WEBVTT - Does Being A 'People Pleaser' Have A Negative Effect On Your Life? 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:08.800 We get every day, Adelaidest disgusting freaks. 0:00:11.160 --> 0:00:13.720 That's not a very nice way to talk about the 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:20.759 people that have specifically sought out our podcast and loose animals. 0:00:22.520 --> 0:00:25.160 Are Were you looking for the Taylor Swift coke word? 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:27.160 That's right here, I missed it this morning. What have 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:27.520 we got? 0:00:27.640 --> 0:00:28.880 A pretty sure shake? 0:00:33.000 --> 0:00:34.080 My really? 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:37.360 Let's it is? So time for it. 0:00:38.680 --> 0:00:40.800 Let's go girls, girls. 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:45.680 We do have all the gowls in the room. 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:49.720 We've got producer Zoe in her twenties, quite career driven, 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:51.680 but also in a lovely relationship with Alex, who we 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:55.120 all crush on. We've got in the newsroom in her 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:57.120 thirty is happily single, happily We'll hang on. 0:00:57.120 --> 0:00:57.920 That changes week to week. 0:00:57.920 --> 0:01:00.000 Happily happily single this week. 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:01.320 Good yeah, good? 0:01:02.720 --> 0:01:03.160 Okay. 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:07.080 The topic this week for chit Chat is people pleasing. 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:09.480 And I'll tell you why this has come up because 0:01:09.760 --> 0:01:13.160 I was driving home the other day and I picked 0:01:13.280 --> 0:01:16.440 up my four year old from the crash and okay, 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:18.840 I'm kind of ashamed to admit this, but she still 0:01:18.840 --> 0:01:19.440 has a dummy. 0:01:19.520 --> 0:01:21.120 She's too old for a dummy. She's far too old 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:21.600 for a dummy. 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:27.720 However, like Taylor dropped the dummy. 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:31.759 However, I haven't fought the dummy battle yet. And this 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:34.120 was a day where I was tired. I wanted to 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:36.120 get her home from crash and I needed to get 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:38.200 her into bed so I could have a nap as well, 0:01:38.360 --> 0:01:39.840 because I was tired. 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:41.920 So I didn't have a dummy on me. 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:43.960 So I stopped at the camus, took her in, asked 0:01:43.959 --> 0:01:46.520 for a dummy, and the woman looked at me and 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:48.840 looked at her and went. 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:51.600 Oh, isn't she too old for a dummy? 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:55.960 And I was like, in my head, yep, yepred percent 0:01:56.000 --> 0:01:58.480 agree with you, but I need to sleep. And so 0:01:58.880 --> 0:02:01.280 the people please are in me and trying to justify 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:03.320 the fact that as a mother I'm still giving my 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:06.760 child a dummy. I was like, yes, and Harper, this 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:09.600 is the last time you'll have a dummy, and then 0:02:09.639 --> 0:02:12.120 it's going to the dummy fairy, okay. And I'm saying 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:14.440 this loudly just to appease this woman and just to 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:15.120 justify them. 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:16.280 And then I got my car. 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:17.240 Why did I do that? 0:02:17.880 --> 0:02:20.519 On Earth? Am I trying to justify to a stranger 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:21.880 why I need a nap today? 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:26.040 Also, kids, kids, Sorry to anyone there ain't no dummy fair? 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:30.200 What do you mean? 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:30.919 What do you mean? 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:36.920 Childhood brutally But I have my whole life been a 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:39.200 people pleaser. And here's the signs you are a people pleaser. 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:41.640 You have a difficult time saying no, You're preoccupied with 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:44.320 what other people think. You fear that turning people down 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:47.040 will make you think you are mean or selfish, and 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:48.880 you agree to things that you don't want to do. 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:50.640 And at the root of this, apparently is feelings of 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:55.440 low self esteem and will get to you in a moment, 0:02:55.480 --> 0:02:57.760 so you zip your lip because you are the worst. 0:02:59.040 --> 0:02:59.560 Your thoughts. 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:02.800 So yeah, people pleasing. I think we're a room of 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:06.080 chronic people please terrible. And when you told me that 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:07.600 story the other day, I thought, gosh, I'd do that 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:10.160 so often. Or if I if I need to ask 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:13.959 someone to do something, or if I need to push 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:15.880 back on something, I'll always come up with a reason why. 