bit older, just say

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<v Speaker 2>I know your dad mate, Come with me. I know

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<v Speaker 2>where your dad is.

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<v Speaker 1>Take your hat, still got your passport. Good to see him.

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<v Speaker 1>That was awesome, so good