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:18.520 You know it's it can't just be I. 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:19.040 Need to do this to me. 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.400 I'd be like, Hey, no big deal. I was just 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:23.000 thinking about the fact that, you know, because I was 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:24.799 thinking about it because I don't want to make sure 0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:27.519 that I'm behind. But do you mind, like have you 0:03:27.600 --> 0:03:30.079 done that, I can't done it. 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:34.120 Yeah, have you done your job today? So I don't 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:35.040 have to do it for you? 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:37.520 And it's chronic and I think for me personally, it 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:40.680 stems from I want people to like me, so I 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:42.640 want I don't want anyone to ever think that I'm 0:03:43.440 --> 0:03:44.920 I want a yes man for sure. 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:45.880 Can I break this to you? 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:50.400 People do like you. I could be mean as you're 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:52.120 a people pleaser as well, from. 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:54.920 Way back everything you just read there and kind of 0:03:55.000 --> 0:03:57.200 funny but not funny that it comes from low self esteem. 0:03:57.280 --> 0:04:01.360 So that's just me or tea. I'm the same though. 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:03.440 Instead of just saying no, there's always got oh sorry, 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:05.360 I can't do that because and it's got to be 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:07.080 some big thing so that they don't think, oh she's 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:11.160 just said no, like what a cow. Yeah, but I'm 0:04:11.160 --> 0:04:12.160 a massive people pleaser. 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:13.720 I do it even I've moved home. 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:16.400 I was away for five years and with my sister's kids, 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:18.159 you know, as soon as their message, hey can you 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:20.760 look after them? And I'm going out of my way 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:22.719 and I've got things to do, I've got a life, 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:24.040 but yep, okay, yep, that's fine. 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:24.560 I'll have them. 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:27.240 And obviously I love spending time with my nieces and nephews, 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:29.880 love being an auntie. There's seven of them, you know, 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:32.479 a lot of love to give. But yeah, I do 0:04:32.600 --> 0:04:34.280 things to people please all the time. 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:37.279 Yeah, shit, volume of guilt I feel if I say 0:04:37.320 --> 0:04:39.080 no to an event, to a note, to something that 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:42.080 I just I don't have to justify that I'd rather again, 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:44.120 I'll be honest, nine times out of ten, I want 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:45.600 to be on the couch with my kids as opposed 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:46.919 to going out and doing something. 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:48.760 But you just feel this obligation. 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:50.440 So even though it's something you don't want to get 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:52.560 dressed up for and go and do, you're like, sure, 0:04:52.760 --> 0:04:54.839 I'd love to come along to said thing that I 0:04:55.080 --> 0:04:56.120 desperately don't want to do. 0:04:56.360 --> 0:04:56.760 Yeah. 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:59.440 Man, I just want my friends to like me. I've 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:05.120 disposed bodies before. It's crawed embazilment. I just want the 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:06.479 lads to be like, yeah, he's cool. 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:09.560 I mean, you laugh, but out of all of us, 0:05:09.720 --> 0:05:12.719 you are the worst people pleaser I've ever. 0:05:12.560 --> 0:05:14.600 Met, Jones, I laugh to stop myself from crying. 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:16.599 To be honest with you, Yeah, that's true. 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:16.760 Though. 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:19.919 We've had this conversation of start because people pleasing to 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:22.960 an extent. It's exhausting and you've fanned yourself out trying 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:23.520 to please others. 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:25.760 Yeah, especially just one thing after the other, and its 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:28.080 adds up and all of a sudden, Oh god. 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:34.159 And I spoke about this yesterday without you. I'm talking 0:05:34.200 --> 0:05:36.400 about you know, if you people pleasing you sort of 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:39.719 don't stand up for yourself as well. So someone you know, 0:05:39.920 --> 0:05:41.880 for your career or whatever, Oh hey, we've got this 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:43.680 and this is the offer, and blah blah blah, yeah, okay, 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:45.400 no problems. Instead of being like, well no, hang on, 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:47.719 actually that doesn't fit with me. Can we can we 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:51.040 look at a different alternative. It's about standing up for 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:53.480 yourself as well, which I'm really really bad at doing. 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:55.279 But I think the difference between the chicks in the 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:58.400 room and this bloke over here is ours doesn't manifest 0:05:58.480 --> 0:05:59.520 in anger and frustration. 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:01.640 This is you. You enjoy helping others. 0:06:01.960 --> 0:06:04.760 But what it does, and this is exactly from the 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:08.200 textbook of being a people pleaser. The feelings of doing 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:10.800 things out of obligation can lead to a cycle of 0:06:10.839 --> 0:06:13.200 helping someone, feeling mad at them for taking advantage, and 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:15.160 then feeling regretful sorry for yourself. 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:19.080 Man, I hate myself and I just just cover it 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:20.520 up with silly sound effects. 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:29.440 I'm fine, Judy, good morning. 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:32.840 Good morning ladies, and a longtime listener, first time caller. 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:38.640 I am a people pleaser, but I sweet the pot. 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:40.359 You sweeten the pot? 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:41.880 How so? 0:06:42.240 --> 0:06:46.839 Yesterday passing example, don't put your car in the driveway. 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:48.239 Your dad will be home soon. 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:49.480 Yes, And when he. 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:52.000 Gets home, he puts the car in the driveway and 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:55.200 he looks at me and I go, okay, just put 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:58.240 the car across the street and I'll move the car afterwards. 0:06:58.279 --> 0:06:58.640 All right. 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:00.560 Yeah, remember at. 0:07:00.480 --> 0:07:02.880 Six o'clock this morning, have to have a man while 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:05.039 to get the cargo to work before he catches me out. 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:12.920 That's not that shouldn't be up to YouTube. Oh yes, Well, first, 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:14.520 first of all, we can established that you are a 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:17.240 lovely person. Yes, so I think it's actually a really 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:19.920 nice trait, but it just can be really consumed. 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:21.760 At the same time, it's not Judy's job, and she 0:07:22.160 --> 0:07:25.720 explicitly said don't park there, and so why is she 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:26.600 mopping up the mess? 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:30.040 That's Jude's you get you. We feel your Helen from 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:32.720 Thank you Helen. Where do you sit with people pleasing? 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:37.640 I don't make any decisions when we're in a group thing, 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:40.320 and we always get invited to stuff because we just 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:41.119 go with the flow. 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:44.480 Ah, So you're those people that are like, okay, they'll 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:45.760 come just because they will. 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:46.080 Yeah. 0:07:46.160 --> 0:07:49.119 Yeah, we get invited to everything because we're just nice 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:52.240 and don't make any decisions and just go with the flow. 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:55.320 Do you know why, I think, Helen am I picking 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:58.720 up a Kwei accent? You sure, yes, you know why? 0:07:58.800 --> 0:08:01.880 Because New Zealanders are beautiful people, I'm telling you in 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:04.400 New Zealand is what Australians think they are. 0:08:04.640 --> 0:08:07.920 Yeah, it's a mind seat as well. Like if you 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:11.240 don't want to do something and for other people do 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:13.120 and you do it, you just say right, I'm going 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:15.520 to enjoy this and you just enjoy it. 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:16.240 So good. 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:18.280 How many times you've been in a group situation where 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.480 you're like, okay and you know what you want. You're like, 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:24.240 whateveryone thinking hopefully matches up with me, but whate you 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:25.400 guys think I'll just go along with it. 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:28.920 Exactly. Let's go to Grace wawning Grace. Are you a 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:29.600 people pleaser? 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:33.160 Yeah? I am. I'm a chronic people pleaser. But the 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:36.800 second that I get mad, I just like completely switch 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:39.280 to do a one eighty. Then there's a calm down 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:43.800 when you kind of like realize maybe you've overstepped or overreacted. 0:08:43.920 --> 0:08:44.640 And then the guilt. 0:08:45.840 --> 0:08:49.079 I know exactly exactly what you're talking about, because what 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:51.200 you're actually doing is standing up for yourself, which is 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:53.120 what you should have done in the first place. You're 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:55.080 guilty because you thought that you were too main. No 0:08:55.080 --> 0:08:56.719 one thinks that you were mean. Everyone's just thinking you're 0:08:56.720 --> 0:08:59.320 doing what you should have done. It's such a crazy cycle. 0:09:03.000 --> 0:09:05.920 Okay, so Grace, this is precarious territory. Now, if we 0:09:05.920 --> 0:09:08.719 were to offer you to tickets to Cheese Fest. 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:10.680 You want to go, right or you're not just saying 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:12.120 that you want to go and you don't want to go? 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:16.000 No, I want to go? 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:19.640 Okay, good, Hey Grace, Grace, can I have those tickets? 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:22.800 Please say no? 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:29.599 Say no, said boundaries, Well done. We're proud of you. 0:09:30.800 --> 0:09:31.400 Good stuff. 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:33.760 Wasn't Grace such a cow for not giving those? 0:09:37.040 --> 0:09:38.520 And what if you can. 0:09:38.440 --> 0:09:40.520 Book your hotel now and choose to pay when you 0:09:40.559 --> 0:09:40.960 get there. 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:44.040 With thousands of flexible booking options in select days, you're 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:46.160 only what if away from your next holiday? 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:48.960 Look on the what if, what if it's for travel? 0:09:49.840 --> 0:09:54.760 He's what you're waking up to Adelaide, What's. 0:09:58.400 --> 0:09:59.800 I love that from home? Right at me? 0:09:59.880 --> 0:10:01.160 In what's in the news? 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:06.320 They mean Homer had the same sort of interests when 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:07.439 it comes to news as well. 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:10.959 Yeah, so true, so true. Teachers strike today. We've touched 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:13.000 on it a lot of parents. I mean, I guess 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:14.760 we had a couple of days notice, we had from 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:18.120 Monday to try and make alternative arrangements. But yeah, it's 0:10:18.160 --> 0:10:21.880 something like one hundred and seventy odd primary, pre and 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:27.040 high schools. Public schools shut today and it there's no 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:27.360 other way. 0:10:27.400 --> 0:10:30.200 You can't sugarcoat. It's a massive inconvenience for parents. Having 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:31.120 said that, I. 0:10:31.080 --> 0:10:35.440 Respect teachers what I respect what teachers do infinitely, and 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:37.479 I think that they deserve. 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:38.720 All the money in the world. 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:41.760 However, there is such a disparity between what the Education 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:46.160 Department are offering and what the Education Union are accepting. 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:48.760 So there is no end in sight for this strike. 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:51.360 They are polar worlds apart. 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:52.560 So there's going to be. 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:55.240 A big protest on the steps of Parliament today. I 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:59.280 think they're marching down Flimner Street And yeah, so that 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:01.080 we rode close with that as. 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:04.240 Well, street to the Parliament to Parliament House. 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:06.600 Yeah, I think it's gonna be interesting when they when 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:08.560 they asked teachers to strike without pay. 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:11.000 That'll be a different ballgame, I reckon. 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:12.480 Will there be thousands there? 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:14.000 Yes, that's the question. 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:16.400 As But to all those parents who are trying to 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:19.959 work out alternate, alternate arrangements today, I feel you. My 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:20.920 husband at home with. 0:11:20.960 --> 0:11:24.280 Three kids, sure as well, Like maybe I'm just not 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:26.520 educated in this spot myself, but I'm sure the kids 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:28.960 will have their textbooks from school and they'll just go home, 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:31.400 set up at the desk, get home and just sort of, 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:33.520 you know, do what they'd normally do at school and 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:34.600 learn for seven eight hours. 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:35.760 I think. So that's what happened. 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:38.800 That's what happened each and every day during COVID, Like, hey, 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:41.600 we've got learning today. I know I'm not in the classrooms, 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:44.040 I know my teacher is not here, but I want 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:44.440 to learn. 0:11:45.040 --> 0:11:47.080 That's what I'll be doing with my niece and nephew today, 0:11:47.480 --> 0:11:49.720 shooting up to my older sister's house to look after 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:50.240 her too. 0:11:50.800 --> 0:11:52.079 No you won't, you will be. 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:56.240 Out, No you won't, you won't do you will be 0:11:56.440 --> 0:12:00.000 armed with iPads, coloring books, pencils, whatever. 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:01.240 For it takes what's at. 0:12:01.120 --> 0:12:02.760 Work to do, so they're gonna have to fend for 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:03.680 themselves for a while. 0:12:05.720 --> 0:12:07.679 That form of parity has worked for me for a 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:10.040 very long time. Mummy's busy, fend for yourself. 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:16.520 Obviously, the big Optors fall out continues. So there was 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:19.640 around ten million people who couldn't use their phones yesterday. 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:22.960 But it wasn't just that. It was trains, it was hospitals, 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:25.680 it was all of the things. Businesses are calling for 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:28.040 COMPO today by the sounds of it's not going to happen. 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:31.200 The opt CEO came out yesterday after a fair bit 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:35.040 of pressure to tell people what was going on. She 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:38.000 says that they're not really looking at compensation, but they'd 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:40.000 look at rewards for their customers. 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:42.960 So we'll see what happens there. 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:45.480 God, but I tell you how customers are going to 0:12:45.559 --> 0:12:48.400 reward Optus by switching telcosts. 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:48.720 Yeah. 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:52.880 So the Federal Telecommunications Minister has come out today and 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:55.000 they're basically the federal government are going to launch a 0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:58.720 review into what happened. But the actual root cause hasn't 0:12:58.760 --> 0:13:02.240 been provided yet by the company. They're just saying that 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:04.680 it was triggered by a fault in the core network. 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:05.400 And really, is it true? 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:07.320 This happened in the early hours of the morning and 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:09.880 they didn't address anyone until eleven am. 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:10.760 Yeah, so it happened. 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:14.000 Just started coming through about four am, people saying a cup, 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:16.319 you know, my phone's not working, and they didn't sort 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:19.840 of come out and say anything until eleven Did. 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:22.480 The PR and Communications department have an RDO? Well, what 0:13:22.559 --> 0:13:23.480 the hell happened there? 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:24.120 I'm not sure. 0:13:24.160 --> 0:13:26.320 And to be honest, actually know someone in that department 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:28.000 who works for OB just so maybe I might. 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:28.560 Give her a call. 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:29.160 Yeah, tell her. 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:32.880 I see front foot for businesses. If something's going on, 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:35.120 just be open and honest. That's what people want. They 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:37.960 just want some form of communication. Come to Abbey from 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:39.559 the newsroom for all your pre concerns. 0:13:42.440 --> 0:13:44.440 News notes. 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:46.439 Samantha Jones in the newsroom there. 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:48.040 That's nice. 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:48.640 I love her. 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:49.439 I love her too. 0:13:50.280 --> 0:13:55.120 Some good news for Seinfeld fans. Jerry Sidfield, they're great. 0:13:55.360 --> 0:13:58.480 Jerry Seifeld. It's going to be back down under June 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:00.360 twenty next year. He's going to be Lad entertain Center. 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:03.720 Tickets go on sale tomorrow. There's a lot of Sientfield fans, 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:05.880 a lot of mates who are obsessed with Seinfeld. It 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:10.360 wasn't quite for me, No, but I appreciate the genius 0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:10.840 behind it all. 0:14:10.960 --> 0:14:13.120 Do you think there's two types of people in the world. 0:14:13.200 --> 0:14:17.920 There is Team Seinfeld who absolutely just embrace it, and 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:20.240 there's people like me that have barely watched an episode 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:22.320 and just really didn't quite understand the obsession. 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:25.320 That's because you were too far into e Street on. 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:28.520 Marro's place name. 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:30.720 There you go. 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:33.280 That is your post at Snooze News, coming out very 0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:35.720 very soon. The six fifteen Venue Machine quiz three questions 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:39.080 your opportunity to score an excellent prize. You just do 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:44.520 have to avoid the chips. The six fifteen vending machine quiz. 0:14:45.440 --> 0:14:47.720 That works hazy three questions. If you get the third 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:49.680 one right, you get a crack at the vending machine. 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:52.840 I would argue that today's third question is a little'll 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:54.200 bit tricky, but we'll see how we go. 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:57.800 Let's go to Ann from Woodville West. Good morning, Anne, Oh, 0:14:57.840 --> 0:14:58.360 good morning. 0:14:58.520 --> 0:14:58.880 How are you. 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:03.640 Always so good things? Thank you for playing along today? Yeah, 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:05.960 thanks a little bits. 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:09.000 Oh you are so fine, and just we'll take you 0:15:09.080 --> 0:15:11.640 through it in This is an easy process, three easy 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:13.920 questions and you're going to score yourself a really nice price. 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:15.440 Think positive, have. 0:15:15.480 --> 0:15:17.680 You got have you got the first one there? And 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:21.120 what does KFC stand for Kentucky Fried Chicken? 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:28.440 What about the guy opt who was responsible for the adage? 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:30.160 And they're like, mate, what happened? He was like, oh 0:15:30.280 --> 0:15:33.920 did someone? That's so funny. You're so fine. 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:38.440 Yeah, all right. And question number two name the longest 0:15:38.560 --> 0:15:46.000 river in Australia and then the very spot. 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:49.440 On Murray Darling would have also accepted the river of 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:52.440 tears that Jodie creates after she loses songs Song Chong song, 0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:53.720 buts my rivers fine as well. 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:54.960 It's not funny, is it. 0:15:58.240 --> 0:15:59.640 If you get this right, then you get a crack 0:15:59.640 --> 0:16:02.440 of the venue machine? What TV show is this theme song? 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:02.600 For? 0:16:13.320 --> 0:16:14.040 An older show? 0:16:15.360 --> 0:16:21.560 I'd say I'd say early two thousands, Yeah, give it 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:25.960 a crack and three night coming to me? 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:32.640 Thank you, Anne, thank you so much, thank you. 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:40.200 There's no Robbie William. 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:44.200 Oh. 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:48.560 Dear Amanda from Brahma Lodge, good morning, good thank you. 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:51.120 Do you know what TV show this theme songs for? 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:02.880 What are you working Amanda? 0:17:03.560 --> 0:17:04.080 An idea? 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:08.119 I want to say friends but I don't think it 0:17:08.240 --> 0:17:09.800 is friends. 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:15.960 Okay, we'll get this. We'll get this. 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:21.040 Alicia from Craig Moore, good morning morning. Okay, do you 0:17:21.160 --> 0:17:21.840 know what this? 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:23.159 You know what it is? 0:17:30.760 --> 0:17:33.359 It's not Julia from Clavelly Park. Do you need to 0:17:33.400 --> 0:17:34.200 hear the theme song? 0:17:34.960 --> 0:17:35.000 No? 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:36.320 I know what is it? 0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:38.040 I met your mother? 0:17:39.400 --> 0:17:39.600 Yes? 0:17:39.840 --> 0:17:41.680 Well the Lord above for you. 0:17:42.040 --> 0:17:44.439 Good stuff, good show, big fan of how I Met 0:17:44.440 --> 0:17:44.720 your mother. 0:17:45.640 --> 0:17:47.359 Yeah, it's not. 0:17:50.040 --> 0:17:54.679 There's no there's no right wrong, Alicia. Okay, what we sorry, Julia. 0:17:54.960 --> 0:17:56.119 We need to let you have a crack at the 0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:59.520 vending machine. A letter between A and C please, hey, 0:18:00.520 --> 0:18:02.080 and a number between two and six. 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:08.320 Okay, just avoid the chips, please, Julia. I would hate 0:18:08.400 --> 0:18:09.359 you to get this far. 0:18:09.680 --> 0:18:11.119 And then get chips. 0:18:11.400 --> 0:18:16.520 Well, that's good for Benny. Machine seems to have recovered 0:18:16.560 --> 0:18:17.800